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No Time For Me · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: Are you guys, are you ready for a second date? Update? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: let's do it.
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  Speaker 2: Go on to West Hartford today, hopefully making a love connection.
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  Speaker 2: Natasha's on the line. She went on a great first
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  Speaker 2: date and for some reason, she says she's getting ghosted
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  Speaker 2: and wants to know why. So good morning, Natasha.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Hey, welcome to the show.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I hope I can help you out.
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  Speaker 2: The producer says, you want on a date with a
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  Speaker 2: guy named Mark.
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  Speaker 1: Tell us about this great first.
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  Speaker 4: Date I did.
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  Speaker 3: And why I'm calling in is because I don't really
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  Speaker 3: know why I'm getting ghosted because everything kind of seemed
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  Speaker 3: super great.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 3: So we went on a first date. We was only
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  Speaker 3: had one date, and we went to this brewery and
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  Speaker 3: I love breweries because you know, you could go and
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  Speaker 3: they have like food trucks and stuff, and it's also
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  Speaker 3: like you know, pick and choose whatever you want. And
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  Speaker 3: we just kind of like sat and talked the whole
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  Speaker 3: evening and you know, nobody was looking at their phones.
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  Speaker 3: We had great conversations. I think ew both of us
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  Speaker 3: had like two beers or whatever. And now I like
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  Speaker 3: can't get a hold of him, and I like want
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  Speaker 3: to go on a second date, and I don't really
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  Speaker 3: know what's going on.
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  Speaker 2: So you felt chemistry, you felt like there was a connection,
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  Speaker 2: you were attracted to him. Did you feel like he
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  Speaker 2: was attracted to you?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, And like I said, like like nobody was
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  Speaker 3: like distracted by their phones. Like we were just kind
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  Speaker 3: of talking to each other, and like we both were
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  Speaker 3: in the moment and it was just kind of nice
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  Speaker 3: to have a genuine human connection, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Do you feel like maybe you had too much to
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  Speaker 2: drink with two beers?
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  Speaker 1: Well, I don't know. You don't know two beers. Somebody
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  Speaker 1: who doesn't drink could be a lot. That's valid. That's valid.
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  Speaker 3: Oh no, I have a very high tolerance.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not all right kind of girl.
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  Speaker 3: It's not like we were doing stouts or anything. You know,
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  Speaker 3: Like I had a few. So I had two sours,
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  Speaker 3: which I think was like maybe five point six. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 3: But we had like poutine fries and everything, and we
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  Speaker 3: were there for a couple of hours, So all right,
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  Speaker 3: you know, totally fine.
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  Speaker 1: Well you weren't talking the whole time, were you? So
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  Speaker 1: go on, No, I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Talking a lot now, but no, I wasn't, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I was asking a lot of questions. He was asking
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  Speaker 3: a lot of questions like it just it really just
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  Speaker 3: kind of seems super genuine.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you sound great and it sounds like it was
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  Speaker 2: a great date. So we're gonna give him a call.
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  Speaker 2: We're listen, we're gonna call him. We're gonna ask him
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  Speaker 2: why he's ghosting you. If you're ready for us to
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  Speaker 2: just come right out and ask him and get the answers,
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  Speaker 2: we're ready to call him.
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  Speaker 3: Let's do it.
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  Speaker 1: Let's call.
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  Speaker 2: She sounds fabulous. I would like to go to a winery.
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  Speaker 2: Weather forget the brewery.
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  Speaker 5: I mean she knows a lot about beer, Like I
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  Speaker 5: feel like guys would be like really into that.
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  Speaker 1: Or maybe he was intimidated by her beer knowledge. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: toxic masculinity.
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  Speaker 2: Let's see.
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  Speaker 4: Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Hi is Mark there?
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  Speaker 4: Uh yes, hey.
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  Speaker 1: Mark, it's Courtney marky Mark, it's Walmart chef.
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  Speaker 2: Hey Mark, it's Savannah and we're calling from Kiss ninety
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  Speaker 2: five to seven.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, good morning, you're on the radio.
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  Speaker 4: Oh wow, wow, good morning guys, Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Good howdy good.
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  Speaker 2: So I gotta tell you you're on something called second
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  Speaker 2: date update. When somebody goes on a first date and
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  Speaker 2: they have a great time, but then they get ghosted.
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  Speaker 2: They call us and we try to get the answers.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, yeah you know what I think I heard
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  Speaker 4: about it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So we just want you to be honest.
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  Speaker 2: Natasha called us, said, you guys went to a brewery.
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  Speaker 1: She said it was fabulous.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't even have your cell phones out, Like, it
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  Speaker 2: was a great conversation. She felt a connection, maybe a
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  Speaker 2: little bit of flirting back and forth. She reached out
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  Speaker 2: to you because she wants to see you again, but
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  Speaker 2: you're a ghostinger.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah so I mean, look, okay, so, like honestly, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: so I go on a date with Natacha. I think
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  Speaker 4: she's great, right, Like, yeah, I don't. I don't feel
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  Speaker 4: great about about her. I think she's great. But the
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  Speaker 4: thing is, like I just I don't really feel like
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  Speaker 4: she she has like the time to date.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, to be honest, like, but what what makes you
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  Speaker 2: think she doesn't have the time to date? If she
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  Speaker 2: called you, if she told you for a second date?
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  Speaker 4: I mean so, yeah, So we had a great date
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  Speaker 4: that first time. But while we were going out, right, like,
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  Speaker 4: while we were kind of getting to know each other
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  Speaker 4: and stuff, she mentioned at one point that she she
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  Speaker 4: goes to the gym, right, but like she she's like
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  Speaker 4: kind of a full gym rat. Like she goes to
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  Speaker 4: the gym Monday through Thursday.
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  Speaker 1: What does that got to do with going on another date?
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  Speaker 4: Right?
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  Speaker 1: I mean why you ghost?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, she goes Monday through Thursday and Saturdays and those
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  Speaker 4: are her gyms. Mean she got Fridays and Sundays. She
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  Speaker 4: I don't think she's got time for like a love interests,
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  Speaker 4: you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, okay, can I I'm gonna bring he
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  Speaker 2: wrong because she's been listening in that's what we do.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like you're jumping to conclusions without even talking
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  Speaker 2: to her. Natasha Mark said he's been ghosting you because
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  Speaker 2: he thinks you're too busy to have a relationship or
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  Speaker 2: at least, you know, go on dates.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess I'm just kind of conduced to to like,
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  Speaker 3: why you think I'm too busy?
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  Speaker 4: You know?
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  Speaker 3: Like what what gave you that impression?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, like, I don't did you hear like what?
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  Speaker 4: I just so like, I mean, if you go in
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  Speaker 4: the gym like Monday through Thursday and Saturday, that gives
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  Speaker 4: you like two days a week, Like maybe to kind
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  Speaker 4: of squeeze me in.
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  Speaker 5: Wait, hold on, question, Natasha, how long do you spend
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  Speaker 5: at the gym? Is this like an hour session or
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  Speaker 5: are you there for like three or four hours at
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  Speaker 5: a time?
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  Speaker 1: Because I don't understand me.
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  Speaker 3: I'll do like an hour and a half of like
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  Speaker 3: weight training and then like forty five minutes of cardios,
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  Speaker 3: so it's like fifteen or something. But I go, I
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  Speaker 3: have I have an early job in the morning, so
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  Speaker 3: I like go in the PM, you know, like during
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  Speaker 3: dinner time and everything. And I told him that, like,
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  Speaker 3: I mean, like that, I just wouldn't want to, you know,
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  Speaker 3: go out drinking one of those days because we wouldn't
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  Speaker 3: be able to go out until like nine thirty or something.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, can I just I feel like it's all a
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  Speaker 2: big misunderstanding. You had a great time, he said, he
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  Speaker 2: had a great time. But Natasha, if we were to
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  Speaker 2: pick up the tab for a second date, would you
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  Speaker 2: take one night off for that date? Would you say, like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: let's go out on a Thursday night. I'm not going
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  Speaker 2: to go to the gym. Is that something you could do?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely? I mean if you would have just asked, I
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  Speaker 3: would have been like, yeah, I'll take a Thursday off.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm thinking. Here we go, Mark, you were
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  Speaker 1: making too many assumptions.
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  Speaker 4: If she's down to take a look, I mean, I'm
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  Speaker 4: super I'm with it. If she's taking time off for me,
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  Speaker 4: then like, I mean, that's something that we could work out.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Natasha, are you still interested after hearing it
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  Speaker 2: all he had to say to go on a third
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  Speaker 2: d second date?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think a misunderstanding.
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  Speaker 1: I think so too. And this is what I'm gonna do.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna put you guys on hold for a second
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  Speaker 2: because I do want to offer to pay for the date.
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  Speaker 1: We are going to pay for this date and then
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  Speaker 1: just keep us posted.
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  Speaker 2: Either Natasha or Mark call us back after the next date,
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  Speaker 2: let us know how it goes. Okay, sure, okay, hold on, Yes,
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  Speaker 2: you guys are going to do it.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on and thanks for being on second date. Update