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- 0:03Speaker 1: She walked out of her house on a Sunday night
- 0:06Speaker 1: in September of 2011, telling her husband she was going
- 0:10Speaker 1: to pick up one of the kids' homework. Her children
- 0:13Speaker 1: were three and six years old. Her name was Paula Perez,
- 0:18Speaker 1: and she was 34, and she was pregnant, and she
- 0:21Speaker 1: never came back. No body was ever found. No body
- 0:25Speaker 1: was ever found. No one ever confessed. And the man
- 0:28Speaker 1: convicted of making her disappear has spent years in prison.
- 0:32Speaker 1: without once revealing where she is. There is something about
- 0:36Speaker 1: this case that I could not stop turning over. The
- 0:39Speaker 1: last thing Pala said, in writing to anyone who cared
- 0:43Speaker 1: about her, was that she was not going to put
- 0:47Speaker 1: her life at risk to make other people happy. She
- 0:50Speaker 1: said that hours before she vanished. She meant it. And
- 0:55Speaker 1: then something happened that she did not choose. Four days
- 0:59Speaker 1: before she disappeared, a doctor at a clinic in Rosario
- 1:03Speaker 1: confirmed what Paula already suspected. She was pregnant. The father
- 1:08Speaker 1: was not her husband. His name was Gabriel Hector Stromia.
- 1:13Speaker 1: 48 years old. Freight transport entrepreneur based in Porto General
- 1:19Speaker 1: San Martin in the province of Santa Fe. Married for
- 1:23Speaker 1: more than 30 years to a woman named Roxana Mish.
- 1:27Speaker 1: And here is the detail that makes this case. almost
- 1:31Speaker 1: impossible to process. Gabriel Stromio was not a stranger to
- 1:35Speaker 1: Paula's family. He was the intimate friend of her father,
- 1:39Speaker 1: Alberto Parasi, a mechanic who considered Gabriel like a son.
- 1:44Speaker 1: That is how Gabriel knew Paula. Through her own father's trust,
- 1:49Speaker 1: Paula Perez was born on the 1st of February, 1978,
- 1:52Speaker 1: in Santa Fe, Argentina. She had nearly white hair and
- 1:58Speaker 1: green eyes. Her family called her La Polaka, the Polish one,
- 2:03Speaker 1: a childhood nickname that followed her into a dadoldhood, with
- 2:07Speaker 1: the kind of warmth that only old nicknames carry. She
- 2:11Speaker 1: was a homemaker. She had two boys, Agustin, who was six,
- 2:16Speaker 1: and Lucas, who was three. Her husband, Rodolfo Ortiz de Algea,
- 2:22Speaker 1: was 44. Her parents, Alberto and Alicia, lived close. Her sisters,
- 2:29Speaker 1: Maria Fernanda the oldest, and Marianella, the youngest, were part
- 2:33Speaker 1: of her daily life. From the outside, the picture was ordinary.
- 2:38Speaker 1: But for at least some period of time before September
- 2:41Speaker 1: of 2011, Paula had been involved with Gabriel Stremier. Text messages,
- 2:47Speaker 1: phone calls, and emails between them would later become evidence
- 2:52Speaker 1: at trial. Through that evidence, prosecutors built the case that
- 2:56Speaker 1: Paula believed Gabriel to be the father of the child
- 2:59Speaker 1: she was carrying. What that situation looked like from inside
- 3:04Speaker 1: her life is harder to know. What the record does
- 3:07Speaker 1: show is that Paula was navigating something without a clear exit.
- 3:13Speaker 1: A relationship with a married man who was also woven
- 3:16Speaker 1: into the fabric of her family's history. A pregnancy that
- 3:20Speaker 1: carried enormous consequences for everyone involved, and a medical reality
- 3:25Speaker 1: that made the situation more dangerous than it already appeared.
- 3:28Speaker 1: Two days before she disappeared, Paula visited a doctor seeking
- 3:32Speaker 1: to end the pregnancy. The physician advised against it. There
- 3:37Speaker 1: was a medical condition, the specific nature of which was
- 3:41Speaker 1: never publicly named, that made the procedure carry a risk
- 3:44Speaker 1: of severe hemorrhage. The doctor told her no. Paula left
- 3:49Speaker 1: without a solution. The morning of Sunday, the 18th of September, 2011,
- 3:56Speaker 1: Paula and Gabriel met. According to what would later emerge
- 3:59Speaker 1: in Testimony, Gabriel spent that meeting pressuring her to go
- 4:04Speaker 1: through with an abortion, regardless of the medical risk. That afternoon,
- 4:10Speaker 1: Paula sat down at a computer and opened Facebook. She
- 4:14Speaker 1: found José Luis Freixamil, a mutual friend, 56 years old.
- 4:20Speaker 1: The man who had originally connected her, and Gabriel and
- 4:23Speaker 1: who had become, quietly, her confidant through all of it.
- 4:28Speaker 1: What she wrote to him that afternoon... is the last
- 4:31Speaker 1: documented voice she left behind. She told Free Jarmil she
- 4:36Speaker 1: was going to seek a second opinion from her own gynecologist.
- 4:41Speaker 1: She said she suspected that Roxana, Gabriel's wife, already knew
- 4:46Speaker 1: about the relationship. And she said something else. She said
- 4:50Speaker 1: she was not going to put her life in danger
- 4:53Speaker 1: to make other people happy. That conversation ended. Paula closed
- 4:58Speaker 1: the computer hours later. Sometime around 9.30 in the evening,
- 5:03Speaker 1: she told her husband, Rodolfo, she was stepping out to
- 5:07Speaker 1: pick up homework belonging to one of the boys. She
- 5:10Speaker 1: walked out the front door. By 10 minutes past 10
- 5:13Speaker 1: that night, her mother was already trying to reach her
- 5:15Speaker 1: by phone. The line was dead. Paula's phone was off,
- 5:20Speaker 1: and it would stay off. What the cell tower records,
- 5:23Speaker 1: captured in the gap between those two moments, is the
- 5:26Speaker 1: detail that investigators would return to again and again, At 8.48
- 5:31Speaker 1: that evening, the antenna covering Paula's home registered an active
- 5:35Speaker 1: call from Gabriel Strumier's phone, placed to his own house,
- 5:40Speaker 1: from a location in the immediate vicinity of where Paula lived.
- 5:45Speaker 1: His phone then went dark. At 9.54, it reactivated and
- 5:50Speaker 1: placed another call to his home from the same general area,
- 5:54Speaker 1: the window in between, just over an hour is the
- 5:58Speaker 1: window in which Paula walked out of her house and disappeared.
- 6:03Speaker 1: Gabriel Strumia would later claim, in court, that he knew
- 6:07Speaker 1: nothing about the pregnancy. A psychological evaluation conducted during the
- 6:12Speaker 1: trial determined he was lying. The last confirmed message Paula
- 6:18Speaker 1: Perez sent to anyone was on the afternoon of September 18th, 2011.
- 6:24Speaker 1: She was writing to José Luis Frigimil, The mutual friend
- 6:28Speaker 1: who had introduced her to Gabriel Strumia, and who had,
- 6:32Speaker 1: over the months that followed, become the only person she
- 6:36Speaker 1: trusted with the full weight of what was happening to her.
- 6:41Speaker 1: In that conversation, Paula told Frasier Mill that she would
- 6:44Speaker 1: not risk her life to make other people happy. She
- 6:47Speaker 1: said she planned to seek a second opinion from her
- 6:51Speaker 1: own gynecologist before making any decision about the pregnancy. She
- 6:56Speaker 1: mentioned almost in passing that she suspected Gabriel's wife, Roxana,
- 7:01Speaker 1: already knew about the affair. Then the conversation ended. Paula
- 7:06Speaker 1: closed the application, and whatever happened next, she did not
- 7:10Speaker 1: see coming. Her husband, Rodolfo, was home with their sons, Agustin,
- 7:16Speaker 1: and Lucas, when Paula told him she was going out
- 7:20Speaker 1: to pick up one of the boys' school assignments. It
- 7:23Speaker 1: was around 9.30 in the evening. The errand made sense.
- 7:27Speaker 1: She had no coat. She did not say goodbye the
- 7:31Speaker 1: way people do when they know they will not return.
- 7:34Speaker 1: She walked out and left the door slightly ajar, the
- 7:37Speaker 1: way anyone does when they expect to be back in minutes.
- 7:41Speaker 1: By 10.10 that night, Alicia Ortiz, Paula's mother, was already
- 7:47Speaker 1: calling her daughter's phone. It rang once, perhaps twice, then
- 7:51Speaker 1: went to silence. Not voicemail. Silence. Paula's phone was off.
- 7:57Speaker 1: It had never been off before at that hour. Alicia
- 8:00Speaker 1: tried again, and again after that. The silence on the
- 8:05Speaker 1: other end of the line was not the silence of
- 8:08Speaker 1: a missed call. It was something else. The following morning,
- 8:12Speaker 1: Rodolfo filed a missing person report. What investigators found when
- 8:18Speaker 1: they examined the cell tower data changed the entire shape
- 8:22Speaker 1: of the evening. Gabriel Stromia's phone had registered on an
- 8:26Speaker 1: antenna corresponding to Paula's neighborhood at 8.48 that night. That
- 8:32Speaker 1: detail alone would have been explainable, even unremarkable, given that
- 8:37Speaker 1: Gabriel lived and worked in the same general region of
- 8:40Speaker 1: Santa Fe province. But then the data showed something harder
- 8:45Speaker 1: to dismiss. At some point between 8.48 and 9.54, Gabriel's
- 8:48Speaker 1: phone went completely dark It was not an accidental signal drop.
- 8:57Speaker 1: The phone was turned off, deliberately. Then, at 9.54, it
- 9:02Speaker 1: reactivated and made a call to his home. The gap,
- 9:05Speaker 1: 66 minutes, covered precisely the window in which Paula had
- 9:10Speaker 1: left her house and never returned. Gabriel initially told investigators
- 9:15Speaker 1: he had no idea Paula was pregnant. He maintained that
- 9:19Speaker 1: position through questioning. and into the early stages of the
- 9:22Speaker 1: judicial process. A psychological evaluation commissioned during the trial would
- 9:27Speaker 1: later determine that he was lying, but that finding came
- 9:31Speaker 1: years later. In the immediate aftermath of Paula's disappearance, investigators
- 9:36Speaker 1: were looking at a man with deep community roots, a
- 9:40Speaker 1: legitimate freight business, and 30 years of marriage behind him.
- 9:45Speaker 1: He was also the man that Paula's own father had
- 9:48Speaker 1: trusted like a son. Alberto Parasi, a mechanic who had
- 9:54Speaker 1: known Gabriel for decades, had been the one to introduce them.
- 9:58Speaker 1: That history created them. a kind of protective shadow around
- 10:02Speaker 1: Gabriel that proved difficult to move past. Early in the investigation,
- 10:08Speaker 1: the theory that required the least explanation was the one
- 10:11Speaker 1: that required the least scrutiny of Gabriel. Paula had been
- 10:15Speaker 1: dealing with a serious, unnamed medical condition, that her doctor
- 10:19Speaker 1: had warned made an abortion extremely dangerous. A hemorrhage risk
- 10:26Speaker 1: significant enough that two days before her disappearance, a physician
- 10:30Speaker 1: refused to perform the procedure. The early working assumption floated informally.
- 10:36Speaker 1: Never confirmed was that Paula had perhaps sought an illegal
- 10:41Speaker 1: abortion somewhere and that something had gone wrong. It was
- 10:45Speaker 1: the kind of explanation It closed a case without opening one.
- 10:50Speaker 1: And for a time, it absorbed the available attention. That
- 10:54Speaker 1: theory collapsed when the timeline refused to hold it up.
- 10:58Speaker 1: Paula had been explicit with Frigimil just hours before she
- 11:01Speaker 1: left her home. She had said clearly that she would
- 11:04Speaker 1: not put her life at risk. She was planning to
- 11:07Speaker 1: consult her gynecologist the following day. She was not in crisis.
- 11:13Speaker 1: She was making plans. The woman who walked out of
- 11:16Speaker 1: her house that Sunday evening was not someone who had
- 11:19Speaker 1: reached the end of her options. She was someone who
- 11:22Speaker 1: believed she still had choices ahead of her. The second
- 11:25Speaker 1: explanation that circulated, again, never confirmed, presented to the family
- 11:30Speaker 1: as hypothesis rather than fact, was that Paula might have
- 11:34Speaker 1: left voluntarily. That she had constructed the pregnancy story, invented
- 11:39Speaker 1: the pressures, and chosen to disappear. Invented Sue suggested this
- 11:43Speaker 1: ignored several things. Simultaneously, they ignored that her phone was
- 11:48Speaker 1: off before her mother even knew she was gone. They
- 11:52Speaker 1: ignored that she left without money, without luggage, without any
- 11:56Speaker 1: of the small objects a person assembles when they are
- 11:59Speaker 1: planning to vanish. They ignored that Augustine was six years
- 12:04Speaker 1: old and Lucas was three, and that nothing in Paula's
- 12:08Speaker 1: behavior in the days prior had suggested she was preparing
- 12:11Speaker 1: to leave them. and they ignored the cell tower record
- 12:14Speaker 1: that placed Gabriel's phone in her neighborhood. During the exact window,
- 12:18Speaker 1: she disappeared, with a 66-minute blackout in the middle. Neither
- 12:24Speaker 1: explanation survived contact with the evidence, and the investigation, which
- 12:29Speaker 1: should have narrowed, instead widened in something far more complicated
- 12:34Speaker 1: and far more damaging to the people at its center.
- 12:37Speaker 1: In April of 2015, nearly four years after Paula walked
- 12:41Speaker 1: out of her house... and did not return. Law enforcement
- 12:46Speaker 1: detained nine people in connection with her disappearance. The arrests
- 12:51Speaker 1: came after years of expanding investigation, shifting prosecutors, and at
- 12:56Speaker 1: least one judge removed from the case amid allegations of irregularities.
- 13:01Speaker 1: Judge Eduardo Filoco had been assigned to the case out
- 13:04Speaker 1: of San Lorenzo and was eventually separated from it. His replacement,
- 13:10Speaker 1: Juan Carlos Totara, and a new prosecutor Donato Trota, inherited
- 13:15Speaker 1: a case that had already been contaminated by delay. Alberto Perassi,
- 13:21Speaker 1: Paula's father, had not waited quietly. The 70-year-old mechanic had
- 13:26Speaker 1: chained himself to the courthouse more than once. He wore
- 13:29Speaker 1: a bulletproof vest. He had received threats serious enough that
- 13:34Speaker 1: authorities assigned him permanent protection detail. The man who had
- 13:38Speaker 1: trusted Gabriel Stromier like a son was now the most
- 13:42Speaker 1: visible public face of the demand for answers, and the
- 13:46Speaker 1: target of what appeared to be organized pressure to stop
- 13:50Speaker 1: asking them. Among the nine detained was Gabriel, his wife Roxana,
- 13:55Speaker 1: his driver Antonio Dario Diaz, a woman named Mirtha Dominga Rogwinski,
- 14:01Speaker 1: accused of performing an illegal abortion, and several former members
- 14:05Speaker 1: of the UNIDAD regional DOS police unit, including a former chief.
- 14:11Speaker 1: special units. The accusation against the former officers was not
- 14:16Speaker 1: that they had committed the act, but that they had
- 14:18Speaker 1: worked to bury it. Destroyed evidence. Destroyed evidence, delayed responses.
- 14:26Speaker 1: Failed their duties in ways that served the people at
- 14:29Speaker 1: the center of the disappearance, rather than the investigation. In
- 14:33Speaker 1: May of 2019, a first instance court acquitted all nine.
- 14:39Speaker 1: The reason given was the absence of a body. That
- 14:42Speaker 1: was the ruling. Without a body, without physical remains, the
- 14:47Speaker 1: court determined there was insufficient evidence to convict anyone of anything.
- 14:52Speaker 1: Paula Perez had been gone for nearly eight years. Her
- 14:56Speaker 1: father had worn a bulletproof vest for years. The phone
- 15:00Speaker 1: records existed. The timeline existed. The psychological evaluation that confirmed
- 15:06Speaker 1: Gabriel lied about the pregnancy existed. And still the court
- 15:10Speaker 1: looked at all of it and said, not enough. The
- 15:13Speaker 1: rational framework of the legal system, the same one designed
- 15:17Speaker 1: to protect the innocent, had just protected the people most
- 15:22Speaker 1: implicated in her disappearance. And it had done so by
- 15:26Speaker 1: using Paula's absence against her. What followed was six months
- 15:30Speaker 1: of silence that must have felt to Alberto and Alicia
- 15:35Speaker 1: and the two boys who had grown up without their
- 15:38Speaker 1: mother like the final closing of a door. It was not.
- 15:42Speaker 1: On November 28th, 2019, the Court of Appeals of Rosario
- 15:47Speaker 1: issued a ruling that overturned the acquittals, at least in part.
- 15:52Speaker 1: Judges Gustavo Salvador, Javier Beltramón, and Carolina Hernandez examined the
- 15:58Speaker 1: same evidence the lower court had reviewed and reached a
- 16:01Speaker 1: different conclusion. Gabriel Hector Strumia, was convicted of unlawful deprivation
- 16:07Speaker 1: of liberty in aggravated form, the aggravating factor being that
- 16:11Speaker 1: the victim was pregnant. His sentence was 17 years. Roxana
- 16:16Speaker 1: Mech was convicted of unlawful deprivation of liberty and secondary
- 16:21Speaker 1: participation in the disappearance. Her sentence was seven years. The
- 16:27Speaker 1: remaining accused, the driver, the woman accused of performing the abortion,
- 16:32Speaker 1: the former police officer's were acquitted in the appeals ruling
- 16:36Speaker 1: as well. Two convictions, one woman still missing, no body.
- 16:43Speaker 1: The charges that produced Gabriel's 17-year sentence did not require
- 16:47Speaker 1: proving that he killed Paula. They required proving that he
- 16:52Speaker 1: deprived her of her liberty, that he was responsible for
- 16:56Speaker 1: whatever happened to her in that 66-minute gap between the
- 17:00Speaker 1: two cell tower pings, and that his victim was pregnant
- 17:05Speaker 1: when it occurred. The court determined that the evidence was
- 17:08Speaker 1: sufficient to establish all three. The psychological evaluation that found
- 17:13Speaker 1: he lied about knowing about the pregnancy was central to
- 17:16Speaker 1: that determination. There is a specific quality to a conviction
- 17:21Speaker 1: built on the absence of a body. It is not
- 17:23Speaker 1: the same as proof of death. It is not the
- 17:27Speaker 1: same as knowing what happened. Gabriel Stromia was sentenced to
- 17:31Speaker 1: 17 years and did not say at sentencing or at
- 17:35Speaker 1: any point after where Paula was. Roxana Mitch received her
- 17:39Speaker 1: seven years, and similarly said nothing. Whatever they know about
- 17:43Speaker 1: the night of September 18th, 2011, whatever filled that 66-minute silence,
- 17:50Speaker 1: they have chosen to keep it. The last thing Paula said,
- 17:54Speaker 1: in writing to another person, was that she would not
- 17:57Speaker 1: put her life at risk to make others happy. She
- 18:00Speaker 1: wrote that hours before she stepped outside, the court in
- 18:04Speaker 1: Rosario found that someone else made that decision for her.
- 18:09Speaker 1: Her body has never been found. The verdict landed on
- 18:12Speaker 1: November 28th, 2019-8, years, two months, and ten days after
- 18:19Speaker 1: Paula Perez walked out of her house to pick up
- 18:22Speaker 1: her son's homework and never came back. The appeals chamber
- 18:26Speaker 1: in Rosario, Judges Gustavo Salvador, Javier Beltramón, and Carolina Hernandez,
- 18:33Speaker 1: overturned the acquittals. Gabriel Hector Strumia received 17 years for
- 18:38Speaker 1: unlawful deprivation of liberty. Aggravated because the victim was pregnant,
- 18:43Speaker 1: Roxana Miksh received seven years for secondary participation in that
- 18:49Speaker 1: same disappearance. The remaining seven defendants, the driver, the accused midwife,
- 18:54Speaker 1: the former officers, walked free again. 17 years, not for murder,
- 19:00Speaker 1: not for homicide, For taking her. Because the law can
- 19:04Speaker 1: only punish what it can prove, and what it cannot prove,
- 19:07Speaker 1: is where Paula is. The Gerardo units that swept Gabriel
- 19:11Speaker 1: Stramia's properties found nothing. No soil disturbance. No cavity. Nothing
- 19:17Speaker 1: that answered the question. Every search had been asking since
- 19:21Speaker 1: September of 2011. The police had told Alberto Parasi, Paula's father,
- 19:28Speaker 1: three different versions across those years, that she was buried
- 19:32Speaker 1: in a pit. that she had been burned, that she
- 19:34Speaker 1: had been moved to another province. Each version arrived as
- 19:38Speaker 1: a hypothesis. None arrived as a location. Alberto wore a
- 19:43Speaker 1: bulletproof vest to court. He chained himself to the courthouse
- 19:47Speaker 1: gates when he believed the system was letting go. He
- 19:50Speaker 1: had permanent police custody because someone had already tried to
- 19:54Speaker 1: silence him once. He kept showing up anyway. There is
- 19:59Speaker 1: a particular cruelty in a conviction without a body. The
- 20:03Speaker 1: law has determined that something irreversible happened to Paula. Two
- 20:09Speaker 1: people are serving sentences because of it. And yet the
- 20:12Speaker 1: one answer that would allow her family to bury her,
- 20:15Speaker 1: to mark a place, to stand somewhere, and say she
- 20:19Speaker 1: was here, that answer belongs only to Gabrielle Strumia and
- 20:24Speaker 1: Roxana Misch. They have not given it. As of the
- 20:27Speaker 1: date of this recording, they have not given it. Paula's
- 20:31Speaker 1: last recorded words were a refusal. She told José Luis
- 20:35Speaker 1: Frayjamil on the evening of September 18th that she would
- 20:38Speaker 1: not put her life at risk to make others happy.
- 20:41Speaker 1: A court later determined that someone else made that decision anyway.
- 20:47Speaker 1: What the court could not determine, what no legal process
- 20:50Speaker 1: has yet forced into the open, is what happened in
- 20:52Speaker 1: the 66 minutes, when Gabriel's phone went dark. And where
- 20:57Speaker 1: Paula went after that silence ended. Lucas was three years
- 21:01Speaker 1: old when his mother left to get his homework. Agustin
- 21:05Speaker 1: was six. They are not children anymore. Alberto Parasi turned
- 21:10Speaker 1: 70 while chaining himself to courthouse gates and fielding contradictory
- 21:15Speaker 1: versions of where his daughter might be. He has spent
- 21:19Speaker 1: more than a decade asking a question that two convicted
- 21:22Speaker 1: people refuse to answer. The bulletproof vest, the police escort,
- 21:27Speaker 1: the threats, none of that stopped him from asking. That
- 21:31Speaker 1: persistence is the only reason the case reached a second
- 21:35Speaker 1: hearing at all. What remains unresolved is not a legal technicality.
- 21:40Speaker 1: Paula Perez was a woman with nearly white hair and
- 21:44Speaker 1: green eyes. A mother of two boys, a daughter who
- 21:48Speaker 1: used to wait on a street corner for a life
- 21:50Speaker 1: she believed was hers to choose. The last thing she
- 21:53Speaker 1: said in writing was that she would not risk herself
- 21:57Speaker 1: for someone else's comfort. She meant it. She just didn't
- 22:01Speaker 1: know she wouldn't be the one making that call. Gabriel
- 22:05Speaker 1: Strumia knows where she is. So, very likely, does Roxana Mish.
- 22:10Speaker 1: They are serving their sentences. Paula's location is not part
- 22:14Speaker 1: of those sentences. It never had to be. Somewhere in
- 22:18Speaker 1: the province of Santa Fe, or somewhere beyond it, Paula
- 22:22Speaker 1: Perez is still waiting to be found. And the two
- 22:26Speaker 1: people who could end that wait have decided, every single day,
- 22:30Speaker 1: since September 18th, 2011, that they will not. This show
- 22:37Speaker 1: is made by Oba Media.