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All Things Ocean & Cruz with Brittany Cartwright · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, my loves It is Lala Kent. Welcome to the
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  Speaker 1: Give Them La La with Jessica Podcast. Today.
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  Speaker 2: Why every one, long time no talk?
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  Speaker 1: So today I have a very special guest. She goes
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  Speaker 1: by the name of Britney cart Right, yay, Brittany, We're
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  Speaker 1: gonna have a mommy podcast because our babies are. I
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  Speaker 1: think they're like three weeks apart, are they? Yeah, they're
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  Speaker 1: three weeks apart, and Ocean and Summer Moon are six
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  Speaker 1: weeks apart.
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  Speaker 2: So close.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's so crazy because when they're at this stage, like,
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  Speaker 1: for example, you look at Hartford and even though Hertford,
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  Speaker 1: I think, is like two months older than Ocean, it
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  Speaker 1: seems like they're like one hundred years apart.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're you know, they all look so different.
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  Speaker 1: They all look so different. They're like the tiniest little
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  Speaker 1: things where you know, Hartford's crawling around and she's like
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  Speaker 1: a baby. Yeah. I just am curious, like, what is
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  Speaker 1: Cruise doing? Right?
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  Speaker 2: You know, are any of the babies walking yet?
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  Speaker 1: No? None of them are walking? Okay, and Ocean was
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  Speaker 1: PREMI so you know, we still do tummy time and
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to teach her how to crawl and get
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  Speaker 1: her strength. She is very petite, so like her legs
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  Speaker 1: don't even touch the ground when I put her in
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  Speaker 1: her walker. Where you look at Cruise and Hartford, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and they're in their little walkers and they're like hauling
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  Speaker 1: ass around the house. Stop. She is so tiny, She's
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  Speaker 1: a peanut.
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  Speaker 2: Her legs don't touch My legs don't touch either of you, guys.
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  Speaker 2: I'm five to one when I sit on couches or
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  Speaker 2: stuff like that, so we so I know how ocean feels.
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  Speaker 1: That's fun funny. So I'm excited for today's podcast. I
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  Speaker 1: obviously want to acknowledge that I'm sure everyone knows what
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  Speaker 1: is going on between Randall and myself and just in
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  Speaker 1: my personal life, there will be a time where I
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  Speaker 1: feel come sable enough to open up and share. Today
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  Speaker 1: is definitely not that day. Oh It's been a lot.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going through a lot, and I just at this
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  Speaker 1: point in time, want to protect my child. She's my
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  Speaker 1: number one priority. And I know what I signed up for.
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  Speaker 1: I'm on a reality television show, but in this moment,
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  Speaker 1: it's not about me. It is about my kid, and
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  Speaker 1: privacy is the only thing that I'm looking for for her. Sake.
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  Speaker 1: And with that being said, I'm kind of putting my
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  Speaker 1: steps into play that. You know, we work on an AA,
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  Speaker 1: which is one day at a time, sometimes it's one
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  Speaker 1: minute at a time, and that doesn't just apply to
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  Speaker 1: me with drinking, which surprisingly, even with everything that's going on,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I've never felt stronger in my sobriety.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you said that to me a couple of weeks ago,
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  Speaker 2: he said, I've never felt I've never felt less like
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  Speaker 2: I want to pick up a drink, or like I
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  Speaker 2: feel so strong in my sobriety. Yeah, and I think
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  Speaker 2: that's amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And with what's going on, you know, obviously my sponsor
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  Speaker 1: we communicate all the time, but she said, during this time,
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  Speaker 1: I need you to call me at least once every
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  Speaker 1: single day. You know, I'm three years in, so at
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  Speaker 1: the beginning I was talking to my sponsor daily, hourly, secondly,
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  Speaker 1: you know, but three years in, it's like I'm tough.
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  Speaker 1: I communicate with her often, I still do my AA meetings,
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  Speaker 1: but during this time, she said, I need you to
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  Speaker 1: call me at least once a day. Done. I do
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  Speaker 1: that And I told her, I was like, it's so
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  Speaker 1: weird because I feel strong in my sobriety as it is,
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  Speaker 1: but with everything that's going on, like, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: how is the last thing on my mind? Right, you know?
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  Speaker 1: And she said to me, and I get chilled. She goes,
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  Speaker 1: that's because you have God with you. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, this is so crazy that, like, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent. And I also think it's proof
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  Speaker 2: that if you put in the work. Look at you,
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  Speaker 2: Like you said three years ago, you had to talk
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  Speaker 2: to your sponsor every day now, you know, or every hour,
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  Speaker 2: every minute. Now you talk to her once a day
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  Speaker 2: because she asks. But like, you put in the work,
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  Speaker 2: you learned different tools from programs, different things to help
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  Speaker 2: with your sobriety, and then something big happens in your life.
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  Speaker 2: And some people who are sober it might have been,
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  Speaker 2: you know, challenging for them, but this you put in
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  Speaker 2: the work and you're like, I'm great, I'm writhing in
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  Speaker 2: my sobriety. And I think that's amazing for people to hear.
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  Speaker 2: If you put in the work and you do the work,
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  Speaker 2: then then it pays.
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  Speaker 1: Off, right, Yeah, Because sobriety is not an easy path
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  Speaker 1: to choose, and it takes a village to keep someone sobern.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I've always said I sit in rooms with
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  Speaker 1: so many inspiring people who have, you know, twenty plus
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  Speaker 1: years of sobriety under their belt. But I always say
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  Speaker 1: because people will come to me and they'll say, I've
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  Speaker 1: only been sober for thirty days, And it's like, but
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  Speaker 1: we're all in the same boat, because whether you have
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  Speaker 1: twenty five years or you have five days, we're all
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  Speaker 1: one slip up away from being back to square one? Right?
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  Speaker 2: Does that? No? One undred percent? Yeah, And that's like,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I I don't know. I can't relate because
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  Speaker 2: I'm not in the program. I'm not sober. I don't
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  Speaker 2: you're enormy.
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  Speaker 1: No, your enormy.
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  Speaker 2: I mean ask my college friends. I don't know if
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  Speaker 2: they say that, No, but I just don't struggle with that.
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  Speaker 2: You know, we all have our own personal struggles. But
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  Speaker 2: I think it's incredible. I have family members who are
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  Speaker 2: in the program. I have people I love and respect
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  Speaker 2: who are in the program and watching you, and it's
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  Speaker 2: just it just brings a whole different level of respect
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  Speaker 2: for all of you who deal with that.
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  Speaker 1: Truly, it's incredible. I have so many people that I
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  Speaker 1: look at in the program that I see on my
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  Speaker 1: meetings and I'm like, you're a fucking badass. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And speaking of fucking badasses, I just want to remind you,
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  Speaker 2: you guys, how lucky you are. Whoever is listening to
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  Speaker 2: this and loves Lalla. I want to say, amazing choice
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  Speaker 2: because when I first started working for Lalla, I told
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  Speaker 2: her in the interview, I said, you know, my parents
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  Speaker 2: have always told me surround yourself with people who inspire you.
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  Speaker 2: And I knew, of course, I knew who Lala Kent was,
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  Speaker 2: and I was.
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  Speaker 1: Like, she's awesome.
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  Speaker 2: She's a reality star, but she's taking her platform and
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  Speaker 2: she's becoming a businesswoman and she's killing it. And right now,
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  Speaker 2: I could have never guessed that Laala would inspire me
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  Speaker 2: as much as she has up to this point. And
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  Speaker 2: these past just a couple weeks watching Lalla be the strong,
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  Speaker 2: badass woman she is, I've learned more about just like
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  Speaker 2: strong female empowerment in the past couple of weeks watching
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  Speaker 2: Laala just be the badass that she is that I
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  Speaker 2: have in most of my life.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, Jess, that is really thank you for me. No,
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  Speaker 1: you're a badass, You're a fucking soldier. There's something that
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  Speaker 1: changes in you when it's like you're no longer you know.
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  Speaker 1: I know a lot of badass women, but there's nothing
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  Speaker 1: like a badass woman who is a mother. I've seen that.
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  Speaker 2: Laala and her mom Mama bears.
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  Speaker 1: Well, it's like like it's amazing. Well, now you know
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  Speaker 1: what your mo Well, now I know you'll one day
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  Speaker 1: see what your mom feels for you when you give birth. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: for me, Now you know, my mom said the other day,
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  Speaker 1: Ocean loves being with you. Look how happy she is.
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  Speaker 1: And I said, I get it because I love being
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  Speaker 1: with you and I'm so happy with you. So I
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  Speaker 1: can imagine what she feels because I feel it.
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  Speaker 3: For my own mom.
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  Speaker 2: I know an ocean smile and laugh is so cute.
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  Speaker 2: That like, when I want to see her smile and laugh,
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, Laala, talk to her because it's the cutest thing.
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  Speaker 2: And she lights up when she sees Lala and Chee Chee,
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  Speaker 2: which is Lala's mom.
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  Speaker 1: She's just everything she was What did you do for Halloween? What?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, did you do anything wild Halloween?
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  Speaker 1: Over here, she's already working her ass off, so I'm
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  Speaker 1: sure she was not getting buck wild.
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  Speaker 2: So what I used to dress up a lot. Now
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  Speaker 2: it's just like the thought of dressing up and putting
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  Speaker 2: in the effort was just like too much for me.
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  Speaker 2: My boyfriend Kyle and I we watched scary movies. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: we made homemade pizza, We got a ton of candy,
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  Speaker 2: and that's what we did. We sat home and I
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  Speaker 2: got to tell you it was the best, It was
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  Speaker 2: the greatest. But I want to know what you did
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  Speaker 2: for Halloween?
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  Speaker 1: Did you dress? Oh? Fun facts? Okay that I have
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  Speaker 1: not dressed up for Halloween since I was twenty one.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: I went to my older brother's house for Halloween party
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  Speaker 1: and I wore an Eminem costume that I got in
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  Speaker 1: elementary school.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, like Eminem, like not the rapper.
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  Speaker 1: Like a blue Eminem.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yes, because I was a great Eminem when I
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  Speaker 2: was Twelve's amazing.
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  Speaker 1: I was the blue Eminem. That was the last time
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  Speaker 1: I dressed up. And we just stayed so where I
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  Speaker 1: am right now, we call it the treehouse. We stayed
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  Speaker 1: at the treehouse. Me Oh Gigi, my sponsor, came over.
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  Speaker 1: We ordered a pizza and we watched hocus Pocus and
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  Speaker 1: talked and that was it.
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  Speaker 2: Did ocean dress up.
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  Speaker 1: Well, my mom claims she dressed up, but it was
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  Speaker 1: like I ordered her this baby Yoda costume and it
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  Speaker 1: never came. Oh no, So I had this zebra beanie
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  Speaker 1: like it's like a zebra head that I just put
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  Speaker 1: on her with a striped onesie and I'm like, you're
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  Speaker 1: a zebra here it is.
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  Speaker 3: That's so cute, I know.
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  Speaker 1: Can I tell you like Jackson Britney's costume.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't even see it.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, were the Greatest Showman? Stop?
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  Speaker 2: I'm actually is it on Insta?
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  Speaker 1: Yes? And Brittany put the she was the bearded woman.
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  Speaker 1: They looked so fantastic. I couldn't even believe it.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, I'm looking it up on Instagram right now. Oh
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  Speaker 2: my gosh, it's so good. All three of them Greatest Showman.
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  Speaker 2: It looks amazing.
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  Speaker 1: They're they kill it now.
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  Speaker 2: They killed it.
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  Speaker 1: Stossy and Bow and Hartford looked awesome.
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  Speaker 2: What were they?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: He done?
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  Speaker 2: Saucy and Sacy she's like known to be.
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  Speaker 1: She love Halloween right. Yeah, last year when she was pregnant,
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  Speaker 1: she put this like it looked like a rip in
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  Speaker 1: her stomach with a little newborn baby coming out of
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  Speaker 1: it and it was phenomenal.
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  Speaker 2: That's amazing. Okay, So Stossy, yeah, what is she? Of
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  Speaker 2: the ghosts that haunt this house? Phineas Clark, his loving
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  Speaker 2: wife Mildred, and their daughter Adelaide departed this life on
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  Speaker 2: the thirty first of October. So I feel like the
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  Speaker 2: causes of their death are own known. I don't know, but.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like they're ghosts that haunt the house.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that's what that is.
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  Speaker 1: But like, what wait, do you think someone died in
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  Speaker 1: their house and that's what they're doing? Is this their house?
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  Speaker 1: That's their house? Oh it is? Yeo, and Stossy's morbid
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  Speaker 1: like that.
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  Speaker 2: Of course Stossy would live in a haunted house. I
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  Speaker 2: love that.
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  Speaker 1: So curious to know the backstory. But don't they look great?
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  Speaker 1: They look incredible. They look so good.
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  Speaker 2: They should have done a photo shoot or something like
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  Speaker 2: a legit photoshoot. These are amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Every time we film vander Pump Rules, even when we're
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  Speaker 1: not filming, my friends slash cast members love a theme. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I cannot get down with it.
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  Speaker 2: You don't, you can't? Oh no, what is the what
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  Speaker 2: is your Is there a halloween costume that you've warned
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  Speaker 2: that You're like, this was amazing, Like I did it,
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  Speaker 2: I did Halloween? Write or have you never felt that way?
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  Speaker 1: Now? Never? There was one time for monster mash in
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  Speaker 1: high school. Yeah, Skyline the high school I went to,
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  Speaker 1: and Cottonwood High School, which had the finest men ever
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  Speaker 1: at that Yes, con One, we're so fine. And we
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  Speaker 1: had our dance together for some reason. Oh fun, and
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  Speaker 1: I dressed up as like a provocative Harry Potter and
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  Speaker 1: I felt so cute.
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  Speaker 2: We gotta find this photos.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, don't worry. I've kept them because I'm like, you
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  Speaker 1: look so cute.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna try and convince Laa to post them on
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  Speaker 2: her social stone.
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  Speaker 1: Be fine them. My mom's gonna have to find it.
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  Speaker 1: But there I felt so cute. I love that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I love that.
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  Speaker 2: So anyway, I think that's a lot of fun. I'm
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  Speaker 2: glad that you guys had a great Halloween. I can't
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  Speaker 2: believe we pretty much did the same thing. Actually, I
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  Speaker 2: can believe we're very similar. Anyway, So before we move
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  Speaker 2: on to this fun episode with Britt, I just want
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  Speaker 2: to know how are you feeling in this very moment.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, in this very moment, I feel strong, I feel hopeful,
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  Speaker 1: and I feel like it's weird jes because I, for
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  Speaker 1: the first time, have no idea what my future holds.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what each day is going to look like.
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  Speaker 1: And for a really long time, I've had a schedule
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  Speaker 1: where everything is planned out. My future was ahead of me,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, this is the plan. And I'm
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  Speaker 1: kind of just letting the universe take control of my
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  Speaker 1: life and place me where I need to be. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not questioning anything. I used to say my prayers every
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  Speaker 1: night and randomly on drives. I would just fill the need.
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  Speaker 1: I know most of you are like la la saying prayers.
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  Speaker 1: I grew up saying prayers with my dad, like it
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  Speaker 1: was just our nightly thing. I pray every single night.
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  Speaker 1: I'm praying often, and I'm just putting it in God's hands.
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  Speaker 1: Like I'm not questioning a single thing. Wherever I end up,
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  Speaker 1: I know that's where I'm supposed to be.
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  Speaker 2: I love that. I love that. It's beautiful. You're glowing.
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  Speaker 2: The treehouse has like the most amazing energy.
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  Speaker 1: Do you want to know why I'm glowing?
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  Speaker 3: Why?
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  Speaker 1: Because my sheet masks came out forgive them while of skin.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, And it's pretty much the goat.
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  Speaker 2: It is actually amazing, you guys. I got a little
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  Speaker 2: taste of it. I may or may not get some
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  Speaker 2: things ahead of time, and it's the greatest.
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  Speaker 1: It's so good. It's called stay Calm, And internally when
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  Speaker 1: I first tried it, I was like, I am not calm,
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  Speaker 1: but I'll be damned if my skin doesn't work calm.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, well, congrats, it's exciting.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, my love. So before we bring our guests out,
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  Speaker 1: Brittany cart Right, We're going to cut to a short
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  Speaker 1: break and we will be right back. We are back
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  Speaker 1: with one of my best friends in the whole world,
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  Speaker 1: Britney cart Right. You had the best costume ever for Halloween.
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  Speaker 2: Though.
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  Speaker 1: Let's just like start off by saying.
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  Speaker 3: That, thanks so much.
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  Speaker 4: Absolutely love Halloween, and it was our first little family costume,
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  Speaker 4: so I went all out.
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  Speaker 1: You always go all out there. Oh. I love it.
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  Speaker 1: When I see pictures of your house during the holidays,
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  Speaker 1: I want to live there.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, Christmas is like ten times Halloween.
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  Speaker 4: It's like a winter wonderland in my house, and I
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  Speaker 4: freaking love it.
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  Speaker 1: I love it too. So we all of the mommies
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  Speaker 1: are in a group chat and we were sending our
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  Speaker 1: costume ideas, and you had you had a couple that
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  Speaker 1: you had sent, but you didn't go with either of those.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I was wanting to do like ace Ventura Pet Detective
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  Speaker 4: because with a little too too, because cruises hair is
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  Speaker 4: so long. I wanted to do that. I wanted to
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  Speaker 4: do like Danny and Sandy and you know, like a
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  Speaker 4: little tea Bird yea, But I feel like everybody does those,
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  Speaker 4: so I wanted to do something different and hardly anybody does, like,
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  Speaker 4: you know, like Bearded Lady and the strong Man.
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  Speaker 1: And I had Nice Strower's.
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  Speaker 3: Assistant just what we were calling Jackson's costume.
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  Speaker 1: It was beyond amazing. Hey, you were the hottest bearded
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  Speaker 1: lady I'd ever seen in my life.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so hot. I was like, oh my god, this
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  Speaker 3: beard covers my double chin. I love it. I was like,
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  Speaker 3: I love this beard.
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  Speaker 1: I looked amazing. And I've actually never seen anyone dress
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  Speaker 1: up as the greatest showman.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah I know I haven't either, so that's why.
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  Speaker 4: And I thought about just being like a ring master
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  Speaker 4: or something, but I was like, that's so basic.
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  Speaker 3: I gotta turn it up.
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  Speaker 1: And not you gotta go to beard on exactly.
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  Speaker 3: I loved it.
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  Speaker 1: How did you put that beard on?
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  Speaker 4: I use like, what's it called Halloween gummy glue or something,
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  Speaker 4: so it actually is for your face. So I glued
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  Speaker 4: put glue on my face and on the beard and
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  Speaker 4: stuck it to me and it stayed on all night long.
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  Speaker 1: I know, I was taking a shot.
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  Speaker 3: To take a shot with the beard on. It is
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  Speaker 3: really weird?
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: Wait is it really? Yeah?
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: And I brushed my teeth with that beard on and everything.
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: I was like, I don't know.
• 16:49
  Speaker 4: No, Like before I went to the party, I brushed
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: my teeth and I was like, how do men do this?
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: It was not I mean, that's the only part that
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: was kind of weird.
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: I know, I mean, and it was intense. It wasn't
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: just like a little facial.
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: Hair, Oh no, it was a full on beard like it.
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: I think it might have been human hair.
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: She was real.
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: And cruise. You put on a little mustache.
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, wait, so he wore that for two hours
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: before he even started.
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: No, it was a little stick on mustache.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: Okay, so we wore it for two hours.
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: He wore it for two hours at the party and
• 17:19
  Speaker 4: didn't even touch it. And then I had like back
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: so I bought a whole pack of mustaches, and if
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: he didn't want to wear it, or if he took
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: it off, I could put another one on. But he's
• 17:27
  Speaker 4: kept it on for over two hours. So I was
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: just like, you did.
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: So good, I'm not gonna put it back on.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: Okay, so cute. I know Jackson Brittany really well and
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: I've spent a lot of time with them and Cruisy.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: And Cruisy is the biggest dream baby in the entire world.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: I've never seen anything like it.
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: Oh thank you. He is a little sweetheart.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: He's so sweet, he's so chill. He can he literally
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: will sit there for hours entertaining himself.
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he entertains himself so good. He sits there
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: and plays. I mean, we got super lucky. I thought
• 17:59
  Speaker 4: we were either gonna have like a terror child or
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: I don't know, right with me and Jack's together, but
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: he is just oh yeah, but he has a little
• 18:06
  Speaker 4: doll baby. I always hear that the second one, though,
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: might be a terror So we'll see.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: Wait, second baby, when do you think that you're ready
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: for that?
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: Well, we always have said, like when Cruiz was about
• 18:16
  Speaker 4: a year old, I wanted to start trying at least
• 18:19
  Speaker 4: because here goes.
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: It might not happen as easy as it did this time.
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: I mean, I've heard a lot of people have a
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: hard time getting pregnant the second time around. So we've
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: always said that he's already over six months now, it's
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: like time is flying. I still want too soon, but
• 18:33
  Speaker 4: we'll see if it's going to be a year, if
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: it'll be a little bit later. But I definitely want
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: them to be close in age.
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: I get that. Yeah.
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: I want them to grow up and be friends and
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: be able to be in the same school. So you're
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: not going to twenty five different schools.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: That's like a lot, no, right, like keep them. I
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: think Easton and I are like a couple of years
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: and some change. Yeah, and it's perfect.
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: See, that's perfect. My brother and sister were seven and
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: six years older than me, and we're close now. But
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: like growing up, like I stole on my sister's clothes.
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: She couldn't stand me. Yeah, I was annoying as hill
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: to her. So yeah, I can imagine exactly.
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: So I want my kids to be a little closer
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: at age for sure.
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: Whose idea was the greatest Showman costume?
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: Minda? Obviously Jackson was like, do I have to wear
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: a costume?
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: So I try to make his easy and then he
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: kind of got into it at the end.
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: He was wanting more blood, more this and that.
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: I was like, you didn't even want to dress up,
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: and now you're asking me if I have blood the
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: day of Halloween.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: I don't relate to that though, because I don't know
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: if you remember Sandoval's party like a few years ago
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: where he came in on stilts.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: Was that the extra party? Yes? Yes, yes, that was
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: like a cowboy extra cowboy or a cowgirl. Yeah.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: I hate dressing up. The last time I dressed up
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: for Halloween, I was telling my listeners, I dressed up
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: as a blue eminem when I was twenty one. But
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: I did dress up for his for Santa Bal's costume party,
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: and I remember being like so put out by it,
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: and then once it started, I was like, ooh, I'm
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: going to do this.
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: Oh wait, you wore that like slowly dress.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: It was nothing. It was a pink too to it
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: looks cute. No, yeah, like it was not a big deal.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: It was hot though, it was just like you know,
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: like I enjoyed it.
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: I say, once you get into it. It makes it fun.
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: Afterwards, Jack's was like, Oh, I'm definitely gonna get into
• 20:11
  Speaker 4: this now that we have a son. I was like, see,
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: I told you, if you just start doing it, you
• 20:16
  Speaker 4: feel so fun and get into it.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: I have a special place in my heart for Jack's Taylor.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: I know he's been so kind yes, and such a
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: cute dad with Cruise. I mean they're like little they
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: have like little boys times. Oh yeah, little besties, like
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: when you go out if you have like girl time.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: Mm hm.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: The night we went out for Janet's, our friend Janet
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: got engaged and he went out, but he videoed and
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: was like, mom's gone, we got sweet.
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: Potatoes, we got milk.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: He's so cute.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: Oh, he's so good with him.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: And whenever I was pregnant, and even like on the
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: show with a Bunch of Jacks would always say, when
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: she has a baby, I'm not gonna take care of
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: him by myself until he's at least six months old.
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: Like he was so scared. But I went to Vegas
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: for my friend's bacherette party for two nights. I came
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: home a night early because I missed the baby too much.
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: But I like didn't worry about cruise at all.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Of course. I mean I still facetimed every two hours.
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: Right, But that's just because I missed the baby, not
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: because I didn't trust Jack.
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: So he's doing amazing. I'm super proud of him.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: It's amazing. And of course you would miss your baby.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: I had. I had to go to New York, and
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: I was it was like torture. Every time I facetimed ocean,
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I was like sobbing my eyes out. Yeah, you know,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: and then they start reaching for the phone and you
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: can tell that they're reaching for the phone.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: What's so sweet?
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: It's so sweet, such as love our little baby so much.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: I you said that cruise is already what six months,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: and well, he'll be he'll be seven months on the twelfth,
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: on the twelve.
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, so their ocean and cruise are like almost exactly
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: a month apart, a little less than a couple of
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: days short of a month.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And cruise, you said at a six month appointment
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: was twenty two pounds.
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: Twenty two pounds and almost thirty nine inches long.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: Wait, thirty nine twenty nine scared? I was like, sorry,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: nine twenty nine, Well, because I see you at the airport,
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: on the Instagram and you have him stropped to the
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: front of you.
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: Oh, that is a much easier way to travel. I'm
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: getting better and better at traveling every time. But traveling
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: alone with your baby, you have to bring those little
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: baby carriers.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: It is everything you're so bad at.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: It makes the biggest.
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: Difference in trying to have your stroller and put in
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: a stroller bag by yourself with a baby.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: It's at work. It's like I can imagine.
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: But I'm getting better coming a pro pro traveler.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: How is he on plan?
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: He's amazing.
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: Like he cried for let's say it was a five
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: almost five hour flight. He cried for maybe ten minutes
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: and then slept for four.
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: Hours three hours.
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: You're a damn line the entire time he probably cried
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: or ten minutes total. So Kentucky, Yeah, he was like
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: he was so good.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: You know, Ocean, he's gonna be great. He's so sweet.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: Ocean was good too, though, whenever Ocean, but that's what
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: I mean. Ocean is a great baby. She is so
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: for me to say, like cruises like cruises a more
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: chill baby than Ocean, and Ocean's like chill as it gets.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: She is chill.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: She a diva though, well she had to catch up
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: where she was a little early, so her little bailly
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: and stuff had to catch up. But she is like
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: so chill she is, and she loves her bouncer. Yeah,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: you know the swing thing is I got too nervous
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: about the one you hang in the doorway. Yeah, God forbid,
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: I put it on because I build everything that I get,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: and so you built it too. I know. That's why
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: I can talk to you about it. But all like
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: google videos on how to build, like the high chair.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: I think we have the same high chair from Amazon,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: and I google how to build it, and it's like
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: a man like it's like this dad, that's showing you,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, what is this? Oh?
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: I won't even let Jack touch any of that stuff.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: He does it too quickly.
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: No, he doesn't read the instructions. He just actually he
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: doesn't even want to try. He knows that I'll do it,
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: so he's just like, uh, here is this thing, Brittany.
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, I.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: Like your pictures. You do all of them.
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: If I get focused on something, I have to finish
• 24:05
  Speaker 4: it too. Like I can't just like start a project
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: and like somebody be like, well I can help you
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: with that.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: I'd rather just like do myself because you know how
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: it's gonna exactly.
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: I'm not trying to have you lose the scruise.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: That's the biggest thing exactly.
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: But yeah, Chris doesn't have one of those little swings.
• 24:23
  Speaker 4: I saw hers downstairs and it was like, super cool.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: You have to get in one. He'll have the best time.
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: He has a bounty seat, but not like a swing
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: like that.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I saw it on Sheena's Instagram store and was like,
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: I have to have that where she sits there for
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: hours and really, oh my god, you try to take
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: her out of it, She's squealed.
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: Maybe I should get one.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: Oh, Cruise would be hopping around like a chance.
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: He loves his walker. He just walks everywhere. It's insane
• 24:49
  Speaker 4: to see that.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: Okay, so when you when I see videos of Hartford
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: and Cruise in there, those big walkers so cute. I
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: don't mean that your babies look like this guy, but
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: the way they move, you know, mister water noos on
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: monsters inc.
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, that is like a perfect example.
• 25:12
  Speaker 4: Me and Jack's always say he looks like the floats
• 25:14
  Speaker 4: that are at like car salesman, you know, like the
• 25:17
  Speaker 4: big tall ones that go in the air, that go
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: in the waves or whatever.
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: That is what we always said. But mister Walters, it's hilarious.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: They look like that, like that's how they move around.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: He's just smiling, like moving his arms back and forth.
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: It is so cute.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: What is the biggest challenge with being a mom that
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: you and it could be anything like once you had Cruise,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: what was the biggest challenge that you were like, I
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: did not expect this at all.
• 25:42
  Speaker 4: Oh goodness, I mean there's so much that you don't
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: people parents don't really talk about that, you know, you know,
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: like after having the baby, especially like the postpartum stuff
• 25:52
  Speaker 4: like that was a lot different than what I thought
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: it was gonna be, Like the gross stuff.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Like what do you like the likewy yes, like how
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: sore you are and how long you have bleed for
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: and all that stuff, like it was tough, and then
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: feeding is hard too, Like I kudos to you for
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: still being able to do it.
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: I mean I tried so hard and I dried up
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: after close to eight weeks.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: I I always said, don't be married to the idea
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: of breastfeeding. Yeah, because you you may not be able,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: it may not be an option. It always bothered me
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: when people asked are you going to breastfeed, because like, well,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I would like to. I hope that I can, but
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: that's not something that is easy to do exactly.
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: I went through like I was kind of sad and
• 26:39
  Speaker 4: stuff that I couldn't do that for my baby and
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: have that bonding time after. But I'm so glad that
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: I got the eight weeks in. At least he got
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: like all the classroom all that good stuff. But that's
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: a full time job. So good job for the mamas
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: who keep it going.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: Especially for a whole year.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Shoo oh, it's a lot of work because I'll tell
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: you what, bread the full time that she has those
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: little dagger teeth.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: Oh, I bet that's hard, so bad.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: No, it's no joke. And she laughs about it. Oh
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: you know.
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: The little personality is coming out.
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: It's so cute.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And she grabs my nipples and like plays with
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: them as if they're like chew toys. And I'm like,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: this is like not because there's those teeth are rigid
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: because they got to break through the Oh yeah, I
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: like fucking chan saws.
• 27:23
  Speaker 4: Oh gosh, I can't even imagine. Crais doesn't have any yet,
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: but he's close. But they haven't broken through.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: Oh, they haven't broken through yet. No, well, trust me,
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: they like you see a little bit of white one
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: day and all of the sudden, it's like they've got
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: full on teeth.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Yeah, and I can't imagine breastfitting with that,
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: but good job.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: We'll send you. Thank you. My nipples are well prepared
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: for any type of fun.
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: There you go.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: You know. I'm with Britney Cartwright and we will be
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: right back. Hello, my loves. We are back. We're talking
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: all things ocean and cruise and just like being mom's
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: which is still very weird to Is it weird, Brittany
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: for you, Oh, it is weird.
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: It's weird that they're with us forever, you know, like
• 28:08
  Speaker 4: I thought you felt the whole time. I'm like, yeah,
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: he's with me forever, Like I don't have to give
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: him back to anybody like mine.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: He's yours. That's how I feel like when I missed
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: and when I look at ocean, I'm like, what, like
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: what did I do to like deserve all as my
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: baby people serve?
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: Going we deserve good babies.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Deserve good babies. We were talking earlier about Ocean and
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: her tummy having to catch up. They took Ocean three
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: weeks early because her stomach wasn't growing. The doctor was concerned.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: They took her out. But now she's fine. But I
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: had to deal with a lot of collic in the beginning,
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: and that's hard. Oh my god, that's very hard.
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: I know a lot of like my cousin's little baby
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: had colic and it was just non stop crying and stuff.
• 28:52
  Speaker 4: So I know how hard that can be. I'm very
• 28:55
  Speaker 4: glad that I didn't have to deal with that, but
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: I know it's hard on you and anybody else that
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: has to go through that.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: But you had to deal with being sick, your entire
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: price exactly.
• 29:03
  Speaker 4: I think that's why maybe his stomach wasn't called like
• 29:06
  Speaker 4: gigas Mon was the entire pregnancy.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, No, he were so sick. I had never seen
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: anything like that. Yeah, And with Ocean, I remember calling
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: her pediatrician. I was like, she won't stop crying, Like,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: and I go to a doctor or a pediatrician that
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: practices Eastern and Western medicine. So he like gave me
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: something to give to her. He's like, but how long
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: has she been crying? I'm like like forty five minutes straight,
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: and he started laughing and he goes call me when
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: she's been crying for three hours and then we'll do something.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: I was like three hours.
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: My god.
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: It's like that friend's episode where they're like rock in
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: the baby because I woke her up, remember, yes, and
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: they're like, what is going on?
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: What did I do?
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: What did you do? And every time she was sleeping,
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: I would tell people like, do not fucking walk in
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: the room. Yeah, speak, don't move a muscle, because when
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: she wakes up, like her presence will be known for
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: a very long time.
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: So cute.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: It was so intense.
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: But now she doesn't even do that anymore. I feel
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: like she's she's good right, like her stomach is caught up.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: And stomach is caught up. She's still a little peanut.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry today. Yeah, she's adorable and she didn't care
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: she's gone. It's so funny because my mom will say
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: she's got so much hair, and I'm like, compared to
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: what she had when she was born, yes, yes, but
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: when you see my friend's babies.
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: Cruises like a little fobbio. I mean it is growing
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: so fast.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: The man bun that you put cruise.
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: Oh, I loved the little man bun.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: Do you do that often? No?
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: I mean honestly, that was the first day and I
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: was just like kind of testing it out. But his
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: hair is starting to get into his eyes, so I'm
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: trying to figure out different ways because I'm not cutting
• 30:41
  Speaker 4: his hair before he's a year old.
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: That absolutely not happening.
• 30:44
  Speaker 4: I think little boys are so key with long hair
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: under their little baseball caps or whatever.
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: I think it's adorable.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: And he's a little California baby. We know you're from Kentucky,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: but he's a little California exactly.
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: He's born here.
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: He was made in Kentucky, but he was born in Hell.
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: Like so, I don't know, I just like it did
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: herve it in so fast? Oh yeah, he didn't touch
• 31:03
  Speaker 4: it at all the entire day, and then like later
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: on we took it down because I didn't you know
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: how sometimes if you were a ponytail, like it starts
• 31:09
  Speaker 4: hurting your head.
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, his was loose, but I was getting a little worried,
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: so I took it down.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: Oh I love that, But ocean does this thing with
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: her bows now where she becomes the incredible hulk and
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: she grabs it and rips it down and the face
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: she makes is like like I bo it off my head.
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: I love Ocean's eyebrows because it's the best she had,
• 31:29
  Speaker 4: like the best eyebrows and the no hair for the
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: longest time.
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: It was a little man.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: You just say, ever swear best eyebrolls and you are
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: working your ass off in the gym ring.
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: I'm trying four days a week with my girl Meghan.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: So you know your trainer Meghan from How did you
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: meet her?
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: So? Meghan is from Kentucky as well. We used to
• 31:49
  Speaker 4: work together at Hooters of Lexington, so we worked together
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: for like a couple of years at Hooters.
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: She actually moved to la before me.
• 31:56
  Speaker 4: Okay, we always kept in touch and stuff, and then
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: whenever I moved here, we started like meeting up and
• 32:00
  Speaker 4: hanging out and stuff again.
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: And she's just an amazing trainer.
• 32:03
  Speaker 4: So it's awesome because we get to have fun and
• 32:05
  Speaker 4: laugh and stuff while I'm training.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: Right, Like, you feel like it's a little bit of
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: a therapy.
• 32:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah, oh yeah, for sure, because they can like in
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: the car something you'll be like dreading going to the
• 32:14
  Speaker 4: gym or something. You know, it's sometimes hard to get going,
• 32:16
  Speaker 4: and then as soon as I get there, she's just
• 32:18
  Speaker 4: so like nice and cheerful and you know, a piece
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: of home.
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's like the best.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: So I've never seen anything Like I used to work
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: out with my trainer Jenna, and I'm telling like, whatever
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: you are doing, I've never seen that shit before. What
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: I see on your Instagram. I'm like, what even is
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: this contraption?
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: Oh it's insane.
• 32:40
  Speaker 4: I was doing sled pushes today, like where they put
• 32:42
  Speaker 4: the weights on top and it is so hard to do,
• 32:45
  Speaker 4: but like, my legs are going to kill me tomorrow,
• 32:48
  Speaker 4: absolutely kill me. But she knows what she's doing. I've
• 32:50
  Speaker 4: never and I was like, wow, Megan, you actually.
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: Know what you're doing, what you're talking about.
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: She's like, yeah, Brittany, I'm not just like an Instagram trainer.
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: Likes a lot of people in La are just like Instagram.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: Everyone's on Instagram something.
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: Yes, but she just knows everything. Like I was like, hey,
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: this is this muscle here is hurting and she knows
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: every move to do to stop it and what's connected
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: to this.
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: She's awesome And how long have you been working out with.
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: Her since like right after I got so how long
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: do we I think we have to wait six weeks
• 33:20
  Speaker 4: after the baby, So I think I started around like
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: eight weeks because I was still a little too sore
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: to work out.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: I can't imagine why you'd be sore pushing a human
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: out of you.
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: I was still a little too sore.
• 33:30
  Speaker 4: So I think since cruises, like eight weeks I've been
• 33:32
  Speaker 4: working with her. And then I was going all to September,
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: so I missed that month. But other than that, times.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: A week, you look so good work.
• 33:40
  Speaker 4: In process or process work in progress.
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: But I'm proud of myself, for sure.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: You should be. And I feel like that is another
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: thing that's really hard for women is like no one's
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: pregnancy looks the same. Oh yeah, and my mom said
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: when she was pregnant with me, she didn't gain much
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: weight and it was easy to lose it. But with Easton,
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: she said that that was much more difficult. Things had
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: like settled in. Yeah, and so it doesn't like each
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: pregnancy could be different.
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: I know I'm hoping if I get pregnant again, I'm
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: not gonna be so sick, you know, but just never know.
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: I mean my mom was like you, She had all
• 34:16
  Speaker 4: three babies and went right back down to a little
• 34:18
  Speaker 4: pencil right afterwards.
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: I was like wishing that was giving me my experience,
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: but it was not.
• 34:22
  Speaker 4: But you never know, maybe with the next one, I mean,
• 34:25
  Speaker 4: hopefully I'll be able to continue working out.
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: This time, I just thought, too sick last time.
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: Well you were, you were pretty much on bed rights. Oh,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: because of how sick you were. Yeah, and it was
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: all day.
• 34:34
  Speaker 4: All day long, mainly in the morning and at night,
• 34:37
  Speaker 4: but sometimes just all day long.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: And what did you crave when you were pregnant? Uh?
• 34:43
  Speaker 4: At the end, I mainly craved fruit, and I craved
• 34:45
  Speaker 4: a lot of avocado toast. And I don't know, that's
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: just like kind of at the end is whenever I
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: started noticing cravings like towards the beginning and stuff, I
• 34:54
  Speaker 4: don't really feel like I noticed anything different. But at
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: the end, I wanted fruit and I wanted those like
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: what do they call it, I'm gonna embarrass myself, asa
• 35:02
  Speaker 4: e bowls or bowls.
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: I used to call them a cowboles. She from Kentucky,
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: a kai bowl. Yeah, I craved all that stuff. What
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: did you cry? I don't remember you craving much.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: I felt super nauseated at the beginning. In the first
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: three months, I didn't ever get sick like you and I.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: I think I may have tossed my cookies, like maybe twice,
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: but I just felt nauseous, like nothing sounded good, which
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: was shitty because I'm was sitting there thinking, oh, I'm pregnant,
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: me whatever the fuck I want, yes, And then I
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: had no appetite. But then I started craving sushi all
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: the time, and you're not supposed to have sushi.
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: So I didn't really I don't remember you craving anything.
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: No, I didn't crave anything. Nothing really sounded good. I
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: didn't want any perier, which.
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: Is weird, yeah, because you're obsessed with that.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: So mine was like I just like ate whatever I could.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: When she wasn't growing, the doctor said you must go
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: and like feed yourself, Yeah, until you feel like you're
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: gonna vomit. Yeah. So I was just eating, like or
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: drinking a lot of smoothies.
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 36:06
  Speaker 4: That's like the easiest thing to do whenever you're pregnant,
• 36:09
  Speaker 4: I think, is the smoothies, because like salads and stuff,
• 36:11
  Speaker 4: you're supposed to eat healthy but if you're a nauseous
• 36:14
  Speaker 4: all the time, a salad is the last thing that
• 36:16
  Speaker 4: you want.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: You're trying to be a bunny rabbit. I'm feeling nauseous.
• 36:19
  Speaker 4: Trust me, I took advantage of eating whatever I could
• 36:21
  Speaker 4: whenever I could.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: Of course, why wouldn't you. You're pregnant exactly, So baby's
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: got to be eaten good.
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's doing great. So whatever what.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: Is he doing now that he wasn't doing like last month?
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: Like what are little changes that you've seen in cruise?
• 36:36
  Speaker 4: Well, he sits up on his own. Now he's about
• 36:39
  Speaker 4: to start crawling. He goes backwards and stuff.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: That's so cute.
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: He can't figure out how to go forwards.
• 36:45
  Speaker 4: But he did the same thing with his walker, Like
• 36:47
  Speaker 4: he used to only know how to go backwards in
• 36:49
  Speaker 4: his walker, and now he goes everywhere in his walker.
• 36:51
  Speaker 4: So I think any day now he's going to start crawling.
• 36:53
  Speaker 4: He waves high. That's so cute, and he says dada,
• 36:57
  Speaker 4: which is so annoying because I would did all that
• 36:59
  Speaker 4: hard work.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: Did you work with him?
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: No?
• 37:01
  Speaker 4: Like me, Like I had to be sick every day
• 37:03
  Speaker 4: and oh yeah, yeah, he says, dad die first, But
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: my doctor even said whenever we write his six month appointment,
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: he was like, now, to be fair, dad, Dad has
• 37:13
  Speaker 4: a lot easier to say than mama.
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: So I was like, who I told you?
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we buy with.
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: Each other and joke around, you know, joke about it
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: and be like he said, Dad, I first.
• 37:22
  Speaker 4: But you know I've always encouraged him to say bad
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: day and mama and everything. So I'm proud of him.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: You should be proud of him. My little sweetheart, Ocean
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: is a little bit weaker than Cruisy. She she'll like stand,
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: she'll sit on all fours like, she'll be in position
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: and frall but then you can tell she gets tired,
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: a little wobbly, a little wobbly, and she can't quite
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: figure out how to like maneuver. But she can spin
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: herself in circle.
• 37:46
  Speaker 4: Yes, I think it's so cute when they do that
• 37:47
  Speaker 4: and the little Superman bellies looks like they're flying.
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: She feels like if she flies, like she use her
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: arms and legs out, then she'll fly to wherever the toy.
• 37:55
  Speaker 4: Oh, it is so cute. It's so cute. This stage
• 37:58
  Speaker 4: is awesome, It really is. Every age just like gets
• 38:00
  Speaker 4: better and better.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: I feel like is Cruisy still sleeping next to you
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: or is he in his nursery.
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: It's definitely not in his nursery.
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah I can't.
• 38:08
  Speaker 4: I'm like, it's so hard to do. But he outgrew
• 38:11
  Speaker 4: his snow the bassinette that we were using. Yeah, so
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: I just put a pack and play beside me, and
• 38:17
  Speaker 4: he is beside me in the pack and play.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you and all of us were so into like
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: all of these pinteresty things. You would give me ideas
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: for what I was, you know, we should do for
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: my nursery, And I'm like a pack and play nurse.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: That's what Ocean sleeps.
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's the best.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: It's her favorite thing.
• 38:35
  Speaker 4: Like I'll put him down for naps and stuff in
• 38:37
  Speaker 4: his nursery and I'm gonna start using it more.
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: But he's only six months old. One beside me, I
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: am the same way.
• 38:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just not ready for him to be all
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: the way in his nursery.
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: I totally don't blame you at all. I'm the exact
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: same way.
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: I do wake up for every single sound and every
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: single peep or movement he makes.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: But I'd rather that than me have to walk all
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: the way across to his nursery, a little baby light check. Actually,
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: do you do the thing where you see that if
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: they're back? Does she does crazy sleep on his back
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: or tummy.
• 39:07
  Speaker 4: So he just recently started sleeping on his stomach, and
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: that scared the shit out of me because he always.
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: Was a back sleeper, and I was like, oh my god,
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: oh my god, I've heard so much stuff.
• 39:15
  Speaker 4: But he's past that six month mark now, so I'm
• 39:17
  Speaker 4: not like so terrified about it.
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: He's sleeping on his stomach.
• 39:20
  Speaker 4: But the first couple of nights, I don't think I
• 39:21
  Speaker 4: got any sleep because I just stared at him the
• 39:23
  Speaker 4: entire time.
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: I was like, why is he on his stomach? Why
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: is he on his stomach? By on his stomach?
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: But now he's at the point where like he'll move
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: his hat, yes.
• 39:31
  Speaker 4: Exactly exactly. I mean he can like go anywhere in
• 39:34
  Speaker 4: the house if he wants to. He just can't physically
• 39:35
  Speaker 4: crawl yet. So I'm not too I'm not worried about
• 39:37
  Speaker 4: that kind of stuff. An, of course, we're still careful
• 39:40
  Speaker 4: blah blah blah.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: But no, right, you're a parent, You're always gonna be careful.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: Ocean will only sleep on her stomach. She has no
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: desire to sleep on.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: See Hartford's always been like that too.
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: Kuriz will go like back and forth, back and forth,
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: but he just recently started the stomach thing.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's a little intense when they do that.
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but now I'm getting more to it. He likes
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: to sleep on his side too, like a grown up.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: It's so these are our little human I know.
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: It's so crazy.
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: And does he sleep through the night.
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: Well, since he's been out of the snow and had
• 40:12
  Speaker 4: to move into the pack and play, he's not doing
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: as good. Like he would only wake up one time
• 40:15
  Speaker 4: for a bottle around like four in the morning and
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: then go back to sleep and not wake up again
• 40:20
  Speaker 4: till like eight or nine.
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: Like, he does sleep pretty good, but he's kind of having.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: A little time. Well.
• 40:26
  Speaker 4: We he normally is asleep by like nine. I'd say
• 40:29
  Speaker 4: that's like normal for him. And then he, like I said,
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: we will wake up like three or four in the
• 40:35
  Speaker 4: morning for a bottle and then go back to sleep.
• 40:37
  Speaker 4: He's just been waking up a little bit more right now,
• 40:39
  Speaker 4: and I think it's because he got used to that
• 40:40
  Speaker 4: snow rocking him.
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: Back and forth in the ju night.
• 40:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and now he's just still on the pack and play,
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: so he's still doing good, but he just got to
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: get back into his routine.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: STOSSI told me that Harford sleeps twelve hours, and I
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: was like, yeah, come again.
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: She goes down at like seven thirty.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm like, I don't get that. Yeah, Ocean
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: usually falls asleep around the same time as cruise. Yeah,
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: nine o'clock last night was awesome. She slept through the
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: whole night. She woke up at seven. Oh yeah, it's good.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: Usually she'll wake me up around like six and then
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: she'll go back down until. Yeah. But it's when you
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: wake out of when you wake up out of that
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: rum cycle, you feel a little disorient.
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, waking up all throughout the night is it's
• 41:25
  Speaker 4: not easy. And then having to go and be like
• 41:28
  Speaker 4: productive the next day.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: You killed it. They'll break You're like super mom. Oh thanks, No,
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: you really are?
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: You are too?
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: Why try you are? I mean, I feel like I
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: think you're killing the game. Isn't it weird how you
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: just kind of fall into it, like no one could
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: prepare you for this.
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, not at all. And we all do
• 41:44
  Speaker 4: it a little bit differently. But everybody's doing so good,
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like, there's no right way
• 41:49
  Speaker 4: to be a mom, and I hate That's one of
• 41:50
  Speaker 4: the things I hate about like Instagram moms and stuff
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: who try to like atteck every little thing.
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: It's like we're our kids aren't the same.
• 41:57
  Speaker 4: Everybody's going to be different, like, and as long as
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: you're doing okay and your baby's doing great, that's all
• 42:01
  Speaker 4: that matters.
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: Right. When people ask me for mom advice, I say,
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: my mom advice is to not take anyone's advice.
• 42:07
  Speaker 4: Exactly, do it your own way, and you're gonna learn
• 42:10
  Speaker 4: the best that the best life exactly you like once
• 42:14
  Speaker 4: that baby.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: Hi baby oh oh duarh she is is just in time.
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: When your baby comes out of you, you know exactly
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: what to do exactly. Well, Brittany, I'm so thankful that
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: you were on the podcast. It was just like girl time,
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: I feel like it was. It was amazing. Please come
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: back anytime. Thank you guys so much for listening to
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: another episode of the Give Them While Podcast. We will
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: catch you next week.
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: Bye.