Latest / Money And Wealth With John Hope Bryant / The 5 Pillars of Success
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Welcome the Money in Wealth with John O'Briant, a production
- 0:03Speaker 1: of the Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartRadio, Yo Yo,
- 0:15Speaker 1: John O'Brien and this is Money and Wealth on the
- 0:18Speaker 1: iHeart Network, the Black Effect Podcast Network, my weekly series.
- 0:24Speaker 1: And I'm talking about Taraji Henson and her saying she
- 0:31Speaker 1: was underpaid by Oprah. And in comparison, you have Terry
- 0:36Speaker 1: Crews who says he's worked for a minimum wage and
- 0:42Speaker 1: no pay to land big gigs. And those are very
- 0:46Speaker 1: popular movies that in one training day, I believe with
- 0:50Speaker 1: Denzel Washington he was paid zero and Friday he was
- 0:55Speaker 1: paid four thousand dollars and Taraji was paid in comparison
- 1:03Speaker 1: big Bucks. In comparison. Now she says she was underpaid,
- 1:07Speaker 1: which one is correct? Well, I'm with Terry Crews. Terry
- 1:14Speaker 1: Crews says, don't say yes, and you really meant no.
- 1:19Speaker 1: And he says, look, I read the contract. I knew
- 1:22Speaker 1: what it said. Nobody forced me to sign this contract.
- 1:28Speaker 1: Time is money. I could have used my time somewhere else.
- 1:32Speaker 1: I could have gone and worked somewhere else. I could
- 1:34Speaker 1: have gone and worked at a grocery store. I guess
- 1:36Speaker 1: he didn't say this I'm inferring this. I could have
- 1:39Speaker 1: gone and taken a corporate gig or an endorsement deal,
- 1:42Speaker 1: or try to find a different movie to be in.
- 1:46Speaker 1: This was my choice to sign up. I thought this
- 1:48Speaker 1: would be a good move for my career and it was.
- 1:52Speaker 1: And Taraji was asked by Oprah Winfrey and I think
- 1:55Speaker 1: Tyler Perry to do a project. And she looked at
- 1:58Speaker 1: that contract. She knew what it said and she accepted it.
- 2:03Speaker 1: End of subject. Let me say something to you. I
- 2:05Speaker 1: need you to hear me here. Business is not personal.
- 2:08Speaker 1: This is not emotional. It's not my job as a
- 2:11Speaker 1: capitalist to pay you top dollar. It's my job, if
- 2:14Speaker 1: I'm the producer of a project, to actually pay you
- 2:17Speaker 1: the least I can afford to get away with. Yes,
- 2:19Speaker 1: I said it. It's my job to make a profit
- 2:22Speaker 1: for that project, to give a return to my investors.
- 2:25Speaker 1: Everybody's got a boss. You don't think Oprah's got a boss.
- 2:27Speaker 1: You don't think Tyler Perry as a boss on a project.
- 2:31Speaker 1: Who's funding that project, who's putting the money up for
- 2:33Speaker 1: that project, who's distributing that project? What agreements do they
- 2:37Speaker 1: have for that project to hit a certain budget and
- 2:40Speaker 1: not to exceed it. So she's a baller, no doubt
- 2:43Speaker 1: about it. But she's got to speak to her partners
- 2:46Speaker 1: and investors, and she's got to deliver a project that's
- 2:50Speaker 1: under budget and hopefully exceeds on revenue. And that comes
- 2:54Speaker 1: from trying to squeeze every dime you can out of
- 2:58Speaker 1: cost without being cruel. Now, did she underpay based on
- 3:03Speaker 1: what was on the piece of paper to Taraji? That's
- 3:06Speaker 1: not the claim. Miss Henson's not saying she charged. She
- 3:09Speaker 1: promised me five dollars and she paid me to She's
- 3:12Speaker 1: saying what she promised me and what I agreed to,
- 3:16Speaker 1: I think is a travesty. No, it's a travesty for
- 3:19Speaker 1: you not to get a job and your talent. It's
- 3:21Speaker 1: a travesty not for them not to be an Oprah Winfrey.
- 3:25Speaker 1: Thank god, there's an Oprah Winfrey and a Tyler Perry
- 3:28Speaker 1: who can hire somebody. Hello, do you think the creators
- 3:32Speaker 1: of Motown paid their talent top dollars? No, they tried
- 3:36Speaker 1: to negotiate the best deals they could for themselves and
- 3:39Speaker 1: hope to god the talent didn't read the contract. And
- 3:42Speaker 1: then if the talent was literate and could read the contract,
- 3:44Speaker 1: negotiated themselves up, then they would probably say, yeah, if
- 3:47Speaker 1: they really believe in that talent, yes, let's negotiate. But
- 3:49Speaker 1: my job as a capitalist you may not like this episode.
- 3:52Speaker 1: I'm telling you way this world, this world works. My job,
- 3:54Speaker 1: sitting on the other side of that that table is
- 3:57Speaker 1: to pay you the least I can afford to pay
- 3:59Speaker 1: without being upset. And your job is a talent in
- 4:03Speaker 1: this example, is to try to negotiate the most that
- 4:05Speaker 1: you can get from me without without creating friction in
- 4:08Speaker 1: the relationship. Did you hear me? You can't grow without
- 4:12Speaker 1: constructive friction. Rainbows only follow storms. You cannot have a
- 4:16Speaker 1: rainbow without a storm first. Everything grows through constructive friction.
- 4:21Speaker 1: You can disagree without being disagreeable. So is your job
- 4:24Speaker 1: to negotiate and advocate saying, Hey, I'm worth X, Y
- 4:27Speaker 1: and Z and here's a non emotional reasons for that.
- 4:30Speaker 1: My last product to produce X Y and Z, and
- 4:32Speaker 1: I'm making this up. That's tenfold of what you're paying me,
- 4:35Speaker 1: or twenty fold of what you're paying me what I'm
- 4:36Speaker 1: proposing you paying me. So I think if you pay
- 4:38Speaker 1: me this, I think I can deliver a project that
- 4:40Speaker 1: will produce this other outcome and if I don't, I'll
- 4:43Speaker 1: give you a refund or whatever, or how about you
- 4:45Speaker 1: pay me a baseline. But if I exceed this and Mark,
- 4:48Speaker 1: we agree with profit sharing, like be creative. But to
- 4:51Speaker 1: say that I am this great talent and because of that,
- 4:54Speaker 1: and because i'm this and i'm that, you should be
- 4:56Speaker 1: paying me more because you're black and I'm black, that's crazy. Green.
- 5:00Speaker 1: The color of currency is green. And Oprah's job is
- 5:03Speaker 1: to pay you what she can get away with, to
- 5:06Speaker 1: negotiate every call saving she can in that project, delivered
- 5:09Speaker 1: on time and on budget or under budget, and to
- 5:12Speaker 1: make listen to me now a profit for her investors
- 5:16Speaker 1: and her partners. The talent is not the end all
- 5:20Speaker 1: be all of this project. The talent is one of
- 5:22Speaker 1: many components of a film project. Don't get emotional about
- 5:26Speaker 1: it again. Terry Crews had it right, Hey man, give
- 5:29Speaker 1: me the right project. I'll work for free. I'll pay you.
- 5:32Speaker 1: And for anybody who's saying with John, how do you
- 5:34Speaker 1: have a right to say this again? I don't talk
- 5:36Speaker 1: about things I don't know. I've worked for free, right,
- 5:40Speaker 1: I've worked severely underpaid. I remember this billionaire he'd be
- 5:45Speaker 1: a billion here today is worth two hundred million. Back then,
- 5:47Speaker 1: his name was Harvey Baskin, and I worked as a
- 5:50Speaker 1: waiter and his restaurant, Jeoffrey's Malibu in Hollywood, I mean
- 5:54Speaker 1: in Malibu, California. I worked there, pay minimum wage and tips.
- 6:00Speaker 1: Hired me for a Monday, which means they didn't think
- 6:02Speaker 1: I was a very good waiter. But I wanted to
- 6:04Speaker 1: be in that environment. I wanted to be around those ballers.
- 6:08Speaker 1: So I drove from Compton, California, to Malibu. I think
- 6:11Speaker 1: I started taking the bus initially, and I showed up
- 6:15Speaker 1: and showed out. I showed up early, stayed late, worked hard,
- 6:18Speaker 1: and when I saw Harvey Baskin and Geoffrey at Tienne,
- 6:21Speaker 1: his partner for whom the restaurant was named after, at
- 6:24Speaker 1: the bar, I went up and took the opportunity to
- 6:27Speaker 1: go talk to him, build a relationship, build a rapport.
- 6:31Speaker 1: I pressed them as more than a waiter. Started as
- 6:34Speaker 1: a busboy, actually more than a busboy, more than a waiter.
- 6:37Speaker 1: I was an average bus boy and an average waiter,
- 6:40Speaker 1: but I knew I was a great leader. I had
- 6:42Speaker 1: the potential to be one, and over time, sure enough
- 6:45Speaker 1: I build relationships, build rapport. It cost me money probably
- 6:48Speaker 1: to work there as a waiter and a bus boy.
- 6:50Speaker 1: I don't know. I wasn't paying attention to my short
- 6:52Speaker 1: term economic gain through a paycheck. Again, we obsessed about
- 6:56Speaker 1: the wrong thing. I'm gonna do a whole podcast on
- 6:58Speaker 1: this whole getting paid, getting his dollar, getting his money,
- 7:01Speaker 1: and you end up broke because you're not building wealth. Well,
- 7:03Speaker 1: you bill wealth in your name. The biggest asset you've
- 7:05Speaker 1: got is you, not what's on your ass not your clothes,
- 7:10Speaker 1: not your jewelry, not your whatever, it's you, the inside
- 7:14Speaker 1: of you. So anyway, I got up job working as
- 7:16Speaker 1: the assistant for Harvey Baskin for also was underpaid twenty
- 7:20Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a year or something like that. But
- 7:23Speaker 1: I got to work in his home in Malibu. Watch
- 7:25Speaker 1: how he moved, listened to his phone calls. I went
- 7:28Speaker 1: to I asked him to go to dinner with me
- 7:31Speaker 1: one day, and he said yes. It was like driving
- 7:35Speaker 1: mister Daisy because he was broke his leg or his ankle,
- 7:39Speaker 1: and so he was sitting in the back seat of
- 7:40Speaker 1: my Audi and he had his leg up the fronts.
- 7:43Speaker 1: The passenger front seat was pushed forward. He had his
- 7:46Speaker 1: leg up on the passenger front seat, sitting in the back.
- 7:50Speaker 1: I'm the driver, I'm sure like I was his chauffeur.
- 7:53Speaker 1: I could care less not went outs of my self
- 7:56Speaker 1: esteem and self worth. Its dependent upon your acceptance of me.
- 7:59Speaker 1: I was cool with it because he is the multi
- 8:02Speaker 1: millionaire back and now be a billionaire who was going
- 8:05Speaker 1: to give me knowledge and insight that no one else
- 8:07Speaker 1: could know what else could give me. So we went
- 8:08Speaker 1: to dinner. He found he made this very expensive restaurant reservation.
- 8:12Speaker 1: We went to dinner. We had dinner, great dinner in Venice, California.
- 8:16Speaker 1: The bill comes and it's one hundred dollars. Now. One
- 8:19Speaker 1: hundred dollars is not cheap now, but back then, and
- 8:22Speaker 1: this is going back thirty some years now, that was like,
- 8:27Speaker 1: I mean, call it one thousand dollars, right, And I
- 8:30Speaker 1: didn't want to pay it. I'm like, the bill came
- 8:32Speaker 1: to me, I slid it to Harvey. Harvey slid the
- 8:35Speaker 1: bill back to me. I slid back to Harvey. Harvey
- 8:39Speaker 1: slid the bill back to me. I slid it back
- 8:42Speaker 1: to Harvey. He said, hey, hey, hey, slow down. You
- 8:44Speaker 1: got to decide John, what you want. Do you want
- 8:47Speaker 1: to pick my brain or pick my pocket? One lasts longer. Now,
- 8:52Speaker 1: you were asked me to come to this dinner, and
- 8:53Speaker 1: you've been plying me with questions all night. I've get
- 8:56Speaker 1: basically given you free consulting. That's invaluable. I put you
- 8:59Speaker 1: in the driver's sept literally, and you can talk my
- 9:02Speaker 1: head off. And you want to punk me for one
- 9:05Speaker 1: hundred dollars bill, I'm willing to pay the bill. Nope.
- 9:07Speaker 1: I grabbed the bill, paid it, gave the guy twenty
- 9:09Speaker 1: percent tip, shut my mouth and said thank you, and
- 9:11Speaker 1: then plied in with questions all the way home, and
- 9:14Speaker 1: sure enough, Harvey put his arms around me, said this
- 9:16Speaker 1: was my guy introduced me to countless people, many relationships
- 9:19Speaker 1: I have to this day, and it was an invaluable experience.
- 9:23Speaker 1: When you show up at a corporate office as an intern,
- 9:25Speaker 1: who cares where they're paying you a fee? You're in
- 9:27Speaker 1: the light of sight, of power and wealth and opportunity.
- 9:31Speaker 1: People can see you, they can hear you, they can
- 9:33Speaker 1: watch you. I mean, folks are like, oh, I want
- 9:36Speaker 1: to work remotely, okay, great, cool, Well you won't get promoted.
- 9:40Speaker 1: You may not lose your job by the way. If
- 9:43Speaker 1: there are cutbacks, guess who they're gonna cut first, right.
- 9:47Speaker 1: We tend to be the last hire and the first
- 9:49Speaker 1: fired anyway, But they're gonna cut you first because there's
- 9:52Speaker 1: no connective tissue and you're not getting a promotion, not
- 9:55Speaker 1: a big one. But if I were you, I'd show
- 9:58Speaker 1: up in the office. I'd get right in my boss's face.
- 10:00Speaker 1: I would have walked from front to back, front, the back, front,
- 10:02Speaker 1: the back, front, the back, eight times a day in
- 10:05Speaker 1: front of my boss's office or my boss's boss's boss's office,
- 10:08Speaker 1: until the boss says, excuse me, come here, young man.
- 10:10Speaker 1: What's your name? I mean, what do you do here? Like?
- 10:13Speaker 1: And then like, are you busy? No, sir, not too busy.
- 10:16Speaker 1: I have a project. It's not very interesting. I'll take
- 10:18Speaker 1: it right. And that's how you get in the game.
- 10:21Speaker 1: So Taraji did this great film for Oprah Winfrey. I'd
- 10:24Speaker 1: be wearing that out. She wants Over once her going
- 10:27Speaker 1: on a tour and not pay her for it. I
- 10:29Speaker 1: don't care. I got that gives me more exposure. At
- 10:31Speaker 1: least Over is gonna pay for the expenses for me traveling. Now,
- 10:34Speaker 1: you give me a trip around the world, I'm want
- 10:36Speaker 1: to take a trip around the world on your dime.
- 10:38Speaker 1: I'm gonna make producers and TV shows on your dime.
- 10:41Speaker 1: I'm gonna get excused to talk to take my brand
- 10:43Speaker 1: globally on your dime. I'm gonna meet all kinds of
- 10:46Speaker 1: people and expand my territory on your dime. I'm gonna
- 10:49Speaker 1: build my brand on your dime. I'm going to impress people,
- 10:53Speaker 1: maybe future investors in my own projects on your dime.
- 10:56Speaker 1: I'm gonna make this project extremely successful on your dime
- 11:00Speaker 1: with your investment, and when it does extraordinarily well, I
- 11:03Speaker 1: may come back and say, this has exceeded everybody's expectations.
- 11:07Speaker 1: I know you don't owe me this, Oprah and Tyler.
- 11:09Speaker 1: You don't. You paid me what I asked for, what
- 11:11Speaker 1: I agreed to, and it's unfair for me to say
- 11:13Speaker 1: yes and then later say no and then drag you
- 11:15Speaker 1: in the media after the fact. But I didn't do
- 11:18Speaker 1: that in this example. I didn't do that, and I
- 11:20Speaker 1: will honor my contract. But I told you if I
- 11:22Speaker 1: hit a certain mark, I would come back and ask
- 11:25Speaker 1: you if you would mind considering profit sharing or points
- 11:28Speaker 1: in the back end or something. And maybe now we
- 11:31Speaker 1: can have that conversation, and if you've treated that relationship right,
- 11:34Speaker 1: I'd be surprised if they didn't say, yeah, let's let's
- 11:37Speaker 1: figure something out or not on this project, because maybe
- 11:39Speaker 1: you've already I've already paid out all proceeds to my investors,
- 11:42Speaker 1: and there's nothing left less unless I take it out
- 11:44Speaker 1: of my own pocket, she might say, and she might,
- 11:47Speaker 1: by the way, but tell you what you've done so
- 11:48Speaker 1: well on this let me let me bake you into
- 11:51Speaker 1: my next project and maybe make you an associate producer.
- 11:53Speaker 1: Now you're talking, But listen to this whole interview, because
- 11:58Speaker 1: he says it better than me. He's in the business.
- 12:01Speaker 1: Terry Crews says it right. He didn't work for a
- 12:04Speaker 1: small fee, not even a big paycheck. I mean, tryge
- 12:08Speaker 1: you talking about I can't pay my assistance and all
- 12:10Speaker 1: my bills on these paychecks, then go do something else.
- 12:13Speaker 1: You can't live on a million dollar paycheck. Maybe you
- 12:15Speaker 1: need to be speak to one of my financial coaches.
- 12:17Speaker 1: Now I'm not jamming her up. I'm trying to. Actually
- 12:19Speaker 1: I'm but you know, she made herself. She brought this
- 12:22Speaker 1: out in the public. I'm not going looking for this.
- 12:25Speaker 1: I'm not getting into somebody's business. I'm not trying to
- 12:27Speaker 1: embarrass her. I'm saying I think she's wrong. And I
- 12:30Speaker 1: waited a while for the hoopletter calmed down and everybody's
- 12:33Speaker 1: jump saying, yeah, yeah, yeah, Oprah should pay more, Tyler
- 12:36Speaker 1: should pay more? Why Hello? Why Eve? And if you
- 12:43Speaker 1: want to distribute money like a socialist, you've got to
- 12:46Speaker 1: first collect it like a capitalist. You guys have got
- 12:48Speaker 1: this backwards. You don't give it away on the front end,
- 12:50Speaker 1: you give it away on the back end. You can't
- 12:52Speaker 1: give away my money as an investor, a shareholder. You
- 12:54Speaker 1: can't give somebody my money. You can't pay somebody a
- 12:56Speaker 1: million dollars and a half million dollars more because they say
- 12:58Speaker 1: they don't have enough caveat for their dinner. You can't
- 13:02Speaker 1: do that on my dime. That's not your money, that's
- 13:04Speaker 1: my money. And every billionaire in the world built their
- 13:08Speaker 1: billions on the back of good debt. Please hear me.
- 13:11Speaker 1: They didn't do it on their own, and they're not
- 13:13Speaker 1: doing it on their own. Every billionaire, every multimillionaire, has
- 13:17Speaker 1: partners and investors, and there are agreements to that, and
- 13:20Speaker 1: you got to honor those agreements. And if you are
- 13:22Speaker 1: seeing somebody who throws away money, you're not getting another investor.
- 13:26Speaker 1: So she had no responsibility to overpay Taraji. She's said
- 13:30Speaker 1: just the opposite again, what can I pay this fair
- 13:33Speaker 1: and reasonable and bring this project in at budget or
- 13:36Speaker 1: below and deliver outsize results. That's the goal. And Taraji,
- 13:41Speaker 1: you should be honored to be in the project with
- 13:43Speaker 1: Oprah and Tyler. I would be all right, let me
- 13:45Speaker 1: know what you think. I'm sure you will, but I've
- 13:47Speaker 1: brought this is my opinion on this point. I'm not
- 13:49Speaker 1: really I'm curious what you have to say. See if
- 13:51Speaker 1: you've learned anything. But I'm telling you this is how
- 13:53Speaker 1: the game works. This is not an opinion poll. I'm
- 13:56Speaker 1: telling you this is the way capitalism works. And we
- 13:59Speaker 1: have got this can used. We com boozed and we
- 14:02Speaker 1: need to start getting a memo. And Terry Crews has
- 14:06Speaker 1: it right. Don't take business personally? All right, John O'Brien,
- 14:10Speaker 1: I'm out. This is money and wealth. Let's go yo,
- 14:24Speaker 1: yo is John Hope Bryant. This is money and wealth.
- 14:27Speaker 1: And this week's episode is pretty hot because I'm gonna
- 14:32Speaker 1: tell you something that is a cheat sheet on success.
- 14:36Speaker 1: More than that it's something that literally is a formula
- 14:39Speaker 1: that if you follow it, no one can mess with you. Yes,
- 14:43Speaker 1: I said it. People tell you all kinds of things
- 14:47Speaker 1: that are nebulous and sound great, but Ashley, in practice,
- 14:51Speaker 1: they have no clue whether it's gonna work, because it's
- 14:54Speaker 1: not worked in their life. They tell you something they
- 14:56Speaker 1: read in a book, they tell you something they saw somewhere.
- 14:59Speaker 1: They may be trying to sell you books and tapes.
- 15:02Speaker 1: I made my wealth in entrepreneurship, in capitalism, in business,
- 15:08Speaker 1: I've built businesses. I've built several of them. Three of
- 15:11Speaker 1: my businesses are the largest in their sector in the country.
- 15:14Speaker 1: That includes the largest nonprofit financial literacy coaching organization in America,
- 15:18Speaker 1: Operation Hope. Three hundred offices for hundred employees, four billion
- 15:23Speaker 1: dollars invested in underserved neighborhoods, raising credit scores, lowering debt,
- 15:26Speaker 1: increasing savings, the only non profit allowed to operates out
- 15:29Speaker 1: of a bank branch in the US history. I built
- 15:31Speaker 1: in sold a company called the Promise Homes Company, largest
- 15:35Speaker 1: minority owner of single family rental homes in America seven
- 15:38Speaker 1: hundred homes, give or take sold it. And I'm now
- 15:41Speaker 1: as part of a joint venture where I'm a principal
- 15:43Speaker 1: shareholder and still involved with it, and there are other
- 15:46Speaker 1: things that I'm doing. I'm just telling you I'm an operator,
- 15:50Speaker 1: I'm an entrepreneur, a businessman, and yes I faced discrimination
- 15:53Speaker 1: and bias and all those things over to rounded through it.
- 15:56Speaker 1: Let's get to it. You don't want to rearrange the
- 15:58Speaker 1: deck chairs on the Ti Tanic. The ship is sinking
- 16:01Speaker 1: and you're picking drapes. You don't want to be focused
- 16:04Speaker 1: on what's going on with the right, and really all
- 16:06Speaker 1: the action is here on the left. As Malcolm X
- 16:09Speaker 1: says said, We're been bamboozled, We've been tricked, We've been fooled.
- 16:13Speaker 1: I want you to now have enlightenment. I want you
- 16:16Speaker 1: to understand that I understand racism is real. It's like rain.
- 16:20Speaker 1: It's either fall in someplace or it's gathering. But you've
- 16:23Speaker 1: got to get out in that rain and an umbrella,
- 16:25Speaker 1: with an umbrella and the color you like, and start
- 16:27Speaker 1: strolling through the rain because it's not going to change.
- 16:30Speaker 1: So you must, and you can and you will. So
- 16:35Speaker 1: here as a formula that I guarantee you you follow this,
- 16:39Speaker 1: You're going to succeed. This is from my last book,
- 16:43Speaker 1: Up from Nothing, The Five Pillars of Success. I also
- 16:47Speaker 1: have a new book called Financial Literacy for All that
- 16:50Speaker 1: comes out April sixteenth. I want you to pre order
- 16:53Speaker 1: it and help me make it a national best seller,
- 16:56Speaker 1: maybe even a global bestseller. That book is is me
- 17:00Speaker 1: sitting with you at the kitchen table. But this is
- 17:03Speaker 1: a primer on success. It's my story and it's about
- 17:06Speaker 1: my failures, not my successes. This book Up from Nothing,
- 17:09Speaker 1: The Untold Story of how We All Succeed with a
- 17:12Speaker 1: Ford by Ambassador Andrew Young. Five Pillars of Success. So
- 17:15Speaker 1: here are the five pillars of success. You do this.
- 17:19Speaker 1: If you have less than three of these things, anything's
- 17:22Speaker 1: possible with God's grace. But less than three of these
- 17:25Speaker 1: things is really hard to succeed. You have four or
- 17:28Speaker 1: five of these things, I can guarantee you're gonna kill it. Now.
- 17:32Speaker 1: I want you to tell me after I walk through
- 17:34Speaker 1: it whether you think I'm correct. Here we go. Take
- 17:37Speaker 1: out your pen and paper, pencil, digital ink, iPad, iPhone,
- 17:43Speaker 1: whatever you use. Write this down. It's time to go
- 17:47Speaker 1: to school. This is a masterclass now on mindset and success.
- 17:52Speaker 1: No matter who's standing in your way, success is going
- 17:55Speaker 1: from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm over to
- 17:58Speaker 1: rounded through it. I want you to get to it.
- 18:01Speaker 1: Life is ten percent what life does to you and
- 18:04Speaker 1: ninety percent how you choose to respond to it. I
- 18:07Speaker 1: did a ninety minute masterclass for my friend Bishop TD
- 18:10Speaker 1: Jakes at his ILS summit in Dallas, and I told
- 18:14Speaker 1: the audience, who paid money and traveled to be there
- 18:18Speaker 1: investing in themselves, what I'm telling you now for free.
- 18:23Speaker 1: Here you go. I'm condensed ninety minutes into this podcast
- 18:28Speaker 1: where you can listen to it on the way to
- 18:30Speaker 1: work or on your way home, or gardening or cooking
- 18:33Speaker 1: or whatever, and literally write this down step by step
- 18:38Speaker 1: five pillars. You do three of these, you'll at least survive,
- 18:42Speaker 1: maybe thrive. You do four of these. Five of these,
- 18:45Speaker 1: you'll go from thriving to building. From survival to thriving
- 18:49Speaker 1: to building. You do five of these, I guarantee you
- 18:52Speaker 1: you'll be building. You're a builder winner. Here we go.
- 18:54Speaker 1: Pillar number one. As much education as you can shove
- 18:57Speaker 1: down your throat. Education is the ultimate poverty eradication tool.
- 19:02Speaker 1: When you know better, you do better. No one can
- 19:04Speaker 1: take it from you. Once you have it. Pillar number
- 19:08Speaker 1: two understanding the money, financial literacy. That's why I wrote
- 19:13Speaker 1: the book Financial Literacy for all this is just coming
- 19:15Speaker 1: out financial literacy, understanding capitalism, free enterprise economics, ownership and opportunity,
- 19:21Speaker 1: and those things are different, but they're tied together. We
- 19:24Speaker 1: live in a free enterprise democracy in America. There's never
- 19:28Speaker 1: been a global economy. There's never been a superpower. Listen
- 19:32Speaker 1: to me now that wasn't also an economic power. I'll
- 19:35Speaker 1: repeat that, There's never been a superpower in the world
- 19:37Speaker 1: that wasn't also an economic power. Think about Rome, think
- 19:42Speaker 1: about Italy, Think about France. These were all superpowers in
- 19:45Speaker 1: the world at one time. Think about Germany, all right.
- 19:49Speaker 1: Think about Argentina. Even Argentina at one time he had
- 19:52Speaker 1: the largest economy in the world. Think about Great Britain. Right,
- 19:57Speaker 1: these were the largest economies at that time in the world.
- 20:00Speaker 1: They were the sole superpower. America is now the sole
- 20:02Speaker 1: superpower in the world. And guess what, it has the
- 20:05Speaker 1: largest economy in the world. Well, what happened with those
- 20:07Speaker 1: formerly enslaved? In eighteen sixty five, Abraham Lincoln was inspired
- 20:13Speaker 1: by Frederick Douglass and others to create a Freedman's Bank
- 20:16Speaker 1: chartered to quote, teach free slaves about money. And then
- 20:19Speaker 1: Abrahamligan was assassinated the next month. It was forty acres
- 20:23Speaker 1: January eighteen sixty five, The Mule February eighteen sixty five. Savannah,
- 20:29Speaker 1: Georgia a Bank March third, eighteen sixty five. I'm I'm
- 20:34Speaker 1: the only American citizen. I'm told to inspire the government
- 20:36Speaker 1: to rename a building on the White House campus. It
- 20:38Speaker 1: was renamed the Freedmen's Bank Building in twenty sixteen, I believe,
- 20:43Speaker 1: and it stands as the Freeman's Bank Building today. And
- 20:46Speaker 1: then Abrahamlincoln was assassinated in April when he promised blacks
- 20:49Speaker 1: the right to vote. So we it's not like we're
- 20:51Speaker 1: dumb and we're stupid. We're brilliant. When the rules are
- 20:53Speaker 1: published in the playing fields level, we succeed. Think about
- 20:56Speaker 1: the arts now, think about professional sports, where the room
- 21:00Speaker 1: rules are published and the playing fielders level, we kill it.
- 21:03Speaker 1: We succeed. Think about public office, think about government service,
- 21:07Speaker 1: think about the church. We understand these rules, we've applied them.
- 21:10Speaker 1: We work hard, and we succeed. But no one ever
- 21:12Speaker 1: told you the lessons of free enterprise, capitalism, economics, ownership,
- 21:16Speaker 1: and opportunity. No one gave you a lesson in financial literacy,
- 21:19Speaker 1: and so you can't master that game. You're hustling at
- 21:22Speaker 1: it and you've got You're even confused about it because
- 21:25Speaker 1: you think that making money is building wealth and it's not.
- 21:28Speaker 1: That's another podcast episode for another day. Understand the Memo.
- 21:33Speaker 1: That's my third book. Get the Memo is what you
- 21:36Speaker 1: don't know that you don't know that's killing you. But
- 21:38Speaker 1: you think you know in a blind town, a one
- 21:41Speaker 1: eyed man's king. If you don't know better, you can't
- 21:45Speaker 1: do better. Please now listen to this as an old
- 21:48Speaker 1: Southern saying, no matter how much I love you, my
- 21:50Speaker 1: son or my daughter, if I don't have wisdom, I
- 21:54Speaker 1: can only give you my own ignorance. I'll repeat that.
- 21:57Speaker 1: Think about now, all the people who love you, who
- 21:59Speaker 1: say they love you you, who keep giving you bad
- 22:01Speaker 1: advice with good intentions, no matter how much I love you.
- 22:05Speaker 1: That's a rap there, that's a word. My rap friends
- 22:07Speaker 1: would say. That's a word. No matter how much I
- 22:10Speaker 1: love you, my son or my daughter, if I don't
- 22:12Speaker 1: have wisdom, I can only give you my own ignorance.
- 22:15Speaker 1: I can only give you what I've got. So out
- 22:18Speaker 1: of love. We passed down bad habits from generation to generation.
- 22:21Speaker 1: The third pillar, family structure and resiliency. Family structure and resiliency,
- 22:29Speaker 1: what it got broken up during enslavement? Family structure. We
- 22:34Speaker 1: don't have time to go into this. I may do
- 22:37Speaker 1: a separate podcast episode just on breaking down the business
- 22:40Speaker 1: plan of slavery. It was a business plan. It wasn't emotional,
- 22:43Speaker 1: it wasn't personal, It was business. But they broke up
- 22:47Speaker 1: the family as a short lesson here because they couldn't
- 22:50Speaker 1: afford for the big burly guy from Africa to fight
- 22:53Speaker 1: for his family. They couldn't afford for the mother to
- 22:57Speaker 1: fight for her children, so they sold them off and directions,
- 23:00Speaker 1: so you were a hopeless family structure and resiliency. Okay,
- 23:06Speaker 1: And just so you know this is not racial. And
- 23:07Speaker 1: come back to this. There are three groups that are
- 23:09Speaker 1: left behind by this system that succeeded, and I'm going
- 23:12Speaker 1: to name those groups. Is going to surprise you which
- 23:16Speaker 1: three groups I name? And it's more than just black people.
- 23:20Speaker 1: Fourth pillar self esteem and confidence. And yes, those two
- 23:24Speaker 1: things are different. Self esteem and confidence. You can have
- 23:29Speaker 1: high self esteem and low confidence. You can have high
- 23:32Speaker 1: confidence in low self esteem whatever you generalize, you discriminate,
- 23:36Speaker 1: but generalizations sometimes strike a nerve. I'm about to strike
- 23:39Speaker 1: one for you. There are exceptions to this rule. But
- 23:42Speaker 1: here's a rule. I've been to one hundred countries. I
- 23:44Speaker 1: can say this with confidence. If you're black and you're
- 23:47Speaker 1: from the Caribbean, or you're black and you're from Africa,
- 23:51Speaker 1: and you've seen intact families, you've seen a doctor or
- 23:54Speaker 1: a lawyer who's black, and the mayor was black and
- 23:56Speaker 1: the premier was black or whatever, the people around you
- 23:59Speaker 1: look like you. You probably have as a result of that,
- 24:01Speaker 1: high self esteem. You esteem your self, You love yourself,
- 24:05Speaker 1: You respect yourself, You admire your family and yourself. You
- 24:10Speaker 1: know you're good with you, but you may have low
- 24:12Speaker 1: levels of confidence even though you may be competent. You
- 24:16Speaker 1: train in school, you got an education, but you never
- 24:19Speaker 1: been had that put to test, that skilled, to test
- 24:21Speaker 1: in what I call a leading market economy. So you
- 24:25Speaker 1: don't really know if that thing you've got is gonna work.
- 24:28Speaker 1: And the people around you, maybe the former colonialists who
- 24:32Speaker 1: are now in that area, are telling you you can't
- 24:34Speaker 1: do it, so they got you in these low level jobs. Maybe,
- 24:37Speaker 1: so you have high self esteem, you got low confidence.
- 24:40Speaker 1: But if you're in America, you're in the biggest economy
- 24:42Speaker 1: in the world. So African Americans here have been tested
- 24:45Speaker 1: in the largest economy in the world and gone from
- 24:47Speaker 1: nothing like myself to something, from owning nothing to being
- 24:51Speaker 1: multi millionaires in some cases billionaires. So we have high confidence.
- 24:55Speaker 1: But because of our experience in this country, we may
- 24:58Speaker 1: have low self esteem. I think that seventy percent of
- 25:01Speaker 1: African Americans before the pandemic were clinically undiagnosed depressed. Now
- 25:06Speaker 1: the podcast for another time. But I'm touching some nerves
- 25:10Speaker 1: because you were told you were nobody for three hundred years.
- 25:14Speaker 1: And so if I don't like me, I'm not gonna
- 25:16Speaker 1: like you. If I don't feel good about me, I'm
- 25:18Speaker 1: not gonna feel good about you. If I don't love me,
- 25:20Speaker 1: I'm not gonna love you. If I don't respect me,
- 25:22Speaker 1: I'm not gonna respect you. If I don't have a
- 25:24Speaker 1: purpose in my life, I will make your life a
- 25:27Speaker 1: living hell. Whatever goes around hello comes around. I can
- 25:30Speaker 1: only treat you what I know. And hurt people hurt people,
- 25:35Speaker 1: and we've been hurt, but we can heal. So we
- 25:38Speaker 1: tend to have high confidence we've killed it in the
- 25:41Speaker 1: market economy. That confidence has leaned in and created confidence
- 25:46Speaker 1: because we succeeded in the market economy, but we still
- 25:48Speaker 1: may have low self esteem, which equates for a lot
- 25:51Speaker 1: of things like crab and the barrel mentality. Okay, so
- 25:55Speaker 1: I've dealt with number four, the fourth pillar, the fifth pillar,
- 26:00Speaker 1: role models and environment. You heard me say this, I'll
- 26:03Speaker 1: say it again here. If you hang around nine broke people,
- 26:06Speaker 1: you'll be the tenth Hello. And the opposite is also true.
- 26:11Speaker 1: Why do people go to Harvard? Because Harvard is ten
- 26:15Speaker 1: times better than the state university in Boston or some
- 26:18Speaker 1: other universities in Boston where it's located. It's a great university.
- 26:21Speaker 1: I've got a certificate degree from Harvard. I'm proud to
- 26:24Speaker 1: be associated. I love going to speak at Harvard and
- 26:27Speaker 1: hang out. And when I see somebody with a degree
- 26:29Speaker 1: from Harvard, I know that they are from a top
- 26:32Speaker 1: tier university. If it's not that it's the best in
- 26:35Speaker 1: the world, why do people go to Harvard and pay
- 26:38Speaker 1: much more? Because the class of twenty twenty four in
- 26:41Speaker 1: Harvard is going to hook each other up for the
- 26:43Speaker 1: next forty years. It's a club of success. Why do
- 26:47Speaker 1: you join a country club, Why do you join a
- 26:51Speaker 1: sorority or fraternity? Why do you join a private dinner
- 26:55Speaker 1: club or a private club of any sort. You're trying
- 26:59Speaker 1: to associate with other people who share your aspirations in
- 27:04Speaker 1: your success. You're mixing with people who have the same
- 27:07Speaker 1: mindset and mentality, and so success tends to hang around
- 27:11Speaker 1: success and it feeds on that, And povery tends to
- 27:13Speaker 1: hang around povery, and it feeds on that. I'm going
- 27:16Speaker 1: to do a separate podcast on how the streets want
- 27:19Speaker 1: to eat you. I mean that literally, but where I
- 27:21Speaker 1: grew up. If you got consumed by what was going
- 27:26Speaker 1: on in my neighborhood in competence South Central, with the
- 27:28Speaker 1: best of intentions, you just got consumed with things that
- 27:31Speaker 1: would consume you. And doctor King once said that I
- 27:35Speaker 1: refuse to finance my own oppression, right. But sometimes you're
- 27:39Speaker 1: in a toxic field environment and it looks normal. So
- 27:43Speaker 1: why our kids in underserved neighborhoods want to be rap stars,
- 27:46Speaker 1: athletes and drug dealers. They are dumb and they're not stupid.
- 27:50Speaker 1: You can't be as a business plan for a whole
- 27:53Speaker 1: race rap stars. You can't. You can't scale my brother
- 27:56Speaker 1: Killer Mink. You can't scale my brother Ti. You can't
- 27:59Speaker 1: scale these incredible artists, Jay Z and others. You can't.
- 28:02Speaker 1: They're not their personalities. They're unique in any of themselves.
- 28:06Speaker 1: Women and men. You can't scale. The female basketball players
- 28:10Speaker 1: are not killing it. You can't scale the Lebrons and
- 28:13Speaker 1: Tiger Woods and the Lewis Hamilton's. There is personalities, and
- 28:18Speaker 1: even when they succeed, they only have a few employees
- 28:21Speaker 1: in their group. We need to employ hundreds and thousands
- 28:24Speaker 1: and tens of thousands of people and build wealth across
- 28:27Speaker 1: the spectrum of our society. But we want to be
- 28:29Speaker 1: what we see. We see successful rappers, successful professional athletes,
- 28:35Speaker 1: and unfortunately my neighborhood I grew up, you see drug dealers.
- 28:38Speaker 1: We want to be raps to ours, athletes and drug
- 28:39Speaker 1: leaders because we model what we see. And by the way,
- 28:42Speaker 1: drug dealers are not dumb and they're not stupid. They
- 28:44Speaker 1: have a horrible business plan, it's a moral it's unethical,
- 28:48Speaker 1: but they're not dumb. They understand import, exports, finance, marketing, wholesale, retail,
- 28:54Speaker 1: customer service, curatory security, territory logistics, etc. They just need
- 29:00Speaker 1: to be reset the right soil again, another podcast, another time.
- 29:05Speaker 1: I've thought about five podcasts episodes out of this one.
- 29:09Speaker 1: But your role modeling and your environment matters. You want
- 29:12Speaker 1: to be in able to remove yourself from toxicity and
- 29:15Speaker 1: toxic environments. And if you hang around broke people, you
- 29:18Speaker 1: tend to be one. You hang around successful people, you
- 29:20Speaker 1: tend to become one. It's not because you're a genius,
- 29:22Speaker 1: but it's relationship capital. That what you get your first job,
- 29:26Speaker 1: if you were in a career, not just in a job,
- 29:28Speaker 1: in a career, somebody probably put their arm around you say, look,
- 29:31Speaker 1: you know you're a bit a good intern. You know,
- 29:33Speaker 1: I know you are some of my friend told me
- 29:35Speaker 1: about you where I met you. I think you could
- 29:37Speaker 1: do this job. Would you like this job? Let me
- 29:38Speaker 1: make an email introduction, Let me make a phone call
- 29:40Speaker 1: for you. Go talk to this person that person. Think
- 29:43Speaker 1: about it. If you're in a career that's high five
- 29:45Speaker 1: figures or six figures, where did you get that hook up?
- 29:48Speaker 1: Did you get it spelling out an application or did
- 29:50Speaker 1: somebody tap you in the shoulder and say you can
- 29:53Speaker 1: do this and introduce you relationship capital? So here are
- 29:57Speaker 1: the five pillars of success. I'm wrapping this up. Now,
- 30:00Speaker 1: If you have three of these you may make it.
- 30:02Speaker 1: If you don't have three of these things, it's hard
- 30:04Speaker 1: to make it. Again. It's much education. You can shove
- 30:07Speaker 1: down your throat understanding the memo on money, financial literacy,
- 30:11Speaker 1: family structure and resiliency, self esteem and confidence, role models
- 30:15Speaker 1: and environment. Three mindsets, surviving mindset, thriving mindset, winning mindset,
- 30:20Speaker 1: Winners of builders. That's another podcast, right, just keeping us
- 30:24Speaker 1: very focused. What three groups were denied three of these things?
- 30:28Speaker 1: Certainly more than three of these things? What three groups?
- 30:32Speaker 1: Just so you understand, this race is a problem, but
- 30:35Speaker 1: it's not the only problem in today, it's not even
- 30:37Speaker 1: the primary problem. Keeping from where you want to go.
- 30:40Speaker 1: Poor whites, and more poor whites in American than portybody else,
- 30:42Speaker 1: were denied these three things when they came to this country.
- 30:45Speaker 1: They still don't have more than three of these things.
- 30:47Speaker 1: By the way, picking any three that's how you know
- 30:49Speaker 1: something works. Pick any three of these five. Native American
- 30:52Speaker 1: Indians the largest group who suffer from alcoholism in this country.
- 30:56Speaker 1: Native American Indian and Native American reservations. Number one group
- 30:59Speaker 1: draw dyingpping dead in this country. Poor white men, high
- 31:02Speaker 1: school educated, dropping dead, and we call it drug abuse,
- 31:05Speaker 1: but it's really depression, lost hope. And then you have
- 31:09Speaker 1: African Americans, right, And there are no Ghanaian ghettos in America.
- 31:12Speaker 1: There are Ghanaan communities in America. There's no Jamaican ghettos
- 31:15Speaker 1: in America. There are no South African ghettos in America.
- 31:19Speaker 1: There are South African communities, there are Jamaican communities, Bheman communities.
- 31:22Speaker 1: There's only African American ghettos in America. Because our self
- 31:26Speaker 1: esteem was robbed from us again, another video for another time,
- 31:29Speaker 1: another podcast for another time. So it's not our fault,
- 31:32Speaker 1: is our responsibility to pick ourselves up. Here's the good news.
- 31:36Speaker 1: I just neutralized the race thing. I'm gonna do with
- 31:38Speaker 1: this as a separate issue. This whole racing is a
- 31:40Speaker 1: made up problem, yes I said it. The word white,
- 31:43Speaker 1: racial word white is a made up word, yes I
- 31:46Speaker 1: said it. And that I will have to deal with
- 31:47Speaker 1: that separately and unpack it for you. The world is
- 31:51Speaker 1: five billion years old, the organism life four billion years old.
- 31:54Speaker 1: Neanderthals a couple hundred million years old, Modern mankind, womankind
- 31:59Speaker 1: a couple hundred one thousand years old. Right, But the
- 32:02Speaker 1: word racial, word white was made up in the sixteen
- 32:05Speaker 1: hundreds in North America for a political purpose. So we'd
- 32:10Speaker 1: fight with each other, poor whites and poor blacks. We
- 32:14Speaker 1: were once friends, yes, blacks and whites and both in
- 32:18Speaker 1: dentury servants in sixteen hundreds. And unfortunately we got along,
- 32:21Speaker 1: and some people didn't like that we were getting along. Malcolm, Xay,
- 32:25Speaker 1: we've been bambooza, we've been tricked, we've been food. So
- 32:29Speaker 1: look at this. These three groups out of two hundred
- 32:31Speaker 1: ethnic groups, and these three groups did not follow these
- 32:33Speaker 1: five pillars. Pick any three or four of these, right,
- 32:37Speaker 1: pick let's just say three. That's a minimum. You need education,
- 32:42Speaker 1: financial literacy, and family structure and resiliency. Can you succeed?
- 32:47Speaker 1: Role model's an environment? Self esteem and confidence? Financial literacy,
- 32:51Speaker 1: can you succeed? I love this, It's so easy. Self
- 32:56Speaker 1: esteem and confidence, family structure and resiliency, the memo and money,
- 33:00Speaker 1: financial literacy. Can you succeed as much? Education and shut
- 33:03Speaker 1: down your throat? Self esteem and confidence? Role models an environment?
- 33:07Speaker 1: Can you succeed? See you're starting to get it. It
- 33:09Speaker 1: doesn't matter who's standing in your way now, it doesn't
- 33:11Speaker 1: matter what's going on with you? And if you have
- 33:13Speaker 1: four of these things out of the five, my god,
- 33:15Speaker 1: you'll kill it. Now you've a formula for success. Do that,
- 33:17Speaker 1: plus get your credit card to seven hundred hello, which
- 33:20Speaker 1: is part of memo number two, and bastiaror Andrew Young says,
- 33:23Speaker 1: it is entirely possible. The financial literacy. It's not only
- 33:26Speaker 1: the civil rights issue of this day. It's it's important.
- 33:28Speaker 1: It's the right to vote and a seven or the
- 33:30Speaker 1: credit score. It may be as important as a college
- 33:33Speaker 1: degree once you get it into the market economy of
- 33:35Speaker 1: we Okay, let's go by the way. I'm not telling
- 33:38Speaker 1: you how to get a college degree, so don't put
- 33:41Speaker 1: words in my mouth. I think it's important to have
- 33:43Speaker 1: a higher education. I just said it. It's number one pillar. Okay.
- 33:47Speaker 1: I hope you like this. This is John O'Brien. This
- 33:49Speaker 1: is money and wealth. It gave you the Five Pillars
- 33:52Speaker 1: micro version. You want to hear the full ninety minute
- 33:55Speaker 1: masterclass where I've laid it out and unpacked it, just
- 33:58Speaker 1: go to Tdjkes's site for the ILS Summit for twenty
- 34:02Speaker 1: twenty four and find the session I did once they
- 34:05Speaker 1: release it, and sit down with a cup of coffee,
- 34:07Speaker 1: cup of tea and take copious notes for now. This
- 34:11Speaker 1: is the micro class on taking back your Life and
- 34:14Speaker 1: go to Operation Hope today and get your free scholarship
- 34:18Speaker 1: financial coaching. It's worth between twenty five hundred and ten
- 34:21Speaker 1: thousand dollars per coaching. Engagement, love and Light. Let's go
- 34:25Speaker 1: change your life. This is a silver rights movement. Hea
- 34:38Speaker 1: John O'Brien, Money and Wealth. Okay, here's time for a
- 34:42Speaker 1: fan question. Don Neat dawn Ieedt on Instagram at don
- 34:52Speaker 1: Neat would you get a cash out reflance at a
- 34:56Speaker 1: higher rate to pay down debt? The answer is it
- 34:59Speaker 1: depends if you're paying off credit card debt and department
- 35:04Speaker 1: store debt that's twenty six percent anything with a two
- 35:09Speaker 1: in front of it, The answer is absolutely yes. It
- 35:14Speaker 1: fits in the teams the credit card debt, the answer
- 35:18Speaker 1: is probably yes. Uh. You want to make sure you've
- 35:21Speaker 1: got decent credit so that when you go to refinance
- 35:24Speaker 1: your home you're getting a decent rate. So you want
- 35:27Speaker 1: to get a rate on the refinance. Preferably it's an
- 35:30Speaker 1: equity line of credit. If you're going to refinance the
- 35:34Speaker 1: first trusting mortgage, we want a new first trusting mortgage.
- 35:37Speaker 1: If you have a two or three percent, if you've
- 35:38Speaker 1: got a first trusting mortgage in the last four years,
- 35:42Speaker 1: do not refinance that first trusted mortgage because one, two,
- 35:45Speaker 1: three percent, four percent, five percent interest rates are not
- 35:49Speaker 1: coming around anytime soon. That was an aberration. Hold on
- 35:54Speaker 1: to that fix rate. You want to fix rate by
- 35:56Speaker 1: the way, first trusting mortgage on your home. Then behind
- 36:00Speaker 1: that you can do a home equity line. That home
- 36:02Speaker 1: equity line is gonna have a higher return, higher rate,
- 36:05Speaker 1: but you know it should be below ten percent, so
- 36:09Speaker 1: eight percent, nine percent home equity line that you're going
- 36:12Speaker 1: to use expansively to consolidate and pay off debt for
- 36:17Speaker 1: things like home improvements. It's just sort of a security
- 36:20Speaker 1: blanket that you can pull on when you need it.
- 36:22Speaker 1: You can pay it down by the way, the right
- 36:24Speaker 1: home equity line, and you want that to be a
- 36:26Speaker 1: fixed rate also in that situation, Yes, it does make
- 36:29Speaker 1: a lot of sense in my opinion to get a
- 36:31Speaker 1: home equity line behind your first trustee mortgage sub ten
- 36:35Speaker 1: percent interest rate to payoff debt, credit card debt, regular
- 36:40Speaker 1: credit cards, Visa, MasterCard, etc. Et cetera, AMEX, discover et cetera.
- 36:45Speaker 1: Or department store credit card debt that it's in the
- 36:47Speaker 1: mid to high teens. Certainly anything with a two in
- 36:51Speaker 1: front of it, twenty percent, twenty five percent. Most of
- 36:53Speaker 1: these department credit cards are going to be in a
- 36:55Speaker 1: twenty percent range. You be shocked when you actually look
- 36:58Speaker 1: at the statement. You got twenty five interests, twenty eight
- 37:02Speaker 1: percent interest shiny, beautiful, looks really cool, got a nice
- 37:08Speaker 1: sexy name on a department store credit card. They just
- 37:12Speaker 1: it's just robbing you in broad daylight. But you can't
- 37:15Speaker 1: call it robbery because you agreed to it, right and
- 37:17Speaker 1: you enjoyed shopping. I guess I've been there, By the way,
- 37:21Speaker 1: I'm not blaming you. I've been I've done the same thing.
- 37:23Speaker 1: So it's a good question. Hopefully I gave you a cogent,
- 37:26Speaker 1: clear answer. But go to a whole financial coach at
- 37:29Speaker 1: operation hope. Let them pull your credit and hopefully your
- 37:32Speaker 1: credit report does not look like this toe up from
- 37:34Speaker 1: the flow up like mine used to. Hopefully you've got
- 37:38Speaker 1: credit that's in the mid six hundreds to high six hundreds.
- 37:42Speaker 1: Oh my god, if you're in the seven hundred, you
- 37:44Speaker 1: are living large and you should be able to get
- 37:47Speaker 1: a very good rate on that home equity line of credit,
- 37:51Speaker 1: so you can consolidate. If you can take ten credit
- 37:54Speaker 1: cards or five credit cards, credit obligations to have to
- 37:58Speaker 1: be just a credit card, just to be a credit obligation,
- 38:01Speaker 1: a term long whatever. Put those all together, pay them
- 38:04Speaker 1: all off. It will look greater in your credit by
- 38:06Speaker 1: the way. To pay them all off, roll them into
- 38:09Speaker 1: one loan at a fixed rate, right that is, actually
- 38:14Speaker 1: at a good rate and good terms. Your payments will
- 38:18Speaker 1: go down, all things being equal, Your credit score should
- 38:23Speaker 1: go up, your debt service, your cost of borrowing should
- 38:26Speaker 1: go down, and it should destress you. But again, talk
- 38:29Speaker 1: to one of my Hope financial coaches at Operation Hope.
- 38:31Speaker 1: Go to Hope dot Operation dot orger download the Hope
- 38:34Speaker 1: and handah app Our scholarshiped you into financial coaching and counseling,
- 38:39Speaker 1: so it won't cost you anything and they'll give you
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