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He Made It Home, His Wife Didn't and Now He's Under Arrest · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  Y'all, this narcissistic man claims he was devastated when
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  his wife fell off their dinghy, their little boat in the Bahamas
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  and she disappeared from from him, from his sight.
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  He couldn't he could no longer see her and she took the boat
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  keys. So he he had to paddle all the
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  way back to shore to try to get help.
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  This case right here out of the Bahamas is crazy.
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  It's crazy, but it just follows a pattern of alleged intimate
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  partner femicide, right where husbands take the lives of their
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  wife. Now, all of this is alleged.
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  He just got arrested and whatnot.
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  So nothing is final. But it says husband arrested
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  over disappearance of Missy Mama Lynette Hooker in the Bahamas
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  after she fell overboard. Now, of course, in situations
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  like this, this is not the first time that there's been incidents
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  like similar to this, like violence or abuse in this
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  relationship. According to her own daughter,
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  her own daughter said that she had heard about things happening
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  previously, heard about some problems going on in a
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  relationship, but never to this extent.
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  So this man her the husband claims that they were on a boat
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  going to the Bahamas between the islands whatever and she just a
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  current ripped her away from him and he could no longer find her.
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  Now this is supposed to be them on the boat right here and this
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  is all via People magazine right here y'all so y'all can get a
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  good look at this. I thought y'all was switching
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  the content of doing toxic relationship and stuff like
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  this. Her husband has been taken into
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  custody. The Hope the The couple left
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  Hope Town in the Bahamas on Saturday night in a small dinghy
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  to make their way to Elbow K, Brian told authorities.
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  Lynette's daughter, I said earlier, told People magazine
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  there have been prior issues brought to her attention, which
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  may be important for any thorough investigation.
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  So she's not believing that her mom just went, her mom just
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  vanished, right? She's not buying that story.
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  That doesn't make sense to her in this situation right here,
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  right? And there's a lot of people that
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  tell me there's, they asked me the question like leave.
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  Why don't people just leave? Why don't they just why don't
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  they just divorce their wives or husbands without just taking
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  their lives because they think you belong to them.
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  There's ownership. There's an ownership dynamic
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  right there. And most times there's money
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  involved. So of course this type of stuff
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  comes out later on in investigations and things like
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  that. But they want all the money.
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  They don't want to pay for a divorce.
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  They don't want to go through child custody situations and
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  things like this. Now their kids are grown,
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  allegedly right, apparently, but it's just saying that like they
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  don't want to pay. Why did he take the life of his
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  wife when he could have just left?
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  He already had a new relationship.
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  He had a new everything else set up because they don't want to
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  pay. They don't want to just let you
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  free. You see this stuff, though, this
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  type of story happens all the time and I was it boggles me and
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  this what lately do you think he's a narcissist?
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  He's narcissist to get minimum because you got to know that
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  you're going to be the main suspect in your wife's
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  disappearance. And yeah, could he just thrown
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  her overboard and paddled to third?
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  He he claimed that she fell overboard with the keys, right.
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  Could he have thrown her overboard and just left her and
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  had the boat and had the keys and just threw the keys away
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  eventually, yeah, he could have beat her over the head.
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  He could have stabbed or something like that.
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  They they probably like she disappeared in the middle of the
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  ocean. Yeah, in the middle of his
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  alders water. They might not ever find the
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  body. So he might get off.
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  Now, of course, the man Butler says he maintained a Brian
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  maintains his innocence and rejects the assertions that that
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  her daughter from a previous marriage, previous relationship
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  says he's like, it's crazy to even think about that she
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  accidentally went overboard. Mr. Hooker categorically and
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  unequivocally denies any wrongdoing, in particular
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  allegations made by his wife's daughter.
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  He has been cooperating with the relevant authorities as part of
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  an ongoing investigation. It's crazy because the daughter,
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  I said earlier said they had a volatile relationship.
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  Butler says that there has been no bearing on Lynette's
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  disappearance. Right, Because you don't have no
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  body or nothing like that. The middle of the ocean is, he
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  said, she said, which narcissistic people love.
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  They love this type of stuff, right there, right?
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  Narcissistic people like this thrive on, he said, she said,
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  dynamics, right? They thrive on it.
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  They absolutely thrive on it because it's my word versus your
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  word. And what better situation to
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  have right here with nobody. It's just me and you, me and my
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  wife out there in the middle of the ocean and she vanishes.
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  Who you going to believe? What evidence do you have that I
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  had something or anything to do with it?
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  Right? What evidence do you have?
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  Unless the body has popped up and they found the body and
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  what? Unless there's some type of
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  footage out there, it's very difficult to get to any type of
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  footage, right? He said, he said a strong
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  current ripped the tipped the boat over, but somehow he made
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  it back. He didn't get knocked overboard,
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  right? There's no life jacket.
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  There's no life vest or anything, right?
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  Right. And you see right here, Lynette
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  reportedly fell overboard with the boat keys, leaving Brian,
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  58, to paddle back to shore to alert authorities on Sunday,
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  April 5th. Right?
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  So she's been gone for three days.
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  Strong currents carried Lynette away and Brian lost sight of
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  her. He didn't paddle towards her.
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  You know what is that, right? He paddled to go get help, but
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  he didn't paddle towards this situation right here, right?
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  But then you see the article right here above my head.
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  It says missing mom's daughter says stepdad called her and said
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  he tried to save his wife when she fell overboard.
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  Huh. Huh.
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  None of you have a massive search going on with her using
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  professional divers and drone technology to try and find her
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  and she's probably gone. Let's be realistic.
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  Like he probably dumped her somewhere where they won't find
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  her, right in the middle of the ocean where nobody will find
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  her. Anything like that.
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  That's perfect situation for him.
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  Her daughter ended and said if this is truly an accident I can
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  understand it and live with it. However, there needs to be an
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  extensive interview of the facts.
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  So clearly the daughter doesn't believe that, right?
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  The daughter doesn't believe that her stepdad is completely
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  innocent and what not because she said that, hey, there were
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  prior issues in a relationship that they need to be looked into
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  in this situation, right? Hey, look into my stepdad.
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  Look at the stuff that he's been doing.
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  Look at, look at the stuff that he's been saying.
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  Like he there's been prior issues in relationship of some
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  type of abuse, like disturbances in there's been at least a
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  disturbance in the force, right? There's been at least a
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  disturbance in the force a little.
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  Some type of disturbance with a wife would be saying that.
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  But guess what? Just like narcissistic people,
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  they tricked his ass into talking to them for three hours
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  without an attorney, which is probably how it led to the
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  arrest, right? Probably.
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  Story probably wasn't imagining. He thinks he's smarter than
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  everybody. He thinks he can get away with
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  it, right? If he did it allegedly right?
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  So they tricked his ass into talking to them.
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  Like narcissistic people tend to be easy to manipulate.
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  All you do is stroke their ego. You stroke their ego, they
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  they'll give you what they want, right?
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  You see this article from the New York Post.
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  But how much police may have tricked Lynette Hooker's husband
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  into talking to them for three hours before his arrest.
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  So he must have said something in that interview where his
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  story just didn't match up, right?
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  They said they may have tricked him into talking to them for
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  three hours before arresting him in connection with her
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  disappearance. So his story must not have
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  matched matched up. It must not have.
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  They probably called him in there and that's what it says.
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  The police originally told Hooker he was not a suspect and
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  they needed some assistance in his wife's case.
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  So he had an attorney. But he's he had so much Huber
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  and this is him right here. He had a look at this boy.
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  It wouldn't shock me right there if he come up with something,
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  right? It wouldn't shock me if
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  something popped up about this man or if he had something to do
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  with her disappearance, so to speak, right?
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  That wouldn't shock me at all. Would it shock y'all?
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  Damn Sure it wouldn't shock me because that's not how it works.
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  Like people like this. So he has an attorney.
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  But again, the police said we're going to bring him in here, ask
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  him a ton of questions and make sure his story matches up every
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  time. But without a body, without
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  evidence, it's going to be hard to convict somebody like this,
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  right? He's not going to take a plea
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  deal, right? And of course, he took it to
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  Facebook. I'll see right here.
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  He, he previously denied any wrongdoing in his wife's
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  appearance disappearance and said he was devastated in a
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  statement on Facebook. Lynette Hooker's daughter raised
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  she raised an alarm. She's like hookah's behavior
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  early in the week calling for an investigation so early in the
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  week he has something going on. This is them together right here
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  early in the week he has something going on.
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  They had to have a picturesque relationship online, right
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  Because sometimes the pictures online trick you know people who
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  see there will be people who see this picture right here online
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  and just like, Oh my goodness, the way he smiles goals couple
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  goals, right. But as my followers know, my my
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  fateful few have been following me for the last six years, know
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  that Facebook be lying, Instagram be lying.
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  People put their happy moments online, but not the sad stuff
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  until they're until they've had enough, right?
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  Or maybe never. Because they don't want they,
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  they want people they post online for the, the validation
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  from people that they get from social media stuff like this,
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  right? Because that's what his goal is.
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  Am I correct? I'll see people posting online
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  all the time about the the way he looks at her, the way he
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  lives. I wish somebody would look at me
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  like this. And the whole time he beating
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  the ass behind the scenes, like y'all worry about how somebody
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  looks at somebody online. It's just like the bar.
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  The bar really is in hell. And I'm thinking that this is
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  the dengue right here, y'all this looks like the dengue.
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  So they try to go between islands on this probably this
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  little boat right here and why wouldn't you have a life jacket
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  on it look like they look like there's some life jackets in the
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  middle right there, right. So a current knocked her off and
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  she didn't have her life jacket on right on Wednesday was real
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  that Brian allegedly didn't tell Ellsworth about her mother
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  disappearing for almost 24 hours.
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  So he didn't tell the daughter for the whole day that her mom
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  was missing. I know people would say, well,
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  maybe like maybe they just he just didn't want to break the
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  bad news until unless they found her first.
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  Oh, wow. Listen, it's right here.
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  Look, this is big time. Brian had previously assaulted
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  his wife and threatened to throw her overboard, Ellsworth alleged
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  in a separate interview with Fox News.
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  There's history of him choking her out and threatening to throw
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  her overboard. So the fact that this is
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  actually happening makes me believe that there's more to the
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  story. Wow.
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  Wow, That's wild right there, ain't it?
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  The number one sign that somebody will, I'm going to just
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  say it. The number one sign that
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  somebody will take your life in a relationship is strangulation.
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  If they strangle you, they will take your life.
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  If they, I'm going to say it again, if they strangle you,
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  they will end your life. I think people, so many people
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  understand how domestic violence works and the mind works in
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  situations like this. But hear me clearly, if they
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  strangle you, they will take your life.
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  Now, I'm going to keep doing some research on these stories
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  right here as they come through Y'all.
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  to see me dive deep into the psychology of narcissistic
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  Y'all think I was thinking of tuning in and peace?