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- 0:00In the history of the country, there's less than 12,000 people
- 0:02who have ever served in the United States House of
- 0:04Representatives. I get attacked constantly, every
- 0:07day, all day, from all sides because of the way that I choose
- 0:11to legislate. And on the Democratic side, that
- 0:13he's not a real moderate. He's he's not really bipartisan.
- 0:17He's MAGA. None of your business, Oshi.
- 0:21None of Your Business, Michael. It's the None of Your Business
- 0:24podcast hosted by Michael Anoshi.
- 0:26Welcome back everybody to another amazing episode of the
- 0:29None of Your Business podcast. I'm your host, Michael
- 0:31Greenfield. Joined with me is our Co host,
- 0:33Oshi Schwartz. We are sponsored by Twillery and
- 0:37produced by the Prime Source production team.
- 0:39And today is a very, very special day because we are here
- 0:42with none other than the 17th District leader, Congressman
- 0:46Mike Lohler. Welcome to the program.
- 0:47Thanks for having me. You know, I always said to my
- 0:49friends, 17 is my favorite number in roulette.
- 0:52And I never really knew what the difference is between different
- 0:54districts, you know, 1718. But when I learned what it was,
- 0:57I was like, wow, I'm living in a lucky town.
- 0:59And we're lucky to have you as one of our leaders of this
- 1:02beautiful, beautiful town as Rockland County.
- 1:04And I know that you're responsible for so many
- 1:06districts within the year. It's more than Rockland, right?
- 1:09Yeah, I have Rockland, Northern Westchester, Putnam County and
- 1:12three towns in Dutchess County, so it's about 780,000 residents.
- 1:17Wow. That's a lot.
- 1:18And I've seen you at many, many different events and every time
- 1:21I see you, I'm like, how, how do you show up from one event to
- 1:24the next? I I literally like, it's almost
- 1:26doesn't make sense to me that you travel so much to someone.
- 1:29How do you keep up? During well, it's definitely not
- 1:32easy, but during my last term we did over 1200 in person events.
- 1:38So it's, you know, it's a lot of a lot of shuffling around and
- 1:42trying to, you know, hit every community and engage with folks
- 1:46all across the district. Well, I have to say thank you.
- 1:48So on behalf of our entire community for always literally
- 1:51showing up, thank you. And we have not.
- 1:54Just showing up, Michael, but showing up big.
- 1:56I think there's a big difference between showing up and showing
- 1:58up the right way, and he's been doing it for a long time.
- 2:02Our reps can learn from him, by the way. 1200 events and then
- 2:05our reps need to do thirteen 1400 events.
- 2:07Like they got to get out there, start networking.
- 2:09I mean, they got to make some more sales.
- 2:11Never enough. Yeah, so it's part of it, just
- 2:13getting to know the community and building the relationships,
- 2:15which is amazing. We have a little thing here we
- 2:16like to call ChatGPT said what? Which is a way to our, you know,
- 2:22our audience to get to know you. I think most of the people
- 2:24already know you, right? But have you ever done this to
- 2:26yourself? I, I, I, somebody actually did
- 2:28it to me a few weeks ago and I, I laughed at the, the, the bio
- 2:33they popped out. But let's, let's hear it.
- 2:35Well you know what, I'm kind of impressed just reading it.
- 2:38So first it starts with represents Rockland and actually
- 2:42lives like a local, not a visit on weekends politician.
- 2:46That's great. That is pretty cool, right?
- 2:48Which which would mean, you know, I guess a lot of
- 2:50politicians just, you know, run around back and forth, but.
- 2:53A lot of my colleagues live in DC and, you know, they go back
- 2:57to their districts, but I, I go back every weekend, every, every
- 3:01time that we're at a session, I'm there.
- 3:04So it's, you know, we're usually in session Monday through
- 3:07Thursday or Tuesday through Friday, so.
- 3:09Well, Speaking of turning down a run for governor, doubling down
- 3:13and serving your district instead of chasing headlines.
- 3:15Whoa. Very.
- 3:16Disappointed, as were lots of people you should know.
- 3:20And we thought now is the time. We thought that we need it now
- 3:22more than ever. And when you basically announced
- 3:26and told everybody that you're not doing it, you're going for
- 3:28re election to, you know, for Congress again, what part of it
- 3:31was like, oh, it's great. You know, we need somebody like
- 3:32you in Congress. That's wonderful.
- 3:34But we probably need a little bit more a little bit of change
- 3:38in, in, in governing in in New York.
- 3:40So that was a disappointment. Well.
- 3:41There's no question we need more change in New York and, and you
- 3:46know, our neighboring state of New Jersey.
- 3:48But you know, look at at this moment, it wasn't the right
- 3:52thing for me and my family. And I very much love what I'm
- 3:55doing. I love serving in Congress.
- 3:57I love representing my district. I love dealing with the issues
- 4:01that we work on, especially foreign affairs and serving as
- 4:05chair of the Middle East and North Africa subcommittee.
- 4:07So it's a lot of work to deal with down in Washington and and
- 4:11I'm excited to continue that. What is the Foreign Affairs
- 4:15command? I know that you chair that
- 4:16right. I chair the the subcommittee.
- 4:18On the Middle East and. North Africa.
- 4:20And I've watched a couple of the lines of questions that you
- 4:23have. You know what exactly do do they
- 4:25do? The focus is primarily on the
- 4:29relationships between the US and other foreign governments.
- 4:33We passed legislation in relation to that, whether it's
- 4:37sanctions, bills or, you know, foreign assistance.
- 4:41We have oversight of foreign assistance.
- 4:44We have oversight of the State Department.
- 4:46So Secretary Rubio and all the under secretaries come before
- 4:50our committee and testify, and we work closely with them on a
- 4:54number of items pertaining, generally speaking, to the the
- 5:01foreign affairs and how it's conducted.
- 5:03Love it. It's so fascinating to me and I
- 5:06watch like people like watch soap operas or reality TV.
- 5:09I like to watch like when the house is in session and and
- 5:13they're bringing on witnesses, you know, they're asking them
- 5:14questions to me that's it's fascinating.
- 5:17I love it. And sometimes you see the way
- 5:19these questions are being posed and the answers are being given
- 5:21and you're like, what did he did?
- 5:22Did they just say that? Like, are they listening to
- 5:25themselves if something is not adding up over here?
- 5:27And I always wonder, like, what comes of this?
- 5:29Like this can't be real. Like this can't really be
- 5:31happening. And sometimes like a it's a
- 5:33circus. It's like a clown show.
- 5:35And you know, me as the casual citizen just listening to this
- 5:38and like this can't really be going on.
- 5:41And like, I, I feel like I want more to happen.
- 5:44Like right there, somebody should get punished.
- 5:45Like on this spot, they should be fired or something.
- 5:48Like, like, if we were an employer and like we were
- 5:50having, you know, our employees being interviewed and we asked
- 5:53those like hard pressed questions and this wasn't a
- 5:56justifiable answer. And it makes them look even
- 5:57worse, like, all right, you got 30 days notice, you're out,
- 6:00that's it. But just seems like it just
- 6:02keeps going on and on. Like, how do we get more action
- 6:05to, to actually happen and more accountability like the private
- 6:08sector has? How do we get that more in in in
- 6:11our government as well? A lot of these hearings
- 6:13obviously are designed to hold accountability and hold those in
- 6:19power accountable or expose information about a specific
- 6:24issue. You know, the last last year, we
- 6:27did a lot of work extensively on the Biden administration's
- 6:31failures when it came to the fall of Kabul and, you know, the
- 6:36bombing at Abbey Gate and the death of 13 US service members
- 6:40and, you know, trying to hold the administration accountable
- 6:43for that. So it just depends on the issue.
- 6:46But we, you know, we produced a pretty extensive report on what
- 6:50happened and why and you know, what the communications were
- 6:54within the administration, etcetera.
- 6:56So, you know, we, we try to bring things to light both from
- 7:03an oversight and accountability standpoint, but also in terms
- 7:07of, you know, our allies and our adversaries and, and what is
- 7:12actually happening around the globe.
- 7:14Yeah, and it's great. It brings awareness.
- 7:16It keeps the public engaged. I feel like, you know, we're
- 7:19somewhat more than just spectators.
- 7:21Like, you know, we're involved and they know that it's being
- 7:24viewed by millions of people. So like you know it means.
- 7:27Some of these hearings really do get good exposure.
- 7:31And you get outcomes. Engaged in it and yeah, you do,
- 7:34yeah. Whether it's legislative or
- 7:37action taken by the administration.
- 7:39Go off script for a second and just ask what what is The moment
- 7:42you realize you're doing this? Can you just take me back to
- 7:46that day or where were you and what was that like?
- 7:48What was your life like then? Like so much of what you're
- 7:51doing, Like, you know, you're watching it and you're like
- 7:53asking yourself questions and like, you know, poking fun at
- 7:56it, perhaps at times looking at it as yeah.
- 7:58And I'm wondering like, what made you get into this?
- 8:00Who are you? I got to put this away and
- 8:02listen A. Little bit.
- 8:03And Michael by the way, at a very young age, our Congressman
- 8:05Mike Lowe here is not a 5060 year old man.
- 8:08I mean, you're, you're very young, if I remember.
- 8:10I just turned 39. There you go, he's under 40.
- 8:13Unlike Jack Benny, I'm actually 39.
- 8:15Did it just happen like you're you're a September baby?
- 8:17Oh yeah, Happy birthday. September 9th.
- 8:20But no, look, it's, you know, I got started in this as an intern
- 8:27for John McCain back in 2008 on his presidential race.
- 8:31That's how I got kind of hooked on politics and government and,
- 8:36you know, went on to work for the state Republican Party and
- 8:39Ed Cox, who served as chair. I became executive director of
- 8:44the state Republican Party in New York and then went on to,
- 8:48you know, start my own consulting firm.
- 8:50I ran Rob Astrino's campaign for governor back in 2014, worked in
- 8:57local government, you know, became a lobbyist, etcetera, and
- 9:00then and then went on to run for state Assembly in New York in
- 9:05the 97th District in 2020 during COVID.
- 9:08Was that? Your first official public
- 9:10office. That was the first official
- 9:11office that I ran for. I was appointed to deputy town
- 9:14supervisor in the town of Orange Town where I live.
- 9:18But the, you know, Assembly race, you know, I was the only
- 9:22Republican pickup in the whole state.
- 9:23We flipped a 2 to one Democratic district, defeated a 14 year
- 9:27incumbent and then, you know, ultimately ran for Congress in
- 9:32in 22 when the the maps were thrown out and you got a fair
- 9:37congressional map drawn by by a court appointed special master
- 9:40and decided to take the the risk and defeated the chair of the D
- 9:45triple C. The first time that's happened
- 9:47in over 40 years. And you know, it was a big a big
- 9:50win, but I'd say the the moment I was like, oh, all right, we're
- 9:53doing this was really on day one, you know, January 3rd when
- 10:00we had to go through 15 rounds trying to elect Kevin McCarthy
- 10:04as speaker of the house. I remember that I was right in
- 10:06the, in the middle of it, you know, throwing, throwing
- 10:09haymakers and, and, you know, right in the middle of the fray
- 10:13supporting Kevin and, and, you know, really just, it's been
- 10:18non-stop ever since. That was chaos on the floor.
- 10:21I mean, people, it was, it was the first time in.
- 10:23Over. Almost.
- 10:26It was the first time in over 100 years that, you know, there
- 10:28was a contested speakers race and it really obviously with TV
- 10:33and social media, it was made for TV drama.
- 10:38And Matt Gaetz was in the middle of like, the thick of things,
- 10:40you know? He was the he was the
- 10:42ringleader. He was the ringleader and look
- 10:44where he is now. Yep.
- 10:46No longer in Congress. In Congress, you know, I was, I
- 10:48used to be a huge fan of Matt Gaetz.
- 10:50I thought he was very well spoken.
- 10:52I thought especially by the impeachment hearing, he was a
- 10:55storm supporter, a defender for Donald Trump.
- 10:58And that whole thing obviously was just a witch hunt and a scam
- 11:01and a waste of our taxpayer dollars.
- 11:03But he was right there and he, and he made a lot of eloquent
- 11:06points and he really did a great job up there.
- 11:09And I thought he had a really nice future in the Republican
- 11:12Party. And then it just went off the he
- 11:14he I don't know what what happened to him.
- 11:16Now. He's also very like anti Israel
- 11:19and all of that him and Marjorie Green Taylor and a bunch of like
- 11:23what you think you know somebody and you're following them.
- 11:26And I was a fan. He had a lots of people and now,
- 11:29just like he went off the rails. Yeah, as, as my dad used to tell
- 11:34me, you know, use your talents and skills for good.
- 11:38And, you know, I think Matt is exceptionally talented.
- 11:42He's very smart. He's very articulate, sure, but
- 11:46I think often times would not use his skills and talents for
- 11:50good and was, you know, somewhat destructive within the
- 11:55conference and, you know, really impeded the ability to get a lot
- 12:00of different things done. Yeah, you know who I was upset
- 12:04that we lost? I think a lot of us are Tucker
- 12:07Carlson. What a shame.
- 12:09That guy was gold for so many years.
- 12:12He was always on the right side of all the issues.
- 12:14But again, another person who was very well spoken, had a big
- 12:16fan base, a big foul, big platform, and again, just fell
- 12:21off the rails. It's just unbelievable.
- 12:23There's, you know, certainly within an element of the far
- 12:27right, there's, you know, this isolationist strain that is
- 12:35coming through and, and, you know, some of the points they
- 12:39make I agree with. And obviously, when you look at
- 12:43how we spend money domestically, the things we focus on
- 12:46domestically, we have a lot of challenges that require our
- 12:50attention and, and really require, you know, an execution
- 12:56on the policies. But that doesn't mean that you
- 13:00retreat from our role in the world or, you know, really
- 13:07abandoned our allies. And I think when you look at the
- 13:13focus, the focus should be on getting our allies to do more.
- 13:18It shouldn't only be on, on, you know, the backs of Americans.
- 13:22I agree with that. And I think the president
- 13:24certainly has pushed for our NATO allies to do more.
- 13:27Or no one did a better job than. His in the Middle East to do
- 13:30more and that's right, but that doesn't mean that you completely
- 13:35absolve yourself of a leadership role.
- 13:38And I think that's where there's been a a challenge within, you
- 13:42know a small element to the party.
- 13:44I think most of my colleagues still believe very strongly in
- 13:47in America's role in. Yeah, I think it's bipartisan
- 13:50for the most part. I think that 70% of Congress,
- 13:54you know, stands behind Israel for the for the most part.
- 13:56At the end of the day, Michael, if something, God forbid happens
- 14:00in the world and America needs help, who's who's the number one
- 14:04person American can count on? I mean, that alone is worth its
- 14:06weight in gold to support Israel in the time and need is knowing
- 14:10that they'll reciprocate when when it should never come.
- 14:12But if the time does come, they will be their first front lines.
- 14:17And I think that is what a lot of these people are missing.
- 14:19Why are we, you know, foreign aid and we can use the money at
- 14:21home. America First, Isn't that the
- 14:23movement? Again, the some of the things,
- 14:26the points that are raised are not wrong.
- 14:28You look at foreign aid, some of the abuses of our foreign aid
- 14:34were egregious and the misappropriation of funds and
- 14:39frankly, the lack of oversight of USAID.
- 14:42And they were operating in a silo separate apart from the
- 14:45State Department, doing things that frankly undermined
- 14:49America's interests and frankly undermined our allies in terms
- 14:52of some of the things that they do or don't want within their
- 14:55country. And so part of this is, is, you
- 14:59know, reforming the system, reforming the process, those
- 15:02points are, are valid and they're and it's a legitimate
- 15:05discussion. But the idea that you're going
- 15:07to cut off all foreign aid is idiotic.
- 15:09Yeah. And that's where I, I think, you
- 15:11know, it's recognizing the need for reform, but recognizing the
- 15:16need for strong American leadership.
- 15:19Yeah. Yeah.
- 15:19I'm curious, you know, we're talking about people that change
- 15:22their minds about certain things, like cold.
- 15:24Exactly. Has there ever been a situation
- 15:27that you've spoken to a constituent or even an opponent
- 15:31and suddenly you said, you know what?
- 15:32Wow, good point I think. Generally speaking, if you do
- 15:37this right, you engage in constructive dialogue.
- 15:40You're going to listen to what somebody else has to say.
- 15:44You may not entirely change your point of view, but you certainly
- 15:48will become way more articulate on the subject matter or way
- 15:53more articulate in making your case by learning from somebody
- 15:58else's perspective or experience.
- 16:01And I think too often in in politics, everybody has this
- 16:05view of I'm right, you're wrong, and there's nothing really else
- 16:10to discuss rather than actually saying, OK, well, look, yeah,
- 16:14this is my perspective, This is your perspective #1 Where do we
- 16:17agree? Where is their commonality and
- 16:20#2 what can I learn from what you're saying?
- 16:24Maybe I didn't know something. Maybe I didn't experience that.
- 16:27I mean, so much of our perspectives are shaped by our
- 16:30own life experiences. And so that to me is something
- 16:34that, you know, I just think it's important to engage in
- 16:38constructive dialogue. There's plenty of issues where,
- 16:41you know, as I go through, whether it's on the committees
- 16:45that I serve on financial services and foreign affairs or
- 16:48whether it's, you know, a general issue where, you know,
- 16:51somebody walks me through their perspective or viewpoint on
- 16:55something. And I say, you know what, that
- 16:57makes a lot of sense. And none of us are experts in
- 17:01everything. You can't possibly be.
- 17:04And so the question is how do you, are you willing to engage
- 17:08for the purpose of legislating and providing solutions or do
- 17:12you just want to be right? And, and I think there's a big
- 17:16difference between between the two.
- 17:18Well. You're showing up to a lot of
- 17:19events, so people are must be bombarding you with ideas and.
- 17:23Challenge. And by the way, that's one of
- 17:25the great things about legislating.
- 17:27You'll have constituents come up to you about issues that are not
- 17:30on your radar or things that you know you're not experiencing
- 17:34day-to-day because you don't work in that industry.
- 17:37And they come to you with a problem or an example or, you
- 17:41know, an idea. Can you think of an example, an
- 17:43idea that someone came to you or someone said something you're
- 17:46like interesting, that's. Oh, sure.
- 17:47I mean this, I deal with that all the time on foreign affairs,
- 17:51you know, because somebody is is from a country, you know, right
- 17:57now we're dealing with a case in point, Haiti and some of the
- 18:03challenges there. And, you know, folks coming to
- 18:06us about economic support through Hope Helps.
- 18:11You know, it's, it's expiring and we're trying to extend it.
- 18:14And so there's, there's issues all the time where you know, you
- 18:18get involved or you focus on because people come up to you
- 18:21and and engage and you some so much of you know, the Middle
- 18:25East legislation. There's people who do a lot of
- 18:28work in the Middle East to have a lot of experience and they,
- 18:32and they're, you know, come and explain a challenge or a
- 18:37situation that they're dealing with.
- 18:39And you just, you have to be very willing from a legislative
- 18:43standpoint. My view is we're there to be
- 18:47legislatively active. We're there to come up with
- 18:51legislation now, not just to pass legislation for
- 18:55legislation's sake, but to actually solve a problem.
- 18:58And so the question is, you know, do you do you proactively
- 19:04try to find ways to legislate or or not?
- 19:08I'm a very aggressive legislator.
- 19:10I passed 11 bills, six of which were signed into law by
- 19:13President Biden during my first term.
- 19:16You know, SALT obviously was a big issue in the tax bill and I
- 19:21and I was proud to get that done.
- 19:23You know, that was a big priority for me.
- 19:25I fought like heck along with some of my New York and and New
- 19:29Jersey colleagues and we got it done.
- 19:30But you have to be willing to exert, you know, your leverage
- 19:35and and understand how to actually legislate, but how to
- 19:39negotiate to yes, you know, if you want to pass legislation,
- 19:43you can't just be no, no, no, no, no.
- 19:45There's going to be compromises along the way and you got to be
- 19:48willing to make them. For all those married people
- 19:50listening, could you tell us how to do that?
- 19:53That's, that's, I always, I always say that line like
- 19:55anybody who's ever been married knows you're not going to get
- 19:58everything you want. And that's just the reality.
- 20:00And if you do think that. You're not going to be married
- 20:03very long. I mean, that's just, you know,
- 20:05so legislating is no different in reality.
- 20:08I. Like that line, how to negotiate
- 20:09to a yes, which is, you know, under what circumstance will we
- 20:13say yes? And can you tell me a little bit
- 20:15about that salt thing you mentioned because it said it
- 20:17here in ChatGPT and I was wondering a little bit about it,
- 20:20but. What does it say on there?
- 20:22You're very salty. The salty is a new term that the
- 20:27kids are using these days. Yeah, I I found out from my 8
- 20:30year old one day, Daddy, you're so salty.
- 20:33And I'm like, wow, what did you say?
- 20:35That's where that's when I knew I'm getting older when I ready
- 20:37to ask. There's lingo that I don't know
- 20:38about anymore and he explained it to me and.
- 20:40I'd love to hear about these accomplishments of you guys, how
- 20:42you went this. Was this was the biggest issue I
- 20:45ran on when I ran for Congress back in 2022.
- 20:48And I said I would never support a tax bill that doesn't lift the
- 20:51cap on SALT. And so we were very clear that
- 20:56if we did not come to an agreement, like I would vote no
- 21:00on the bill. And we were, you know, very
- 21:03upfront about that. I didn't hide that.
- 21:05I didn't try to be coy. I was very blunt and direct
- 21:09because the reality is if you know where where you know one of
- 21:13the the red lines are, then you can deal with it.
- 21:15And so I wanted to be able to deal with leadership, to deal
- 21:17with the White House, to deal with the president and get to a
- 21:20yes, because it mattered to my district.
- 21:23You know, I represent one of the highest tax districts in the
- 21:27country, Rockland, Westchester, Putnam counties, 3 of the top 16
- 21:31highest property tax counties in America.
- 21:33And so when you look at state and local taxes and your ability
- 21:37to deduct that on your federal income tax return, that $10,000
- 21:41cap severely impacted our district.
- 21:43People got hurt. They had to pay more in federal
- 21:48income taxes than they otherwise would have been.
- 21:50So, you know, we, we negotiated. It was hard fought.
- 21:56Not many of our colleagues were on board and nobody in the
- 21:58Senate wanted to do this. You know, the president wanted
- 22:03to do something, but, you know, he was, he, he left it to us,
- 22:06really didn't negotiate. But ultimately, you know, we had
- 22:09to negotiate with the Treasury Secretary to get the deal across
- 22:12the finish line. And you know, we were able to to
- 22:15get a big win for New York, for my district, for high tax
- 22:19districts all across the country of $40,000 SALT cap with
- 22:23$500,000 income limit, 1% growth over five years.
- 22:29And we fixed within the tax bill a provision with respect to pass
- 22:33through entities so that they could deduct their state and
- 22:36local taxes as well, which is huge for small businesses.
- 22:39So this was a hard fought win. It was the single biggest tax
- 22:44cut in the whole bill. And 90% of my constituents will
- 22:48be able to fully deduct their state and local taxes, whether
- 22:51they itemize or, you know, use the standard deduction.
- 22:55If that covers, you know, the, the, the state and local tax
- 22:59burden, among other, other tax benefits, they're going to be
- 23:03able to fully deduct. And that's a big win.
- 23:06Thank you for that huge win. Yes, thank you very much.
- 23:09I'm very curious how it works when Someone Like You wants to
- 23:13propose a certain bill and now you got to get your colleagues
- 23:16to come on board to sign off on it.
- 23:19I imagine you have to have a certain majority that votes on
- 23:21it in order for it to pass. So I watch House of Cards,
- 23:25right? Great show, great show, they
- 23:28say. Supposedly, it's one of the more
- 23:30accurate depictions of what goes on behind the scenes in
- 23:33Washington, let's say. Minus the the.
- 23:36Murdering. Yes, exactly.
- 23:38I'm curious, is there a show that you enjoy that you think
- 23:40that? Oh, actually I like Tesla cards.
- 23:42I liked Homeland, I love The Sopranos, but but no I.
- 23:46Don't do think depicts very like, you know, the most
- 23:49accurate to what goes on in Washington.
- 23:50Well, he said. The surprise?
- 23:51In Washington, I would. I would.
- 23:53I mean, House of Cards, certainly, yeah.
- 23:57Along with Veep, I think there's some, you know, there's some.
- 24:00There's elements of truth in all.
- 24:01Of them. In all of them, yeah.
- 24:03You know, West Wing obviously was one that I think was very
- 24:08good about being able to to accurately depict what goes on
- 24:14between the executive and the legislature and some of the the
- 24:17internal fights and. So I remember in House of Cards
- 24:20they. Were all good shows, they would.
- 24:21Basically, trade favors with each other.
- 24:23You support my bill, I'll support your bill.
- 24:26And you know, you'd pick up the phone, you'd call people, you
- 24:29would have to whip up the votes. You know, you want to get able
- 24:31to support you. Like what?
- 24:33How does things get done? That happens a little bit, but
- 24:36not it is much more focused on the issue specific and you got
- 24:42to work it, you got to you got to build consensus.
- 24:45I mean, obviously, you may have a bill that is timely.
- 24:49So, for instance, after the second assassination attempt on
- 24:52President Trump's life last year, I had I had already
- 24:57introduced a bill to enhance Secret Service protection for
- 25:01candidates running for president.
- 25:03But after the second one, I was able to get my bill on the floor
- 25:07a week later and it passed unanimously and it passed the
- 25:10Senate unanimously and it was signed into law all within a
- 25:13week. Wow.
- 25:14That happened because of a current event that helped drive
- 25:18the, the, the legislation. Sometimes it takes years to move
- 25:23a bill. You know, you got to build
- 25:24consensus and and. Relationships.
- 25:26It's slow, slow, but sure, you know.
- 25:29And so, you know, there's a lot of bills that I have that I
- 25:32think would be great pieces of legislation.
- 25:34But, you know, not every bill I introduce is going to move
- 25:38immediately. You know, so you got to you got
- 25:40to build consensus. You got to talk to your
- 25:42Democratic colleagues, get bipartisan support, which always
- 25:45helps move a bill on suspension, which is the fastest way to to
- 25:50move legislation, you know, And if you can build bipartisan
- 25:54cooperation, you know, it has a much better chance of becoming
- 25:58law than if it's a entirely partisan bill.
- 26:02And so that's where I, I really spend my time focused on
- 26:05introducing legislation that is bipartisan in nature, that's
- 26:09more likely to get broad support, that's focused on
- 26:13substantive serious issues, not partisan, you know, political
- 26:20issues that are really just more of a political statement than a
- 26:23legislative exercise. So that's where I spend a lot of
- 26:25my time focused on actually trying to legislate.
- 26:27You know, maybe we can help you speed things up.
- 26:29Is there anything you're working on now that our listeners, you
- 26:31know, we've had some politicians on our program before.
- 26:34What's something that you're working on now that you might
- 26:36think, oh, it might take me a long time, but we can help?
- 26:38I have, I've already introduced this year, I think over 50
- 26:43bills. You know, we're working on
- 26:45getting Wells Crowder, the man in the red bandana, the
- 26:49Congressional Gold Medal. I have legislation on housing.
- 26:53I have a lot of foreign policy legislation.
- 26:55We're working through the NDAA and I have a bunch of amendments
- 26:59that I've added in there that are bills that I've introduced.
- 27:03So we're working through a lot of a lot of different angles.
- 27:07You know, I think a big part of it, again, it's just it's
- 27:10building consensus among colleagues and support going to
- 27:13leadership, advocating for them to bring the bill to the floor.
- 27:18You know, and you got to remember there's 435 members.
- 27:21Everybody's, you know, believes their bills are the most
- 27:24important and the and the best legislation.
- 27:26So, you know, you in some respects you're competing
- 27:29against colleagues to get legislation moved.
- 27:33But I think a big part of it again, is can you build
- 27:35consensus? Are you building bipartisan
- 27:38support? Are you building public
- 27:39awareness and support? And so I, you know, I do a lot
- 27:42of press around legislation that we introduce because building
- 27:46that awareness matters. Yeah.
- 27:48Who has the record for introducing the most bills that
- 27:51got passed? Is there somebody that I'm?
- 27:54Sure, there's a record somewhere.
- 27:55I don't I. Don't.
- 27:56That's what Stefan is here off the top of my head.
- 28:00Because that's got to be an accomplishment.
- 28:02I'd be I'd be curious. That's a big accomplishment.
- 28:05It is easy to get some past and he must be a very well liked
- 28:09person. I imagine that had a lot of, you
- 28:11know. It's also I'm thinking.
- 28:12Both sides of the aisle I'm. Thinking the job consists of
- 28:14sales, marketing, negotiating? Look.
- 28:17And that's part of the reason why I I try to talk to
- 28:19everybody. I go talk to colleagues all
- 28:22across the aisle. You know, we don't, we don't all
- 28:25agree on everything. And that's a good thing.
- 28:27That's not a bad thing. That's why we have a
- 28:28constitutional Republic. If we all agreed on everything,
- 28:31then we wouldn't need a Congress.
- 28:32And that's like, so I think there's we've lost perspective
- 28:37on this. You know, I think as a country,
- 28:40like robust debate is a good thing.
- 28:42And and we should engage in constructive dialogue and
- 28:45debate. Stop using names to attack, you
- 28:48know, people we disagree with, attack the idea, go after the
- 28:53idea. Yeah, substance.
- 28:55You know, disagree on the substance of it as opposed to
- 28:57just demonizing the person who's you know who.
- 29:00Doesn't show you your opinion, Yeah.
- 29:02Senator Ted Kennedy 300 makes sense.
- 29:06More. Than 300 laws.
- 29:07A Democrat. Yeah, I mean, both of them
- 29:10served, you know. 47 years. John Dingell, you know, 5059
- 29:14years. Ted Kennedy, 47 years.
- 29:17I mean, yeah, to to pass a lot of legislation you obviously
- 29:20need. They have longevity.
- 29:21Yeah. You know, I look, I mean, you
- 29:23mentioned 435 congressmen. They're in Congress, very small
- 29:28number in comparison to the country.
- 29:30You guys are the 1% of the 1%. It's it's a big deal to make it
- 29:35all the way. You know, that far up.
- 29:37And I could see why. Like you could see that the, the
- 29:39individuals like, I don't even know you for like 15 minutes now
- 29:43just seeing, I've seen you all over TV.
- 29:45I've heard you speak many times, but I can tell you're a very
- 29:48even tempered, like, you know, you're speaking, you don't, you
- 29:52don't have highs and lows. You're worked on person and
- 29:55people in this position. That's what I expect somebody
- 29:58who makes it to that position, you know, came through hard
- 30:00work. And then sometimes you meet and
- 30:03I'm not going to say names because out of respect.
- 30:04What you just said is look at the the arguments and the
- 30:07substance, not the name calling, you know, but sometimes you see
- 30:10people and like what how is this?
- 30:12How did they get here? We have 435 people that
- 30:15represent our country and there this is the best America has,
- 30:19this is the best we could have done.
- 30:20How does that happen? When I, when I first decided to
- 30:23run for public office, one, one of the things that kind of was
- 30:26driving me was, you know, if that person can get elected, I
- 30:30can, I can get elected. And, and part of it was because
- 30:34unfortunately, I think there are a number of people both in
- 30:38Congress and in state legislature, legislatures who
- 30:42are not serious about the legislating part.
- 30:46They're not serious about the importance of actually engaging
- 30:52in constructive dialogue to actually advance long term
- 30:57legislation that's going to last.
- 31:00It is easy in this hyper partisan error to jam through a
- 31:07partisan bill, especially if you control everything.
- 31:13But the problem is the moment that the pendulum swings, the
- 31:18other side tries to repeal it or demagogues it.
- 31:23If we actually spent the time focused on where we agree and
- 31:26focused on how to advance critical legislation to that
- 31:30end, we'd be able to more substantially and more
- 31:34positively impact the country, the economy, national security,
- 31:39etcetera. So I I try very hard at that
- 31:43because I just think long term that is a much better way to
- 31:47legislate then pontificating about things that are unlikely
- 31:52to become law because you don't have consensus behind it.
- 31:56And even if you do pass a law on it, it's going to be very
- 31:58controversial, it's going to be hyper partisan and it's not
- 32:01going to solve the problem long term.
- 32:03And so that's where I try to look at this from the standpoint
- 32:06of what type of legislator do I want to be?
- 32:10What type of representative do I want to be?
- 32:13I get attacked constantly every day, all day, from all sides
- 32:19because of the way that I choose to, to legislate.
- 32:21And you know, on the Democratic side that he's not a real
- 32:24moderate. He's, he's not really
- 32:26bipartisan. He's MAGA, You know, they, they
- 32:29just, they throw everything they can at you because they, they
- 32:31don't, it's political. It's not about actually doing
- 32:36the work, whereas my colleagues that I deal with on the
- 32:40Democratic side would never say that because I understand.
- 32:43I really do make that effort and I'm serious about it.
- 32:46So it's doesn't mean we're going to agree on everything.
- 32:51You know, I am a Republican. I ran as a Republican for a
- 32:54reason. But you know, I do try to find
- 32:57area of commonality. Who's the one individual on
- 33:00Democratic side that you really, really respect and that you say,
- 33:04well, he's he or she, great, great person, somebody who's
- 33:08doing it right is there? Do you have that?
- 33:11Oh, I have. I have a number of people that I
- 33:13work closely with that I respect.
- 33:15Somebody in this Senate but my. My, well in the House, my
- 33:20closest colleague and friend is, is Josh Gottheimer, a Democrat
- 33:24from New Jersey. We we have neighboring
- 33:26districts, but we're very similar, similar sense of humor.
- 33:29I see that I see it. You know, we, we like working
- 33:34together and finding area of agreement.
- 33:36We don't agree on everything, but we don't demagogue each
- 33:39other and we don't, we don't take it personal that we have a
- 33:41difference of opinion on something and frankly, don't
- 33:45waste time focusing on that. We try to find where we agree
- 33:49and let's let's advance that legislation.
- 33:53But there are, you know, I mean, in the Senate side, you know,
- 33:57I've, I've done some stuff with Chris Coons from Delaware, you
- 34:02know, a Democratic senator, especially on on foreign
- 34:06affairs. You know, we've spent some time
- 34:10there. I mean, John Fetterman and I
- 34:12agree on a lot when it comes to Israel and.
- 34:16Don Frederman as a Republican, we're in Democrat clothing, but
- 34:19he's he's pretty much come over to the other side.
- 34:21He he's, he has certainly shifted rightward on on a number
- 34:24of fronts, but and. We were against him at the
- 34:26beginning. But I think it's also, you know,
- 34:28within the base of the Democratic Party, they have gone
- 34:30so far to the left crazy. You know, I try to find area of
- 34:34commonality with Kirsten Gillibrand, one of my senators
- 34:37from New York. You know, there's issues
- 34:40pertaining to childcare, Women's Health or, you know, other areas
- 34:46that we we've tried to work together on, you know, and you
- 34:51really, again, you try to find people who are serious about
- 34:56doing the work and advancing legislation because that's why
- 35:00we're there. What else are you there for?
- 35:03You know, I mean, if you're not going to try to legislate, I
- 35:05don't really understand why you would serve in Congress.
- 35:08Well, I understand it because I'm a shallow person, so I get
- 35:11it. There's a lot of glamour that
- 35:13comes along with this role. It's a lot less glamorous than
- 35:15people realize, especially if you're in a district like mine
- 35:18and you're working seven days a week.
- 35:20But there is a little bit of notoriety that comes along with
- 35:22this, and that's probably one of the reasons that some people
- 35:25have ulterior motives to get into this position of power.
- 35:28You know, look, you're doing things for the right reasons,
- 35:30and there are others like you out there that are representing
- 35:32us well. A lot of my colleagues are very
- 35:35serious about this. They want to legislate, they
- 35:37want to find area of commonality.
- 35:39They're they're not interested in the the daily back and forth.
- 35:43Yeah, there's going to be some sharp differences.
- 35:45Yes, there's going to be sharp words used at times.
- 35:47Yes, there's going to be real, you know, political
- 35:51disagreements and legislative fights.
- 35:54But it's not personal. Too many of my colleagues take
- 35:57it way too personal and they drive other people, Americans,
- 36:03voters, to take it so personal. And when you see what just
- 36:07happened with Charlie Kirk, when you see, you know, the 2
- 36:10Minnesota lawmakers getting shot, this is not how our
- 36:14politics should be conducted, is not how we should be
- 36:18legislating. It's not how we should be
- 36:20engaging in discourse. And certainly, violence is not
- 36:24an answer to a political or legislative disagreement.
- 36:29Duke it out at the ballot box. Let the voters decide and
- 36:33respect what the voters decide. I think a majority of Americans
- 36:38really have all agreed at this point that what happened in the
- 36:41wake of Charlie Kirk's tragedy is tragic, that they think that
- 36:44we all can agree that we need to tone down the rhetoric and
- 36:46political violence is never even remotely close to being the
- 36:49answer. But you know what?
- 36:50I was very disappointed about that happened last night.
- 36:53Really disappointed. I'm not surprised, but I'm
- 36:55disappointed. So last night was the Emmy
- 36:57Awards. I don't know if you watch any of
- 36:59these shows. Most people tuned out of
- 37:00Hollywood a long time ago, but I'm still watching it.
- 37:03I like watching the Oscars, you know, and the Grammys and MTV
- 37:06and all of that. So I didn't even know last night
- 37:08was the Emmy Awards. I had no idea.
- 37:10Because you know what? I'm actually kind of distracted.
- 37:12Like there's real things going on in the world right now that I
- 37:14literally did not know. And I'm scrolling through my
- 37:16phone and what the the Emmys was last night.
- 37:18Interesting. I'll watch some highlights.
- 37:20Let me see who won. And I'm going through it.
- 37:23And not a mention, not a word of what just happened that just
- 37:27rocked the entire country. I mean, this is the biggest news
- 37:31going on in the world, not just in our country, all over.
- 37:34Everybody's talking about it. And Hollywood, which has a major
- 37:38platform and where a lot of other people unfortunately get
- 37:41their news from, that's who they emulate, you know, and those are
- 37:44their heroes. And, and they're listening very
- 37:46carefully to what those people are saying.
- 37:48So they have a responsibility to say the right thing, which
- 37:51unfortunately, we know most of Hollywood is gutless and
- 37:54spineless and very self-serving. And that's the worst of what the
- 37:58liberalism has to offer, the progressive has to offer.
- 38:01I'm not saying that all of liberalism is bad.
- 38:03They're, they're probably the worst parts of it.
- 38:05Not all of Hollywood, a big chunk of Hollywood, not one
- 38:08mention. It really pained me because that
- 38:11was a great opportunity to stand up and to tell people what just
- 38:15happened was not OK. Am I being silent?
- 38:17Is almost being complicit. I think every, everyone, elected
- 38:21officials, the media, celebrities, everybody has to
- 38:26reflect on how they are conducting their own behaviour.
- 38:31It's very easy to point the finger at somebody else.
- 38:33But the old adage goes, when you're pointing the finger,
- 38:35there's three pointing right back at you.
- 38:38And, and I think that's, that's the, there's got to be a
- 38:42recognition that we all have a responsibility.
- 38:47And I think what's unfortunate about is that could have been an
- 38:50opportunity. They could say how most of them
- 38:55there, I'm sure, disagree with the things he fought for, the
- 38:58beliefs that he had, and that's fine.
- 39:01But the importance of the dialogue because as as Charlie
- 39:04Kirk said many times, when we stop dialoguing, that's when
- 39:07violence happens. And I think the objective should
- 39:10be to have a much more honest and thoughtful and constructive
- 39:15dialogue between Americans because at the end of the day,
- 39:19we're all Americans. And too many people have put on
- 39:23their red or blue jersey and, and failed to recognize that
- 39:27we're actually all in a red, white and blue jersey.
- 39:30And that's, and that is really where our politics has gotten so
- 39:34coarse, so corrosive, the, the, the vitriol that is spewed, the
- 39:41dehumanization of those we disagree with, you know,
- 39:45fascist, racist, bigoted, xenophobic, homophobic, all the
- 39:50terms that just constantly get thrown out no matter what the
- 39:54conversation is, rather than actually drilling down on the
- 39:58substance of the disagreement or again, trying to find an area of
- 40:03agreement, which I think is way more important.
- 40:06We spend way too much time focused on where we disagree and
- 40:11that that is the basis of the conversation as opposed to hey.
- 40:16This is what we're focused on. This is where we can actually
- 40:18get stuff done. Yeah, but do you agree that
- 40:21Hollywood should have said? Something they missed.
- 40:24And it's just, it is emblematic, obviously, of the of of the
- 40:30viewpoint that is often pushed out of out of Hollywood or on
- 40:35television without recognizing, you know what, we have a role to
- 40:40play in this too. And, and we should, we should
- 40:43try to uplift, they should try to uplift the dialogue.
- 40:46They should try to uplift a lot. Exactly.
- 40:47The NFL did a pretty good job at it.
- 40:49Most of the teams, not all the teams.
- 40:52But you know what, I think that's a positive thing.
- 40:55And again, I'd rather focus on the fact that many of the teams
- 40:58did and that was great, yes, versus the ones that didn't.
- 41:01That's why I didn't point out the NFL, because there were a
- 41:03lot of teams that did. I'm not going to focus on the
- 41:05couple teams that didn't. Doesn't matter.
- 41:07But you know, for the most part they got it right.
- 41:10But Hollywood spitefully didn't do it.
- 41:13Yeah, but I think. What was most interesting was
- 41:16the reaction by the American public.
- 41:19Most Americans took this as an opportunity to pray, to be
- 41:23together, to join in peaceful solidarity.
- 41:26They weren't burning down the streets.
- 41:29They weren't looting businesses. They weren't committing violence
- 41:33against other Americans in response.
- 41:36That is a positive step forward and I think we need to continue
- 41:40that. Charlie Crook would be proud.
- 41:41He would be very proud. Seeing how you know, we're
- 41:43coming together and and his message is actually being
- 41:46magnified right now, I think he would be very very proud.
- 41:50I'm very curious about Mike. I'm sorry, go I I tend sometimes
- 41:53to no. No, I'm loving it.
- 41:54Are you kidding me? By the way, this is a this is
- 41:56my, this is my Emmys. This.
- 41:57Is a big deal. I don't get to sit with AUS
- 41:59congressman every single day like.
- 42:01I'm actually just curious I'm. Following you wherever you're
- 42:03going from here. Where's it going next?
- 42:05We got to talk to meetings and then I got to fly to DC.
- 42:08You're going back to Washington. What's that like?
- 42:11What? What is it like going to
- 42:12Washington into the White House? Your first time going into the
- 42:15White House? What was that experience like?
- 42:17Actually, I swear that was my. Question.
- 42:18That was the next. Question.
- 42:19Yeah, yeah. But I was curious like, you
- 42:20know, when. Most of us never, ever
- 42:21expecting. It you know it's coming, but
- 42:23then you get there, you close the doors and you're like, hey
- 42:26guys, I made. It so.
- 42:27So I've been to the white the White House itself.
- 42:29Not as an employee. Of the White House multiple.
- 42:32Times Well, I've, I've not been an employee of the White House,
- 42:35but I've gone to the White House, you know, a number of
- 42:38times for events and, and, and prior administration.
- 42:43But obviously going into the Oval Office the first time is
- 42:49pretty awe inspiring. It's you're, you're pretty
- 42:52amazed by the, you know, the fact that you have the
- 42:57opportunity to walk in there and, and talk to the president
- 43:00of the United States. And obviously so many important
- 43:03decisions are made behind the Resolute Desk.
- 43:06And just the, the awesome responsibility that comes with
- 43:13this job comes with being a member of Congress.
- 43:17As you pointed out, you're only one of 435 in the history of the
- 43:21country. There's less than 12,000 people
- 43:23who have ever served in the United States House of
- 43:25Representatives. So it's an interesting way to
- 43:26look. It really is.
- 43:28You know, you, you have a lot of weight on your shoulders when
- 43:31you're dealing with these issues, but to be able to, to
- 43:35walk into the White House, to be able to serve in the Capitol
- 43:38where so much history has happened, it really is an
- 43:42awesome responsibility. I love it every day.
- 43:47I, I, I don't get tired of it. I'm not jaded by it.
- 43:50It's, you know, if you don't, if you don't look at the, the
- 43:55beauty, the majesty of, of where you work or the fact that you
- 44:00get to engage on, on these issues that you get to vote on
- 44:04them. You know, it really, it really
- 44:07is inspiring. I have to say, sitting here
- 44:09speaking to you, what's there's so much that it's clear to us.
- 44:12You know your, your demeanor, your, your values and it speaks
- 44:17volumes of who you are as a person.
- 44:19I'm curious to go back to where where that was, What camps did
- 44:22you go to? What schools did you go to?
- 44:24Did you have a job? What did you work?
- 44:25As that that stems from my my parents.
- 44:28So what's what was? Where were they from?
- 44:30Like. Where were you born?
- 44:32Rockland County, born and raised my family, you know, and one
- 44:35form of fashion has been in Rockland over 100 years.
- 44:39You know, my mom's Italian, my dad was Irish.
- 44:44You know, my parents taught us good values and work ethic at a
- 44:49very young age, you know, and always impressed upon me, you
- 44:54know, the, the belief that to whom much is given, much is
- 44:57required and that I've been given a lot of skills and
- 45:00talents from God and, and to use them to do God's work and, and
- 45:05keep my moral compass about me. Doesn't mean I'm perfect,
- 45:09doesn't mean I don't make mistakes.
- 45:10I do, but I, I carried that with me.
- 45:14Those, those are the last words my dad said to me when he died
- 45:17back in 2013, you know, and it's, it's something that they
- 45:22impressed upon me throughout my childhood.
- 45:24And, you know, I obviously, you know, there's so many things in
- 45:30my life that have kind of shaped my world view or, or who I am.
- 45:34But, you know, obviously 911 was was a big inflection point, you
- 45:40know, living in New York and being a freshman in high school,
- 45:45that that day and obviously, you know, shape shape my high school
- 45:50years and my college years, you know, became an intern for
- 45:54McCain while I was in college. That another inflection point
- 45:59in, in my life and certainly kind of change my trajectory of
- 46:05where I was going. I, I went to school for
- 46:07accounting and finance and I was planning on going to law school
- 46:10and kind of totally shifted course and, you know, I was, was
- 46:15extremely passionate about it. And, you know, and then, you
- 46:20know, when my dad died, I was 26.
- 46:21And so, you know, that certainly had an impact on my life and,
- 46:26and my view of things and, and what's important, what's not.
- 46:32And, you know, obviously, as I've worked my way up in, in
- 46:36politics and government, you know, I've generally been of the
- 46:40mindset, you know, you have to be willing to take risk and you
- 46:44have to put yourself out there. And ultimately the, the people
- 46:47will decide. And, you know, I, I think, you
- 46:54know, it's, you know, the old Wayne Gretzky adage, you know,
- 47:00you never miss any of the shots you don't take.
- 47:03You know, so you got to be willing to take the shot and you
- 47:06may miss or you may, you may score.
- 47:08But to me, it's not about winning and losing.
- 47:13It's very much about the ability to serve.
- 47:16And I've loved every minute of it and, and doing the job and
- 47:20you know, the team that we have that that works tirelessly on my
- 47:24behalf and on behalf of the constituents.
- 47:27That's what matters. Doing, doing the work.
- 47:29And ultimately you leave it to God, it'll, it'll be what it'll
- 47:33be. And if, if I continue to serve
- 47:37in this capacity, great. And if in the future somebody
- 47:41else does and, and I'm no longer in office, that's great too.
- 47:45I mean that to me, it's, it's not about me.
- 47:49It's about the people that were elected to serve.
- 47:52And I'll keep doing the job for as long as people have me.
- 47:58Wow. For the record, Michael, him and
- 47:59I are the same age. And do you see a difference?
- 48:01Like it's crazy. It's just you're very young.
- 48:03Got a little bit more Gray. Got a lot more Gray.
- 48:05Yeah, Yeah. And you just, you seem to have
- 48:07it together in the way you talk. I mean, you're a true
- 48:09politician. You you're worked on.
- 48:13You're a professional. That's why I say politicians
- 48:15encompass a lot of different traits and a lot of different.
- 48:18They'd make great businessmen. They really would because they,
- 48:21they have the, they're just, they're people.
- 48:25They're like, they're sales people, those marketers,
- 48:27everything all infused into one and it's, it's, it's really
- 48:30amazing. What's the next shot you're
- 48:32going to be taking like Wayne Gretzky?
- 48:34What's the next big shot that you're going to be taking one
- 48:36day? Right, right now I'm running for
- 48:38for re election and you know, it's as I said, this is
- 48:42something that I love doing. I I think it's a, a tremendous
- 48:46opportunity to serve. I love the issues that we deal
- 48:50with on a on a daily basis and I know how important my district
- 48:53is to control of Congress and, and advancing forward, you know,
- 48:59key priorities. So right now that's the focus.
- 49:03Whatever the future holds, whether it's governor, whether
- 49:06it's Senate, something else, we'll see.
- 49:09I'm not I don't get too caught up in that.
- 49:14My general view is, you know, certainly God has a plan, but
- 49:20moreover, you look at the opportunities as they come and
- 49:26you make a determination. And whatever the determination
- 49:29is, I'm fine with. I love the attitude.
- 49:32I love those for the concept of just looking at all the positive
- 49:34and talking about that. It's so many great messages we
- 49:37can take out of this discussion. And, you know, there's a few
- 49:41things that we like to wrap up with before we we finish up.
- 49:44One of those things are, and I think this this time it, it will
- 49:47make a bigger difference than usual because we're voters,
- 49:50constituents. Do you have any questions for
- 49:53us? I would say what is your, you
- 49:57know, what is your biggest concern right now?
- 50:00What is what is the issue or issues That's kind of keeping
- 50:05you guys up at night, whether it's the economy, whether it's
- 50:08obviously the situation in the Middle East, anti-Semitism, what
- 50:12you know, what's driving your concerns?
- 50:15I would say my concern is the, the hate, the, the, the, I'm
- 50:19scared sometimes of, of thinking about what's going on.
- 50:22And I think Someone Like You and your position can do a lot in
- 50:25terms of bringing them all together.
- 50:27When I say them, I mean all races, all religions, all
- 50:30people. And living in Rockland County,
- 50:32growing up in Brooklyn, I'm very aware of the idea of getting
- 50:35along together with all different, you know, people.
- 50:38And you know, that's what I would be curious about.
- 50:40Like how can we do more to bridge that gap between all of
- 50:45us living together? You know, you have so many
- 50:48people that want more housing, yet you know, I'm living in a
- 50:51neighborhood where you want sidewalks because you want
- 50:53safety for children, but then you don't want sidewalks because
- 50:55then you turn it into a Brooklyn, NY.
- 50:57So I'm curious, how does someone in your position go about
- 51:03bringing that all together? I think the number one thing for
- 51:07me is that I talk to everybody. I engage everybody.
- 51:09I don't, you know, I don't leave any community out.
- 51:13I, I continue to dialogue even with people who don't like me or
- 51:20attack me on a daily basis because I think it's important,
- 51:26you know, obviously we're not going to agree on everything.
- 51:28And, and there are some real differences and even in local
- 51:31politics about land use decisions, you know, and, and,
- 51:35and development and, and there's some legitimate concerns and
- 51:40discussions to be had. But I think the moment it turns
- 51:43to attacks on people because of who they are or what they
- 51:47believe or how they practice their faith, I think that's
- 51:49where it goes off kilter. And, and so I, you know, I've
- 51:54made a very conscious effort, especially, you know, within
- 51:58Rockland and in the Orthodox and Hasidic communities of being
- 52:03present, of showing up, of, of engaging and posting about it
- 52:09and letting people see. Like, yeah, I do engage there
- 52:12because you know what, We're all in one community.
- 52:14And yeah, there may be, there may be areas of disagreement or
- 52:17difference, but you know what, rather than just attack each
- 52:19other on social media or, or say things, go engage.
- 52:23Go have a dialogue, Go have a conversation.
- 52:25Let people know. You know what, look, we
- 52:28understand you need more housing.
- 52:29But here's why we have concern. Have an actual discussion as
- 52:32opposed to, you know, the, the vitriol that just gets spewed.
- 52:36And that's, that's been my objective.
- 52:39My modus operandi is to show up, to engage, to have conversation.
- 52:44Doesn't mean we're going to agree on everything, but I'm
- 52:47always willing to say where I stand and why I feel.
- 52:50Like I should have asked the question differently.
- 52:52What can I do? What can we do as a community to
- 52:55really, because other than showing up to court, you know,
- 52:58when someone's applying for a zoning.
- 53:00I think a big part of it honestly, is there's got to be
- 53:03greater dialogue. There's got to be greater
- 53:05dialogue between people in the community and not in the
- 53:10community. And, and you know, especially,
- 53:14you know, showing up at at community events, public events
- 53:19throughout the whole county and really engaging in a more
- 53:21constructive dialogue. I think it's good for everybody.
- 53:24And it shows people like, yeah, we all want to live together.
- 53:28We all want to live amongst each other.
- 53:29We're not looking to be in our own little bubble.
- 53:32But like, yeah, there's going to be some differences, but let's
- 53:35let's try to find commonality. A lot of the legacy media Stokes
- 53:41a lot of this fear because they're spreading a lot of this
- 53:43information and you think the worst of the worst is out there
- 53:46and someone's coming to get you and you're looking over your
- 53:48shoulder because of what they're putting out there.
- 53:50We don't hear enough the good things.
- 53:52I've said this last time also, Michael, we don't hear enough
- 53:55that the beautiful parts of each of our cultures, of Christians,
- 53:59of Jewish people love Muslims. We don't hear enough about that.
- 54:02We're not educated enough. We're not teaching the children
- 54:05of all the beautiful good things about it.
- 54:06And they're just seeing all the hate.
- 54:07They're seeing all the bad stuff.
- 54:09They're seeing the bad apples. They're seeing the people that
- 54:11are doing violent things, terrible things.
- 54:13And you know what, Michael? It's very unfortunate, but I'm
- 54:16not kidding you. I went to Dunkin' Donuts this
- 54:18morning. I promised.
- 54:19This happened to me. I went to Dunkin' Donuts this
- 54:20morning and somebody walked in and I don't know, to me it
- 54:25looked a little suspect. And I was like, well, I'm
- 54:27talking to the person. Next thing.
- 54:28I'm just like keeping on the court.
- 54:30I'm like, I'm working. I'm working Yamaka and I'm
- 54:32nervous. Is this person like I, I never
- 54:35used to live that way, but because of what's going on, what
- 54:37I'm seeing, what I'm hearing, I might be delusional.
- 54:39You know what, it was silly what I was doing.
- 54:41I really shouldn't think that way.
- 54:43But because of what's around me, we got to spread more
- 54:45positivity. We got to put more resources.
- 54:49Just like for every bad story we post on Fox News or on CNN or
- 54:52whatever, let's do a good story. Also let's show some helping
- 54:56hand that somebody did some inter community event that's
- 54:59going let's why can't we do more of that?
- 55:01I would agree. You know, look, I think
- 55:03unfortunately you're not, you're not being delusional.
- 55:07It's you got to be cognizant. I mean, unfortunately we've seen
- 55:11obviously an uptick in anti-Semitic hate crimes, but
- 55:15more overlook it's something that I'm way more cognizant
- 55:18about this Congress than I was last Congress.
- 55:20I wasn't as concerned about my safety or my family safety or my
- 55:25staff safe safety last Congress. I am this because the vitriol,
- 55:30the hatred, the anger, the, the, the just leveled up rhetoric
- 55:35that has been spewed and, and the violence that we're seeing.
- 55:38It's just, it's unconscionable. And obviously it's, it creates
- 55:42such strain within society and and in our country.
- 55:46And again, it's easy to point the finger.
- 55:49I think everybody's got to take a little bit of a introspective
- 55:52look here and say, what can I do better?
- 55:54How can I uplift the dialogue? How can we, as you're saying,
- 55:58you know, in the media, how do we highlight positive stories?
- 56:01You know, yes, we got to show the negative in terms of what's
- 56:05going on or somebody, you know, hurt or, or an incident.
- 56:09But how do we uplift? Because there's so much more
- 56:12positive in our community and our society and our country.
- 56:16We live in the greatest country in the world, and the American
- 56:19people are the most generous people in the world.
- 56:21And there's so much good going on.
- 56:23And the question is, where do we focus our effort and our time
- 56:27and our energy? Do we focus on the negative and
- 56:29the area of disagreement or difference, or do we focus on
- 56:32the positive and the area of commonality and agreement?
- 56:35Yeah, we definitely like bringing people on that talk
- 56:38about positivity and growth and both personally and
- 56:41professionally, and it was an honor having you here today.
- 56:43We really, really appreciate it. Is there anyone that you can
- 56:45recommend that would fill that seat as a guest on our podcast
- 56:48that can help in our mission? I think you'd love to talk to
- 56:52Josh, got Heimer. He'd be a good.
- 56:54Awesome. A good representative to talk to
- 56:56Richie Torres would be would be another.
- 56:59Richard Best storm supporter of Israel.
- 57:01Also, you know, he posts about it unabashedly and he gets a
- 57:04little bit of hate from his. So why are you always so busy
- 57:07with Israel? You know, what about over here
- 57:09at home? And he doesn't care.
- 57:10And he's still he's. Got a great story, you know, So
- 57:14yeah, those would be too. Amazing.
- 57:15Too. Good.
- 57:16You don't mind asking them for? We're not going to be Richard.
- 57:18We're not going to put you on the spot like we normally do
- 57:20because we respect your time and privacy.
- 57:23But yeah, if you can ask them to join us, that would be great.
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- 57:52Thank you so much and Happy New Year to all of our listeners and
- 57:56thank you very much for being. Happy and blessed Russia, Shana.
- 57:59Thank you, thank you, thank you. Be well, it's a wrap.
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