Latest / Reformed Thinking / The Totality of Devotion: The Great Commandment and the Impossible Standard (Matthew 22:37–39)
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- 0:00Welcome back to Reform Thinking. I am really looking forward to
- 0:03this session because we are, we're taking a look at a passage
- 0:06of scripture that I think most of us, well, we've heard it 1000
- 0:10times. It's one of those texts that's
- 0:12so familiar, you know, we might just skate right over the top of
- 0:16it and miss the the sheer shock of what's actually happening in
- 0:21that moment. Or in Matthew 22, verses 37
- 0:24through 40, the great commandment.
- 0:26Right. And it's a text that, you know,
- 0:28it really stands at the absolute center of Christian ethics.
- 0:31But like you said, that familiarity, it can breed a kind
- 0:34of a deafness. We hear the words love God, love
- 0:38neighbor, and we just sort of nod along.
- 0:40We think, OK, got it. I understand the assignment.
- 0:43But when you actually dig into the context, and I mean really
- 0:46dig into the specific language Jesus is using here, you realize
- 0:50this isn't good advice. It's a it's a devastating
- 0:53standard. OK, so let's set the stage
- 0:55because because the atmosphere is everything in this passage,
- 0:58we have to realize where we are in the story.
- 1:01This isn't Jesus sitting on a grassy hill with the disciples,
- 1:04you know, having some quiet morning devotion.
- 1:06No, not at all. This is Holy Week.
- 1:09This is the final tense week of his life.
- 1:12The pressure is just incredibly high.
- 1:15The context is combat. It is.
- 1:17It's conflict. I mean, think about what's just
- 1:19happened. Jesus has entered Jerusalem on
- 1:21Palm Sunday, acclaimed as the king.
- 1:24He's gone straight into the temple and cleansed it.
- 1:26He's overturned the tables of the money changers.
- 1:29He has, for all intents and purposes, shut down the
- 1:32financial engine of the entire religious establishment.
- 1:35So the air is thick with hostility.
- 1:36It's electric with it. So when these religious, those
- 1:39leaders approach him, they are not coming to learn, they're not
- 1:42disciples, they are hunting. They're hunting for ammunition.
- 1:45That's a good way to put it. Our sources describe this whole
- 1:48encounter as a kind of forensic strike.
- 1:51I like that. They want to put him on the
- 1:53witness stand, you know, cross examine him and trick him into
- 1:57saying something, anything that will either get him arrested by
- 2:00the Romans or worse, stoned by the Jews.
- 2:03They're trying to trap him in a partisan debate.
- 2:06And you have to remember the context of the 1st century here.
- 2:09The Pharisees, the scribes, they, I mean they loved to argue
- 2:13about the law. It was their favorite pastime.
- 2:15It was. They'd identified 613 distinct
- 2:19commandments in the Torah, and they spent countless hours
- 2:23debating which ones were heavy. You know, the really essential
- 2:26ones and which ones were light or less critical.
- 2:29So they're trying to drag Jesus into this, this theological cage
- 2:33match. Exactly.
- 2:34They wanted to pick a side. It's kind of like asking a
- 2:36politician today one of those gotcha questions, right, about a
- 2:40super specific controversial policy, just hoping they'll slip
- 2:43up and alienate half their base. That's a perfect analogy.
- 2:47The question they ask sounds so innocent on the surface.
- 2:50Teacher. Which is the great commandment
- 2:52in the law? But it's loaded.
- 2:53It's completely loaded. It's a trap with three exits,
- 2:56and all of them are bad for Jesus.
- 2:58Or so they think. OK, walk us through that.
- 3:01What are the three bad exits? Well, think about it.
- 3:04If Jesus picks a commandment about, say, ritual sacrifice,
- 3:08one of the temple laws, they can immediately turn around and say,
- 3:12see, he doesn't care about moral behavior, he's just a formalist.
- 3:17If he picks a moral law, maybe one of the 10 commandments, they
- 3:20can accuse him of being careless about the temple rituals which
- 3:23were central to their life. They'd say he's disrespecting
- 3:27the House of God. And what's the third option?
- 3:30If he picks a controversial light law, something the Rabbi's
- 3:33debated, they could just dismiss him entirely as a radical,
- 3:36someone who doesn't understand the weight of the Torah.
- 3:39So no matter what he picks, they've got him.
- 3:41That's their plan. They're trying to expose him as
- 3:43a heretic, A partisan or a fool. But before we even get to
- 3:47Jesus's answer, which is just brilliant, we need to back up
- 3:51just a little bit. Because this wasn't the first
- 3:52person to take a swing at him that day, was it?
- 3:55No, this was a coordinated, multi pronged attack.
- 3:59The scholars call these the testing narratives.
- 4:01It was a whole sequence of traps.
- 4:03Who went first? First they sent the Herodians.
- 4:06These were the political guys, the ones who were cozy with
- 4:08Rome, and they came with the political trap.
- 4:10The tax question. The tax question Is it lawful to
- 4:13pay taxes to Caesar if he says don't pay, boom, he's a traitor
- 4:18to Rome, an insurrectionist. And if he says pay?
- 4:21Then he's a traitor to the Jewish people who are under
- 4:25Roman occupation and despise the tax.
- 4:27He'd be seen as a collaborator. And he just masterfully
- 4:30sidesteps that with the render to Caesar what is Caesar's, and
- 4:34to God what is God's lying. Which leaves them absolutely
- 4:37speechless. They can't believe it.
- 4:39So they regroup. Who's up next?
- 4:41So then the Sadducees step up to the plate.
- 4:43Now you have to understand who these guys were.
- 4:46The Sadducees were the theological liberals of their
- 4:49day. What does that mean in this
- 4:50context? It means they didn't believe in
- 4:51the supernatural. They denied the resurrection of
- 4:54the dead Angel spirits, any of it.
- 4:56They were the materialists. So they come with a theological
- 4:58Riddle. A ridiculous one.
- 5:00Yeah, This absurd hypothetical about a woman who marries seven
- 5:04brothers in succession. And they ask, so in the
- 5:07resurrection, whose wife will she be?
- 5:10They're not actually curious about the answer.
- 5:12Of course not. They're trying to make the very
- 5:14idea of the resurrection, a core doctrine look absurd.
- 5:18They're trying to mock it into. Oblivion and Jesus shuts them
- 5:21down too. He does.
- 5:23He basically tells them you don't know the scriptures and
- 5:25you don't know the power of God. He corrects their bad theology
- 5:29and their low view of God in one sentence.
- 5:32And that right there is the setup for our text.
- 5:35It is the perfect setup. Jesus has just silenced the
- 5:38liberals, the Sadducees, So now the Pharisees, the theological
- 5:42conservatives, the guys who prided themselves on their deep
- 5:44knowledge of the text and their orthodoxy, they see an opening.
- 5:48They smell blood in the water. They think, OK, he beat the
- 5:50Sadducees on their own turf, but we are the real experts in the
- 5:53law. Let's send in our best guy, our
- 5:56top lawyer. So they tag in their champion, a
- 5:58lawyer, an expert in the Torah, and he's the one who asks this
- 6:02question about the greatest commandment.
- 6:04You know, in a way they're kind of asking for the constitution
- 6:07of the Kingdom of God. They want to know what the
- 6:09single organizing principle is. And Jesus's response is just
- 6:14it's incredible. He completely refuses to play
- 6:17their game of legalistic calculus.
- 6:19He does. He doesn't go to a specific
- 6:21ritual. He doesn't even go to the 10
- 6:22commandments, not directly. He goes to the very bedrock of
- 6:26Israel's national and religious confession.
- 6:29He quotes the Shema. From Deuteronomy 6 verse five,
- 6:32you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with
- 6:35all your soul, and with all your mind.
- 6:37OK, let's really unpack this because love is a word we throw
- 6:40around for everything. I love pizza.
- 6:42I love my wife. I love a good book.
- 6:44Right, it's a very broad, squishy word in English.
- 6:47But when Jesus says love here, the Greek is very specific,
- 6:51isn't it? It is.
- 6:52He uses the word agapach, and the grammar is actually
- 6:55fascinating. It's a future indicative verb
- 6:58that's functioning as an imperative.
- 6:59OK, break that down for us. It sounds technical, but it
- 7:03basically means this isn't a suggestion.
- 7:05It's not a friendly piece of advice.
- 7:07It's a command with the force of an established reality.
- 7:11This is how it will be. And this word agapach, it's
- 7:14different from the other Greek word for love, fileti.
- 7:17Very different. Filet is the word for affection,
- 7:20for brotherly feeling, for friendship.
- 7:22It's about how you feel. Agapash is about what you
- 7:25choose. It's a love of the will.
- 7:28So it's volitional. It is completely volitional.
- 7:30It's a deciding love. It's about allegiance.
- 7:33The command isn't asking you hey do you get warm fuzzy feelings
- 7:36when you think about God? It's asking have you surrendered
- 7:39your will, your entire being to his authority?
- 7:42It's a command for total all-encompassing devotion.
- 7:45And that totality is hammered home by the list that Jesus
- 7:48gives heart, soul, and mind. Right.
- 7:51Now, I know we often try to, you know, slice and dice these into
- 7:54separate psychological compartments, like the heart is
- 7:57emotion, the mind is intellect. And our sources suggest that's
- 8:00probably not what Jesus is doing here.
- 8:02He's using what we call totality language.
- 8:04He's not giving us a diagram of the human psyche where you can
- 8:08say, OK, check, my heart loves God, but my mind is kind of
- 8:11doing its own thing today. So it's more like he's listing
- 8:14every faculty to show that every faculty is included.
- 8:17Exactly. He's saying every single part of
- 8:19the human person must be consciously and actively
- 8:21directed toward God. No part of you is exempt.
- 8:24Let's break them down though, just for a minute, to see the
- 8:26nuance. He starts with heart.
- 8:29In our culture, the heart is the seed of emotions.
- 8:32If I say follow your heart, I mean chase your feelings.
- 8:35But that's not what a 1st century Jew would have heard.
- 8:38Not at all. That's a very modern romantic
- 8:40idea. In the biblical mind, the heart,
- 8:42the cardia, is the command center of the person, the.
- 8:45Command center. It's the seat of the will, the
- 8:48intellect, your personality, your core being.
- 8:50It's where you make decisions. It's the source of your desires
- 8:53and intentions. So to love God with all your
- 8:56heart means your core driving purpose.
- 8:59Everything you want is aligned with His glory.
- 9:02It's about what you choose, what you want at the deepest level.
- 9:05Precisely. OK then he says soul.
- 9:09The Greek word is psyche. Right.
- 9:11And this is often understood as your life force, your breath,
- 9:14your vitality, your very being. It implies A willingness to
- 9:18expend your entire physical existence for God.
- 9:21So it's loving God with your very life.
- 9:23It's loving God with your very breath.
- 9:25If it came down to a choice, you would be willing to lose your
- 9:28life rather than deny Him. It's that total?
- 9:30And then he adds the third one, which I think is so, so relevant
- 9:33for our podcast, Reformed thinking, he says with all your
- 9:36mind. This is where it gets really
- 9:38interesting theologically, because if you go back to the
- 9:41original Hebrew text of Deuteronomy, it actually says
- 9:44with all your strength but Jesus.
- 9:46Here, he's likely quoting the Septuagint, which is the Greek
- 9:49translation of the Old Testament that was common in his day.
- 9:52And that translation uses the word Dianoya, which means mind
- 9:57or intellect. So he's intentionally
- 9:59highlighting the mind. He's clarifying that your
- 10:02intellect, your reason, your thought processes are an
- 10:04essential arena of worship. Why is that addition or that
- 10:08clarification so critical for us today?
- 10:11Because we live in an age that is just rife with a kind of anti
- 10:16intellectualism even within the. Church.
- 10:18Oh yeah, you hear it all the time.
- 10:19I don't need all that doctrine. I just need to love Jesus.
- 10:22Exactly. Or theology is just deadhead
- 10:24knowledge. It's not about the heart.
- 10:26And Jesus is standing here saying that is an impossible
- 10:28dichotomy. You cannot love a God you do not
- 10:31know. That is a very strong statement.
- 10:33You cannot love a God you do not know.
- 10:34Well, think it through. If you don't know his character,
- 10:37his attributes as revealed in scripture, his promises, his
- 10:41requirements, who exactly are you loving?
- 10:44You're loving an idea. You're loving a figment of your
- 10:46own imagination. You're loving a God you've
- 10:49created in your own head that looks a lot like you.
- 10:51True love for the real God requires thinking his thoughts
- 10:54after him. It demands study.
- 10:56So lazy theology. Lazy theology is a direct
- 10:59violation of the greatest commandment.
- 11:01Wow. That hits heart.
- 11:03So living God isn't about checking your brain at the
- 11:06church door. No, it's about engaging your
- 11:08intellect to its fullest capacity to understand the
- 11:11magnificent, holy and complex being you are commanded to
- 11:15worship. So the mind is a faculty of
- 11:17worship. It absolutely is.
- 11:19When we study the Westminster Standards, when we dig into the
- 11:22Greek and Hebrew, when we read solid theology, we aren't just
- 11:26doing some dry academic work. We are actively obeying the
- 11:30command to love God with our minds.
- 11:32OK, so we've established this vertical axis.
- 11:35Love God with everything you have.
- 11:37Real life intellect. It sounds beautiful.
- 11:40I mean, it sounds like the perfect goal if it does.
- 11:42But our sources take a pretty sharp turn right here.
- 11:45They start talking about this as the first use of the law.
- 11:48Yes, this is a key concept in reformed theology.
- 11:51We talk about the law having three different functions or
- 11:54uses. The first use of the law is to
- 11:56function as a mirror. A mirror, It's primary job is to
- 11:59show us our sin. It reflects back to us the
- 12:01perfect standard of God, and in doing so reveals how far short
- 12:05we fall. So I'm supposed to look at this
- 12:07commandment? Love God with all your heart and
- 12:09all your soul and all your mind. And what do I see in that
- 12:12reflection? If you are being brutally honest
- 12:15with yourself, you see a law breaker.
- 12:18The word that kills us, the word that condemns us in that phrase
- 12:21is the word all. It's not some of your heart.
- 12:23It's not. Most of the time it's not Love
- 12:26God more than you love football. It demands comprehensive, total,
- 12:31unbroken devotion from the moment you're born to the moment
- 12:35you die. And I think I mean, if we're all
- 12:37honest with ourselves, even on our very best days, our motives
- 12:40are mixed. Always we're.
- 12:42Distracted. We're self-centered.
- 12:43We might do the right thing, but for the wrong reason.
- 12:46Our sources use a specific theological term for our natural
- 12:49state. By nature, since the fall of
- 12:51Adam, we are philetoy, which means lovers of self.
- 12:54That's our default setting. We are not by nature Philippi
- 12:57lovers of God. We love our comfort, we love our
- 12:59reputation, we love our own autonomy.
- 13:02We love being in control. And so this commandment comes in
- 13:05like a laser guided forensic tool to expose our total
- 13:09depravity. So the lawyer asks what's the
- 13:11greatest commandment hoping to trap Jesus, And Jesus gives an
- 13:15answer that in effect condemns every single person listening.
- 13:19Including the lawyer. Including us.
- 13:21Absolutely, and that's the point.
- 13:23This commandment is a death sentence for the self-righteous.
- 13:26If you think you can earn your way to heaven by keeping the
- 13:29law, Jesus just set the bar at a height that no mere human can
- 13:33ever clear. I mean, who has kept this for a
- 13:37single hour? No one, not for a minute, not
- 13:39for a single second, has any fallen human loved God with all
- 13:43their heart, soul and mind. This is where the impossible
- 13:46standard part of our episode title really comes into focus.
- 13:49It is. If this is the requirement for
- 13:52eternal life, perfect, unbroken, all-encompassing love, then we
- 13:57are all in very serious trouble. We're undone.
- 14:00We are undone. We stand rightfully condemned
- 14:02before a holy God. But this is the genius of it.
- 14:06This is where the law becomes the servant of the Gospel.
- 14:08How so? The law has to crush our
- 14:10self-confidence. It has to demolish any hope we
- 14:13have of saving ourselves so that we finally, desperately look
- 14:16outside of ourselves for a Savior.
- 14:18And this is where that specifically Reformed
- 14:20understanding of Christ's work is so helpful.
- 14:22It's not just that he died for our sins.
- 14:25Right. It's not just what theologians
- 14:27call his passive obedience, His suffering and death on the cross
- 14:30to pay the penalty for our sin. There's more.
- 14:32There is. There's his active obedience.
- 14:34This is an absolutely crucial theological concept.
- 14:38Explain that for us. The active obedience of Christ
- 14:41is the reality that for his entire 33 years on earth, Jesus
- 14:46Christ is the only human being, whoever lived, who actually kept
- 14:49the great commandment perfectly. Every second.
- 14:52Every second of every day he loved the Father with all his
- 14:55heart, all his soul and all his mind, without failure, without
- 14:58wavering, without any mixed motives.
- 15:00So he fulfilled the covenant of works where Adam failed.
- 15:03And where every single one of us fails every single day and.
- 15:06The glory of the gospel is. Imputation, the great exchange
- 15:10when we place our faith in Christ, His perfect record of
- 15:13loving God, His perfect righteousness, is credited to
- 15:16our account. So when the Father looks at us,
- 15:19he doesn't see our fractured, half hearted, distracted love.
- 15:23No, he sees the perfect, wholehearted, comprehensive
- 15:26devotion of his son. That just changes everything.
- 15:29It means I don't wake up in the morning trying to love God so
- 15:32that He will accept me. I wake up knowing I'm already
- 15:35accepted in Christ because of Christ's perfect love, and now I
- 15:38get to love God in response. You've got it.
- 15:41The crushing pressure of earning salvation is gone.
- 15:44Now love becomes a joyful response of gratitude, not a
- 15:47wage we're desperately trying to earn to pay off a debt.
- 15:50OK, so that covers the vertical axis, the God word command.
- 15:54But Jesus doesn't stop there, does he?
- 15:55He immediately pivots. He does, he says, and a second
- 15:59is like it. You shall love your neighbor as
- 16:01yourself. And that little phrase is like
- 16:04it. That's the hinge, isn't it?
- 16:06That is the whole hinge. The Greek word is hamoya.
- 16:09It means similar to or resembling or of the same kind.
- 16:14Jesus is welding these two commandments together.
- 16:17You can't separate them. You cannot have one without the
- 16:19other. You cannot claim to have a
- 16:21legitimate vertical relationship with God that does not produce a
- 16:24tangible horizontal relationship with your neighbor.
- 16:27It immediately makes me think of first John 4.20.
- 16:31If anyone says I love God and hates his brother, he's a liar.
- 16:34It's so blunt, isn't it? There's no wiggle room there.
- 16:37The vertical love for God is the root system deep in the soil.
- 16:42The horizontal love for neighbor is the fruit that grows on the
- 16:45tree. And if there's no fruit?
- 16:47There's no root. It's that simple.
- 16:49If you claim to have this high, mystical, deep love for God, but
- 16:54you are cruel or indifferent or harsh to the people around you,
- 16:57your claim is false. OK, let's talk about that word
- 17:00neighbor, because the lawyer asking the question and the
- 17:04Pharisees in general, they had a very specific, very narrow
- 17:08definition of who their neighbor was.
- 17:10Oh, absolutely. They looked at Leviticus 19.18
- 17:14which is the verse Jesus is quoting, and they drew a very
- 17:16small circle around it. Who was in the circle?
- 17:18My neighbor is my fellow Jew. My neighbor is someone in my
- 17:22particular sect who keeps the law the way I do.
- 17:24My neighbor is someone who is ceremonially clean and
- 17:27politically aligned with me. But Jesus just blows that
- 17:29definition to pieces. He completely destroys it, and
- 17:32we see this most clearly, of course, in the parable of the
- 17:34Good Samaritan, which he tells in response to the very same
- 17:37question. Jesus expands the definition of
- 17:40neighbor to include anyone, anyone that God in his
- 17:44Providence places in your path. It's not just the person you
- 17:48like. No, it's not just the person who
- 17:51votes like you, or looks like you, or lives in your
- 17:53subdivision. It is the person right in front
- 17:55of you who has a need, even if especially if they're your
- 17:58enemy. And then comes the standard.
- 18:00This is the part that I think gets so twisted today.
- 18:03Love your neighbor as yourself. I have heard so many sermons and
- 18:07read so many books that teach this in a way that says, well
- 18:12you see the real problem is you don't love yourself enough.
- 18:15You need to build up your self esteem, learn self love and then
- 18:18you'll be able to love others. That is an incredibly common
- 18:21modern reading. It's essentially a form of
- 18:23therapeutic deism, but it's a complete misreading of the text
- 18:27and, frankly, of basic biblical anthropology.
- 18:30Because the Bible doesn't teach there are problems that we hate
- 18:32ourselves. Not at all.
- 18:34The Bible teaches the exact opposite.
- 18:36Ephesians 5.29 says For Noah ever hated his own flesh, but
- 18:40nourishes and cherishes it. It's our factory setting.
- 18:43It is our factory setting. Even a person who struggles with
- 18:47what we call low self esteem is still fundamentally self
- 18:50obsessed. They're obsessed with how they
- 18:52look, how they're perceived, their own pain, their own
- 18:55feelings. We are by nature completely self
- 18:59absorbed creatures. So.
- 19:00Jesus is leveraging that innate selfishness.
- 19:02He's turning it on its head. He's saying, you know that
- 19:06intense, all consuming concern you have for your own
- 19:10well-being. You know how much you care about
- 19:12your own comfort, your own hunger, your own reputation.
- 19:16You know how quickly you defend yourself when you feel attacked.
- 19:19You know how you instinctively provide for your own needs.
- 19:22Do that for your neighbor. Take that same intensity, that
- 19:25same urgency, that same consistent moment by moment care
- 19:28that you instinctively give to yourself and turn it outward.
- 19:31Seek your neighbor's good with the same ferocity that you
- 19:33naturally seek your own. So this is not a command to
- 19:36boost the ego, it's a command to crucify the ego.
- 19:40It is the death of selfishness. It's saying I am going to treat
- 19:44your needs, your hurts, your reputation and your well-being
- 19:47with the same level of importance that I instinctively
- 19:50give to my own. That is incredibly practical and
- 19:53it is incredibly difficult. Impossible apart from grace.
- 19:56Because it's easy to love humanity in the abstract, right?
- 19:59Yeah, it's really hard to love the specific neighbor who leaves
- 20:03their. Your trash cans out all week.
- 20:04Or the guy who cuts you off in traffic.
- 20:07Or the family member who knows exactly which buttons to push.
- 20:09Or the person in the Pew next to you at church who has political
- 20:13views that you find absolutely abhorrent.
- 20:16That is the neighbor. And just like the first
- 20:18commandment, the second one functions as a mirror.
- 20:22It exposes us. Who among us has ever
- 20:24consistently loved their neighbor as they love
- 20:26themselves? I certainly haven't.
- 20:28So once again, the law drives us back to Christ.
- 20:31It has to. He is the only one who truly
- 20:33loved his neighbors, us, his enemies, more than he loved
- 20:37himself. He emptied himself for our sake.
- 20:40He's the Good Samaritan in the story.
- 20:42He is we are the ones beaten and half dead in the ditch of our
- 20:45sin, and He is the one who stops at great personal cost to
- 20:49Himself to bind up our wounds and save us.
- 20:52Now Jesus wraps this whole exchange up in verse 40 with a
- 20:56statement that really pulls the entire Old Testament together.
- 21:00He says on these two commandments hang all the law
- 21:04and the prophets. The visual metaphor he uses here
- 21:07is just so striking. The Greek word is cremantai.
- 21:10It literally means to hang or to be suspended.
- 21:13Like a picture hanging on a hook.
- 21:15Exactly. Or picture a heavy door hanging
- 21:17on its hinges. The hinges are small, but they
- 21:19bear the weight of the entire door.
- 21:21You take the hook of the hinges away, the whole thing just falls
- 21:23to the floor. Right.
- 21:24Jesus is saying that without these two core principles, love
- 21:28God, love neighbor. The entire Old Testament,
- 21:30Revelation, all 613 laws, all the history, all the prophecies,
- 21:36it all just collapses into a meaningless, disconnected pile
- 21:39of rules. So this is the hermeneutical
- 21:40key. This is how we are supposed to
- 21:42read and interpret the whole Bible.
- 21:44This is the interpretive key. Every single ritual in
- 21:48Leviticus, every sermon in the book of Isaiah, every story of
- 21:52the Kings and Chronicles, it is all ultimately aiming at this
- 21:56one goal, creating a people who love God with their whole being
- 22:02and love their neighbor as themselves.
- 22:04It seems like this framework prevents us from falling into
- 22:06two major ditches that people always fall into.
- 22:09It does. On one side you've got legalism.
- 22:13All rules, but no love. Right, checking boxes, but with
- 22:16a cold heart. And on the other side you have
- 22:19antinomianism, which is a kind of vague love but with no rules.
- 22:22And Jesus's statement here holds those two in perfect tension.
- 22:25He says the law and the prophets hang on love.
- 22:28They aren't replaced by love or erased by love.
- 22:30They are fulfilled and given their proper meaning by love.
- 22:33Let's dig into those misreadings a little more, because I think
- 22:35this is where the rubber really meets the road for a lot of us
- 22:38today. Good idea.
- 22:39Our outline for this deep dive mentions sentimental
- 22:41antinomianism. That's a mouthful, but I think I
- 22:44know what it means. It's a fancy term for a very,
- 22:47very common problem in the modern church.
- 22:50It's the idea that love is just a warm feeling or a blanket
- 22:53affirmation of whatever someone wants to do.
- 22:56You hear it all the time. Well, Jesus just said we should
- 22:59love people, so we shouldn't judge anyone's behavior.
- 23:01The whole love is love mantra, right?
- 23:02Right. But biblically love is not a
- 23:05sentiment. Love is covenantal fidelity.
- 23:08It is defined by God's revealed law.
- 23:12You cannot claim you are loving your neighbor while
- 23:14simultaneously encouraging them or helping them to sin against
- 23:18God. Because that's not actually for
- 23:20their good. It's enabling their destruction.
- 23:21That isn't love, that's malpractice.
- 23:24Remember, the second commandment is like the first, not instead
- 23:27of the 1st. So true love for our neighbor
- 23:29has to be shaped and informed by the truth of God.
- 23:32I can't love my neighbor by lying to them or by telling them
- 23:36that something God clearly calls sin is actually good for them.
- 23:39Correct. Love provides the powerful
- 23:41motive, but the law, God's revealed will, provides the
- 23:45definition and the necessary boundaries for what loving
- 23:48action actually looks like. OK, so that's one ditch.
- 23:51Then there's the other one, Legalism.
- 23:53We've touched on this, but it's the error of treating this
- 23:56commandment as a ladder to earn God's favor.
- 23:59This is the default mode of the fallen human heart.
- 24:02It's religion. We want to earn, our keep.
- 24:04We want to be able to present our spiritual resume to God and
- 24:07say, look at how well I've done. But Jesus's command makes that
- 24:10impossible. The word all, all your heart,
- 24:13all your soul, all your mind. It takes a saw and cuts off the
- 24:18bottom rungs of that ladder. It makes it completely
- 24:20impossible to climb. And if we try to climb it
- 24:22anyway, one of two things happens.
- 24:24What's that? We either become arrogant,
- 24:27self-righteous Pharisees because we delude ourselves into
- 24:30thinking we're actually succeeding, or we collapse into
- 24:33despair and self hatred because we know we're failing miserably.
- 24:36And neither of those is the gospel.
- 24:38Arrogance and despair are two sides of the same self focused
- 24:42coin. There's another trap that our
- 24:44sources mentioned that I think is really subtle.
- 24:45It's called privatized piety. This seems to be a big one for
- 24:49people frankly like us, people who love theology.
- 24:53Yes, this is a very real danger for the intellectually inclined.
- 24:58This is the person who can claim to have a deep, substantial,
- 25:02private relationship with God. They do their quiet time every
- 25:05day. They read the Puritans.
- 25:07They can defend the five points of Calvinism.
- 25:09Florida State. Their doctrine is perfect, but
- 25:13they're harsh and short tempered with their spouse.
- 25:16They ignore the needs of the poor in their community.
- 25:19They're arrogant and dismissive in online debates.
- 25:22They seem to love the idea of God, but they don't seem to care
- 25:25much for the people God made in his image.
- 25:27And Jesus will not allow that separation, he says.
- 25:30The second command is like the first If you're supposed
- 25:32vertical love for God doesn't flow out horizontally into
- 25:35tangible, patient, kind love for people.
- 25:37It's a stagnant pool. It's not the living water Jesus
- 25:40talks about. And then there's the flip side
- 25:42of that coin, which the outline calls horizontal humanism, or,
- 25:46more commonly, the social gospel.
- 25:48Right. This is the error of
- 25:49prioritizing neighbor love while completely discarding doctrinal
- 25:53truth and the worship of God. It's trying to do the works of
- 25:56the Kingdom without acknowledging the King.
- 25:58You see this when churches basically become social service
- 26:01agencies. Exactly.
- 26:02They run a great food pantry, they do wonderful community
- 26:05outreach, but they stop preaching repentance, faith in
- 26:09Christ, and the atonement for sin.
- 26:11It's all about being a good person without any name for a
- 26:14savior. And ultimately that fails even
- 26:17on its own terms, because without the vertical anchor in
- 26:19God's truth, you lose the very definition of what is truly good
- 26:24for your neighbor. You just end up affirming them
- 26:26and whatever they want rather than seeking their actual
- 26:28eternal good. So OK, we've walked through the
- 26:33text, we've seen the trap, we felt the weight of the
- 26:36impossible standard, and we've seen our absolute need for
- 26:39Christ's perfect obedience. Now let's try to land the plane
- 26:43here with some direct application.
- 26:45Our sources bring up the third use of the law.
- 26:48Right. So we talked about the first use
- 26:49the law as a mirror that exposes our sin and drives us to Christ.
- 26:52Yeah. The third use of the law is the
- 26:54law as a guide for the believer. Now that we are saved by grace,
- 26:58now that we are justified and accepted in Christ, how are we
- 27:01supposed to live? We look to the law.
- 27:03We look to the law not to get saved, but as a beautiful guide
- 27:06for how to please the One who saved us.
- 27:08It's a family rule book for God's adopted children.
- 27:11So let's run a couple of diagnostics based on this text
- 27:14for our listeners who love reform thinking, the
- 27:17intellectuals, the theology nerds out there.
- 27:19What's the specific warning from this passage for them?
- 27:23The warning is clear and it's sharp.
- 27:25Do not love the system more than the Savior.
- 27:28It is so easy, especially for those of us with a certain kind
- 27:31of mind, to fall in love with the beautiful architecture of
- 27:34Reformed theology, the logic, the coherence, the history, and
- 27:38to forget that the entire system is meant to be a signpost
- 27:41pointing to a person. Does your theology terminate in
- 27:45doxology? That is the ultimate question.
- 27:48Does your deep study of the attributes of God make you weep
- 27:51over your own sin, or does it make you want to sing louder on
- 27:53Sunday morning? Does it make you more patient
- 27:56and gentle with a new believer who knows less than?
- 27:58Because if it doesn't. If all your knowledge just puffs
- 28:01you up and makes you arrogant, then you are violating the
- 28:04greatest commandment with the very mind you think you're using
- 28:06to honor God. Wow.
- 28:08OK, So what about the other person?
- 28:10What about the activist? The person who's out there
- 28:12serving constantly, running the food pantry, fighting for social
- 28:15justice, But they're just, they're burning out.
- 28:18For that person, the warning is you cannot pour out from an
- 28:22empty cup. You cannot sustain horizontal
- 28:24love without being filled by vertical strength.
- 28:27The order matters. The order is everything.
- 28:30If you start skipping corporate worship, if you neglect the Word
- 28:33in prayer because you're too busy serving Jesus, you will
- 28:36eventually dry up. You'll become bitter or cynical,
- 28:39or you'll just quit. You have to constantly return to
- 28:41the means of grace. Vertical first, then horizontal.
- 28:44That is the non negotiable order of operations for the Christian
- 28:47life. Your service has to flow from
- 28:49your worship. Let's get really, really
- 28:51practical with this neighbor stuff as we close our sources
- 28:54point out. And it's so true that the
- 28:56nearest neighbors are often the hardest ones to love.
- 28:59It is the great irony of home life, isn't it?
- 29:01You can be a paragon of virtue at church or at work, and an
- 29:05absolute terror at the dinner table.
- 29:07Your spouse and your children, they see the real you.
- 29:09They do, and loving them as yourself means dying daily to
- 29:14your need to be right in an argument.
- 29:16Dying to your need for quiet when the kids are loud.
- 29:19Dying to your knee for control, impatience and harshness with
- 29:23your own family is a direct failure to love your nearest
- 29:26neighbor. And then there's our speech.
- 29:28I mean, we live in an era of constant hot takes and online
- 29:32outrage. Sarcasm, gossip, slander, the
- 29:35snarky comment online, these are all violations of the second
- 29:39commandment. When you tear someone down, even
- 29:41with a witty comment to make yourself look smarter,
- 29:43righteous, you are nourishing your own flesh at their expense.
- 29:47You're living yourself, not them.
- 29:48Exactly. You are not loving them as
- 29:50yourself. And finally, the hardest one of
- 29:52all enemies, the person who cannot or will not repay your
- 29:56kindness. That is the ultimate acid test
- 29:58of genuine spirit wrought love. It's easy to love people who
- 30:01love you back. Anybody can do that.
- 30:03But Jesus calls us to love the one who opposes us, the one who
- 30:06has hurt us. And that doesn't mean we have to
- 30:08feel warm and fuzzy about them. No, it's not about feelings.
- 30:11It means we actively seek their good.
- 30:13We pray for their salvation. We refuse to retaliate or seek
- 30:17revenge. We speak truthfully but gently.
- 30:19That is supernatural love. That is the clearest evidence
- 30:24that the Spirit of God is at work in a human heart.
- 30:26It all just keeps coming back to the gospel, doesn't it?
- 30:28It has to because if you and I and everyone listening, just
- 30:32leave this deep dive thinking, OK, I need to try harder to love
- 30:35God and love people. We've missed the entire point.
- 30:38We'll just fail again. We will fail.
- 30:40We have to start with the glorious fact that Christ obeyed
- 30:43this law perfectly for us. He is the greater Savior.
- 30:47He loved God with all his heart. He loved his neighbors as
- 30:50himself, and he did it all the way to the cross.
- 30:53And now, because we are justified, because we are united
- 30:55to Him, the Holy Spirit begins to write this very law on our
- 30:59hearts. We don't love to try and get
- 31:01God's attention or earn His favor.
- 31:03We love because he first loved. Us, That's the fuel.
- 31:06That is the only possible motivation that can sustain this
- 31:09kind of life. It is the gospel frees us to try
- 31:13and to fail and to repent and to get back up and keep growing in
- 31:16love, all without the fear of condemnation.
- 31:20Amen. Well, this has been a very deep
- 31:23dive into just 4 short verses, but man, they are heavy, life
- 31:27altering verses they are. As we wrap up, I want to leave
- 31:29our listeners with that provocative thought.
- 31:31Our sources suggested it's a question to just carry with you
- 31:34this week, to let it sit with you.
- 31:36It's a question that haunts me in a good way.
- 31:39Here it is. If your love for your neighbor
- 31:42was the only evidence that could be presented in a courtroom to
- 31:45prove your love for God, what would the verdict be on your
- 31:48life today? That's a question worth sitting
- 31:50with in silence. Thanks for listening to Reformed
- 31:52Thinking. We'll see you next time on the
- 31:54Deep Dive.