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Holding Safety With Money During Expansion & Leaning Into The Edge Of Abundance · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Live Well Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Liv, a naturopathic doctor, mentor, energy healer, a cost creator, intuitive, energetic business mentor, and honestly, so much more.
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  SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get into the show.
• 0:57
  SPEAKER_00: Hello, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the Live Well podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am excited to dive in.
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  SPEAKER_00: We've had so many good episodes lately.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love both the interviews we've been having, some of the shorter episodes, and I've been getting really good feedback from you guys as well that you've been loving the episodes, that you find them useful, that you're saving them, that you're coming back to them when you need reminders, when you need to absorb it again.
• 1:23
  SPEAKER_00: And today's episode is going to be no different because we are diving into holding safety with money during expansion and really leaning into the edge of abundance.
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  SPEAKER_00: There are two questions that came through me through the portal, which is our free community, if you have not joined that.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm gonna riff on both of those.
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  SPEAKER_00: And there's actually something else I want to start it off with.
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  SPEAKER_00: That was a really interesting comment I got in one of my reels.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, it's interesting.
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  SPEAKER_00: When reels tend to like pop off and they start to grow, you get all kinds of comments.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, and this one I think is really relevant for everyone to kind of hear.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, with that being said, let us dive into the juicy episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, the comment that I got on one of my reels, and if you haven't seen this reel, or if you're not following me on Instagram, definitely head over and follow me on there.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's just at keep up with live.
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  SPEAKER_00: But it was talking about, you know, how to not have a scarcity mindset, or like, how do I not have a scarcity mindset when the money is not coming in?
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you haven't listened to my recent episodes, we kind of dove into this.
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  SPEAKER_00: But essentially the Coles notes is the reason you have a scarcity mindset is because you are dependent on external circumstance and you let that dictate how you feel rather than tapping into the fact that money is created through you from the frequency you exist at.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's not the lack of money coming in that gives you a scarcity mindset, it's the scarcity mindset that is generating an experience of you not having money flow in.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you really need to shift the experience you are having now by obviously changing the way your nervous system responds to wealth.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the comment was, you know, that's a great, that might work for you, but like it doesn't work for me.
• 3:10
  SPEAKER_00: And every time someone says this, I'm just like, I wish I could like kind of part of me wants to shake them because I want you to wake up.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, wake up, please.
• 3:21
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my god, if you could just, if you could just understand this, your life would be different.
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  SPEAKER_00: The laws that apply for me are no different than the laws that apply for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, I am not special in the fact where like I am bound by like the laws of abundance, but like magically you are somehow not bound by the laws of abundance.
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  SPEAKER_00: What happens is we create conditions around these laws that then make it not work for us.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's not that it doesn't work for us, it's that you have conditions in place that is creating the experience of it not working for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, even back to this example, it's not that it doesn't work for you in terms of manifesting the money in or whatever it is, it's who you are and how you are being that's generating your experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: And once you actually take radical responsibility for that and you start to change it, that's where the magic occurs.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the point is, is that this is a condition.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if that was true, it'd have to not work for everyone.
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  SPEAKER_00: The fact that it works for me works, means it works for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is universal law.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right, that's like saying, oh, gravity works for one person, but like, I don't know, gravity doesn't work for another person, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: These are it's the universe, it's a law.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can't actually go against it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So once you realize that it's actually your conditioning and it's not a law of the universe, because in order for it to be law, it actually has to apply to everyone, your whole life will literally shift.
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  SPEAKER_00: But look at how often you lean to this doesn't work for me, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's actually one of the wealth files I call that we're recoding in wealth recode, because it's a popular one of like this doesn't work for me.
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  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't work for you because you are so powerful that you are deciding that it doesn't work for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so that's why it's not, right?
• 5:05
  SPEAKER_00: And so that was like a little nugget that I wanted to start it off with, and it really is a good building block into the rest of this episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the question itself, and I'm gonna read it because I think it's important for context.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the question goes like this when you start expanding yourself by spending extra on the things you desire, like buying a more expensive product, upgrading your flight, or whatever it might be, when you make these moves, how do you bring safety into your body?
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  SPEAKER_00: How do you calm the anxiousness that happens when you spend on those things?
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  SPEAKER_00: Is there things to start doing while you heal that part?
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  SPEAKER_00: So, number one, start with smaller things.
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  SPEAKER_00: So maybe you're not going off and buying a yacht.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you're not buying like a first-class flight.
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  SPEAKER_00: Is it, you know, spending the extra dollar on the milk or whatever, like I don't know, taking yourself out for sushi, whatever it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: Notice where your nervous system lies.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, if your nervous system is like so fight or flight, so much programmed and conditioned for lack and scarcity that you can't spend an extra dollar or an extra 50 cents.
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  SPEAKER_00: You notice even like this is another, you're constantly getting feedback where your nervous system is.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's say you're looking at a menu and something's like$15 and something's$18.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do you get the$15 thing because it's a$3 difference?
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  SPEAKER_00: That tells you where you're at, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So if that's where you're at, make it even smaller and it's even more important for you to do this nervous system work.
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  SPEAKER_00: But start smaller, can it be 50 cents?
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  SPEAKER_00: Can it be a dollar?
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  SPEAKER_00: And then start to work your way up in terms of bringing safety.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because otherwise, like you said, it's gonna be a shock to your nervous system if you don't actually have the mindset and the energetics in your nervous system to hold it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the reason I'm very comfortable receiving, holding, growing, and flowing money is because I can make when I was saying this on the Meant for More masterclass if you guys attended, I can pay a$40,000 credit card bill and I don't flinch, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: I I it doesn't waver me.
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  SPEAKER_00: But my ability to flow that much has taken work.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, there were times where like$2,000 was a lot, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So think about you have to build up to there.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you're not actually calming the anxiousness because then you're bypassing and pretending it's not there.
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  SPEAKER_00: You don't actually want to calm it, you want to address it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hmm, what's the part of me that feels anxious?
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  SPEAKER_00: Hmm, what programming have I picked up there?
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  SPEAKER_00: What conditioning have I picked up there?
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You are the problem is you are responding to your current reality.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you only get more of your current.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it can't feel safe because right now you are responding to your current instead of your desired.
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  SPEAKER_00: So all you do is receive more anxiousness of that.
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  SPEAKER_00: So as you start expanding yourself, and if you listen to my podcast episode, why expansion feels unsafe, it's because it is new for your nervous system.
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  unknown: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: So to bring safety into that, you actually need to unlink the emotions in your brain that is telling you you're going to die if you do this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because yes, your nervous system is literally saying spending the extra dollar on almond milk, you will make you die.
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  SPEAKER_00: So spending A, making it smaller, and B, really doing the work to actually dissolve those emotions in between.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's crazy because if you actually like do the embodiment work and hold it, your relationship with wealth will completely change.
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  SPEAKER_00: And like this is what we do in Wealth Rico.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's why like I birthed this program, is because I've been at both ends of the spectrum.
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  SPEAKER_00: And once you start realizing that you are actually creating your wealth all the time, and you take responsibility of the fact that how much you are receiving is a direct response to like how you are being, everything changes.
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  SPEAKER_00: But that safety can't happen there if it's wired in your brain.
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  SPEAKER_00: And like, unfortunately, if it was as easy to rewire like your nervous system in a podcast episode, I wouldn't do what I do, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So you need to A, start with something smaller, and you need to start sitting with yourself and bringing awareness to those parts that are anxious.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you start bringing awareness to those parts instead of like sweeping them under the rug, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because so many times what I also see is like, well, it's too scary to spend an extra$100, so I'm just gonna play with the$5.
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  SPEAKER_00: People play with the$5 way too long.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so you actually need to flirt with the edge of like your nervous system only learns that it's safe if it sees I can spend the extra dollar and I didn't die.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: But people, if you expect to it to feel fully landed before you do it, that's not true.
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  SPEAKER_00: The reason you expand is because you've done the thing and pushed the edge.
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  SPEAKER_00: Think about it like when you go to the gym.
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  SPEAKER_00: In order for it to be like really easy to, I don't know, curl 20 pounds, at one point, curling 20 pounds was hard, but you only got to the point where that was easy because of your willingness to do the harder thing, to get a little bit uncomfortable.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you're waiting again for it to feel fully safe to buy the more expensive product or to upgrade your flight, you're gonna be waiting a whole long time.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like people who wait for the money to come before they invest in things.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're gonna be waiting the rest of your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you are in the waiting frequency, you are sending the energy of waiting frequency out.
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  SPEAKER_00: So what do you get?
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  SPEAKER_00: Waiting.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you're you're just in this vicious loop of waiting for the money to come in because you were sitting there waiting for the money to come in.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the universe gives you more of the waiting.
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  SPEAKER_00: Versus if you move, the universe then has to move accordingly.
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  SPEAKER_00: And actually, I was going to do a post on this.
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  SPEAKER_00: I think I'm gonna write this out, or maybe I'll do a thread.
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  SPEAKER_00: Either way.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, follow me on threads if you're not.
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  SPEAKER_00: Is that if you are constantly waiting, you will get more of the same.
• 10:49
  SPEAKER_00: I am so excited because the next round of wealth recode is officially open.
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_00: This is the program that recodes your nervous system to feel safe with wealth.
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  SPEAKER_00: Receiving it, holding it, growing it, wealth of all kinds.
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  SPEAKER_00: There are live healing calls with me where we are going to be doing the deep rewiring of living beliefs, letting go of lack and scarcity in your nervous system, generational and past life trauma around money and wealth, and getting you into a state where you are living in complete overflow with wealth.
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  SPEAKER_00: This round is even more potent than before because I have unlocked new levels since the last round that are going to change everything.
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  SPEAKER_00: These are the shifts that have changed my life and my bank account.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is not only going to change how you respond to wealth, it is going to change your entire relationship to it.
• 11:36
  SPEAKER_00: There's also plenty of time for QA and a Telegram channel to ask questions in between calls to get support.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yum.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, this is for you if you want to heal your relationship with money and become a higher match for wealth and bring nervous system safety into it.
• 11:50
  SPEAKER_00: Check out the link in the description.
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  SPEAKER_00: I cannot wait to see you inside.
• 11:53
  SPEAKER_00: And if you have any questions, let me know.
• 11:55
  SPEAKER_00: And let's get back to the episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: And like that's that's all there is to it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the reason that the either money doesn't come back, the universe doesn't meet you there, isn't because it doesn't work for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's because of who you were in that ebb.
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  SPEAKER_00: Who you were in that gap between when you did the thing and getting the universe to chance to meet you there.
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  SPEAKER_00: Problem is people do the thing and then they dip into lack and they dip into scarcity and it's not coming back and they go to worry and to panic.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so what do you get?
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  SPEAKER_00: You don't get it back.
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  SPEAKER_00: So even going back to the intro of this episode, it's not that it's not working.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's who you were in that gap.
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  SPEAKER_00: And your ability to hold that gap and to be so solid and unwavering is mindset, it's energetics, it's your nervous system.
• 12:40
  SPEAKER_00: And that dictates those who quote unquote make it and those who don't.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's the answer to the first one.
• 12:45
  SPEAKER_00: Again, I'm not like that.
• 12:47
  SPEAKER_00: I don't need to like give you any fluff.
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  SPEAKER_00: You guys know I'm to the point.
• 12:52
  SPEAKER_00: Re-listen to that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because this is like such a big thing that holds people back.
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  SPEAKER_00: The universe never not meets you there.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's who you're being.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then that's where the radical responsibility comes in.
• 13:04
  SPEAKER_00: Which brings me to kind of like the next question that I thought kind of built upon this that was also asked in the side of the portal, which is how to balance the 3D structure of keeping tabs on expenses as an entrepreneur, but also leaning into abundance expansion.
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  SPEAKER_00: Example, during things like doing taxes, et cetera.
• 13:21
  SPEAKER_00: I love this because your business is only as strong as your nervous system.
• 13:27
  SPEAKER_00: So if your nervous system goes on a ride during these things, then that's gonna dictate, and that's where people spiral and get more of it, right?
• 13:38
  SPEAKER_00: You know, do you only have personal power when things are good?
• 13:41
  SPEAKER_00: Are you fueled by external validation of likes, clicks, etc.?
• 13:45
  SPEAKER_00: Does your stripe month to date dictate how you feel in your business?
• 13:49
  SPEAKER_00: Are you constantly checking DMs to see if people have messaged?
• 13:51
  SPEAKER_00: Are you exhausted at the end of the launch?
• 13:53
  SPEAKER_00: Do you struggle to hold boundaries?
• 13:54
  SPEAKER_00: Are you scared to talk about your offers?
• 13:56
  SPEAKER_00: Are you scared to sell?
• 13:57
  SPEAKER_00: Do your friends oh, this one is good.
• 14:00
  SPEAKER_00: Family and high school friends watching your stories and that dysregulates you.
• 14:04
  SPEAKER_00: Sweetheart, if if them watching your stories dysregulates you, we wonder why your business like reflects it does.
• 14:12
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 14:12
  SPEAKER_00: Do you spend time stuck in fear of what people will think?
• 14:15
  SPEAKER_00: And as such, you don't really say the thing you want to say that would actually help grow you and your ideal client.
• 14:20
  SPEAKER_00: Because your ideal client wants you to say the thing.
• 14:22
  unknown: Right?
• 14:23
  SPEAKER_00: This all comes down to nervous system, power, boundaries, and an unwavering mindset.
• 14:29
  SPEAKER_00: So the answer to this question, there's also a, I'm gonna say a red flag in the question.
• 14:34
  SPEAKER_00: Balance assumes, like, how do you balance, you know, expansion in this?
• 14:38
  SPEAKER_00: Balance assumes that one is bad and one is good.
• 14:41
  SPEAKER_00: Like you're trying to outweigh it.
• 14:43
  SPEAKER_00: So when people say I have a balanced lifestyle, why do we have like shitty and good and we want somewhere in the middle?
• 14:48
  SPEAKER_00: Like, don't we want like amazing and credible out of this world?
• 14:52
  SPEAKER_00: Balance is 50%.
• 14:54
  SPEAKER_00: If you take zero and 100, the average is 50, the average is not 90, right?
• 14:59
  SPEAKER_00: But balance, this is why people say balance, I'm like, I don't want balanced.
• 15:03
  SPEAKER_00: I want very much in the positive direction.
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  SPEAKER_00: So why is keeping tabs on expenses lack scarcity and the other thing abundance?
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  unknown: Right?
• 15:13
  SPEAKER_00: You said like doing things like taxes, you know, 3D suction on expenses, but also leaning into abundance.
• 15:19
  SPEAKER_00: Why is one lack in scarcity and the other abundance?
• 15:22
  SPEAKER_00: Everything I do is abundant.
• 15:27
  SPEAKER_00: Full stop.
• 15:28
  SPEAKER_00: Taxes, yummy, abundant.
• 15:30
  SPEAKER_00: Paying my team, yum, abundance.
• 15:32
  SPEAKER_00: When Morgan invoices me, oh I love paying her.
• 15:36
  SPEAKER_00: Like I love paying her.
• 15:38
  SPEAKER_00: She's editing this right now.
• 15:39
  SPEAKER_00: I love paying her.
• 15:39
  SPEAKER_00: She's fabulous, especially when you have like incredible team people.
• 15:42
  SPEAKER_00: I love paying her.
• 15:45
  SPEAKER_00: When you make everything in abundance, you actually exist in a frequency of overflow.
• 15:50
  SPEAKER_00: That's so yummy.
• 15:51
  SPEAKER_00: I need to like star underline.
• 15:54
  SPEAKER_00: You need to be comfortable receiving, holding, growing, and flowing.
• 15:57
  SPEAKER_00: This is where most people struggle.
• 15:58
  SPEAKER_00: You need comfort doing both, and that's your internal mind labeling it as different.
• 16:04
  SPEAKER_00: One is bad, one is lack, one is scarcity, and one is good.
• 16:09
  SPEAKER_00: So it's not that, oh, I'm balancing paying taxes and 3D structure of things, and then also leaning into abundance.
• 16:16
  SPEAKER_00: It's everything is leading into abundance.
• 16:18
  SPEAKER_00: Everything is in that, right?
• 16:20
  SPEAKER_00: But when you balance zero and a hundred, you get 50.
• 16:23
  SPEAKER_00: But if everything you're doing is like in the 80s and 90s, like you get more of that.
• 16:29
  SPEAKER_00: And always know that it comes back like tenfold, right?
• 16:33
  SPEAKER_00: So you're labeling paying taxes is bad.
• 16:35
  SPEAKER_00: You're paying labeling maybe paying a team, or maybe you've programmed Kajabi, Zoom, I don't know, whatever it is.
• 16:42
  SPEAKER_00: Not only money-wise, but also the time that you get back, right?
• 16:47
  SPEAKER_00: Look at what you're labeling things.
• 16:51
  SPEAKER_00: It's expansive to pay a team.
• 16:53
  SPEAKER_00: It's expansive to pay that many taxes, right?
• 16:55
  SPEAKER_00: Because in order for you to pay that much taxes, guarantee you're making more.
• 16:59
  SPEAKER_00: 100% I agree.
• 17:00
  SPEAKER_00: I don't, depending on who you are, where you're listening to this, what state you're in, Canada, in Ontario, like they take half our money.
• 17:07
  SPEAKER_00: Literally 50%.
• 17:09
  SPEAKER_00: Depending if you live in Florida, I know they take different, it doesn't matter.
• 17:12
  SPEAKER_00: But either way, it should be very expansive.
• 17:17
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 17:20
  SPEAKER_00: Paying for your programs is expansive.
• 17:23
  SPEAKER_00: Paying your team expansive.
• 17:25
  SPEAKER_00: Look at where you're labeling things, even in your life.
• 17:29
  SPEAKER_00: Playing my cleaning ladies, exponential.
• 17:31
  SPEAKER_00: The time I get back, the joy I get back.
• 17:34
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my god, there's nothing I love more than not having to clean my own house.
• 17:38
  SPEAKER_00: Food, exponential.
• 17:40
  SPEAKER_00: When you leave in lean into the fact that everything makes you money and everything is abuttons, everything changes, right?
• 17:48
  SPEAKER_00: How often do you look at, you know, I don't know, hiring mentorship?
• 17:51
  SPEAKER_00: You look at that as a cost.
• 17:53
  SPEAKER_00: I do not look at that as any lack of lack and scarcity.
• 17:57
  SPEAKER_00: Like, thank God I have my mentor because like I'm able to get where I want to go faster.
• 18:03
  SPEAKER_00: It's exponentially worth it.
• 18:06
  SPEAKER_00: So again, it's not about balance.
• 18:08
  SPEAKER_00: You got to relabel what you're doing things and look at where your nervous system is going into lack and scarcity and your ability to not label as that, but to lean into existing in a state of overflow and existing in an abundance consciousness versus a lack of scarcity consciousness will completely shift everything in your business.
• 18:25
  SPEAKER_00: And of course, everything else I mentioned about your business and your whether your nervous system is strong or not.
• 18:30
  SPEAKER_00: And of course, there's only one question.
• 18:33
  SPEAKER_00: So take everything like from this that resonates and see where you are also called out.
• 18:38
  SPEAKER_00: And I will also say in business and like business clients, I see this a lot, is people hoarding money, but they desire more.
• 18:46
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
• 18:47
  SPEAKER_00: So you want to balance, you know, how much time you spend or like how much money you invest, but yet you want an exponential return.
• 18:54
  SPEAKER_00: It's just like it's it's that person who goes to the like, I go to the gym once and I want a six pack.
• 19:00
  SPEAKER_00: And people like laugh, like, ha ha ha, yeah, I know I don't have to go to the gym once and I'll get a six pack.
• 19:05
  SPEAKER_00: But the way they behave in their business is exactly that.
• 19:08
  SPEAKER_00: They aren't leaning into an edge, but they want to expand.
• 19:11
  unknown: Right.
• 19:12
  SPEAKER_00: And so it's proportional.
• 19:13
  SPEAKER_00: You know, you want to make more, but you like have to invest more, learn things, invest the time.
• 19:20
  SPEAKER_00: You know, let's say you're at a few thousand dollar months and you want to get to 10, 20, 30, 40, but you won't spend the time and the resource, like the money to get the support to grow you there.
• 19:29
  SPEAKER_00: And then you wonder why your business is where it is.
• 19:32
  SPEAKER_00: Incongruency, square peg, round hole.
• 19:35
  SPEAKER_00: The time thing is the big one.
• 19:37
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, I don't have time, like I don't know if I have time to do this, I don't have time to do that.
• 19:40
  SPEAKER_00: So you say you don't have time, but you want more.
• 19:44
  SPEAKER_00: How does that make sense?
• 19:48
  SPEAKER_00: And again, with the edge, with the question in terms of like leaning into that edge, 99.9% of people are not leaning into the edge enough.
• 19:58
  SPEAKER_00: It is like very rare that I see people, and like normally, like the people that I see are like the clients that I have that lean into the edge and they go all the way.
• 20:07
  SPEAKER_00: Most people are playing with too comfortable.
• 20:09
  SPEAKER_00: And the thing is, if you're okay with where you're at, too comfortable is fine.
• 20:13
  SPEAKER_00: If you actually desire more though, look at where you're incongruent.
• 20:18
  SPEAKER_00: Look at where you want multi-five uh five, yeah, multi-five-figure months, but then you say, Oh, I'm not sure if I have the time for this.
• 20:25
  SPEAKER_00: So you don't have the time to learn how to make more in your business, but you want to make more in your business.
• 20:31
  SPEAKER_00: So, what are you sending the universe?
• 20:33
  SPEAKER_00: I don't have time to make more of my business.
• 20:34
  SPEAKER_00: So, what does it give you?
• 20:36
  SPEAKER_00: Not making more in your business.
• 20:38
  SPEAKER_00: Nine times out of ten, I would say nine point nine times out of ten, you're probably too comfortable.
• 20:44
  SPEAKER_00: And you're probably not being fully honest where you're not in congruency as well.
• 20:49
  SPEAKER_00: So, like I said, if any of this episode resonated with you, this is literally what wealth recode is for, because it's going to shift your entire relationship with wealth, how you respond to it, how you dictate it, and your ability to hold that gap so that you don't spiral into lack of scarcity.
• 21:08
  SPEAKER_00: You're able to dissolve those limiting beliefs, you're able to stay above the cycle, you're able to stay in that frequency no matter what.
• 21:16
  SPEAKER_00: Because I've talked about this before.
• 21:18
  SPEAKER_00: You can feel great when everything is like sunshine and rainbows and the money is coming in, but who are you the moment it's not?
• 21:24
  SPEAKER_00: What do you label it as?
• 21:26
  SPEAKER_00: And how can you hold it?
• 21:27
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
• 21:28
  SPEAKER_00: So if you want to break out of that loop, if you want to understand why lack and scarcity occurs, the blocks that create it, and how to prevent it so that you can stay above it no matter what, that is what wealth recode is going to be.
• 21:39
  SPEAKER_00: We're also going to be releasing some past life stuff, some generational trauma with money and wealth.
• 21:44
  SPEAKER_00: It's going to be so good.
• 21:46
  SPEAKER_00: There's potent life trainings, there's Telegram where you can plug in and get deeper support.
• 21:50
  SPEAKER_00: It's truly like going to be such a high-level program.
• 21:54
  SPEAKER_00: This is if you feel like you're doing like the journaling, the affirmations, and it's not sticking, it's because of who you are being.
• 22:01
  SPEAKER_00: And because the journaling, the affirmations isn't actually enough to exist in a frequency of wealth.
• 22:05
  SPEAKER_00: And so that's what we're doing.
• 22:06
  SPEAKER_00: It's like the no BS.
• 22:08
  SPEAKER_00: You guys know I'm straight to the point.
• 22:09
  SPEAKER_00: I'm tangible.
• 22:10
  SPEAKER_00: And this is what's going to create a sustainable relationship with wealth.
• 22:14
  SPEAKER_00: Because, like I said, if you waver the second things get like murky, then that ebb is going to turn into a spiral and then you're just going to crash and burn versus your ability to not have an ebb and then to rise out of like the ebb or the dip and to continue to rise.
• 22:28
  SPEAKER_00: So, with that being said, I love you guys so, so much.
• 22:32
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you for listening, and we will chat to you in the next episode.