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Actress Anita Joseph's Marriage Crash Over Alleged Infidelity From MC Fish · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to the episode of Bantu Lorencia.
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  How are you all doing if you're doing great?
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  For today's episode, I want to talk about Anita Joseph and her
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  husband, MC Fish. These two people allegedly have
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  gone their separate ways and a whole lot of people talked about
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  it because she was allegedly older than the guy, which
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  there's nothing wrong with you marrying somebody who you're
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  older than. But according to the story, she
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  is not just older than him, she is way richer than him.
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  So people are saying that he was like a sugar boy to Anita.
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  These people prepared us. They prepared us.
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  Their PDAs were, I think they, they actually liked each other
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  because there's no way you could just imagine the James and her
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  husband if eventually something happens, you won't say they did
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  not like each other. They they liked each other.
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  Whether Vicky James is the one paying for everything, whether
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  she's the one sponsoring everything, she actually like
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  him and he liked her or he like her.
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  We're not even talking about love right now.
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  So people did not find it funny. When Anita was flaunting her
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  husband MC Fish, they said that she because she's Zibu MC Fish
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  is Yoruba. So there was so many things that
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  people talked about in that when they heard that they got
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  married, but their love was strong.
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  I think she took a back seat from Nollywood because she used
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  to be a very she used to be very active in Nollywood post
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  production as an actress endorsement deal.
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  She used to be really, really, really active.
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  You know, she's very endowed. So everybody want Anita to Shika
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  Bongo and advertise their products.
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  So but when she got married, she kind of stepped back because
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  maybe as a married woman, she started picking some of the
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  endorsement deals or started declining some of the
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  endorsement deals for some time. Anita disappeared.
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  Sometime they said, oh, she was pregnant or she's not pregnant.
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  She said she wanted a child. Maybe that did not just happen,
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  but news reaching us is that Anita Joseph and MC Fish had
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  separated and the person behind the story is Stanley on top.
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  Now Stanley on Top said as Anita Joseph show her husband love
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  Rich the man don't leave her more.
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  I hear say Fisherman left Anita for another woman.
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  Now once Anita vex throw away fish Fishman bag for outside
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  justice for Anita. That is actually sad because if
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  he if he left for another woman, then that is not nice.
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  That is not nice. He probably wanted a child
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  because you know, if you marry somebody who the with age gap,
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  most times men, men are very selfish.
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  They want children. And I realised that men, whether
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  they want to be in that child's life or not, they want that I
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  have a child. You know, it's it's kind of
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  something, you know, their legacy pride to say I have a
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  child. So probably maybe he has gotten
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  somebody else pregnant because for him to leave for another
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  woman, she's probably pregnant. And the fact that Anita was the
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  one the breadwinner paying her the bills.
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  Sometimes I don't even know men what men want or I don't even
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  know this generation of marriage, what it entails.
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  Because look at Regina Daniels and her husband, regardless of
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  you know, he, he is a billionaire.
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  She is young. She was a teenager when he
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  married her. She has two kids.
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  For him. That would have been the perfect
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  situation or the perfect marriage that would have worked.
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  But Regina, Regina is the UK or Regina is in London living her
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  baby girl life because Pernet. Pernet is going to every, you
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  know, talk show and every TV channel, every gathering talking
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  about her. Regina, he's not a Good Wife.
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  He's not a good mother. She does drugs, she does this.
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  She do like Ned, Ned complaining.
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  So even when the man is much older than the woman, there's
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  still trouble. Even when the man is a
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  billionaire, they're still they're still trouble.
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  So I don't think the the reason why they broke up was because
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  Anita was a provider. Yes, maybe she would have if it
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  was a man that married or if it was a woman.
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  If MC was a woman or if you know, he was the provider and he
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  married Anita, Anita wouldn't have pulled back or he would not
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  have pulled back on his career or things that he promotes just
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  because of his marriage to her. But most times I tell people
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  marriage don't always favour women.
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  So if you're going into a marriage as a woman, make sure
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  that he he he favours you somehow, make sure that at least
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  you're getting the benefit out out of it.
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  If he's a child that you want, because everybody wants
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  something. If you're getting married to
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  somebody, he said that you're wanting a companion, you want a
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  just partner, you want his text mates, you want something.
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  There's something that's pushing you towards this person.
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  Make sure that you understand what you want from it and you
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  make sure that that need is being met.
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  Don't compromise because marriage these days is is
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  abracadabra. The less you see, the more you
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  understand or the more you see, the less you understand.
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  I wish them all the best. They were so happy.
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  They were the PDA couples, they were dancing and during the
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  pandemic when you know, content, everybody was at home.
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  She and her husband actually they they enjoyed each other's
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  company. Most times at that point
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  marriages were breaking left, right and centre.
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  But that was when they got married.
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  So it was it was fresh and they had fun.
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  I just hope it is amicable. I just hope they kind of sat
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  down and concluded that this is not working and they've decided
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  to move on. Although MC Fish is not saying
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  anything and yourself is not saying anything.
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  But I wish them all healing. I wish them everything that they
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  want. If MC Fish allegedly had gotten
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  somebody else pregnant because he wants a child, good luck to
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  him. And I wish Anita, if she maybe
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  she doesn't want a child, who knows?
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  We don't know. But whatever she wanted going
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  into that marriage, I hope she had she had fulfilled it, or at
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  least she she she lived it while it lasted.
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  Let me know what you think. Do you think that women being
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  the breadwinner in the family is a problem?
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  Or do you think that age gap is a problem?
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  Or do you think that marriage these days is just it's just
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  something that is making this generation not wanting to to
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  persevere because the previous generation, their marriage are
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  not perfect. The men are cheating.
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  The women were doing their own thing, but somehow they made it
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  work. But our generation were like, I
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  call and stress and I don't blame anybody.
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  Let me know what you think. Thank you very much for watching
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  this episode. Please like, like, like and
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  share. Thank you very much for
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  watching. Bye bye.