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Are parents responsible for kids behavior · Chuck Douglas

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  Speaker 1: Grading salitations. Welcome my friends, do another edition of the
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  Speaker 1: Power Hour on six ten WTV and I'm Chuck Douglas.
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  Speaker 1: You know who you are, and we take it from there.
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  Speaker 1: We get one hour together, which means I talk really
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  Speaker 1: fast and you must listen even faster. My number eight
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  Speaker 1: two one nine eight eight six A two one WUTV
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  Speaker 1: in or one eight hundred six ten WTV in. It's
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  Speaker 1: been like twelve hours, so I just wanted to let
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  Speaker 1: you there has not been another massage parlor rated in
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  Speaker 1: the last twelve hours, just so you we're under that's
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  Speaker 1: been going on a lot here the last week. I
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  Speaker 1: have to assume, although nobody has really talked about it,
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  Speaker 1: there must have been like a a at least a
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  Speaker 1: county wide, if not a statewide effort to start gathering
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  Speaker 1: information on these places and start busting them, because I mean,
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  Speaker 1: three inside of a week, ten days, that's that's a
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  Speaker 1: little unusual, don't you think, I know, it's it's just glid.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just glad I wasn't there for any of them. Well,
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  Speaker 1: you weren't scheduled to work, were you? No, I have
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  Speaker 1: to wake off, So that's a sad, sad statement. Now,
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  Speaker 1: I you know, I guess it depends. I'm not I'm
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  Speaker 1: not necessarily in favor of what they might have been
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  Speaker 1: cited with, why they might have been closed down, rated, whatever,
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  Speaker 1: But if if there is force being applied or children
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  Speaker 1: are involved, I am a lot more apt to get
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  Speaker 1: on the bandwagon. It's just one of those things where
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  Speaker 1: I just we in so many ways, and I think
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  Speaker 1: inappropriate ways, we have moved on from you know, that
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  Speaker 1: basically centered in Christianity beginning that this country had, and
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  Speaker 1: over the years we've just devolved that. Well, yeah, but
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  Speaker 1: things have changed now, so this is okay, and that's okay.
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  Speaker 1: And that that whole issue of the exchange of money
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  Speaker 1: in exchange for sexual favors, that's something that has never changed.
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  Speaker 1: We have remained very, very attached to those roots, those
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  Speaker 1: puritanical roots, as they say, and I'm frankly, I'm kind
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  Speaker 1: of surprised. I don't know if it's for better or
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  Speaker 1: for worse. I just know that, you know, if you
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  Speaker 1: go back to our origins, to our founding, there are
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  Speaker 1: many things today that are allowed, how we dress, how
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  Speaker 1: we talk, what words we use, things like gay marriage,
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  Speaker 1: which are generally accepted now at at least the government level.
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  Speaker 1: That would never have flown. But hey, things change, the
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  Speaker 1: country changes, the rules change, so we change with it,
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  Speaker 1: except except in this case. And I've just I've always
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  Speaker 1: been intrigued by that that while everything else was negated,
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  Speaker 1: or everything else that was negated in favor of change
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  Speaker 1: and progress, that that's one thing that never has been
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  Speaker 1: Am I making sense to you? Because I know your
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  Speaker 1: brain is small and you you can't always keep up
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  Speaker 1: with me.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, I got it.
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  Speaker 1: I am with you today? Really? Yes? Did you take
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  Speaker 1: your vitamins?
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  Speaker 2: Huh?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So yeah, that I'm just I'm going to keep watching.
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  Speaker 1: But because there have been three in a week or so,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going to be surprised if we see some more.
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  Speaker 1: And if I was operating one of those businesses, I
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  Speaker 1: would probably be scheduling vacations for everyone right now because
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  Speaker 1: I have a feeling there's going to be more again,
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  Speaker 1: for better or for worse. I guess it depends on
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  Speaker 1: your point of view. This story out of DC Chipotle story,
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  Speaker 1: and I got a couple of messages Mark and I
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  Speaker 1: just lightly quickly touched on it before he left. What
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  Speaker 1: do they call teen takeovers? Teen take that's one of
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  Speaker 1: the I don't know where that originated. Zac do you know?
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  Speaker 1: Is that a TikTok thing? Is it? What is it?
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  Speaker 1: I don't have any idea.
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  Speaker 3: Usually when they don't say the race, it usually means
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  Speaker 3: anything but white.
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  Speaker 1: Oh well, yeah, Idia. But other than that, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: We had those those what do you call thems the
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  Speaker 1: robbery things going on a couple of years ago, where mobs, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: flash mobs where everybody would meet. It started innocently, they'd
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  Speaker 1: flash mob and they'd gather at a shopping moment and
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  Speaker 1: everybody would break out into a dance. But then it became,
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  Speaker 1: you know, everybody would meet at the jewelry store and
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  Speaker 1: rush through the doors and bust the counters and steal
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  Speaker 1: the jewelry and run back out, knowing that there was
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  Speaker 1: no possible way they'd be able to stop them all
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  Speaker 1: or catch them all. And now islence is part of it.
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  Speaker 1: And this Chipotle in the DC area, I think they
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  Speaker 1: said up to fifteen kids that came in and they
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  Speaker 1: they start a big fight in the Chipotle and fox
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  Speaker 1: was running. You know, they've got their little headlines at
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  Speaker 1: the bottom that said parents in DC teen takeover could
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  Speaker 1: be held responsible I don't know that I'm on board
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  Speaker 1: with this, and I know a lot of people are.
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  Speaker 1: These parents need to be held accountable for what their
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  Speaker 1: kids are doing now, not necessarily, not all the time
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  Speaker 1: depends on the kid. Again, we have changed in the
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  Speaker 1: name of progress. And when they want to tell you,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you can't discipline your kid this way, you
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  Speaker 1: can't restrain your kid this way. You can't. But your
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  Speaker 1: kid turns out to be some wild, garbage minded felon
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  Speaker 1: in the works, you're to be held responsible for it.
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  Speaker 1: You remember those people, I think they were Northern Ohio
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  Speaker 1: that they claimed they locked their kids in cages years ago.
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  Speaker 1: There's been multiple stories of that. I'm not sure if
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  Speaker 1: I know that if that's the what I'm specifically thinking of,
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  Speaker 1: but yeah, and it turned out to be kids with
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  Speaker 1: violent tendencies, emotional problems and everything else. And they had
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  Speaker 1: locks on their beds to keep them from getting up
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  Speaker 1: in the middle of the night and murdering the family.
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  Speaker 1: But they were criminals as far as the law and
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  Speaker 1: the media were concerned. Oh, you locked up your children.
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  Speaker 1: You see you know your children, You're raising your children.
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  Speaker 1: You see the good the bad, you see them every day.
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  Speaker 1: But you are limited by law as to what you
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  Speaker 1: can do and how you can do it. Now, I'm not,
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  Speaker 1: you know, saying you should abuse your children, but I
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  Speaker 1: am saying that you know the appropriate, appropriate discipline from
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  Speaker 1: a parent is vital. And if if there's talk of
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  Speaker 1: holding parents responsible for these children, and they are children
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  Speaker 1: by law, parents have the kids probably fewer hours than
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  Speaker 1: the schools do, why are the schools not going to
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  Speaker 1: be held responsible? Just a thought. If every damn body's
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  Speaker 1: going to be responsible for what these kids do except
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  Speaker 1: the kids doing it, seems to me there's plenty of
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  Speaker 1: room to shovel the blame in all kinds of directions.
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  Speaker 1: You do what you can to raise your children, but
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  Speaker 1: there does come a time, especially those mid teens. You know,
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  Speaker 1: they're three years, four years away from becoming legal adults,
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  Speaker 1: where they know everything they do, what they're going to do,
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  Speaker 1: what they want to do, and have no respect for
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  Speaker 1: anything you ever taught them, because hey, all my friends
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  Speaker 1: are doing it. You cannot be with them over them,
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  Speaker 1: controlling them twenty four hours a day. And I just
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  Speaker 1: I hope that this does not happen in DC. I
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  Speaker 1: hope the kids are held responsible, highly responsible for their actions.
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  Speaker 1: But I truly unless they can show me that the
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  Speaker 1: parents were in some way, uh, the collaborative in this
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  Speaker 1: bad behavior. I really hope they don't try to hammer
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  Speaker 1: the parents, or maybe that's just me. I do on
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  Speaker 1: dot com phone lines. And is that is Brian, Brian
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  Speaker 1: or Byron? You're on six t n WTV.
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  Speaker 4: In it's Brian. Hey, Chuck, how are you okay?
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  Speaker 1: How are you? That's my spelling, so.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you know what, You're right. I don't think it's
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  Speaker 3: right to hold all parents accountable for that, because I
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  Speaker 3: guarantee if some parents think their kids are little angels
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  Speaker 3: and they might be, that they fall in the right
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  Speaker 3: wrong crowd at a long time, they might do something stupid.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely do some people should. Some parents should be
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  Speaker 4: telled accountable, but not all. That's one thing. And as
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  Speaker 4: far as we go with our teen crimes here in
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  Speaker 4: Ohai and Columbus, especially from your day and my day,
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  Speaker 4: bring back Kee too.
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  Speaker 1: I've been saying for years we need kid jailed. We
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  Speaker 1: took it away, we need it back. There needs to
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  Speaker 1: be some price to be paid for bad acts on society.
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  Speaker 1: And if we can fix you at fourteen, maybe, just
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  Speaker 1: maybe we won't have to fix you again at twenty.
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  Speaker 4: Four exactly or worse.
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  Speaker 1: The violence, the violence is just way too easy to
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  Speaker 1: perpetuate anymore. And that that's a fear for me, Brian,
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  Speaker 1: because these kids today, they just seem disconnected from the
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  Speaker 1: heinousness of some of the things they do. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if it's video games. I don't know if it's movies.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if it's social media. But you know,
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  Speaker 1: to whip out a gun and put a bullet in
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  Speaker 1: somebody just doesn't even seem to phase them anymore. And
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  Speaker 1: I don't get that. I don't get that at all.
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  Speaker 1: And that scares me because for as long as that
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  Speaker 1: is the case and remains out of control with no
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  Speaker 1: repercussions or no significant repercussions, it's going to continue and
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  Speaker 1: it's going to get worse. YEP, I appreciate you, buddy,
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  Speaker 1: Thanks very much for the call. A two one ninety
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  Speaker 1: eight six A two one WTV. Now a parent has
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  Speaker 1: said is complicit as collaborative in a kid doing something.
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  Speaker 1: That's a different matter. We had the the was it
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  Speaker 1: a Michigan Michigan parents that face charges because their their
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  Speaker 1: son went on a shooting rampage. They he had mental problems,
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  Speaker 1: They knew he had mental problems. They bought him the rifle. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: now see that's a different matter. That is a different
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  Speaker 1: You were complicit in the bad act, and yes you
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  Speaker 1: need to pay. But if if you're just doing your
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  Speaker 1: best to raise your kid and your kid takes a
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  Speaker 1: left turn at Albuquerque and goes out there and does
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  Speaker 1: something against society, against other human beings, unless there's some
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  Speaker 1: history that you should have been able to foresee it,
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  Speaker 1: some lack of activity, you should have been able to
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  Speaker 1: do something to control the situation or the child. I
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  Speaker 1: can't say that parents are always responsible for the bad
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  Speaker 1: acts of their kids. It may sound good, it makes
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  Speaker 1: a good bumper sticker, but I don't know that it's realistic.
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  Speaker 1: A two to one WTV and Bruce, let's get you
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  Speaker 1: on sixteen DOUBETVN.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, how's it going?
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  Speaker 2: Great? Great topic. Hey, I was raised by a single
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  Speaker 2: mother and she put the fear of God in me
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  Speaker 2: to respect police officers, teachers, doctors, nurses and that well,
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  Speaker 2: I was about thirteen and kind of got a little
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  Speaker 2: crazy at that age. And she dropped me off at
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  Speaker 2: fifty East Mound Street and left me there. They took
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  Speaker 2: me inside and everything. So it is the parents problem.
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  Speaker 2: They need to they need to let their kids know
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  Speaker 2: there's three percussions of being a bad child.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And what was that Children's services she dropped you off at.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well they used to just be fiftiest Mound Street
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  Speaker 2: back in the day.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I do children children's services these days. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know when the last interaction you had with the
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  Speaker 1: Bruce was. But I'll tell you what I'm I'm not
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  Speaker 1: impressed by what they do or how they do it either.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's it's different nowadays. Yeah, but you know what,
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  Speaker 2: you got to get them when they're young. You got
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  Speaker 2: to get them when they're young. You got to teach
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  Speaker 2: them when they're young. I tell my kids, they have
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  Speaker 2: children now, my grandkids that when we used to what
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  Speaker 2: was that Animal Kingdom on.
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  Speaker 1: Sundays, Mutual Wild Kingdom, Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Mutual of Omaha when they had the lions and that
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  Speaker 2: all the time with the mother lyon with the cubs,
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  Speaker 2: and if the cup went off too far, the mom
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  Speaker 2: over to it smacked it, yep, give it a pall
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  Speaker 2: to its little nogging and made sure it came back absolutely.
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  Speaker 1: And you, by the way, just when they're young, Just
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  Speaker 1: so you know, Bruce, you can still watch mutual of
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  Speaker 1: Overhall's Wild Kingdom Sunday mornings at seven o'clock on me
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  Speaker 1: TV network. It's still out there. Oh awesome, it's and
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  Speaker 1: it's the old ones too, with Marlin, Marlon Perkins and
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  Speaker 1: Jim Fowler. It's uh yeah, it's kind of cool to
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  Speaker 1: get up on Sunday morning and watch those because it
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  Speaker 1: feels like it's, uh, it's nineteen seventy five again