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- 0:00Speaker 1: We got a question for American mama's. Dear mama's, should
- 0:02Speaker 1: the police have arrested that mama who let her son
- 0:05Speaker 1: walk a mile from home? Well, let's ask our American mamas.
- 0:09Speaker 2: Mama, she said, and joining us.
- 0:22Speaker 1: Now our American mama is Terry Needville and Kimberly Burlison.
- 0:25Speaker 1: This is a story out of Georgia, rural Georgia. There
- 0:29Speaker 1: is a mother who was arrested because her son, her
- 0:35Speaker 1: name is Britney Patterson. Her son, an eleven year old,
- 0:39Speaker 1: walked to town. Now, they live on sixteen acres of property,
- 0:43Speaker 1: so you know it's rural area. He walked into town,
- 0:46Speaker 1: to the town of three hundred and seventy people, so
- 0:48Speaker 1: it's not like, you know, he's walking in Manhattan or anything.
- 0:51Speaker 1: And a shrif's deputy saw him. The sheriff saw him
- 0:54Speaker 1: walking in town, and so they picked him up, drove
- 0:58Speaker 1: him back home, and then arrested the mom for negligence
- 1:02Speaker 1: because she allowed her eleven year old boy to walk
- 1:05Speaker 1: one mile away from their home.
- 1:11Speaker 3: Interesting.
- 1:11Speaker 2: What I think.
- 1:13Speaker 3: Is interesting, Well, our kids had more freedom, We had
- 1:17Speaker 3: more freedom. There's no freedom anymore for a lot of
- 1:20Speaker 3: these kids. But to me, this is What's interesting because
- 1:22Speaker 3: this is one of many that I've seen lately where
- 1:25Speaker 3: kids have left the home. It is really a subjective thing.
- 1:29Speaker 3: It's whatever that police officer or sheriff is singing at
- 1:32Speaker 3: the moment, and what their idea of what a child
- 1:35Speaker 3: should be free to do. It's kind of like up
- 1:37Speaker 3: to them, which is a little bit freaky. I saw
- 1:40Speaker 3: this interview with this lady. She wrote a book. Her
- 1:42Speaker 3: name is Leonora Genazi, but she wrote She's a mom
- 1:46Speaker 3: that wrote a book called Free Range Kids, and she
- 1:49Speaker 3: the big story about her was she had let her
- 1:51Speaker 3: nine year old ride the subway and she said it
- 1:54Speaker 3: was a very safe situation, but the same kind of
- 1:57Speaker 3: thing happened to her. Even Law and Order did like
- 2:00Speaker 3: a show based on her where the little boy dies
- 2:03Speaker 3: on the subway, which her son did not. And she
- 2:06Speaker 3: is being interviewed by John Stossel, and she was saying that,
- 2:09Speaker 3: you know, the Journal of Pediatrics says that in this
- 2:12Speaker 3: last decade, kidnapping and crimes against children are is drastically low,
- 2:17Speaker 3: statistically drastically low. But what we're seeing is a drastic
- 2:21Speaker 3: increase in kids having more anxiety and depression because we
- 2:25Speaker 3: are now a culture of people. That her words, where
- 2:29Speaker 3: we fantasize the worst case scenario in every situation we
- 2:34Speaker 3: see a kid on the road, your first thought is
- 2:36Speaker 3: that even ladies calling in to the sheriff in this
- 2:39Speaker 3: particular situation, you know, this kid could be murdered. This
- 2:43Speaker 3: kid could be kidnapped. He's right on the side of
- 2:46Speaker 3: the road. So we fantasized the worst case scenario. Whereas
- 2:50Speaker 3: if we go back to our own childhood, we walked everywhere,
- 2:52Speaker 3: we went everywhere. My parents didn't know where we were.
- 2:55Speaker 4: Okay, so somebody like that anymore.
- 2:58Speaker 2: Yeah, the sheriff's stapay.
- 3:00Speaker 1: The sheriff actually as she picked up this kid, when
- 3:03Speaker 1: she took it to the house, she said to the mom,
- 3:05Speaker 1: he could have been kidnapped, he could have been.
- 3:09Speaker 4: Okay, I thought somebody called the police.
- 3:11Speaker 2: No, I believe somebody may have.
- 3:12Speaker 1: Yes, somebody call it in in the SHRIFFO.
- 3:15Speaker 4: So he was a mile from home. He's eleven years old, Yes,
- 3:19Speaker 4: and he lives on a lot of acres. She probably
- 3:22Speaker 4: knows everybody. If it's less than five hundred people in
- 3:24Speaker 4: the town, they probably all know each know. You know,
- 3:27Speaker 4: Kimerly made this point. We did have more freedom What
- 3:30Speaker 4: I didn't realize was there was actually more crime back then,
- 3:33Speaker 4: especially towards children. Now we know so much. Now we
- 3:38Speaker 4: see what's going on. So yeah, I'm terrified. I mean,
- 3:40Speaker 4: I was so talk about a helicopter.
- 3:42Speaker 3: Mom.
- 3:43Speaker 4: I would not let my child walk that far. I
- 3:46Speaker 4: don't trust, you know, I just don't trust things that
- 3:49Speaker 4: something wouldn't happen. But my question would be, why didn't
- 3:53Speaker 4: the officer pick up the boy, take him back home
- 3:57Speaker 4: and just say to the mom, Hey, I know that
- 3:59Speaker 4: you're used to this, but we're seeing things in this
- 4:02Speaker 4: county that are not good. I'm worried for his safety.
- 4:05Speaker 2: Rather than the rest.
- 4:06Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want to take you into custody, but
- 4:09Speaker 4: you know, there's other ways you can do it, because
- 4:11Speaker 4: this seems a little it seems kind of like overkill
- 4:15Speaker 4: with regard to not only this, but think about that squirrel, Peanut,
- 4:19Speaker 4: the squirrel that went you know, his story went viral.
- 4:22Speaker 4: You had nine officers in New York. They've got all
- 4:25Speaker 4: these crimes that are happening all over the place, Yet
- 4:27Speaker 4: they're going to come and make this husband and wife
- 4:30Speaker 4: and their pet raccoon and squirrel, you know, go through
- 4:35Speaker 4: so much trauma and have to be there for hours.
- 4:37Speaker 4: He didn't get to feed his horses. You know, everyone
- 4:39Speaker 4: knows the stories, so you kind of start thinking, there
- 4:42Speaker 4: are different ways you could have handled this. I understand
- 4:45Speaker 4: that she was nervous, and my god, if something would
- 4:47Speaker 4: have happened to that kid, the mom never would have
- 4:49Speaker 4: forgiven herself.
- 4:50Speaker 1: Sure, but you know you can have something happened to
- 4:52Speaker 1: your kid at home, right, you know, I was. I
- 4:54Speaker 1: walked to school every day in a life in elementary
- 4:58Speaker 1: school at eight and nine. High school was more than
- 5:00Speaker 1: a mile away from my house too. I walked up.
- 5:03Speaker 1: I'll pill both ways in the snow. If you want
- 5:08Speaker 1: to get out of my neighborhood, it's a mile to
- 5:10Speaker 1: walk out of my neighborhood. Now, I let my kids
- 5:13Speaker 1: go anywhere in the neighborhood. When when we were there,
- 5:15Speaker 1: that's that's you know, a mile radius, absolutely, and they
- 5:18Speaker 1: could go anywhere. That was I a negligent parent for
- 5:21Speaker 1: letting my kids go, you know, walk around my neighborhood.
- 5:24Speaker 4: And I'm sure, well, and I'll be so curious if
- 5:27Speaker 4: she lets him go again.
- 5:29Speaker 1: I think she should.
- 5:31Speaker 3: She won't, she said, I've never She said, I'm never.
- 5:35Speaker 1: Never Yeah, that's a shame because he's going to lose
- 5:38Speaker 1: a lot of independence, and I think there's something good
- 5:40Speaker 1: with that.
- 5:40Speaker 4: I think there's going to be a lot of PTSD
- 5:42Speaker 4: from this little incident with both of them.
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- 5:49Speaker 1: Kimberly brother listen, Thank you so much, Thank you