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Mama Viral Hug · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  We got a question in for our American mama. Dear mamas, did you
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  see the mama who straddled her son in a hug after a high school football
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  game in front of all of his friends. Well, let's ask our American
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  mama's Mama, Mama, and joining us now our American mama's Terry Nutteville and
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  Kimberly Burleson. This is a high school football game, and there's there's video
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  of it. This mom comes running up after after the game and she gives
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  her son a hug and she's she literally jumps up and like wraps her legs
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  around him. She's completely off the ground. He's holding her up. And
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  well, this went viral and people have been saying, oh, my gosh,
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  how embarrassing that she's grooming her son, that she's sexually abusing her son,
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  and all these other things. You know, what if she wasn't sexy
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  looking, and she was like a big, overweight, you know, unattractive
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  what people would consider unattractive lady, and she had jumped up in his arms,
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  everybody would think, oh, that's so sweet, that's so cute.
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  But because she looked like a twenty something year old wearing a halter top and
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  tight jeans, and they saw it sexual. The viewer saw it as sexual.
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  Interesting. You know, this was the first game that he played in
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  after his father died, so that you know, so she's a recent widow
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  and that's you know, he just had just lost his father, and so
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  when you first see it, you did, I thought, is that his
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  mother? You know, because I saw the picture, I thought it was
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  a girlfriend because her her legs aren't all the way around him, but it's
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  like straddled like you know, and she's just a tight hug. But she's
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  the one who posted it. She didn't saything wrong with it because this is
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  her baby. She wouldn't think anything sexual because this is her child, right,
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  So she got a lot of hate both of him. He's been hazed,
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  and you know, it's interesting because what he said. He responded by
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  saying, I thought his response was really interesting. Yeah, here's his response.
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  He said, she's never abused me, done anything sexual with me or
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  my friends, or groomed me. She's my mom, she's my hero.
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  The video of us hugging was a hug. Go bother someone else and maybe
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  hug your own kids. You all need Jesus, damn it is what Brixton
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  wrote. I love the y'all need Jesus because he's absolutely right if what you're
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  seeing is is perverted. But that's not what was being demonstrated, you know
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  what. I Kimberly just made a good point that I never thought about.
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  This would not have gone anywhere had it not been like she said, she's
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  a very sexy looking woman, and so it was the other person. It
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  was a person who viewed the pig exactly. I never thought about that.
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  But that's it. I mean, it is okay. Would I have done
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  that? No, No, I wouldn't have done that. I mean,
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  it's just not that's not something that's comfortable with me. But I do have
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  friends I'm thinking of Win in particular, that would have with her child well,
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  and both of your sons are big enough to carry you around, Like,
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  yeah, they could have. And if I would have done that,
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  they would have been like, uh, I get your legs down. You
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  know, that would have no problem. But I do have a friend that's
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  not only the whole family's very huggy. The dad kisses the sun on the
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  mouths. I mean, it's just like an Italian thing. And so I
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  could see her doing it and her being the same way, like, are
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  y'all crazy? This is my baby, my little baby. I'm hugging my
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  child. So I was, I kind of I'm on team Braxton or whatever
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  his name is, Brixton, on their team because they he's going through hall
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  right now. Well that was the other interesting part because I was unaware of
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  the father having passed away recently. Yeah, but doesn't that also say that
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  you have to be very careful because what you see online is just a snapshot
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  of someone's life. You don't see the backstory. Yes, you don't see
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  what led to that moment, and all of us have stuff that has led
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  to a moment that it fol has been taken. But the other the people
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  don't see that bad story exactly. The father having passed away is not in
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  the photo right, And that's how we've raised our children. Everybody has a
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  story. Be careful how you treat people. And I will say, I
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  don't know if she's a widow. I don't know if they were divorced,
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  but his father did die April, you know, and said this was the
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  first game back, so she is probably doing everything. And what he said,
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  my mother's my hero. She's probably doing everything within her power to keep
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  that family unit together after that devastation, exactly. And every celebration, yeah,
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  is matters to a family after that. We've been through that, you
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  know, you every celebration is huge because you are surviving together after grief.
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  Right. He was probably so turned off by people making this so gross.
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  I'm sick of people. I want to actually go back to some of that.
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  Do you remember the first time your kids had a sporting event after your
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  father passed away and celebrating that we still do. It's been sixteen years that
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  he's been gone, and we we still yeah sixteen Okay, okay, go
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  ahead, but we still to this day everything they do when still when that
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  Tech team, we said Dad was standing right there when new Dad, every
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  single time where we talk about him being there and how much we miss him.
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  And yet if someone had taken a picture, and people did take pictures
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  of Steel hitting home run after home run for Louisiana Tech, they wouldn't have
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  seen your father in the picture necessarily. Yeah, exactly. So I feel
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  like when that mama was jumping up on that sun, that was her husband
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  holding her up. If you'd like to ask our American mama as a question.
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  Go to our website American ground Radier dot com, slash mama and click
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  on the ask the Mama button. Terry Naderville can't really row listen. Thank
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  you so much