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FULL SHOW: What's The Best Time To Put Up Christmas Decorations, Nicole Bell Talks New Film "AfterShock" + More · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: You, guys, this is history. What you've done? What show
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  Speaker 1: you guys should do? A platform that injuries out of.
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  Speaker 3: It, sholamins a God made you think they're liking the
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  Speaker 3: controversial questions we're taking this part.
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  Speaker 1: I like that show. Thanks Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Yo Yes is on vacation.
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  Speaker 2: Charlemagne the gold piece of the planet. Guess what day
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  Speaker 2: it is? Guess what day it is? How y'all feeling
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  Speaker 2: out there? I feel blessed, black and Holly favorite, happy
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  Speaker 2: to be here another day to serve our beautiful listeners.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, that's right. Is a day before Thanksgiving.
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  Speaker 5: I know a lot of you guys are on the
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  Speaker 5: road traveling to get to your destination. You have a
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  Speaker 5: great Thanksgiving and a happy Thanksgiving.
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  Speaker 2: And I wish you were traveling mercies. I hope everybody
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  Speaker 2: gets to where they're supposed to be on time.
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  Speaker 1: That's right and alive that's right. Okay. Now today on
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  Speaker 1: the show, a very serious show. We haven't I don't
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  Speaker 1: say very serious. It is a serious show.
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  Speaker 2: It's hard to say it's a serious show. Whenever I'm
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  Speaker 2: sitting here.
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  Speaker 5: I guess you're right. Okay, yeah, Well Nicole bella be
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  Speaker 5: joining us, that's right now. If you don't know who
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  Speaker 5: Nicole Bell is, that is Sean Bell's wife. Sean Bell
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  Speaker 5: was killed nineteen years ago. Cole shot him a shot
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  Speaker 5: Adam fifty times.
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  Speaker 1: It was the day before his wedding.
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  Speaker 5: He was having a bachelor party in Queens and as
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  Speaker 5: he was leaving, police ruled up on him.
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  Speaker 1: Thought they saw a gun.
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  Speaker 5: They claim they saw a gun and shot at this
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  Speaker 5: brother fifty times and he was killed.
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  Speaker 1: And all the officers were acquitted. How all the officers
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  Speaker 1: were acquitted.
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  Speaker 6: That's right.
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  Speaker 1: So she they did a movie, this salute the movie.
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  Speaker 5: The movie comes out this Friday, talking about everything that
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  Speaker 5: happened in the that she's going.
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  Speaker 1: Through to what she was trying to get these officers charged.
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  Speaker 1: It's called After Shocked and Nicole pea Bell store.
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  Speaker 2: And I mean the thing that I like that the
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  Speaker 2: movie explores, it explores all the you know, trauma she
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  Speaker 2: experienced after. That's right, you know, the killing of Sean
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  Speaker 2: Bell because I think a lot of times, you know,
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  Speaker 2: we hear about the story, but we don't think about
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  Speaker 2: what life is like for the families, you know, way,
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  Speaker 2: way way after the fact.
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  Speaker 1: You've been today. That's right.
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  Speaker 5: So we're gonna be chopping it up with her in
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  Speaker 5: a little bit and then don't forget get it off
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  Speaker 5: your chest eight hundred five eight five one oh five one.
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  Speaker 5: If you need the vent, you can call us up.
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  Speaker 5: Phone lines wide open. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 7: Good morning, New Herd, North Carolina.
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  Speaker 1: Up, Jamel, get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 8: Hey, I just.
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  Speaker 3: Wanted to call y'all and uh, y'all.
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  Speaker 9: Good morning y'all Maine.
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  Speaker 8: To god, dj it be that's hilarious. What's happening?
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  Speaker 1: Good morning baby, appreciate you.
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  Speaker 6: Hey.
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  Speaker 8: I also want to know I got two questions.
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  Speaker 10: DJA I mean CHARLEMAGNEA.
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  Speaker 7: Cod Yes, I need all your books.
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  Speaker 6: I got shook one eating that.
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  Speaker 1: Right now, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I got a new a new book called Get on
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  Speaker 2: Us and Die Line watch small talk sucks, okay.
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  Speaker 6: Say last, say last.
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  Speaker 8: And I also want to shout out my wife and my.
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  Speaker 2: Kids, damn, I thought you was a stud.
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  Speaker 1: He did the whole time.
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  Speaker 8: I thought.
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  Speaker 10: I listened to y'all every morning.
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  Speaker 11: Okay, my first time, this is my first time call
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  Speaker 11: it and I got that's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate you.
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  Speaker 8: K Hey, hey, hey, but hey, but sol made can
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  Speaker 8: you send me a booker pane.
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  Speaker 1: I got you gonna, I got I got a packing
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  Speaker 1: here for you.
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  Speaker 6: I need I need that black privilege.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, don't hang up. Okay, all right, say let's say, let's.
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  Speaker 8: Maybe all right, I mean, all right, Jess.
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  Speaker 1: All right, man, ain't sounding like a stud. I'm confaring
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  Speaker 1: at the end. You know, it was the.
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  Speaker 12: Same person, the same person time it did something. She
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  Speaker 12: did something.
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  Speaker 5: I mean he did something well, study well he and
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  Speaker 5: she could have a wife regardless of she.
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  Speaker 12: I was gonna say, your white thinkings. They ain't never denied.
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  Speaker 1: She had never denied. So she is like.
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  Speaker 12: Oh, you got me for somebody?
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  Speaker 1: Don't know. They gotta sound hello, who's this Hi? This
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  Speaker 1: is desire, they desire. Good morning, Get off your chest.
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  Speaker 7: First of all, I want to say good morning. I
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  Speaker 7: listen to you guys every morning. I'm so excited to
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  Speaker 7: be on the raby y'all. But I'm gonna get right
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  Speaker 7: into it because I know i'd be telling people off.
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  Speaker 1: Happy to have you, no and no y'all. That'd be envy,
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  Speaker 1: you know what you mean?
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  Speaker 13: Man?
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  Speaker 1: Lookah, you cut her off already. God damn, damn. That's crazy, yo.
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  Speaker 2: So you're disrespectful, disrespectful, the other trying to be funny. Hey,
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  Speaker 2: I desire your phone out a little bit. We couldn't
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  Speaker 2: keep going out.
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  Speaker 1: They blaming it on me desire.
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  Speaker 7: I'm I'm sorry, I can't hear me now.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, we can start from the beginning, please, Okay.
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  Speaker 7: I was saying, I'm tired of these white people who
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  Speaker 7: keep trying to touch my hair in the workplace. I
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  Speaker 7: had someone come all the way over to my desk
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  Speaker 7: and tried to put her hands in my hair. I
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  Speaker 7: have sister locks. They're not brands, they're not twins.
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  Speaker 9: And I literally looked at her and said, what are
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  Speaker 9: you doing?
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  Speaker 7: And she goes, oh, I just you had one piece
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  Speaker 7: out of place, but now you're not supposed to touch black
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  Speaker 7: women's hair.
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  Speaker 1: But then why are you doing it white? I didn't get.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't realize white people were still doing that. And
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  Speaker 2: if she if you had a place, you're there. If
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  Speaker 2: you had a hair out of place, you should have
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  Speaker 2: just told you, absolutely.
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  Speaker 7: Exactly you walk all the way over to my desk. Instead,
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  Speaker 7: you're saying, hey, you gotta you gotta peak.
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  Speaker 14: You know what you should do. You should be like,
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  Speaker 14: I will put my hands to your hair. But I
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  Speaker 14: hear you guys have lights. You should do that, and
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  Speaker 14: she'll never ever touch your hair again. She'll never even
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  Speaker 14: walk over to your desk.
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  Speaker 8: Damn, you're right. I heard.
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  Speaker 9: It's a little greasy.
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  Speaker 7: I heard a little break.
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  Speaker 14: Yeah, say say but but say lights. Oh girl, they
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  Speaker 14: hate that. That's like saying roaches for us. Say say
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  Speaker 14: oh yeah, I heard you.
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  Speaker 5: Guys, yes, say I hope you could fight desire. That's
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  Speaker 5: all I'm gonna say.
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  Speaker 7: Well, my mom's from Brooklyn, so you know, I got
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  Speaker 7: a little bit in.
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  Speaker 2: What that mean when people do that and your city
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  Speaker 2: can't fight for you. When people say I'm from Brooklyn,
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  Speaker 2: Brooklyn like as Brooklyn can make.
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  Speaker 1: You fight beast right?
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  Speaker 15: Yes, yes said Brooklyn Brooklyn in Baltimore, Chicago, Yes, yes,
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  Speaker 15: and how mother somebody from Missouri beat y'all glass, you
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  Speaker 15: know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Chicago, Compton, thank.
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  Speaker 7: You guys so much.
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  Speaker 16: Thank you.
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  Speaker 7: Have a great day.
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  Speaker 2: One of them grass fed beat people from Kansas that
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  Speaker 2: sixty three to seventy naturally will whip y'all ass talk.
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  Speaker 1: About up from Brooklyn. Shut up. Hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 2: My name is Johnny.
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  Speaker 12: Good morning, Good.
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  Speaker 1: Morning, john Get it off your chest, Johnny, Hey.
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  Speaker 10: Good morning.
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  Speaker 3: I was just wanting to get off my chest.
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  Speaker 17: You know, I'm a I'm a disabled veteran and I
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  Speaker 17: got the military. Twenty twenty one, I fell with my
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  Speaker 17: girlfriend ever was six, twenty twenty one.
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  Speaker 6: I bought her two cards. I gave her four grand
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  Speaker 6: for the first car. She crashed it.
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  Speaker 18: I gave her another card.
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  Speaker 6: That I had, and so the picked up the car
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  Speaker 6: team and she letigate pre possessed.
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  Speaker 17: Now I'm waking up at like three thirty boy morning
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  Speaker 17: to bring her to work for like four forty five.
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  Speaker 1: Uh, you got a good job, but you get that
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  Speaker 1: money from bud.
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  Speaker 3: I'm a dis dable veteran.
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  Speaker 6: I'm a I'm a plumber and black plumber.
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  Speaker 5: It's like.
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  Speaker 1: You got you gotta y.
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  Speaker 14: Yeah, you got a big girlfriend, but you got a
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  Speaker 14: good income.
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  Speaker 1: You get into the name.
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  Speaker 17: I'm trying to see you know, I don't want to
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  Speaker 17: break our heart, but you know, it's kind of taking
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  Speaker 17: a big toll on me and heart thor like it's
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  Speaker 17: trying of setting me into like a depression because you know,
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  Speaker 17: it's just too much on me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I think you should cut her off. Yeah.
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  Speaker 12: How long y'all been together?
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  Speaker 6: Well, my I had a brother who passed away. We
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  Speaker 6: were just talking and when.
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  Speaker 3: My brother passed away, we got really close.
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  Speaker 6: We've been together for about four years now. I don't
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  Speaker 6: want to break our heart. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Do you love Yeah?
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  Speaker 6: I definitely love her, but you know I'm thinking about
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  Speaker 6: the wild life aspect over the love aspect, you know.
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  Speaker 14: Yeah you should do that. Yeah, yeah, No, you're not
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  Speaker 14: going to break your heart. It's okay, Well her heart
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  Speaker 14: will probably be broken, but you can't do it at
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  Speaker 14: the expensive of your own heart.
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  Speaker 12: You can't stay with us leave her alone.
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  Speaker 2: Lets you have you have you had the conversation? Have
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  Speaker 2: you told her like, look, man, you're hurting my friends
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  Speaker 2: with this. I don't like the way you be blowing
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  Speaker 2: my money.
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  Speaker 1: Okay?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I had the conversation with her.
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  Speaker 3: She cried and I kind of get stuck in there.
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  Speaker 6: She asked me to her time to fix it.
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  Speaker 17: And you know, but it's kind of a while when
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  Speaker 17: I met her and she dropped out of school since
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  Speaker 17: I met her.
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  Speaker 19: Net the school because I want to go to school.
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  Speaker 1: I have, I have.
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  Speaker 12: My job is at home.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I mean.
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  Speaker 14: I'm getting funded. Anything I want to do is getting funded.
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  Speaker 14: Your disabled vet.
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  Speaker 1: You got man.
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  Speaker 14: Listen, she's a manipulator. That was me years ago. Lee
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  Speaker 14: shorty along. She won't be there as long as you
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  Speaker 14: break it off. She's not gonna break it off because
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  Speaker 14: you're paying for everything you the bank.
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  Speaker 2: That's right, you're doing well in life. You're a plumber
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  Speaker 2: and you gotta get a disabled veteran check man. You
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  Speaker 2: can get somebody else.
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  Speaker 5: Get it off your chest eight hundred five eight five five.
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  Speaker 1: If you need to vent hit it. So now it's
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  Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Good morning, the breakfast Club. Wake up, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: As if you're time to get it off your chest,
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  Speaker 2: your man or blessed, we want to hear from you
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  Speaker 6: Hello.
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  Speaker 12: Who's this?
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  Speaker 8: This is Rachel Russa's books.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning Rachel, Get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 20: Hey, y'all, I just wanted to give y'all your flowers and.
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  Speaker 8: Then shout myself out?
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  Speaker 1: Is that?
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  Speaker 8: Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Of course, Okay.
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  Speaker 20: I've been watching y'all since I was like twenty, I'm
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  Speaker 20: Breakfast Club in many different ways, and I just want
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  Speaker 20: to say, DJ.
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  Speaker 8: The God how you guys make an example for black men.
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  Speaker 6: You know we need that.
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  Speaker 18: Dj angre what you do for the community, Charlotmagne like,
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  Speaker 20: Like the vulnerabilities and encouraging accountability within black men is.
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  Speaker 1: What we need.
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  Speaker 19: Just hilarious.
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  Speaker 12: Good morning.
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  Speaker 7: Are you there this morning?
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  Speaker 12: Am wow?
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  Speaker 20: Missing the way you have cultivated a voice for yourself
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  Speaker 21: the Breakfast Cub has came far and I'm here for
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  Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Well, thank you so much. Now
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  Speaker 1: shout out yourself. You said you want to shout out yourself.
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  Speaker 16: Too, right, Yeah, I want to shout out myself.
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  Speaker 22: My name is Rachel Rod and I am in film
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  Speaker 1: Okay, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 20: Don't worries.
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  Speaker 1: Hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 2: Hey?
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  Speaker 9: Hey man?
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  Speaker 1: You know you called us man?
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  Speaker 12: He had work?
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  Speaker 1: Hello? Who's this? Hello? Hello?
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  Speaker 6: Hello?
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  Speaker 23: Can you hear me?
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  Speaker 4: Hi?
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  Speaker 12: Hello, good morning?
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  Speaker 1: How old are you?
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  Speaker 6: Hi?
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  Speaker 18: It's just see I called it yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, we'll get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 8: But I kind of got interested yesterday.
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  Speaker 7: But once again, I want to say.
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  Speaker 11: Every damn that was.
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  Speaker 1: That was really mistake.
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  Speaker 19: They're making jokes about you hanging up on people.
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  Speaker 12: Six soconds everything like he be boofit.
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  Speaker 10: That was.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 12: You couldn't even say like, okay, baby, you can't hear you.
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  Speaker 12: We're just gonna put you on hold.
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  Speaker 5: You said, sorry, Hello, who's this Philly?
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  Speaker 1: What's up? Philing? What's happening? Get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 1: Some glove man.
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  Speaker 3: Ain't nobody out there listening to y'all? Long day lead.
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  Speaker 3: I've been listening y'all since day one, probably twenty fourteen,
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  Speaker 3: up your Sharrella. Y'all used to bustle on her all
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  Speaker 3: the time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, big one credit.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I just want you to know, thank you for
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  Speaker 2: two thousand and fourteen more than day one, sir. Twenty
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  Speaker 2: ten was day one.
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  Speaker 12: Y'all used to on the fat girl.
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  Speaker 1: What's what's new?
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  Speaker 18: Y'all?
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  Speaker 3: Remember Johnny used to call up Charon y'alled to well
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  Speaker 3: Julie school bustling.
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  Speaker 2: Speak even all that I don't remember, man, But you
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  Speaker 2: know that's not about them, Thank you, brother.
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  Speaker 1: It's the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 5: Indeed, just Hilarie Charlamage the guy we are the breakfast
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  Speaker 5: club law and rust feeling in the jest if you're
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  Speaker 5: just joining us eight hundrenk five eight five one oh
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  Speaker 5: five when we're asking if you see your friends man
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  Speaker 5: or your friend's girl cheating on him or cheating on him,
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  Speaker 5: where'd you tell him you were saying.
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  Speaker 19: Yes yes to a certain extent.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, what's that extent?
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  Speaker 19: She got to hit that. My sister hit that threshold
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  Speaker 19: of like you so stupid, there's nothing I can do.
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  Speaker 19: Ain't no coming back. I'm out of it.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 19: But he also talked about not being able to go
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  Speaker 19: over the house at this point. I'm probably not allowed
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  Speaker 19: to at your house anyway, because your man hates me
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  Speaker 19: because when you're upset, you're calling me to go outside,
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  Speaker 19: and he's upset about that because he know I'm the
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  Speaker 19: one I told on him.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it depends how close I and with the person.
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  Speaker 5: If I'm real close, that's my bro, then.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to let him know.
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  Speaker 19: If I'm not close, I'm mind my business.
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  Speaker 5: But if it's one of those shaky situations where you
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  Speaker 5: had conversations before and they just acted like they don't
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  Speaker 5: hear you, then I'm not gonna say nothing my mom
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  Speaker 5: my business, and I'm just gonna let it happen because
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  Speaker 5: you ain't gonna listen to me anyway, You're gonna call
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  Speaker 5: me a hate anyway. I'm just gonna let the tell
• 13:47
  Speaker 5: the cars for and then when you cry and I'm
• 13:48
  Speaker 5: just gonna be like I told you know, I'm gonna
• 13:50
  Speaker 5: say I told you so, Charlam ain't telling.
• 13:52
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, I'm telling her that horror. And the reason I'm
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: telling on that horror because women have been telling on
• 13:58
  Speaker 2: men for years. And also, I was born in eighteen
• 14:00
  Speaker 2: hundred and seventy eight. I'm forty six years old, so
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: I'm grown and my friends are grown. So this isn't
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: no boyfriend or girlfriend thing. This is a marriage. And
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: you are breaking vows, vows that you made in front
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: of God.
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: This guy.
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: Therefore, I, being a messenger of God and one of
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: God's greatest public servants, I will do my due diligence
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: and my public service and tell on this now horrible
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: woman who has cheated on her husband, okay, and broken
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: these amazing vows that this man made.
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: I am absolutely positively telling on her.
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: But you, the whole police, you sound like you're the
• 14:33
  Speaker 2: guy who I've been seeing something in.
• 14:36
  Speaker 19: The car police, because I was just ordering groceries for
• 14:38
  Speaker 19: my cousin and helping my cousin with the groceries. Now
• 14:40
  Speaker 19: you all ins the car in then all up in
• 14:41
  Speaker 19: my police, like, don't do that.
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: It depends once again, it depends.
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: Like I said, I'm grown, so my friends are usually married, right,
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: so the people I'm be telling on are married people.
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: I feel it, okay, I'm not telling on you know.
• 14:52
  Speaker 19: I know some people who, because it gets to the
• 14:54
  Speaker 19: point of marriage, will definitely not say anything because they're like,
• 14:57
  Speaker 19: that's her husband, she needs to deal with that. I
• 15:00
  Speaker 19: know people that literally will not They don't.
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: Honestly there because it's married. They're not gonna mind the
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: business and the boyfriend or girl.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: Rather, if I see my man's wife cheating, I'm going
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: to tell my man immediately. Make sure you go file
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: at the voice. Let them know it's irreconcilable differences. Don't
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: give her nothing. Jesus Christ, you get half for nothing.
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: She was out here cheating on you king, all right,
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: she knows she got a whole family at home.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: Hello, who's this yo?
• 15:24
  Speaker 10: What's good? And be this Drake from Brooklyn?
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: Drake from Brooklyn. Dra Now you see you see your man's.
• 15:29
  Speaker 5: Girl at Starlin's at the strip club?
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: She would have never do you tell him?
• 15:33
  Speaker 10: I ain't gonna hold you. I don't really like her
• 15:35
  Speaker 10: gossip or stuff like that, or you was word of mouth.
• 15:38
  Speaker 10: I don't want not coming back. Oh you a hater U.
• 15:42
  Speaker 10: So you know what I ain't gonna tell him.
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: You can least get a sneak a little bit and
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: send him a pick.
• 15:48
  Speaker 10: Now listen, So I'm about to tell you I'm not
• 15:51
  Speaker 10: gonna be the one to tell him. The pictures and
• 15:53
  Speaker 10: videos at four K that's what's gonna tell my man.
• 15:55
  Speaker 10: Like you know what I'm saying, sweet talk about it.
• 15:59
  Speaker 10: I'm gonna show you. So you know it's different things.
• 16:02
  Speaker 10: But you know I ain't gonna be the teller. But
• 16:04
  Speaker 10: the pictures of videos wonna tell him.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: But also what you lying, because if you take a
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: video and then you send it to your man, the
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: first thing your man gonna hit you back.
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: What's this exactly?
• 16:12
  Speaker 19: You got to explaining now that whole text.
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: Come, I was at the club last night, and this
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: is what I saw.
• 16:18
  Speaker 10: I gotta explain it. The videos and pictures.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: On it, tag on it. Okay, Hello, who's this at L?
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: That's your name ATL?
• 16:28
  Speaker 6: I know that's right ATR.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: That's what we all right at L.
• 16:31
  Speaker 5: Now you see you see your girl's man in the club.
• 16:35
  Speaker 5: He had I don't know what's what's one of the
• 16:37
  Speaker 5: spots he had magics or something like that cheetah or
• 16:40
  Speaker 5: he had cheatah wherever he at.
• 16:41
  Speaker 18: You tell him, I am not telling If we know
• 16:44
  Speaker 18: your man is a serial cheeta, why am I getting involved?
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: You minding your business. You're not even gonna take a
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: picture of nothing.
• 16:49
  Speaker 18: I'm not I'm not saying anything. But but the second
• 16:52
  Speaker 18: part to that is, why is it that she can
• 16:55
  Speaker 18: cut me off or not tell him, but she don't
• 16:57
  Speaker 18: cut him off of having a fear every quarter?
• 17:00
  Speaker 8: What are we doing that?
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: You know?
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: You know I don't like the fact that you're not
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: being honest at YEA. The reason you can't tell your
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: girls because you know black men don't cheat.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: Ain't nothing to talk about.
• 17:09
  Speaker 19: On what when y'all when y'all say they clarify black
• 17:12
  Speaker 19: men don't cheat, Okay, you got to do get some
• 17:15
  Speaker 19: new ones that drop where they at.
• 17:17
  Speaker 18: So you're going to be bringing the phone over to
• 17:21
  Speaker 18: bust this man every quarter or everyone the woman every quarter?
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: Every quarter?
• 17:25
  Speaker 8: You're gonna do that.
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: Well, I would never have to do that to man
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: because black men don't cheat. But for that woman who's
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: out here cheating on her husband.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: Absolutely black women don't cheat either.
• 17:32
  Speaker 19: We just order the groceries to help our cousins.
• 17:36
  Speaker 8: Giving.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: You're saying black women don't cheat, as in with a
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: comma like black women comma don't cheat.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: I like that one. Hello, who's in courage's horse to
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: not cheat?
• 17:45
  Speaker 6: Hello?
• 17:47
  Speaker 8: Hello?
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: What's your name?
• 17:48
  Speaker 8: Bro?
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: This is how does houstons in New Jersey?
• 17:51
  Speaker 5: All right, Pattison the Houston. I So now you're in
• 17:54
  Speaker 5: the club, you're Area twenty nine. You see your man's
• 17:57
  Speaker 5: girl all over some dude.
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: You're telling them, yes, of course quick, I'm calling like, Yo, dude,
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: your girl had such a stutch and I'm taking a
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: picture of sending the tool.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. That's what I'm about.
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: I might do like Charla made and facetied, like, Yo,
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: what's up?
• 18:15
  Speaker 18: I ain't know you was doing it like that?
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: Damn. Yeah, that's right. Damn I'm out there.
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: I even got one better for you.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 18:23
  Speaker 10: By my ex was.
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: Cheating with another dude, was cheating on his wife.
• 18:28
  Speaker 9: I found out.
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: I told him, I said, listen, keep cheating on her.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: Don't tell her, because if you tell her, I'm gonna
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: tell your wife. This idiot, hold it messed up, this
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: little five piece.
• 18:39
  Speaker 19: I don't get it.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: First of all, black men don't cheat.
• 18:41
  Speaker 19: Talking about what you're talking about, what I'm talking about?
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: He was clearly Caucasian. Lauryn d drink five eight five
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: one o five one.
• 18:55
  Speaker 5: Ladies, if you see that your your girl's man is cheating,
• 18:58
  Speaker 5: are you telling them? If you see your man's girl cheating,
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: are you telling.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: That's the question. Let's talk about it. It's the breakfast club.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: Good morning, the breakfast club.
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: We're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh five
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  Speaker 5: to one. If you see your friends man a girl cheating,
• 19:15
  Speaker 5: are you telling her?
• 19:16
  Speaker 6: Now?
• 19:16
  Speaker 5: This situation comes from Saucy Santana. Play with Saucy Santana, say,
• 19:22
  Speaker 5: let's go.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: To the phone line.
• 19:23
  Speaker 5: Hello, who's this so talk to us. You see your
• 19:26
  Speaker 5: man's girl cheating, you're.
• 19:28
  Speaker 13: Telling under those cumer fans will not not telling? I mean,
• 19:32
  Speaker 13: why would I hide that from him that's supposed to
• 19:34
  Speaker 13: my boy, because eventually he's gonna find out and then
• 19:36
  Speaker 13: it's gonna be mad at me if I didn't say nothing.
• 19:38
  Speaker 19: Okay, so that's like the first time she caught cheating,
• 19:41
  Speaker 19: But like what if it's like you want a sixth
• 19:43
  Speaker 19: time she's been called?
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: You calling him I'm calling.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: Not only are we calling him and telling him how
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: stupid he is for still being out here with this
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: little whore.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, yes, I'm calling everything.
• 19:55
  Speaker 19: It's different.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: I don't know why I'm calling every time, simply because
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: I need him to know how stupid we know he is.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: Hello, who's this Erica?
• 20:04
  Speaker 8: Call him from where I'm calling from? Ghana?
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: Oh, Ghana.
• 20:07
  Speaker 8: I thought, I literally stopped. I'm heady to meet the president,
• 20:11
  Speaker 8: but I wanted to call in because the topic is
• 20:13
  Speaker 8: as it is every day was so amazing.
• 20:16
  Speaker 19: Right on the President of Ghana.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: The iHeart radio at works in Ghana. I guess so.
• 20:22
  Speaker 8: So I streamed from my phone. I've been here for
• 20:25
  Speaker 8: fifteen months. They're going to stream the service. So today
• 20:30
  Speaker 8: is the springing and ceremony of Diacterran United States citizens
• 20:35
  Speaker 8: and they've only done it three times. Stevie Wonder did
• 20:37
  Speaker 8: it a few months ago, and I'm doing it today.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: Tell him I want citizenship.
• 20:41
  Speaker 11: Man.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: It's one twenty five pm and Ghana.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: If anybody listened to charlamagea go who wants his citizenship
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: for him and his whole family got I have property
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: in Ghana.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: I love Ghana.
• 20:49
  Speaker 8: I live in a cross, I live in a cry
• 20:52
  Speaker 8: I live in the atomic nuclear area, but I have
• 20:54
  Speaker 8: a property somewhere else as well. So look me up
• 20:58
  Speaker 8: on Hillside Solutions d A D O T testing company
• 21:01
  Speaker 8: on ig So send me a message or give me
• 21:04
  Speaker 8: another number, and I promise you I got you.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: I'm gonnaell.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you our producer get your info. I
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: was gonna buy. I was gonna buy an apartment in
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Ghana across I still might.
• 21:12
  Speaker 19: Take Charlotte of Ghana. So that way, you know, these
• 21:15
  Speaker 19: women who need to help their cousin with the groceries
• 21:17
  Speaker 19: can do it in peace, all.
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: Right, So, ma'am, ma'am, So that you finally got to
• 21:22
  Speaker 5: get connected.
• 21:23
  Speaker 8: I'm sorry, y'all really got to get connected to Ghana
• 21:25
  Speaker 8: because it's so much sum in here, and it's so
• 21:28
  Speaker 8: much takeover, and we're moving here every single day.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 21:32
  Speaker 9: Everything.
• 21:34
  Speaker 8: It is everything to me. It is everything I thought
• 21:37
  Speaker 8: it would be. Go ahead. I'm sorry, go ahead.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: So well, first of all, would you would you come
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: from what state?
• 21:42
  Speaker 8: I think from. I'm originally from Kentucky, but I came
• 21:45
  Speaker 8: from Tampa, Florida, and I just got tired of racism.
• 21:48
  Speaker 8: I got tired of the bigotry. I got tired of
• 21:51
  Speaker 8: just us not being able to be put in position.
• 21:53
  Speaker 8: No matter how smart you are, no matter what you own,
• 21:55
  Speaker 8: no matter how much money you have, it will never
• 21:57
  Speaker 8: be enough.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: Gotcha.
• 21:59
  Speaker 5: So not a question. Is you out there in Ghana?
• 22:01
  Speaker 5: You see your girl's man out there dancing with some
• 22:05
  Speaker 5: next check you.
• 22:05
  Speaker 8: Telling dancing is nothing?
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: Cheating?
• 22:08
  Speaker 15: Okay?
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: Cheating cheating kissing?
• 22:12
  Speaker 8: Cheating is a different story. Because I'll say this, because
• 22:15
  Speaker 8: your character should speak for itself, that he would.
• 22:18
  Speaker 9: Have enough sense.
• 22:19
  Speaker 8: Anybody knows me, knows that they can't do certain things
• 22:21
  Speaker 8: in front of me because I stand for something right,
• 22:25
  Speaker 8: he would tell her himself because the pressure will be applied,
• 22:27
  Speaker 8: So heaven, I'm not gonna say anything. I'm gonna just look.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: At him so he know, he know that. You know now, yeah,
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: I know you gotta do something to react. So hopefully I'm.
• 22:35
  Speaker 8: Gonna have a respectable conversation with him. How would he
• 22:39
  Speaker 8: view that situation if he were me?
• 22:42
  Speaker 6: Right?
• 22:42
  Speaker 8: Put the shoe on the other foot. So give me
• 22:44
  Speaker 8: the exact same gravity of grace that you would expect
• 22:49
  Speaker 8: to be given.
• 22:49
  Speaker 5: Unto you, O, I with you, Thank you mama, hold on,
• 22:53
  Speaker 5: we gonna put your.
• 22:56
  Speaker 19: Edie get her in pol Okay, So she says, she
• 22:59
  Speaker 19: would have a righteous conversation with.
• 23:01
  Speaker 5: Him, right, or she would just look at him and
• 23:03
  Speaker 5: be like, you know what I'm about to do, so
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: you better do it beforehand, that grace.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: So what's the morrow of the story? All of the stories?
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Man, If you're a man and you see your man's
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: wife or your man's girl out there cheating, tell on her,
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: Tell on her, little broke ass. Okay, how did she
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: out here cheating on this man that's taking care of her? Okay,
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: I know how my man's is holding you down and
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: you out here sharing that broke ass box. Okay, you
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: little boot little broke booty. I'm telling on you all right.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: By the way, God, we got to start doing that
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: the women. Man, start calling women brokers. Okay, all right.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: When women is in the club and they like, yo,
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: I'm here with my girl and my other two girls,
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: we all want to drink, be like, damn for brokey's.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Start shaming these women for not.
• 23:50
  Speaker 19: Work for certain women. Because you call certain like my friends,
• 23:53
  Speaker 19: you call them brokes. They probably gonna order some bottles
• 23:55
  Speaker 19: for you, Like, don't play with it.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: But that's good. They're not broke.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: We not.
• 23:58
  Speaker 19: But I'm saying, but it might not be hores either.
• 24:01
  Speaker 19: And you calling them horse.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Horses just a figure to speaking is literal. Brokes is literal. Okay,
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: you broke.
• 24:09
  Speaker 19: I know you broke, and it's fine, all right, because
• 24:11
  Speaker 19: she need a drink at the But.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: I want men to start doing the women been done
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: to us for years.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: You remember, no scrubs we do. Okay, all right.
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: So let's start calling women broki's and let's start telling
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: on these women that's out here cheating on their husbands
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: and their boyfriends today.
• 24:29
  Speaker 19: Yeah, you your wife is amazing.
• 24:32
  Speaker 12: Why are you so upset?
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: My wife?
• 24:35
  Speaker 19: But where does this anger?
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: We are trying to clean the world. Broke Horse Times,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Cloked morning, you're checking out the Breakfast Club.
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: Bell Air is back for a final season on Peacock
• 24:51
  Speaker 5: and in the end it's all love. Will and Carlton
• 24:54
  Speaker 5: start senior year and the rest of the fan faced
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• 24:59
  Speaker 1: Only on p this morning, everybody in DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamage,
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: the God we are the Breakfast Club. We got a
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: special guest in the building. Yes, indeed were having Nicole
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: Bell welcome.
• 25:11
  Speaker 24: Good morning.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: Are you killing this morning?
• 25:12
  Speaker 24: I'm feeling great, glad to be here.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: Absolutely got a new movie after Shocked and the Cole
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: Pete Bell Story. What you be in theaters November twenty
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: eight when you decided to tell this story through film?
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: What truth did you feel America still didn't understand about
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: what happened to Sean.
• 25:29
  Speaker 24: I think America doesn't understand what the families really go
• 25:32
  Speaker 24: through behind the scenes. For me, I was twenty two
• 25:35
  Speaker 24: years old, Sean was only twenty three when he was killed,
• 25:38
  Speaker 24: and we had two small daughters. My daughters at the
• 25:41
  Speaker 24: time were baby girls. So going through the years of
• 25:46
  Speaker 24: fighting for justice the levels of government, state, trial, federal investigation,
• 25:54
  Speaker 24: departmental hearings, civil and then reforms. Fighting for reforms that
• 26:00
  Speaker 24: takes a toll. And as a twenty two year old
• 26:04
  Speaker 24: young woman, surrounded by the nation who supported us, my family,
• 26:09
  Speaker 24: the community, it was that's what really empowered me to
• 26:13
  Speaker 24: move forward. And what I think a lot of people
• 26:15
  Speaker 24: need to understand is that many people want to tell
• 26:17
  Speaker 24: their stories. People want their stories heard, and we don't
• 26:20
  Speaker 24: really know how what outlet but I'm blessed to get
• 26:24
  Speaker 24: a chance to meet people like Manny and give us
• 26:27
  Speaker 24: the opportunity to put this real life story now on
• 26:32
  Speaker 24: screens for people to see and see what really happened
• 26:34
  Speaker 24: behind the scenes.
• 26:36
  Speaker 5: If you don't mind, I want to go back a
• 26:38
  Speaker 5: little bit. Yeah, if you don't mind. And the reason
• 26:40
  Speaker 5: being is after watching a movie. I'm from Queens, so
• 26:45
  Speaker 5: you lived it, but you just forget right with everything
• 26:48
  Speaker 5: going on in the world. You forget the ends, the
• 26:50
  Speaker 5: outs and the details and you just assume right like
• 26:54
  Speaker 5: I'm not even gonna lie. I forgot the cops gotta
• 26:56
  Speaker 5: quit it, like you forget so many things.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: So hell loo, it's been over twenty year.
• 27:01
  Speaker 24: So this year, this tomorrow makes nineteen years.
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: So for people that don't know the Sean Bell story,
• 27:11
  Speaker 5: just break it down a little bit. You guys were
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: high school sweethearts. Yeah, you were about to get married
• 27:15
  Speaker 5: and I'll let you go.
• 27:17
  Speaker 12: So yes.
• 27:18
  Speaker 24: So, Sewn and I both went to John Adams High
• 27:20
  Speaker 24: School in Ozone Park, Queens. We're from Queen's South Side, Jamaica, Queens.
• 27:25
  Speaker 24: So we met there. Sean played baseball, we met, we
• 27:29
  Speaker 24: dated just like everyone else. After school, Sean went on
• 27:32
  Speaker 24: too Nasville Community College. He played baseball for a little there.
• 27:36
  Speaker 24: When I graduated, we kind of went straight into building
• 27:41
  Speaker 24: a family. I was a young mom and after the
• 27:45
  Speaker 24: birth of my second daughter, Sean had surprised me with
• 27:51
  Speaker 24: a ring and it was Christmas Day, all the family,
• 27:54
  Speaker 24: we were all together sitting by the tree. He had
• 27:56
  Speaker 24: a yeah, giving me a shoe box, right, and I thought, oh,
• 27:59
  Speaker 24: it's a it was another pair of shoes because he
• 28:01
  Speaker 24: had bought me shoes before. I didn't really like the
• 28:02
  Speaker 24: shoes that he brought me last time, but he bought
• 28:04
  Speaker 24: me these shoes and I was like, Okay, we got
• 28:06
  Speaker 24: another pair of shoes coming. I opened up the shoe box.
• 28:08
  Speaker 24: Inside the shoe box was a watchbox. I was like, oh, surprise,
• 28:11
  Speaker 24: I got to watch open up the watchbox and the
• 28:14
  Speaker 24: watchbox was a ring box. And that was the day that,
• 28:21
  Speaker 24: you know, we decided to get married. So we hadn't
• 28:24
  Speaker 24: made any plans. Maybe about a year or so had passed,
• 28:27
  Speaker 24: and then at that point our daughters were Jada was
• 28:32
  Speaker 24: three and a half almost four, and Jordan was just born,
• 28:36
  Speaker 24: so she was about five months old. So sometime in
• 28:39
  Speaker 24: November of six early November, he had sat me down.
• 28:43
  Speaker 24: He's like, one day he came home, He's like, hey, come,
• 28:46
  Speaker 24: let's sit down and talk. We were living in far
• 28:48
  Speaker 24: Rockaway at the time, and I was kind of nervous,
• 28:52
  Speaker 24: not sure what he wanted to talk about, because he
• 28:54
  Speaker 24: wasn't to come sit down and talk to me, the
• 28:56
  Speaker 24: type of person it was just like he would say
• 28:57
  Speaker 24: what it is. But he had talked to his mom,
• 29:03
  Speaker 24: he had talked to my mom, he had talked to
• 29:05
  Speaker 24: the pastors, and he had planned the wedding. My best
• 29:10
  Speaker 24: friends knew, and I was just shocked that I didn't know. No,
• 29:14
  Speaker 24: I hadn't find out, you know. I was kind of
• 29:16
  Speaker 24: feeling like, how could y'all keep the secret for me?
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: That's one of the most stressful things ever play.
• 29:20
  Speaker 24: Ad what And he had it, he had the church,
• 29:23
  Speaker 24: he had The only thing he couldn't do was get
• 29:25
  Speaker 24: my dress. And that's what my best friend told me.
• 29:27
  Speaker 24: His mother told me, like, he was like, you cannot
• 29:30
  Speaker 24: buy her dress for her, y'all. He gotta let her
• 29:33
  Speaker 24: pick out her dress. So that time, that point in
• 29:36
  Speaker 24: my life, it was really the happiest point in my life.
• 29:38
  Speaker 24: And it was two weeks before the due date, so
• 29:41
  Speaker 24: we had celebrated November twenty third as our anniversary, and
• 29:44
  Speaker 24: he was like, we're gonna do it on the twenty fifth.
• 29:46
  Speaker 24: It was the weekend the family's gonna fly in. I mean,
• 29:49
  Speaker 24: they had everything together and I went then. So the
• 29:55
  Speaker 24: eve of the twenty fourth, I went for my bachelorrete
• 29:57
  Speaker 24: party my mom's house. We did like a little small
• 29:59
  Speaker 24: intimate bridal shower, and then he went out with some
• 30:03
  Speaker 24: of the guys from the neighborhood. My brother in law
• 30:06
  Speaker 24: was there and his father museum And at some point
• 30:11
  Speaker 24: during the night I got a call it was early morning,
• 30:14
  Speaker 24: like four am at this point on the wedding day,
• 30:18
  Speaker 24: that something happened and we needed to get to the hospital.
• 30:21
  Speaker 5: Now, when that happened, breakdown, because the police tried to lie, right,
• 30:26
  Speaker 5: It was so many different stories, and like I said,
• 30:28
  Speaker 5: after watching the movie, you go down this rabbit hole
• 30:31
  Speaker 5: of google, right, and then you start remembering all the
• 30:34
  Speaker 5: lies that they did and just trying to break his
• 30:36
  Speaker 5: character and all that without going too much because some
• 30:39
  Speaker 5: of it's in the movie, some of it's not. Breakdown
• 30:41
  Speaker 5: how the family took that, because hey, you got a
• 30:43
  Speaker 5: young man that did everything right, he went to school,
• 30:45
  Speaker 5: he got his degree, he was working, he had a
• 30:47
  Speaker 5: couple of jobs, but now you got the city or
• 30:51
  Speaker 5: the police officers trying to break his spirit. So how
• 30:54
  Speaker 5: did the family feel during that time?
• 30:56
  Speaker 24: It was devastating. It was devastating for his parents. It
• 30:59
  Speaker 24: was devastating for me. I had to kind of like
• 31:01
  Speaker 24: isolate myself from like things like social media and I
• 31:04
  Speaker 24: couldn't read the comments things like that. It was just
• 31:06
  Speaker 24: kind of getting out of hand. But it was completely
• 31:09
  Speaker 24: devastating me because we were like just in shock, you know,
• 31:14
  Speaker 24: and a lot of pain mentally. And then there were
• 31:17
  Speaker 24: stories coming out like the fourth Man is a fourth man.
• 31:19
  Speaker 24: They came out right away with that one, and then
• 31:22
  Speaker 24: it disappeared right away. It went away, and there was
• 31:26
  Speaker 24: just a whole smear campaign. And I had come to
• 31:28
  Speaker 24: find out, just by my attorneys and the leaders like
• 31:32
  Speaker 24: Reverend Sharkton and people who are around me, like this
• 31:34
  Speaker 24: is what happens when and people are killed by police
• 31:39
  Speaker 24: officers every day.
• 31:40
  Speaker 5: Which is crazy because you couldn't even grieve. I'm sitting
• 31:43
  Speaker 5: there and you try and to grieve. You have these
• 31:46
  Speaker 5: young kids, but then you're trying to protect the name,
• 31:48
  Speaker 5: and it's like could you even been grieve during that time.
• 31:53
  Speaker 24: So I went straight into getting active and so the
• 31:57
  Speaker 24: next day we went to a rally. Day after that,
• 31:59
  Speaker 24: you know, we did a march, and then after the funeral,
• 32:04
  Speaker 24: it was just like, now it's time to you know,
• 32:07
  Speaker 24: let people know, shine of light on exactly what's happening.
• 32:10
  Speaker 24: So no, grieving didn't happen right away, and I would
• 32:14
  Speaker 24: go home and cry, you know, I'd come out and
• 32:16
  Speaker 24: you know, make it, you know, look as good as
• 32:19
  Speaker 24: it needs to be. But behind the scenes, I was
• 32:21
  Speaker 24: a mess. You know, I was a wreck. And my
• 32:23
  Speaker 24: family really formed like this barrier around me to protect
• 32:27
  Speaker 24: me and help me with the girls. They were so young,
• 32:30
  Speaker 24: and that was really that was the whole program. From
• 32:34
  Speaker 24: that point on. Everywhere I went, I was kind of
• 32:36
  Speaker 24: surrounded by somebody who was from the family or someone
• 32:40
  Speaker 24: who was there to kind of, you know, act as like,
• 32:42
  Speaker 24: all right, if I have to step in help, you know,
• 32:44
  Speaker 24: we're going to do that. But I tell people all
• 32:46
  Speaker 24: the time, you know, like there's no specific order in
• 32:50
  Speaker 24: which you grieve. You know. For me going through this
• 32:53
  Speaker 24: film and also working on a book, it brings back
• 32:57
  Speaker 24: every thought, every memory. There's been times when, even recently
• 33:00
  Speaker 24: I've lost sleep and I had to get back into therapy,
• 33:03
  Speaker 24: you know, and speak to a therapist. But I'm so grieving.
• 33:07
  Speaker 24: I mean, you got to grieve and keep it moving.
• 33:09
  Speaker 24: And that's really what that's what it was about. Back then.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: We got more with Nicle Bell. When we come back,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, good morning.
• 33:17
  Speaker 5: Everybody is j Envy, Jess HILARI is Charlamagne the God.
• 33:20
  Speaker 5: We are the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with
• 33:23
  Speaker 5: Nicole Bell. Nicole Bell, who is Sewan Bell's wife, has
• 33:26
  Speaker 5: a movie coming out this Friday called After Shock bew
• 33:29
  Speaker 5: Sean Bell was shot fifty times, shot at fifty times.
• 33:32
  Speaker 5: He was killed by police officers as he was leaving
• 33:34
  Speaker 5: his bachelor party. He was supposed to get married the
• 33:36
  Speaker 5: next day and he was killed.
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: Charlomagne, how did your understanding of grief change over the years,
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: Like once the cameras disappeared and life just kept moving.
• 33:46
  Speaker 24: Yeah, yeah, so you know it's like we're living this,
• 33:51
  Speaker 24: you know, once the cameras leave and the smoke clears,
• 33:53
  Speaker 24: this is still my life. This is still and I
• 33:55
  Speaker 24: still have to find a way to take care of
• 33:57
  Speaker 24: my daughters. I still have to find a way to work.
• 34:00
  Speaker 24: I still have to find a way to you know,
• 34:03
  Speaker 24: keep his memory alive and do all these things at
• 34:05
  Speaker 24: the same time. So, I mean my understanding of it was,
• 34:10
  Speaker 24: you know, we just got to keep it moving. I
• 34:12
  Speaker 24: have to keep going forward, Like I don't know where
• 34:15
  Speaker 24: this is going, but I know I'm going to keep
• 34:17
  Speaker 24: pushing forward, and I know eventually we'll get somewhere. And
• 34:20
  Speaker 24: that's all it was for me, is just keep going,
• 34:22
  Speaker 24: like I can't think about what's going to happen next month,
• 34:25
  Speaker 24: but I'm going to take it one day at a time.
• 34:27
  Speaker 24: And that's really what it's about. It's just pushing forward.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: What's something people assume gets easier with time but actually
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: becoming more difficult.
• 34:35
  Speaker 24: I think even this, you know, this conversation here, Yeah,
• 34:39
  Speaker 24: I think people think you know that, hey, you know,
• 34:42
  Speaker 24: maybe you're far removed from it by now, but it's
• 34:46
  Speaker 24: it's an ongoing thing. Like I just recently, I was
• 34:48
  Speaker 24: on the phone with my therapist just bawling, you know,
• 34:51
  Speaker 24: like you know, we everyone you know thinks of this
• 34:56
  Speaker 24: whole term like you know, being strong and you know,
• 34:59
  Speaker 24: but this so many ways to look at, you know,
• 35:01
  Speaker 24: how what that means, and so we get blinded by it,
• 35:05
  Speaker 24: like I have to be strong. I have to be strong.
• 35:06
  Speaker 24: But strong is like just one day strong might be
• 35:10
  Speaker 24: just getting out of bed one day. The next day
• 35:12
  Speaker 24: strong might be sitting here on a radio station. It
• 35:15
  Speaker 24: looks different. And to me, that's the way I identify
• 35:17
  Speaker 24: what like moving forward is and how grief works. There's
• 35:22
  Speaker 24: no specific order in which that happens and how it comes.
• 35:25
  Speaker 24: So I mean, and then my daughters, you know, I
• 35:29
  Speaker 24: can't be far removed from it because my girls are
• 35:32
  Speaker 24: every day, you know, a part of him. And my
• 35:35
  Speaker 24: daughters they deal with it in different ways, you know,
• 35:38
  Speaker 24: from when they were younger, and you know till now.
• 35:44
  Speaker 5: Now, how was that raising those young those young queens,
• 35:47
  Speaker 5: because I remember when it happened, right, my dad, who
• 35:50
  Speaker 5: was a retired police officer.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: Did not want me out right. He already didn't want
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: me out right.
• 35:54
  Speaker 25: You know.
• 35:55
  Speaker 5: It was always like you got to come home, you
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: got to drive, and the streets during that time was
• 35:59
  Speaker 5: real dangerous. So I could imagine the anxiety of every
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: day your daughter just wanting to leave, to go anywhere.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: So how was that?
• 36:06
  Speaker 24: Absolutely? I mean, there were talks that you know, if
• 36:09
  Speaker 24: there's ever you know, if you're ever approached, you know
• 36:12
  Speaker 24: by a police officer, like, remain calm, just you know,
• 36:15
  Speaker 24: let me handle that. You know, you get as much
• 36:17
  Speaker 24: information as you can and let me handle that. But
• 36:19
  Speaker 24: it was terrifying for one, but not just for them,
• 36:23
  Speaker 24: you know, for for anyone I loved. You know, I
• 36:25
  Speaker 24: was worried about my dad. I was worried about you know,
• 36:27
  Speaker 24: my brother in laws, the men in my life. You know,
• 36:31
  Speaker 24: just not sure about what's going to happen. But it
• 36:33
  Speaker 24: was bad back then, and people who supported us were targeted,
• 36:37
  Speaker 24: you know after, you know, for supporting us. I learned
• 36:41
  Speaker 24: that from you know, elected officials. I learned that from
• 36:43
  Speaker 24: artists who support us. And it was bad. It was
• 36:47
  Speaker 24: really bad, and that was so important. That's why it
• 36:49
  Speaker 24: was so important for me to show people the human side,
• 36:51
  Speaker 24: like this is who we are, this is who he was,
• 36:55
  Speaker 24: and this is the family and that's still what it
• 36:59
  Speaker 24: is even till this.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: Let's stay therefore saying what parts of Sean's life and
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: character did you want this film to reclaim from like all.
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: The media natives.
• 37:09
  Speaker 24: So I need people just to know that, you know,
• 37:12
  Speaker 24: Sean was just like you know, you and you DJ
• 37:16
  Speaker 24: Mby Like he was a person who like loved his woman,
• 37:19
  Speaker 24: he loved his family, He loved his mom, his dad.
• 37:23
  Speaker 24: He wasn't a person who had many close friends. He
• 37:27
  Speaker 24: the friends that he was very selective about who he
• 37:29
  Speaker 24: considered his friends and the ones who were, you know,
• 37:33
  Speaker 24: his friends. He would take care of him. On his
• 37:35
  Speaker 24: bachelor party night, he was driving his friends, like he
• 37:40
  Speaker 24: was driving the guys from the neighborhood in my car.
• 37:42
  Speaker 24: So this is who Sean was. He wasn't you know,
• 37:46
  Speaker 24: a person that's like, you know, just not you know,
• 37:53
  Speaker 24: or I guess what the narrative was being pushed out
• 37:56
  Speaker 24: at some points. If it wasn't for the family, and
• 37:58
  Speaker 24: if it wasn't for like the advocates and everyone who
• 38:01
  Speaker 24: stood up, like, I don't know what the image would
• 38:06
  Speaker 24: have been. But for us, it was important to just
• 38:08
  Speaker 24: show people who he was, like, this is who he is.
• 38:11
  Speaker 24: He worked, he had jobs, you know, he he loved
• 38:15
  Speaker 24: to surprise me, like he had planned a surprise wedding
• 38:18
  Speaker 24: all by himself and pulled in the family. This is
• 38:22
  Speaker 24: who he was. This was the guy was, and it
• 38:24
  Speaker 24: was just made into this big, you know thing because
• 38:27
  Speaker 24: there were fifty shots fired by the police officers. That's
• 38:30
  Speaker 24: really at the bottom line, that's what it was. It
• 38:32
  Speaker 24: was the fifty shots that were fired by the police
• 38:34
  Speaker 24: officers on our wedding day, and that was how big
• 38:37
  Speaker 24: it was. That was that was what made it like sensationalized.
• 38:42
  Speaker 24: But Sean was just like you and me, Like he
• 38:45
  Speaker 24: was just like any other person. It was nothing any different,
• 38:49
  Speaker 24: and he was human like he was a human. He
• 38:51
  Speaker 24: wasn't just a hashtag. He wasn't just a name. You know,
• 38:55
  Speaker 24: that's you know, it's not just a headline. It's a
• 38:57
  Speaker 24: family behind us, and it's a family was grieving.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: What made you come up with the title after shot?
• 39:02
  Speaker 24: That's production. I don't think. I don't really care about it.
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just found an interesting like you know why,
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: I want to know why was it important for you
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: to tell that story, like the year's long impact of
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: the trauma, because I think that's something that people don't
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: think about.
• 39:18
  Speaker 24: Yeah, well that that itself, absolutely that is a thing
• 39:21
  Speaker 24: and that was part of the reason why I wanted
• 39:23
  Speaker 24: to push forward with the project is because I think
• 39:26
  Speaker 24: the movie shows a timeframe of like six to twenty
• 39:32
  Speaker 24: twenty one, and that's a huge part of my life,
• 39:36
  Speaker 24: you know, And it's like it's it's almost two decades
• 39:39
  Speaker 24: that we're talking about of trying to keep his memory alive.
• 39:44
  Speaker 24: But these families have gone through every day. Like there's
• 39:47
  Speaker 24: so many families like mine, and I know them, and
• 39:50
  Speaker 24: I just hope that this project will like encourage other
• 39:53
  Speaker 24: families to tell your stories. There's other ways that we
• 39:56
  Speaker 24: can get the word out. There's other ways that we
• 39:58
  Speaker 24: can show people like we we didn't receive the justice
• 40:01
  Speaker 24: that we were looking for, and really accountability would have
• 40:05
  Speaker 24: been that in this case, I mean, justice would have
• 40:07
  Speaker 24: been him still being here. But accountability is what we
• 40:10
  Speaker 24: were looking for. So this is us holding them accountable.
• 40:13
  Speaker 5: I wanted to know, like when they were when they
• 40:15
  Speaker 5: were acquitted, did any of those officers apologize?
• 40:20
  Speaker 24: There was a public statement that was issued. It wasn't
• 40:24
  Speaker 24: really directed towards me in the during the court room,
• 40:26
  Speaker 24: it was very like blatant that you know, they weren't
• 40:31
  Speaker 24: willing to apologize. After they were acquitted, there was like
• 40:35
  Speaker 24: a public statement at their press conference, but that was it.
• 40:37
  Speaker 24: It was nothing personal.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: Do we know what happened to those offices? Did they
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: lose their jobs? Do we know did they get shipped
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: to another precinct. Do we know at all or not?
• 40:45
  Speaker 24: So the the officer who followed who fired their initial shots,
• 40:50
  Speaker 24: he was terminated. The rest of them, I believe they
• 40:52
  Speaker 24: were allowed to retire with benefits.
• 40:54
  Speaker 6: Wow.
• 40:55
  Speaker 24: Yeah, So I don't know where their life is at
• 40:58
  Speaker 24: this point, and you know, really, I just hope that
• 41:02
  Speaker 24: they understand like the weight of what they left behind
• 41:06
  Speaker 24: and what their actions did that night, and how generationally
• 41:10
  Speaker 24: how that affects not just me, not just mister and
• 41:13
  Speaker 24: missus Bell. But we're now, you know, raising my kids
• 41:16
  Speaker 24: in that, and I'm just My goal was to make
• 41:19
  Speaker 24: them strong, make them normal, normal girls, you know who
• 41:24
  Speaker 24: can blend in. And I'm blessed to be able to
• 41:26
  Speaker 24: say that's the case today. You know, my oldest daughter,
• 41:28
  Speaker 24: she's like doing her thing, working and has her own apartment.
• 41:32
  Speaker 24: Jordan's at Howard University, and they're just independent young women.
• 41:37
  Speaker 24: And I'm so proud. They're like my best friends. They
• 41:40
  Speaker 24: keep me strong when I feel weak and vice versa.
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: We got more with Nicole Bell when we come back,
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club.
• 41:48
  Speaker 5: Good Morning Morning, Everybody's DJ Envy, Jess Hilaris Charlamagne to God,
• 41:52
  Speaker 5: we are the Breakfast Club.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: We're still kicking it with Nicole Bell.
• 41:55
  Speaker 5: Nicole Bell, who is Sean Bell's wife, has a movie
• 41:58
  Speaker 5: coming out this Friday called After Their Shock. Now, Sean
• 42:01
  Speaker 5: Bell was shot fifty times, shot at fifty times. He
• 42:04
  Speaker 5: was killed by police officers as he was leaving his
• 42:06
  Speaker 5: bachelor party. He was supposed to get married the next
• 42:08
  Speaker 5: day and he was killed. One thing that bothered, especially
• 42:12
  Speaker 5: the community and queens, was that when it first happened,
• 42:14
  Speaker 5: people automatically thought there was going to be a bunch
• 42:16
  Speaker 5: of white cops and it was racist, right right, there
• 42:18
  Speaker 5: was a bunch of it was I think one white
• 42:20
  Speaker 5: cop and it was minorities.
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, how did that feel?
• 42:23
  Speaker 5: Because you know, you really want to feel like at
• 42:25
  Speaker 5: least somebody that looks like me understands, right, how did
• 42:28
  Speaker 5: that feel during that time?
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: And was that a thing back then?
• 42:31
  Speaker 24: And yeah, that was insane? And I think I even
• 42:33
  Speaker 24: heard that, you know, people like, well, how did he
• 42:35
  Speaker 24: know it was cops? They were you know, they were white?
• 42:37
  Speaker 24: Like Okay, guys, y'all got to pay attention to read
• 42:39
  Speaker 24: the story. This is not that's not what happened. Because
• 42:43
  Speaker 24: growing up in South Jamaica queens. Like you know about
• 42:45
  Speaker 24: stopping first, you see that, You see detectives jumping out
• 42:48
  Speaker 24: on people. You see you know, the mark cars. You
• 42:50
  Speaker 24: know what the culture was back then.
• 42:54
  Speaker 18: So.
• 42:56
  Speaker 24: We're all aware of it with hyper Like when he
• 42:59
  Speaker 24: arrived at the bachelor parte, he was pulled over by
• 43:01
  Speaker 24: blue and white, a marked car. He wasn't even given
• 43:04
  Speaker 24: a ticket. I found out this information during a trial.
• 43:07
  Speaker 24: I didn't even know that. So when he was parking
• 43:09
  Speaker 24: to get to the bachelor party he was pulled over,
• 43:12
  Speaker 24: they didn't even give him a ticket. They sad, already
• 43:13
  Speaker 24: have a good day. Why'd you stop him? When he
• 43:16
  Speaker 24: was leaving, he was encountered by the cop who was
• 43:19
  Speaker 24: at the club under you know, investigating the club. So
• 43:22
  Speaker 24: it was just the community in itself was policed in
• 43:27
  Speaker 24: a way that just wasn't there to protect, you know,
• 43:31
  Speaker 24: the people who are from the neighborhood, the people who
• 43:33
  Speaker 24: live here, like we go to school here, we work
• 43:36
  Speaker 24: our jobs here in the neighborhood was shot up. There
• 43:40
  Speaker 24: were homes that were shot, you know, fifty shots. One
• 43:43
  Speaker 24: went into the air train above Edge Maka Station and
• 43:47
  Speaker 24: nobody was held accountable for that. And that's really part
• 43:50
  Speaker 24: of the reason that fuels me because with all of
• 43:53
  Speaker 24: that devastation, what was the outcome? And you know, and
• 44:01
  Speaker 24: I don't know what's going to come next, but all
• 44:03
  Speaker 24: I know is, you know, just it's the same message.
• 44:05
  Speaker 24: We're going to keep pushing forward. There are so many
• 44:07
  Speaker 24: victims who need to be encouraged to tell their stories,
• 44:10
  Speaker 24: and they want to be encouraged to tell their stories.
• 44:11
  Speaker 24: They don't they're not sure how. And I just hope that,
• 44:14
  Speaker 24: you know, this project makes everybody proud.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: And I want to I want to go back to
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: your daughters, like how did you protect your daughter's emotional
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: world while the country was just discussing your family is
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: just a political case.
• 44:26
  Speaker 24: Yeah, because they were watching Disney and Nickelodeon. They were
• 44:29
  Speaker 24: doing what kids do. They were going to dance school,
• 44:32
  Speaker 24: they were you know, playing sports. They were not involved
• 44:35
  Speaker 24: in that. And when they were small, I would take
• 44:37
  Speaker 24: them to the rallies and stuff. But once they were
• 44:39
  Speaker 24: old enough to kind of articulate what's going on, you know,
• 44:42
  Speaker 24: would make sure they were either with Grandma or they
• 44:45
  Speaker 24: were you know, busy doing something else, and just kept
• 44:48
  Speaker 24: them focused on what do you want to do? Like,
• 44:50
  Speaker 24: do you what do you want to become We're going
• 44:53
  Speaker 24: to make you the you know, the best. You know,
• 44:55
  Speaker 24: whatever it is you want to do, hair, you want
• 44:57
  Speaker 24: to do, make it. Whatever it is you want to
• 44:59
  Speaker 24: become a lawyer, you to be the best at it.
• 45:01
  Speaker 24: And I think that's where my with my girls, it
• 45:03
  Speaker 24: was just important that I keep them normal, like, you know,
• 45:07
  Speaker 24: don't I don't read the comments, So I'm not going
• 45:09
  Speaker 24: to introduce them, you know what about now.
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: Because when the movie comes out, yeah, it's you know,
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: start that whole conversation.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: All over the world.
• 45:17
  Speaker 24: So we we do a lot in private. You know,
• 45:20
  Speaker 24: we we are very tight. We are very close. My
• 45:23
  Speaker 24: girls are very close to his parents. We keep it,
• 45:26
  Speaker 24: you know, really tight. So we've watched it together in private,
• 45:30
  Speaker 24: and my girls had a lot of questions and there
• 45:35
  Speaker 24: were things that they didn't even know that after watching it,
• 45:38
  Speaker 24: you know, I'll get calls like, hey, mom, what did
• 45:40
  Speaker 24: this mean? You know what was that about? And I can,
• 45:46
  Speaker 24: you know, just remember being twenty two and losing him
• 45:49
  Speaker 24: and thinking like, oh my god, how am I going
• 45:51
  Speaker 24: to explain this to them one day? And the one
• 45:54
  Speaker 24: day is here and now I'm here and we're having
• 45:57
  Speaker 24: these deep conversations. But now I'm ready to have the
• 45:59
  Speaker 24: conversation because if I had tried to do this nineteen
• 46:03
  Speaker 24: years ago, I don't think I would have made it.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: You didn't. You didn't even have no understanding of it.
• 46:07
  Speaker 24: Absolutely, I did not have an understanding of it. Now,
• 46:11
  Speaker 24: even though the grief, you know, is still there and
• 46:14
  Speaker 24: I'm working with a therapist and you know, we're we're
• 46:16
  Speaker 24: dealing with the reality of it. It is. It's just
• 46:23
  Speaker 24: a matter of it being like a story that is
• 46:26
  Speaker 24: important to our culture, it's important to our history. And
• 46:30
  Speaker 24: long after I'm gone, after Shock is going to be here.
• 46:32
  Speaker 24: And that's what my goal is, just to create something
• 46:35
  Speaker 24: that will last. And you know, we can, you know,
• 46:39
  Speaker 24: we can hope that you know, this will make history.
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: Who stood up for you back then?
• 46:44
  Speaker 5: You know, we've seen rever now and we heard about
• 46:47
  Speaker 5: Jay z Well, who stood up for the community back
• 46:49
  Speaker 5: then when you needed it the most. Right, you support people,
• 46:52
  Speaker 5: You support local people who stood up for you during
• 46:55
  Speaker 5: that time.
• 46:57
  Speaker 24: Anybody, I mean, during that time, there was like you said, Revernde,
• 47:00
  Speaker 24: there was a lot of people at nan National Action
• 47:03
  Speaker 24: Network was a big deal. Everyone you know, in my community,
• 47:09
  Speaker 24: there were a lot of elect every elected official you
• 47:11
  Speaker 24: could think of, like some of my friends now who
• 47:13
  Speaker 24: are now in politics, like the Queensborough President Donovan Richards,
• 47:20
  Speaker 24: and people like Tamika Mallory from Nan. Yeah. And these
• 47:25
  Speaker 24: are the people now, right, who are who've come from
• 47:28
  Speaker 24: that Sean Bell era and who marched like under Reverend
• 47:32
  Speaker 24: now Sharpton, and now they're the leaders of the time
• 47:35
  Speaker 24: and saying, hey, this is what we need to do
• 47:36
  Speaker 24: because this is what happened in the past. So those
• 47:39
  Speaker 24: are some of the people, I mean even right now,
• 47:41
  Speaker 24: like Angela Rye, that's my girl. I could text Angela
• 47:44
  Speaker 24: right now and she'll give me some you know, great
• 47:46
  Speaker 24: advice or like hey, Nicole, you need to check this.
• 47:50
  Speaker 24: You know my attorney, you know, like female black female attorneys.
• 47:55
  Speaker 24: I'm surrounded by wonderful people that I can call when
• 48:00
  Speaker 24: I'm in need. And I think back then it was
• 48:04
  Speaker 24: the same, you know, there wasn't much of the female presence.
• 48:07
  Speaker 24: It was more of like the politicians. It was like
• 48:10
  Speaker 24: the revenue Sharpton. But I think everyone recognized that. That's
• 48:13
  Speaker 24: that's why you've had like the Mother's Movement who came out.
• 48:16
  Speaker 24: Everyone recognized that, right Sabrina Fulton and Gwen Carr, Eric
• 48:22
  Speaker 24: Gardner's mother, like the movements that came from it, because
• 48:26
  Speaker 24: it was more of like, this is a political thing,
• 48:29
  Speaker 24: and it's like, oh, how is it political? You know,
• 48:31
  Speaker 24: we're not politicians, but you know, because of the you know,
• 48:36
  Speaker 24: the police officers, they deemed it as political. But I
• 48:40
  Speaker 24: think the most magnificent thing of that is that all
• 48:42
  Speaker 24: of the lives that were affected back then and all
• 48:44
  Speaker 24: the greatness that came from it, all of everyone whose
• 48:47
  Speaker 24: lives were affected said hey, you know, because of what
• 48:50
  Speaker 24: happened to Sean, that's the reason why I became this
• 48:53
  Speaker 24: and that means a lot to me.
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: JV did start of trust fling, right, he did?
• 48:58
  Speaker 12: Yes, he did.
• 48:59
  Speaker 24: Yeah, college fund for my girls?
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: Wow?
• 49:02
  Speaker 24: Yeah that was that was back in eight Yeah.
• 49:06
  Speaker 19: Yeah.
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: Is there a moment public are private that best represents
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: the emotional aftershock of losing Sean?
• 49:17
  Speaker 24: Public or private? I think that first ever march that
• 49:25
  Speaker 24: happened in six down Fifth Avenue, it was massive, right.
• 49:31
  Speaker 24: I didn't even know the gravity of how many people
• 49:35
  Speaker 24: were affected by it. I thought it was just us.
• 49:39
  Speaker 24: And then that first ever march that I attended down
• 49:43
  Speaker 24: Fifth Avenue, it was crazy. I mean, we were ending
• 49:49
  Speaker 24: the march miles down and we could see all the
• 49:52
  Speaker 24: way back the streets would filled with people. People would outraged,
• 49:58
  Speaker 24: They were outraged like it was the family member. And
• 50:02
  Speaker 24: I think that's what moved me to say, oh wow,
• 50:04
  Speaker 24: I'm not alone here. I felt like I was on
• 50:06
  Speaker 24: the island, like there was no one who could ever
• 50:08
  Speaker 24: relate to what I had gone through losing him on
• 50:11
  Speaker 24: my wedding day in that way. But even though you know,
• 50:16
  Speaker 24: these people didn't lose him that way, everyone was affected,
• 50:19
  Speaker 24: everyone was outraged, and then still there was no justice.
• 50:25
  Speaker 24: And I think that's also a part that defines, you know,
• 50:30
  Speaker 24: what we're dealing with here, is that no matter how
• 50:32
  Speaker 24: the amount of people, the amount of outrage, the the
• 50:38
  Speaker 24: amount of shots, there was still no conviction there. And
• 50:43
  Speaker 24: you know what are we gonna do with that?
• 50:45
  Speaker 5: We have more with Nicole Bell, Sean Bell's wife. When
• 50:48
  Speaker 5: we come back. It's the Breakfast Club.
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: Good Morning Morning.
• 50:50
  Speaker 5: Everybody is the DJ, Envy, Jess, Hilarius, Charlamagne, the God.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: Nicole Bell.
• 50:57
  Speaker 5: Nicole Bell, who is Sewn Bell's wife, has a movie
• 51:00
  Speaker 5: coming out this Friday called after Shock Now. Sean Bell
• 51:03
  Speaker 5: was shot fifty times, shot at fifty times. He was
• 51:06
  Speaker 5: killed by police officers as he was leaving his bachelor party.
• 51:08
  Speaker 5: He was supposed to get married the next day and
• 51:10
  Speaker 5: he was killed.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: About the tobs, Yeah, I remember you believe in the system.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: After that, I lost.
• 51:18
  Speaker 24: My faith in the system after i'ma be honest with you,
• 51:20
  Speaker 24: I really did. And now you see family since then
• 51:25
  Speaker 24: who've gone through similar things, and it's the steps that
• 51:28
  Speaker 24: we have to take as family members, and you got
• 51:32
  Speaker 24: to go through these measures just to get somewhere. And
• 51:34
  Speaker 24: it's just like we're walking down the same line. Everyone's
• 51:38
  Speaker 24: walking down the same line looking for a different outcome.
• 51:40
  Speaker 24: And listen, you know, I sat back and kind of watched,
• 51:46
  Speaker 24: you know, families go through this. It's painful for everyone
• 51:49
  Speaker 24: to think, you know, okay, this is it, this is
• 51:51
  Speaker 24: the time, and then it's the same outcome. We're just
• 51:54
  Speaker 24: watching this whole thing just over and over, just like
• 51:57
  Speaker 24: a vicious cycle. And for me, I mean, Zora Neilhurston said,
• 52:03
  Speaker 24: if you don't talk about your pain, they'll kill you
• 52:06
  Speaker 24: and think and say you enjoyed it. And that's what
• 52:08
  Speaker 24: AFTERSHOCKA is about We're talking about our pain here, and
• 52:13
  Speaker 24: there's so many people who are in pain and people
• 52:16
  Speaker 24: who down the line in future might be in pain.
• 52:19
  Speaker 24: But this is a story for all of us.
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: How did advocating for justice reshape your identity as a woman,
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: a mother, and a leader?
• 52:30
  Speaker 24: How did advocate for justice?
• 52:31
  Speaker 11: So?
• 52:32
  Speaker 24: I feel that it empowered me. It to fined you
• 52:36
  Speaker 24: know who I am. It really helps kind of give
• 52:40
  Speaker 24: me that strength to push me forward. I learned a
• 52:44
  Speaker 24: lot about myself. I learned a lot about our community.
• 52:48
  Speaker 24: But advocacy, it's just a never ending thing. It's not
• 52:51
  Speaker 24: something that you can do and turn it off. You know,
• 52:54
  Speaker 24: there's always something to advocate for it, there's always something
• 52:57
  Speaker 24: that needs change. So I feel that the advocacy in itself,
• 53:01
  Speaker 24: it kind of defined me as a woman, and it
• 53:03
  Speaker 24: made me feel really like badass.
• 53:08
  Speaker 5: Really yeah, I was gonna say, what message did you
• 53:12
  Speaker 5: want to send you to the world by forgiven the police
• 53:16
  Speaker 5: officers that shot or did you even forgive me?
• 53:19
  Speaker 24: I was gonna actually whered you read that. I was
• 53:25
  Speaker 24: going to ask you, where did you see that? So
• 53:30
  Speaker 24: I don't think I've reached that place because I was
• 53:35
  Speaker 24: there and I've witnessed and then in real time how
• 53:39
  Speaker 24: they felt and like during the trial, how they would
• 53:42
  Speaker 24: pass notes and make jokes. This was like almost like
• 53:46
  Speaker 24: a board game, you know. And we were devastated, you know.
• 53:51
  Speaker 24: And it takes a lot to say I am forgiven.
• 53:55
  Speaker 24: I have to keep it real with y'all, and I
• 53:56
  Speaker 24: have to I have to always keep it real. I
• 53:58
  Speaker 24: haven't forgave. I can say I'm at peace, but no,
• 54:03
  Speaker 24: I haven't forgiven.
• 54:04
  Speaker 5: I'm not a forgiving person either. Certain things I just
• 54:06
  Speaker 5: don't understand. And he tried to talk to you too,
• 54:09
  Speaker 5: but it's just certain things I just can't forgive.
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: And yeah, it is what it is. If I had
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: maybe to that point one day in life.
• 54:16
  Speaker 24: If I had maybe picked up a hint of remorse somewhere, maybe,
• 54:21
  Speaker 24: but I didn't. So I can't put that on them
• 54:24
  Speaker 24: if that's not how they feel. And that's okay, because
• 54:26
  Speaker 24: you know, I'll find my way and my girls will
• 54:29
  Speaker 24: be We're gonna you know, we're gonna make it. We're
• 54:30
  Speaker 24: gonna be strong. We're gonna support his mom, we're gonna
• 54:32
  Speaker 24: support his dad. Like where we're gonna be. You know,
• 54:36
  Speaker 24: we're gonna be okay. But as far as forgiveness.
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: Now, what therapis told me last week.
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: You know, if somebody has done you wrong and you
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: feel like they've harmed you, it is perfectly healthy to say.
• 54:49
  Speaker 12: And that's it.
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: I love that therapist. No, that's how I feel.
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: That's an emotion, that's your feeling. Who is who are
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: you now compared to who you were before? November twenty fifth,
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: two thousand.
• 55:00
  Speaker 24: Oh man, who am I now compared to? I mean,
• 55:06
  Speaker 24: right now, it's.
• 55:09
  Speaker 6: Wow.
• 55:09
  Speaker 24: I mean I don't know if I could find the
• 55:11
  Speaker 24: words for it, but I think there's really I feel unstoppable.
• 55:18
  Speaker 24: I'm gonna be honest with you. I feel like this
• 55:20
  Speaker 24: is something that has prepared me for a life I
• 55:26
  Speaker 24: never had planned. I was just looking forward to getting
• 55:30
  Speaker 24: married to Sean and you know, the love that we
• 55:33
  Speaker 24: have for each other, the love he had for our girls,
• 55:36
  Speaker 24: that's really what fueled me. And when they took that
• 55:38
  Speaker 24: from me, it was if it was extremely personal, you
• 55:42
  Speaker 24: know that they did this, and it kind of made
• 55:47
  Speaker 24: me look at you know, life differently, absolutely look at
• 55:51
  Speaker 24: life differently, cherishing you know, our loved ones, loving on
• 55:53
  Speaker 24: everybody around you, appreciating life like I'm not a person
• 55:57
  Speaker 24: who complains a lot. I'm not a person who takes
• 56:00
  Speaker 24: things for granted. I found the greatness in everything and
• 56:05
  Speaker 24: losing Sean, the struggle that we had, all of that
• 56:10
  Speaker 24: has made me this person.
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: Now, why and when did you decide to do this movie? Like?
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: What was the thing that?
• 56:16
  Speaker 25: Like?
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: It's time now?
• 56:18
  Speaker 24: So I met Mannie Hallie back in twenty seventeen and
• 56:22
  Speaker 24: I had a conversation with him that he had My
• 56:27
  Speaker 24: mom was with me. Let me rewind a little bit,
• 56:28
  Speaker 24: so my mom was with me. My mom was like,
• 56:30
  Speaker 24: you know, she's my biggest champion. So she was like, okay,
• 56:34
  Speaker 24: this is this the director? Oh hey, you ever thought
• 56:36
  Speaker 24: about doing a movie about Nicole? A movie about Sean?
• 56:40
  Speaker 24: We went to a premiere, one of his premiere. Sorry
• 56:42
  Speaker 24: I forgot to leave that got to say that. So
• 56:45
  Speaker 24: we met Manny. My mom was like, you know on him, like, hey,
• 56:48
  Speaker 24: you know, you ever thought about doing this? And was
• 56:50
  Speaker 24: like you know, maybe you know, I don't think he
• 56:53
  Speaker 24: really knew who we were or whatever. But down the
• 56:56
  Speaker 24: line we had more conversations. We talked a little bit more,
• 57:00
  Speaker 24: and then production kind of came up with an idea
• 57:03
  Speaker 24: of like, Okay, how can we do this? Let's figure
• 57:04
  Speaker 24: out how to the best way to make this happen.
• 57:07
  Speaker 24: For me, it was always about telling a story. You know,
• 57:09
  Speaker 24: I don't know about the creativity side of it. That's
• 57:11
  Speaker 24: not I'm not in entertainment, that's not my field. But
• 57:15
  Speaker 24: I have a story and it's a story that affected
• 57:18
  Speaker 24: a lot of people, and it's a story that's gonna
• 57:20
  Speaker 24: change lives. And if there's a way that we can
• 57:22
  Speaker 24: get this out there, let's do it. So as far
• 57:25
  Speaker 24: as a timeframe, I feel like the best time is now,
• 57:30
  Speaker 24: not only because of what we're going through in the community,
• 57:33
  Speaker 24: but just because me personally mentally, I wasn't in a
• 57:36
  Speaker 24: space to be able to make a movie. Years ago.
• 57:38
  Speaker 24: I was raising two little girls, I was mourning, going
• 57:42
  Speaker 24: through depression PTSD. I couldn't do a movie. How could
• 57:45
  Speaker 24: I find the time? So now it's been almost twenty years,
• 57:51
  Speaker 24: I'm able to talk about this without the tears. I'm
• 57:55
  Speaker 24: able to, you know, find the therapy. I'm able to
• 57:57
  Speaker 24: talk to my girls and mentor them, and they're in
• 58:00
  Speaker 24: and women exactly.
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 58:03
  Speaker 24: What I pray for. Now's the time. It's no better
• 58:05
  Speaker 24: time than do it right now.
• 58:07
  Speaker 2: How can people honor Sean's story in a way that
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: leads to action, not just.
• 58:10
  Speaker 24: Them, so in a way that leads to action. So
• 58:14
  Speaker 24: we need we need everyone to one go out and
• 58:18
  Speaker 24: vote for your local elections and your local elections, like
• 58:21
  Speaker 24: do what you can do your part, you know, personally,
• 58:25
  Speaker 24: this is you know, something that we all have to
• 58:27
  Speaker 24: continue to to shine the light on, you know, whether
• 58:30
  Speaker 24: it's his story or it's you know, an injustice that
• 58:33
  Speaker 24: you know of in your area. Like, let's support each other,
• 58:35
  Speaker 24: join an organization. If you don't see an organization that
• 58:38
  Speaker 24: that resonates with you, start an organization. There are many
• 58:42
  Speaker 24: things that you can do to advocate and it doesn't
• 58:45
  Speaker 24: always have to be just in Shawn's name, but get
• 58:48
  Speaker 24: be a part of some kind of movement. Get out there,
• 58:51
  Speaker 24: be a part of a movement. And you know, for us,
• 58:54
  Speaker 24: there there aren't any more legal you know measures that
• 58:59
  Speaker 24: I can take of exhulst those So this is the
• 59:02
  Speaker 24: next step for me, and I want everybody to get
• 59:04
  Speaker 24: out there and go see it, you know, and tell
• 59:06
  Speaker 24: the story, pass the story along, and we're gonna be
• 59:09
  Speaker 24: at colleges, you know, we're gonna we're gonna share the
• 59:11
  Speaker 24: story with the next generation who doesn't know Sean hasn't
• 59:14
  Speaker 24: heard about this story. And that's really it.
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: And if you Awers walk away with just one lesson
• 59:21
  Speaker 2: from after shock, what do you hope it is?
• 59:24
  Speaker 24: One lesson for after shock is that you cannot let
• 59:28
  Speaker 24: life like take you out. There are things that's going
• 59:32
  Speaker 24: to happen, and you have to find your way, find
• 59:36
  Speaker 24: your way to make it through. Endurance Resilience is life like.
• 59:42
  Speaker 24: We're all going to get knocked down at some point,
• 59:45
  Speaker 24: right and it may not be to this magnitude, and
• 59:47
  Speaker 24: I pray it's not to this magnitude. But life is
• 59:51
  Speaker 24: gonna come at you and you have to find your way,
• 59:55
  Speaker 24: whatever your way is, to get over it. And to
• 59:57
  Speaker 24: when I say get over it, I mean to get
• 59:59
  Speaker 24: over the ump, not to get you know, not to
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 24: move out of the way, but to get over that
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 24: hump and push through and and support your people like
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 24: you know, this is we need that support. I'm I'm
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 24: thankful for people like many you know, and his team
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 24: who are not you know, affiliated with any type of
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 24: justice you know, organizations or anything, but he said, hey,
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 24: this is something that's important and we want to get
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 24: behind you on this. And I'm just really thankful for that,
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 24: and I think everyone needs to find you know, whatever
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 24: your source is, what is your source, and and just
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 24: feed that and keep going and don't give up.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 5: Absolutely well, definitely check it out this Friday after shock
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 5: and Nicole pe bell story and thank you for sharing
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 5: your story.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 24: Thank you, but it's tough.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: Definitely always sending your healing energy.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 5: And Manny, you too. I'm always praying me and my
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 5: wife is always praying for you, Manny. So we love
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 5: you and thank you so much for sharing it again.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 5: If y'all need anything, please let us know and thank
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 5: you so much.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 24: Lists everywhere AMC Theaters is select AMC theaters nationwide, so
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 24: if you go on fandangle dot com you'll see it airs.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 24: It releases November twenty eighth, and then on digital as
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 24: of December fifteenth.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Nicole Bell, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: you're checking out The Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 5: Bella is back for a final season on Peacock and
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  Speaker 1: Charlotte Maage some Donkey to Day's just shimself. I've been
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  Speaker 1: watching Charlotte Man, I was ready for day. I never
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  Speaker 1: heard on Donkey other Day.
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  Speaker 13: What is it?
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  Speaker 1: Say it again, Arla, Yes you are. That's Charlotte Lane
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  Speaker 1: the same. It's true.
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  Speaker 2: You know, Donkey to Day goes to a woman from
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  Speaker 2: Minnesota named Veronica Gas. Now, if you know anything about
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  Speaker 2: your uncle Charlott, and you know I got a few
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  Speaker 2: screws loose, you.
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  Speaker 1: Also know that, yes, shut up. You also know that
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  Speaker 1: I'm a big proponent of doing everything I have to
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  Speaker 1: do in order to get those screws tightened. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a huge mental health advocate. Yes, I encourage people,
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  Speaker 2: especially black men, to go to therapy. Are just to
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  Speaker 2: get on some type of healing journey.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: One form of therapy that is great for those of
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  Speaker 2: us in relationships is couples therapy. Dropping the clues bombs
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  Speaker 2: for couple therapy. Okay, what is couple's therapy exactly?
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  Speaker 1: It's simple.
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  Speaker 2: Couple therapy is a form of psychotherapy that can help
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  Speaker 2: you and your partner improve your relationship.
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  Speaker 1: All right, If you are.
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  Speaker 2: Having relationship difficulties, you can see couples therapy to help
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  Speaker 2: rebuild your relationship. Psychologists say couples therapy you can address
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  Speaker 2: a wide range of relationship issues, including recurring conflicts, feelings
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  Speaker 2: of disconnection, and a fair issues related to sex.
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  Speaker 1: Are just difficulties. Do to stress. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: If you and your partner are going through a rough patch,
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  Speaker 2: couple's therapy can help you work on your relationship. Your
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  Speaker 2: therapist can help you express your feeling, discuss issues with
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  Speaker 2: your partner, and resolve conflicts.
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  Speaker 1: All right, couples therapy, it's good, all right.
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  Speaker 2: It can help increase understanding and respect, affection and intimacy
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  Speaker 2: between you and your partner.
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  Speaker 1: Which can help you be happier together.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just saying this for those who don't know, because
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  Speaker 2: a lot of times we hear the phrase couple's therapy
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  Speaker 2: but don't know what it is. Okay, It's more than
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  Speaker 2: just you and your significant other getting up and going
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  Speaker 2: to see the lady.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. They also got the same types of couple's therapy
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  Speaker 1: that you can get in.
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  Speaker 2: One on one sessions like CBT, right, cognitive behavioral therapy,
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  Speaker 2: emotionally focused therapy. So I'm all for it, Okay. I
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  Speaker 2: believe that it can be a major key to a
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  Speaker 2: healthy relationship. Hell as I talk, I'm like, shoot, why
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  Speaker 2: not go do a couple sessions with the wife my
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  Speaker 2: damn self. Not because anything is wrong, but because we
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  Speaker 2: want to everything to keep going right.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. It's like, don't wait until the doctor tells you
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  Speaker 1: that you're sick to change your diet.
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  Speaker 2: Don't wait until you look down and can no longer
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  Speaker 2: see your penis to start working out. Let's do preventive
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  Speaker 2: maintenance now. Okay, you know, because you know you might
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  Speaker 2: get to a point where it's a little too late. Right,
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  Speaker 2: this happens in real life. You stop drinking when you're living,
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  Speaker 2: has already done. Some people are obese, and you know
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  Speaker 2: they have the massive heart attack and died too late
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  Speaker 2: to start eating, eating right and exercise and then and
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  Speaker 2: that's what I feel happened in the case of Veronica Gas. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: see Veronica and her boyfriend, they were off to see
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  Speaker 2: the wizard. By wizard, I mean therapists. Okay, they were
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  Speaker 2: on the way the couple's therapy, and they had an
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  Speaker 2: argument that morning, and I'm gonna tell you right now,
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  Speaker 2: I'm about to gas. Like you, this is another example
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  Speaker 2: of why women are the problem. See this man wanted
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  Speaker 2: to go see the lady with his woman, Veronica. He
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  Speaker 2: was trying to make it work. She's arguing with him.
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  Speaker 1: In the morning.
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  Speaker 2: They are on the way to go see the wizard.
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  Speaker 2: They are on the way to couple's therapy. I'm not
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  Speaker 2: making this up. They're on the way to see the wizard.
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  Speaker 2: Veronica stops in the middle of the lane and forced
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  Speaker 2: her boyfriend to exit the car because she decided right
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  Speaker 2: there and there, she didn't even want to go see
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  Speaker 2: the lady.
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  Speaker 1: She just wanted to break up with him, so he
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  Speaker 1: did as asked.
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  Speaker 2: He got out the car, and when he got out
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  Speaker 2: the car and passed the front of the car to
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  Speaker 2: walk to the sidewalk, the pair made eye contact.
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  Speaker 1: So guess what she decided to do. Hit him, Hit
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  Speaker 1: the damn gas, hit the gas, and then hit him.
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  Speaker 25: Came.
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  Speaker 1: They was just arguing and she decided she wanted to
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  Speaker 1: break up, so she asked me to get out the car,
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  Speaker 1: so he got out the car.
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  Speaker 19: The arguments then from somewhere though.
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  Speaker 1: See victim blaming. You see what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 19: I'm an investigative journalist trying to get to the bottom
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  Speaker 19: of it all.
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  Speaker 1: I hear is victim blaming.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, the man rolled over the hood of the car
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  Speaker 2: and shattered the window, and then hold on it gets
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  Speaker 2: worse for it. Veronica lies the police and tells police
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  Speaker 2: she didn't see her boyfriend, but then eventually admitted to police.
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  Speaker 1: That she hit him on purpose. Damn, mind you, they
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  Speaker 1: only been together for a year. They was shocking up.
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  Speaker 1: That's right. Now, you got your mouth open. Now you're
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  Speaker 1: on the man.
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  Speaker 19: I can't believe that you said only a year. That's
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  Speaker 19: twelve months of her life.
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  Speaker 1: How old is she? Thirty?
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  Speaker 19: He tried to take the best years of her thirties.
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  Speaker 2: They were shocking up, living together for a year, and
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  Speaker 2: they already in therapy and she already tried to kill him.
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  Speaker 2: Now she facing second degree assault, criminal vehicular operation, bodily harm,
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  Speaker 2: gross negligence, and domestic assault. All that for a year relationship.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, damn, is that even enough time to really
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  Speaker 2: ruin a woman's pH balance? Now, I'm not the highest
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  Speaker 2: grade of weed in the dispensary, but I've been around
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  Speaker 2: long enough to know that Ayana couldn't fix this life. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: this man was in a relationship with a toxic crusader. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: if y'all in therapy. She tried to kill you already
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  Speaker 2: and it's only been a year, then you shouldn't be
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  Speaker 2: going to therapy. You should be packing your stuff up
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  Speaker 2: and going home, or if she's living with you, send
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  Speaker 2: her home. Either way, y'all shouldn't be living with each other.
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  Speaker 2: Because if you're in a relationship and all you do
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  Speaker 2: is cry, you need to stop and ask yourself are
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  Speaker 2: you dating a human or an onion?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, now I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Gonna close with this. Couple's therapy won't work if you
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  Speaker 2: haven't addressed.
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  Speaker 1: Your individual issues.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes individual issues can overshadow relationship problems. Okay, unresolved trauma,
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  Speaker 2: personal mental health issues, addiction, and you know, daddy issues,
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  Speaker 2: mommy issues. They can and will have a huge impact
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  Speaker 2: on a partnership, and couple's therapy will be less effective
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  Speaker 2: if these underlying issues are not addressed. The reason couple's
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  Speaker 2: therapy wouldn't have worked for Veronica and her Man is simple.
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  Speaker 2: It's because Veronica actually needed an exorcism. Please give Veronica
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  Speaker 2: gas the sweet sounds of the Hamiltons. Oh oh.
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  Speaker 1: Ye, poor poor poor man.
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  Speaker 19: I feel him.
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  Speaker 1: Oh now you feel bad for him after you just
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  Speaker 1: said what did he do after for you to Kate?
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  Speaker 19: No, I feel bad for him because he got paid
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  Speaker 19: for that one shield.
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  Speaker 1: Wow?
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  Speaker 19: Because why are they arguing? What was arguing about?
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  Speaker 1: Because it matter? She ran him over with a completely
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  Speaker 1: something she did?
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  Speaker 19: How do you know that? Though? How can you just
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  Speaker 19: imply that, all.
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  Speaker 1: Right, we want to play a game. Yes, let's play
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  Speaker 1: a game up?
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  Speaker 11: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: What rac.
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  Speaker 2: All right?
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  Speaker 1: A woman from Minnesota from a town called Ottertail otter Town, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: She was arrested after she struck her boyfriend with her
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  Speaker 2: car water pair was on their way to couple's therapy.
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  Speaker 1: Dj MV. Guess what, Racos.
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  Speaker 5: It's a tough one. The reason I'm thinking it's tough
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  Speaker 5: because Lauren said.
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  Speaker 1: This is what she would do.
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  Speaker 19: I didn't say that. I just feel for my city.
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  Speaker 1: But she's from Delaware. She's from Delaware. Always keep that
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  Speaker 1: in mind when Delaware address whoa whoa white?
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  Speaker 25: White?
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  Speaker 2: Lauren Larossa, a woman was arrested Veronica after she struck
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  Speaker 2: her boyfriend with her car.
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  Speaker 1: Water pair was on their way to couple's therapy. Laura Lorosa, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: what race is?
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  Speaker 19: At first I was thinking maybe she's Puerto Rican white?
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  Speaker 1: Puerto Rican?
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  Speaker 9: I don't know.
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  Speaker 19: It just seemed to be like she reacted really fastly, extensively,
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  Speaker 19: like you know what.
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  Speaker 14: I mean, like Latino glad to know you feel about
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  Speaker 14: Porto Rican from the in the Bronx, she's an ottertail Minnesota.
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  Speaker 19: You said, yes, I stayed there as a flight attendant.
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  Speaker 19: I don't know. I feel like not outer tail, but
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  Speaker 19: in Minnesota. I feel like she could be a sister,
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  Speaker 19: just maybe a little like blad.
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  Speaker 1: Light skin wild, light skin. She what was on your mind? Lord,
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  Speaker 1: don't stut it.
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  Speaker 8: Go like this?
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  Speaker 19: She called her feelings real fasting light skin like this,
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  Speaker 19: and feelings toxic because he toxic. He went thro trolling
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  Speaker 19: me in the comments.
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  Speaker 1: And against the light skin, which is black.
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  Speaker 19: You don't feel like there's an emotional difference between the
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  Speaker 19: two of y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Know, I just get called that on mine.
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  Speaker 19: Okay, all right, well I'm just you know that's how
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  Speaker 19: I feel.
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  Speaker 1: You think it's the light skin black? Wow, the light
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  Speaker 1: skin black. We need to drink.
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  Speaker 5: You just throw something that just can't be black and
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  Speaker 5: light skin black, a light skin we.
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  Speaker 1: Need we need a Jake just lynched like what listen,
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  Speaker 1: one of you was correct, one of you was wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Dj NV, you are absolutely positively correct.
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  Speaker 19: Yeah, she's the light skin cousin that light skin she's white.
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  Speaker 1: Lord. Wait for people this morning, go oh stop, what
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  Speaker 1: light skinned man hurt you?
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  Speaker 19: I don't even deal with light skinning for I had
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  Speaker 19: like point five, but them y'all be doing too much.
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  Speaker 1: Light skinned man hurt too.
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  Speaker 19: I had like a point a point five of a
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  Speaker 19: light skin man. It was too much. My light skinned
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  Speaker 19: guy's gotta act dark skin.
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  Speaker 1: Lord. If you don't want to hear him, say no more,
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  Speaker 1: you stand on that. Damn it. I witch shout to
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  Speaker 1: my light skin brothers out there.
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  Speaker 19: I don't know what she did, yo, Envy Yo, Charlotte.
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  Speaker 19: At the show, I walked up on Envy to say bye.
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  Speaker 19: He had It was like a crusade. It was like
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  Speaker 19: thirty dominic kid like, I'm like, yo, don't that's what
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  Speaker 19: I had? Merch in here like it was. It was crazy.
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  Speaker 12: They were all taking one picture there was.
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  Speaker 1: Not There was no ten It's a Brigada base with
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  Speaker 1: light skin. It was just black yo. Claim. We have
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  Speaker 1: to break that. We got to go to therapy about men.
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  Speaker 1: You go therapy together.
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  Speaker 25: Time.
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  Speaker 19: There was no d e I in that photo y'all
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  Speaker 19: needed some d e. I like y'all needed a brown
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  Speaker 19: slafe friend. And no, don't don't you don't you because
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  Speaker 19: when they in my comments, you yeah, already under arms,
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  Speaker 19: it'd be braided like bow wow hair.
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  Speaker 5: So this whole show was probably problematic, he said, light
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  Speaker 5: skinned man looked like pit bulls, and you saying you
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  Speaker 5: just don't want It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Happy holidays.
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  Speaker 2: You listening to the world's most dangerous morning show, The
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  Speaker 2: Breakfast Club, The Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 5: Warning everybody at the j n V just Hilaris, Charlamagne
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  Speaker 5: and the God we Are the Breakfast Club. Thanksgiving tomorrow.
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  Speaker 5: We had a conversation about are we setting up for
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  Speaker 5: Christmas too damn early? Like, are we starting Christmas too
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  Speaker 5: early before we even get to Thanksgiving? Let's discuss morning
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  Speaker 5: everybody at eja Envy, Jess, Hilarious, Charlamagne, the guy we
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  Speaker 5: Are the Breakfast Club, Nephew just joining us, were opening
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  Speaker 5: up the phone lines eight hundred.
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  Speaker 1: Five eighty five, one oh five to one.
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  Speaker 5: Now it seems like the holiday season, Christmas is here,
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  Speaker 5: like lights, Christmas trees, decorations.
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  Speaker 1: It seems like we just forgot about Thanksgiving. Is it
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  Speaker 1: too soon? Is the question?
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  Speaker 12: What are the decorations for Thanksgiving?
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  Speaker 1: Exactly? Turkeys? Shut up?
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  Speaker 12: Like you're just gonna have a bunch of turkeys around.
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  Speaker 5: Your house turkey decorations. And I guess they got pumpkins
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  Speaker 5: and mums and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 2: But you don't need that for twenty five days, okay,
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  Speaker 2: Like Christmas is the season, you know it. Don't nothing
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  Speaker 2: look better than Christmas lights and the Christmas trees.
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  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving is really just a speed.
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  Speaker 2: Bump at this point, Like there's really nothing to do
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  Speaker 2: in novembery Like when you think.
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  Speaker 1: About November, there's really nothing to do. Giving is one day,
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  Speaker 1: just like Halloween is one day.
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  Speaker 2: So the same way they got all of these, you know,
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  Speaker 2: decorations leading up to Halloween, might as well have those
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  Speaker 2: for Christmas.
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  Speaker 6: Now.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. I got my lights in the house, right,
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  Speaker 1: and they make me happy. That's what I'm gonna say.
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  Speaker 1: It just makes me happy when I come home and say,
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  Speaker 1: and the lights is lit. I just get happy. I
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna front. I stay outside and look at them.
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  Speaker 1: The kids love them. It just makes me happy. That
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  Speaker 1: holiday chair, It just takes me. It expressed any anxiety way,
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  Speaker 1: I just get happy.
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  Speaker 12: Listen, I leave my Christmas tree up all year round.
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  Speaker 1: That's a little too far, that's a little too much.
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  Speaker 14: I usually put four of them up, but I took
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  Speaker 14: three of them down and just left one up. So
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  Speaker 14: that's one last one I got to put up. But yo,
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  Speaker 14: like I think the day after Halloween, literally midnight November first,
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  Speaker 14: put that shuta.
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  Speaker 5: So fourth of July, everybody's coming and it's hot, and
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  Speaker 5: they come to your Poolbai, you stood got your Chrismas.
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  Speaker 1: Tree year I did.
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  Speaker 12: That's why they need to stay out my house.
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  Speaker 14: The pool party is outside, damn because your black family
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  Speaker 14: always want to judge you for stuff like that.
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  Speaker 12: Your Christmas tree still up?
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  Speaker 14: Yeah yeah, and you still broke.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 14: I'm just just little things that I go back and
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  Speaker 14: forth with. But yeah, people always joke about that. But
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  Speaker 14: that's a lot of work putting up a lot of Thanksgiving,
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  Speaker 14: I mean, putting up a lot of Christmas decorations. And
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  Speaker 14: when I move into this big ass house, I didn't
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  Speaker 14: really realize like how hard for cheese would be putting up.
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  Speaker 14: But it looks so good when everything's done.
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  Speaker 2: And that's the crazy part too. You put up all
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  Speaker 2: of these Christmas decorations only for a couple of weeks. No,
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  Speaker 2: let's ride it out for sixty days, start in November,
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  Speaker 2: right after Halloween. Let's let's get right into the Christmas season.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't gonna have it up for July.
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  Speaker 2: No, but I'm gonna be honest with you. We can
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  Speaker 2: kind of get rid of things giving, bro, but we
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  Speaker 2: don't need it. What we don't really need things giving
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  Speaker 2: the food?
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  Speaker 1: Don't the food?
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  Speaker 2: They ain't really what's up a lot of us, you know,
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  Speaker 2: as we've gotten old that we don't even like things
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  Speaker 2: giving food.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like things giving food like that. I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to see what staks given food to you. I
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  Speaker 1: don't eat the turkey, you know all that. That's my point.
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  Speaker 1: You gave it all.
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  Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, no, I ain't hold you. I do like
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  Speaker 12: the dark meat of the turkey.
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  Speaker 14: But really, for real, Yeah, now that you're saying it,
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  Speaker 14: it's like, all right, cool, because I don't like stuff,
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 14: and I don't like the cranberry with the turkey.
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  Speaker 12: That's white people's stuff. I don't really like that. I
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 12: don't like pumpkin pie. I love the only thing I
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 12: love is mash.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 14: I mean not the mister mac and cheese, yams, fried chicken, yeah,
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 14: and the sweet and say the pie.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 5: So we only get the food that we like, so
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 5: we don't do all the turkey stuff. So we do
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 5: the mac and cheese, we do the fried chicken, but
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 5: then we do ox their we do jerk chicken.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: We do stuff like that too.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 12: Yeah that sounds good.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 14: Then my mother does a seafood Christmas. She do the
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 14: crabs and the scallons and like she she's.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 12: Very big on seafood, so she does that.
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: But I don't know.
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 12: We don't need to give it.
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 2: We need time off though, yeah, but we don't need
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 2: we don't need things giving. It could be a dead gratitude,
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 2: but we don't need things giving.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go to the phone line. We got Leon
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: on the phone. Leon, what's up, bro?
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 12: Trying to get rid of things?
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 10: What's going on?
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 6: Brothers?
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 13: Good morning?
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 3: Good more than envy, Charlo made peace?
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 14: No, you said good morning, brothers and then named Darry Biden,
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 14: good morning.
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 12: How you doing.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: I'm a sister bro, sister bro, but you think Leon to.
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 6: Us brother all right?
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 3: For the Christmas ding, I feel like the Christmas tree,
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 3: the lights smaller, but like, thank give because you're hosting
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 3: the Thanksgiving party, so you've gotta have the life and
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 3: everything for the party that you have celebrations. So I
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 3: feel like before that it might be it might be.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 8: A little bit early, but.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 3: It's a different time where everything moves a little bit fast,
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. But I feel like Thanksgiving
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 3: day to day, everything should be ready, like the lights,
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 3: the trees and all that.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 5: I feel you, le I want you what you think
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 5: about somebody who leaves their Christmas tree up like the
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 5: whole year, Like fourth of July they got a Christmas
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 5: tree up, Easter they got a Christmas tree up.
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 3: That's just being lazy, bro, You like, what's Christmas? What's
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 3: Christmas is over? Like take the tree down, put everything
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 3: to pack it up, put it back in the garage,
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 3: and wait for the next year.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: Yes, Jess, I thank you, brother. Yeah, but that's it. Hello,
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: who's in?
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 8: Hello?
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: What's your name?
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 8: What's up? Klaie at a key killer?
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: What's up?
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 6: Talk?
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 8: First of all, I will say good morn to y'all.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 8: I love y'all. Listen to y'all everywhere.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 23: I'm calling from Chicago and y'all know, y'all don't do
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 23: live here, So I just be waking up five in
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 23: the morning.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 8: And time in it golleing.
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 23: Y'all appreciate that, But no, I ain't putting up no crystmas.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 23: You listen, I'm go to Thanksgiving and I gotta deal
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 23: with that first. I gotta do one headache at a time,
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 23: you know what I'm saying. So after Thanksgiving and.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 8: Go then we bring out the tree and we put
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 8: up now you know, snoop on the stoop. Okay, we
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 8: got him. That's where his magic get activated.
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 12: With you, with you period.
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 8: So it's like, I gotta do one at a time
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 8: because otherwise, shoot, man, I'll be having high anxiety.
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 2: I'll be overwhelmed thanks Giving. Thanks Giving don't need a
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 2: prep month. Thanksgiving need like a week at mess.
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 8: Hey, shout out, what's up, Sarah? But I just want
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 8: to say this. You still got to worry about, you know,
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 8: the cookie and making sure the fool gets together.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 6: Get that line.
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 8: You know you got the fame, You got the family
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 8: members that be lay you know, that's what you tell them.
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 8: They the ones I got bring the dessert because you
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 8: know the one be on the GC so it's just
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 8: me trying to organize everything.
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 14: Maybe maybe you love your energy this morning. I just
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 14: want to say that your energy.
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 4: Oh thank you.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 19: Listen.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 8: I love you guys. Listen, I'll be listen. I gotta
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 8: go wake my chins up, but I be pumped, man.
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 10: I love you guys.
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 12: I love you YouTube your.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 8: Live chat, and I love y'all. Thank y'all for let
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 8: me talk. But I love you guys, and I really
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 8: want to get in the set and get it off
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 8: my chest because I got a lot to get off
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 8: my chest.
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 6: But I know that.
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: No, no, you called the head.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 15: You got your time from Chicago's right.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: From Chicago.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 2: The call is already too long. No, you already got
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 2: your time. How about calling them?
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: Hate up? We love you, but come on, look, you priss,
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: proper protocol.
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 8: We not even the usually dam just got it doing me.
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 12: I see how you usually though, I love I love
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 12: Laura La La.
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 8: I'm done with myself, so you know I'm bringing though
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 8: you know.
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 12: Oh that's yeah, that's why.
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 8: But I guess I call him the well get well,
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 8: get it off.
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: My chest up call tomorrow. Yeah, goodbye, that's it. That said.
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: That's why she liked the talk that now.
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 14: I get it, Yoto, he pulled the envy.
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 12: That's crazy.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 5: So you talk to us now, goodbye, She called, We're
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 5: not even on the Chicago, so she listened on line.
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: She's waking up. The kids got to say, what was wrong? Damn, damn.
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 5: Eight hundred and five eighty five one o five one.
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 5: We're talking about holiday season right now. He's bought humbug
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 5: guy right here. She is called, I was on Christmas
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 5: wish to get it off her chest. He just dead
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 5: it up. But if you were talking about putting up
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 5: the holiday uh, the Christmas lights and Christmas trees and
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 5: get into the holiday spas is so early.
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: Should we get into it right now? Or you know,
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: or we should we let Thanksgiving a.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 5: Live a little bit. Let's discuss this the Breakfast Club.
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 5: Good morning, it's topic time.
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 8: The phone.
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 5: Called eight hundred and five eight five one five one
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 5: to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 1: Talk about it morning, everybody.
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 5: It's DJ NV, just hilarious, Charlamagne the guide. We are
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 5: the Breakfast Club. If you're just joining us, we open
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 5: up the phone lines eight hundred and five eight five.
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: One oh five one.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 5: If you've been out and about if you're driving around
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 5: you see the Christmas lights up, you see Christmas trees.
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: Up, you see in decorations. Is it too soon? We
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: got Sharnda on theline, Sharanda, good.
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 7: Morning, Hi, good morning, how you guys do it?
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 12: Good morning, Good morning, Sarnda.
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 11: But yes, I've been ready to put my tree after
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 11: my birthday in October.
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 19: The mid October made October okay?
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 11: Yes, and process like the government sat down too, and
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 11: that does not benefits.
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 8: I just feel like we just need that pie of spirit.
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 9: For Christmas, you know, enjoy your spirit, you know, Christmas and.
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 2: Stuff that's right and and and the other reason that
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 2: it's okay to put your Christmas stuff up right after
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 2: Halloween is for the simple fact there really is no
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 2: Thanksgiving decorations. So Halloween everybody, Yeah, everybody goes all out
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 2: for Halloween. You see the houses decked out for Halloween.
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 2: Thanksgiving is no Thanksgiving decorations, so might as well put
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 2: the Christmas up.
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: Well, Thanksgiving his pumpkins and do the moms they do
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: stuff like that, you know what the mom is.
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 12: I know, I'm thinking ting about Halloween flowers.
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 11: I know, put like fall stuff up, and like my
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 11: father's candles and everything.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 9: But I want to skipt that and go straight to
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 9: Christmas stuff. I'm already looking at colors and everything.
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 11: So this weekend I'm gonna do put up my Christmas stuff.
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 8: JV Man, you know, I'm een stority.
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 11: For the past couple of weeks, I've met Farling, he said,
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 11: recuesse the song I met song no answer, you know.
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 8: Sar a Man right about that, he said, He's not
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 8: about the answer.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 25: The father I've got there and the jingle I've been
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 25: calling about the jingle board in Atlanta, and I haven't
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 25: harding nothing about him, nobody winning those jingle ball tickets.
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: We did the first the first week we had some
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: jingle boll tickets. Where are you calling from?
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 8: I'm calling from Michigan, Okay. And then and then I
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 8: think I'm thirty.
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 11: Two because ever since Voice Man and was on the show,
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 11: I've been playing let it Snow and It's Big Snower.
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 12: That's the best album. That's Christmas album, main't it?
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 11: Yes, Yes, I've been playing that all weekend. And then
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 11: all of a sudden, I said, oh my god, yes,
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 11: it's snow.
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: Okay, Damn, that's what's up.
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 12: Actually, I love snow.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: I wish I had some tickets for you. I don't
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: have tickets.
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 5: Jingle Boy, if you want to see Little John, if
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 5: you want to see Jermaine Dupree, if you want to
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 5: see Nelly and the host of others.
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: Get your tickets. We're gonna be out there for Atlanta's
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 1: jingle Boys. She would be a lot of fun. Thank Yeah,
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: I'm going. We'll see you there, y'all.
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 8: Have a good day, all right.
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 2: Everybody who listen to just on ninety six one to
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 2: beat in Atlanta, y'all, jingle balls are popping.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: People from Michigan want to go.
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 6: That's right.
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: Hello.
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 14: Now I'm saying I need to get down to that
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 14: Boys and Me and Christmas album. That man, that's a
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 14: no skip play that get jiggy with your wife?
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: Did gig with your worf? Hello?
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 2: Who's this?
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 8: Hello?
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: Can you hear me? I can hear you? Is Monica?
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: Oh my god? I'm sorry?
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 19: Hey him, Charlotte please okay?
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 9: So here's my thought already, all right, So yes, let's
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 9: skip right over. Thanksgipping, because I feel like them people
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 9: that want of the late Christmas is the pumpkins ice people,
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 9: and the pumpkins people is the people that can't figure
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 9: out whether or not they want to open up the
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 9: government or not. So no, no, no, you're gonna skip
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 9: right over that.
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 25: Don't.
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 8: We're going to the States of Christmas and you can
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 8: get enjoying.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 9: Your pumpkins fights. But I take next year, when the
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 9: government is open and doing what it's supposed to, go
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 9: and give these people that snap in the big and
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 9: they tell care respect.
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Monica. I'm with you, man. Thanksgiving
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 1: is a I don't need it.
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 12: I love pumpkin spice people. That's that's different.
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 1: Hello, good morning morning ya where you call it from?
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 6: A little.
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 1: Lucky I beat it.
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 12: Twenty twenty six makes some noise, y'all with the.
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 5: Talk to a shall what you think about all these
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 5: Christmas decorations and ornaments and things up so early?
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 16: Maybe I'm tired it is too early. I am a
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 16: Halloween girly, so I was already upset they had all
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 16: the Christmas stuff out filling our times before we even
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 16: have Michaelson then pop out.
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 6: Damn.
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't do it before Halloween. I mean, is
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 1: that the reason you can?
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Halloween got his own decorations and got his own energy.
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 2: People like decorating their houses for Halloween. You can't do that,
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 2: but Thanksgiving we can stick.
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 1: Skip right over that because they know turkey decorations.
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 8: I mean, she's so funny, like to cut the.
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 16: Turkey SIPs before we started, you know, shoving Mariah carrying
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 16: everybody else down. Why do you all love Mariah?
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 8: But man, I can wait.
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 16: I can hard for a home much.
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: I agree with that.
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 2: I think that November should be like a pre Christmas thing,
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 2: Like we shouldn't go all in ye, but it should
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 2: be a lot of times.
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 12: Yeah, give it should be the advertiser and Christmas is
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 12: the main.
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 16: Pre Christmas.
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 2: It should be a pre Christmas and then right after
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 2: Thanksgiving that's when everybody goes full steam ahead with Christmas.
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: But before that is pre Christmas. Yeah, I'm with you.
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 1: I don't really care about Thanksgiving. I try to tell you,
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 1: I don't.
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 14: Agree with getting rid of it, but yeah, we could
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 14: definitely change it from things to give it to pre Christmas.
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 6: I like that.
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 14: What about down south? Like what about South Monks going
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 14: to South Carolina? Don't your family like your momm and
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 14: your dad like they.
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: Don't know.
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 2: They still, yes, give me, it's just cool. It's the
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 2: day of family. It's the day you know, getting with
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 2: your peoples and kicking it.
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 1: But nah, you don't.
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually look forward to the day after they
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 2: was given because my aunt cooks crazy the day after
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 2: they're giving, because she's your witness as well. But she
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 2: does what your mom does, the seafood, fried fish and
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 2: fried shrimp and you know, scallops and all.
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 1: That's what I like. You don't get your mom no
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: Christmas gifts for Christmas. She's a Jehovah witness. Respect her religion.
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 12: Yeah, they don't accept that. That's crazy. Don't accept it.
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 12: And you're probably only celebrated now because you have children.
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 1: Yep. And my wife is not your wh witness at
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 1: your family. No gifts or family your side, are they witness? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 1: that's cruel, all of them.
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 12: They don't except nothing. Don't get him, not.
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 1: Neither, Nope, not at all. All Right, Well, what's the
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 1: more of the story.
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 2: What you want?
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 14: Do what you want you If you want to put
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 14: up your decorations the day after Halloween, the day before whatever,
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 14: if you want to put it up on Christmas Eve, do.
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 12: It whatever works for you.
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 14: I leave my tree up all year around at least
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 14: one of them, and don't say nothing about it because.
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 1: You lazy ass. All right, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 1: are you getting to them? Thanksgiving? We got more coming
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 1: up with the best of the Breakfast Club, the Breakfast
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 1: Club more than everybody.
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 5: It's DJ M V Jess Hilariy Charlamage God, we are
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 5: the Breakfast Club.
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 1: Lawn of roses here as well. You know what time
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 1: it is, It's time to put the cars up in storage.
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 19: What does that mean? Who stores their cars?
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 1: Well, when you have these older cars, you don't drive
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 1: them all year. They're more like summer cars.
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 5: So to keep your ride in good condition, you need
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 5: to pick up items like battery tenders and.
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 1: Of course a car cover.
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 5: Now I find some dope ones on eBay that work
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 5: pretty damn good. So next summer when I pull the
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 5: cars out, my cars will be charged and I don't
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 5: have to worry about cleaning them because the cover I
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 5: got from eBay and the battery tenders will definitely work.
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 5: And since my dad likes to drive my cars in
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 5: the winter, he'll be super duper excited. Because the covers
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 5: have pictures of Motown classics on them. I got one
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 5: cover with Smokey Robinson. I got another cover with Jimmy Hendrick,
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 5: so he'll be super duper excited about it.
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 19: No sexy red covers.
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 1: My dad probably does not know who sexy that is.
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  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Thanksgiving tomorrow, you guys enjoy your Thanksgiving. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why we lying acting like we're here.
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  Speaker 1: We're not here. I'm in Alabama right now.
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  Speaker 5: I'm about to DJ for John B and Drew Hill
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, Yeah, I'm not here. Okay, but you know
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  Speaker 1: that is the theater of radio. Well listen. This Friday,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to be in Charleston, South Carolina. I'll be
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  Speaker 2: Man, listen, man, Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and I know y'all
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  Speaker 2: gonna be eating a lot of things. But I want
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  Speaker 2: to tell y'all something from mister Don Miguel Ruiz. You know,
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  Speaker 2: I love the Four Agreements. I think it's a book
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  Speaker 2: that everybody should read.
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  Speaker 1: Within the Four.
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  Speaker 2: Agreements, Don Miguel Ruiz said, don't take anything personally. Refuse
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  Speaker 2: to eat emotional poison. Tomorrow, you're gonna be around that
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  Speaker 2: dinner table at Thanksgiving eating a lot of things, and
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  Speaker 2: there might even be people at the dinner table that
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  Speaker 2: you don't want to be around, and they're gonna be
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  Speaker 2: trying to feed you things that you don't want to digest. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: don't take those things personally. Okay, Taking things personally makes
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  Speaker 1: With one little opinion. Don't fall for it.
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  Speaker 2: And once they take your once they hook your attention
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  Speaker 2: with that one little opinion, they can feed you whatever
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  Speaker 2: poison they want. Refuse to eat the poison. Tomorrow all right,
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  Speaker 2: literally and figuratively, have a great day.
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  Speaker 12: Breakfast club bitches, you don't finish or y'all done.