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🎙️ Episode 1 –- The Mistakes I Made, So You Don’t Have To: Who Is Johnny Depth? What happens when a man survives over 1,000 first dates? · Financial Survival Network

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  Speaker 1: The mistakes I made, so you don't have to. Who
• 0:05
  Speaker 1: is Johnny Depth? Welcome to one thousand first Dates.
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  Speaker 2: I'm Johnny Depth.
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  Speaker 1: And if you're here, it's because you've been lied to
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  Speaker 1: by the dating apps, by society, maybe even by yourself. Look,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a guru. I'm not here to sell you
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  Speaker 1: a dream. I'm just a man who's made more mistakes
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  Speaker 1: than most and lived long enough to turn every one
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  Speaker 1: of them into a lesson. I didn't set out to
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  Speaker 1: become a serial dater. I was married twice. I believed
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  Speaker 1: in love and fairy tales in happy endings.
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  Speaker 2: Oh well, I got crushed more than once. That's where
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  Speaker 2: this story begins.
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  Speaker 1: I've been ghosted, I've been used. I've been lied to, manipulated, breadcrumbed,
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  Speaker 1: orbit friended, love bond and yes, friend zoned. And each
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  Speaker 1: time I ask myself same question, what the hell just happened?
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  Speaker 1: Until I stopped asking and started studying. I went on dates,
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  Speaker 1: hundreds of them, and I didn't just date. I observed.
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  Speaker 1: I watched the eyes, the posture, the excuses. I listened
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  Speaker 1: to the stories women told themselves and the ones they
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  Speaker 1: told me, and eventually I realized something. This isn't about looks.
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  Speaker 1: It's not about money, it's not even about being nice.
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  Speaker 1: It's about understanding the game you didn't even know you
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  Speaker 1: were playing. Now, before you click off, thinking I'm just
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  Speaker 1: another angry man with them, Mike, let me say this.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not bitter.
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  Speaker 1: I love women, but I refuse to be blind anymore.
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  Speaker 1: The red pill wasn't a revelation, it was a reckoning.
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  Speaker 1: I took every failed date, every flake, every I'm just
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  Speaker 1: not ready, and I asked, what's the pattern? What did
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  Speaker 1: I do wrong? And how can I help other men
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  Speaker 1: avoid the trap? There's a saying I love. An intelligent
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  Speaker 1: man learns from his own mistakes. A truly wise man
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  Speaker 1: learns from the mistakes of others. That's why I created
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  Speaker 1: Johnny Depth to be the voice in your head before
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  Speaker 1: you send that needy text, before you forgive that red flag,
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  Speaker 1: before you waste another year on someone who never respected you.
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  Speaker 1: I've already been the fool. Now I want to be
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  Speaker 1: your filter. I'll tell you about the woman who screamed
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  Speaker 1: in my car, not out of anger, but because I
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  Speaker 1: showed her what she'd never felt before. I'll walk you
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  Speaker 1: through the games, the signals, the traps, I'll tell you
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  Speaker 1: why women say one thing and feel another, and why
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  Speaker 1: most men never.
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  Speaker 2: Figure it out until it's too late.
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  Speaker 1: One thousand First Dates isn't a flex It's a graveyard,
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  Speaker 1: a list of lessons written in frustration, hope, and fire.
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  Speaker 1: It's also the foundation of my book, Y sat Earth
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  Speaker 1: one thousand First Dates portrait of a Palm Beach player.
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  Speaker 1: Not a pickup manual, not a misogynistic manifesto.
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  Speaker 2: It's a warning and a road map.
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  Speaker 1: It's the book I wish I had at thirty. Hell
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  Speaker 1: I wish I had it at fifty. So if you're
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  Speaker 1: tired of being ghosted, used, disrespected.
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  Speaker 2: Or confused, stick with me.
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  Speaker 1: We're going to talk about first dates that go nowhere,
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  Speaker 1: women who weaponize their past, red flags that don't look
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  Speaker 1: like red flags, and the art of walking away with
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  Speaker 1: your dignity intact. Because let me tell you this, the
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  Speaker 1: man who can walk away is the man she never forgets. Subscribe,
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  Speaker 1: follow read the book, or you know, don't, but I
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  Speaker 1: promise you this. If you do, you'll see the world differently.
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  Speaker 1: You'll stop asking what went wrong and start recognizing what never.
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  Speaker 2: Should have been.
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  Speaker 1: This is Johnny dipp I've made or the mistakes so
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  Speaker 1: you don't have to. And remember, she doesn't miss you,
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  Speaker 1: she misses the attention. Before we move on, why don't
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  Speaker 1: you click the link in the description so you can
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  Speaker 1: order my book one thousand first Dates Portrait of a
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  Speaker 1: Palm Beach Player and start solving the mystery of why
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  Speaker 1: she mystifies you. Now before you click off, thinking I'm
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  Speaker 1: just another angry man with a mic, let me say this.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not bitter. I love women.
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  Speaker 1: I love femininity, the softness, the sparkle, the energy. But
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  Speaker 1: what I don't love is the illusion, the fairy tale
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  Speaker 1: that leads men like you and me down paths paved
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  Speaker 1: with manipulation, confusion, and guilt trips. So let me be clear.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not here to bash women. I'm here to decode them.
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  Speaker 1: I'm here to offer you what I wish. I had
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  Speaker 1: a voice of reason in a storm of lies, a
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  Speaker 1: road map out of the maze.
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  Speaker 2: I used to believe that being a good man was enough.
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  Speaker 1: That if you were respectful, honest, giving, if you took
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  Speaker 1: her out, paid for dinner, made her laugh, she'd love
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  Speaker 1: you back. But no one told me about hypergamy, about
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  Speaker 1: ship tests, about the fact that women live in a
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  Speaker 1: world of option, and while men live in a world
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  Speaker 1: of results. That realization hit me like a freight train
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  Speaker 1: sometime around first date number one hundred and seventy nine.
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  Speaker 1: And yes I remember the number, because by that point
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  Speaker 1: I was keeping track, not out of ego.
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  Speaker 2: But out of pattern recognition.
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  Speaker 1: When I tell you I've been on a thousand first dates,
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  Speaker 1: I don't mean a thousand one night stands. I mean
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  Speaker 1: a thousand women. I genuinely tried to connect with different types,
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  Speaker 1: different cultures, different stories. Some wanted love, most wanted validation,
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  Speaker 1: a few just wanted revenge, And in every case I
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  Speaker 1: learned something about them, about me, about the rules of
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  Speaker 1: a game. None of us were ever taught to play,
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  Speaker 1: but all of us are stuck inside. You see, there's
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  Speaker 1: power in rejection, in ghosting, in being the one who
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  Speaker 1: gets left on read because it forces you to look
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  Speaker 1: in the mirror and ask what am I doing wrong?
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  Speaker 1: And if you're honest, if you're strong enough to take
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  Speaker 1: the hit without turning bitter, then that pain becomes purpose.
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  Speaker 2: It becomes your edge.
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  Speaker 1: And that edge, my friend, is what separates a man
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  Speaker 1: who chases from a man who chooses. I didn't create
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  Speaker 1: Johnny depth to sell books. I created him because well,
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  Speaker 1: I was sick of being lied to, And you know,
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  Speaker 1: because I know what it's like to look around and wonder,
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  Speaker 1: why is no one else saying what I see so clearly? Well,
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  Speaker 1: now someone is, and it's me. Not because I'm perfect,
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  Speaker 1: not because I've got it all figured out, but because
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  Speaker 1: I've lived it, felt it, survived it, and I came
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  Speaker 1: out the other side not just smarter, but sharper. So
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  Speaker 1: if you've ever felt like you were doing everything right
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  Speaker 1: and still losing, if you've ever asked yourself why she
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  Speaker 1: pulled away the moment you opened up, if you've ever
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  Speaker 1: been punished for your vulnerability or humiliated by your honesty,
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  Speaker 1: then I know who you are. And you're not alone.
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  Speaker 1: You're not broken, you're not weak. You just don't have
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  Speaker 1: the rules yet. So click the link in the description
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  Speaker 1: and order my book by Johnny Depth, and learn those
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  Speaker 1: rules before she overrules you. Here's the part they don't
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  Speaker 1: tell you. Once you wake up, you can't go back
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  Speaker 1: to sleep. Once you see the patterns, the games, the
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  Speaker 1: emotional switch ups, the manipulation master's vulnerability, you'll never see
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  Speaker 1: women the same way again, and you'll never see yourself
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  Speaker 1: the same either, Because if you've made it this far,
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  Speaker 1: if you've listened to my story, nodded along, maybe winced
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  Speaker 1: once or twice, then you're already on the path. And
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  Speaker 1: that path doesn't end in bitterness.
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  Speaker 2: It ends in.
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  Speaker 1: Mastery, mastery of yourself, of your emotions, of your purpose,
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  Speaker 1: and yes, mastery of women. Not in the way they fear,
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  Speaker 1: but in the way they crave, because, let me tell
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  Speaker 1: you a secret, women don't want to be in control.
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  Speaker 2: They just want to know that you are.
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  Speaker 1: And when you step into that energy, when you stop
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  Speaker 1: apologizing for being a man, stop chasing validation, and start
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  Speaker 1: leading with power, the entire game flips. You stop begging
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  Speaker 1: for attention, you start commanding it. That's what one thousand
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  Speaker 1: first dates taught me. I've been the guy who tried
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  Speaker 1: too hard. I've been the guy who gave too much.
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  Speaker 1: I've been the man who lost himself trying to please
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  Speaker 1: women who couldn't even please themselves.
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  Speaker 2: But no more.
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  Speaker 1: And if you're listening to this, maybe, just maybe it's
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  Speaker 1: time for you to say the same.
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  Speaker 2: Jack.
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  Speaker 1: This is more than a podcast, more than a book.
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  Speaker 2: This is a.
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  Speaker 1: Brotherhood, a code, a call to arms for men who
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  Speaker 1: are done losing quietly and ready to start winning with clarity.
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  Speaker 1: So if you're tired of guessing, tired of giving everything
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  Speaker 1: and getting crumbs, if you're ready to step into the
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  Speaker 1: mindset that change my life while and could change yours,
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  Speaker 1: then don't just keep watching. Commit dive in, flip the script,
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  Speaker 1: read the book, learn the code, become the man she
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  Speaker 1: thought she could control, and show her what it means
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  Speaker 1: when you take the power back.
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  Speaker 2: One thousand First Dates Portrait of a Palm Beach Player
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  Speaker 2: is more than a title. It's a warning, a revelation,
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  Speaker 2: a roadmap to everything they didn't want you to know.
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  Speaker 2: So do something different.
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  Speaker 1: Order the book one thousand first Dates Portrait of a
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  Speaker 1: Palm Beach Player just click the link in the description