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Let That Ish Go · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Speaks to the Plannet.
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  Speaker 3: cocktail and crown because it's about to go Down's talk.
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  Speaker 1: Talk two unapologetically black women with an opinion to talk back.
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  Speaker 3: What's up, y'all? Is your girl a j holiday? What's up? Big?
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  Speaker 3: Tim Bam boom boom would say, your booty on the
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  Speaker 3: ground big.
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  Speaker 1: I love y'all, man, I love y'all so much. I
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  Speaker 1: extra love y'all this week, y'all was in my das.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, it was a lot of y'all talking
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  Speaker 1: about I was looking on toes. I did not lick
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  Speaker 1: that nigga toes. That is a lie, y'all. Stopped y'all
• 1:32
  Speaker 1: running out talking about your teeth. Your teeth too pretty
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  Speaker 1: to be looking a nigga's feet. I never put that
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  Speaker 1: nigga foot in my mouth. Let's let that go, okay.
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  Speaker 3: I wish we had the video, man, Oh, it be
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  Speaker 3: more funny so they could see your face when he
• 1:48
  Speaker 3: started saying that shit.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all, we filmed all this shit, and then the filmographer
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  Speaker 1: ran off with the.
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  Speaker 3: Footage, not filmographer, videographer. Shame creaking work ran off, y'all.
• 2:03
  Speaker 1: It's just we try, okay, and we're gonna keep trying.
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  Speaker 3: But and we're gonna keep trying with black people too.
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  Speaker 3: We ain't giving up on yall.
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  Speaker 1: Niggas not giving up on y'all. But I love y'all
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  Speaker 1: so much. I do. How was your weekend? AJ, you
• 2:16
  Speaker 1: saw me?
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  Speaker 3: I was outside a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: I see you outside with some bad bitches girls.
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  Speaker 3: I was outside with some girls. I reconnected with one
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  Speaker 3: of my friends and she lived right down the street
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  Speaker 3: from me. Y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Damn.
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  Speaker 3: One of my friends, Courtney, So I hung up with
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  Speaker 3: her and some of her friends and we went outside
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  Speaker 3: to the hood.
• 2:37
  Speaker 1: Yes, I love a good hood.
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  Speaker 3: And it's hard being the cutest people in the fucking club.
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  Speaker 1: I like it.
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  Speaker 3: I don't. I prefer because I feel like every girl
• 2:45
  Speaker 3: want to fight.
• 2:47
  Speaker 1: And somebody want to fight.
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  Speaker 3: The niggas just we be praying. They don't even come over,
• 2:52
  Speaker 3: but we do want y'all to stow by drinks.
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  Speaker 1: Though I did not come over. Its crazy.
• 2:59
  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm over, but like come to buy drinks
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  Speaker 3: like we paid. Like, first of all, it was pissed
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  Speaker 3: because we paid thirty dollars a piece of get into
• 3:06
  Speaker 3: this shit R and B night in the hood. If
• 3:09
  Speaker 3: we go downtown Charleston and any downtown. Really, you don't
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  Speaker 3: pay to get any place, get in any white establishments
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  Speaker 3: you go in and.
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  Speaker 1: As much for it is hard.
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  Speaker 3: I mean mixed crowds.
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  Speaker 1: No, mixed crowds can be fun, but if it's an
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  Speaker 1: all white crowd, I'd be feeling in danger. No shade
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  Speaker 1: to white people, but I'll be the same way y'all
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  Speaker 1: feel when y'all in an all black crowd, I feel
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  Speaker 1: the same way. So I don't.
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  Speaker 3: I don't be comfortable nowhere, because when I'm in the hood,
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  Speaker 3: I be like and that is really really ain't too much.
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  Speaker 3: It's not that much of the hood, but enough, it's enough.
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  Speaker 1: I don't go nowhere, that's to to hood now. I'll
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  Speaker 1: be scared now when in my younger days I fall
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  Speaker 1: right in.
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  Speaker 3: But this is like old wayans, like the old street niggas.
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  Speaker 1: This place, Oh they're not. You can still get popping.
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  Speaker 1: Why you can't be an old y n It means
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  Speaker 1: young kids.
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  Speaker 3: An old young nigga. We know there's to be some
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  Speaker 3: grown ass boys out here. Okay, Look, I told look,
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  Speaker 3: I told list nigga. I'm about to start calling him.
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  Speaker 3: Whyian Limb, because you be around here thinking you a
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  Speaker 3: little boy, a young guy, old last niggas, Hyan Limb.
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  Speaker 3: What's up? Whyian Limb, don't do that.
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  Speaker 1: Don't do that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a fun child. We have funny. And
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  Speaker 3: I went over to one of my uh, one of
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  Speaker 3: my other guy friends. He owns a bar down here,
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  Speaker 3: so we went there for a little bit too.
• 4:36
  Speaker 1: I think it's mercury.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, girl, shut up, it's mercury retrograde. And it did
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  Speaker 3: start on the fifteenth.
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  Speaker 1: Girl, I tell you, every nigga avenue in my life
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  Speaker 1: slid this weekend, Like was trying to cause.
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  Speaker 3: You put that ass on the ground. You already know,
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  Speaker 3: but even before reminder, okay, oh but.
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  Speaker 1: All right, So they really started rolling in when our
• 5:00
  Speaker 1: posted that picture, but prior to that, they was already
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  Speaker 1: like in the DMS, in the text like just it
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  Speaker 1: was weird because you know, niggas circle back. We already
• 5:09
  Speaker 1: know that's gonna happen, but I having them all. It's
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  Speaker 1: like they was in a group chat and like, let's
• 5:13
  Speaker 1: who who this bitch gonna text back first? That's what. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: I went outside on Saturday night shout out the Stats
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  Speaker 1: in Charlotte, North Carolina. I went there and they had
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  Speaker 1: their patio open. I've never been to Stats since it
• 5:25
  Speaker 1: was remodeled and I.
• 5:26
  Speaker 3: Went to they got a pati on Now I hear that.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, they they are. If you ever been to
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  Speaker 1: like camp in Houston, their patio is given that kind
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  Speaker 1: of vibe. So it's like a whole nother party outside
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  Speaker 1: versus the inside, which I preferred. It's like when we
• 5:41
  Speaker 1: sat out there and you know, had a little cocktails,
• 5:44
  Speaker 1: a little hookah, a little you know, that's that's not cocaine. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that might have sounded like cocaine.
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  Speaker 3: That's cocaine. When we say, whoo, that's cocaine. Cokine speaking
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  Speaker 3: a fucking cocaine. Hold on. So we get to the bar,
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  Speaker 3: my homeboys spot, and a nigga who was buying us
• 6:01
  Speaker 3: drinks at the other club, he came sat at the
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  Speaker 3: table with us and I'm like, you got some of
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  Speaker 3: your glasses and your nose pottery substance, clean it up, cocore,
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  Speaker 3: So you take his glass dot. He was like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: thank you, thank you for looking out. I said, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you need to tighten up. I mean he had like
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  Speaker 3: a little narrow nose too. So like the ship was
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  Speaker 3: like a little like the cook was calling toward that
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  Speaker 3: nigga knows and in the corner of the glasses and
• 6:31
  Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, damn really be outside rolling? Yeah, I
• 6:35
  Speaker 3: never knew you will be so yes, I know, right,
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  Speaker 3: but I'm always those shocked at people who do cocaine.
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  Speaker 1: Right, you too?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, the hell is happening?
• 6:47
  Speaker 1: Yes, speaking of that, I used to like want to
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  Speaker 1: try you know, really, I listen, I want to try everything.
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  Speaker 1: That's my problem. That's been my problem in life. I
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  Speaker 1: will to try everything. Once i'd be like, I just
• 7:01
  Speaker 1: want to live. But drugs I'm scared of because I
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  Speaker 1: know I got that addictive personality and I'll be a
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  Speaker 1: crack here. Really, I already know, so I just have
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  Speaker 1: to be careful about what I consume and what I do.
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  Speaker 1: So no cocaine for me and then be dropping dead
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  Speaker 1: all the time, like you literally dropping dead. So I
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  Speaker 1: want to fuck with it.
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  Speaker 3: It's not clean coke anymore. You don't know what you're getting.
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  Speaker 3: You don't know what you getting with the weed, the pills,
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  Speaker 3: the coke, like fittanol is mixed and every damn thing.
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  Speaker 1: So have you ever put on something and you're like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if it's giving and then you go
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  Speaker 1: out and everybody like you, I've been so cute and
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  Speaker 1: you're like, oh shit, I wasn't even sure about that's
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  Speaker 1: what happened. I'm about to order that little outfit and
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  Speaker 1: every color.
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  Speaker 3: So you was feeling yourself this weekend?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I was Saturday night.
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't too because I don't be going outside for real.
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  Speaker 3: So I haven't been like in a environment with music
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  Speaker 3: and people.
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  Speaker 1: Wow me neither because my foot was broken and I
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  Speaker 1: was not coming outside like that outside, Yeah, because it
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  Speaker 1: ain't for me like that. I don't have to be
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  Speaker 1: sitting on the I've been doing it forever. I don't
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  Speaker 1: have to do that shit. I'm worrying. I want to
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  Speaker 1: take me on the trip, yes, and to.
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  Speaker 3: Eat or I want to go I want to go
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  Speaker 3: out out of town like locally. I'm cool on it.
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  Speaker 1: So I know everybody's been asking this. In the DMS too.
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  Speaker 1: For the love of tam band, they was like, what
• 8:28
  Speaker 1: happened to y'all just gonna do the show and then
• 8:30
  Speaker 1: don't tell us what happened. So it was like really
• 8:33
  Speaker 1: close between Jordan and Willie Williams, but ultimately Willie Williams
• 8:39
  Speaker 1: came out as the victor on who y'all voted for,
• 8:42
  Speaker 1: so he was actually I didn't want to, like I
• 8:44
  Speaker 1: wanted us to do a full episode on it. After
• 8:47
  Speaker 1: I went out on a date with him, and he
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: was actually supposed to fly to New York to take
• 8:52
  Speaker 1: me on a date this week this past weekend, but
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  Speaker 1: I was in Charlotte. I stayed in Charlotte. I didn't
• 9:00
  Speaker 1: get back on time, so he did not come out.
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  Speaker 1: But we're gonna go on a date, and then after
• 9:04
  Speaker 1: the date, we're definitely maybe I'll invite him back on
• 9:07
  Speaker 1: to have a conversation about how the date went, if
• 9:11
  Speaker 1: y'all want to hear it. So that's what's up. I
• 9:13
  Speaker 1: just wanted to update y'all that and thank y'all for
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  Speaker 1: voting for me a date. I can't wait to go
• 9:19
  Speaker 1: on this date. This man has to fly across the country,
• 9:21
  Speaker 1: so hopefully date we live that. Oh well, I guess
• 9:27
  Speaker 1: it's not that far Georgia to New York, not across
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  Speaker 1: the country, up up the East.
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  Speaker 3: Coast, all right, so good luck to that. Okay, don't
• 9:41
  Speaker 3: pop the balloon on a nigga.
• 9:43
  Speaker 1: I will pop a balloon quick. I love In that episode,
• 9:48
  Speaker 1: I see the text message of a red balloon and
• 9:51
  Speaker 1: a safety depending to a nigga real quick and then
• 9:52
  Speaker 1: be done.
• 9:53
  Speaker 3: Oh, hold on before we get into stupid in that news.
• 9:56
  Speaker 3: So you are saying that you've never sucked toes before.
• 9:59
  Speaker 1: No, I'm never suck all of y'all right, never put
• 10:04
  Speaker 1: nobody foot in my mouth me neither.
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  Speaker 3: I be like looking at nigga sideways when they put
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  Speaker 3: my feet in their mouth, like I expect the nigga
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  Speaker 3: to lick my toes while my legs in the air.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm also looking like nigga, I was just tiptoe
• 10:15
  Speaker 3: across your floor like winned to Pooh, Like what are
• 10:18
  Speaker 3: you doing? My position?
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  Speaker 1: What I have had to been in to be putting
• 10:21
  Speaker 1: a nigga foot in my mouth? Like you know, Like
• 10:24
  Speaker 1: where am i am? I?
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  Speaker 3: Like down on the floor, like on your knees.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not that submissive.
• 10:30
  Speaker 3: We want to hear from y'all tell us anybody who'll
• 10:33
  Speaker 3: be licking men's feet, Like, please tell us what position
• 10:36
  Speaker 3: y'all be in, Like how y'all be doing it? Do
• 10:37
  Speaker 3: he like just be laying down on his back and
• 10:39
  Speaker 3: he's just massaging them up from head to feet or
• 10:42
  Speaker 3: head to toe. I want to know, like.
• 10:45
  Speaker 1: How you do that? I'm gonna I'm not gonna foot shame,
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: because that's some people are really into feet, Like this
• 10:54
  Speaker 1: guy I was talking to, He's like, he's really a
• 10:57
  Speaker 1: big feet guy.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but he's a feet guy. Does he like his
• 11:00
  Speaker 3: feet played with her? He likes to play with feet?
• 11:01
  Speaker 1: Oh, he likes to play with feet.
• 11:03
  Speaker 3: Right. I don't know how many men that once you
• 11:05
  Speaker 3: sucking they toes for real.
• 11:06
  Speaker 1: But y'all, I think I'm like a bad bitch. Don't
• 11:09
  Speaker 1: get me wrong, but we all got flaws. My left
• 11:12
  Speaker 1: foot go crazy. He ain't gonna like me.
• 11:16
  Speaker 3: If y'all looking for what's wrong with tay.
• 11:19
  Speaker 1: It's the left foot. It's the left foot and the
• 11:23
  Speaker 1: right bitch, I broke the right end the left ugly,
• 11:25
  Speaker 1: it's the feet. Listen, I'm bad everywhere. I'm fine everywhere else.
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  Speaker 1: I even got pretty knee cass. But these feet, this
• 11:39
  Speaker 1: left foot look like I can snatch a stab right
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: out the stream, bit.
• 11:43
  Speaker 3: Picking up rocks and throwing them. I just got a
• 11:50
  Speaker 3: long ass second left toe, which means you run ship
• 11:53
  Speaker 3: in your relationship.
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: Allegen you be musty sometime.
• 11:57
  Speaker 3: But oh girls, speaking of musty, hold on before we like,
• 12:02
  Speaker 3: before we get in the stupid internet news girl I
• 12:06
  Speaker 3: was outside. They had like a little denim, little crop
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  Speaker 3: talk jacket on, and I'm like, now I'm checking me out.
• 12:13
  Speaker 3: But one of the girls, who was what us not,
• 12:15
  Speaker 3: I'm just meeting these lovely young ladies, she was like,
• 12:18
  Speaker 3: greg natural deordering, Like she starts smelling me too, bitch.
• 12:23
  Speaker 3: I was over here trying to figure out.
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  Speaker 1: If it was me.
• 12:29
  Speaker 3: It was me a little tiny bit.
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: But listen, that natural deodorant in for the week. Listen.
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: I started last year using natural deodorant, and it was
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: colder outside. As it's getting warmer, I'm finding that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you got to go tight like I done. Went to
• 12:44
  Speaker 1: the bathroom and at a public place and watch my
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: r pits under the scene and put some more deodorant
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  Speaker 1: on because it just wasn't holding me.
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  Speaker 3: What brand do you use?
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: So right now I'm using the Donna Karenna so good.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. But so I use an arm the Hammer, which
• 13:03
  Speaker 3: is cheap, it's not expensive, and I buy it in
• 13:05
  Speaker 3: bulke off of Amazon, and it works. I mean with
• 13:09
  Speaker 3: natural deorderance is it's not going to stop you from sweating.
• 13:12
  Speaker 3: It's supposed to just try to cut the smell something right,
• 13:15
  Speaker 3: because the whole thing is not the block your pores
• 13:17
  Speaker 3: because you know.
• 13:18
  Speaker 1: That you're sweating. And I'm okay with it because I
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: know that my body is supposed to eliminate those toxins.
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: That's the purpose of your armpit sweatness to release those toxins.
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: So I'm learning that now because but it's uncomfortable to
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: be wet under your armpits. It's nasty and feel gross.
• 13:35
  Speaker 3: I really don't sweat that much. It's like, but the
• 13:38
  Speaker 3: poores be funky. I don't really like sweat a whole lot.
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: And it seemed like when I would like, I would
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: shower and I could just wash my armpits and it
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: would be like fine, Now I really got to like scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub, scrub.
• 13:54
  Speaker 3: Theoliate. Yeah, also, I use like a little mixed.
• 13:59
  Speaker 1: I started using the glacolic body ship under my arm
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: piss because it's an exfoliator. Just strip all that because
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: what is that?
• 14:08
  Speaker 3: It's bacteria. So we don't get into it. Because this, y'all,
• 14:11
  Speaker 3: I want to talk about some shit this week, so
• 14:14
  Speaker 3: which which basically like you know, what you eat, what
• 14:17
  Speaker 3: you consume, it comes out through your skin, right, so
• 14:22
  Speaker 3: not everybody smells some people don't even wear the order
• 14:25
  Speaker 3: and they don't smell, and they probably can attribute that
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: to a bit a good diet, you know. Yeah, yeah, Okay,
• 14:31
  Speaker 3: so now let's finally get into stupid internet.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, hello, on before we leave, God, damn, well, you
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: just say that we're gonna talk, I mean before we
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: go to kids. It was this young Hawaiian that you're
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: not like me, a little Waiian, and then I got.
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: Just said Hawaiian initially.
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: Awaiian, and he was like, yeah, like thirty, about to
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: be thirty, so you but just we was just hanging
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: out having a good time. He was fine, and he
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: got this almost whole teppy energy, like you know, he
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: got a beard, yeah, beard, pretty curly hair, he got
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: probably some seashells on his neck because some bullshit like that,
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: you know, very earthy nigga. And he don't wear no deodorant.
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: He just said he put lemon under his armpit.
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: I did that for a while before I started using
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: a natural deodorant, and that shit started burning my skin.
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  Speaker 1: Baby. When I tell you that, man came to my
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: house and he had lit my house up so stink.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: I was like, I'm sorry. I we was going we
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: was walking into the park. It was gonna go to
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: the park, and I was like, look, I gotta be
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: honest with you. Your armpit steak on the fucker right
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: now and I cannot do it. I got some natural
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: deodorant in there. I put a washcloth on the sink.
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: There's soap. I need you to clean your armpit and
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: put some of that natural deodorant on before we walk
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: out this house. And he laughed so hard on my top.
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: He thought it was the funniest thing. Get y'all not
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: playing with you. If you don't put that shit under
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: your arm you got to go.
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: You're gonna start talking to him like that's your.
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: Spread out on the top of my couch. Like the
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: spot where his arms was was stacked like grubbing the couch.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: While he was in the bathroom.
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: You got this motherfucking fucking man singing all right, y' yo,
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: Oh my goodness. All right. So I don't know if
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: y'all saw this guy. He's an actor, Jamal Willard. He
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: played Biggie on a notorious big movie and he was
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: recently on this podcast, and he has some choice stories
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: to say about you know, it's an ongoing conversation in
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: the black community, right, and how a lot of these
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: guys prefer others over Black American women, because he in
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: this conversation, he was also confusing race with culture, right,
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: So it just sounds like he would date anybody but
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: Black American. He mentions, he says, I was dating outside
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: my race because they were doing things better than my race.
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: Willard further clarified his viewpoint by saying that he believes
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: some African American women have high expectations of men, comparing
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: his experience to dating women of other races, which he
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: means is culture right. One thing I do remember him
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: also saying is that these other women right of other
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: cultures or other races, Like he said, you don't got
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: to do much to get treated like a king. So
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: what I'm hearing is, y'all just want a lot of
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: like y'all just want to do a lot of bare minimum,
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: mediocre bullshit, and you still want to be treated like
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: a king. And I feel like part of this conversation
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: is also still alive because these other cultures, these women
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: expect to be taken care of by men, you know,
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: even the poorest of them. You're going to have to
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: do something for them. So really, what are you guys saying? Right?
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: I agree, now, I do think that we we as
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: black women, also need to It's too men. It's a
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: lot of men saying that we're too hard, right, so
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: too hard on them. We're too hard on them. We
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: don't treat them like kings, we don't make them feel appreciated.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: And I think we need to take a deep dive
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: into that and look at ourselves. I mean, because a
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: lot of us we come from strong, independent women. You
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: know that that characteristic has been attributed to Black women
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: since I can remember. So maybe we could be a
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: little softer, you know, but I think it would take
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: our black men to help us us get into a
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: soft space, you know, like we haven't been allowed that
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: luxury of softness, you know. So you get with us
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, she too strong, she too opinionated,
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: she's not submissive, But we haven't been allowed that luxury,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: I feel like, you know. So, I mean, there might
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: be some truth to what he's saying about us, just
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: a little bit, not not to the point. Now, there
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: are a lot of niggas who just don't want to
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: be accountable, don't want to be responsible and they put
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: it on us. But I feel like there is a
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: little truth to us needing to I know, especially speaking
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: for myself, I'm hard on these niggas sometimes, I know,
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: like especially my mouth, and sometimes I can say it,
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: I'll look back and I'd be like, damn, I could
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: have said that different. I could have said that nicer.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: I could have said that with more grace. You know,
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: I could have gave this nigga a little more grace.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: But I be expecting them to I'll be trying to
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: hold them to the same standards I hold myself, and
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: I'd be hard on them when they like, why do
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: you don't think exactly like me? No?
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, so you finished. So here's the thing. This is
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: how I feel like none I agree partially, right, And
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: then this is just based off my experience.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: I always be saying like, how I am not a
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: nice person. I am a good person. Right, So when
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: you're a good person, a lot of nice things come
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: out of that. Right. But my experience, men don't want
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: you nice and they don't want you nasty. It's like
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: you have to have a nice little median, right, because
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: men do want boundaries just like children. They don't want
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: somebody they can run over. But at the same time,
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: you know they they don't want somebody nagging them per se.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: How do you find that?
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: How do you find you can't find the median is
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: what I'm trying to get to, right. The people who
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: choose to intermingle just have to be on the same page,
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: you know. I think that men like stronger men. They
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: don't mind a woman who has a mind, who can think,
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: who can produce. You know, all these characteristics that they
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: attribute to masculinity, and then you have a whole different
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: list for femininity. I feel like you have to have
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: a mix of all those things to be a whole person.
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: So we complain about black men a lot. Black men
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: complain about women a lot, about Black women a lot.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: And I feel like we do the work a lot
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: of the times. I feel like we do the work
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: on ourselves so that we can show up better in
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: the workplace and relationships and friendships. I don't feel like
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: men do the work at all, Right, And then they
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: want you to use their traumas and the things that
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: they've experienced in life to justify their behavior towards you
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: and not fear.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: It's not so.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: Black women have a lot of trauma. Black men have
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: a lot of trauma. I would prefer to be with
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: somebody who could who could relate to me, right. I
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: wouldn't just go and date another culture, you know what
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: I'm saying. I've had I've spoken to white men. I've
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: dated a white guy before, like just going out and
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: she's like that, and I don't. It's just different, you know.
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: And then on top of that, the other part is
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: like just even having kids with somebody outside your race,
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: Like do I want somebody who looks like me?
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: So I feel like a lot of these niggas y'all
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: go have the babies. Also because y'all, y'all are insecure
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: about y'all about how y'all look, so you want to
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: make sure you don't replicate yourself. So this shit just
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: get real, real deep. This weekend, sitting in this spot,
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: a little thirty six year old nigga came over to
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: chat M. He's asking me if I'm submissive? Do I
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: let my man lead all these things? I'm like, listen,
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: I need you to get off of YouTube. Okay, you
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: want some red pill shit? I said, are you a
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: Samuel because you're coming over here like, what a dude
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: with Samuel the guy who passed away. Yeah, you coming
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: over here and talking to me asking me all these
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: podcasts fucking questions. I am a real woman, right, and
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: I cook, I clean, I pack bags, I do all
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: those things, right, But I have to feel loved to
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: do those things. If I'm not feeling loved, you're gonna
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: you might get a little bitch. You might, right, And
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: I think men respond better from bitches, like you get
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: better treats when you treating a man bad. Sometimes I
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: swear to god, they do not like nice women. They
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: run over nice women, and then you go cuttle up
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: under the bitch.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: Mm.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: So you gotta have like you cannot let these niggas
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: get away with anything.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: You can't. Literally, I had a conversation with I was like,
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: he was like, don't talk to me like that, and
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: I was like, look, when I was saying it nice,
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: last week, you did some bullshit and then ended up
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: having to apologize. Now when I called you a motherfucker, No,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: you did it five minutes later. You know you did.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: You did what I was asking in five minutes. But
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: last week I was doing the same thing and being
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: calm and pleasant and peaceful and you never did this ship,
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: you know. And then you said, I apologized this week,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: same fucking scenario, but I call you a motherfucker and
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: you did it in five.
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: Men learn from hurt, they learned from pain, They learned
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: they really got to bump their heads before they actually
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: do the thing. So it only to come nag.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: My mama having the same conversation with me, the same
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: conversation several times when I said, get your motherfucking asked
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: up and wash the dishes. You went and do it.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: I shouldn't have to talk to you like that to
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: get you to do things. And it was like, I
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: can remember my mama having that conversation with me as
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: a child, and I'm having the same.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: As a child. So these are grown men we're dealing
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: with who have the same characteristics as children. It can
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: get pretty frustrating. They call it nagging. I call it
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: why the fuck you ain't do what I ask you
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: to do the first time? Because if you ask me
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: to do something as an adult the first time, one time,
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: that's all it takes. I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: bide by whatever it is that my mate wants. But
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: you gotta ask them a thousand times about some shit.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Or at least communicate as to why I'm not doing
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: it in this moment, you know, right, one of the two.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: It's emotional intelligence. It's just lacking, you know, amongst the
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: black community. And it's just easier to go and date
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: somebody who's not familiar with your bullshit, So go ahead
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: and do it. And furthermore, the comments was eating his
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: ass up somebody who must be dated him, which I
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: also personally know somebody who dated this Jamal Wollard, okay,
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: and her comments he better worry about his fucking beetes
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: and taking that insulin because that dick ain't dickon. And
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: then another girl in the comments was saying she went
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: out with him and she had to wind the windows
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: down because his breath was so funky. Damn, you might
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: want to go get a bit from a third world
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: country to deal with all that stupid shit. Next on
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: a docket, Lord, have mercy, God, damn, what do you
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: call him? Passport boy, passport passport bro? Go on bunch
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: of business.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: So do you want to go with the because we're
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: thirty minutes saying already, m hm, let's talk about Caleb
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: Wilson in the Hazing death. Let's carry on with these
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: fool figgured niggas. God the Umar blame baby. We're being
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: real shady today. I'm sorry.
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Doctor Umar said he wasn't about to choose who to
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: spend the rest of his life with just because of
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: a pregnancy, and then call his baby mama's arrogant for
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: expecting marriage. They're having his child, so it goes on
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: to say, It goes on to say, so, let's get
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: this straight. You didn't know them well enough to marry them,
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: but you knew them well enough to get them pregnant.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: Make it make sense? And you know, I hear this
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: a lot. I hear like, guys, be ready to I
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: put a baby in you right now, But will you
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: marry me right now?
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: No, that's just that's that's too much. That's a commitment.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: A kid is not a commitment, I.
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: Feel like a good commitment.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: It's a huger commitment. That's a lifetime commitment, whether we
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: like each other or not. It seems like you would
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: want to marry me before the kids. But no, niggas
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: feel like a kid is much less of a commitment
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: than marrying you.
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so it says that he no, I watched the video.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: I saw this video. He actually said if they were
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: a little bit more patient, he probably would have married
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: either one of them, you know, because they had it.
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: They did have a child for him, And it's very
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: telling when a man only has girls also, Okay, you know,
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: he's probably a womanizer. So he's saying, and they weren't
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: patient enough, and I guess probably given him ultimatums and
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: things like that, like you literally disturb these women's piece
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: by giving them a child that they have to be
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: the primary caregiver for while you on the internet for
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: how many years now talking bullshit? The more doctor Moore,
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: Umar be having some good points. But then sometimes that
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: nigga shows up, right, the other nigga. I don't know
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: what his other name is. I know Umar probably ain't
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: his first name. Okay, it just shows up and I
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: just have the Nike check lip looking at him like
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: just eugh, okay, because why and you know, women we
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: gotta take responsibility and at this you know point too,
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: like we know what should be hitten for before we
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: get pregnant oftentimes and we think that I don't even
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: want to say this that it's a conscious thought that
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: we think this person is going to stay. But in
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: the moments these men are telling you they love you,
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: they are saying they want a child with you, and
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: the baby comes and they just flip a switch. It's
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: like you're unattractive now that you haven't had a baby. Yeah,
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: and I just gotta wait, I got a child to
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: think about. Like, and you know, that's that's really when
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: women just walk away because now you are not the
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: most important thing to me, right I don't. I don't
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: really have to. I don't consider you that much anymore
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: because something else now is trumping me, fighting for a
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: relationship of you know, pushing for marriage from you.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: And a child like will either bring y'all closer together
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: or switch y'all up now, it'd be hard. I had
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: someone say that to me that him and his girl
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: they they got three kids now, and he was like, man,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: them kids really like change shit. Like she lost herself.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: I lost myself and we lost each other in the
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: midst of trying to raise these kids. And it's difficult.
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: That's why you have to really be in love with
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: the person you have in a family with. You know,
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: I didn't hear him take any accountability for creating these
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: broken homes. Yet you're always talking about the black family
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: structure and what we need to do better in the future,
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: and you created two broken families. Yeah, yeah, shut the
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: fuck up for ever, doctor Umar. I'm so sick of
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: these niggas well.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Maybe so I try to give grace, like maybe he's
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: speaking from a place of brown kids knowing after the fact,
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: you know how, like sometimes you got to go through
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: it the you know no better. Yeah, that's that's what
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: I have to, you know, attribute it to, Like.
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: We don't be pointing your finger at people who kind
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: of doing the same thing when you did the same thing. Finally,
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: find a more graceful way than also to talk to
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: your male counterparts. Yeah, okay, because you really be talking
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: real greasy whole time. I didn't even know he had children.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: Like how we try to do on the show. We
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: don't be trying to run nobody down. Be better than
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: what I was. You know, the hell who knew.
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: He even had kids until his daughter went live the
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: other day?
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, slim dog. Anyway, y'all, we got to get into
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: today's episode. Y'all listen. I am on a super duper
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: holistic kick. Okay, it kind of started at the beginning
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: of the year. So now I've recently added my calonics
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: back to my regimen. And I used to get colonics
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: all the time years ago, but they were much less
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: expensive in the Midwest. Down South is like only a
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: few people that do them, so they just the prices.
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: The prices are just outrageous. But I want to talk
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: about shit. The ship we keep, the ship we need
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: to let go and they come back when we come
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: back after this commercial.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: All right, we got paid for this ship. We'll be
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: right back. First of all, before we get into this ship,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I want you to know how close aj thinks that
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: we are, clearly because she sent me three shitty videos
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: over the weekend and look at her, dookie, y'all. That's
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: how close we are. Apparently I was, And here I
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: am like, ooh, that was a lot. Oh wow, maybe
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: I should do that too. Oh we should talk about this.
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: That was the purpose of doing that. I sent that
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: shit to a lot of people. I sent that shit
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: to a lot of people. You are very comfortable. I
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: would not send my dukie all over the place like that. Yeah,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: I have.
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: Okay, So when I went to Puerto Rico one Yeah,
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: my homegirl, Shelley birthday.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Hey Shelley.
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: We went to Puerto Rico for her birthday one year,
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: and the whole time it might have been there for
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: like four days. I never used the bathroom until the
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: night before we were flying out and I let out
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: the biggest piece of shit I had ever seen.
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: You talk about this. You sent me that too, So every.
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: Year on her birthday, I sent her that picture of
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: her lost two thousand. This is two thousand and I
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: hate you. Eleven girl, gonna send me her dookie every day.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: My birthday is.
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: Crazy because when I took when I when I did,
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: I'm like, Shelley, you want to see this donkey is
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: so big? She was like yeah, she read in the
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: bathroom to see it. It was like wrapped in there
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: like a snake. I felt so relieved, though.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: No I saw in the Salon Loss. When I was
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: in Salon Loss, there's barbershops and there's men salons in there,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: and this man came out of the bathroom before me,
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: and I guess he didn't flush. It was the biggest
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: turn I've ever seen in my life. In there, I
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: didn't even know dookie could be that big, and it
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: was the width. It was so wide around. I was like,
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: oh my god.
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: Somebody.
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: Like I had just I haven't spent time around a
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: lot of men. I haven't lived with a lot of
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: men in my life. And my dad and my mom
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: had a separate I never was in their bathroom, so
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: if he left a turn, I never got to see it.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: I did not know a dukie could be that big.
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: I can't say I've ever seen a man some man
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: poop either.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: Like, bruh, that log.
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: Good God, there was a whole size of this large intestine.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: Probably it was like the size of my forearm. Y'all, like,
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: that's how wide that log was around?
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: Interesting, Good God, almighty, that thing open?
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: He loose.
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: I don't know what it is, but it's loose.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: It was. It was a solid log.
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: Though.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't know this could happen, all right,
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: but get into your ship.
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I want to talk about colonics and just
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: like the whole listic.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: Having lunch.
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry if y'all are, but I do suggest you
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: could you know, because I don't even eat like the
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: hard harsh meats, right, I mean, seafood is people may
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: consider seafood to be no different than eating steak, but
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: I do right, it's easier to digest, so imagine that
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: I'm not even eating all this crazy ass meat for real.
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: I do eat seafood occasionally, well a couple times a week.
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: But I had actual parasites come out. So I started
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: on Wednesday, Yes, on the window, in the window so
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: I so I actually ordered h detox, not a detox,
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: but a I guess essentially a de warmer right parasite
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: cleanser from Jamaica. And I had been putting off taking
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: it on taking it, had been putting off taking it,
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: so I finally took it on Tuesday. I scheduled the
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: calonics for Wednesday, so before I would like separate the days,
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: like I'll go like go once a week or something
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: like that, but if you get a klonic, do that
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: ship three consecutive days minimum. The first day was just
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: like loosening some ship up, right, And I had to
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: use the bathroom immediately after, and you could tell it
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: was some old ship coming out. Okay, I just everybody
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: full of shit, that is the point, right, So everybody
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: is full of shit. So then day two was like,
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: oh shit, like it's really moving. That's the videos you've
• 36:37
  Speaker 3: seen like going down.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: All of that coming out of you. Yes, yes, it
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: was day three.
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: It was more that so I guess the first day
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: like loosen things up, day two was come day three, child,
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: the parasites yeast was coming through the window.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: So you know those sugar cranv things you be having
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: craving for bread, the gluten, the carbs. That's these little
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: motherfuckers in your gut telling you to eat these things.
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: And you know those tapeworms can even get to your brain.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: Well, you're brighter up under your eyes too.
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: I don't know if they my skin, Yes, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday,
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: My skin looks better today. I looked in the mirror yesterday.
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: I'm like, Dad, my skin look clear as hell, like
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: in a real way, just that quick.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: I can see it.
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: And I know I got some more ship to let go.
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: And I'm saying ship, but I'm talking about other things too.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: Your eyes looked brighter, and I just thought maybe you
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: took a clem shot to the face over the weekend,
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: But look at you. It was you got rid of
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: all that shit. Amen, go ahead, I'm sorry.
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: Not a bit you like toes face come in the face, y'all.
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: I didn't you told said something.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: I never put that motherfucker foot in my I did
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: not do that.
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: Shame, So I wanted to like, Okay, so women in particular,
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: like we hold a lot of I hate, I want,
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: I really want to just discard the term trauma. And
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: I know I've said it three times on this episode,
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: but we hold a lot of you know, ill energy
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: in our gut. Right, So when you look at like
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: your chakras and stuff like that, that's your solar plex,
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: like the space in between like your breastplate and your abdomen, like,
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: so we're holding all of that. We're just holding on
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: to things since forever, right, bad energy, bad relationships, job stress,
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: all the things. We're literally holding on to it in
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: our in our guts. So doing like a spiritual cleanse
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: along with a like a real detox and adding this
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: to it, you'll probably have a lot more mental clarity
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: to actually deal with with life at that point. But
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: I don't think people a lot of times they really
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: don't connect the too. So some practitioners believe that colon
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: cleansing can help to release stagnant energy and toxins, which
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: may contribute to imbalances in your Mani par Manipara chakra
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: is what it's called the solar plex and there is
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: scientific evidence also. Now you know, doctors they want you
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: to be alive and sick, so your your primary healthcare
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: doctor probably won't be the person to suggest to you
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: to go get a colonic. That's why we're here, okay,
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: because they want you to keep coming just to get
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: medication when a lot of times even with mental health issues,
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: Like one of my friends, she's starting her own her
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: own clinic and she wants to do like more holistic
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: approach to mental health. She's a psychologist and and I'm
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: trying to link her now with the lady who did
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: my colonics, Chucktown Colonics, Holly at Chucktown Colonics. She's a
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: fun time. I actually was trying to get her to
• 40:08
  Speaker 3: come on the show, but she's afraid to talk for
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: whatever reason. Girl. Yeah, so we could have had, like,
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: you know, the actual professional, but I'm linking them to
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: so they can do some referrals, because really mental health
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: starts in the gut too, everything all diseases. You know,
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: a lot of people haven't had a breast cancer diagnosis.
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: Now lupus. When I first started colonics in Saint Louis, Missouri,
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: the hydrotherapist she showed me pictures of how she was
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: wheelchair bound, like on her you know, last leg, literally
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: on no leg, you know. And she started studying veganism
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: and she started getting the colonics done on herself. So
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: now she has a has a clinic. But the colonics
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: actually saved her life, just cleaning her gut. Because we
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: have years and years, you literally can have some shit
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: in there from five years old.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: I haven't. I had one before. I did a kolonic
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: when I was living in Atlanta. That was the last
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: time I did that, and that was twenty ten. So
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: I know I got some shit I need to let go.
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and even when I used to get it, still
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: it depends on who's doing it. I did not have
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: these results, you know. I've always still felt sluggish this
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: time and day. Right now, I would be one to
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: lay down or taking an energy drink to stay up
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: in the afternoons. Right after a meal, you should not
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: be sleepy. If you eat anything and start feeling sleepy
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: immediately after, you probably should never eat that thing again.
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: I love Chick fil a French fries and one day
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: I ate that shit and it almost fell asleep driving home.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: Damn, So I stopped eating.
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: Them because why the hell do I feel this sleepy?
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: This is the only thing I've ate today? Why do
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: I feel sleepy heading home?
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: I like I like being I like going to sleep.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: I can't say that.
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: I would make some T shirts that say, bitch, I
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: love it lay down. I do love to lay down.
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: You gotta get up at nap. I enjoy a good
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: like nothing makes me happier. So with food, does that
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: to me?
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: I'd be like, yes, shut down, that's not good. Like,
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: you know, food's supposed to give you energy, not take it.
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: So if you eating a lot of foods, that's just
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: just taking energy. You probably shouldn't get wrong.
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: I heard that Girl Scout cookies got like, yeah, some
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: really toxic bad shit in it. Yeah.
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: BJ bought two boxes in here and I did not
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: open them. I said, hey, I said, those cookies don't
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: This is before those articles came out. I said those
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: cookies ain't taste good. In years, like, I never buy
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: Girl Scout Cookies cookies in years like a long time.
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: I'll run a Girl Scout down, Like where is these
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: bitches that could really be outside.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: The cookies haven't been good at least since I was
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: a kid out of your life.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: Box.
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so they got hard metals, all these crazy ass
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: toxins in them.
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: I then hate to see me come.
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: So let's get into what a colonic is. So it's
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: a colonic or a colon. Hydro Therapy is a procedure
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: where warm, filtered water is gently gently flushed into the
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: colon to remove build up, waste and toxins. Is done
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: by a trained professional used using a closed system. So
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: she has, lady I have. She has like a reverse
• 43:41
  Speaker 3: osmosis machine. So this is gonna get you the best
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: alkaline water possible. Right, So the waists was removed through
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: a tube, ensuring a clean, odor free process. Some people
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: compare it to an internal shower for your digestive track,
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: and it is this it is safe to do multiple
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: days consecutively. Also on the digestive system and waste build up.
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: Like the colon, you're large intestine is responsible for observing
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: water and ectra electrolytes while forming stools, so over time,
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: undigested food, toxins and mucus can build up, especially with
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: the poor diet and high processed foods now we in America.
• 44:28
  Speaker 3: I don't know for whatever reason people have been hating
• 44:31
  Speaker 3: on RFK, but he, you know, he's in charge of
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: the health now, and he wants to take all the
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: bullshit out of foods. I remember, like a couple of
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: years ago, Burger King put an article out saying that
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: they were removing like one hundred and forty ingredients ingredients
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: from their burgers. From their food. It's supposed to be beef.
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: What else?
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: What else should be added to that? Like why do
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: French fries from Chick fil a or McDonald's have all
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: these other chemicals other than potato?
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: Right in Greece, that's really all you need is yes,
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: potato and grease. But they got all these preservatives in
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: it to make their product last longer so they can
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: sell it for longer.
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: You know, is it really to last longer or is
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: it really to make us sick? Because really, the companies,
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: the restaurants aren't cahoots with the pharmaceutical companies. So the
• 45:18
  Speaker 3: more we eat the bullshit, the more we got to
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: go to the doctor for diabetes and insulin and all
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: the things and stay on medication so that the whole
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: system needs to be dismantled as far as I'm concerned,
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: I agree, you know, because even the word organic isn't
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: what we think it is. Like you can have like
• 45:36
  Speaker 3: a let's say you got a whole at us about
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: everything everything. I know that a lot of that ship
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: that say human hair.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: I need you to.
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: Know it's not because bitch, I'm battling a closure right
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: now on my other wig, Like why is this hair
• 45:56
  Speaker 3: so ratty on this closure? And the rest of the
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: hair is fine, Like the bundle is fine, but that
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: closure is definitely polyester blend.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: It's polastic.
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: Because after a while that you gotta just throw that
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: shit in the trash because it started getting nappy at
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: the at the grid, at the root, at the root.
• 46:16
  Speaker 3: So so how does detoxing work. The body naturally detoxifies
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: through the liver, kidneys, colon, but lifestyle factors such as diet, stress, medications,
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: and environmental toxins can slow down these processes. Colonics and
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: detoxing support the body's elimination process by helping clear out
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: old waste, bacteria, and toxins, and this can lead to
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: better digestion, improved energy levels, and it just to reset
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: your gut micae micro what's the word I'm trying to say,
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: you know it.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck you're talking about, Jackson, hold.
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: On, let me get the scientific See, this is why
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: we needed a professional one. You got to do it
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: yourself sometimes, hold on, reset the ship in your gut,
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: all right, so you know better, better digestion, improved energy
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: levels and just like to reset all the good bacteria
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: in your gut again. People don't associate like the do
• 47:31
  Speaker 3: people even think about the ship when when they're sick. No.
• 47:36
  Speaker 3: I remember as a child, my mama like if I'm sick,
• 47:39
  Speaker 3: the first thing she would ask me is when the
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: last time had a bio movement? So I think innately, right,
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: we know it, But it may not just be conscious
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: like I always.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't specifically think about my First of all,
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: I'm extra regular, I go at least. But just just
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: because you go, that doesn't mean you're write down that
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: stuff that's just lodged in my colon and as tests
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: is not coming out. But what I'm thinking about is
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: when I get sick, I just want to fill up
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: with fluid. Flush, flush, flush, flush, That's what I think
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: about it. I don't think about like necessarily my poop.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: But do I guess war to help you do that too, though, right?
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, warm water, like when I first wake up in
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: the morning, either I'm doing a tea or I'm just
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: doing a cup of hot water, like just six ounces
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: and six eight ounces of water, you know, because people
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: wake up and.
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: I would say warm lemon water is the best way
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: to start your day or.
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: Key lime. So now we wake up and America has
• 48:37
  Speaker 3: trained us that you have to have three meals a day.
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: So you waking up doing breakfast. But it's break you're fast, right,
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: so you've been sleep for eight hours hopefully you guys
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: get I don't know five to eight hours of sleep.
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: I try to stop beating at eight o'clock, and I
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: might not have my first I might not have my
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: first meal and so and this is just natural. I
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: don't beat intermittent fast at all. It's just naturally. I
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: don't want to eat breakfast, like I feel sluggish after
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: I eat something in the morning. So just a couple
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: of waters all you need.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: Really, first thing I do when I wake up is
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: think about what I'm about to eat. I just but
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's because I'm hungry. I just think
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: it's you're bored. Yeah, it's a mental thing. I just
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: associate life with food, you know.
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: So yo're about food. I'm tired of thinking about it.
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: Was just talking to my mama. I was like, she
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: was like, I just don't know what to eat. I
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: don't know what to cook. I don't want no more
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: it is, I don't want to know. I was like, God,
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: need to come out with a new meat.
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: You got some human out there.
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: Human y'all already think I sucked toes. I ain't eat
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: no people. I ain't never liked the nigga that much.
• 49:55
  Speaker 3: Shame. So some of the common myths and facts about
• 49:58
  Speaker 3: klonis people think that you're gonna flush out all the
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: good bacteria. You know, it's not like dushing. You know,
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: when you douche.
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: Your dish, no more, dish don't exist no more.
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: Do it dush for your vagina?
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yes they still sell that.
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes you still do that. No, but they definitely
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: still sell dush.
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: Boy. I remember, like I remember, my mama used to
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: have that little bottle of little holes on the top,
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: and she she would leave it in the tub sometimes
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: and I remember filling it up with water and squirting
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: it in my face.
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: She's like, no, give me that.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: Maybe it's not a toy.
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: Now you've been stupid your whole life. Your ay, it's crazy, man,
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: What the fuck? I might doush? I might dush maybe
• 50:53
  Speaker 3: one to three times a year, and you know it's
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: usually after cycle, you know what I'm saying. So dushing
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: isn't a bad thing. But if you have to always
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: dush your vagina, you might need to go to the doctor.
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: Because there's a reason why you score and stuff up
• 51:07
  Speaker 3: ya kuchi, and you need to figure out why you
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: think you need to be doing that so frequently.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: Vajina is such a very sensitive.
• 51:14
  Speaker 3: Mine is very sensitive. That's why I can't do nothing
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: with it. Yeah, yeah, it's like you know, and then
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: you know, young girls, young girls, young girls, and listening
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: to the show, you know, it does take some time
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: to learn how to care for the vagina. It does,
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: and adding all them extra shit to it's just gonna
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: mess it up even more. It is a self cleaning organism. Okay,
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: so if it's not cleaning properly, make an appointment to
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: go to the doctor. My chrobium, if you hear that.
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: It just finally told me how to say the word
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: my chrobium.
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: If you're listening to your koochie a little twinkie right now,
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: it's okay, baby, we all been there. Just go to
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: the doctor figure out why doing that, or if you
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: already know, do the things still get it together?
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: And usually the things that get it together is stop
• 51:59
  Speaker 3: fucking on that man, okay, because he's mixing your bacteria
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: and somebody else shit and just going back and forth
• 52:05
  Speaker 3: in between y'all so a lot of times, or changing
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: your soap, I personally ow you really do you in? Yes,
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: I only use Dove white soap, and then I don't
• 52:15
  Speaker 3: like put soap in my vagina, right you know what
• 52:18
  Speaker 3: I'm saying. So you can clean the labia and stuff
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: like that, but you don't want to get it inside
• 52:23
  Speaker 3: though it's hard.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: To not though I'd be feeling I'll be struggling not
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: to like get it inside me, you know, like I'd
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: be struggling because I'd be down there scrubbing that thing.
• 52:32
  Speaker 3: So girl, I must have put the doctor Bronner's peppermint
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: one on it. Oh my god, ah, oh my god.
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: Yes, that's how the domb ask what's the past?
• 52:45
  Speaker 3: By oh hot hot pot.
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: Hot pocket, that's what they need to call him.
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: What is it called? I use him.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: My friend encouraged me to get that ship, and I
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: put that ship on. I was it down the street.
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: I like them burn.
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: No, that burned my koochie up.
• 53:03
  Speaker 3: It doesn't after a while, so once you use them
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: more often, it does help with the cramping and stuff
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: like that.
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: Baby, I took that ship off and went in the
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: bathroom and with a water tissue up there till I
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: got home, because ain't no way I'm gonna have this
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: fire shooting up my pussy all day. No, ma'am, what's
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: the ship called? Something? Hot? Hot?
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: Some some pot one of them honey pot pot, that's
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: what it is, honey pot.
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: Call it hot pot. Because that ship burns.
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: She said, Yeah, it's like eucalyptus and stuff is like herb,
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: herbal and fuse paths, and yeah, I like it.
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: I like it.
• 53:41
  Speaker 3: But she loves it. Does sue that when you first
• 53:44
  Speaker 3: start using it, of course, it's like your body's like,
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: but your body gets used to it, and I promise
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: it really really does help with cramps and stuff. But
• 53:51
  Speaker 3: I started talking about vagina just to say, like dushing,
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: I'm not excusey, dushing and colonix is just not the
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: same thing. Okay, you are not going to wash away
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: the good bacteria by getting the kalonic, so that is
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: not the truth. The fact is, while some bacteria are
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: washed away, a healthy diet replenishes beneficial gut flora. Many
• 54:11
  Speaker 3: people take probiotics postclonic for balance. Yes, a good probiotic
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: is always necessary.
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: Ooh, I like that ollipop. Have one of those every
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: now and then.
• 54:24
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I use those.
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It's like a little soda, but it's a probotic.
• 54:29
  Speaker 3: M good too.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: It takes.
• 54:32
  Speaker 3: Another myth is the body detox is naturally, so calonics
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: aren't necessary. And the fact is the body does detox naturally,
• 54:40
  Speaker 3: but due to modern diets and lifestyles, it can sometimes
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: use extra support, just like a car benefits from an
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: oil change. Like our like twenty twenty five is not
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: the same as nineteen twenty five. You know, the food
• 54:54
  Speaker 3: is different, the air is different. It's more. People is
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: just more and more and more like our parents or skinny.
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: Do you remember seeing pictures of real fat people back then?
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: No, like everybody was smaller, and the sizing system, like
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: the size two now is a size was a size four,
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: So they even changed the sizes to reflect how fat
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: we are to make us not feel as fat as
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: we are.
• 55:19
  Speaker 3: And it's really just in America. So while we're we
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: supposedly supposedly have the best medical system, we have the
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: sickest people in the world in America. Imagine that. Yeah, okay,
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: another mythod is calonics can make and testines dependent on them.
• 55:37
  Speaker 3: I feel like maybe I used to take a lot
• 55:39
  Speaker 3: of a lot of diuretics, like a laxative and stuff
• 55:44
  Speaker 3: like that, and I do feel like I might have
• 55:46
  Speaker 3: fucked my gut health up a little because I wasn't
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: using the bathroom like I should, so I was using laxatives.
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: And then it almost seemed like if I didn't use
• 55:55
  Speaker 3: a laxative, I didn't wouldn't go at all.
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 55:58
  Speaker 3: Right, But with the diet.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: Did you use the roads too much? You're not gonna
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: come with a man?
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, Tammy, that's exactly what we can liken it too. Yeah,
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: you're right, girl, always right. But okay, so it says.
• 56:15
  Speaker 3: The fact is, when done properly and not except excessively,
• 56:19
  Speaker 3: colonics can help train the digestive system to work more efficiently,
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: not weaken it. I'm gonna give y'all my I got
• 56:26
  Speaker 3: a whole diet regimen I created out of vitamins, and
• 56:30
  Speaker 3: the ship been working. I use the bathroom at least
• 56:33
  Speaker 3: twice in the morning, at least twice in the evening,
• 56:36
  Speaker 3: you know, after I eat. That might be why my
• 56:40
  Speaker 3: skin is a little bit clear. I don't know. Go ahead, girl,
• 56:45
  Speaker 3: I had no come on me in a while. I'm
• 56:47
  Speaker 3: gonna be honest. Okay, I had come nowhere on me
• 56:55
  Speaker 3: in a long time, So I don't know what you
• 56:59
  Speaker 3: talk about. Girls. Did I lead my ship just now?
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get one. Yeah, I'm gonna get on group
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: on for mine. You're rich. I ain't. I can't. I
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: ain't got no three. I ain't got three hundred invest in, dookie.
• 57:13
  Speaker 3: It's not that expensive.
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: First of all, you said it was three hundred dollars.
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: Was two seventy five. That's for three sessions.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: That's three hundred dollars.
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: What else do you, bitch? Let's run down what you
• 57:26
  Speaker 3: be spending money on. How much you spent on damn
• 57:28
  Speaker 3: uber eats a week?
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: Girl, mind your fucking business.
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, while you full of shit, that's.
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: The door dash. First of all, okay, I do. I
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: have been getting meal preps, so I have not been
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: spending as much on door dash. But in New York,
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: I don't have a car, so DoorDash is more convenient.
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: But what happened prior to now, because you've only been
• 57:55
  Speaker 3: in New York about two months now, right a month
• 57:58
  Speaker 3: and a half, were talking about out last year, the
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: year before last, the year before since motherfucking door dash
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: was created. Basically, how much money? How much salary have
• 58:12
  Speaker 3: you paid them? People that you can't pay this money
• 58:15
  Speaker 3: for your health.
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: I put somebody through school, That's all I will say.
• 58:18
  Speaker 3: And then you have an autoimmune disease, right, so I
• 58:20
  Speaker 3: think this would.
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: Be I don't find that I don't have that.
• 58:23
  Speaker 3: Well, there there's this there's this audio autoimmune disease in
• 58:27
  Speaker 3: the air, and that they keep saying that no I
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: don't believe it. I don't believe it.
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: I feel okay, but okay, yeah, but and then I
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: do want to get one, but I'm gonna look on
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: groupon and there's what.
• 58:41
  Speaker 3: That's why I found my place in Saint Louis, like
• 58:44
  Speaker 3: I do groupon all the time so to this day.
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: Because I don't want to pay three hundred dollars with
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: dookies just sound crazy.
• 58:51
  Speaker 3: It's not for donkie, it's for your life, it's for
• 58:54
  Speaker 3: your health, it's not just for Donkie.
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but if I can get my dukie out for cheaper,
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it.
• 59:00
  Speaker 3: But to me, like, honestly, I have been getting calonics
• 59:03
  Speaker 3: and this is like the cheapest is probably gonna get. Honestly,
• 59:07
  Speaker 3: eighty dollars eighty some dollars per session as the cheapest
• 59:11
  Speaker 3: you gonna get.
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: I've seen one on group home right here in Brooklyn
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: for forty five dollars.
• 59:15
  Speaker 3: Oh shit, oh shit, Well that's Brooklyn because it's probably
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: a lot more place, a lot of places to do.
• 59:21
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, well yeah, go get go, get your azz
• 59:23
  Speaker 3: clean up for forty five.
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: And I'm gonna send you a video, a video on
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: my dookie to you.
• 59:27
  Speaker 3: And I love to see it, Okay, I like to
• 59:30
  Speaker 3: see I want to see you let that shit go.
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna let it go. Okay, we all love
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: the ship.
• 59:35
  Speaker 3: I didn't let go, all right, So these are just
• 59:44
  Speaker 3: some of the benefits. And I kind of already went
• 59:46
  Speaker 3: over like we you know, been talk about it at
• 59:49
  Speaker 3: nauseum at this point, so increase energy levels and mental clarity,
• 59:53
  Speaker 3: skin benefit benefits, clear complexion, weight loss, and bloating reduction.
• 59:57
  Speaker 3: So before y'all go get that with GOVI ozempic all
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 3: that shit, trying to clean your damn stomach out first, okay,
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 3: because really, you know what she told me. She said
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 3: a lot of her clients have been coming and they
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 3: their stomach is messed up now after having taken those medications,
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 3: because really it's starving you. So they they their bowels
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 3: aren't working as it like it's supposed to at this point,
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 3: and a lot of people have stomach issues after using ozempic.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: I just feel like anything that you taken, you haven't
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: watched them drug commercials and they'd be like the people
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: all smile and walking down the street and they got
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: this is medication is for psoriasis. But then the person
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: all the side effects, all the side effects. It's like, goodness,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: is it even worth it to take any of this shit?
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: You're going to create a new problem fixing one.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 3: The weirdest thing is about like when you tell somebody
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 3: about a supplement, a natural something, they always question it.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 3: But you get all the side effects of all this shit.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 3: Your doctor give you. You take it willingly, you don't care.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: I'm just not a fan of no drugs me neither.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: It's week. That's it. That's the only thing I like.
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: Everything else, I'm like, I'm scared.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 3: And then also says a boosted immune system. And another
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 3: benefit is emotional and mental benefits of letting go physically
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 3: and metaphorically.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: Okay, so let that ship go, y'all. I encourage everybody
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: to go get their booty sucked out and not the
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: way you're used to your nasty and.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 3: Just imagine niggas be licking ass. You got parasites back there.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: I remember I talked about that who went to y
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: theyself in the hospital for two weeks from eating booty hole.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 3: Yes, so yeah, like everybody has parasites. You just don't
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 3: want to over growth a real life infestation of these things,
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 3: even with like the yeast. You know, sugar feeds all
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 3: of these things. So if you think you just a
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 3: sugar addic and you just like liquor so bad because
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 3: that's just stray alcohol, you probably need to clean your
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 3: fucking gut out.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go do it. I'm gonna you have inspired
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: me to go clean my gut out and see what
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: comes out of there, because I do love sugar.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 3: And then I need a whole lot of gangs.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: When I was young, I did not care like I
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: wasn't a sugar person. I remember being a kid. I
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: always been built like this right, just a little thicker.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: Oh life, whole life. And I remember being at kids'
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: birthday parties and they cutting the cake and they'd be like,
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: you want a slice of cake, and I'd be like, nah,
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: give me another one of them hot dogs. I didn't
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: want no fucking cake. I wanted another.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 3: Dog or a burger party.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: And that's but once I got like late thirties, something changed,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: and now I would rather just have desserts and no meat.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 3: I like fresh baked goods. I don't like packaged items.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 3: So like you talk about the girls like cookies, like, damn,
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 3: my shit, I'm gonna go mix some shit from scratch
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 3: or like you know, buy like some organic cookies from
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 3: Whole Foods to cooking, which I just realized because I
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 3: read a pack the ship got gmo from Whole Foods.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 3: What are y'all doing? Us ain't nothing whole nothing anyway, Yeah,
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 3: y'all let that shit go. If you want mental clarity, right,
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 3: If you want to feel better about life and living,
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 3: it starts with the ship in your stomach, before you
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 3: can let go of that man, before you can let
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 3: go of that job, where you can let go on
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 3: bad relationships, girl friendships, whatever it is that you need
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: to let go. It starts with the gut and.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: Seeing y'all dooky videos to AJ.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 3: She want to see it, And if y'all want to
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 3: see my parasitic videos, I'll send it to you. If
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 3: y'all want to see this shit video like, it's a
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 3: million of them online, but if you want to see
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 3: one for somebody that you semi know, I'll send it
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: to you. I'll sing you this shit.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: Don't ask to see my dookie. I'm gonna do it,
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: but don't ask.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, let that shit go. We're going end that. I
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 3: said ship like maybe a hundred times on this episode,
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 3: But after this commercial, I got a simp story. Okay, okay, here,
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 3: all right, y'all, we'll be back.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: Listen, y'all need to rewind this episode. Listen to it
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: from the beginning with your friends, and take a shot.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: Every time AJ says ship, y'all gonna be up, you
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: might be in the hospital. Don't do that. All right,
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: We'll be right back after this commercial.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 3: Easy way to say this, but all right, y'all see
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 3: we're back. Look, this is not a sam story that
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 3: somebody said. This is some ship I saw online.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's hear it.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 3: Let me read it right quick. So it says bruh,
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 3: I did some dumb ship, took my baby Mama t Atlanta,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 3: went to swingers club and turned up Bruh, bruh, me
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 3: her and a fine ass red bone turning up. I'm done,
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 3: I done, tapped out. I caught me two good ones.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 3: I'm drained. This big black six foot six musclehead nigga
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 3: came over and wanted to join them, and I had
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 3: to agree because that's what we talked about beforehand. This
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 3: was both on our bucket list. Not getting too graphic,
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 3: but follow me. We had a towel on. I'm not
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 3: the smallest down there, no Diddy, I'm a good seven
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 3: plus plus inches. This dude pulled out an elephant trunk
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 3: and laid it on the other girl's forehead. I told him,
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 3: you're not putting that in my girl. This half a
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 3: said I wanted. I took the hardest swallow and said, okay,
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 3: I had to watch my girl get slaughtered. I even
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 3: went over there while he was doing it and rubbed
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 3: her forehead to tell her it would be okay. She
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 3: was yelling, begging for me. She was in a zone,
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 3: and I checked out mentally, it's okay when we do it.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 3: But that right there.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: Nah.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 3: Fast forward to this morning. I woke up this morning
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 3: in the mood like any guy would. I went over
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 3: to her and started to strike it up with her.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 3: This motherfucker said, not right now. I'm still sore from
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 3: this weekend. He said, Who the fuck says that? He said,
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 3: I can't get what I want because she's still sore
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 3: from this motherfucker. Real shit. I thought I could take it,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: but this entire experience turned me completely off. I want
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 3: to break up with her, but I love her. I
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 3: just don't think I could get ever get back to
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 3: where it was. Any advice? Why you referring to her
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 3: as your baby mama? First of all, y'all obviously live
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 3: together with a child that's already weird to me. And now, y'all,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 3: I introduced swinging basically into the relationship, and you can't
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 3: handle of motherfucker swinging. And he probably was the one
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 3: that suggested it.
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: I bet you exactly he wanted to do. It ain't
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: no fun when the rabbit got.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 3: The good or So y'all got some advice, You got
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 3: some advice.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell this nigga, Like.
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 3: I just think he should motherfucker delete this ship and
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 3: never say that shit again. That's the only advice I got, Nigga.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: Just tell nobody and just thrill to break up with
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: her because she got fuck better than you could fuck her,
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: or harder or bigger than you could do. Like, that's
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: not a I mean that she didn't cheat. You probably
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: suggested this ship.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you set her up. If he leave, he really
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 3: set her up. I can understand what he's saying, Like
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 3: once somebody do some shit, like even if you might
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 3: have been okay with it's like I just can't look
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 3: at this motherfucker no more. I understand. But no, nigga,
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 3: you set her up for the okie dookie if you
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 3: leave her with a child, because y'all you introduce you
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 3: let her introduce some dickens. So y'all went to the
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 3: swingers club and you were just supposed to do a
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 3: three cent with her and another woman. But obviously you
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 3: okayed her getting slaughtered by another man if it came
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 3: up and the big dick came up. How you mad?
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: I could feel that, because all right, this is a
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: long time ago, y'all, this is.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 3: Has she going some bullshit.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: And I was dating this guy and I liked him
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: a lot, but he said he just wasn't a big
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: big on kissing, and I'm I love, I'm gonna kiss her,
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: like we need to be kissing. You need to tongue
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: me down. So finally he was like, we started kissing,
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: and then he started he sucked my tongue, but he
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: was sucking it like a dick, like up and down
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: on my tongue. And then I ain't like him no
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: more after that, just that quick, it is over. Why
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: like a dig get off.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 3: Me do nothing without being gay? What why he can't
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 3: be sucking at like a clip? I like my shit sucked,
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 3: not like all aggressive now but like a low Yeah.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 3: I like that.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: Well there I should have sai the rolls do.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, there, foolish, You are foolish, foolish, so yeah,
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 3: you can set up some ship that you don't and
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 3: find out you don't like it, well, I hope y'all
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 3: stay together, because we don't want no more broken families,
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 3: especially based off some bullshit like this.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: This is You can get past this, sir. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 3: Just don't do it again. You can't handle it.
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