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Things I Would Never Do as a Professional Matchmaker! · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  As a professional matchmaker, here are a few things I would
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  never do in the early stages of dating.
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  Hang on, and as always, in no particular order.
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  But the first thing that comes to my mind is I would never go
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  on one, two or three dates with a guy and think there's any more
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  to it than that. You have to go for the
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  experience, have a good time, but let it roll off your back.
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  Don't even worry about it. You ladies put too much on a
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  date. A first date.
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  Oh, it went well. A second date and you get all
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  this anxiety. You have to learn to detach
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  until about date four when it seems like it is something.
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  OK, I've got a few more for you. Hang on for two.
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  I wouldn't believe everything he was saying.
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  I would look for the actions and make sure that he is consistent
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  in his actions. His words, actions are aligned.
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  Not just the words, not just the actions.
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  That it's all aligned and nothing seems off.
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  All right, hang on one more. I think probably the biggest
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  thing is I would be paying attention to whether or not he
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  hears me. Is he retaining what I am
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  telling him? Pay attention to seeing if he's
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  a person who's actually listening to you, because this
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  will tell you a lot. And on that note, I decided I'm
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  going to give you one more. So instead of three, I'm
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  throwing a bonus in. Hang on.
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  OK, My last thing triggered this one big thing.
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  I want to leave you with huge thing.
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  All right? Give these guys room to show you
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  who they are. Don't try to slap a label on a
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  guy so soon like he is this based on one thing or base he is
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  this based on. You ladies think you're the
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  detective and you want to solve the mystery right away, but you
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  never will. The biggest thing I've ever
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  learned from being a matchmaker is that people have so many
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  layers. You're never going to know who
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  somebody is on date 1234 or five, maybe.
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  All right, so never think you're going to solve the case right
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  away. Give somebody the room to let
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  them show you who they are. All right, so if you like this
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  Intel, if you like me, make sure you follow.
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  Make sure you share. But the big opportunity is you
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  can actually work with me one-on-one, where I'm your
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  bestie. I'm your dating fairy godmother.
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  I take you by the hand. I show you everything you need
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  to know about dating. We focus on the dating apps.
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  Yes, we do. And it is not matchmaking.
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  It's better than matchmaking. I teach you how to do it for
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  yourself. All right, so you're not sitting
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  around waiting on the sidelines. You're getting in the game.
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  All right, If you want my help, want my help for six weeks, DM
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  me on IG with the word. Love to learn more.
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  All right? Nobody else.