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Episode 8 - Finding Love · RealTalkwithMikeD

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Real Talk with Mike D. All right. Welcome
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  Speaker 1: to Real Talk with Mike D. I am Mike D.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for being here. Thank you for listening. And
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  Speaker 1: today I got a good one for you. Today we're
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  Speaker 1: going to talk about finding love. But finding love isn't
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  Speaker 1: always about searching for somebody. Sometimes it's about finding yourself first.
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  Speaker 1: Think about it. A lot of us spend years looking
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  Speaker 1: for somebody who will make us happy. We think, if
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  Speaker 1: I can just meet the right person, everything will fall
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  Speaker 1: into place. But the truth is, another person can't fix
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  Speaker 1: everything that's broken inside of us. You've got to be
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  Speaker 1: comfortable being you. You've got to know your worth. You've
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  Speaker 1: got to know what you want. And you've got to
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  Speaker 1: know what you won't accept. Because being lonely can sometimes
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  Speaker 1: make people settle for relationships that aren't good for them.
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  Speaker 1: And listen, being alone is better than being with someone
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  Speaker 1: who makes you feel alone. Believe me, I know that.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you've been hurt before. Maybe somebody you trusted walked away.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you gave somebody your heart and they didn't take
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  Speaker 1: care of it. And after something like that, it's easy
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  Speaker 1: to say, I'm done with love. But don't let the
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  Speaker 1: wrong person convince you that you're impossible to love. One
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  Speaker 1: bad relationship doesn't mean every relationship will be bad. One
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  Speaker 1: dishonest person doesn't mean everybody is dishonest. And one heartbreak
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  Speaker 1: doesn't mean your heart should stay closed forever. Sometimes you
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  Speaker 1: have to heal. before you're ready to love again. And
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  Speaker 1: that's okay. Take your time. When you're looking for love,
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  Speaker 1: don't just look for somebody who gives you butterflies. Look
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  Speaker 1: for somebody who gives you peace. Look for somebody who
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  Speaker 1: respects you, someone who listens, someone who keeps their word,
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  Speaker 1: someone who can laugh with you when things aren't good,
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  Speaker 1: and stand beside you when things aren't. Because relationships aren't
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  Speaker 1: just about good days. Anybody can be there when everything
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  Speaker 1: is perfect. Real love shows itself when life gets difficult.
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  Speaker 1: Isn't that amazing? Good advice. Anyhow, I really hope you
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  Speaker 1: appreciated this. I hope you liked it. And hopefully we
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  Speaker 1: all can find love someday. But again, as always, I
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  Speaker 1: greatly appreciate you being here. And I hope you all
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  Speaker 1: have a wonderful day. Thank you.