Latest / Talk to Prince Show - Solving World's Problems / Prince Israel Zaar on: If It's All About You, Then Don't Be a Leader
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Sometimes what certain humans are because of their ego, arrogance
- 0:18Speaker 1: or narcissism. They fail to understand that fellow humans doesn't
- 0:37Speaker 1: really need them as a person or personality because of
- 0:55Speaker 1: their attitude and character traits, but that fellow humans need
- 1:04Speaker 1: them or need fellow humans for the good in them,
- 1:15Speaker 1: for their positive work, for their contribution. Fellow humans need
- 1:26Speaker 1: fellow humans for their talent, their gift or gifts, their creativity, ingenuity, expertise,
- 1:49Speaker 1: and their ability to do the work that is at
- 1:57Speaker 1: hand or to do the work that is asked of them. Wow,
- 2:07Speaker 1: to perform task well. It's what fellow humans expect from
- 2:17Speaker 1: a fellow of humans. The positive causality of leadership. It's
- 2:28Speaker 1: very essential in the being of the being itself, the
- 2:37Speaker 1: positive causality of leadership, that when you call upon to lead,
- 2:47Speaker 1: you do your job well. That's what it is expected from. Yeah.
- 2:58Speaker 1: People sometimes don't care about your private life, your privacy,
- 3:02Speaker 1: or they don't care about your character disposition, or your
- 3:12Speaker 1: mentor setup or your complexes. They don't care about these
- 3:20Speaker 1: so long as you are delivering, So long as you're
- 3:25Speaker 1: doing your job well. So long as you're doing the
- 3:33Speaker 1: job upon which you're elected to do, appointed to do,
- 3:41Speaker 1: selected to do, in the room to do, or designated
- 3:52Speaker 1: or delegated to do. Humans must learn to understand that
- 4:03Speaker 1: as a person, humans have issues. They got three types
- 4:11Speaker 1: of humans. In the mind, in the mind or in
- 4:14Speaker 1: the head, you got little humans. Little humans are humans
- 4:19Speaker 1: that who are so personal and they big thanks always
- 4:24Speaker 1: a bit about them. They they got insecurity issues, they
- 4:31Speaker 1: got inferiority issues. They got self esteem issue, self image issue.
- 4:42Speaker 1: They constantly see others as antagonists, like to quarrel, like
- 4:50Speaker 1: to fight. They cannot listen, they cannot learn, they can improve.
- 4:56Speaker 1: They always say to themselves they know too much. They
- 4:59Speaker 1: know everything, they're expiring everything. They don't need anybody. They
- 5:05Speaker 1: make no mistakes. They are perfect, They don't lie the
- 5:08Speaker 1: way state of truth. They know more, They no more
- 5:13Speaker 1: than anybody else. So therefore they are beyond reproach. Once
- 5:20Speaker 1: a human being has said itself to be beyond reproach,
- 5:28Speaker 1: then there is hardly a thing you can do with
- 5:31Speaker 1: that without human without confrontation with the arguments and fight
- 5:39Speaker 1: or constant disagreements. The human being must make itself to
- 5:47Speaker 1: be approachable, to accept its limitation. Except it's mistakes. It's
- 5:55Speaker 1: false to be human HM, it's to be approachable, not
- 6:04Speaker 1: to be unly approachable. It makes it very difficult to
- 6:09Speaker 1: work with people who make mistakes, and you cannot approach
- 6:15Speaker 1: them of their mistakes. You cannot talk to them without
- 6:20Speaker 1: them being confrontational, upset and angry at you and insulting
- 6:25Speaker 1: or negative. Humans like that need help their temperament, their anger,
- 6:38Speaker 1: their insecurity and narcissism. I can't put the company, the country,
- 6:53Speaker 1: the system, society, others or themselves at risk. Humans must understand.
- 7:10Speaker 1: But when two humans come together, they have different personalities,
- 7:16Speaker 1: different minds, different expectations, different projections, perception and perspective. They
- 7:26Speaker 1: have different mental images of themselves. Their self esteem might
- 7:33Speaker 1: be different, their confidence levels might be different, their experty
- 7:41Speaker 1: levels might be different. By the same time, positive differensiation
- 7:50Speaker 1: is very important. Positive differentiation. Humans are not called upon
- 7:56Speaker 1: to be the same thing than while we're humans. Intrinsic
- 8:01Speaker 1: individuality is very important. You are you and everybody elses
- 8:08Speaker 1: everybody else. Or when people talk to you for your
- 8:12Speaker 1: doing something wrong, it must it mustn't mean they hate you,
- 8:17Speaker 1: they don't like you. It mustn't mean that he must
- 8:21Speaker 1: belter them or bility yourself. It doesn't mean that he
- 8:29Speaker 1: must take people who try to help you, who advise
- 8:35Speaker 1: you we contempt. He mustn't have contempt for wisdom, they
- 8:43Speaker 1: a word of advice, and for people trying to save
- 8:48Speaker 1: you from yourself. People trying to save you from yourself
- 8:56Speaker 1: mustn't be insulted and denigrated by you. People like you
- 9:02Speaker 1: to be different, fellow. You must like you to be better,
- 9:09Speaker 1: to improve, to grow, to succeed, to achieve your goals,
- 9:17Speaker 1: to be the best of you. You cannot take that
- 9:21Speaker 1: away when people try to advise you. On the contrary,
- 9:25Speaker 1: is should be grateful and thankful. The human being must accept,
- 9:36Speaker 1: must accept its vulnerabilities, weaknesses, fragility, and mistakes. Once you
- 9:53Speaker 1: think that you're always right, then it becomes very difficult
- 10:00Speaker 1: to work with. You start to impose your personality and
- 10:06Speaker 1: others and people start to be afraid or worried to
- 10:17Speaker 1: criticize you, to advise you, and to correct what you're doing.
- 10:29Speaker 1: If you cannot be corrected, if you cannot be advised,
- 10:38Speaker 1: if you cannot learn, if you cannot admit your mistakes
- 10:46Speaker 1: or take responsibility or accept to be accountable, then who
- 10:54Speaker 1: and what are you? Then? What do people do here
- 11:03Speaker 1: that many people on planet eight points something brilliant. People
- 11:09Speaker 1: always think about that that you are not indispensable. I
- 11:17Speaker 1: always remember that you're not in the indispensable, that you
- 11:24Speaker 1: are replaceable and sometimes discussible. The human being is the
- 11:36Speaker 1: good inside you are doubt which you are physically I
- 11:44Speaker 1: number they wanna take that away from you. But your mentality,
- 11:53Speaker 1: your spirituality, your world view, the causality of your actions
- 12:08Speaker 1: affects others. You therefore have the responsibility to be considered,
- 12:19Speaker 1: to be mindful, to be careful, to be cautious, and
- 12:27Speaker 1: to be civilized when you interact with fellow humans. Civility
- 12:35Speaker 1: is very important. Humility as an asset. He must have
- 12:44Speaker 1: the years to listen, especially when you're doing what's right.
- 12:51Speaker 1: You cannot want to be a leader who cannot be advised.
- 13:00Speaker 1: Doesn't meant to be in charge to lead, to take
- 13:05Speaker 1: care of people. What does that mean? It means a
- 13:17Speaker 1: person who is good at what he or she does,
- 13:24Speaker 1: who can work with a team, who can listen to
- 13:28Speaker 1: the team, who is not shy of point correction or
- 13:36Speaker 1: saying thank you, fine advice. Somebody who can see past themselves,
- 13:47Speaker 1: who can see past their petty petticness of being a
- 13:52Speaker 1: person larger than life. That's what the lad is. Somebody
- 13:59Speaker 1: will full sight for knowledge, open mind, open heart, open hands,
- 14:09Speaker 1: somebody with confidence of self with a super eager not
- 14:18Speaker 1: somebody fighting their idea or eager. Leader is somebody who
- 14:27Speaker 1: sees beyond themselves and make decisions based on careful consideration
- 14:40Speaker 1: and a quick to think down and ask questions in
- 14:45Speaker 1: whatever they do in order to minimize negative causality and
- 14:53Speaker 1: experiment shape positive causality. When you are it's not always
- 15:02Speaker 1: about you. Sometimes sometimes it's hardly about you. It's about
- 15:10Speaker 1: those who called upon the lead. You cannot be a
- 15:15Speaker 1: leader by being insulting, disrespectful, demeaning, dero greatory, dehumanizing, and
- 15:29Speaker 1: seeing others we contempt. You cannot be a leader that
- 15:35Speaker 1: sees yourself as a God. But even God makes mistakes.
- 15:45Speaker 1: If you go back to the book of Genesis an example,
- 15:51Speaker 1: and you see when Israel and the choosing ones debate
- 15:56Speaker 1: with God the plit regard, you see our God does
- 16:06Speaker 1: everything to correct God's mistakes. At a point in time,
- 16:13Speaker 1: God with destroy Pompey. At some times God we chose not.
- 16:24Speaker 1: At the same time, God with want to wipe all
- 16:28Speaker 1: humans on planet because of their evil, and upon in
- 16:33Speaker 1: time God will regret that I promise not to do
- 16:35Speaker 1: it again. At the same time, God might want to
- 16:41Speaker 1: destroy us, humans, countries of the universe for what they do.
- 16:53Speaker 1: God is forgiving. I use God, not talking about God,
- 17:00Speaker 1: because even that omnliness of Creator has within that essence
- 17:10Speaker 1: acknowledgement of self correction. But if you're a human that
- 17:21Speaker 1: cannot self correct and doesn't stand to be corrected, they
- 17:30Speaker 1: are not supposed to lay it because with leadership comes mistakes, mischargements, miscalculations,
- 17:41Speaker 1: China errors and experiments that don't work, and cause correction
- 17:48Speaker 1: is very important. You cannot take narcissism of self when
- 18:00Speaker 1: you're living. The people who need somebody who can make
- 18:07Speaker 1: things work. The cultivate group think it's very dangerous for
- 18:17Speaker 1: an organization if the sect a card or anything, I'm
- 18:25Speaker 1: supposed to grow and take over the world or convince
- 18:33Speaker 1: the hearts of Benny. How do you go to bed
- 18:40Speaker 1: and sleep when you antagonize everybody and antagonize yourself? How
- 18:51Speaker 1: do you go to bed and sleep? Why you know
- 18:57Speaker 1: I should have said thank you, I am sorry. The
- 19:05Speaker 1: aspect of being human and the aspect of being civilized
- 19:12Speaker 1: or dignified or respected. Is to accept when your own
- 19:19Speaker 1: accept when you make mistakes, accept correction, and be thankful
- 19:26Speaker 1: to grow. Business cannot survive when it's all about the
- 19:35Speaker 1: human in our insecurities. Then what is good for the business.
- 19:49Speaker 1: If the business caught upon you to laid, you must
- 19:53Speaker 1: take that business or organization establishment forward. You cannot make
- 20:01Speaker 1: it out to be about yourself. I have set time
- 20:07Speaker 1: and again that if it's all about you, it's all
- 20:10Speaker 1: about nothing. You're a sooner raised that the next person
- 20:16Speaker 1: that comes after you, or the trivialities and the text
- 20:20Speaker 1: of height, theindictiveness of vengeance, or the cruelty of mine
- 20:28Speaker 1: or bitterness of the soul, or the emptiness of the
- 20:32Speaker 1: sign to go after people, to hurt the feelings of others,
- 20:40Speaker 1: to build at or dehuman eyes, or see others with
- 20:45Speaker 1: contempt ware there to help? Who are there to help
- 20:51Speaker 1: you grow? Having such character traits doesn't make friends but enemies,
- 21:02Speaker 1: doesn't create a team, but destroys it. Certainly humans make
- 21:15Speaker 1: themselves to be leaders. Certain humans make themselves to be followers.
- 21:24Speaker 1: Certain humans make themselves to be non essential and non
- 21:31Speaker 1: essential human being. It's not made by nature. It's not
- 21:40Speaker 1: made by the society, but by the human being itself.
- 21:46Speaker 1: Some humans who cannot think past themselves or lack the
- 21:53Speaker 1: largeness of heart, the ability to self reflect, self correct
- 22:03Speaker 1: humans who insulate themselves from the realities of their inabilities.
- 22:10Speaker 1: The afrail is their transgressions, their iniquities, our finances, our injustices.
- 22:25Speaker 1: Those humans who cannot say they are wround, Those humans
- 22:30Speaker 1: who never apologize, those humans who are always right and
- 22:36Speaker 1: everybody is wrong? How can that be? How can you
- 22:43Speaker 1: be that human being? What happened to you? What happened
- 22:50Speaker 1: to your child heard? Were you never told that you're around?
- 22:58Speaker 1: We never published forbid wrong? When you never asked to
- 23:04Speaker 1: go apologize to somebody I say, I'm sorry? What happened
- 23:12Speaker 1: to their upbringing? What happened to your childhood, to your
- 23:18Speaker 1: teen nature? Curt What is it that made you made
- 23:24Speaker 1: you to be that empty of soul, to be that
- 23:30Speaker 1: things kein and angry and sad and others? What is
- 23:38Speaker 1: it I'm making not to see through the goodness in others?
- 23:45Speaker 1: That humanity is here to help the people come to
- 23:49Speaker 1: you with good will, good impatience, to make your girl.
- 23:56Speaker 1: That people come to give you advice for you to
- 23:58Speaker 1: be the best. The people criticize you because they care
- 24:03Speaker 1: about you. The people oppose you because they think you
- 24:10Speaker 1: can be better for the good of everybody. How come
- 24:17Speaker 1: you cannot say this. If you cannot say this, then
- 24:24Speaker 1: let somebody alse laid. Let somebody laid, somebody who cannot
- 24:31Speaker 1: make it be about themselves, but about the people that
- 24:37Speaker 1: the person laid. Somebody who cannot make it to be
- 24:41Speaker 1: about themselves, but about the business, the growth of the business,
- 24:47Speaker 1: the customer service, the profit margin, the efficiency and effectiveness
- 24:55Speaker 1: of the business, a long time plan, the vision to expand.
- 25:04Speaker 1: Let a person late. If you cannot make it about
- 25:08Speaker 1: to be about others, now run for office. Don't be
- 25:14Speaker 1: a parent, don't be a teacher. You cannot self isolate,
- 25:23Speaker 1: a self destroy because of your inability to accept your mistakes.
- 25:32Speaker 1: I correct your wrongs. You cannot keep running away from humans,
- 25:40Speaker 1: to be by yourself, to suffer, to punish yourself merely
- 25:48Speaker 1: because you cannot tell somebody I am sorry for what
- 25:50Speaker 1: I did. What type of human can you be? Or
- 25:56Speaker 1: you cannot tell people your sorry? I should have done better.
- 26:02Speaker 1: Thank you for the advice. Why can you say that
- 26:10Speaker 1: it makes the world a better place when people acknowledge
- 26:16Speaker 1: their wrongs. Society want to grow, and if you, as
- 26:23Speaker 1: a person don't want to grow, record that's late and
- 26:30Speaker 1: be the person that sits. Why complain and blame everybody else?
- 26:38Speaker 1: It's always about somebody as or something to us than
- 26:42Speaker 1: about certain people. If it's always about somebody else and
- 26:47Speaker 1: somebody else and not about you, then you shouldn't lead.
- 26:57Speaker 1: Philosopher Prince he i intelligences. Philosopher Prince is resore from
- 27:04Speaker 1: the Great City of Las Vegas, December eighteenth, twenty twenty five.
- 27:18Speaker 1: Thank you,