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Happy Hour #47: Bay of the Married Pigs (SATC Ep. 3) · Stuff Mom Never Told You

• 0:05
  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to stuff
• 0:07
  Speaker 1: I'm never told you production of I Heart Radio. Yes,
• 0:18
  Speaker 1: and welcome to episode three of our very very very
• 0:23
  Speaker 1: very long segment sub segment of watching Sex in the City. Yes,
• 0:29
  Speaker 1: and for any first time viewings. Yes, Yes, I excited
• 0:33
  Speaker 1: for number three. I am excited. Um. Also, Samantha and
• 0:37
  Speaker 1: I are in the same space again, which is exciting
• 0:40
  Speaker 1: but very close for very so close. But yeah, when
• 0:45
  Speaker 1: I was typing up the description for the first one,
• 0:49
  Speaker 1: which if you've missed it, we're doing for some happy hours,
• 0:52
  Speaker 1: we're doing a watch along of Sex in the City
• 0:54
  Speaker 1: from the beginning. There's ninety four episodes and two movies
• 0:57
  Speaker 1: and now a new series, so a lot. Yeah, I
• 1:01
  Speaker 1: was like, I can't say mini series. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what to call. I'm just calling it a sub series.
• 1:07
  Speaker 1: And just because technically it's a sub sub series is
• 1:11
  Speaker 1: how we're gonna put it. Because we're not doing all
• 1:13
  Speaker 1: the happy hours like this, but exactly we've been wanting
• 1:16
  Speaker 1: to and it's gonna get grow. Like I said, we
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  Speaker 1: wanted to make it bigger and and maybe just have
• 1:20
  Speaker 1: a whole big ordeal allow you guys to have an
• 1:23
  Speaker 1: episode where you can watch along with us, even though
• 1:27
  Speaker 1: these are very condensed us talking about it. But as
• 1:32
  Speaker 1: per usual, I do have some questions for us. It's
• 1:36
  Speaker 1: going to begin with you trying to guess what this
• 1:38
  Speaker 1: episode is about by me giving you a title. Okay, name.
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  Speaker 1: So the title is a bay of married Pigs. What
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  Speaker 1: do you think is going to happen? Okay, So we
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  Speaker 1: last left off. I've been introduced to Mr big Um.
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  Speaker 1: There's a discussion of models. I think they have married pigs.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good title because it's playing on you know,
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  Speaker 1: calling men pigs married pigs makes me think there's a
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  Speaker 1: dude who's married, who's like a jerk and cheating. Um
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  Speaker 1: involved in this one, and for some reason, I think
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  Speaker 1: Charlotte has to do Okay, I don't know why. Well,
• 2:22
  Speaker 1: you know, there's also a bay of pigs, which is
• 2:24
  Speaker 1: a we're on the same note on this one, thank you? Right?
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  Speaker 1: They happening? Yes, yes, but I I the history of that.
• 2:35
  Speaker 1: Yes I know, um, but I was just thinking that's
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  Speaker 1: a good play on that. Yes, you know. I love
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  Speaker 1: a good word pun word play, word pun play. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: it's my favorite. I like it. All right, So we
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  Speaker 1: are going to jump in with your predictions. I don't
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  Speaker 1: think there's a new major characters, but that's going to
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  Speaker 1: be introduced, so we're not going to do that one
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  Speaker 1: for today. But I'm pretty sure I did mentioned this
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  Speaker 1: episode for something that we talked about. As many times
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  Speaker 1: as I've brought up sex in the City, I'm pretty
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  Speaker 1: sure this is one of those episodes. So okay, are
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  Speaker 1: you ready? I'm so ready. Here we go. Okay boarding,
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  Speaker 1: no shot of a naked but should be right back
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  Speaker 1: with Will Forte look alike. Frontal friends, full frontal friend.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I would ever want to know that
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  Speaker 1: title for a friend hanging out. I didn't know what
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  Speaker 1: to do. Do you see? This is a plot I've
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  Speaker 1: seen sitcoms to right, and it's like, hey, Peter Coffee
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  Speaker 1: getting a full frontal picture of a guy sexual harassment
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  Speaker 1: and as I'm not good face it. Ladies, if you're
• 4:10
  Speaker 1: still single, you are not to be trusted. Come on,
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  Speaker 1: not all married women feel that way. So again we're
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  Speaker 1: kind of back to the women against women situation, and
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  Speaker 1: except this time it's not models. It's married women versus
• 4:23
  Speaker 1: single women. Yes, so if we could talk about the
• 4:26
  Speaker 1: fact that we did talk about that we are very
• 4:29
  Speaker 1: limited in how we have, how many married male friends
• 4:33
  Speaker 1: and how those relationships look as single women. So there
• 4:38
  Speaker 1: is something to be said to that. Is it this
• 4:40
  Speaker 1: that there are they think that we want to have
• 4:42
  Speaker 1: sex with their husbands. I don't know about that. What well,
• 4:52
  Speaker 1: Lou and I are interested in having a child. We
• 4:54
  Speaker 1: already have a surrogate, but we need a time. They're
• 4:57
  Speaker 1: talking out surrogate, so they're touched. Got a lot of
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  Speaker 1: things we've talked about. I see why you bring it
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  Speaker 1: up all the time. So you think it's just because
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  Speaker 1: they think that you're in a couple. I know, I've
• 5:13
  Speaker 1: been with the firm for two years. He's barely been
• 5:15
  Speaker 1: spoken to me. All of a sudden it's chipped. So
• 5:17
  Speaker 1: there actually has been some research about this about being
• 5:21
  Speaker 1: single at work, um, But what I'm more familiar with
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  Speaker 1: is it means that a lot of times single people
• 5:28
  Speaker 1: will get asked stay later and come earlier because it's
• 5:32
  Speaker 1: assumed they have no life, less family exactly which was
• 5:37
  Speaker 1: the while you were sleeping trope? Oh you haven't watched
• 5:42
  Speaker 1: that yet, but I know that's one of your holiday
• 5:45
  Speaker 1: film it's December. But I think there have been there's
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  Speaker 1: been some reachers to that people who get married or
• 5:53
  Speaker 1: is more trustworthy than they can hold something down. Perhaps
• 5:58
  Speaker 1: perhaps hey, John, what a surprise this is our friend?
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  Speaker 1: H I was for a while going to a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of a good friend of mine broke up, and he
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  Speaker 1: was getting invited to these parties with kind of friends
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  Speaker 1: that they were sharing, and I would go as his
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  Speaker 1: kind of like date not date, because he didn't want
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  Speaker 1: to go. Right, I will say I did have a
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  Speaker 1: good guy friend of mine, and he and I would
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  Speaker 1: do things together and we would be lumped in together,
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  Speaker 1: right kind of how you and I are now? What
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  Speaker 1: things for sure? Um? But then like he started dating
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  Speaker 1: somebody and so I got excluded completely and he got
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  Speaker 1: in my with his girlfriend. I was like whatll wow,
• 6:48
  Speaker 1: damn yes, have you ever had a surprise fixed up?
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  Speaker 1: Like you didn't know you were being fixed up? What happened?
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  Speaker 1: It was incredibly awkward because it became very clear, like
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  Speaker 1: I would stay within two or three minutes because they
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  Speaker 1: were telling me like, oh, he's so amazing, here's his life,
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  Speaker 1: it's so cool, and like telling me all these facts,
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  Speaker 1: and he was right there. And then they were like,
• 7:13
  Speaker 1: and she's so good because she did it, and I
• 7:15
  Speaker 1: was like, we're not talking to each other, just talking
• 7:18
  Speaker 1: about us to each other. It was incredibly awkward. And
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  Speaker 1: then it started to pour rain and I refused to
• 7:25
  Speaker 1: go up because I'm just a strange person, and he
• 7:29
  Speaker 1: refused to go up and get undercover as well. Then
• 7:32
  Speaker 1: he held his coat over my head. I was like, oh, no,
• 7:36
  Speaker 1: we made it worse. I definitely had tried to be
• 7:40
  Speaker 1: set up one time that I knew of, like ned
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  Speaker 1: they would never tell me. But the one time was
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  Speaker 1: when I actually had a boyfriend and he was there,
• 7:48
  Speaker 1: and he was there, and the girl knew it, but
• 7:50
  Speaker 1: she still wanted to try to set me up with
• 7:51
  Speaker 1: a friend. And like was telling Caroline, who was actually present,
• 7:56
  Speaker 1: who was sitting next to my then boyfriend, and was like,
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  Speaker 1: that girl's tell her. I'm so excited for Smith to
• 8:01
  Speaker 1: meet this person. And Caroline looks at her, looks down
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  Speaker 1: at the guy, and looks back at her and goes,
• 8:07
  Speaker 1: this is Sam's boyfriend. And the awkwardness He's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I walked off. So that was the only time that
• 8:14
  Speaker 1: I actually knew about. That's rough. Oh this is Samantha Smith.
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  Speaker 1: This is a link his wife. I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: don't think I'm very protective of my partner. Like right
• 8:33
  Speaker 1: now we're watching say I'm trying to just talk to
• 8:35
  Speaker 1: someone about advice. Wife comes up very defensively pulls him away.
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  Speaker 1: That's not I think I think I would do. I
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  Speaker 1: think I would just laugh and we'll move on. Yeah,
• 8:46
  Speaker 1: oh my god, look at that computer. I'm sorry, Um,
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: it's a huge computer. You guys, uh with the tiniest screen. Yeah,
• 8:54
  Speaker 1: the speakers are big on the side. Yes. I was
• 8:57
  Speaker 1: thinking about this the other day when I said I'm
• 8:59
  Speaker 1: not jealous, was like, I wonder impact that statement. But
• 9:03
  Speaker 1: my ex, who had a very jealous X before me,
• 9:09
  Speaker 1: once he was like, I'm gonna, um my ex girlfriends
• 9:11
  Speaker 1: in town. I'm gonna hang out with her. So sorry,
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, why it did not occur to me.
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  Speaker 1: I was just like, that's fine. He talked about her before.
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  Speaker 1: She seemed cool, right, But I think he was weirded
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  Speaker 1: out that I wasn't weirded out by it. But I
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  Speaker 1: was like, yeah, that's fine, hang out. You don't have
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  Speaker 1: to get I'm glad you told maybe you have to
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  Speaker 1: get my provision or anything. I mean, yes, you need
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  Speaker 1: to tell but outside of that, for sure, I definitely
• 9:35
  Speaker 1: I will say that again. I don't know that I'm
• 9:38
  Speaker 1: not jealous. I probably know I've never been into that.
• 9:41
  Speaker 1: I'm insecure. I think you said that about the Trouble
• 9:44
  Speaker 1: Happy Hour episode, like, yeah, I definitely insecure something in
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  Speaker 1: my head. You found something better or you like something better.
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  Speaker 1: Not necessarily that I'm jealous. I don't know if that's
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  Speaker 1: interchangeable or not. But as long as communications are open,
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  Speaker 1: I hyblically don't care. I think that partner is pretty
• 10:01
  Speaker 1: good about that, because I've literally been hit on in
• 10:04
  Speaker 1: front of him. You were there, what is happening? And
• 10:08
  Speaker 1: he just started laughing. Was I guess I don't exist?
• 10:10
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't understand. Meanwhile, across town things
• 10:20
  Speaker 1: are winding down. Thank you so much. We really had
• 10:23
  Speaker 1: a great time. She is a real find. I'm not
• 10:30
  Speaker 1: gonna lie. So when I see this plot line which
• 10:33
  Speaker 1: Miranda brings the woman as her date, yes, after already
• 10:39
  Speaker 1: saying she's not a lesbian, and she pretends like they
• 10:41
  Speaker 1: are couples, and then she lets the firm know we're
• 10:45
  Speaker 1: not actually a couple, that she's not a lesbian, But
• 10:48
  Speaker 1: in real life she actually is a lesbian. Yeah, And
• 10:51
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know why. That just makes me
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: google a little bit. At that point in time, I
• 10:56
  Speaker 1: think she was married to a man and her wife
• 10:59
  Speaker 1: at that point it still like that's not true. Yeah, yep,
• 11:13
  Speaker 1: definitely straight. Yeah you are, but she's not straight. I
• 11:23
  Speaker 1: was thinking about this other day, and I want to
• 11:25
  Speaker 1: do an episode on this. I don't know if this
• 11:29
  Speaker 1: is common, but I went through like a phase where
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  Speaker 1: like all of my girlfriends kissed, like I've kissed a
• 11:34
  Speaker 1: lot of women, and it was just kind of a thing.
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  Speaker 1: We were like, okay and just try it. So the
• 11:40
  Speaker 1: only time that really happened to me was when I
• 11:43
  Speaker 1: was a nanny and I would hang out with the
• 11:46
  Speaker 1: mom and all her friends, and in her friend group
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  Speaker 1: was like this one woman who just loved kissing women
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: just went round did this. I was very uncomfortable, not
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  Speaker 1: just because a I'm not necessarily a lesbian, but more
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  Speaker 1: so that I wasn't kissing anybody like I was very
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: like not tushy feeley whatever, and so I wish she
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  Speaker 1: would do that. I would literally lean away and they've
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: got offended. She's like, do I just kissing you? I'm like,
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: but I don't want to kiss you. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: anything about you. Why would I kiss you. They seemed
• 12:14
  Speaker 1: really offended by this, but they're like come on, and
• 12:16
  Speaker 1: I'm like, no, thank you. Yeah, yeah, always consent. And
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: it does kind of squick me out because I feel
• 12:26
  Speaker 1: like if for a woman, if you say you're bisexual
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  Speaker 1: or lesbian, then suddenly like you're willing to kiss any
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  Speaker 1: woman ever, which is kind of what happened here, and
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: it's not the case at all. Right, there's a poster
• 12:41
  Speaker 1: for Godzilla. Was Sarah Jessica Parker married to him at
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: this point? Yeah, they were for a very long time.
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  Speaker 1: I've never noticed that, you know, I'm always on the
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: lookout for Godzilla. Well not me. Okay, so Annie, you're
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: Charlotte did have something to do with this. It was
• 13:23
  Speaker 1: very vague level that you thought, Um, it wasn't necessarily
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  Speaker 1: about men being pigs though, yes, which is kind of
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  Speaker 1: what I was like, It's not exactly what you think.
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: It's more like a battle more so than and it's
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  Speaker 1: women against women, singles versus non singles type of situation.
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  Speaker 1: So you know, I'll give you half a point, like
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: I'm always going to get Yeah, overall, so not as bad.
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: Of course, again not a fan of women versus women,
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: but there is this big conversation of what does it
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: look like for married women versus as friendships with single women,
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  Speaker 1: And this could be the conversation about of people with
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: children and single people and what that looks like and
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: how often you can hang out and and just by
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: schedules alone and and like life plans in general, you
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: automatically become a little more distant because you don't get
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: to do all these things. I will say so again,
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: one of my good friends, they just had a baby
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: last year, and I probably have seen them more, not
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: because of the baby per se, but because the previous
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: times we were in quarantine, so I just didn't see them.
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: So now that I am seeing them a little more,
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: not you know, of course I want to see the
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: cute little baby, but I get to see them too,
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  Speaker 1: and it's like okay, okay. And then also there is
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: that the whole level of like the attitude. So when
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: we have the one woman who's like, I don't want
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: to be around my single friends, it's just sad. Of
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: course you don't want to be around her. Why would
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: you be your friends for the first place, she sounds
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: like an awful person. Yeah, and it's interesting to me
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: because you know, again, I haven't seen this, but I
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: did watch sitcoms UM in the nineties. And we're still
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: having these conversations now, like you and I are still
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: having them, I'm having them with other friends, UM, and
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: I think that's really really interesting. And then like just
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: growing up, I remember and we talked about this too,
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: like I thought I was gonna get married and have
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: kids and that was gonna be my life. And I've
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: had friends that did that right from my small town
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: and they seem totally happy with it. But it is
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: I guess I feel like in their mind and this
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: is me projecting and on these specific people. I don't think.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: I have plenty of friends who are not single that
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: I do not feel like this is how they feel.
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: But in their minds, I feel like they think, well,
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: she's not this is the goal, right, and she's not
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: going for it like it's strange to them or something right,
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: because this is their thing and that's what they wanted
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: and they achieved it, and more power to you. But
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  Speaker 1: I guess that's from my hometown. When I'll sup at
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: things and they're kind of like you don't have any kids, right,
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  Speaker 1: so I think I will say I've lost I don't
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: have many friends from my hometown anymore. That could be
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: a whole big conversation. The ones that I am friends with, um,
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: they kind of have a similar mindset as I do,
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  Speaker 1: so we're okay. So it was like, um, majority of
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: my friends. Now, I have so many more single friends
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  Speaker 1: than most people would have thought, especially at the age
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: of forty, and they are closed in age. So it's
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: kind of like, Okay, this is interesting. This is a
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: whole new thing. But as well as the side, I
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: feel like we've gotten really a lot better at finding
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: partners that we all like to hang out with, so
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: it doesn't seem like a big deal. I don't know,
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: you tell me because you hang out with me and
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: my partner a lot, you can tell me now I will.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: I won't kick you out until they according until after
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  Speaker 1: the fact. But I mean like, for the most part,
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: I still like we're really good at not being that
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: couple of like clinging and making everybody uncomfortable, being odd
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: type of thing that's just not how we express everything
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: for ourselves. Um. As well as again, you do a
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: great job in interacting. So I feel like you can
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: do well with any group. I hope I would do too.
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  Speaker 1: But my awkwardness is just my awkwardness in general. So
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: it's not just with couples, is it with everybody? Congratulations?
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: But you know, like I don't know, maybe with that
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: changing as well as the changing of what relationships are
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: and types of relationships and being more open about it,
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's gotten so much better to be
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: single today than what had been like ten years ago. Yeah,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: I totally agree with you. I think obviously they are
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: still hang ups around it, but I definitely think and
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: we've seen you know, articles and reporting on it of
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: you know, people are delaying marri's and they're deling having
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: kids and all this stuff. So I think when we
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: compare it to this where they're sort of the outliers
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: at their age being single, UM, I do have. I
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: also have a lot more single friends, and I do
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  Speaker 1: think that I can hang out um with people who
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: are in couples and it's not so like why is
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: she here, she's single. I don't really get that vibe,
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  Speaker 1: that weird trope of like being the third or fifth
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: will um. I will say I've definitely had friends who
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: really liked couple groups and then it really threw me
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: off and it was so awkward to me. I'm like,
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: really now, and it maybe it's because we did weed
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: out those people for myself per se, like that was
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: kind of like that. I'm like, I'm good, I'll find
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: another crew, which still hard. You know, making friends as
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: an adult is fairly hard. But like being able to
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: know whether or not you mesh well and versus like
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: whether or not like, oh yeah, you definitely, your ideals
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: are so far from mind. This is going to be
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: a disaster. Let's just go ahead and nip this in
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: the but type of conversation, maybe I'm just to elitist.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Well, that's interesting because I my not
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: so great explanation of how I've grown up thinking about
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: the Hamptons in this one specific way that actually is
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: a piece of this though, is I feel like a
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: lot of times historically people get married, have kids, move
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: away from the city, and it sounds so like I
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: don't know, like you don't care, but that our plus
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: commute baby is not easy for either party, especially if
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: you've got kids involved, And so it's usually the single
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  Speaker 1: person in my specific instances, something of it's a single
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  Speaker 1: person going out to hang out with you, and it's
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: just the time and the distance, and then you kind
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  Speaker 1: of slowly right grow apart. I think it does, but
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: it doesn't mean it's a war or it doesn't mean that. Um,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think we've come a long way. Yes, I
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  Speaker 1: agree in that, and I hope we continue to keep
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  Speaker 1: that progress because whether or not you do have children
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  Speaker 1: or not, And I've gotten a lot of good friends
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  Speaker 1: who do have kids who do really well and being adults. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and having adult friends being adults. That's a weird conversation,
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: but you know, it's that of being caught up being
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  Speaker 1: being like just the parent, and that's it. They're like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, Yes, we love our child. We're gonna
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: take them with us and just have adventures with them,
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  Speaker 1: and it's really fun. And those kids get to see
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  Speaker 1: a whole new perspectives that are just being you know,
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  Speaker 1: coddle to the whole time, which is not a bad thing.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: I'm not a parent, so not not saying that's a
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  Speaker 1: bad thing at all. You do what you need to. Yeah,
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: I have a hard friends who have kids, and I've
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: actually hung out with your kids and I love their kids.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: So yes, it's not a war, but clearly still sparking
• 20:40
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