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Hibachi Gone Wrong · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: Oh, we're going to Plainville today. Second date update. Brandon
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  Speaker 1: is on the line. Good morning, Brandon.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, well, welcome to the show.
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  Speaker 1: Before we can get you some answers on why you're
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  Speaker 1: getting ghosted, tell us about this great first date.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I met Alyssa online and, you know, she's awesome.
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  Speaker 2: And we went out to a great first date at a,
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  Speaker 2: you know, hibachi restaurant in town. The food was great.
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  Speaker 2: The date was great.
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  Speaker 3: That's fun.
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  Speaker 2: And unfortunately, that was kind of the end of it.
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  Speaker 1: How was the conversation, though? Was it awkward or did
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  Speaker 1: you have good conversation?
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  Speaker 2: No, we had great conversation. You know, we were laughing,
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  Speaker 2: you know, sharing stories. Like, I thought we had a
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  Speaker 2: great night.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. Was she flirty? Could you tell if she felt
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  Speaker 1: like she had a great night, too?
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  Speaker 3: Was she flirty?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I can be a little awkward with
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  Speaker 2: that kind of stuff, but I thought so. And, like, even, like,
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  Speaker 2: you know, the messages we were sending, you know, leading
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  Speaker 2: up to the date, like, it seemed like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: she was definitely interested.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. You didn't put the chopsticks in your mouth like
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  Speaker 3: a walrus, did you? Because I have guy.
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  Speaker 4: Friends that do that.
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  Speaker 3: That is awesome. No, they do it all the time,
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  Speaker 3: and it's not cute. I love that.
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  Speaker 2: I won't lie. I kind of thought about it, but no,
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  Speaker 2: I didn't do it.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, good.
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  Speaker 3: Self-control. He's got self-control.
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  Speaker 1: All right. You know what we're going to do? Let's
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  Speaker 1: just jump right into it. We're going to call her up.
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  Speaker 1: We're going to call up Alyssa. We're going to ask
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  Speaker 1: her about the day. You're going to be listening in.
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  Speaker 1: Are you ready to find out why she's ghosting you?
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  Speaker 2: I think I'm ready. Thank you. All right.
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  Speaker 3: You're going to be on hold. So at any point,
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  Speaker 3: if you want to jump in, you can. OK.
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  Speaker 2: Sure.
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  Speaker 3: I kind of like the phone call, you know, the
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  Speaker 3: follow up phone call. I wonder if he made her
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  Speaker 3: choose between fried rice and noodles or didn't let her
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  Speaker 3: get the shrimp. You always go with the nudes. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you do. Hello, Alyssa. Hi. Hey, Alyssa. This is Courtney. Alyssa,
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  Speaker 3: what's up? It's Walmart Jeff. Hey, Alyssa. It's Savannah. And
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  Speaker 3: we're calling from Kiss 95.7. You're on the radio.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, cool. Cool.
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  Speaker 1: Yay.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you are on.
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  Speaker 1: If you're familiar with our show, Second Date Update, which
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  Speaker 1: means you just ghosted somebody after a first date, and
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  Speaker 1: we got to get some answers.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: So hopefully you know who we're talking about. You could
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  Speaker 3: be a serial dater. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: But Brandon called us and said you guys went out
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  Speaker 1: for hibachi, and it was a fabulous date.
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  Speaker 3: He says he felt a connection.
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  Speaker 1: I think he said he's not great with flirting, so
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  Speaker 1: he was nervous to flirt with you or something like that.
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  Speaker 3: I think so, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And he sent you a text and a phone call,
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  Speaker 1: and you have totally ghosted him.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. Well.
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  Speaker 3: How was the date for you?
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  Speaker 4: For me, he was.
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  Speaker 1: Well.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, no. Oh, no, I can feel it. Something is brewing.
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  Speaker 3: She said, ugh.
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  Speaker 4: He was just, he was a little rude and did
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  Speaker 4: quite a few things that embarrassed me. Okay, so he
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  Speaker 4: was rude? No, I just, I didn't vibe. Well, when
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  Speaker 4: the waitress was seating us, he, like, before we even
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  Speaker 4: sat down, was like, we are splitting the bill, just
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  Speaker 4: so you know, to the waitress. Um, and then when
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  Speaker 4: we were ordering, he did it again.
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  Speaker 2: And then when the bill.
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  Speaker 4: Came, he was like, that's split, right?
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  Speaker 2: That's split.
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  Speaker 3: And like, was a.
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  Speaker 4: Little aggressive about it. And I mean, like, I expect
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  Speaker 4: a man to pay for the first date, but if
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  Speaker 4: you're going to be that way, you don't need to
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  Speaker 4: do it rudely. That's uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 3: That's, that would make me uncomfortable. Like, I got you.
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  Speaker 3: I heard you the first time.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's like cool that, you know, you don't
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  Speaker 3: want to pay the whole thing.
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  Speaker 2: Fine.
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  Speaker 3: Like happy to say split the bill.
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  Speaker 4: But if you keep saying, And then there was also, like,
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  Speaker 4: you know when the chef, like, throws something at you
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  Speaker 4: and you're supposed to catch it in your mouth?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, like shrimp. He usually tosses shrimp.
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  Speaker 2: Toss a couple shrimp.
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  Speaker 3: Or it's like zucchini or whatever vegetable.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, like a shrimp for, like, a ball of rice.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So he did it the first time and Brandon missed. Okay.
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  Speaker 4: And then was like, no, no, no, dude, I can
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  Speaker 4: do it.
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  Speaker 3: I can do it.
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  Speaker 2: And then had him do.
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  Speaker 4: It about five more times and missed every time.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, man.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, no.
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  Speaker 3: Stop.
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  Speaker 4: It was just embarrassing.
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  Speaker 3: That is hysterical.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Can we just... I need to bring him on. He's listening. Brandon,
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  Speaker 3: are you listening to what's going on? Yeah, I'm sorry, Alyssa.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: He's on the line.
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  Speaker 1: So, you were a little aggressive when it came to
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  Speaker 1: splitting the bill.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think I was being aggressive. I was just,
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  Speaker 2: you know, making it clear, you know, we wanted the
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  Speaker 2: bill split, like, just so we could be equal.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like if you ask me out on a
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  Speaker 4: first date and, like... I agree to go with you.
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  Speaker 2: On a date.
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  Speaker 4: I expect the man to pay for that.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know about that. Like, come on now it's 2026,
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  Speaker 2: you know, we're online meeting people. Like obviously the whole
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  Speaker 2: point is like meet people and go on a date.
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  Speaker 2: So like, you know, it's not like, well, you know,
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  Speaker 2: we're just being equal, like 50, 50.
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  Speaker 4: Like the bigger problem for me is you not being
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  Speaker 4: able to catch food in your mouth.
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  Speaker 3: Like where did you grow up?
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  Speaker 2: I think I was nervous. Like, you know, I've been
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  Speaker 2: to Hibachi a few times, and usually I'm, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to brag, but, you know, I can
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  Speaker 2: catch a shrimp.
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  Speaker 3: I got you. How about the sake? How did you
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  Speaker 3: do the sake? Or did you not do sake?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. At one point, I was just kind of, like,
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  Speaker 2: just praying it would fall out of my mouth, no
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  Speaker 2: matter what it was.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. All right.
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  Speaker 3: I've done that, too.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: That's Courtney's Saturday night. All right.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: It's been a great chat.
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  Speaker 1: Yes. Alyssa, do you feel like you just didn't have
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  Speaker 1: a connection? Because usually we offer to pay if you
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  Speaker 1: guys want to try again and go on another date.
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  Speaker 3: Or is this a complete no for you guys?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, no. Also, I just didn't vibe.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: It's a no for me.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so there was just no vibe. A little embarrassing
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  Speaker 1: and no vibe. All right, Brandon, now.
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  Speaker 3: You got your answer.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess that's true.
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  Speaker 1: All right, well, listen, guys, thank you so much for
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  Speaker 1: being on Second Date Update. Thanks, guys.
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  Speaker 3: Much appreciated. We appreciate it. And now you got your answers.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.