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WAR of the ROSES: Natalie & Gavin · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Hey, dummy, if you get free roses, it's a trap.
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  Speaker 1: War of the Roses starts right now on John Jay
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  Speaker 1: and Rich.
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  Speaker 2: One oh four to seven Kiss FM, John Jay and
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  Speaker 2: Rich It's time for War the Roses. But let you
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  Speaker 2: know that Disneyland tickets are coming up. Keep listening. First, though,
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  Speaker 2: War of the Roses, Let's say hello, Natalie, Natalie, good morning,
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  Speaker 2: you are on the air. Thanks for holding.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, good morning.
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  Speaker 2: What's your story?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm calling because I don't know, something just
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  Speaker 3: fills really off with my husband and I can't tell
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  Speaker 3: if I'm overthinking it or like if my gut is
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  Speaker 3: screaming at me. But we broke up for about three months,
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  Speaker 3: like not officially divorced or anything, just separated and chose
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  Speaker 3: not to live together. But then we worked on things
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  Speaker 3: and decided to get back together and like you know,
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  Speaker 3: really go all in on our marriage. And so the
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  Speaker 3: weird part is that we never talked about dating other
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  Speaker 3: people during that time. It was just kind of like
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  Speaker 3: an unspoken thing between us. And so now that we're
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  Speaker 3: back together, I haven't done anything outside of our marriage.
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  Speaker 3: But he's acting super strange and just like off, he's
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  Speaker 3: really on edge. He's almost defensive and like weirdly emotional
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  Speaker 3: over the smallest little things, and he gets really quiet
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  Speaker 3: when I ask him normal questions and like jumps to
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  Speaker 3: reassure me when I didn't even accuse him of anything,
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  Speaker 3: And it honestly feels like it feels like he feels
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  Speaker 3: guilty about something, and I don't know. I just I
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  Speaker 3: can't shake the feeling that something happened when we were
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  Speaker 3: apart and now he's like really just wrecked over it,
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  Speaker 3: and it's eating eating at him. I don't want to
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  Speaker 3: blow up my marriage like over a hunch, of course,
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  Speaker 3: but I also don't want to be the only one
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  Speaker 3: trying to move forward honestly, if he's hiding something from me.
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  Speaker 3: So I need your help.
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  Speaker 4: Do you think whatever happened, if something happened, is still
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  Speaker 4: going on.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. That's the weird thing, Like he acts
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  Speaker 3: so sus and I don't. I can't figure it out,
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  Speaker 3: Like I don't know if it's still going on, or
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  Speaker 3: if he's just so guilty because he hasn't said anything.
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  Speaker 3: It's really bizarre, like it's out of his usual character.
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  Speaker 1: So you know him probably better than anybody else. So
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  Speaker 1: if all those signs are making you feel a certain way.
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  Speaker 1: There's probably something brewing.
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  Speaker 5: And if he did, like let's say he did sleep
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  Speaker 5: with someone during those three months, Like, are you, like,
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  Speaker 5: do you consider that cheating even though you guys didn't
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  Speaker 5: speak about it. Is this like what's the end result here?
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  Speaker 6: You know?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? Gosh, I mean yeah, Like if he did and
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  Speaker 3: he didn't tell me before we had decided to work
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  Speaker 3: things out, yeah, I do consider that cheating.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So let me ask you. Let's say that he
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  Speaker 2: opens up to you and he tells you this is
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  Speaker 2: on my mind when we were split up, I did
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  Speaker 2: have a relationship with somebody. It's over, but I just
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  Speaker 2: wanted to tell you that. That's why I'm acting so
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  Speaker 2: weird because I have such horrible guilt. But we were
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  Speaker 2: broken up, and I know you could say, well we
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  Speaker 2: had to roll, but still you're broken up. So will
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  Speaker 2: you accept that apology if he apologizes to you and
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  Speaker 2: work on your relationship or would you be like, that's cheating,
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  Speaker 2: it's over because there is a big kind of a
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  Speaker 2: gray area.
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  Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I mean it definitely will hurt, but I
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  Speaker 3: think you know, we didn't talk about it. We were separated,
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  Speaker 3: we were living apart, I mean, you know, I really
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  Speaker 3: want my marriage to work, so I do think I
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  Speaker 3: would try to work through it with him.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, let's get him on the phone. See who sends
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  Speaker 2: the flowers too. What's his name, Natalie, I'm Gavin. All right,
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  Speaker 2: we're gonna call it Gavin. We're gonna see who he
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  Speaker 2: sends the flowers to. Does he send him to his
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  Speaker 2: wife Natalie? Or was there somebody involved along the way?
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  Speaker 2: We'll find out. War of the Roses continues next with
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  Speaker 2: John Jay and rich John Jay and rich John Jay
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  Speaker 2: and Richard. In the middle of War of the Roses,
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  Speaker 2: you got Natalie and Gavin, the husband and wife. They
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  Speaker 2: took a three month break. And by the way, Natalie,
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  Speaker 2: how long have you guys been married.
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  Speaker 3: We've been marriage for six years?
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  Speaker 2: Six years. You took a three month break after the
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  Speaker 2: and you guys talked about not seeing other people. But
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  Speaker 2: since you guys got back together, decided to work on
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  Speaker 2: your marriage. You noticed an acting a little strange and
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  Speaker 2: you can't help but let your mind go to the
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  Speaker 2: point of maybe something happened during that three months, right right?
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  Speaker 2: What led you to take the three month break? What
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  Speaker 2: was going on in your relationship?
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  Speaker 6: Then?
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  Speaker 3: We things had just gotten kind of distant between us.
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  Speaker 3: You know, we both work full time and we just
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  Speaker 3: you know, we just weren't connecting as much, and so
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  Speaker 3: we decided to take a break see how we felt,
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  Speaker 3: you know, give give each other the opportunity to miss
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  Speaker 3: each other and see how things fell, and then go
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  Speaker 3: from there.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna call him right now. We're gonna off
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  Speaker 2: from a dozen red roses. See if he says them
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  Speaker 2: to you, Natalie, or to somebody else. Kylin, fuck, are
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  Speaker 2: are you ready to read?
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  Speaker 6: Hello?
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  Speaker 4: Hi, there is Gavin available. Yeah, perfect, Hi Gavin. So
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  Speaker 4: my name's Morgan. I'm with a new company. We're called
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  Speaker 4: jan R Flowers. This is so cool. You've actually been
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  Speaker 4: chosen to be a part of our social media campaign.
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  Speaker 4: So for for you, this means you get to send
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  Speaker 4: our most romantic bouquet of roses. It's our pure passion bouquet,
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  Speaker 4: very very gorgeous, to anyone you want, totally free, and
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  Speaker 4: all we ask in return is that you post about
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  Speaker 4: us on whichever social media platform you use the most,
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  Speaker 4: so we get a little bit of marketing out of it,
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  Speaker 4: and you get to surprise someone special in your life.
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  Speaker 4: Totally free.
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  Speaker 7: Really.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a it's.
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  Speaker 4: Actually like a word of mouth campaign that's been working
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  Speaker 4: really well. Okay, right, perfect, so you'll be happy to hear.
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  Speaker 4: I don't need any personal information from you, no credit
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  Speaker 4: card or anything like that, but you can get his
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  Speaker 4: person as you'd like on the card. And like I said,
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  Speaker 4: it is our most romantic bouquet, so you know, depending
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  Speaker 4: on the nature of your relationship. Just let me know
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  Speaker 4: the message you want in the card and then I'll
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  Speaker 4: go name address, and I'll give you a time that
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  Speaker 4: they'll be delivered.
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  Speaker 7: Oh okay, sure, So do you want me to just
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  Speaker 7: go ahead.
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  Speaker 6: With the message.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that'd be great.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, I love you. I hope these make you smile
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  Speaker 7: the same way you make me smile every day.
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  Speaker 4: That is very sweet, same way you make me smile
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  Speaker 4: every day.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: And then would you like love Gavin XOXO sort of salutation?
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  Speaker 6: Uh, yeah, yeah, you can say it.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, perfect?
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  Speaker 4: And then who do you want me to address these two?
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  Speaker 7: Natalie Gavin neat Natalie.
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  Speaker 3: I've been listening this whole time, Okay, Yeah, I know
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  Speaker 3: it's confusing, but I call the radio and I set
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  Speaker 3: this whole thing up.
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  Speaker 6: You set this up, all right?
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  Speaker 3: What a bush me?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you're on the radio, just to we're clear,
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  Speaker 2: you're on John Jay and Rich wore the roses, right,
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  Speaker 2: were you?
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  Speaker 3: H Yeah. I didn't know how else to ask what
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  Speaker 3: I needed to ask you without you shutting down. M
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  Speaker 3: h okay. I know this is awkward, but I needed
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  Speaker 3: an honest answer, and I needed to know if maybe
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  Speaker 3: someone else was in the picture and like or you
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  Speaker 3: gonna send the roses to them or to me? But
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  Speaker 3: thankfully you passed the test.
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  Speaker 5: Hooray.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, Natalie, of course I did. Mary Honey, you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, but you've been acting so distant and strange since
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  Speaker 3: we got back together, and I just, I don't know,
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  Speaker 3: I needed some like validation.
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  Speaker 6: I have been carrying something that I haven't told you.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I mean, okay, all right, it's okay.
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  Speaker 3: I figured that that's.
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  Speaker 7: What I thought completely while we were separated, never we
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  Speaker 7: were to get it.
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  Speaker 6: I sucked this page more than once.
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  Speaker 3: Page. What the hell your friend?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, we haven't spoken since you and and I reconciled.
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  Speaker 7: I ended it, you know, a clean break, and it
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  Speaker 7: was while we were on a break, so you know,
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  Speaker 7: but that's you know, it's it's uh, that's over.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but come on, Gavin, like I need you to
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  Speaker 3: understand why this hurts much differently than just a random woman.
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  Speaker 3: Like Page is your friend.
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  Speaker 6: I know, I know, I know, I get it. I
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  Speaker 6: I uh, yeah, I understand.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I get that we didn't set rules
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  Speaker 3: during that time, but like, isn't onymous person?
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  Speaker 1: I wonder if that helps you to know or maybe
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  Speaker 1: it's better if you didn't know you're trying to put
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  Speaker 1: your thing back together.
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  Speaker 4: I think it's better if you didn't better if you did.
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  Speaker 2: Not you imagine you imagine yeah, Page.
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  Speaker 1: Because it doesn't feel like a satisfactory answer.
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  Speaker 4: For and you question all of their interactions before in.
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  Speaker 5: His page, like just like a random like coworker friend,
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  Speaker 5: Like what kind of friend?
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  Speaker 3: No Page is like a friend who's been in our lives,
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  Speaker 3: who's been to our home multiple times?
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  Speaker 4: Like not anymore?
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  Speaker 1: You should his friends. So I thought it was maybe
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  Speaker 1: a work thing that.
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  Speaker 5: That's what I was saying, or like maybe one of
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  Speaker 5: his childhood friends that you know, whatever, But.
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  Speaker 2: Any chance Page is really gross because that would that
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  Speaker 2: would be okay. Then she's not, Oh she's not, she's.
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  Speaker 7: A she's she's a good person.
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  Speaker 1: You stop talking.
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  Speaker 4: Guys, let's not make it worse, hippit. Do you feel
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  Speaker 4: like there's a way to move forward after this because
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  Speaker 4: you got the information you needed? He did fess up, honestly.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. I mean I wanted us to come
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  Speaker 3: back together, honestly, but I I don't know, Like this
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  Speaker 3: is this is a gut punch, Like now I have
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  Speaker 3: to decide if we could move forward with it between us,
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  Speaker 3: because yeah, I do question every interaction before this, you know.
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  Speaker 7: So I understand. I totally get it, Natalie.
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  Speaker 6: I uh, I know that you even bounds of us
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  Speaker 6: being on.
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  Speaker 7: A break and you know we were just being being
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  Speaker 7: our own person for a minute. I get that this
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  Speaker 7: is kind of crossing a line and stepping over a line.
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  Speaker 7: And I do want to try to stay together. I
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  Speaker 7: want to try if if you are willing, I want
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  Speaker 7: to try it.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, like I am still processing. I don't
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  Speaker 3: know yet. We're definitely going to have to continue conversation
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  Speaker 3: about this, and you need to block her and unfront
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  Speaker 3: her on everything and liked.
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  Speaker 7: Doing that anymore.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but like you don't need she doesn't need to
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  Speaker 3: be in our lives at all, moving forward.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I think that's the only way to move forward.
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  Speaker 6: I like, yeah, no, I'm hearing you a loud and clear.
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  Speaker 5: And yeah, loss of a friend or the loss of
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  Speaker 5: your wife, yeah, that's.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah for sure. All right, well yeah I understand.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah you still have flowers.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you better.
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  Speaker 3: Right around.
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  Speaker 1: You better hook her up, you guys.
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  Speaker 2: Tough situation, really tough situation in but now you have
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  Speaker 2: all the cards on the table. Everyone's being very honest
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  Speaker 2: about everything. So good luck to you and your marriage.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you both for going in the air with us.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: The Different War of the Roses. It's John, Jay and
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  Speaker 2: Rich