Latest / Alignment With Jenn / (#30) How I Reprogrammed My Brain & Changed My Life
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- 0:00I really believe there's two ways to manifest.
- 0:02There's through the 3D, which is the traditional way of pushing
- 0:06and forcing and making things happen and hustling.
- 0:08And then there's through your energetics and your mind and
- 0:11your thought patterns. And I believe that when we bring
- 0:14both of them together, we are infinitely more powerful.
- 0:25Hello and welcome to episode 30 of the Alignment with Jen
- 0:29podcast. I am your host, Jen Ditzesi, and
- 0:32today I wanted to share about how I reprogrammed my brain to
- 0:35really change my life. I want to give you a bit of a
- 0:38background on my story and really the transformation that
- 0:41I've experienced through really learning how to reprogram my
- 0:44mind. And then I also want to give you
- 0:466 different tools that I used in order to shift and change my
- 0:51mind in order to create truly a completely different life for
- 0:54myself. So I am really excited to
- 0:57deliver this episode to you and I hope that it creates a huge
- 1:00impact in your life and that you leave with some really amazing
- 1:03tools and some really raising strategies to become the best
- 1:07version of yourself, especially in this new year.
- 1:10So to give you a little bit of background, when I started this
- 1:13journey, it was about a decade, over a decade ago, and I was
- 1:17very, very anxious. I was constantly anxious.
- 1:20I was constantly having anxiety attacks and panic attacks.
- 1:23I was struggling at work because I would get really, really
- 1:27anxious speaking up at work and doing work presentations and I
- 1:30was in sales. And so it was not really going
- 1:33super well. I just felt like I was working
- 1:36against myself, like I was constantly struggling to become
- 1:39the version of my self that I knew I could be.
- 1:42And I felt very unfulfilled. I didn't feel like I was doing
- 1:45work that felt good to me, that felt authentic to me.
- 1:48And I just felt like I was truly living out of alignment.
- 1:52And hence why now I have this business alignment with Jen
- 1:55because it really is about coming into alignment.
- 1:58And I believe that that truly begins with our mind and our
- 2:01soul and our body. So what I did is I basically
- 2:03started going on this journey where I started really studying
- 2:07the mind and the brain and manifestation and the
- 2:10subconscious mind and the nervous system in order to
- 2:13change and shift the quality of my life.
- 2:17And I ended up finding a variety of different tools, a variety of
- 2:21different resources that allowed me to basically heal my anxiety.
- 2:25I would say that 98% of my anxiety is completely gone now.
- 2:30I don't get panic attacks anymore.
- 2:31I don't get anxiety attacks anymore.
- 2:33I truly am a different person. I feel like I moved from one
- 2:37timeline to a completely new, different timeline and it was
- 2:41through my mind. And so now I also have a
- 2:44business that as soon as I started this business, it was
- 2:47very successful. I was able to quit my job pretty
- 2:50much immediately after I started it because it was producing more
- 2:53than a full time income. And that was all because of this
- 2:57inner work that I had done. And I really believe there's two
- 3:01ways to manifest. There's through the 3D, which is
- 3:03the traditional way of pushing and forcing and making things
- 3:07happen and hustling. And then there's through your
- 3:09energetic and your mind and your thought patterns.
- 3:12And I believe that when we bring both of them together, we are
- 3:16infinitely more powerful. And so that is really what I did
- 3:19with my journey and I was able to move into a career that was
- 3:22way, way, way more fulfilling for me.
- 3:25I am happy on a daily basis. I wake up excited for my life
- 3:29versus kind of dreading the day. And it was this complete shift,
- 3:34not only to mention, I forgot about this part is that I was
- 3:37having all these health problems as well.
- 3:39I was having gut issues issues, I was having skin issues, in
- 3:42addition to the anxiety. And as I started working on my
- 3:46mind, all of these things began to resolve.
- 3:50And I had tried so many things on the physical level.
- 3:53I'd work with tons and tons of doctors.
- 3:55I spent over $100,000 just trying to heal my physical body
- 4:00through doctors and supplements and protocols and things like
- 4:03that. And it was not until I started
- 4:05working with my mind and my nervous system that true healing
- 4:09happened for me. And happened very quickly.
- 4:11And so if you are in a place where you're like, you know, I
- 4:15really want to change my life and I want to become that best
- 4:19version of myself and really reach my potential, go after the
- 4:23things that I want to go after. Maybe it's starting your own
- 4:26brand. Maybe it is growing within your
- 4:28company. Maybe it's healing a physical
- 4:31illness that you have. Working with your mind and
- 4:34learning how to reprogram your brain is going to get you 10
- 4:38times farther than leaving that element out.
- 4:41So the reason that our mind is so essential is that what
- 4:45happens as we grow and as we experience life is our body
- 4:51becomes our mind. Our body becomes programmed with
- 4:54certain thought patterns, with certain habits of emotion, and
- 4:58those are what we end up playing out.
- 5:00So for me, I was playing out the pattern of anxiety where I was
- 5:04always anxious. Think it was very easy for me to
- 5:06program and play that pattern in my mind of feeling anxious.
- 5:10And what I had to do is I had to retrain my mind to experience
- 5:14something else. But what I've seen along this
- 5:16path that has been so amazing for me is it's not even just
- 5:20your retraining the old patterns.
- 5:22It's you can train in extremely pleasurable states, like states
- 5:26of bliss where you wake up in the morning and you feel bliss
- 5:29or you feel excitement or it's easy for you to feel incredibly
- 5:33good. I think that the reason most
- 5:36people don't feel super happy or super elated on a daily basis is
- 5:40because they literally have not trained themselves to feel those
- 5:43feelings because it's not necessarily cool.
- 5:45It's kind of vulnerable to feel really happy and to express a
- 5:49high level of happiness. And so when you can train your
- 5:53body and you can train your mind to produce those signals, then
- 5:58you're going to create a completely different life for
- 6:00yourself because the quality of your life is the quality of the
- 6:03emotions that you experience on a daily basis.
- 6:06The more that you're able to experience high vibrational
- 6:10emotions like bliss and joy, the more that your actions are going
- 6:15to be fueled by this really potent energy, right?
- 6:18It's like using a really high quality gasoline for your car
- 6:21versus like some crappy gasoline that's going to gunk up your
- 6:25system. When you are running on the
- 6:27fumes of stress, when you are running on the fumes of
- 6:30frustration or anxiety, then you are depleting your system.
- 6:34It's causing wear and tear on your body.
- 6:36It's causing wear and tear on your mind.
- 6:37When you can program yourself for these higher vibrational
- 6:40emotions, then you're fueling yourself with this very clean
- 6:43fuel that allows you to be more potent, that allows your actions
- 6:47and your energy to be stronger. The way that I kind of think
- 6:50about this process and what I did is I moved from the survival
- 6:55emotions of anxiety and fear and stress that most people,
- 6:59especially in the United States, are living in, into what I refer
- 7:03to as the creator mode. The mode of actually creating
- 7:07and designing your life all the way down to designing the
- 7:10emotions and the thoughts that you want to experience, actually
- 7:14choosing them versus letting the outside world dictate how you're
- 7:17going to feel. When we are in survival mode, we
- 7:21are in this state of stress. Our body is in a state of
- 7:25stress. The amygdala part of our brain,
- 7:28this like signal, this alarm signal in our brain is
- 7:31constantly scanning for danger. It's scanning for rejection.
- 7:34It's very focused on this external world.
- 7:37That's what our mind is focused on and this actually shuts down
- 7:41the creative centers in our brain.
- 7:43So we're less able to find solutions, were less able to be
- 7:46more creative. And so we truly actually,
- 7:48actually are living with like this sense of tunnel vision
- 7:51where we can't see everything that's available to us.
- 7:55And what we might experience within our mind is we might
- 7:58experience things like analysis paralysis where we're constantly
- 8:02thinking, thinking, thinking, and we're not quite doing as
- 8:05much as we want to do. Or we might feel wired and tired
- 8:08where we might be doing a lot, but we're feeling very exhausted
- 8:12as we do it, or we're feeling depleted from the actions that
- 8:15we're taking. It could even be something that
- 8:17you love to do, but you're in this state of stress as you do
- 8:21it. So it's feels depleting.
- 8:23And so when we move into the creator mode of the brain and of
- 8:28the body, what happens is that alarm system, that amygdala in
- 8:32our brain is able to calm down. And so it's not always scanning
- 8:36our environment for stress. What that allows us to do, it
- 8:39allows us to divert more energy toward creation, toward creative
- 8:43projects, toward problem solving, towards seeing the
- 8:46world in a more positive light. It allows us to naturally be
- 8:50more optimistic, to naturally be happier.
- 8:53We're not diverting energy towards survival.
- 8:56We're allowing that energy to flow toward creation and so our
- 9:00brain waves can calm down. It's easier for us to get into
- 9:03states of meditation where we're able to tap into those higher
- 9:07brain wave frequencies and connect to information from
- 9:11infinite intelligence from the universe and get more creative
- 9:14ideas. This is when time begins to
- 9:17collapse because we're no longer doing it ourselves.
- 9:20We're no longer doing it in the 3D.
- 9:22We're tapping into this infinite intelligence that we all have
- 9:25access to. When we move into that state of
- 9:29creation, we are able to create from joy and from love, and
- 9:34that's a much cleaner, more potent fuel than in survival.
- 9:38We're creating from fear and from lack.
- 9:40We're creating from AI. Better get this done or else
- 9:44something bad might happen. Versus when we create from joy,
- 9:48we are so much more potent. We are so much more alive and
- 9:51available. So that's kind of what I think
- 9:54of of the process that I went through.
- 9:56And it's an ever expanding process, right?
- 10:00What I have discovered is there's ever available expanding
- 10:04layers of positive emotions that we can feel.
- 10:08There's no limit to how good we can feel.
- 10:10We can keep upping the ante and upping the bar for ourselves.
- 10:13And I find that really exciting because with each new level that
- 10:16you reach, there's new gifts, there's new resources, there's
- 10:19new solutions and intelligence and creativity available to you.
- 10:24So a big aspect of moving from survival to creation is creating
- 10:29heart coherence. So I've talked about this a
- 10:31little bit before on the podcast.
- 10:33Essentially what heart coherence is, is it's when our heart and
- 10:37our brain are in alignment. The signals that they are
- 10:41sending are coherent and smooth. If you were to measure them,
- 10:44they would be smooth. Versus in survival, they look
- 10:46more like this. They look more chaotic and
- 10:49agitated. What happens is when our heart
- 10:52and our mind are In Sync and they're sending out the same
- 10:55signals, the same positive, smooth, coherent signals, our
- 10:59energetic field is sending out that smooth, coherent signal,
- 11:03and we are much more powerful of manifesters.
- 11:05We're much more able to attract in the things that we desire
- 11:10because we are sending out an aligned signal.
- 11:13There's not a disconnect between what we think and what we feel.
- 11:17There's harmony, and it's a smooth, potent, powerful
- 11:20harmony. And so when we learn to regulate
- 11:23our nervous system, when we learn to clear out the negative
- 11:27thoughts, the negative habits that we may have, and we raise
- 11:32our vibration, we more naturally experience this coherence.
- 11:35And from that place is when we start to experience all of those
- 11:39synchronicities and those beautiful experiences in our
- 11:43life that really feel like magic.
- 11:46It feels like we're living in this world of magic and
- 11:48miracles. And I was talking to one of my
- 11:51friends yesterday at lunch and we were talking about how when
- 11:54you are not tapped into this, it does not exist for you.
- 11:58When you're not tapped into those coherent States and into
- 12:01that harmony within your system and that creative field, it
- 12:06doesn't exist for you. All that exists for you is
- 12:08matter and moving matter. And so as you start to tap into
- 12:12this, it's it's essentially tapping into magic because
- 12:15you're tapping into this world that's not available to you if
- 12:18you're not operating at a certain frequency.
- 12:21And I always get this question from my clients.
- 12:23And it's that, well, you know, what about when I feel stressed?
- 12:27What about feeling anxious? Am I messing everything up?
- 12:29Am I completely undoing everything I've done?
- 12:31And I always say this is not about perfection.
- 12:34It's not about getting to these harmonious frequencies and
- 12:36staying there forever. It's about practicing and
- 12:40cultivating a life where you continuously move into those
- 12:43frequencies so you can keep tapping into the gifts available
- 12:47to you at those frequencies. These are the tools that I used
- 12:51and that I always go back to, to really reprogram my mind, to
- 12:57allow my body and my mind to create this coherent signal.
- 13:01The first thing is that I created a really clear vision
- 13:05for myself. I didn't create a perfect
- 13:08vision. I created a very clear vision
- 13:11for myself. At the time, initially, my
- 13:14vision was much more limited. You know, it was, I don't want
- 13:17to feel anxious. I want to be able to fly to
- 13:20different countries and not feel anxious on the plane.
- 13:23Those were the thoughts I was having at the time.
- 13:24So that was my vision. Now my vision so much more
- 13:27expanded than that, right? But start with where you're at.
- 13:30Your vision can always evolve, but if you don't have a vision,
- 13:34if you don't have clarity on where you want to be, and I
- 13:37don't recommend creating a vision like I did where it's
- 13:40what you don't want, create a vision of what you do want.
- 13:43If you don't have that vision, what happens is your mind
- 13:46doesn't have a destination to go to.
- 13:48It's like getting in the car and being like, I want to drive from
- 13:52California to New York and not putting anything in your GPS.
- 13:55It's going to be a lot harder to get there than if you put
- 13:58something in your GPS and your mind, your body, your energy has
- 14:03a destination. You can always update that
- 14:05destination, right? You can always update your
- 14:08Google Maps. But having an initial
- 14:11destination is going to give you so much clarity.
- 14:14And it's literally going to take your energy from being this
- 14:17diffuse ball to a focused laser beam on this is where I'm going.
- 14:22And when you decide, you know what, this vision feels a little
- 14:25outdated, then update it. That's the whole point of the
- 14:28journey. It's not to have a perfect
- 14:29vision, it's to keep updating it.
- 14:31So that's the first step. And especially like right now,
- 14:34we're at the start of the year. It's a beautiful time to create
- 14:38a vision for yourself of what it is that you want to create this
- 14:42year. I love to create a vision
- 14:45basically in two ways. I love to have a written vision
- 14:48of what I want and describing it, and I write it in the
- 14:51present tense. And then I like to have a visual
- 14:53vision. A visual vision is basically a
- 14:56vision board. A couple episodes back, I talked
- 14:58about a vision board. I think it was episode 26.
- 15:01I talked about vision boarding and how I do vision boarding.
- 15:03You can listen to that one if you'd like to learn more.
- 15:06But those are going to guide your energy.
- 15:08That's all you're doing. You're basically putting
- 15:10railroads or bumpers on a bowling alley to guide your
- 15:14energy. And that's what your vision
- 15:16does. It does not need to be perfect.
- 15:18Then the second thing that I did, so I got really clear, OK,
- 15:21this is where I'm at, this is where I want to be.
- 15:24I put the destination in my GPS. Then what I did is, I call it
- 15:28cleansing the vessel. So all of our souls are a vessel
- 15:33that is able to hold blessings. And as we evolve spiritually,
- 15:36what happens is our vessel is able to expand and we're able to
- 15:40hold more blessings. And when we're in a really
- 15:42contracted state, like I was when I was really anxious, I was
- 15:46contracting my vessel so I wasn't as able to hold the
- 15:49blessings that I wanted. And as I've learned to trust and
- 15:52as I've cleansed my fears and my doubts, I have been able to
- 15:56expand my vessel to receive more.
- 15:59I've tapped into more of that magic and synchronicity in the
- 16:02universe. Really.
- 16:04There's one tool that I go back to over and over and over again
- 16:07for this, And this is rewiring the subconscious mind.
- 16:11I've done many different episodes on this.
- 16:13I have different programs on this.
- 16:16Essentially, what you're doing when you rewire the subconscious
- 16:18mind is your subconscious mind is running the show behind the
- 16:22scenes. The way I think about it is it's
- 16:24like the Wizard of Oz behind the curtain, who's like dictating
- 16:28what's happening in Oz and is running everything behind the
- 16:32scenes. That's what your subconscious
- 16:33mind is doing. It is below the level of your
- 16:36awareness. So often times what it is doing
- 16:39you're not fully aware of. So when we reprogram it,
- 16:42essentially what we're doing is saying, OK, I have these old
- 16:45beliefs and doubts and fears that no longer serve me right.
- 16:49For me at the time, it was all of these fears causing my
- 16:53anxiety of what are people going to think of me?
- 16:55How am I going to make money without being in corporate?
- 16:59It was all of these different fears and doubts.
- 17:01So I had to get clear first. The step was to get aware of
- 17:05what those beliefs and doubts were.
- 17:06Then I use tools to rewrite those beliefs.
- 17:09Now I've done a lot of research and study and I've gotten many
- 17:15certifications on different tools to rewire the subconscious
- 17:18mind. And there's many, right?
- 17:19People talk about subliminals, people talk about hypnosis,
- 17:23there's RRT, there's EFT. What I find is there some tools
- 17:27that work very quickly and some will take a lot longer, and
- 17:31that's a little bit outside of the scope of this episode.
- 17:34And so if you want to learn more about those tools and rewiring
- 17:37the subconscious mind, send me a message on Instagram that just
- 17:40says curious, and I'll send you information and a video about
- 17:43that. But that is an essential step
- 17:45because those old programs will continue to run the show until
- 17:51you clear out what's really going on.
- 17:53So that was the second step that I took and that allowed me to
- 17:57expand my vessel to receive more because I was no longer
- 18:01operating in those emotions of fear.
- 18:03Then the third step that I took, and I really, I continue to take
- 18:07all of these steps. It's not like I did them once
- 18:09and they're done. The third step that I took was
- 18:12teaching myself to live in the emotions of the future that I
- 18:16wanted. So our emotions are habits.
- 18:20Most people experience the same emotions every single day
- 18:23because they've just programmed themselves from childhood to
- 18:26experience those emotions because those are probably the
- 18:29emotions they saw their parents experience or their family
- 18:31members. What we want to do is we want to
- 18:33say, you know what? This is the future vision I have
- 18:35for myself. That vision feels exciting.
- 18:38It feels fun, passionate, it feels full of love.
- 18:41So we want to start practicing those emotions now because those
- 18:45emotions are the magnet that's going to draw those experiences
- 18:48to you. So we want to reprogram the
- 18:51habitual emotions from the old survival emotions to the new
- 18:57emotions of our future. And that's not only going to
- 19:01draw your future to you more quickly, but it's also really
- 19:03fun. It feels really good to practice
- 19:06feeling bliss, to practice feeling in love, to practice
- 19:09feeling abundant. It feels amazing.
- 19:12It's like taking a drug without taking a drug.
- 19:14It feels great. So the way that I do this and
- 19:18you can do this, it's so simple, is just put on a song that you
- 19:22like. I recommend a song without any
- 19:24lyrics, just any song that you really like.
- 19:27You're like, this feels so good to listen to.
- 19:29You can put on by Hernal Beats. It literally doesn't matter.
- 19:32You can get a meditation. The simplest way is just get a
- 19:36song you like and close your eyes and imagine yourself living
- 19:41that future that you want and truly imagine it.
- 19:45Don't imagine just like some vague thing, imagine moments,
- 19:49right? Let's say that you really want
- 19:51to fall in love this year. You want to find your person and
- 19:53you want to fall in love. So imagine yourself cuddling
- 19:57with that person on the couch and give yourself a moment to
- 20:00feel what does it actually feel like to cuddle with that person
- 20:04on the couch to have their arm around me?
- 20:06You will automatically. Dramatically start to feel those
- 20:09emotions because your mind doesn't know the difference
- 20:12between what's real and imagined.
- 20:14So when you let yourself feel those emotions, watch out
- 20:18because things are going to start showing up in your reality
- 20:21that match those emotions. You might start getting asked
- 20:24out more. You might meet your person
- 20:27right. You might have all of these
- 20:29people showing love to you. You're going to have experiences
- 20:33that match your emotional state. Let's say that you want to
- 20:37create way more wealth for yourself this year.
- 20:40What would it actually feel like to have X amount of dollars, a
- 20:45million dollars, $10 million in your bank account right now?
- 20:50How would you move as that person who had that amount of
- 20:54money in your bank account? How would you make decisions
- 20:57right? I love doing this seated and
- 21:00visualization. I also love doing this when I'm
- 21:03walking, right? When I'm walking, I'll ask
- 21:05myself these questions. If I had XY and Z right now, not
- 21:09tomorrow, literally right now is already done.
- 21:12How would I feel? What would I be thinking about?
- 21:15How would I make decisions from this moment?
- 21:18That is how you live as if, if you've ever wondered, you know,
- 21:22I know that we talk about a lot living as if, right?
- 21:24That's how you do it. You feel into that emotion.
- 21:28You get connected to that future and you make decisions from that
- 21:32place, and it's going to happen like that.
- 21:36Then the fourth thing that I did is I started really
- 21:42understanding how I was speaking to myself, because what I
- 21:46noticed is that old version of me on that old timeline, she was
- 21:50really hard on herself. She didn't appreciate herself.
- 21:53She didn't acknowledge herself for the good things that she
- 21:55did. She kind of bullied herself.
- 21:58And so I started really reflecting how am I speaking to
- 22:02myself and how would I speak to myself if I was genuinely my
- 22:06best friend? Are you going to call up your
- 22:08best friend 10 times a day and be like, man, that was stupid,
- 22:11you shouldn't have done that. That was terrible.
- 22:14No, they would literally not be your best friend ever.
- 22:17You are going to call up your best friend and they're going to
- 22:19tell you about your day, their day.
- 22:20And even if it's a rough day, you're going to be like, you
- 22:22know what, that's OK. Things like that happen.
- 22:25What do you think you could do differently next time?
- 22:27Or I'm proud of you for doing this.
- 22:29You still did this, right? So what I created is called the
- 22:31self acknowledgement practice. It's so easy.
- 22:34All you do is you can do it on a 5 minute drive in your car.
- 22:38You just think about the past 48 hours and you say, OK, I'm
- 22:45really proud of myself for not getting mad in traffic.
- 22:49I'm really proud of myself for planning my day the night
- 22:53before. I'm really proud of myself for
- 22:55going to the gym when I didn't want to go to the gym.
- 22:57And you just start to acknowledge yourself.
- 23:00What you are doing is first you are repairing that relationship
- 23:04with yourself. You're showing yourself how you
- 23:06want to be loved so that way other people know how to love
- 23:09you because other people are taking cues from you on how to
- 23:12love you. That practice is incredibly,
- 23:15incredibly, incredibly powerful. And then there's also just
- 23:18noticing how you're speaking to yourself.
- 23:21Are you speaking to yourself in a way that makes you feel good,
- 23:25or you speaking to yourself in a way that makes you not feel so
- 23:27good? That I think we could do an
- 23:29entire episode on. But just first start playing
- 23:33with the self acknowledgement practice.
- 23:34I've had so many clients do this and they all love it.
- 23:38It makes you feel kind of high because you're like, wow, I
- 23:41really needed that self acknowledgement.
- 23:43Often times the things that we want from other people are the
- 23:46things that we're not giving ourselves.
- 23:48And the things that we're not giving ourselves are really hard
- 23:50for other people to give to us because it's like giving to a
- 23:53sieve. It's just going to fall through.
- 23:56So if we want love from another person, but we can't give love
- 23:59to ourselves, that's going to be a very leaky relationship.
- 24:03We're going to constantly be needing more and more and more
- 24:06love from that person. But when we can give ourselves
- 24:09love or give ourselves acknowledgement, we repair that
- 24:12relationship so we can actually hold the love that we do
- 24:15receive. The next thing that I really
- 24:17focused on, and I kind of touched on this earlier, but was
- 24:21living as my future self. So I'd have those conversations
- 24:25where I said, OK, if I was here, if I was running a business that
- 24:30I really loved, how would I make decisions?
- 24:33What would I be doing throughout my day?
- 24:35And this allowed me to take more risks.
- 24:37It allowed me to feel more comfortable taking that next
- 24:41step because oftentimes we'll hold ourselves back from taking
- 24:44those next steps because we say, well, I'll do it when I'll do it
- 24:48tomorrow or I'll do it when I feel more confident.
- 24:50I'll do it when I have the proof, but it's very hard to get
- 24:54the proof if we don't start. So I started making decisions
- 24:58from that future version of myself.
- 25:01So one of the things that I did at that time was I started my
- 25:04supplement business and I made decisions in that business as if
- 25:09I already had a really successful supplement business.
- 25:12So I said OK, my website when I first started the business, it
- 25:15was OK. And I said, well, if I already
- 25:17had a really successful supplement business, then I
- 25:19would invest in a really nice website.
- 25:22Investing in that nice website paid off so much when I went to
- 25:25sell the business because I had this beautiful website, right?
- 25:29Making those decisions as my future self, even when I didn't
- 25:32see the payoff paid off a lot for me.
- 25:36So ask yourself, really ask yourself and do some journaling
- 25:40around this. What decisions would I make
- 25:42differently if I knew I would not fail?
- 25:46If I knew my success was inevitable, how would I make
- 25:51this decision? And then make that decision and
- 25:54follow through with powerful emotions and you will change
- 25:58your life like that. The final thing that I did is
- 26:00what I call flooding. So we are constantly bombarded
- 26:04by a lot of programming from the outside world, right?
- 26:08When you're scrolling social media, when you're on TV, you're
- 26:11on Netflix. Even when you're driving along
- 26:13the freeway and you're seeing billboards or you're listening
- 26:16to the radio, there's all of these inputs coming into us that
- 26:20are just haphazard and random. What you want to do is you
- 26:23basically, as you're trying to change your life, is like, I
- 26:26almost want you to think about cocooning yourself.
- 26:28I want you to think about, OK, I'm going to fill my Cancun only
- 26:32with really positive inputs. I'm going to flood myself with
- 26:37podcasts, with music, with friendships, with books.
- 26:42Everything that's coming into you that you can control, I want
- 26:45it to be in alignment with who you actually want to be.
- 26:49And you will see yourself changing so much more rapidly.
- 26:52So instead of watching true crime before you go to sleep,
- 26:55watch something on Gaia or listen to this podcast or read a
- 26:59book or meditate. Do something that your future
- 27:03self would do. Clear out all of the old stuff
- 27:07and flood yourself with that new information.
- 27:09It's also really helpful, especially if you're just
- 27:12getting into either the spiritual world or the
- 27:14manifestation world or learning this kind of stuff.
- 27:17The more that you can build belief in it by listening to
- 27:21different teachers, teach this kind of material, by listening
- 27:24to different books, the more that you are going to
- 27:28dramatically change your mindset because you're going to remove
- 27:32all those old inputs, which is alone.
- 27:35That's going to do a lot. Then you're going to input all
- 27:38of these delicious things. I hope you have loved this
- 27:41episode. I want to invite you into a new
- 27:45audio series that I created. This is a really great series to
- 27:48flood yourself with new information and belief and to
- 27:51create changes for yourself. It's called Everything I Touch
- 27:54Turns to Gold, and it is a series about creating more money
- 27:59using your subconscious mind, using your nervous system, using
- 28:03your energetic frequency. And it's really about how to
- 28:06create more money by doing less. So the first time that I started
- 28:11implementing these tools, I tripled my income in a month
- 28:14just from the tools that I'm going to teach in this audio
- 28:16series. So if you're interested in that,
- 28:18it's LinkedIn, the show notes. You can also message me on
- 28:21Instagram the word gold at alignment with Jen and I'll send
- 28:24you the link for it and you can get inside.
- 28:27It's awesome. It's audio.
- 28:28You can listen to it as you walk.
- 28:29So I hope you have loved this. Please share this if you found
- 28:34it valuable, please leave a comment.
- 28:35Your comments really helped me to know what kinds of episodes
- 28:39you enjoy so I can make more of those episodes.
- 28:42Tell me what you liked. You can even ask me questions in
- 28:44the comments and I'll answer them in future podcasts.
- 28:47So I hope you'd love this and I'll see you in the next one.