Latest / GenX Adulting Podcast / Episode 51 - GenX Speaks Series: Wes Alford - Hiking for Hope
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- 0:00Welcome to GenX Adulting and today we have Wes from Hiking with Hope with us.
- 0:06Welcome Wes.
- 0:08We're happy to have you here.
- 0:10Our first question is always, what year were you born?
- 0:131967.
- 0:16Okay, so you are Gen X.
- 0:20Now, that 67 wasn't the summer of love, right?
- 0:23Was that 69 was the summer of love?
- 0:25can't remember.
- 0:2769, yeah.
- 0:28But 67 was the beginning of the whole hippie movement and all that.
- 0:34So you were born during the beginning of all that, the civil rights movement and all the stuff that was going on.
- 0:40yeah, I remember my older siblings out doing their protesting and you know, the bell bottom jeans and the yeah, the whole 60s thing and the 70s vibe and.
- 0:52yeah, yeah, now where were you born?
- 0:54I was born in Springfield, Oregon.
- 0:58Yeah.
- 1:00Yeah.
- 1:00And were your parents from that area?
- 1:02Like, did your family, I know for me, my great grandmother's dad brought them all to Oregon.
- 1:09Did your family go back pretty far?
- 1:11All originally from Oregon, believe it or not.
- 1:15My mom went to school at Lowell High School in Lowell, Oregon.
- 1:21My dad went to school in, I think it was Springfield.
- 1:27Yeah, so all my ancestry go back to really grassroots of being in Oregon kind of.
- 1:34That's awesome.
- 1:35Do you know how they met?
- 1:37don't actually.
- 1:39That's one thing I don't know.
- 1:42They got married in Eugene.
- 1:45Right when my dad was getting ready to take off to go into the military.
- 1:50And then I've got seven siblings.
- 1:56my step, he's my stepdad who raised me from the time I was two.
- 2:01Him and my mom had a daughter together.
- 2:03He's my half sister.
- 2:06And now they're both passed away.
- 2:08So it's just me and a couple of siblings still left out lingering around and Okay, so there's seven.
- 2:17So when they got married, did – there – okay, so it was blended.
- 2:22okay.
- 2:24Blended.
- 2:25Okay, so were you the only one that was there like from them?
- 2:29No, my sister was.
- 2:31Okay so, oh, so did your mom bring you?
- 2:36Me and my other two siblings came in with him, with my stepdad and his three kids.
- 2:43And then they had my sister Sandy after they got married and we were all together and all that.
- 2:49Okay, how did the blending go?
- 2:52Was it a pretty smooth process?
- 2:54It was, now that I look back on it because Dad brought in three boys and then there was me and Brat so there was five boys, two girls.
- 3:02Mmm.
- 3:04That's a rowdy house.
- 3:06we lived out on 10 acres out in the middle of nowhere in Marcola Oregon.
- 3:09So it was all dirt bikes and, you know, getting dirty and raising cattle and horses and livestock.
- 3:17So what did he do?
- 3:19He actually was a millwright for Weyerhaeuser for like almost 40 years.
- 3:24wow.
- 3:24A mill, right?
- 3:26What is that?
- 3:28Basically, it's uh in a roundabout way, it's like a mechanic for a mill.
- 3:33So they're running around fixing things, making sure everything's operating correctly.
- 3:37ah And then closer to the end of his career, he ended up uh as one of the operational guys for Weyerhaeuser Okay, so he worked for Weyerhaeuser pretty much his whole career.
- 3:50whole career from 18 on.
- 3:52And was your mom a stay-at-home mom?
- 3:55Without that many kids, I would think so.
- 3:58yeah, she, you know, back then it was easier for, for moms to stay home, uh, and raise six, seven kids, you know, on a one income household.
- 4:07Uh, and then as we started getting older and times started changing, we started getting into the late seventies, early eighties, moms started going back to work and she would do part-time work and things like that.
- 4:21Were most of you kind of in school at that point when she went back?
- 4:26Okay.
- 4:27So you said that you guys had 10 acres?
- 4:30Yeah.
- 4:32So what was, were you farming or was it livestock?
- 4:37how did you use all that land?
- 4:40Primarily for livestock.
- 4:42We came in cleared a lot of it.
- 4:44I had a lot of old oak and a lot of dug for a lot of old timber.
- 4:50So we cut that down.
- 4:52We use some of that.
- 4:53built a I want to say it's a 4000 square foot home on the property using some of the timber off of the property.
- 5:01Yeah.
- 5:01And then what?
- 5:03I'm sorry.
- 5:04Did you help?
- 5:04Did you guys help build the home?
- 5:07yeah, 12 years old we were lugging lumber and yeah, in fact I cut two fingers in my left hand and my thumb I almost cut off at 13 using a chop saw, you know.
- 5:19Wow, that is really cool.
- 5:22Now with the livestock, did you guys sell it or?
- 5:26A lot of it was, uh yeah, we'd raise and sell like small livestock, goats, pigs, know, things like that, rabbits.
- 5:33As I got older and I started spending more time with what I call my other family or other set of parents, not related, but spend a lot of time with them.
- 5:43ah We ended up, I ended up living with them for the last couple of years of high school because they ran a livestock auction.
- 5:52Mmm.
- 5:53in the back pushing the cattle, horses, uh cattle, pigs, anything you can imagine, into the cell ring so that they could auction it off.
- 6:04And then we also uh trained horses.
- 6:08So I spent a lot of my younger childhood up through my 20s training horses and livestock and running livestock through the cell barn and things like that.
- 6:19oh transporting livestock for people from one side of the mountain to the other, hauling hay all over the dang state, cussing the whole way, and wishing you could do something else, and it sucked ass.
- 6:37So, was there ever a time where you got attached to an animal that you had to sell?
- 6:43Not really, I don't think so because in that business you get so unattached, it's an animal, you know what I mean?
- 6:48You always have your favorites, but ah no, not really.
- 6:52I've always been an outdoors type of person.
- 6:54ah So they kind of go hand in hand.
- 6:59We did a lot of horseback riding when I was a kid.
- 7:01We'd go up into the Sisters Wilderness area for two or three weeks at a time on horseback.
- 7:06ah and things like that.
- 7:10you you pick your favorite horse, so to speak, and you'd also jump on whatever was available to you.
- 7:17Did you guys have a lot of dogs?
- 7:19Yeah, we always had two, three, four dogs running around, a lot of healers.
- 7:25Yeah, I was going to say, did you have dogs like a healer that would help you with the livestock?
- 7:30working dog?
- 7:30Yeah.
- 7:31In fact, my brothers and stuff still run.
- 7:36They're part of the Oregon and Lane County Livestock Association and they run thousands ahead of cattle out of Cottage Grove.
- 7:47It's a big, it's a pretty big deal.
- 7:50uh They run and ship beef all over the country and Idaho.
- 7:56Oregon, California.
- 7:58a huge agricultural area, right?
- 8:01Both livestock and hay.
- 8:03I know there's seed companies there, territorial seeds, think in Eugene, I think, right?
- 8:10Or some junction city maybe.
- 8:11the cannabis industry up here is just like crazy.
- 8:16Well, yeah, I was reading the thing, an article a couple months ago, and they're saying that Oregon throws away and burns more marijuana than any other state in the country because of the overstock of, you know, of product.
- 8:33Yeah, I was just like, wow, I I had no idea, you know.
- 8:36Wow, that's a trip.
- 8:38Are you still close with all your siblings?
- 8:41Yeah, yeah.
- 8:43Are they all in Oregon?
- 8:44Yep, everybody's in Oregon, kind of spread out a little bit, you know, between Portland and Eugene and.
- 8:51That's very cool though.
- 8:52That's awesome.
- 8:53So during elementary school and junior high, I don't know if you called it junior high or middle school.
- 9:01Okay.
- 9:02Were you involved, was it mainly the stuff you were doing on your property or were you involved in any extracurriculars like sports or any clubs or anything or was it mainly that outdoorsy stuff?
- 9:14oh If I wasn't playing football or basketball during the seasons, was yeah working at home.
- 9:21Yeah.
- 9:22like pretty much would you have to get up early and help at home before you're leaving for school?
- 9:28yeah, you get up in the morning, feed, break ice, know, so livestock have water, that kind of stuff.
- 9:34So you usually get up about 4.35 o'clock, oh same time as my dad.
- 9:40If he wasn't working at Weyerhaeuser he was working out in the woods, falling timber.
- 9:45So he'd get up at 3.34 o'clock in the morning.
- 9:49We'd get up, take care of the livestock, run in the house, eat breakfast, and out the door we'd go.
- 9:55Wow, so what time were you going to bed?
- 9:58Was it an early to bed household?
- 10:00gosh, no, not with all the drama.
- 10:04And then as time went on, we ended up opening up a feed store up in Creswell, running a feed store and livestock store there.
- 10:13So yeah, there was never downtime, so to speak.
- 10:17Because even with the feed store, we were hauling, you know, five and 10 tons of hay from Eastern Oregon and back over to sell through the store.
- 10:26So if you weren't hauling hay and you were doing vaccinations for somebody, you were running out to their ranch to help out, you're always busy.
- 10:36So you were just grinding right from the start.
- 10:39And a feed store is really a central part of the community too, right?
- 10:42oh there's less than 3,000 people there.
- 10:46ah So yeah, it was actually connected to the post office.
- 10:51So people would come to the post office, hit the feed store, know, and the Dairy Queen across the street.
- 10:59Now did your sisters help too or was it mainly the guys?
- 11:01no, they helped too, yeah.
- 11:03They're all ropers and know, they barrel race and...
- 11:07I was the black sheep.
- 11:09I was the one that didn't stay in the farming industry.
- 11:14kind of sprawled my wings out when I went in the military.
- 11:18And then I remember coming back, was, I don't know, early 23, 24.
- 11:25No direction, was doing construction work, you know, for local construction guys.
- 11:31Winter came, there was no work.
- 11:33I answered to add in the local paper, no experience.
- 11:38Come and work in a nice cozy office.
- 11:41what's this about?
- 11:42You know, I'd never done office work.
- 11:44So I went down, ah did my interview, and the lady was like, yeah, we're, are what you call a collection agency.
- 11:56And I'm like, okay, still didn't really know what it was, you know, I'm clueless.
- 12:01So she leaves for about five, 10 minutes and then comes back in the office in the room.
- 12:07and hands me $5,000 in medical bills.
- 12:09Oh man.
- 12:10says, yeah, we want to go ahead and give you an offer.
- 12:13You can come to work for us.
- 12:15And we will take a percentage out of each of your check to pay back the debt you owe.
- 12:20So wait, so they hired you and basically we're saying we'll front you money and then as you collect that will be No, I owed $5,000 in medical bills that they were going to collect from me.
- 12:35from you.
- 12:36Oh.
- 12:36Personally.
- 12:37Right.
- 12:37And so they said, well, you owe us $5,000 for these medical bills.
- 12:42We'll hire you, train you how to be a bill collector, but we're going to take a portion of your paycheck until this is paid back.
- 12:50How did they know that you owed?
- 12:52No, no, they settled him up with somebody else's medical bills, but they said, here's, you owe us five grand.
- 13:01I assume the medical bills should have exceeded 5k, right?
- 13:05Maybe they were 10k.
- 13:06They wanted five.
- 13:07So then you could, whatever you made over five was yours to keep, but you had to pay them 5k.
- 13:14Well, yeah, was still my personal debt.
- 13:17Did I?
- 13:18Right.
- 13:18It was my personal debt.
- 13:21Well, because the hospital assigned that debt to the collection agency to collect, I happened to answer and add.
- 13:29show up in their office.
- 13:31So obviously what they do is anybody that shows up for an interview, they would run them through their system and they went, hey, tag.
- 13:38Hey, we got someone that owes us money.
- 13:40Let's offer them a time.
- 13:41No.
- 13:42like, that sounds like entrapment.
- 13:44uh though is now that I look back at that whole situation, that's where my uh career in finance began.
- 13:55If it wasn't for that...
- 13:56situation, God putting me in that place at that particular time.
- 14:00ah I went from that to owning mortgage companies, building multi-million dollar companies for investors, managing $50 million accounts receivables.
- 14:12ah I would have never learned all this stuff if I wouldn't have walked into that collection agency that day clueless, you know.
- 14:21uh work for them?
- 14:25like four five years or something and then I ended up staying I worked in finance for 35 So all my siblings who are still running cattle, you know punching cattle and doing that stuff, you know, they're all doing good They they've made it work ah But I see the difference in.
- 14:46Physical movement abilities, you know, I'm 58 Great shape really don't have any medical conditions.
- 14:55I'm a type 2 diabetic, but I control that with diet and exercise All my siblings are overweight a Lot of medical issues.
- 15:03They're not out exercising.
- 15:05They're sitting behind a desk all day my older brother Scott who uh Pretty much runs the family business in a sense.
- 15:16He's behind the desk all day.
- 15:17He's not out punching the cattle.
- 15:18He's got people doing that for him and you know.
- 15:23So yeah, it was definitely.
- 15:26And then I went to Arizona and got lost for.
- 15:30I don't know.
- 15:31I kind of got estranged from the family because I left the state, went to Arizona.
- 15:36Got involved in this banking and accounting thing.
- 15:40And got so enthralled with it, next thing I knew, 15 years had passed by and it seemed like it was a week.
- 15:48You know what I mean?
- 15:49Yeah, yeah, life definitely, the older you get feels like that, that's for sure.
- 15:55When you were, because you mentioned you went into the military when you got into high school, did you know you were going to go into the military or was college ever discussed in your family as an option?
- 16:07I had looked at college a little bit, but I actually had gotten into some trouble when I was 17.
- 16:17Nothing major, you know, I was running the streets, smoking dope, not breaking any major laws or anything, got kept on getting hauled into court for truancy and things like that.
- 16:28So the judge gave me an ultimatum.
- 16:30Well, you can go to six months in juvie where you can enlist in the military.
- 16:35Mmm.
- 16:37My mom said, we're going to the recruiter's office as soon as we leave here, so.
- 16:41Now, you said you lived with another family during the last couple of years of high school.
- 16:46Were you living with that family when all this was going on?
- 16:51Okay.
- 16:52But your mom came.
- 16:54Yeah, my mom, my birth mother had passed away in 20...
- 16:5816, something like that.
- 17:00But when I was coming through the last couple of years of high school and all that, I moved to Creswell and lived with a police officer and his wife for a year.
- 17:13That was part of the keeping me out of juvie thing and keeping me from getting locked up.
- 17:18So the court said, well, you're going to live with this cop for a year.
- 17:22And if you can get through their program.
- 17:26then great, you know, you'll be fine.
- 17:28Well, I went through the program.
- 17:30It was good experience, no issues there.
- 17:34And then then it was like, what are we going to do with this, you know, kids, 16, 15, 16 years old.
- 17:40So they put me they put an ad in the local paper like like a like you would a pet.
- 17:48And they put it in a local small podunk town paper.
- 17:51And.
- 17:52This couple, Tom and Mary Ann Potter, answered the ad.
- 17:57And within a week, I was moving in with them.
- 18:00Now, is that the cop?
- 18:01No, this was before or after the cop.
- 18:05So I lived with the cop first and then.
- 18:07and was that court ordered living with the cop?
- 18:10Was he a friend of the family or was he a total stranger?
- 18:13No, but they all became best friends.
- 18:15Okay, so is this somebody was that something he volunteered to do like with the court system as he would take in kids who like need a little more guidance?
- 18:24I was the first kid to go into this program with the state.
- 18:28So my birth mother at this time was raging alcoholic.
- 18:32You know, she was lost and uh all the siblings kind of had moved out and everybody was off doing their thing.
- 18:40And oh so the state put me in.
- 18:46It was a new program that they were trying out.
- 18:49And the only way you could get into this program through the state, kind like a foster care type of system, is you have to be incarcerated in what they call McLaren.
- 19:03This was years ago.
- 19:06You've heard of McLaren, right?
- 19:08It was like, I wouldn't say a full on prison, but a prison type of, for juvies, juvenile, up to 21, I think.
- 19:19if I remember correctly.
- 19:21So they were like, okay, we're gonna put you in prison.
- 19:25That's how they put it to me.
- 19:27But you're gonna be there for two weeks.
- 19:29You have to be there for two weeks to get into this program.
- 19:32So I was their test dummy.
- 19:34First kid to ever get into this program through Looking God.
- 19:37how old were you then when you went into McLaren?
- 19:4013, 14.
- 19:43Yeah.
- 19:47high, freshman year in high school.
- 19:51Yeah.
- 19:52So, basically what happened was I got caught up in the system, the juvenile system.
- 19:59And mom just kind of washed her hands.
- 20:02They were really bad alcoholics.
- 20:04ended up, dad left the bar or left the Weyerhaeuser or they opened up a bar.
- 20:10That became the life, you ah After all the kids were, almost all the kids were in adulthood at this point, except for me and my sister.
- 20:20I was going to say, were you second to youngest?
- 20:23Okay.
- 20:23And then how much spacing is there between you and your youngest sister?
- 20:28I think we're four years apart.
- 20:31Yeah.
- 20:32Yep, yep.
- 20:33everyone else is left and mom and dad are moving on with their lives starting this now they're in the bar scene and you guys are kind of very Gen X.
- 20:42You're very out there surviving on your own.
- 20:44No one's watching.
- 20:45yeah, we didn't have people at home when we came home from school, you And we lived out in the middle of nowhere.
- 20:51We lived out, our closest neighbor was probably three miles away.
- 20:58Yes, it's not like you had neighbors that if so you're coming home from school as many Gen Xers did totally on your own, fending for yourself, figuring out everything.
- 21:08But you didn't even have neighbors around you that if there was something you needed, they're far away.
- 21:13So you and your sister were very much on your own.
- 21:17Oh yeah, I I spent a lot of time out in the woods because we lived up on near a Weyerhaeuser or uh property.
- 21:27BLM land and stuff so you could just go out there and do whatever I would go out.
- 21:32At 1213 years old, I would go out into BLM land as far as I could go.
- 21:38And I'd find dead trees and I would build cabins and forts.
- 21:44Out out in the woods and then.
- 21:47I remember one time I found an old burn barrel that my dad let me have and I drug it out into the woods to put in my little cabin that I made, you know.
- 21:57And me and my cousin would sit there and camp out and stay in the cabin.
- 22:01We thought we were just, you know, we thought we were finding new territory.
- 22:06Well, that's how it feels.
- 22:08I I remember and I'm from Beaverton, so I'm a suburbia kid.
- 22:11But I remember we lived in Aloha for a while before anyone lived out there.
- 22:16So it was just farmland and you could go even out there.
- 22:20And, of course, I spent a ton of time in the woods and I'm in Portland and it felt wildernessy there.
- 22:26Like I remember being a little kid walking around the woods thinking I'm like um Grizzly Adams or a little house in the prairie.
- 22:33Like that was the vibe, right?
- 22:35And even connected to back then.
- 22:37So I was like, I am Grizzly Adams, you know.
- 22:42100%.
- 22:42Okay, so, but so around 13, 14, you know, they present you with this option or your parents, I guess, are presented with this option where you go into the system of McLaren for two weeks, and then you go and live with this cop and his wife for a year.
- 22:59And it's like a program.
- 23:01that, so I was living at a boy's home in Eugene called Stepping Stone for troubled male teens.
- 23:12And I'd never broke laws, never broke into, you know, I wasn't like a thieving kid or a drug addicted kid.
- 23:20I was just that kid that would always get picked up because I was out running the streets at midnight one o'clock, you know.
- 23:27Never.
- 23:27curfew.
- 23:28Yeah, yeah, it's really what most 99 % of it came down to.
- 23:35I got caught with pot once on the gut, Eugene, you know, just now they don't.
- 23:42Yeah, I'm like, what the hell?
- 23:44the hell?
- 23:45Right.
- 23:47So.
- 23:48were you missing school too?
- 23:50Was that part of it?
- 23:51No, I never really had that big of a problem with school.
- 23:55So it really just you're out past curfew and they're picking you up for that.
- 23:58Yeah, and run, you know, run.
- 24:00And I always would hook up with the wrong kids, though, the kids that would go that extra, you know, extreme.
- 24:08And I knew, especially in the town that we lived in in Creswell, less than 3000 people, everybody knew everybody.
- 24:16So I was smart enough to at least, you know, not get into any serious trouble.
- 24:22Do we go drinking, drinking?
- 24:24What was it?
- 24:25What were those things called?
- 24:27You used to get them in like two liter bottles of...
- 24:30Party balls?
- 24:31it's the kegs.
- 24:34I know exactly what you're talking about.
- 24:36Coolers first came out, could get them in two liters, remember that?
- 24:41And Seagram, or not Seagram, but yeah, I had a buddy who worked at Wayne's Market up in Creswell, a small local grocery store, and we'd go back there in the Skylark when he would close.
- 24:58Yeah, Buick Skylark, and he would hand us the bottle, the two liters, you know.
- 25:04there's gosh around the store and we'd pick them up and we'd all head down to the river.
- 25:10There's another drink.
- 25:11It's like something 40.
- 25:14what was that other alcohol?
- 25:16the eight.
- 25:1740 or Mad Dog 2020?
- 25:20Gut rot.
- 25:22Old English.
- 25:23That was yeah, malt liquor, the beer.
- 25:26Yep.
- 25:27I've never seen those till I got to Oregon and then it was like I'm picking up a 40.
- 25:31Yeah.
- 25:32Slamming those and yeah, it's on.
- 25:35Did you guys drink Henry Weinhard's I remember introducing Brian when Brian got to Oregon and we were all like, you know, Oregonians are proud of Henry Weinhard's at that time, especially because that was before the whole micro-brews.
- 25:48Boom.
- 25:49So that was the only beer from Oregon.
- 25:51And we're like, you have to use from Jersey.
- 25:53And everyone's like, you have to drink Henry Weinhard's making it sound like it's the best beer you've ever had in your entire life.
- 25:57And I think you said you drank it.
- 25:59You're like, I mean, it's OK.
- 26:02Oregonians, you love your uh products.
- 26:04We do.
- 26:05Yeah, we love our.
- 26:06ah I'm not a big beer drinker.
- 26:12If I drink domestic, I get a headache by the second beer.
- 26:16So I've always stuck with what I knew, which is Blue Moon.
- 26:21I love Blue Moon, unfiltered beers.
- 26:25Well, I tried micro beers on the Pacific Crest Trail in 2018 for the first time.
- 26:32Yeah.
- 26:33Some of them were nasty.
- 26:34I was like, oh, tastes like piss, you know?
- 26:38And then my oldest son turned me on to angry orchards.
- 26:43And my gosh, I was slamming those things down like water, man.
- 26:48They don't taste like beer, you know?
- 26:55Yeah.
- 26:55a cider yeah no it's good so so you went into the boys home what was that was that 13?
- 27:03like 13, 14 years old.
- 27:0514, because I did my sophomore year.
- 27:08the first half.
- 27:10So I finished my sophomore year at the boys.
- 27:13Okay, so that's even going into 15.
- 27:15It almost, it sounds more like they were taking you from your parents to put you somewhere stable because your parents weren't totally watching you.
- 27:26Right, more about them in some ways than you.
- 27:29Well, think, yeah, yeah, well, because I remember that when I went to the boys home, my mom had drove me to the boys home, dropped me off there and drove off and I didn't see her again for few years.
- 27:44Wow.
- 27:45Did you know that that was going to happen?
- 27:48That you weren't going to see her for that long after she dropped you off?
- 27:51at that point our relationship was really strained and my mom and my biological dad were never, he was never around.
- 28:01He left when I was like a year and a half old or something.
- 28:04So then once all my siblings had moved out, they really focused their attention on my sister, their child that they had together.
- 28:13And I was just kind of.
- 28:15flame, you know, flaring out there.
- 28:17So I would act out for the attention, I think, type thing.
- 28:22And now when I look back on it, it's like, you know, is what it is.
- 28:27Yeah, but so.
- 28:29that I went through brought me to where I am today, which I think made me a stronger person than I would have been.
- 28:34Of course, of course.
- 28:36you did, so Boyce Home, McLaren, living with the cop, and then did you come home after living with the cop and live at home at all or did you go straight from living with the cop to enlisting in the military?
- 28:50No, I went from living with the cop to living with Tom and Mary Ann Potter.
- 28:57The family.
- 28:58Okay, the family.
- 28:59Okay, the new.
- 29:01article about it in the...
- 29:06What was that?
- 29:08What was that book called?
- 29:10The Reader's Digest.
- 29:12They did a big write-up about that whole story in the Reader's Digest.
- 29:16It's kind of funny.
- 29:17Featuring you, it was Reader's Digest and you were like the subject or the program was.
- 29:22the my dad and the program was and that I was mentioned in it they had you know how I was the first kid to go into this program and Interesting.
- 29:31What was the program called?
- 29:33I don't remember exactly what it was called, but was through uh looking glass, through the staining.
- 29:40okay.
- 29:41So they run an ad.
- 29:43I assume is it the court system ran an ad or the cop and his wife ran an ad?
- 29:47Do you know?
- 29:47wife because they so what happened with the cops wife.
- 29:52It was a weird deal so the state decided to do this program right?
- 29:56Mm-hmm.
- 29:57The cop, his name's Bob, his wife was Carla.
- 30:01Carla was a stay at home mom raising her kids.
- 30:04Well, they got somehow or another, they seen the ad about me, or not the ad, they were in tune with the state somehow.
- 30:18And they heard about this program where Carla decided to get involved.
- 30:23And then I became that first kid to get involved with living with a cop breed.
- 30:29Okay, all right.
- 30:31but what happened was through that year, Carla ended up becoming the director of this program for Looking Glass in the state of Oregon.
- 30:40She went from a housewife raising their own family to the director of of Looking Glass.
- 30:49Pretty impressive.
- 30:51Yeah.
- 30:52Unfortunately she passed away, but.
- 30:54oh Yeah, so...
- 30:57I stayed with them for a year.
- 30:59Once I graduated that program, that's when I went over to Tom and Mary Ann's and stayed with them until I graduated and then went into the military.
- 31:14And then after that, I mean, up until today, that's who I call mom and dad.
- 31:20He passed away, mom's still alive.
- 31:23Dad passed away three years ago from a massive heart attack.
- 31:27wow.
- 31:28um And yeah, it's just kind of, you know, so like my half siblings from my bio mom and stepdad, um we stay in touch a little bit through Facebook and stuff like that, but we're not real close.
- 31:45We're not tight knit.
- 31:46um And I'm pretty close with the kids from Tom and Mary Ann, what I call my siblings.
- 31:56Okay.
- 31:57but you know what I mean, we all look at each other like siblings.
- 32:02And they ended up, after I graduated high school and went in the military, they ended up fostering over 20 kids after me.
- 32:15Were you the first one then for them?
- 32:18That's amazing.
- 32:20That is amazing.
- 32:21And so what they did, and that's where Reader's Digest came into play, somehow they caught wind about this, was a...
- 32:29Tom and Mary Ann's purpose was to help troubled teens by involving them on the ranch and in the family business.
- 32:41So you get these kids...
- 32:44We had some kid, one kid that was nine years old, everybody called him Marcus Dorcas, he was a little goofy kid, but...
- 32:51He liked the name, you know, so he was nine years old when they got him, but they bring these troubled teens into the ranch and they, everybody started out the same.
- 33:03You're going to muck out and clean out 14 stalls.
- 33:07You're going to put the bedding in.
- 33:08If it takes you four days to do it, it's going to take you four days to do it.
- 33:13And I'll tell you, I did it.
- 33:15I seen other kids do it.
- 33:17You know, you sit on your butt.
- 33:19wouldn't do the work that you're supposed to do.
- 33:20Then you think, it's time to go in.
- 33:24I'm getting hungry.
- 33:26no, you didn't get to come in and eat.
- 33:28We'll bring you some food.
- 33:30But you're not coming in until these chores are done.
- 33:35Structure, yeah, exactly.
- 33:37And discipline, and that's what a lot of these young kids need.
- 33:41They just need structure, discipline.
- 33:45And they truly showed compassion to these.
- 33:49You know what mean?
- 33:50They ended up adopting some of Wow.
- 33:54okay, so your biological mom and stepdad had property, but then also Tom and Marianne had property too.
- 34:05So, 30 acres, wow.
- 34:08And was theirs mainly horses or was it all livestock?
- 34:11and beef.
- 34:14Okay, so you had vast experience of working later.
- 34:19with the potters, cause I ended up 16, I think it was, moving in with them until I graduated and went into the military and stuff.
- 34:29But a lot of people don't realize at that time, that period, especially for boys and men, about 15 and 16 up through your early 20s, you're still full of piss and vinegar and testosterone.
- 34:43To me, that's the important...
- 34:45ah That's the most important time of a kid's life, or for a boy anyway, is during those early young man years where you're trying to figure out what am I supposed to do, where am I supposed to be, you know.
- 35:00And then you throw a troubled teen and what they deal with on top of that, it can just really get pretty crazy.
- 35:07Yeah.
- 35:09anyways.
- 35:10A normal teenager, even in the most perfect household, is still volatile, still challenging, still all the normal teenage things, early 20s.
- 35:20So like you're saying, then throw a kid who's had issues or is troubled and that's just like double, triple what you're dealing with there.
- 35:29it's amazing.
- 35:31uh like for me, can't, I could not see myself not raising my kids.
- 35:37I just, couldn't, you know what I mean?
- 35:39The mom was, she's all right, she still lives in Arizona.
- 35:42But I ended up taking custody of all the kids and moving to Oregon once I got full custody with final decision making.
- 35:51And now that I've gone through that 10 years down the road, I stayed single, didn't date, didn't do anything, you know, just focused on.
- 35:59work and kids, work and kids.
- 36:03two of them are diabetic, type one diabetics.
- 36:06So they're insulin dependent.
- 36:07ah So a lot of people say, why didn't you date?
- 36:13It wasn't about me at that point.
- 36:16This was all about them.
- 36:18ah When I came back, so in 2018, I hiked the Pacific Crest Trail for Junior Diabetes Research Foundation.
- 36:27Mm-hmm.
- 36:27And it was a six month hike.
- 36:29came back from that hike.
- 36:31All the kids were living with mom and I came back just to a complete shit show.
- 36:36Kids busting out the windows at three in the morning and running away at 11 o'clock or I mean 10 and 11 years old.
- 36:48Smoking dope, running with the wrong crowd.
- 36:51I mean just crazy craziness.
- 36:54Mom was...
- 36:57Let's put it this way from the stories I was told in the pictures that I seen.
- 37:01She had beer on each tray in the fridge for different guys that would come over, you so she'd have their beer separated.
- 37:10And that went on the whole time I was on trail and I didn't know about it.
- 37:17And then, you know, she took the house phone and hid it, put it in the storage pup so they couldn't have a phone when they came home from school while she was at work.
- 37:25because she didn't want them calling me and you know, all that.
- 37:31So I came back from the hike in 2018 and three days later after being in the wilderness for six months, I get slapped with this crazy shit show going on.
- 37:42My oldest son, Joey, who is now ward of the court.
- 37:48Tyler, his younger brother, they're 13 months apart.
- 37:51They're both now becoming ward of the court.
- 37:54Tyler's still with mom, but Joey's now in a boy's home.
- 37:57Wow.
- 37:57So I just went into survival mode.
- 38:01That's the only thing I can really kind of relate it to is I just went into survival mode.
- 38:06My first thought was I got to keep them from getting locked up.
- 38:11I know, especially the boys, Joey's 21 and Tyler's 20 now, but at that age, they were 12, 13.
- 38:21Getting thrown into a boys detention center would have been the worst thing for them because what do they do?
- 38:26They build.
- 38:27camaraderie in those places, right?
- 38:30It doesn't become a, for most kids, punishment.
- 38:35It becomes a social, you know, place.
- 38:39Hey, we'll meet up when we get out and I'll look you up when I get out.
- 38:43And they go out and they cause more problems.
- 38:46So my goal was to really prevent Joey from getting locked up and in that situation.
- 38:52Well, at this point, he would already got hit from uh stealing from Target, stupid toy stuff, you know.
- 38:59So I just went in, I went into that mode and so I had to.
- 39:06I was three days back from trail.
- 39:08I had to get a place, get it furnished, fully operational, have the kids registered in school before the state would even let them come and stay with me.
- 39:21Cause the state was like, where did you go for six months?
- 39:25Well, I had to explain this, you know, my kids are diabetic.
- 39:28I did this hike for, for JDRF and, and all this stuff.
- 39:34So then the state for six months, I had someone from the state of Arizona in my house five days a week, every day.
- 39:45Wow.
- 39:45Interviewing kids, interviewing me, family, I don't know what they would call it, support people coming in.
- 39:52We'd have to do family therapy and all that stuff.
- 39:55And I'll tell you guys, I mean, the stories would blow your frickin mind, man.
- 40:00It's just crazy shit.
- 40:01So here I am, I'm from the trail, single dad.
- 40:05I'm trying to save the two boys right now.
- 40:08My two daughters are with mom still.
- 40:11I had to sleep in the, uh, leaned up against my front door cause my boys would sneak out at night out of the apartment, running the streets.
- 40:21I put, uh, sticks in the windows, you know, sleeping against the door so they couldn't get out all this crazy shit.
- 40:31Couple of times I found out Joey had snuck out before I was doing that, right?
- 40:36Meeting up with gangs out on the streets of Phoenix dropping.
- 40:40When were they taking, Xanax, often Xanax and stuff and getting real high and goofy.
- 40:47And I remember one morning I wake up at seven in the morning, I've got family counselors and stuff coming to the house in one hour.
- 40:57Joey's not in the house.
- 40:59I'm like, where the hell's he at?
- 41:02So I'm running all over the apartment complex looking for him.
- 41:05Can't find him freaking out.
- 41:07These guys, you know, now I've got probation officers, juvenile probation officers getting ready to come to the house.
- 41:14You know, I find Joey out in the parking lot of the apartment complex and he's just out of it, completely out of it, clueless.
- 41:24I could tell he was on something, right?
- 41:26So I'm like, get your ass.
- 41:28house, get your ass and go lay down, I'll figure this shit out, you know.
- 41:3220, 30 minutes later, there's a knock on the door, probation, the state, three people.
- 41:39Oh, we're here to do our weekly meeting.
- 41:42And keep in mind, I've got these every day, Monday through Friday for six months, different agencies, different people, right?
- 41:53So they're like, well, we need Joey out here too.
- 41:55We need the boys out here in the living room.
- 41:58And I'm kind of in panic mode going, the kid can't even hardly stand, right?
- 42:04So I get him in the living room, he's laying in the couch and I don't know why, but I bullshit my way through it.
- 42:11And I'm like, yeah, he's been on, he's been taking, what was it?
- 42:17uh What is that stuff called?
- 42:19That cough syrup that they drink?
- 42:21Nyquil.
- 42:22I said, yeah, he's been on Nyquil for the last two days.
- 42:25He's really sick.
- 42:26And they bought it.
- 42:27And he's like, he's sitting on the couch like this is licking the couch.
- 42:32my god.
- 42:33Oh my god.
- 42:34and not even staying like coherent, right?
- 42:39And they're like, well, we'll have him go back into his room and go back to sleep.
- 42:42Hopefully he gets feeling better.
- 42:45I'm like, these people are fucking stupid.
- 42:48I would have picked that shit out, you know, three minutes in the house.
- 42:52But so that I give that a lot to, you know, my Lord Jesus Christ, he's just there.
- 42:59He was he was in control of the situation and.
- 43:03For whatever reason.
- 43:04So to make a long story short, I went through all this and none of them ever seen frickin' the front door of a juvenile detention center.
- 43:17And you know what?
- 43:18It's amazing because of what you went through, you were probably a hundred times more determined to make sure that that didn't happen for them.
- 43:26And you broke that generational trauma.
- 43:30You went in and fought for that.
- 43:32Yeah, you went in and you were like, this isn't happening with my kids.
- 43:37It happened with me.
- 43:38It's not happening with my kids.
- 43:40And you broke that cycle.
- 43:42Yeah, I guess I never really took the time to think about it that way.
- 43:46um You're just in survival mode, you know what I mean?
- 43:52You don't stop to think about that kind I think as parents, lot of us Gen Xers have worked really hard to be the person that we needed when we worked for our own kids.
- 44:04We became the person we needed when we were a kid for our kids.
- 44:08Because we were all, what do they call us, latch key kids or something?
- 44:12I mean.
- 44:13so and to break the generational trauma, to break the cycle.
- 44:17I mean, you're you're sleeping against the door so your son doesn't sneak out.
- 44:23That takes effort.
- 44:24That takes strength.
- 44:26That takes not giving up on your kid.
- 44:28The hardest thing is parenting.
- 44:30It's easy to let your kids do whatever they want.
- 44:32It's hard to not.
- 44:34So hard.
- 44:35the fact that you broke that cycle.
- 44:37is amazing honestly that you went through all that and because of your own experience especially you were determined to not let that happen to your sons.
- 44:46Yeah, I didn't want to see them get wrapped up in the same thing.
- 44:51Yeah.
- 44:53to go back to your story in this is that, so you had gone through this program, you had done all the things.
- 45:00You had done the Boys Home, you had done McLaren, you had done the Year with the Cop, you had done your time with Tom and Mary Ann, who became your parents.
- 45:07I'm saying their names right, right?
- 45:08Tom and Mary Ann?
- 45:09Okay.
- 45:09So, those became your family.
- 45:11uh So, I don't understand why did the court still insist that you need to enlist in the military?
- 45:18So.
- 45:19I was, I had to have been, it was my senior year in high school.
- 45:25I don't even remember why.
- 45:27I don't even remember what I did, but somehow because I was still in that program, I did something stupid, but not detrimental, you know what I mean?
- 45:36I don't even remember.
- 45:38It had to have been that stupid.
- 45:39I don't even remember what it was, but I just remember I had to go to court over it, juvenile court, and that's where the judge was like, I'm going to admit, know.
- 45:48gave me the ultimatum.
- 45:50You're almost 18.
- 45:52You can either finish out your six months of being 17 in juvie or go in the military.
- 46:00That was in Creswell?
- 46:03So it almost sounds like you were kind of on, quote unquote, probation or whatever, like you would call it that.
- 46:08And if you did one thing wrong, now you're...
- 46:11So whatever it was, it could have been the smallest thing.
- 46:13I got into and all that, and I was still word of the court because I wasn't an adult.
- 46:22I wasn't emancipated.
- 46:25So they still had to check in with the state and you know, all that.
- 46:30So what branch of the military did you enlist in and how long did you serve?
- 46:38Well, I served three years, no action, no duty, dead time.
- 46:43was nothing going on.
- 46:46We got called out to help with some forest fires in Oregon.
- 46:52And I got injured and uh got hit in the eye with a uh dirt cloud that had a rock in it.
- 47:03and gave me 20 over 200 vision in my left eye.
- 47:06So I ended up getting a medical honorable discharge uh three years in my military.
- 47:14So what does that mean in your left eye?
- 47:16Is it blurry?
- 47:19Yeah, it's legally blind.
- 47:20You can't tell my pupil stays completely dilated in my left eye.
- 47:26And so if I close my right eye, I still have light and I can kind of see objects, but everything's blurred.
- 47:34Okay, so then you get a medical discharge and did you travel at all?
- 47:40Like were you stationed anywhere?
- 47:42So it's just local.
- 47:43yeah.
- 47:45wasn't, because I, when I enlisted, I went to Georgia, did my basic training, AIT, all that stuff, came back for four weeks, was waiting to get my, uh where I was gonna be stationed at, my orders to go to my station.
- 48:05And that's when we got called to fight this fire, my unit.
- 48:11Some of them were here in Oregon.
- 48:15We just got out of AIT and stuff.
- 48:18So we had to join forces with the Oregon National Guard and go down to...
- 48:26Where was that?
- 48:26Close to Medford, think.
- 48:28I don't think it was that far down, but it was called the White Horse Fire, mid-80s.
- 48:35So, Grants Pass, I think, yeah.
- 48:39So we went down and we...
- 48:41So that's when I got injured during that time.
- 48:46So I didn't even have 180 days of active military in before I got booted and discharged with the medical honor.
- 48:56Now, did they?
- 48:57um they kept me enlisted for three years, but unactive.
- 49:05And then after three years, they finally gave me a boot.
- 49:09Did they give you any benefits like for college or nothing like that?
- 49:15So then did you ever do any?
- 49:18stipend, I think, of like 12 grand or something.
- 49:21you know, 22 years old, I probably pissed that away at strip clubs and bars, who knows.
- 49:27So, when you had the medical discharge, what did you do?
- 49:30What was your next step?
- 49:32Um question.
- 49:34Boy, you're really digging.
- 49:36She's getting a whole timeline.
- 49:38So I was nine pounds.
- 49:40No.
- 49:43So what happened?
- 49:45So oh I went to work at a couple lumber mills in Creswell, Cottage Grove, just, you know, dead end jobs at the time, pulling green chain, doing what I could do to get by.
- 49:59No real goals or anything.
- 50:04And I heard about this thing called Job Corps.
- 50:09I think my mom or somebody had mentioned it to me and I was like, what's Job Corps?
- 50:14Okay.
- 50:16And at this point I was...
- 50:17uh I had an apartment for a while.
- 50:20was uh couch hopping on friends' couches, you know, working at the mills together and stuff.
- 50:28And uh so I started checking out this Job Corps thing.
- 50:33And...
- 50:35kind of put it off on the back burner, got the job at the collection agency, did that for a few years.
- 50:43And then I went back to that job core thing, because I kept on remembering, I remembered job core will take people up to 26 years old at certain campuses.
- 50:56Right.
- 50:57So I was like, well, let's try this thing out again, you know, pulling green chain.
- 51:02see all these guys that are disabled and crippled by the time they're 40.
- 51:07I don't want to be that guy, right?
- 51:08So I ended up checking out the Job Corps thing and went up to Washington and got into the Job Corps program for business management.
- 51:21So what is the Job Corps program?
- 51:23Is it where they will cover your college courses?
- 51:26Basically, so it's on the job training.
- 51:30And then if you graduate through the on job training program and they house you, they feed you, they give you a stipend every month, you It's a great program that you started out for troubled kids.
- 51:44Now.
- 51:46Anybody and everybody can join.
- 51:50Doesn't cost you anything, it's federally funded.
- 51:53In fact, I have a...
- 51:55cousin that just graduated last year ah and is now a bulldozer operator.
- 52:03So they do heavy equipment down to finance and everything in between nursing courses and you know that kind of thing.
- 52:12So it's like a college campus.
- 52:14I was in a dorm but you go to job training every day.
- 52:19ah If you don't have your diploma or a GED when you first enter into Job Corps, the first thing they do is they get you your GED or your diploma, depending on how many credits you're short.
- 52:32And then you go into your field of choice and you start on the job training.
- 52:38Once you've completed that on the job training, you can stay in Job Corps and they will extend your post-education.
- 52:48to get your associate's degree.
- 52:51And you can stay on campus and go to a local community college or whatever and get your associate's degree.
- 52:57Okay, okay.
- 52:58I have a question.
- 52:59Let's come back to this.
- 53:00But you mentioned the green train.
- 53:02What is that?
- 53:04Green chain?
- 53:04Green chain.
- 53:05Yeah.
- 53:07Yeah.
- 53:07and plywood, when you're working in the lumber mill, especially in a plywood uh production company where they're producing sheet supply wood.
- 53:16You can do it in lumber too, dimensional lumber, but I did it in the plywood area.
- 53:22So you're pulling green chains.
- 53:23So you know how your plywood has multiple layers uh of sheeting?
- 53:32So when they peel that log, It'll peel out a gross size sheet of oh wood, plywood, very thin, eighth of a millimeter thin.
- 53:46And that'll come down on a chain table.
- 53:49And you got guides that are standing on each side of the table.
- 53:54And you're grading that sheet as it comes down.
- 53:57So it might be A grade, B grade, C grade, D grade, whatever they're running through the log peeler for that ship.
- 54:05and then you have to pull that stuff off of a green chain what they call a green chain a big conveyor pull that off into a goes into a tray on wheels basically and you build these big stacks and then they take that and they run it through a dryer because when they're peeling it off the log it's wet and they're water over it so I would pull that stuff off wet and there's a trick to it you got to learn the trick of the trade right so you're pulling a four by five or five by six sheet of laminate coming off of the log you got a flippin' off of that table and if you do it right, it'll float off that table and you can control it into the stack.
- 54:52So you're just pulling that all day long.
- 54:57Pulling green chain is what they call it.
- 54:58It's a very physical demanding job, especially if you're doing it with dimensional lumber.
- 55:03So like, you know, every time you go into a lumber store, Home Depot, whatever, and you see a unit of wood.
- 55:12That was hand-stacked off a green chain by somebody in that mill.
- 55:16Okay, and I can see how physically doing that repetitive...
- 55:21Is that the danger of it all?
- 55:22The repetitive nature of the physical work that eventually just shoots your joints or elbows or whatever it is?
- 55:28and you have to, you can't let the tables, you ever seen that loose seal skit where they're doing the candies and it starts backing up?
- 55:39Yeah, you got to be able to keep that table clean so that the lumber doesn't back up and you have to shut everything down.
- 55:45so, you know, I've seen, especially in the plywood industry, I've seen laminate that will split off.
- 55:56into shards.
- 55:58I've seen it stick through people's arms and things like that.
- 56:03It can be a dangerous job, but it's really a physically demanding job.
- 56:08And there's a lot of it that still goes on up here in the Pacific Northwest.
- 56:12Yeah, I'm sure.
- 56:13Okay, so you worked the medical billing, got that experience, you went into the Job Corps and you chose business?
- 56:20Business management, yeah.
- 56:21And did you finish that program?
- 56:25And then did they set you up with a job?
- 56:27ah Well, they, I could have had the option, but at that time I had a girlfriend that was not in Job Corps and she had her own apartment.
- 56:37I finished Job Corps, I was right there in that apartment.
- 56:40And, ah But I ended up not going into business management and I went to a lumber yard and I drove forklift for a couple years.
- 56:51And this is still in Oregon?
- 56:54Okay.
- 56:55And doing construction work.
- 56:56And then that's when I, ah that's when I found the job at the collection agency.
- 57:04Okay, so you okay?
- 57:07Yeah, okay?
- 57:08All right?
- 57:09And there wasn't a lot of jobs in the construction business.
- 57:13I didn't want to go back into the mill business, you know, working in the mills.
- 57:17So that's how I found that job at the collection agency at Al Gordon and Associates.
- 57:22And the rest is history.
- 57:26just, had a knack for getting money out of people.
- 57:29So.
- 57:30that was after, I was thinking that was before Job Corps.
- 57:33So you did Job Corps and then you went into the collection agency and then, okay, and then you just did that in Oregon?
- 57:41For how long were you in Oregon doing that?
- 57:43Up until 1999, I think I was 33.
- 57:48And then I went to Arizona.
- 57:51time or anything?
- 57:53Yeah, I got married ah when I lived in Washington and found out seven years later the child wasn't mine.
- 58:04ah But we had divorced early, like two years in, because she would always make, you know, it was very, yeah, hostile.
- 58:14relationship.
- 58:16She was full-blooded Indian.
- 58:18She was an alcoholic.
- 58:19She'd get physical.
- 58:22know, growing up, I was always taught you're a man if you get hit by a woman, you take it.
- 58:29You know what I mean?
- 58:31So I ended up leaving.
- 58:33We got divorced.
- 58:34I stayed in the child's life up until he was five.
- 58:39Mm-hmm.
- 58:39then found out that I wasn't the biological dad and then she wouldn't allow me to see him anymore.
- 58:46my goodness.
- 58:47Have you seen him since?
- 58:49Nah, he's mid-20s now, or 30s actually.
- 58:54That's rough.
- 58:55I thought I don't even know where he's at.
- 58:58I've tried to find him, but...
- 59:00How old were you when that happened?
- 59:01early mid-twenties.
- 59:02So this is after the argument.
- 59:04yeah, this was Job Corps.
- 59:06I met her in Job Corps.
- 59:08She actually worked there.
- 59:10And I was a student and then got involved with her and then.
- 59:15OK, so you had you got married, you got divorced.
- 59:20You lived in Oregon working um finance basically until 99.
- 59:27Yeah, in 99, I had a buddy of mine, we were both working at the collection agency, well he had gotten married and left state and went to Arizona, we were like best friends for long time.
- 59:38And he called me up one day and he goes, dude, you gotta get down here.
- 59:43I'm like, what are you talking about?
- 59:45It's hot, it's Arizona, I don't know shit about it, right?
- 59:49He's like, I can get you on with a mortgage company down here.
- 59:54I'm like, what?
- 59:55mortgage company I don't know shit about it right don't just come down here trust me Just one of those whims again, I thank God leading me to go.
- 1:00:02It was just one of those things where I woke up two days later.
- 1:00:06Not really knowing what I was doing, but I was packing all my stuff and I was loading my truck and not really.
- 1:00:12You're kind of in a fog.
- 1:00:15But I knew it was the right thing to do.
- 1:00:17Don't ask me how, but.
- 1:00:20And loaded up my truck, went and got my last paycheck and I started heading down the road to Arizona.
- 1:00:25Didn't know anybody there except for my buddy Tony.
- 1:00:29Didn't know what I was going to do.
- 1:00:31Had a thousand bucks in my pocket.
- 1:00:33No place to stay.
- 1:00:34His wife didn't, she didn't like us being friends because we drank a lot.
- 1:00:40She had left for like a month to go to her parents that was out of state.
- 1:00:44So he's like, stay with me for the month.
- 1:00:46know, Cindy isn't going to be there.
- 1:00:49You know, and uh.
- 1:00:51I'll help you out and we'll get you into a place and get you set up.
- 1:00:54So I'm like, I'll check it out.
- 1:00:56So I drove down and for the first two weeks it was just a party.
- 1:01:03And then he had a buddy that lived at his same HOA community who had just became single and had a three bedroom house.
- 1:01:14name was Chris.
- 1:01:15He goes, hey, I'll rent you a room.
- 1:01:16I got a place.
- 1:01:17All right, cool.
- 1:01:18And then Tony was like, can get you a job at this mortgage company.
- 1:01:23But it was commission only.
- 1:01:26So I went there for the first two months and I tried to figure out what it was all about.
- 1:01:31Well, it really intrigued me, the finance side of it.
- 1:01:35I knew that I didn't know enough, I think.
- 1:01:39So I went to work for a couple of big collection agencies in Phoenix.
- 1:01:45big, big national agencies.
- 1:01:47um And just did really well.
- 1:01:51Learned that I had a knack.
- 1:01:52I was always the number one, number two producer every month.
- 1:01:56um I like conversing with people.
- 1:02:01fact finding, there's a lot of fact finding in that job and trying to get information without letting the person know you're fact finding, you know what I mean?
- 1:02:11Through just normal conversation.
- 1:02:14And found out I had a knack for it, so I spent.
- 1:02:17Between Oregon or between Washington and Arizona, I spent about 30 years or I should say about 20 years in the third party collection business.
- 1:02:27So once I realized I liked it, I was good at it.
- 1:02:31um I had a couple opportunities where some investors have more money than they knew what to do with.
- 1:02:38um We're interested in the debt buying business.
- 1:02:46And I said, well, shoot, I know everything about it.
- 1:02:47You need to know.
- 1:02:48just have always happened to be in the right place at the right time and the right people involved.
- 1:02:55So, you know, in collections, I ended up working for an attorney who taught me all the legal regulations and state and federal.
- 1:03:02And when it comes to debt regulation and all that, I just I buried myself in that industry and learned everything I could possibly learn.
- 1:03:12In the first 10 years.
- 1:03:14about debt buying, credit, reporting, how to sue somebody, how to execute on a writ of garnishment, how to, you know, garnish someone's wages if I need to, how to attach assets, how to...
- 1:03:26So I just buried myself in that business and went back to the mortgage business when the mortgage boom really took off in like 2004, 2005.
- 1:03:42And...
- 1:03:43I said, well, you know.
- 1:03:44out there for about three months at a mortgage company and all these guys are working with realtors and trying to find people to you know get business from right and I'm sitting there going I don't know anybody I don't know shit I can I don't run an ad trying to I don't know what the hell how am I going to get business right back then if you got in the mortgage business they didn't give you leads you go find your own shit Just like a real one, right?
- 1:04:16Yeah.
- 1:04:16And then I had a light bulb that went off one day.
- 1:04:18I spent like three, four weeks.
- 1:04:20Where am I going to find homeowners?
- 1:04:22How do I solicit people?
- 1:04:23How do I get business?
- 1:04:25And I had another buddy of mine who was at a collection agency and he had called me up and he was asking me about the mortgage business and all this and how it was going.
- 1:04:38I said, yeah, just struggling for accounts, man, just trying to find business.
- 1:04:42And he goes, I'll tell you what, he goes, I'm working this new product for American Express.
- 1:04:47And these are all charged off debt.
- 1:04:49Their accounts are like two, three years old, you know.
- 1:04:51ah That's the sweet spot in the age of debt.
- 1:04:55If you can catch a consumer, typically within two years, they've rebound from their credit situation.
- 1:05:00And you can typically get a debt settled or paid.
- 1:05:04He goes, well, I'll start screening homeowners for you and I'll send them your way.
- 1:05:10And if you can do a refinance and get me paid.
- 1:05:14And I was like, fucking brilliant.
- 1:05:17Yeah.
- 1:05:18brilliant, right?
- 1:05:20I'm like, yeah, okay, I'm down.
- 1:05:21Do that shit.
- 1:05:22These are prime borrowers because they're all Amex customers.
- 1:05:26It's not shitty credits, know, subprime paper, that type of thing.
- 1:05:31I can get you guys in on the truth and lending on the till and get you paid out directly from the lender at closing.
- 1:05:37And I can typically get these loans closed within 60 days.
- 1:05:40So this is great.
- 1:05:41So I did a couple.
- 1:05:43It worked.
- 1:05:45And I was just like, holy fuck, fuck, okay.
- 1:05:49How do I expand on this?
- 1:05:51I'm gonna start calling fucking collection agencies everywhere, right?
- 1:05:55So I did, I just started calling collection agencies.
- 1:05:57I get some collector that just answered the phone and I'd pitch him, hey, my name's Wes with American Home Loans and I used to be a debt collector like you.
- 1:06:07I can help you get into commission faster.
- 1:06:10Well, how?
- 1:06:11send me your homeowners, I'll refinance them, make sure they get paid.
- 1:06:15You get paid through the refi on the truth and lending.
- 1:06:18I'll send you the check directly to your company so you don't have to worry about, you know, the debtor getting it and you'll get paid.
- 1:06:27I was putting collectors and commissions so fast.
- 1:06:31I couldn't.
- 1:06:32My phone was fucking blowing up because.
- 1:06:36sense.
- 1:06:36This collector was telling his collector next to him was telling the guy next to him.
- 1:06:41He's a big call centers, right?
- 1:06:45So I got to the point within like two weeks, I had more business than I could handle.
- 1:06:51So I started giving shit out to other loan officers.
- 1:06:54I don't care.
- 1:06:54I don't need to get paid on it.
- 1:06:55Just get it closed.
- 1:06:56Let me know when it closes so I can make sure this bill collector gets paid, right?
- 1:07:01Yeah.
- 1:07:03So about two months goes by and I get called into the GM's office.
- 1:07:08And he goes, what the fuck are you doing?
- 1:07:11And I knew this guy from previous years.
- 1:07:14His name was Matt He was a buddy of mine before I got in the mortgage business.
- 1:07:18So Matt calls me into his room, into his office and he's like, what the fuck are you doing?
- 1:07:22He goes, you're out producing everybody on the floor and you're giving people business.
- 1:07:28What's the catch?
- 1:07:30So keep in mind, they were only closing three to four loans a month at this point.
- 1:07:35I come in, now we're closing 14 to 20 in 60 days.
- 1:07:40So I said, well, this is kind of what I got going on.
- 1:07:44This is what I'm doing.
- 1:07:45So he fucking calls his partner, Don.
- 1:07:47Don, come in my office, right?
- 1:07:49So Don comes in, explain this to Don.
- 1:07:52So I explained the whole thing again.
- 1:07:54And they're like, do you think you could like expand on that?
- 1:07:59I was like, well, yeah.
- 1:08:00And they said, see what you can do in 90 days.
- 1:08:04Don't write me loans.
- 1:08:06Just get leads and give them out to the other loan officers.
- 1:08:09They had like eight LOs in there at the time.
- 1:08:12Let's see what you can do.
- 1:08:14All right.
- 1:08:1590 days later, we were closing over 50 loans a month.
- 1:08:19So then I was like, well, fuck.
- 1:08:22And I'm only getting leads from maybe four or five collection agencies, right?
- 1:08:27store.
- 1:08:28So I went to Matt and Don and I said, well, let's go to lunch.
- 1:08:31I got a proposal for you guys.
- 1:08:34And I'm still pretty green in the mortgage business.
- 1:08:37But I know enough to get through an application, right?
- 1:08:43So I'll tell you what, I want you guys to give me a shot.
- 1:08:47Give me 90 days to travel the country.
- 1:08:52I will go into collection agencies and I will pitch them personally.
- 1:08:56I'll train their people how to pre-qualify a homeowner.
- 1:09:00And I'll build the biggest fucking pipeline of loans that you've ever seen.
- 1:09:05And they're like, all right, we'll give you a shot.
- 1:09:08So 90 days in, they are now, we went from eight loan officers to like 15.
- 1:09:19We're adding more loan officers.
- 1:09:21Now I'm getting calls from collection agencies saying, hey, we heard from this collector over here about you guys do work with collection agencies and oh so then what I ended up doing is I ended up branding.
- 1:09:36a program I called the HELP program, Home Equity Loan Program, and was the acronym HELP.
- 1:09:43So then what I did is I just went to a fucking banner place and I had a print me out a bunch of big banners, black banners that said American Home Loans, H-E-L-P in big cap letters, HELP Loan Program.
- 1:09:59And I went to a bunch of collection agencies and I hung them fuckers up on their call floors.
- 1:10:04And I said, now, train your collectors to pre-screen, because that's part of your job as a bill collector, verify information, pre-screen, you know, and then try to collect, right?
- 1:10:15I said, already asking their debtors the question, are you a homeowner?
- 1:10:20How long have you owned your home?
- 1:10:21How much is your mortgage payment?
- 1:10:23It's a perfect opening to go in and say, hey, have you looked at doing a debt consolidation refinance?
- 1:10:28So that took off and it really started going well.
- 1:10:32I started traveling all over the country, different states.
- 1:10:36I've been to, I don't know, I've been to 47 of the 50 states in the country in the lower 48.
- 1:10:4147 out of the 48.
- 1:10:43And I just kept on doing it over and over and over, right?
- 1:10:46Well, I was going to their store and I'd spend sometimes two or three days talking about how to.
- 1:10:54Don't ah juggle the...
- 1:10:57the Don't make a, what's the word I'm looking for?
- 1:11:01Don't make a.
- 1:11:02You know what I'm talking about.
- 1:11:03I'm having a brain fart, but...
- 1:11:05co-mingle the mortgage or refi with the debt type of thing.
- 1:11:10Yeah, basically know that we'll check if it's there.
- 1:11:14Okay.
- 1:11:15Bet you've got the equity in the home type of thing.
- 1:11:18Right.
- 1:11:18Or we'll find out if we do.
- 1:11:21And we would typically start off with 80 and just depending on the consumer, what we've seen on the...
- 1:11:27ah the black uh good and bad, so to speak.
- 1:11:34So we would check it out and we'd know and we'd it out.
- 1:11:37uh So make a long story short.
- 1:11:41lying or hiding shit when you're doing a refi, right?
- 1:11:43Or even a mortgage.
- 1:11:45You guys find everything you need to know.
- 1:11:49Yeah, there's no secret.
- 1:11:51some of them, you know, if they're at 90 % LTV, then we just close it out and yeah, sorry, nothing we can do.
- 1:11:59And we'd update the collector and send them back over to them and they'd figure out what they were going to do.
- 1:12:03ah how did the housing bust?
- 1:12:11Well, this is before that.
- 1:12:12know.
- 1:12:12How did the housing bust affect you?
- 1:12:15In 07, so at this point, kind of go back, so when the housing crisis hit, I had at this point had opened up the help program and was running the home equity loan program and doing that whole gig there.
- 1:12:38So in 2007, when the crash came, Within 48 hours, was completely unemployed.
- 1:12:4848 hours.
- 1:12:49Oh yeah, they came in.
- 1:12:51It was on the news.
- 1:12:52They came in and basically came into our call center.
- 1:12:58We were in a big ass building.
- 1:12:59And they took all of the subprime mortgage companies and they all got closed up.
- 1:13:09The only people that were operating at that point in 07 were AA credit mortgage companies in your banks.
- 1:13:19And most of them were starting to close up those programs as well.
- 1:13:24When you say they, are you talking federal agencies or just the owners of the company?
- 1:13:30Because it had completely stopped, right?
- 1:13:34All mortgages basically stopped.
- 1:13:36So it was just like we're shutting down type of thing.
- 1:13:38Yeah, well, what happened was that they came in and the government started changing the programs because about every eight years or so the mortgage business takes a hit.
- 1:13:52it's typically rising on uh interest rates, the cost to do the loan, and a bunch of different factors that come into play.
- 1:14:06In 2017, they started with the subprime lenders, the people, you could have a 500 credit score and still get a refinance if you had enough equity in your home.
- 1:14:17And then, uh so they killed that first, then the FICO score went to the lowest FICO score we could take was a 580.
- 1:14:24uh That's called uh medium subprime lending.
- 1:14:30So it's not the bottom of the barrel, it's kind of mid, it's not prime.
- 1:14:35And then the lenders that were focusing on the subprime lending and the mid-prime lending were the companies that were closing up shop as fast as you could hit a remote control.
- 1:14:50So within 48 hours you were done?
- 1:14:54Done.
- 1:14:55So what did you do?
- 1:14:57So I, what did I do?
- 1:15:00So for the first year, I just tried to find a way to get back into the business, into the mortgage business, but there was so many mortgage companies that had closed and few that were up and running.
- 1:15:13It was almost impossible to get on with somebody.
- 1:15:16ah So I ended up opening up a couple of collection agencies for some investors.
- 1:15:24out of state investors, one guy out of Tennessee and excuse me, they would hire me to come in and get their licensing in place, find the building, staff it, train everybody, bring in their clients so they have business to collect on.
- 1:15:43So basically I'd spend one or two years building up a collection agency to a full operational capacity.
- 1:15:51And then I would hand over the keys to the investor and go on to the.
- 1:15:55Would you do all of this in Arizona or were you traveling and doing this?
- 1:15:58This was all in Arizona.
- 1:16:00So most of the collection agencies that I built were all in AZ.
- 1:16:07Right.
- 1:16:08ah enough money in the mortgage business where you could kind of chill or was it still needed to grunt?
- 1:16:17No, I was still grinding because my whole goal at that time when in 07, what I was shooting for was to make satellite office, build satellite offices in like six states, starting in Arizona.
- 1:16:32Right.
- 1:16:33So all the money that I was making off of the national.
- 1:16:38Debt Recovery Department.
- 1:16:41I was putting right back into the department so that could hire more loan officers, build out the stations.
- 1:16:49And I was still really pushing on my campaigns right now for new customers, new clients.
- 1:16:56So at this point, I had landed at DiscoverCard, American Express as my two main clients.
- 1:17:05a bunch of different lenders, banks, Bank of America.
- 1:17:08Always shoot for the big ones, right?
- 1:17:11That's always been my mantra.
- 1:17:13Go for the big ones.
- 1:17:15Yeah.
- 1:17:17And so...
- 1:17:19uh When the crash came in 07, I'll never forget it.
- 1:17:24I got a call at home in my underwear.
- 1:17:26I was getting ready for work that day.
- 1:17:29And they said, turn on the TV.
- 1:17:30I turned on the TV and I see loan officers walking out of my office with equipment.
- 1:17:35Wow.
- 1:17:36I'm like, what the hell is going on?
- 1:17:37I hadn't even heard about this shit yet.
- 1:17:39It all happened that night overnight.
- 1:17:43I log into my computer and at two thirty or three o'clock in the morning.
- 1:17:48I don't know what their title was at the time.
- 1:17:50Whoever run handles government housing with with Fannie Mae and Fannie Mac and all that had sent out a letter to all the mortgage brokers across the country.
- 1:18:02saying that all these programs were being shut down.
- 1:18:06Happened literally overnight.
- 1:18:09So you guys had no idea it was coming.
- 1:18:12it was coming.
- 1:18:13It's wild too because you had those marquee customers, you would have no indication either.
- 1:18:18Yeah, they were sending over all these, you know, customers we were we were killing at this point.
- 1:18:23Now we're booking over what we were doing over 12 million dollars a volume a week in refines.
- 1:18:31And we were paying off, you know, AMEX and Discover and all these guys.
- 1:18:35I had the.
- 1:18:38Executive team from DiscoverCard come out from Ohio and meet with us in Phoenix and Scottsdale, Arizona and.
- 1:18:45and met with them and pitched them this program and put it together to make this thing work.
- 1:18:49And lost it in 07 as fast as I could have lost it when the market crashed.
- 1:18:56So after the market crash and all this happened, you were still hustling.
- 1:18:59Oh, had, girl, I had boxes and boxes of stress balls, stress houses, mouse pads, wrists, everything.
- 1:19:10Because I would go into these big call centers and I would hand out all of this merchandise ah and mugs and all this shit.
- 1:19:19And that's, and they would send me their leads of homeowners.
- 1:19:22And I just continued to build off of that.
- 1:19:24So when 07 came and the market crashed, All of your subprime and alt-A lenders closed shop.
- 1:19:35The only people that could get a loan were anybody with excellent credit.
- 1:19:40No collection accounts, no issues.
- 1:19:43ah So then you started doing these, you started uh becoming almost like a consultant to help people set up collection agencies.
- 1:19:52Well, right, right, right.
- 1:19:54Yes.
- 1:19:54So I helped four different investors open up shops in uh Phoenix, Scottsdale and Paradise Valley, Arizona.
- 1:20:01ah what did you do after that?
- 1:20:06After helping you said you did that for a few years, then what did you do?
- 1:20:09I, and this is what's odd, is I answer to ad one day for a fire equipment and life safety company based out of Arizona.
- 1:20:22Didn't know shit about it.
- 1:20:23and they wanted someone to make collection calls.
- 1:20:27It's all they wanted, just a bill collector to come in and never had worked in uh QuickBooks or anything like that.
- 1:20:35So I showed up, did the interview.
- 1:20:38They offered me the position.
- 1:20:41And within 12 months, I had taken over the department, got rid of their accounts receivable manager and took over their accounts receivable.
- 1:20:53ah That was the first 12 months.
- 1:20:5618 months in, I decided I'm going to do this hike, the Pacific Crest Trail, right?
- 1:21:02What motivated you to do that?
- 1:21:05Um, it was an odd situation.
- 1:21:07I had seen the movie, uh, with Reese Witherspoon called, I think, The Mile or something like that, which you had to be the Pacific Crest Trail restaurant.
- 1:21:16You ever see that movie?
- 1:21:18seen that.
- 1:21:18I even know she made a movie.
- 1:21:19Yeah, me neither.
- 1:21:20About that.
- 1:21:21called mile or the mile, one of the two.
- 1:21:27Yeah, Reeth Witherspoon did it.
- 1:21:29And basically she hiked the first thousand miles of the PCT.
- 1:21:34Now is this a documentary or is this a fictional movie?
- 1:21:38Okay.
- 1:21:40So you were motivated from the movie?
- 1:21:42watched that movie and what pissed me off about that movie is I was born and raised in Oregon and never heard of the Pacific Crest Trail the whole time I lived here.
- 1:21:53Didn't even know it.
- 1:21:55Been on it.
- 1:21:57Riding horses.
- 1:21:58Riding horses.
- 1:21:59Been on it.
- 1:22:01But just never for what it never correlated Pacific Crest Trail.
- 1:22:07So anyway.
- 1:22:08uh Yeah, so I decided to do this this hike So you were 18 months in into you had taken over at this fire and safety company.
- 1:22:22Yeah.
- 1:22:22But at this point, are you married with kids at all?
- 1:22:26Yeah.
- 1:22:26So what about on the first divorce?
- 1:22:28The first divorce, right?
- 1:22:30yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 1:22:31So and then I remarried in 20.
- 1:22:35Was it 04, I think?
- 1:22:36In Arizona.
- 1:22:38Okay, so while you're a mortgage lender and during all that time the collection agency mortgage lender you're married and having and starting a family.
- 1:22:46we've got four kids together.
- 1:22:47Yeah, I'm doing all that.
- 1:22:49you meet your wife, your ex-wife now?
- 1:22:54Okay, so you guys met at a bar.
- 1:22:56met at a club at a bar uh one night in Arizona.
- 1:23:02Yeah, yeah.
- 1:23:03And her dad is a very successful entrepreneur.
- 1:23:08And so him and I hit it off.
- 1:23:09He builds stuff.
- 1:23:12It's crazy.
- 1:23:13But and so her dad and I kind of got along pretty good.
- 1:23:20And.
- 1:23:22Yeah, so we ended up getting married and then we had four kids and.
- 1:23:27from the time you guys met till you got married?
- 1:23:30like a year, year and a half.
- 1:23:32And then did you have all four kids pretty close together?
- 1:23:35Uh, yeah, so my youngest is 14, Jessica.
- 1:23:39She lives with mom.
- 1:23:41The other three live with me.
- 1:23:44So Jessica's 14, Sedona is 18, Tyler is 20, and Joseph is 21.
- 1:23:51Yeah, so that's pretty close together.
- 1:23:54So you guys are married when you're going through all this stuff, when the housing crisis happened, you guys are still married.
- 1:24:01You're working for the company.
- 1:24:03uh You've helped the different companies start the collection agency businesses for a few years.
- 1:24:11And then now you're working at the fire and safety company.
- 1:24:14Is that correct?
- 1:24:14And you pretty much revamped.
- 1:24:16sounds like that whole system sounds like everywhere you go, you level it up from what I'm hearing.
- 1:24:23start somewhere and you take it up to the next level and kind of take over a little bit.
- 1:24:29I do and that's an Achilles heel because it's gotten me in trouble before with places, you know, because I'll come in.
- 1:24:37I just have this, I don't know what you call it, knack, whatever, but I get in, give me a couple of days and I can start finding issues.
- 1:24:46Well, that needs to be fixed.
- 1:24:47There's a problem there.
- 1:24:49Your productivity is lagging because of this or this person, you I'm used to running large call center.
- 1:24:58I'm used to doing training seminars where I'm training 600 or 1000 people at a time up on a stage.
- 1:25:05So with PowerPoint and all that stuff.
- 1:25:07it's just that leadership's koi, I guess, that I have in me where it just automatically kicks in and you start, okay, you know what I mean?
- 1:25:16Yeah, you got a problem solver.
- 1:25:19see what needs to be solved and you yeah, you start solving it.
- 1:25:22So what so it sounds like.
- 1:25:25Yes, yeah.
- 1:25:27guy, know, he's a jackass cocky.
- 1:25:28But I'm like, you know what?
- 1:25:31Yeah.
- 1:25:32But 99 % of the time I'm right.
- 1:25:34I'm never wrong.
- 1:25:35Yeah.
- 1:25:36Yeah.
- 1:25:37And it depends on who you're talking that, you know, if you're talking to people that are fairly secure, then they probably take it better than people who are coming from a more insecure place.
- 1:25:48Like they're naturally going to be offended by whatever you have to say, even if what you're saying is rational.
- 1:25:53They're not going to take it well because of where they are, you know, more than where you are.
- 1:25:58So.
- 1:25:59a lot of times it'd be kind of like, well, who's this new guy coming in here?
- 1:26:03So I had to learn to kind of play it off.
- 1:26:06And just, you know, my first couple of weeks, just another another soldier just put me in a desk, I'll do my thing, I'll shut up, keep to myself, you know, but it always ends up coming out.
- 1:26:17Typically, if they hear my to or my talk off because It's always been the same for years.
- 1:26:23know, I come in, I ID myself, ID who I'm talking to, get the facts, get the information, find a solution, and try to wrap up that call in three to five minutes and move on to the next.
- 1:26:33oh why you're so successful always in collections and in mortgage.
- 1:26:40There's also a sales technique to all of that.
- 1:26:44You're selling people to give them your information so you can collect money from them.
- 1:26:48That's a sales technique.
- 1:26:49Same with mortgages.
- 1:26:51So, you know, there's a lot of levels to what you were doing and why you were good at it.
- 1:26:55It sounds like you were at that fire and safety company.
- 1:26:59You said you were 18 months in before you went on the hike.
- 1:27:03Did you leave that job to go hike?
- 1:27:05here's the crazy shit about that job.
- 1:27:08I still look back and I kind of shake my head.
- 1:27:11So I was there for 18 months.
- 1:27:16But I want to say 12 or 13 months in, I decided I was going to do that hike, right?
- 1:27:23The Pacific Crest Trail.
- 1:27:25So I was trying to do the right thing, thinking that the more time I give them, the better it's going to look on me.
- 1:27:33I'm not going to look like a piece of shit.
- 1:27:36And my reputation is important to me in business.
- 1:27:40So I gave them a six month.
- 1:27:44ah heads up.
- 1:27:46In six months I'm going to go do this hike.
- 1:27:49Just letting you know if you have time.
- 1:27:51uh And I'd already, I'd just signed a deal with JDRF, Junior Diabetes Research Foundation, to make them my affiliate partner.
- 1:28:02And I had a couple of uh sponsors.
- 1:28:07Well, in this meeting at the time it was called American Fire Equipment and Safety.
- 1:28:13So I'm kind of giving them a heads up what I plan, what my plans are and all that.
- 1:28:18Well, all of sudden they're like, well, how can we get involved?
- 1:28:20I'm sitting there not expecting that whatsoever, So I'm like...
- 1:28:26Well, I can add you guys as a sponsor.
- 1:28:28I guess, know, throw you on the shirt.
- 1:28:31And they're like, you're going to do sponsors?
- 1:28:33And then, so then they start collaborating.
- 1:28:35And they're like, well, what if we give you a six month leave of absence?
- 1:28:40Keep your position.
- 1:28:42You go do this site, promote us with your other sponsors and then we'll keep your job here when you come back and then you can come back and do your thing.
- 1:28:50That's amazing.
- 1:28:51That's amazing.
- 1:28:54Yes.
- 1:28:54Did you counter with as long as you keep paying me for six months or?
- 1:29:00Yeah, that would have been real nice.
- 1:29:03Yeah.
- 1:29:04but I was just uh I was very thankful to be able to finally open up about it while I was at work and talk to people, you know, not having to have this big secret, you know.
- 1:29:18Yeah, well, what?
- 1:29:20OK, so we skipped that whole.
- 1:29:21Yeah, so this is I assume that this inspiration came from two of your children being type one.
- 1:29:27Is that where this came from?
- 1:29:29Well, I knew I wanted to hike the Pacific Crest Trail when I watched that Wild, with Reeth, gosh, can't wait to get my teeth.
- 1:29:39Reeth Witherspoon, okay.
- 1:29:43So was the inspiration behind em these partnerships with the junior diabetes and all of that because of your two children that were type 1, is that what started this?
- 1:29:56Yeah, yeah, because they were at this point now are well, I should take that back.
- 1:30:00One is diabetic.
- 1:30:03At this point.
- 1:30:05at that point, did you know right away that they were diabetic?
- 1:30:09because we were at home when Tyler, my 20 year old son, he was diagnosed first.
- 1:30:16And I was still married to his mom at that point.
- 1:30:18We were still together and all that stuff.
- 1:30:23Sedona was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes like five, six years later.
- 1:30:29Okay, was this when they were young children?
- 1:30:31Well, Tyler was seven and Sedona was 13.
- 1:30:35What are the symptoms, you know, for...
- 1:30:37Tyler is older than Sedona.
- 1:30:39So Tyler was diagnosed at seven.
- 1:30:41Sedona was diagnosed at 13.
- 1:30:44Sedona's 18 now, Tyler's 20.
- 1:30:49Okay, so what were the symptoms that led you to the path of discovering that they were type 1?
- 1:30:58Well, Tyler, he became really skinny, but didn't know it because his clothes were baggy on him.
- 1:31:10And at this age, he's like seven, eight years old, seven, I think.
- 1:31:16So we're kind of giving him a little bit of privacy in the shower, that type of thing.
- 1:31:22And I happened to walk in on him.
- 1:31:26as he was out of the shower drying off.
- 1:31:29And I about shit my pants.
- 1:31:33It looked like a bag of bones.
- 1:31:36I could see every bone in his body.
- 1:31:40Mm-hmm.
- 1:31:41So that was my first, what the hell's wrong?
- 1:31:44And I'm like, Tyler, you are way, you look malnourished.
- 1:31:48What the hell, what's going on?
- 1:31:50I feel fine.
- 1:31:52Well, his mom was really thin like that when she was a kid too.
- 1:31:56So I didn't really, I was like, okay, well, you know, look pretty thin, concerned, but, and we go to the skate park that day.
- 1:32:06We go to the skate park.
- 1:32:08And this kid cannot keep down water or Gatorade.
- 1:32:11He's just drinking as fast as he could go and he's peeing it out as fast as he could go.
- 1:32:16ah So I jumped on my phone looking for symptoms and it said diabetes.
- 1:32:23I didn't really know much about diabetes at that point.
- 1:32:27It was a Friday afternoon, 5, 6 o'clock, right?
- 1:32:35So I take him home.
- 1:32:36He jumped in the shower.
- 1:32:37That's when I see him.
- 1:32:40Bag of bones.
- 1:32:41ah So I started asking him about it.
- 1:32:45You you look really thin and you know, you okay?
- 1:32:48uh By that evening Friday, he's starting to pass out.
- 1:32:54We can't keep him awake.
- 1:32:55ah So Kim, my ex-wife, his mom, finally says, I'm going to take him into the hospital and get him checked out.
- 1:33:08And I was like, yeah, we need to because all the symptoms now we're looking on our phones, just saying diabetes, diabetes, diabetes.
- 1:33:16So she takes him in.
- 1:33:18just to carry them into the ERs.
- 1:33:20It's blood sugars that just under 1200.
- 1:33:24my goodness, my goodness.
- 1:33:26Yeah, I mean, off the charts high, right?
- 1:33:28um So he ends up in the hospital for like almost two weeks.
- 1:33:38As they're getting his blood sugar, you know, we're like, what's diabetes?
- 1:33:41What is this shit?
- 1:33:42You know, what's going on?
- 1:33:43um And Tyler's done really well with his diabetes.
- 1:33:49Doesn't have issues.
- 1:33:50He bullies it, you know, he's always on point with it.
- 1:33:53He's really good.
- 1:33:54So then we found out that it could be hereditary within the family.
- 1:33:59So we had everybody checked out for the possibility.
- 1:34:02They can tell you if you may have it in the future or not, or you know, the possibilities.
- 1:34:09Yeah, I can't remember the exact terminology for it, but there's a test that they run.
- 1:34:14They can tell you probability if you're going to have type one diabetes or not, or if you're, you know, well.
- 1:34:23So we had that test run on the other three kids and they all came back good except for Sedona.
- 1:34:31That test was spot on.
- 1:34:33Five years later, she was admitted in the hospital, blood sugar over 600, type 1 diabetic.
- 1:34:41Did you guys approach that differently with her though because you knew it might be coming?
- 1:34:45So were you way more aware of signs quicker?
- 1:34:48Yeah, were, yeah, a lot more aware of symptoms and things like that.
- 1:34:52And yeah, you can pick up on things and, um, and we knew, but at that point when Sedona was diagnosed, we were already, Yeah, we were already divorced.
- 1:35:05Okay, okay, so yeah.
- 1:35:07uh being diagnosed with type 1 diabetes as I was on trail, on the Pacific Crest Trail, hiking for diabetes research and awareness.
- 1:35:18Okay, so that brings us back.
- 1:35:21So your company more than supports you on this hike to bring awareness to juvenile diabetes.
- 1:35:30Your wife at the time, was she a stay-at-home mom?
- 1:35:34Oh, right there when I decided to do this hike?
- 1:35:37Yeah, so we had just, I decided to do it.
- 1:35:40She was stay at home, mom.
- 1:35:41At this point we were already sleeping in separate beds and stuff.
- 1:35:46Okay, so you were living together, but you were kind of separating.
- 1:35:50But she was stay at home mom, so you went to do this hike.
- 1:35:54She knew you were going to do it, I assume.
- 1:35:56point I had moved out now.
- 1:35:57I'd already moved out.
- 1:35:59Divorce was filed.
- 1:36:01ah Correct.
- 1:36:04Right.
- 1:36:05Okay.
- 1:36:06And originally all four kids went with her.
- 1:36:10And then you decide to do this hike.
- 1:36:11Did you have shared custody where they would spend like every other weekend?
- 1:36:15we had shared custody, 50-50 custody.
- 1:36:18So I was getting the kids on the every other weekend.
- 1:36:26And then if I could get them every weekend, I'd drop whatever and I would make sure I got them every weekend, right?
- 1:36:33So I was always trying to get as much time with them as possible.
- 1:36:36Mom had agreed.
- 1:36:38Now that I looked retrospect on the situation, it was a smart move.
- 1:36:45But mom had agreed for the boys to go on the hike with me in 2018, up until two months before I was ready to take off.
- 1:36:56And then she pulled the plug, because she had final decision making at that time.
- 1:37:01Arizona has a parental final decision making clause in their custody paperwork.
- 1:37:07So one parent always has the final say.
- 1:37:11That's interesting.
- 1:37:13uh So she pulls the plug on it and I was pissed.
- 1:37:20But now that I look back on it retrospective, it was smart.
- 1:37:23Joey was only 12.
- 1:37:26Tyler was 11.
- 1:37:27And uh I've seen kids doing the hike, but to complete the hike is a different story, right?
- 1:37:36Right, right.
- 1:37:37a tough trail.
- 1:37:38It's the hardest in the US for sure.
- 1:37:41Pacific Crest Trail.
- 1:37:42Yeah, because you're going through the Sierras and you know Mount Whitney and all that.
- 1:37:48So now that I look at retrospect it was probably the smartest thing.
- 1:37:54How did you prepare for that hike?
- 1:37:56Had you been hiking through your life, like every weekend doing a hike to prepare?
- 1:38:02Did you just go for it?
- 1:38:04I stepped on that trail 270 pounds drinking half a fifth of whiskey a day smoking a pack and a half of cigarettes a No way.
- 1:38:13If you guys are really interested in hearing the story, I don't want to keep you here for hours.
- 1:38:20No, no, that's what that's what we're all about.
- 1:38:23I do have a question though, really quick.
- 1:38:25I don't want to throw us off, but are you type two?
- 1:38:30And had you known that before you hit the trailer, did you find it out later?
- 1:38:34I found it out.
- 1:38:35A before I went on trail, something like that.
- 1:38:39A couple months before.
- 1:38:40So.
- 1:38:44So how did you prepare because you said you were basically out of a fifth of whiskey So I'm picturing you watch this movie, Wild, now that you said that title, I've heard of that movie, I haven't watched it, but you watched Wild, you got inspired to do this hike, you're not a hiker, but you decided this looks great, your son ...
- 1:39:07in the outdoors, hunting, fishing, camping.
- 1:39:12Right.
- 1:39:13Your one son has been diagnosed type 1, had been diagnosed as a child, so you're like, why don't I do this for charity basically or for awareness, to bring awareness to type 1 juvenile diabetes, but you're not a hiker.
- 1:39:27It all came, now that you put it that way, gets me little choked up when I think about it.
- 1:39:34The hike started out was a mission for myself.
- 1:39:41Okay.
- 1:39:42After I seen the movie, diabetes wasn't even in the picture.
- 1:39:47Or, you know, doing the hike for diabetes wasn't even in the picture.
- 1:39:51Tyler had already been diagnosed.
- 1:39:53But I got so enthralled with that trail, I knew I had to do it.
- 1:40:00So I knew I was going to do the trail.
- 1:40:03how, where, what, when, I had no clue but I knew I was gonna do this trail.
- 1:40:08We went through the divorce.
- 1:40:11We got divorced I think in 2016.
- 1:40:13so then I was major alcoholic for about five years, three years before we divorced and then two years after we divorced.
- 1:40:23Mm-hmm.
- 1:40:24I was a functioning alcoholic.
- 1:40:25I could drink a fifth to a fifth of Evan Williams whiskey and wake up the next morning, go to work completely fine, not hung over or nothing.
- 1:40:35Never went to work drunk, know, didn't drink until after work.
- 1:40:38Did that for five years.
- 1:40:41And, I met a guy named Gates Dixon.
- 1:40:45And he was kind of a goofy guy.
- 1:40:47was taking care of his elderly mom.
- 1:40:49Told him about this crazy hike that I wanted to do.
- 1:40:53And he got enthralled with it as well.
- 1:40:56So, and we were both living in apartments at the time.
- 1:40:59Well, we got this wild hair.
- 1:41:01We were going to do this hike together and we went got a house together, right?
- 1:41:05So we got a house together.
- 1:41:06We're prepping, getting ready for this hike.
- 1:41:09I'm excited, I'm working on sponsorships.
- 1:41:11Well, this guy ends up disappearing and flaking on me one day.
- 1:41:14Just woke up one morning, he had moved out, took all the gear, I got him and left.
- 1:41:21my gosh.
- 1:41:22So I was like, what the hell?
- 1:41:24Okay.
- 1:41:26Found out he went to Colorado or something and got together with an ex-wife or something.
- 1:41:31I don't know, just flaked out.
- 1:41:33So then I was like, okay, well, I guess I'm doing this hype by myself, right?
- 1:41:37Still drinking half a fifth of whiskey a day, smoking a pack and a half of smokes a day.
- 1:41:44I'm 270 pounds.
- 1:41:46wear a 549 inch waist pant, you know?
- 1:41:51And my fat dumb ass thinks he's gonna get out there and hike this hike, right?
- 1:41:56I step on trail, I've got pictures with a 80 pound pack.
- 1:42:02overweight.
- 1:42:03and I'm gonna do this hike.
- 1:42:04So, I alcohol it for five years.
- 1:42:08I stepped on the Pacific Crest Trail with a carton of cigarettes in my pack and two fifths of Evan Williams whiskey, bourbon whiskey.
- 1:42:20fucking idiot.
- 1:42:21made it four days the first day or four miles the first day.
- 1:42:24And had to set up tent in the dark that first day.
- 1:42:27It took me all day to make four miles.
- 1:42:30I'm dying because I've looked into hiking the Appalachian Trail, the AT, right?
- 1:42:35Everyone talks about ultra light.
- 1:42:38No one's bringing up two fifths of booze and in a carton of cigarettes, right?
- 1:42:44Yeah.
- 1:42:46They're trying to get down to like 20 pounds, you roll in with 80 pounds.
- 1:42:50Yeah.
- 1:42:51That's funny.
- 1:42:52so much shit from other hikers on trail about the size of my pack.
- 1:42:58It was a 90 liter pack.
- 1:42:59These guys are all humping 40 liter pack.
- 1:43:01Right.
- 1:43:03But I'm a creature of comfort and I, know, military background.
- 1:43:06I was an infantry dragon gunner.
- 1:43:09I was a grunt.
- 1:43:12All, you know, packing out deer out of ravines and shit like that, you know, 120 pounds of deer meat and stuff, know, so I was just like, no biggie.
- 1:43:23Yeah.
- 1:43:25um I lost 65 pounds within the first two months of being on trail.
- 1:43:34Wow.
- 1:43:35I haven't drank a drop of whiskey since.
- 1:43:37don't smoke that trail.
- 1:43:41think here up here on my arm stand up.
- 1:43:46That trail will fix any fucking buddy's problems that they have if they give it a chance.
- 1:43:54I was a Bolivian drunk overweight alcoholic smoking and two to three months in on that trail.
- 1:44:05I didn't even have them.
- 1:44:06inkling of a thought of any of it.
- 1:44:09It's amazing.
- 1:44:10I drank the first fifth on trail.
- 1:44:14The second fifth, I ended up dumping out and carrying the empty bottle out to trash.
- 1:44:20Quit smoking the cigarettes and I lost 70 pounds on trail.
- 1:44:27And that was in 2018.
- 1:44:30Now I'm 200 pounds.
- 1:44:33I've gained 15 pounds because I've got to carb up before I get on trail.
- 1:44:37Cause I'm going to burn.
- 1:44:38I'll burn.
- 1:44:3920 pounds in the first month, first three weeks.
- 1:44:44So I'm on a calorie intake right now, trying to get to about 215.
- 1:44:52When I got off the trail in 2018, I went from 265 to 190, 185.
- 1:45:04So and then I came back, fought for my kids and went through that whole process, right?
- 1:45:10Well, so you quit both alcohol and cigarettes on trail on your own.
- 1:45:19You're hiking this trail on your own, which is challenging enough for anyone.
- 1:45:24ah Solo hike.
- 1:45:26I was going to ask you, you went solo.
- 1:45:29And then quit out.
- 1:45:30You've been drinking for five years and smoking.
- 1:45:34of whiskey every day, seven days a week.
- 1:45:36Did you go through physical withdrawals on trail?
- 1:45:40No, or if I did, I didn't know it because I was so focused on the hike and miles and getting from point A to point B and miles, miles, miles, make sure I got my water.
- 1:45:56Over, and it takes about three or four months on trail, but what happens is you go through a...
- 1:46:02separation point where you kind of separate from reality in a sense from civilization.
- 1:46:12I know that sounds weird, but the only thing you your mind starts to focus on food, water.
- 1:46:20Where am I going to sleep?
- 1:46:21Food, water.
- 1:46:22Where am I going to sleep?
- 1:46:24Food, water.
- 1:46:25Where am I?
- 1:46:26on top of, oh wow, look at that beautiful mountain.
- 1:46:29Look at that gorgeous tree.
- 1:46:31Wow, I want to go down there.
- 1:46:34You know, so three or four months in, that's all I thought about.
- 1:46:38So I probably did go through some withdrawals, but didn't realize it.
- 1:46:43And I sweat out.
- 1:46:47So all the toxins, all the nicotine, all the alcohol.
- 1:46:51The first 30, 60 days, you're sweating out all these toxins.
- 1:46:58And the first day I did four miles, the second day I did five.
- 1:47:03The next day I took a zero day.
- 1:47:05Shit, zero day after nine miles, you weak bitch.
- 1:47:08And I got back on and kept on, you know, and eventually I got to where I was pulling 20, 25 miles a day.
- 1:47:16Didn't have to take zero days as much.
- 1:47:20But I was enjoying the hike itself so much that I didn't realize that I was going through that transformation until I would get off trail and I would go to resupply.
- 1:47:32Like for example, the first 700 miles, it's all desert hiking.
- 1:47:37So when I got to Kennedy Meadows, I'd lost a ton of weight, wasn't drinking, wasn't smoking.
- 1:47:44And that's when I first had that inkling when I got.
- 1:47:47into a place where could see myself in a mirror and I was like, wow, holy shit.
- 1:47:53Did you recognize yourself?
- 1:47:55I did except for all the hair and the beard.
- 1:47:58ah Usually I'm clean cut and I don't even have this for a beard.
- 1:48:04Usually it's a goatee and I'm in a suit and tie and doing my thing.
- 1:48:09ah So yeah, so it was definitely a...
- 1:48:14uh an experience but...
- 1:48:17Life changing, absolutely life changing.
- 1:48:19Every person I say, I, you know, anybody that struggles with drugs or alcohol, in my opinion, You will never find better rehab than being thrown out in the middle of the wilderness with no option or way to resupply on your booze or cigarettes.
- 1:48:39for three weeks, two, three weeks, you get through the withdrawals, you get through the whatever, you know what I mean?
- 1:48:49I would suggest it to anybody I've thought about, I would love to take a bunch of alcoholics, drug addicts, and make them hike the PCT for six months.
- 1:49:00I'm telling you.
- 1:49:01Your body does some weird shit, transformative-wise.
- 1:49:05I'm sure there was toxins and stuff that were just coming out of my body that I had no idea of, It was a healing journey, literally.
- 1:49:15which brings me all it kind of brings it full circle back to why I started this nonprofit organization hiking for home.
- 1:49:25ah and what I expect this charity to do over the next 15, 20 years.
- 1:49:33So, just to go back, on this first time you um hiked the Pacific Coast Trail, what was one of the most memorable days on hike for you?
- 1:49:48Crab tree meadows.
- 1:49:49Now keep in mind you're talking to somebody that, you he spent a lot of my life out in the wilderness, but not doing anything to this extreme.
- 1:50:00Hiking Mount Whitney, summoning 14,500 feet, highest peak in the lower 48 states, and doing it in one day, up and back in six and a half hours, was probably one of the...
- 1:50:18You feel like you accomplished something.
- 1:50:21ah And then going through just the sierras, you summit nine passes through the sierras.
- 1:50:28Did you start in San Diego or Southern California?
- 1:50:33Southern California at Campo, just outside of San Diego at the Mexican border.
- 1:50:39What do you do for water on that stretch of it?
- 1:50:42Um, you pack it.
- 1:50:43oh pack it, yeah.
- 1:50:46Because there's no natural flowing water that you can purify to drink, right?
- 1:50:50It's all probably pretty damn dry out there.
- 1:50:53There are water supply points and that's where you have to know where they're at.
- 1:50:58A lot of strategic planning on these maps here behind me.
- 1:51:02ah I go through and I can highlight where all the water resupply points are or where they should be depending on the time of season.
- 1:51:11ah The longest stretch of no water is typically going through uh Death Valley.
- 1:51:21going through that lower desert portion.
- 1:51:24The longest stretch I think is 58 miles with no water, so I gotta pack that through.
- 1:51:29You know, maybe a more pointed question, but you started, think, I don't know if I'd say it's the harder part, but there's no water, it's dry, it's hot as hell.
- 1:51:39You're 270, you're giving up the booze, you're giving up the nicotine.
- 1:51:43Did you get like, I don't know, like in the first 10 days or 14 days, were you like, what the hell am I doing?
- 1:51:48And did you want to bail or were you in it?
- 1:51:52And did it carry you through that?
- 1:51:54carried me through it, and I'll be honest with you, Bailey never entered my mind.
- 1:51:59And here's why, for me anyway.
- 1:52:02I'm a very visual person.
- 1:52:06And a lot of stuff that I do.
- 1:52:09And...
- 1:52:09The unknown, what's around the bend?
- 1:52:12What am I gonna see next?
- 1:52:13I had deer coming up to me, three feet from me, sniffing me.
- 1:52:18Bear that would stop and check me out.
- 1:52:22know, what am I doing coming through their area?
- 1:52:26The bobcats and stuff that were following me and all those things.
- 1:52:34I was always excited.
- 1:52:36for the next day, what am gonna see tomorrow?
- 1:52:39What am I gonna see today?
- 1:52:41What am I gonna deal with today?
- 1:52:44So I never had that feeling of bailing.
- 1:52:46Yeah, and that feeling of representing other people.
- 1:52:52That's true, because you were sponsored.
- 1:52:54you were, it's not like you were just going out on your own.
- 1:52:57It was, you were carrying some, in some ways carrying some burden and carrying others with you.
- 1:53:04hike.
- 1:53:05probably had I think less than 10 sponsors, but I had a couple of decent sponsors.
- 1:53:10Work was one of them, oh And so I had some people, but you guys got to remember this was before social media blew up before TikTok, Instagram, all this.
- 1:53:22So I had one platform.
- 1:53:24Facebook.
- 1:53:27OK.
- 1:53:27Well, so you said your initial inspiration was the movie and for yourself.
- 1:53:32When did you decide to make this em like a chair to bring awareness to diabetes?
- 1:53:39When did you make make that decision?
- 1:53:42Probably in 2017 when I knew I was gonna do this hike, but I knew I wanted to do it for something.
- 1:53:54I wanted it to have a meaning behind it, not just I went on a long hike.
- 1:53:59You know what I mean?
- 1:54:01And I told myself, I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna do it for a cause, for a reason.
- 1:54:07ah It's not just about me.
- 1:54:10was my thought process.
- 1:54:12ah had a newly diagnosed type 1 diabetic, you know, kid.
- 1:54:18And I thought, why not?
- 1:54:21I'll do it for JDRF.
- 1:54:23Something that, you know, and I was just starting to learn about diabetes.
- 1:54:28And at that time we were uh going to the Children's Hospital in Phoenix.
- 1:54:34Phoenix Children's Hospital is where we were going every week and they were, you know, going through the classes and learning about diabetes and all that stuff.
- 1:54:44So it just seemed like the natural fit at the time.
- 1:54:47So you go and you do this hike for six months, this life changing, healing journey, this transformation in every way, probably physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually.
- 1:54:58Imagine it covered every level of your life, just the whole transformation.
- 1:55:02You get back home and realize, shit's at the fan with the kids.
- 1:55:08You need to get in there.
- 1:55:10You need to get the kids out of that situation.
- 1:55:13um Was there pushback from your ex-wife in taking three of the kids?
- 1:55:21yeah, yeah, she tried to.
- 1:55:23So what happened was while I was on trail in July of that year is when Sedona, my daughter was diagnosed with type one diabetes.
- 1:55:33In fact, I got the call on trail, happened to have service that day, was getting ready to summit a mountain.
- 1:55:41And she calls me, says, yeah, I'm in the hospital.
- 1:55:43I just got diagnosed with type one diabetes as I'm hiking for type one diabetes.
- 1:55:49Right, Wow.
- 1:55:52So, you know, that was, that hit me a little bit.
- 1:55:56had to take off the pack and, you know, console her and talk to her about it, know, to Sedona and stuff.
- 1:56:05But yeah, when I came, so while I was on trial, I didn't know it, but mom had been going for full custody, told the courts that I had abandoned the kids and disappeared.
- 1:56:18Mmm.
- 1:56:19concocted this big story to present to the courts.
- 1:56:23Well, lo and did she know, and that's where she was hiding the phone in the pop-tah, the storage and all that stuff so they didn't have a phone.
- 1:56:32The boys were going out when they'd get home from school and they'd get the phone and plug it in and they'd call me.
- 1:56:37Mmm.
- 1:56:39And I didn't even know at that point all the stuff that was going on.
- 1:56:43I just thought the boys were calling me, right?
- 1:56:45Hey, dad, we're home, you know.
- 1:56:47So this whole time we were talking the whole time.
- 1:56:51So when I came back.
- 1:56:52Day three, I found out.
- 1:56:56The court had sent me a notice or something like a 60 day or 30 day notice or something.
- 1:57:01So they were getting ready to grant her full.
- 1:57:05100 % final decision making custody.
- 1:57:08Wow.
- 1:57:09I got a letter that day, day three.
- 1:57:12The streets still smell like piss to me because I've been in the wilderness for so long, right?
- 1:57:17So I get this letter at my office at work of all places.
- 1:57:25I think I have my maybe I have my mail forwarded there or something, but so I get this letter and I've got court the next day, eight thirty in the morning.
- 1:57:35And this is their second time trying to subpoena me to court.
- 1:57:41The first time I was still on trial.
- 1:57:42So I show up to court and at this point I go in with three lawyers and a lawyer for each kid and myself.
- 1:57:53And I walked out with custody of the boys first.
- 1:57:58But during that time when the boys, when I was on trail and the boys were with mom, they were taking pictures of the living conditions that they were.
- 1:58:06mmm And that's ultimately the judge was like, yeah, mom, she's gotten better now from my understanding, but she really got into this hoarding thing.
- 1:58:21You've seen that show Hoarders and that's what it turned into.
- 1:58:26So I got, I got him out of that situation.
- 1:58:29Um, and then eventually when I got custody of the full custody of the boys with final decision making.
- 1:58:37We came to Oregon and then my daughter, Sedona, called me six months later saying she wanted to come.
- 1:58:46So I brought her up here for a visit and then she said, I'm not going back.
- 1:58:51So I had to start the court battle all over again for her, won that.
- 1:58:58And then Jessica, my youngest, who just turned 14, I wasn't gonna try to pull, because I didn't wanna force a kid away from a parent.
- 1:59:06Yeah.
- 1:59:07So I always left it up to them.
- 1:59:09When you're ready, you come and talk to me.
- 1:59:11We'll talk.
- 1:59:11If I'm sure you're ready, then we'll make it happen.
- 1:59:16Jessica never found that spot because I think their mother realized she lost three.
- 1:59:25You know, she has a relationship with them, but they don't talk.
- 1:59:27They're not close.
- 1:59:28don't.
- 1:59:29Right.
- 1:59:31So she realized Jessica, the one who's 14 now is her last hope to, you know.
- 1:59:38So, and I'm close with all of my kids.
- 1:59:42to me, I'm like, as long as she's in good hands, she's healthy, she's being taken care of, I'm fine with it, you know.
- 1:59:48So you basically were a single dad then raising these kids because how old were the boys were?
- 1:59:54What?
- 1:59:55Twelve.
- 1:59:55They were young when they came to when he was ten or excuse me eleven and Tyler was ten And so through their middle school or junior high years or high school years, you were so how long did the battle go on where you were having to sleep against the door and make sure they stayed in?
- 2:00:12How long in I first got back from the hype.
- 2:00:16and then eventually did that all even out.
- 2:00:18Yeah, that went on for about.
- 2:00:20I think it was four months they had people coming in for four months.
- 2:00:24Yeah, and then it kind of leveled out.
- 2:00:26And then I had to go through and convince the courts to let me relocate the kids from Arizona to Oregon, away from the mother, even though I had full custody, right?
- 2:00:39Huh, again, good Lord.
- 2:00:42looking down, whichever the boys had an assigned probation officer because the state had put them on probation when they were going through all that stuff while I was gone.
- 2:00:53Yeah.
- 2:00:53funniest shit I've seen.
- 2:00:55So I go to meet this probation officer for the first time as I get off, you know, I get back from the trail day three or day four.
- 2:01:04So I'm sitting at the DHS office waiting for this guy to come in.
- 2:01:07And this black guy walks in, and I'm not exaggerating whatsoever, like he just walked in off of the boogie train.
- 2:01:19What was that dance show in the 70s?
- 2:01:22Yeah, Night Train or?
- 2:01:24What?
- 2:01:25Was it Night I can't remember.
- 2:01:27It was like American Bandstand, but it was...
- 2:01:30Where they danced around the music and shit?
- 2:01:32But I can't remember.
- 2:01:35Soul Train.
- 2:01:35Soul Train.
- 2:01:36Soul Train.
- 2:01:36So this guy, and he is the coolest dude ever, I swear to God.
- 2:01:41uh He walks in the door with the whole complete pimp outfit hat and all.
- 2:01:50like a pimp from the 70s just came in off the sidewalk in New York.
- 2:01:55I am not joking you.
- 2:01:57So I was like, all right, let's go.
- 2:01:59And he's like in his mid to late 60s.
- 2:02:03Mmm.
- 2:02:05Ah.
- 2:02:06Funny as shit.
- 2:02:06So the guy comes in, we get to talking, he's interviewed the mom already and stuff.
- 2:02:13He's like, I'm gonna get you to Oregon with those kids.
- 2:02:17Mm.
- 2:02:17This is a probation officer for juvenile court, right?
- 2:02:21He's all, I'm going to give you a 30 day approval letter to go up to Oregon to visit family.
- 2:02:28Every 25 days, I'm going to send you a new 30-day letter.
- 2:02:33Wow.
- 2:02:34until they are completely out of state custody.
- 2:02:43Okay.
- 2:02:44because they were still warded the court and all that stuff.
- 2:02:48So I'm like, okay.
- 2:02:51And I was a little like, is this really happening right now?
- 2:02:55So we go into court in Phoenix the last day, the day we're getting ready to leave to Oregon.
- 2:03:04And the guy's name is Rolf and Rolf is in there.
- 2:03:10And I'm like, hey, what's going on?
- 2:03:12And that pimp outfit worked court all the time, everything.
- 2:03:17The big round pimp purple hat and everything.
- 2:03:21Right?
- 2:03:22I was just like, what the heck, And so he shows up at court that day and he tells the Honor, yeah, they, you know, haven't been able to see family in years because of the mother.
- 2:03:35So I want to give them permission to go up to Oregon and I give them a 30 day notice.
- 2:03:39The courts were like, yeah, just monitor it, make sure everything's good.
- 2:03:43So sure as shit, every 25 days he'd send me a new email, another 30 days, until the courts released the kids into my custody full-time and got them off out of state custody.
- 2:03:56That's a very creative way for him to do that.
- 2:03:59We were his last case before he retired.
- 2:04:03And I think he...
- 2:04:04something in you.
- 2:04:05Yeah.
- 2:04:06Yeah, he knew those kids needed to go with you.
- 2:04:08Yeah.
- 2:04:09I was shocked the whole time going, can't believe this is really happening from a state official.
- 2:04:15Okay, so now you've done your hike.
- 2:04:18Are you still working for the American Fire and Safety Company?
- 2:04:23working for American Fire Equipment this entire time.
- 2:04:28And then...
- 2:04:30and you have three kids.
- 2:04:31You've done your hike and now you have three kids you're raising.
- 2:04:34Right, and we moved to Oregon.
- 2:04:36Okay, did you continue to hike during that time?
- 2:04:40Okay, so you're just raising the kids and working.
- 2:04:42wasn't a hiker, he just got on the trail for of know, but it transformed his life.
- 2:04:47Okay, but now you have to be...
- 2:04:49done small like three or four or five day hikes since then, but nothing that extreme.
- 2:04:55Right.
- 2:04:56But you've got three kids now you're raising.
- 2:04:58Yeah, so we do a lot of hiking and camping now, like small hikes, maybe five, 10 miles in type thing, you know.
- 2:05:06Right.
- 2:05:06But like you said before, you focused on the kids and work during this time.
- 2:05:12That was your focus, is getting these kids through school.
- 2:05:16And then, so where did um Hiking for Hope come from?
- 2:05:20When did that enter the picture?
- 2:05:22Well, so I was with American uh Flier Equipment for eight years and made it through three buyouts.
- 2:05:33They sold out to different companies three times in that 10 years.
- 2:05:37Now remember, I started at Hiller uh as a bill collector.
- 2:05:44That was my job, sit there and just collect on these old invoices.
- 2:05:47By the time I left Hiller, I was managing a $150 million rolling receivable, 36 offices in the United States and three offshore offices in Dubai.
- 2:06:03So in 2014, and I worked remote for 10 years from home, which gave me the opportunity to raise these kids, keep them out of trouble, get them back on track, you know what I mean?
- 2:06:22So I didn't have to go and leave anybody at home or they didn't have to come home like we did as Latchkey kids.
- 2:06:29Right?
- 2:06:29No, it's ideal situation, honestly.
- 2:06:31And it was, and I moved us out in Oregon.
- 2:06:34When we came to Oregon, we moved up on the middle of 10 acres out in the middle of nowhere.
- 2:06:40So kind of how you grew up five miles for them to get to the nearest store.
- 2:06:46back in Springfield.
- 2:06:48Yeah, well, not in Springfield, in Oak Ridge, outside of Springfield.
- 2:06:55you do the whole livestock thing like you did when you were growing up?
- 2:06:58Did you have that on your property with these with your kids?
- 2:07:01No, I didn't have time for the livestock.
- 2:07:03Up there, there's a herd of like 80 elk that would come through our yard every day.
- 2:07:08So I just sat out on my back patio and I'd watch the elk come through and every morning like clockwork.
- 2:07:16It was just really kind of getting everybody centered back to center mass.
- 2:07:22You know what I mean?
- 2:07:23get the boys into a routine, get myself into a routine, get out of the hustle and the bustle.
- 2:07:29um They could.
- 2:07:32are worlds apart, right?
- 2:07:34Phoenix area compared to Springfield, you're in nature.
- 2:07:37You're going from concrete jungle, sand, hot weather to magic.
- 2:07:44How did they acclimate?
- 2:07:47Was it a hard transition for them?
- 2:07:49To this day they said they'll never leave Oregon.
- 2:07:52Mmm, wonderful.
- 2:07:54Wonderful.
- 2:07:55No, so they're happy.
- 2:07:58Yeah, because they were all born and raised young in Arizona.
- 2:08:02And when they came out to Oregon for the first time, they were like in awe, just complete the mountains, the trees, you know, ah everybody having yards instead of gravel in their front yard, know, no.
- 2:08:19Yeah.
- 2:08:22They uh They're hooked.
- 2:08:24They'll never leave.
- 2:08:25They love it here.
- 2:08:27have you taken them hunting, fishing, all the things you did as a kid?
- 2:08:33That's wonderful.
- 2:08:34Our garage is just full of camping gear, fishing gear, hunting gear.
- 2:08:39You've come full circle with your kids.
- 2:08:42now that you bring it up, I've never thought about it that deeply, but yeah, I guess so, Yeah.
- 2:08:50you said you worked for American Fire and Safety, you said eight years?
- 2:08:55ah Yeah, well for eight years and then they sold out to a company called Johnson.
- 2:09:00materials or something like that.
- 2:09:02It's another ah fire safety company ah who came in and they bought American fire equipment.
- 2:09:13Or actually, I take that back.
- 2:09:14American fire sold out to a company called Hiller.
- 2:09:20Mm.
- 2:09:21Hiller bought, operate and owned the company for two years and then they bought or they sold again.
- 2:09:32And then they sold the third time to Johnson in.
- 2:09:37Twenty twenty two, twenty twenty three.
- 2:09:40So from.
- 2:09:41Yeah, from twenty sixteen.
- 2:09:46Or twenty twenty or twenty fifteen up until.
- 2:09:51that point or this point company had changed ownership three times.
- 2:09:56and you survived all those three.
- 2:09:58survived all three of those cuts.
- 2:10:00In February, the new company Johnson, who bought out Hiller and kept the name, ah finally came in and cut all the executive managers from the CEO, CFO, COO down to myself.
- 2:10:20That was in February of 2024.
- 2:10:23so recent.
- 2:10:25So the day that they uh laid me off or gave me my walking papers and cashed out all my retirement and all that stuff, I started, I took my retirement and I invested it into Hiking for Hope and said I'm gonna open a nonprofit organization and I'm gonna spend the rest of my life hiking all over the planet.
- 2:10:54to bring awareness for diabetes.
- 2:10:56and other other charities.
- 2:10:57So this one is for diabetes research and mental health awareness.
- 2:11:02I'm planning a 16,000 mile hike that circumfers the US in 2029 for breast cancer and spousal abuse awareness.
- 2:11:14And we're kicking around adding a third one on that.
- 2:11:17So it'll be broken up into three sections for each one for each.
- 2:11:22It's just different charities in general.
- 2:11:25So when does this first one start?
- 2:11:28So, it's already started.
- 2:11:32I stepped foot on the Pacific Crest Trail for my second through hike of the PCT on March 1st with my two sons.
- 2:11:41Yes.
- 2:11:43they went with you.
- 2:11:45That's awesome.
- 2:11:46So from March till you must have just gotten off recently then?
- 2:11:50Ha! I told you there was a lot more to this story.
- 2:11:54So we stepped foot March 1st, Campo, at the southern terminus of the Pacific Crest Trail, heading northbound at 4.30 in the afternoon.
- 2:12:05All excited.
- 2:12:05Everybody's got the gear.
- 2:12:07I 18 months promoting and sponsoring this hike.
- 2:12:13Brought in over 20 uh national and global sponsors.
- 2:12:18Some of our sponsors include Columbia Sportswear, GoPro, RecPak, Osprey Bags, PAX, Big Agnes, Dexcom.
- 2:12:28So we've got a ton of sponsors and we're still uh We're right in the middle of our 2025 uh sponsorship campaign right now until I leave.
- 2:12:38So we're bringing on more sponsors.
- 2:12:40uh Bass Pro Shops and yeah, just a ton of them.
- 2:12:47so um we step on trail March 1st and I leave my vehicle at a buddy's house who lives in El Cajon, California in Southern Cal.
- 2:13:00Mm-hmm.
- 2:13:01He gets us to the terminus and we head out.
- 2:13:05First day, ah we hike for six miles in the dark.
- 2:13:12We set up camp.
- 2:13:14Great, we're on the PCT, you know.
- 2:13:16I'm excited for the boys because I get to show them all the cool shit that I seen last time and they're pumped and excited.
- 2:13:23And we're heading to Howser Creek, mile 20, first spot.
- 2:13:28Howser Creek is what you want to get to.
- 2:13:30So some people do it in the first day.
- 2:13:33We get there our first or the second day we get to the bottom of Howser Creek.
- 2:13:38Totally just get slammed on by rain, right?
- 2:13:43Part of the course, whichever, our tents get flooded out.
- 2:13:48So we have to dry out our pack and some of our gear, get our gear, rain gear on, get everything covered up.
- 2:13:55Day two, we get heading northbound on the trail.
- 2:13:58Everything's going fine.
- 2:13:59ah Our first weekend, we're getting close to Julian, Southern Cal, for the first couple of weeks.
- 2:14:08So we get to Julian and a winter storm hits and drops about foot of snow in the first two nights that we're there because we get to Julian so that we can resupply right we did more food and pick up a resupply box and stuff like that so ah we had already gone through a couple of small little towns that we did some stopovers and help the community with some community cleanup stuff so we go to Julian and So we're there for like three days getting hit by the snowstorm.
- 2:14:46And we're at that VFW hall in Julian camped.
- 2:14:51Our tents are pitched underneath this eave on a deck that they had.
- 2:14:55And so at we're getting some good food out of the restaurant, you know, there.
- 2:15:00Waiting for the snow to stop and start to warm up.
- 2:15:04The snow starts to let up.
- 2:15:06We're getting some rains that's helping melt some of the snow so we get back on trail.
- 2:15:13We're leaving Julian headed to Idlewild.
- 2:15:18And we get about eight miles from Idlewild, so halfway in between.
- 2:15:23Mm-hmm.
- 2:15:24It's more than halfway, but we're eight miles from getting to Idlewild.
- 2:15:28Beautiful day out, sun's gorgeous out.
- 2:15:32I'm about a mile and a half, two miles ahead of the boys, right?
- 2:15:36So I uh stopped to have lunch, wait for them to catch up, do some recording, loving the fact all these new social media platforms I can go on and share the hike with.
- 2:15:52And...
- 2:15:53So I do a bit, eat lunch, I'm like, God, where are these guys at?
- 2:15:58So I finally, text them, where are you guys at?
- 2:16:01I'm fucking eight, I'm ready to leave, you know, let's go.
- 2:16:04Oh, well they had stopped about a mile and a half too, behind me.
- 2:16:07And so they stopped and ate lunch.
- 2:16:09So I'm like, okay, I'll take some time to catch up with them.
- 2:16:13Okay, so I look at the maps, look at the weather maps, everything's good, it's gonna be a gorgeous rest of the day.
- 2:16:19So boys, catch up with me.
- 2:16:21We start hiking mile and a half in eight miles from.
- 2:16:26out a while and all of sudden we start seeing a little bit of mist coming through the mountains, right?
- 2:16:31I'm like, oh, maybe we're up in the clouds, guys.
- 2:16:36This is cool.
- 2:16:37We're like 9000 feet up in altitude.
- 2:16:41And then all of sudden this storm comes through.
- 2:16:43And I'm not talking about just a little drizzle outside storm.
- 2:16:4880 mile an hour wind.
- 2:16:51my gosh.
- 2:16:52sleep sideways, literally sideways.
- 2:16:57Those, I should say 80 mile an hour gust winds, sustainable at 60 to 70.
- 2:17:02Crazy.
- 2:17:03Enough to hurt.
- 2:17:04Yeah.
- 2:17:04to hurt, that shit hurt, that ra- that- that freezing rain hitting you?
- 2:17:08Yeah.
- 2:17:08Yeah, that's painful.
- 2:17:10we're in a spot, we're right where there's no coverage.
- 2:17:15Right?
- 2:17:15So I'm going, okay, let's go further up trail and try to see if we can find coverage.
- 2:17:21So we start heading up the trail.
- 2:17:23Tyler's literally getting blown over on the ground.
- 2:17:26Now he's 5'5", 135 pounds with a 60 pound pack.
- 2:17:31So he's getting blown over.
- 2:17:32So I'm like, OK, this shit's getting crazy, ah We'll pitch a tent, everybody gets inside the tent, we'll wait out the storm.
- 2:17:41Great idea.
- 2:17:42So we find a big tree.
- 2:17:43There's a picture, there's a video of it actually on our TikTok and our social media.
- 2:17:50So there's a picture of Tyler, a video, you see him and he's got a face mask on and stuff and then he starts, and you see me walking through the storm, right?
- 2:17:59And it's just, grrr.
- 2:18:01So we grabbed somebody's tent.
- 2:18:04can't remember who is.
- 2:18:04We tried to pitch this tent.
- 2:18:06The storm's so bad we can't get the tent pitched.
- 2:18:09We can't get it open.
- 2:18:10We can't get it staked down.
- 2:18:12And it ah breaks the buckles on the tent cover, so we lose the cover to the tent.
- 2:18:21Oh.
- 2:18:21And the wind's just picking up harder and it's getting harder and worse.
- 2:18:25So I'm like, what do do?
- 2:18:27So you know what a footprint is, right?
- 2:18:29To your tent.
- 2:18:31No, I don't.
- 2:18:32Okay, a footprint is a piece of tent material that lays on the ground that you put your tent on to keep water.
- 2:18:38It's like a barrier.
- 2:18:40Yeah.
- 2:18:42So I'm like, okay, now the shit's getting cold.
- 2:18:46It's getting really cold.
- 2:18:48So the tent blew off.
- 2:18:51I'm not going to drag out another tent and fight that shit.
- 2:18:55So I grabbed the footprint and we all three get under it and we pull this foot.
- 2:19:02kept this footprint over us to get out of the rain, the sleet, and the snow, right?
- 2:19:09And by this, now it's dark.
- 2:19:12Oh, jeez.
- 2:19:13And we're holding this thing over us, sitting on our knees, really only enough room for two people, but I got my ass under that thing.
- 2:19:23And we lighted jet boil in there for heat.
- 2:19:27What's a jet boil?
- 2:19:28The thing I have.
- 2:19:30OK, OK.
- 2:19:31Little stove.
- 2:19:32OK, OK.
- 2:19:33So I'm like, we're drenched at this point.
- 2:19:35We didn't even have a chance to put on rain gear.
- 2:19:37I mean, this storm came in out of nowhere.
- 2:19:4030 seconds, we're in the middle of this fucking.
- 2:19:43At 9,000 feet.
- 2:19:44at 9,000 feet up, like 8,800 feet.
- 2:19:48Yeah, yeah.
- 2:19:49I'm like, okay, everybody, you know, sit on the edge of the footprint to keep it down or it's just gonna blow up on right.
- 2:19:56So we get situated.
- 2:19:58Got the jet boil lip.
- 2:20:00We're soaking wet.
- 2:20:02So we're starting to dry off now the front of us from this jet boil.
- 2:20:05So I'm like, okay.
- 2:20:06We run out of in the jet boil.
- 2:20:10So I'm like, okay, so now the kids, now the boys are, they're shaking, like literally.
- 2:20:17And I'm like, it's fucking getting cold.
- 2:20:19They're wet.
- 2:20:21I'm wet.
- 2:20:22I'm starting to get the shakes.
- 2:20:23Last thing we need is hypothermia to set in.
- 2:20:27Yeah.
- 2:20:27So luckily we have no phone service, but with the new iPhones you have satellite.
- 2:20:34We were able to pick up a satellite signal and call 911 and SARS came in and plucked us out.
- 2:20:42Wow.
- 2:20:43to search and rescue, they can't fly in.
- 2:20:47There's no way.
- 2:20:49Yeah, it's too windy.
- 2:20:52Yeah.
- 2:20:53Four and a half hours they hike up in this storm to find us.
- 2:20:59Amazing.
- 2:21:00They find us, put this big heat tent thing over us and all this shit, right?
- 2:21:06ah And then they hike out with our packs.
- 2:21:12We tried to get them to let us hike our packs out.
- 2:21:15We didn't want to be pictures on camera.
- 2:21:18We were joking about it.
- 2:21:20And they're like, yeah, sorry.
- 2:21:22And they hiked out with their own packs.
- 2:21:24So they had a pack on the back, a pack on the front.
- 2:21:28So we hiked out.
- 2:21:29They hiked us out.
- 2:21:30So we get to the bottom.
- 2:21:33Sheriff's departments down there, ambulance, all that stuff.
- 2:21:37Check us out.
- 2:21:38Boys have uh light or beginning signs of uh frostbite on their toes.
- 2:21:45uh Joey's got some frostbite setting in on his ring finger.
- 2:21:51ah And they're like, yeah, you guys are going into hypothermia.
- 2:21:57You're lucky they found you when you did, because we would have been pulling out bodies in the.
- 2:22:03Wow, that was so smart to call 911.
- 2:22:08Well, at first I was just thinking, we'll just sit here and wait and wait it out, right?
- 2:22:12And I thought we were going to be able to until we lost the fuel in the canister.
- 2:22:18We burned up the fuel.
- 2:22:20if you were solo hiking, you might've even waited it out, but you had your boys with you.
- 2:22:24So that changed.
- 2:22:26about that last night, me and the boys, was like, I would have probably waited it out.
- 2:22:31oh I would have, because I would have found a spot somewhere to pitch that tent, you know?
- 2:22:38Or I would have just hiked out.
- 2:22:40But what freaked me out is when I seen Tyler get blown over, on the left of us, we've got a mountain with a break.
- 2:22:49On the right of us, it's cliffs.
- 2:22:52I can't have him get blown over on, you know.
- 2:22:56So, and then when we run out, we ran out of the fuel in the canisters when I decided, yeah, we got to call SARS and get somebody up here.
- 2:23:05So they come and pluck us out, hike us down.
- 2:23:09We get cleared by the ambulance.
- 2:23:12We get into, Idlewild at like four in the morning.
- 2:23:18Sheriff gets us a hotel.
- 2:23:20finds a hotel that will open up a room for us and stuff when we get in, right?
- 2:23:25So then I'm worried about the boys because their toes are starting, they're getting, they're not black yet, but they're getting that yellow.
- 2:23:31They're real sensitive.
- 2:23:34They couldn't shower.
- 2:23:34The hot water was hurting and burning Pete.
- 2:23:38Joey's lost feeling in his finger.
- 2:23:40And keep in mind, Tyler's a type 1 diabetic.
- 2:23:44Believe it or not, his insulin did not freeze through this whole time.
- 2:23:47That's amazing.
- 2:23:48I was about to ask you that.
- 2:23:50That's amazing.
- 2:23:51I'm like, how did maybe insulin doesn't freeze?
- 2:23:54I don't know.
- 2:23:57Right.
- 2:23:57So never had any diabetes issues.
- 2:24:01His pump worked the whole time.
- 2:24:05So we get into Idlewild.
- 2:24:08The next day we go get breakfast.
- 2:24:12Still waiting for stuff to dry out.
- 2:24:16They're still dealing with the finger thing and the toes.
- 2:24:20So we decide, I'm like, all right, we're going to send you back home.
- 2:24:25I'm going send you back home, get that stuff taken care of.
- 2:24:28Tyler needs to go to his endo appointment, let her know what happened, make sure she's all good to go.
- 2:24:37And we'll meet up in Big Bear, right?
- 2:24:40Which is about so at this point we are.
- 2:24:43It's over 160 miles in.
- 2:24:46Big Bear is 270 miles.
- 2:24:49So I've got about a little over 100 miles to go solo.
- 2:24:54Does the trail take you over the peak of Big Bear?
- 2:24:56Or does it go around the base?
- 2:24:59Yeah.
- 2:25:01Okay.
- 2:25:02it kind of goes halfway up and around.
- 2:25:06With San Jacinto, it goes around the base or you can do an eight mile hike to the summit.
- 2:25:12Okay.
- 2:25:13So we're in Idlewild, San Santo.
- 2:25:20And so I send them home.
- 2:25:23It sucked.
- 2:25:24That was one of the hardest things to do.
- 2:25:26But.
- 2:25:27They probably didn't want to go either, right?
- 2:25:29They did, but they didn't, but they were like shit.
- 2:25:34A month out on trail for them was a long time.
- 2:25:37True, true.
- 2:25:38That's a shaking experience too to be caught in the woods like that and have to get rescued.
- 2:25:43Yeah, that freaked them out.
- 2:25:45Yeah, I would think so.
- 2:25:47Even at 20 and 21, they were pretty.
- 2:25:49And it was my, it was Joey, my oldest, his 21st birthday.
- 2:25:56March 17th, March 17th, St.
- 2:25:59Patrick's Day, we get plucked out by church and rescue.
- 2:26:04So I told him, said, you'll, you'll forever, you'll forever remember your 21st birthday.
- 2:26:12So we get to Idlewild, so I send them home.
- 2:26:16Mm-hmm.
- 2:26:18and they come home to take care of their stuff.
- 2:26:21They had a fun little trip back.
- 2:26:23They got to take the trains and the buses and people are asking about them because they have their packs and all this gear, you know, they had a church group that bottom dinner and you know, they just had a fun time getting back home.
- 2:26:39Yeah.
- 2:26:39Yeah.
- 2:26:39Yeah, exactly.
- 2:26:40As my ass is out here in the middle of nowhere.
- 2:26:45Here's where shit gets real.
- 2:26:47This comes back to your question.
- 2:26:49So we got onto the trail marked first.
- 2:26:51All this has happened in the first.
- 2:26:53three weeks.
- 2:26:54Hit by two major storms, one we got plucked out of, the other one in Julian.
- 2:27:01A lot of rain, lot of bitching and pissed off because the weather sucks so bad.
- 2:27:06Because in 2018, I had two days of rain in six months.
- 2:27:10That's gonna say it doesn't rain a whole lot.
- 2:27:12There's not a lot of precipitation in Southern California.
- 2:27:16Yeah.
- 2:27:16we had left three weeks earlier this time than I did last time.
- 2:27:23So we're cruising, getting wet, lot of shit.
- 2:27:28Me and my oldest son, him and I are like two peas in a pod.
- 2:27:34So we're a lot alike.
- 2:27:35So sometimes we clash, right?
- 2:27:37So I'm getting pissed off because he's out hiking me.
- 2:27:40I'm like, slow your ass down.
- 2:27:42Where are going?
- 2:27:43You don't know what to do.
- 2:27:44And he's like, screw you.
- 2:27:46And I'm like, fuck you.
- 2:27:48And then we meet up three hours later, five-five, good job.
- 2:27:54And then my younger son Tyler, who's 20, he's the total opposite.
- 2:28:01He's a very laid back, no drama, just want to do my thing.
- 2:28:08Yeah, me and Joey, we're always the loud ones.
- 2:28:10Didn't you tell?
- 2:28:11So I send them back and I stay another night in Idlewild at a campground and I decide I'm gonna go hit San Jacinto and then continue on up to Big Bear.
- 2:28:23Now granted in 2018, I was unable to hike or summit San Jacinto.
- 2:28:29uh I didn't have my snow gear with me that year either.
- 2:28:36ah What else happened?
- 2:28:38and I had torn a, uh what the hell do they call it?
- 2:28:45Hiker band in my knee.
- 2:28:49So in 2018.
- 2:28:50So I'm like, I'm going to do San Jacinto this time, right?
- 2:28:54Pissed off because the boys aren't with me, but that's okay.
- 2:28:57So I get back on trail, I'm heading to San Jacinto and I'm like, yeah, get to fucking finally summit this thing.
- 2:29:04And I start heading to the summit.
- 2:29:06getting into some snow.
- 2:29:08Nothing too bad, I can handle it.
- 2:29:10snow starts to get a little deeper.
- 2:29:12starting to warm up so that crust on the top layer of the ice is melting.
- 2:29:19So I'm starting to post hole.
- 2:29:21Next thing I know, I'm like three miles, three and a half miles from the summit and I'm post-holing up to my crotch.
- 2:29:30Every step between my knee and my crotch.
- 2:29:33So I'm post-holing like three feet, three and a half feet every step.
- 2:29:37Well, when you're post-holing like that, what you're doing is you're compacting that ice on the bottom of that step, right?
- 2:29:44During the afternoon when it's melting and it's cold, it's warmer.
- 2:29:49So now it's starting to get a little slick.
- 2:29:51So I decided, okay, all of my snow gear, my crampons, my ice axe, uh my micro spikes are all in my resupply box for the Sierra.
- 2:30:02So as much as I wanted to summit, I'm like pissed off.
- 2:30:05thinking this is the second time I have been able to get to the summit of this mountain.
- 2:30:10but I'm just not, I'm I'm seeing hikers come down in full winter gear.
- 2:30:16And I'm going up there and fucking looking like I'm walking, you know, summer gear.
- 2:30:21So I'm like, okay, I gotta turn around.
- 2:30:23So I turn around, start coming down the mountain.
- 2:30:27I'm fine, it's a little slippery.
- 2:30:29I'm sliding, using my trekking pole.
- 2:30:32And I hit this one spot and I just slip right onto my back.
- 2:30:35So now I'm on my back.
- 2:30:38on my pack like a damn turtle with my legs and arms up in the air.
- 2:30:43But it's at a real steep incline.
- 2:30:48I'm hitting this dim...
- 2:30:49So I'm sliding down basically 200 feet down this mountain and I can't get over...
- 2:30:56And I can't get myself over.
- 2:30:59The pack won't let me get myself over onto my stomach, right?
- 2:31:02The bottles, water bottles on the sideways and stuff are keeping me from flipping over.
- 2:31:07and you're sliding the whole time.
- 2:31:09sliding on my back.
- 2:31:10And I don't have an ice axe to slow my speed.
- 2:31:16So the only thing I've got are my trekking poles, which now I wish I wouldn't have used.
- 2:31:24Well, yeah, well, what happened was that's where the trekking poles came into play because I'm sliding.
- 2:31:31And the problem is I'm trying to get my feet in, but I'm up on this pack.
- 2:31:36just to give you an idea.
- 2:31:38Oh wow.
- 2:31:39Yeah.
- 2:31:40Wow.
- 2:31:4170 pound pack full of gear.
- 2:31:46When it's on, it exceeds my head.
- 2:31:50So I'm riding down the back of it, not this pack, but a pack just like it.
- 2:31:56So I'm down and I'm right at this big ass boulder that's like the size of my living room.
- 2:32:04my goodness.
- 2:32:04So the only thing I could think of, cause I didn't want to hit that fricking boulder, right?
- 2:32:09And the part that I'm sliding on, it's kind of goes around the rock.
- 2:32:15Yeah.
- 2:32:16ah So I grabbed my trekking poles and I tried to block myself from hitting the rock.
- 2:32:24I put up the trekking pole, it blocks my face, but I bust my teeth out on the trekking pole.
- 2:32:29oh no it busts out, one of my front teeth gets busted out lengthwise, so I have a tooth.
- 2:32:38The other tooth gets busted out at the gum line and I break out eight teeth.
- 2:32:43Oh my god.
- 2:32:44But at the same time, hitting that rock slowed me down enough to where I was able to take the trekking poles and dig them into the snow.
- 2:32:54I knew what to do.
- 2:32:56Just fucking dig these things down in the snow as hard as I can.
- 2:33:00Now that I look back on it, I wish I would have done that because it tore both my rotator cuff.
- 2:33:07Oh.
- 2:33:08So the weight, 65 pound bag, me being 200 pounds at the time, at this time.
- 2:33:16So 265 pounds sliding and I use these stretchy pulls, they stop my arms and everything else keeps going.
- 2:33:24my goodness.
- 2:33:26In my right one's still torn.
- 2:33:31But it flipped me over on my stomach.
- 2:33:33And I stopped.
- 2:33:34I was just like, holy shit, what the hell just happened?
- 2:33:38I assume you're bleeding.
- 2:33:40yeah.
- 2:33:41Yeah.
- 2:33:41Yeah, there's blood in the snow.
- 2:33:42Because the mouth bleeds a lot.
- 2:33:45So.
- 2:33:46I sit there for a minute and I start cleaning myself up with the snow.
- 2:33:50Yeah.
- 2:33:51Luckily, and I, this is the weird shit, so I was sore.
- 2:33:55in Idlewild so I was eating my vitamin I, my ibuprofen.
- 2:34:02On the trail they call it vitamin I because you eat it like Skittles, right?
- 2:34:05So I was eating ah ibuprofen and extra-strength Tylenol like Skittles.
- 2:34:12And then with the frozen snow and I was cleaning my face up and my busted up lips and crap.
- 2:34:19It numbed my mouth.
- 2:34:21So everything was numb.
- 2:34:23So there wasn't a whole lot of pain.
- 2:34:25was just it looked worse.
- 2:34:27What it felt right.
- 2:34:30So and my legs are just shard up that snow.
- 2:34:35On raw skin is like glass, I'm telling you.
- 2:34:39There's pictures in my TikTok.
- 2:34:41My legs are just freaking trapped.
- 2:34:44I tried to post uh one of my face, but TikTok keeps taking it down.
- 2:34:49Yeah, they're temperamental.
- 2:34:51So I get to the base, so I hike out down San Jacinto, down, and if you've ever been to San Jacinto, there's a big parking lot and there's a park area, a picnic area and all that stuff.
- 2:35:05So I hike out, come off the trail and I come into that area.
- 2:35:09Not a stolen site, right?
- 2:35:11Nobody around.
- 2:35:12So I'm like, okay, well, I guess I'm gonna hike 15 miles to the I-10 corridor where the PCT comes across the freeway or goes under the freeway to get to the Whitewater Preserves.
- 2:35:26That's my plan.
- 2:35:27So I start road hiking to get down from the San Jacinto Recreation Area.
- 2:35:35One car coming up the road.
- 2:35:38telling you, God's on my side.
- 2:35:41You guys have no fucking clue right now.
- 2:35:43So this couple comes up in this rental car thing and they see me and I've got blood and I'm hiking.
- 2:35:54Just want to get away from that mountain.
- 2:35:56Thankful I didn't break a bone.
- 2:35:57So they're like, are you okay?
- 2:35:59I'm like, yeah, I can explain to them.
- 2:36:01said, we're here.
- 2:36:03They were from Florida and they were sightseeing waiting to catch a plane back home.
- 2:36:08luck.
- 2:36:09So no, I was, they just stopped this guy looks like he was still it's like a state park or federal park area.
- 2:36:20So there's not a road to it.
- 2:36:21There's no traffic, no one to hit, you know, just a lonely hiker coming out of the woods bloodied up hiking down this big road.
- 2:36:30So they come up, they're coming up.
- 2:36:32So they stopped, there's a picture of me with them.
- 2:36:35getting a selfie with them.
- 2:36:38And so they're like, hey, we can give you a ride wherever you want to go.
- 2:36:42We're going to be going right.
- 2:36:44And it happened to be going right by where I was going on the I-10.
- 2:36:50Because they're going to go back to the airport.
- 2:36:53So I'm like, yes, thank you, thank you, thank you.
- 2:36:55So they give me a ride 15 miles to the I-10 corridor, the Pacific Crest Trail.
- 2:37:01There's a circle K there and a couple of truck stops, know, stops and that's about it.
- 2:37:07So they get me there, I get cleaned up at the gas station some more, change my shirt.
- 2:37:13And I'm at a, I think it's a Circle K or something like that at the I-10.
- 2:37:17Deciding where I'm gonna go and what I'm gonna do next.
- 2:37:20So I'm like, okay, we'll get back on trail, get over to the corridor and I can decide what I'm gonna do there, cause it's right under the overpass of the 10.
- 2:37:29So I get there, right?
- 2:37:31pitch camp just outside of the overpass in this uh wash area.
- 2:37:39So I pitched my tent there for the night.
- 2:37:43Naturally, because I've got my headlamp on and I'm in my tent and shit.
- 2:37:48A bunch of people come up and start circling me in their ATVs.
- 2:37:55Yeah, and I can hear them.
- 2:37:56I'm in my tent.
- 2:37:58So I'm yelling.
- 2:38:00Just a hiker, just a hiker, you know?
- 2:38:02And I could hear someone else talking to someone else on another ATV and they're yelling back at him.
- 2:38:08It's a hiker, it's a hiker.
- 2:38:10And then they took off and disappeared.
- 2:38:12So they must have thought I was like a...
- 2:38:13I don't know, maybe a migrant or something, you know, jumping border type thing or something.
- 2:38:21Yeah, but then when they realized I was just a hiker, they took off and left me alone.
- 2:38:24they...
- 2:38:25screwed with me for two hours.
- 2:38:27I mean, I was like in the dark.
- 2:38:34yeah.
- 2:38:34So the next morning I'm in my tent, do my little video for my Dexcom sponsor and I go to the bridge, right?
- 2:38:43And this is like a first kind of major stop where hikers will stop.
- 2:38:48People put food out there for the hikers and resupply stuff, water, and you They have a big spot where you sign your name.
- 2:38:57I was number three on the trail.
- 2:39:00Third person for the season.
- 2:39:02So I signed the thing, snag a banana, get some water, know, chill for a while.
- 2:39:09And then I leave them.
- 2:39:11you in pain though from your injuries to your mouth?
- 2:39:14I'm eating all this ibuprofen and Tylenol, so I'm not, I can't really eat anything.
- 2:39:21Can't bite into anything.
- 2:39:23So I'm really eating like oatmeal and top ramen, stuff that I can kind of easily get down.
- 2:39:33And drinking water like a madman.
- 2:39:35So then the next day, so I stayed under that overpass for two days.
- 2:39:41And then the third day, I finally hiked out, got back on trail.
- 2:39:47And then I started heading to the Whitewater Preserves.
- 2:39:51Because I remember the Whitewater Preserve from 2018.
- 2:39:55And I was like, can camp there for a couple of days.
- 2:39:58It's like I'm 110 miles from Big Bear.
- 2:40:02Whitewater Preserve at the Ranger Station is like, I'm gonna say 48, 50 miles from where I'm at or something about halfway through, Mm-hmm.
- 2:40:14So I hike to the Ranger Station in the Whitewater Preserve, no problem.
- 2:40:19But fuck, every time I stopped hiking, this heartburn was just kicking my ass.
- 2:40:25Major, major heartburn.
- 2:40:27As long as I was trucking, I was good.
- 2:40:32So I get to the preserve, set up tent, feeling really lethargic, but you know, just figured, yeah, a lot of shit's gone on the last week, you know.
- 2:40:42Kids are not here.
- 2:40:43So I stay at the Whitewater Preserve for two or three days.
- 2:40:48And God, at night I couldn't sleep.
- 2:40:50Miss Hartburn was just kicking my ass, right?
- 2:40:54So I'm eating Tums, ibuprofen, extra strength Tylenol, like crazy.
- 2:41:02handfuls.
- 2:41:03Every time I try to go back to sleep or go into my tent to lay down, heartburn would just kick my ass.
- 2:41:08I'd get back up.
- 2:41:10I'd walk this thing at two in the morning in this ranger park just to keep the heartburn down, right?
- 2:41:20So finally leave the Whitewater Preserve ranger station, packed up, heading to Big Bear.
- 2:41:2970 miles to Big And so after a couple of days, I just start getting this like weird feeling, like paranoia shit, right?
- 2:41:40And I'm like, why am I feeling like paranoid and kind of out of it and lost and shit?
- 2:41:47Well, I don't know.
- 2:41:48So I make it to Big Bear, five days later, 70 miles, five days I get to Big Bear.
- 2:41:54So I already knew my miles were down and I'm already losing mileage.
- 2:41:58But it's been a crazy first 40 days, right?
- 2:42:0235 days.
- 2:42:04Nothing but snow, rain, sleet, hypothermia, everything with the boys, them having to go back.
- 2:42:12So ah I get back on trail and I start heading to Big Bear.
- 2:42:18And it takes me five days to get to Big Bear.
- 2:42:21Finally hike into Big Bear.
- 2:42:24Can't find a place to pitch.
- 2:42:26another storms coming through.
- 2:42:29So they don't open up the local parks or camp spots yet.
- 2:42:33They hold off on opening.
- 2:42:37Yeah, I was like, are you freaking kidding me?
- 2:42:40This is pissing me off.
- 2:42:42So I'm like, I'll go stay in a Motel 6.
- 2:42:46Well, they had a Motel 6 in Big Bear.
- 2:42:48That was the only place I could find that could get a place or a room.
- 2:42:52So I get there naturally.
- 2:42:54Motel 6.
- 2:42:55It's under renovation TVs don't work, you know, none of this.
- 2:43:00But I'm just, okay, I got a bed, right?
- 2:43:03But man, this heartburn is seriously guys like never had heartburn like this before.
- 2:43:11And I thought it was because I was eating all the top ramen and the oatmeal from my teeth being busted out.
- 2:43:18Yeah.
- 2:43:18Day two in the hotel, paranoia really sets in.
- 2:43:24I feel like a tweaker or something.
- 2:43:25I'm just like peeking out the windows.
- 2:43:28like, I can't get comfortable.
- 2:43:31I can't lay down.
- 2:43:33I'm just like, what the hell's going on?
- 2:43:37So I'm talking to my mom and she's all, Wes, you need to get into a doctor.
- 2:43:40You need to go see somebody.
- 2:43:42You fell.
- 2:43:42Just make sure everything's good.
- 2:43:44So I finally agree.
- 2:43:45I'm like, yeah, you're probably right.
- 2:43:47But this is where I know now I was pretty messed up.
- 2:43:51What do I do?
- 2:43:52I hitchhike to Sacramento, jump on a bus, and come back home to Oregon.
- 2:43:57So you left the trail.
- 2:43:59left Big Bear, left Trail, went to Big Bear, you know, from Trail, left Big Bear, instead of going to the hospital in Big Bear.
- 2:44:09Oh, yeah.
- 2:44:10real rhyme reason why, just again, I'm out there, I'm not all there.
- 2:44:14I go and hitchhike to Sacramento and get on a train back to Oregon.
- 2:44:21Two day travel.
- 2:44:22And then did you go to the hospital in Oregon?
- 2:44:25after I got home two days later.
- 2:44:27To get from Big Bear to Sacramento though, that's gotta be at least what, five, seven hundred miles or something?
- 2:44:34Let's soak out a no-cal.
- 2:44:36It was a 42, 42 hour commute.
- 2:44:41I know that.
- 2:44:43Wow.
- 2:44:43Jeez.
- 2:44:45So what?
- 2:44:46take bus and train to get back home.
- 2:44:48So was like 42 hours to get from Sacramento back home on bus and What was going on when you went to the hospital?
- 2:44:58So I get home, walk in the front door, all the kids are like, dad, you're home, what's up?
- 2:45:04Hey, so I lay here for two days going, God, this heartburn is just kicking my ass.
- 2:45:13I live two miles from the nearest hospital.
- 2:45:17So I walked to the hospital.
- 2:45:19Don't ask me why.
- 2:45:21Got four cars in the driveway here.
- 2:45:25Right?
- 2:45:26There's something about that.
- 2:45:28Yeah.
- 2:45:29it.
- 2:45:29Yeah.
- 2:45:30So I hiked to McKinsey Willamette Hospital, walk in the ER, tell them, you know, I got, I don't know what's wrong, got the severe heartburn.
- 2:45:39So they check my vitals, tell me to go sit down.
- 2:45:42I don't even get my ass in the waiting seat and they call me back.
- 2:45:47So I go up to the counter like, no, you need to go in the back.
- 2:45:49You're having a heart attack right now.
- 2:45:51You've been having a heart attack for the last six to seven days.
- 2:45:55They can see it on the, the scan monitor thing or whatever.
- 2:46:01Yeah.
- 2:46:02EKG.
- 2:46:02So they don't, they run me right into the emergency room, stick a stent in my wrist, into my heart.
- 2:46:10And so I asked the doctor, said, what kept me from.
- 2:46:14dying out there for the last six days.
- 2:46:18Hiking, you know, I was only pulling at that point 10 to 15 mile days.
- 2:46:22And he goes, more than likely, he said, your artery is 97 % clogged.
- 2:46:28More than likely that extreme hiking was forcing the blood through that artery, which kept me alive.
- 2:46:38I said, well, what about on the train?
- 2:46:40He goes, because you were so relaxed, the heart could go into, Like it almost tried to preserve itself type of thing.
- 2:46:47like a hibernation Yeah, the heart rate slowed way down.
- 2:46:52The heartburn wasn't as bad.
- 2:46:54uh Does that cause paranoia?
- 2:46:59That's what I was just thinking.
- 2:47:01I didn't know it until after the fact I started doing research, right?
- 2:47:06Sure as shit.
- 2:47:07Heart attack, common to have people to get PTSD, which I didn't have, uh paranoia, schizophrenia type of symptoms and stuff.
- 2:47:19There's a list of like eight or 10 symptoms.
- 2:47:22I didn't know either.
- 2:47:23uh get into the hotel room and start tweaking and looking out the curtains and shit thinking, you know, paranoia state, that's probably uncanny for you.
- 2:47:33I would assume you're probably.
- 2:47:36Yeah.
- 2:47:37I'm.
- 2:47:38I knew something wasn't right because I was in that paranoid.
- 2:47:41I was like, why am I so paranoid?
- 2:47:44So, and this wasn't related to the fall.
- 2:47:47This is an issue with your heart that would have happened no matter what was going on.
- 2:47:51It just happened that you had all these happened because of the fall.
- 2:47:57And here's why.
- 2:47:58Because when we chronologically went back seven days, was right at about the time that I was at the ICE 10 corridor.
- 2:48:11Mmm.
- 2:48:13So it may not have been directly like from the fall, but I think maybe the stress from the fall or something like that may have triggered it.
- 2:48:23Who knows?
- 2:48:24Who Who knows?
- 2:48:25I'm not a doctor by any means, but.
- 2:48:27No, but that could have saved your life in a way because you were 97 % blocked.
- 2:48:32So there's a chance at any time you could have had a heart attack, right?
- 2:48:37So hiking through it maybe saved your life from just having a massive heart attack.
- 2:48:43That's what the doctor believes.
- 2:48:45He said that was the only assumption he could come up with.
- 2:48:49Because he said, we can see where you went back.
- 2:48:53He said, looks between six and seven days, you started having a light heart attack and it got worse when I was in the Whitewater Preserve, when it was like on my knees, heartburn, right?
- 2:49:07So and I had those symptoms.
- 2:49:10for two weeks after the stint.
- 2:49:13And then I woke up one morning, two weeks after they put the stint in and all that stuff, it was like someone just turned alive and everything was normal.
- 2:49:21It's fine.
- 2:49:22So when did that happen?
- 2:49:25No, I know.
- 2:49:25You started March 1st and then when did you arrive back in Oregon?
- 2:49:29like the around April 7th, I think the first week of April.
- 2:49:34So just a little over a month, you had all these things happen.
- 2:49:3840 days.
- 2:49:39That's crazy.
- 2:49:40And here's why 40 days, 40 nights.
- 2:49:44Let's think about this for a minute.
- 2:49:47So.
- 2:49:48From a spiritual standpoint, you know, I've always been a believer, but I was not the most.
- 2:49:56didn't practice it a lot.
- 2:49:59I think this was a spiritual awakening for me as well.
- 2:50:06um To hype for seven days while having a heart attack, being plucked out of the wilderness by search and rescue and not losing any limbs.
- 2:50:1840 days and 40 nights of hiking to get to Big Bear.
- 2:50:24Coming back home.
- 2:50:25Going through, so I got all the, so the first month I was here, I was going through the heart issue, getting the teeth pulled out, told them, said, just take them all now, might as just do it now, right?
- 2:50:39Take them out.
- 2:50:40And then, oh, and then my primary PCP physician doing all her stuff in the labs.
- 2:50:47And I've had every poke and prod you can imagine now.
- 2:50:51Um And then I prayed on it for four months daily, all day, every day.
- 2:50:58Am I supposed to be doing this?
- 2:51:00God give me if this is not what I am meant to be doing.
- 2:51:04Give me a sign.
- 2:51:05Show me something.
- 2:51:08I've never seen.
- 2:51:09I never claim to see I've ever seen Jesus or God or have had a spiritual phenomenon or anything like that, you know.
- 2:51:18And then about.
- 2:51:19Two months ago, when I was ready, I was gonna give up the hype.
- 2:51:24Maybe three months ago, I was ready to give up the whole thing.
- 2:51:26I'm like, you know what?
- 2:51:27Just not meant to be.
- 2:51:29I'll do it some other time, you know, on my own time, whatever.
- 2:51:33Change my focus.
- 2:51:35and I was sitting outside going through my phone in the dark.
- 2:51:40It happened to look up and as clear as I'm looking at you guys right now, all I see in the sky is my dad's face and he's smiling.
- 2:51:49No movement, not saying nothing, just him smiling, looking down on him.
- 2:51:54It's clear as freaking day.
- 2:51:56And I'm just looking like, Dad.
- 2:51:59And then I see the face of Jesus come from behind him.
- 2:52:04And I just feel this warmth around my body like a blanket.
- 2:52:07oh Like a blanket.
- 2:52:11And I just get a nod.
- 2:52:16and they disappear.
- 2:52:17And I find myself in my front yard on my hands and knees crying and shit and...
- 2:52:22And then the next day, all these doors start opening again, more sponsors.
- 2:52:26oh Media management company comes on out of the blue at no charge to help promote all these things in on Mike.
- 2:52:39He wants me to read scripture on trail as I record this hike every morning and every night and promote.
- 2:52:50diabetes research and mental health awareness in between.
- 2:52:53My job, my mission is to spread his word and represent the people that I'm hiking for and.
- 2:53:01Try to make an impact.
- 2:53:02Beautiful.
- 2:53:02That's absolutely beautiful.
- 2:53:05that's where I'm at now.
- 2:53:08now it's October and I'm pushing to get back on trail between February, no later than March 1st, possibly January.
- 2:53:20So we're working out the logistics on that right now.
- 2:53:23What I'm watching right now are the weather patterns.
- 2:53:27I'll get back on trail.
- 2:53:29I think at Big Bear, thought about starting fresh from the trailhead again, but I've got 300 miles in.
- 2:53:37Pick up from Big Bear, I've still got 11,700 miles to go.
- 2:53:42So, ah not wanting to deal with that issue again that early in the season, or carrying all that snow gear.
- 2:53:52So I'll be getting on, haven't quite pinpoint the date yet, but somewhere between February and March, I'll be heading back to Big Bear, getting on trail.
- 2:54:02But I think the other reason why things have come out the way that they did is I didn't complete the work that I was supposed to before we left the first time.
- 2:54:14Because I left with a lot of things.
- 2:54:16Uncomplete and left open ah in the sense that I've been working to put together a four season mini series documentary of this hike and finding the producers and the production companies and the people involved to help bring that all together and make happen.
- 2:54:35ah It's been.
- 2:54:38A chore because we're a new nonprofit we opened in twenty twenty four.
- 2:54:43ah So we really.
- 2:54:46ah focus on people that are supporting us and volunteering their time and things like that.
- 2:54:55So now we finally were able to build out our board of directors, all volunteers.
- 2:55:01We got our attorneys on board now.
- 2:55:04We've got our media management company that's in play.
- 2:55:08ah They've already started.
- 2:55:11They've been in our social media platforms for the last 48 hours starting to do their thing.
- 2:55:16For now, I feel like once we can conclude and wrap up finding ourselves a producer in a production house, I can then get back on trail.
- 2:55:32We're looking at about 80 to 100 terabytes of footage.
- 2:55:36Some of us are to be able to edit it, put it all together.
- 2:55:39and then put it into this four season docu-series format.
- 2:55:45That's amazing.
- 2:55:46I'm so excited to watch that.
- 2:55:48I'll watch it.
- 2:55:48Yeah, that's going to be so cool.
- 2:55:49stuff.
- 2:55:50Yeah, yeah.
- 2:55:51In fact, when it's ready to go, if you want to come back on to promote it, let us know.
- 2:55:56Yeah.
- 2:55:56absolutely.
- 2:55:57would definitely ask you guys to check us out and follow.
- 2:56:01Yeah, I think we do follow you on TikTok.
- 2:56:04I'll make sure we're following you on everything.
- 2:56:06I saw you on your stream not too long ago.
- 2:56:09Yeah, but I'll make sure.
- 2:56:10um I thought so.
- 2:56:12Did you put up a post?
- 2:56:14What's that?
- 2:56:15Hiking probably?
- 2:56:17Maybe I thought you were on social media.
- 2:56:20yeah, not in person, but I I saw you on social media and Eugene.
- 2:56:23Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, probably.
- 2:56:25OK, yeah, I've been hiking through the university and stuff on the weekends with a bat.
- 2:56:30It's part of my therapy because when I when I fell, I had herniated disc, torn rotator cuffs, the teeth that got busted out and then that heart attack after that.
- 2:56:47Surprise, I'm still...
- 2:56:48alone, right?
- 2:56:50That statement alone, the herniated disc, the rotator cuffs, and a heart attack.
- 2:56:54Busted And the teeth, yeah.
- 2:56:56I know, right?
- 2:56:57But I'm freaking pumped and excited to get back on trail.
- 2:57:01So what's going to be interesting is I've talked to a couple of producers, one flaked out, know, people get interest and then they disappear.
- 2:57:10But it's how to.
- 2:57:13They gotta recreate that first 266 miles.
- 2:57:17Mm-hmm.
- 2:57:19What you could drive to the start, maybe, you know, drive to different spots and catch little.
- 2:57:27And do you have any footage just from things that you and your sons recorded that during that time?
- 2:57:36Yeah, just use and that was narrating what went on.
- 2:57:39And if you want to use anything from this this podcast, too, if that helps you, you can have access to it.
- 2:57:45no, you know what?
- 2:57:46You guys just bringing me on and let me tell my story and helping me get that word out is huge.
- 2:57:53I'll be honest with my goal right now.
- 2:57:54uh Buzz media is like probably going, yeah, right.
- 2:57:58This guy's smoking crack because when I first entered disagreement with them, they want to know how many followers am I trying to gain?
- 2:58:05And I'm like, I'm like a couple million.
- 2:58:08What are you talking about?
- 2:58:09And literally.
- 2:58:10So our affiliate partners include American Diabetes Association.
- 2:58:15Mm-hmm.
- 2:58:16know, we've got national and worldwide brand partners and sponsors on this project.
- 2:58:25And we're about to increase the ante with Garmin, North Face, GoPro is already on.
- 2:58:31We got Columbia.
- 2:58:32Have you guys seen any of our event shirts?
- 2:58:36So I'll send you guys out some.
- 2:58:38You'll have to send me your address.
- 2:58:39I'll send you guys out some shirts.
- 2:58:41This was our last shirt.
- 2:58:43It doesn't have all the sponsors on it.
- 2:58:45There are merchandisers adding everybody else on it, it's got a little going there.
- 2:58:53then we, yeah, this, yeah, yeah.
- 2:58:58So we got Ultra Footwear, they sponsored us with 70 pairs of shoes.
- 2:59:02Sawyer came in with all of the water filtration ah systems.
- 2:59:06Columbia with the hiking gear.
- 2:59:09Johnson Outdoor, who also owns Jetboil.
- 2:59:13Yeah, so we're pretty excited about the sponsors and we're just going into our second sponsorship campaign for this hike since I'm here.
- 2:59:22I'm like might as well bring on more sponsors and get more...
- 2:59:26so when you're starting back, it's just this one's the Pacific Coast Trail, that's what this one's going to be.
- 2:59:34And then you said that's for diabetes, mental health and to spread the word scripture.
- 2:59:41for mental health awareness.
- 2:59:43mental health awareness and then you said the next one is going to be breast cancer and domestic violence awareness.
- 2:59:52What hike is that going to be?
- 2:59:54That's in 2029.
- 2:59:57That's a sick.
- 2:59:58be the Pacific Crest Trail or is that going to be a different?
- 3:00:01Okay.
- 3:00:02that that's a 16,000 mile height that circumference the US.
- 3:00:08Okay.
- 3:00:09Okay.
- 3:00:10trails that match up to each other.
- 3:00:12So this particular hike that I'm currently doing right now, I'm on the Pacific Crest Trail.
- 3:00:19Once I get to Canada, 2650 miles, I jump over to uh Wyoming and hike the Continental Divide down Wyoming, Montana, uh Idaho, Colorado, down to New Mexico.
- 3:00:34And then I fly out to Georgia from there.
- 3:00:38and hike 14 states on the Appalachian Trail from Georgia to Maine.
- 3:00:43And then I hike from Maine 3,500 miles of all freeway and concrete hiking back from Maine to Oregon 3,500 miles.
- 3:00:53And that's this one that you're starting like in January, February, March time.
- 3:00:58How long?
- 3:00:59it's a continuous hike, 12,000 miles, and it's going to take me 18 to 24 months to complete.
- 3:01:06So the fact that what I'm what I'm clicking into right now is the timeline because the three high the three trails alone.
- 3:01:17If I can complete those in 12 months, that's called the Triple Crown.
- 3:01:21Less than 20 people have done a Triple Crown.
- 3:01:23Mm-hmm.
- 3:01:258,000 miles, all three trails in a 12 month period.
- 3:01:29Adding the 3,500 miles onto the tail end of that is gonna be another six months of pavement pounding back home.
- 3:01:38So do you start the Pacific Crest Trail first?
- 3:01:41Because you have to map out the weather.
- 3:01:43That's your biggest issue, right?
- 3:01:45Like I know people do the AT, they start, I forget when they start, but they try to time it.
- 3:01:50So they start in Georgia when the last snowfall happens, right?
- 3:01:54Or a little.
- 3:01:55do, and I'm similar in that sense, but because of the...
- 3:02:00The massive miles that I have to hike on this thing.
- 3:02:04Most people can do like say the Appalachian Trail in about five months, five to six months.
- 3:02:10You got two years of hiking.
- 3:02:13Chances of me completing the whole hike in 18 months are gonna be slim.
- 3:02:17I think it'll be closer to 24 months.
- 3:02:21Just because I have over 30 off trail interviews with television stations and radio stations that I have to do.
- 3:02:30Good Morning America, the morning show.
- 3:02:32um and Fox and Friends in New York.
- 3:02:37the Appalachian Trail comes about 40 miles from New York City.
- 3:02:40So I'll have to get off trail there, go do some shows.
- 3:02:44And then when I finished the Appalachian Trail, I hiked back through Jersey and New York, coming back to Oregon.
- 3:02:53And I'll be doing shows along the way through there.
- 3:02:57So, and the chances are I'm expecting that that will increase as I am on trail.
- 3:03:03Right.
- 3:03:04I'll be carrying on the 3500 miles back from Maine to Oregon.
- 3:03:09I'll be carrying a American Diabetes Association flag and a hiking for hope flag.
- 3:03:14So people build a recognize me, see me on the side of the freeway, all that crap.
- 3:03:21But really, it's garnering just to gain as many viewers and followers as I possibly can gain on this initiative and promoting diabetes research and awareness and mental health awareness.
- 3:03:39Especially I think right now our country we are in a mental health crisis right now coming out of COVID.
- 3:03:47We're seeing it on the news on a daily.
- 3:03:50So this hike first started out just as for diabetes research and awareness.
- 3:03:55uh I added mental health to the objective two months ago.
- 3:04:02because the amount of mental health issues we're seeing on TV and all the craziness that's just going on in general.
- 3:04:11especially uh for young men.
- 3:04:14yeah, absolutely.
- 3:04:16Yeah.
- 3:04:17So I think that's wonderful that you're addressing that because it's talked about.
- 3:04:23mean, thankfully, the younger generations talk about mental health way more openly than Gen X.
- 3:04:27We weren't even allowed to give it space.
- 3:04:29Like that was a bad word, right?
- 3:04:31We weren't supposed to talk about that.
- 3:04:33But Gen Z, they talk about it as openly as anything and it's a beautiful thing.
- 3:04:38But I still think the aspect when it comes to young men is not given enough attention.
- 3:04:45No, I agree with you 100%.
- 3:04:48And the other thing I noticed too is on trails, I'm not the normal bird that hikes these trails.
- 3:04:54A lot of these trails are hiked by...
- 3:04:57People that, know, nature lovers tend to be more left leaning, I would say.
- 3:05:05I am more of a, I would consider myself not left or right, but right leaning.
- 3:05:15So I have different thoughts than most people on trail.
- 3:05:19Like the leave no trace, I'm a stickler.
- 3:05:22Yeah.
- 3:05:23You know, leave no trace.
- 3:05:24You don't leave shit.
- 3:05:25You don't know if I've been there not when I leave a spot.
- 3:05:28You know what I mean?
- 3:05:30Well, that type of thing.
- 3:05:32When I set my mind to something, it's just that stubborn.
- 3:05:37I guess, military type of way of thinking I'm going to do it one way or another, get there one way if it takes me a week or a month or whatever.
- 3:05:47And so I take that same approach.
- 3:05:49Now, the difference with.
- 3:05:52This hike is the ultimate goal is.
- 3:05:56After I complete this hike, I'm opening up a gear shop here in Eugene.
- 3:06:02The only gear shop here right now is REI.
- 3:06:07The other their biggest competitor closed their doors up two years ago called Bat Country.
- 3:06:14Bat Country closed up their shop.
- 3:06:16I am not a fan of REI.
- 3:06:17uh They're OK, but yeah.
- 3:06:22They don't they're expensive.
- 3:06:24Yeah, most definitely.
- 3:06:26ah And the ultimate goal is to take underserved people in our community and take them out on the Pacific Crest Trail.
- 3:06:37I live 30, 40 minutes from the trail and can take people out on trail so that they can say they hike the PCT.
- 3:06:44They experienced a through hike, whether it's a section hike for two weeks with someone with autism or.
- 3:06:53You know, what were we looking at?
- 3:06:56was the other one?
- 3:06:56There's autism.
- 3:06:57all different types of mental health awareness, know, different advocacy that we can support.
- 3:07:04Well, you even said it yourself.
- 3:07:06You said if you have anything going on in your life, hike the Pacific Crest Trail and it'll fix it.
- 3:07:12It's a healing journey.
- 3:07:15And I think just giving access to people who would never even consider doing something like that and giving them the opportunity to possibly change their life or give them hope, you know, even if it's something as simple as helping them find meaning again.
- 3:07:31I mean, it's just so important.
- 3:07:32So the fact that you're That's your end goal once you're done with this first journey.
- 3:07:39That's an amazing thing.
- 3:07:40And hopefully, um you'll continue to get sponsorships to support that.
- 3:07:45And that's the goal, because I've got a business development background in finance, all that crap that we talked about earlier.
- 3:07:54So when I look at something like this, I look at it a project and I say, so what's involved?
- 3:07:58What do I need to do to start the project?
- 3:08:00And what's the end goal?
- 3:08:01What am I doing this for?
- 3:08:02What's the reason behind it?
- 3:08:04Yeah.
- 3:08:04And the reasoning behind it is I want to be able to get as many people out on trail as possible, like you said, to experience to have their own self reflection, their own journey.
- 3:08:15ah And really promote that aspect to healing, whether it's from alcoholism or drug addiction or.
- 3:08:24mental health awareness or autism or you know other things just because someone has a physical barrier doesn't mean they still can't hike maybe it's not 20 miles a day maybe it's five you know what I mean and just doing that I think gives a person a certain level of self satisfaction of being able to give back and so that's my plan and to basically have my gear shop, take people out on the trail that want to get out on the trail and experience it, and just kind of do that until I am buried.
- 3:09:02I think that's wonderful.
- 3:09:04Another section of people being a Gen Xer, um Gen X women as they're heading midlife a lot, they're going through a full self-discovery and for the first time in their lives, it's where they're not necessarily taking care of everyone.
- 3:09:21They've been doing that their whole life from childhood, husband, children.
- 3:09:26They're finally for the very first time giving themselves permission to honor who they are and find out what they like.
- 3:09:32That's a whole section of people that would benefit.
- 3:09:35of people pissed me off though?
- 3:09:38I can't find a date to grab my ass.
- 3:09:41They don't want a date anymore.
- 3:09:43They've been screwed over too many times.
- 3:09:45Yes, and now they want to honor themselves.
- 3:09:49m It's so true.
- 3:09:53Well, maybe if you reach out to that group too, maybe if enough of them come, one of them will want to date you.
- 3:10:00You may have to wait for them to open your ears up.
- 3:10:03with you, I've been single for so long.
- 3:10:05It's like, I wonder, would I actually date?
- 3:10:08I don't know.
- 3:10:09I can't imagine, we've been together over 31 years and I always thought if that wasn't the case I would just, I wouldn't know what to do.
- 3:10:17I know what to do.
- 3:10:18No, not at all.
- 3:10:21what I'm hoping is that the end is we can really make Hiking for Hope a brand where I'm not only recruiting people here locally in my city or state, but people from all over the country.
- 3:10:36I've got this child or this kid or this person, whoever, there's no age limit.
- 3:10:43They can come out here to the Pacific Northwest and spend a week or a month.
- 3:10:48on trail hiking the Pacific Crest Trail and seeing some amazing uh stuff that they would never see and to be able to experience it, you know.
- 3:10:58And there comes a lot of stuff that come into doing something like that.
- 3:11:02I need to have medical staff that are on trail with us.
- 3:11:06I need to have the psychiatrist on staff that's on trail with us.
- 3:11:10You know, so bringing all these people and counselors and all that stuff.
- 3:11:14to frutations, that's where the real work comes from, especially when it's a nonprofit, because right now we hope to be able to, obviously our goal is to be able to come in and be able to compensate.
- 3:11:26But when you're a new fresh startup nonprofit like us, we rely on the generosity of others to come in, people to donate time and things like that.
- 3:11:37And that's the phase that we're in right now.
- 3:11:39So my marketing hack goes.
- 3:11:41go out and hike 12,000 miles, promote it to the whole goddamn country for two years, and then let's see what we get out of it at the end, right?
- 3:11:49That's smart.
- 3:11:50And I think it's not just the country, though.
- 3:11:51I I could see people from all over the world traveling in to have this experience because being from the followers from Germany and France and, know, yeah, all over.
- 3:12:03Northwest is being from there, I can say the Pacific Northwest is uh heaven on earth.
- 3:12:07It's one of the most beautiful parts of the world.
- 3:12:10It's a very unique experience.
- 3:12:12um so people would travel as a destination to where you are to have that the Pacific Crest Trail experience too.
- 3:12:20It's two different things.
- 3:12:23What's that?
- 3:12:23So I to get you two out here to hike for a week.
- 3:12:26yes.
- 3:12:26I'm there.
- 3:12:27We would love to.
- 3:12:28We love to hike.
- 3:12:29We've been on the trail.
- 3:12:31To your point, though, not necessarily.
- 3:12:33Well, I guess I knew because I grew up in Jersey, moved to Oregon, and I was like a kid in a candy shop with the right, beauty of it all.
- 3:12:42it's like, wow, we're on the Pacific Crest Trail.
- 3:12:44Like in in Ashland area, like Pilot Rock, Mount Ashland, that area.
- 3:12:50Then you get up to where would it be?
- 3:12:52Maybe up.
- 3:12:53by like Mount Hood, I'm not totally sure where it goes.
- 3:12:56It enters around Timberline area, right?
- 3:12:58that's Mount Hood, Timberline area.
- 3:13:00That's up north from here, So I think we've definitely been on it in different pieces, but not as the let's go hike the trail.
- 3:13:08It's hard where we are.
- 3:13:09Florida, we hike.
- 3:13:10What's the one?
- 3:13:11Well, we have a great trail, the Florida Trail, if you're ever interested.
- 3:13:14It starts down in the swamp and big Cypress Swamp.
- 3:13:17So you're walking through water that's up to your waist.
- 3:13:19Yeah.
- 3:13:19And it's crazy, man.
- 3:13:21People get in that water, there's alligators.
- 3:13:23But we've done it.
- 3:13:24We start, we've one part of it and we have like a walking stick.
- 3:13:29Yeah, it was a whole thing.
- 3:13:30We love it, but there isn't any mountains here.
- 3:13:34We actually, yeah, that was a little dodgy.
- 3:13:37saw gators.
- 3:13:38We did like a 12 mile, 12 mile, 13.
- 3:13:41Circular.
- 3:13:42Who's counting, right?
- 3:13:43I was.
- 3:13:44By the 12th mile.
- 3:13:46But at one point it was so muddy we wound up taking off our shoes.
- 3:13:50Yeah.
- 3:13:50We're like, we're only at mile seven.
- 3:13:52Do we want to walk another six and, you know.
- 3:13:56And then we put them back on.
- 3:13:57We do love to hike.
- 3:13:59We try to hike whenever we can.
- 3:14:02But where you are, there's nothing like that where we are.
- 3:14:06So that alone.
- 3:14:07whole stretch, right?
- 3:14:08I mean, you start in Southern California, go up through Washington.
- 3:14:11I looked at the map today.
- 3:14:12I was like, I got to check this out because it meanders, right?
- 3:14:16It's like the AT is almost fairly straight.
- 3:14:19The PCT kind of meanders, but you have to because of the geography.
- 3:14:26It's not like you can go right.
- 3:14:28And if you notice, like you get down into the desert floor, but it's for a very short section.
- 3:14:35So you're usually like what people when they when I say the desert.
- 3:14:41Really, we're like five to seven thousand feet.
- 3:14:46It's a desert, southern California desert portion.
- 3:14:50It does drop down into Death Valley and and what's the other one?
- 3:14:55You got Death Valley and...
- 3:14:57like Joshua tree that's probably too full yeah yeah we get into the more of the desert, actual desert portion.
- 3:15:08like a lot of the hiking is high mountain range, maybe some meadows, right?
- 3:15:15It's very high altitude for the most part.
- 3:15:18once I get from Kennedy Meadows, which is miles 702, you're 50 miles from the Sierra Nevada mountains.
- 3:15:30Once I hit the Sierra Nevada mountains, you stay between between 10 and 13,000 feet for about 400.
- 3:15:38That's crazy.
- 3:15:40To think of hiking for that long at that altitude with that air being much thinner.
- 3:15:46Yeah, sure there's an acclimation that has to take place.
- 3:15:50Maybe you get...
- 3:15:50me, because in 2018 I seen people that dealt with that, especially in northern Cal coming out of for some reason.
- 3:15:59They would have issues coming out of ah the Sierras dropping down into NorCal.
- 3:16:07I've seen a couple of hikers that had to get packed out because of elevation sickness.
- 3:16:14Yeah, but for me, didn't even bother me.
- 3:16:15Even Mount Whitney, I had no problem.
- 3:16:17That's 14.5.
- 3:16:20You know, just, I, for whatever reason, I'm lucky.
- 3:16:22I just don't have problem with it.
- 3:16:25Yeah.
- 3:16:26That's great.
- 3:16:27And then, so yeah, so the PCT, it's kind of, it's not a direct shot so much like the AT is.
- 3:16:37Yeah.
- 3:16:38And the CDT, the continental divide, you've got a lot of open planes to that.
- 3:16:43So like Oregon, I can pull 35 mile days, 30 to 35 mile days.
- 3:16:49It's real flat terrain.
- 3:16:51pretty easy even kill, I can get through Oregon in about three weeks.
- 3:16:57ah From southern Oregon up to the tip is three weeks.
- 3:17:05Yeah, man, that's still that's 30 miles a day, I guess, yeah.
- 3:17:09Yeah, it's hauling ass.
- 3:17:11Yeah, that's amazing.
- 3:17:13Honestly, just thinking about all of that, it's just, I can't even grasp it doing that.
- 3:17:20me what I do, because a lot of people say, how do you do it?
- 3:17:23Here, I leave the house on a Saturday, I hike to the U of O football games, and then I'll hike over to the uh Eugene, what do they call it, the Saturday market, and then I take the long way back.
- 3:17:39I can do 20 miles of pavement hiking with this pack on and still bust it out in about six hours.
- 3:17:48six, seven hours.
- 3:17:49Because I just put the earbuds on, turn on the tunes with my street hiking.
- 3:17:56I've got tips that I put on my trekking poles and I can just, I can average it between three and four miles an hour.
- 3:18:04Are you in the best shape of your life right?
- 3:18:05Like from doing this, would you say?
- 3:18:08absolutely.
- 3:18:10Last time I was in this good of health or shape was probably in the military.
- 3:18:15You know, my pardon.
- 3:18:18Probably mind and body, right?
- 3:18:20yeah, yeah.
- 3:18:21mean, living in Arizona the whole time, I sat behind a desk all day.
- 3:18:26You know, and I'd eaten the office donuts and drinking the lattes and, you know, making everybody else their money.
- 3:18:33And I got up to two, almost 280 at my heaviest.
- 3:18:40Now...
- 3:18:41um I don't even bat an eye to go, I don't even drive the most, 90 % of time I don't drive anywhere, I just walk in.
- 3:18:49That's the key though, honestly.
- 3:18:51That is the key.
- 3:18:52Now I assume, I don't know, but did you also, as you immersed yourself into this hiking culture and this whole new life you created for yourself, did you also change how you eat?
- 3:19:05yeah.
- 3:19:07Oh yeah.
- 3:19:09When I'm not on trail, I don't drink soda.
- 3:19:12I'm not a big soda pop drinker anyway, so that's not an issue.
- 3:19:16uh When I'm on trail, I can eat whatever I want.
- 3:19:20I'm burning on average between 5,000 6,000 calories a day, as high as 7,000.
- 3:19:27So I can eat anything, as much of it as I want when I'm on trail.
- 3:19:33Never get hungry, or never get full, always hungry, you know.
- 3:19:40And I drink about a liter and a half of water every five miles when I'm hiking.
- 3:19:48on top of that.
- 3:19:49When I'm not hiking, my diet really consists of a lot of fruit, vegetables.
- 3:19:56try to, you know, high protein.
- 3:19:58I try to get some fatty stuff in there.
- 3:20:00I got a sweet tooth, so I have to watch that.
- 3:20:03Yeah, I ain't got no teeth right now.
- 3:20:06yeah, do.
- 3:20:10Yeah, I eat a lot better now than I ever did younger.
- 3:20:14And I noticed as I get older, uh I'm probably older than you guys, assume, right?
- 3:20:20You guys look like you're...
- 3:20:23...out of here.
- 3:20:24So...
- 3:20:25Oh, I thought you were...
- 3:20:30no, we're born 1971.
- 3:20:32Plus the surgery in Florida.
- 3:20:35We're also Gen X, but we're 1971.
- 3:20:37You've got to stay like a couple years.
- 3:20:39You only buy like what, three years, four years?
- 3:20:41Yeah.
- 3:20:4271, yeah.
- 3:20:43So I'm starting to notice though that no matter how tired I am, I wake up six in the morning, five, 30, and then I have to get my ass up because I can't go back to sleep.
- 3:20:57Yeah.
- 3:20:57Yeah.
- 3:20:58Yeah.
- 3:20:59Yeah.
- 3:20:59Yeah.
- 3:21:00No, we're the same.
- 3:21:00We get up at five and walk every morning and get out there by five thirty and we try to get over ten thousand.
- 3:21:07Well, it's easier for me because you sit back down to work.
- 3:21:09I a desk job.
- 3:21:10I get it.
- 3:21:10I get almost twenty thousand steps a day.
- 3:21:12I love it.
- 3:21:13I I need my walking.
- 3:21:15I'm not hiking, but I need my walking every day.
- 3:21:18It's also a mental health thing and just feeling like I have control of the day and it's the perfect way to start.
- 3:21:24So.
- 3:21:24ah scary thing about this hike, especially this hike that I'm getting ready to do is there's a point where you get so into.
- 3:21:34The hike itself, like we talked about earlier, you find that everything that was important to you before height is not that important.
- 3:21:47And you start to really focus all your energy on miles, food, water, miles, food, water.
- 3:21:56You forget shit.
- 3:21:58You forget.
- 3:22:00God, I haven't talked to anybody at home for three weeks.
- 3:22:02You know what I mean?
- 3:22:03huh.
- 3:22:04just get into that or you you start get into that mode where you're just trucking, trucking, trucking, trucking.
- 3:22:11Now to do that for 12,000 miles versus 3000.
- 3:22:16When you did it, I think it was 2018 you said, right?
- 3:22:19It was your first time through.
- 3:22:20I've watched videos of people through hiking different trails.
- 3:22:25And did you get into like a pack of folks at all?
- 3:22:29Like where you were hiking with, did you make, I guess, a group friends type of thing that you hiked with?
- 3:22:35No, not when I hiked with.
- 3:22:36I hiked with one guy for like three weeks going through the Sierras.
- 3:22:45But other than that, I was kind of the loner hiker because I was a solo hiker.
- 3:22:49Everybody had partners or groups.
- 3:22:52So I would hang out with them at the end of the day.
- 3:22:56Maybe there'd be, you know, some hikers at a spot that I would stop and camp with for the night.
- 3:23:02but I was usually the first guy out of camp in the morning.
- 3:23:06But 98 % of my hike is me, myself, and I in the earbuds and just...
- 3:23:13Yeah, but this will be your first time um incorporating the scripture into it, correct?
- 3:23:18Correct.
- 3:23:19So that's, there's going to be a lot of engagement this time around that I didn't have then and trying to keep a uh schedule.
- 3:23:29So I'm hoping that that will help me and help the time actually go by.
- 3:23:36Because last time I didn't give two shifts.
- 3:23:39Well, now I'm like, okay, they've got, it makes sense, needs to be done.
- 3:23:44And that helps.
- 3:23:45So I'll work it as we come by and get closer and that type of thing.
- 3:23:51So my last, I know I'll either be...
- 3:23:55uh October, right?
- 3:23:58Mm-hmm.
- 3:23:58So yeah, by January, so we will either be here or we will leave either January, February, just kind of depends on the weather, the grass, the glass, because the shit can change.
- 3:24:11It can change in a week or what have you.
- 3:24:13Now, the only thing that I decided is that I'm comfortable doing it myself, because I think I can make it through there.
- 3:24:24It just may take me slower time.
- 3:24:26I may have to slow back five hours or you know, whatever, but I think by having the scripture there with you though, like you were just talking to me, you've talked a couple of times now about how things get real simple.
- 3:24:38just water, food, miles, water, food, miles.
- 3:24:42But having the scripture there will also help you, you said, keep a schedule but also stay kind of connected in a way, you know, where, because you're going to have to be doing interviews and stuff like that.
- 3:24:55And that would be a kind of a jump scare to be.
- 3:24:58so disconnected and have to go into somewhere like Fox and Friends and give an interview and be with people again and all that.
- 3:25:04So I feel like that incorporating scripture is going to keep you kind of connected during those 12,000 miles.
- 3:25:10Does that make sense?
- 3:25:11and I agree with you 100%.
- 3:25:12I think it'll be an easier transition.
- 3:25:15Yeah, yeah, exactly.
- 3:25:16Yeah, that makes sense.
- 3:25:17I'm just thinking, how do you roll out with a bunch of hair on your face?
- 3:25:21You have a shaver, whatever, in a while, and you got to interact with people.
- 3:25:24that'll add to it.
- 3:25:25That'll add to the branding and excitement and everything.
- 3:25:31Yeah, that's funny.
- 3:25:33Before I ask my last question, do you have any more questions?
- 3:25:35I do.
- 3:25:35I have a couple of questions, more superficial questions.
- 3:25:38Have you been up to the top of Pilot Rock when you went by there?
- 3:25:41I know the the PCT goes right near Pilot Rock.
- 3:25:45Did you guys climb up to the top at all?
- 3:25:47No, where's it at?
- 3:25:49What part?
- 3:25:49it's, if you're up at the top of Mount Ashland and you look, I don't what's pilot rock.
- 3:25:56It's in Southern Oregon.
- 3:25:59It's like a volcanic, uh, rock that just comes out of the earth.
- 3:26:04It's near the PCT and you can climb, you can hike to the base of it, then climb up the rock itself.
- 3:26:10And it's not like rock climbing, but it's more like bouldering.
- 3:26:14I highly recommend it.
- 3:26:15It's very cool.
- 3:26:16to I've got it written down.
- 3:26:17I'm going to check that out because the the mission is 12,000 miles.
- 3:26:23I've got to find 600 miles of off-trail trails to pick up.
- 3:26:29So.
- 3:26:30If you're up at the top of Mount Ashland, you can see it as you're looking to like Shasta from Mount A to Shasta.
- 3:26:36It's in between, I don't know, 30, 20, 30 miles from Mount Ashland or not even 10 miles or so.
- 3:26:43Okay, no, I'm gonna definitely check into that.
- 3:26:46My other superficial question, how's the Saturday market in Eugene?
- 3:26:51I used to go there all the time.
- 3:26:52I'm curious, is the Tofu Palace still there?
- 3:26:59That's awesome.
- 3:27:00We used to go to the Oregon Country Fair all the time and Tofu Palace had a booth there.
- 3:27:05Yeah.
- 3:27:06Yeah.
- 3:27:06to that in years, they just had their 50th anniversary, I think, a year ago, with the Oregon Bear.
- 3:27:15OK.
- 3:27:16Oh, we have one more.
- 3:27:17OK.
- 3:27:17The Umpqua Hot Springs.
- 3:27:19Oh, yes.
- 3:27:19you been there?
- 3:27:20How are they doing?
- 3:27:22Great.
- 3:27:22I haven't been there in years, but I have been there.
- 3:27:25yeah, same thing.
- 3:27:26In fact, they were promoting it quite a bit this last uh summer on social media.
- 3:27:32I was seeing people promoting it and pushing it on social media.
- 3:27:36Oh, yeah, that makes sense.
- 3:27:37We used to go there in college all the time.
- 3:27:39Is it still closing optional?
- 3:27:41Yeah, it's Oregon.
- 3:27:44Of course it is.
- 3:27:45We used to go there when it was just there was just the one little tub and then there was like some people started digging out a second one.
- 3:27:55Yeah.
- 3:27:55Yeah.
- 3:27:55When we were there.
- 3:27:56Yeah.
- 3:27:56Yeah.
- 3:27:57That's cool.
- 3:27:58I miss it.
- 3:27:59Oregon that smells like sulfur so bad that I can't remember the name of I know which one you're talking about though.
- 3:28:05Sulfur Hot Springs maybe?
- 3:28:07No, I can't remember the name.
- 3:28:08You know, I miss Oregon so much.
- 3:28:11ah It's such a beautiful state.
- 3:28:13I haven't come back to visit in a while just because of everything going on in Portland.
- 3:28:17It just makes me sad.
- 3:28:20you know, it's just not...
- 3:28:21I grew up like going to Portland and walking around and so...
- 3:28:25But we need to make a trip back because it's just such a beautiful place and I miss it.
- 3:28:29Yeah, definitely.
- 3:28:30That would be great.
- 3:28:31You guys should, if you do come back when I'm hiking through, then we could do a sit down or something.
- 3:28:38Right.
- 3:28:39Okay, my last question is always, where do you see yourself in five years?
- 3:28:44Where do I see myself in five years?
- 3:28:46Yep.
- 3:28:48Another long distance hike.
- 3:28:52What are we in?
- 3:28:53We're in 05 right now?
- 3:28:55You said 09, right?
- 3:28:57Or 29 to me?
- 3:28:58so it'd be 30.
- 3:29:002030.
- 3:29:01in five years to 2030.
- 3:29:03Yeah, I should be, I should probably go on another hike in 2029.
- 3:29:07I plan that 16,000 mile hike and run into gear store and who knows life, know, sky is the limit, right?
- 3:29:17Yep, yep.
- 3:29:18We can't thank you enough for coming on and sharing your story, Wes, and sharing the story of Hiking for Hope.
- 3:29:24And we'll keep all of our listeners up to date, too, on when you start your hiking at the beginning of 2026 sometime and follow along.
- 3:29:34uh where everyone can follow you will be in the show notes.
- 3:29:39So whether it's TikTok, all your socials.
- 3:29:42anywhere someone can find you it'll be in the show notes uh...
- 3:29:45so we highly suggest everyone go and follow west hiking for hope so you can follow along in the twelve thousand mile journey and support and you'll see him on different media outlets through the that's uh...
- 3:29:58twelve to eighteen months so this is the near in right at the beginning before all of this takes off so eighteen to twenty four months i i was i was making your faster than you're gonna get it out a lot of money Yeah, 12,000 miles.
- 3:30:14uh No, I appreciate that.
- 3:30:16Yeah.
- 3:30:17And I will give you guys a shout out as well.
- 3:30:20uh On all of our social media platforms, let everybody know.
- 3:30:24Tell them to tune into your guys's channel and promote that as well.
- 3:30:29And if you guys don't mind, because you're like really cool ass people.
- 3:30:36Thank you.
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- 3:30:47Yeah, yeah, for sure.
- 3:30:49That would be amazing.
- 3:30:50Thank you.
- 3:30:52the logo, if you send me whatever you want me to use, I'll use that and I'll put that onto the website tonight and I'll add the link to it so we can start promoting you.
- 3:31:02So my email address is follow at hikingforhope.com.
- 3:31:08Easy, follow for hope.
- 3:31:10tonight.
- 3:31:11Yeah.
- 3:31:11Yeah.
- 3:31:11Thank you.
- 3:31:12That's amazing.
- 3:31:13to promote you guys and you know, it's 24 months of promoting your business and your logo will be on our team shirts and stuff, Yeah, and I'll get you guys out team shirts too.
- 3:31:27Once they come, I'll find out the sizes and give you shirts.
- 3:31:32You guys have kids or?
- 3:31:33We do.
- 3:31:34have three kids.
- 3:31:34have a 28 year old, a 20, almost 25 year old and a 15 year old.
- 3:31:39Yeah.
- 3:31:40Yeah.
- 3:31:41So we're three years out of being empty nesters.
- 3:31:44So we'll get to hike a little bit more once that happens.
- 3:31:48But now we'll make sure everything is out there.
- 3:31:51em And, you know, any time you have something new.
- 3:31:55to promote, we would love to have you come back on to talk about whatever project, the documentary, know, whenever all this stuff comes together.
- 3:32:03But again, thank you for your story and for our listeners.
- 3:32:06If you have any questions for Wes, please leave them.
- 3:32:09We will make sure he sees them so he can answer you.
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