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Inspiring Human Potential Inner Growth 5D Self-Empowered Enlightenment Perspective Q&A · Inspiring Human Potential

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Welcome back to my lovely HP Community.
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We have a lovely, little QAM perspective.
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So when people are born with the ability to be a love cycle,
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we're going to talk about that one today because there's a huge
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huge difference. That I've noted so far when it
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comes to any spirituality leader, powered leader.
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You know these figures well and I don't know them personally.
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So I can only speak from what I see.
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And I've seen only a handful of them actually, consistently
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consistently, speak about how to treat your neighbor and how to
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treat anyone in your vicinity. Sadhguru would be the number one
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person. But here's where philosophy does
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not really help people to put that into practice unless
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they're only doing the spirituality stuff.
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And here's where when you do, notice the person's leading
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their life based only on the belief system, it's like with
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the religious institutions. I was fortunate in my opinion to
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be presented to lovely Jesus and I to this day I'm honored to be
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a part. I have beautiful and heart.
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Warming experiences. I also know though that I am the
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person who looks at Life as we all do, we all have our stories.
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We all will create stories for our own experiences in my
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stories. Always involved the heart and
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love. And so, it's with great.
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What's the word awareness? Because see, when you're aware
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of yourself, you actually know what you're driven by and when
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you take ownership of the, you also know when you're driven by,
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and When you know you're imperfect like any other person,
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you also know again what you're driven by.
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So the imperfection of us all having an ego is something that
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is not abnormal. If you allow yourself to grow up
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with it versus remain, blinded some way, somehow by what really
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is reactiveness, and that's where people are unconscious.
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So, devotees individuals were just doing spirituality stuff.
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You can see who they are because they'll talk about meditation.
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They'll talk about mindfulness. Oh, They'll talk about praying
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and or not praying and they'll talk about a lot of things.
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And then the minute that they have to help others, it's only
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if they follow the specific list of rules that are of their
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belonging institution, and this isn't actually only spirituality
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is also of an entity of any sort.
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So, what I see is usually the leaders Have their groups.
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And their groups, not the leaders.
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Again leaders, achieve their specific spot for reasons, they
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followed their heart and where you become someone who's
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followed is because you believe in what you stand for.
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You believe it from the heart, not from the head.
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It doesn't matter what other people want to think.
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We actually are ruled by their emotions.
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So somebody has, in fact, a buttload of studies and people
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that work with patients and I mean, therapist, We'll work with
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the shame cycle and some people have what is such?
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A horrible upbringing and poverty.
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That the only way they are able to succeed is because of envy
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and jealousy. And I'm being driven in a way
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that is tiresome to their poor body and their mind, they get
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fatigued but they relate to it as something normal, you know,
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because here's where all those movies.
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Still talk about only and be only jealousy only on the
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picture this love or whatever that word is like so only.
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Drama. Then essentially people think
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that's what life is. They've chosen to continue to
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think this. We have plenty of information at
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this point, which is where the 5dc comes in.
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So here's why I get to share and those who are here, no, some of
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us love life, some of us don't do drama, some of us, don't know
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human suffering. This way.
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We know it through other people. In fact we see it and when we
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see it, I was a teenage. I'm like, you're all ridiculous.
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I don't even know where to begin if you're stupid but wait a
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minute, let me remember we're teenager so you must not.
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Stupid, you're just being immature teenagers.
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Now that I'm an adult. I'm like, Oh no, you're still
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immature human beings but thank you therapist for helping me.
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Understand that there's a buttload of unresolved trauma,
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attachment Moon. So, these are all emotionally
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immature people, which is very, very refreshing to someone who
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knows. Okay, there is an answer to the
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way that a person can move out of their human suffering.
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Wow, thank you. And it goes Way Beyond, just you
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practicing something that you learned to believe.
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And because of it being a little badge of honor.
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So the people that I've seen in the holistic Community which are
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the ones who wear the spirituality stuff like little
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mantels, the religious institutions.
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They're just I don't even know where they stand anymore because
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the people with the pitchforks. Remind me of The Scarlet Letter
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medieval times. And I'm not clear because if
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they're living in the forest, that can understand it because
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they don't have access to the same type of information.
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If they live in technology, then I'm thinking you are Actually
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choosing to flip through your phone with just a specific type
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of information, which means that's your only interest.
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So, there's a number of things that I want to consider, but
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there's also other things, they're not really.
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So some of some people, they're really not in any shape able to
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even remotely learn something more because even the school
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they might go to has issues. So this is this is where it
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begins to look a lot different. But this is actually why it's
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super super important for For the common human being here, out
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in the streets, to turn to their neighbor and to turn to their
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classmate, in to turn, to their friend, and to return to all of
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us around each other with compassion and empathy.
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Versus speaking words out of one's mouth and then actually
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not putting it anywhere near practice.
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So when I've seen friends of mine who are in spirituality and
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holistic and they actually go nasty on me or they actually say
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things do things like Just you know this is where it says
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always got me because I would just consider it.
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Okay. This is where, you know, people
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are people not because they're evil because to me that word
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actually has never come true this day even when it was kind
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of close to coming through as like, this is bullshit.
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In fact, I got my lovely reminder that not being true and
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I'll never forget that day. It was a very, very interesting
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moment in my life and the way that I got addressed, my lovely
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Claire's, this Is where the connectedness to our lovely
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Consciousness realm and really it's our own mind with the
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energy at play. There are nudges and whatnot but
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this is not for this episode. So though that moment it was
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really really interesting. And here's where when you
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remember everything, so people will talk or energy were an
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oversold or this, but they actually don't understand the
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words they speak because if they did they wouldn't talk about
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Blocking people unfriending people, canceling cords, cutting
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cords. Thinking that energy is
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dangerous, if they heard what they spoke, the ones who are in
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the energy World Of Consciousness, and lot of
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traction. They would actually move into
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specific Spectrum, which they don't.
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So, here's where 3D 4D for the longest time.
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People have talked about it as bandwidth bandwidth in.
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I'm like, I don't know. This is not band with these are
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actual human beings who are committed to only their identity
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and their only imitating. Whatever it is, they're whoever
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it is that they've decided to follow and they're really just
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that. So the part that is very clear
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is that they don't turn to their neighbor with compassion and
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empathy. They turn to their neighbor
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with, I know how to live life and so you will learn how to
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live life for me or some some shit like that essentially.
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And when they don't have the person, do the way that they
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think they should do life. It's a minute that all.
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Did you see that? Between gossip and be jealousy
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and all these things that by the way, have a very, very specific
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place in our human evolution but don't get me started on those
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lovely conspiracy theories or the fact that the, you know, the
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apocalypse is here because you know, if you want you can follow
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it to a tee. I mean, I I will look forward to
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following two t, because they make it very much Clear where
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we're headed. It's like, I don't see that, but
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let me see how you create your nightmare because I'm sure that
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it'll Come true as you keep on adding up your data points that
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way. And so here's where the first
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interaction I had with people in religion, that was not pleasant
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at all. Was actually, I was a child and
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there's this old priest who is repressed or something.
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And he actually scolded my sister and I we were little and
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we had the candles without giving the coin and he actually,
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Us on the head, not anything big, but I remember it.
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And in fact we didn't want to go to that church, still remember
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it because he was a grumpy old man, you know?
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And so no child likes grumpy, anyone, especially because they
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are grumpy inside. And so that was one of my first
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experiences and you know, you learn about Jesus uncontrolled
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up in fact to this day, the horror stories that I've heard
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from people from their experiences makes me sad and I'm
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wondering all along as I grew up.
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I'm like I don't understand how these people can say their the
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word of God. The only thing that makes sense
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is there authoritarianism, which makes sense because that's where
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Humanity comes from from from a very black and white Society.
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Because that's how you know, when we began with the basics
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and know any better medieval times people were illiterate.
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So if you study politics, which is what I got study, you got to
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understand what role of the church is played.
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So there is a place in history versus people with their biases
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because Of being in an opinion based of it.
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You know, there's data and then there is adding subjective
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opinion which involves emotions the data is during the medieval
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times, you know, people there's a whole way even with pathology
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things work. So people lose track apparently,
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in the timeline of our human evolution and just begin to
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taint, it with a bunch of subjective emotional
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experiences. Which can I get it whenever
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people would get so pissy at me because I have a good experience
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with my church. Again, besides those little
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things. Hi, I have a good relationship
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with what I was taught. It's thanks to Jesus that I
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learned how to be unconditionally loving more and
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more and more. Because I was shown how to lead
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by a human being who said forgive them for, they do not
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know, and that was what my heart said.
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Yeah. You know what, they don't know.
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And as a teenager I grew to see. Yeah, they really are
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unconscious like something's wrong with these people that it
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was always their immature. So here is the part about people
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not realizing that you're not your thoughts.
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First of all your your mouth And first of all, which is your
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nervous system which is whether you are open and receptive to
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life or not, you hear all the allistic people talk about
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blockages and let me clear you, you know, I'll get, I am a Reiki
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practitioner, but I know that when I clear you mind clearing
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something one that you're not going to be ready to work
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through and to if you don't work through it, well you might not
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be doing much growth consciously speaking.
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You might just have a very good experience, you'll feel lighter,
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you'll have more space between your body and your mind, and
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then you'll do it. Your pattern again and you won't
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move anywhere different. This is where the Free Will
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comes in. And that's where people get to
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choose if they want to move into the better version of feeling
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better, because they're not horrible version prior to that,
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FYI, you're just a conscious version that has a certain
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number of experiences and knowledge.
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That's what it is expanding. You has nothing to do with
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becoming a better, you know, when I see the whole 2.0 3.0 and
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like, are you computer? Is that how your, because you
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don't want your body's actually getting older?
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Are deteriorating. Physically speaking.
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I'm just saying, you know, it's unfortunate that we do have
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deterioration as part of the life cycle.
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It's not something bad. It's just something that happens
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that we can feel, you know, little bit uglier because of
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seeing the wrinkles. But if we accept that nature is
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not ugly, that it's geometrically moving in certain
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directions. It's all about the way you look
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at things. It's all about the way you can
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be objective with Self about why you would feel some ways and how
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you'd feel. So as I get older, I don't feel
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uglier but yeah, I can see them getting older.
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I have moments where I'm like, okay this is old but I'm like
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Gap but that's that's old that's a quite it's okay.
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It's not a big deal with elasticity.
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Not going to go pump my face full of shit because that's just
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going to make it look fake. Which some people I've seen
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people with the fake stuff. They seem happy I wonder what's
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going to happen once they get Really old.
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Are they going to be able to accept themselves to see what's
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sad is when you're not able to accept yourself?
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And that's because you're not able to have compassion or
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empathy for yourself, and that's really sad because at the end of
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the day, nobody really knows what's afterlife.
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And so you think of people who live there 24 hours and they
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don't learn how to grow more fulfilled, because they actually
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don't work on the one thing that they could, it's their feelings
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because I'll feelings are stupid.
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Excuse me. Feelings are What You're Made Of
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because your nervous system is what's leading you.
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So here is we have two ways that our body and mind function and
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that would be either, we trust, we don't trust, so they're not.
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Trust is the dysregulated modulated empowered individuals.
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Excuse me. They're not empowered.
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I should say the embodied. I keep wanting the same power,
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but then again, they are empowered because I have many
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people that I know that are modulated and Or dysregulated
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and they definitely think they're conscious because of
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course, you're talking to me, they're living their life and
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they watch all these movies that allowed their lifestyle to be
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something that seems good, and they missed the component of if,
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your body doesn't feel good and you're actually not coherent
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about this. So again here is where thank
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goodness for the researchers in the Mental Health Community.
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All of them, the cymatics, the trauma and the actual polyvagal
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Theory. I With Stephen porges does but
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he's a researcher in a specific field.
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That what I'm saying is I forget how he because he came across
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the polyvagal nerve in a specific way.
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And his colleagues weren't even listening to him when he began
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to share this information. They still don't not everybody
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believes in it, by the way. So this is where it's very
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again, fascinating, when someone says, oh, I care about people
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but let me not believe in the researchers that are finding out
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how. So here's where empathy and
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compassion. In or actually not luxuries.
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They are essential for, developing the trust that is
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needed for transformation to happen.
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And so, back to this cute a on how people who are in the 4D
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Community. That's a 3 d 2, but 4 d,
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particularly because they're the ones are talking about the
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light, and they're the ones who talked about peace, and they're
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the ones who are talking about doing this and this, and that,
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and then they turn to their neighbor and they talk about
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canceling and toxicity and toxic.
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The Tivoli they start labeling themselves, you know, typical
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mairead. Typical I'm a sociopath I'm not
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this signed up. So all these labels of all these
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people that keep them in these little boxes but every one of
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these people also has groups that are in that, so they're all
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belonging and feeling safe. So there is a very important
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thing to note is that people need to feel safe in order to
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trust. But the problem is that these
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leaders, they don't move their people to say Okay, guess what?
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Yes, we have. This is the sum we have certain
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traits. Now let's remember though, we're
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all humans. So what we want to do is be
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open-minded to those who are apples and pears and cherries
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and pies. And let us remember what that
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means. So when till like I said they
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all I see a handful of them. They speak these words and I've
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always wondered like with the sadguru inner engineering
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course. I'm like I wonder how many
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people We are actually going to Unconditionally Love Like A
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Mother. The mother who has a flexible
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adaptive coherent energized and stable brain as so an integrated
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brain mother because that's very important to note a mother who
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and a father if there's a father.
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But the mother is important because that's the caregiver
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that holds you. In the belly, there is something
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that takes place during gestation and just you a you
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take in, I forget which one it is.
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But the hormones have there. Their role.
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Okay, so the emotions is not because they have to be perfect.
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It's the way that they're able to work with their emotions,
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work with themselves, that creates more of that safe
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environment, you know? So, your body begins to already
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be in tune with its environment, so your body and your brain
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developed in certain ways. But again, this is where I go a
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little bit off track, but it's to say that unconditionally
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loving, I all eight billion people, what I'm wondering is
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how many actually Are doing that because when I got to make this
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promise, it was just a revisiting of the same promise
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that I made way back. When when I even began my stuff
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with church, Jesus is the reason for me.
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Choosing love as a teenager. As I saw people actually turned
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their backs on each other, commit betrayal, commit,
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manipulation, and be jealousy. Spite, all these things that I'm
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now at 43 year, old adult, and have not seen any person be any
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different than That I've see people be the same mediocrity
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that they always have been and it's mediocre because it's not
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the full potential of humanity but all the mediocres are people
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who are dysregulated or modulated embodied self.
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They all have a lack of trust, they all in fact live.
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So here's what non-trust is fight flight.
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Freeze van freeze pause flock drop but oh I'm sorry.
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That's not true. Self preservation.
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Must be the reptilian group of people or some siphon?
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Of energy coming from the Matrix, excuse me.
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Let's talk about Only The Dark Night of the soul and ego death.
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So here's the deal about this, this verbiage, which I heard
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when I heard it, I was following it and it was again nothing ever
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derails. A person who has a life cycle
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because we're like, okay, yeah, we see what we see the hurt.
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We already know there's her, we know there's no evil because if
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evil ever existed it would have to have a clear mind, all the
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people that I've ever met that do quote unquote evil.
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They have no clear mind. They have an Angry mind, they
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have a sad mind. They have a remorse mind or
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regret, mind rumination, might they have a mind, that doesn't
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really function. Clearly at all, they have a
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traumatized mine. Excuse me.
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And so, their behavior in fact, is completely clear as an
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immature human being. So to me, that's not evil.
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That's you immature, not knowing what you're doing and for me to
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actually react to. That would make me mean, because
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I know that you are not very well right now, your I trust
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you're not trusting and so here's where 4D, people like to
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talk about energy vampires and our chorus and I've shared with
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many of my 4D friends. Stop calling people dark or has
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there not dark, or has I actually have Intel that can
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help you understand that a person who's traumatized, their
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seat of empathy gets turned off. He's he or she's not choosing to
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be what they are. So why are you talking about
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dark or is there not owned by the devil?
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This is a human being were talking about.
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Of course, they can't be a rainbow Sign, anything.
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What do you think it means to be in a body?
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That's not safe. So the part about people who
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easily just label individuals, who have biological rudeness
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evil, it's something that is very clear and has been clear.
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Even before I knew about this entire beautiful world of
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Claire's. And again, the one person in my
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head, that I always have is Jesus with his lovely
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unconditional, love, forgive them for they do not know, and
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that's the Truth, that keeps moving forward.
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And that's where the people who are actually competent and
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listening. Because their brain is clear,
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because they do trust life and Humanity, the ones who actually
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care. They dare to do the unpopular.
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You got a lot of people think you Maestro, teacher of me,
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said, g thinking of my Italian friends because, you know, the
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time they got a bunch of things when it comes to how they need
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to look, a lot of facades facades facades and so, Have
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some experiences with that, it's fascinating to see them hide
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their actual opinion, think of themselves as cocky and think
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that they're actually better. I mean, that happens with my
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American friends, too, but it's a different energy times
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actually. Get this little prickly thing,
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it's fascinating when you can pick up on energies and it's
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also quite again intriguing because the level of lack of
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knowingness is there, and so here's where I'm looking at them
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thinking, okay? Wow.
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You really have no fucking clue. You're doing and let me be nice
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about it. In that case, I'm being nice.
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So we learned right silence in order to be nice to people
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because it would be very mean of me to actually trigger an ego.
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That's already. So insecure that it must act as
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if it knows everything. His see the body of a person who
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gets rigid and then starts to spit out shit out of their mouth
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and and that's nasty to the person who is empowered.
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It's exactly what it is. That's a really, really unhappy
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Be person. I'm so sad for you.
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I'm so sad for you, your body everything.
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And actually, we learn how not to be sad because we realized
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that every time we try and interact with compassion and
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empathy, the people who actually make it their mission to start
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being even more assholes because they actually cannot fathom.
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The fact that a person can be happy, loving can be just wanted
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there to help you, you know, that this is this is the saddest
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thing is that They actually choose to Target and they don't
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choose consciously. So, again, we're aware that
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they're unconscious of their targeting.
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It's excruciating. Lee heartbreaking to see people
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deny themselves, the opportunity to heal.
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They deny themselves empathy, and compassion to deny
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themselves, a person who will love them unconditionally
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because they don't know how to trust because they don't know
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love and they don't have the ability to be clear enough.
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In their mind to realize, wait a minute, my reactiveness, this
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fight this fleeing this in and out this Behavior, this is
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feeling uncomfortable. This this thing that I'm doing
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these pieces of things that are coming forth, they they don't
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make sense. There's a human out there.
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Who's nice, why would I be in this energy to look?
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What is the deal? And here's where we have a
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tendency to say, what's wrong with me?
23:53
And that's the first problem. And that's where though the
23:56
educators are sharing, so it's what has happened to me and if
24:00
you're actually just a little bit knowledge and Trauma, you'll
24:03
just know, oh, wait a minute, let me think of my and even
24:06
without the word, if you think of your own household.
24:09
If a person were objective enough to realize, where do I
24:12
come from? What did I get taught?
24:15
As I was growing up that I get taught that I can trust people
24:18
that I have a household where I was able to feel comfortable and
24:22
loved and completely accepted it.
24:25
People stayed down to earth with the way that they behaved, which
24:29
they don't. This is the part as teenagers.
24:33
They move into their identity. And so the ones who belong to
24:36
move into whatever it is, their belief system is So whenever
24:42
I've met people who are mature, I've always learned to do what I
24:45
was taught. Forgive them for, they do not
24:48
know and I always have felt good about that because it feels
24:52
right to treat people with kindness and compassion because
24:56
in my heart as an empath, one who doesn't have an opinion
25:00
about other people like those who are instead in there for D
25:05
thinking, they can know another person calling them dark or has
25:08
or energy Vampires versus understanding that.
25:11
That's Called suffering and it's human suffering like my lovely
25:15
attachment style friend who I have nothing against, I just
25:19
wish that they feel better and that you know they would learn
25:22
how not to be reactive but this is the part that's only if they
25:27
choose to see that it's not. What's wrong with me?
25:30
It's no these, these ways that I get to behave with my loved ones
25:34
aren't allowing me to grow more relationships, it just allows me
25:37
to have the consistent in and out and, you know, these ups and
25:41
Downs with them, the reality. Like this person, I'm thinking
25:44
about they have done this to all of their friends.
25:46
It's like a thing that's what makes friendship beautiful
25:50
though because their friends don't cancel them.
25:53
They don't block them. They don't do any of this.
25:55
They actually just know. This is my friends pattern.
25:59
So, when people actually do accept each other, they get to
26:04
work together. Now, here's the part of free
26:06
will like this attachment stuff and they have not actually taken
26:10
ownership of their In a way of being able to improve their
26:15
inner well-being. So they get nasty, but their
26:19
friends know that they get nasty and they call it what it is.
26:22
A teenager, a child, this is where childish behavior, so
26:27
people accept each other's flaws and Imperfections, when they
26:30
actually love each other. If there's growth, then there's
26:34
a way that people expand consciously.
26:36
If there's not, then there's a way that you find Harmony within
26:39
that dynamic because we At that, we have again ways that we will
26:43
react under stress. So, when people are not
26:47
receptive, it's because they are in a dysregulated and modulated
26:52
embodied, self. And people do not become aware
26:56
in the spirituality Community, or the spiritual community of
26:59
this, unless they're doing personal development, which
27:01
means understanding. So when a sud Guru and his inner
27:05
engineering program talks about being responsive versus
27:08
reactive, he doesn't explain to you what that means from your
27:10
mind. Here's the explanation, reactive
27:13
is your brain and flipped mode alert.
27:15
Alert alert, your taken over by your limbic system if you keep
27:19
moving into your charge state. But in order for you to actually
27:23
even bother with being aware, would need for you to be aware
27:27
of, I don't want to get pissy. I am getting pissy.
27:31
I'm going to choose to back down from my piss Enos and try to
27:35
have an actual human conversation.
27:38
Number one, some people they don't actually Have this ability
27:43
to know even though today it's more spread out and I know I
27:47
plan on making it widely known that people have an option, even
27:51
though the therapists have made, it clear that for those who have
27:55
dysregulated modulated environments, their, you need
27:59
first to have a surrounding that is fulfilling but that's the
28:02
whole point if they don't actually pick the people who
28:05
will support them. They're not going to build that.
28:08
So here, let me use my attachment stuff and again they
28:10
get Nasty. They have friends that are
28:12
constants, but they don't build those relationships.
28:15
So, we're used to our friend coming in and out doing her
28:19
thing. One day, she's happy with us one
28:22
day. She's not happy with this.
28:23
It doesn't matter. It's been so many years for me
28:25
and for the friends that know her even longer.
28:28
It's been that. So they're just again, it
28:30
becomes this stale thing to stagnant thing and that's about
28:33
it. This doesn't help the friend, my
28:38
friend doesn't get help because she's not actually building
28:42
better relationships, but my friend also has made it the
28:47
mission of why would I change there's what's wrong with me?
28:50
So their ideas, what's wrong with me versus what has taken
28:54
place and with the information from the psycho educational
28:59
component, which I've shared they discarded it discarded it
29:04
And they also think purely with their story.
29:08
So religious people my other experience.
29:12
I'll never forget that one. This was in college and this was
29:16
a person who did a favor because as a good Christian, she had to
29:22
really I knew that she was basically doing it just because
29:27
she had to is because we all will pick up on each other.
29:31
We are nervous system and mirror neurons and at the time I I have
29:35
all my Claire's and the information.
29:37
Meaning about these Claire's, I wasn't aware of the whole, it's
29:41
not just the gut feeling, you actually picking up on, you
29:44
know, your friends nervous system and their pattern of
29:48
behavior and all that stuff. Now I do know and so she was
29:52
definitely in what would be a collapse submit kind of things.
29:56
She did it because she had to do it.
29:58
She did it because she was taught that to be a good.
29:59
Christian means you help people but she didn't want to be doing
30:03
what she's doing and the entire Time of her doing me this favor.
30:06
She was pouting and being all upset about it.
30:11
And and, and for me, it felt pressuring me, hurrying me
30:16
rushing me felt uncomfortable, because it felt like now, you
30:20
know, I owed her to be fast like this, this this is entire time.
30:25
In fact, that they, I said, I'm never asking this person to help
30:28
me again because this is not the way you help people.
30:31
You help people without making it way on them, not by you.
30:35
Being in a rush. You be like that.
30:36
What is that? Just don't do it.
30:38
Just don't do it. So here's the part about the lie
30:43
that a person will tell themselves this person and their
30:45
brain out. I did a favor of a good
30:47
Christian. Know you actually did something
30:50
because you're told to do it, your heart wasn't in it, your
30:53
mind wasn't as it wasn't in it and you should have just not
30:55
done it because you doing what you did just made a situation,
31:00
very uncomfortable. And in that case I didn't have
31:03
money. I didn't have a car in half.
31:04
I didn't have a lot of things and we always learn how to
31:10
respect people's time and space. Some of us, we actually have an
31:15
awareness of wanting to respect the life that you are because
31:21
you have your 24 hours. It's not because we're going to
31:23
soothe you. So here's where people think
31:25
what we want to know, we don't want to make it all better.
31:27
It's not because we need to know, we actually are simply
31:29
aware that we don't want to be an imposition.
31:34
And that imposition is something that involves very useful
31:41
balance. For those who have a love cycle,
31:44
again, we learn Equanimity. So we're not feeling pressured.
31:48
Even though I learned in years after years of two years, how to
31:52
use my mouth in accordance to my heart, which is in Equanimity,
31:58
which is in compassion, which is in a state of constant love.
32:01
So here is where the trust bodies.
32:04
Are the 5D bodies. The trust bodies are all the
32:08
people who will move into or are already a 5D self-empowered,
32:12
enlightened in the indictment. So agent lightworker in this
32:15
2023 either they are here or we get to get them here or whatever
32:20
it is, but we move more and more into knowing about having
32:25
empathy and compassion with our neighbors.
32:28
And that means with your biologically, rude, friends.
32:31
And you're biologically rude, family members.
32:33
And I'm talking only to people who want to be here.
32:37
The ones who stay in there for d3d can go keep doing what
32:40
they're doing. Because see here's the thing
32:43
biologically. Rude people are people with
32:46
unresolved trauma and they have attachment wound.
32:50
They have dysregulated and modulated embodied self.
32:53
And they're in experiences with people that are going to be in
32:57
the same resonance as them. And so, when you are a person
33:02
who is rigid, and then all you do is move to chaos.
33:05
Well, guess what? All you're going to do is In and
33:07
Out In, and Out In, and Out in and out, and now, it doesn't
33:10
matter which still age review adopting.
33:13
Here's where that's exactly why a person and their
33:16
Enlightenment. So age group is not going to be
33:17
using their time in that manner. What we use our time for us to
33:22
create bonds of trust and we will know if we're moving into a
33:27
land of trust. Because means we Each other's
33:30
company means we talk more. It means we share.
33:33
More means we treat each other with that kindness and
33:36
compassion. It means we become vulnerable.
33:39
It means we talk about this shitty shit, that can have
33:42
happened. It means you actually care about
33:47
person and that's because you actually care about what they
33:51
need and you care about what they need.
33:54
And it's a mutual caring and nobody's in a non trusting body.
33:59
D. This is the part where, so I'll
34:04
use my attachment style friend again because even though
34:08
they've made up their mind about demanding respect from Humanity
34:12
because they didn't get taught it.
34:14
And I get that they're on their healing Journey because you
34:16
know, everybody's going to know whatever they need to do next.
34:19
I'm I trust that person's body their bodies going to lead them
34:22
to where they need to go. Furthermore, life never gives
34:28
you more than you can handle. And, you know, used to be with
34:32
again, a belief system, but it's not a belief system.
34:35
I see all the people that I've ever met in my life so far.
34:39
I see them all settled into their lovely Soul age, groups
34:43
their safety. Behaviors, the ones who are
34:46
committed to not trusting. I see them there and they're all
34:51
happy. In fact I'm the one with the
34:53
pink tinted glasses, you know? Is the part where it's like,
34:56
yeah, I do have I love my pink. Tinted glasses.
34:59
Thank you so much for making them so obvious to me, I already
35:02
knew I had them in the first place, but guess what?
35:05
I also know that I actually am looking to support Humanity to
35:10
move into a healing Journey. So, with my neighbors and with
35:14
people who are around me, I always look to be actually
35:19
loving and luckily for me my lovely, heart, doesn't move me
35:24
away from that. No matter what has taken place
35:27
with people who are rigid and chaotic, and therefore people
35:32
who in their body, they're not in a social engagement, there in
35:37
a fight flight, freeze Farm freeze, pause, and it's what
35:42
attached cry. Please appease collapse submit
35:44
bring to the table. So the individuals are the
35:47
religious institutions to me. They're all Hypocrites unless
35:50
they're actually unconditionally loving especially when they want
35:53
to use the name Jesus but they have all those parables.
35:55
Was in all the interpretation. So, you know, the reality is we
35:59
can't really make blanket statements because they got
36:01
plenty of people out there who are experts of the theologians.
36:05
Do we want to do? We want to go and move into that
36:08
realm? There's a whole, but little
36:09
people that will have arguments with me about that.
36:11
And I'm like, dude, I'm not, I'm not contesting the pass, I'm
36:15
saying something different, but hey, you know what?
36:18
Again, I don't want to actually have a reductive conversation
36:21
with you because the minute that you want to present to me the
36:23
past. As if it's still, here is a
36:25
minute. That I person who's conscious
36:27
going to be like, okay, obviously you didn't learn about
36:29
moving into the future somehow you stayed stuck in a time and
36:33
you wanted to keep living out and I'm just so sorry that you
36:36
don't know what the word Karma means right now for real.
36:39
Because if you did, you'd be stopping your little wheel of
36:42
Karma and you move into the wheel of Dharma and maybe you'd
36:45
move into a whole different way of understanding the difference
36:48
between times with the, you know, now time, not Scarlet,
36:52
Letter time, you get it. You think it's the Apocalypse.
36:55
Gotcha straight on again. Keep bringing the past to the
36:59
present and keep living your imagination.
37:02
I'll live my imagination. Mine's really rocking on with
37:05
the lovely signs people, and that's all I'm going to state.
37:09
So there you go. And I really, again, feel very
37:12
sad. I'm so sad for the institution
37:14
that has given me so much but you know, it was my
37:16
interpretation of what I wrote was raised with.
37:19
So when I got my first experience with the light body,
37:21
it was in my confirmation and I'll never forget it because
37:25
when I got My second experience with the light body, which is
37:28
through finding out about 5D plane.
37:30
And all this stuff that people who are not here, don't know
37:33
what I'm talking about but that's why I titled what I
37:35
title. Hopefully you all know what I'm
37:37
talking about, if not send me questions, but when I got my
37:41
second lightbody, I'll never forget the feeling because it
37:43
was just like when I had gotten the confirmation and I made that
37:49
choice. See, here's where I don't make
37:51
choices without thinking them through, but I never ever
37:54
associated This idea of Evo that it existed, actually, I'm just
38:00
like actually I had a very straight on conversation with
38:03
god when I was still using the word and I said, dude, okay this
38:07
evil thing. I'm just sorry.
38:09
I think your people must not know what omnipotent and
38:12
omni-benevolent means if they knew those words, then they back
38:15
off. They also, obviously don't
38:17
understand what free will means either and how we get to shoes
38:21
when evil presents itself. Quote-unquote what to do.
38:25
I think your son made it very clear.
38:27
What to do there's words and you know again I I knew that people
38:31
would do the Crusades or this or that like okay I got it I got it
38:35
you're pissed at the church you're pissed that this you're
38:37
pissed at the past. Wow.
38:39
Okay. Can you live today or what are
38:41
we doing? I'm so sorry that you keep on
38:43
thinking about a layout of time that doesn't pertain to your
38:47
time. It's just very interesting and
38:50
you know, here's where when people talk about ancestral,
38:52
looming in the 4D plane, you know.
38:55
Anytime I think of it, I'm like, you know what, that actually get
38:58
means, do you know how to heal from it?
39:00
Because what would, what that would mean is that you stop
39:02
holding a grudge against the medieval times for being
39:05
ignorant, people, and illiterate, and you'd actually
39:09
move into an energy that doesn't hold a grudge.
39:12
You'd actually move, maybe just, maybe into an energy, that is a
39:15
little bit lighter with your own ability, to think things
39:18
through. Clearly, what you all again,
39:21
this is this always makes me laugh because I literally picked
39:25
it. I do.
39:25
I never thought of people growing up to stay immature.
39:29
This isn't this is the one missing component which I then
39:32
realized as I moved into Claire land I didn't make anything more
39:37
confusing. It made it more, I'm like wow.
39:40
Okay my gut is spot on here here here here and then now in 5D
39:44
plane where I'm seeing all these 4D, people it ain't a band with
39:47
okay? We may be compared to antennas,
39:50
but these are people who actually get together in their
39:53
group based on their leader, whose base The find story, they
39:57
got to follow that story and become the exact replica of
40:01
their leader. In fact, it's again, you just
40:03
take a screenshot of them all and you'll see them all
40:05
matching. Okay.
40:07
So here's where the people who are, who are agents of
40:11
themselves, you don't actually go and match up, but let me
40:14
dress like you let me do everything like you, that
40:17
actually feels quite productive because we are owners of our own
40:21
experiences of life. In a very, very yeah.
40:24
It's just Just in a very ownership way.
40:27
So here's what ownership with compassion and empathy mean when
40:31
that person and that priest. So my remembrance of those
40:36
moments where that I was very uncomfortable with the priest as
40:38
a child and I don't like grumpy old anything even now as an
40:42
adult, I won't go around them. Well actually as an adult, I
40:45
filled up more compassion for them because I feel bad, but as
40:49
a child that energy was something that I didn't like and
40:55
Luckily we have my twin sister and I and my younger sister a
41:00
mother who always protects in this sense of being a nurture.
41:05
So she definitely didn't like that that priest slapped us on
41:07
the head and she definitely agreed with us not going to that
41:12
church anymore. So we didn't go with back until
41:15
that priest was gone. And he was a grumpy old man, and
41:19
he was at his retirement or something, you know, ready to be
41:22
retired, but The friend, what I learned was something very
41:27
straightforward because I'd seen it, where people will just know,
41:31
I was taught to be a good everything.
41:32
Let me just do it and and not really want to do it.
41:35
So, being in a place of doing something without meaning, it is
41:40
one of those aspects. Every person will have known.
41:43
If you grow up to be a mature person, it means you're not
41:46
like, oh, what up, what a horrible person know to me.
41:50
It was okay. I know, I will not be asking
41:52
that person for help because They don't really want to do it
41:56
one too. If they're doing it, they're
41:58
actually putting pressure in a way that's uncomfortable.
42:01
They're making a specific way of demand.
42:04
And so they're managing a situation with a rigid.
42:08
That does it make it trusting? It doesn't make it comfortable.
42:11
So there's not a resonance and in fact, trust is not built and
42:15
here's where there was no need to say anything because this is
42:18
where it's a personal interpretation in the first
42:20
place. So the ones of us who take
42:22
ownership of our emotions, we matured That's where the 5dc is
42:26
attending. My mental age group.
42:27
So we know that empathy and compassion is what we all need
42:33
more of. Because that's the first place.
42:36
We've gone when our hearts have been in places where we don't
42:40
understand why people do what they do.
42:43
And when I say, understand what I'm saying is as you move into
42:46
your own adulthood the love cycle people, I'm not talking
42:52
from the same cycle, people okay, shame cycle.
42:54
People, they have dysregulated and modulated embodied
42:57
experiences. And they actually do the things
43:00
that I'm talking about their bodies, don't feel that they can
43:03
trust that they stayed self-preservation and then they
43:06
act out their self-preservation on other people.
43:09
And so we don't actually have anything to say except for
43:12
heartbreak, heartbreak heartbreak, that's it and we
43:15
just try to, you know, make it better in a way that can work.
43:18
If it works, it works, if it doesn't, it doesn't And that's
43:21
about all I can say here. It's not our mission of any sort
43:25
to try and heal anyone because only you can heal yourself and
43:28
it's not healing in my book. The word is more of you learn
43:31
how to be a grown up with your own brain.
43:34
And in fact, it's where you learn how to be flexible
43:36
adaptive coherent, energizing, stable phases, thank you so
43:39
much, Dan Siegel, and it really is just a person, becoming a
43:43
functional adult versus staying their teenage self the rest of
43:46
their life. And so maybe.
43:48
Yeah, psychology didn't have all these Information way back when
43:51
but I actually intuitively kind of knew it already as a
43:54
teenager. Then I learn new words.
43:56
Thanks to me learning about people because of knowing the
44:00
same evil evil doesn't exist because evil would require a
44:04
person to be clear in their brain.
44:06
You can't be clear if you can't have a confrontation where you
44:10
stay at ease, okay? One.
44:12
So you have to lie if you're manipulating if you're
44:14
gaslighting, if you're doing any kind of that shit, you ain't
44:17
clear in your brain because you don't know how to to have an
44:21
honest conversation at ease in your own body one.
44:25
So that's number one and my attachment suffering perfect
44:28
example. In all of our years, we've
44:31
improved on how we handle this little repeat pattern that they
44:33
do. Their suffering has maintained
44:35
the same because they do rumination, they're in their
44:38
shame cycle. That's the point I'm in my life
44:40
cycle. So I've learned how to be a
44:42
better friend. They've learned how to be the
44:45
same friend that they've always been.
44:47
But as a human being because their body goes Through a type
44:51
of and it has been learning different things.
44:54
They actually have improved their window of Tolerance when
44:57
it comes to how they interact with people.
45:01
But their actual suffering has not improved in fact, that has
45:06
maintained the same, their stories.
45:08
Same what? They suffers the same, their
45:10
physiology feels the same, it's still there.
45:13
Touch crime, they have not moved in any way, shape, or form
45:16
towards a healthier version of themselves from within their
45:19
body. And yet their intuitive.
45:21
They are Reiki practitioner there person who's a coach there
45:24
are there in every day. In fact, human being is why I
45:26
was saying, so religious spiritual, all of that.
45:30
And they hold this the community without the updated trauma and
45:33
somatic and form. So they're not people who get
45:35
informed on their bodies, they get informed on how to call
45:38
people names. Oh yeah.
45:40
Oh you better bet they're going around.
45:41
Looking for oh I'm a neurotypical or I'm a hyper.
45:45
What is that? The one word hyper?
45:48
Super sensitive. So I fit this box or maybe I'm
45:51
maybe I'm an RMI a narcissist. She even went to live.
45:54
No, no, I'm not that. They're The Narcissist.
45:56
Oh, wait here. They're, they're actually
45:58
suffering from. So, you know, looking up.
46:00
All these terms with the, what's wrong with me or others, to
46:04
there's your shame cycle, inner critic, outer critic, they're
46:07
not curious soul of psycho people, we don't go looking up.
46:10
Shit to hey, let me label you and call you names.
46:14
We're like okay, how can I help my friends or mean for me being
46:19
a mentor and a podcast host and doing the integral program
46:22
courses. Everything of helping to inspire
46:25
human potential is why I do what I do.
46:27
So it's never actually been. Hey let me go tell my friends
46:30
who to be No, I share with my loved ones.
46:32
In fact, they get bored when I share with them some don't, and
46:36
here's where I've learned how to disengage from sharing any and
46:40
all information with anyone who looks at me, in a way of like
46:43
again. So that's where I've learned to
46:46
be with all this lovely, beautiful stuff that can
46:48
actually inspire a person's higher human potential because
46:52
guess what? I'm not going to do.
46:53
I won't impose on you healing you can live your dysregulated
46:57
modulated empowered self because the love psychopath.
47:00
We actually don't have any idea of.
47:04
Oh, let me tell you who to be today.
47:06
No, we're like your you who you presenting to me, and I'll learn
47:11
exactly how to be able to be kind and compassionate, because
47:14
that's what I get to choose. I get to choose what type of
47:17
person I want to be with you. And that's where for me, Jesus
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taught me. Well, it's learn how to forgive
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because they do not know, but it wasn't just because Jesus spoke
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those words or because I was taught some Commandments or what
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not. Not?
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No, no, I contemplated in my little brain as a child growing
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up. Do I feel good about hurting
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another fucking human being? No, I don't.
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Why why don't I feel good? Why would I not feel good about
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hurting another? He let me go and think, what?
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What do every Pete, every prayer.
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Why does, every human being have?
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And their lovely little chest area?
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Hmm, we all have a heart. Oh.
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So how does it feel when you actually speak unkind words to
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your friends, or each other? Think about that.
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Oh, oh yeah, it does hurt. That feels really sucky.
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Hmm. How do I want to treat people?
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There aren't treat them the way I want to be treated on a treat
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them in a hypocritical way which means, the way I don't want to
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be treated, my equation was very straightforward.
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Yes, I actually agree with treating people.
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The way I want to be treated which is love and kindness.
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Why would I do anything remotely the opposite?
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And so here's where it was not because I was afraid of God or
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afraid. That Jesus would come in with me
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on my hands or something. No, no I knew.
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You know what? I was choosing in a very
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specific way. So, love cycle people we choose
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based on love. Why we don't know shame.
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I didn't choose because I was bad.
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I wasn't bad. No, and when people got quote on
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quote bad, I contemplated that and that's why I said, hey God,
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there ain't no evil. There is hurt my psychology
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books, tell me. So, and so, I don't know your
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people. And here's where my logic goes
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on the Puttin. All knowing Choose how to be
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kind to people. I'm going to think that you're
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presenting to me quote unquote evil so that I may create
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transformation, that was my equation with faith.
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And again, empathy and compassion or not luxuries.
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When you look at the studies that the trauma experts share
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with us, the only way you're going to need any dysregulated
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or modulated embodied person and any traumatized human being like
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my attachment friend to potentially potentially their
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own healing journey is if you are able to be a safe space for
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them and that is with your body. It's compassion and empathy.
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Can only come from a body. That is a An eventual Bagel
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State and that's the same body that has an integrated mind.
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That integrated mind is a person who's a differentiated self
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doesn't need you to tell them how to figure feel because they
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know how they think and feel. And then they'll link to you as
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a human being and know that they know that, you know, how you
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think and feel and they would never dare to say, I know who
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you are. How you think and feel that me
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impose on you that you are a wonderful person.
50:03
This is no. But you are pure Consciousness,
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like any of us and yeah you know a body to.
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So you have Have a personality and temperament, and yada yada.
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So, you know, the attachment stuff, and we'll close out with
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them. My hope is simply that they get
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out of their suffering body. Everything else.
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I don't care about their mannerisms there, whatever?
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I care that they can wake up feeling good, because see when
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you understand what a window of tolerances, for person who
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actually has an attached cry collapse of make peace.
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Peace. Because you can feel their
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suffering So when we feel people suffer, we don't have anger for
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them because they get pissy, we suffer because they're actually
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suffering. And with the trauma experts,
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what you know about a shame cycle is that they isolate
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isolation is not positive, they withdraw and they feel not felt,
50:58
they feel misunderstood, which is why like my attachment style
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friend. I will always be here for them,
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they know this. And I know, they know this, even
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if they give me the cold shoulder when they're seeking,
51:09
but I'm happy to know that I can be a person that they know has
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empathy and compassion, it's not their brain.
51:16
That knows it, it's not their masculine, it's their body,
51:19
which is why in their desperation in their despair
51:24
because that body wants to live. It will reach out and some won't
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and that's very sad. That's happened.
51:31
One of my lovely friends didn't reach out and they are not here
51:35
with me anymore. Doesn't mean if they had reached
51:37
out that they'd be better. But this is the part of where
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when I say people in spirituality or spiritual, if
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they can't be kind to their biologically route friends, they
51:50
can't be compassionate to their family and they want to use
51:54
toxic this toxic that. I'm this site that they really
51:58
need to revisit this whole idea that there are spiritual in any
52:02
way, shape, or form or religious, but then again, if
52:05
they're 3D 4D, here's where I'm the devil appeared.
52:09
Ali and evil and a sinner. And because you know, I'm also
52:13
the solo Poli, a whore or whatever other names people are
52:17
going to give to people who are actually in a 5D spectrum and
52:22
truly compassionate, truly compassionate because we don't
52:26
have an opinion about whether you, we don't have an opinion in
52:30
the sense of, let's tell all people in all countries were to
52:33
do, we have opinions that are based on how about we learn one,
52:38
what it means to actually, The communicate.
52:41
So first, how about we all learn how to be equanimous?
52:43
Lovely like the first thought, I'm thinking of I want leaders
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to be adults. I see a lot of them.
52:49
They really need to learn about trauma.
52:51
Like we really need the psycho Educators with all these
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leaders, all of them because I'd say that's the first set of
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business is to get people actually know what I think.
53:00
I'm going to say hey colleges because I did political science.
53:03
I advise highly advise that you make it mandatory for anybody
53:08
who wants to study. See this to do.
53:10
X y z, d e. F g basically go on a personal
53:13
development. Must have a therapist, good
53:15
therapist of what I because, you know, I think I'm going to do
53:19
that. Because yeah, if there's one
53:21
thing that I'm more concerned with is not the masses, the
53:24
masses have their leaders that give them their belonging, they
53:27
find their safe space and they made keep living suffering like
53:30
my attachment style from, but if they find their place, that's
53:33
all they need to find Solace. Great and dandy.
53:36
So the biggest thought here is I want our leaders quote unquote.
53:41
Again, some of them are actually ders, but others, they really
53:44
need to learn how to be grown-ups because being
53:47
basically having people who don't know how to negotiate
53:52
because they don't actually know how to stay equanimous in their
53:55
brain. It's a, not a requisite I think.
53:58
Yeah, I think that a person who is actually behind a board
54:03
meeting to talk to, a lot of people needs to know how to be
54:06
clear in their brain. And not from a psychopathic
54:11
standpoint, not that there's anything against that because
54:13
the psychopath actually the ability to be under pressures
54:16
because they don't go into a fight flight mode in there.
54:19
Their heart, race doesn't start doing shit.
54:22
So they're actually able physically to maintain a level
54:25
of clarity so we can have other people have that to just in a
54:30
different way and it's through understanding their safety
54:32
behaviors and knowing about their limbic system taken over.
54:36
And that really, they have Charge states that come from
54:38
when they were children, so it's about learning to be a grown-up.
54:42
And so, this is where again, leadership would be the equation
54:45
because they're in important positions of doing stuff.
54:49
The masses, it's more of well, if people want to grow up, they
54:52
can so like with the people that I got to deal with again, they
54:55
didn't actually move into becoming Kinder or more
55:00
compassionate, they think they're already compassionate
55:03
and kind and it's everybody else that is rude.
55:06
So, you know, we will sit in our right Silence by the way, when
55:11
we meet any type of biological rudeness, especially when it
55:14
comes to people, that have had horrible experiences with their
55:18
religious background and some will have the idea that there's
55:23
this Perfection. And, you know, this, these are
55:25
all those rigid extremes that only, you know, black and white
55:28
thinking does unforgiving. They don't learn new skills.
55:32
In fact, they don't even know that their brain is not working
55:34
in a clear way, but hey, Who are we to say?
55:37
So we allow again, the right silence because it's better to
55:41
sit in silence when people are upset because their ears aren't
55:45
really listening. Anyways, they don't trust, they
55:49
don't trust from the minute. They're engaging with you, and
55:52
they don't have the ability to be conscious of that.
55:54
So when their transference comes up, like my biological, rude
55:57
friend, they don't actually think that they did anything and
56:03
they didn't do anything wrong, that's the part.
56:05
It's that they have. It learned how to self-soothe
56:08
and they haven't learned how to be able to work with themselves
56:12
and their window of Tolerance and with other people.
56:15
And they're not the only one. There's many people that
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consistently are in this state. So being able to be
56:21
compassionate, gives them the opportunity to have corrected
56:24
experiences. If they choose to grow up,
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looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences
56:30
cullinan or leave a message, have a great day.
56:06
It learned how to self-soothe and they haven't learned how to
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be able to work with themselves and their window of Tolerance
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and with other people. And they're not the only one.
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There's many people that consistently are in this state.
56:20
So being able to be compassionate, gives them the
56:23
opportunity to have corrected experiences.
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If they choose to grow up, looking forward to hearing your
56:29
thoughts and experiences cullinan or leave a message,
56:31
have a great day.