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3 Lies Keeping You Stuck (And Exactly What to Say Back) · Your Utmost Life

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Misty Celli: There is a voice in your head that has been talking you out of your own life for a very long time.
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Misty Celli: And what makes it so dangerous is not that it sounds harsh or cruel, but it sounds like wisdom.
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Misty Celli: It sounds like the responsible, realistic version of you, the one who has learned from experience and is just trying to keep you from getting hurt again.
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Misty Celli: But it's lying to you.
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Misty Celli: And today I'm going to give you the exact words to say back.
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Misty Celli: If you have ever felt like you're living for everyone else, don't know who you are anymore, and catch yourself thinking, is this all there is?
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Misty Celli: You were in the right place.
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Misty Celli: You were never meant to disappear into your roles, but somewhere between everyone's needs and everyone's expectations, you became invisible, disconnected, and living on autopilot.
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Misty Celli: This podcast is where you learn the principles and strategic tools to reclaim who you are.
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Misty Celli: Design a life that is fully and intentionally yours and show up every day as the utmost woman you have always been.
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Misty Celli: Not just for everyone else, but finally fully for yourself.
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Misty Celli: This is where you begin the process of returning to your utmost self, not by accident, not by obligation, but by design.
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Misty Celli: Welcome to your Utmost Life Podcast.
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Misty Celli: I'm Misty, Identity and Self-Leadership Coach for Ambitious Mothers.
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Misty Celli: There is a very specific moment most ambitious mothers know.
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Misty Celli: It is the moment right after something stirs.
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Misty Celli: After you heard something or read something or just sat in your car for a second too long, and something in you said, Yes, that is what I want.
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Misty Celli: I want to feel like myself again.
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Misty Celli: And then within hours, sometimes within minutes, a voice shows up.
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Misty Celli: And it does not say you can't, because it's smarter than that.
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Misty Celli: It says, remember last time it says you don't even know who you are right now.
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Misty Celli: It says this isn't the right season.
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Misty Celli: And here's what I want you to understand before we go any further.
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Misty Celli: That voice is not wisdom.
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Misty Celli: It is a liar, a very convincing, sophisticated, deeply personal liar.
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Misty Celli: And today, you are going to learn exactly what to say back to it.
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Misty Celli: I'm giving you three scripts today, word for word, because I am done watching women walk away from their own lives because they didn't have the language to fight back.
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Misty Celli: Before we get into the scripts, I want to say something I need you to really hear.
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Misty Celli: The fact that these lies have been working on you, that they've been keeping you stuck, circling and starting over, does not mean that you are weak, incapable, or a pushover.
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Misty Celli: It means you are human and it means these lies are sophisticated.
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Misty Celli: They did not come from nowhere.
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Misty Celli: They were built from real experiences, disappointments, and real moments where you tried and it did not go the way you had hoped.
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Misty Celli: That voice learned from your life and it genuinely believes it is helping you.
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Misty Celli: I want to be honest with you.
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Misty Celli: I know some of you have heard a version of you're not broken, the approach was wrong before.
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Misty Celli: Maybe from me, maybe somewhere else.
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Misty Celli: And something in you wants to believe it, but does not quite, because hearing it didn't change the pattern.
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Misty Celli: There is a difference between a voice that is protecting you from real danger and a voice that is protecting you from the discomfort of growth.
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Misty Celli: What I know about you is this: you are a woman who keeps showing up, who keeps listening and keeps searching for the thing that finally will work.
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Misty Celli: That is not the behavior of a woman who is broken.
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Misty Celli: That is the behavior of a woman who is not in danger.
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Misty Celli: She is on the edge of something.
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Misty Celli: And that voice is working overtime to keep her from stepping into it.
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Misty Celli: So today, we're not stopping at a new way to look at things.
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Misty Celli: I'm giving you the exact words to say back because the voice does not respond to insight.
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Misty Celli: It responds to language, and that is what we are building today.
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Misty Celli: Think about the last time you felt the spark, that moment where something in you said, yes, I want that.
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Misty Celli: I want to feel like myself again.
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Misty Celli: I want a week that feels like mine.
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Misty Celli: I want to show up as the woman I know I could be, should be, and desire to be.
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Misty Celli: And then think about what happened next.
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Misty Celli: A very specific, very familiar voice showed up.
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Misty Celli: And depending on the day, it said one of these three things.
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Misty Celli: I've tried things before and none of it ever really sticks for me.
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Misty Celli: I don't even know who I am, so I wouldn't even know where to start.
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Misty Celli: My circumstances don't allow it right now.
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Misty Celli: You know that voice, don't you?
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Misty Celli: I know you do.
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Misty Celli: I've heard it.
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Misty Celli: Most of the amazing women I know have heard it.
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Misty Celli: Just because that voice says it does not make it true.
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Misty Celli: But here is what is true.
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Misty Celli: Every one of those lies is costing you something.
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Misty Celli: It's costing you the woman you want to be, the life you want to live, the utmost life that was always meant to be yours.
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Misty Celli: That is why today we are going to take each lie one at a time, look at it clearly without the weight of past disappointments, deciding what's true and expose it for what exactly it is.
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Misty Celli: And then I'm going to give you two scripts.
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Misty Celli: The exact words to say to yourself when that voice shows up in your own head, and the words for when someone you love voices it out loud.
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Misty Celli: These scripts are not about being combative, because we know that voice is spoken in love and protection.
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Misty Celli: They are about you having the language to stand in what you know is true, clearly, calmly, and without apology.
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Misty Celli: Before we get into the first lie, there is something sitting underneath all three of them that I need to address.
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Misty Celli: Guilt.
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Misty Celli: Not the guilt of doing something wrong, but the guilt of wanting something for yourself.
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Misty Celli: For most of the ambitious mothers I know, the lies we are talking about today are not just intellectual beliefs, but they are the guilt management strategies she uses.
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Misty Celli: They are the words she uses to talk herself out of her own desires so that she doesn't have to feel the weight of wanting something that is entirely unapologetically hers.
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Misty Celli: If I invest in myself, what does that say about how I'm showing up for my family?
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Misty Celli: If I protect time from myself, am I being selfish?
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Misty Celli: If I want more than this, does that mean I'm ungrateful for what I have?
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Misty Celli: Truth is, a woman who has disappeared into her roles, running unempty, going through the motions, giving from a place of depletion is not fully present for anyone.
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Misty Celli: Not her kids, her husband, her work, and certainly not for herself.
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Misty Celli: The guilt has it backwards.
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Misty Celli: It tells you that choosing yourself is taking something away from the people you love.
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Misty Celli: But a woman who has gone quiet inside her own life does not suddenly become present and alive for the people she loves.
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Misty Celli: She gets better at pretending.
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Misty Celli: Wanting to return to yourself is not selfish or ungrateful or a betrayal of the people you love.
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Misty Celli: It is the most responsible thing you can do for them.
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Misty Celli: It is choosing them and you in love, not service.
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Misty Celli: The version of you that everyone around you actually needs, the version that's present, alive, and who is fully in the room, she does not come from depletion.
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Misty Celli: She comes from a woman who chose herself enough to still be there.
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Misty Celli: What your family loses when you disappear is not your function.
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Misty Celli: It's you.
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Misty Celli: And no amount of showing up exhausted replaces that.
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Misty Celli: So the guilt is not evidence that you are selfish.
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Misty Celli: It is evidence that you care deeply.
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Misty Celli: Caring deeply and returning to yourself, those are not in conflict.
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Misty Celli: They are the same woman, finally whole.
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Misty Celli: So set the guilt down for this episode.
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Misty Celli: Not forever, just long enough to hear the truth clearly for you and for them because you are allowed to want this.
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Misty Celli: Now, let's talk about the words that are keeping you from the utmost life that is always meant to be yours.
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Misty Celli: The voice says, I've tried things before and nothing ever creates lasting change for someone like me.
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Misty Celli: This is just who I am.
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Misty Celli: I want to start by saying I understand completely why you believe it.
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Misty Celli: You have tried things.
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Misty Celli: You went all in on the planner, the program, the Sunday reset, the habit tracker, the course you bought and watched half of it before life got loud again.
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Misty Celli: The motivation was there, and then it wasn't.
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Misty Celli: You started strong and fell off.
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Misty Celli: You made the promise to yourself and somewhere it got broken.
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Misty Celli: And every single time that happened, you filed away quietly, without even realizing it, as evidence that you are someone who cannot maintain things, as evidence that something is fundamentally different about you and that lasting change is for other women.
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Misty Celli: The evidence feels real because it came from your actual life.
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Misty Celli: Let me ask you something.
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Misty Celli: Every single woman who has ever transformed her life, the ones that you follow and admire, and the ones who seem like they just figured it out, do you think they got there on their first try?
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Misty Celli: Do you think the first program worked, the first coach clicked, or the first system stuck?
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Misty Celli: They didn't.
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Misty Celli: Every single woman who has returned to herself tried things that didn't work first.
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Misty Celli: Multiple things.
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Misty Celli: That is not a sign of someone who cannot change.
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Misty Celli: That is literally just how the process of finding the right fit works.
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Misty Celli: Think about it this way: if a key does not open a lock, do you blame the key for being defective or do you consider that it might simply be the wrong key for that particular lock?
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Misty Celli: Every system you have ever tried was built for the generic woman.
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Misty Celli: The woman with a blank calendar and uncomplicated circumstances, the woman that is not you.
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Misty Celli: And a key built for her was never going to open your door.
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Misty Celli: So if trying things that didn't stick as evidence that you cannot change, every woman who has ever changed was exactly where you are right now with the exact same evidence stacked against her.
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Misty Celli: The belief falls apart the moment you apply it to another than yourself.
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Misty Celli: A woman who genuinely could not change or who was truly incapable of lasting transformation would have stopped.
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Misty Celli: She would have accepted the half-life and settled in, but you have not.
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Misty Celli: You're still here showing up.
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Misty Celli: That is not the behavior a woman who cannot change.
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Misty Celli: That is the behavior of a woman who has not yet found the right approach for her specific life, her specific season, and her specific identity.
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Misty Celli: The problem was never you.
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Misty Celli: It was always the fit.
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Misty Celli: When you truly stop believing that lasting change is not available to you, something shifts in how you begin.
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Misty Celli: You stop approaching every new start with one foot already out the door.
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Misty Celli: You stop the quiet self-sabotage that comes from expecting it to fail, and you stop filing away every small win as a coincidence.
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Misty Celli: You start building evidence for yourself instead of against yourself one decided week at a time.
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Misty Celli: And when you hold on to this lie, even quietly, as a protective hedge, it costs you.
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Misty Celli: Every time something works, you dismiss it.
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Misty Celli: Every time you start to gain ground, something pulls back and you stay permanently in the beginning mode, never quite committing, never quite arriving, and wondering why nothing has ever stuck.
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Misty Celli: The truth is you never fully let it.
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Misty Celli: When the voice says, I've tried before and nothing ever works for me, say this back.
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Misty Celli: I have tried, but failed attempts are not evidence of me not being good enough.
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Misty Celli: They are insight into what won't work for me and guidance for finding the right approach, one built for me.
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Misty Celli: The fit failed, and I'm done blaming myself for a misfit.
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Misty Celli: What I need is the right approach built for my actual life, and that is exactly what I'm building now.
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Misty Celli: When someone you love says, are you sure this time will be different?
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Misty Celli: You've tried things before.
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Misty Celli: Say to them, you're right.
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Misty Celli: I have tried things before, and I used to think that meant something was wrong with me, but what I understand now is that those things weren't built for my life.
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Misty Celli: They were built for someone else's.
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Misty Celli: This is different because it starts with who I actually am, not who I'm supposed to be.
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Misty Celli: I'm not asking you to believe that it will work, but I'm asking you to let me find out.
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Misty Celli: The voice shows up and says, I don't even know who I am anymore.
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Misty Celli: I wouldn't even know where to start.
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Misty Celli: This one is the quietest lie and honestly the most damaging because it does not sound like a lie at all.
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Misty Celli: It sounds like honest self-awareness.
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Misty Celli: It sounds like humility, and it sounds like the kind of thing a thoughtful woman says when she's being real with herself.
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Misty Celli: I want to honor that because the feeling underneath it is real.
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Misty Celli: The disorientation is real, and the sense of looking at your own life and not fully recognizing the woman living in it, that is real.
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Misty Celli: The feeling isn't the enemy.
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Misty Celli: The lie is the conclusion it leads to that because you don't know who you are right now, you can't start.
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Misty Celli: That the not knowing doesn't have to be resolved before the beginning is allowed to happen.
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Misty Celli: Think about learning to drive.
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Misty Celli: You did not sit in the driveway studying the manual until you fully understood how the car worked before you got behind the wheel.
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Misty Celli: You got in, you started moving slowly, and the road taught you things that the manual never could, because some things only reveal themselves in motion.
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Misty Celli: Identity works the same way.
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Misty Celli: You do not think your way back to yourself.
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Misty Celli: You move your way back.
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Misty Celli: You make one honest decision, you protect one block of time, you ask one true question and sit with the answer.
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Misty Celli: And the next thing becomes clear because you moved toward it, not because you figured it out from a standstill.
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Misty Celli: Let's think about this for a moment.
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Misty Celli: Many of the most amazing moments in your life started without the knowing.
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Misty Celli: You became a mom before you knew how to be a mom, or even how you would be as a mother.
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Misty Celli: The same for being a wife.
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Misty Celli: Now, let's be honest, many of us have said, I don't even know who I am as a mom and I wouldn't even know where to start.
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Misty Celli: I am afraid I won't be a good mom or I'll screw it up.
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Misty Celli: We say those things before we have a baby, but we do it.
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Misty Celli: We move forward.
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Misty Celli: We learn, we grew and became more of who we are with each day.
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Misty Celli: This is no different.
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Misty Celli: You still have that strength, courage, and the greatness that came from choosing to be a mom in spite of not knowing, which led to one of the greatest parts of your life.
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Misty Celli: Knowing it comes from doing, not the other way around.
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Misty Celli: And here's the thing I need you to hear about this lie.
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Misty Celli: The fact that you feel lost, disoriented, disconnected, like something between all the roles you misplaced yourself, that is not evidence that you are gone.
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Misty Celli: That is evidence that the you that you've been looking for, she has been quiet for a long time while everything else got loud.
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Misty Celli: A woman who had truly disappeared would not feel the loss of herself.
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Misty Celli: She would be numb, settled into mediocrity and unbothered.
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Misty Celli: She would not be searching.
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Misty Celli: You are not numb.
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Misty Celli: You are bothered, restless, and searching.
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Misty Celli: That restlessness is her, still present, signaling, waiting for you to answer.
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Misty Celli: You do not need to know who you are before you start.
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Misty Celli: Starting is how you find out.
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Misty Celli: When you let go of the belief that you have to have yourself figured out before you can begin, something lights up inside you, and you stop waiting for a clarity that only comes through action.
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Misty Celli: You give yourself permission to start from exactly where you are.
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Misty Celli: Confused, disoriented, and uncertain it may be, but you let the path reveal itself as you walk it.
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Misty Celli: You learn, you grow, you embrace who you are becoming, and you come alive back to yourself one step at a time.
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Misty Celli: When you hold on to this lie though, letting the not knowing become the reason to stay still, you allow another year to pass in waiting, another season where the woman you long to be stays just out of reach.
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Misty Celli: The disorientation and the distance you feel does not resolve itself through waiting, it deepens.
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Misty Celli: And the longer she goes unanswered, the quieter she gets, the less alive and whole you feel.
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Misty Celli: When that voice shows up and says, I don't even know who I am anymore, and I wouldn't even know where to start, say back.
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Misty Celli: Not knowing who I am right now is exactly why now is the time to begin.
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Misty Celli: Clarity comes from moving.
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Misty Celli: I know enough to start.
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Misty Celli: I know that I am more than these roles, and I know that something in me has been whispering for a long time, and I'm tired of not answering it.
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Misty Celli: That is enough.
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Misty Celli: Deciding and doing one small thing is where I start.
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Misty Celli: When someone says, but where would you even start?
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Misty Celli: You seem so lost right now.
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Misty Celli: Say this.
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Misty Celli: I have felt lost, and I thought that meant that I had to figure myself out before I could do anything about it.
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Misty Celli: But here's what I know now.
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Misty Celli: Clarity doesn't come before you start.
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Misty Celli: It comes from starting.
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Misty Celli: I do not need to have it figured out.
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Misty Celli: I just need to take the next step, the next honest step, and that is exactly what I'm doing.
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Misty Celli: The voice shows up and says, my circumstances, the kids, the schedule, the finances, they just don't allow it right now.
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Misty Celli: This is the lie that sounds the most responsible, the most reasonable, and the most like something a mature, self-aware woman would say.
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Misty Celli: And it is the most sophisticated lie of the three.
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Misty Celli: Because it's not based on feeling or someone else's version of life.
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Misty Celli: It's your real life facts.
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Misty Celli: Your circumstances are real, the schedule is full, and your finances have real allocations.
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Misty Celli: The kids have real needs, and none of that is made up.
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Misty Celli: But here's what the lie does with all of that real, true, legitimate information.
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Misty Celli: It builds a box.
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Misty Celli: It says all of these real things mean that right now is not the right time, maybe later.
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Misty Celli: Maybe when the kids are older, perhaps when the schedule opens up or when everything finally settles down.
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Misty Celli: I want to ask you something very directly.
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Misty Celli: When exactly has everything settled down or has there ever been a right time?
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Misty Celli: Think back over the last five years.
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Misty Celli: Was there ever a season that was genuinely uncomplicated?
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Misty Celli: A stretch where the schedule was light, the finances were flowing, the kids had no needs, and nothing was pressing.
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Misty Celli: I haven't met a human where that season has come, let alone a mother.
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Misty Celli: So let's be honest, it's probably not coming.
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Misty Celli: Life does not pause and wait for you to be ready.
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Misty Celli: Life keeps moving.
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Misty Celli: And the woman who chooses to wait for the right circumstances will be waiting until she dies.
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Misty Celli: The truth is the circumstances are not the obstacle.
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Misty Celli: The belief that you are worth rearranging them for, that is the obstacle.
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Misty Celli: Because here's what I know.
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Misty Celli: Time reorganizes around self-worth.
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Misty Celli: When you truly believe that you matter as much as everything and everyone else on your list, something remarkable happens.
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Misty Celli: Slots of time appear that you did not realize existed.
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Misty Celli: Decisions get made that previously felt unmakable.
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Misty Celli: 15 minutes gets protected that previously got swallowed, not because the circumstances changed, but because you decided that you were worth protecting inside of them.
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Misty Celli: Every woman who has ever returned to herself did it inside a full life.
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Misty Celli: Not after it cleared, but inside it, with their same schedule, obligations, and the same real life constraints.
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Misty Celli: And she did it by making one decision.
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Misty Celli: A decision that she was no longer going to wait for permission from her circumstances to live her own life.
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Misty Celli: When you stop making your circumstances the gatekeeper of your return, you stop outsourcing the decision to your calendar.
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Misty Celli: You stop waiting for external permission to do internal work.
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Misty Celli: You discover, maybe for the first time, that you are someone worth rearranging things for.
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Misty Celli: However, when you hold on to this lie, you keep letting your circumstances determine whether you are allowed to begin.
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Misty Celli: And five years from now, you are standing in the same place, more tired, more invisible, further from the utmost life that was always meant to be yours.
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Misty Celli: The kids still need something.
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Misty Celli: The schedule still has one more thing.
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Misty Celli: The finances still have one more concern.
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Misty Celli: And the right time that was never going to announce itself still has not shown up.
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Misty Celli: When the voice says, My circumstances just won't allow it right now, say this back.
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Misty Celli: My circumstances are real, but waiting for them to be perfect is allowing life's craziness to control me.
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Misty Celli: Time has never reorganized itself for me automatically.
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Misty Celli: It reorganizes around what I decide is worth protecting, and I am deciding right now that I am worth protecting, not someday.
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Misty Celli: Inside this season, exactly as it is.
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Misty Celli: When someone says, Is now really the right time with everything you have going on?
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Misty Celli: Say this.
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Misty Celli: I used to think the same thing, that I needed to wait for a quieter season, but what I have realized is that every season has its circumstances to deal with.
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Misty Celli: This will never change.
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Misty Celli: But being my utmost self inside my full, complicated, demanding life is the woman I want to be, and I am no longer wanting to wait to embrace her.
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Misty Celli: I want to be her now, in this season, and everyone to come.
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Misty Celli: I'm not waiting anymore because the right time is not coming.
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Misty Celli: This is the time I have and I'm choosing to use it.
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Misty Celli: I want to leave you with a question, and I want you to actually sit with it rather than just move on to the next thing in your day.
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Misty Celli: Which of these three lives has had the most power over you?
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Misty Celli: Not which one sounds most familiar, but which one has cost you the most?
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Misty Celli: Which one has kept you circling the longest?
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Misty Celli: Which one do you hear most loudly when something in you tries to move?
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Misty Celli: Name it, write it down if you can, and then go back to that script, the one for yourself, and say it out loud.
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Misty Celli: Not because words are magic, but because you need to hear yourself say something different.
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Misty Celli: The lie has had the floor for a very long time.
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Misty Celli: It's time for the truth to have its turn.
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Misty Celli: You have two choices right now.
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Misty Celli: You can close this episode and let the voice have the floor again.
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Misty Celli: Let it file today away as another thing that did not change anything.
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Misty Celli: Or you can decide that today is the day that the lie stops running unopposed.
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Misty Celli: Not with a dramatic gesture, not with a complete overhaul of your life, but with just one script spoken out loud in your car, your kitchen, wherever you are right now.
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Misty Celli: The utmost woman does not wait until the lies are gone before she moves.
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Misty Celli: She moves and the lies lose their grip one decision at a time.
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Misty Celli: Here's what I want you to do right when this episode ends.
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Misty Celli: Go to yourutmost.com forward slash 56 and download the script cheat sheet.
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Misty Celli: Pick one script, just one, the one that speaks to the lie with the most power over you right now.
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Misty Celli: Write it down, save it in your phone, put it somewhere you will actually see it this week.
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Misty Celli: And when the voice shows up, and it will, you have something to say back.
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Misty Celli: That is your one thing this week.
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Misty Celli: One script spoken out loud, wherever you are right now.
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Misty Celli: Because I want you to imagine, even just three months from now, what it feels like to be a woman who has stopped letting these lies run unopposed.
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Misty Celli: Not a woman who never hears the voice.
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Misty Celli: The voice may still come, but a woman who hears it and has something to say back, who recognizes the lie mid-sentence and does not let it finish the thought unchallenged.
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Misty Celli: She wakes up on a Monday morning and the voice starts its familiar work.
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Misty Celli: You're going to start over again.
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Misty Celli: Nothing ever sticks for you.
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Misty Celli: And she says firmly and clearly, and from a place that is entirely hers, that is not evidence about who I am.
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Misty Celli: That is a misfit I am no longer accepting.
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Misty Celli: And she moves.
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Misty Celli: She is not extraordinary.
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Misty Celli: She is not fearless.
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Misty Celli: She is just a woman who stopped letting lies have the last word in her own mind.
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Misty Celli: And the life that she has been designing one decided week at a time is starting to look like her.
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Misty Celli: That is not a fantasy.
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Misty Celli: That is what happens when the truth finally gets the floor.
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Misty Celli: And when you are ready to go deeper, when you're ready to do this work with someone walking alongside you rather than doing it alone in your car, come spend an hour with me.
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Misty Celli: I host a free live workshop where we do the honest inventory together, get clarity on who you actually are beyond your roles, and leave with real momentum already in motion.
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Misty Celli: Because you were never meant to disappear into your roles, and you don't have to keep doing this alone.
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Misty Celli: Find your next session in the show notes.
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Misty Celli: The lies have had the floor long enough.
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Misty Celli: You are more than everyone's everything.
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Misty Celli: You are someone.