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Modern Feminist Parenting Is Raising Weak Men | Episode 20 · Sincerely American

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Are you raising APUSSY? You're so good.
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You're almost as good as the girls.
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Why are you, like, pushing this on to him?
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Like, can you let him watch men's sports?
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Because he's a boy and he's going to look up.
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To I hope the husband's coming in.
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Obviously not. Where the hell is her husband?
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Yeah. Where the hell is his dad?
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Like, that's why we need strong fathers.
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This is like, you're raising these like boys not to become
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men. And that's why we're seeing
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these like, men that want Princess treatment and like are
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never settling down. Men are supposed to be the
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leaders of their family and you're seeing these feminist
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woman, they raise their sons like woman.
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And then we don't have great men, because strong men raise
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strong men. Hi Sincerely sisters, and
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welcome back to Sincerely American.
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It's been a busy week and we're excited to jump into a lot of
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fun topics. I loved last week's episode Cam.
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It's always good to be together, but I also like our pink
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backgrounds. I definitely think it's more of
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the Sincerely Sister vibe. Absolutely.
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It's it's more girly, more feminine, so I love it.
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Yeah, let's get into it. We're not really matching.
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Very. We did not coordinate this.
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Obviously we're giving 2 completely different vibes right
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now, but we love it. I'm trying to do because like so
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much my wardrobe is black. I'm trying to like get off of
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just wearing black and I actually I don't know what my
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color seasons are. If anyone does know, like please
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let me know. I I definitely know I'm not a
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spring, which you might because a lot of like blondes are
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springs, but I do think sometimes like black can just
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like not be like a lot of contract.
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I don't know how to explain it. It's just like I don't think
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brings about my coloring as well.
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So I'm trying to do like some different colors.
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I don't know how I feel about this green.
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It's a really cute sweater. Shout out to my mom.
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She has like the best clothes. I literally stole it from her.
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She's going to be watching being like, that's my sweater.
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But I think it's something different and fun.
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But you always look great, Cam. Think that's so good that you're
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branching out because one wearing black was just always
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known like from the beginning of time you wore black for
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funerals. So like I'm, I'm a girl who
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always just goes back to black on everything.
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I'll wear like black, brown or Navy or my go TOS.
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But I'm, I want to say there's this new show called land man.
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I haven't watched it, but I've seen like all of the press with
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that like ally woman who was in Legally Blonde and now she's
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like a little bit older, but she was talking about how the Dallas
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moms are like wearing fringe and like they'll just stack jewelry
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and they're like unabashedly like wearing a bunch of colors
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and like they're super bold with their outfits.
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So I think that's it. So it looks good and it
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compliments you very well. I'm trying also to pray for
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spring to bring in spring vibes is once again in DC.
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We we had like one nice week of weather.
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So I love spring in DC though. It's really fun.
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Like they plant tulips everywhere and they plant all
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these new flowers and then obviously the cherry blossoms.
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So I think that comes out at the end of the month.
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But this is, as you girls know, if you live out East, it's been
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a particularly brutal winter. So I'm trying to bring in the
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spring vibes and the spring energy and hopefully the weather
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follows suit. All right, girls, let's get into
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it. So obviously over the weekend,
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it was a huge weekend for foreign policy.
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You guys know us, we're not going to get all into that.
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We'll do that on Fox News. I I think we're showing who's
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back in charge for sure. But what I wanted to talk about
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today was right after Operation Fury took place, there was
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obviously a lot of influencers that caused a lot of
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controversy. But Miss Rachel, who I do not
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think we've talked about yet on this podcast.
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And you know, for those of you that are moms, you'll know
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immediately who Miss Rachel is. But I feel like she's almost
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gotten the star status, which is just crazy to me that is now
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going outside of just moms. But for those of you guys that
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don't know, she's like makes a bunch of YouTube videos.
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She was a speech pathologist and now she does a bunch of YouTube
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videos for kids. I am not a big fan of hers.
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I find her voice so grating, so irritating.
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Like, I just don't believe as someone who is a mom, you need
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to talk to children. You know what I mean by that?
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Like, I just talked to my daughter how to talk to anyone.
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Like, I just I don't believe in that type of voice.
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But she's also like a crazy leftist.
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Her entertainment, like she'll definitely bring in a lot of
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like LGBTQ pride themes into her videos that are obviously meant
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for toddlers. So I find it like very
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inappropriate on that level. But she's also come out very
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much in support of Palestine and Gaza.
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And we know how hot button this issue is.
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We're not here to tell you like exactly what that you need to be
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on. But she came out right after
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Operation Theory and posted this that we'll put up.
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It's basically for our listening audience, a white square that
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says stop killing kids. I agree, Miss Rachel, let's stop
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killing kids. Let's end abortion today in this
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country because nothing kills more children than abortion.
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And you and your leftist agenda are for the extermination of
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babies. And I cannot think of a group
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that is more innocent and more precious than unborn children.
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Who you allowed to be massacred with your feminist leftist
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ideology that promotes reproductive rights AKA the
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murder of children. So I wish you would bring that
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same energy to our own country where we're seeing a genocide of
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young babies. She doesn't trigger me that much
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just because it's like what this is what we come to expect with
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leftist Like it's it's always selective outrage with them.
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But I did see clips, you know, of her asking this was a while
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back. She was like asking Dylan
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Mulvaney to join her for some of the videos that she'll post on
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YouTube for children. And that's really where I have a
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problem with this because I do think since that was her
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personal platform and it's mostly adults on social media
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channels like Instagram, like X, like, am I the biggest fan of
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your political beliefs? Absolutely not.
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But if that's your personal platform, my problem is, is when
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there is an indoctrination and just pushing this agenda onto
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children. And that's really where I have a
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problem because now you're putting that agenda onto these
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decent children who don't know any better.
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And it's, it's more of a, a learning experience.
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So you're there for teaching them, you know, what's
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acceptable in society and like that kind of leftist ideology.
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So that's really where I have a problem with this.
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But I completely agree with you All in all.
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I mean, they'll, they'll just select to be, you know, mad.
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And it's just put this performative outrage about one
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thing, but completely ignore something else that doesn't suit
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their gender or or really like play into what they're trying to
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trying to promote essentially. And someone like Miss Rachel
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does a ton of fundraising for people over in Palestine, which
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obviously there's a lot of issues that go with that.
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Because when you're funneling money over to Gaza,
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unfortunately, a lot of times it's not going to the citizens
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or the children that are being killed in Gaza.
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Instead, it's going towards Hamas, which is a terrible,
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disgusting terrorist group that's done just absolute
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atrocities to the Israeli people.
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And it's very dangerous. And I don't believe in giving
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them any money. We should stop getting the money
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at all cost. But I, I, I would like miss
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Rachel to do some fundraising or caring about the kids that live
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in our country. As I just mentioned the abortion
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issue, we have millions of kids that have been children that
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have been killed before they're even born.
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We have, you know, major issues of our education system,
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especially in the inner cities where kids are graduating
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schools not even having a normal reading level.
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We have poverty in many inner cities.
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We have crime that's overtaken many inner cities.
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We have rural areas that have just been, you know, vanquished
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by the opioid epidemic and by fentanyl.
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And President Trump has done so much work to improve this, but
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there's still a lot of work to be done.
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And so for me, I wish everybody the best all over the world.
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But where I want to focus my time and energy and where I want
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to be giving money and where I'm going to always come out and
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you're going to see me doing advocacy is for our own country.
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And so it just really bothers me.
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And it feels so hypocritical. And it just feels like it's just
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virtue signalling because you can actually do a lot for your
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own community by getting out there by, you know, getting
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involved in charities, working in soup kitchen, you know,
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voting in better ways that I think, you know, obviously turn
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around this terrible criminal justice system where we're
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allowing criminals out of jail and mass.
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But instead people like Miss Rachel, a lot of influencers
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decide you just virtue signal about issues that are happening
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on across across the globe and, you know, posting their things.
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This is like this advocacy that I hate where they're just
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posting all day about things across the world.
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And it's like, you could do a lot, Miss Rachel, because you
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make a lot of money off your videos at home.
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And I wish that she focused her energy towards that.
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So it, it's just so hypocritical.
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It's a lot of virtue signalling. And this is this leftist
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ideology. It, it, it's not improving
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anybody's standard of living whatsoever.
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I think it's making our standard of living worse.
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And let me also be clear. She was campaigning for Zora
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Mandani in New York City. And we all know, you know what
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he stands for and what he's done and what he's going to do to our
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greatest city in our country. Yeah, She was promoting his
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socialist agenda, yet she makes like over $50 million a year.
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And she's not, you know, promoting activism here, like
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you said, here at home, helping our own communities.
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She's, you know, posting about things that are going on
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overseas when I think predominant.
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Yeah, I think most of her viewers predominantly are in the
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US So yeah, that just goes to show, you know, her agenda.
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And of course, like I said, she's had transgenders on.
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She's had zero mom Donnie, you've only seen her on CNN.
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She doesn't go on Fox. She's only going on CNN to talk
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about these issues. So I just think that speaks
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volumes to, I mean, obviously her agenda and what she's
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pushing on to children. OK, I really wanted to touch
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this topic. I was so disappointed because
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last week we filmed our episode right before this news cycle
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hit. So I know we're a little bit
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late getting to the party, but it's just so something we have
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to talk about. And we're going last Olympic
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could talk that we're going to have because the Olympics are
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over. But the feminist meltdown that
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all these women had over President Trump's quote, UN
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quote sexist joke to the men's Team USA hockey team after their
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big gold in. And I feel like everyone's seen
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this. But for those of you that
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haven't seen it, obviously Team USA was popping their champagne
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in the locker room. What an amazing game.
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Like we covered last week. Just still, I think everyone's
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on a high from that game. And President Trump invited them
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to the White House in the state of the union that we saw, which
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was incredible and made the joke that of course the women's team
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has to come to or he'll be impeached.
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And it was a light hearted, funny joke.
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But these feminists did not find it that way.
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Of course they took took this opportunity to get on TikTok and
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go on and on about how angry they were, how oppressive it was
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and how offensive. And we'll roll the clap.
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If you have a boyfriend or husband, I want you to think
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about how he would act if someone made a sexist remark at
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your expense when you weren't in the room.
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Would he defend you or would he laugh?
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And I know that's probably a scary exercise for a lot of
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women out there because the truth is a lot of men won't
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speak up when women aren't in the room.
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And that's the true test, in my opinion, of, of who a man is.
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Is it's one thing to say, oh, I'm a feminist on, on his
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fucking Hinge profile or say, oh, yeah, oh, yeah, I care about
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women's rights. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Will he defend you when you're not in the room?
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Or will he laugh at a sexist joke made at your expense?
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Feminist, this is not that serious.
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Like you guys take yourselves way too seriously.
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Like these guys are having a fun time in the locker room.
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They're talking to the president, they're doing their
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guy talk. I have brothers, I have a
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husband. I know how guys are.
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They're they're having a great time.
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We the last thing we need is feminist woman like policing men
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in their own locker room who are celebrating with the goggles on
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in the champagne going like This is why I think women get a bad
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rap. And these women are also just so
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narcissistic. They're like, how can I make
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this about me? How can I make it about me?
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They can't let like Team USA or guys have like their opportunity
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at all just to celebrate. They have to immediately make
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about themselves. Because then now they're going
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online like talking, like you said, how this is so oppressive.
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How could they do this? How could they do that?
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You guys sit online every single day being on men constantly.
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And God forbid, God forbid they make a joke out of it.
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And so, and now they're they have the thinnest skin.
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They are so hypersensitive to absolutely everything.
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You know, that's a trade of narcissism too, if you're just
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like hypersensitive to like any sort of criticism.
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And there wasn't even criticism. There was just like a laughing
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joke. And of course they're going to
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make nothing out of something and blow it up to the hugest
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proportions. And it's just, it's so dramatic.
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People make jokes about conservatives.
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People make jokes about President Trump's supporter.
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People make jokes about liberals.
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Like, that's like part of just the culture.
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Like, people make jokes all the time.
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And I feel like conservatives, like we can sometimes like laugh
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at ourselves and like not take ourselves like so seriously like
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these left do. It's just narcissism, like you
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said. And it I'm just like, and you're
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so right. These are the type of people
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that make content all day about how terrible men are.
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And then like the minute a man makes like the slight, like the
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most vanilla joke ever, they're like, I'm like, OK, are you
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strong independent woman or not? No.
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Exactly. It's like, why are you getting
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so offended over this? And you're just such a buzzkill
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if you have that mentality too. Like, can you just, yeah, like,
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can you just suck it up and like admit that it was just like some
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funny offhanded joke and like not think too deeply into it.
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Like, I think that they're just thinking too deeply into it.
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It's like he's funny. He's a relatable president and
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he's he's just chatting literally in a locker room.
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Like he was chatting in a locker room.
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They had just just. Just with the guys, just with
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the guys having a good time. Just going to make a big deal
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out of it. It's just like, shut up.
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Just like woman at brunch, we'll make fun of like our husbands
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and we have our jokes and we'll make fun of guys.
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Like that's just like, that's like life, like just have fun.
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And like you're obviously a miserable person.
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OK. I also wanted to roll this clip
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for you, Cameron. This kind of goes off the same
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topic. You're so good, you're almost as
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good as the girls. For a listening audience, it's a
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woman with her son and she's showing her son the woman's
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hockey game instead of the men's hockey game and basically saying
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that like she wants her son to look up to these women instead
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of men. Just so insufferable.
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I'm just like, and you know what?
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This is going to be very controversial to say.
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I already know it, but I'm going to come out and say as someone
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who is a female athlete, Cameron, you are a female
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athlete as well. I'm sorry.
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Men's sports just matter more in general.
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They just do, and they get better.
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Ratings too. It's like they make more.
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Money get better. Ratings like there tend to be
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proven to be like more athletic, of course, so.
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It's because the games are better, men are stronger, more
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athletic like you just mentioned, and they get better
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ratings because of that. And sports tend to be more
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masculine just in the style that it's done.
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It's like the men going out there and competing.
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I'm sorry, I don't mean to be mean.
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I don't mean to offend anyone, but like no one's really that
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interested in watching like a female football game because the
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only. Female game I'm watching is if
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Caitlin Clark is playing with Indiana Fever.
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That is literally it. And that's the only reason I
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would watch WNBA. I'm so serious.
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You're never gonna catch me watching a female soccer game.
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If maybe female figure skating, I think that would be fun.
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Like female, yeah, like female figure skating.
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Alyssa Liu, like, she was just such an amazing person to watch.
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But All in all, I'm not like, I'm not leaning towards watching
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females. Like and also like, are you
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raising APUSSY? Why are you, like, pushing this
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on to him? Like, can you let him watch
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men's sports? Because he's a boy and he's
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going to look up to. I hope the husband's coming in.
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Obviously not. Where the hell is her husband?
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Where the hell is his dad? Like that's why we need strong
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fathers. This is like you're raising
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these like boys not to become men, and that's why we're seeing
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these like men that want Princess treatment and like are
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never settling. Down so true, Cameron, like most
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valid point you've ever made. Like the men that are being
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raised are not good because they're raised by feminist woman
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when men are supposed to be the leaders of their family and
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you're seeing these feminist woman who take control over the
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whole family, boss everyone around.
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You know how these feminist women are.
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They're telling everybody what to do.
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Everyone has to be sensitive every like they raise their
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sons, like you just mentioned, like woman.
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And then we don't have great men because strong men raise strong
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men. OK, Speaking of this, I don't
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even know how to transition this camera.
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I actually kind of feel like it's the same type of vibe.
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So Brianna chicken fry, who's obviously a Barstool Sports
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podcaster. I'm sure most of our audience
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knows who she is. She's like big on TikTok, she
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announces. She announced this week that she
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is now dating woman following her breakup with Zach Bryan and
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will roll the clip. I know you have been talking a
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little bit about wanting to date women, which is exciting.
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I've. Been saying I'm bisexual
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forever, like I've just been bisexual forever.
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But I'm getting to the point where I'm like, am I just
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literally a lesbian? Like there was someone talking
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about this on TikTok recently and it was like how women talk
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about men. You can tell if they're like
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secretly or closeted. They don't even know just like a
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straight up lesbian. Or the way that I talk about
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women, like I think every woman's gorgeous.
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I like uplift all women. I think they're amazing.
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But then I'm like, oh, there was like this one hot guy that I've
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seen in 10 years. I'm like, maybe that, like, I
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just don't even like men. Like everything they do just
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rubs me the wrong way. So yeah, I don't know.
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I might just straight up be a lesbian.
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I'm going to give one more shot to men.
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I'm like seeing a guy this weekend and if I like him, maybe
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we'll try it. If not.
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There is this huge trend. I've seen it with so many
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people. I used to watch this girl, Aspen
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Ovard. She's from Utah.
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She was like from that whole group and she was a YouTube.
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I used to like love her stuff when I was younger.
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And she also came out now as bisexual after a divorce with
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her husband and is now dating a woman.
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I'm not saying that lesbians don't exist.
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I know that it obviously true lesbianism is a thing, just like
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being gay is a thing. Like, I'm, I'm not even saying
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that, but I do feel like there's this trend of women who have
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been through bad relationships where they just like, yeah,
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they're just jaded and they just throw in the towel and now
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they're like bisexual and they kind of like want attention.
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And it might be like kind of cool online and with these like
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liberal. Circles, I mean, I, here's my
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thing with the Brianna chicken fry girl.
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I actually think she's like very beautiful.
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Like I think she, she has like a very stunning face and I'm not
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like too well versed in who she is, but I was, I did watch like
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kind of the falling out between her and her friend.
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It kind of spoke volumes to her character the way she was
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talking about her friend after that falling out, cuz she then
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she would go on like Jake Paul's podcast and say, you know that
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she was, I saw that and she would call her friend evil.
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And then on the on another note, her friend would go on, let's
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say Theo Von's podcast and be like, I think we're just having
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a hiccup in our friendship. Like I think this will be
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settled like soon enough. And I just think that speaks a
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lot to her character that she's willing to go on those certain
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shows and just seek attention and talk poorly about people who
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have been in her life for 15 plus years and then turn around
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and do something like this. I wouldn't, I wouldn't think any
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less if she's just doing this for attention because that's
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what I got from her doing that to her friend when they had that
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falling out with a podcast. I just judge people based on
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their character. Like if you're actually a
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lesbian, like what? Whatever.
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Like just don't involve children.
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And I'm like all set to go. But I just think that this
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speaks to her character of who she is as a person in an
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entertainer where she's just like constantly seeking
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attention and like even acknowledging the hate that she
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gets like 24/7. She's like, everybody's on a
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Breanna hate train. I'm like, well, all you do is
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talk about your past relationship jading you and
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talking about Zach Bryan and talking about how she didn't
20:10
sign, you know, the multimillion dollar hush money.
20:13
The the the. The fact that his wife looks
20:15
just like her. Like why do you have to comment
20:17
on this 24/7? Why can't you grow up and leave
20:21
that in the past? Learn from it and then be a
20:23
better person. Stop being a victim.
20:25
Like it's Brianna victim Fry at this point for me.
20:29
Brianna Victim. Fry I also like what is the name
20:33
Chicken fry? Like that's such an ugly name.
20:35
Like why would you? Like it's like, and it's like a
20:36
second point, I'm like from Kentucky.
20:38
I feel like it's a little white like trash and funny.
20:40
I don't even know what is a chicken fry like.
20:43
It's a long chicken. That's Fry.
20:44
I don't know, but I want it. I want it with ranch.
20:46
I don't know what it is. I just love that like I know she
20:50
has another last name. I think it starts with API, just
20:52
can't remember it but like why would you choose to go buy
20:56
Rihanna? Chicken like her vibe, like I'm
20:58
not like I don't want to just completely on somebody that I
21:02
don't know because I think that like sometimes she says things
21:05
and like this is actually kind of funny.
21:06
Like I like her content. I think she's beautiful.
21:09
Like I, I don't have any ill will, but I just think that like
21:13
this kind of speaks to her character of the more like
21:16
attention seeking route that she's going with.
21:18
Like I think that she wants the, the hate.
21:21
Like, I think she kind of like Garner's that hate when she's
21:23
constantly fueling it with like not moving on or like talking.
21:28
I'll about like, like if you and I, let's say behind the scenes,
21:32
like, and we guys, we, we don't, but like, we are like sisters.
21:35
Like let's say behind the scenes, you and I, we're just
21:37
like going through it in our friendship.
21:39
I would never go to a mainstream podcast and be like, she's an
21:43
evil bitch. Like who does?
21:45
That yeah. Who?
21:46
Like seriously, anybody with integrity and standards and like
21:51
just being a good human would never do that no matter how bad
21:54
they wronged you. You shouldn't.
21:56
Air The Dirty laundry. That with grace that will speak
21:59
much like higher volumes to who you are as a person than going
22:03
on some random ass podcast shitting on your friend that
22:07
you've known for 15 years. I don't care what what you would
22:10
have done to me in this hypothetical situation, Jay.
22:13
I would like never do such a thing.
22:15
So now when I read this headline, yeah, she's like I'm
22:18
a. Lesbian.
22:18
I'm like, I just think this is another like attention grabbing
22:21
thing for like to keep her relevant.
22:23
But I again, like on another on the other side of the coin, I do
22:27
like her. Like I think she's funny.
22:29
The duality. Yeah, like I think she's funny.
22:32
Like who the hell goes by like chicken fry, Like we said, like
22:34
that's actually kind of funny as shit.
22:36
Like I just don't think she takes herself too seriously.
22:38
Like she does have like a fun, easygoing vibe.
22:41
I don't know that I just like like she, she can be in New York
22:44
and like dress up and like look absolutely gorgeous on a red
22:47
carpet. But at the same time, she does
22:49
have that little like white trash like element to her, which
22:53
I like being from Kentucky. I'm like, I totally get that,
22:56
but I don't know. All in all, I'm not in favor of
22:59
this. Like I, I just think that she's
23:01
seeking. You know what, I like that you
23:02
just like mentioned, though, that I think exemplifies like
23:05
who we are as more like conservative people.
23:08
We can actually like someone who like totally has different
23:10
political views. Like I could name so many
23:12
influencers where like, oh, I like their style and like
23:14
sometimes they'll come on and make annoying leftist comment
23:17
and I like roll my eyes. But like I feel the same way
23:19
about Brianna chicken fry. Like I think she's entertaining,
23:21
she's funny. You know, we don't actually
23:24
know. Like it's fun fodder on the
23:26
Internet, but we aren't in these rooms.
23:27
We don't know. Like we can't verify if all of
23:29
this is true. So some of it can be kind of
23:32
like defamatory and like, I don't know, I just I agree with
23:35
you. I think it's tacky whenever
23:37
you're taking your personal dirty laundry and you're airing
23:40
it out everywhere. And I think it speaks volumes if
23:43
you stay quiet and you let other people do the gossiping.
23:47
If people want to say whatever about it, you don't have to
23:49
speak to it and just let the gossiping occur with them.
23:53
Because I just, I kind of feel like even though I probably know
23:56
a lot of what she's saying is true, the minute you're the
23:59
person that's dispelling all the gossip and airing The Dirty
24:01
laundry out, I kind of feel like a bad guy.
24:03
Like I hate to say that I think there's a way someone who likes
24:06
to scroll tip I. Think that there's a way to
24:08
properly handle it in a address the questions that's that people
24:11
are asking her without completely putting everyone
24:14
under the bus because at some point it makes you look like you
24:17
cannot be accountable for shit like she looks like the victim
24:21
in every single situation she's been in.
24:24
And now going back to like the whole sexuality thing.
24:26
I don't even feel the need to comment on that.
24:28
I feel like people can kind of like understand what's going on
24:31
there. But I'm talking about like with
24:33
her friend and like with the Zac Bryan thing.
24:36
Like, I just think there's this underlying theme where like,
24:39
maybe she was wrong in certain areas, but you would never know
24:42
because she's spending more time talking about the girl or
24:46
talking about Zach and talking about her former relationship.
24:49
Where it's like she could have addressed that in a much
24:52
healthier way. Talking about what she learned
24:54
from it, maybe what she's going to fix in the future, how she's
24:57
going to be a different person, approach different situations
25:00
and relationships. And yet I think she's just
25:02
spending way too much time talking poorly about the other
25:05
people involved. Yeah, and I loved she said in
25:08
this clip too, she's like, I'm going to give one more guy a
25:10
chance on a date. So I'm like, OK, you're just
25:12
admitting though, that you're literally just jaded by men and
25:15
that's why you're becoming a lesbian.
25:17
Like, you admit it in the clip. And like, girls, we get it.
25:19
Like people go through bad relationship.
25:21
There's bad men, there's bad woman, I'm sure in basically
25:23
equal amounts out there in this world.
25:25
Just because a man did you dirty does not mean you need to become
25:28
a lesbian. I promise.
25:29
There's very good guys out there in that world.
25:31
Always say she was bye. I don't know, but all these by
25:36
this is my point. Women who have always been
25:38
lesbian, they date women only men who have always been gay,
25:42
they're always dating men with these by people.
25:45
I'm sorry, but all of the women who are by are always end up
25:49
marrying men and all the men who are by also always end up
25:52
marrying men. Trust me, there's good men out
25:54
there just like there's good woman for anyone who's trying to
25:57
get out there today. I know it can be hard out there
25:59
though. Trust me, it's it's not an easy
26:01
world, but give it time and don't.
26:03
Come again? One person dictate the rest of
26:05
your life too. Like just speak.
26:07
Don't let that one. Person like Jade, you completely
26:10
as a as an individual, like have a strong sense of self, know who
26:13
you are. I mean, if that means you like
26:16
women or whatever, I mean is like, again, as long as you're
26:19
not pushing an agenda with children like I and if you're
26:22
living your own life, I'm kind of Oh my God, I can't speak.
26:25
We're wrapping this. We've got to go on.
26:27
I have no words. All right, sweet.
26:35
I I'm now just picking things that are just super funny cuz I,
26:39
I feel like in this world where everybody's like angry and down
26:42
all the time, we just need to laugh.
26:44
OK, so a Vogue editor will put this up on the screen.
26:48
Flees first class over cabin full of white men.
26:52
Gabriella Karefa Johnson downgraded herself quote UN
26:57
quote on a Milan flight to protect my emotional and mental
27:02
well-being and here's what she put out on threads.
27:05
Not on X on threads of course. I just downgraded myself from
27:08
first class to business class on my flight to Milan in a cabin of
27:12
6/5 of the passengers were white middle-aged men.
27:16
Then with me, a 30 something black woman who travels in that
27:19
cabin often, and a male flight attendant who thought I'd be OK
27:23
with substandard service and persistent microaggressions from
27:27
the moment I sat down. He was wrong.
27:29
I don't suffer fools and I would sacrifice physical comfort to
27:32
protect my emotional and mental well-being.
27:35
Jamie, imagine. If I walked on a flight and saw
27:38
5 black women in in the main cat or no no no first class cabin
27:44
and I was like for my mental well-being I'm down grading my
27:48
ticket. That is so racist.
27:51
Like that is actually no, this is this is actual racism.
27:55
So I don't feel bad for her. If anything, I actually I think
28:00
that the first class Gavin dodged a bullet.
28:06
I'm sure the first class Gavin was like thank God for that.
28:14
Oh gosh. Yeah, the people who like, I'm
28:18
sure I've not looked into this woman, but knowing how Vogue is
28:21
and seeing her behavior, I'm sure she's the type of person
28:23
that is complaining about racism 24/7, yet is actually the most
28:27
racist person on the planet. And like, can I put something
28:30
just into perspective here? Like, the US is a very diverse
28:33
country, but we actually still are a majority white country.
28:36
And you're on a trip from the US to Europe, where white people
28:40
come from, and you're shocked that white people are on the
28:42
plane with you. It'd be like if you got on a
28:44
flight to like Japan and you're like, I'm down grading because
28:47
there's too many Asians on this. Like what did you expect?
28:49
It's a flight to Japan. Like I, I just, I'm not over it.
28:53
Like you said, just the racism is out of control and these
28:57
people like the, the race hustling people because I, I
29:01
always like to look at America in the best light.
29:03
Like I don't really feel like people in general are racist.
29:07
I think we've done a lot over the last 250 years to combat
29:11
racism and make this a place that anyone can come to.
29:14
I think think it speaks for it since people from around the
29:17
world are flocking, doing at risking their lives to come to
29:20
this country. I think it's a pretty great
29:22
country for anyone but these people who constantly have to be
29:26
a victim, as we've talked about and just hustle, hustle, hustle
29:30
the the the race lies and all this stuff and pretend that
29:32
there's all of this racism, the bottom of the barrel that they
29:36
are scraping now to put together some like race scandal, like
29:39
we're talking about flying first class, like talk about
29:42
privilege. So you're you're saying that
29:44
America's racist against you, yet somehow you're affording to
29:47
fly first class. I will tell you as a white
29:48
person I can't afford to fly first class.
29:50
The biggest magazines across the world she like she's what she's
29:55
editor in chief, right? So she has a she probably.
29:58
Has No, she's just an editor. OK, well, she probably makes.
30:01
But she's going to Milan Fashion Week and is booked on 1st class.
30:05
I think you're doing fine, Gabriella.
30:07
Probably like in? Probably I would say like upper
30:11
class like I I think what it the median household.
30:14
Income in. This country is like 70,000 I
30:16
think, or 60,000. So she's she's.
30:19
There's a lot of white people that are not going to Milan
30:21
Fashion Week. I'm going to Milan.
30:23
I think, Gabrielle, you're fine. First class, so yeah.
30:27
Exactly I. Know this is ridiculous I.
30:29
We're really scraping the bottom of the barrels.
30:32
I don't. Even want to hear about this one
30:33
anymore? Moving on, OK, we're going to
30:38
get into non-toxic advice and my first advice is don't be like
30:41
Gabriella Karifa Johnson and love people despite their skin
30:51
color. I get like literally they're the
30:53
only people you have to tell this to these like these like
30:55
leftist race hustlers, like the rest of us don't judge people
30:59
off this color of their skin tone.
31:01
We just like live our lives and try to be nice to people.
31:04
OK, first question today, Casey from New Jersey.
31:07
My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years and we
31:11
have gone through so many ups and downs.
31:13
We love each other, but we fight over it feels like everything.
31:16
We are looking to get engaged soon.
31:17
However, I feel like we have a lot of work to do before.
31:20
So would you recommend seeing a couples couples counselor before
31:23
we move on to the next step? OK, Cameron, I know I usually
31:26
let you respond first, but I'm just going to come out and say
31:29
this is you're not going to want to hear this, but I don't think
31:32
you should be going to a therapist with a boyfriend.
31:34
I think that, you know, you can love someone and it's not meant
31:38
to be their husband. And if you are going through
31:40
this amount of challenges, marriage and hopefully having
31:43
children, which I'm sure you want to do down the line is not
31:46
going to make anything better. I think that I, I just think
31:49
it's a red flag if you're needing to go to counseling
31:51
before marriage and before children.
31:53
And a lot of people who have been married and have had kids,
31:56
they know that comes with challenge.
31:58
That's challenges that sometimes might involve getting a marriage
32:01
counselor because there's a lot of stress put on you when you're
32:03
raising the family and that comes with just a lot of
32:06
intangibles and a lot of elements to that.
32:08
But if you're in this season of life or you're supposed to just
32:10
kind of, I'm not saying you can ever fight with a boyfriend.
32:12
I think it's normal to fight with a boyfriend, But you're in
32:14
this season of life where like there's not really this like
32:17
huge pressure on you to with kids and family and everything
32:20
and you're already having this amount of issues.
32:22
I think it's time to cut that one loose.
32:24
Like I, I hate to say that, like I'm I hate breaking breakups or
32:28
terrible, I'm not really like someone who is like looking to
32:31
home wreck your relationship or whatever.
32:33
But I think that this is a sign that this is not meant to be.
32:37
And you guys can both be great people, but you just might not
32:39
be compatible. So maybe you should find people
32:41
who are more compatible with each.
32:42
Other yeah. And I think whatever's put in
32:44
your life by God, it's like it's, it's supposed to be easy.
32:49
And I, and I don't mean that life won't come without a
32:52
challenges and, and you guys won't go through hardships, but
32:55
it shouldn't be this like daily combative behavior where you're
32:58
constantly fighting over everything.
33:00
You don't even have a ring on your finger.
33:02
So what are you even doing it for?
33:04
It's like at that point, I feel like you're wasting your time.
33:06
You should be with a guy who who like, wants to make you happy
33:10
and, and you're therefore happy and want to treat him with like
33:13
the utmost respect and you don't want to fight about these issues
33:16
and you can kind of come together like face whatever life
33:19
throws at you. But like Jamie said, you don't
33:21
have a ring on your finger. You've been with this guy for
33:24
for many years now. You guys fight over a lot.
33:26
It's the, I don't really, I don't know the holistic picture
33:30
of your relationship, but just based on this question alone, it
33:34
doesn't sound like there's too much upside to this because then
33:36
you're going to go through counseling and then you're,
33:39
you're putting so much emotional involvement for a man who hasn't
33:42
even given you that much of A commitment yet.
33:45
You haven't said vows to this man.
33:47
You're you're not under a covenant with him.
33:49
This is not like a recognizable union biblically or or by law.
33:55
So why are you giving him that much time and effort?
33:57
I would say, yeah, I'll go to counseling with you like once
34:00
you lock it down. But I'm not giving you that
34:03
level of emotional availability for a boyfriend.
34:05
That makes no sense to me. I mean but I also feel like
34:11
marriage and family is like building a house and you know,
34:15
dating is like laying the groundwork and if your
34:18
foundation is very shaky and not well built your house is going
34:22
to crumble. Like you shouldn't be building a
34:24
whole marriage and relationship off of a weak foundation from
34:28
what it sounds like. And so I also think a lot of
34:32
people fall into the time sunk fallacy where they believe like,
34:35
oh, I've already put in three years, so I have to stick it
34:37
through. That's not true.
34:38
Don't just stick through something just because you've
34:40
been together for a while. Like I just don't believe in
34:43
that. And like as much as it's great
34:45
to get married young and all of these things, like that's great,
34:48
but you have time. Like I think a lot of like young
34:51
women, it's funny, it's almost like we're dealing with opposite
34:53
issues. Like women who live in a lot of
34:55
these cities and tend to be more liberal.
34:56
They think they have forever and then next thing you know,
34:59
they're 37 and they're wanting to get married and have kids and
35:02
they have to like work on a much shorter timeline.
35:03
But I also see the inverse where like a lot of these women from
35:06
the South are only like 23 years old and they think they
35:08
immediately have to get married and have to start having kids.
35:10
And that's also like you don't have to rush into anything.
35:14
I think, you know, take your time and it's most important
35:17
that you're with the right person.
35:19
OK, this one's a funny. I wanted to do kind of more of
35:22
like a harder question Cam for us.
35:24
That's like getting into some more like juicy questions.
35:28
My SO this is from Madison from Washington.
35:30
My friend just told me that she has been cheating on her
35:33
boyfriend but told me not to tell anyone.
35:36
Is it bad that I keep her secret or do I have an obligation to
35:40
tell her? Boyfriend you have.
35:41
That's a hard one. For me, actually, I don't think
35:44
you have any sort of moral obligation to tell your
35:47
boyfriend. I think the truth always
35:49
eventually comes out and things work out as if the the way that
35:53
they're supposed to. But my advice would be this like
35:58
support her in public and correct her in private.
36:00
Like if this is something that is is detrimental to her
36:04
personal life and her mental health.
36:06
And like this, this behavior is just not consistent with who she
36:12
is as a person and you think that she can do better.
36:14
Correct her in private and tell her how you feel.
36:17
If you guys have like a strong enough friendship and
36:20
relationship where you can approach her and say that there
36:22
are things that Jamie has come to me about and said that I
36:26
could be better about in, in my relation relationships and vice
36:28
versa. And I think that's the beauty of
36:30
our relationship is where we can kind of course correct and make
36:33
sure that each other is on an upward trajectory.
36:35
So if she's really your friend, she'll understand that and
36:38
she'll she'll take that constructive criticism.
36:40
But you have no obligation to tell the boyfriend 0 obligation.
36:45
That is not your situation or you don't have to like interfere
36:50
in that because? That is none of your business.
36:54
Yeah, I fully agree with you, Cameron.
36:56
Like everything you said. I love that.
36:58
Like, support her in public and correct her in private.
37:01
Completely agree with that. But I can understand it can be
37:03
difficult if you're seeing like the boyfriend who has no idea
37:06
and then she's cheating. I I can understand it feels icky
37:08
that you, like, know what's going on and this boyfriend
37:11
doesn't. I would encourage her that she
37:13
needs to break up with him like that.
37:15
That would be my encouragement. I don't know why anyone's
37:18
cheating on a boyfriend. Like, if you don't like the
37:19
boyfriend anymore and you found someone new and you're cheating,
37:22
just break up with the boyfriend.
37:23
Like I, I literally don't don't even get why that is.
37:25
Like, I don't know, I'm sure there's like reasons people do
37:28
it, but like, to me it's like, obviously this boyfriend, if
37:31
you're, you know, been dating and you're drawn to somebody
37:34
else, he's not the one. And like, let encourage her be
37:37
like, he deserves to be able to meet someone who's like in love
37:39
with him and is faithful to him and spend the rest of his life.
37:43
So like don't waste his time any longer and don't waste your own.
37:46
So cheating is always wrong. I mean, we all we talk about
37:49
that nonstop. So I would definitely encourage
37:51
her to get out of that relationship and I think also
37:53
encourage her to be honest about the situation would be my
37:57
suggestion. But I don't think there's any
37:59
reason you need to go against your friend.
38:01
OK, let's head into hot or not. OK Cam, we've been we had a lot
38:11
of great content throughout this episode, but we need to hurry it
38:14
up. We're running out of time, OK,
38:15
hot or not, Angel numbers quickly explain what that is for
38:18
our audience that actually didn't.
38:20
I kind of knew what this was, but.
38:21
Explain Angel numbers are a sign from the divine, whatever you
38:24
call it, God, source, your higher self, the universe,
38:27
etcetera, that you're on the right track.
38:29
They're a cosmic nudge affirming that whatever is occurring in
38:33
your life is meant to be, and you're close to a new beginning.
38:36
And a lot of girls, I've seen this specifically with tattoos
38:39
and like Instagram BIOS. Well, they're like where women
38:42
will put like 777 or like 222 like in their buttons that
38:48
there's somehow like a significance around that.
38:50
Like I see certain numbers all the time.
38:53
Like I always, when I check the time, I always see like it's
38:57
911. It's either like 911 in the
39:00
morning or 911 at night. I always see that or like
39:04
minute, like minute 23. If I'm doing something like ATV
39:07
hit or whatever, like getting ready, like I'll always know
39:10
I've like done it in 23 minutes. I don't know.
39:12
But I don't think that this has any sort of biblical divine
39:16
significance. It's never mentioned in the
39:18
Bible. I don't think like, I'm not a
39:21
big believer in like saying it's the universe or whatever.
39:24
Like I think, you know, God will send you, you know, signals and
39:28
things that you need in your life and in order to be on the
39:31
track that you're supposed to be on.
39:32
But I've never seen this in like these Angel numbers.
39:35
So I'm going to go no. This sounds very similar to
39:39
horoscopes for me, so I'm AI think so I'm opposed to it.
39:42
I I I have a lucky number. I love the number 16.
39:46
That's Vivian's birthday. My birthday lucky. #11 I agree
39:50
but yeah, not Angel numbers. Yeah, like I, I don't think
39:52
there's like any greater significance towards like,
39:54
except for the fact that I'm like, oh, I just like the number
39:56
16. But yeah, I'm not in favor of
39:59
that. And you know, I hate tattoos.
40:01
I think 7, though, is an important number in the Bible.
40:04
But anyway, moving on. Gender reveals hot or not.
40:10
I'm in between on this just because I think that the very
40:14
intimate, like family driven gender reveals where they're
40:17
like either opening a cake or like they have maybe two
40:20
different flower bouquets. I think it's very cute.
40:23
Now, do I like the fireworks and and like the color bursts and
40:27
like the airplanes flying by with some sort of color?
40:30
Like no, I think that's really excessive and doesn't need to be
40:34
done. But I mean, I think they're
40:35
cute. So maybe I'll go hot.
40:39
I'm going to go hot too, but I have the same take as you.
40:42
They've gotten so over the top nowadays and people it's part of
40:46
the bridal culture, the baby culture where people are asking
40:50
people to fly across the country for 50 events and it just seems
40:53
like an old narcissistic display we're.
40:55
About the couple than it is the child at that point you know
40:59
what I. Mean yeah, I know.
41:00
And it it's like brides and then like pregnant women like it's
41:05
become a very narcissistic pursuit on both ends where it's
41:09
like there's a difference like between like celebrating your
41:11
marriage and celebrating that you're having a baby.
41:13
And this over the top excessive Instagram content and events and
41:18
trips and money sunk where people have to like go in for
41:22
office. Anyway, Long story short, I had
41:24
a for Vivian. I had a small gender reveal.
41:25
It was really cute. I love that.
41:27
I think it's great to celebrate your baby, but like, it
41:29
shouldn't be anything crazier than that Gentle parenting.
41:34
This is so hard to go like hot or not, but I think what we've
41:39
seen with like actual gentle parenting is like affirming like
41:43
emotional dysregulation. And I want to be very clear, I
41:46
don't have children. I think that mothers know what's
41:49
best for their own child at the end of the day.
41:52
And it's each individual scenario where it can be
41:55
completely different. There's not A1 size fits all to
41:58
children. But I will say I've seen a lot
42:00
of parents lean into affirming these meltdowns or not following
42:05
up with a certain consequence that would happen if they do
42:08
have a meltdown. And that's like a leading to
42:12
emotional dysregulation when they're older and thinking that
42:15
the world revolves around them instead of it revolving around
42:19
other people. And so I'm exactly, and so I
42:24
think I'm, I am going to lean towards not, but again, I am not
42:29
a mother yet. I want to be very clear, like I
42:30
can't speak on things that I don't know.
42:32
So like I'm not a mom yet. If it works for your kid, great.
42:35
But for me, I'm just going to go no, because I've seen in certain
42:39
scenarios where that's what that ends up, like where these kids
42:42
think the world revolves around them.
42:44
And like, it's because of these parents constantly affirming
42:48
the, their emotions and their kids, they're, they're going to
42:50
react to the smallest things like popping a spoon.
42:53
And, and if you're like affirming those emotions and not
42:56
trying to regulate them and keep them grounded, then I think
42:59
that's going to lead to further consequences.
43:01
I, I'm going hard now. I, I really appreciate my
43:05
parents parenting style. I think my parents did a
43:07
fantastic job, if I do say so with myself, with myself and my
43:11
brothers. And they were always like very
43:12
hard and honest on us, but they were loving.
43:14
Like we knew that we were so supported by our parents, but at
43:17
the same time, they were always honest.
43:19
And if we weren't doing well, they were not afraid to say
43:22
something thing. And I just really appreciate
43:24
honesty with parenting. Like I think when you lie to
43:26
your kids and tell your kids that they're the best no matter
43:28
what, they're perfect no matter what.
43:30
That's how you raise like a generation of very bad people.
43:34
So I'm a hard no with gentle parenting.
43:36
Of course, when it comes to a toddler, obviously toddlers have
43:39
like temper tantrums and you have to just be really patient.
43:42
So like, I'm not like screaming at my toddler.
43:44
I, I'm having a lot of patience for when she's having like a
43:47
meltdown, but at the same time, like I'm not going to give in to
43:50
that meltdown and give her whatever she wants.
43:52
Like she's going to have to regulate her emotions and get on
43:54
a better page before she's getting whatever she wants, if
43:57
that makes sense. So I, I'm just very much against
44:01
gentle parenting. I don't think you need to be
44:02
like a hard and over the top or anything, but I think, you know,
44:06
being a strong parent is very important.
44:08
And I also the last thing I'll say too, I maybe I'll do this
44:11
like in a longer version for like propaganda in the future.
44:14
But I do not believe that like your parents should be your best
44:17
friend or vice versa. Like when parents are like, my
44:19
kids are my best friend. I don't think that's a good
44:22
dynamic. Your parents are your parents.
44:23
Even when you're an adult, your parents are still your parents.
44:25
So maybe I'll go into that later on in propaganda in a future
44:29
episode. OK, last one for hot or not limp
44:33
lip plumping, lip gloss. And Cameron and I were obsessed
44:36
with this in the White House. We would like literally put this
44:38
on and burn off our lips. I'm, I don't wear it as much
44:42
anymore because I'm just kind of like, it's a lot of work.
44:44
It's like one of those things like your lips are like on fire.
44:46
Once in a while we'll do it, but I'm going hot.
44:49
I love like a little lip plump. It's fine.
44:51
Hot too. It's like so nostalgic.
44:53
I feel like you and I just like used to pile that on.
44:55
Our lips would be burning and like seep into our skin.
44:58
Couldn't be good for you whatsoever.
45:01
But it's like it's just a part of the vibes.
45:03
I feel like it was just a part of the makeup routine.
45:05
It was who we are at the end of the day.
45:06
And yeah, I'll, I'll go hot too. I love the.
45:09
Is it too faced that we used? Which one did we use?
45:11
Yeah. Yeah, the too faced there was
45:13
like different levels we would go like for the highest.
45:16
One and it worked, but it worked.
45:18
Yeah, hey, it worked. I love that.
45:20
Yeah. OK.
45:22
Headed into propaganda we're not falling for.
45:27
OK, Cam, what are you not falling for?
45:29
This week not falling for beef tallow being used as skin care
45:33
and I've seen a lot of women do beef like inserting.
45:37
I don't know if it's called micro needling or some type of
45:40
facial where they inject beef tallow into their skin.
45:44
That cannot be good for you. I highly, strongly advise
45:47
against that, ladies. Now, I've seen people use it for
45:50
eczema or if they have like very dry skin and some people have
45:53
had some success with that, that's great, but I don't think
45:55
that this should be like something in your routine
45:59
constantly. I think that there's better
46:00
formulas out there There's but there's different thing I don't
46:04
I just can't see this being good for your pores like blocking
46:07
them or injecting it into your face.
46:09
I'm just that's something I'm not falling for and I'm crunchy.
46:12
Don't get me wrong. I don't want to go off on a
46:13
yeah, I'm crunchy to a certain extent and this is like a little
46:17
bit overboard for me like if you're wanting to do cuz Jamie,
46:20
you will do the what do you call it slugging?
46:23
You'll do slugging with yeah. This we call it's Egyptian magic
46:27
cream. You can buy it off of Amazon.
46:28
Yeah, we love that or like Aqua four.
46:30
I think it's great if you really need a moisturizer, but I'm I'm
46:33
saying not for this. I think this is just like way
46:36
too over the top. You know, I've seen a lot of
46:40
people use beef towel. I personally haven't done it.
46:42
I think if you want to do like a more natural remedy for your
46:45
skin, my mom always is like you should do Greek yogurt on your
46:48
skin. You can do honey on your skin,
46:50
avocado on your skin for like a mask.
46:52
I do not know much about beef tallow, but Cameron, I, I trust
46:56
you on that. So I've never been on that beef
46:58
tallow train, but I know it's popular propaganda.
47:02
I'm not fun for this week. I see this all the time on
47:04
TikTok and I love that like we're we're calling this out,
47:07
but these corporate swap bowls I'm talking about like Chipotle
47:11
cava, sweet green and like, don't get me wrong, I have eaten
47:15
at these places in the past. And like, if you need a quick
47:17
fix and you're not somewhere of like a ton of good restaurants
47:19
or you can't like cook probably better than like a lot of
47:22
places. But I think a lot of people
47:24
think like if they eat like a cava bowl or sweet green bowl,
47:27
like it's really healthy and it's like not it's like full of
47:30
seed oils. It's mass produced, the
47:33
ingredients are very low quality.
47:36
Like it's just not from like organic farms.
47:38
And like, I know that might be like a bit elitist because like
47:41
obviously organic cost more, but like, you know what, we always
47:44
preach on here like pay now or pay later.
47:47
So I think it's important to invest in your food.
47:49
But yeah, I just, I hate like the corporate slop bowls.
47:52
Like I, I don't, it's just slop. Like it's not good food and it's
47:55
like gross. And like I said, I understand
47:56
when you're in a pinch, but and don't get me wrong, I actually
47:59
low key like Chipotle, but what I would recommend like as
48:01
someone who likes it's like the idea of Chipotle, but I think
48:04
they used to be so much better Chipotle.
48:06
I feel like their quality like as these places mass franchise,
48:09
the quality just continues to go down.
48:10
So like make your own Chipotle bowl at home and you can find
48:13
like good ways to like make their honey vinaigrette that
48:17
that spicy honey vinaigrette. There's like a lot of good
48:19
recipes for that where you can do it in a healthier way that
48:21
will taste so much better. Like it just tastes like sludge.
48:24
You. Know when I lived in Tampa they
48:26
actually had healthier alternatives to like these types
48:30
of food. I remember going to this place
48:31
and it was like all locally grown local farmers would bring
48:35
in their produce every single week and they'd make kind of
48:37
like similar bowls. And so I do think like if you're
48:40
living in a bigger city and you have a corporate job, chances
48:43
are you're going to have more places that you can go to and
48:46
and figure out like, you know what I mean?
48:47
Like New York has thousands and thousands of restaurants.
48:51
You don't need to go to Chipotle every single time or Sweet
48:53
Green. I'm sure there's other
48:54
alternatives for you out there. Sweet Green also used to be so I
48:59
love too, but it over franchise it.
49:02
It used to be amazing when I was in college at Berkeley.
49:04
It was one of their few locations and it was really high
49:06
quality. Like they even had like freshly
49:08
caught shrimp and now just slop just low quality ingredients and
49:14
like you're just better off like meal prepping at home.
49:16
You'll actually save more money anyway and making your own food
49:20
and it'll taste better and it's better for you.
49:22
It's less inflammatory and it's not slop.
49:25
I love the word slop. That's like my been my word for
49:28
a year because so much stuff is just slop nowadays.
49:30
The mass produced slop. OK, Kim, what propaganda are you
49:34
falling? For I am falling for Martha
49:36
Stewart spring one. I love Martha Stewart.
49:39
I love her personality. I love her relationship with
49:41
Snoop Dogg. I think it's hilarious, but also
49:44
just her vibes like the the gardening, the decor setting,
49:48
the table, really leaning into like Easter decor and the
49:53
florals and the patterns like I think it's so fun.
49:56
It's so feminine. It's so chic.
49:58
I love like the the Nancy Meyers aesthetic or like the Elizabeth
50:02
James from Parent Trap, like her aesthetic.
50:04
I think that leans into more of the Martha Stewart vibes and
50:07
like the cocktail she makes on reels and like, I don't know,
50:10
it's just so fun. It's so girly.
50:12
So, girls, we're falling for Martha Stewart Spring.
50:15
I love that I am as well. Cameron, you're like such a
50:17
great little homemaker. Like your table will put up the
50:19
photo. Look how cute our table is with
50:21
those little bunnies. You're already getting the
50:23
spring going. I love it.
50:25
My propaganda that I'm falling for is like very short and sweet
50:29
Lumify eye drops. I am really obsessed with those.
50:32
And I feel like I've put so many people onto it.
50:36
So they're just eye drops out white in your eye.
50:38
And once you start using them, I swear you will never go back.
50:42
Because like any time I like wake up and I'm doing my makeup,
50:44
I feel like my eyes, they're like a little bit bloodshot and
50:47
I'll put in the lumify eye drop and it just opens your eyes.
50:50
It makes them look so much brighter and bigger and you'll
50:52
never want to not use them again.
50:54
That being said, I really hope they're not bad for you because
50:58
it almost feels like it's too good to be true.
51:00
And a lot of times they're like, oh, you can only use them like
51:02
once every eight hours. And like I definitely use them
51:05
more and more. Like today I put mine in and
51:07
then I usually do them right before I like shoot the podcast
51:09
or anything. And I forgot them and I was like
51:11
so mad because I'm literally addicted.
51:13
I hope my eyes are. Not OK before we.
51:15
But yeah. Podcast we have to tell our
51:17
girls about the time we went into that Walgreens before our
51:21
like 7 hour trip to New York. Jamie had to get these Lumify
51:25
eye drops OK we had to get like stuff together because we had
51:29
Fox hits. We had back-to-back like media
51:31
stuff and so we were driving to New York and so I like haul
51:36
Drake's car, her husband. We go to CVS.
51:39
This takes 45 minutes because these women working in the front
51:44
desk tried to charge. They're just double.
51:46
And by the end, Jamie had like whitening strips, Lumify eye
51:50
drops. I had like maybe like Pedialyte
51:52
and a razor or something. This total came out to like
51:55
$250. And we were like, WTF, what is
51:59
going on? Do you not remember?
52:00
Do you not remember this? And then?
52:02
Yes. And by the way, I will quickly
52:04
say this too. She kept saying the amount, but
52:06
she was saying it wrong. Like she was saying it was
52:09
$1500. I'm like, there's no way this is
52:12
$1500 like. And so she kept mispronouncing.
52:15
I was like, I hate to say this but English wasn't her first
52:17
language. And then she was giving me
52:18
attitude when she was trying to overcharge and lie about the
52:21
amount and. I'm like but how?
52:22
Dare you give me attitude that's.
52:24
Supposed to show our our friendship dynamic like Jamie is
52:27
not a confrontational person and I was sitting there with no
52:31
utmost attitude like towards this woman being like what the
52:35
hell are you saying speak English we are in America like
52:39
and you're trying to overcharge us or you're misspeaking like
52:43
whatever was on the tablet that she turned around was not what
52:46
she was saying and so we were like very confused what she was
52:50
about to charge the card OK but it was like this we were just
52:53
sitting there and we were like this would happen to us like
52:55
right before we need to go on this turf and then obviously you
52:59
guys heard about the story where we had to stop in New Jersey at
53:01
a rest stop so. If I was on a desert island all
53:06
I would need is my lumify eye drops and some whitening strips.
53:10
I just like everything bright and white.
53:11
True that is that is the episode today.
53:15
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53:18
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