Midnight Lounge -Ep. 7: Stop Falling in Love With Potential
Sometimes we don’t fall for who somebody is.
We fall for who we believe they could become.
We see the potential.
The good moments.
The little glimpses of the person we hope they’ll eventually become consistently.
And before long, we’re building an entire relationship around a version of somebody…
that doesn’t exist yet.
You tell yourself:
They’re trying.They just need time.They’ve been through a lot.Maybe if I love them a little harder, they’ll finally be ready.
And yes—people can grow.
People can change.
People can heal.
But…
you can’t love someone into becoming who you need them to be…
The skinny
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