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Prince Israel Zaar on: Your Happiness Comes From Your Works and Walks In Life · Talk to Prince Show - Solving World's Problems

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Speaker 1: There is nothing more in life than trying to escape
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Speaker 1: or avoid boredom. You you can be in the best
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Speaker 1: of wealth, but if you're living in boredom, then there
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Speaker 1: is very less that you can achieve or act from
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Speaker 1: that wealth to find happiness. And you know, sometimes people
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Speaker 1: get in relationship and you don't. You don't blame them.
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Speaker 1: You don't blame humans because out of scarcity and and
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Speaker 1: in order to escape poverty or had ship and the
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Speaker 1: fear of nothingness and seeking fame and acclamations or influence
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Speaker 1: or affluence, so worried about status and class. And sometimes
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Speaker 1: people get in a relationship not for their self satisfaction
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Speaker 1: and happiness or well being, because they want to be
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Speaker 1: seen as important because of somebody else. What I call
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Speaker 1: importance by association, that you are somebody because of somebody,
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Speaker 1: that if you are with somebody, it means people would
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Speaker 1: see you as important. Like if you're married to the president,
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Speaker 1: then you are the president to see you as the
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Speaker 1: wife of the president and therefore you are very important.
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Speaker 1: Or if you are married to the pope, of which
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Speaker 1: popes don't get married, just an example, then you will
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Speaker 1: be seen as important because you are married to the pope,
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Speaker 1: or if you're married to a king a queen, then
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Speaker 1: you'll be seen as important because you're married to a
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Speaker 1: king or queen. If you're married to a billonnaire or
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Speaker 1: a famous person or a superstar or somebody of recognition,
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Speaker 1: somebody of fame or popularity, and so by association you
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Speaker 1: are as important as that person. And it works sometimes,
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Speaker 1: but sometimes it doesn't work for so many people. That
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Speaker 1: is what I call the externalization factor, the externalization of
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Speaker 1: your being. What people can see, what people can hear,
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Speaker 1: what people can fail, what people can touch, or what
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Speaker 1: can smell. That projection, perception and perspective type of thing.
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Speaker 1: You can have all that externalities, but your internalities will
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Speaker 1: be heard or or be in pain. You can project
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Speaker 1: external happiness, but internally you are bruised. You're not happy
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Speaker 1: on satisfied. We might want to be somebody. Oh, we
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Speaker 1: might want to be seen as somebody because of somebody.
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Speaker 1: They just are two different things. If you want to
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Speaker 1: be somebody, you work your way up to be somebody
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Speaker 1: and it becomes organic. By working your way up to
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Speaker 1: be somebody, it means you've gone through all the temptations, tribulations, suffering,
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Speaker 1: and challenges. Difficulties. In the process of being that somebody,
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Speaker 1: you have learned a lot. You have understand the human nature.
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Speaker 1: You have been in the rain, in the sun, in
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Speaker 1: the storm, night day, and you have overcome and you
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Speaker 1: have learned a lot failures, successes, incremental achievement, one step forward,
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Speaker 1: three steps back, and disappointment. You know, breakups, and you
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Speaker 1: know then maybe being fired or being pushed around, or
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Speaker 1: being refused opportunities. And through the accumulative suffering and accumulative
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Speaker 1: difficulties or accumulative challenges, you have come up to know
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Speaker 1: life much better. I've come to understand the dynamism of life,
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Speaker 1: the inconsistency of life, the vulnerabilities of life. You know,
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Speaker 1: the imperfections of life. So along the way you have
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Speaker 1: learned a lot about life. So incrementally you gradually, you know,
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Speaker 1: climb your way to the top, just incremental success that
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Speaker 1: you appreciate those milestones. And along the way you create friends,
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Speaker 1: and you get to know society much better what they
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Speaker 1: call straight straight smart or come on common sense, And
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Speaker 1: you get to value your life much better, your success
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Speaker 1: much better. You learn to appreciate the liter that you
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Speaker 1: made much better. That people might not see how much
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Speaker 1: you have, or you might not be the greatest personal
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Speaker 1: planner earth, You might not be the richest personal planner earth.
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Speaker 1: It might might not be the most famous or popular
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Speaker 1: personal planner earth. But people will see that you are
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Speaker 1: very satisfied, that you feel so important and proud of yourself,
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Speaker 1: that you like yourself, and you're very appreciative of yourself
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Speaker 1: for what you have, for what you get, or for
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Speaker 1: what you have become. And sometimes people might wonder, now
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Speaker 1: why you're happy with less? Are you happy for not
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Speaker 1: being as there are? Why you know? Why you're happy
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Speaker 1: for not having the wealth that they do? Why are
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Speaker 1: you happy for not being that famous, of that of
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Speaker 1: that popular. And the thing they failed to understand is
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Speaker 1: that they are comparing themselves to you, but they're not
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Speaker 1: comparing yourself to the rest of the world. But you
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Speaker 1: are comparing yourself with the rest of the world. Or
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Speaker 1: you're not comparing yourself with that which you cannot become.
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Speaker 1: You're comparing yourself without which you can be, not that
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Speaker 1: which you can't be. So when you're comparing yourself with
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Speaker 1: that which you are, and compare yourself to the rest
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Speaker 1: of the world, then you get to see that you
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Speaker 1: have done a lot, You have achieved a lot, and
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Speaker 1: based on normal standard of life and being, you are
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Speaker 1: not that far behind, and you are not that far ahead,
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Speaker 1: but you're cut up in that middle of which you
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Speaker 1: know what is behind you, and you know where your
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Speaker 1: life is at the moment, and you know our life
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Speaker 1: can be better if you push just letter, if you
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Speaker 1: just work a little bit harder, if you just do
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Speaker 1: little things to improve your situation and your circumstances, so
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Speaker 1: it keeps your happiness. It means you are in control
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Speaker 1: of your life. It means you have agency and autonomy
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Speaker 1: of your life. It means you are responsible to yourself.
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Speaker 1: Are you happy where you're going? It takes away your
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Speaker 1: insecurities and vulnerabilities because you already know your vulnerabilities, you
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Speaker 1: know your weaknesses, you know your setbacks, and because you
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Speaker 1: have made a lot of mistakes and you know what
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Speaker 1: is right and wrong, and you know life better and
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Speaker 1: you know what to avoid, what to engage to, and
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Speaker 1: you know those who like you and those who hate you,
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Speaker 1: and you know those who pretend to you. So along
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Speaker 1: that way you've learned a lot to be dependent to yourself,
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Speaker 1: not to rely so much on people that are going
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Speaker 1: to disaupon you, and you have learned to be happy
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Speaker 1: with yourself. That nobody will gives you happiness than yourself,
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Speaker 1: and you have learned that it can be important much
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Speaker 1: better organically or authentically to yourself. So along the way,
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Speaker 1: by trying to be yourself, but tend to find happiness
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Speaker 1: to you, not by association to somebody else. You have
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Speaker 1: learned to rely on yourself. You have given your own
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Speaker 1: self independence and self determination, and you know what works
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Speaker 1: and what doesn't work, and by that reason, your happiness
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Speaker 1: depends entirely on you. So the little wealth you have
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Speaker 1: becomes your greatest happiness, the little position that you find yourself.
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Speaker 1: You're very satisfied with it, and you are contented to that.
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Speaker 1: So you make you see life totally differently, because life
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Speaker 1: begins and ends with you. You don't live beyond your means.
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Speaker 1: You don't buy what you don't need, and you don't
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Speaker 1: need to have what people have because you can't afford
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Speaker 1: it and you don't need it. You tend to have
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Speaker 1: what you need and buy what you need and be
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Speaker 1: happy what you have. You tend to understand that if
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Speaker 1: you need more, you need to work more. And if
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Speaker 1: you don't need it. It means if you don't have it,
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Speaker 1: it means you don't need it. I give you that
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Speaker 1: psychology of satisfaction, that psychology of certainty, that psychology of
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Speaker 1: probability and possibility and opportunity. It gives you that clear
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Speaker 1: eye and clear vision to understand your life, understand why
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Speaker 1: the world is going. So when you're trying to do
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Speaker 1: it yourself type of thing and learn to your own way,
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Speaker 1: not refusing opportunities, but trying to find happiness from you,
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Speaker 1: not trying to peck yourself with somebody else or get
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Speaker 1: involved with somebody else just because you want to be
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Speaker 1: important by association, and you learn to create a very positive, creative,
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Speaker 1: imaginative ways of life right you. It means you're never
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Speaker 1: bored because you are constantly doing something to improve your life.
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Speaker 1: So you create so many interesting activities, You go to
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Speaker 1: so many interesting places because you're constantly trying to put
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Speaker 1: an application here, or trying to pick a job here
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Speaker 1: two or you're trying to build your own self, create
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Speaker 1: your own company, create idea, and so you become self
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Speaker 1: reliant and you are constantly active, if not bored, you're
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Speaker 1: constantly trying to create new ways and new dynamism. You're
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Speaker 1: constantly trying to improve yourself. You're constantly trying to learn
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Speaker 1: and grow. So in social circumstances, your time always means
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Speaker 1: a lot, and you value your time because your time
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Speaker 1: actually is used to improve your life, to better your life,
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Speaker 1: So you don't have time for boredom or stress your
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Speaker 1: depression because boredom, stress and depression comes from inactivity. So
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Speaker 1: when you're constantly building your life and improving your life, boredom,
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Speaker 1: stress and depression is never your thing because you don't
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Speaker 1: expect the unexpected. You already know where your life is
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Speaker 1: going if you have If you're being paid twenty years dollars,
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Speaker 1: you can budget your life based only twenty dollars. You
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Speaker 1: cannot budget your life on fifty dollars. If you're being
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Speaker 1: paid paid fifty dollars, you can work your way to
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Speaker 1: fifty dollars, or your level business or creativity can give
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Speaker 1: you fifty dollars, then you can live budget your life
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Speaker 1: based on your fifty dollars. You cannot budget your life
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Speaker 1: on a thousand dollars because you don't have it. And
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Speaker 1: if your ernests give you a thousand dollars an hour
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Speaker 1: or whatever time that might be. You can love budget
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Speaker 1: yourself based on your thousand dollars. You cannot budget yourself
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Speaker 1: based on ten thousand, ten thousand dollars because you don't
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Speaker 1: have it. Your happiness can only come from that one
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Speaker 1: thousand dollars. And if you got a hundred thousand dollars
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Speaker 1: an hour or a month a year, you can live
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Speaker 1: budget based on that wound, that thousand dollars because of wound,
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Speaker 1: that thousand dollars come from your effort. It comes from you.
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Speaker 1: You know where it's coming from. You have made yourself
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Speaker 1: to have the wounded thousand dollars. So you can let
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Speaker 1: budget based on a onund that thousand dollars and your
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Speaker 1: fame or your importance or whatever that it's not by association.
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Speaker 1: It comes from that aroundred thousand dollars. And for what
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Speaker 1: you do, you cannot budget for a million dollars. And
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Speaker 1: if you have a million dollars, that comes from you,
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Speaker 1: to your own fame and work and sacrifice and imagination
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Speaker 1: and creativity, and you can let budget yourself from your
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Speaker 1: million dollars, not from ten billion dollars, because ten billion
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Speaker 1: dollars is not Yes, you'll never get there. So you
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Speaker 1: cannot be bored, you cannot be stressed, You cannot be
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Speaker 1: depressed because you work by your means. You calculate by
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Speaker 1: your means and your effort and what you can afford
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Speaker 1: and what you can do. So your happiness is based
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Speaker 1: on your effort, your means, and your happiness becomes the
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Speaker 1: thing that it's not so materialistic, but it comes from insight.
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Speaker 1: Because you know yourself, you validity yourself. So therefore you
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Speaker 1: cannot think and aspire for what you cannot be, but
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Speaker 1: you can think and aspire for where you can take
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Speaker 1: yourself to be. And so if if you don't have
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Speaker 1: ten billion dollars, you cannot be budgeting yourself on ten
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Speaker 1: billion dollars. If you do have ten billion dollars, you
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Speaker 1: can live through the means of your ten billion dollars.
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Speaker 1: Your importance is based on that ten billion dollars. You
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Speaker 1: cannot be seeing somebody we wanted billion dollars and trying
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Speaker 1: to be like that that person. You can work yourself
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Speaker 1: to have a billion dollars. You cannot want to be
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Speaker 1: like somebody because you're already yourself, because you are that important,
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Speaker 1: because there's only one type of you own planet Earth
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Speaker 1: you're organically, intrinsically connected just to yourself and nothing else.
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Speaker 1: So you don't want to see yourself as a person
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Speaker 1: that has wanted billion dollars, because you can never be
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Speaker 1: that person that has wont the billion dollars, but you
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Speaker 1: can have that want the billion dollars. Could want the
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Speaker 1: billion dollars is just in number. It's an achievement, my stone.
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Speaker 1: It's a benchmark that you can mate. You cannot be
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Speaker 1: like a person, but you can have what that person
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Speaker 1: have if you need that thing, but you must work
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Speaker 1: for it. That is happiness, true self effort. That is happiness,
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Speaker 1: true self worth. That is happiness unsatisfied or true self
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Speaker 1: sacrifice or self endeavor. That is a type of happiness
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Speaker 1: that is organic, that is authentic, that is original, that
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Speaker 1: stays with you. That's the importance to my association. But
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Speaker 1: on effort, your contribution. You find that happiness by helping others,
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Speaker 1: by helping those in it, by volunt telling your time
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Speaker 1: when necess three, by being part of the community. I've
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Speaker 1: been part of people by wearing the other person's shoe,
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Speaker 1: by sympathizing with those who need help, and by accepting
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Speaker 1: who you are, not by rejecting others or using other
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Speaker 1: reasons to create false importance and false hopes by accepting
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Speaker 1: who you are as sustainable being. But when you find
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Speaker 1: happiness by association or when you think that you can
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Speaker 1: be important only if you're with somebody with fame and power,
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Speaker 1: and if you're not careful, you're going to creep or
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Speaker 1: have boredom. Because the mind is not imaginative. The mind
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Speaker 1: is not itself. It depends on somebody else. The mind
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Speaker 1: is not creative by itself because it depends on somebody else.
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Speaker 1: The mind is not innovative or inventive by itself because
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Speaker 1: it depends on somebody else else. You get to see
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Speaker 1: that if you're not authentically organically creative, innovative, imaginative, and
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Speaker 1: and genius within your own self, you find that you're
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Speaker 1: gonna be left foot bordom, stress, and depression because you're
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Speaker 1: not planting a tree to see it grow. You know,
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Speaker 1: you don't plant a flower or a plant to see
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Speaker 1: it grow. You just want a tree to be given
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Speaker 1: to you. And when the tree is given to you,
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Speaker 1: it's just a tree. He didn't enjoy the processes the
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Speaker 1: milestones of that tree growing, So there is no accumulative
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Speaker 1: happiness based on that tree. The tree has been given
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Speaker 1: to you. You don't know how the tree became a tree.
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Speaker 1: He just saw the tree. So the trees just a
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Speaker 1: monotone type of thing to you. It's just a tree.
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Speaker 1: So if you're giving wealth, it's just wealth. You don't
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Speaker 1: know how that wealth was made. You don't know the
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Speaker 1: mindstone of the wealth, that accumulative happiness, that joy of
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Speaker 1: how you build that wealth. It was just giving wealth. See,
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Speaker 1: wealth just become one thing and nothing else. You soon
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Speaker 1: find boredom and stress with depression because their routine is
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Speaker 1: the same. You didn't make it. It was given to you.
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Speaker 1: You want to make it. You don't want it to
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Speaker 1: be given to you. Not that people will not help
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Speaker 1: your life or you will not accept gifts or support
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Speaker 1: or system that they have given to you. It soon
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Speaker 1: means nothing. But if you make it yourself, it means everything,
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Speaker 1: because you are the thing itself wants to make it.
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Speaker 1: In life, it's you that made it. So that wealth
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Speaker 1: or that fame or that power, it becomes a reward
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Speaker 1: or a certificate of accomplishment of you being accomplished. So
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Speaker 1: if you make it wealth, it's you that is wealthy.
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Speaker 1: From your state of mind, your mind being, your mind sheap,
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Speaker 1: your mind code, your ip mind, your creative mine, your
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Speaker 1: innovative mind, your endevored type of mind, your sacrifice type
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Speaker 1: of mind. It is you that you made it. So
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Speaker 1: even if that wealth goes away or that fame of
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Speaker 1: power goes away, it means you can make it again
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Speaker 1: because you have it already. It means if you build
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Speaker 1: a mansion and it's blown by the wind, or by
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Speaker 1: the storm, or by a hurricane, or by an earthquake
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Speaker 1: or by something, you can't build again because it came
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Speaker 1: from your mind. It means if you're an architect, it's
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Speaker 1: not a certificate. It means it's you, the person that
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Speaker 1: you are an architect. If you're a lawyer, you are
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Speaker 1: the person that's a lawyer. It means if your wealth,
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Speaker 1: of job or something is taken away, you can still
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Speaker 1: do it again because you did it before. It means
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Speaker 1: it comes from you. If you're a famous person, it
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Speaker 1: means you did something that give you that fame, not
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Speaker 1: fame by association, not fame because of your father. If
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Speaker 1: your father is king, it means your fight is king.
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Speaker 1: You are not king. You're the son of a king.
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Speaker 1: Or you're the daughter of a king, if your father
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Speaker 1: is Armstein or Nikola Tesla, or the greatest of scientists,
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Speaker 1: or the greatest of philosophers or physicists or chemist, if
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Speaker 1: your father is a president or a pope. Knowing that
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Speaker 1: the pope don't have kids, I wish they should because
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Speaker 1: they are humans. They need to have a child. I
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Speaker 1: know what it means to raise a child, because if
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Speaker 1: you don't raise a child, I don't know what society is.
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Speaker 1: It cannot be the vice in humanitude of having a child.
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Speaker 1: But that might not only be the only way. Let
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Speaker 1: it be there I don't have a child, that you
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Speaker 1: cannot have a child, or that you don't want to
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Speaker 1: have a child. But let it not be that you
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Speaker 1: don't have a child because the job or jump this
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Speaker 1: kiss saying you don't have a child. That's not fair.
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Speaker 1: It was just as the one child policy child that
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Speaker 1: was not fair. You cannot condition human beings on having
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Speaker 1: a child, not having a child, and because they willn't
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Speaker 1: know much about life, such becomes a thing with my
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Speaker 1: destruction sometimes or digression. Not having a child, just that
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Speaker 1: particular thing in life you learn along the ways you
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Speaker 1: are with that child. That child becomes like a plant
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Speaker 1: that you're planted, like a tree that you're growing. You
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Speaker 1: plant one tree, that tree becomes a forest, forest, or
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Speaker 1: the tree becomes the amazon. The child becomes like a
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Speaker 1: business that you're opening. That child becomes like school that
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Speaker 1: you are going to, something that you expect to grow,
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Speaker 1: something that you expect to be part of, something I
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Speaker 1: expect to contribute it. That child becomes that thing you're
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Speaker 1: symbol of your achievements or failures in life. You do
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Speaker 1: everything for the child to succeed, to grow well, do
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Speaker 1: everything for that chry to be healthy. Until our child
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Speaker 1: want day to be wealthy and powerful, but I try
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Speaker 1: to be happy. That child's happiness becomes your happiness. The
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Speaker 1: growth of that child becomes your own growth. That child
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Speaker 1: so mirrors you. You become the child, the child becomes you.
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Speaker 1: As the child grow, gradually, you might create a business
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Speaker 1: alongside that child. You do things alongside with a child,
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Speaker 1: such as the thing that what the child becomes that's
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Speaker 1: part of you. Because you invested so much in that
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Speaker 1: child of bring it. It takes away that bottom and
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Speaker 1: that stress or depressure because you are constantly solving problems.
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Speaker 1: You are constantly answering to things. You are constantly fixing things,
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Speaker 1: you are constantly teaching people to do something. So such
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Speaker 1: is the thing with importance by association of being the
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Speaker 1: thing yourself. So if you create that business by yourself,
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Speaker 1: you make that thing grow by yourself, that thing becomes you.
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Speaker 1: So when you find that importance to yourself, it's much
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Speaker 1: better than be important. Because your fa father is a lawyer.
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Speaker 1: And then if your father is a doctor, your father
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Speaker 1: is a doctor, not I. It's your father that is important.
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Speaker 1: If your mother is the president, it's your mother that's
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Speaker 1: the President's not ILL. If your parents are the most famous,
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Speaker 1: if you put are the wealthiest people implanet Earth, it's
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Speaker 1: your parent or your parents, it's not ILL. Life in
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Speaker 1: itself come from the being in itself. That which life
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Speaker 1: becomes itself depends on mostly largely on the being itself.
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Speaker 1: If you want to be somebody, you need to work
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Speaker 1: yourself yourself up to be somebody. So when we are
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Speaker 1: trying to be somebody, it's not just that I want
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Speaker 1: to prove something. In the course of being somebody, you
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Speaker 1: fight boredom, stress and depression. Bolldom stress and depression comes
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Speaker 1: from inactivity. Bodom stress, stress and depression comes from a
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Speaker 1: person that have stopped improving themselves, has stopped trying, have
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Speaker 1: stopped accepting life or what life is for the circumstances
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Speaker 1: of life, the tribulations and the ups and downs of life.
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Speaker 1: So boedom, stress and depression comes from the stead of
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Speaker 1: being that you want it to be something that you
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Speaker 1: cannot be, or you have been something that you don't
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Speaker 1: know what to do, that you cannot manage. If you
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Speaker 1: make yourself to wealth and fame, you will know how
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Speaker 1: to manage wealth, and you will know that would add
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Speaker 1: that wealth. It will still be the way you are
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Speaker 1: because it came from no body to something or from
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Speaker 1: nothingness to something. So within that seasons of life you
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Speaker 1: still find yourself and that metrics or or continue of
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Speaker 1: life that no matter where you find yourself, you'll still
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Speaker 1: be happy with yourself. It's just like you're flipping the
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Speaker 1: page that once you were high up there. You know
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Speaker 1: when you were up, you know when you were down.
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Speaker 1: So when you're down, you just pick up where you
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Speaker 1: ended and continue that routine and build yourself back up
29:37
Speaker 1: because you were once down. So you can all be bored, stressed,
29:41
Speaker 1: or depressed. You just continue where you end it. So
29:44
Speaker 1: when you work yourself up the ladder, and when you're
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Speaker 1: on top of the hill, you're on the crest of
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Speaker 1: the hill, you find happiness and content men or you
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Speaker 1: cannot be bored because it works so hard to be there.
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Speaker 1: And even when you you descend from the ladder, you
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Speaker 1: fall from grace to grass, you still not to pick
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Speaker 1: yourself up because you were once there. It's not a
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Speaker 1: surprise to you. It was not given to you. You
30:17
Speaker 1: work your way up there, so you can work your
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Speaker 1: way back up, so you cannot be bored and stressed
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Speaker 1: or depressed because you were already in that containum. It's
30:29
Speaker 1: not strange there. It means if you if you work
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Speaker 1: your way up from one to one hundred and one
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Speaker 1: hundred being the apex or the cress, and you can
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Speaker 1: be happy at that one hundred, but you're not just
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Speaker 1: happy at one hundred. You're happy from one to from
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Speaker 1: one to one hundred. Actually you're happy wounded at one times,
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Speaker 1: because you're happy from zero or even wound, and two
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Speaker 1: times you're happy from a negative to a positive to
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Speaker 1: one hundred. So you're happy when you wear negative one,
31:22
Speaker 1: you're happy when with zero you're happy way one, you're happy,
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Speaker 1: we're in way two to one hundred. So in that
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Speaker 1: stage you cannot find stress, bottom and depression because you
31:35
Speaker 1: have many opportunities of one hundred. So even if it
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Speaker 1: isn't back to ninety nine even once at ninety nine,
31:43
Speaker 1: you just pick up where you ended. You still be happy.
31:46
Speaker 1: And when you find yourself back to forty or fifty
31:49
Speaker 1: even once and that containing of forty or fifty, you
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Speaker 1: will still pick it up and continuing back to fifty
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Speaker 1: one to find ourself back to one hundred. So trying
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Speaker 1: to build life yourself, you create that ladders of opportunities
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Speaker 1: and you create that ladders of happiness. It means you've
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Speaker 1: done a lot of things, made a lot of friends,
32:14
Speaker 1: you have created this mental state at these various stages
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Speaker 1: that even when you are descending, you're not actually descending.
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Speaker 1: You are descending the eye in the eyes of the public,
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Speaker 1: but you're just descending on the space that you were
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Speaker 1: once there. You just pick it up. He made new friends,
32:36
Speaker 1: and you turn around, you remember where you were. You
32:41
Speaker 1: just pick it up from there and to climb back
32:44
Speaker 1: the ladder. So you cannot have boredom, stress and depression
32:49
Speaker 1: because you were once there. That's why it's a good
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Speaker 1: thing to struggle in life, to be somebody than somebody
32:55
Speaker 1: to be given to you. It becomes the thing that
32:59
Speaker 1: if you see somebody's so wealthy and so powerful, but
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Speaker 1: they don't have happiness, you can start to wonder was
33:08
Speaker 1: it nepotism, was it corruption? Was it cronism? Was it favoritism?
33:17
Speaker 1: Because if you're that powerful, then you should deserve that power,
33:24
Speaker 1: if you're that wealthy, and you should find that happiness.
33:29
Speaker 1: You cannot be bored and stress and depressed when you're wealthy.
33:34
Speaker 1: You cannot be bored and depressed and stress when you're powerful,
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Speaker 1: because you work your way to the top. So you
33:41
Speaker 1: came from nothing. If you're not bored, if you were
33:45
Speaker 1: not born and depressed and uh stress or happy when
33:50
Speaker 1: you were nothing, how can you be bored, under pressed
33:53
Speaker 1: and stress when you are somebody? It means it was
33:57
Speaker 1: given to you. You don't work yourself away at the top.
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Speaker 1: Such becomes the thing. We wanted to be somebody by association,
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Speaker 1: wanted to be somebody by a sensation means you want
34:11
Speaker 1: to claim somebody's fame, that you're powerful because you're blue
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Speaker 1: or green, you're powerful because you were born here. You're
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Speaker 1: powerful because you're bright eyes. Somebody else that you're powerful
34:25
Speaker 1: because you belong to that religion, or you belong to
34:28
Speaker 1: that culture, or you belong to that genotype. That you're
34:34
Speaker 1: powerful because you belong to that class, that you are
34:38
Speaker 1: born to that class. Such becomes a thing that you
34:41
Speaker 1: don't get the best of leaders, you don't get the
34:45
Speaker 1: best of problem solvers because those people up there, they
34:49
Speaker 1: did not deserve it. It was given to them. Maybe
34:53
Speaker 1: that kid went to Harvard because the father was an
34:56
Speaker 1: alumni in Havard, or that kid went to yell Or
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Speaker 1: because of the fame of the parents. So the other
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Speaker 1: kid went to sell Borne, or that kid went to
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Speaker 1: Askford or Cambridge, not because the kid deserves it, because
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Speaker 1: of the parent. And then such becomes a thing that
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Speaker 1: those people graduate from those universities and they cannot be
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Speaker 1: the best of leaders in society. They create bom stress
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Speaker 1: and depression, and you find them always bord stress and
35:28
Speaker 1: depressed because they did not deserve it. They were not
35:32
Speaker 1: supposed to be there. That's importance by association. And when
35:36
Speaker 1: you give power to such people, the crumble society. They
35:41
Speaker 1: across society they go to wars, or they make mistakes.
35:46
Speaker 1: After mistakes, they don't know what to do. You get
35:50
Speaker 1: to wonder how did they become leaders? Howd that person
35:54
Speaker 1: become the pope or a president of a king. Had
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Speaker 1: that person become that decision making person? How is that
36:02
Speaker 1: person giving the bottom of a nuclear weapon? Has that
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Speaker 1: person giving the course of society? Why that person become
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Speaker 1: the CEO of that fortune? Five houndred? What that person
36:14
Speaker 1: do to become the richest personal plant on earth? Has
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Speaker 1: that person bored? Always on drugs, always erratic? Start to
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Speaker 1: ask the question? Has that person always not happy, always
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Speaker 1: no kind, always sad, always bitter, always hateful and stressful
36:38
Speaker 1: and bored and depressed? As that person not seek it
36:45
Speaker 1: the best out of people? As that person always not satisfied?
36:49
Speaker 1: Or what a person have? Has that person always so sentimental,
36:54
Speaker 1: always so insecured? How is that person doing, always doing
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Speaker 1: everything to say validation to be liked by so many people?
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Speaker 1: As that person happy with itself, I'm proud of itself
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Speaker 1: and happy with society of giving that person because of
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Speaker 1: importance by association of FAMA association it was given to
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Speaker 1: that person. When it's given to you or you seek
37:28
Speaker 1: that fame or you want to attribute yourself to somebody.
37:33
Speaker 1: It's always be careful with that. Sometimes you see a
37:38
Speaker 1: very beautiful woman, that beautiful and the life that they
37:43
Speaker 1: wanted to be or to become. Sustan that beautiful girl
37:48
Speaker 1: and that beautiful woman, they don't live that life because
37:54
Speaker 1: the one is short cut. They want wanted to cheat
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Speaker 1: their way to life. They just think that pecking themselves
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Speaker 1: with somebody or getting married to somebody with so much
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Speaker 1: wealth or so much fame, that you'll make them happy. Yes,
38:11
Speaker 1: you'll make you happy externally. You'll be happy outside. Why
38:17
Speaker 1: are you happy inside? It might not be Somebody say,
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Speaker 1: if I get married to a president, I'll be very happy. Yes,
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Speaker 1: you are married to the president. Are you happy? Are
38:31
Speaker 1: you internally happy? Or you're externally happy? Because you are
38:36
Speaker 1: not the president, just the wife of the president. Somebody
38:40
Speaker 1: don't get married to the richest person on planet Earth.
38:44
Speaker 1: You are not the richest person plant of Earth. I
38:47
Speaker 1: just married to that richest person plant Earth, that richeous
38:52
Speaker 1: person on planet or or that president. They have happiness
38:58
Speaker 1: and they are bored because they work their way up.
39:01
Speaker 1: They might never have time for you because they're constantly
39:04
Speaker 1: doing the things that give them that wealth. They are
39:08
Speaker 1: constantly doing the things that make them precedent. They are
39:12
Speaker 1: constantly do the things that make them there not better
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Speaker 1: lowered or that we still become, because those are the
39:19
Speaker 1: things that made them happiness. Activity, creativity, innovation, imagination. They
39:26
Speaker 1: are constantly they're married to their minds, to their creative minds,
39:32
Speaker 1: to their creative endeavor. Their happiness is not you, because
39:36
Speaker 1: they know that you're not with them because of anything
39:40
Speaker 1: you're doing. Because we are with them because of their
39:42
Speaker 1: fame and power or their looks that maybe if they
39:46
Speaker 1: don't have the looks or the fame or the power
39:49
Speaker 1: of wealth, they know within them that you don't want
39:51
Speaker 1: to be with them. They know that you're you're with
39:54
Speaker 1: them because of their fame. They know that there's nothing
39:57
Speaker 1: they can contribute to their fame or their wealth or
39:59
Speaker 1: their and they will just give you the wealth, They
40:02
Speaker 1: give you the money, They take your places, you take
40:05
Speaker 1: the pictures, They take you to the red carpet if
40:08
Speaker 1: that's just what you want, and you order Externality or
40:11
Speaker 1: that show. But deep would in its hollowness, emptiness, bottom, stress, depression,
40:19
Speaker 1: because there's always that thing that you don't deserve it.
40:23
Speaker 1: There's always that thing that you're taking somebody's position. There's
40:27
Speaker 1: always that thing that maybe it's because of the way
40:30
Speaker 1: you look, the way you were born, the class and
40:33
Speaker 1: society that you are there not because of you, because
40:37
Speaker 1: by association. I don't know that if you don't quote
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Speaker 1: somebody or talk about your gene type, or your class,
40:46
Speaker 1: or your origin, or your parents, or your alumni, where
40:50
Speaker 1: you went to school, all those important by association, you
40:56
Speaker 1: know that if you don't give all those accolades, I
40:59
Speaker 1: went to this place, I came from here, my parents
41:02
Speaker 1: are this, you're no body so because of that, you see,
41:08
Speaker 1: you're not great because of you your effort. You're great
41:11
Speaker 1: because of something. You're not great because of the help
41:15
Speaker 1: you give to people, because of the contribution you give
41:17
Speaker 1: to people. You're not great because of how you live,
41:21
Speaker 1: to people up, how you build society, how you build community,
41:25
Speaker 1: how you build companies, how you build dreams. You're no
41:30
Speaker 1: great because of how you build your own self. You
41:34
Speaker 1: want to be great because of somebody else. You will
41:38
Speaker 1: hardly find beauty, satisfaction, and happiness its situations and circumstances.
41:47
Speaker 1: Much of society find themselves in that externally you're happy,
41:55
Speaker 1: but internally you're unhappy. You see that you're not happy
42:01
Speaker 1: in life, that you're not satisfied with yourself. Sometimes it
42:09
Speaker 1: means you're attaching yourself to something that is not ill.
42:14
Speaker 1: You're trying to be that whish you. You're not you're you,
42:17
Speaker 1: You're not somebody else. And if you get to be
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Speaker 1: without somebody else, without belong with that president or with
42:26
Speaker 1: that pope, all the greatest of being, the thing that
42:31
Speaker 1: can give you happiness and greatness and satisfaction is that
42:37
Speaker 1: you learn. You can learn from them to occupy your
42:41
Speaker 1: mind too, to be that creative and innovative, and your
42:45
Speaker 1: own ways too, because happiness and satisfaction comes from what
42:53
Speaker 1: you do. Happiness comes from your creativity, your imagination, you
43:05
Speaker 1: testing yourself. Your happiness come from you cultivating yourself, growing
43:12
Speaker 1: yourself planted that tree and seeing the tree grow. That
43:16
Speaker 1: tree is here. That struggle to do your homework, the
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Speaker 1: struggle to find for a business, then that struggle to
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Speaker 1: perfect what you do, that struggle to overcome being canceled
43:38
Speaker 1: or being underestimated, the struggle of overcoming that iniquities, people judging
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Speaker 1: you because of the way you look, the struggle of
43:57
Speaker 1: overcoming being dismissed, being relegated to the background, being under mind,
44:05
Speaker 1: being marginalized, being marked at, being insulted, that struggle of
44:15
Speaker 1: not knowing what to eat, how to pay your rent,
44:20
Speaker 1: of not knowing what life will brain of waking up
44:26
Speaker 1: hoping and believing that life can be better. That's the
44:31
Speaker 1: power that you have, that happiness, that life can be
44:37
Speaker 1: better for you, and you can make it in life
44:41
Speaker 1: if you believe in yourself a little more a thing
44:46
Speaker 1: to make you know that you can be that thing.
44:52
Speaker 1: Don't find yourself in a mansion, in a castle where
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Speaker 1: all they do. They leave you home, that beautiful girl
45:04
Speaker 1: or that beautiful woman that you are. They just live
45:08
Speaker 1: your home without walls to talk to. They leave your
45:12
Speaker 1: home with a pet or maybe with the with the
45:15
Speaker 1: help the house help they give, leave you all the
45:19
Speaker 1: luxurys or the materialism that you imagine. They buy the island,
45:24
Speaker 1: that island for you, and that beautiful island with that ocean,
45:28
Speaker 1: with the oasis of places, or you find yourself in
45:33
Speaker 1: that mosaic and that oasis in the desert with all
45:37
Speaker 1: that beauty, or that finest states of life. By the
45:41
Speaker 1: end of the day, you get to discover that you
45:43
Speaker 1: are home alone. You're home by yourself, with your cell
45:48
Speaker 1: phone or with the TV over the house herb You
45:54
Speaker 1: get to ask yourself, are you that island? I on you?
46:00
Speaker 1: That community? You get to find yourself? Are you that
46:03
Speaker 1: confinement and that beauty? You get to see there? Living
46:07
Speaker 1: in the prison of yourself, you are not free on self.
46:11
Speaker 1: You're not free your on mind because all those externalities
46:15
Speaker 1: and those materialities did not come from you. You came
46:19
Speaker 1: from somebody else. Your fears set in. It can be
46:24
Speaker 1: taken away. If you divorce this person, that wealth might
46:29
Speaker 1: be taken away. If we didn't sign a prenup. You
46:32
Speaker 1: start to get worried. Are you build that person? Now?
46:36
Speaker 1: You can be abused, You can be mistreated. We are
46:39
Speaker 1: scared that if we leave, that fame would become, that
46:44
Speaker 1: wealth will become. So your happiness is by a sensation.
46:51
Speaker 1: Your happiness is not by you. Then that's where you're
46:55
Speaker 1: easy to find boredom and stress and depression and anxiety
47:03
Speaker 1: and fear because you get to see that you cannot
47:08
Speaker 1: be by yourself. It makes you are not independent, It
47:14
Speaker 1: makes you are not afraid because you lack self determination
47:19
Speaker 1: and self reliance. You have developed that shame of negative comparisons.
47:28
Speaker 1: You constantly compare yourself to somebody else. You want to
47:32
Speaker 1: be that which you cannot be. You're a shame of yourself.
47:37
Speaker 1: You have accepted the shame given to you by others.
47:43
Speaker 1: Others have liked you. It makes you are not important
47:48
Speaker 1: because of who you are. You think you will be
47:51
Speaker 1: important by being somebody else. You're seeking validation, seeking to
47:56
Speaker 1: be like. That's how you go on this social media.
48:01
Speaker 1: You beg for friends, you beg to be liked. As
48:04
Speaker 1: I get addicted to the social media and insteals your life,
48:10
Speaker 1: start to get insecurity. It's tart not to li like
48:15
Speaker 1: giving your own self. You take a picture of you
48:20
Speaker 1: in the bureau, you tend not to like what you see.
48:24
Speaker 1: You need to augment your picture. You need to pretend
48:28
Speaker 1: that you're somebody else. You need to find guilt in yourself.
48:33
Speaker 1: You need to change yourself. You need to blessh yourself.
48:38
Speaker 1: You need to augment yourself. You need to augmenting your
48:42
Speaker 1: breast or your butt or something, or your lips. You
48:46
Speaker 1: need to constantly have all these foundations and all these esthetics.
48:52
Speaker 1: You need to spend a lot just to be validated. Virtually,
48:58
Speaker 1: you need to be somebody else, such christ, boredom, stress
49:04
Speaker 1: and depression. And some people sometimes they don't know what
49:07
Speaker 1: to do with their lives. They get to the states.
49:10
Speaker 1: Some people commit suicide. You're killing yourself because arthers do
49:15
Speaker 1: not like you. You destroy thatself, that being the greatness
49:19
Speaker 1: that you are because of others, because you never finding
49:24
Speaker 1: in yourself to love yourself. You know, finding yourself, to
49:28
Speaker 1: like yourself, to accept yourself, to know that you are
49:31
Speaker 1: who you are, your doubt, whish you are. That can
49:34
Speaker 1: only be better to you, to your own activity, to your
49:39
Speaker 1: own creativity, to your own endeavor and sacrifice, to your
49:45
Speaker 1: own positive mindstones. It don't measure it. Don't measure by
49:49
Speaker 1: self by others. You measure yourself to you because only
49:54
Speaker 1: you know your true abilities, true limitations. Only you know
49:58
Speaker 1: what you can do to yourself if you push yourself
50:01
Speaker 1: that a little bit. Now you come to appreciate the motivation,
50:05
Speaker 1: that inspiration. You tend to listen to advice and gain
50:09
Speaker 1: some wisdom and experiences. Gradually you build yourself. You're gonna
50:16
Speaker 1: be there which you are. Your effort would take you
50:20
Speaker 1: to your own foundation. Your effort would take you to
50:26
Speaker 1: your own level. You're not giving a box, you're not
50:33
Speaker 1: giving a line. You make your own box. You make
50:37
Speaker 1: your own line. You know your own limits, you know
50:42
Speaker 1: your own limitations. You know how far you can go,
50:48
Speaker 1: and you have hope. That's why, that's how you find beauty, satisfied, happiness.
50:55
Speaker 1: You're never bored because you are constantly striving. You're constantly
51:00
Speaker 1: trying to be somebody. You're never stressed because you are
51:07
Speaker 1: constantly working and building your way up. You cannot be
51:11
Speaker 1: depressed because you know where you're going. You know your limitations,
51:16
Speaker 1: you know your friends and enemies. You have been there,
51:19
Speaker 1: you have seen it. You know how difficult and challenges
51:23
Speaker 1: it is to make it. And you get to know
51:26
Speaker 1: that you are not alone. You're just a fish in
51:30
Speaker 1: an ocean that's trying to swim in that ocean and
51:33
Speaker 1: navigate the ocean. You get to know about scarcities, You
51:39
Speaker 1: get to know that goal it's not given to you,
51:43
Speaker 1: and the goal is just a mental state. You get
51:46
Speaker 1: to know the wealth is a mental state. We get
51:50
Speaker 1: to know that poverty is a mental state. You get
51:54
Speaker 1: to know that all comes from the mind, that you're
51:58
Speaker 1: poor because of your mind. Think that you're wealthy because
52:02
Speaker 1: of your mind, how you think they are famous or
52:05
Speaker 1: powerful because of your mind or how you think. You
52:08
Speaker 1: get to see that the magic is in your own mind.
52:12
Speaker 1: You get to see that the mind is you, the mind, body,
52:14
Speaker 1: and soul, that you are the thing itself. Therefore you
52:19
Speaker 1: can never be bored. You get to see that you
52:22
Speaker 1: are the wealth in itself. Therefore you can all be stressed.
52:27
Speaker 1: You get to see that you are the happiness itself.
52:30
Speaker 1: Therefore it can be depressed. You get to see that
52:34
Speaker 1: you are the thing itself, so therefore you cannot take
52:37
Speaker 1: it away. Such becomes the thing, that the thing that
52:42
Speaker 1: we seek in life. That we are that thing already,
52:47
Speaker 1: that that thing that we want to be. We are
52:50
Speaker 1: that thing already. We need to work ourself our way
52:54
Speaker 1: to it. You walk and work your way to life.
53:00
Speaker 1: H you work and walk your way to life. Don't
53:05
Speaker 1: let it be given to you, give it to yourself,
53:09
Speaker 1: and such such becomes the thing. They always find happiness.
53:14
Speaker 1: When you are bored and stress with depressed, always ask yourself,
53:19
Speaker 1: what is it that you're not doing? That's a happiness?
53:25
Speaker 1: Depend on somebody else? Shouldn't it depend on you? Are
53:31
Speaker 1: you wealthy? Because of somebody else. Shouldn't you be worthy
53:35
Speaker 1: because of yourself? Are you great because of somebody else?
53:42
Speaker 1: So shouldn't you be great because of yourself? Because when
53:47
Speaker 1: you are that important because of yourself, you become humble,
53:53
Speaker 1: not arrogant. You have some apathy and sampathy, not nassism
54:01
Speaker 1: and apperty. You start to appreciate life differently, to enlighten me,
54:10
Speaker 1: to enlighten me and illumination to good will and positive contribution.
54:19
Speaker 1: You get to see that it's not all about here,
54:22
Speaker 1: It's about everybody else. It's a way of thinking. You
54:30
Speaker 1: cannot find happiness in boredom, stress, and depression. You can
54:43
Speaker 1: be given everything, or you soon get bored if it
54:49
Speaker 1: didn't make those things yourself, or if you didn't learn
54:54
Speaker 1: from those things and learn how to build your own self.
54:58
Speaker 1: Your happiness come from your building self. Think about it.
55:05
Speaker 1: I just buy a home for you, and together we
55:10
Speaker 1: build a home for you. In the course of building,
55:15
Speaker 1: you create memories. Happiness is accumulation of positive memories that
55:22
Speaker 1: came from you yourself. The organic happiness to the accumulation
55:28
Speaker 1: of those positive memories. It means at every time in
55:32
Speaker 1: your life you can tap back into that memories and
55:36
Speaker 1: find happiness. If it's given to you, there is no
55:41
Speaker 1: accumulative memories. That's why it's good to make it yourself
55:47
Speaker 1: or appreciate it if it's given to you, to still
55:50
Speaker 1: make it yourself. It means if I give you a
55:53
Speaker 1: million dollars, you can make that million dollars to become
55:57
Speaker 1: two million dollars or three billion dollars. Your happiness will
56:01
Speaker 1: don't be from the one million dollar gift to you.
56:05
Speaker 1: You are appreciative of that one million dollars. Your happiness
56:08
Speaker 1: is how you build that one million dollars into two
56:11
Speaker 1: million dollars into twenty million dollars. So your happiness is
56:17
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