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YOU tell us now, WHY IS IT GREAT TO BE SINGLE? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: We got Becky G tickets online. We're getting into why
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  Speaker 1: is it great to be single? We got into it
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  Speaker 1: about an hour ago, but we're really going to get
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  Speaker 1: into it now. Something happened with my wife. I got
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  Speaker 1: to tell you first, let's say hi to Cassie.
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  Speaker 2: Cassie, what's up? You're on the air.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, so I have kind of a deep question for
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  Speaker 3: you all. I'm wondering, so this is related John Jay
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  Speaker 3: to the prediction of when you are going to die.
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  Speaker 3: And it's based on when I was going to die.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, A psychic said that I was going to
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  Speaker 1: die before my birthday, 2026, and I've been obsessed with
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  Speaker 1: that for a long time, and now I made it.
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  Speaker 2: Go ahead.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly. So if you could know when you were going
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  Speaker 3: to die, would you want to know?
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  Speaker 1: I would, which is why I do full-body MRIs. I'm
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  Speaker 1: a big fan of the full-body MRI, and right now
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  Speaker 1: you can go to SimonMed.com. And go get one. And
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  Speaker 1: you don't need to have a prescription. And I was
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  Speaker 1: interviewing on the highly successful John J. Van Ness podcast yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: Dr. Simon, who, by the way, I didn't know was
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  Speaker 2: a real person.
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  Speaker 4: He's the Simon of Simon Med?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that's fun. I feel like Simon Med's been around
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  Speaker 1: since like, you know, it's just part of like McDonald's.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 2: But he's a guy. And so I interviewed him yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: He's a guy. And get this. His dad is 105
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  Speaker 2: years old. Oh, my goodness.
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  Speaker 5: What a life.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 6: I know.
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  Speaker 1: So this guy knows his stuff. But anyway, I would
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  Speaker 1: want to know when I was going to die. What
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  Speaker 1: about you, Kyle?
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  Speaker 7: I don't think so. I think I'm going to leave
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  Speaker 7: that a mystery because it's the day you die, no
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  Speaker 7: matter what.
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  Speaker 5: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Like you can't change.
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  Speaker 8: Right.
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  Speaker 7: It's not like you can, you can go do all
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  Speaker 7: the things you're doing John Jay for longevity to like
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  Speaker 7: make it longer. It's like, that's the day you die.
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  Speaker 1: And you know, like that movie, no matter what you do,
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  Speaker 1: it's good.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Final destination.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: No, I think I don't. What about you Peyton?
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  Speaker 8: I think I would. So then I can decide how
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  Speaker 8: I want to live my life. Do I want to
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  Speaker 8: spend all my money and go on vacation now?
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  Speaker 4: Or do I want to wait.
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  Speaker 2: In 10 years?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, there is a bonus. If you think like,
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  Speaker 4: let's say you're going to get hit by a bus. Well,
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  Speaker 4: then I wouldn't skip the barbecue and eat vegetables that day.
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  Speaker 4: I would get the barbecue.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 4: So for that reason, yes.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess so. What about you, Cassie?
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  Speaker 3: I'm surprised. I want to know. Yeah. Like Kyle with
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  Speaker 3: her death book, like you can prepare, you could. you know,
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  Speaker 3: like have a plan.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And the same with Peyton.
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  Speaker 6: Like, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Do I want to work another like 20 years or
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  Speaker 3: should I just go?
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  Speaker 4: I got enough money to party for like a solid
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  Speaker 4: month right now.
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  Speaker 6: That's pretty good.
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  Speaker 3: I know it's a deep one.
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  Speaker 2: It's a deep one this morning. Thank you, Cassie. Thanks
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  Speaker 2: for listening.
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  Speaker 8: All right.
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  Speaker 1: So why is it great to be single? We got
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  Speaker 1: Becky G tickets on the line, 877-937-1047. We got into
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  Speaker 1: it about an hour ago. We got into it a
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  Speaker 1: little bit in the second date update.
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  Speaker 2: Laura, why is it great to be single?
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  Speaker 9: Because I get to decorate however I want, and I
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  Speaker 9: don't have to worry about if he's going to like.
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  Speaker 2: It or not.
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  Speaker 10: That's a good point.
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  Speaker 4: The thing is, though, when you're in a relationship, most
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  Speaker 4: guys don't care anyway. You could probably still do whatever
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  Speaker 4: you wanted.
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  Speaker 8: But some guys do.
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  Speaker 7: Some guys do, and it's like, if you want to
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  Speaker 7: put pink ruffles everywhere, they.
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  Speaker 10: May not be. Maybe you're a better man.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Well, maybe I just trust... Mine wouldn't let.
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  Speaker 10: Me do anything.
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  Speaker 4: Really? No.
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  Speaker 11: I couldn't do anything.
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  Speaker 2: It was too girly, too.
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  Speaker 6: I needed to.
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  Speaker 12: Make more things more masculine and boring colors and.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why that's your action.
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  Speaker 6: Life's too short.
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  Speaker 7: I just wouldn't care.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think I would either.
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  Speaker 3: One of the million reasons.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care how my wife would decorate the house.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like the house is hers. She can make
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  Speaker 1: it as foo-foo or girly as she wants. I need
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  Speaker 1: a good pillow and a good couch blanket for when
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  Speaker 1: I'm there.
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  Speaker 2: Well, Ann Rich, your.
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  Speaker 8: Wife is just like, I mean, interior design is one
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  Speaker 8: of her things. And John Jay, your wife, she just
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  Speaker 8: does everything. So it's like for you two, I feel
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  Speaker 8: like you're kind of out of the equation right here.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, we don't get to participate?
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  Speaker 6: No.
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  Speaker 8: No, you don't get opinions if you're that.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly, yes.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Laura, hold on, hold on.
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  Speaker 2: You're in the running.
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  Speaker 1: We got Becky G tickets online. We want to know
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  Speaker 1: why it's great to be single. Precious, good morning.
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  Speaker 12: Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Are you single?
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  Speaker 12: I am, and I'm loving it.
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  Speaker 2: How long have you been single?
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  Speaker 12: It's been about two years now.
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  Speaker 2: And why is it great to be single?
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  Speaker 12: Because honestly, as a single mom, I really enjoy being
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  Speaker 12: single because I get to dedicate my time and attention
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  Speaker 12: to my kids. And we enjoy each other so much
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  Speaker 12: more than when there's like a grumpy man around.
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  Speaker 7: We're like men.
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  Speaker 12: Just want all the attention. And there's been so many
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  Speaker 12: times where guys I'm dating will like shoo my kids away.
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  Speaker 12: I'm like, no, it's really, my babies want to snuggle
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  Speaker 12: with me. Then you get out of the bed.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, you're talking about in bed. I get that. They're
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  Speaker 4: shooing away when they're in bed with you.
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  Speaker 2: I assume. Yeah. Okay.
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  Speaker 10: Well, or like if the kids want to come into
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  Speaker 10: the room or snuggle with me on the couch or like,
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  Speaker 10: even when we go on like trips and stuff, they're like,
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  Speaker 10: they just want all of my attention. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 10: I want to spend time with my kids.
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  Speaker 6: These years go by so fast.
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  Speaker 4: That's truth.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, so I just feel like they get grumpy.
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  Speaker 12: It's like having another child around, and then their bad
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  Speaker 12: attitude ruins everything.
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  Speaker 10: My kids like me single, too.
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  Speaker 8: I'm sure they do.
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  Speaker 2: All right, precious. Hold on a line. That's good. You're
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  Speaker 2: in the running for Becky G tickets.
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  Speaker 4: Making some good cases here.
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  Speaker 2: Hello. Good morning, John Jane Rich. Hello? Who's this? Hello?
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  Speaker 2: I hear you. All right.
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  Speaker 1: So my wife says to me, this is why I'm
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  Speaker 1: bringing it up again, because, well, here's what she, so
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  Speaker 1: she's in this Mahjong group. Mahjong's some game she plays,
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  Speaker 1: and she's really become obsessed with it in the last
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  Speaker 1: couple months. And she takes these Mahjong classes. And one
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  Speaker 1: of the girls in Mahjong was talking about why it's
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  Speaker 1: so great to be single. And this is the number
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  Speaker 1: one reason she said she loves being single, okay? No
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  Speaker 1: whiskers in the sink. And my wife said this to
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  Speaker 1: me while we were in a hotel when there were
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  Speaker 1: whiskers all over.
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  Speaker 2: I was shaving.
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  Speaker 1: The hotel had one of those mirrors that zooms in
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  Speaker 1: on your face. And I was like, oh my God,
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  Speaker 1: do I not know how to shave? I was like
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  Speaker 1: chunks everywhere and I was looking at my pimples.
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  Speaker 2: So I started cleaning up. I was shaving my face.
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  Speaker 1: And it was amazing. I was like, why don't we
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  Speaker 1: have one of these? Apparently, we do have one of
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  Speaker 1: these at my house. So I was shaving it.
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  Speaker 2: And it was in the hotel.
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  Speaker 1: There were two sinks. But this mirror was over her sink.
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  Speaker 1: And there was my whiskers all over. And that's when
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  Speaker 1: she brought it up. So she got all pissed off.
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  Speaker 1: So I thought, she'd like to be single.
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  Speaker 2: No whiskers in the sink. No whiskers in the sink, man.
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  Speaker 2: So why is it great to be single? Lily, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: Hi.
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  Speaker 5: How are you guys?
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  Speaker 4: Good.
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  Speaker 2: How are you?
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  Speaker 7: It's been.
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  Speaker 6: Decades, I think, since I talked to you guys.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, yes.
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  Speaker 2: So newly divorced, about two years now.
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  Speaker 10: Best thing about being single is no.
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  Speaker 8: Longer having to clean the toilet after he goes and
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  Speaker 8: backpacking off of the whiskers, the hocked loogies.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, God.
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  Speaker 7: That's mean.
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  Speaker 9: Hated it.
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  Speaker 12: Hated it with a passion. I would scream at the
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  Speaker 12: top of my lungs, probably why we're divorced now.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, sounds like it.
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  Speaker 2: But, yeah.
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  Speaker 11: Disgusting.
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  Speaker 9: Great to be single.
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  Speaker 2: Disgusting. Okay, Lily, hold on, hold on.
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  Speaker 4: Defiantly single.
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  Speaker 2: Hello. Good morning, John Jane Rich. Hello. Hi.
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  Speaker 6: I was hoping that I could speak on why it's
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  Speaker 6: better to be single.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, what's your name?
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  Speaker 6: My name's Elizabeth.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, Elizabeth. Why is it great to be single?
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  Speaker 6: Why is it great? There are a lot of reasons.
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  Speaker 6: I've been single for about six years now, so I'm
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  Speaker 6: going to say one. I could eat the same thing
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  Speaker 6: on repeat, breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I don't have to
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  Speaker 6: worry about coming home and cooking dinner and cooking something different.
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  Speaker 6: I'm going to say, too, if I want to clean,
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  Speaker 6: I can clean. If I'm tired because I had a
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  Speaker 6: long day at work, then I don't have to worry
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  Speaker 6: about it. I don't need to snuggle if my head
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  Speaker 6: hurts and I'm tired.
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  Speaker 4: I don't want to.
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  Speaker 6: Go out and do... What should we call it?
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  Speaker 10: You know, sometimes we need to go.
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  Speaker 6: Out and be a wifey and be presentable and do whatnot.
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  Speaker 6: I don't have to do that.
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  Speaker 4: She doesn't have to do whatnot.
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  Speaker 2: You can love it if you want. That's pretty good.
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  Speaker 2: That's a pretty good list.
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  Speaker 8: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Six years.
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  Speaker 6: I didn't do that for many, many years. And so
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  Speaker 6: I don't think I'm, you know, I like to stay
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  Speaker 6: at home. I like to have my hair up. And yes,
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  Speaker 6: I do like to look cute and whatnot. But sometimes
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  Speaker 6: like a girl gets tired of that.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. Hold on the line. You're in the running. All right.
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  Speaker 1: 877-937-1047. We can do another round of this. Why is
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  Speaker 1: it great to be single? We got Becky G tickets
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  Speaker 1: on the line. That's more of that next with John
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  Speaker 1: Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 2: More coming up next. Kat, why is it great to
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  Speaker 2: be single?
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  Speaker 6: Good morning.
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  Speaker 9: It's great to be single because I don't share my
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  Speaker 9: dogs and their cuddles.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, selfish.
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  Speaker 9: I give them all to myself.
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  Speaker 1: That's a great reason to be single. Or you get
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  Speaker 1: more dogs. We have lots of dogs in my house.
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  Speaker 1: Lots of cuddles.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks, Kat.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I have two in my house.
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  Speaker 9: One of them is like a mouthy poo, and he
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  Speaker 9: is very cuddly.
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  Speaker 10: And I don't want to share that with anybody.
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  Speaker 2: I know what you mean.
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  Speaker 1: I have this dog, Pablo. He's the greatest freaking dog.
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  Speaker 1: And he guilts me. If I'm walking by him, he
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  Speaker 1: rolls over to be petted. And I'm like, I won't go. Thanks, Kat.
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  Speaker 2: Sarah, why is it great to be single? Sarah.
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  Speaker 5: Sorry, I didn't hear you say my name.
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  Speaker 6: Hi.
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  Speaker 5: I just like to say I think it's funny. Her
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  Speaker 5: name is Kat and she's talking about dogs.
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  Speaker 12: But no, I think it's wonderful to be single.
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  Speaker 5: Because I do not have to excuse myself to go
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  Speaker 5: into another room.
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  Speaker 2: To fart.
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  Speaker 4: That's really that's got more power to it than you
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  Speaker 4: then you would imagine at first i mean it's free
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  Speaker 4: will yeah every room is your.
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  Speaker 5: Room exactly exactly and i don't have to blame it
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  Speaker 5: on the dog either.
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  Speaker 2: Right That's funny.
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  Speaker 1: Have you seen those videos on Instagram where the girl
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  Speaker 1: that comes home all dressed up from a date closes
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  Speaker 1: the door, kicks off her shoes and just rips one?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Sarah, hold on the line. That's a good one. Ricky. Ricky,
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  Speaker 2: why is it great to be single?
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, so this is coming from the perspective of a
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  Speaker 11: happily married woman for like 10 years. But the only
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  Speaker 11: thing that I can remember that was so great when
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  Speaker 11: I was single was that I was an independent woman,
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  Speaker 11: could do anything and everything. I could change the tire.
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  Speaker 11: I didn't rely on anybody. Well, now my husband has
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  Speaker 11: treated me like the princess that I am for so
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  Speaker 11: many years that I don't lift a finger. I can't
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  Speaker 11: do anything for myself. And so I'm like, if I
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  Speaker 11: needed to change a tire, I can't. I'm not going to.
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  Speaker 8: It's not that you can't it's that you won't well.
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  Speaker 11: I i have been so like brainwashed by my loving
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  Speaker 11: husband that i can't there like there's no way.
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  Speaker 4: You forgot you forgot how to be independent yeah i
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  Speaker 4: it's great.
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  Speaker 11: To not be no more independence it's great to not be.
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  Speaker 9: Single yeah exactly but well no because i i'm like
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  Speaker 9: that was great about me i was You know, it
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  Speaker 9: was strong. It was good. But now I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 9: you did this to me. You know, so now I'm like,
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  Speaker 9: if we're fighting, I have to wait instead of just
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  Speaker 9: doing it myself.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Ricky, hold on.
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  Speaker 1: This whole thing started because my wife was talking about
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  Speaker 1: one of her friends in her Mahjong group said it's
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  Speaker 1: great to be single because there's no whiskers in your sink.
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  Speaker 1: And by the way, because my wife loves Mahjong so much,
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  Speaker 1: she has created... A special event at the Love Pup
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  Speaker 1: shelter called Mahjong and Mutts.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, fun.
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  Speaker 2: So people can play. I think she's got like 10
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  Speaker 2: openings left.
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  Speaker 1: So if you go to Love Pup Foundation on Instagram,
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  Speaker 1: you can sign up and you can play Mahjong with
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  Speaker 1: my wife and her friends at the shelter in a
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  Speaker 1: couple weeks or a week.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what's soon.
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  Speaker 8: That is so creative of her. Like she is really...
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  Speaker 8: being unique when it comes to getting these pups out
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  Speaker 8: there and getting adopted and into homes.
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  Speaker 2: It's either called Mutz and Majan or Majan and Mutz.
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  Speaker 4: I love that.
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  Speaker 2: Either way, it's good. I mean, it's a play on words.
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  Speaker 8: It's great.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so who should win the Becky G ticket, you guys?
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  Speaker 7: I really am liking Sarah.
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  Speaker 8: I know, Sarah's was so real.
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  Speaker 4: So relatable.
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  Speaker 2: Sarah, what was yours again? What was yours real quick?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, mine was you do not have to go into
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  Speaker 5: a separate room simply to fart.
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  Speaker 2: Hmm.
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  Speaker 4: You probably got a lot of people thinking about breaking
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  Speaker 4: up with their guy right now just for that reason.
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  Speaker 9: Exactly.
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  Speaker 5: Listen, on a side note, my sister-in-law has told me,
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  Speaker 5: this is what she said, she has never, ever, in
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  Speaker 5: her entire time being with my brother, ever farted in
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  Speaker 5: front of him.
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  Speaker 8: Ever?
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  Speaker 1: Ever.
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  Speaker 2: How's that possible?
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  Speaker 5: I don't know if I believe it, but, like, I mean,
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  Speaker 5: my brother has agreed. He's like, yeah, she's never done
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  Speaker 5: it in front of me. And I'm like, you know,
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  Speaker 5: I mean, good for her, but... Man, that must be
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  Speaker 5: really tough to hold it in that many times.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Sarah, hold on. We're going to set you
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  Speaker 2: up with those Becky G's. Yes, Sarah, for the win.
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  Speaker 8: Awesome.
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  Speaker 10: Thank you.
• 13:18
  Speaker 4: The joys of being a single lady.
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: Hold on the line.