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We’re Still Having A Baby Together! Bunnie XO Explains Unconventional Divorce From Jelly Roll · I Do, Part 2

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Speaker 1: Hey there, everybody, Welcome to Amy and TJ. It is Friday,
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Speaker 1: June nineteenth, and can you imagine getting publicly divorced from
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Speaker 1: someone and then making the announcement, Hey, guys, guess what,
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Speaker 1: we're still having a baby together. Well that is exactly
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Speaker 1: what we heard from Bunny xo as she opened up
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Speaker 1: about her impending divorce from Jelly Roll, and it was shocking.
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Speaker 1: Did you did that stand out to you as wait,
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Speaker 1: woa did I hear that? Right?
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Speaker 2: I'll believe it when I see it. That was a
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Speaker 2: and that maybe where they are right now, who knows
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Speaker 2: what's going to happen and change down the road. But
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Speaker 2: I also give them credit for they have been through
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Speaker 2: an IVF journey if you always use that word. But
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Speaker 2: they they clearly wanted a child and maybe they still do.
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Speaker 2: So this is there was a lot that came out
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Speaker 2: of yes for hour long podcast, and that a couple
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Speaker 2: other things definitely are the headline.
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Speaker 1: There are multiple headlines that could come out of Bunny xo.
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Speaker 1: On her podcast dumb Blonde, she wanted to set the
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Speaker 1: record stress of.
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Speaker 3: The podcast by yes, thank you for making that distinction
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Speaker 3: because obviously, please, I'm not calling her that as a
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Speaker 3: fellow blonde, I understand the stereotype that we all suffered.
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Speaker 1: No, I'm kidding, but no, this wascast she did.
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Speaker 4: She chose that. I get that, and look, she was
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Speaker 4: very honest.
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Speaker 1: I appreciated her transparency because we found out the hard way,
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Speaker 1: and she didn't let it get to this that when
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Speaker 1: you don't talk about it, when you don't speak about
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Speaker 1: what's going on, people will fill in the blanks and
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Speaker 1: they will make stuff up.
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Speaker 4: They will create a complete false narrative.
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Speaker 1: And that was beginning to happen because there were rumors
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Speaker 1: of Jelly Roll and infidelity and cheating, and she I
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Speaker 1: do think it was cool. She stepped up and she
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Speaker 1: spoke out to tamp all that down. That was one
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Speaker 1: of her big points of getting on this podcast was
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Speaker 1: to say nobody cheated on anybody.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and she even said at the top, we didn't
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Speaker 2: plan on being back at work so quickly, but we
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Speaker 2: had to rush back in here to do another podcast
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Speaker 2: ahead of schedule because she wanted to address.
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Speaker 5: A bunch of stuff.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I do think that was cool. So yes,
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Speaker 1: she did acknowledge that she and Jelly Roll are moving
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Speaker 1: forward with their divorce, but she gave, and she gave
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Speaker 1: a lot of details, and I thought, I'm curious we
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Speaker 1: haven't discussed what we thought about her hour long podcast,
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Speaker 1: But I did think that it did show that the
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Speaker 1: two of them still have mutual respect and love and
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Speaker 1: a solid friendship. And that's pretty impressive given the fact
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Speaker 1: that they are literally in the throes of divorce negotiations
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Speaker 1: right now.
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Speaker 2: Which she said are going to be done very soon.
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Speaker 2: I guess this is another big headline.
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Speaker 5: Rose.
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Speaker 2: We just found out about the divorce this week. She
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Speaker 2: said they've been going through this for a month and
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Speaker 2: nobody else knew about this. She's lost fifteen pounds. People
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Speaker 2: are having to come over to her house and making
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Speaker 2: sure she eats. She has been struggling for weeks or months, why,
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Speaker 2: she explains ropes, But we're just finding out about it.
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Speaker 2: So she sounds like she's kind of in a better place.
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Speaker 1: She sounded like she was in a much better place,
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Speaker 1: especially as she described what it's been like for her
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Speaker 1: for the past month or so. Because I believe the
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Speaker 1: date of separation that was given in the court papers
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Speaker 1: was May ninth, Mother's Day. We'll get into that. She
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Speaker 1: described basically what happened on Mother's Day. There was a
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Speaker 1: Mother's Day fight which led to their separation, which ultimately
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Speaker 1: ended in their divorce.
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Speaker 4: Now, but he filed for divorce.
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Speaker 1: A few weeks after that, so yeah, it's been a
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Speaker 1: couple weeks. And she said that she believes their divorce
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Speaker 1: terms will be completely agreed to and buttoned up in
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Speaker 1: two or three weeks.
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Speaker 2: She called it the uh, one of the best divorces
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Speaker 2: you'll ever see, this most amicable thing you will ever see.
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Speaker 2: And she didn't even if she's said robes, she wasn't angry.
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Speaker 1: Yes, And you know what that is so interesting because
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Speaker 1: she made it very clear she said this divorce was
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Speaker 1: not mutual, even though she did tell him out of
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Speaker 1: anger to go ahead and file the papers, but she
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Speaker 1: said it was not mutual.
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Speaker 4: She did not want this.
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Speaker 1: She talked about how she was the chaser and he
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Speaker 1: was the runner, how she believes she loved him a
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Speaker 1: little more than he loved her. But it wasn't mean
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Speaker 1: spirited in how she was saying, and it didn't feel
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Speaker 1: like she was throwing him under the bus in any way.
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Speaker 1: It felt like she was just explaining the basically the
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Speaker 1: dynamic in their relationship that ultimately I guess paved the
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Speaker 1: way for its end, at least the romantic side of it.
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Speaker 2: She stopped chasing. She categorized the two of them as
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Speaker 2: you were just talking about there. He was always the
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Speaker 2: runner and now was the chaser. And she said she
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Speaker 2: stopped chasing. She said, that is the thing that has happened.
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Speaker 2: And again you're about to get into heroes to fight
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Speaker 2: and how it all went down that moment. I heard
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Speaker 2: some things she described in that fight that I concern
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Speaker 2: relate to even in fights with you. But then as
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Speaker 2: she started explaining that this was a wake up call
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Speaker 2: that maybe got them to the place they should have
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Speaker 2: been a year ago.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, But she also said that she she said
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Speaker 1: that she wanted to go to therapy, that she thought
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Speaker 1: their relationship deserved I believe was maybe the word she used, deserved,
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Speaker 1: an opportunity for some outside help, some outside counsel, maybe
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Speaker 1: a way back to each other, maybe some different language.
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Speaker 1: She talked about how they were never good at fighting,
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Speaker 1: that they basically just ended up avoiding fights and then
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Speaker 1: if there was one, it was an explosion and that's how.
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Speaker 4: They described it.
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Speaker 1: And look, you'll hear from therapists all the time, or
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Speaker 1: marriage counselors who'll say that is the number one challenge
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Speaker 1: for folks who are in a relationship is to learn
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Speaker 1: how to fight. And that is something that none of
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Speaker 1: us usually do well initially, and with any relationship, it's
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Speaker 1: a bit of a dance, and it can end up
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Speaker 1: getting ugly. It can turn into a boxing match if
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Speaker 1: you haven't learned what each other's triggers are and what
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Speaker 1: not to say and how to say it. Maybe even
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Speaker 1: more importantly, but it still is incredible to hear her
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Speaker 1: talk about all of this and then say that they
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Speaker 1: are still best friends and she said, I will always
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Speaker 1: ride with that man, so much so that she is
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Speaker 1: still planning to have a family with that man.
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Speaker 5: Again, this is something they've talked about. Robe she.
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Speaker 2: Actually, you know what, that's a headline. I didn't know
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Speaker 2: about this. Maybe I haven't read about them enough. But
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Speaker 2: through IVF they've lost was it.
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Speaker 4: Three to four eggs, four embryos?
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Speaker 5: Ro embrio? Excuse me?
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Speaker 4: That's devastating, But that's commitment.
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Speaker 2: This is these are two people who were desperate and
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Speaker 2: we're trying to have a child together. Did that go away?
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Speaker 2: Does she still want it with him? They found partners
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Speaker 2: that they thought would be good parents and all these things.
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Speaker 2: None of that sounds mean spirited now, but it is
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Speaker 2: a jaw dropping that you end right, People end relationships
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Speaker 2: and then you fight over the kids. Who gets the kids?
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Speaker 2: People getting divorce and deciding we want to create a kid.
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Speaker 1: I've never heard of that before in my life. I
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Speaker 1: think this might be the first. And for me that
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Speaker 1: was the biggest headline because I was just trying to
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Speaker 1: imagine how that works. And it might seem amicable now,
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Speaker 1: and I do. Well can get into what she said
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Speaker 1: about jelly Roll dating and all of this stuff, but
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Speaker 1: it all sounds fine now. But what happens when Bunny
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Speaker 1: XO finds her guy? What happens when jelly Roll finds
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Speaker 1: his gal. I hope they like who the other person picked,
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Speaker 1: because that's when I think the true test might take place.
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Speaker 1: It's easy, I think, maybe to say all those things
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Speaker 1: in a vacuum where you haven't been challenged, where jealousy
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Speaker 1: hasn't come into play, where you don't feel anger or
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Speaker 1: frustration or regret. Like all of those things are a
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Speaker 1: part of divorce. It's just a part of the healing process.
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Speaker 1: So I don't know, it's just it's fascinating and frankly,
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Speaker 1: I'm going to use the word shocking. It was shocking
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Speaker 1: to me that she talked about how they are still
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Speaker 1: continuing to pursue their IVF journey.
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Speaker 2: Maybe their minds will change. Maybe, But again, Robes, this
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Speaker 2: is something maybe they now that they've calmed down, it's
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Speaker 2: been going on for a month. Maybe this is a
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Speaker 2: decision they made after they sloped down. I don't know
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Speaker 2: how this is, but good for them and good on them,
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Speaker 2: and I again rodes every time I even love Island.
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Speaker 2: I say their relationship lessons to learn here is one.
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Speaker 2: I don't know, Robes. They're unconventional from the beginning.
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Speaker 4: Yes, you learned a lot about that.
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Speaker 5: I didn't know some of this stuff. Robes.
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Speaker 2: That is an unconventional relationship and friendship and frankly, a
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Speaker 2: respect that I don't think most of us could be
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Speaker 2: capable of.
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Speaker 1: No, and she she he, And we're going to get
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Speaker 1: into because he spoke on this to last night, and
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Speaker 1: he's spoken about Bunny x so plenty of times.
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Speaker 4: But they have both said publicly.
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Speaker 1: She reiterated it on this podcast that they literally and
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Speaker 1: figuratively saved each other's lives, but she described she is
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Speaker 1: or was, excuse me, a high end escort in Vegas
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Speaker 1: that is legal there. And she talks about having clients
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Speaker 1: while he was trying to get attention and pursue his
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Speaker 1: love of music. She said, sometimes he would be performing
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Speaker 1: with twenty people at the bar and that was it.
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Speaker 1: And she was out meeting clients, having sex with other
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Speaker 1: men to pay the bills, and that was they were
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Speaker 1: in a romantic relationship, they were married, and she was
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Speaker 1: having sex with other men to pay the bills. So, yes,
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Speaker 1: this is an unconventional relationship.
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Speaker 2: I mean, that's I look at that and just don't
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Speaker 2: know if I could do something like that.
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Speaker 4: I know you couldn't and I know I couldn't.
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Speaker 5: But I here's why I stopped it.
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Speaker 2: There is also when you there's a bunch of stuff
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Speaker 2: I didn't want to do until I end up in
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Speaker 2: a relationship with you. It was a bunch of stuff
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Speaker 2: you didn't think you were capable of or wanted to
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Speaker 2: do in a relationship until you find the person that
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Speaker 2: is true. I wonder maybe he would have said, prior
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Speaker 2: to this, there is no way in hell I would
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Speaker 2: ever be able to but robes that something about that
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Speaker 2: someone might listen to it to hear and go, oh,
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Speaker 2: I can't believe that, or it wasn't really real, it
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Speaker 2: was some bullet, or make a judgment of them. I'm
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Speaker 2: making a declaration that I would love to hear more
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Speaker 2: about not the situation, Robes, but about the love and
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Speaker 2: the friendship and how you overcome and get past something
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Speaker 2: like that. Robes that think to have the knowledge, Okay, honey,
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Speaker 2: have a good night at work, I'll see you when
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Speaker 2: you get back. You're sending your wife out to have
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Speaker 2: sex with another man. That money is gonna come back
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Speaker 2: and help us keep the lights on. It's gonna help
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Speaker 2: me in my career, and we're gonna make it later, baby, Robes.
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Speaker 2: There's something I'm missing about the relationship that I think
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Speaker 2: is a positive and not a negative. I'm missing something
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Speaker 2: about the dynamic and the friendship and the love that
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Speaker 2: I think. I don't know I'm crazy, but I find
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Speaker 2: something unique and beautiful to be able to overcome that,
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Speaker 2: and that beauty continues when you're telling me now, I
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Speaker 2: don't want to be with you, but I want to
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Speaker 2: be a parent with you.
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Speaker 5: Who the hell says that?
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Speaker 1: Right? And she literally said her quote was we are
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Speaker 1: going to co parent together. Oh, Jay is my best friend. Like,
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Speaker 1: this isn't what you guys think it is. Nobody cheated
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Speaker 1: on the other person. It literally just was we served
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Speaker 1: our purpose for each other.
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Speaker 4: I thought that was an interesting phrase.
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Speaker 2: That is a phrase that we are going to do
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Speaker 2: a full episode on later because of our parts. As
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Speaker 2: much as I am a fan of the love and
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Speaker 2: the friendship, there's a part of me that was devastated
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Speaker 2: to hear that line.
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Speaker 1: I agree that we can. Yes, let's save that for
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Speaker 1: another episode, but just let that marinate. Think about that phrase,
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Speaker 1: and we will, yes, look for that over the weekend
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Speaker 1: because we have I actually think we were talking.
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Speaker 4: There was so much in this podcast. There are probably
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Speaker 4: ten episodes relationship episodes we could do based on what
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Speaker 4: she said about their divorce. I thought it was interesting
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Speaker 4: too when she talked about this Mother's Day fight and
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Speaker 4: she said, you know, look, I was angry and I said,
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Speaker 4: well file the effing divorce papers, and she said he was.
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Speaker 4: She packed her bags.
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Speaker 1: They didn't speak for weeks, and she said he was
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Speaker 1: so mad and we were so emotional that he ended
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Speaker 1: up doing exactly what I told him to do and
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Speaker 1: filed the divorce papers, and that's when she said it
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Speaker 1: wasn't mutual.
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Speaker 5: That'll be our next episode this weekend. That other thing there.
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Speaker 2: How you fight, how you fight, don't threaten to walk out,
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Speaker 2: don't threaten you don't ever throw the D word out there.
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Speaker 2: They always say, bro, that's fighting ugly. Ugly, and it's dirty,
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Speaker 2: and it's emotional. It's angry. She said something she didn't
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Speaker 2: want to say, And we do that all the time
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Speaker 2: and fights.
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Speaker 5: Anybody who's fought you.
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Speaker 1: Go absolutely so someone calls you on your bluff and
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Speaker 1: it's he did. And now she's saying that it took
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Speaker 1: her this month and a half to come to terms
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Speaker 1: with the fact that this is that ending this marriage
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Speaker 1: on the best possible terms, she said was the right
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Speaker 1: way forward, and she's starting to get her sparkle back,
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Speaker 1: just now starting to get her sparkle back.
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Speaker 4: But she said, look, they were both on hormones.
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Speaker 1: I thought that was interesting because we know about women
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Speaker 1: being on hormones trying to produce eggs for IVF, but
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Speaker 1: he actually had to get on hormones as well, and
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Speaker 1: she said that made him behave differently as well.
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Speaker 2: I don't know if they put that out there but
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Speaker 2: she was on the podcast. Yeah low sperm count, she.
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Speaker 4: Did, and you said it.
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Speaker 1: I was like, but she said it, she said it,
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Speaker 1: and she said I think she said, Jay's going to
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Speaker 1: kill me for this, but then she went ahead and
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Speaker 1: said it, and she said, I didn't realize this that
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Speaker 1: they had been on this fertility journey since October of
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Speaker 1: twenty nineteen. That's seven well almost seven years of trying
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Speaker 1: to have a baby and having just devastation after devastation
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Speaker 1: with not having it ever actually come to fruition.
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Speaker 2: Those are two peoples in twenty nineteen nineteen. Bro, Those
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Speaker 2: are two people who have for a long time wanted
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Speaker 2: to see what a little jelly and bunny look like. Yeah, right,
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Speaker 2: and that gets in you. You and I have had
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Speaker 2: these conversations and they have been difficult, but you get
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Speaker 2: to a point and we've had them. Wow, we wish
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Speaker 2: we could. We wish we could at this point have
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Speaker 2: a child together. We're in a good place, or we
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Speaker 2: got we can provide for a child. We're in a
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Speaker 2: good place with our health. We in a good place
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Speaker 2: with our relationship. We're the best mentally and physically healthy
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Speaker 2: we've ever been in our adult lives. We are ready
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Speaker 2: to produce the best kid ever and we can't.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm fifty three and a breast cancer survivor. That's
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Speaker 1: ain't gonna happen.
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Speaker 2: But I'm saying that I can get that's things it
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Speaker 2: does to where they were set for a long time.
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Speaker 5: Man, I want this baby with this lady. I wanted
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Speaker 5: with this guy.
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Speaker 2: Maybe I try to understand a little, but I want
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Speaker 2: a divorce, but I want us to have kids and I.
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Speaker 1: Want us to be best friends till the end. Look,
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Speaker 1: there is something beautiful and something curious about it all.
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Speaker 1: So look, as we mentioned, we're gonna have a lot
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Speaker 1: more to say about this in some coming episodes, but
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Speaker 1: when we come back on this episode, we're gonna tell
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Speaker 1: you what Jelly Roll had to say on stage this
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Speaker 1: happened last night about the divorce, and he told everyone
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Speaker 1: in the audience break out your camera phones now because
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Speaker 1: this is the only time I'm going to speak about this.
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Speaker 1: Welcome back everyone to this episode of Amy and TJ,
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Speaker 1: where Wow, we are going through Bunny Xo's latest podcast
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Speaker 1: where she opened up about her divorce with Jelly Roll,
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Speaker 1: how it happened, why it happened, and what comes next
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Speaker 1: and that includes having a baby. So what does Jelly
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Speaker 1: Roll have to say about all of this, Well, he
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Speaker 1: was on stage and Sarahtoga Springs New York last night
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Speaker 1: on tour, and I guess, I don't know.
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Speaker 4: Does he have a song about liars that I don't
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Speaker 4: know about? Are lying?
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Speaker 1: You must have had some song that had that as
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Speaker 1: a theme, because he comes out on the.
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Speaker 5: Baby I'm a liar.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was like, wait, what am I missing?
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Speaker 1: Yes, I figured you would know it I'm a liar,
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Speaker 1: So he obviously must have just sung that song. And
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Speaker 1: he says, I wasn't going to talk about this tonight,
16:29
Speaker 1: but while we're talking about liars, the internet is a
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Speaker 1: liar too. This is the only time and the only
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Speaker 1: city I'm going to speak about this, So break your
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Speaker 1: camera phones out now. Me and my wife are best friends.
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Speaker 1: We will always be best friends. We just got off
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Speaker 1: the phone earlier today. Nobody cheated on Nobody. She just
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Speaker 1: did a whole podcast about it. You can go watch it.
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Speaker 1: Every word of it is the truth that will be
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Speaker 1: my best friend forever. This is the only time I
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Speaker 1: will ever speak about it.
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Speaker 4: Bunny.
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Speaker 1: I love you, baby, Thank you for those ten years
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Speaker 1: they were incredible. Thank you for the next ten years
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Speaker 1: of friendship and twenty beyond that. With that being said,
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Speaker 1: cheers everybody. He said, my wife. She kept saying my husband.
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Speaker 1: Later she said she was trying to practice not saying husband.
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Speaker 2: From the time, I haven't heard her. She kept calling
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Speaker 2: them jay Jay Jay, Now my husband. She went back
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Speaker 2: and forth a little. But yeah, she says, she's trying
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Speaker 2: to get out of that habit, that routine. Look, I
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Speaker 2: give him credit, and I actually really appreciate how he
17:26
Speaker 2: did that. Everybody, gets your cameras out now, don't want
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Speaker 2: anybody to miss this. Yeah, get prepped. I thought that
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Speaker 2: was pretty I have a statement to make. Get your recorders. Ah,
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Speaker 2: that was well done. Bro's she's, I think, well, I
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Speaker 2: can't remember what the timing was. But at some point
17:41
Speaker 2: during the podcast, she pulls out her phone because he
17:43
Speaker 2: had just sent her a voice memo, and she plays
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Speaker 2: it and he opens up and the voice memo but
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Speaker 2: that he doesn't know is going to be aired, calls
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Speaker 2: a mama bear.
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Speaker 5: Right, these don't sound like two people that hate each other.
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Speaker 2: That obviously they fight and nasty fights, but these don't
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Speaker 2: sound like two people who got a bitter sweetheart, could
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Speaker 2: you form.
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Speaker 5: The lips from anybody you broke up with? So yeah,
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Speaker 5: at Papa bear Man, my love.
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Speaker 1: Yes, I think everyone listening knows that you and I
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Speaker 1: have both gone through two divorces, and yes, the idea
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Speaker 1: of giving a pet name to an ex husband that
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Speaker 1: you are in the midst of divorcing after a pretty
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Speaker 1: horrific fight, probably at the fight to probably beat all
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Speaker 1: fights and call that person by their pet name. Nah,
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Speaker 1: that is not even in my realm of possibilities.
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Speaker 4: So I think it's beautiful.
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Speaker 2: Some might tell you what you think about the idea
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Speaker 2: that this is just celebrity pr and they're putting on.
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Speaker 4: It didn't seem like that to me, and they have
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Speaker 4: never seen like those people. No, I don't. I didn't
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Speaker 4: seem or feel like that at all. I do think
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Speaker 4: that maybe.
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Speaker 1: Look, I think what I have learned, and I believe
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Speaker 1: you have to and anyone who's had multiple relationships and
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Speaker 1: certainly divorces, you can understand that every relationship you're in
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Speaker 1: is so different than the other. And we don't know
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Speaker 1: the dynamics, We don't know what their relationship is based on.
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Speaker 1: Is it based in friendship, is it based on respect?
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Speaker 1: Is it less about the sex and more about the connection.
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Speaker 1: There could be a lot of different There are a
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Speaker 1: lot of different types of relationships, and I don't want
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Speaker 1: to place any different value and just because maybe they're
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Speaker 1: not hot for each other in a way that would
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Speaker 1: make them incapable of allowing or seeing someone else dating someone.
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Speaker 1: She mentioned he's already dating other people, and she was
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Speaker 1: actually putting out a call out, hey, slide into his DM.
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Speaker 5: I thought that was too much.
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Speaker 2: That's what I wanted, playing to back off a little bit,
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Speaker 2: she said. She made comments about him sticking it in
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Speaker 2: of the she was a little I think again, her
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Speaker 2: podcast a little raunchy, so that's not a surprise, but
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Speaker 2: going out of her way to say take your shot
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Speaker 2: at this guy, and that he's already dating and it
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Speaker 2: was a little well, it's.
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Speaker 1: Strange to have in one breath a month ago saying
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Speaker 1: you didn't want the divorce, that it wasn't mutual, and
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Speaker 1: then a month later being able to say, hey, ladies,
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Speaker 1: your guy is waiting for you. Understand how mental you
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Speaker 1: get from that place to the place she's in right
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Speaker 1: now in a period of a few weeks. But apparently
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Speaker 1: she has kay she could have been asking something, or
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Speaker 1: she could just be her personality.
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Speaker 2: But I thought it was a little weird. It's fine,
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Speaker 2: I get it. But again this goes to they are
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Speaker 2: not conventional at all. But you just was a wordy
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Speaker 2: value on relationship. Yes, that's a really good way to
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Speaker 2: put we the relationships are supposed to look a certain way.
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Speaker 2: You meet, maybe in college, you're right after as young people,
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Speaker 2: you go get the house, you have the kids. Everything
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Speaker 2: is supposed to be a certain way and look a
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Speaker 2: certain way, and.
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Speaker 1: You fight, you stop having sex, and then you just
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Speaker 1: are bitter, sleeping in different rooms, barely speaking to one another.
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Speaker 1: That is oftentimes what people will call a successful marriage.
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Speaker 2: Because you stay together, you're still together, and you're still
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Speaker 2: putting on out there robes. Can a successful marriage be
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Speaker 2: one that built an absolute international superstar who was a convict,
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Speaker 2: who's got tattoos in his face, who is overweight, they
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Speaker 2: built an empire together? Is it not a successful relationship
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Speaker 2: that these two found each other and put each other
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Speaker 2: on a better path. That is a successful marriage. It
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Speaker 2: just happens the end after ten years. I just love
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Speaker 2: these conversations and examples of non traditional relationships.
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Speaker 5: They are just I don't know.
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Speaker 2: I don't know what was behind the scenes, but what's
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Speaker 2: being put out of publicly robes and what we know
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Speaker 2: of them.
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Speaker 5: I just I admire so much of what they have done.
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Speaker 1: I agree, and look, we will have a lot more
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Speaker 1: to say about not only their relationship, but what the
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Speaker 1: next phase of their relationship is. It certainly will be
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Speaker 1: very interesting to watch, and maybe there will be a
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Speaker 1: lot to learn from these two. But without everyone, we
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Speaker 1: always appreciate you listening to us. I'm Amy Robot alongside TJ.
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Speaker 4: Holmes. We will talk to you soon.