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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Any and Samantha.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Welcome to Stuff Never Told You production by Heardio, and
- 0:19Speaker 2: welcome to another classic for today.
- 0:22Speaker 1: I thought we would bring back the one we did
- 0:25Speaker 1: at the time.
- 0:25Speaker 2: I guess it's still kind of a Spoiled Saturdays, but
- 0:29Speaker 2: at the time it was very spoiled on the substance,
- 0:34Speaker 2: just because we've had a lot of conversations about kind
- 0:38Speaker 2: of ozimpic culture what that looks like. And I sent
- 0:42Speaker 2: you that post I saw about a horror movie that's
- 0:46Speaker 2: coming out specifically about that, and I think the substance
- 0:53Speaker 2: has come up in a lot of those conversations.
- 0:55Speaker 3: Right, He's made his name in that genre body horror slash.
- 1:01Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well, and I mentioned that I have some
- 1:06Speaker 2: friends who are taking some of these substances and we
- 1:11Speaker 2: call it the substance jokingly. So that has just been
- 1:15Speaker 2: on my mind lately. So please enjoy this classic episode.
- 1:25Speaker 4: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha.
- 1:27Speaker 1: I wope this stuff I Never Told You production of iHeartRadio.
- 1:39Speaker 2: And welcome to a special New Year's edition of Spoiled Saturdays.
- 1:45Speaker 2: Content morning before we began disordered eating, agism, sexism, general grossness,
- 1:51Speaker 2: I guess, but yeah, this is a New Year's movie,
- 1:54Speaker 2: New Year, New You, that's what I say.
- 1:57Speaker 1: Spoilers. That spoilers.
- 2:01Speaker 2: Thanks to your listeners for suggesting this movie. Thanks to
- 2:04Speaker 2: Christina who kind of suggested it after our Death becomes
- 2:08Speaker 2: her episode. I really really recommend that you go into
- 2:11Speaker 2: this movie knowing as little as possible at being said,
- 2:14Speaker 2: I'm not going to sugarcoat it's really gross.
- 2:16Speaker 1: It does not hold back, but it's it's a bonkers
- 2:21Speaker 1: it's wild ride. It's a wild ride.
- 2:23Speaker 3: Traumatized honestly, Like I literally had to sit back for
- 2:27Speaker 3: a second and then turn off a familiar show and
- 2:31Speaker 3: sit there, even though I'm like an hour past my
- 2:34Speaker 3: typical bedtime, and I was like, I have to watch
- 2:36Speaker 3: something else before I go to bed.
- 2:36Speaker 4: I can't. I can't do this. So that took a
- 2:41Speaker 4: good hour of detoxing.
- 2:42Speaker 1: Yes, detoxing.
- 2:47Speaker 2: Yes, it's funny, because everybody was telling me I needed
- 2:50Speaker 2: to see it, and they were like, I can't even
- 2:52Speaker 2: explain to you. It's so wild, and I kind of like,
- 2:56Speaker 2: I've seen so much that's I'm sure I've seen it. Nope,
- 3:00Speaker 2: couldn't predict that one. So I love it. I'm so
- 3:07Speaker 2: excited to talk about it. Okay, so here's the plot.
- 3:10Speaker 2: The Substance is a twenty twenty four sci fi horror
- 3:13Speaker 2: satire film, directed, written, and produced by Coralie Farja and
- 3:18Speaker 2: starring Demi Moore, Margaret Qualley, and Dennis Quaid. It was
- 3:22Speaker 2: a co production between the US, the UK and France.
- 3:25Speaker 2: Since it debuted, it has been a critical and commercial
- 3:28Speaker 2: success and has generated a lot of conversation. Also has
- 3:33Speaker 2: a lot of really cool practical effects, and I suggest
- 3:35Speaker 2: looking up how they did them if you're interested, because
- 3:38Speaker 2: it's really cool. The movie opens on celebrity Elizabeth sparkles
- 3:44Speaker 2: to me Moore getting a star on the Hollywood Walk
- 3:47Speaker 2: of Fan. Then we see the progression of time as
- 3:50Speaker 2: it goes from being a star people take pictures with
- 3:53Speaker 2: that was kept clean to one that no one recognizes,
- 3:56Speaker 2: and people spill food on and eventually it cracks. On
- 4:00Speaker 2: her fiftieth birthday, Elizabeth is filming for her long running
- 4:04Speaker 2: aerobic show when she accidentally overhears that she is being
- 4:08Speaker 2: fired because of her age and is going to be
- 4:11Speaker 2: replaced by someone younger and more beautiful. After being formally
- 4:15Speaker 2: let go, she crashes her car while driving back to
- 4:18Speaker 2: her apartment. When she sees a billboard of herself already
- 4:21Speaker 2: being taken down at the hospital. A young orderly slips
- 4:25Speaker 2: her a flash drive that he says changed his life on.
- 4:30Speaker 2: It is an ad for something called the Substance, a
- 4:33Speaker 2: black market product that promises a better, younger, prettier version
- 4:37Speaker 2: of yourself. So Elizabeth is kind of thinking about all
- 4:41Speaker 2: this and sort of decides not to do it. She
- 4:45Speaker 2: runs into a man her age from her class from homeroom,
- 4:49Speaker 2: and he asks her if they can go get drinks sometime.
- 4:52Speaker 2: Elizabeth somewhat reluctantly agrees to get his number, which he
- 4:56Speaker 2: scribbles on a piece of paper that he then promptly
- 4:59Speaker 2: drops in the mumm and hands it to her. Anyway,
- 5:02Speaker 2: she decides, after a few drinks, to order the Substance,
- 5:09Speaker 2: which is a real secretive process that involves her going
- 5:14Speaker 2: by a number, going to a secret location where no
- 5:18Speaker 2: one is there. It's like the door doesn't even open
- 5:21Speaker 2: all the way. There's a lot of block boxes, and
- 5:24Speaker 2: that's how she gets the kit. It's kind of a
- 5:27Speaker 2: complicated process, but essentially here it is. There's a single
- 5:32Speaker 2: use activator daily syringes for stabilizer fluid from the spine
- 5:38Speaker 2: and an ivy of nutrients for both the matrix, the
- 5:41Speaker 2: original self and the other self, which is necessary because
- 5:46Speaker 2: once Elizabeth uses the activator, she collapses on the floor
- 5:50Speaker 2: and a younger version of herself emerges from a slit
- 5:53Speaker 2: in her back. She then, the younger version, has to
- 5:57Speaker 2: hook up the nutrients to her older self the main
- 6:00Speaker 2: and inject some stablaris or fluid drawn from Elizabeth to
- 6:04Speaker 2: keep her from deteriorating herself. She also has to sew
- 6:07Speaker 2: up the back. The way the system works is that
- 6:10Speaker 2: they have to switch every seven days, no exception. It's
- 6:13Speaker 2: made very clear that they are the same person. The
- 6:17Speaker 2: balance must be respected. There is no she and you.
- 6:21Speaker 2: You are the same. The younger version quality calls herself Sue.
- 6:27Speaker 2: Sue goes to audition for Elizabeth's old role on the
- 6:31Speaker 2: Aerobic show, which is now called Pump It Up, and
- 6:34Speaker 2: she gets it after a very sexy audition. Harvey's played
- 6:39Speaker 2: by Quaid and yes, that name was intentional. Harvey, the
- 6:42Speaker 2: producer who led Elizabeth go, is thrilled about her and
- 6:45Speaker 2: even agrees to make her odd scheduling situation work. Sue's
- 6:50Speaker 2: image replaces Elizabeth on billboards, notably one's visible from Elizabeth's apartment.
- 6:57Speaker 2: Sue becomes a huge success. While about to have sex
- 7:02Speaker 2: with someone, Sue starts to feel dizzy and realizes it
- 7:04Speaker 2: is time to switch back, but she doesn't want to,
- 7:07Speaker 2: so she breaks the rules and takes more stabilizer fluid
- 7:10Speaker 2: from an unconscious Elizabeth. The next day, when Elizabeth wakes up,
- 7:15Speaker 2: one of her fingers is completely dead like a corpse's Angry,
- 7:19Speaker 2: Elizabeth calls the number she'd used to order the substance
- 7:22Speaker 2: and tells them what happened. They remind her there is
- 7:26Speaker 2: no her and you, that they are the same, and
- 7:29Speaker 2: asks if she wants to quit. She refuses, and in
- 7:32Speaker 2: this conversation, Elizabeth keeps saying like she needs to respect
- 7:36Speaker 2: the balance. She has to respect the balance. Sue constructs
- 7:40Speaker 2: the sort of secret room in the bathroom tows Elizabeth's
- 7:44Speaker 2: unconscious body so she can have people over. Even though
- 7:48Speaker 2: she is really successful, she starts to have worries about
- 7:51Speaker 2: her own body becoming misshapen, even having a pretty nightmarish
- 7:55Speaker 2: hallucination where chicken bone comes out of her skin. But
- 7:58Speaker 2: she is offered the network's coveted New Year's Eve special
- 8:02Speaker 2: watch millions of people.
- 8:05Speaker 1: She agrees.
- 8:07Speaker 2: As Sue grows more successful and parties, Elizabeth becomes a
- 8:12Speaker 2: self hating.
- 8:12Speaker 1: Hermit who binges.
- 8:14Speaker 2: She hate watches interviews with Sue where Sue insults her
- 8:20Speaker 2: she cooks from the cookbook Harvey gave her, like whole turkeys,
- 8:24Speaker 2: just food everywhere.
- 8:26Speaker 1: She doesn't clean up.
- 8:27Speaker 2: This is very spiteful on her part, where she's like,
- 8:30Speaker 2: you canna wake up and see this mess. Sue is
- 8:34Speaker 2: furious when they switch and and she sees the mess,
- 8:38Speaker 2: and she decides she will not switch back takes a
- 8:43Speaker 2: bunch of stabilizer fluid. A few months later, right before
- 8:48Speaker 2: the New Year's Eve show, Sue runs out of her
- 8:51Speaker 2: supply of this fluid and can no longer extract anymore
- 8:55Speaker 2: from Elizabeth. The supplier tells her the only way to
- 8:58Speaker 2: get more fluid is to switch, so that Elizabeth can
- 9:01Speaker 2: replenish the supply. Furious but very desperate, Sue switches back.
- 9:07Speaker 2: Elizabeth is now pretty much a walking corpse. Her bones
- 9:12Speaker 2: are breaking, she is hunched over, she has lost her hair. Outraged,
- 9:18Speaker 2: Elizabeth calls up the supplier, demanding that they put an
- 9:21Speaker 2: end to the whole thing. She wants it to stop.
- 9:24Speaker 2: The supplier impresses upon her that there is no going
- 9:27Speaker 2: back if she decides to do this, but Elizabeth insists,
- 9:30Speaker 2: ordering a serum to terminate Sue. Elizabeth injects Sue with
- 9:34Speaker 2: about half the serum before she stops, Realizing she doesn't
- 9:38Speaker 2: want to let go of the admiration and attention that
- 9:41Speaker 2: Sue is getting. She doesn't know how to live without her.
- 9:44Speaker 2: Sue wakes up the termination fluid, leaves them both conscious
- 9:49Speaker 2: and realizes that Elizabeth tried to kill her and attacks her.
- 9:54Speaker 2: After a vicious fight, Sue kills Elizabeth and goes to
- 9:57Speaker 2: film the New Year's Eve special. However, she doesn't have
- 10:02Speaker 2: any more stabilizer fluid and Elizabeth is dead, so her
- 10:05Speaker 2: body starts to deteriorate very quickly. Desperate, she tries to
- 10:10Speaker 2: create a newer, better version of herself by using the Activator,
- 10:15Speaker 2: the single use Activator, despite the warning. This leads to
- 10:19Speaker 2: the creation of Monstrosso Eliza Sue, a monstrous amalgamation of Elizabeth, Sue.
- 10:26Speaker 1: And the new version. She kind of looks like the
- 10:29Speaker 1: rat King from the Last of Us two. To be
- 10:31Speaker 1: honest and.
- 10:32Speaker 2: Sorry about it anyway, she puts on Eliza Zue Monstrosso
- 10:39Speaker 2: Eliza Sue puts on the very Cinderella looking dress, puts
- 10:42Speaker 2: on a cutout mask of Elizabeth's face when she was younger,
- 10:46Speaker 2: and takes the stage.
- 10:48Speaker 1: The mask soon falls to the audience's.
- 10:51Speaker 2: Horror, and she sort of gives birth to a breast
- 10:55Speaker 2: on live broadcast. People are freaking out. A man tries
- 10:59Speaker 2: to cut her hand and her head off. People are
- 11:01Speaker 2: calling her monster, and another even more grotesque head sprouts
- 11:07Speaker 2: in that place.
- 11:09Speaker 1: Her arm falls off. Blood is spewing everywhere, covering everyone,
- 11:14Speaker 1: including Harvey and the execs.
- 11:16Speaker 2: He introduced Sue to like twenty one thousand liters of blood.
- 11:21Speaker 1: I think that's the number that they used. Yep, everyone
- 11:25Speaker 1: is screaming.
- 11:26Speaker 2: Eliza Sue flees the studio, but eventually explodes, leaving a
- 11:31Speaker 2: face that inches along the pavement until it reaches Elizabeth
- 11:36Speaker 2: Star on the Walk of Fame. She imagines being famous
- 11:40Speaker 2: and hearing the cheers of the crowd as she melts
- 11:44Speaker 2: into a puddle of blood that is cleaned up the
- 11:47Speaker 2: next day.
- 11:50Speaker 3: Yeah, in that opening scene, someone drops ketchup and burger
- 11:54Speaker 3: and fries, so it's in the same pattern, So you
- 11:58Speaker 3: know that that's how are they open? And I was
- 12:00Speaker 3: that essentially, I'm traumatized, and that's all I have to.
- 12:06Speaker 4: Say about this. I get it.
- 12:08Speaker 3: It was very heavy handed, I get it. I still traumatized.
- 12:11Speaker 3: I was like, damn because like the way they made
- 12:15Speaker 3: sure to make the pretty sexy pictures versus the horrific
- 12:19Speaker 3: end pictures, like they want you to know what they're doing,
- 12:22Speaker 3: the director and the writer, And yes, point made, but damn,
- 12:27Speaker 3: I'm traumatized.
- 12:30Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it.
- 12:34Speaker 2: I love how bonkers it was. And every time I've
- 12:38Speaker 2: shown it to somebody, they've been like, oh wow, I
- 12:42Speaker 2: did not know it was gonna go this hard, and
- 12:45Speaker 2: it really really.
- 12:48Speaker 1: Went hard.
- 12:49Speaker 3: Yeah, So like we're not being cute in the mirror,
- 12:52Speaker 3: We're gonna be disgusting and grotesque, like like what you
- 12:55Speaker 3: think of me?
- 12:56Speaker 4: So here we go.
- 12:57Speaker 2: Yes, and we're gonna talk about that too, because the
- 13:01Speaker 2: director's got a lot of good quotes about that, including
- 13:03Speaker 2: about how the ways some people are describing this movie
- 13:08Speaker 2: versus other body horror movies that men have done and
- 13:11Speaker 2: the differences in that, which I think is really interesting.
- 13:14Speaker 2: And by the way, this director, we have talked about
- 13:16Speaker 2: her before. She also directed Revenge, which we talked about
- 13:20Speaker 2: in our rape revenge movies, and was inspired to write
- 13:23Speaker 2: this movie after dealing with internalized negative feelings about her
- 13:27Speaker 2: body aging and being forgotten as she grew older. The
- 13:31Speaker 2: character of Elizabeth is also in part inspired by Jane Fonda, who,
- 13:35Speaker 2: if you don't know, transitioned from being an actress to
- 13:38Speaker 2: an aerobic show and it's really interesting to read. I
- 13:44Speaker 2: believe her. The director and Demi Moore met six times
- 13:48Speaker 2: to discuss this role, because Demi Moore was like, I
- 13:51Speaker 2: don't know, I don't know, but they eventually were like,
- 13:55Speaker 2: really came together and created this.
- 13:58Speaker 1: Really working together. So I think that's great.
- 14:10Speaker 2: Obviously, when we talk about themes, one of the big
- 14:13Speaker 2: ones agism and sexism, how we treat women, and in
- 14:18Speaker 2: this movie, particularly women in Hollywood disposable, expendable. Literally At
- 14:27Speaker 2: one point when Elizabeth is getting fired, it's a really
- 14:31Speaker 2: grossene or Dennis Craid's character, Harvey is eating all of
- 14:35Speaker 2: this shrimp and he just says it just stops at
- 14:38Speaker 2: fifty And Elizabeth asks what stops and he's like m
- 14:44Speaker 2: and he doesn't have an answer, but he's firing her
- 14:47Speaker 2: because she's fifty and they always want.
- 14:50Speaker 1: This younger, better version.
- 14:53Speaker 2: In quotes something to someone to be washed away and
- 14:58Speaker 2: forgotten as you age, like your wiped away from your
- 15:01Speaker 2: Hollywood star, no matter how much they've done our sacrifice,
- 15:05Speaker 2: because she'd won awards, she'd been working for them forever,
- 15:09Speaker 2: and how much pain they might have put their bodies
- 15:11Speaker 2: through to meet these standards. And it's really upsetting because
- 15:17Speaker 2: she had given so much of herself.
- 15:19Speaker 1: It was her birthday.
- 15:21Speaker 2: When they fired her, and they give her such a
- 15:24Speaker 2: bland gift that says you were great.
- 15:29Speaker 4: Right actually barely talk to her, hands up box like moth.
- 15:32Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's the happy French cookbook that we'll talk
- 15:37Speaker 2: about later.
- 15:37Speaker 3: I love the same way he says I love my wife,
- 15:40Speaker 3: and he does such a random statement.
- 15:42Speaker 4: I'll where did that come from?
- 15:44Speaker 1: Okay, he was gross.
- 15:46Speaker 2: And I read a really cool article before this talking
- 15:49Speaker 2: about how this movie is kind of a really dark
- 15:51Speaker 2: fairy tale because you have your quote chrone your young maid.
- 15:58Speaker 1: But he would be the devil. He's got like this
- 16:00Speaker 1: snackskin boots.
- 16:01Speaker 2: He's got that like kind of really creepy smile in
- 16:05Speaker 2: the way he's always consuming something.
- 16:08Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 16:10Speaker 3: Interestingly, the actor Dennis Quait himself like really went out
- 16:15Speaker 3: to bat and spoke for the very thing that he represented,
- 16:19Speaker 3: like he was campaigning for Donald Trump, and I find
- 16:22Speaker 3: that ironic. I'm like, so you understand what this film is, right,
- 16:28Speaker 3: you know, they're like implicating here what.
- 16:35Speaker 2: And that role was originally going to be played by
- 16:39Speaker 2: Rayleiota but he died.
- 16:41Speaker 3: Uh yeah, I'm.
- 16:44Speaker 4: Kind of glad I didn't see him in favorable.
- 16:46Speaker 5: He would have been great, But I'm really glad that's
- 16:49Speaker 5: not the last memories of him I love.
- 16:56Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's.
- 17:01Speaker 1: Fair, that's fair. But then it's also.
- 17:04Speaker 2: Very clear when we look at the difference between how
- 17:08Speaker 2: people at the studio treat Elizabeth versus how they treat Sue,
- 17:12Speaker 2: it is stark. They can't wait to get rid of Elizabeth.
- 17:18Speaker 2: They're angry she's been here as long as she has.
- 17:22Speaker 2: But Sue, they're like, oh, yes, you need seven days
- 17:24Speaker 2: off every other week. We can do it. We will
- 17:27Speaker 2: work around it. You're the best, You're so amazing. Have
- 17:31Speaker 2: our New Year's Eve show, please. So it makes it
- 17:34Speaker 2: very stark in that way, and I do think it's interesting.
- 17:37Speaker 2: We'll talk about this more later too, But when Elizabeth's
- 17:42Speaker 2: doing her workout show, she's saying things like you got
- 17:46Speaker 2: to get that beach bud. You don't want to be
- 17:47Speaker 2: a jellyfish on the beach, like all this stuff. So
- 17:51Speaker 2: she's really internalized all of this as well. And then
- 17:55Speaker 2: when Sue goes toed to the audition for the show
- 17:59Speaker 2: right before she goes in someone else auditions, and the
- 18:02Speaker 2: two men who are casting kind of snidely are like,
- 18:07Speaker 2: too bad, her breast aron in the right place.
- 18:10Speaker 3: They're implying that her nose, she would look better if
- 18:15Speaker 3: her breast was on her face instead of her nose,
- 18:17Speaker 3: criticizing her nose.
- 18:18Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, which comes back to the end for sure,
- 18:23Speaker 2: for sure. And then there's kind of a constant refrain
- 18:28Speaker 2: about pretty girls should always smile, which a lot of
- 18:33Speaker 2: us have heard, but also towards the end becomes very
- 18:37Speaker 2: grotesque because Sue is losing her teeth.
- 18:41Speaker 1: And cannot give a full smile.
- 18:46Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, trum tust, it's gross.
- 18:51Speaker 1: I'm not gonna deny it. I love it.
- 18:55Speaker 2: Here's the quote from av Club, in a scene that
- 18:58Speaker 2: merely hints at the revulsion to leering network executive Harvey
- 19:02Speaker 2: Dennis Quaid has a mouthful of shrimp when he informs
- 19:04Speaker 2: Elizabeth that she's being put out to pasture. The themes
- 19:07Speaker 2: in the Substance are mostly expressed visually, and the casting
- 19:11Speaker 2: of the film's male characters is a vicious comment in itself.
- 19:14Speaker 2: The movie is populated by mediocre looking men passing judgment
- 19:17Speaker 2: on women who are frankly way out of their league.
- 19:22Speaker 1: Yep.
- 19:23Speaker 3: Yeah, the neighbor was a stark reminder of like what
- 19:26Speaker 3: he really thought he was owed. He'd be like, yes,
- 19:29Speaker 3: I'm gonna take that silas as a yes, we'll see
- 19:31Speaker 3: you tonight. Yes, yes, Yeah.
- 19:34Speaker 4: He's not cute in any least way.
- 19:36Speaker 2: No, And then with Elizabeth he was like, stop being annoying,
- 19:42Speaker 2: But with Sue he's like, oh, you're never annoying. Please
- 19:45Speaker 2: come up a drink with me.
- 19:46Speaker 4: I'll help you reach you.
- 19:48Speaker 2: I love your show. It's so good yep. And then
- 19:55Speaker 2: there there's also just the constant remind of how Sue
- 20:02Speaker 2: being young is better in terms of the billboards that
- 20:09Speaker 2: you see, the ripping down of Elizabeth and quickly replacing
- 20:12Speaker 2: it with Sue's.
- 20:15Speaker 1: Mirrors. There's a lot of mirrors.
- 20:16Speaker 2: This maybe actually doesn't have a lot of dialogue, and
- 20:18Speaker 2: that was done purposely, but there's a lot of like
- 20:23Speaker 2: looking into mirrors, and having when Elizabeth it's her turn,
- 20:27Speaker 2: and always having Sue kind of watching over her through
- 20:30Speaker 2: her like wide apartment windows, and not being able to
- 20:35Speaker 2: forget that she was fired and Sue was hired, and
- 20:38Speaker 2: Sue is the one that people appreciate, and a door
- 20:42Speaker 2: now and it used to be her and in fact
- 20:45Speaker 2: she breaks. She has a poster framed poster of her
- 20:50Speaker 2: when she was younger, and she throws one of her
- 20:52Speaker 2: awards at it and cracks the eye of it, so
- 20:58Speaker 2: even her younger self hanging over her. And then how
- 21:04Speaker 2: we view age and I think this is very over
- 21:07Speaker 2: the top, done in a fun way with how the
- 21:13Speaker 2: makeup effects of what happens to Demi more. They even
- 21:17Speaker 2: have stages. There's one that's like Crone Gollum and then
- 21:22Speaker 2: let's to Sue.
- 21:23Speaker 1: That's what they called it.
- 21:25Speaker 2: What I was watching, I was like, this is like
- 21:26Speaker 2: a corpse, Like she looks like the way her finger
- 21:29Speaker 2: in the beginning, it's like bone and decayed skin, which
- 21:34Speaker 2: I learned a new term have exploitation, which is what
- 21:38Speaker 2: it sounds like, but using older women as the villain
- 21:44Speaker 2: or something really scary or something disgusting, And this movie
- 21:48Speaker 2: really leaned into that really really leaned into it, and
- 21:56Speaker 2: it's I really recommend reading how they did the special
- 22:00Speaker 2: effects of it because it's fascinating.
- 22:02Speaker 1: But it took a lot.
- 22:04Speaker 2: It took a long time to apply, it took a
- 22:06Speaker 2: lot to act in it, and me More was apparently
- 22:09Speaker 2: really determined, like, we're going to get this right. Even
- 22:12Speaker 2: if I have to deal with this, we don't want
- 22:14Speaker 2: to disrespect the makeup, So if we have to take
- 22:16Speaker 2: it off and do it again, we'll do it again.
- 22:18Speaker 2: And then the casting of Diviny Moore was also very
- 22:23Speaker 2: purposeful because she has kind of gone through this and
- 22:28Speaker 2: she's had a lot of quote since then.
- 22:30Speaker 1: I think she was very.
- 22:31Speaker 2: Unsure and I get it that this movie would be
- 22:35Speaker 2: exercise or not. But now that it is, she's had
- 22:38Speaker 2: a lot of comments about what she thinks about it.
- 22:42Speaker 2: But from av Club, here's another quote. The complexities of
- 22:45Speaker 2: making a living based on one's looks and the emptiness
- 22:48Speaker 2: that it's left when that life is no longer possible
- 22:51Speaker 2: provides a rich text for More.
- 22:53Speaker 1: Whose it girl.
- 22:54Speaker 2: Days in the mid eighties also led to a long
- 22:56Speaker 2: career as a famous movie star. But More is sixty
- 22:58Speaker 2: two and is surely aware of her changing status within
- 23:01Speaker 2: the industry. Going back to their other quote, though, I
- 23:04Speaker 2: do think it's interesting that, I mean, she aged very well,
- 23:07Speaker 2: but still she's being kicked out because she's fifty.
- 23:10Speaker 4: Right.
- 23:11Speaker 3: There's so much because agism has always played her, whether
- 23:16Speaker 3: it's the character she plays with so indecent proposal. That
- 23:21Speaker 3: was absolutely the beginning part of the beginning of her career,
- 23:25Speaker 3: all those sexy movies ghosts, Like she was known as
- 23:28Speaker 3: the it girl in the eighties and nineties and so
- 23:32Speaker 3: her going into that and then getting older, but like
- 23:35Speaker 3: every age they would feature her as like looking amazing
- 23:39Speaker 3: at thirty, looking amazing at forty. They really did that,
- 23:42Speaker 3: and then Ashton Kutcher came along after Bruce Willis. There's
- 23:46Speaker 3: so much conversation about her aging and whether or not
- 23:50Speaker 3: she's aging gracefully or what she's doing, and her stepping
- 23:54Speaker 3: in and out of out like limelight, whether she was
- 23:56Speaker 3: dating someone who was or marrying someone's significantly younger, playing
- 24:00Speaker 3: these characters, not playing these characters, being a mother, you know,
- 24:03Speaker 3: like these she kind of represents that conversation, like, to me,
- 24:08Speaker 3: more is an icon in itself because of that, and
- 24:13Speaker 3: now she's in this age and time where things are
- 24:16Speaker 3: being fixed, whether it's ozimbic or whether it's plastic surgery,
- 24:19Speaker 3: and so everybody's watching her because she's always been kind
- 24:23Speaker 3: of that representation, oddly without being said that she's that representation.
- 24:29Speaker 3: So this perfectly made sense. Like the only other person
- 24:33Speaker 3: that may like even come close to this, I don't know, baby,
- 24:39Speaker 3: I don't even think Nicole Kinman was that, But that
- 24:41Speaker 3: was not something that was a part of her conversation either.
- 24:43Speaker 3: Even though it is, it isn't like she was always
- 24:47Speaker 3: in that forefront in that conversation.
- 24:50Speaker 2: Oddly, Yeah, I hadn't thought about that part. But yeah,
- 24:53Speaker 2: she definitely definitely has been and this was an episode
- 24:59Speaker 2: where it could have been many many parts. But she
- 25:03Speaker 2: does have a lot of good quotes if you want
- 25:05Speaker 2: to look them up, where she was talking about how
- 25:09Speaker 2: she feels now this movie has come out and resonated
- 25:11Speaker 2: with people, and how it's made her think about some
- 25:14Speaker 2: of the way she's been treated or thinks she's seen
- 25:17Speaker 2: in her own life. Also, interestingly, I love this. Several
- 25:21Speaker 2: women have written about how this movie made them feel
- 25:23Speaker 2: better about aging.
- 25:24Speaker 4: I mean, you definitely do hold on to a moment.
- 25:26Speaker 3: I say this as I've made episodes of like I'm
- 25:28Speaker 3: aging and I need help, like where I'm like, maybe
- 25:31Speaker 3: it's not so bad, I shouldn't do things.
- 25:37Speaker 6: Yeah, because in the end she wanted to go back
- 25:42Speaker 6: to face, you know what I mean, Like it was
- 25:45Speaker 6: that kind of conversation like I wasn't so bad that
- 25:47Speaker 6: I shouldn't have done this because this wasn't worth it.
- 25:51Speaker 4: But yeah, it kind of has that crash out of
- 25:53Speaker 4: like maybe.
- 25:54Speaker 3: It's not worth it because the price you have to pay,
- 25:57Speaker 3: whether it's having to take out fillers or like melting
- 26:00Speaker 3: fills out of your face because you realize it's actually
- 26:02Speaker 3: not doing you well, or having breast implants, and not
- 26:05Speaker 3: that there is anything wrong with these things, but like
- 26:07Speaker 3: the repercussions sometimes the health like crisis that have to
- 26:13Speaker 3: have happened with some people afterwards because there's not enough
- 26:16Speaker 3: information or they got they went to the wrong place. Yeah,
- 26:19Speaker 3: you know, that's definitely a conversation and I think that
- 26:21Speaker 3: kind of comes back to her trying to put her
- 26:23Speaker 3: old face back on.
- 26:25Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that to me, one of the
- 26:29Speaker 2: saddest parts of the movie, if not the saddest part,
- 26:31Speaker 2: is when she does agree to go on that get
- 26:34Speaker 2: the drinks with the guy, yeah, who is perfectly nice,
- 26:38Speaker 2: perfectly average, but perfectly nice. And she puts on makeups,
- 26:42Speaker 2: she looks great, and then she keeps seeing her reflection
- 26:46Speaker 2: or she sees Sue, and she just keeps taking off
- 26:49Speaker 2: her lipstick and applying it and putting on more makeup
- 26:51Speaker 2: and then taking it off and like just viciously scrubbing
- 26:54Speaker 2: it off.
- 26:55Speaker 1: And it's so sad.
- 26:55Speaker 2: So you're like, just go, you look great, just you
- 26:59Speaker 2: can do this, but she can't make it out the
- 27:01Speaker 2: door and she never goes, and it's a very very
- 27:03Speaker 2: sad part.
- 27:05Speaker 1: And in the end.
- 27:08Speaker 2: Sue kills Elizabeth, who at that point does almost pretty
- 27:15Speaker 2: much personified death.
- 27:17Speaker 1: So age comes for you all he does it. Sue's
- 27:22Speaker 1: gonna get old too.
- 27:25Speaker 2: But yeah, going back to what you were saying, another
- 27:28Speaker 2: theme in this is the quote best self, which in
- 27:31Speaker 2: this case is the younger, better version. This kind of perfectionism.
- 27:40Speaker 2: I read I'm not sure if this is true, but
- 27:43Speaker 2: I read that Margaret Quality wore prosthetics to make everything
- 27:48Speaker 2: like more symmetrical and perfect.
- 27:51Speaker 3: Well, I would assume this is without any research, that
- 27:55Speaker 3: they had to make our look absolutely perfect, and we
- 27:58Speaker 3: know that's not the case. So whether it's brush, whether
- 28:00Speaker 3: it's edited, like they had to make her even though
- 28:04Speaker 3: she's beautiful as is, there's something there's always cellul like,
- 28:09Speaker 3: there's always a little birthmark, there's always these things. So
- 28:13Speaker 3: I'm sure that she had to do extra. She had
- 28:15Speaker 3: to do extra, whether it's taping up of things. Uh,
- 28:19Speaker 3: obviously she had to get like first thing I thought.
- 28:21Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, she definitely went and got.
- 28:23Speaker 5: Wax like like everything everything, And we know people are hairy,
- 28:29Speaker 5: come on, her mother was a hairy woman like Annie McDowell,
- 28:33Speaker 5: who was also an another nineties icon, was was not.
- 28:37Speaker 3: She's naturally dark hair, so that that just happens, you know,
- 28:42Speaker 3: So for her not have any hair, I'm like, yeah,
- 28:44Speaker 3: she definitely.
- 28:45Speaker 2: Definitely had to Yes, yes, and that I mean that
- 28:50Speaker 2: is the thing of we've talked before about, you know,
- 28:54Speaker 2: constantly beingmbarded with those images of this is perfect, this
- 28:57Speaker 2: is what I have to do, that's how I look.
- 29:00Speaker 2: And if you don't fit that, how do you fix it?
- 29:04Speaker 2: How what can they sell you to quote fix it?
- 29:07Speaker 2: And this is when we come to the conversation of
- 29:11Speaker 2: quick fixes. This is literally a black market drug that
- 29:15Speaker 2: she has to go to a strange location to pick up.
- 29:18Speaker 2: There's no one there. They never refer to her by
- 29:21Speaker 2: her name, only her number. You have to drain your
- 29:25Speaker 2: spinal fluid, you have to sew up your back, you
- 29:31Speaker 2: have to be unconscious for a week like that. That's
- 29:36Speaker 2: kind of the desperation she felt, especially as somebody who
- 29:39Speaker 2: that was her career, and that was how she had
- 29:43Speaker 2: so long to find herself and so long found meaning.
- 29:48Speaker 2: That's how desperate she was. She was like, Okay, I'll
- 29:53Speaker 2: try this. And by the way, the substance video she
- 29:57Speaker 2: watched is very like tech. It's a dude narrating it.
- 30:03Speaker 2: Every time she talks to him, he's like, I told
- 30:07Speaker 2: you to respect the balance. Like it's very it has
- 30:10Speaker 2: that vibe of like a tech bro. We can make
- 30:14Speaker 2: money off of these women.
- 30:16Speaker 1: However, there are men that do it. They run into.
- 30:20Speaker 3: Yes, I'm wondering now that I think about it, is
- 30:23Speaker 3: it the orderly dude?
- 30:24Speaker 1: Yeah, you had the same scar.
- 30:27Speaker 2: Okay, okay, yes, you run into his older version and
- 30:31Speaker 2: he's like, has she started trading you yet? Has she
- 30:36Speaker 2: started stealing the time. So even for him, the person
- 30:42Speaker 2: who recommended it to her, he was like, oh no,
- 30:47Speaker 2: I shouldn't You shouldn't have done this. I shouldn't have
- 30:49Speaker 2: shouldn't have done this. Here is another quote from aby Club.
- 30:54Speaker 2: These combined with an aesthetic of syringes and latex clubs
- 30:57Speaker 2: best described as medsbas chic of okaing parioical cures like
- 31:00Speaker 2: ozimbic and botox that encourage people, mostly women. Let's be
- 31:04Speaker 2: real to pump themselves full of barely regulated substances whose
- 31:08Speaker 2: side effects won't be clear for a few more decades
- 31:11Speaker 2: so they can make themselves more palatable to patriarchal beauty standards.
- 31:15Speaker 2: None of this will prevent the lumpy men who rule
- 31:18Speaker 2: the world from throwing you away when you don't give
- 31:21Speaker 2: them a boner anymore. As Elizabeth Sparkle rudely discovers early
- 31:25Speaker 2: on in the film, Elizabeth is extremely famous, Billboard famous,
- 31:28Speaker 2: Walk of Fame famous, and has been for decades. You'd
- 31:32Speaker 2: think this would give her the slightest bit of leverage
- 31:34Speaker 2: when it comes to renegotiating her contract as the host
- 31:37Speaker 2: of the aerobics program that broadcast her tight body and
- 31:40Speaker 2: sparkling smile into millions of American homes every week.
- 31:43Speaker 1: You'd be wrong.
- 31:45Speaker 2: And that's another thing. Is she doesn't. It's these men
- 31:48Speaker 2: who decide she's done. She doesn't decide that. They're just
- 31:53Speaker 2: decide it. And it's because of her age. And I
- 31:58Speaker 2: do think you know the title the substance when you're
- 32:01Speaker 2: talking about so we don't even know what it is
- 32:03Speaker 2: and we don't know how it works. But she was
- 32:06Speaker 2: willing to give it a try. I didn't want to
- 32:09Speaker 2: put in here after things go terribly awry. The Eliza
- 32:15Speaker 2: su prosthetic took six hours to apply. Quality said it
- 32:19Speaker 2: made her very claustrophobic, but it's really cool. I just
- 32:23Speaker 2: can't recommend enough to look up how they made it
- 32:25Speaker 2: and how they did it and the blood and everything,
- 32:28Speaker 2: oh my gosh. But Farjah said of that, the only
- 32:33Speaker 2: gaze that matters is her own. It's the reconciliation between
- 32:37Speaker 2: all of the parts, the moment she reveals what was
- 32:39Speaker 2: inside her guts but we are told to hide, be
- 32:41Speaker 2: ashamed of everything is out. The butt is on the head,
- 32:45Speaker 2: and the boobs are everywhere, and all those parts have
- 32:47Speaker 2: been benicized about are kind of exploded, and she is
- 32:50Speaker 2: finally and she finally has some tenderness for herself. And
- 32:54Speaker 2: that's true, and a lot of suits looking in the mirror,
- 32:57Speaker 2: but she's putting on her ear rings, her dress and
- 33:01Speaker 2: combing her hair. It's like the nicest she's looked at
- 33:04Speaker 2: herself in the mirror. And I mean, of course it's
- 33:09Speaker 2: really sad ultimately, but when she presents herself to her audience,
- 33:13Speaker 2: she's like, it's me. I'm still the same person. I
- 33:15Speaker 2: don't understand why you're reacting this way, as if I'm
- 33:17Speaker 2: a monster.
- 33:19Speaker 1: I hadn't.
- 33:19Speaker 2: Really I'm glad I read that quote because I was
- 33:21Speaker 2: just kind of like, oh, she's putting on earrings.
- 33:24Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 33:25Speaker 4: I was like, she's trying to be presentable. She's gelious.
- 33:27Speaker 3: But it could also I do also wonder like it's
- 33:30Speaker 3: partially in a conversation of like, no matter how much
- 33:33Speaker 3: suffering you're going through, you still have to dress up
- 33:36Speaker 3: and present yourself like women constantly would do so well.
- 33:39Speaker 3: Women may like talking about women who have babies and
- 33:42Speaker 3: are pregnant, they get themselves nice, They do their nails,
- 33:45Speaker 3: they get their toes done, so when they're looking at it,
- 33:47Speaker 3: it looks nice. Like these things that they do, whether
- 33:50Speaker 3: it's for others or themselves, it is literally a thing
- 33:53Speaker 3: like I have to be presentable, No matter the disastrous
- 33:57Speaker 3: situation I'm in, or if I'm just eating up of
- 34:01Speaker 3: every orphice and then non orphus things that shouldn't be bleeding.
- 34:08Speaker 1: She did try to make herself resentable.
- 34:10Speaker 2: She did, like even the mask she put the smile
- 34:13Speaker 2: on with the lipstick, So.
- 34:16Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not being an ode to the joker, to
- 34:18Speaker 4: be honest.
- 34:20Speaker 3: At that point though, she was literally crashing out here
- 34:23Speaker 3: we go.
- 34:24Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I love how like nobody noticed it too.
- 34:32Speaker 2: I think that's really telling that nobody noticed something was
- 34:34Speaker 2: a miss until.
- 34:36Speaker 4: That was the part that I'm like, he let her in?
- 34:39Speaker 1: Yeah what uh huh? Like they put her on the
- 34:43Speaker 1: on screen.
- 34:44Speaker 3: There were so many well, there's so many things I
- 34:46Speaker 3: had questions about because I'm like, this doesn't work this way.
- 34:49Speaker 3: I know that's absurd, but my question on one of
- 34:53Speaker 3: the parts was like wait uh. At one point she
- 34:57Speaker 3: was you know the fluid that which is the food
- 34:59Speaker 3: for yours for your part fluid this if you are
- 35:04Speaker 3: where did she get that food?
- 35:05Speaker 4: Because she was almost suffocating.
- 35:08Speaker 1: You get it from the substance it came.
- 35:11Speaker 4: Only has seven day supply.
- 35:12Speaker 2: You can get refilled without doing the The problem is
- 35:16Speaker 2: she ran out of stable stabilizer fluid. But it's like
- 35:18Speaker 2: a subscription.
- 35:19Speaker 4: She just kept getting it.
- 35:22Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, I was like, she's just suffocating, but she
- 35:25Speaker 3: doesn't have food, like that's why she's a nosebleeding.
- 35:38Speaker 2: Well, that does bring us to my next point, consumption.
- 35:42Speaker 2: That's a big theme in this a lot of food
- 35:48Speaker 2: and eating uh in this movie I've already talked about
- 35:53Speaker 2: in a Quaid and the shrimp, very gross, very visceral.
- 35:57Speaker 2: You can hear him eating m uh him with the
- 36:00Speaker 2: cigarette like it zooms in. You can hear it very
- 36:03Speaker 2: viscerally as well. This is also how we see some
- 36:07Speaker 2: female rage because I'm both extremes of eating and not eating.
- 36:12Speaker 2: Because previously Elizabeth had been pretty shut off from being fired,
- 36:18Speaker 2: like any anger about it or anything visibly. But when
- 36:23Speaker 2: she starts to see Sue is taking her time or
- 36:30Speaker 2: again they are one, but to her it feels like
- 36:33Speaker 2: Sue is taking her time. That's when she's watching the
- 36:37Speaker 2: She's watching Sue being interviewed and making fun of her
- 36:40Speaker 2: and being like, oh that she's out of my generation.
- 36:42Speaker 2: She's more like my mom's age or whatever, my moms generation.
- 36:47Speaker 2: And that's when Elizabeth gets out the French cookbook and
- 36:51Speaker 2: starts to make everything in there, a lot of meats
- 36:55Speaker 2: like blood sausage, and it's very rage filled, it's very bitter.
- 37:01Speaker 2: And she does do it to get back at Sue,
- 37:05Speaker 2: because when Sue comes to it's just a mess. It's
- 37:11Speaker 2: an absolute mess. Food everywhere, dishes everywhere, it's really nasty.
- 37:16Speaker 2: But she kind of starts, she stops giving a She
- 37:19Speaker 2: also like starts yelling at the guy across the hall,
- 37:23Speaker 2: like slams the door open. She's just not not into
- 37:27Speaker 2: it anymore. A lot of people were relating to that
- 37:30Speaker 2: to get related to the pandemic, like this, what's resonating
- 37:34Speaker 2: with me? But also when we talk about consumption, I
- 37:38Speaker 2: would say we've discussed this before, but a lot of.
- 37:42Speaker 1: The way.
- 37:44Speaker 2: Camera shots have typically been used to film women, it's
- 37:47Speaker 2: very like objectifying of body parts, very pornographic, and so
- 37:54Speaker 2: it's like you're consuming just this part, are just this part,
- 38:02Speaker 2: And the director has talked about that and and that
- 38:07Speaker 2: kind of goes back to why she wanted to make
- 38:11Speaker 2: the objectified parts explode or become gross because.
- 38:17Speaker 1: She gives birth to a boob from her forehead.
- 38:21Speaker 2: So that was a very interesting interview.
- 38:26Speaker 1: She's done about this movie.
- 38:28Speaker 2: But also self loathing is a big theme because they
- 38:37Speaker 2: both they're the same person. It says again, all all
- 38:41Speaker 2: throughout the movie, respect the balance, you are one. But
- 38:44Speaker 2: they hate each other. And we've discussed before the self
- 38:48Speaker 2: comparison trap of always comparing yourself to your younger self
- 38:53Speaker 2: or even like future worries about your older self. To
- 38:58Speaker 2: literally dry heaves at the loot of switching back and
- 39:02Speaker 2: calls her Elizabeth, her sick mother.
- 39:04Speaker 1: They do.
- 39:07Speaker 2: More than once try to kill each other, but in
- 39:11Speaker 2: the end it's Elizabeth. Elizabeth can't do it, but Sue can,
- 39:16Speaker 2: and Sue does. Sue kills her, but Elizabeth can't give
- 39:20Speaker 2: up Sue because she loves her too much, or she
- 39:23Speaker 2: loves the idea of being young and worshiped and having
- 39:25Speaker 2: an audience love her too much and it's too powerful
- 39:31Speaker 2: for her to let go. And she does say things
- 39:35Speaker 2: like when she's Eliza, Sue like.
- 39:39Speaker 1: Why you love me?
- 39:40Speaker 2: Is me?
- 39:41Speaker 1: Is still me?
- 39:42Speaker 2: Like she just wants that love, that adoration, and is
- 39:47Speaker 2: willing to make all these sacrifices and go through all
- 39:52Speaker 2: this pain for those who are watching, who would throw
- 39:56Speaker 2: her away in a second to succeed. I also think
- 40:01Speaker 2: there's a theme of addiction in here, being kind of
- 40:05Speaker 2: addicted to that feeling.
- 40:10Speaker 1: And maybe even to the idea of eventually like being
- 40:15Speaker 1: younger when you could. And then there are a lot
- 40:22Speaker 1: of this.
- 40:22Speaker 2: As I said, there's not a lot a dialogue in
- 40:24Speaker 2: this movie, So a lot of this is how you're
- 40:29Speaker 2: seeing yourself when people are seeing you, and it's reflected through.
- 40:32Speaker 1: Mirrors or images. The never ending hallway.
- 40:37Speaker 2: At the company, the studio that feels very much like
- 40:41Speaker 2: the shining Alissa wilcomes In of The New York Times
- 40:44Speaker 2: wrote in the end, that's what the substance does best,
- 40:48Speaker 2: not just remind us about the observed standards for female
- 40:51Speaker 2: beauty and the destructive power of celebrity, but turn the
- 40:54Speaker 2: mirror back on us. The sharpest critique isn't about bodies,
- 40:57Speaker 2: but about the way we've trained ourselves to look at
- 40:59Speaker 2: those and the effect that has on her own. The
- 41:03Speaker 2: movie is, appropriately enough a mirror, and our discomfort reveals
- 41:07Speaker 2: our own hidden biases and fears about ourselves, being older,
- 41:11Speaker 2: being famous, being seen, being loved, being usurped by someone
- 41:14Speaker 2: younger and hotter. It's all here, nothing like a mirror
- 41:18Speaker 2: to remind you what lurks beneath a career spent in
- 41:22Speaker 2: front of cameras, first as a celebrated actress and then
- 41:25Speaker 2: as a celebrity fitness instructor on a show called Sparkle.
- 41:27Speaker 2: Your life with Elizabeth abruptly ends when an executive decides
- 41:31Speaker 2: she's too old to be worthy of being seen. He
- 41:33Speaker 2: gets to decide if anyone wants to look at her,
- 41:35Speaker 2: and if he turns the cameras away, does she even exist?
- 41:42Speaker 2: So a lot a lot to be said about this movie.
- 41:46Speaker 2: These are just a few of my thoughts. But before
- 41:48Speaker 2: we close out this episode, I did want to touch
- 41:51Speaker 2: on some irl news stories because it has generated a
- 41:56Speaker 2: lot of conversation and a lot of headlines.
- 41:59Speaker 1: One is I'm only going.
- 42:00Speaker 2: To touch on this very briefly because I thought it
- 42:01Speaker 2: was funny. But Kim Kardashian criticized this movie.
- 42:06Speaker 1: Oh really very very.
- 42:08Speaker 2: Funny because people are like interesting, And one of my
- 42:12Speaker 2: favorite comebacks was, it's like Ai criticizing Terminator.
- 42:17Speaker 4: I think she learned to appreciate this movie soon, though.
- 42:20Speaker 2: I feel bad, like I it was just funny because
- 42:23Speaker 2: it seems so out of touch, Like I'm not saying
- 42:27Speaker 2: they're not standards I'm not saying anything like that.
- 42:29Speaker 1: It was just so out of touch.
- 42:31Speaker 3: I wonder though, what she baited, maybe because like, why
- 42:35Speaker 3: would Kim Kardi. I've not heard her talk about movies ever,
- 42:39Speaker 3: so this is interesting that that's a that's even a thing.
- 42:42Speaker 3: So what did they go after her? Being like, you're
- 42:45Speaker 3: the representation, You're who they're talking about. So she's all
- 42:47Speaker 3: in micro gonna be like what No, Like, I can't
- 42:50Speaker 3: imagine she even watched this movie.
- 42:53Speaker 2: I feel like she had her review and most of
- 42:55Speaker 2: the things I read were I don't know where it
- 42:59Speaker 2: came from, but most of the things I read didn't
- 43:01Speaker 2: feel like she had been baited by them.
- 43:03Speaker 1: They were just kind of like, oh.
- 43:07Speaker 4: Yeah, interesting.
- 43:08Speaker 1: Interesting.
- 43:09Speaker 3: I saw a headline recently about a couple of months ago,
- 43:12Speaker 3: and I wanted to talk about it about how they
- 43:14Speaker 3: felt like getting older meant they were disappearing, like they
- 43:18Speaker 3: were no longer seen and what that meant the freedom
- 43:21Speaker 3: and the costs.
- 43:22Speaker 4: And I saw that I think I think it was
- 43:24Speaker 4: before the movie.
- 43:26Speaker 3: So people are talking about how aging has seen that,
- 43:29Speaker 3: and I was like, huh, because again, part of my
- 43:32Speaker 3: conversation is like, I obviously we're all growing older, but
- 43:35Speaker 3: we were getting to a specific age where I'm like,
- 43:36Speaker 3: I'm technically at midlife, So what does that look like?
- 43:40Speaker 3: And have I disappeared and what does disappearing mean?
- 43:44Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 43:46Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I said, a lot of people wrote, especially
- 43:51Speaker 2: around the pandemic, and we've talked about this a lot,
- 43:53Speaker 2: how our bodies changed during the pandemic in ways that
- 43:57Speaker 2: we might not like given standards that we are surrounded
- 44:02Speaker 2: by in society. And people were saying, you know, I
- 44:07Speaker 2: found this. I really related to this, whether they are saying, oh,
- 44:10Speaker 2: it made me feel better about aging, and some people
- 44:12Speaker 2: were just like, it was nice to.
- 44:13Speaker 1: See something about it.
- 44:16Speaker 2: So yeah, I think that is a conversation that's really
- 44:18Speaker 2: happening right now. We should come back and talk about that.
- 44:24Speaker 2: Another thing that happened I got a lot of headlines
- 44:28Speaker 2: was parjap pulled this film from Poland's Camera Image Film
- 44:33Speaker 2: Festival after quote highly misogynistic comments from the festival's founder, Merricks.
- 44:39Speaker 2: Fuadovitz published He pubished an essay titled Time for Solidarity
- 44:45Speaker 2: in Cinematography World, and this essay was his response to
- 44:48Speaker 2: a petition issued by the organization Women in Cinematography in
- 44:52Speaker 2: which they were calling for the event to do more
- 44:54Speaker 2: around supporting women in the industry, and the founder's response
- 44:59Speaker 2: was not great because he said, quote, it raises a question,
- 45:03Speaker 2: can the pursuit of change exclude what is good? Can
- 45:06Speaker 2: we sacrifice works and artists with outstanding artistic achievements solely
- 45:10Speaker 2: to make room for mediocre film production. So he's basically
- 45:16Speaker 2: saying women cinematographers are mediocre, they shouldn't make room for them.
- 45:23Speaker 2: So she pulled the film and it was a whole thing.
- 45:26Speaker 2: The backlash was pretty intense and immediate, and the founder
- 45:29Speaker 2: claims he was misinterpreted. He said he'd been working with
- 45:35Speaker 2: that organization WIC and posted a diversity and inclusion proposal,
- 45:39Speaker 2: though WIC claimed they wrote it and he only posted
- 45:43Speaker 2: it after everyone got mad at him, which sounds about
- 45:47Speaker 2: right too me.
- 45:47Speaker 4: Right, but I, oh no, just kidding, I just claimed it.
- 45:52Speaker 2: Yeah, but this movie has gotten a lot of awards buzz,
- 45:57Speaker 2: so we'll see what happens. I did want to end
- 46:01Speaker 2: with this quote from Farjah. I needed the substance to
- 46:05Speaker 2: be bloody, to be excessive, to have a real strong
- 46:07Speaker 2: message that it's time for a change, for a real change,
- 46:10Speaker 2: and the change cannot be delicate, it cannot be gentle.
- 46:13Speaker 2: It cannot be small. It needs to be massive, It
- 46:16Speaker 2: needs to be everywhere, and it needs.
- 46:17Speaker 1: To be now.
- 46:19Speaker 2: So she really but when we're saying she didn't pull
- 46:23Speaker 2: hold back, she did not hold back. So yeah, I
- 46:30Speaker 2: highly recommend it. It is very gross, but traumatized.
- 46:35Speaker 4: I'm to leave it at that.
- 46:37Speaker 2: Yes, I mean when we say it's body are it's
- 46:41Speaker 2: mm hmm traumatized. Well, thanks for going on this journey
- 46:47Speaker 2: with me, Samantha, and thanks to everybody who recommended it. Uh.
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