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- 1:31Welcome back to Eggs the Podcast.
- 1:33Today's special guest is Jason Friedman, founder and CEO at CX
- 1:36Formula. Jason, how are you, man?
- 1:38I'm great. Ryan.
- 1:39How you doing? Doing well.
- 1:40Thanks so much for joining us, making the time.
- 1:42We really appreciate you. Yeah, I'm excited.
- 1:44Very cool. Why don't we kick things off
- 1:47with just a brief history of your work history?
- 1:49I know you did some lighting in the past that kind of puts me
- 1:53and you on the same, same wavelength there, yeah.
- 1:56Maybe Yeah, yeah, the the backstage past days.
- 1:59Yeah. So you know, my, my, my story
- 2:02started in the world of theater, right.
- 2:04So as a kid, I was kind of a behind the scenes, built some
- 2:08sets, did lighting sounds. I was the AB nerd in school and
- 2:12all through my life I was involved with shows.
- 2:15One of my dreams ended up to be was like I wanted to go out on
- 2:18the road with Rush. They were like my favorite band
- 2:21growing up and I had been to one of those, my first concert that
- 2:25I went to and. You talked about a great first
- 2:28one. Yeah, it was.
- 2:30It was awesome. And and I just like, I just
- 2:33remember like I it, it was doing the lighting for Rush.
- 2:36I just loved it. And so it was one of the goals I
- 2:38set for myself. And I went to go right out of
- 2:40college. I went to go work for the
- 2:42company that had been providing all their lighting gear and the
- 2:45team and whatever. And I went out with Fleetwood
- 2:48Mac. I went out with Peter Gabriel
- 2:50and I went out with Rush and kind of hit that goal.
- 2:53And then from there I went on to do more legit theater.
- 2:56So I did like Fiddler on the Roof, Jesus Christ, Superstar
- 2:58man of Lamont. So I traveled in all these
- 3:01different cities, all these different countries.
- 3:03I'm doing the same show night after night to a different
- 3:07audience. And there was this crazy thing
- 3:09that I experienced, right? It's like every single show,
- 3:12whether it's a rock'n'roll show or a theater show with a
- 3:16different audience, different city, different everything,
- 3:20people had the same reaction in the same spots.
- 3:23So they laughed at the same spot, they cried at the same
- 3:25spot, they clapped at the same spot, they jumped to their feet
- 3:27at the same spot, they started singing along at the same spot,
- 3:30like no matter what. And it was like, holy moly, this
- 3:33is amazing. Like you just kind of have this
- 3:35realization that there's a pattern to this, right?
- 3:37And so having been on the production side, I was, I was an
- 3:41assistant lighting designer and a programmer.
- 3:43So I got involved in the pre production conversations, not
- 3:46just the shows. And, and as I started like
- 3:49seeing the pattern, I'm like, wait, we actually decided that
- 3:52that's what we wanted to have happen.
- 3:53And then we made it happen through the scripting, through
- 3:56the setting, through the, the, the queuing, through all the
- 3:59things that we did, the costumes, the interactions,
- 4:01whatever. And it was actually all
- 4:04intentional. And I was like, wow, like, I
- 4:06wonder if you could do this in business?
- 4:09Like so because I always wanted to, I was an entrepreneur, you
- 4:11know, as a kid, I did have my own bunch of, you know, lemonade
- 4:14stand businesses and what have you.
- 4:16And I was like, that would be really wild.
- 4:18And so my business partner, best friend Drew and I, we've been
- 4:21friends since we're five years old, been doing this for a way,
- 4:24way too long. And we said, you know, let's try
- 4:26this. And we started doing it and it
- 4:28worked. Like we could actually have our
- 4:30customers get the results we wanted by design.
- 4:35It wasn't an accident. It was by it was intention.
- 4:38And so we started doing this with big brands, like we
- 4:40stumbled into it when we brands like Footlocker and Armani and
- 4:44Bank of America and Disney and Universal Studios and then
- 4:47universities like Harvard, Stanford, Yale, Duke, and we
- 4:50were able to help. Them whether it was raising
- 4:52money with donors by having the donors learn about the things
- 4:55they're doing and get really engaged and really excited and
- 4:58take out their checks and write $1,000,000 checks.
- 5:00Or it was retailers that were trying to, you know, sell
- 5:03advanced financial things like get people to open up a home
- 5:06equity loan because they were afraid they didn't know what it
- 5:08was. And getting them educated and
- 5:09having them take those steps. We use the same things and the
- 5:12principles that we learned in theatre to do it in business.
- 5:15And it created this awesome awesome.
- 5:17World. And so like, I've just, I'm not
- 5:20in theatre anymore, but I'm still in theatre, if that makes
- 5:23sense. Yeah, yeah.
- 5:25Can can I? Can I ask a technical question?
- 5:30Back in the day, what time frame was this?
- 5:33Like when you the rock'n'roll days were like 939234.
- 5:42Ish. OK so that what?
- 5:45What controller were you using for programming?
- 5:48Well, a bunch, right? So the company that I worked for
- 5:51when I was doing the Rock'n'roll was C Factor and they had their
- 5:53own called, Oh my gosh, the the light coordinator.
- 5:59The C factor light coordinator was the name of their in house
- 6:02console. And then it was the whole hog
- 6:04and the two and here's we also had the Avalights console for
- 6:08all the static stuff. There's a picture of the HOG 500
- 6:12I used to use. Yeah.
- 6:13Exactly, baby, You know what? This was our our roof that we
- 6:19set up for the Fiesta Bowl. Yep.
- 6:22And this, this is Ryan that that show.
- 6:27As. A 19 year old so a. 21 year old
- 6:29maybe? Yeah, no, it's funny.
- 6:32You know, it's interesting that the insight that you came
- 6:33across, which is this idea that there's sort of this common
- 6:36thread between humans, there's, you know, we react in certain
- 6:39ways to certain things. There's stimuli you can provide
- 6:41that will invoke a certain type of reaction is actually the
- 6:44insight we've had from doing this podcast, over 350 some
- 6:47interviews and stuff like that. What our version of this is that
- 6:50basically everybody has got some degree of creative juice in
- 6:54them, for lack of a better term, right?
- 6:55And and we use it in different ways.
- 6:56Some people start businesses, other people invent things, you
- 6:59know, whatever it is. Yeah.
- 7:00But whatever that is, that sort of makes us all or, you know,
- 7:04this, this inherent creativity and everybody is what ties
- 7:06everyone together. And so as we've done our
- 7:09interviews and things like that over the years, I mean, even
- 7:11though we talked to people from a myriad different sources,
- 7:14they, you know, basically the, the truths they share are
- 7:17universal. So I think it's really
- 7:19interesting that you came to it through that other angle.
- 7:21And, you know, as Mike was sort of indicating, he and I spent a
- 7:23lot of time in the music industry too.
- 7:25Of course, in that era I was working with much smaller bands
- 7:27than Rush and Fleetwood Mac, but.
- 7:30I did too. I did too.
- 7:31I just mentioned the big ones. But.
- 7:33Nonetheless, those were the fun times, right?
- 7:35And, and so, and I can, I can totally relate to what you're
- 7:38talking about. And I think more than anything,
- 7:41the thing that really stands out about what you're saying is
- 7:43there's this quote that I think we stole from your website or
- 7:46something, but it's this concept of stopping random acts of
- 7:48marketing. And I think it's really
- 7:50important conceptually because so many people do just kind of
- 7:53market for market's sake. And it seems like what you're
- 7:57talking about is also something we've really landed on in the
- 7:59show, which is intentionality and, you know, not just doing
- 8:03something because, hey, everybody's on social media.
- 8:05So we should be on social media too.
- 8:07Rather it's, you know, we're choosing Twitter or Instagram
- 8:11because that's the right channel for our people.
- 8:13And we want to invoke this kind of reaction.
- 8:14And, you know, it is that thoughtful response.
- 8:16So I think that you know what you're, what you're saying
- 8:20anyway, is ringing very true to me.
- 8:22I love that. Yeah.
- 8:23I love the alignment, you know? And what I found is it is that
- 8:26intentionality is the core of everything.
- 8:29And the thing that's so crazy, like, again, I learned it, this
- 8:32Mr. Miyagi wax on, wax off just over the years, not knowing what
- 8:36I was learning. And then one day I could, like,
- 8:38win the match, right? It was just, that's just kind of
- 8:39how it came about. But what's so interesting is
- 8:42you're in theater, you're forced to focus on the audience.
- 8:47Everything is about the audience.
- 8:48It's like what are the sight lines?
- 8:49What are the angles? What are they seeing?
- 8:51What happens when we want to do a scene change how we make sure
- 8:54that they they don't lose their attention and they start talking
- 8:56and go on their cell phone or whatever.
- 8:58So everything is focused on them.
- 9:00In business, we don't always have that intensity and focus on
- 9:05our customers and we lose sight of that.
- 9:07And a lot of times we get so myopic and look at it through
- 9:10our lens as the company. We forget to flip the script and
- 9:13look at it through the other way as the customer.
- 9:16And so it's so important for all of us, any business that you're
- 9:20in, right? Even if you're in just a
- 9:22relationship with your spouse or your kids, we got to look at
- 9:25like, what is that other person feeling and seeing and, and what
- 9:29is what's happening for them? Because we understand what's
- 9:32happening for us, but we take for granted that other side.
- 9:35And so essentially. Everything we do.
- 9:37Yeah. You're, you're essentially just
- 9:39producing the sales process and flow.
- 9:42Can you maybe talk about this the transition period from going
- 9:47from lighting guy, Broadway guy, production guy to let's put this
- 9:52into sales process and work with business and maybe talk about
- 9:57that first client? Because you know that that had
- 10:02to be a learning process and going the first couple events or
- 10:07the things that you did in that world is where you learn the
- 10:10most from and you start honing in your processes and and
- 10:13building from that. So maybe breakdown those first
- 10:16couple events? Yeah, that's great.
- 10:18So you know our I'm going to talk about my second client
- 10:23because my first client had nothing to do with where we are
- 10:25today, but my second client was actually Footlocker, right?
- 10:29So shoe store. Well, that's a big kind of
- 10:31second client, actually. That's it.
- 10:33It was. It was, Listen, it's a small
- 10:36world, you know that, right? Like we, we all like 6° of
- 10:38separation. So the way I got that client was
- 10:41I had been an assistant lighting designer for a little thing at
- 10:44Universal Studios. It was, they do this thing
- 10:47called Halloween Horror Nights. So they bring in outside
- 10:49designers and people that help like, you know, make it a cool
- 10:52event within the theme park. And so the there was a lighting
- 10:56designer. I was his assistant.
- 10:57I came down, did that. And then the guy that happened
- 11:01to be CEO of the Footlocker Corporation at the time happened
- 11:06to be a previous Disney exec and he knew that designer and he saw
- 11:10what we were doing is like, hey, can you guys come?
- 11:12And we want to create a store of the future.
- 11:14Will you guys come in and kind of figure it out with us?
- 11:15So they saw at this was like 9697, right?
- 11:22So they saw like online was just starting, like people were
- 11:26starting to sell things online and they were like, look, we
- 11:29want to make sure that people come and buy in the store and
- 11:32it's great and it's fun and it, and it's, it's better than
- 11:34buying online because they knew that they were going to have
- 11:36lots of, you know, price competition from just random
- 11:40people trying to sell lower priced stuff.
- 11:42And so they had that foresight, which was really wild at the
- 11:45time, right? And So what we started talking
- 11:47about was what would a store? Of the future look like what
- 11:50would how would it how would it function?
- 11:52Why would it be great and whatever.
- 11:54And so they found this amazing. Space.
- 11:57It's right outside of Boston, in Watertown, MA.
- 12:00It was called the Art. It still is the Arsenal.
- 12:02Mall. And so it's like this old like
- 12:04army arsenal building. So it's kind of a.
- 12:05Cool place, like open rafters, like big high ceilings and
- 12:09whatever. And they wanted to build it
- 12:10there and they had a store there.
- 12:11And we walked in and they're like, we want screens and we
- 12:15want lights and we want sound and all this.
- 12:17And we're like, OK, cool. So like where would you see
- 12:19this? Like we were just literally
- 12:20staying in the space and like, well, there's outlets up there.
- 12:23Let's put the screens there. And I'm like, I don't think we
- 12:26should decide where things go based on it's easy to plug it in
- 12:29like. So then I started just asking
- 12:32questions like. Like.
- 12:33Why do we want a? Screen in the first place.
- 12:35Let's say that the customer sees the screen.
- 12:37Then what? What do you want that?
- 12:39To what what action do you want them to take after seeing the
- 12:42screen? Like what we want them to buy
- 12:44stuff. I'm like, OK, and so what's
- 12:46going to be on the screen that's going to make them want to buy
- 12:48stuff? And they're like, we hadn't even
- 12:50thought of that. Like we just wanted screens,
- 12:51right? And so as we started to reverse
- 12:53engineer what we wanted the customers behaviors to be, we
- 12:57started to think about like what would, what would, what, what?
- 13:00Journey could they go on through the store that would have them
- 13:04have these feelings have this excitement have this desire to
- 13:07maybe purchase a new product or try on something else or maybe
- 13:10see something that they would not normally see because they're
- 13:13just in a hurry to go grab a pair of shoes and leave right
- 13:16and So what we started to do was think about what what would what
- 13:20would that look like Then we started to look at some stats.
- 13:23And data like. What, what customers bought more
- 13:26stuff in their other stores? Like what made people buy more?
- 13:29And what we started to find was that if a customer had a
- 13:32positive experience working with a a person, the more time they
- 13:36spent in the store, the, the more was the total card value,
- 13:39right? The more that they purchased and
- 13:41so we started. Thinking about like, how could
- 13:43we get them to enjoy being in the store and actually go
- 13:45through the store the way we would want them to?
- 13:48Like if we could create the perfect sales experience, what
- 13:51would that look like? And so we wanted it to be where
- 13:54and when they walked in the store, the energy shifted like
- 13:58they got into that athletic, like, I feel good in here.
- 14:01Like, I want to like, look at that.
- 14:02I want to lose weight. I want to work out.
- 14:04I want to, you know, have the right shoes for the right sport,
- 14:06for the right function. You know, I need the right
- 14:09shirts, I need the right gloves, I need the right whatever.
- 14:11And So what we started to do was like think about all the
- 14:14different kinds of people that went in there, the avatars, if
- 14:16you will, and what would that look like for each of them on
- 14:19their journey. And so when we designed the
- 14:21first store. It was designed to pull them in
- 14:24as if it was like a lazy river, right?
- 14:26If you've ever been on one of those where just there's a
- 14:28current that moves you through the space.
- 14:30That, you know, that's hilarious that you say that because as
- 14:33you've been describing this, what I've been thinking of in my
- 14:36head is Disneyland and it's a small world.
- 14:39You know, it's like you're literally going through this and
- 14:41at the end they got a photo for you to buy.
- 14:43You know, it's like here we're going to describe the story and
- 14:47it. Is that kind of an idea right?
- 14:48We're taking you on that journey and.
- 14:50And you're along for the ride, and you're open to it.
- 14:52Right. You're not feeling forced,
- 14:54you're feeling. Like it's smooth and it flows
- 14:56and it's good. And so we, we created media and
- 14:59content that was immersive, like truly like the entire store
- 15:03would transform in a heartbeat. And it wasn't just spectacle, it
- 15:07was actually elevating their heart rate.
- 15:10And so we'd have like the first four pieces of media.
- 15:12It was like hands, feet, balls. And heartbeat.
- 15:16And so it was like some people be juggling.
- 15:18Balls and do all these different things with balls and then you
- 15:21see that like Footlocker referee, they're a little logo
- 15:23guy. You'd hear like a couple tweets
- 15:24on the whistle and then all. The lights in the store would
- 15:26highlight something that that would be related to basketballs
- 15:29or soccer balls or whatever. And so be like, oh, that's kind
- 15:32of cool. I want to go check that out.
- 15:34And then it would go and it'd be heartbeat.
- 15:35So you'd see like crazy media, you'd be hearing the heartbeat.
- 15:38It'd start beating faster and faster and people would get
- 15:41excited when they're in the store.
- 15:43They would noticeably shift their energy.
- 15:45And so we were able to showcase more products, explain why
- 15:49products were better. And ultimately in that flagship
- 15:52pilot, we did this one flagship pilot, we had a 400% increase in
- 15:56sales because we were able to do all those things.
- 16:00And so they're like, this has got to be a fluke.
- 16:02We got to do it again. And so we did another store just
- 16:04outside of Chicago in Oak Brook, IL, the headquarters of of
- 16:08McDonald's, right? So we did one there and we had
- 16:10the same result. We had like a 400% increase in
- 16:13sales, right? Then we did another one just
- 16:16outside of New York City in Stamford, CT Same thing, 400%
- 16:20increase. Were these pop up shops or were
- 16:22they? Were they pop up shops for just
- 16:25a temporary period or were they permanent installs for?
- 16:27No, these were permanent. These are like legit builds.
- 16:30Yeah, yeah. So then we rolled it out to
- 16:33like, like I said, I was saying like over 1000 locations and
- 16:37they had massive. And they weren't all the big.
- 16:39Flagship levels, right? The key cities got like the
- 16:41biggest ones. So there's an A store, AB store,
- 16:44AC store, AD store, an E store, right?
- 16:46And we did some in, we did Japan, we did Mexico, we did
- 16:49Canada. I mean, it was all over the
- 16:50world. And that was our first big foray
- 16:54into this. And what we talked about at that
- 16:57point was creating really cool like theatricality.
- 17:02And we ended up, we were more of, we did all this stuff, but
- 17:06we were thinking of ourselves more as a systems integrator, an
- 17:09AV company than we were thinking of ourselves as an experiential
- 17:13marketing agency in the very beginning, right, We didn't
- 17:16know. And the questions that we
- 17:18started asking started to elevate us.
- 17:21And then other brands would reach out to us saying, why did
- 17:24you like, we love what you did and the we want screens, we want
- 17:27this. And we say, great, why do you
- 17:28want screens? Like we learned to ask the right
- 17:30questions in the beginning and all of a sudden people wanted to
- 17:34hire us for the strategy first. And so we.
- 17:38Started to sell strategy versus peddling plasma screens at the
- 17:42time to to make a living. We were selling strategies and
- 17:45then they wanted us to do all the execution because the
- 17:48strategy, they wanted this design build turnkey solution.
- 17:53So our team at the time was like we had the strategists and the
- 17:57designers, we had the content creators and the media people,
- 18:01and we had the installers and the contractor kind of people,
- 18:04all three of those functions in our business.
- 18:07And that's what we did for people.
- 18:08And we did like all those big brands and we were doing
- 18:11rollouts like we'd get a flagship design or what have
- 18:14you. And then we'd roll out hundreds
- 18:16or thousands of locations. And our team grew very, very
- 18:19rapidly. That's how we ended up like on
- 18:21the inks list of fastest growing companies because we'd assigned
- 18:24big clients and we'd blow this up and end up doing thousands of
- 18:27locations. I ended up with over 1500
- 18:29employees in cities all over the first the US and then in other
- 18:33countries. That's OK.
- 18:35And this all started as me in my living room.
- 18:37Yeah, Yeah. That's incredible.
- 18:39Well, so I mean, it's interesting to me that even and
- 18:41maybe it just comes from your production background and Mike
- 18:44and I have sort of similar backgrounds.
- 18:46I assume that makes us all better people.
- 18:48But it's interesting to me that as you started to work through
- 18:52even your, I guess your second client with Footlocker, you
- 18:56started to get the notion of different ideas, you know, the
- 18:58types of questions to ask the the concept of, of creating an
- 19:01avatar and moving through that. And that's kind of a popular way
- 19:05of doing things today. But I mean, at the time that was
- 19:07probably pretty on the edge. And so I wonder if you could
- 19:10talk about, you know, how as your business evolved and the
- 19:12type of work you evolved and all those things started to grow.
- 19:15Can you talk about more, I guess maybe in terms of, you know, how
- 19:18somebody might apply this in their own business?
- 19:21It's a startup founder or maybe somebody who's, you know, trying
- 19:24to improve their business. How?
- 19:26Could they begin down sort of the experiential journey of a,
- 19:30of a customer, you know, in I guess more of a systematic way
- 19:34or the way that you might approach it now is somebody
- 19:36who's been doing this for years versus somebody who's just, you
- 19:39know, winging it? Yeah, totally.
- 19:41So we that's what we teach people today, right?
- 19:44Like that's what we do. So we have a formula that we
- 19:46sell, we teach, we coach, we have different ways to sell it.
- 19:48And so I'm going to just kind of share with you the high level of
- 19:51what that is because that's that's what we do, right?
- 19:54And so first and foremost, it is about reverse engineering,
- 19:58right? And so most people think, OK,
- 20:00what's the first thing that we want a customer to do?
- 20:02I want you to start at the last thing, right?
- 20:04And so we call this again, my theatre background, right?
- 20:08Like when there's. Here's the thing, like it was
- 20:11the script and and how we brought that script to life that
- 20:15made that reaction night after night happen, right?
- 20:18So we start with that script and then we bring that script to
- 20:21life. So what I want you to start
- 20:23with, whatever your business is, it's irrelevant.
- 20:25What I want you to start with is you have to really say to
- 20:29yourself, my customer just finished something with me.
- 20:32They finished my course. They listened to a podcast
- 20:35episode. They attended an event, they
- 20:37came to my yoga studio. They, you know, we went to my
- 20:40driving school, whatever it happens to be.
- 20:43And they like, loved it. It was like the best experience
- 20:46they've ever had. What would you want them to say
- 20:50about their entire journey? Right?
- 20:52I want you to script that reaction.
- 20:54We call that writing your ideal customer script.
- 20:56And so I want you to think about writing it not like, hey, you
- 20:59know, I, I, I, I took Ryan's weight loss program and I lost
- 21:0320 lbs. It was awesome.
- 21:05That's not helpful. I want to be like, you know
- 21:07what, I've been on this journey to lose weight for a really long
- 21:10time. I've tried 10 or 20 diet
- 21:12programs and nothing ever worked.
- 21:13But I, I ran into this guy Ryan, and you know, as he was talking,
- 21:17he was saying things that were going on in my head that I like,
- 21:21I couldn't articulate myself. It was powerful.
- 21:23And so I decided to take a chance on his program and I'm so
- 21:26glad I did. Let me tell you what happened.
- 21:28And then you go through it and you're sharing the journey of
- 21:30what happened and people relate to that, right?
- 21:33And so by the time that we get to the end, it wasn't the 20 lbs
- 21:36that you lost. It was like, I have my life back
- 21:39instead of like sitting on my couch Saturday night, not going
- 21:42out with friends because I don't have nothing to wear because
- 21:43nothing fits me. I have my life back.
- 21:46Like I walk into my in my closet, I have options.
- 21:47I'm calling friends to go out instead of being the person
- 21:50that's receiving the call saying sorry, I'm not going out.
- 21:52This has changed my life, right? That's what we want.
- 21:56So I want you to think about that.
- 21:57I mean. You can make it up even if
- 21:59you're starting a business out. We got to make it up and then
- 22:03we're going to look at that. It leaves clues of what things
- 22:05have to happen along the journey.
- 22:08When you do this, you're doing it from the eyes through the
- 22:11Glens of your customer, right? Not from the business.
- 22:14I want you to step inside those shoes.
- 22:16So for many of us, like some of us, have built a business of
- 22:18something that we went through ourselves.
- 22:20Now we have the curse of knowledge.
- 22:21We know too much. So I need you to go back in time
- 22:24when you were that customer or pick one of your ideal
- 22:26customers, or pick a friend that you know that needs this and
- 22:29step into their shoes, right? So that's where I want you to
- 22:33start. I want you to write.
- 22:33That script and then we can go backwards and we can start to
- 22:38put things in place along the journey that will have them
- 22:40authentically share that script and and what ends up happening.
- 22:45So most of our businesses, we spend, we, we got to fill the
- 22:48funnel, right? We got to get more business.
- 22:49I get that. But we spend all of our focus
- 22:52trying to get strangers to say yes instead of taking the people
- 22:55that did say yes, our customers and obsessing and focusing on
- 22:59them and helping them get those results.
- 23:01We miss that most businesses. And that's where I started
- 23:04saying, like in theater, everything's about the audience.
- 23:07Your customers are your audience, your employees are
- 23:10your audience, your partners and vendors are your audience.
- 23:14They're different audiences. But if we focus on how to help
- 23:16all of those people be successful, the stories that we
- 23:19get, they're powerful. That becomes the best marketing
- 23:23to fill your funnel that you can and we'll bring the right fit
- 23:26clients in. And it's also going to give you
- 23:29a lot more power because what ends up happening, like we think
- 23:33of like the ideal outcome as we call it the R4.
- 23:36We want clients who rave about their experience.
- 23:38We want clients who renew their subscriptions or their
- 23:42memberships in your programs. We want them to, you know,
- 23:46purchase, you know, more products like, so we want them
- 23:50to, you know, want, what else do you have?
- 23:53What else do you offer? Right?
- 23:55So we looking for that. And then ultimately we want them
- 23:58to go out and not just refer customers, but recruit customers
- 24:03like where they're actively going out and saying, dude,
- 24:05you've got to go work with Jason.
- 24:06Like he's amazing and it's going to change your life.
- 24:09Like do not just don't question it, Go do it right?
- 24:12Ryan's going to help you more than anybody else.
- 24:15And we all have had customers that do that, that they're like
- 24:17so passionate. And if you have an online
- 24:19business like affiliate marketing becomes a big thing
- 24:22when your customers become your affiliates because they had such
- 24:26a transformation, The authenticity that they share the
- 24:29stories with and that they market with, they're powerful.
- 24:32They're more powerful. Than anything else you can do.
- 24:35So that's why I want you to start by writing that story in a
- 24:38powerful way first. And it's not just the result,
- 24:41it's the journey. I, I love that if you think of
- 24:45like a, you know, a concert, for example, you know, you've got an
- 24:49opening band, you've got another band, you got the headliner as a
- 24:54production coordinator or lighting guy or someone involved
- 24:56with the show, You're not going to use the same light setup that
- 25:00you're going to use for the headliner.
- 25:02And even when the headliner's playing, you're not going to
- 25:04start with the biggest, craziest scene, you're going to end with
- 25:10it. And so you're literally planning
- 25:11the night and you're, if you're a DJ, you're doing the same
- 25:14thing you're starting with, you know, you're more chill stuff
- 25:17and you're kind of building a vibe and you're going through
- 25:20and you, you peek and then you slow it down to close the night
- 25:23out. And so there's always kind of a
- 25:25flow to it. And I, I love your thought
- 25:28process coming from the production side of thing and
- 25:32putting it into retail and sales and, and telling the story and
- 25:36getting it out there. I, I haven't worked with, you
- 25:39know, giant clients like Foot Locker to the scale of building
- 25:45the whole store out. But I have worked with Macy's.
- 25:47And one of the things that we used to do back in the day is I
- 25:51would come in and I would set up a sound systems and basic lights
- 25:55and they would do product demos for like cooking.
- 25:59And they'd bring a chef in and he would, and we'd mic up the
- 26:03chef and we'd, I'd play some music beforehand.
- 26:06And then he would actually cook a meal in front of the, the
- 26:09people that came to, to watch him cook.
- 26:13And then he would, he would use the actual products that they
- 26:18are selling. So he, he would walk over and
- 26:20open a new package with a knife in it and use it right in front
- 26:23of them. Oh, this is great.
- 26:25And and then they would get the taste this meal that was made
- 26:29before their eyes and they could see that, you know, they could
- 26:32do this. And now, hey, why don't I go buy
- 26:34that same product? Why don't I go do this?
- 26:37And it's kind of the same kind of thing.
- 26:39Storytelling at a, at a smaller scale than, you know, creating
- 26:42the whole production of going through the store, but actually
- 26:45seeing someone use the product and then tasting that meal is,
- 26:50you know, equivalent to the same thing.
- 26:52You're telling the story in the process and you're you're
- 26:55building that story. So I love.
- 26:57That, yeah, me too. And so I love that.
- 27:00That's a great example. Macy's happened to be a client
- 27:01that we worked with as well. And so one of the things we did
- 27:04for them, as a similar example, is we would go into the swimsuit
- 27:08section, right, And we would change the lighting so we'd have
- 27:11brighter lighting there and we'd lower the lighting elsewhere so
- 27:14it felt warmer, it looked. Warm, natural draw into.
- 27:18Natural draw in and then we had it was all track lighting,
- 27:21right, And so we actually created a scent diffuser that
- 27:24looked like a track head, just like the other lights, but it
- 27:27would spray the scent or like blow this scent over these like
- 27:30they were like polymer beads that had the scent impregnated
- 27:33in them and it would just be a little fan that but but it
- 27:35smelled like Hawaiian tropics suntan lotion.
- 27:38And so when you're in that area, you just felt like you were at
- 27:41the beach. We had some like wave sounds and
- 27:43whatever. And swimsuit sales went up
- 27:45because people felt like, oh, it's the season now.
- 27:49Right. And I love it.
- 27:50How do we how do we do that? Right.
- 27:52And it is about using as many of the senses as we can.
- 27:55In theatre, we do that. That's why we like the costumes
- 27:58matter, the lighting, the sound, the props, the, you know, all of
- 28:01those things. It, it all matters.
- 28:03It helps to tell the story right?
- 28:05And that's what we're all doing right?
- 28:07And if we're smart, we're the guides and our customers are the
- 28:10heroes in our journey, and we're helping them write their success
- 28:15story. And if we're part of that as
- 28:17their guide, they're going to pay homage, they're going to
- 28:19share that, they're going to tell other people.
- 28:21And like people talk about two opposite ends of the spectrum.
- 28:24When something sucks and when it's awesome, the middle doesn't
- 28:27matter, right? And so like, we have an
- 28:30opportunity, all of us in our businesses and our personal
- 28:32lives, we have an opportunity to give people things to talk
- 28:35about, right? But it's going to be this end or
- 28:38this end. So you got to choose.
- 28:40And what I see is the biggest mistake.
- 28:42So I'm going to just throw out like a caveat.
- 28:44People try and like there's this thing we call the cursive over
- 28:47delivery. They think like like lower
- 28:50expectations and over deliver. What Over delivery in a chronic
- 28:54sense, when you're always trying to over deliver, it overwhelms,
- 28:58right? We can win and lose customers in
- 29:00a micro moment. So what we have to do once we
- 29:03really understand what's going on in our customers, who those
- 29:05avatars are, I'll come back to that in a second.
- 29:07Then we can find key moments where over delivery will be well
- 29:11received, where they'll really appreciate it and feel it and
- 29:14feel the gratitude and it will help them move forward in a
- 29:18bigger way to get bigger results.
- 29:21But if everything's over delivery, there's no context for
- 29:24over delivery. It becomes expectation and then
- 29:27it's just normal. It's no more.
- 29:29So all you're doing is making it more work for the company, more
- 29:32expense for the company, overwhelmed for the person and
- 29:36they're not even appreciating it.
- 29:37Well, and I think this goes back to your earlier point about, you
- 29:40know, intentionality, right? I mean, the reason people over
- 29:42deliver, right, is because they're trying to win repeat
- 29:44business or they're really trying to impress people.
- 29:47But the times that it works the best, at least, you know, in my
- 29:50own experience as a consumer, are the times when it's totally
- 29:53unexpected and it's just somebody kind of hooking you up.
- 29:56They're just doing the thing to help you, you know, and it's not
- 29:59built into the formula. It's not something their boss
- 30:01encouraged them to do, but it's just, you know, a human on
- 30:04human, you know, emotional connection where they see you
- 30:07need a little something and they're helping you out.
- 30:09Or you know what, let me go on back and see there might be 1
- 30:12back there or let me do whatever.
- 30:13But it's something above and beyond the expectation.
- 30:17And I think that that's a really good point because we do,
- 30:19especially in today's society. I mean, you know, I think just
- 30:23kind of with the advent of technology and, and all the
- 30:25sorts of things that are going on in modern marketing, it's
- 30:29really easy to be overwhelmed anyway.
- 30:31There's so much noise, there's so much everything and some
- 30:33manic customer service representative that's going out
- 30:36of control to over deliver. It just kind of adds to that
- 30:39noise, right? It feels unauthentic.
- 30:41It doesn't feel realistic and it feels like this is something
- 30:45that is part of this process. And I just know every time I
- 30:48come to store X that they're always going to do this weird
- 30:51thing. You know, for me, it's kind of
- 30:52the, and maybe this isn't a great example, but it's like at
- 30:56Chick-fil-A when they say pleasure at the end of their
- 30:58thing. So it's, you know, pleasure to
- 31:00serve you or whatever. And for me, it's a little much,
- 31:02right? I would rather have something
- 31:03that because when they all say pleasure, it doesn't mean
- 31:05anything. You know, pleasure is just
- 31:07pleasure, pleasure, pleasure. Everybody says pleasure and it
- 31:09sounds a little bit creepy. One of the.
- 31:11Biggest. But if somebody you know gives
- 31:13you a good authentic, you know, hey, thanks for coming by.
- 31:15It was awesome to have you today.
- 31:16You know, whatever like that would be so out of place in a
- 31:18sea full of pleasures that you would be like kind of taken
- 31:22aback by it, I think. And so I think there's room to
- 31:24do stuff that's a little off script and and I think it could
- 31:27be maybe even more impactful. As a, as a consumer as well, one
- 31:31of the biggest turn offs for me is when it clicks that I'm being
- 31:34sold to, you know, when, when it's, you're having a
- 31:38conversation and it turns into a sales pitch or it's forced.
- 31:41And it's, it's not like your subtle lighting and scent kind
- 31:46of thing, you know, like the, the subliminal kind of things I
- 31:49think go a lot further for me than the, the guy trying to sell
- 31:53me a condo on a vacation. You know, it's like the forest
- 31:58portion of it or the the commercial that you know it.
- 32:01It really, really ticks me off when I'm watching something and
- 32:04I don't realize it's a commercial and I realize I sat
- 32:07through a commercial because I just hate commercials.
- 32:10You know what I mean? But.
- 32:13Totally to. Ryan's point, yeah.
- 32:15Well, and you know what's interesting about that?
- 32:17Just using the example of your infusing scent into the area,
- 32:20right? I think if I was really gonna
- 32:22play devil's advocate, I imagine there are people who might be
- 32:25like, well, they're just trying to trick me, whatever.
- 32:27And those are the cynics of the world and those are the people
- 32:29we can't plan for. But I think what it does, which
- 32:32is maybe the more important part or maybe the piece to call out
- 32:35in this is it brings back a memory from your youth.
- 32:38It connects you to a memory of being on the beach.
- 32:40It does a thing. And so whatever it does, I mean,
- 32:42you call it subliminal marketing and call it whatever you want to
- 32:45call it. But what it is doing is
- 32:46triggering something real in a person where it's an emotional
- 32:48connection. And I think a lot of times, and
- 32:50again, maybe just in our sort of hyper, you know, consumer world
- 32:54that we live in, people lose sight of their connection with
- 32:58the things that they buy. And sometimes it's really easy
- 33:00just to hit buy and, and you just don't even think about it.
- 33:02Like I don't really think a lot about the connection I have
- 33:04between the thing I bought on Amazon or whatever.
- 33:07Like I'm not really that invested in it.
- 33:09But for in person stuff, especially and, and some online
- 33:12experiences, I think that emotional touch, like is the
- 33:16whole difference, right? I mean, it is, I feel good about
- 33:20the decision because of, you know, some other thing that's
- 33:23totally outside of the, or the company's control, but, you
- 33:26know, they had the wherewithal to make a connection with me on
- 33:29an emotional level. And so I'm choosing, you know,
- 33:32there's that old saying that you do business people business with
- 33:35people, you know, like and trust.
- 33:37And so, and it's kind of like that on a, on a consumer level,
- 33:39right? I mean, you buy the products
- 33:41that you know, or you have an affinity for a brand or that you
- 33:44trust and that they, they have served you well or you believe
- 33:47they will. And so I think that that
- 33:49insight, you know, more than just sort of subliminal
- 33:51marketing or whatever, I think that the insight of making an
- 33:54emotional connection with your customers or prospective
- 33:56customers, you know, might be the most valuable thing you can
- 33:59do. And I think that's kind of what
- 34:00you're saying with evoking these responses from folks?
- 34:02100% yeah. I got I have three things to
- 34:04share so that were triggered by this last conversation, which I
- 34:07love so much. This has been so much fun guys.
- 34:09I'm so glad that we're doing this.
- 34:11So. So first of all, there's a great
- 34:13quote that's like it's either good design or great design is
- 34:18the absence of distraction. Yeah, right.
- 34:20And I think as we like look at our businesses, as we look at
- 34:23the things we design, market our websites, whatever, like we have
- 34:27to be focused, right? Like we don't want to distract
- 34:30people. And I think when you over
- 34:31deliver all the time, whatever, we're distracting people, right.
- 34:34So I think it's just a great quote.
- 34:35I don't know who said it, it wasn't me.
- 34:37I just think it's a powerful quote.
- 34:39The second thing I want to share is, you know, along the lines of
- 34:42what you're saying, right? So this intentionality is
- 34:44important. I don't think any of this as
- 34:46subliminal. I think what you said is
- 34:48absolutely true. The number one thing that we
- 34:50focus on is how our customers are feeling, right?
- 34:54And so in our formula, right, we call it the kinetic customer
- 34:56formula, there's four key variables.
- 34:59There's attitudes, there's behaviors, there's friction, and
- 35:03there's momentum, right? And so attitudes are what people
- 35:06are thinking and expecting, right?
- 35:09Behaviors are what they're doing.
- 35:12Friction is what's stopping them, and momentum is what's
- 35:16moving them forward, right? And so like, those are the key
- 35:18variables. But what changes, like all of
- 35:22these things is how they're feeling, right?
- 35:24If something feels hard or something feels difficult or
- 35:27something feels good or feels easy, it's it.
- 35:30It helps get people results. And as we define like what is a
- 35:35client's experience? A client's experience is how
- 35:38your customer feels after interacting with your brand.
- 35:42It's their perception, right? It may not be always reality
- 35:46because remember someone's journey.
- 35:47We can't control what happened before they.
- 35:49Got to our website, they could have had the worst day ever.
- 35:52We don't know what happened. Then they had they got to our
- 35:55website, they saw our ad, something happened or they
- 35:58stepped in our retail store. They're coming in with that
- 36:00baggage. And so as a salesperson or a
- 36:03customer advocate or whatever, as a team member, we have to be
- 36:08empathetic. We have to understand our
- 36:10customers and we have to understand the journeys that
- 36:13they're going on. And it is about that feeling and
- 36:14acknowledging that and seeing that.
- 36:17And so often we're on script like you were saying, like,
- 36:19right, you know, when we're just saying the words, but we're not
- 36:22looking at the reaction. So I think what you said is so
- 36:25beautiful. It's like we have to give
- 36:27permission to people to go off script, right?
- 36:29But the context of the show and the theme.
- 36:33So our mission, our vision, our values of of our businesses
- 36:37inform what's safe to do off script and allow them to be the
- 36:42individuals that people get to know, like and trust.
- 36:45But they're part of the brand story.
- 36:47They do it within those. So I hear people all the time,
- 36:51especially small business owners, mission, vision, values
- 36:53for big companies. It's not, it's just not like you
- 36:56need that to guide the direction of your business.
- 36:59The way I help people scale businesses is by having clarity.
- 37:03In all of these. Things, right, Clarity allows
- 37:05your team to thrive. It allows your customers to
- 37:06thrive. And we've been talking a lot
- 37:08about expectations, right? Like if we don't set
- 37:11expectations for our team and for our customers, guess what?
- 37:14They have them anyway. And then we're going to have,
- 37:17we're not going to be guaranteed to be in alignment, right?
- 37:20And so it's just so important that perception that our
- 37:23customers have. If we set expectations and we
- 37:25manage them well, then we can definitely find the key moments
- 37:28to over deliver because we're making sure that we we deliver.
- 37:32And most, I mean, how many bad experiences do you hear on
- 37:36social media or from friends? Like that's what most people
- 37:38talk about. It's not usually the amazing
- 37:40stuff that seems to be less frequent that people are, are
- 37:44having those amazing experiences.
- 37:46It's more frequent that something just pissed them off
- 37:49and it can, you know, one of the.
- 37:51One of the things we say to people all the time is like.
- 37:52You can have go from having a raving fan to a raving lunatic
- 37:56in an instant because you could drop the ball as a company and
- 37:59they could have been so charged up and so happy.
- 38:01And then that one thing coupled with whatever else is going on
- 38:05in the world can make them be really angry and really upset.
- 38:08So as our businesses, we really do have to be mindful of how
- 38:11people feel. It's just so.
- 38:13Important I'd like to maybe talk about I want to share kind of a
- 38:16personal experience because I'm going through one of these right
- 38:18now where I'm, you know, we're investing in a well, not
- 38:21investing. We're investing in that.
- 38:23It's costing me and my wife a lot of money, but we're in the
- 38:26process of trying to get our oldest son recruited into
- 38:29college to play football. And so we did a ton of shopping.
- 38:33We did a ton of research. Finally somebody gave us a
- 38:35recommendation of company to engage with for this, this kind
- 38:39of work. They do.
- 38:40They're, you know, the biggest one in the country and all this
- 38:43stuff. And you know, and just to give
- 38:44you guys an idea, I mean, you know, we're talking to the tune
- 38:47of five grand, right? So I mean, this is not a little
- 38:49investment to work with this company and what I've discovered
- 38:54in working with them. And I won't name them here, but
- 38:57the big thing that happened for me, and I think that this is
- 39:01something that we could maybe explore, you may have examples
- 39:03of and how we overcome it is there's big disconnect between
- 39:07what you think you're getting for the money and what they're
- 39:09delivering for the money. Now there's multiple aspects of
- 39:12their business, right? And so, I mean, there's a piece
- 39:14of the business that's, you know, one-on-one coaching and
- 39:17things like that. And the people side seems to be
- 39:18pretty good. Although to, to nod back to, to
- 39:21Mike's comment earlier about feeling sold all the time.
- 39:24These guys feel like they're always selling you.
- 39:25They're always asking for a survey.
- 39:27Hey, we talked for 15 minutes. Can you fill out the survey?
- 39:30You know, and I, I know why companies do this stuff, but it
- 39:32just feels a little, it's like, OK, I already gave you the
- 39:34money. Stop, stop with this.
- 39:35And so, but, but the other aspect that's happening is like,
- 39:39so for example, their software feels really Yankee, their app
- 39:42barely works, you know, these kinds of things.
- 39:44So you've invested all this money in this company.
- 39:46And like I said, they're the biggest one in the country.
- 39:48So they, I mean, no shortage of money coming in.
- 39:51And they're clearly, in my opinion anyway, the biggest in
- 39:53the country because they spend more on marketing than anybody
- 39:56than, you know, investing in their own business or whatever
- 39:59and building a true, you know, a, a platform that could
- 40:02actually serve their customers better.
- 40:04Sure. And So what what I want to try
- 40:06and have a discussion around is this concept of disconnect or
- 40:09sort of the the difference of? You know, a customer's
- 40:13expectation versus what the customer receives.
- 40:16And I'm at least objective enough to recognize I may have
- 40:19come into this with some expectation that they didn't set
- 40:22right arbitrarily. X number of dollars means X
- 40:26level of value to me, but that doesn't necessarily have any
- 40:28relationship to what they believe, right?
- 40:30So, so, you know, in their defense, you know, maybe they're
- 40:33doing the right thing for, for the dollar amount, but that's
- 40:36been my big take away from this experience.
- 40:38And I actually would have, you know, to your point about you
- 40:41only really talk about the best or the worst.
- 40:43They, they sent me a survey yesterday asking about, you
- 40:46know, would you recommend us to somebody?
- 40:48And I wrote back this long review about, well, the people
- 40:51are great. You know, I don't want this to
- 40:52reflect on the person, but be aware that every other aspect of
- 40:55your, your operation is a let down.
- 40:58And you know, and so, you know, of course I hear back from
- 41:01everybody today and everything but, but so for companies like
- 41:05this, so let's say that a company like this engages with
- 41:08you guys, they, they recognize, hey, you know what we're getting
- 41:10reviews like this that are, you know, we've got some things
- 41:13right, other things aren't right.
- 41:14And we want to try and, you know, fix this disconnect or
- 41:16manage the disconnect between what customers are expecting and
- 41:19what customers are getting. How would you approach something
- 41:22like that? Or how would you encourage a
- 41:24company like that to try and resolve that disconnect?
- 41:28Because I suspect that this is something that happens a lot and
- 41:30probably more with like luxury goods and other things or maybe
- 41:33luxury companies, companies are better at this.
- 41:35But you know, there's this threshold of stuff is expensive.
- 41:38Everything costs more now than it used to, even all the way
- 41:40down to a cheeseburger. You know, also I'll get the same
- 41:43bump if I pay $14.00 for a hamburger and it sucks, you know
- 41:46what I mean? Like, you know, so I mean, I'll
- 41:48get that same bump or that same sort of emotional reaction.
- 41:51And so how do you go to, you know, or how would you advise a
- 41:53company that's having a problem like this?
- 41:55You know, maybe it's known to them, maybe it isn't and and
- 41:58help them sort of get over that hump or, or work to to meet
- 42:01expectations. Yeah.
- 42:02And this is a very great question, very great topic for
- 42:05discussion. So and I have countless of my
- 42:08own stories from the past two weeks that are similar, right.
- 42:11So there's a great stat that I share in our program and it's
- 42:14that, you know, for every one customer that complaints, 26
- 42:19others remain silent. I want you to think about that
- 42:22for a second. It's the sleeper cell in your
- 42:24business. So you have a cancer and you
- 42:26don't know about it. And then finally you find
- 42:29something on a scan and then you start to look and it's already
- 42:32everywhere, right? And you didn't know about it
- 42:35because people didn't care enough to actually even tell
- 42:38you. They were so disconnected, so
- 42:40upset, whatever. And so like you sharing that is
- 42:43actually a gift to them. Hopefully they see it that way.
- 42:46Most of us don't, especially smaller business owners because
- 42:49it's our egos, like our egos and our identity as a small business
- 42:52owner entrepreneur often times get connected to that and it's
- 42:55like it's attacking us, not the system or the process or
- 42:58whatever. Yeah.
- 42:59And just as a note on that, I'll just add that, you know, I did
- 43:02get the text from our guy, our our trainer guy or our
- 43:07recruiting coach saying, oh man, I'm sorry.
- 43:09You know, X company isn't meeting your, your expectations.
- 43:12You know, I'm really sorry about that.
- 43:13Anything I can do, let me know. But this isn't a him problem.
- 43:16This is a company problem. And so I do fear that he's the
- 43:19one seeing this negativity or this, you know, critique.
- 43:22And probably got the chain. He probably got chewed out for
- 43:25something when really it wasn't him that caused it, it was
- 43:29everyone else. But he's the the guy that was
- 43:32focused because. He's well and which is which I
- 43:34hope is not the case right, but I can see how you know the
- 43:36feedback placed with the wrong person.
- 43:38Could, you know, maybe fall on deaf ears for.
- 43:40Sure. You know, I even think I, I use
- 43:41the analogy of FedEx often, right?
- 43:43Like so if you think about it, right, there's a system that
- 43:47actually does most of the work in FedEx and then there's the
- 43:51exception handling system that deals with all the stuff that
- 43:54falls off or gets broken. And so like our systems have to
- 43:58be working, right? The reason that the theater
- 44:01experience and the rock'n'roll experience, we have the same
- 44:04people laughing and doing the same thing night after night is
- 44:07because it is a system, right? And it's rehearsed and it's
- 44:10practiced and we get feedback from the audience and then we
- 44:14tweak it and we adjust it. We might call another rehearsal
- 44:16and fix something or reprogram or re queue or do something
- 44:20different, right? And so, you know, in our
- 44:23businesses, like this is an opportunity, first of all, when
- 44:26something bad happens, right, or unexpected or or negative
- 44:30happens, it's an opportunity to deepen the relationship based on
- 44:33how you show up and how you handle it, right?
- 44:36So like if they took your perspective to heart and they
- 44:39said, look, we'd love to talk to you a little bit more about what
- 44:41your expectations are, where we miss that.
- 44:43Would you be open to a 30 minute phone call, Zoom call, whatever.
- 44:47So you can really explain that because we want to try and make
- 44:49this right for you. And so that call, you could be
- 44:52sharing that and they could reset your expectations, say
- 44:54we're sorry, we actually have to fix some of our messaging in the
- 44:57beginning because we that's actually not what we do at this
- 45:00price point. You might be like, oh, OK, I
- 45:02understand that. So how can I get that done?
- 45:05They may have a solution. They may be able to do something
- 45:07for you. We don't know.
- 45:08It also may be, you know what, like there's this whole part of,
- 45:12you know, the thing that you didn't know about or you know,
- 45:15who knows like what? But but having that
- 45:16conversation, at least it gives you an opportunity to explore
- 45:20that and expand that. And for them, like if again, if
- 45:23one customer has this problem, I guarantee you more do it.
- 45:26It. It almost always is not a one,
- 45:28especially with a larger company like you're saying, there's
- 45:30there's almost no chance that it's just you.
- 45:33Well, and it's interesting, like with this audience of people
- 45:35too, right, because you have your selection of sort of, I
- 45:38don't know, probably above middle class, you know,
- 45:41relatively well to do families that are that are putting money
- 45:44into their their kids to try and get them into college.
- 45:46You have sort of that group of people.
- 45:48And this is largely, you know, not your super elite guys,
- 45:50right? They're getting grabbed anyway,
- 45:51right? So you're the sort of the next
- 45:53tier down and, you know, you're trying to find a good
- 45:56opportunity for yourself, something like that.
- 45:58So you've got sort of this class of people who are the little
- 46:00bit, you know, more well to do. They've got some money, you
- 46:02know, expendable income to, to throw at something like this.
- 46:05But on the other end of that, and just from, you know,
- 46:08different communities, my, my kid has played football and I
- 46:10have a little bit of experience in this.
- 46:12You also have the people who they're spending their last
- 46:15Jelly Bean to to buy that thing, of course.
- 46:17And so for them, you know, especially around price and
- 46:19price sensitivities, you know, I mean, the expectation is
- 46:22somebody who like, you know, we we're probably going to be short
- 46:26on rent this month so that I can make sure my kid has this
- 46:28opportunity. Yeah.
- 46:29You know, is, is going to be different than the person who
- 46:31just maybe this is some expendable money and this, you
- 46:33know, they just don't want to do the leg work themselves or
- 46:35something. So I think that, you know,
- 46:37knowing that, you know, and I assume a company like this knows
- 46:39because they work, you know, exclusively with athletes, they
- 46:42should have some understanding this kind of dichotomy.
- 46:44You know, there is a, I guess what you would hope for is that
- 46:49they have the insight to do this, right.
- 46:51And I mean, I work with, I run a marketing agency, but I also
- 46:55work with the software development firm.
- 46:57And I can tell you that sometimes you have to like kick
- 47:00a feature down the road like, so maybe I can't fix the app today
- 47:03because I just can't. There's business functions at
- 47:05play. But what I would have loved to
- 47:08hear or have happened is get an e-mail from somebody on their
- 47:11customer success team and say exactly like you described, hey,
- 47:15I'd like to have a conversation with you and see, if for nothing
- 47:18else, maybe I can't do anything about it right now.
- 47:20But let me talk to you and understand what you're doing and
- 47:22then I'll give you the business case.
- 47:23Hey, man, we allocate so much money to marketing to be the top
- 47:27guys in the country that they only allocate this much to
- 47:30development. They only do so much.
- 47:32You know, what I suspect is happening is they really invest
- 47:34on their front end sales funnel and it's all about getting
- 47:36people in. And then it's maybe it's a
- 47:39little dramatic to call it a rug pull, but I think the the idea
- 47:42is that you sort of land on a product that's satisfactory.
- 47:45That's exactly what I, where I started, right?
- 47:46It's, that's, we put all of our focus on getting strangers and
- 47:50we don't focus on the success of our customers.
- 47:52And so let me just ask you this, right?
- 47:54I, I, I think I already know the answer, but how niche is your
- 47:57community? Like, do you know lots of other
- 47:59people because of the circles that you run in with the other
- 48:01athletes that would love to know about a service like this, that
- 48:04if you were like loving it, you told them they would almost
- 48:06guaranteed go buy it? Yep, Especially in our
- 48:09community. They're, I mean, they're like
- 48:11our son is going into a senior year of football.
- 48:13Yeah. He, you know, is, is actually
- 48:16kind of late to the recruiting game if he wants to get
- 48:18recruited. And, you know, but he's got a
- 48:21little brother coming up. He's got friends that his little
- 48:23brother plays football with. He's got all the guys he plays
- 48:25football with who are seniors that are looking to graduate,
- 48:27who are looking to go to college, you know, all that kind
- 48:30of stuff. So there's a big audience of
- 48:31people. And right now, let's say, you
- 48:33know, just for, for round numbers, let's say there's 100
- 48:36people in our sphere. Yeah.
- 48:38Like if any of them came to me and said, hey, what are you
- 48:40doing for, for Ethan to help him get recruited, You know, I don't
- 48:44know that I would scream to the mountain tops.
- 48:46You ought to call these guys. You might actually say don't
- 48:48call these guys right or caveat M tour buyer beware if you do
- 48:53XYZ right. So here's the thing.
- 48:55Lifetime value, right? Like it doesn't like if.
- 48:58You know, so you, you spent 5 grand, which is great.
- 49:00That's a, that's a good amount of money.
- 49:02It's a nice sale for them. But now, just within your own
- 49:05family, there's other. $5000 packages to be sold and then in
- 49:09your circle of influence. You just said there's probably
- 49:12100 people, right? So 5000 * 100 is a lot of money.
- 49:17It's a half, $1,000,000 that could be attributed to making
- 49:21you happy. And they're not doing it.
- 49:23So they're foolishly putting their money on the front end of
- 49:27the funnel instead of solving this where you would be filling
- 49:29that funnel automagically, even without asking for an affiliate
- 49:33fee, just to be helpful because they did a great job.
- 49:36And this is the problem. I don't care if you're as big as
- 49:39this company or even smaller businesses.
- 49:41This is exactly. The issue?
- 49:43We help people. Solve and and then some, right?
- 49:46Because if you want to scale your business, this part after
- 49:49the sale has to be functioning is at some point you can keep
- 49:53trying to outspend the competition and pour all the
- 49:55dollars that you have in there. But people are not going to be
- 49:58happy with the bait and switch. And they're going to rise up at
- 50:00some point and there's going to be so much negativity or so many
- 50:03people not getting results that it's not going to be viable to
- 50:06continue anymore. Well, and it's interesting too,
- 50:08just because of the way the college sports have changed even
- 50:10just in the last couple years and continue to change the
- 50:13model. Used to be maybe you would have
- 50:15started with a company like this a little earlier than we did.
- 50:18We might be a little late to the game, but basically they get you
- 50:21recruited, you're off to college, we're done.
- 50:24Like you paid for this membership or whatever, but
- 50:26really you're done by the time the kid signs a deal with
- 50:28college. So at that point you don't use
- 50:31it anymore. Well, now because of the way
- 50:32that recruiting is done, they're doing less recruiting, at least
- 50:35in football. I don't know other sports very
- 50:37well. At least in football, they're
- 50:38doing less recruiting out of the high schools than they used to
- 50:41do. And now they're pulling kids out
- 50:42of transfer portal, which is sort of this new, you know,
- 50:45place where college kids can make themselves eligible to move
- 50:48to other schools. And and so they're starting to
- 50:51pull kids out of there. So now their model has shifted
- 50:53to we're with you all the way till college graduation.
- 50:56So, right, So as part of this purchase, you know that they're
- 50:59trying to to sell you into that's part of the agreement now
- 51:01is that now you have basically access to this platform all the
- 51:04way through. And then you have your coaches
- 51:06and your, your recruiting helpers and stuff like that to
- 51:09get you through transfer portal and all this other stuff to help
- 51:11you look for opportunities, right.
- 51:13So now that you're asking for not just, you know, a year
- 51:16relationship, now you now we have a five year relationship.
- 51:18It's like, but the value needs to be even bigger or greater
- 51:21than it was before. Like they've actually scaled
- 51:23into needing to be even better at this stuff than they are.
- 51:26And so, so it's kind of an interesting thing that there's,
- 51:29you know, a business pressure on the outside of them that's
- 51:32leading, you know, going to require that they be better at
- 51:34their their craft and that they develop new tools and things
- 51:37like that for this new situation, you know, and you
- 51:41know, but they're actually still kind of living in the past, even
- 51:43though you use this as a, a sales tool.
- 51:45Yeah, it's, it's I, I mean, I appreciate you bringing this up
- 51:48because it, it, this really is like an epidemic.
- 51:52I mean, honestly, you know, and, and so even if it's the
- 51:54smallest, you know, business like, you know, in like it's a
- 51:58mom and pop brick and mortar, right?
- 52:00Like if you deliver that service, and a lot of them do
- 52:02because they know their customers and people like
- 52:04they'll pay more for a bag of dog food at the local pet shop
- 52:07than going online for a lot of people, right?
- 52:09Because they want that level of connection, commitment, service,
- 52:12so on so forth. It's important that we really do
- 52:15think about how do we help our customers like how do we help
- 52:17them get success? And when we add friction, right,
- 52:20you know, I have this I have this T-shirt aware that says get
- 52:22the F out, get the friction out. Stop making it hard for your
- 52:26customers to do business with you, right?
- 52:28Because we're doing that these guys made it hard for you.
- 52:31The app's not working. This is not happening.
- 52:33You're having a complaint. The guy that wasn't the problem,
- 52:36who didn't, wasn't really able to solve it says, hey, let me
- 52:38know if I can do something that was not helpful, right?
- 52:41You know, And so at the end of the day, like, you know, and
- 52:44even if they so I, I had this crazy situation where I ordered
- 52:47some food on an app and it was one of these new kitchens that
- 52:50opens up where they have like 10 different restaurants that they
- 52:52serve out of one like pick up place, right.
- 52:54Yeah, these ghost restaurants or whatever.
- 52:56Yeah, exactly. And so, so we were like, all
- 52:58right, let's try it. Because like we always have that
- 53:00issue. Like this person wants this,
- 53:01this person wants that. Somebody wants pizza, somebody
- 53:03wants Chinese, somebody wants whatever.
- 53:05So we said. OK, let's try it.
- 53:06So we did. We spent 120 bucks for all the
- 53:09people that were getting the food and we got the food.
- 53:13And when I tell you, like one of the people got a cheese steak,
- 53:16it didn't look like meat. Like it was like disgusting
- 53:19looking and it didn't taste good.
- 53:21And then somebody else got a salad and there was like, it was
- 53:24like not an, it was not even as big as a side salad.
- 53:26And it was like, you know, 15 bucks or whatever.
- 53:29And it's like just more and more and more.
- 53:31So I, I, I can't help myself, right?
- 53:33So I put a note in there and he's like, you know, he's like,
- 53:36we're going to give you a $10 credit to come back.
- 53:39Why would I want to come back? I don't, I don't want that.
- 53:42I wasn't writing in to get a credit.
- 53:43First of all, like, and I made that clear in my first thing.
- 53:46Listen, I'm not looking for like, you know, give me, you
- 53:48know, a little stop here because I, I had a complaint.
- 53:51I want you to know about this. You're a new business in our
- 53:53area. I love the concept, but there's
- 53:55a problem here. And they missed that.
- 53:57And then at that point, it's like, look like we basically
- 54:00threw out the food and then we went to a diner, right?
- 54:02So we didn't eat it because nobody was happy and like the
- 54:06right thing to do at that point was to refund the meal and say,
- 54:08give us another try, not give me $10 and say try it again.
- 54:12But they didn't do that. And and I just said to him,
- 54:14dude, like, just close my account.
- 54:15Like we're not trying it again. And you know, they've been in,
- 54:20they've been here for probably two months.
- 54:22I know they're still new, but like, there's got to be a
- 54:25certain level of quality. It's food, you know, and we're
- 54:28not that picky. Like, I'm not a crazy foodie.
- 54:30Like just needs to be decent and it wasn't.
- 54:33Well, like we were talking earlier too, there's such AI
- 54:35mean just, you know, sort of economically speaking that
- 54:37everything is so expensive now. And, and a lot of these apps
- 54:40like the doordashes of the world, like restaurants up
- 54:43charge for things. You know, it's $1.95 in store,
- 54:46but it's 295 or 395 on the app, you know, So it's like, so
- 54:50you're paying extra for the privilege of, hey, somebody's
- 54:52bringing it to my house and all that stuff, right?
- 54:54And I was happy to do that, right?
- 54:56That wasn't an issue for me. I'm happy to pay for service,
- 54:58convenience, whatever, but we were still paying.
- 55:02It was like 5 people for 120 bucks for kind of fast food
- 55:05basically, and which is it's expensive, right?
- 55:09I mean, it's a lot of money and it just was horrible.
- 55:12So it's like, that's the thing, Like I'm not gonna buy from them
- 55:15again. I'm not going to tell anybody
- 55:17else. But if it was great, I would
- 55:18have told everybody, hey, did you know about this new thing
- 55:20that opened in our area? You got to check it out.
- 55:22They would have had a dozen customers that came in with 0
- 55:25acquisition cost for them. Zero.
- 55:29Well, the, I keep thinking about like, you know, a movie, for
- 55:34example, like they spend all this time and they're making
- 55:37this movie, they're doing all these different scenes and then
- 55:40they have the final cut process. And what they do is they sit
- 55:43down and they have, you know, people screen and watch the
- 55:46movie and they watch the audience and they watch the
- 55:49reactions and they make edits and cuts based off of reactions
- 55:54of the people. And they'll go through, you
- 55:56know, and they'll show it to 50 different audiences and try and
- 55:59get the best bits and pieces and, and hone that in.
- 56:05And that's kind of, you know, like we're we're almost out of
- 56:10time, but that's kind of like the the process that I think
- 56:13we're kind of getting that with everything that we've talked
- 56:15about up to this. Amen.
- 56:17This deal is we you want that feedback, you want to know that
- 56:21your salad was too small and you could have gotten a better salad
- 56:24at Denny's for 5 bucks. You know, like if they don't
- 56:29take that critique, if they don't take the feedback and make
- 56:33edits, they're just going to go by the wayside.
- 56:36They're not going to be relevant anymore and they're going to get
- 56:39more negative press, more negative reviews of people not
- 56:42wanting to go try it. Because Steve said this was my
- 56:45experience with them. Why would I want to go there?
- 56:48Well, and it's funny. Instead of yeah, it's like a
- 56:50little bit counterintuitive, right?
- 56:51Because the I don't think people are thinking about it that way.
- 56:55It's almost kind of backwards thinking, but like by putting in
- 56:58that work and doing that editing and that revision process, just
- 57:01in my example with this recruiting company and in
- 57:03Jason's example with this order food order system with just
- 57:09those two things. I mean, if the whole premise
- 57:11here around customer experience is scaling your business, if I
- 57:14give you 100 new customers, I'm scaling your business.
- 57:16Like that's the whole thing. They're praying like some guy
- 57:19you don't even know is scaling your company.
- 57:21And it's like, so I mean, if that's really what you're trying
- 57:23to do is grow your business and scale your company, I mean, what
- 57:26a great way. I mean, what a deal when you can
- 57:29just do the right thing by somebody and they're gonna grow
- 57:31your company for you. You don't even have to do
- 57:32anything else. That's exactly, exactly it.
- 57:36I love that. I love Mike.
- 57:37I love what you were saying, too.
- 57:39That's why in theatre they do previews and they they review it
- 57:41and we practice, we rehearse. We have, you know, so, yeah,
- 57:45it's so important. And it's more important today
- 57:46than ever before, you know? And so I've been saying that for
- 57:4930 years and it's more true today than it's ever been
- 57:52before. So like just.
- 57:54Love on your customers, focus on what's happening for them.
- 57:57Step in their shoes. Shop your own experience and
- 58:00look and see like how do I make it easier for someone to get the
- 58:03result they want? And, and when you do that, it's
- 58:07even more fun. Your team's going to grow
- 58:10tighter and have more fun. You're going to attract better
- 58:12fit employees that want to work for you.
- 58:14Their customers are going to tell everybody else.
- 58:16They're going to keep referring you.
- 58:17They're going to remember the experience they had because
- 58:21people forget what you said, they forget what you did.
- 58:23They remember how you made them feel.
- 58:25Maya Angelou, great quote. You want to make sure that
- 58:28you're focusing on that. Yeah, I love that.
- 58:31Well, here we are getting to the end of the show then.
- 58:34So maybe here in these last couple minutes, Jason, do you
- 58:36just wanna take a minute and let people know where they can learn
- 58:38a little bit more about sort of the CX formula process and the
- 58:42course work that you guys do? Also maybe how people might get
- 58:44in touch with you if they're so inclined.
- 58:46Yeah, absolutely. Thanks guys.
- 58:48So yeah, we have, you know, my website, cxformula.com.
- 58:51Feel free to go check us out there, but I have a special gift
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- 59:09I'm not going to tell you what it is, you got to go download
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- 59:15And like I said, it's 10 minutes of your life that I promise will
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- 59:23things. I download stuff and I find it
- 59:24just sits in my Download file. Like look at it.
- 59:27It's going to change stuff for you.
- 59:29And if you don't mind, let me know if you use it like how it
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- 59:34My e-mail will be on that when you get it.
- 59:36But it's jason@cxformula.com. And yeah, our, our programs are
- 59:41available. We got a lot of great stuff that
- 59:42can help you scale your businesses and solve some of
- 59:45these problems. Guys, this has been a true
- 59:48pleasure being with you. You create a great experience
- 59:50for a guest on your podcast, so I appreciate that.
- 59:53The conversation was really awesome.
- 59:55Thank you so much. Yeah, yeah, we really appreciate
- 59:57this. And if you ever want to pitch
- 59:59these guys, you know, you just let me know and we'll, we'll put
- 1:00:01a little collab together and pitch this.
- 1:00:03Yeah, we should. Now, like we should, like we
- 1:00:04should help them. My son's going to.
- 1:00:06Need this like so. My son is into football, he's
- 1:00:09going into high school right now, he's working.
- 1:00:11He had Chris Snee from the Giants, was his coach in like
- 1:00:16the the grade school. Stuff like they're really a
- 1:00:18great team and he's all in now. We're getting him a professional
- 1:00:21coach that's working with him and he wants to go all the way
- 1:00:24like this. I would be like asking you for
- 1:00:26how do I contact them right now? Because you already said we
- 1:00:29should have done it earlier, right?
- 1:00:30So I would be like on the phone with them this afternoon.
- 1:00:32I don't even know who they are right now.
- 1:00:34Yeah, no, we'll, we'll have to circle back so maybe we can save
- 1:00:37their business and get some, some credits.
- 1:00:40We can get a deal to. Hook us up.
- 1:00:42My son, though, would be wildly jealous of your boy because he
- 1:00:45hit our our son's high school coach had a really brief stint
- 1:00:49with the Giants. His name's Daniel Coates.
- 1:00:51He played for the for the Bengals and the Broncos and all
- 1:00:54these guys. But he he did a really short
- 1:00:56stint with the Giants. And my son is like the world's
- 1:00:58biggest Giants fan. So so that was a really big deal
- 1:01:01for him. But poor, poor Daniel got cut
- 1:01:03the year they won the Super Bowl.
- 1:01:05So it was a real bummer for him. But but so he would he would
- 1:01:09love to hear that your son was coached by a former giant.
- 1:01:11That's a big deal problem. So anyway, but yes, so
- 1:01:14seriously, you want to pitch these guys, Let's let's collab.
- 1:01:16So in in the meantime, thanks so much for doing the show.
- 1:01:19We really appreciate having you. Yeah.
- 1:01:21Thank you. Absolutely.
- 1:01:22And thanks so much to everybody who tunes in the show this week
- 1:01:24and every week. We'll see you guys next.