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Is it okay to ditch your friend for a FIRST CLASS UPGRADE?!? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Really yet you're on the air. Good morning, Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: So I ended up ditching my best friend in the
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  Speaker 2: mean for a first class upgrade on our girls trip.
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  Speaker 2: We paid extra to set together, but iGATE it just
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  Speaker 2: like they randomly upgraded me and I was not turning
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  Speaker 2: that down. I mean it was a five hour flight,
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  Speaker 2: so I took it, and she ignored my text the
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  Speaker 2: entire time, and honestly it just ruined the entire trip
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  Speaker 2: because she was pissed at me the entire time. Now,
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  Speaker 2: she said, showed her what kind of friend.
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  Speaker 3: I really am, And like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Like how was I supposed to say no to first class?
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  Speaker 4: You know, well, I think that's that's a lame friend.
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  Speaker 4: And I don't think you ditched her. You got upgraded, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: but like you.
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  Speaker 3: Left it there.
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  Speaker 5: They specifically paid more to be together because you know,
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  Speaker 5: your friends in nervous, Like I would think the good
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  Speaker 5: friend would be like, you're a nervous flyer, you should
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  Speaker 5: take the upgrade or yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Or just don't take the upgrade at all, see if
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  Speaker 6: you can hold back the points.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm kind of it's such.
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  Speaker 6: A weird spot because it's like I would probably want
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  Speaker 6: to take the first class to. I think anyone would
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  Speaker 6: want to take the first class too. But if it's
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  Speaker 6: your best friend and you know she's gonna be nervous
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  Speaker 6: back there shaking in her boots for five hours, like
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  Speaker 6: that's kind of mist Isn't that.
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  Speaker 3: Also a good way to get her used to flying
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  Speaker 3: by herself.
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  Speaker 6: Leave our stranded, like you're talking exposure therapy.
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  Speaker 3: No, No, I don't think so.
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  Speaker 7: After this trip, you're gonna be fine while I'm having
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  Speaker 7: caviat and delicious champagne up up front.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if I.
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  Speaker 5: Would end a friendship over it, but I would definitely
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  Speaker 5: be upset.
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  Speaker 3: You would. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I think the other way around too, that she should
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  Speaker 4: be like the other friend would be like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 4: it's amazing, go ahead, that's great, good for you, nervous.
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  Speaker 6: Like I don't get anxiety, want to play, But I'm
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  Speaker 6: pretty sure that kind of anxiety for people who fly
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  Speaker 6: like can be crippling.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, man, I don't know I would she take it
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  Speaker 7: if she got upgraded, Juliet, your friend, would she have
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  Speaker 7: gone to first class?
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  Speaker 8: I mean I.
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  Speaker 2: Feel like she would have said yes too, because I
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  Speaker 2: mean it's free upgrade. Yeah, I mean, this is not
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  Speaker 2: a free upgrade, Like, come on, and it's a five
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  Speaker 2: hour flight, Like that's a very long time.
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  Speaker 4: I think it all depends on how tall you are,
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  Speaker 4: because when it comes down the leg room and stuff,
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, sorry, man, I need to be comfortable.
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  Speaker 1: I need I'll take it.
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  Speaker 4: I'll you know something, what's interesting the other day we
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  Speaker 4: were my family and I we were flying somewhere and
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  Speaker 4: on the screen they put your name up there if
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  Speaker 4: you can be upgraded to first class, and I forget
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  Speaker 4: what they call that, so it said it said j
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  Speaker 4: Van up there, right. So I went up there and
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  Speaker 4: I was like, hey, jay Van, I go, is that me?
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  Speaker 4: And they go, that is you, and you're you're on
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  Speaker 4: the list to get upgraded. I go, that's awesome. And
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  Speaker 4: then there was k Van. So Kemp, my son is like,
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  Speaker 4: hey dad, we're both being so he goes up that
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  Speaker 4: they call k Van.
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  Speaker 1: They didn't call Javan, they called k Van. K Van
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  Speaker 1: goes up there.
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  Speaker 4: It turns out Kevin vander Way a whole other k Vane.
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  Speaker 4: And I'll tell you, Kevin van der Way had a
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  Speaker 4: great time. He walked by Champ and like, see, so
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  Speaker 4: Kavan and jay Van we were in the back but anyway,
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  Speaker 4: I wouldn't have got mad.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think I would either, But Kyle says she
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  Speaker 3: would be hurt.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, because Okay, think about it like this, if she
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  Speaker 5: did give it up, you would have probably said that's
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  Speaker 5: a good friend, that you would give that up to
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  Speaker 5: stay with your friend who was really nervous and be
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  Speaker 5: there to support.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, and you should be true right both. I agree.
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  Speaker 4: So it's like whatever decision was made, it's like you
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  Speaker 4: should be a supportive friend either way. If you get upgraded,
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  Speaker 4: you support the friend that got upgraded. If you didn't
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  Speaker 4: get upgraded, or if she gave it to you, you
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  Speaker 4: should be proud of the friend that gave it to you.
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  Speaker 4: It just that's the way the cards went. I'm on
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  Speaker 4: your side, Julie.
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  Speaker 1: I think you should probably apologize. I don't think she
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  Speaker 1: should Apologie.
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  Speaker 3: Let's let's go.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go all five call says it all. What do
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  Speaker 1: you do?
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  Speaker 4: Are you a bad friend or you're a good friend?
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  Speaker 4: Eight seven seven ninety three seven one four seven?
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  Speaker 1: What would you do? Thanks? Juliette, thank you? Mother was well? Hi,
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  Speaker 1: it's beautiful days it oh man?
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  Speaker 4: This first class debates blowing up right now? Is Juliet
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  Speaker 4: a bad friend for taking the first class upgrade? Gemma
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  Speaker 4: high what do you think, hi, guys.
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  Speaker 9: I think Julia should not feel guilty.
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  Speaker 8: And it's not like she, you know, chose to leave
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  Speaker 8: her friend in the first class first she didn't first
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  Speaker 8: class first class chose her.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, Gemma.
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  Speaker 3: Jemma's right about everything.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so she should she shouldn't feel guilty. I like
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  Speaker 1: that point of view. She shouldn't feel guilt. Great, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Jemma, thanks for listening.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, good by guys.
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  Speaker 6: Oh that's me.
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  Speaker 9: Sorry.
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  Speaker 4: What's your thought on this first class upgrade? She a
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  Speaker 4: good friend or bad friends taking it?
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  Speaker 8: I don't think she's a bad friend. I feel like
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  Speaker 8: I've almost done worse. I almost left my husband on
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  Speaker 8: our honeymoon, so you know, I don't think it's a
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  Speaker 8: bad thing. Well, not necessarily lost and fully, but one
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  Speaker 8: of our flights we weren't going to make on the
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  Speaker 8: way home from Greece, and they only had one seat
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  Speaker 8: available and.
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  Speaker 9: I was about to take it, and she kind of
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  Speaker 9: got upset.
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  Speaker 8: I mean I still would have taken it, but thankfully
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  Speaker 8: they allowed both of them on that side.
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  Speaker 4: On your honeymoon you probably should work it out. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: were both leave together.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, well thankfully, I mean someone was on my side
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  Speaker 8: because they let us both on the flight and they
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  Speaker 8: pull knew I would have done it.
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  Speaker 3: Are you still married? Yes, I am, that's probably why.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks Ala. Yeah, yeah, hello Robin, thanks for holding hi.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah. I think I would have at least maybe talk
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  Speaker 9: to her about it and say, hey, would you really
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  Speaker 9: mind if I did this? I mean, this is pretty
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  Speaker 9: this is a pretty big deal, and then get her reaction.
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  Speaker 9: And then if she was like, well no, I don't
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  Speaker 9: want you to go, then I would have probably stayed.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know, so she's a bad friend.
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  Speaker 9: No, I wouldn't. I would have stayed with the girl. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 9: only because she was scared to fly. I mean, you
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  Speaker 9: know what, when you're really scared to fly, I mean
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  Speaker 9: that's a big thing. And I mean it could have
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  Speaker 9: made her sick or whatever. But then again, and you.
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  Speaker 3: Really want to sit next to her she's sick, right.
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  Speaker 9: I'm sorry?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't.
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  Speaker 9: I think I would have. I would have, you know,
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  Speaker 9: I would have loved to take it, but I think
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  Speaker 9: I would have stayed with her.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, Robin. What's up? Raymond, you're on the are
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  Speaker 1: your thoughts, hey, guys?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, I completely agree with Kyle and Peyton. I think
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  Speaker 10: that Unfortunately, I feel like she's not a bad friend,
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  Speaker 10: but definitely kind of a little bit selfish when it
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  Speaker 10: comes to the seating because for me myself, I am
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  Speaker 10: one who deals a lot with anxiety when it comes
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  Speaker 10: to flying, and I do need people like that to
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  Speaker 10: support me, so I do pay extra, just like the
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  Speaker 10: friend did to stay with family or friends. I mean,
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  Speaker 10: it's awesome to go first class, especially if you're not
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  Speaker 10: paying for it. It's definitely a blessing. But yeah, the
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  Speaker 10: friend really needed her and she wasn't there for her
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  Speaker 10: in the moment. Unfortunately, though I have to say I'm
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  Speaker 10: a little biased because I mean, even if Kyle said
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  Speaker 10: it's okay to kick puppies, I'm gonna agree with her.
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  Speaker 3: I would never say that, but I like how you
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  Speaker 3: fraid it.
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  Speaker 5: It's like her friend needed her there and she wasn't
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  Speaker 5: there for her, And I think that's like the bottom line.
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  Speaker 4: H R. Raymond, thanks for calling in. Actually, you know
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  Speaker 4: that when I think about it, because I don't. I
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  Speaker 4: don't know where you stand on this yet, Rich, Where
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  Speaker 4: do you stand on that. I think it's totally fine
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  Speaker 4: that she upgraded