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Episode #160: Reconnecting with Your Childhood Passion · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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Welcome to tea sign with Amy and Bev. Good day, good morning,
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good afternoon. I'm gonna say good day. So we gotta get started.
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It's litch. I mean the stage had been lit, that's what she tells
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you, guys, but you know backstage. You just don't know if you'd
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have to be backstage. So you're all welcome to come backstage. That's right.
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I think you can see what's really going down. Great, yeah,
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Bev Bev staged, so we're ready to go already stage and I'm huffing.
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Uh Vienna Cafe Oils is not a promotion for the Oils. It's just helly'll
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pick me up this morning because I am on that schedule of getting up at
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like four or fifteen, four twenty in the morning to go to the gym
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and get that done. So I'm still even though I've been up for most
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six hours, I'm still like I could go back to sleep right now.
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So seeing well, you have a nap in store, Um, actually I
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do because I have to go to Vegas and pick somebody up at the airport
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at eleven o'clock tonight. Oh so yeah, I'm gonna take a nap later.
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Good my tomorrow is going to be all out of whack. So just
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this, It's okay. It could be one of those times you just have
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less sleep and you're like flying on this. You don't have any restrictions,
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right, there's no there's no stop in your flow. Yeah, you get
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in our way because we get in our way. It's true. And I
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know that happens because anytime I'm doing a bigger class or event, the night
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before, I might get an hour or two of sleep, but once and
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I will be dragging in the morning, typically getting myself going, you know,
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getting the momentum going, and once the class starts or the event starts,
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I'm good. Like I just did that this past weekend. Taught a
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breaking master or class and we were together for five and a half hours,
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and I didn't sleep. While I not much sleep the night before, very
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tired in the morning, and once everybody gathered and we started, I was
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good. And then once we ended, I could feel myself like starting to
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like, oh, I need a fill out because we can actually get a
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lot of support from those classes too, because now all the energy is coming
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to work. You know, there's just a lot of energy she in that
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space being an an energy sucker, sucking all my students energy. No,
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it's because that's what it's giving. It almost It reminds me of Scuzanne Geeseman.
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And I don't know if she still does this, but she would have
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when she would do channeling, she would have a certain number of people and
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there were specific people because they would help raise her vibrational frequency to help her
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maintain this energy frequency so she could keep that connection for longer it without hesitation
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in it. Because I've caught her a few times before, she might she
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the channel is talking through her, and then she'll like almost like slow down
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from it, and she'll be like everybody increased the energy. She'll automatically ask
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for it to be done because she knows what she needed at that time.
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I don't know if she still does that, but that was once upon a
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time in her recordings. Yeah that's awesome. No, I don't. I'm
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making light heart of it. You know, call my you know, being
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an energy so you gotta keep your teacher going. Man, he paid for
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this class. But no, it's I know, it's a it's a download
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of energy that comes to me and um yeah, so no, I'm not
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sucking everybody's energy trying to keep it. I know you don't, You're not
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like that. That's that was the funny. But I just was thinking about
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how other you know, how how it really is kind of a big deal.
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Yeah, that's kind of energy that's coming in. Just like when you
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when you're having conversations with someone and all of a sudden the conversation changes to
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something that's a little bit heavy or a lot heavy. You feel it and
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you automatically want to change the vibration and it just doesn't feel good. I'd
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be like, we're talking and we're having a great time, and all of
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a sudden I say something silly about the government or whatever. You're like,
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oh, we just talk about something else. Yeah, now babbler boys changes
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the heaviness. Everything changes, And it's okay. I'm gonna say it's okay
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to allow people to be in their heaviness. It's are you going to participate
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in it? And I'll and and and encourage them to stay in it as
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well. That's the difference, right, It's like, whoa wait a minute.
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First of all, I don't want to be part of this conversation because
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this is not where I want to be with my vibration, and I feel
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I could help them shift theirs. Yeah, which is awesome. When when
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someone's talking like that to me, then I would to stop and say,
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because I have been doing this because I'm curious, it's out of my curiosity
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that comes for when someone starts bringing forward all this information and I stop and
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I'm like, okay, So if it was your world and you had all
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this control, what would it look like? How would it look like from
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there? Not even trying to implement anything, just giving him an idea to
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switch their thoughts because it's is that's simple. I've had conversations with Freeman and
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we talk about a lot of things. We talk about, Like I had
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asked him, okay, this similar conversation, he was talking about something and
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I'm like, okay, but in the ideal world, what would it would
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that look like? And he started describing to me just some different stuff and
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I just never processed it before. So it gave me something to add to
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to focus on. Like, everybody's got their own job. Everybody has their
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own job. We're not You're not going to have a million telemarketers in one
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place. Everyone is unique. Everyone is here for our purpose and that purpose
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may be something just so slightly different from somebody else's, but it brings something
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different for different people. So when you told me that it's like, then
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you wouldn't. Really we always have everything that we need, right, So
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we have everything that we need, and we're always we're always living in our
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joy because we're always providing. We're just living in that journey. But you
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don't know until you start processing that and asking yourself what does that look like?
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Because before, if you'd asked me a couple of years ago, what
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does that look like? I have no clue. I have zero idea what
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could be what could be better than that? So then you start educating yourself,
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you start learning more stuff, you start you start even implementing different definitions
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to the words that you've given, definitions to words that the way they feel
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and stuff, and you change it, you change it, and it's like
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these little subtle to change everything, changes everything in your life. Yeah,
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we actually just experienced that last Friday. Did a New Moon ceremony gathering.
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And the new moon is about setting your intentions and manifesting, and so I
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have them write down something they want to manifest, and then you know there's
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some different steps that we do. But then what I have them do is
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pair up and talk about it. And as one person is talking about what
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they're wanting to manifest, the other person is listening but also asking questions to
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get a clearer picture. Right. Yeah, you know, if I said
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what do you want to experience in a relationship, Bevin, You're like,
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oh, swim be in love? What does that mean? But I don't
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know what that means? Is there another person in the picture? Is an
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animal? What kind of relationship? And what you know? Is their gender
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involved? Is there? Do you want them financially successful or do you want
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them dependent on you? You? Right? So that's what we do,
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is we get clearer. And so I'll have them switch partners because each person
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is going to maybe come forward with different questions about getting clear and then that
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also amplifies like we're holding that vision for that person. And so it's it's
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to me, it's an interesting process and I think it helps to have kind
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of you know that you might call it like a mastermind group of helping you
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get clearer on what it is you're wanting to bring to yourself. And life
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does that for you too. Life helps you get clearer because it presents things
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just so you can have the experience. If we just look at it that
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way, Oh, the waiter brought me kidney beans and liver, I don't
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know, you know, something that maybe I'm not gonna I'd be like,
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oh, no, no, thank you, I don't want that. So
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instead of but that's the way we can approach life. So when something's coming
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to us, it's like, no, thank you, But what do I
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want in place of that? So instead I'll go ahead and get your chicken,
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fried chicken, or you know whatever. I'm not saying that that's what
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I normally eat and doesn't really for command or what I eat, but it
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has to do. I'm just saying it's on a menu. If I'm looking
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at it, I've made a decision because something was presented to me that I
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didn't really care for it. I didn't resonate with it, right, that's
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the best way of saying it. I didn't resonate with her or him that
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food. Whatever, What do you do? What do you resonate with?
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So you start when you start thinking about that, the universe doesn't have to
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keep throwing all these things in your way, so you can figure out well,
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I don't like this. I don't like I do like that. I
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mean we can if we start identifying it and we start taking participating more in
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this whole journey instead of being distracted in this journey, we'll start noticing big
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differences. Yeah. I was just listening to um in my podcasts. He's
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a business influencer and his guests like, went from being in prison and he
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had a tough childhood. Let me tell you what it was like. Wow,
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but ended up in prison, got out and and now he's a coach
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and he's making millions. And so what he was talking about, which is
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a long you know what you're saying is it would be my words, not
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his. It would be more beneficial for us to do the things, or
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spend at least five minutes a day doing the thing that we had our heart
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set on when we were kids. Right, there was a moment where there
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was something that just absolutely lit you up. And as we got older,
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you know, let it go to the waistside because now we have to adult
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and then and all the responsibilities with adulting. Um, but he's and then
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ed Milet shared that h that he has a friend who was doing a thing
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it wasn't happy, and he's like he took a self reflection type of thing
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and said, okay, well, what is it when I was a kid
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that I liked to do? He's like, I really like to argue and
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he and the other thing was he would stick up for the you know,
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if a kid's some kids had altercations on the playground or whatever, he would
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stick up for them the basically like the weaker one, you know. And
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and so he had this, uh, this self inquiry at the age of
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thirty. And once he realized that, he went back to school, became
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or he went to college and became a lawyer. And then and my legs
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like he's a happy guy now he's loving what he's doing. And so it
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doesn't necessarily mean like I'm going to be a dancer, I'm going to be
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a singer. I mean something I would I wouldn't even imp thought, you
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know, thought of that, Like, oh, when I was a kid,
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I used to argue all the time, Well, what profession or what
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what's out there when you can't do this right? Wow, okay, I
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would be an attorney. That's funny, you know, from in my experience
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for me, I didn't I don't have anything that I wanted to do.
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I wanted to be around I liked being around animals. I did that,
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I mean, but that wasnt my passion, that was my escape. Honestly,
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I don't. There's so much hidden spots for my life that I don't
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recall that I don't remember. I still feel even at that point of that
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age because I was asted really young, so that when that was happening,
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everything changed for me. So I don't remember before that. I don't really
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remember everything after that, but I just know that I felt like I was
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in a people pleasing mode always. So it's like what would get the Oh,
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well, maybe I'll be a veterinarian, or maybe I'll be a nurse
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or but it was I never had a passion for any of that stuff.
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So I find it interesting because I think it's great, because that's great information.
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I've heard it before. I talked about before about really looking at it
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was recent, really looking at you what you wanted to do when you're a
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kid. I just didn't. It just doesn't. Nothing comes to mind for
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me. I don't remember ever being I just don't ever remember having a focus
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on that. I always felt like I was well I Eventually I'll grow up,
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you know, even like I've told you not that long ago. We
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see, when I grow up, I'll figure out what I'm going to do,
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because I still don't know what I'm gonna do. Yeah, even though
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I talked to a friend yesterday and she says that she's thinking about retiring in
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the following year, and she said, because I'm gonna follow my path,
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I want to follow my growth, And I thought, holy shit, that
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is so that that hit me so hard because even feel because I talk about
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retiring this year, even though I'm talking about it, people still have opinions
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about stuff like that. Well, how can they have opinion about your growth?
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I mean seriously, And it's not because I don't want them to have
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an opinion, because it's something if I'm presenting to them, it's for them
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to think about what do they want to do with their lives? Do they
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want to continue doing the same thing they're doing without even knowing what I'm going
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to be doing without even knowing. Seriously, I don't know, but I
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also know it's I want to follow. It's not even I want to I'm
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following my passions and whatever that is. And initially for me following your passions,
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it might be you might get like a dim light of a passion.
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It's it's not like you've got this big, freaking illuminating light that's like freaking
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shining and right over here, and it's like I know right where to go
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to like the moth right. It's not working that way. It's a little
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bit less, but it's the more I key into myself, then I start
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noticing that kind of gave me a little bit excitement in my body. Oh
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I felt that my solar plexus. Oh, I felt that my heart.
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I felt like I was going to cry, almost like all these emotions that
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kind of come forward that indicate that this is where we're at. But my
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emotions are going to be so small to notify me because I never allowed my
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emotions before. Even something I'm reading this morning. If you want something better
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of a relationship, it's filling things deep emotions, And I honestly truly don't
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know that I've really felt the deep emotions. I felt like I felt a
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lot of stuff that was regarding myself, how the passing of someone not being
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here or how it's affected me, how I missed that person being here.
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But the deeper emotions. I feel like there's something deeper there now that I
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haven't recognized before. But I'm at a space where I'm willing to recognize that.
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I'm willing to step into that place. I'm not willing to be that
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person to sit back and listen to all the sad songs and make myself cry
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the whole time. But there's experiences now, Okay, I'm ready for them
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to come forward because anything that might be keeping me from me enjoying my path
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for I'm enjoying this journey while I'm here because I want to enjoy the hell
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out of this journey, like I really, I really do. And when
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I say I want to, that means I'm not I'm not one hundred percent
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doing that. But I'm finding more and more reasons why I've held myself back,
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and a lot of it is because a perception of others. You know,
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it can go back to the same conversation and we've talked about this stuff
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and we do great. But then I start recognizing there's another layer of it,
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right, it's it actually goes along with money, it goes along with
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popularity, it goes along with all these things, all these things that we've
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kind of kept ourselves from and then how do we know it's we start asking
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the questions, we start asking deeper questions, more emotional questions, and the
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stuff that it's it's just you just on the other side of that. You
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walk outside the end, you're you're at the end of the tunnel. You
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come out, you're not in it anymore, you're not restricted anymore. The
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flow is completely there, completely there, and it's just a coming in from
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directions that we're not expecting her into fading in any way, shape or form.
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I've had dreams that have told me that everything's PaperWorks. Already in the
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works, is what I was told. Interesting, there's just interesting things.
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So that's something I went to bed thinking about. But I'm getting you get
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messages, We get them all the time, all the time, and it's
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just to be in that space up, holding faith and know what's going to
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happen, and then then put your attention on it, go do something else.
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So I'm learning to do something else. If I'm not happy about what
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the where my body's going, then I'm out running. If I'm not,
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because I don't always go in the town. It's not for me. It's
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I don't like driving the town every day. If I don't have to go
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in the town to pick up any of the grandkids or do anything, I'll
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stay home. Excuse me, But I can go. I can go for
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a run out here where I'm at in the middle of a desert. Cows
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and I could chase cows. I love. I love the cows. They're
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so cute. It's interesting that you mentioned being a nurse or a veterinarian,
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because that's what I was thinking when I was little. That's funny in that
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vining so um so. So if you want to break it down, it's
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of service, being of service right right, and nature so so yeah,
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I it was one of those things. So back in that day, right
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when we were little, it was graduate. It was the thing, you
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graduate and go to college. Well, when I was about done with school,
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I was about done with school. I was like, I don't want
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to go college, so I didn't. I did take some a couple of
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college courses for I did classes. I never got a degree though, and
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it and I would just just wasn't interested in it. So when you said
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I didn't have a passion for those topics, I didn't either. I was
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like, I didn't have that pulled to it, but it knew there would
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be something even as a child, was like, I knew there would be
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something where I would be helping people. I didn't figure that out till my
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you know, forties. But that's okay. I'm okay with that. So
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yeah, And I mean a guy who doesn't figure out he wants to be
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an attorney until he's thirty, and he's now he's got to go to what
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six years of school at least an internship and all that. So it's it's
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okay, no matter what I d you're at that you can still do what
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lights you up now ed my let What he said was he when he was
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younger, he loved to run, and he got disconnected from that, and
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and so he recently started riding horses and he was trying to figure out he
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feel. He's like, I was trying to figure out why I love this
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so much? And then it hit him that the horses could run, and
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they ran faster than he could, right, and so he's just like,
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I just love it. So it's there might be a way to If you
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think you can't do what you want to do, there's probably a way around
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it to get that same feeling in your body, that same sensation of being
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filled up. And this gentleman is his name was his drain, Drain Jones,
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and he's his main premise of his conversation was living from your heart.
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And when we talk about this, we've been talking about this for like three
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years now, and it's just the way it's presented, right. You hear
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it in different words, and and it kind of, you know, makes
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things shift even more within your brain and in your body. And and just
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like you just had that shift about following your growth and so living from your
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heart or finding your passion, living in your passion. Right, So it's
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just a play with words to see what fits for you. But that idea
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is that there's something that get y'all giddy. Yeah, right, and it's
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like give some attention to it, give some attention to it, and just
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see what happens. And and but if anything is going to help you feel
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good more often, who doesn't want that? Yeah, no kidding, But
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it's been true, and you know, different ways of the sciphering it.
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So the same thing he loved. That guy loved to argue when he was
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a kid. So he became an attorney, we were doing things. If
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they wanted to break it down, it wasn't so much the actual role of
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being a nurse or a veterinarian. It was the actual assisting of people and
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being outside. That's the one thing I struggle with, even for me,
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and I don't. I control my hours, so I don't see any more
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than three to four. Lately it's just been three, so I've been restricting
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it because I feel I noticed a difference. But I don't like being stuck
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inside. I cannot stand it. I don't like being where I cannot be
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looking out windows or out I mean where I'm sitting out now in my office.
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I have two big windows and I can look out into my yard,
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So I mean, I don't I'd like to be able to see outside.
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I'd like to be I like the flow, and that's probably grounding. So
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it's kind of deciphering and some of the things that you felt like you wanted
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to do when you were a kid too, That's what I mean. It's
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just really looking into it. I don't know how, like you said,
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how the guy got I mean, you could have done on a different bunch
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of different things. But arguing, you know, but so we always Even
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at that age, at a young age, I knew that I could rely
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on my animals right for me. Until my cat end up dying and I
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was just just devastated. But I even still to this day, if I
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would have given it the appreciation knowing that spirit was with me because I would
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feel my cat laying on my feet as a child, I would feel or
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laying on my feet and she wasn't there because I know she had transitioned already.
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I would hear her. There was different different things. I feel her
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walking on the bed. There was just different things that she was letting me
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know that she was there. But I was a child that nobody was explaining
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to me, Oh, well, she's just letting you know she's still there.
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She doesn't have her fur body anymore. She's still with you. But
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no one ever talked to me about that kind of stuff. The only thing
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I ever heard about when I was a kid was ghost stories. I would
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hear the family get together and they start talking about, oh, yeah,
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you know, having their foot and something touched their foot. It's like,
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motherfucker. I would never let my foot hang outside those covers because I didn't
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matter how hot I was. I was petrified. Now it doesn't matter.
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Put your hand over the bedside. Now at night, man, you're in
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the center of the bed and covered up. That's right, it's all right,
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it's all right. I'm sweating, It's okay, it's good. We're
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good, we're solid, we're covered. Nothing can touch us. Throb as
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blankets sleep tonight because but you know what, nobody's gonna get me. Yeah,
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I remember. And it's funny. I don't know why I go into
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this direction, but I remember being a kid, and I remember reading a
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book and I was really drawn to dark stuff for a while there because I
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was going through my stuff. I just I was looking, and I don't
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think I even realized I was looking, but my uncle that had passed away,
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I had dozed off, and then I kind of woke up, kind
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of in that in between space. I can see the light was on,
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I got covered up, the book got closed set aside for me, and
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my light got turned off. I witnessed all this stuff happening. So I
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was like there was there was ways that spirit showed up in it, and
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that uncle. I wasn't like close with him, but I knew that was
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him. I just knew, So there was just different stuff that was going
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on. Even around the house. There was this different stuff that I would
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see as a kid, and you know, we forget about that stuff,
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and I'm remembering it right now, So I guess that's all that matters.
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Just a bunch of different little things like that. But we've just go through
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this whole life and then we get distracted by all the stuff that's outside of
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us, and then what do we do. We pay attention more to the
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stuff it's outside of us, we lose ourselves completely, and then when you're
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totally lost, like, how the hell do you love yourself? How do
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you love yourself? From this place? It's step by steps. It's just
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a step at a time. It's making different decisions. It's putting your left
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shoe on first, maybe then the right shoe if you always do it right,
25:10
right shoe. It's just doing something slightly off from what you normally do,
25:14
and then watching what happens, watching how things transpire, catching the messages,
25:18
listening to the messages. I like, I've talked to you about it.
25:22
I listened to certain readings that are on YouTube. They'll tell you to
25:25
pick a pile, I pick a pile. I don't listen to the whole
25:26
message. I just know that pile is for me because I can either get
25:30
a resonation and inside of myself, I use a pendulum to ask myself which
25:33
one's going to be the ideal one for my answers. And I listen to
25:37
that, and I don't get hopeful about it. I just listen to it
25:40
and take in whatever resonates with me, and I let it go and I
25:42
get excited about it. Oh my gosh, I'm this. I've got so
25:45
much money coming my way. Because our bodies and our lives know no difference,
25:49
they know no different than our thoughts. Our thoughts have been controlling everything
25:53
that's happening around. Is if if you don't have enough money, it's your
25:56
thoughts. There's something in your thoughts you don't think you're worth. It's old
26:00
beliefs or I've even heard it. When the more of the money comes in,
26:04
you're trying to spend a discast as possible, because money is evil,
26:07
right, All these different beliefs, so belief systems, those are the simple
26:11
things. And it could be something just as so simple as you don't want
26:15
to be looked at better than somebody else. You don't want to. You
26:17
don't want to make somebody else feel uncomfortable for their lack of So I mean,
26:21
there's just so many different things that are going on. And then throwing
26:23
a partner, well that'll hurt turn into a ship show real quick, you
26:27
think, because then you start applying your partner's information to your ones and needs.
26:33
So if you're hearing your partner say, well, I don't know how
26:34
we're going to do that. The money's not there right now, then it's
26:38
there, starts creating a stress, right, It starts creating a stress.
26:41
And now the person that's has all the staith and has all these answers and
26:45
knows that money's coming in now starts creating doubt. And now I start like,
26:49
well it's not hear you. How comust not hear it? So they
26:52
start going through the whole process, right, and then all the while they're
26:56
still keeping themselves from something they want, and then it starts creating an anxiety.
27:00
For me, it's been recognizing as soon as I feel if I go
27:03
to pay something and it was more than I thought it was going to be,
27:07
I take a breath, and I know everything's always working out for me,
27:11
so I don't put a whole lot of energy into it like I have
27:12
in the past, my past up, I put a lot of energy into
27:17
it. I put a lot of energy into it. So it's but that's
27:21
not what I wanted, right, But that's just what I was paying that,
27:23
that's what I was advertising for. I'm like, okay, come on,
27:26
come this way. I love it this way. Money. Money doesn't
27:30
love me. And that's not even the true story. Money is just money.
27:34
Love is everywhere around us if we choose to be open to it.
27:41
So also watching a podcast Alex's Next Level Soul talking to a lame Sorry I
27:48
don't know her name, but her premise is teaching people that that when we're
28:00
going through something and we feel struggle, or feel anxiety, or we feel
28:06
anger, you know, we're feeling a certain way. Her practice is to
28:12
teach people that the actual experience doesn't have any meaning. There's no meaning to
28:19
it. It's just an experience. You know, when they say it is
28:22
what it is, it just is. I've said it myself, it's just
28:27
is. It's just an experience, just something took place. But then we
28:33
bring our thoughts, our beliefs, our patterns, our habits are programming our
28:41
stories as we're perceiving what's happening, and then that's where the meaning comes from.
28:48
But otherwise the experience had no meaning. So then that's if you think
28:52
back, that's what we did as children. We witnessed something and we gave
29:00
meaning to it, but the actual experience didn't have any meaning. And and
29:06
so she took Alex through a process of clearing up some stuff about money,
29:12
and it was it was quite interesting because again it's everybody's everybody's teaching the same
29:19
thing. Basically, we're just all teaching it from different viewpoints, different perspectives,
29:26
different verbiage. And so I was finding this fascinating because I actually listened
29:33
to both of those this morning, nice one while I was working out,
29:36
one while I was getting ready for my day and having breakfast, and I
29:40
was like, wow, So, you know, living from your heart space
29:45
doing something light you up, and it stopped giving meaning to things that don't
29:49
have no meaning. That's true. That's true. If we put you much
29:55
into it, it just goes back to the whole thing. You know,
29:57
when you listen to some of the medium stuff. Person died once and you've
30:00
killed him a million more times since then because you remember it over and over
30:03
and over again. That was something that was just an experience, right,
30:07
It was just an experience, which is does sounds kind of harsh in some
30:11
ways, but once and believe me, I would feel that it would feel
30:15
harsh in certain times too, I'm sure, but overall, in general,
30:19
I do feel like it's it's not harsh. It's just that's that's just a
30:22
matter of perception. That's just are you looking at it from a five D
30:26
world? Are you looking at it from a three D world? And she
30:30
even talked about her her husband passed I think she said six years ago,
30:36
and he was like everything to her and focusing on him dying. And then
30:44
she added meaning to it of how am I going to run a business?
30:47
How am I going to do this? Oh? My gosh, am I
30:48
good enough? Right? And she goes, when I put what I do
30:52
into practice from myself, She's like, there was no meaning to his passing.
30:59
He passed, he died. It was how I was bringing my stories
31:06
into it of not being good enough, of you know, how I'm not
31:11
smart enough to run a business. You know, these things that she was
31:15
identifying within herself that was being projected onto this experience of her husband passing,
31:23
and she goes, you know what, the business still running and I'm still
31:27
doing okay? She said, so, yeah, And it's no different that
31:33
if you and I wat were so if you were in a room and I
31:37
came into the room and never approached you, never said hi, do you
31:42
never did had any interaction with you, but you saw me, and you
31:47
you didn't make any attempt to go to me either. And then in the
31:51
room ten twenty minutes and then I leave. What do you give to that
31:56
meaning or that story or to that experience? What did I do wrong?
32:00
How come she didn't talk to me? She mad at me? What is
32:04
that all about? Why is she ignoring me? I know she saw me?
32:07
Right then we start bringing all that our childhood drama and trauma stories into
32:15
when the fact is, yeah, I probably saw you. Yes, I
32:17
probably was on a mission. Maybe I had something really urgent to take care
32:22
of and I needed to get it done, and I didn't. I knew
32:23
if I went and talk to BEV, We're gonna stand there for an hour
32:25
talking, because that's what we do all the time, probably two hours.
32:29
I don't got time for that I'm not even gonna say hi to her because
32:31
I don't want to get drawn into that, right, So, so you
32:36
know, Bev could sit there and have this huge story conjured up about me
32:39
not talking to her, and that the fact is had nothing to do with
32:44
her, absolutely nothing to do with her. I was on a mission.
32:46
I had to do something. So that's an example what she was talking about.
32:51
Even something like that, that we just blow way out of proportion in
32:55
our head and then of course, right it creates this dressed in our body,
33:00
and then we're all upset and we're tight in tents and and our whole
33:04
day's ruined because I amy didn't go say hi to Bev. Blood's all out
33:09
in your freaking limbs, not in your brain, and they're in there in
33:12
your organs and everything else. Right, So it's just so valuable. Yeah,
33:19
So she helps people identify what are they bringing to the experience to create
33:24
the meaning when the fact is there's no meaning and it never existed. I
33:30
haven't seen this video yet, all have to go off to find it and
33:32
check it out. YEA sounds good. Yeah, So always learning, always
33:38
growing, and um, I really appreciated the both of those podcasts this Morning,
33:45
so and it's and it's funny because I do this a lot. But
33:49
when you set your intention for the information, what do I need to hear
33:52
today? So that was the one that Susan Giesemanship of the Going Right.
33:54
She says, what do I need to know right now? But we can
33:58
do that with anything. It's really years before, even when you're going onto
34:00
YouTube, because I do this all the time. So if anybody else is
34:02
out there, they like to go onto YouTube. I just set my intentions
34:06
what do I need to know right now? And it's funny the stuff that
34:08
shows up on there. So I'll be like, Okay, I'll give it
34:12
a try and see what it is. And sometimes it might be listening to
34:15
doctor Berg. Sometimes it's listening to Barbara. Sometimes it's listening to a reading.
34:19
Sometimes it's listen to Alex or Esther Hicks or you know, there's so
34:22
many, so many different things, so so many different things, Athena,
34:27
Athena and truth. You know, all these different people that they are like
34:30
players because they're players for you and you're in for me anyways, not for
34:35
everybody, but they're because they're bringing it forward information I need to hear right
34:37
now. And how do I know? Because the way it resonates in my
34:40
body, the way that it feels within my body, you know, it's
34:44
the same thing. How do you know that you'd like something or don't like
34:46
something, Well, when someone starts talking about something you don't like, you
34:49
automatically could fill it in your body automatic the government. And maybe you can't
34:54
stand German chocolate cake, you know what I mean. Maybe your favorite is
34:59
white cake, so that'd be like, oh gosh, no, I love
35:01
this stuff. But that's how you know. That's getting in touch with your
35:04
own feelings, being in that space of knowing how it feels, because otherwise
35:08
I wouldn't know how. I wouldn't know how to even navigate here, Honestly,
35:13
I really wouldn't. It's it can be very confusing. All the information
35:15
that we're around all the time isn't very high vibing, typically, especially from
35:22
births. And now that we're finding our like minded groups, we're finding our
35:25
groups and gravitating towards those and expanding. And then it doesn't mean you stay
35:30
in those groups forever because sometimes you don't resonate with people there either, and
35:34
then you end up going in a different direction, which is no different or
35:37
better than anybody else. Not necessarily it is different. You're deciding to go
35:42
from a different track. But there's it's little subtle things like that. It's
35:45
just all easy stuff and it's not holding on to stuff. You know,
35:50
And I've done it too. When someone's like not calling you anymore and not
35:52
contacting you, it's okay, it's okay. There's no residence right now with
35:57
you. What they may have something going on in their life right now,
36:00
or maybe you've got something going on in your life that you're not a resonant.
36:05
You don't resonate with that individual. Maybe they're doing something different. But
36:07
we all come together because there really is no separation anyways. And it's just
36:12
enjoying the process of the journey. It's just enjoying it every moment and then
36:17
questioning things, asking things. I get into places all the time, then
36:22
I have to ask, is that me? Is this mine? What do
36:25
I do with this information? How can I grow from this? And I
36:29
can tell you when you're looking at the problem, there's no solution. There's
36:31
never a solution. I don't ever get an answer. But when I'm in
36:35
a neutral space and everything's going or even in alistical space, information can come
36:38
in. Just like when I was talking to you about cleaning litter boxes,
36:42
and all of a sudden I hear Boxie. It's just different stuff. I
36:45
came out of meditation in the mornings and I have heard different Colline or Gilatin
36:52
or you know, certain things that maybe I had asked the question before,
36:54
and I'm just now getting an answer to it. And when the answer comes,
36:58
I know exactly what it's for. Not always though, because the kolleen
37:00
I don't even I just know that it was to benefit deliver. There's a
37:04
lot more to it than that. So it's just I find this stuff interesting,
37:07
and I pursue things like I know, for women going through menopause or
37:14
going through any type of changes or hormones or heavy periods or any of this
37:16
kind of stuff, you've got to start looking outside of yourself if you want
37:20
to keep going to the doctors and getting the information that maybe isn't resonating with
37:22
you, or isn't satisfying you, or isn't changing the outcome of whatever you're
37:27
experiencing, It's time to go within. Because I'm telling you setting yourself up
37:30
in the morning, like what do I need to hear right now? Sets
37:34
me right into place? What do I need to hear right now? I
37:36
started listening to a Barbara. I found her on TikTok and I like to
37:39
listen to her. She's got an accident. I don't know where she's from
37:43
exactly. It might be Australia, I'm not really sure. But she is
37:45
all about health. She's all about foods, and she's all about simple,
37:51
this simple, basic stuff which we've all have left behind, Like all this
37:54
basic stuff we get. We've gotten so accustomed to process foods. I mean
37:59
not I don't, but I had, you know, I had always been
38:02
in that space. But it's the basic stuff like drinking water and then don't
38:07
drink a ton of fluid when you're drinking eating a meal, because that's diluting
38:09
your acids in your stomach that are doing their job to break down the food
38:15
that just came into it. And now you're dumping a bunch of fluid into
38:17
it. Now you're making letting stuffs sit in there. So the hydrugs.
38:22
I can't even remember what it's called anyways, it'll come to me anyways.
38:27
But it's like that, all that stuff, and it starts sitting on your
38:29
stomach. Then you're not digesting life right now, you're having a digestive issue.
38:32
But if you're focused on doing all this stuff for yourself, it works
38:36
out one hundred percent. It starts to making sense. We just have you
38:39
have to explore outside of yourself and see what resonates with you. This person
38:44
resonates with me. They're giving me information that's been valuable. I've tried some
38:47
things, I'm noticing different things. It's huge. So it's like we can
38:52
get stuck in the problem, and then that's stuck that you feel like you
38:55
can't move forward, you're not getting any answers, and you're unhappy. It's
38:59
depres saying because you can't figure out what the hell is wrong until you start
39:02
not looking at the problem. You start exploring things, well, what can
39:06
I do for myself? What what what could be good for my body?
39:07
Instead of being like, oh god, this is going on. I don't
39:10
know what's going to fix it. We can't. You can't fix it from
39:14
that space, But you can't fix it from the space of curiosity, wondering
39:17
what's going on, exploring different things, and then things start showing up for
39:22
you and that to me, that's exciting. That lights my fire up too,
39:25
because if it's benefiting me, then someone's going to come across my path
39:29
and I'm gonna be able to share this experience or this information with them and
39:31
they can take it or leave it, because it's not I'm not here to
39:35
fix people anymore. That's the thing. I was here to fix people before.
39:38
There's nothing wrong with you people, nothing wrong. We're all on a
39:42
journey, all of us. We're having an experience. That's it. Yeah,
39:47
yeah, I love that. And how often too that when you have
39:57
something going on with your within your cell, whether it's your body or any
40:01
problem, and you you're seeking solutions. You're seeking you want a solute Let
40:10
me put this way, you want a solution, but you keep talking about
40:15
the problem and every street and because you're in that space of talking about the
40:19
problem, everybody you talk to has this similar problem or it's got to outdo
40:25
your problem, and you're still focused on the problem, and you just stir
40:34
in it, right, I mean I I I know I said this before.
40:40
Is especially when there's a new um, a woman who is newly pregnant,
40:46
so first and every woman who comes in contact with her has to tell
40:52
their tell her they're gruesome story of their pregnancy. But it's like, oh
40:59
no, we don't want to do that. We don't know, we don't
41:02
know why her her experience is going to be like dope, don't go planning
41:07
the seeds. Like you're going to be sick for the first three months.
41:10
Not everybody is. If your labor is horrible, not everybody's is. Right,
41:16
So it's like, be careful when you're when you're bringing sit with the
41:25
problem you have, but shifting the attention to seeking a solution, because when
41:31
you're seeking the solution, then it's more apt that the information is going to
41:36
come from that space and that energy than sitting in the problem. And then
41:40
everybody that you talk to that day it's got problems and it's a mess.
41:45
Yeah, because it's two different energies. It's stwu different energies. You can't
41:49
be in the depth of a problem and just you can't see outside of it.
41:53
Just like being in depression and wanting to be happy at the same time,
41:55
you just can't have both at the same time. It can only be
41:59
one. So you can either have a solution or you can have the problem.
42:01
Because it's two different energies. Yeah, and then the best way to
42:06
get there. And I and I've also when you said once, I have
42:08
been in that space of wanting answers, of wanting, and it's like constantly
42:13
looking for answers and not having faith, probably because I did. I didn't
42:17
have faith from that space. Like even with my hair, I didn't have
42:21
faith from that space because nothing I was getting there was zero resolution to anything.
42:24
But I was constantly in that space of there, there's a problem,
42:27
there's a problem here, something needs to be fixed, just like you said,
42:30
going and talking about it. Oh, breeding look look at my hair
42:34
over here. Um, oh no, Ariana, really look look, Oh
42:37
I understand, I understand. Look you know what I mean. Constantly bringing
42:40
this stuff up, constantly and not even realizing there was that we're doing it
42:46
and why that's just old patterns that may not even be patterns that were ours
42:51
in the first place, but we learned it from somebody else. And that's
42:53
the whole thing. How much of this stuff do you want to carry on?
42:57
I don't anymore. I just don't want to do it anymore. I
43:00
don't want it. When someone asked me what am I going to do?
43:01
I don't know what I'm gonna do, and I'm okay with that, and
43:05
that's I'm the only one that has to be okay with that. It doesn't
43:07
matter what anybody else thinks, right, it just it really doesn't, I
43:09
say, right, but it's right to me. That's right. It doesn't
43:14
matter what someone else believes that this is the right path for me. It's
43:16
a leap of faith, honestly, And if I keep having this drawing pulling
43:22
me in a certain direction, I'm going to do it. And we've talked
43:25
about this before, but I want to remind people when when you've got to
43:29
dream about something, your dream is chasing you, stop and accept the dream.
43:34
Like because I've been that person, I even still so myself is like,
43:39
hey it butterfly just flew right by. It came up to the window
43:43
and flew right path both windows, and make sure like, hey, transformations
43:45
going on right here, baby, right right? Which it is? It
43:52
is. There's so much blessings, Like right now, when the grandkids come
43:57
out, we're hunting ladybooks. There are millions of them. They're everywhere,
44:01
everywhere, and it's awesome cool. Most people won't know that because they don't
44:07
go outside. Right, what's good for us the sun? But people have
44:09
gotten afraid of getting out in the sun because they're worried about skin cancer.
44:13
Get out there for like fifteen and twenty minutes. It's not like something you
44:15
have to be out there all day long. And if you are, you
44:19
know, do what you need to do. But there's just so many There's
44:22
just all these little subtle things. But we've fear has been planted in us
44:28
and it doesn't have to be there anymore. And it's not even our fears,
44:30
it's just somebody else's experience that now we've taken it on right. Oh
44:35
wait, I need that in my suitcase too when I go on this trip.
44:37
No, we don't need we don't need all that bullshit anymore. Simple,
44:42
it's simple. It's back to the simple things. Simple. I would
44:47
go back to UM. All right. The conversation we kind of started with
44:52
it kind of goes along with what you're talking about. But what was you
44:55
were talking and I was getting this image of power and control And that's what
45:00
we're living our life by fear, power and control. We want to feel
45:05
like we're in control in some way, and that a lot of times that
45:08
shows up as anger, throwing a temper, tantrum, whatever. And you
45:15
know, I'm thinking about thinking about the government, thinking about the the drug
45:29
rings. Put it that way, starts with the C word. It south
45:37
of our border. I don't know how much you can get away with.
45:42
I'm saying these on social media, so you know, you get the idea.
45:46
So anyway, the stress, the amount of stress, and even people
45:53
would just businesses in general needing that needing to feel that power and control and
46:02
the stress of making the decisions to make sure the money's coming in, make
46:09
sure that their number one all the time, make sure that they're hitting the
46:14
ratings, making sure, you know, all eyes are on their branding.
46:20
And it's it's like, how would it be if everyone it's just you know,
46:31
this imagination of everyone on the planet, if they were spending at least
46:36
five minutes a day doing something that was from their heart space, from their
46:43
passion, from that space of joy, how much different everything would be.
46:49
Because the more you connect with that passion and joy, the more of it
46:54
you want. And so that's most likely going to lead you to increasing the
47:00
amount of time you're doing that in steud of doing the things that are conjuring
47:04
up stress, instead of living in your drama and trauma, instead of living
47:08
in those unhealthy relationships that you would be living from your heart space and doing
47:16
what lights you up? How how amazingly different would this world be a majority
47:25
of the people on the planet, and I would say probably one hundred percent
47:29
of us. I'll go ninety nine point nine extended because there are some people
47:35
who can't go out in the sun. But ah, if we all connected
47:39
with nature in some way, whether it's through animals or just nature or whatever
47:45
whatever that looks like water, what would our planet be like? What would
47:51
the population of the planet be like? Right? So I was getting this
47:54
this image and visual when you were talking a while ago about that. So
48:01
it's like I needed to share that because that gives you instead of focusing on
48:07
the problem, That gives you something else to focus on. Ain't some other
48:12
visualization? Yeah? It does. And then also let's just go with connecting
48:17
to outside when you're the more you're connected to nature, the more you're not
48:22
going to want to harm it or hurt it in any way. You want
48:24
to support it and always so you're now you're not just the one that wants
48:28
to be a veterinarian or a nurse. Now it's not just about the people,
48:30
it's about everything. It's about everything, and it's just taking that small
48:36
amount of time. And the more that people do it, the more permission
48:38
has been given to others to be Okay, I'm gonna step into my power,
48:43
just like I know several people that are leaving their jobs this year.
48:46
Gosh, now that I'm saying that out loud, there are several people that
48:49
are leaving their jobs right now this year. I know one has already turned
48:52
in his notice. Well, I actually get three of them, have the
48:57
other one four Now that I'm going through processing, they've already turned in their
49:00
notices. This is it, and they're going to go travel and go do
49:04
things. It's giving permission to others to live life the way you want to
49:07
live life. It doesn't have to be the old ways of thinking that you
49:10
have to be in a job forever and ever and ever. I'm not saying
49:13
go out and put your job, but definitely not saying that. I'm saying,
49:16
do what resonates with you. You've got to do what makes you you
49:19
happy. You've got to be able to survive. For me, well,
49:22
if I had to be out living in the desert. I don't care right
49:25
now, I really, right now, I don't that's not I don't have
49:29
the priorities that I had before. And when I say I don't care,
49:31
it means it doesn't mean that I don't care. I don't care, it
49:34
doesn't. It just means that no matter why, I know, things are
49:37
always working out and I'm going to be just fine. Yeah, always always.
49:42
And then that to me is that's that's that. It brings peace to
49:45
me, That brings freedom because nobody has control over that. No one can
49:47
control. That doesn't matter what I have or don't have, doesn't make me
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or break me. And it could be it could be worded everything's working out
50:00
for me, could be worded what I say, quite often is all my
50:06
needs are met, because we tend to get wrapped up in that piece too,
50:09
like, oh my god, well the money's not coming in, I'm
50:13
gonna end up homeless, and la la la. It's like all my needs
50:15
are met. I'm okay. I'm saying remembering to ask, right, but
50:20
remembering to ask for that help from the universe because it shows up. Ask
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and then let it go and then be surprised how it shows up. I'm
50:28
always be delighted, surprised and delighted always, and that's been something that's not
50:35
something I've always experienced, but I have been experiencing it. I have been
50:38
experienced. The more and the more I let go of it, the more
50:42
that I'm experiencing it, the more that's coming into me. Nice. And
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that's all, you know. And so we were talking about here at home,
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we were talking about, you know, building the garden and stuff like
50:52
that. And for me, it's not, Okay, we can build a
50:54
garden, but we don't have to. That's not my priority. It's not
50:58
my priority because the matter what I always feel like the needs are going to
51:00
be met. And that's a distraction. That's a distraction outside of ourselves.
51:05
What is what do I want to do with my life? I want to
51:07
go inside. I want to go inside of myself and then expand as much
51:12
as I possibly can, because no matter what we're rippling out to everybody,
51:15
we're benefiting everybody, and they're benefiting us. Yeah, everybody is. Whether
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it's something you like that they're doing or that you don't like, there's still
51:27
an answering of what you don't like and what you do, Like, yeah,
51:31
there's been quite a few conversations about that too lately. Live lately that
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I've heard is is the dynamics of our showing up for each other on this
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planet. More conversations about that, and I'm like, this is awesome.
51:50
It just goes to show you where we're at right now. And then the
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more you hear it's like, I maybe it's the people that I surround myself
51:57
with or that show up in my experience. I don't know, I don't
51:59
know, but it just seems like the conversations are deep conversations. They're they're
52:05
deep conversations, they're you know, we're out there when we get done with
52:08
the conversations, like, wow, we just solved all the problems of the
52:10
world. You have a great day and we'll see you later. I mean,
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it's just it's the It's that's how it feels when you get done having
52:16
those conversations, just feels like the whole world is possible. Everything is possible,
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instead of what we've been being taught is that it's not possible. Because
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I said so, that's why. Because I'm the boss, right, I'm
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I'm my own boss. Even those little people are their own boss start controlling
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them. But we sure you know, they let us believe, and then
52:37
they start becoming the people pleaser. I already see. I see the stuff
52:42
too, And that's why I tell people all the time. You want to
52:45
see, you want to know how why your kids acting that way. We'll
52:47
sit and watch. When you hear them behaving a certain way, Well,
52:52
mom and dad have a banter that playful and sarcastic and everything else. Well,
52:54
when it starts coming through from a child to the parents because they're they're
52:59
joking the same way that they're parents are joking. Room, Now it's not
53:01
received felt very well, and now you're getting in trouble. And then they're
53:05
saying, you know what I mean, You understand what I'm saying. No,
53:07
they have no flipping clue what you're talking about, because you don't know
53:09
what you're talking about. You don't know on what level you're really talking about,
53:13
because you're showing them do as I say, not as I do.
53:15
Right, it doesn't work that way. It does not work that way.
53:19
So if you see behavior and your kids that you don't care for, take
53:22
a close look around who's been around him most or her most of the time.
53:28
Right, it's not just one. So but that's huge because that can
53:32
be changed. You don't have to stay in that space. The whole process
53:36
can change. Yeah, children could be I mean, children can help us
53:43
grow. Right, If they're showing up in a way that we don't like
53:45
and they're just mirroring us, We're like, oh, I don't like that.
53:47
You really said I don't like myself. So if you're getting pissed off
53:52
of your children, you're getting pissed off at yourself because you're showing up like
53:54
that. Yes, and are they'll keep going. No. I was just
53:59
gonna say on social media, I saw a meme it was like, UM,
54:05
I'm sorry. If you don't like my attitude, you created me,
54:07
So you need to go back to the manufacturer file your complaint. Yeah that's
54:16
awesome. So yeah, it's like children. Children are awesome in teaching us
54:27
if we were to learn, if we were to choose to learn about ourselves,
54:30
be more inquisitive about ourselves. Um, they're absolutely hundred percent a sponge
54:39
sponges and they're only reflecting back to you yourself percent. So when you think
54:49
about it, right, how many of us I wish I would say before
54:52
I wish my you know, I wish I would have come and told myself
54:54
to stuff you're that that you're telling yourself the stuff yourself, I mean,
54:59
you're these children are an aspect of you. Without you being here, they
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wouldn't be here. They have come in in a different forms through some other
55:07
parents or whatever else, but it wouldn't be in your experience the way it
55:09
is right now. And we have a huge opportunity. It's a huge opportunity.
55:15
We have it all day long. And the little they get your attention
55:19
because they throw their temper tantrums and stuff, and they think get confused because
55:22
nobody's listening to them. And so on the opposite side of that word,
55:27
what happens to me if I start experiencing something that was someone's close and really
55:30
close to me, then they're going through those experiences. I want to take
55:35
it and fix the problem. So still there's that I still have the fixer
55:39
fixture is not one hundred percent gone, because I know that they came for
55:43
their own experiences. But for you to bear witnessed to that, it's not
55:46
always easy. So that's where I send streams, embrace, I send love,
55:50
prayers, whatever for everybody involved because it's not just one person, because
55:58
we're all connected, right, is great? I have to say, it
56:01
feels in one in one side. You know, of course we even as
56:07
a just as a human being, you don't like to see people suffer and
56:12
struggle and all that. But playing that fix a role for so freaking long,
56:17
isn't it so refreshing to be able to just sit on the sidelines and
56:22
observe and just be like, yeah, look at that happened right now.
56:25
You know, it's like kind of like watching a tennis match, right You're
56:30
just watching the players and not not a You're just like, it's sain't my
56:36
ship man? Same mine, y'all figure it out. I'm gonna sit here
56:40
with my my tie. I don't care. It's not mine, it is.
56:46
Yes, isn't that interesting? Sip sip? I remember listening to Esther
56:53
Hicks talking about her grandkids and how one was pressing the other one's buttons,
56:58
and how it all played out kind have been different. It's it's fascinating,
57:02
But you know, our autopilot and then that's where it's so valuable for us
57:07
to learn new tools and then to incorporate those new tools. So that our
57:09
autopilot's not the same as all the way back when, you know, throwing
57:13
a temper tantrum, that was our autopilot. I'm tired, I'm gonna throw
57:16
a temper tantrum. My clothes, I'm dirty, I'm gonna throw a temper
57:21
tantrum. You know, there's just so many different things, and we have
57:22
an opportunity because it doesn't have to be that way. You're tired, you
57:25
go take a freaking nap. If you're if you're feeled filthy, find a
57:30
way to go hose off you know, whatever that looks like for you,
57:34
you just gotta do. It's just not keeping yourself in that victim's status,
57:37
going out and actually having some action. You're feeling a desire to do something,
57:42
take the action. That was the other thing with this lady on Next
57:46
Level Soul this morning was she goes. You know, when we when a
57:50
child is struggling, it's typically as a parent, like why are you crying?
57:58
Why aren't you picking up your clothes? Why don't you cleaning your room?
58:00
Right? It's the why they're like, so I don't want to right,
58:05
whatever the story is, and a child really doesn't understand why, like
58:07
the question why. Yeah, but when you ask what is it that's keeping
58:14
you from cleaning your room? What is it that's making you upset? Right
58:20
now? Right? Well, we asked the question in a different way.
58:23
Now you're there's connection. Now there's a way for the child to go,
58:29
oh, well, I'm just mad because I want an ice cream and you
58:35
won't give it to me. So I'm not going to clean my room.
58:38
True, whatever that is. Yeah, you know, but asking that question
58:44
differently, it was totally made sense to me because I was the mom that
58:46
said, why why aren't you doing the right? Yea, doing all my
58:52
shit all over my child? So I didn't have these tools, No,
58:57
me neither. But anyway, um, yeah, so there are so many
59:02
so much great um information and advice and knowledge coming forward that is being shared.
59:13
Of course, you get better when you implement something that resonates with you
59:20
so and feels good. Right, That's what we always talk about, what
59:23
feels good to you and implement it. Yeah, any final words make a
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magnficent week. Yes, absolutely, I and my friends thank you so much
59:38
for hanging out with us. Tea time with Amy and Bed. We'll see
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you next week. Ba