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Tone Bell Gets Real About Marriage, Comedy & the Grind · Two Personal with Joy Taylor

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  Speaker 1: She probably changed her name went back to her real
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  Speaker 1: name because Hurricane is not anyone's name.
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  Speaker 2: Hurricane aka the natural disaster.
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  Speaker 3: What welcome back to to Personal.
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  Speaker 4: I'm Joy Taylor, very excited for this week's guest tone Bell.
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  Speaker 3: Welcome to the show. What's up? You know? Thank thank
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  Speaker 3: you for having me? Very dapper today is dapper.
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  Speaker 4: You know you can't see the socks but the socks
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  Speaker 4: kind of coordinate with the socks of Soka. Listen, I
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  Speaker 4: just broke a real, like a very serious rule of mine.
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  Speaker 4: So that's how you know we're friends. I do not
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  Speaker 4: believe in complimenting straight man. Oh it's against like everything
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  Speaker 4: I believe in.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for knowing I'm straight? Yes, well, yeah, I
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  Speaker 3: do know that.
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  Speaker 2: I've been called gays so many times.
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  Speaker 3: Why you know, let me properly introduce you.
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  Speaker 4: Comedian, actor, writer, producer, Netflix, show Time, Warner Brothers. He's
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  Speaker 4: everywhere right now in town for the Netflix is a
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  Speaker 4: joke fest, working constantly everywhere.
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  Speaker 3: So that's the intro. All right, why do people think
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  Speaker 3: you're gay?
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  Speaker 2: You know, you break up with ladies, they'd be like,
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  Speaker 2: you must be gay? What don't heard this?
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  Speaker 4: And I've never heard that about me breaking up with
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  Speaker 4: women equates to them being gay.
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  Speaker 2: It shouldn't be a thing.
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  Speaker 3: Why is it a thing? First of all, according to
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  Speaker 3: other straight men or women women, Oh no, they're just mad.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah that's not that's what I don't associate with women
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  Speaker 4: that call men gay for no reason.
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  Speaker 3: Well, we call each other gay all the time. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: that's why I asked, who asked you?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah yeah men go Oh I got called gay
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  Speaker 1: twice a day.
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  Speaker 4: Wait, so women are like, oh, girl hanging with you
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  Speaker 4: because he's gay. Yeah, oh that's crazy. We gotta stop
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  Speaker 4: doing that. All right, don't make me hold women accountable.
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  Speaker 4: This is way too early in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: I mean we just started.
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  Speaker 4: But no, I don't believe in complimenting straight men because
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  Speaker 4: you guys do not know how to take compliments. You
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  Speaker 4: don't you get complimented. So here's my philosophy.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, we are complimented so regularly, regularly, like so so infrequently.
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  Speaker 3: You get complimented so infrequently, which I don't agree.
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  Speaker 2: No, I agree with that. I agree with your statement,
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  Speaker 2: and we don't.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and you guys don't compliment each other because, like
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  Speaker 4: you just said, your your straight male friends call each other.
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  Speaker 3: Gay all day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's just fun.
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  Speaker 3: Right, but it all sure jokes. But like you also
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  Speaker 3: can't in a lot of spaces just be like, hey man,
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  Speaker 3: I like your socks, like okay, homo.
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  Speaker 4: Always it's funny, right, Like when I said it, it sounded fun,
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  Speaker 4: but it's like, well that's how you all sound.
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  Speaker 2: I'll never call my friend at homo.
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  Speaker 3: That's that's too much. That's too much.
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  Speaker 4: You just be like, that's gay, that's gay, Okay.
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  Speaker 1: But not but like that's the thing is like this
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  Speaker 1: nineties gay, not now gay.
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  Speaker 2: We all respect now gay.
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  Speaker 4: I've been complimenting time since I walked in this room, okay,
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  Speaker 4: And and I know that it is genuine, and if
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  Speaker 4: it wasn't genuine, it wouldn't be said. And if if
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  Speaker 4: something needed to be changed, I would be told that
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  Speaker 4: as well, and I.
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  Speaker 3: Would I would process all of that properly.
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  Speaker 4: Then straight men, very specifically straight men, take a compliment
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  Speaker 4: and then they just run for the hills.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I have a different friend group because we
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  Speaker 1: all go, oh man, that's I mean, we do still
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  Speaker 1: give you ship, but we do go that's fly, that's dope.
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  Speaker 1: Like it's you guys compliment each other, my friend, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we com from each other often.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, good, that's good. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Healthy, that's a healthy thing. When did you realize you
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  Speaker 4: were funny?
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  Speaker 3: Uh?
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  Speaker 1: Probably high school was. But I went to a funny
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  Speaker 1: as high school. I mean I went to a very small school.
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  Speaker 1: But my everybody in my high school is very funny.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody's funny as fuck.
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  Speaker 2: We were.
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  Speaker 1: It was kind of a degenerate group of people because
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  Speaker 1: I went to a very small high school, but like,
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  Speaker 1: everybody was very It.
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  Speaker 2: Was almost like a reform school.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, it was kind of a private school, reform school.
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  Speaker 2: It was a lot of niggasho got I'm sorry, Can
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  Speaker 2: I say yes?
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  Speaker 3: Of course.
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  Speaker 1: It was just it felt like if if you were
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  Speaker 1: good at sports, attached to the church or schools attached
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  Speaker 1: to or you got put put out of another school,
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  Speaker 1: so you had to go here. Oh okay, So it
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  Speaker 1: was a lot of funny people as far as if
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  Speaker 1: we're talking comedy, It's like one of my uncles and
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  Speaker 1: a couple of people were like, because I'm more of
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  Speaker 1: a tagger than just like, I'm not gonna be the
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  Speaker 1: funniest dude in the room, but like, once I gets
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  Speaker 1: some space, I'm coming, I'm gonna come kill. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: fucking shive it. But yeah, I mean I did like
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  Speaker 1: bunch of stuff in high school in college and then
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  Speaker 1: you know, and then you went for it and then
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  Speaker 1: went for But I knew a bunch of do some
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  Speaker 1: comic view and death jam when I was in high school,
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  Speaker 1: so I was around it.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So then you had made some legitimately funny people love.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean like yeah, it was like they were
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  Speaker 1: very cool when I was like sixteen seventeen. But I
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  Speaker 1: didn't stand up the first time. I think I was fifteen, fourteen, fifteen.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, okay, so you knew pretty early that you had
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  Speaker 3: some chops to make other people out.
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  Speaker 1: I knew, I knew I could structure it right, I
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  Speaker 1: didn't know I was going to perform it until I
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  Speaker 1: was like, oh I can't. I moved to Dallas in
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  Speaker 1: two thousand and six or seven something like that.
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  Speaker 3: That's brave. Fifteen doing stand up is brave.
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  Speaker 2: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: I had a great first time, and then a Niga
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  Speaker 1: bombed at like fifty.
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  Speaker 2: It's hard to go back to school after you bomb.
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  Speaker 4: It's hard to do to try anything at fifteen unless
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  Speaker 4: you are unless you're positive that you are really great
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  Speaker 4: at something and even still then it's kind of risky
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  Speaker 4: because in high school, like one wrong move can define
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  Speaker 4: the rest of your life for those.
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  Speaker 2: People, and then you gotta get somebody pregnant just so
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  Speaker 2: they forget.
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  Speaker 4: About Like I still remember things that people did in
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  Speaker 4: high school, and like I don't judge that for it,
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  Speaker 4: but like I.
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  Speaker 3: Don't forget that that happened, but you don't.
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  Speaker 2: You don't talk to them now, right?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? Of course, of course I talked to them, but
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  Speaker 3: like I was, I wasn't a bully. I didn't become
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  Speaker 3: a bully till later in life. I hope I'll be
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  Speaker 3: holding grades. Oh of course, I've plants that they're like
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  Speaker 3: my plants, they're like my children, my grudges.
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  Speaker 4: That's probably why I have somebody chargedress levels that we're
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  Speaker 4: talking about stress.
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  Speaker 3: I realized I was funny in college because.
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  Speaker 2: What kind of funny are you?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm hilarious.
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  Speaker 4: I I am the type of funny that I like
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  Speaker 4: when my filters off, it's funny, Like I couldn't like
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  Speaker 4: stand up.
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  Speaker 2: I agree with that kind of funny.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I'm not like stand up funny maybe, but
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  Speaker 3: I haven't tried it.
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  Speaker 4: My point is, once I realized what to do with
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  Speaker 4: all my childhood trauma, like it was, it was touch
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  Speaker 4: a guy. It was like serial killer, be funny and like,
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  Speaker 4: I really feel like men everywhere should just think me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so you chose the right lane debate. I do
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  Speaker 1: think you're funny. I do think you're a uh, you're
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  Speaker 1: a trauma troll.
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  Speaker 3: I am a traumatroll.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, you're a traumatrol.
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  Speaker 1: That is like, oh, I'm going to exploit myself to
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  Speaker 1: make this fun, which which I do agree with. Even
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  Speaker 1: before I met you, go oh, this is what this is.
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  Speaker 1: Because we didn't meet too long ago. We knew of
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  Speaker 1: each other, but we didn't meet too long ago. But yes,
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  Speaker 1: you are a traumatral. But also I think I'm a
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  Speaker 1: trauma trol.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I think that that's That's not the only
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  Speaker 4: place that comedy comes from, because there are people I
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  Speaker 4: think that that can be. Well, everyone has trauma, But
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  Speaker 4: I think a big part of what comedians pull from
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  Speaker 4: obviously is their own experiences, and a big part of
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  Speaker 4: connective comedy is talking about things that are either kind
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  Speaker 4: of dark or that are just you know, the unspeakables
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  Speaker 4: in a funny way.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you're talking about life.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean yeah, I mean there's certain things where
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  Speaker 1: you go, oh like there everyone has like a even
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  Speaker 1: if it's not written down, there's like a notebook that
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  Speaker 1: you store where you go, oh, man, I can't because
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  Speaker 1: there are things that you I want to bring up
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  Speaker 1: now that won't be funny for another two years. You
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  Speaker 1: got to get to know me a little more for
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  Speaker 1: you to go, oh, this is this is gonna be
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  Speaker 1: hilarious because he thinks this is funny, and right now
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  Speaker 1: it's not gonna be funny. But in two years, once,
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  Speaker 1: once my next special comes out, then I can talk
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  Speaker 1: about some other shit and then you're gonna be like.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I know him a little more.
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  Speaker 3: And that's why. See, that's gonna be where I'm getting
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  Speaker 3: it wrong.
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  Speaker 4: I'm kind of dumping everything on everybody right now, and
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  Speaker 4: they're like, whoa.
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  Speaker 2: I heard you the other day talking about you trying
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  Speaker 2: to be mayor.
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  Speaker 4: I was kidding. I mean, let's be clear, I'd be
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  Speaker 4: an excellent politician. I'm super funny, excellent, but I would
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  Speaker 4: be an excellent Here's why I'd be an excellent politician.
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  Speaker 4: No politician, Here's why I'd be.
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  Speaker 3: An excell leader.
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  Speaker 4: One I am an excellent delegator to people who are excellent.
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  Speaker 4: I put great people around me intentionally, and I trust
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  Speaker 4: them and make it and we have great working relationships.
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  Speaker 3: I work great with other.
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  Speaker 4: People and that and hey, I work great with them.
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  Speaker 4: And that's on period. Okay, and that's on period. This
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  Speaker 4: is for something else.
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  Speaker 3: So I work great with other people.
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  Speaker 4: I really prioritize the most vulnerable in our community.
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  Speaker 2: I'm listening.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, you didn't say anything, and I can debate. I'm
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  Speaker 4: a professional debater. I would like I watched the this
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  Speaker 4: is going to time out this this episode, but I
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  Speaker 4: watched the the mayor debate mayoral debate debate for l
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  Speaker 4: A Yes Ship show.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, like that want to rebate.
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  Speaker 4: When I watch debates, it makes me want it makes
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  Speaker 4: me want to run for mayor.
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  Speaker 3: I would dog watch.
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  Speaker 2: Oh is that where that came from?
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  Speaker 3: Yes?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, but I don't really want I don't want to lead.
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  Speaker 4: I don't want the responsibility. I don't want that. I
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  Speaker 4: want to go to brunch. I don't want to do that.
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  Speaker 1: It's what you just said, Like the last the last
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  Speaker 1: ninety seconds of what you said are things that most
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  Speaker 1: people should have to say.
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  Speaker 2: About you. But I like that you said it about yourself.
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  Speaker 4: See, but your your that's why you're a professional. Because
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  Speaker 4: you're like, this is too much and I'm like, no,
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  Speaker 4: let's just fucking find this out right now.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm good at a lot of stuff.
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  Speaker 1: I people tell me a lot of times what I'm
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  Speaker 1: good at. But you're like, no, no, this is how great
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  Speaker 1: I am. I delegate the people that need to be
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  Speaker 1: delegated too, which is wonderful for you to know.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I think it's important for success.
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  Speaker 4: I think some of the worst leaders, and coming from
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  Speaker 4: a sports background, sure.
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  Speaker 3: You'll appreciate this.
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  Speaker 4: I hate when people can't delegate. I don't want to see.
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  Speaker 4: You're an owner, sit in your fancy box with your
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  Speaker 4: fancy partner and your fancy friends. Write to check and
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  Speaker 4: shut the fuck up. You are not a coach, you
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  Speaker 4: are not a GM. We do not need quotes from you.
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  Speaker 4: The only person I want to hear from is Jerry.
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  Speaker 4: That's it, Jerry Jones, and that's for content purposes only,
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  Speaker 4: because I don't think it's good for the team delegating
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  Speaker 4: to God.
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  Speaker 3: No, I'm sorry about My mother is a Cowboys fan,
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  Speaker 3: so I get what did I know this about you.
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  Speaker 2: This is the second time we've been so no.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like it usually comes out cowboys. Fans make
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  Speaker 4: it a point that you guys are like CrossFit.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not a fanatic.
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  Speaker 3: You guys are like CrossFit.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not a fanatic.
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  Speaker 3: Vegans. Okay, now it's gonna come up.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like you're disrespecting my cardigan right now.
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  Speaker 3: Are you a vegan? No?
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  Speaker 2: I eat lemon pepper wings every other day.
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  Speaker 4: I love lemon pepper wings and they hurt my tom Tom,
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  Speaker 4: and I still eat them every.
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  Speaker 2: Single time I have to. I have to have them.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah from Atlanta, man, I got it like it's it's you.
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  Speaker 1: You come out the wound going like, uh, teach me
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  Speaker 1: how to walk limon pepper wings.
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  Speaker 3: Atlanta is not a real place, and it's.
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  Speaker 1: I'm been there. I ain't lived there in twenty years.
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  Speaker 1: Like it's different than when I grew up.
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  Speaker 3: I can't be there for more than a day.
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  Speaker 2: And it's black Vegas.
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  Speaker 4: What an excellent, excellent description of Atlanta. It is absolutely
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  Speaker 4: black Vegas.
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  Speaker 3: Black Vegas.
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  Speaker 1: I got, I got three days there and I gotta
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  Speaker 1: go three days.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even stay in my parents more. I used
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  Speaker 2: to go home.
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  Speaker 1: I go visit my parents, like, uh, I sell vacuums
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  Speaker 1: door to door. I go, I pop in, I go,
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  Speaker 1: thank y'all for for allowing me in the house. And
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  Speaker 1: then I go stay somewhere I cannot be, and then
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  Speaker 1: I move on. But also I grew up. I grew
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  Speaker 1: up with you've been a magic city. Yes, so I
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  Speaker 1: grew up a little magic, Like we went to high
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  Speaker 1: school and elementary together, and so I've been in that
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  Speaker 1: world for a long time. So I can't. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: get into too much.
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  Speaker 4: Well are you are you a say yes, sir, I'm a.
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  Speaker 4: I'm a I'm a big fomo person. It's very hard
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  Speaker 4: for me to say no to things.
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  Speaker 2: To give me.
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  Speaker 3: Give me an example, like I'm usually the person that
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  Speaker 3: suggests the strip.
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  Speaker 1: Club at the end of the night with any strip club.
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  Speaker 4: No, not any strip club, no, definitely not, like like
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  Speaker 4: La is not a strip club city.
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  Speaker 2: It is not. So it is very disappointed.
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  Speaker 3: This ship is well, it makes sense actually when you
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  Speaker 3: think about it. There was no time I thought about it.
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna explain pre COVID there were a couple spots
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  Speaker 4: that you could.
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  Speaker 2: Go and you'll be the only ones that are decent, decent.
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  Speaker 3: I would really only go to crazy girls. Sam's's Sam's
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  Speaker 3: is cool. That's about that's about us. That's all I got.
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  Speaker 4: And and after COVID I was kind of like, ugh,
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  Speaker 4: this is just not it's not the it's not the
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  Speaker 4: guard for I haven't been a Stargarden.
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  Speaker 1: No, I don't even know Stargarden slopan, but it used
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  Speaker 1: to be. I went one night. We shused to go
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  Speaker 1: over there after the dive bar. We go over there
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  Speaker 1: like we go to the little dive bar and then
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  Speaker 1: wee fellas, you know some of the fellas I'm talking about.
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  Speaker 2: We go over there after.
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  Speaker 1: And then when I walked in there was the Miss
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  Speaker 1: star Garden pageant there.
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  Speaker 2: It was.
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  Speaker 1: It was a in The girl who won cried in
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  Speaker 1: like adelation of going like I can't and we're like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: there's nobody knows. This ship is off Langersham and she
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  Speaker 1: had tears running out like she was she.
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  Speaker 3: Was, why are you taking that from her?
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  Speaker 5: She's missed Stargarden, say, I went, I went, don't I
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  Speaker 5: want you to feel what you just said?
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  Speaker 2: Again?
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  Speaker 3: I listen, I don't.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not trying to funk up somebody else's fun, all right,
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  Speaker 4: she worked.
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  Speaker 3: Hard for that.
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  Speaker 1: I just I missed strip clubs when it was like
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  Speaker 1: kind of this is this is a this is a
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  Speaker 1: rites of passage for the rest of my life. I
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: don't like I don't like seeing uh advertisements. Yeah, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna do that, say a vertisement. I don't say advertisement,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't like being oh, I'm dancing
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  Speaker 1: on Tuesday. I like the ones. I remember nineties two
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  Speaker 1: thousands where it was like, I dance, but this only
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  Speaker 1: for the next five years and then I'm out of here.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: It was for it was to pay bills. It was
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  Speaker 4: to pay it was to get get out of college
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  Speaker 4: without uh, without loans, like that type of thing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's become very mainstream, which I don't I want
• 15:08
  Speaker 4: to say this properly because every time I talk about
• 15:10
  Speaker 4: sex work, it gets clipped off and becomes a think piece.
• 15:12
  Speaker 4: I believe that you should have the right to do
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: with whatever you want with your body. I'm also fully
• 15:18
  Speaker 4: fucking aware that the sex work industry has a lot
• 15:21
  Speaker 4: of exploitive elements to it.
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: And of course there are a lot of power elements
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: that are wrong, in illegal and oppressive.
• 15:31
  Speaker 4: There are Also, some women who are in the situation
• 15:36
  Speaker 4: they choose to be in and want to do OnlyFans
• 15:38
  Speaker 4: or want to dance, and that's what they enjoy doing,
• 15:41
  Speaker 4: and give them flexibility. Whatever the fuck, it's not to
• 15:43
  Speaker 4: you to decide. So I don't really care. That being said,
• 15:49
  Speaker 4: it was a time. There was a time, and there's
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: a little nostalgia to that time.
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: That time. I remember this was like two thousand.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: This might be like, oh one, I was like in
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: town for I was in college, but I'm coming home
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving and Christmas something and there was a retirement
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: party for a dancer at Magic City. And we're still
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: in the age, but like, you know, we know, so
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: we can get in. And this girl made I mean,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, this was a woman already.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: She just wont a girl.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: This was a right brown, cold grits thick woman. She
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: made two hundred and seventy thousand dollars a night. Oh
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: good for her, and was like, God, bless, I'm out
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: of here, you know what, as she should. As she should,
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: she probably changed her name, went back to her real name,
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: because Hurricane is not anyone's name.
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: Hurricane aka the natural disaster.
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: What that's excellent Branda.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: Oh but oh two, this motherfuckers out of here.
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: That's wonderful. That's wonderful.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: And then she gonna she can move to Cleveland. So
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: the whole nother life on. No one knows my home.
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: Start you a little bakery. Yeah, put so such a little.
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: Side for the tax, the heavy laundry basket she scooped
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: up that night.
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: Good for her, you know what. I I love that.
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: When I first met Tone, I introduced myself to him
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: and I I am.
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: Joy and he goes.
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: To then just kind of like kind of like moves
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: around the room a couple of feet around like a
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: little square.
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: And then someone else, I think someone else you.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: Memory different than mob, but go ahead.
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: Someone else said something I don't remember exactly.
• 17:40
  Speaker 4: I went down, But a few moments later he was like,
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: stop introducing yourself to black people as Joy Joy Taylor.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: It was so weird, yo, Like all right, first of all.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: I look like walking up to everyone I meet.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: Like, yeah, Joy Taylor, Okay, we want of the very
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: do It's only a few black people in the room
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: that we met in okay, with a lot of people
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: in their period. But you, you were the place you
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: weren't supposed to be not as in not as in
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: you weren't allowed.
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: I'm saying this.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: Is I would not It's not my environment, no correct.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: So if I met you in a locker room or
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: in a.
• 18:19
  Speaker 4: Locker room, okay, just let me sorry for lack of
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: a better sports environment.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: If I met you, if I met you at uh
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: uh soho house, it had been.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: Oh, this this happens, Oh oh joey.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, but I'm seeing you in the green room
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: at the comedy club and she can walk up talking
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: about joy.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: Man, Get the fuck.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: Why you're back here?
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: And I'm like George Taylor and she said, yeah, I go, okay,
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: you got You're gonna have to. If if I met
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: you in your environment, I'd have been like tonb. I'm
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: not sure if because we definitely know of each other
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: met you know, got friends that crossover.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: But you walk it was so.
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: You know what it was.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: It wasn't nonchalant, it was shalant.
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: Well, it's so crazy to introduce yourself with your full name.
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: Is not.
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: Well, he proved to be right, which irritates me so
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: much when when the guy loved me right and he
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: was he was immediately prove proves correct clip it because
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: moments later, like a few minutes later, I forget who
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: it was.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: But another man came up who.
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: Was black, and he introduced himself and I said, let
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: me try it, and I said Joy Taylor and he goes, oh, yeah,
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: nice to meet you. I love your work, and TONE
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: just got to stand there and bask in his rightness.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Because even though this is not what you did, it
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: felt like this, Joy.
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: I just think it's Look, I don't think of myself
• 19:58
  Speaker 4: as like a famous person.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: None of us. Well, some people do, yeah, I'm but
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: neither do I.
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: Because I'm not really like, I'm like famous in very
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: very specific pockets.
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so.
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: You need Yeah, I feel it feels awesentatious of me
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: to introduce myself with my full name. So you get
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: into comedy at fifteen, we're bouncing out.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: I had done it, I had done it.
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, I I think the first time you
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: do something is when your career starts.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: I've heard that too, but I don't. I don't believe that.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: But okay, but I give you. I'll give you. I'll
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: give you that.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: That was your first time doing stand up? Yeah, I'm
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: probably fifteen sixteen.
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, you weren't being paid for it, remebe
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: you were No. So since you were fifteen, you've been
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: doing something in the comedy space.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: At least you started that. At least your dream started.
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: And you tried it the first time, but you didn't
• 20:52
  Speaker 4: work in comedy after that for a long time.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: No, no, no. Uh So.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: Did a bunch of comedy sketches, skits, all the stage stuff, plays,
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: all that, and then I got into college. I hosted
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: some stuff, did some stuff in Georgia. I went to
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: Savannah State, did some stuff at Georgia Southern and Albany
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: and Fort Valley all that, and then got out of college,
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: started doing more, and then I went to like theater,
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: like the theater route, did some independent films, and then
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I I had, you.
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: Know, I got to eat, so I got a job.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: And then twenty seven eight is like when I really
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: was like I couldn't I couldn't afford to do a
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: play and have a job, right, So I was like, oh,
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: how can I control this myself? And I loved it
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: on if nothing else I could outlet to like get
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: this out of my system. And then I was like, oh,
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go through the comedy club and then started
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: doing standing up.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: So you were what kind of job did you work?
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: What year? Well? I mean, actually, let's go right before
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: you you.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: Ever thought about being a teacher.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: Uh no, I would never be a good teacher. I am.
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: I was a coach. I'm a mentor. I am, I
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: have I have a mente. I'm sorry, Why is that funny?
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: Is not?
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know why I'm laughing?
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: Why is that funny? I'm a good mentor? No, no,
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: you though, huh.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: We gonna ask the mentee.
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: I was talking to her yesterday. I gave her great advice,
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: right Haley. Yeah, yeah. I won't play her name out there.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: But were you delegating?
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: I was not telling her to do work for me.
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: She's she's on her own path and I'm very proud
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: of her. Uh No, I cannot be a teacher. My
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: mom is a teacher for a long time, actually out
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: of reform school. I don't have a lot of patients,
• 22:50
  Speaker 4: you know, I know surprising.
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: I don't have a lot of patients.
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: But and I people's kids be bad.
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: It's fun and then it's your fault they're bad. No,
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: not for me.
• 23:03
  Speaker 4: I think teachers are are honestly, angels there. We don't
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: deserve any of them.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: I was a teacher.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: I talked for I talked for a year after college,
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: which I look, what grade, first grade?
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: First grade? All they're so cute.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's like I knew who the smartest
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: kid was. I had like two kids who were like, oh, y'all.
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: I mean at first, they really can't disguise themselves as
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: who's smart and who's not.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: Yet. No, it's some dummies, That's what I'm saying.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: And parents need to know my kid is a dummy.
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: We haven't we we kind of we kind of bounce
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: back and forth.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: No, it's there, it's but you gotta know. It's like
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: but also if if, how.
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: Do you tell a parent that their kids done?
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: They know? You don't have to tell them. They know.
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: No, you didn't have one parent that was like, how
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: dare you?
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: They mostly talk about medications, did they Well, you're.
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: Not a doctor, so I won't even ask that.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: But you don't know that.
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: Listen, I took my medication this morning before you got here.
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: Very important stuff.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: I had two kids.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: I knew they were going to prison in first grade,
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: and no saving them.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: I did my best them niggas in prison.
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: What did they do? You know what they did?
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: Oh? Man, them niggas in prison.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can tell you know, when the nigga standed
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: the pencil shopping a little too long.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, this nigga's going to prison.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: It's you know, listen, you can kind of tell very
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: early what a kid's going to be.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: I had two kids, so smart of my classic go
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: I'm not good enough for y'all. Y'all have to get
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: out of here, y'all. I was doing my level best
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: and I didn't go.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: To school for this this.
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: Why did you get into teaching?
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: I graduated early, not early, as in, didn't do the
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: four years as in like I didn't turn twenty one
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: until after I graduated. Okay, wow, so but it was
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: like two three months after then I was twenty one.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: But I was like, I couldn't get a nobody's gonna
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: hire a child. Yeah, And then I took like a
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: couple of courses to get certified after I had a degree.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: And then one of my frat brothers Alpha Alpha Alpha.
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: We'll talk about that later. Ahead. Do you want to
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: do any fut? Do you want to do a do
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: you need to stop and do a walk.
• 25:25
  Speaker 4: That's wow, there is any chance that you need to
• 25:29
  Speaker 4: get out? You thought this is for your I'm surprised
• 25:31
  Speaker 4: you didn't anounce yourself before.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: You give you thought my socks you want to do?
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: I have a crazy confession. While we're on this, and
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: they're gonna get back.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: Back on, let's talk about these children that I have done.
• 25:42
  Speaker 4: I wasn't at the Alpha What was it called the
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: Black and Goal?
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: Your color's black.
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: And Goal, right, Miss Black and Gold? Pat the Miss
• 25:51
  Speaker 4: Black and Gold pageant, don't I don't know. I was
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: like black and I don't know something. It's obviously not
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: black and yellow. I don't want to ge into it.
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: It was crazy. You have to have a talent, which
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: I'm obviously wildly talented, but just not really at things
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: that are well that you can like stand on stage
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: and do. I can't sing, I'm not a dancer. I
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: can't do ribbons. So I recited Phenomenal Woman by Maya Angelo.
• 26:25
  Speaker 4: That's my talent.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: And I'm just gonna I'm gonna like, we're.
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: Just gonna move on.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna get someone who.
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: Did win what I did not win.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: No, No, I did not win no, that's wild.
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: No, my friend once she deserved it. She was better.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: She sang, she sang. Okay, yeah, I would say. I
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: mean everyone in the in the crowd knew the poem,
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: of course, so we all kind of like recited together.
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: It was very churchy. Another time, it's a different joy.
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: Anyway, back on track, that's such a humiliating.
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: This is a long time.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: This is my friend the nineteen hundred, but it was
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: it was the it was no, it wasn't.
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: The nineteen hundreds, but it was my my freshman year
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: of college.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: Okay, you want to talk about the year.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, So that's that's that's not where I
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: was going with this.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: But but thank you for taking them.
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: And yeah, okay, so your your your frat brothers.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: He was like a.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: Just a great dude who was like was in the city,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: probably in his forties at that time.
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: Well it's not for of course, it's great.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: He was.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: So yeah, so he was like, before you get into
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: the workforce, if you need something, let me know. And
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: then so that I became a teacher, and then I
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: think I had at one point sixteen kids in my class,
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: but I think we were average like fourteen and then,
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: but I had two I had two kids who were like,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: I mean, above average, just third fourth level in first
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: grade in the inner city school. And I was like,
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: y'all got the fuck out of here. Y'all are I'm
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: wasting y'all time. Y'all are too good. Okay, I can't
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: tell you this. I had one kid who was like,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: he wasn't he wasn't dumb. Also, anybody listen to this,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: this is two thousand and four. I should be exonerated
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: from all what I'm about to say because they grown now.
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: I mean, listen, some kids are dumb.
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: It's okay, thank you. You only have to go online
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: for about thirty five seconds to realize that there were
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: many left behind.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: And some should be.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: Some left themselves behind.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: Some should be.
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: So So I had these two kids that I had
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: one kid who was like, who was great. Now, he
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: was on medication some of the time. But I'm like,
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: I don't like him on medication because he was like
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: he was drafted.
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: I didn't.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: I don't like that, you know, before SSRIs and and
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: all the the blockers and all like that. But he
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: was a kid like if they gained medication, he just
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: be you know, just be super down.
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: I go, man.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: But he was like he was a very vibrant kid,
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: but couldn't pay attention. I go, if I keep him busy,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: I think he's I mean kind of how It was
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: a kid like you got to keep.
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: Me busy and this.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: But this little boy was like six maybe he was
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: seven years old in first grade. And this boy looked
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: just like Danny Glove. This thinker had the forehead in
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: the cheeks. He looked just like Danny Glove. And his name,
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: I mean his last name was actually Glover, by the way.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: And this motherfucker he was he was, I mean, he
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: just I mean he sat old.
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: He sat old.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: I mean he doing he color, he's doing the numbers.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: He caught him the numbers and he said he I go,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: I go, boy. And I had to just like give
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: him stuff to do, so I let him be like
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: I called him mister president and like in the in
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: the class. And dude, this kid was like, I go ahead,
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: you want to take the spelling tests now, or y'all
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: want to do after recess or we take the uh
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: we can go to recess now and then take spelling
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: tests afterwards. He's like, hmmm, let me think about that,
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: and he said this little rocking chair, and I go,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: mister president got a decide and he was He was great.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: He was like probably like the middle of the road
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: kid that I had. Then I had two other ones
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: that were just I go. They had the pencil sharpener
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: for they making weapons. These kids are going to prison.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: And then my all pair in my room later sent
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: me out. I had moved just moved out here, and
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: they were they were about to graduate, I think. And
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: then she sent me a news article the niggas went
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: to prison, and I called that ship in two thousand
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: and four.
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: They really went to prison.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: Nigga.
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: I'm not I don't lie. That's crazy.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: Niggas in for a life.
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: I go, these niggas going to prison, and you could
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: have you could have changed their lives.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: I did my best, I did my level best, but
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: but I had to change my life.
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: I can't worry about them.
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: So after what was what was your last job before
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: you decided to commit fully to your art?
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I worked, I was a the position I had. What
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: was what was my last position? I was a retail
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: account manager for an has A Bush at a corporate gate.
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, so I.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: I that led that came from I had a fun
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: ass oh joy, I had a fun ass job before that,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: before they put me like in a real position. From
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: like two thousand and six to twenty eleven, I wred
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: for as a bush and I had a The first
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: four years of that was like a fucking party.
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: Were you like us?
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: You were? I wasn't sales. I wasn't in sales. I
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: was in events. Oh okay, So I hopped around. I
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: mean they moved me from I mean I was in Miami,
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: I was in New Orleans. I had to go to
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: every super Bowl, NBA finals.
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't, you are a menace. I already know it.
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: We already know.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: I was a problem.
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: I already know. I already know.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: I yeah in my twenties.
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, with the with the promo girls and yeah, got it.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: I mean I was a problem.
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: And then they were like enough of that.
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: Here's your desk, go do yeah, put this polo shirt on,
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: tuck it in.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: So you were probably making good money?
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, I looked like I was making great money.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Was not making good money, but had a credit card
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: that couldn't get declined. So I didn't have I if
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: you was my chick. Back then, you didn't even know
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: I was making like thirty seven thousand dollars a year
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: because I could swipe, I go whatever you want to do.
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: We going, Oh you had the good, good corporate card.
• 32:37
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, I got a manager that didn't chuck
• 32:39
  Speaker 4: your receipts either.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: The girl I thought I was gonna married back in
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: the day, like this is twenty plus years ago. The
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: girl was like, oh, this is this is my lady.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: She saw one of my paychecks on my coffee table
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: one day and she was like this argument it was, I.
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: Go, where'd you find that? I go?
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: Dude, was like, that's a bonus chick crazed it was,
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: she thought, because I mean I lived like I made
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: way more than that.
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: I mean it was embarrassing. I was like, why is
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: that out? It was.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: That direct deposit from now on? Yeah, of course, why
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: is this a physical checks in there? It was so
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: little money and she was like, is this is what
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: you make every two weeks?
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: She was like, this is not the future I'm signing
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: up for. I'm like, this is not the point, right,
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: don't you do everything?
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: And now I get get defensive and just what don't
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: I do? What? Don't I do.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: Don't you everything you eat a lot of you know,
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: remember like you know, back then it was some restaurants
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: that were still nice that you can't take nobody to now.
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: Oh now you're gonnay. I think we need to get
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: a producer, Mike.
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: Some change, some change, some shame restaurants.
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: They mentioned and Drake songs it maybe a couple. We've
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: been over the cheesecake factory thing. We've done it to death.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: I've learned that beat a dead horse is now an
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: inappropriate statement. I don't know why, But would.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: You not would you not find an olive garden nostalgic
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: and like kind of fun?
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: I mean, I right, I don't have a problem with
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: olive garden.
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: I don't eat at olive garden because I live in
• 34:26
  Speaker 4: Los Angeles.
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: Right there are there are price But yeah, I would
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: eat it also.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: Like I've been, I'm not like, yeah when last time,
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: like what what if we just go fun about of
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: garden real quick?
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: Waiting that kind of fun?
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: Uh? Sure, I don't. I have no problem with all that.
• 34:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah, the red lobster red lobster still hits, and I mean,
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: I to me, I don't know what they're made of
• 34:54
  Speaker 4: but alive garden breadsticks are still fantastic. So I get
• 34:58
  Speaker 4: the bread sticks and salads, and I'm big sup person,
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: so I'll eat soup anywhere.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: That's what I mean.
• 35:03
  Speaker 4: But the point is there was a time with our garden.
• 35:05
  Speaker 4: All Garden was a legitimate date.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Even I'm talking about if if yes, yeah, of course,
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: I mean twenty years ago, twenty five years ago.
• 35:12
  Speaker 4: They don't like fast forward now with the the like
• 35:16
  Speaker 4: glamification of everything like they could never.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: But this is also I'm not talking about like in
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: it like we already rocket. Let's go do some wild
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: shit that we we don't never do this. When's the
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: last time we rocked an olive garden? Let's just go
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: check it out. Yeah, I think that's super fun.
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: Right teacher, But I do understand what you're saying.
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: You don't.
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: You wouldn't like how did we get an aid garden?
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: Because you used to take her to All Garden a lot, No.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: When I was poor. That's how we got on it.
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: But you worked for you had a credit guard.
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: And she did not respect it.
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: When we broke up.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: When we broke up, you've been You've still let the plan.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: You know, the Varsity is off seventy five eighty five
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: right downtown.
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: Where is the varsity? The varsity?
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: You know the varsity?
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: No, is that tenth you know what I'm talking about
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: the varsity.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: So, because I'm from decicated, right, so like the varsity
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: is right down right downtown.
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: I think it's off.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: I could be wrong.
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: People don't get into comments on me about this, but
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: it's I think it's off of tenth and five.
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: I got robbed indicator once.
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: Well that's where I'm from. Not the cute particating it was.
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: It was it was.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: It was really a hustle, but it was basically basically
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: you didn' get rob like this, you got like, she's another.
• 36:28
  Speaker 4: Strip club situation. It pisses me off this day I
• 36:31
  Speaker 4: was with the white man. It's it's really my fault.
• 36:33
  Speaker 4: It's my fault. Actually going to strip club with the
• 36:35
  Speaker 4: white man. Indicator is just a fucking insane thing.
• 36:37
  Speaker 3: Just about that accountability. Yeah, I mean I have to
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: take I have to I have to take responsibility from
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: my choices in that situation. So anyway to cater Varsity.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, I broke work because she was
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: she was becoming, she was becoming.
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: The niggas who should throw parties back in the day.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: Became like the you know, and I knew all them
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: from college, like we all was tight and everything. And
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: then but she got like a little she was starting
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: to get like her and her girls. I'm like, okay,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: I'm lose. I can feel I'm losing you. You've seen
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: the check I can get in everywhere. I went to
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: school with these cats, and I mean, I'm feeling I go,
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: I go, I'm she's slipping away.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: It's like this.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: I felt like that, this is happening, like she's Homer
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: Simpson into the bushes and I go, all right, I'm done.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: Uh.
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: And she goes, you come to pick yourself up from
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: my crib and I go, no, I'm gonna bring your stuff.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: You're gonna bring you my stuff. And we're gonna meet
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: at Varsity's halfway between our crib. And we met the
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: parking lot and I had a box of her stuff,
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: she had a bag of my stuff. And then we
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: just you know, and we exchanged stuff and then she
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: kind of had a it's not like that, and we
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: you know, we it was emotional. It was emotional, and
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: we kind of had a thing out and I looked
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: in the bag and I go, where's my pizza pan?
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: I had it. I had like this, it made this
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: motherfucker made. It's from big lives too, like it made
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: perfect pizzas, and of it. I go, where's my pizza pants?
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: She said, you don't even use it? Go bitch, I
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: want my pizza pan. And but she had it was
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: in the car, so she stumped back to her car.
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: So she knew you wanted that pizza pan. She was
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: just hoping you would forget it.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: I ain't found a pizza pan in that good sense.
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: Men are so petty about things like that.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: You can't have my pizza pan when I meet. I
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: bought this pizza pan into your.
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: Life, so patty about things like that. You can't push
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: it like that.
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: With me though you can't, uh, I am.
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: I may not get away with it, but i'm.
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: You're gonna regret it. Well, you're going to regret my
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: pizza pan back. You might, you may not.
• 38:40
  Speaker 4: You're gonna get pieces of that pizza pan back. You
• 38:44
  Speaker 4: can't break this, enjoy Where do you get your material?
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, I don't write like traditional people.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: It's like it's I have to live it right, So
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: I mean honestly, even just like passing this place because
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: I passed it twice trying to get here, and like
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: I'm on the phone and listen to the radio, but
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: I also got the directions going and just like.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: Not if I was paying attention. But that's me, So
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: like I go, what about me?
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: Is that thing of like why couldn't I mean, I
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: saw it, I pad I think that's it. I think
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: that's it, and it just kept it just kept going,
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: so like just the it's just life. I'm not a dude.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: I know people who can who are brilliant, who just
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: can open a magazine or newspaper, re Twitter and go, oh,
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: I can come up with a joke right there, something
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: has to happen to go why is this ridiculous? And
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: like it's it's it's just that how did that feel?
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: How did that person feel? And I just just the
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: moment of life of I do most things for the story.
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: Like I hate a good wedding.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: When stuff is wrong at a wedding, it's more memorable,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: it's more fun, it's funnier. Like anybody, if you've ever
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: been to a perfect wedding, it ain't fun.
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: You might be right about that actually, when something goes wrong,
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: you need something.
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: You need some tea, you need something you gotta have,
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: Like it's memorable.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Like even if I mean, if somebody get too drunk,
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: if something if it rained, if like somebody bumped into
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: the cake, if somebody get caught, something goes yeah, did
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: you that was wild? Like that's the memory, and memories
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: are the most.
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: Uh.
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: It gels comedy the best because I mean, because I'm
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: very I'm I'm I will say that I think I'm
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: very relatable and say that you have to reach much
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: for you because you've seen me at this point and
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: you don't have to reach much even if you're not
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: familiar with that moment you go, I know something like that.
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: That is you have good setups. Thank you.
• 40:37
  Speaker 4: I think that's important because like sometimes comedians will jump
• 40:40
  Speaker 4: into a story and they haven't really given context, the context,
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: and it's it's sort of hard to f.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: Almost give too much, I think, because I'll go four
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: minutes without a laugh just to give you all the stuff.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: But then once I start hitting, like it's we in there,
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: but like.
• 40:55
  Speaker 4: Didn't reabove different styles? Yeah, do you have to get
• 40:58
  Speaker 4: or do you get permission? If you're telling a personal
• 41:00
  Speaker 4: story because the set that I saw your wife, yeah
• 41:03
  Speaker 4: you you talked.
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: About your wife, and.
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah you dig a hard on your wife.
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: And but it was funny.
• 41:10
  Speaker 4: But I think I couldn't help but thinking I wonder
• 41:13
  Speaker 4: if he got permission, And it's not it wasn't a
• 41:15
  Speaker 4: bad story at all.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: Actually I run it past her in real time whenever
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: it happens, like so after you do no no, no no.
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: When it when something happens, okay, And.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: Then she we have a we have a joint notepad
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: on the phone, and so she'll start writing down, write
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: there so I don't forget. And then and so then
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: I see like the next morning be like oh shit, okay,
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: yeah I remember that, and then I'll try it. But
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: she gets so many benefits off of me making fun
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: of her or her family or my family whatever, like
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: people like my dad doesn't like as much my mom.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: My mom's like she loves it. Yeah, my dad is
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: like he making fun of me. My wife is like
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: my car is paid for because of these jokes.
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: Well, it's I mean, it's important to have a partner
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: that as that.
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah perspect she she, I mean there's only been one.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: There's like there's a bit that she hates. I didn't
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: do it that night that you saw me. There's one
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: that she I mean, she can't stand it and she
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: can't stand that people like it, but it only works
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: like seventy percent of the time. The crowd got to
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: be in the part of my hand for me to
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: get away with it. And it's not a it's it's
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: it's a how you say it, it's a uh, it's
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: a DV bit. Yeah yeah, right, yeah, yeah, uh, it's
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: a DV. But it's not about it's it's it's it's
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: it's heard. It's hard to say a positive domestic violence.
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: It's hard to say that. But it's like, if you
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: heard the bit in the right context, you go, I
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: see why this is funny. But I've said it the
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: wrong time on stage a couple of times, and people
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: like Nigga Leaf.
• 42:54
  Speaker 4: Do you think that there works every time? Do you
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: think there is stuff that is off limits for comedy?
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: Really at the right time, at the right time, it's
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: everything is great.
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: I tend to agree because I have really conflicting feelings
• 43:12
  Speaker 4: on sensoring art.
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: Sure, and at the end of the day, comedy is art.
• 43:18
  Speaker 4: So you're performing and I think it's a dangerous road
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: to take to start censor showing what I will say.
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: Though to your point of like right time, right place.
• 43:30
  Speaker 4: We live in a world now where everyone has a podcast,
• 43:33
  Speaker 4: everyone has a platform, everyone's putting out content all the time.
• 43:38
  Speaker 4: And if I come to your show and you do
• 43:41
  Speaker 4: a dv bit, I'm at a comedy show. I have
• 43:45
  Speaker 4: submitted myself to whatever material these and I don't know
• 43:49
  Speaker 4: any of the comedians. I've submitted myself to whatever material
• 43:51
  Speaker 4: this adult show is going to talk about.
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: I don't have to like it.
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: I can leave, but like, I don't get to dictate
• 43:57
  Speaker 4: what that content is. But if I'm listening to say,
• 44:01
  Speaker 4: an interview that happens to be hosted by comedians, I
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: think that's a different space. I think where where for
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: me it's it. It's kind of weak shit to say
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: things that you would get away with, not get away
• 44:16
  Speaker 4: with that would be appropriate in a comedy show while
• 44:19
  Speaker 4: you're doing like a serious interview, a semi serious interview
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: with like a politician. To me, you're you're you're leaning
• 44:26
  Speaker 4: like some people will say something that offends everyone and
• 44:29
  Speaker 4: they're like, oh, I'm not coming ahead, Like yeah, but
• 44:31
  Speaker 4: in this setting, you're not a community.
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean like that. That's that's the that's the
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: hard part.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: It's like it's there are time and place for everything,
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: and like I don't, I don't, I'm not my.
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: There are herself.
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: When I go to the airport, I need to get
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: on this plane. I gotta go somewhere. I'm not gonna
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: be this way with the gate agent. She don't unless
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: you recognize me. She don't know what I do. I'm
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: not gonna give all of what I'm thinking at that moment,
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: Like I need to get on this plane. I'm not
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: gonna give this lady. She's just doing her job, right,
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: she didn't come. I'm paying to see her, right right,
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: she didn't pay to see me. I'm not going to
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: just do that unless she goes, oh I love you
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: on this thing, or I've seen you last week at
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: the show. But yeah, there's a time. I think there's
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: a time and place. But there are there are moments
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: where I mean, like I said, the thirty percent of
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: time that it don't work, there's sometimes where I test
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: it to go I wonder if I can get y'all
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: with this, And there's sometimes where I go this is
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: not gonna work, but I'm gonna just do it. I
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: know it's not gonna work. The seven percent of time,
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: I'm like, Oh, I'm in the fucking pocket.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: But you can feel that with an audience. Yeah, I mean,
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: I think.
• 45:35
  Speaker 4: I mean that I've seen every side of this. Like
• 45:41
  Speaker 4: I've seen comedians do whole sets that were riotous, that
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: were very funny and very offensive to any any pearl clutcher,
• 45:52
  Speaker 4: and then do the exact same set in a completely
• 45:56
  Speaker 4: different setting and it was a disaster.
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: Stir and I and they leaned on being a commedian.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: Only was some of my jokes working, And that is
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: how you feel well.
• 46:06
  Speaker 4: I think the setting matters too, though, Like if you
• 46:08
  Speaker 4: are if you're hired to host uh bar mitzvah, you
• 46:13
  Speaker 4: probably won't do the DV joke.
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: The crowd is not good. You know from the moment
• 46:23
  Speaker 3: that you walk in that you have been hired incorrectly.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: How much I'm getting paid for this?
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: Uh hit a lot?
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: You've hit a lot, then I will bomb gracefully.
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: Because you've already gotten in check.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: I've done weddings, and I've done relationship material at weddings,
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: and I've bombed, but I go, the check was great.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: So it's so insane. That's that's that's the hardest part.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: Like they anybody listen to this real quick, just real quick.
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: If you hire someone to do your wedding, let it
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: be after because what they do. They hire us when
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: they when they taken pictures in between the ceremony and
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: the reception. I've only got to hire in that hour
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: that they're gone to do some other shit. Yeah, the
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: cocktail hour and then Nigga, but they don't tell people
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: we there, Oh, we got a comedian coming up while
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: they taking pictures. Give it up, you go, nigga, No,
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: this is I'm gonna hire three times to do this.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: Let people know from the top before the ceremony start. Hey, man,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: after the ceremony, there's gonna be a comedian here in between.
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: Why they going to take pictures, and then we're gonna
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: have or put me up during the reception.
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: Once music get started, it's over for me.
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: But in that cocktail hour, they go, oh, just to
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: take you all time up to eat this time up,
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be some funny. You go, nigga, this is
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: I'm and now I gotta sit and eat with y'all.
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: It's crazy.
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: This is not gonna go well.
• 47:44
  Speaker 4: I have to say, I just I don't think. I
• 47:46
  Speaker 4: don't think jokes and weddings go go well together.
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: The rehearsal dinner, the.
• 47:51
  Speaker 4: Rehearsal dinner at best, which I don't believe in that.
• 47:53
  Speaker 4: But it's gotta be quick. It's I've had a really
• 47:56
  Speaker 4: horrible experience with this. I think people get really excited,
• 47:59
  Speaker 4: especially especially the groom, about roast and like really cool speeches.
• 48:06
  Speaker 4: But you're a comedian though, so so it's it's a bit.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: It was only gonna go one way for me, so
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: it was like, I'll do this, but I need this
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: to be a part of it.
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: So did you do you think you're a sensitive person?
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: Yea, you are.
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: Have you always been that way or have you worked
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: on Yeah?
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: I've always been sensitive, but but I'm not I'm not
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: outwardly sensitive.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: I don't have a I don't let a lot of
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: stuff affect me in front of people. But yeah, I
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: mean I'm only child, so like that that's a that's
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: a very like I'm sensitive in that manner.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't have a I'm not gonna give
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: it to you.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: But like if if if something happened today and I go,
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: we're still gonna be cool. But I go, man, I hope,
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: I hope we're still cool after that. And but I
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: put it on myself to go, man, what did I
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: do to.
• 48:59
  Speaker 3: Enjoy?
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: Didn't rock with that thing?
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: So I'm sensitive in that because I go, man as
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: the only child to go, I'm I'm you're a collector
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: of people like that, that's who you don't have the
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: And I didn't grow up around my family.
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: I grew up there.
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: All them are away in the Midwest, so I saw
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: them in the summer. I get I collect as many
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: people as I can to go, oh man, this is
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: my trib my family. If I if something doesn't happen
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: the way it was, why I breakup, serve if ruined me?
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: If they if they if it doesn't work out the
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: way Even if a breakup, I've had good ones where
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: it's like, oh man, it's not working out and we
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: just shake hands, hug.
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: And go all right, I still go, what was that?
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: Like why I'm very sensitive in that when it's when
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: it's ah, when it's a if I have a show
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: and I'm doing an hour. Not that I need a
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: standing ovation or but I want people to enjoy themselves.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: And I will not.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: Go out there to take pictures if I feel like
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: I didn't give my best. I want to give my
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: fucking best. When I feel like I gave my best,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: I go, hey, man, I'm telling man, this dude on
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: the stay, keep everybody in the room. Let's do it
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: on the stage. If I go, fuck, man, where did
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: I go wrong? I can't let them see me again.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: I get so in my head about.
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: It, to like a bit of an overthinker, only child
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: thinking I'm not an only child. I have so many people,
• 50:14
  Speaker 3: are some massive family. I've heard, Yeah, I got number fifteen.
• 50:20
  Speaker 4: On the way, number fifteen fourteen, nieces enough, I'm fifteen
• 50:26
  Speaker 4: on the way.
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: What about you? Are you? Are you? Are you? You're
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: not sensitive?
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: I am? I'm not a sensitive person. Are you callous?
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: I'm very callous. I've changed a lot I was.
• 50:40
  Speaker 4: I think I think I was more empathetic and sweet
• 50:44
  Speaker 4: and kind as a child, and then the world was like, no,
• 50:48
  Speaker 4: that's not for you.
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: We're going to turn you into a tyrant. And now
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: here I am.
• 50:53
  Speaker 4: And I've been consciously self reflective, like in different chapters
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: of my life.
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: But I'm also.
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: I'm somebody who like prides themselves on having self awareness,
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: so I try not to be too insensitive.
• 51:12
  Speaker 3: Also, do you.
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: Do you do you enter.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: With walls up with most people that you mean, yes, yeah,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: I'm I think I'm the opposite of that. I think
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: I go, I'm I want to be I kind of
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: I want you to I want to be what you
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: want me to be. But I'm also I'm mouldable to
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: go I'm I'm gonna look at you to go.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: I try to put myself in a position to go,
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: I I am the person I want the world to be.
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: I try to be that. I'm chilled now.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: I do have a temper when it's not that I'm
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a ray, I'm I'm two degrees from
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: like going off even like the like the the I'm
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: forget which mar movie that was, but like the whole
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: was like I'm always angry. I'm kind of always angry.
• 52:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm always irritated. I wouldn't say I'm always angry.
• 52:06
  Speaker 4: I'm always irritated.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: I'm angry a lot, but but my hear is like
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: I'm very even to go. Man, I think everybody's great.
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: I really think everybody's great. And I give you multiple, multi,
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: multiple degrees of like.
• 52:22
  Speaker 3: But once, once it's done as a temper, I don't
• 52:27
  Speaker 3: I have a I don't.
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: Think I have a temper. It takes so much for
• 52:30
  Speaker 4: me to really snap because you're already irritated. Yeah, so's
• 52:34
  Speaker 4: that is what I think keeps me out of prison.
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: It's like I operate at kind of like a six
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: or seven.
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: Of irritation, yeah out of ten. Right, and then so,
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: but do you like being irritated?
• 52:45
  Speaker 3: I don't really know how.
• 52:46
  Speaker 4: Else to be, Like, I don't want to have a temper,
• 52:49
  Speaker 4: and ship pisces me off, Like what what's the little thing?
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: Everything? Everything pisses me off. I've a headache right now.
• 52:55
  Speaker 4: I'm so irritated now. Yeah, I don't know why I've
• 52:58
  Speaker 4: been drinking water and eat today.
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: So maybe that's why. No, I just I don't.
• 53:04
  Speaker 4: I don't really like to feel angry, and being irritated
• 53:07
  Speaker 4: keeps me from feeling angry.
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 53:08
  Speaker 4: It also, on the flip side, keeps you from feeling
• 53:10
  Speaker 4: very happy also because you can't really like those swings.
• 53:14
  Speaker 3: Are not good for me. Yeah, I ask if you're sensitive,
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: because I I saw this.
• 53:21
  Speaker 4: Clip from Jada Kiss and Fat Joe's podcast and Bill
• 53:25
  Speaker 4: Burr was on it, and he was talking about not
• 53:27
  Speaker 4: being angry anymore and with a lot of yeah, like
• 53:32
  Speaker 4: and and then and his journey. He said acting helps
• 53:34
  Speaker 4: him not be angry because in acting you have to
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: explore so many different emotions fully to be a good actor,
• 53:42
  Speaker 4: and emotions that he had locked away, like as a man,
• 53:45
  Speaker 4: you're not allowed to cry, and you're not supposed to
• 53:47
  Speaker 4: be sensitive and all these like things that our patriarchal
• 53:51
  Speaker 4: society puts on men, which is not our fault. Men
• 53:55
  Speaker 4: designed this for the record, but what time is it?
• 54:00
  Speaker 4: We had a very in depth patriarchal conversation when we
• 54:03
  Speaker 4: first met.
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: I had too many drinks so we would would do
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: a part two.
• 54:10
  Speaker 4: Well, no, I just like I thought it was interesting,
• 54:12
  Speaker 4: and I want to ask you about it because you
• 54:13
  Speaker 4: obviously you do acting. If that if you were an
• 54:17
  Speaker 4: angry person, which I don't really perceive you to be angry.
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: Not not not forward facing angry.
• 54:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah, But a lot of comedians that I've I've been
• 54:26
  Speaker 4: around are are pretty dark like behind the scenes, which
• 54:31
  Speaker 4: was surprising to me. Obviously because you guys make people
• 54:33
  Speaker 4: laugh for a living, so you would think some of
• 54:34
  Speaker 4: it would kind of like start.
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: What do you mean by that?
• 54:37
  Speaker 3: Like there's just there's just.
• 54:38
  Speaker 4: No first of all, there's no self like uh adoration
• 54:45
  Speaker 4: like you do a great show.
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: It's like, oh, like you did a great show, Like
• 54:48
  Speaker 3: oh could be better? Wasn't I sucked this up?
• 54:50
  Speaker 4: I'm like, first of all, like I don't give out
• 54:52
  Speaker 4: compliments very often.
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: Compliment don't don't piss me off.
• 54:58
  Speaker 4: So there's that, and then there's also just the it's
• 55:00
  Speaker 4: kind of like you know, you're on the road. It's
• 55:02
  Speaker 4: like it can be kind of a lonely life in
• 55:05
  Speaker 4: that perspective as well, Like it's a very interesting world.
• 55:08
  Speaker 4: It's very different to me than than the acting world.
• 55:11
  Speaker 4: It's very different than like the media world. And but
• 55:16
  Speaker 4: you're you're talking about some kind of intense things. So
• 55:19
  Speaker 4: I wonder like how does that how does all that
• 55:23
  Speaker 4: work for you because you do acting as well.
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's there's a I get a chance
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: to I mean, I mean my wife says it and
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: my mom says it a lot, but like they see
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: me be someone different on screen than they get a
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: chance to be around because when I'm not when i'm
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: not doing this, when I'm on stage and I'm not
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: on camera, I'm a pretty like chill do but I'm
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: kind of soaking everything in and I want to make
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: sure that people around me are safe. And I feel
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: like I'm that guy like I'm paying just to everything,
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: especially when I'm around women, because I mean, my my
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: family is like just mostly a bunch of ladies and
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: so and I'm kind of one of the younger ones
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: that well, thanks rolling up, I was, so I kind
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: of just you know, I'm always paying attention and you know,
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: I'm looking at license plates and who's coming to the door,
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: and you know, I'm just kind of like that Jason
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: Bourde Nigga to just like, but I I don't have that.
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: I don't have that muscle in life to go I'm
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: going to I can't be sensitive, like I mean kind
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: of just said like the patriarchal like men can't most. Yeah,
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: I love getting paid to do it because I do
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: tuck these things away and go when it's time to
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: do that, I get it out.
• 56:37
  Speaker 3: Can you access it? Though?
• 56:39
  Speaker 4: Like I can't access I very rarely cry and overst
• 56:45
  Speaker 4: I hate crying cry the most where.
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you have a location. I cry on planes the most.
• 56:50
  Speaker 4: Well, planes actually is like a biological thing. The the altitude.
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: Oh it's it's whatever movie I'm watching.
• 56:58
  Speaker 3: Do you watch sad movies on plays?
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: I love a sad movie.
• 57:02
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're a psychopath.
• 57:04
  Speaker 4: I hate crying in front of like, I hate crying
• 57:07
  Speaker 4: in front of strangers.
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: I only take window seats so you.
• 57:10
  Speaker 3: Can just kind of like that I made. I made
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: the mistake.
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: And I only wear hoodies.
• 57:16
  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm hoodie up and she be coming by.
• 57:19
  Speaker 3: You want to crack stop just getting a good crying.
• 57:22
  Speaker 4: It's smart because it's because your body is already apt to.
• 57:25
  Speaker 3: Cry on a plane.
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: I it is my I mean I know what I
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: know some movies to go to. What's your go to
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: make you cry movie?
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: Uh, what's what's my? Man?
• 57:35
  Speaker 3: Who plays.
• 57:38
  Speaker 2: Captain America Chris Evans. Chris Evans, he is a movie Grace.
• 57:45
  Speaker 3: Can you look at that?
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: For me? It's like grace him, him and a little girl.
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: And uh, she's like a kind of like I think
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: she's a genius for some of her family's toxic and
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: and and he has this relationship with little girl, he's
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: like helping save it.
• 57:59
  Speaker 2: Why gifted?
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: I've seen this movie probably four times ago when I
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: need a cry and then that music hit.
• 58:09
  Speaker 3: I mean, Interstellar is a good cry movie. I don't
• 58:11
  Speaker 3: do space, Okay, I don't think we have enough time
• 58:16
  Speaker 3: to explore that.
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: I don't do space. I don't do dinosaurs. I know
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: that's a wild thing to say, Like.
• 58:21
  Speaker 3: You don't believe in space. Oh my god, I'm not.
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: I don't.
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: I have no argument to go. Here's why you shouldn't
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: believe in space. I just go, I don't do it.
• 58:31
  Speaker 4: You don't believe there's space above? Like, what do you
• 58:35
  Speaker 4: there's no galaxy. I don't want to get into this.
• 58:38
  Speaker 4: I just don't do But you don't.
• 58:41
  Speaker 3: What is that where the satellites? So there's no dinosaurs either.
• 58:47
  Speaker 3: This is what's sterling K Brown movie show, Uh, Paradise.
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: That's it.
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: It's these motherfuckers we say out of space.
• 58:58
  Speaker 2: That's just outer space. I don't. I just I don't
• 59:01
  Speaker 2: do it.
• 59:01
  Speaker 3: You completely maybe lose my trump thought. I don't.
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: I don't do this shit. I don't.
• 59:05
  Speaker 3: I just I can't.
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: It's just watch to me. It's an industry. It's like
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: oil space.
• 59:12
  Speaker 4: Is like, okay, for the record, I obviously disagree with him.
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: Hidden figures.
• 59:17
  Speaker 2: Do you know much money they make it off space?
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: And like sixteen people have.
• 59:21
  Speaker 3: Been you think sixteen whole people have been to space?
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: Well, of course that was an exaggeration, but okay, how
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: many people have been to space?
• 59:29
  Speaker 2: A thousand, A couple of thousand.
• 59:31
  Speaker 3: Lots of people have been to space. I don't have
• 59:32
  Speaker 3: the exact number. Not a whole lot though, Yeah, okay, how.
• 59:38
  Speaker 4: I don't I'm.
• 59:39
  Speaker 3: Not doing this with you.
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: Dinosaur's joint dinosaur, Yeah, they were dinosaurs.
• 59:44
  Speaker 4: The Earth is very, very old. Seven hundred and eighty
• 59:47
  Speaker 4: one people have been to space. Do you know how
• 59:50
  Speaker 4: many people are qualify to be astronauts?
• 59:52
  Speaker 2: That's like, we're a fraction of the people that went
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: to space.
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: In this room, we can't survive. It's a strip of
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: bars at restaurants down the street. It's more people at
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: the restaurants that's been this than been the space. I'm
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: not saying I don't believe in space. I just don't
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: fuck with space like that.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 4: Well, speaking of space, I'm sure the movie that made
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 4: me hysterically crying the plane was Hidden Figures.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 3: And I was crying. I was crying. But what got you?
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 4: You know, just the triumph of black women overcoming race triumph.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 4: You know the history, the acting, you know, it's it
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 4: was great. It's very white savior.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 3: That's most of those movies are.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 4: But yeah, I was crying so much that I like,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 4: sobbed through my tissue and this older this, Uh, I
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 4: usually have tissues.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 3: I'm a nose runner. That just period.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's when it's in the cargo pockets.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 4: No, I keep my tater Tots in there. That's a
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 4: Napoleon Dynamite reference.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 4: An older white woman gave me a tissue and was like,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 4: I cried so much too, And I was like, I
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 4: don't like this.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 3: No, I like I like seeing him cry.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: If I see white people cry in a sad black movie,
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: I stop watching the movie and start watching that.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 3: Keep tears coming.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no no, Paul's a no no living it
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: feel living living at What would you would you cry about? Ladies?
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: Would you cry about Huh?
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 4: I'm not a big cry I well, I just don't.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 4: I can't reaccess emotions once they have been compartmentalized.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: Would you say that you've cried as many times as
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: people have been in space.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 4: Probably honestly, probably I wish I cried more.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 3: I wish I had more access.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 4: I'm kind of like a man in that way, like
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 4: I I just don't And you know what, maybe it's
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 4: also because I've worked in such a male dominated space
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 4: and down you have to you just gotta like push
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 4: it down and never let them.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: See what what's your? I mean, what's your? I get
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: it out of my system? Do you have it? Is like?
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: Is that the gym for you? Is that?
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 3: The is it like a walk?
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 4: I call it were wolfing, where like once a month
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 4: I just go nuts and do whatever it is that
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 4: that is for that day, whatever I feel like doing.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 4: And sometimes it's very positive and sometimes it's not. But
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 4: I gotta I gotta get it out. I not do
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 4: it in a healthy way. I'm working on that.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 2: I don't do it in a healthy way.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I have healthy habits.
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  Speaker 4: I eat well, I drink a lot of water, I
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  Speaker 4: take my medication, I go to therapy, I walk, I
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  Speaker 4: get sunlight, I have plants, I read, I journal.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm just a very intense person.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 4: So like I feel like I need a more let's
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 4: start maybe acupuncture.
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  Speaker 3: Let me try that.
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  Speaker 2: I think that. Uh do you box?
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 4: I did box for a long time. I've been thinking
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 4: about doing that again. Yeah, I boxed.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 3: For for years. What athlete were you?
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 4: I was a solid athlete. I could have been a
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 4: better athlete than I was.
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  Speaker 2: What did you do?
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 4: I played basketball, track, volleyball, and soccer. I'm extremely short,
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 4: so obviously limited.
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  Speaker 3: Sorry, I mean I'm not that short. I'm five two.
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  Speaker 3: It's shorter.
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  Speaker 4: But anyways, not basketball and volleyball, although I was great
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 4: at volleyball, were not my my sports that.
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  Speaker 1: I mean for my I think, man, I was looking
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: great last year about I had a surgery last September,
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: so I had to get out of the gym for
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: like six months. And then but I was like I
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: was getting the body that I've been that I had
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: in college, and I was like, can I do this?
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 2: Is that where that works? Then I had to like
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 2: let it go. But the gym HA helped me.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: I mean I've heard like, oh, get this, get it
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: pushed out in the gym, which I really liked because
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: my issue is like those moments I go to the bar.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 3: I go to the bar, and.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: I've had moments where if it's not the bar, it's
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: yelling at home.
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  Speaker 2: And we got to a place probably two three years.
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: Ago where at this before we were married, but like
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: where she's like, oh, you're about to explode either on
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: my my way to you or come home take it
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: out on me, which is great, and it's not like
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: toward her, I'm going to blow up around her. She's like,
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: let me be the get all this shit at your system.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: I know you want to yell and do dumb shit
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: and whatever, and she's like, just have it here. I
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: was in this movie last summer and I was, I mean,
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: I was, I'm like, I'm gonna choke somebody when i
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: go back on this set because I'm like, I'm giving
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: one hundred percent at least at least I think I am.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: All my co stars were amazing, most of the ninety
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: eight percent of the crew was fucking amazing. And I
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: go every night, I'm doing sixty hour days and I
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: go home and she's like, I go, she's how to
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: go to that go? I like, I'm about to me
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: and a director like we're tight. Me and my one
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: of my cousiners were tight, and not go. I'm I'm
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: complaining about this thing, and and she's like, I'm coming up.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: I'll be there in four days. Hold it in for
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: four days and then let it out. I'll take it.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: And then she came up and I got just like
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: yelling this Airbnb and she was like, just give it
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: to me. And it's but also I love being angry
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: but around the crew, and I gotta be number one,
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: So like I hold it in. I just want you
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: to give a hundred percent the way I'm giving a
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: hundred percent, even if I'm not good right now, I'm
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: giving a hundred percent. I might not be perfect, but
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: I'm giving it. So she's really good at going who
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: you about to go to? Fuck off? I'll take it
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: because it's not like I mean, I'm not I'm not
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: out here, you know, smacking people whatever. But it's real
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: nice for because she said it the first time. I
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: go what you mean and she's like, no, no, I
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: got it. I know I can tell you're about to
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: be there, and I was like, oh shit, okay, she'd
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: go off all right, So.
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  Speaker 3: This motherfuck taming here today. Let me tell you something.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: I'm here at seven I'm here at seven am. And
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: then mother, we don't I don't start shooting till eleven.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: I've been a makeup for this long and then I
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: got this shit on it. She shoes don't fit. The
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: shoes don't fucking fit. We had these shoes for two weeks.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: You could go back to Ross and get an eleven.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: Mother gott five to ten. There's no way I wear
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: at thirteen. You know how big my dick would be
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: if I were thirteen and five ten. So it's all
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: these like so.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 3: She provides a safe space for you. Oh my god,
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 3: But my mom does too. I get a chance to
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 3: go for my mom like that.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: My dad I probably am probably by practically my dad,
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: so my dad probably does as well.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: Mom probably where alerted, right.
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 4: But it's like those like no, it's important to have it.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 4: It is important to get that out. And if you
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 4: are somebody who has that kind of like, I wan't
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 4: say rage is probably too intense, but like you can
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 4: reach that point of anger.
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 2: I think it's fine, yeah, but.
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 4: It's important to get that out of your system though,
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 4: Like pressing that down I think actually is what leads
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 4: to stress, which is what I'm dealing with.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 3: Or gray hair, not thankfully, not yet. Although when I
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 3: get when I get great gray. It's not gonna be
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 3: as twice a die. I mean, it would take enough
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 3: to be like to be visible like gray hair. My
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 3: mom dyes her hair, so I'm sure she No, not really,
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 3: We're not really a great family. Yeah, no, I think
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 3: about it.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: My mom used to have a Now she's a lot
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: more great, but she has just a great streak for
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: a while.
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 4: That's fire that she is hard. Yeah, yeah, that's what
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 4: I'm saying. Once I go, and I imagine it will
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 4: go very quickly. It's not getting died back. I'm gonna
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 4: have earned that and you're gonna have to deal with it.
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 2: So do you remember anybody remember the I don't know
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 2: how we are here?
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: Remember the Temptations movie that came over each one like
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: in the nineties, right, remember, okay, there there's a scene
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: with uh Leon who's playing David Rouffin, right, And they
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: went to the he was with Tammy Terrell and they
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: went to the park and he was with that dude Flynn,
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: Remember the light skin do Flynn?
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: And I don't know, I Flynn was like kind of
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: just like a he was a shitty piece you know,
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: He's a piece of ship, kind of a villain.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: He was like the Robin to David's batman, right, and
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: but he had that gray patch. Do you remember this?
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: I did that ship during COVID. I died my ship. George,
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: just let me you know what This why I didn't
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: want to bring this up. I thought I was being
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: a bone. That's why I don't share.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 3: I never I did not say I was. You put
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 3: your hand down. I was quiet, I'm listening.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 2: I was just trying to share. I was trying to
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 2: be too personal.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 3: I was. You've been very personal and I appreciated it.
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 3: Sorry for my reaction. Tell me about your moment in
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 3: COVID where you died. I'll share. I'll share a very.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 4: Vulnerable moment in COVID from COVID. If that makes you
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 4: feel better, I'll do it anyway. I cannot sing, and
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 4: I've heard rude and I.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 2: Oh, I thought that was me for that.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 3: Wow, I'm sorry.
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 4: I'm definitely not saying space anymore. Just shows the picture
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 4: from them.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie. I was, I was, I was,
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 2: I wasn't. I wasn't single, but I was kind of
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 2: I was kind of single.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: I was, I wasn't committed to anyone, but let me
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: tell you something that Grace Street.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 4: It worked well, great great works on them because of
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 4: the patriarchy. But I, yeah, we're wrapping up. I'm gonna
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 4: finish it.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 3: I thought I had been inside for too long.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 4: And do you remember the the guy, the skateboarder guy
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 4: with the the cranberry juice. It was listening to Fleetwood Mac.
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 4: So I convinced myself that I could sing that song
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 4: and what'd you do with it?
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 3: I recorded it and then I sent it to my
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 3: ocean spray. I recorded dreams by Fleetwood Mac and I
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 3: sent it to my girlfriend's group chat, and like the
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 3: good friends they are, they were like joy.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 2: They made their ring tone.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 4: You need to get you need to go for a walk,
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 4: You need to get outside. It's time to go outside.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 4: You've been in the house for too long. You can't sing,
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 4: and being inside the house for COVID did not change that.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 4: So with all the love and respect that we have
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 4: for you, don't send us anymore.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 2: Was this audio was video as well for audio, and I.
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 3: Can't find it anywhere. I want to find it so bad.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: I don't believe people say this.
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 3: I have looked for it.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 2: Oh your girlfriend's got it.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 3: I want them to send it to me. It's atrocious,
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 3: it's the crazy, it's the craziest.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 2: You every year on your birthday.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 4: And you should because like I need that kind of
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 4: I need. I don't believe in being humble, but I
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 4: need that kind of reminder.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 2: You don't even be a humble fuck No for what everybody,
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 2: I come down every now.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 4: And then I come down. I've been come the downed plenty.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 4: I don't we all the same?
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: We all, we all every every nine shows since I've started,
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: every nine shows, I'll bomb and I go that one
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: out of nine humbling.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 4: I am self aware and I don't need to be humbled,
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 4: and I certainly don't need to be humbled by by
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 4: some bombs on the internet. So but for my friends,
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 4: I will take critical feedback.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: I guess that that that'd be embarrassing for you. I
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: guess I could get away with not being able to sing,
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: but people be like, of course this motherfuckering things she
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: could sing, right, that's what you would get. I'd get
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: this nigga cannot say.
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 3: I say all the time, if I could can get.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: Ruined the internet right now on Instagram right now because
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: I commented something I thought with sarcasm on some some
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: some young dudes talking about lady stuff, right, and this
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: dude who never been around women. I'm thinking it's just sarcasm.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: People go, and I mean, it's people like unfollow, unfollow.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: I'm getting ruined right now. But I'm leaving it up because.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 3: What did he say?
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: Uh he said a lot of good stuff, just about
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: women and stuff. But he's like this kid, like twenty
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: one or something. It's like a bunch of statistics and everything.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: And I thought, maybe this is a space.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: I couldn't make fun of something in a in a
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: in a space, I go, this is just.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 4: The thing about the internet is if you're going to
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 4: be sarcastic, you really have to emphasize the sarcasm.
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 2: I put put the laughing emoji there too. Is that
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 2: not enough?
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 3: I'd have to see the context of it to verify.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 2: I thought it was verified.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 3: I mean, anytime, anytime time people go like.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: Tell you stupid, it's crazy, I go, I know this
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: is all I was doing. Also, I go, I'm also
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: not saying I disagree with the guy.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: I go, this dude is clearly not everyday with a woman.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking as a marry because my wife don't want
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: to send me a clip and I go, that's why
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: I'm but whatever, Yeah, start on.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 4: Some stuff on the internet. Thank you so much for
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 4: coming in, Thanks for making the time.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 3: I joy Taylor. I appreciate coming down. Where can everybody
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 3: find you? Watch the show? What you have coming up
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 3: with us?
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 2: With us? How quick this is coming out?
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 3: You think this will be what two weeks from now?
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 2: A goodle weeks? Okay?
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: So well, first, firstly, thank you for having me on.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: Y'all were great, You were great. Thank you for let's
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: making this work. I appreciate it. Tone Bell just t
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: O N E B E l L. That's all my socials.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: Tonebill dot com is where all my shows and the
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: tickets are anything I coming up, where there be movies,
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: TV or anything else.
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 2: All my announcement to their UH and then.
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: Survival the Thigus season three comes out July second, I believe,
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: so this will be out before that comes out. UH
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: season three will be out and then UH Kyrite versus Acme.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 2: I'm in that which we shot about four and a half
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 2: years ago to finally be out in August.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 3: Amazing.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: So I'm not a voice. I'm a I look Mexican
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: in the movie You Can and that wasn't you could
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: have a dabble, Yeah, I mean I got the forehead right,
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: they'll see it.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 3: I got a Mexican bohad you listen?
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 2: I yeah, so, but I have the Mexican mustache.
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm just saying that you could be Mexican. Yes,
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 3: not full.
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 2: Bro, watch out, that's wild.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 3: Why you don't look like a Mexican man, look.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: Like enjoy Joy back up, back up. It sounds way
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: different when you when you say Mexican.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 4: I have extreme familiarity with this. If anyone wants to
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 4: take a Google. So I feel like I'm the expert
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 4: on Mexicans.
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 3: On Yes, I love Mexicans.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: Look at us finishing each other's sentences.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 3: Thank you for coming down, Thank you,