Latest / The Myth of Education Podcast / Ep. 19 | Is Your School District Covering Up Sexual Assault?
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- 0:00SPEAKER_03: As of 2001, April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, or SAAM for short.
- 0:08SPEAKER_03: And although this is something to be aware of,
- 0:10SPEAKER_03: I had my suspicions that this was a woke,
- 0:13SPEAKER_03: believe all women kind of thing.
- 0:15SPEAKER_03: And I was right.
- 0:16I looked this up and AI says that SAAM originated from decades
- 0:21of activism by
- 0:23SPEAKER_03: anti-violence advocates,
- 0:24SPEAKER_03: primarily women of color.
- 0:26SPEAKER_03: And when it comes to adults, a lot of SA incidents can
- 0:30We here at the Myth of Education Podcast think that SAAM should
- 0:33primarily recognize
- 0:34SPEAKER_03: all the students who are sexually assaulted on school grounds.
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- 1:49SPEAKER_03: We have a special guest with us today.
- 1:52SPEAKER_03: Welcome Miss Kelvia Campbell to the Myth of Education Podcast.
- 1:57SPEAKER_03: Glad you could join us.
- 1:58SPEAKER_01: Good to be here.
- 1:59SPEAKER_03: Kelvia is a former Turning Point Action cult member.
- 2:03SPEAKER_03: Just kidding.
- 2:03SPEAKER_03: Just kidding.
- 2:04SPEAKER_03: I think Turning Point is how we know each other.
- 2:07And so it's pretty cool that we've come full circle and we can
- 2:09start having these conversations.
- 2:11SPEAKER_03: Now,
- 2:11first angle that I want to talk about this sexual assault
- 2:14awareness is the adults
- 2:16SPEAKER_03: in the school districts are basically attacking students.
- 2:19SPEAKER_03: A board member at the Washington County School District in Tennessee.
- 2:24They're sitting in a board meeting and he basically is looking
- 2:27at this student
- 2:27SPEAKER_03: that's sitting next to him.
- 2:28SPEAKER_03: He caressed her, embraced her and said, dang, you're hot.
- 2:32SPEAKER_03: You know that.
- 2:33SPEAKER_03: What school did you say you go to?
- 2:34SPEAKER_03: This is, like I said, in the middle of a board meeting.
- 2:37SPEAKER_03: It was really disgusting.
- 2:38SPEAKER_03: He was 30 years or something her senior.
- 2:41SPEAKER_03: It's totally crazy that he got away with it.
- 2:44SPEAKER_03: I actually think he was drunk or something.
- 2:46SPEAKER_03: He was not sober during this board meeting.
- 2:49And then there's also that case in Peoria of two teachers that
- 2:53were grooming
- 2:53SPEAKER_03: students and one of them was allegedly sleeping with a student.
- 2:57SPEAKER_03: The other sent nude photos and videos.
- 3:00There were two principals at different high schools who knew
- 3:03about the incidents
- 3:04SPEAKER_03: but they chose to ignore it.
- 3:06SPEAKER_03: The Myth of Education Podcast
- 3:27SPEAKER_00: Well, to give you an idea, it goes really deep.
- 3:31SPEAKER_00: I found many examples and the data shows it's not just antidotal.
- 3:38In fact,
- 3:39I was looking specifically for recognized teachers,
- 3:42award-winning teachers.
- 3:44SPEAKER_00: and I cut it off after five.
- 3:46So we've got the San Diego Teacher of the Year that many of us
- 3:50heard about.
- 3:51SPEAKER_00: In March of 2023, she was sexually abusing two male students, 11 and 13.
- 3:57SPEAKER_00: This was at an elementary school, San Diego Teacher of the Year.
- 4:00She was sentenced to 30 years to life and is now doing her time
- 4:05in California.
- 4:06SPEAKER_00: That means about a year and a half probably.
- 4:09And then we have the Minnesota Teacher of the Year from 2016
- 4:12abusing a 14-year-old
- 4:14former student and began months after he received the award and
- 4:20this was an eighth
- 4:20SPEAKER_00: grader.
- 4:21SPEAKER_00: that's being abused.
- 4:23SPEAKER_00: Then we have Colorado Teacher of the Year finalist in 2025.
- 4:27SPEAKER_00: And this is a 16-year-old student that was exploited.
- 4:31SPEAKER_00: In Louisiana, we've got Teacher of the Year from 25 to 26.
- 4:35SPEAKER_00: She was named Teacher of the Year in September 2025.
- 4:39Early 2025,
- 4:39I believe she was accused of sexually abusing a student,
- 4:42arrested and charged.
- 4:43SPEAKER_00: The case is ongoing.
- 4:44SPEAKER_00: And then in New Jersey, twice nominated for Teacher of the Year.
- 4:50SPEAKER_00: She was charged in March of 2026,
- 4:52SPEAKER_00: just weeks ago,
- 4:53SPEAKER_00: with first degree sexual assault of a minor,
- 4:55SPEAKER_00: a middle schooler.
- 4:57SPEAKER_00: I don't think any of these are high school.
- 4:58SPEAKER_00: I think they're all grade school age.
- 5:01And police allege multiple sexual encounters in her vehicle and
- 5:04in classroom in 2021.
- 5:06The data is just really set when we look at it and we see that
- 5:12it is the number one
- 5:14SPEAKER_00: problem right now.
- 5:15SPEAKER_03: According to the American Journal of Psychotherapy,
- 5:20SPEAKER_03: less than 10%,
- 5:21so that's less than 1 in 10 of child victims lie about being
- 5:24sexually abused.
- 5:26SPEAKER_03: That means that 90% of the time, above 90% of the time, the child is not
- 5:30SPEAKER_03: not lying or overreacting.
- 5:33SPEAKER_03: And I realize that one-tenth,
- 5:34that can seem like a lot as far as someone maybe lying or not
- 5:38reporting something
- 5:39SPEAKER_03: in good faith.
- 5:41SPEAKER_03: But just know that above 90% of these victims are telling the truth.
- 5:45It's so interesting that the personalities that garner the most
- 5:49attention,
- 5:50SPEAKER_03: that get the awards,
- 5:51SPEAKER_03: Teacher of the Year,
- 5:52SPEAKER_03: this and that,
- 5:53SPEAKER_03: are the ones abusing children.
- 5:56SPEAKER_03: And they get away with it for so long.
- 5:59SPEAKER_03: Kelvira,
- 5:59what are your thoughts about what you're seeing with
- 6:01teacher-to-student sexual
- 6:03SPEAKER_03: assaults?
- 6:04One of the trends and one of the phenomenons I actually learned
- 6:07about was,
- 6:08SPEAKER_01: have either one of you ever heard of passing the trash?
- 6:11SPEAKER_01: Yes, I have not, actually.
- 6:15SPEAKER_01: So that's one of the trends right now,
- 6:18SPEAKER_01: and that's where a lot of legislation and lawsuits are coming from.
- 6:22Title IX is helping with it,
- 6:24but any of the listeners that don't know what passing the trash
- 6:28is,
- 6:28SPEAKER_01: it's when a teacher a staff faculty coach they have indecent behavior and
- 6:34inappropriate behavior with students maybe a sexual
- 6:37relationship favoritism you
- 6:39SPEAKER_01: know grooming and they get to voluntarily
- 6:43SPEAKER_01: And they just transfer and hop over to the next district undetected.
- 7:07and that can be dangerous for many reasons because they're just
- 7:11taking their
- 7:12predatorial career just over to the next district and obviously
- 7:17justice is not
- 7:18SPEAKER_01: served and you know like I said these people go undetected so
- 7:22that's one phenomenon but what's trending is is people are
- 7:25actually taking a stance
- 7:27they recognize it for what it is and they're trying to create
- 7:30laws and cases to
- 7:33limit that so there's stronger background checks they have to
- 7:37have documentation of
- 7:38all the investigation and the report so that's a big goal right
- 7:42now for school
- 7:43systems is to be stricter on that so there is not passing the
- 7:48trash going on
- 7:49SPEAKER_01: between districts
- 7:51Well the good thing about the story in Peoria Unified is that a
- 7:55majority of school
- 7:56board members with common sense voted to fire one of the
- 8:00teachers recently and I
- 8:01think that's what sparked off the story again about the
- 8:05grooming and the sexual
- 8:07SPEAKER_03: deviance that was going on.
- 8:08I would rather the district be sued by the accused being
- 8:10dismissed than to be sued
- 8:11SPEAKER_03: by the family after the child was assaulted.
- 8:14SPEAKER_03: We have a bad culture in our schools of passing the trash and
- 8:34SPEAKER_03: When it comes to passing the trash,
- 8:36SPEAKER_03: I'm suspecting that that happens way more than we even know of because
- 8:58boards of education across the country all report this is the
- 9:01number one reason
- 9:03SPEAKER_00: they issue disciplinary action.
- 9:04SPEAKER_00: And that was shocking to me.
- 9:06That's more than fraud or theft or violating your contract or
- 9:12physical assault or anything else.
- 9:14SPEAKER_00: It's inappropriate sexual misconduct with a student.
- 9:18SPEAKER_00: It's like,
- 9:19SPEAKER_00: in some cases,
- 9:19twice as many times do they discipline for that reason than the
- 9:24next most common
- 9:25SPEAKER_01: reason.
- 9:26Arizona is one of the few states that keeps really good records
- 9:28of this in Arizona
- 9:30it's 36% of all disciplinary actions are sexual misconduct with
- 9:35kids and in other
- 9:36states it's over 40% and in a few years back it actually in
- 9:40Arizona went over 40%
- 9:42so it's a major problem and I see it as if they're not taking
- 9:47action like Kelby has
- 9:48said if they're passing the trash just quietly moving somebody
- 9:51on I've seen that
- 9:52SPEAKER_00: happen in my own district if they're doing that
- 9:54Then maybe it comes a time when districts just don't want to
- 9:57take action that the
- 9:59SPEAKER_00: State Board of Education has to take action.
- 10:02And so maybe it's because the can's been kicked until it can't
- 10:05be kicked anymore
- 10:07SPEAKER_00: and it's at the very end and it's when it has to be that kind of level.
- 10:10SPEAKER_00: I don't know if that's the case or not,
- 10:11SPEAKER_00: but it might explain why it's the number one in every state.
- 10:15SPEAKER_00: And the other thing is the parental notification.
- 10:17There are only,
- 10:18I believe,
- 10:18four states in the whole country that require districts to
- 10:22SPEAKER_00: to tell parents about this.
- 10:25SPEAKER_00: And no state,
- 10:26SPEAKER_00: if it's a student on student sexual misconduct,
- 10:29SPEAKER_00: no state requires school districts to notify parents.
- 10:33SPEAKER_00: So it's only Washington,
- 10:34SPEAKER_00: Wisconsin,
- 10:34SPEAKER_00: New York,
- 10:35and Texas that have laws on the books that require school
- 10:38districts to tell parents
- 10:39SPEAKER_00: if a adult staff member sexually models a kid.
- 10:43SPEAKER_03: We need to push for that in Arizona.
- 10:46SPEAKER_03: That needs to be on the books.
- 10:47SPEAKER_03: There's no reason why parents shouldn't be notified when this happens.
- 10:52SPEAKER_03: That should be something that
- 10:54SPEAKER_03: is rang from the rooftop because it's a safety issue.
- 10:57SPEAKER_03: Well,
- 10:57SPEAKER_03: another study that I had looked at in 2017,
- 11:00SPEAKER_03: it was the National Criminal Justice Reference.
- 11:03It was a survey that found an estimated 10% of K-12 students
- 11:07will experience sexual
- 11:08SPEAKER_03: miscommunication
- 11:08SPEAKER_03: misconduct by a school employee by the time they graduate high school.
- 11:12SPEAKER_03: And I interpret that number to be low.
- 11:15SPEAKER_03: Of course, that was almost 10 years ago.
- 11:18I interpret that also to only represent situations where the
- 11:22victim was believed
- 11:23and or there was enough evidence that warranted a policy change
- 11:27at the site or
- 11:28SPEAKER_03: district level.
- 11:29SPEAKER_03: But I want to segue into something because earlier I
- 11:33SPEAKER_03: When you were giving us that list of Employees of the Year,
- 11:37SPEAKER_03: Employee of the Month,
- 11:38what I noticed was that there were lots of females preying on
- 11:42male students.
- 11:43SPEAKER_03: And that's also the case in Peoria Unified,
- 11:46SPEAKER_03: is that you have these students who are male,
- 11:49SPEAKER_03: athletes,
- 11:50SPEAKER_03: etc.,
- 11:51SPEAKER_03: that are being preyed on by female authority figures.
- 11:54I always like to point this out because I know as a culture
- 11:57we've had a mentality
- 11:58SPEAKER_03: for a long time that it's male authority figures that prey on
- 12:03SPEAKER_03: young female students.
- 12:05SPEAKER_00: What I found is that it is still disproportionately male.
- 12:09There were 1400 roughly allegations of sexual misconduct across
- 12:14country for
- 12:16teachers on students and 1000 approximately were male and about
- 12:20300 were female.
- 12:22And then you add on top of the fact that it's a female
- 12:24dominated profession.
- 12:25SPEAKER_00: So men are multiple times more likely to be the offender.
- 12:29I think a lot of the increased sexual deviance and awareness is
- 12:35coming through the
- 12:36SPEAKER_03: fact that we have gone overboard with sex education and LGBTQ ideologies.
- 12:42SPEAKER_03: There's this huge investment in K-12 education.
- 12:45SPEAKER_03: that now includes gender conversation.
- 12:47Dan and I,
- 12:48we covered that in episode 17,
- 12:50sex education for kindergartners.
- 12:52SPEAKER_03: I mean,
- 12:52it was just incredible the amount of adults who think that it
- 12:57is okay to talk about
- 12:58SPEAKER_03: sex with very,
- 13:00SPEAKER_03: very young children.
- 13:02These children would have no idea what's even going on in some
- 13:05of those pictures,
- 13:06SPEAKER_03: but they just know that it's wrong.
- 13:08SPEAKER_03: And Kelvia, I think you were looking into some of those trends.
- 13:11SPEAKER_03: Let us know what you found
- 13:13linking the LGBTQ ideology to the sexual assaults and abuse and
- 13:18just basically
- 13:19SPEAKER_03: desensitizing kids on school grounds.
- 13:22SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 13:22So one of the things that I wasn't crazy about while I was
- 13:26researching it,
- 13:27SPEAKER_01: I was paying attention to verbiage and I find that they are saying,
- 13:33SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 13:33SPEAKER_01: of course it's biased,
- 13:35SPEAKER_01: but they were saying how LGBTQ
- 13:37LGBTQ students and trans students are actually more in danger
- 13:41than heterosexual students.
- 13:43SPEAKER_01: But the interesting thing is,
- 13:45SPEAKER_01: is that they consider bullying and name calling sexual abuse to LGBTs.
- 13:52LGBTQ students and trans students and I think they do that
- 13:57because you know it
- 13:58comes down to their gender and sexual orientation so they see
- 14:01name calling
- 14:02microaggressions insults and they also said that LGBTQ students
- 14:09feel unsafe they
- 14:11feel more unsafe especially in bathrooms and locker rooms and a
- 14:14part of me is
- 14:15thinking common sense it's like because you're in the wrong
- 14:17ones I would feel
- 14:18SPEAKER_01: unsafe too I would feel uncomfortable too
- 14:22SPEAKER_01: But I think that the information in the data set skewed because,
- 14:28SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 14:28SPEAKER_01: what's good for the goose is good for the gander.
- 14:30SPEAKER_01: And it seems like,
- 14:31SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 14:32SPEAKER_01: for straight victims,
- 14:35SPEAKER_01: it's inappropriate touching,
- 14:37SPEAKER_01: inappropriate pictures,
- 14:40SPEAKER_01: sexual
- 14:40sexual comments innuendos but it seems like for the trans and
- 14:44LGBTQ all it takes is
- 14:46SPEAKER_01: making them feel uncomfortable but I don't think that they're necessarily
- 14:50SPEAKER_01: victimized more what do you think?
- 14:52I don't think so either it's what you said it's the whole
- 14:55microaggression and
- 14:57basically having to change your whole language around this
- 15:01false reality that this
- 15:02SPEAKER_03: person has created
- 15:04and when you are still operating in reality which is a binary
- 15:08biblical biological
- 15:09fact that there are only two genders and when people want to
- 15:13deviate from that if
- 15:14you don't go along with it then they can consider that to be
- 15:16assault so yes I agree
- 15:18the data on that is probably skewed and it does speak to
- 15:22probably a larger problem
- 15:24of children being indoctrinated once again that needs to be
- 15:28exposed Dan what are
- 15:29SPEAKER_03: your thoughts
- 15:30SPEAKER_00: Whenever we read LGBTQ scholarship,
- 15:33SPEAKER_00: it's entirely based on this cultural Marxist ideology,
- 15:39SPEAKER_00: which requires them to be part of a victim class.
- 15:43SPEAKER_00: So the whole enterprise...
- 15:46SPEAKER_00: stands or falls on whether they are an oppressed victim or not.
- 15:49SPEAKER_00: If you take the victimhood away from them,
- 15:52SPEAKER_00: then they're no longer what they set out to be,
- 15:54SPEAKER_00: is this LGBTQ.
- 15:57SPEAKER_00: They're very exclusive in a victim mentality.
- 16:00SPEAKER_00: So whenever we're reading about that,
- 16:03SPEAKER_00: That's going to be woven in,
- 16:04SPEAKER_00: even if it sounds innocent,
- 16:06SPEAKER_00: because they have to have it,
- 16:07SPEAKER_00: otherwise the whole thing falls apart.
- 16:09SPEAKER_00: So when you bring this cultural Marxist philosophy into play,
- 16:14SPEAKER_00: you remove authority and you let the zoo run wild,
- 16:18SPEAKER_00: so to speak,
- 16:19and the kids who look to you as a responsible authority figure
- 16:24based on our
- 16:25Centuries of Judeo-Christian ethics when you throw that out the
- 16:29window it's just
- 16:31kind of where the wild things are so that's I think what we
- 16:34need to be watchful for
- 16:35SPEAKER_00: is this Marxist ideology coming in and really corrupting everything
- 16:41You can tell a lot about a nation and about the culture and a
- 16:45society by how
- 16:47SPEAKER_03: children are treated.
- 16:48And to put us in that category of Marxists,
- 16:53because we do have a Marxist movement.
- 16:55SPEAKER_03: We have several, the LGBTQ being one of them.
- 16:58SPEAKER_03: We have several Marxist movements that are in play right now in America.
- 17:02SPEAKER_03: And I think a lot of parents are not understanding.
- 17:05SPEAKER_03: Maybe they're waking up, maybe slowly.
- 17:07They're not fully understanding yet how this is being deployed
- 17:10in the education system.
- 17:12And we have plenty of time and plenty of episodes where we can
- 17:15talk about the
- 17:15SPEAKER_03: different curriculum and teaching standards that are following a Marxist
- 17:21SPEAKER_03: philosophy.
- 17:22We're just headed in a wrong direction and you said a moment
- 17:26ago at the beginning
- 17:28of your spiel about the sources that we use are going to be
- 17:32skewed based on the
- 17:33victimization that's being put out there and it made me think
- 17:36of the Trevor Project
- 17:37I don't know if you've ever heard of this but it's just all
- 17:40leftist information and
- 17:43you would think that children are being attacked more than what
- 17:46they are based on
- 17:47SPEAKER_03: what Kelvia said a moment ago
- 17:49of how we have these inflated numbers of people just basically
- 17:53misgendering someone.
- 17:55SPEAKER_03: And we're calling that sexual harassment, which is totally ridiculous.
- 17:59I wanted to share kind of as far as trends,
- 18:03we are going into a positive direction.
- 18:05SPEAKER_01: And I do think it's because of our current administration.
- 18:08SPEAKER_01: You know, the last 10 years have been really rough.
- 18:11SPEAKER_01: But the new trend is, is that we're pretty
- 18:14SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 18:31or don't say LGBTQ laws and that basically means you can't make
- 18:37homosexuality and
- 18:39SPEAKER_01: trans and the LGBTQIA community part of the curriculum.
- 18:44SPEAKER_01: You can't talk about it.
- 18:46SPEAKER_01: You can't talk about what you do with your partner outside of school.
- 18:50you know basically the stuff you know that the LGBTQ community
- 18:55has been wanting to
- 18:56push in the school systems you can't do now on the other side
- 19:00you have like
- 19:01SPEAKER_01: California and Washington State
- 19:04they're the ones pushing for the protection laws anti-bullying
- 19:08laws inclusion laws
- 19:11but it's evenly split now I think that's good you know I think
- 19:16there needs to be
- 19:16some tension in the road because we saw the past five years
- 19:20that the woke agenda
- 19:21SPEAKER_01: was just swallowing up the school system so now there's more tension and
- 19:26And teachers and staff and students are reporting they have to
- 19:30watch their mouth now.
- 19:32They feel like they have to watch their mouth now more in the
- 19:34classroom and what they share.
- 19:37SPEAKER_01: Kentucky, Iowa, Alabama, they're going by the no gay laws.
- 19:41SPEAKER_01: And you know,
- 19:41Florida with Ron DeSantis has set a really good example in a
- 19:46really good tone for
- 19:47SPEAKER_01: this type of legislation.
- 19:50I think that term don't say gay was originally derogatory with
- 19:54a law that DeSantis
- 19:55had passed a few years back and everyone was rebelling against
- 19:59his authority in the
- 20:01SPEAKER_03: state of Florida.
- 20:01SPEAKER_03: They were rebelling, calling it the don't say gay bill.
- 20:04But if we've harnessed that derogatory term and we've
- 20:08controlled the narrative on
- 20:09SPEAKER_03: that now,
- 20:10SPEAKER_03: that is a great thing because when it comes to talking with children,
- 20:15SPEAKER_03: about sexual things, that really is the place of a parent.
- 20:18And we're just going to harp on that every episode that we talk
- 20:21about this topic
- 20:22SPEAKER_03: because that's just the truth.
- 20:24We have a parental rights bill and it protects the rights of
- 20:28parents to introduce
- 20:30SPEAKER_03: topics like that and to decide what language,
- 20:32SPEAKER_03: what photos,
- 20:33SPEAKER_03: how that topic is discussed with their children.
- 20:36SPEAKER_03: And government education systems just don't have the right
- 20:40SPEAKER_03: to come in and disrupt that bond that the parent and the child have.
- 20:46I wanted to circle back to what was mentioned earlier about
- 20:49student-on-student sexual assault.
- 20:50SPEAKER_03: As I was looking into this,
- 20:52statistics mostly point to student-student sexual harassment
- 20:56and assault on college
- 20:57SPEAKER_03: campuses,
- 20:58with about one in five college students experiencing some form
- 21:01of sexual assault or
- 21:02SPEAKER_03: misconduct.
- 21:03SPEAKER_03: Majority of the time,
- 21:04SPEAKER_03: about 80 to 95% of the time,
- 21:07SPEAKER_03: the perpetrator is a friend,
- 21:08SPEAKER_03: a partner,
- 21:08SPEAKER_03: or a classmate,
- 21:10SPEAKER_03: so it's hardly a tax from strangers.
- 21:12SPEAKER_03: Now,
- 21:13SPEAKER_03: when it comes to K-12,
- 21:15SPEAKER_03: again,
- 21:16SPEAKER_03: another 2017 study,
- 21:18SPEAKER_03: and it was published by Campus Safety Magazine,
- 21:21found roughly 17,000 official reports of sexual assaults on
- 21:25school grounds,
- 21:26SPEAKER_03: and I think that was within about four years.
- 21:28So that only represented,
- 21:30again,
- 21:3010 to 30% of the incidents being reported.
- 21:34And surprisingly,
- 21:36student to student sexual assault and abuse is statistically
- 21:40more common.
- 21:41SPEAKER_03: At least that's what these sources are saying.
- 21:43And that can be due to several factors of inappropriate
- 21:46behavior,
- 21:46interpersonal relationships.
- 21:48SPEAKER_03: I mean, we can do a whole
- 21:49SPEAKER_03: I am a
- 22:13SPEAKER_03: and verbiage and pictures and things being shared.
- 22:17SPEAKER_03: And it's desensitizing children.
- 22:19SPEAKER_03: I always want to come back to the adults in the situation are going to be
- 22:24SPEAKER_03: responsible for what's happening on school grounds.
- 22:27And I really think that parents have to take control of the
- 22:32situation as much as possible.
- 22:34SPEAKER_03: Dan, what are your thoughts?
- 22:36SPEAKER_00: I just went looking
- 22:37through my daughter's seventh grade sex ed curriculum in the
- 22:41public school.
- 22:42SPEAKER_00: And you can opt out of all of it or you can opt out of part of it.
- 22:46SPEAKER_00: In fact, in Arizona, it's a opt-in required state.
- 22:51SPEAKER_00: And I get the feeling I'm the only parent.
- 22:53SPEAKER_00: I'm not patting myself on the back,
- 22:54but I've been told when I go to look at these materials that
- 22:57nobody else has done
- 22:58SPEAKER_00: it.
- 22:58They blow off the dust and sit me down and find all the stuff
- 23:02to show me and then
- 23:03SPEAKER_00: put in the VHS tape.
- 23:04SPEAKER_00: but what I've found is that there's little subtleties there you mentioned
- 23:09appropriate touch and they guide them on that what I keep
- 23:13seeing over and over
- 23:13again is that the rule is there's unwelcome touch and then
- 23:18there's presumably
- 23:20welcome touch so as long as you consent to it it's fine and I'm
- 23:26reading between the
- 23:26SPEAKER_00: lines a little bit they don't say it that way but
- 23:30What I do know has happened is that any sort of biblical ethic
- 23:34has been stripped
- 23:35out of the schools so that you have a hard time injecting
- 23:41anything other than
- 23:42consent so maybe you shouldn't touch in a certain way until
- 23:46you're married but they
- 23:47won't say that I don't know what kind of framework of rules
- 23:51they would have other
- 23:52than consent and if they don't then does that mean anything a
- 23:56child consents to is
- 23:58SPEAKER_00: okay
- 23:59SPEAKER_00: Well,
- 24:00SPEAKER_00: we know with comprehensive sex education,
- 24:02SPEAKER_00: they're giving us a rule book or a handbook,
- 24:04SPEAKER_00: rather,
- 24:05SPEAKER_00: of the kinds of sex acts you can have with your partner.
- 24:09SPEAKER_00: And presumably with what they're saying about consent,
- 24:12SPEAKER_00: as long as you consent and as long as the other person consent,
- 24:16SPEAKER_00: have at it.
- 24:18SPEAKER_00: So it seems like the adults have left the room.
- 24:20SPEAKER_00: They've given up on any sort of moral framework.
- 24:25SPEAKER_00: Except for this consent, which I think is a pretty low bar, right?
- 24:29SPEAKER_00: I mean, who wants to say at least we're not raping each other, right?
- 24:33SPEAKER_00: I mean, if consent's the only rule, then we're in for a world of hurt.
- 24:38SPEAKER_03: What a bunch of lawlessness.
- 24:40Although sexual harassment and abuse of minors on school
- 24:44grounds is a well-known
- 24:45SPEAKER_03: epidemic,
- 24:46SPEAKER_03: none of our major law enforcement agencies are consistently tracking,
- 24:51SPEAKER_03: investigating,
- 24:52SPEAKER_03: or prosecuting the
- 24:53SPEAKER_03: The Myth of Education Podcast
- 25:08SPEAKER_03: They're able to change jobs or schools easily,
- 25:11SPEAKER_03: and the victims and their families are left holding the bag.
- 25:13SPEAKER_03: This is something that needs to stop.
- 25:27we just hope to raise awareness with this podcast so if you're
- 25:32listening and you
- 25:32know someone who maybe hasn't spoken up about an issue that's
- 25:36on school grounds we
- 25:38SPEAKER_03: definitely want you to share this podcast and encourage all victims
- 25:42SPEAKER_03: to come forward,
- 25:43SPEAKER_03: even if they do it anonymously,
- 25:45SPEAKER_03: so that there is no shadows that any of these teachers,
- 25:49SPEAKER_03: coaches,
- 25:51SPEAKER_03: school bus drivers,
- 25:52SPEAKER_03: administrators,
- 25:52SPEAKER_03: board members,
- 25:53SPEAKER_03: there's no shadows that anyone can hide behind.
- 25:57SPEAKER_03: Indeed,
- 25:57SPEAKER_03: April is sexual assault awareness and child abuse awareness month,
- 26:02but we want to make sure that we're not leaving children in a
- 26:07situation for seven,
- 26:08SPEAKER_03: eight hours a day
- 26:10all throughout their young lives from the time they're four or
- 26:12five years old until
- 26:13SPEAKER_03: they're 18 years old,
- 26:14SPEAKER_03: where they are being exposed to LGBTQ ideologies,
- 26:20SPEAKER_03: harsh sexual curriculum,
- 26:23SPEAKER_03: and adults who don't care for them.
- 26:26Kelvia what are your final thoughts kind of what Dan was saying
- 26:30it as you were
- 26:31talking about well if you consent to it then you know it's not
- 26:35illegal or it's not
- 26:36wrong that is part of grooming and that's what I was reading
- 26:40about so you have a
- 26:41SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
- 26:56And you know people underestimate educators have a lot of power
- 27:00especially in K
- 27:03through like fifth grade those I mean they're child development
- 27:06years these are
- 27:07developing humans and you spend more time at school than you do
- 27:11at home with your
- 27:12parents at a point in your life so it's in the power of the
- 27:15teacher whatever
- 27:16boundaries they teach or like Dan said if you allow it and you
- 27:21consent to it then
- 27:22SPEAKER_01: it's okay
- 27:23and that's not really their place to do but they hold a lot of
- 27:27power to our children.
- 27:30but I'd like to close with some preventative optimistic things
- 27:33like what can we do
- 27:34about this and number one is the answer that I'm always going
- 27:38to give for any issue
- 27:39whether it's academic moral or otherwise and that is elect a
- 27:42good board if there's
- 27:44not a good board get active and be part of it somehow whether
- 27:49you're the candidate
- 27:50SPEAKER_00: or supporting a good one secondly engage your kid
- 27:54SPEAKER_00: Find a way to make them engage with you.
- 27:56Watch for the warning signs because we see commonalities with
- 28:01all of these teachers
- 28:02SPEAKER_00: of the year that I mentioned before.
- 28:04SPEAKER_00: We see all of them gave preferential treatment,
- 28:06SPEAKER_00: extra time,
- 28:08SPEAKER_00: one-on-one meetings,
- 28:09SPEAKER_00: phone messages,
- 28:11SPEAKER_00: things that you can see as a parent if you know what to look out for.
- 28:14SPEAKER_00: We do need parental notification laws.
- 28:16SPEAKER_00: There's a slew of things that parents think
- 28:19are required of school districts to notify them of that aren't
- 28:22and we talked about
- 28:23SPEAKER_00: one of those today which was a sexual abuse situation.
- 28:27SPEAKER_00: We need to ask our districts how are they screening employees?
- 28:30SPEAKER_00: What kind of things do they do for background checks?
- 28:33SPEAKER_00: How do we make sure kids are taught clear boundaries?
- 28:37We need harsher penalties for offenders and harsher penalties
- 28:40for schools that pass
- 28:41SPEAKER_00: the trash and don't report when they're required to.
- 28:45SPEAKER_00: And then the last thing is chaperones or never be alone with the child.
- 28:50SPEAKER_00: There should never be any teacher one on one alone with the child.
- 28:53SPEAKER_00: Based on what we know, there's some easy things parents can do.
- 28:57SPEAKER_03: Ultimately, power really belongs to the parents.
- 29:00SPEAKER_03: I know educators do have power in that classroom,
- 29:03SPEAKER_03: but the supreme power,
- 29:05the ultimate authority belongs to the parents and it's time
- 29:09that they start making
- 29:10SPEAKER_03: some demands.
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