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Just How Happy Are YOU? And the One Toxic Trait That Kills Most Relationships · I Do, Part 2

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Speaker 1: Hey there, everybody.
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Speaker 2: It's Sunday, November eighth, and we are asking you how
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Speaker 2: happy are you right now? Take a beat think about it,
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Speaker 2: because today we're talking about the balance between happiness and
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Speaker 2: unhappiness and the one toxic trait that kills most relationships.
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Speaker 2: According to experts, it's one of the top four reasons
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Speaker 2: for divorce.
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Speaker 3: It kills your happiness or it kills your relationship.
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Speaker 2: It kills your relationship. Okay, but how happy are you
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Speaker 2: right now?
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Speaker 3: In life?
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Speaker 4: We're in my relationship because those are two different I'm sorry.
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Speaker 4: I don't really don't know the direction we were going
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Speaker 4: with this, so I'll stand.
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Speaker 1: By no, how happy are you generally not?
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Speaker 2: I mean, your relationship obviously weighs into your happiness, and
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Speaker 2: we'll get into that.
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Speaker 4: Didn't I sound sincere? We actually are as we record this,
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Speaker 4: we are in Miami. You already put it out there
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Speaker 4: and told everybody where we were So sorry. But I
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Speaker 4: was on the stage last night, and what did you
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Speaker 4: hear me say sincerely to that crowd?
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Speaker 1: You said, I'm the happiest and healthiest I've been in
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Speaker 1: my life.
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Speaker 3: There, So there's your answer.
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Speaker 1: All right? And I would also say that I to feel.
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Speaker 2: Happy, and look, you're supposed to feel unhappy too, And
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Speaker 2: that's one of the really interesting things. So most people,
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Speaker 2: and I think this is true, we spend our lives
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Speaker 2: chasing happiness and avoiding or running away from from unhappiness.
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Speaker 4: Would you say that that's standard stuff? Is what you're
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Speaker 4: suposed to do. What are you talking about here? I
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Speaker 4: don't know where are we going with this?
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Speaker 1: All right?
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Speaker 2: So a behavioral science scientist and happiness expert, he's a
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Speaker 2: professor at Harvard, just gave an interview about the balance
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Speaker 2: between happiness and unhappiness, and he said that those two
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Speaker 2: emotions are actually processed in different hemispheres of your brain,
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Speaker 2: and you need both.
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Speaker 3: I need to be unhappy. Yes, why does this you said, Harvard?
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Speaker 4: Yeah, it doesn't automatically mean you have credentials by it.
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Speaker 3: I'm kidding. Obviously we have to listen to this guy.
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Speaker 2: But because he said, you need to have those those
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Speaker 2: moments of unhappiness so that you can process what's going
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Speaker 2: wrong in your life. If you never felt unhappy or uncomfortable,
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Speaker 2: you would never change, you would never grow, you would
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Speaker 2: never make adjustments.
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Speaker 4: Do you need to if you're not unhappy? I'm saying,
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Speaker 4: if you're not feeling unhappy, what do I need to adjust?
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Speaker 2: This very important and respected and intelligent Harvard professor says
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Speaker 2: that it's important to feel unhappy.
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Speaker 4: So you're telling me my University of Arkansas education should
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Speaker 4: not be challenging this guy.
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Speaker 3: Okay, go ahead, I'm listening.
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Speaker 2: This was interesting. How I'm curious because I was shocked
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Speaker 2: by these numbers. I got these from a twenty twenty
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Speaker 2: four poll. Here the most recent happiness global survey. How
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Speaker 2: many adults? What percentage of adults do you think report
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Speaker 2: being happy?
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Speaker 3: Is a country breakdown?
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Speaker 1: We will get into that there is a country breakdown.
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Speaker 3: I think that would make a huge difference.
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Speaker 4: But the other thing I'm trying to factor in is
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Speaker 4: how many people are going to be honest about it? Like,
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Speaker 4: who wants to admit actually that they're not happy?
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Speaker 1: So overall, globally, overall.
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Speaker 3: How many say they're happy?
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Speaker 1: Yep?
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Speaker 3: I would go sixty five percent.
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Speaker 1: Dang, you're good. Sixty four percent.
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Speaker 2: Two thirds of adults report being happy, and fourteen percent report.
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Speaker 1: Being very happy.
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Speaker 3: Lies.
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Speaker 1: Fourteen percent though it's much smaller.
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Speaker 3: Actually, that's higher than I thought.
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Speaker 2: Yes, save, I was surprised, so countries with the highest
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Speaker 2: proportion of adults considering themselves as very happy.
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Speaker 4: Okay, the country break down? How many countries I got
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Speaker 4: to consider here.
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Speaker 1: All of them?
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Speaker 3: Who would be happiest?
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Speaker 1: Okay?
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Speaker 2: Of the ones that are the happiest one, two, three, four,
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Speaker 2: and then there are two like honorable mentions.
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Speaker 1: So you can have six countries that are in that
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Speaker 1: top don't care.
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Speaker 4: Isn't it always what is it Switzerland and Sweden? And
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Speaker 4: isn't it always in that area?
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Speaker 1: I would have guessed that too, But all.
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Speaker 3: The time they always say those folks are happier.
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Speaker 2: It's I would have they say they have a higher
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Speaker 2: quality of life, would lead to better happiness, of course.
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Speaker 2: But number one Canada twenty nine percent. And then there's
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Speaker 2: a three way tie for two Australia, Saudi Arabia and India.
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Speaker 2: And India actually has been like consistently when you look
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Speaker 2: at the annual reports, India is at the highest.
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Speaker 3: Well, they're all this is for what for the happiest people?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yep.
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Speaker 2: And then the Great Britain and the United States twenty
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Speaker 2: seven percent, so very close behind.
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Speaker 3: Twenty seven percent of Americans say they're happy.
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Speaker 1: Yep.
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Speaker 3: That's bad. Only a quarter of the three hundred and.
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Speaker 1: Very happy, very happy?
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Speaker 3: Now I think it's too high.
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Speaker 2: Now, what are the countries that have the lowest percentage
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Speaker 2: of people who say they are not happy at all?
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Speaker 3: Okay?
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Speaker 4: Are any of these third world? Or are we talking
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Speaker 4: about Western modern societies here?
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Speaker 1: Two of them are considered third world, one of them not.
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Speaker 3: So there's three that are of some unhappy. I wouldn't know.
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Speaker 3: Where have we been that people look miserable? Have we
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Speaker 3: been to these places?
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Speaker 2: I have been to these places, but I would not
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Speaker 2: have put these I probably shouldn't say who I've seen
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Speaker 2: to be the most unhappy collectively as a country. But
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Speaker 2: number one at the bottom is argent Tina nineteen percent.
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Speaker 1: Least happy, least happy.
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Speaker 3: Probably all constipated.
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Speaker 1: That they're they're nineteen percent say that, yeah, that they're
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Speaker 1: not happy.
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Speaker 2: So Argentina, Turkey next, and then Japan that not happy,
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Speaker 2: not happy. That surprised me, really why because I just
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Speaker 2: feel like they have order and structure in their country.
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Speaker 3: They it doesn't include happiness or instructure.
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Speaker 1: You're right, they have to do what they're told. That
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Speaker 1: is very true. Okay, all right, now, it's room to.
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Speaker 3: Be happy or unhappy.
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Speaker 2: You know, we did a story about the happiness you curve.
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Speaker 1: Remember we did this in Morning Run.
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Speaker 2: I believe maybe we even did a full podcast on
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Speaker 2: it when they have aged. Yes, yes, do you remember
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Speaker 2: we are happiest in old age. People in their sixties
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Speaker 2: and seventies are most likely to say they're happy seventy
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Speaker 2: five percent and seventy six percent.
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Speaker 1: Those are huge.
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Speaker 3: Older people are happy.
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Speaker 2: Are happy, and we I think we said it was
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Speaker 2: like forty eight, but they in this poll they said
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Speaker 2: those in their fifties are the least happy. So starting
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Speaker 2: at a forty eight forty nine up until about fifty eight,
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Speaker 2: so we're in the throes of unhappiness.
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Speaker 4: I thought the thing we did was it would show
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Speaker 4: that the unhappiest to you are in your life is
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Speaker 4: like forty seven point two forty.
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Speaker 3: Or something like that. But I thought it starts going
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Speaker 3: back up.
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Speaker 1: This one said not until like fifty six fifty seven.
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Speaker 3: There's this the Harvard gun again.
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Speaker 2: All right, this what makes you happy? Because I've got
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Speaker 2: the top three things that make you happy?
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Speaker 3: Nothing nothing makes me happy.
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Speaker 1: You know what that reads?
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Speaker 4: Absolutely nothing makes me happy. Something can add to or
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Speaker 4: take away from. But I'm good and I have to
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Speaker 4: be you have to think that way. I mean, I
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Speaker 4: had to train myself over the past five plus years
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Speaker 4: of this. But you if I am saying, oh, man,
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Speaker 4: everything's gonna be good as soon as I get this
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Speaker 4: new job. Oh everything's gonna be good as soon as
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Speaker 4: I move into this new place. So everything, if these
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Speaker 4: things can make you happy, or oh she makes me happy,
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Speaker 4: he makes me We talk about this all the time.
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Speaker 4: You should not give away your power, essentially by saying
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Speaker 4: this other thing is necessary to make happy.
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Speaker 3: So what. There are plenty of things that I add.
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Speaker 4: To travel, you and I get on a plane together,
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Speaker 4: a great horror movie, great food, having people in the
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Speaker 4: house cooking.
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Speaker 3: I enjoy that they add to my happiness.
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Speaker 2: You know what, It's funny because I agree, and I've
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Speaker 2: always well recently in recent you're subscribed to this, don't
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Speaker 2: give away your power. It's upon you to regulate yourself.
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Speaker 2: You can't expect someone else to do it for you. However,
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Speaker 2: it's funny. You won't even take credit when I say
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Speaker 2: something like you made me laugh or you made me smile,
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Speaker 2: or you made me You're like, I can't make you
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Speaker 2: do anyhing. You won't even take credit for the good
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Speaker 2: stuff because you don't want to be blamed for the
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Speaker 2: bad stuff.
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Speaker 3: What do I say?
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Speaker 4: If I can make you do anything, then why can't
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Speaker 4: I make you be quiet? That's using my response jokingly.
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Speaker 1: I know you're kidding.
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Speaker 2: I know. I mean, yes, I know your humor. It
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Speaker 2: does make me laugh, whether you want to believe it
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Speaker 2: or not. So what makes us happy? According to this
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Speaker 2: this is now a twenty twenty four pole.
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Speaker 3: What makes people happy?
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Speaker 2: Yep?
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Speaker 3: Kind of guess is it? Is it? Money? Is money
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Speaker 3: in there anywhere?
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Speaker 1: They do bring that up, but it is not. Number
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Speaker 1: one makes people?
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Speaker 3: Okay, go ahead, Then what.
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Speaker 1: Makes us happy? My family and my children.
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Speaker 4: Where's the list of what things that make me unhappy?
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Speaker 4: I've been at the top as well.
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Speaker 2: I've got I agree with you completely. Number two feeling
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Speaker 2: appreciated and loved. Totally agree. If you feel appreciated and loved,
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Speaker 2: it does bring a happiness to you. And number three
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Speaker 2: this I agree. Feeling in control of my life.
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Speaker 4: Makes you feel happy? Yeah, oh my god, I let
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Speaker 4: that one go. Who is in control of their life?
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Speaker 4: Please let me hear this. It's an an illusion.
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Speaker 2: It's this feeling in control my life, not being in control,
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Speaker 2: feeling in control. So financial situation I actually put this interesting.
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Speaker 2: Financial situation came in at number five, so lower than
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Speaker 2: you would think. And this one really surprised me. But
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Speaker 2: this is about what makes you happy. Physical health and
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Speaker 2: well being only came in at eight, and I think
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Speaker 2: that I was trying to get my head around that,
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Speaker 2: because when you're feeling happy, you're not thinking about your health.
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Speaker 2: You're not even appreciating it because you haven't experienced the opposite.
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Speaker 2: So if you've always felt good and you you're healthy,
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Speaker 2: you're not really recognizing how much that does contribute to
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Speaker 2: your happiness and joy.
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Speaker 4: I wonder if it was a breakdown of demographics, if
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Speaker 4: older people have that higher on.
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Speaker 2: Their list, yes, I would think, So what makes us unhappy?
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Speaker 2: The number one was your financial situation unhappy?
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Speaker 1: Yow, So there you go.
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Speaker 2: It doesn't having money doesn't necessarily make you happy happy,
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Speaker 2: but not having money makes you unhappy?
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Speaker 4: Wait a minute, then those things should be If not
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Speaker 4: having it makes you unhappy, then having it should make
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Speaker 4: you happy?
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Speaker 3: Is that not worth?
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Speaker 2: But isn't that interesting that that's not what this study showed?
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Speaker 2: And so this was this was again from our Harvard
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Speaker 2: professor who I've been talking about.
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Speaker 1: Oh no, I've got it. It's up here. I just didn't.
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Speaker 1: I just didn't say it all that.
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Speaker 2: Arthur Brooks is his name, And Arthur Brooks talked about
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Speaker 2: how we manage when we are unhappy negative emotions, and
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Speaker 2: he said there are some people who experience them more intensely.
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Speaker 1: Would you agree with that?
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Speaker 3: Who experience negative emotions? Do you experience them or you
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Speaker 3: express them more intensely? Right?
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Speaker 4: Is your pain worse than mine? Or I'm just better
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Speaker 4: at expressing myself and not getting as upset.
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Speaker 2: He is saying that some people actually experience more mental
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Speaker 2: anguish than others. And I would think, like, if you
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Speaker 2: think about brain chemistry and how we inherit that that's
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Speaker 2: kind of a part of our DNA. I know that
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Speaker 2: just even seeing my children, one child is generally happier
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Speaker 2: than the other. And that's just and they were born
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Speaker 2: that way when they were babies.
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Speaker 3: Wait, which one is the happier one?
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Speaker 1: That's funny, I think, And I guess I thank you
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Speaker 1: already now.
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Speaker 2: But so he calls these people high negative effect individuals
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Speaker 2: negative effect, Okay, and so, and he said the quickest
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Speaker 2: way that people go to try and manage all of
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Speaker 2: this is the unhealthy ways, which drugs, alcohol, technology as
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Speaker 2: a distraction. So you go and you just you're feeling
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Speaker 2: like craps. You go and you just scroll on Instagram
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Speaker 2: and you just doom scroll.
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Speaker 4: All those things are the same thing. You're essentially looking
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Speaker 4: for a distraction from the way you feel.
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Speaker 2: Correct correct, And so that is one of the worst
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Speaker 2: things you can do in terms of managing unhappiness.
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Speaker 4: Well, folks, we'll continue on how you should manage your unhappiness,
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Speaker 4: but we are going to hit on exactly what maybe
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Speaker 4: you should be doing to improve your situation. Stay here, folks,
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Speaker 4: whether you are happy or unhappy, we want you to
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Speaker 4: keep listening.
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Speaker 3: Stay here.
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Speaker 2: We continue our conversation now about how many of us
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Speaker 2: are happy, how many of us are unhappy, and how
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Speaker 2: we manage some of those negative feelings. And according to
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Speaker 2: our Harvard professor, the first thing you should do is
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Speaker 2: ask yourself, why am I doing that? Why am I
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Speaker 2: feeling this? You need to get curious about your pain,
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Speaker 2: why you're feeling the way you exactly, so once you
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Speaker 2: kind of understand it, it helps you tackle it and
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Speaker 2: figure out what you can do about it.
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Speaker 1: And he says, your best outlet.
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Speaker 2: What do you think your best outlet is for negative
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Speaker 2: emotions and unhappiness?
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Speaker 4: Is it not another person? Not talking to somebody? An
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Speaker 4: outlet for your emotions? You're not gonna say like giving back?
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Speaker 4: He Nope, volunteer all the time.
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Speaker 2: You know, I do believe that when you can't help yourself,
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Speaker 2: if you help someone else, it does elevate everybody. It is.
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Speaker 2: But you're gonna know this one you just start thinking
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Speaker 2: about it. Exercise number one best way if you are
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Speaker 2: feeling down, go to the gym, Go for a run,
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Speaker 2: go for a walk.
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Speaker 1: It one hundred percent helps.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, go to the gym, see all those hot people.
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Speaker 4: That should make you feel better about what you're going through.
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Speaker 2: And then he also describes, and a lot of folks
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Speaker 2: will agree with this, a metaphysical or spiritual connection. So
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Speaker 2: whether you're praying to God, you're meditating, you're doing your yoga.
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Speaker 2: But whatever spiritual connection, divine connection, you need that that
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Speaker 2: genuinely helps when you're feeling unhappy or down. So he
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Speaker 2: says the two best ways for you to manage your anxiety,
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Speaker 2: this is a quote, get in touch with your faith
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Speaker 2: or spirituality and go pick up heavy things and run around.
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Speaker 3: Okay, is there a third option?
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Speaker 2: No? So he said, physical activity and exercise and spiritual
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Speaker 2: activity are a heck of a lot better for your
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Speaker 2: mental health, including your relationship.
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Speaker 3: Spiritual not just religious. I'm making it correct, right, correct.
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Speaker 2: And so speaking of relationships, he goes into this, and
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Speaker 2: this was something I teased at the very top, and
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Speaker 2: this was so interesting. One of the worst ways to
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Speaker 2: manage negative emotions and the number one toxic trait to
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Speaker 2: hurt your relationship is constant excessive work or what he
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Speaker 2: calls workaholism. And that's the headline actually that got me
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Speaker 2: to click on this initial article, and I thought, wow,
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Speaker 2: I never considered that, And I went and looked and
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Speaker 2: did some more research, and several groups of lawyers whatever,
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Speaker 2: they collect data about what the leading causes of divorce is,
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Speaker 2: and workaholism, they say is in the top four reasons
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Speaker 2: why people get divorced.
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Speaker 4: So what are we talk Are we just talking about
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Speaker 4: someone dedicated? You're essentially ignoring your relationship by putting more
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Speaker 4: time into work than your relationship with.
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Speaker 2: That yep, So Brooks says most workaholics today are actually
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Speaker 2: not required to do so by their boss. It's almost
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Speaker 2: always self imposed. So they he said, most workaholics are
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Speaker 2: their own tyrannical bosses. And he said this, there has
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Speaker 2: never been a workaholic who had a functional relationship.
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Speaker 3: That's untrue.
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Speaker 4: Now, Okay, out of Jokinbasm or earlier stuff, he can
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Speaker 4: feel that way.
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Speaker 2: Then we have different Some estimates suggest that marriages where
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Speaker 2: at least one spouse is a workaholic are twice as
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Speaker 2: likely to fail. That's the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers.
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Speaker 3: You know, they bunch a Harvard guys as well.
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Speaker 2: Yes, but I'm going to give here's here's a quote
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Speaker 2: from Brooks that I think will help clear this up. Okay,
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Speaker 2: most workaholics are distracting themselves from things in their life
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Speaker 2: that they don't like. And they know they're super good
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Speaker 2: at work, and they can get into kind of a
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Speaker 2: zone when they're working and they don't think about the
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Speaker 2: things they don't want to be thinking about. That is
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Speaker 2: where workaholism generally comes from.
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Speaker 3: Can you read the first part of the Again.
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Speaker 2: Most workaholics are distracting themselves from things in their life
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Speaker 2: that they don't like.
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Speaker 4: Okay, if I stop right there, then it's not you
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Speaker 4: being a workaholic. That's causing the problem in the relationship.
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Speaker 4: You are turning yourself into one because there's a problem
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Speaker 4: in your relationship. It's not lee, it's possible. I'm saying
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Speaker 4: there's a possibility. I just got chills when you said that.
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Speaker 4: The case one that has been my personal experience. When
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Speaker 4: I read this, a lot of this resonated with me.
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Speaker 2: I absolutely have said before that it feels as though
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Speaker 2: I was married to my job. That was the love
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Speaker 2: of my life. That was you know, even before children.
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Speaker 2: Obviously they are the loves of my life, but the
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Speaker 2: happy one and I guess I love them both equally,
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Speaker 2: just differently. But no, and I that makes sense. You're
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Speaker 2: you're pointing to something that hit me. Maybe it's a
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Speaker 2: symptom of a relationship problem versus you creating a problem
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Speaker 2: in your relationship. There, it is there, and I do
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Speaker 2: I do appreciate the next line. And they know they're
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Speaker 2: super good at work. So if you're also if you're
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Speaker 2: feeling like your relationship is terrible, but you know, when
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Speaker 2: you go to work, you feel like you've got a
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Speaker 2: sense of accomplishment and people say way to go. Yes,
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Speaker 2: that's going to fuel you because you're getting that that
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Speaker 2: feeling of validation and achievement, and if you're not getting
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Speaker 2: it in your relationship, if you're getting it there, that's
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Speaker 2: where you're going to spend most of your time.
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Speaker 3: It's that simple.
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Speaker 4: If I if I'm good at basketball and suck at golf,
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Speaker 4: I'm going to spend more time at basketball, and my
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Speaker 4: golf game's gonna hurt.
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Speaker 3: I mean, there's a sports analogy.
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Speaker 4: But if if you're ignoring this other thing, yes, we all,
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Speaker 4: I'm successful at this, I'm gonna.
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Speaker 3: Do the thing.
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Speaker 4: I'm good at this other thing, I'll keep it by
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Speaker 4: the side. Yes, that sucks and it's work, man, it's
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Speaker 4: a lot of well.
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Speaker 2: He suggests if you can recognize that and then turn
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Speaker 2: if you whatever, like, whatever you appreciate, appreciates, right, that's
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Speaker 2: what they say. So if you can turn that focus
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Speaker 2: onto your relationship, you might see major improvements.
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Speaker 3: So mister Brooks, so doctor brook.
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Speaker 2: Yes, Oh, I think it's something that we can all
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Speaker 2: think about and something that we can all use to improve.
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Speaker 2: I know, exercise for me has been I just I
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Speaker 2: felt validated when I read that because my runs have
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Speaker 2: been my therapy. I don't know what I would do
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Speaker 2: without that outlet.
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Speaker 4: Okay, I guess all of our listeners know that most
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Speaker 4: of our subjects here just for your validation, So I'm
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Speaker 4: glad we found another one to make you feel good
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Speaker 4: about yourself.
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Speaker 2: I just think everybody can appreciate some guidance about being
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Speaker 2: happy and how to avoid being unhappy. And with that, everyone,
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Speaker 2: we hope you have a very, very happy Sunday. I'm
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Speaker 2: made Robock alongside my love TJ.
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Speaker 1: Holmes. We'll talk to you soon.
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Speaker 3: Then, the pat P