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It's not about the zeros, So what is it all about? Let's
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find out now? Here's your host and weekly friend, Jennifer Josh. I
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am fired up today, y'all. Welcome to Off my Finances. I'm so
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excited. This is one of my favorite topics forever, and I have my
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one of my besties on here. That's going to be so much fun.
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I think that this is the biggest, most important thing for everyone to understand.
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Learn, love, adore, cherish, put in your daily routines,
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really dive into this topic as much as you possibly can. This is the
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transformational, life changing total f word. It is about your foundation, your
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feelings, and it's yes love attraction. So I am so excited. Bring
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on Denise, miss Carbones, Special Advantage CEO, Miss Special Needs Experts.
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She's a badass all around, and she happens to be in my back pocket
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because she's my biggest supporter as well. So love, love, love,
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Hi Denise, Hello Jennifer, thank you so much for having me back.
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I'm super excited to geek out with you on this topic. We completely geek
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out on this topic quite often, so we're gonna share our nerdiness with y'all
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today. I hope you hope you have a good time with this. So
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first question I got to jump right into Denise is. Well, let me
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say my little statement. So I've been doing law of attraction for a long
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time. In fact, when my kids passed away in nineteen ninety three,
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my therapist introduced the laws of the universe to me, and the very first
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law was you create your own reality. And I was like, hell no,
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I don't get the hell out of here. I would have never been
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in that position. Never couldn't handle that. So I just skipped that one
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and went to the other laws around that time. But that was my first
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introduction, right, I had to in order to just propel forward. Right
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then Oprah was talking about it. She has it out, you know,
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and all of that great stuff, and I did, you know, abundance
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and you know, things like that. And then The Secret came out,
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you know, made it a little bit more popular, and of course me
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and building communities, I always had a community, so I had we watched
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The Secret like once once a month on Saturdays, I have my whole team
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over and we'd watched The Secret, which Journey and Parker my kids were you
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know, young, and they came in and watched The Secrets. So we've
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all been aware of this law of attraction. We've all been aware of manifestation,
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we've all been aware of thoughts creating since you know, late nineteen nineties.
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Okay, that's all. That's the thing, right, No, I
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mean yeah, some people are just learning this now. You're absolutely right,
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Thank you telling out your journey because you have You've known about this for a
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long long time, right. And I was missing so many different elements,
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which is what my whole point was. Long story short, I was still
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missing some elements, which was which is what we're going to talk about today.
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So with all of that said, then you, my beautiful friend calls
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me one day and says, I have tickets to Abraham Hicks Est Hicks,
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whatever do you want to go? Okay, great, that's great. I'd
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absolutely no idea. Never mind you y'all. Last time she asked me to
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come to tickets it was a country western concert. Me out of freaking blast.
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So I am not thinking anything right, So I am not thinking this
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right. So we literally get there San Francisco, walking in this big convention.
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I think it's a business seminar. I go with Denise all the time
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to business seminars rights right big and set up big. Yeah, I think
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I said, hey, I'd like you to come with me. I've got
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my Law of Attraction meetup group that's planning to go to see Abraham Hicks,
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Esther and Jerry Hicks, and I would love for you to join me if
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you're open to that. And you're like, hell yeah, I love that.
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That's all I know all about Law of Attraction. I'm in. That's
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all I knew at that point. I did not know who Abraham was.
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I did not know who is Esther and Jerry Hicks were. I didn't know
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any of that. So we're literally sitting there. We actually had pretty good
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seats. We were off to the right, but we were kind of close
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up front, right bro. Yeah, So, and I have no idea
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what I'm watching, like fifteen minutes in or something. Denise looks, I
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mean, she was like, uh, because I asked a question. I'm
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like, I don't get it. Who's Esther? And She's like, who
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the hell is this? I don't understand what's going on? Wait on where
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you said you know? I totally thought you knew. Oh my god,
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it was who hilarious. So that began our bond with Law of Attraction and
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Abraham and Esther Hicks. So let me back up and say, of course,
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thank you for that invite to all of that. That was wonderful and
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you're welcome. Yeah, so just a quick your story for me, Yeah,
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because that was well for me. I knew nothing about this, absolutely
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zero about law of attraction. I probably had a smattering of stuff here and
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there, but nothing really resonated until my friend, very good friend of mine
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that I used to work with at Stanford Children's Hospital in the neonatal department.
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She turned me onto the secret and sent me all these tapes. I think
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there were cassette tapes back then, and I think I listened to the first
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one and was like, what the heck is this junk? I don't know.
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That doesn't make any sense to me, and I flipped it over and
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listened to the second one. Was kind of fast forwarding, you know,
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listening, I'm like, I don't resonate with this at all. I don't
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get it. This doesn't make sense. It's very very fairy out there,
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you know, metaphysical stuff. I'm like, I don't buy it. For
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me. It was like, this is a bunch of garbage. And so
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I felt really bad because I didn't want to tell my friend, Yeah,
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I don't believe it, but it was so funny because yeah, I didn't.
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I stopped listening. I sent it back to her with a lovely thank
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you very much, it's not for me message, and like that was probably
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in the nineties, maybe I don't remember exactly when that was, and then
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flash forward like it was it was. I was just thinking about this this
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morning because it was just over six years ago when I was introduced to a
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lot of attraction again and I think people were talking about the secret and I
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wasn't paying attention to that at all, but I but I was provided information
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from a boyfriend and because someone I was seeing at the time, and it
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was the most perfect timing for me. I cannot tell you how grateful I
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am to Ed for sharing a lot of attract stuff with me because I heard
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it at that point. That point, it helped me get out of significant
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chronic body pain. And today, Jennifer actually happens to be the six month
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anniversary of me ending up in the hospital with my three inch blockage in my
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crowd at ari, and it was so incredibly helpful to have this knowledge under
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my belt to help me clear the blockage because like, I really do believe,
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like how you under did clear that out. Once you know this,
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you can't unlearn this, and it helps you in so many ways that you
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don't even realize. Yeah you can't exactly, you can't. I know it.
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So yeah. So once I learned about Abraham Hicks and the Law of
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Attraction, then I started to go to the workshop you're in fact, I
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went to the workshop with you, invited you to come, but I had
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already found a Law of Attraction group near me, which I manifested one because
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I was like, I want to know more, but I want to be
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in community, and I want to have a community that I can talk to
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you about this stuff and learn from. And I manifested one five minutes from
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my door. So it was good at that. Yeah. Yeah, so
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I've been you know now, I'm totally into this. I listened to stuff
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every day. I practice it every day. I've been on a Law of
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Attraction cruise with Abraham Hicks, which, oh yeah, you went on the
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cruise. I love it. When when did you do that? A couple
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of years I went on the cruise. It was twenty nineteen, just before
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COVID hit, and I'm so happy that I did. It was in France,
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Spain, Italy, um, Gibral We went to Gibraltar, Monica,
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Montic Carlo. Like it was phenomenal. So it was good and I got
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I got to sit like right next to Esther when she was having dinner.
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It's just yeah, it's just phenomenal. But okay, good, Okay.
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So now we're going to back up because some people might be very confused.
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Law of attraction and secret are one thing, but Abraham and Esther Hicks are
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a completely another thing. Right, So let's talk about what law of attraction
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just basically is, Like what is that to you? That's a good idea
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because I think because I actually feel like it's really less about Abraham, Esther
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Jerry Hicks and what they do and more about the message. Right, It's
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not like how they do this or like what's more important is that you just
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understand about law of attraction? Um, and what I would say to someone
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because I bump up against this all the time people who are like, what
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is law of attraction? I don't know if I believe it. If I
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can't see it, smell it, taste it, and touch it, I
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don't believe it exists, like I'm science mindset and I am too, like
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I was a researcher, part of the research team. It's star for children.
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It's like I have and you know that's about me. Like if you
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can't show me the numbers and show me olive, I don't believe it,
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right. And so the thing about it is is like this stuff is based
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in physics, right, there is there is science to back it up up
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and it's been around long before Abraham Hicks showed up, of course. But
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what I would say to someone who isn't really sure if this is real or
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not, or who doesn't know if they believe it or understand it or not,
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just as you were sharing and unfolding your story about how there were many
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different laws of the universe that were kind of presented to you at that time
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in your life, I would invite people to think about you know, do
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you see, can you smell, can you touch gravity? Or is that
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just a law? Like the law of gravity exists, right. We don't
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trip over something and fall upward or even care how it works. It just
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does. And so I don't really know the best way to describe law of
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attraction, but I would say something like what you think about is going to
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present itself. It's like like attracts, Like, I guess that's a better
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way, Like it's think of like a magnet like attracts. Like, yep,
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that's totally perfect. So I'm looking at it the scientific situation, it's
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basically cause and effect, right, what you put out you get back perfect
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an energy. Right, And everybody says that in all different types of ways
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and religions and everything. They all say, you know, karma, you
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know all of that like a boomerang. What you put out is literally going
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to come back to you. And so I'm looking at it, says the
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twelve laws of the universe basically include divine unity, vibration, which we're all
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vibration. Everything's vibration action, so when we jump into action correspondence. I
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don't know. That means attraction and cause and effect, compensation, eternal transmission
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of energy, relatively polarity, rhythm, and gender. That's the twelve laws
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of the universe. So law of attraction. They I don't know if the
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actual those words, however, it is like Oprah explained it so well way
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back in the day, right, Like it's like gravity, like you said,
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it's like gravity. So when you put something out and when you are
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energy and it goes out there, it has to come back to you.
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It's just the law of the universe. So it is going to come back
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to you in one way or another. It could be five minutes, ten
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minutes, next generation, next If you believe in different lifetimes, like,
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it doesn't matter, and it can be transformed in something different. However,
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the vibration of that energy will be the same. Okay, I love that.
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So that is law of attraction. So that is the energy field of
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That's why it's scientific. Right. So if someone doesn't believe, how would
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you tell them to test it? A fun little game to test it?
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Oh well, we could either invite them to think about times in their own
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life where they've had things happen. You know how. I think we've all
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been able to experience the bad day or the cycles, right, like,
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oh my god, I just had you know, I shouldn't have gotten out
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of bed this morning because I stubbed my toe and then you know it's my
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key. I lost my key, you know, Then this happened, and
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this happened, and it's like a spiral, right, and like you're spiraling
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down, it down down now it's like, ah, if only I could
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start the day over and hit the reset button. Right, could be one
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way of looking at it. Or it might be that, oh my gosh,
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I was thinking, I just want a parking space right up in front.
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I can't wait to just I canalize it. I can see it here,
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here's the parking space. Right. So there's another example of how you
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can you know, and maybe the person is like if that's so lucky m
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hm, or or I got them too, and so um, we can
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kind of talk about manifesting. Right. So if you're looking around and you're
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like, I so abundant, I always find my nurse that I always attract
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money and so you're always going to attract money back. It's just kind of
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one for the those things that just happens, right, Okay, Yeah,
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Denise, your your internet's breaking up a bit. I thought it was me.
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I'm glad it's you. I'm not glad it's you, but I'm glad
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to know that it's it's doable. Okay, So I'm gonna like paraphrase what
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she said. We can play a game of manifesting a parking spot. We
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can um, look at money and maybe now I know Denise is very good
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at this, Like she finds money all the time, she finds coins on
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the ground, she finds money here and there, like it's hilarious. Um,
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hopefully I'm back. You guys see me again, right Like, I'm
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back. No, you're you're still breaking up. Oh okay, yeah,
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you're you're very you're choppy. You know it might be because I'm trying to
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screen share something. So maybe I'll stop that. Yeah, there you go.
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I could buy it, right, So so what we um? What
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I did way oh my gosh, way way way back in I think when
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I was sharing with my team about the secret and then we all kind of
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wanted to test it out. So I'm talking probably two thousand and five ish.
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I pictured a purple rose, the sterling silver roses that we don't see
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very much right there, they were not often and I said, Okay,
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I want to see this sterling silver rose. And that was my little secret
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to me right that there, that the law was working. Literally, Hey,
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Peelin's commenting. We got some comments, Hary, y'all live. We
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love it. Those are principles from Kabalion, which I'm not going to say
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that right, it's worth a deep study. Okay, awesome, thank you.
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I never even heard of Kabalion, so that's awesome. That's the twelve
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laws of the universe. I think. Hey, Jill, my sister Jill's
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on there. I feel good to have you ladies here. It's so fun.
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I love it. Okay. So I literally walked into a client's house
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and her little boy brought me as sterling silver rose. That is trippy stuff,
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right, I mean I thought it was trippy stuff at the time.
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Now I know it's my law of attraction. And we can just picture if
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sody, anyone's listening now, just picture something, think of something. And
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then at the end of the at the end of the podcast, we're not
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going to tell you now because you gotta watch the whole thing. So at
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the end of the podcast, we're gonna give you the number one secret what's
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missing out there everywhere about it? And yes, it has to do with
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an effort of course, so you gotta hang on to the last at the
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end. Hey, Karen Daron, welcome. Oh La Bella's I love it.
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Oh she's so adorable. So just so y'all know, come back to
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our soul series because Petele and Karen and Denise and I we get together once
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a month on our podcast here, So check out the Soul series. They
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are awesome. All these women are powerhouses. So it's really fun to hear.
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And we have different topics every time. Okay, we gotta, we
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gotta of course, you know, dis dish our stuff going there as well.
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Okay, so you hearing, Okay, I'm just gonna jump right back
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in. I love it because that is my favorite favorite game. I play
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it all the time. I've gotten friends involved with it, with me on
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it, my family involved with me. I did it yesterday to look for
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red sports cars. Um. I did it on the Law of Attraction cruise.
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I had the whole like the buses were knowing what because I was doing
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three things every day, like three things I want to see today I went
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to mathest three things. And it's a fun way to just practice picking something
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out of the sky, like you said your silver rows, right, picking
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something that's not super important to you that you're crunchy on, right, because
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if it's like I really want to win the lottery, well it's probably not
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going to happen. And there's right high which we could talk about but if
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you're wanting to see a rainbow, you know, and you put that out,
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I just want to see a rainbow, and then you stop being married
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to how it's going to show up, right, because you could actually have
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Like for me yesterday with the red the red sport car, I was looking
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for the cars on the road, which of course I wasn't seeing any because
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I was looking for the cars on the road, I was looking for that
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red car. It wasn't coming to me, and I was focusing on that
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I couldn't find one. But then I let go of it and thought,
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Okay, well, maybe the kiddo I'm going to see next in my home
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visit session, he might walk out with a shirt with a red hot wheel
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red, you know, like a red going to control how it's gonna happen.
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You're hilarious, exactly. So yeah, so it could be a rainbow
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on the shirt or something else if you're not married to the how it's supposed
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to show up, how it has to look. Yeah, for sure.
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So I did rainbow back in the day twenty fourteen again, started resurfacing all
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of it again on a daily practice, and one of my words was rainbow,
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and so guests who came into my coaching program, a girl named Rainbow.
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Rainbow met Rainbow. That's exactly right, So it doesn't have to look
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like where I think it's gonna look like exactly. Yeah, that's so cool.
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I love that. I love that. Okay, So that's the little
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test so that you can see that it's happening. And then you said something
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I was gonna go back to it, okay, the reason why it's not
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okay, So like money right now, the secret came out and they talked
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about cars and houses and millions and you know, all that kind of stuff
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on the vision boards, which we love vision boards. We do vision boards
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all the time. It's awesome and I do like stuff does happen on our
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vision board. So that's that's great and I love it, lots of it.
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Yeah, it's fun. And you just brought up a subject. I
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want to win the lotto. I want want you know, the one hundred
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and eighty million dollars and so as um, I do want to get into
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Abraham Hicks. So we're gonna step into that next. But as you pick
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up that subject, you're picking up everything around that subject. So you're picking
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up everything that you feel around that subject. Everything you think around that subject.
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You're pasted around that like that subject. Like you know, you're never
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in bed with just one person, right, It's like you pick up the
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whole damn schmoke, all the beliefs around it, all the beliefs around it,
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exactly. And beliefs create your energy, right, they create your feeling.
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Your feeling creates a vibration, emotion, and your energy. So if
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you have a feeling of anything negative or down the scale, then you're picking
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up all of that energy. So instead of testing this with something big like
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a million dollars or the Latto test, it was something that you are not
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emotionally tied to. And that's the trick, y'all. Here's one of the
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tricks. Emotions are very important, which they never talked about in the Secret,
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no one really ever talks about. And it has to come from your
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emotions. It has to be inside your body. So if it is inside
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your body already, so you just want to be noticing if that's a positive
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or negative. We don't care about a rainbow, we don't care about blue
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glass, as Estra has says, I don't care about feathers. Yeah,
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feathers yeah, we don't care about that. So it's not gonna make or
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break us if we see it or not see it. So we don't want
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to be tied to your testing object. So good luck for your testing objects.
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Have a really good fun time with that game. I love I love
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that. I love that. Okay, So next step Esther Hicks. So
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Esther Hicks, I don't know how to start. You guys can google her.
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She's on everything. You can check her all out. But basically,
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Esther Hicks has been channeling entities from not of this world of here. And
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the word that she calls them is Abraham. So the entities or spirits or
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whatever words, angels, masters, whatever words you want to put to it,
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the vibration that's not living on this planet Earth, they give her vibration.
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She turns the vibrations into words, and the word that she uses for
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the that energy is Abraham. So we call that Abraham. It's almost like
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God, it's almost like your source. It's almost like your angels, like
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a special little thing. Right. And so Esther channels Abraham all the time
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and talks about law attraction, talks about what it's like to be here and
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where we can go so we listen to Denise and I listened to Abraham daily,
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probably just about daily, if not like a lot. Like yes,
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it was like three hours because there are some good ones popping out. Now
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it's all free on YouTube. You can pay for subscription for Esther, which
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we do because we do believe in the law of reciprocity, and so we
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definitely want to give back when we're getting. We want to give back always,
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right and so and so there's lots of ways to do that. Like
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she went on the cruise, she went to the event and everything. So
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how has listening to Abraham through Esther helped you in your life? Denise,
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That's a great question. That's a really great question. I think for me
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the time period of my life, I was as positive as I am now.
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I mean, you know me, I'm a very positive person. So
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I've always been a positive person. But at that point in my life,
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there was a lot of fear that I was going through an extremely scary health
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issue. Like the doctor basically came in and said, now I know what
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everybody's talking about. You look amazing for someone who should be paralyzed on half
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of your body or dead. Right. That was the news at three thirty
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four in the morning, six years ago tomorrow morning, right, and that'll
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send you in a spin. And what I was doing at that point,
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like I had a morning practice, I had a morning you know, I
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had things that I was doing to keep myself healthy and strong, and fear
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was definitely running the show. And my mantra after are getting back home and
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out of the hospital and a little bit stable because it was still scary and
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I could have thrown a clot and had a stroke at any moment and died.
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Like every morning, it was thank God, I'm not paralyzed on half
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my body are dead. I'm so happy to be alive. Thank thank you,
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thank you God. I'm so happy to be alive and not paralyzed.
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Right. And in talking and learning more through what Abraham Hicks is putting out,
26:30
I learned that there's, you know, everything that you pick up right,
26:34
every topic, there's two sides of the topic or two sides of the
26:38
stick. What's wanted and what's not wanted. This is kind of how I
26:42
like to describe it with my clients when we're doing our one on one stuff
26:45
or even groups, but like this is what we want. It's very pretty
26:49
it's lovely. It's what I want, and this is I is like very
26:53
pokey and very not what I want. Right. And so for me at
26:57
the time, like I really wanted fabulous health. I wanted to melt at
27:02
that blockage. I didn't want to be paralyzed or dead. I wanted to
27:06
live a vibrant, happy life. And I was definitely focusing on this end
27:11
of the stick more. I don't want to die. I hate being dependent
27:18
on people. My god, what am I gonna do If I can't get
27:22
rid of this? Worry takes over like it was worried, worry fear,
27:26
like the worry takes over. So two sides of the stick is what I
27:30
learned, right. And so if we're talking about thank you, yes,
27:33
I'm power, it's mind over matter, you guys. It's like what I
27:37
tell my clients is what you focus on matters, Jennifer, I people in
27:41
Karen, we all know this, right, what you focus on matter.
27:45
So if I'm focusing on I feel like, crap, my body hurts,
27:52
I'm scared, I'm gonna die. Things are not looking up. You know
27:56
that. That's what I'm putting out vibrationally. I'm going to see more of
28:00
that, which is a really scary thought. Okay, very scary thought,
28:04
but it helped. Like I said, this came into my life, I
28:07
think at the right time because then I started looking at, well, if
28:10
that's what I don't want, what do I want? To pivot and look
28:14
at what do I want? And so I started looking at my life in
28:18
a very different way, which is when things totally started to turn around for
28:22
me, because I started thinking about what I want to attract. Because whether
28:29
or not you believe this, whether or not you mean to put out a
28:33
vibration that's negative, you might be okay. And so I think it's more
28:40
helpful if you put out a vibration that's positive or you focus on things that
28:42
are positive, because then you get more of that in your life. And
28:45
I've known this for years, right, I just didn't know about law of
28:48
attraction. I believe that my field, we focus on people tend to focus
28:56
on what the child's not capable of doing, for example, instead of what
29:00
they can do. Right or Jennifer and your line of work, people are
29:03
focusing on the lack of their money, right, the lack of zeros that
29:07
they want, and that's the vibration that people are sending out instead of what
29:11
they have and being grateful and appreciative of what they actually have and what they
29:17
want more of, right, which is exactly why I have one hundred percent
29:21
success ratio, because as I do is switch there. Not all they do,
29:23
but we switch their thought to future and what they want to create versus
29:29
what's already there. Now, I love that exactly. But you've had such
29:32
a journey, my love and people, and thank you for jumping in there
29:34
and saying you're absolutely right. You are totally living proof of mind over matter
29:41
and literally taking the time to get into relaxed state and visualizing your blockage disappear,
29:48
visualizing your happy, beautiful life, and you are absolutely a walking miracle.
29:55
I love it. I love Yeah. For those of you who are
29:56
listening or don't know my story, I have melted the blockage. Like the
30:00
doctors said that, you will never ever, ever, ever ever ever be
30:03
able to get rid of it. It's permanent, it's a disability. You're
30:07
gonna have to just deal with your new normal. And I'm like, I'm
30:08
not buying that crap. No, thanks, don't want to believe that.
30:12
And so I do love the fact that we because it's not just me,
30:18
right, we and many, many, many, many other people, including
30:22
lots of famous celebrities, have managed to manifest things and bring things, meaning
30:26
bringing things into their lives that they want. So for me, it's better
30:30
health. It's you know, like you said, money, like I bring
30:33
in quarters, ten dollars bills, twenty dollars bills, tens of thousands of
30:38
dollars, new clients, right, so different ways, you know, like
30:44
I manifested my beautiful BMW convertible, like it's but it's not about the things
30:48
either, right, it's about for me anyway, it's about style and thank
30:55
you, And it's about the lifestyle, like what do I want in my
30:57
life? You know, and and you can have anything you want. Yeah,
31:03
and we can feel it now rather than I'm only going to be happy
31:08
when I get that thing fill in the blank, right, that lottery ticket,
31:15
that car, that the health right, Like, it's not about getting
31:18
there. That's awesome when you get there and get that car in the garage
31:23
or money in the bank, but you have to start feeling it. Now.
31:27
This is where feeling comes in again. Thank you, This is right,
31:30
you're right, this is our trick. Yeah, this is our tip
31:34
right here. So Jill, thank you so much for for chiming in as
31:37
well saying that that was a good a good example. It is absolutely right.
31:41
And so for some reason, like health and money, we think those
31:48
are so big and maybe relationships as well. Right, those are our biggest
31:52
topics, and so those have all the energies built up around it. So
31:56
if we can isolate, focusing on what we focus on persists. What we
32:04
focus on matters. Our thoughts create and our words manifest. So all these
32:09
little bumper stickers are all boiling down to one basic thing that we don't really
32:15
share enough about. We keep thinking about the stuff and the things and the
32:19
zeros and the love that this person's going to give us, and you know,
32:24
losing twenty pounds, thirty pounds, forty pounds. It's about how you
32:29
want to feel, exactly, peopling, It's how you want to feel,
32:31
and it's feeling it before you see it, yes, which means y'all,
32:38
you gotta believe it before you see it. But not only just believe it,
32:43
you have to have that belief in your head, because we are a
32:45
society of walking heads basically, right, we're all up here, and so
32:51
yes, we have to believe it. Here, guess what this is the
32:54
number one secret on how all this happens. Ready, drummer, all believe
33:00
it. We have to feel it. Bring it down F word, y'all.
33:07
We have to feel it before we believe it. Well with with believing
33:12
it, but before we see it. Like Wayne Dyer's book, right,
33:15
he has an amazing book. Believe it before you see it. We have
33:19
to believe at first. That is what the secret's missing. That is what
33:22
most um vision vision boards miss. Uh. You know armchair quarterbacks as they
33:30
say for sports, right, So armchair a lave of attraction, peeps,
33:32
they're missing. To bring that down to the F word, we have to
33:37
feel it when you like when when Denise went shopping for Bella, she got
33:42
in cars, she felt the seat, she felt right, you felt yourself
33:45
inside those cars. It can't just be searching online. Yeah, how good
33:52
it felt, not just to only physically be in the car. Because I
33:55
bought my car during COVID, right, which was a little tricky, And
34:00
I actually bought her sight unseen, like she was in Palm Springs and I
34:02
live in Redwood City, and so I had to first. That was a
34:07
big purchase for me was something I didn't get to feel, smell, touch,
34:12
taste, drive, but I pictured. I knew exactly what I wanted,
34:16
which took a little time, and Jennifer was amazing with helping me with
34:21
that. And then I had to let it go. I had to completely
34:23
surrender and know and trust because I felt it like I could visualize myself driving
34:31
my new car, knew the feels like, I knew what it would feel
34:36
like to actually step into that, and then I had to surrender and let
34:38
it go. I love that, And so I'm big in twelve steps,
34:43
right. I love the twelve step programs. I've been in Latin lanon Coda,
34:47
codependency, no more adult children of alcoholics, lots of them, right,
34:54
And so the biggest thing is surrender. We to surrender that we cannot
35:00
control it. And if you're white knuckling your life out there, if you're
35:05
gripping anything in your life, this relationship, your children, your money,
35:10
your future, your health, your weight, whatever you're white knuckling and gripping
35:15
on, you're hanging on to the wrong end of the pin, y'all.
35:17
We gotta let it go, sit back and surrender into the belief that it
35:24
will happen and then let it go. And if we can't do that,
35:29
let's say someone's in a really bad situation right now. I mean, you
35:32
know, most of my people have been through trauma, right Your community has
35:37
a lot of that as well. So if we can't just let something go
35:43
or step into that, what do you recommend someone doing the very first little
35:46
baby step that they could do to let go of the bad stuff, step
35:51
away from the bad stuff. Maybe they have body pain, maybe they have
35:53
a lawsuit going, maybe they have zeros in their bank account, whatever it
35:58
might be. It might it's not not that it's not real. It's very
36:00
real, very real, very real. Don't let anybody tell you this stuff
36:04
is not real, because it's real, especially to you if you're going through
36:07
it. Um. I love what you said earlier because it is about your
36:12
emotions, and I think that was the biggest, biggest piece for me,
36:15
is understanding that we can let our emotions be our guide, right that if
36:23
we're feeling like we use the word crunchy, right, if we're feeling crunchy
36:28
about it used to be bitchy changed into crunchy. We're feeling bitchy, right
36:34
or fearful or angry or whatever pissed off? I mean, what are some
36:39
of those? Socially traditionally negative angry is very tolerated, angry, illustration is
36:47
very tolerating, rage, depression, helpless, hopeless, Like, there's a
36:54
whole bunch of dads. There's like a thousand words for our feeling states,
37:00
and we tend to only use about seventy feelings typically most of the time.
37:06
So we have our home go to emotions. So I invite people all the
37:09
time to look at what is your home emotional negative state? Mind's fear fully
37:15
admit that, right my ex boyfriend Tony his was anger. Everybody's different.
37:21
But what I invite people to do is look at, well, in the
37:24
moment, what am I feeling here? If I'm feeling some kind of negative
37:30
state or negative feeling, I invite you to pay attention and listen and ask
37:37
something here's important to me? What is it? Because that's going to help
37:44
you learn what it is you want, because you're probably focusing on what you
37:47
don't want. Right. If we're negative, it's because he did this or
37:52
she said that, or I don't know how to do this, I'm confused,
37:57
or I don't know how to get more money, or losing my house,
38:00
or my body hurts like hell, and I'm worried that I'm never going
38:05
to get out of this pain and I'm never gonna you know what, I'm
38:07
not gonna be able to support my family, like whatever it might be.
38:10
If you pay attention to the negative feeling, then and we know about this
38:19
with law of attraction, right, you can what Abraham Hicks put out is
38:23
step up the emotional scale, right, even if it's just one tiny little
38:28
step, because you can't get from helpless, hopeless, depressed all the way
38:32
to joy love? Well, why not denise the secret? Says I can?
38:37
It says I need to just buy a lot of ticket I'm gonna become
38:38
a multimillionaire. Well that's bullshit, crap, And they're selling more books and
38:47
CDs and stuff, right, So, I mean everything we hear isn't true.
38:52
So a lot of um um um in my industry, in the financial
38:58
industry there when they talk about stuff for the broad spectrum of people. Okay,
39:04
okay, yeah, yeah, I totally get that. And Abraham would
39:07
say, you can't get there from there, You absolutely cannot. You just
39:09
go one little thing Okay, So if someone is going through trauma, if
39:14
someone is trying to heal from a pass that sulks and they are sad,
39:21
hopeless, depressed, and they keep dwelling, dwelling in that one subject.
39:30
We know that we can't get to complete joy from there, so we just
39:32
want to get to the next level, right, and the next thing?
39:37
Okay, I love that, So how about something to do to get to
39:45
the next level. So like anything that brings you joy, it doesn't have
39:50
to be on the subject, right, That's that's true, you yeah,
39:53
anything so like so this morning, I'll use myself as an example, and
39:59
or maybe you have some too, Jennifer that you want to share. But
40:01
this morning I was a little nervous about today. I was like, oh,
40:05
that's a big topic, big responsibility, you know, hope, I
40:07
oh make fool myself. I wonder what people think, blah blah blah.
40:09
You know, you got to kind of get into your head, right,
40:12
And I also recognized, wow, this is my six year anniversary. This
40:15
is a big thing. And I started going back down into the patterns of
40:19
what it was like back then for me. And then of course I started
40:22
to have a headache. And when I started to have next thing, and
40:27
I felt sick and nauseous to my stomach, and I started out great.
40:30
I started out like, oh my god, life is good. This is
40:32
today, you know, like I said my mantra, my day, my
40:36
way, happy to be alive, you know, like all this great stuff.
40:38
And then it just was spiraling down. And so for me, one
40:43
of the things that I've talked about this with a lot of people, one
40:46
of the things that pops me out of that is listening to music. Yes,
40:51
music, I love music, your state. And for me, basically
40:54
the technique is catch it before it's too far, because if it's if I
40:59
already have a migraine now and my neck hurts and I feel sick to my
41:02
stomach and I'm barfing in the toilet because it nerves, which music is not
41:07
going to do a damn thing well, And I don't want to cancel on
41:09
you, right, So, but I caught it early enough to go,
41:12
this is not how I want to start my day, you know. So
41:15
I was able to shift it quickly. But you're right, music would probably
41:19
not help if I'm already take a nap, you know, yeah, go
41:22
take a nap, right, So, yeah, we're identifying the emotions exactly,
41:27
we're not the emotion. I love it, petn has Petelen has commented
41:31
in here, notice that we're identifying with the emotion, we are not the
41:37
emotion. Separate little by little. I love that. Make your emotion over
41:42
here and you're over here. Which I used to say this all the time
41:45
with behavior. Behavior is over here and the person is over here as well.
41:50
There are your emotions over here. That's that's probably the key to everything
41:53
in our entire lives, is separating our emotion from actually who we are.
41:57
Right, So, how did you shift it? Denise? We have five
42:00
minutes left, by the way, Oh my god, there's so much I
42:02
know. You haven't even scratched the service. Oh god, oh wow.
42:08
Oh well I did shift it um with. I did some pivoting, right
42:15
like, I decided. Well, okay, obviously I'm feeling a little nervous
42:17
here. What is this about? What? What? What is it that
42:21
I really want to happen? Well, I really want to be there for
42:23
my friend Jennifer. I really want to have a great podcast. I want
42:27
people to know about this stuff. I want them to be able to have
42:30
a better life learning about law of attraction and how what they focus on in
42:37
their thoughts matter and even if they're in the worst situation, they can get
42:43
out of it with tools right or with knowing how So I looked at my
42:47
intention and then I did pop myself into joy with music, which was great.
42:53
So I want to I want to put a note in there that this
42:57
is a lot of women out there, and I I'm totally generalizing, but
43:00
it's every single woman I met. So we always and I am saying all
43:06
these big words, and I tell everybody never to use however we do.
43:10
We are willing to show up to service others before it will show up for
43:16
ourselves. So Denise switched it from I'm gonna look stupid. People are gonna
43:22
check me out. They're gonna like write stupid comments too. Oh wait,
43:25
I could actually help someone else. Okay, well, then I don't care
43:28
if I look stupid because I'm gonna get out there and help someone else.
43:31
And I love that. And that's again the twelve steps. They do all
43:34
that as well, Right, you show up and serve and when and I
43:37
tell that exactly, I don't care how down the depths you are. I
43:39
don't care how depressed you are. Go to a food bank, go to
43:44
a kitchen, go to a church, go walk down and feed the homeless,
43:49
Go give fifty dollars to somebody, like put yourself in service, and
43:52
you will get out and come up that emotional scarce scale slower, right.
43:57
I love that. I love that. I know we'll have a few minutes
44:00
left. This is like really exciting and I know there's so much here I
44:02
want. I know, Well, we'll do it again. This is like
44:06
one of our favorite topics. So I mean, this is a daily practice
44:08
for us, so we definitely want to jump in with that and do this
44:14
more So, what we've learned today is we are not our emotions. However,
44:19
our emotions do bring on the energy that we have, so we can
44:22
choose what to feel, which should be which tention to them. Right,
44:28
So there you go. There's a very very very verse bottom line. Pay
44:32
attention to your emotions because, like it tells you, if you're going and
44:35
if you're putting out a negative of vibration into the universe or putting out a
44:40
positive, Okay, here you go. What you feel is what you get.
44:45
So if you don't like what's going on in your life right now,
44:49
you created it, which is so hard because it's hard for us. Like
44:54
I felt busted my teeth a year and a half ago, I created that
45:00
universe said you need to sit your ass down and slow down. I know
45:04
a friend that just hit her ankle on the pool and her shin on the
45:10
pool and hurt her hurt her shin. So the universe is telling her to
45:15
slow down or to maybe watch where you're going, or to see what's in
45:20
front of you. I don't know what that's only you can only decide what
45:23
it is for you. However, we do create our reality. Thoughts,
45:30
create words, manifests. So if we start with being aware of how we
45:35
feel, being aware of our emotions, start journaling them, then we start
45:42
figuring out what makes us fall into that trigger trap or whatever. What we
45:46
say two matters, right, Like what we're what we were gurgitating over and
45:50
over again with our friends and family, yep, Because then that's going to
45:53
bring you back up right. Your words are manifesting, your words are creating.
45:58
So then if we go to our emotions and our words, but then
46:00
it all boils back to our beliefs, y'all. And that's why Denise and
46:02
I have a damn job because we are here to help you shift your beliefs
46:07
and that's where it all stems. So we got to look at our emotions
46:12
or feelings and then we're going to recreate our new beliefs that you can't have
46:15
it all, feel it all, be it all before it even shows up.
46:20
Yep. Oh my gosh, I love that. Okay, we have
46:22
it what we got like one minute. I hate this. I know it's
46:25
so fun. Okay, So Denise literally looking back, I'm gonna say even
46:34
ten years, ten years ago to today, Oh my god. Right,
46:43
yeah, how about like a sentence of how your life is so much more
46:49
expansive? Oh my god, y'all. She just smiled. She just like
46:53
bright, right, big cheesy ass grin. Wow. Um, I've stepped
47:02
into knowing who I am and I wow, Like, my life is so
47:08
much richer now. I my relationships are so much better, my my career,
47:17
my calling is so much more fulfilling. It's shifted because now I'm helping
47:22
people in such a bigger, different way, and I'm so much happier for
47:28
it. I'm my help is incredible compared to the way it used to be.
47:36
Oh my gosh. Um, I just I just am happy every single
47:40
day. And for me, it's not about the what I have, It's
47:46
about how I feel every day and I'm happy. I love my life.
47:51
I love it. I do as well, and we get out every morning.
47:53
Y'all please come back. We're gonna have Denise back and we're gonna keep
47:57
going on this topic. Comment. Yeah, we talk all the day,
48:01
right, we did even and you have questions based on what we said,
48:05
so please shoot them anywhere. Yeah, comment below. We'll answer from the
48:08
next podcast and we'll answer you here as well. So thank y'all for joining
48:13
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48:15
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48:20
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