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- 0:00Speaker 1: All right, let's get to it. Welcome to it, and
- 0:02Speaker 1: what more can I say? Podcast? In this episode two
- 0:06Speaker 1: what yep yep? To forty seven and two hundred and
- 0:09Speaker 1: forty seven of these things, I ain't want your hostong.
- 0:12Speaker 2: Paul, what's up? All right?
- 0:14Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Welcome to the shows. Introduced to other
- 0:17Speaker 1: Crazy members. First Lady of the Pot, the only Lady
- 0:19Speaker 1: of the Pot, and she survived a trip from hell
- 0:22Speaker 1: that turned out to be good and it was a
- 0:23Speaker 1: little hellish.
- 0:24Speaker 2: It's key kick, Hey, y'all.
- 0:26Speaker 3: Yes, I am a tsunami warner warning survivor.
- 0:30Speaker 2: That's dope.
- 0:31Speaker 1: Yes, so that's a crazy but I mean like it
- 0:34Speaker 1: sounds kind of funny when you messing with it.
- 0:37Speaker 2: But a tsunami is.
- 0:38Speaker 1: A fucking huge ass wave. It will wipe out everything. Yeah,
- 0:41Speaker 1: can yeah, yes, it will wipe out everything. But god, god, Lord,
- 0:51Speaker 1: that wave I said, not now, Lord.
- 0:53Speaker 2: Come on? Worried about your say.
- 0:59Speaker 4: He worried about me showing up for this podcast?
- 1:02Speaker 3: Well I am here, so yes, keep paying your tiesk
- 1:05Speaker 3: keep paying your time.
- 1:06Speaker 2: Can you get a can you leave? All right? Man?
- 1:11Speaker 1: Get you funny Man of the Pot and was sleep
- 1:14Speaker 1: in this place like it was his crib zach bug.
- 1:17Speaker 2: What's up?
- 1:18Speaker 5: Bitch out for a second? Been here all day, all day,
- 1:21Speaker 5: stretch out for a little while.
- 1:23Speaker 4: So nice of you to arrive.
- 1:25Speaker 6: I should pay rent here, You should. That's really what
- 1:28Speaker 6: I should do.
- 1:28Speaker 5: I should go home and just sleep, and I pay
- 1:31Speaker 5: rent here because this is where I be at.
- 1:33Speaker 1: Yeah, I ate the nice of me to arride pop fam.
- 1:37Speaker 1: I was a little late today, but that's why we're
- 1:39Speaker 1: going to let it right into the pop right now.
- 1:41Speaker 1: We're not going to have a lot of small talk.
- 1:43Speaker 1: We got we got things to do.
- 1:45Speaker 3: He got a Bulls jacket, don't start, Yes, tone and
- 1:48Speaker 3: I in uniforms.
- 1:50Speaker 2: I just want to know what was going on? Why
- 1:51Speaker 2: I didn't get the bulls membo? Oh damn it. I
- 1:54Speaker 2: am the coach.
- 2:00Speaker 4: The warm ups.
- 2:00Speaker 5: After yes, little Windy City bull pre practice. Something y'all
- 2:05Speaker 5: got going on.
- 2:06Speaker 2: I cannot wear jersey with us, y'all just let it.
- 2:10Speaker 3: Aren't gonna say nothing because I knew I had on
- 2:12Speaker 3: some Bulls stuff today. I'm living out my luggage. I
- 2:14Speaker 3: have not unpacked yet. It's whatever.
- 2:17Speaker 5: Just it's not about the bulls. It's about y'all both
- 2:19Speaker 5: doing it together. I know, man, next time, we'll give
- 2:23Speaker 5: you the memo. Okay, I don't got his hensy shirt
- 2:25Speaker 5: under it?
- 2:26Speaker 4: Yeah, what is going now? What is going on with that?
- 2:30Speaker 2: I know I can see through it.
- 2:32Speaker 4: He got a game there too, And.
- 2:37Speaker 2: Why when you got to hit? When you got you
- 2:40Speaker 2: got a.
- 2:41Speaker 4: Club and then you got the playoffs at too? You Gotstagram? Okay,
- 2:49Speaker 4: we're sorry.
- 2:49Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, God, thank you.
- 2:52Speaker 1: That's y'all fucking up my outfit right now.
- 2:57Speaker 2: So you showed me where that's jersey a lot. I don't.
- 3:00Speaker 2: You know you haven't worn in a long time. I
- 3:02Speaker 2: really have not.
- 3:03Speaker 1: I wore jerseys understuff. That's my new thing. I'll layer
- 3:07Speaker 1: my clothes with a jersey underneath it. I saw that yesterday.
- 3:10Speaker 2: That's kind of one.
- 3:11Speaker 5: Not what now you can't see it. You got to
- 3:15Speaker 5: one thing about tone. He likes subtle like.
- 3:19Speaker 2: That's his thing. I like some.
- 3:21Speaker 6: He likes it just if you you got to be
- 3:23Speaker 6: up on him to see it.
- 3:24Speaker 2: That's his favorite. That's my favorite thing to do.
- 3:28Speaker 1: I got a couple of Louis pieces that they look regular,
- 3:31Speaker 1: but when you get up on me.
- 3:33Speaker 4: You can see, yes, Louis pi.
- 3:35Speaker 3: Okay, you know it's not every day I get to
- 3:38Speaker 3: talk to a fashion icon.
- 3:40Speaker 2: I feel like that in my head, I know you do.
- 3:42Speaker 2: In my head, I do, and I believe.
- 3:44Speaker 1: I feel like I definitely feel like I should be
- 3:46Speaker 1: walking in fashion. We sit in front road legs cross
- 3:50Speaker 1: that freaking cross.
- 3:50Speaker 5: They have from you your legs you're gonna be gap legs,
- 3:54Speaker 5: but you don't want to, right, You're just trying to
- 3:56Speaker 5: be crazy there.
- 3:58Speaker 1: Come on, man, let's get to the pod, y'all. Let's
- 4:00Speaker 1: get to what we got going on. Ju Just and
- 4:03Speaker 1: Diddy's request for release of bail. They're saying that he
- 4:07Speaker 1: just failed to demonstrate something that represents he needs to
- 4:11Speaker 1: be released.
- 4:12Speaker 2: What is that? What are we doing y'all?
- 4:14Speaker 4: Okay, what are we doing?
- 4:16Speaker 2: I mean to say, no, what we're okay about?
- 4:18Speaker 4: What did he having to say in jail to October?
- 4:21Speaker 2: He got twenty sixty more days. He'll be like, I
- 4:23Speaker 2: knew that was happening.
- 4:24Speaker 1: Okay, They not letting did he need to just chill
- 4:28Speaker 1: wait your sixty out game? They not letting you out
- 4:31Speaker 1: because they getting ready to let you off because they
- 4:33Speaker 1: know we all know that they didn't prove what they
- 4:36Speaker 1: was trying to prove. Whatever the case may be, this
- 4:38Speaker 1: is your jail time. Yeah, this is you serving what
- 4:42Speaker 1: they whatever the reason it is.
- 4:44Speaker 2: You don't think he gonna do no time.
- 4:45Speaker 1: Not a day, not a day after this halfway house
- 4:51Speaker 1: did he out.
- 4:53Speaker 3: He already started his programs and now with the ladies
- 4:56Speaker 3: talking to the lady. He going through therapy, angle management classes.
- 5:01Speaker 6: That's what you do when you get in trouble. You're
- 5:03Speaker 6: supposed to go.
- 5:04Speaker 5: So you got a habit, you got a drug habit,
- 5:06Speaker 5: you need to go to a class and yeah, that's
- 5:09Speaker 5: how you get out of it and apologize.
- 5:11Speaker 1: And I hate doing this, but I'm not even gonna
- 5:13Speaker 1: say this person's name. When you beat your chick and
- 5:17Speaker 1: there is a video of you beating your chick, there's
- 5:22Speaker 1: no recovery. I don't think so. I don't think so.
- 5:26Speaker 1: I think pictures the aftermath is still messed up. But
- 5:32Speaker 1: we've seen people bounce back from the aftermath. A picture,
- 5:36Speaker 1: the after picture, after math. I just don't think the video.
- 5:39Speaker 1: There's a football player, Ray Rice, remember him and his
- 5:42Speaker 1: wife got He hit his wife and it.
- 5:45Speaker 2: Was this terrible. That video was disgusting.
- 5:47Speaker 1: There's been a couple other videos of people that have
- 5:51Speaker 1: had video evidence of the abuse, and I just don't
- 5:54Speaker 1: see that the public the public figure Diddy, I would
- 5:58Speaker 1: be I'm gonna be interested to watch how this happened.
- 6:00Speaker 2: I think the public figure did. He will be fine.
- 6:03Speaker 5: And I know what you're saying about the abuse, and
- 6:06Speaker 5: I think that's terrible. But people are putting so much
- 6:10Speaker 5: emphasis on the sex trafficking that we just the abuse
- 6:15Speaker 5: has just become a part of conversation. Yeah, he did
- 6:17Speaker 5: drugs and she and beat her. But and then if
- 6:21Speaker 5: you say that, and then you come with a butt,
- 6:23Speaker 5: which I've heard a lot, then we've missed the mark.
- 6:26Speaker 5: I don't know who missed the mark. I don't know
- 6:28Speaker 5: if it was prosecution. I don't know if it was media.
- 6:29Speaker 5: I don't know who to put the blame on. But
- 6:31Speaker 5: nobody's that hasn't been the conversation. The conversation wasn't about
- 6:35Speaker 5: him being an abuser. It was more about him being
- 6:39Speaker 5: a sex trafficker and all the wild stuff that we
- 6:41Speaker 5: assumed that was going to happen based off what the
- 6:44Speaker 5: prosecution did.
- 6:44Speaker 2: And that's why I think that prosecutor done lost her job.
- 6:47Speaker 5: He beating your old girl like he should have been
- 6:50Speaker 5: in jail for domestic violence being your girl. If that
- 6:53Speaker 5: was the thing, we would have been locked, sealed, delivered.
- 6:56Speaker 5: That's what it should have been.
- 6:58Speaker 3: They were trying to put him away because unfortunately, domestic
- 7:01Speaker 3: violence is not taking as serious as sex trafficking, So
- 7:04Speaker 3: they were trying to put him away with the sex
- 7:05Speaker 3: trafficking charges and they did a terrible job of proving that.
- 7:10Speaker 3: And yeah, but I do think I agree with you
- 7:12Speaker 3: telling I feel like the video is something that we're
- 7:14Speaker 3: never gonna forget.
- 7:14Speaker 4: That was an Ike Turner ass with him when he
- 7:16Speaker 4: was giving way.
- 7:18Speaker 3: When you know two people that got in the squabble
- 7:20Speaker 3: and Rihanna and Chris Brown, she get him. It was
- 7:23Speaker 3: him literally attacking this girl and she's trying to get away,
- 7:26Speaker 3: And people are not gonna forget that.
- 7:28Speaker 2: That's the difference.
- 7:29Speaker 3: Yeah, people aren't going to forget the visuals, just like
- 7:31Speaker 3: people bring up, you know Rihanna picture every time. You know,
- 7:34Speaker 3: people are not gonna forget it, So forget it.
- 7:36Speaker 5: But do you think he can come back as a
- 7:40Speaker 5: as a as an artist or as a mogul.
- 7:42Speaker 3: He would really have to give his life to the Lord,
- 7:45Speaker 3: like for real, for real, like not even it, wouldn't
- 7:48Speaker 3: he couldn't do no questionable stuff. I don't think he's
- 7:51Speaker 3: gonna do it.
- 7:51Speaker 2: I just think chilling.
- 7:52Speaker 1: I think chilling, you could fund he could do music,
- 7:55Speaker 1: get behind. I think no, he can't as an artist,
- 8:00Speaker 1: but I think he can say hey, Zach bug bad
- 8:04Speaker 1: boy artists. I think he could do it and fall
- 8:06Speaker 1: back and fall back. I think he can sign people
- 8:08Speaker 1: the bad Boy. He can't be front facing liquor.
- 8:12Speaker 2: He can't.
- 8:14Speaker 4: Nobody who's signing the bad Boy.
- 8:16Speaker 2: No, that's true. I mean, but I'm just hypothetically did
- 8:18Speaker 2: he will have to?
- 8:19Speaker 3: He needs to come out, rehabilitate his life, get right
- 8:22Speaker 3: with God, raise his kids, those daughters, raised them to
- 8:26Speaker 3: the best of his ability, and relax into his time.
- 8:29Speaker 2: Come all that other stuff he trying to he maybe
- 8:32Speaker 2: we not, No.
- 8:33Speaker 4: Did he don't do it?
- 8:34Speaker 3: I want to put the eyeballs on Twitter. Make me
- 8:36Speaker 3: think that he is ready to come with a rollout.
- 8:39Speaker 2: I see the rollout come that we're talking about.
- 8:45Speaker 5: Probably one of the most resilient people that we've seen,
- 8:47Speaker 5: and it can always change his image like he's he's
- 8:50Speaker 5: good at Brandon and marketing and changing his image. Will
- 8:52Speaker 5: it take a while. Yes, Do I think he could
- 8:55Speaker 5: drop a song and everybody forgive him.
- 8:56Speaker 2: No, he got talked to Michelle Obama, But.
- 8:58Speaker 5: It's gonna take a lot of apology, guys, and a
- 9:00Speaker 5: lot of conversation, a lot of doing stuff with you
- 9:05Speaker 5: being a woman activist type thing, and roll out the
- 9:09Speaker 5: girls group that he respects and honors. That's different. And
- 9:12Speaker 5: I think he could come back. I don't think if
- 9:15Speaker 5: it takes, I don't think it could be within the
- 9:16Speaker 5: next two years. But I don't think in twenty twenty seven,
- 9:20Speaker 5: twenty twenty eight people gonna be like.
- 9:23Speaker 2: Dismissing him the way that they are now.
- 9:25Speaker 5: I don't have and it's just because and I don't either,
- 9:28Speaker 5: But I just really think, look how people come back
- 9:31Speaker 5: so quick like people have.
- 9:32Speaker 2: We have a short attention span in media.
- 9:35Speaker 5: It ain't that he's a better person or anything or
- 9:37Speaker 5: less think, it's just attention span is so short. A
- 9:40Speaker 5: few years ago people don't forgot. Sadly, sadly, we don't
- 9:45Speaker 5: remember nothing.
- 9:46Speaker 2: Five year form you remember him. He got sentenced to
- 9:48Speaker 2: a time.
- 9:51Speaker 5: I don't remember five year. I don't remember five year five. Ye, No,
- 9:56Speaker 5: he see, and that's not let If Sabio had two songs,
- 10:03Speaker 5: how many songs do you have.
- 10:07Speaker 4: So you gotta honor?
- 10:09Speaker 2: Why because you got an honorable people do?
- 10:12Speaker 7: Bro?
- 10:12Speaker 6: I say you got hits? We are going let me
- 10:15Speaker 6: tell you something, how.
- 10:16Speaker 4: Many charts you've been.
- 10:23Speaker 2: Make one, make two records. You'll be like, he ain't
- 10:26Speaker 2: got no catalog like future though.
- 10:28Speaker 1: He ain't special, Bro, it's a verse in charts once
- 10:33Speaker 1: or twice in their career.
- 10:35Speaker 2: That's an accomplishment. Let me tell you something.
- 10:37Speaker 5: I ain't say he ain't accomplished nothing. I said five
- 10:40Speaker 5: yold FOURIGN, don't nobody care. Ain't nobody say he got
- 10:43Speaker 5: no damn hits. So that's what I'm saying. You are
- 10:47Speaker 5: over here talking about five yo fourn like he just
- 10:51Speaker 5: like we were like, oh we gotta have that new
- 10:53Speaker 5: five yo.
- 10:53Speaker 2: No, I ain't seen a.
- 10:54Speaker 6: Free five yeo shirt, text, tweet, nothing, And you know
- 10:59Speaker 6: why because old body cares.
- 11:01Speaker 5: He got Guess what, Tom, He got arrested in the
- 11:05Speaker 5: very beginning of his career, right before people could really
- 11:08Speaker 5: get vested.
- 11:08Speaker 2: People are not vested in five of yo FOURIGN.
- 11:12Speaker 5: If he was not on the run of show right now,
- 11:15Speaker 5: you wouldn't have mentioned him.
- 11:16Speaker 2: Did you know what he in jail?
- 11:17Speaker 5: Foe threatening terroristic threats. That's what they said right here.
- 11:21Speaker 2: Though exactly we don't even know. We don't know anybody
- 11:26Speaker 2: following this case.
- 11:28Speaker 1: My point being is this is if somebody, who do
- 11:31Speaker 1: you so let me ask you this question.
- 11:33Speaker 2: Let me ask you this question. One hit Wonders made
- 11:38Speaker 2: that I know.
- 11:39Speaker 1: I'm saying, people that have made one hit Wonders, do
- 11:42Speaker 1: you respect that career?
- 11:44Speaker 5: Yes, depends on the hit. I respect Jesse Powell, you
- 11:48Speaker 5: I respect Yeah, I respect mante Uh Jordan. And this
- 11:55Speaker 5: is how we do it. I respect a lot of
- 11:57Speaker 5: one hit Wonders who got major hits that packed culture.
- 12:01Speaker 5: I respect fly swag surfing they had. It was a
- 12:04Speaker 5: one hit wonder, but it was a hit that lasted
- 12:06Speaker 5: forever decade. Yes, five yoh four, and we won't be
- 12:09Speaker 5: talking about him.
- 12:11Speaker 2: What what hit are we like? Play that five yo?
- 12:15Speaker 2: He got one? What is the sound? Though? For real?
- 12:17Speaker 2: I got my memory exactly.
- 12:19Speaker 1: I respect one hit one he got him, though he
- 12:24Speaker 1: got two. He thank you rider. He Weddy nobody heard.
- 12:33Speaker 5: No damn Weddy sing Weddy exactly.
- 12:39Speaker 4: Whatever hit he got, Kanye he said he got.
- 12:45Speaker 1: To City of Gods is all Kanye West. Big drip
- 12:49Speaker 1: in twenty twenty. Big Drip was huge, Big Drip. That
- 12:54Speaker 1: was huge, bro?
- 12:56Speaker 2: What else was the other? Big Drip was the best one.
- 12:59Speaker 5: I think I remember that big Drip was Big Drip
- 13:01Speaker 5: was a big one dog. But nobody who cares now
- 13:04Speaker 5: it was just in that drill time when people.
- 13:05Speaker 1: Listening to that everything has its time, stamp on it, Zach,
- 13:09Speaker 1: when we talk about a one hit wonder, one that
- 13:12Speaker 1: you're talking about, remembering they last through generations, to last
- 13:15Speaker 1: through time. I said he had hits. I didn't say
- 13:18Speaker 1: he had one. I didn't say he was the one
- 13:19Speaker 1: hit wonder. I just wanted to see a respect level
- 13:22Speaker 1: for people that hadn't had multiple hits. He's had big
- 13:25Speaker 1: we played, We've played at least two five year foreign
- 13:29Speaker 1: records on I heeart. That's for two weeks. God's sake,
- 13:35Speaker 1: this man, I.
- 13:36Speaker 4: Mean, Zach, he said, Eliza, you know he got hits?
- 13:41Speaker 2: He does? Can you please have that? Is I forgot?
- 13:47Speaker 4: I don't like that?
- 13:49Speaker 2: Tell me that Jello got hit? Yeah.
- 13:51Speaker 5: So basically, if you put out a song, y let
- 13:54Speaker 5: me ask you. If you put out a song and
- 13:56Speaker 5: the radio plays it, is that demon get a hit?
- 14:00Speaker 2: Yes? Yes, you know how hard it is to get
- 14:04Speaker 2: on radio.
- 14:05Speaker 1: Not if you have money behind you. Oh my god,
- 14:07Speaker 1: it does No, it is not matter that it is
- 14:09Speaker 1: not true. It's not true. What you just said, it's
- 14:12Speaker 1: not true. So if you it's it's super hard. It's
- 14:17Speaker 1: super hard for you to get on air. I'm sitting
- 14:20Speaker 1: there looking at the playlist right now. I'm looking at
- 14:23Speaker 1: the playlist. How do you place something that's not a
- 14:26Speaker 1: hit between Marvin's Room, says Kendrick Withamar thirty for thirty,
- 14:31Speaker 1: Miguela Dorn Big Extra plug and Kendrick again with TV all.
- 14:36Speaker 1: If you get, if you're able to get your record
- 14:39Speaker 1: in that space of all of these big stars, you've
- 14:42Speaker 1: done something that's just a fair that's a fair conversation.
- 14:46Speaker 2: It's a conversation. But it doesn't. It's just you just
- 14:48Speaker 2: want to be right.
- 14:50Speaker 6: It's not it's not just want to be right. It's
- 14:51Speaker 6: just it's not. It's not why did we bring him up.
- 14:54Speaker 2: Because we got it. He got out of jail, because okay,
- 14:57Speaker 2: he got out of jail.
- 14:58Speaker 1: Yes, that's days until Zach said, nobody gives a ship.
- 15:04Speaker 2: We don't.
- 15:04Speaker 5: But okay, I'm gonna like I'm gonna act like the
- 15:06Speaker 5: world is bro be happy. I'm gonna act like the
- 15:09Speaker 5: world is happy that we know about and we know
- 15:11Speaker 5: about five year o form.
- 15:12Speaker 2: Congratulations. Now I'm happy to see a black man at Jim.
- 15:15Speaker 4: This is the most he didn't been talked about all year.
- 15:17Speaker 2: Oh my god, there's another piece of shade. If we
- 15:21Speaker 2: gonna tell the truth, can we move on? Thank you
- 15:25Speaker 2: very much.
- 15:26Speaker 1: Monica boyfriend Anthony aunt Wilson, sparked marriage rumors after the
- 15:31Speaker 1: new photos of them thanking the courthouse.
- 15:35Speaker 2: So, I mean Monica getting married? Quietly? Who is Anthony
- 15:38Speaker 2: aunt Wilson.
- 15:39Speaker 3: He's some executive that works with Chris Brown and I
- 15:42Speaker 3: like this for her.
- 15:43Speaker 6: Okay, he's an executive, the worker.
- 15:46Speaker 2: He looks like a street dude, a street dude.
- 15:47Speaker 3: I don't know, But that's Monica, like a good man
- 15:51Speaker 3: with some power.
- 15:53Speaker 4: And I love this on her.
- 15:54Speaker 2: Monica's a married Mary, a woman. Yeah, that's a wife.
- 15:59Speaker 1: It's something with a woman. Every dude that she deal
- 16:02Speaker 1: with marry her. Yes that dad, there's something to that. Yeah,
- 16:07Speaker 1: that's something to that. Ladies, you need.
- 16:09Speaker 4: Toya yep, yeah, yep.
- 16:13Speaker 1: Y'all need to talk to these women. Y'all need to
- 16:16Speaker 1: talk to the wait a minute, why.
- 16:20Speaker 4: You keep her husband?
- 16:22Speaker 1: But I want to know why he just made that face.
- 16:24Speaker 1: He just made the whole face, love, Monica. I ain't
- 16:26Speaker 1: got nothing to say about We.
- 16:27Speaker 2: Know you didn't. But she said toya, and then you
- 16:29Speaker 2: said something that I just laugh.
- 16:31Speaker 4: Toy, you keep her husband.
- 16:35Speaker 2: A different one, right, Yes, okay, you have to.
- 16:38Speaker 4: Trade y'all in every few years.
- 16:40Speaker 5: I just want to know if Okay, I'm just gonna
- 16:44Speaker 5: pose it. I'm just gonna pose this question. I just
- 16:47Speaker 5: want to pose a question. Don't hate I have to
- 16:49Speaker 5: be the antagonist today, but I just have to be.
- 16:51Speaker 5: I just want to post this question. If a man
- 16:53Speaker 5: continuously gets married to different women he's in his fourth
- 16:56Speaker 5: fifth marriage, people be like, oh that's you know, he
- 17:00Speaker 5: can't keep it. Do what's going on with him? People
- 17:03Speaker 5: will start to question his relationships. Now on the other
- 17:07Speaker 5: flip side of the woman continue to get be getting wifed.
- 17:11Speaker 5: We can we congratulate that and say, well, she keep
- 17:14Speaker 5: her husband.
- 17:15Speaker 2: So which one is?
- 17:15Speaker 3: It's not even a double center, it's just the optics.
- 17:19Speaker 4: Like men, y'all have to choose a wife.
- 17:21Speaker 3: So y'all can go around and choose how many you
- 17:23Speaker 3: won't women can't propose to themselves that, you know, I
- 17:26Speaker 3: got to make a man want to marry me.
- 17:28Speaker 2: Come on.
- 17:29Speaker 3: So it's like, yeah, it's the difference, and that's how
- 17:32Speaker 3: society has just made it. Like, you know, women, it's
- 17:35Speaker 3: surprised when we are chosen by a man versus you know, well,
- 17:40Speaker 3: I'm not surprised.
- 17:41Speaker 1: I mean, I think the first you had to throw
- 17:44Speaker 1: that bs at the end of it lost it up.
- 17:46Speaker 1: But I do think I give women credit. I give
- 17:50Speaker 1: women credit for it is to be able to be married,
- 17:54Speaker 1: to make dudes want to propose, Like, no, dude is
- 17:57Speaker 1: just trying to date Monica and trying to They're like,
- 17:59Speaker 1: I'm it's gonna long term term date you whatever Monica
- 18:03Speaker 1: got going on with Monica, every single dude and most
- 18:07Speaker 1: of these dudes if he's Chris Brown's manager or whatever,
- 18:10Speaker 1: he got motion. He got every dude that she's ever
- 18:13Speaker 1: that had motion and women around him.
- 18:16Speaker 2: And they see they start messing with her and be like,
- 18:18Speaker 2: I'm cool.
- 18:19Speaker 4: He worked closely with fifty cent to I think.
- 18:21Speaker 2: That's something to be said about that. I love Monica.
- 18:23Speaker 2: I ain't got nothing bad say.
- 18:24Speaker 1: Oh no, no, nice person. I'm looking forward to the show.
- 18:29Speaker 1: Y'a y'all gonna go to the Brandy and Monica show.
- 18:31Speaker 4: I want to you know who else is at that show?
- 18:34Speaker 4: Who was Money?
- 18:36Speaker 2: I'm gonna get that. Yeah, oh wow, you gotta stop that.
- 18:42Speaker 1: I'm gonna go buy some merch, give me some boys,
- 18:47Speaker 1: come back and give it to my daughter's Like, yo,
- 18:49Speaker 1: I got.
- 18:49Speaker 2: Little girls, you know what I mean?
- 18:50Speaker 1: Like Brandy's the first celebrity that my trinity ever met.
- 18:54Speaker 2: And I got a whole little picture of.
- 18:56Speaker 4: It with Brandy.
- 18:57Speaker 2: Yeah, oh that's the studio. So I'm gonna go get
- 18:59Speaker 2: us a burro? Boy is mind? Merchant? Ship it out?
- 19:02Speaker 2: That's cool. Shout out to Money. It's gonna do a
- 19:05Speaker 2: great job on that stage. Who Kelly rowan to? Yes,
- 19:08Speaker 2: that's gonna be done, Kelly. I watched Kelly Kelly m hm.
- 19:13Speaker 2: So you're gonna leave on Money long, get on them.
- 19:15Speaker 1: I just got a fake beef for it. Ain't okay,
- 19:18Speaker 1: And I definitely Shay. I think she's super chalented. I
- 19:20Speaker 1: know I hated that it went sour like that. Shout
- 19:23Speaker 1: out to our old program director Johnny D who fucked
- 19:25Speaker 1: that ship up for me, got me asked that dumb
- 19:28Speaker 1: ass question that lady mad at me.
- 19:31Speaker 2: Shout out to Johnny Man. New smile.
- 19:35Speaker 1: Johnny got a new smile. Shout out Johnny left his moke.
- 19:39Speaker 1: It got a smile.
- 19:41Speaker 2: It's the glow smile. I shout out to man, Johnny
- 19:45Speaker 2: is a good person.
- 19:46Speaker 3: But yeah, congrats to Monica if she is indeed married.
- 19:49Speaker 2: Absolutely and you know in a courthouse, of course they're married.
- 19:53Speaker 3: Women who are not married are just as successful and
- 19:55Speaker 3: great as well. And shout out. You know what I'm saying.
- 19:59Speaker 3: I know people get me how they want to know,
- 20:01Speaker 3: we not know not. I was I was gonna let
- 20:05Speaker 3: you get out of this. I was like, I'm not
- 20:06Speaker 3: gonna I don't want to fight with you today with
- 20:09Speaker 3: your dog. I was gonna let you do that. But okay,
- 20:12Speaker 3: so what do you lonely men do? What do you
- 20:15Speaker 3: play the game?
- 20:16Speaker 2: You know? Go to the club.
- 20:21Speaker 4: Shout out all the lonely people.
- 20:23Speaker 2: I know you.
- 20:27Speaker 4: I was gonna let us laugh.
- 20:30Speaker 5: Like you.
- 20:35Speaker 2: We did the whole marriage and we get out of this.
- 20:39Speaker 2: But I gotta ask you this. Okay, here we go.
- 20:42Speaker 2: I want today.
- 20:44Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't know, go ahead, I gotta ask you.
- 20:50Speaker 1: Don't think you don't want to it is it's still
- 20:54Speaker 1: it goes for men and women. I like, see you
- 20:57Speaker 1: like to take women's side. I take both. I stayed
- 21:00Speaker 1: in the middle. You don't think that there are people
- 21:03Speaker 1: that will that the way they are are marrying type
- 21:06Speaker 1: of people. They like they whether God presents as a
- 21:10Speaker 1: husband and a woman presents as a wife.
- 21:13Speaker 2: They don't think that those type of people are out there.
- 21:16Speaker 3: Absolutely, But I know a lot of male horse and
- 21:19Speaker 3: female horse that are married as well, and they don't
- 21:22Speaker 3: necessarily be you're not a married person, you're not a
- 21:24Speaker 3: marrying type of person, but you can go get married.
- 21:26Speaker 3: Marriage is not something that's so hard.
- 21:29Speaker 5: We saying hordes that we're talking about because they sexually
- 21:32Speaker 5: they like to have a lot of sex.
- 21:33Speaker 3: Or they have like they're not true to their cheat.
- 21:36Speaker 3: You know, like I know a lot of people that
- 21:37Speaker 3: are married that are horse.
- 21:39Speaker 5: So you don't think let's just take let's let's just
- 21:41Speaker 5: leave sex right there, let's leave sex right there. Yes,
- 21:44Speaker 5: you don't think that the people that have those that
- 21:47Speaker 5: that that quality. I still marry and type because sometimes
- 21:51Speaker 5: those people that is a that is a fault or
- 21:53Speaker 5: whatever on either side, right, but they they either people
- 21:56Speaker 5: that take real good care, they're thoughtful to their partner.
- 22:00Speaker 2: There's a lot of different other things.
- 22:01Speaker 1: So people tend to put up with those cheaters because
- 22:04Speaker 1: they possess like it's like a woman that got a
- 22:07Speaker 1: high body count a guy that has a lot of
- 22:09Speaker 1: body body count. But when you in it with that person,
- 22:13Speaker 1: it's it's a it's a different type of feeling.
- 22:16Speaker 3: I guess what I'm saying to you is that, like,
- 22:18Speaker 3: you know, offset got married, do we look at him
- 22:21Speaker 3: as the marrying type.
- 22:22Speaker 4: No, he got married.
- 22:25Speaker 3: Because what you're trying to position is like some women
- 22:28Speaker 3: are better women because they are the marrying type.
- 22:31Speaker 2: It's I don't say.
- 22:32Speaker 1: They better better women. I'm saying that there's some people
- 22:37Speaker 1: men and women. I don't think a man that's that
- 22:40Speaker 1: a woman would look at as a husband as a
- 22:42Speaker 1: better man than me. I just think that some people
- 22:45Speaker 1: have the ability to hit all the buttons all the
- 22:49Speaker 1: time for their partner all of the they just they
- 22:52Speaker 1: hit them at They don't mean they better than anybody,
- 22:54Speaker 1: but look at.
- 22:55Speaker 5: Like a person like Kim Kardashian, some women is maryon
- 22:58Speaker 5: type and some ain't. It don't make you better, but
- 23:02Speaker 5: some that's what But some are easier to work with facts,
- 23:07Speaker 5: you know, than others. And I think some guys are
- 23:09Speaker 5: easier to work with than others. So it's it's some
- 23:12Speaker 5: people that are better at partnership, you know what I'm saying, regardless.
- 23:15Speaker 6: Of what they do outside of their live or whatever, it.
- 23:18Speaker 2: Is better at partnership than others.
- 23:19Speaker 3: You know, some people are in partnership and then they
- 23:21Speaker 3: ain't even loyal to their partner.
- 23:23Speaker 1: But I'm saying, like we could just use me as
- 23:26Speaker 1: the same. Oh boy, I'm gonna go here. So let's
- 23:31Speaker 1: say I don't have I make the money.
- 23:34Speaker 2: That I make.
- 23:34Speaker 4: Do you think you're marrying type?
- 23:36Speaker 2: I think the woman's gonna have to be a special lady.
- 23:38Speaker 3: Though another question wasn't about you not the woman? Do
- 23:41Speaker 3: you think you are marriage material?
- 23:44Speaker 2: Now? I am, so do you think today? Today? So
- 23:49Speaker 2: I guess the question is what about this weekend?
- 23:51Speaker 4: You're still don't be married? Said right now? Like right now,
- 23:56Speaker 4: right now?
- 23:57Speaker 2: Yes, tonight, height on Saturday.
- 24:01Speaker 1: No, I don't know you little tricky, get a little
- 24:06Speaker 1: don't ask me after nine funny but no, no, I'm
- 24:12Speaker 1: saying that a person that makes the type of bread
- 24:15Speaker 1: that I make and has the success of it. But
- 24:18Speaker 1: does not have the lifestyle. He goes to work, he
- 24:21Speaker 1: comes home. It's a a woman is going to I
- 24:25Speaker 1: feel like be like, Oh I could marry a guy
- 24:28Speaker 1: like that.
- 24:29Speaker 2: He's successful.
- 24:30Speaker 1: This this, this what makes me will women look a
- 24:33Speaker 1: little sideways at me? Is because of the lifestyle, the
- 24:36Speaker 1: things that come with this type of job. So I
- 24:39Speaker 1: think it'd be more women to be willing to take
- 24:42Speaker 1: a chance on me if I wasn't in this type
- 24:44Speaker 1: of field.
- 24:45Speaker 2: But that's never gonna change. This is who I am
- 24:47Speaker 2: for the rest of my life.
- 24:48Speaker 3: But okay, so say I take the money out. Now,
- 24:51Speaker 3: you brought up money. I did not bring up money,
- 24:53Speaker 3: right right, I can take back you brought it up,
- 24:57Speaker 3: take it saying I didn't say that.
- 25:00Speaker 2: You said that. So we take away the money.
- 25:02Speaker 3: Outside of that, do you have the other qualities, the loyalty,
- 25:06Speaker 3: the time that you would you know, the considering ship
- 25:09Speaker 3: that you I don't know, I.
- 25:09Speaker 2: Don't know that work.
- 25:11Speaker 3: Yeah, you consideration for somebody's family, the like you got
- 25:15Speaker 3: to want to deal with people in your in laws.
- 25:18Speaker 3: You know, y'all might have other kids, step kids and
- 25:20Speaker 3: things like that. Do you have those qualities you think
- 25:23Speaker 3: outside of the success and outside of no.
- 25:26Speaker 1: I think that I've gotten less selfish in my in
- 25:29Speaker 1: my older age because it was so me, me, me,
- 25:32Speaker 1: me me. I think now I care about what people
- 25:35Speaker 1: got going on. I've always had like outside kids, I
- 25:38Speaker 1: would be crazy. The way my family is set up
- 25:40Speaker 1: be crazy for me to care. I've taken care of
- 25:42Speaker 1: kids that weren't mine before. I love them to death
- 25:44Speaker 1: till still of this day.
- 25:48Speaker 4: You know that they carer Mama move in with y'all.
- 25:50Speaker 1: Her mama harm like Usually it's only like one maybe
- 25:56Speaker 1: girlfriend's mama and that I was like, eh, But usually
- 25:58Speaker 1: the in laws, the people that they cool, super cool with,
- 26:02Speaker 1: I'm cool. I've never had, you know, usually doing the
- 26:06Speaker 1: family stuff because I didn't my family soul like this
- 26:10Speaker 1: and and and it's really a lot of busy people.
- 26:12Speaker 2: That's why I get this from.
- 26:14Speaker 1: So I'm always when I become a part of somebody's
- 26:17Speaker 1: family that that you know, they got them famili to
- 26:20Speaker 1: be like Yo, on Wednesday, were here, it's such a
- 26:22Speaker 1: such birthday here, it's such and such this.
- 26:24Speaker 2: I like that. That don't bother me. Okay, so you
- 26:27Speaker 2: might be marriage material today today night.
- 26:30Speaker 5: Probably let me tell you something. Let me tell you
- 26:36Speaker 5: something that y'all both missing.
- 26:38Speaker 4: Yeah, please as the one with the experience, yo.
- 26:41Speaker 5: Something that missing. It ain't even that, it's just the
- 26:44Speaker 5: fact that you you know. The people that I know
- 26:49Speaker 5: who are single and not in relationships have a similar quality. Okay,
- 26:55Speaker 5: and the quality is called that you don't piss me
- 26:57Speaker 5: off quality.
- 26:58Speaker 2: Okay.
- 26:59Speaker 5: So the people that I know who are single, when
- 27:02Speaker 5: when they get upset about something with whoever they.
- 27:05Speaker 2: Dealing with, they done, they done. It don't be a
- 27:10Speaker 2: lot of get back.
- 27:11Speaker 5: What makes you marriage quality, in my opinion, is being
- 27:14Speaker 5: able to get back after the mess up, get back
- 27:17Speaker 5: after the thing, the hang and working it out. A
- 27:21Speaker 5: lot of people that I know that they don't really
- 27:23Speaker 5: have it. They be like you did this, you done,
- 27:25Speaker 5: piss me off, I'm out of here. That's and it
- 27:28Speaker 5: ain't the fact that they're doing this or that what
- 27:30Speaker 5: life is this style of this so much money? No,
- 27:32Speaker 5: it's the fact that they usually I have a friend
- 27:35Speaker 5: and he knows what I'm talking about. This brother every
- 27:38Speaker 5: time I'll be like, he go he go hard for
- 27:40Speaker 5: the togeter once he gets the chick, I already know.
- 27:44Speaker 5: I'd be like, if the countdown start, you can to
- 27:46Speaker 5: find something and he just finds something wrong.
- 27:49Speaker 2: He'd be like, bro, I can't even do it.
- 27:51Speaker 8: Just you ever meet the girl that's just like to
- 27:58Speaker 8: growing at night, right and then in the morning, but
- 28:02Speaker 8: then in the afternoon, I'd be like, you can't be
- 28:03Speaker 8: using all my walk.
- 28:04Speaker 2: And you're like, what are you talking about.
- 28:06Speaker 5: He'll just come up with stuff and then believe it,
- 28:09Speaker 5: and then he's on to the next and just on
- 28:11Speaker 5: the cereal. And U see, the people who I think
- 28:13Speaker 5: a marriage material usually just have more stick out in them.
- 28:16Speaker 2: They just stick it out.
- 28:17Speaker 3: So that's a that's an important piece. You do have
- 28:19Speaker 3: to be willing to work through all of life ups
- 28:23Speaker 3: and downs. Oh yeah, that's growing together, that's career changes,
- 28:27Speaker 3: that's family issues, health issues. You do have to be
- 28:30Speaker 3: willing to stick it out with somebody.
- 28:32Speaker 1: Yeah, that was my I ain't gonna lie, that's what
- 28:34Speaker 1: you said. I was like, Yo, somebody, dude, you be pissed.
- 28:38Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gone, Yeah, I'm gone.
- 28:40Speaker 2: I'm gone.
- 28:40Speaker 1: Now, if you somebody that I like and we're gonna,
- 28:45Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna give it a lot. I give
- 28:47Speaker 1: a lot of leeway, like a lot like I was
- 28:49Speaker 1: in a relationship that was for a long time, and
- 28:51Speaker 1: Zach zach Noran, he'd be like, man, I would tell
- 28:54Speaker 1: him stuff, his eyes would get big. I was like,
- 28:56Speaker 1: it was like, yo, yeah, but I'm gonna try to
- 28:59Speaker 1: figure it out but before now. But I will say,
- 29:02Speaker 1: there is a for me, and I think it's some
- 29:05Speaker 1: other people out there like that, pot families like that.
- 29:08Speaker 1: There is a window of red flags. If you hit
- 29:12Speaker 1: a red flag in this window, I'm gone. If you
- 29:17Speaker 1: hit a red flag. All right, let's get to Let's
- 29:19Speaker 1: get to this Nick Cannon. Nick Cannon is always fun
- 29:22Speaker 1: to listen to. Take a listen to what he's talking about.
- 29:26Speaker 2: You say that you used to be a player?
- 29:28Speaker 5: What changed for you?
- 29:30Speaker 2: What is it now? Is the ages? Okay, there it is.
- 29:33Speaker 2: Let's start a little bit of all of that.
- 29:34Speaker 1: Because I had the U I had the mic on
- 29:37Speaker 1: doing that conversation. Let's do this all right, there.
- 29:40Speaker 2: Say that you used to be a player? What changed
- 29:43Speaker 2: for you? What is it now? Is it age? Is
- 29:45Speaker 2: it just experience?
- 29:46Speaker 7: I think it's a little bit of all of that,
- 29:48Speaker 7: but definitely fatherhood more than anything.
- 29:50Speaker 2: I mean, when you have five daughters and you're like,
- 29:53Speaker 2: all right, I.
- 29:54Speaker 7: Gotta I at least want to be able to be
- 29:56Speaker 7: true and honest. But like, I can't live the same
- 29:59Speaker 7: life that I've always been living in, you know, attempt
- 30:02Speaker 7: to you know, right, my wrongs in that sense of
- 30:05Speaker 7: where like hopefully my my daughters learned from my mistakes
- 30:10Speaker 7: and not date people like their dad.
- 30:15Speaker 1: That's that's a strong statement. That sounds like a man
- 30:18Speaker 1: that took a look at his life and was like.
- 30:20Speaker 5: Yikes, Tone, you got a daughter, would you yes, yes, yes,
- 30:25Speaker 5: yes kind of you got a daughter three? So you,
- 30:29Speaker 5: as a man with three daughters, would you want somebody?
- 30:35Speaker 2: Would you want your daughter to date somebody like you? Nah? Nah?
- 30:39Speaker 1: Not not not twenty something year old Tone Capone, No,
- 30:43Speaker 1: I wouldn't.
- 30:44Speaker 2: Uh.
- 30:44Speaker 1: You know that's why I you know, the men in
- 30:47Speaker 1: my family we are we say generational curses like and
- 30:51Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say like I've been around my dad
- 30:53Speaker 1: one hundred percent, but I've lived his life not even
- 30:56Speaker 1: knowing it. I've lived three baby mamas, my uncles. I
- 31:02Speaker 1: would God rest my uncle soul. I listened to what
- 31:05Speaker 1: he what he had going on my uncles. It's a
- 31:07Speaker 1: generational curse.
- 31:08Speaker 9: You.
- 31:08Speaker 2: I have no clue how it happened.
- 31:11Speaker 1: So I'm very cognizant with my son, like, yo, fam,
- 31:15Speaker 1: you got to be the one to get to stop
- 31:17Speaker 1: this shit, got the all stop you please, Like he
- 31:21Speaker 1: got to stop. But you know, it's also what I
- 31:24Speaker 1: tell my daughter when she was dating somebody at one
- 31:27Speaker 1: point and I called him the dancy dude. He danced
- 31:32Speaker 1: for somebody and I was like, Babe, this is not
- 31:36Speaker 1: a dancer at twenty something years old.
- 31:39Speaker 2: It's on tour. It's faithful. I want to tell you that.
- 31:42Speaker 1: I said, I said, don't you listen to nothing A
- 31:46Speaker 1: man tells you from the age nineteen to about thirty
- 31:51Speaker 1: three thirty four, don't listen to it. He got to
- 31:55Speaker 1: work to get you.
- 31:57Speaker 2: Always side eyed.
- 31:59Speaker 1: And she is like, you know, my daughter like her dad,
- 32:03Speaker 1: she gotta you know, she gonna do it her way.
- 32:05Speaker 1: But she every time things were and she would be
- 32:07Speaker 1: like this, and I say that like for me. You
- 32:11Speaker 1: know when niggas say, you take a look at your
- 32:13Speaker 1: life and you look at the mistakes that you've made. Cause,
- 32:15Speaker 1: like I tell people, I was free. I don't know
- 32:17Speaker 1: how Nick grew up. I was free balling it. I
- 32:19Speaker 1: ain't know what the fuck to do. Yeah, I'm just
- 32:21Speaker 1: out here.
- 32:22Speaker 2: Yeah, so it was you know what I mean, that's real.
- 32:23Speaker 3: Though I wish more fathers would be transparent about who
- 32:28Speaker 3: they were at twenty to they daughters, because a lot
- 32:31Speaker 3: of times fathers are just showing their children who they
- 32:33Speaker 3: are today, which is a man that's already mature, he've
- 32:36Speaker 3: been through. Now you settle down with your mama, and
- 32:38Speaker 3: you you grow up thinking that men are like your father,
- 32:41Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like he's gonna be a
- 32:42Speaker 3: good man, he gonna take care of me, he's gonna
- 32:44Speaker 3: be my prince charming, when your daddy really should be
- 32:47Speaker 3: like baby, ain't no man good until about thirty something
- 32:50Speaker 3: in the mid thirty fifty.
- 32:52Speaker 4: At this point, they ain't good. You know what I'm saying.
- 32:54Speaker 3: Somebody need to be more transparent with young girls and
- 32:57Speaker 3: let them know that because we grow up with this
- 32:59Speaker 3: expectation of like I grew up holding all men to
- 33:02Speaker 3: the standard of my brothers, Like my brothers treat me
- 33:05Speaker 3: like a queen. So I'm like, oh, me and I
- 33:08Speaker 3: get in a relationship with they gonna be They're gonna
- 33:09Speaker 3: be like my brothers.
- 33:11Speaker 2: And y'all ain't ship.
- 33:12Speaker 3: So it's like, you know, you should be. You should
- 33:14Speaker 3: be very transparent with your daughters and honest about who
- 33:17Speaker 3: you were at twenty and tell them.
- 33:19Speaker 2: Tell them the truth. I cheated on your mom. Your
- 33:20Speaker 2: mama been through some stuff. I've been, Yeah, your father
- 33:24Speaker 2: been through it. Tell the truth right.
- 33:26Speaker 3: Tell them, like, look, I don't want you to you gonna.
- 33:29Speaker 3: You might go through some stuff with some with a
- 33:30Speaker 3: young man, but don't get in a relationship thinking that's
- 33:32Speaker 3: your husband.
- 33:33Speaker 4: Date everybody.
- 33:34Speaker 1: Yes, my god, oh my god, I'm so scared.
- 33:42Speaker 6: I don't know what I would.
- 33:44Speaker 2: You got a son, you don't have to worry about.
- 33:45Speaker 5: It right now. But if I had a daughter, I'm
- 33:48Speaker 5: going on, No, it ain't no announcement. Ain't no announcement.
- 33:53Speaker 2: Once you got a little one on a way, not
- 33:56Speaker 2: at all.
- 33:56Speaker 5: If I do, hopefully it's another boy, but no, I
- 34:01Speaker 5: just get scared of that, Like I'm really having want
- 34:05Speaker 5: a female child.
- 34:06Speaker 6: Scared the hell out of me because I don't know
- 34:08Speaker 6: what to do.
- 34:09Speaker 2: They're the best, but I'm so scared.
- 34:11Speaker 5: I know, first of all, I know everything they would
- 34:13Speaker 5: ask for. I would say yes or make away. I
- 34:15Speaker 5: know that, right, But outside of all my yeses.
- 34:19Speaker 2: I don't know. I wouldn't know what to do, Like
- 34:20Speaker 2: what do I like? What do I teach?
- 34:22Speaker 1: You?
- 34:22Speaker 7: Like?
- 34:23Speaker 5: Be like this with guys, cause see what happens is
- 34:26Speaker 5: the players, the dudes who was players that have daughters,
- 34:29Speaker 5: they usually are the aggressive ones who be like, don't.
- 34:31Speaker 2: Do this, you can't date till this time.
- 34:34Speaker 5: You can't do this, you can't do that, you can't
- 34:35Speaker 5: do that, and then you just become this negative thing
- 34:37Speaker 5: in their ear. And then now they just because think
- 34:39Speaker 5: about it, the most strict daddies had the freakiest child
- 34:42Speaker 5: growing up. Acts you know that the one that wouldn't
- 34:45Speaker 5: let they do it, to do nothing, couldn't walk, couldn't
- 34:47Speaker 5: go to the stove. You know those daddies when they
- 34:50Speaker 5: when they do it went to high school, that was
- 34:53Speaker 5: that was the freak of the week. It's because they
- 34:55Speaker 5: didn't it was no no, it was no freedom. So
- 34:58Speaker 5: they were just rebelling and just knew and whatever.
- 35:01Speaker 2: And I remember that.
- 35:02Speaker 5: So I'm just like, that ain't the way to be
- 35:04Speaker 5: scared to be super bit. But then you gotta you
- 35:06Speaker 5: want to tell them and have give them, give them
- 35:08Speaker 5: the game, give them, yeah, but then you gotta trust
- 35:11Speaker 5: them to implement the game.
- 35:13Speaker 4: Yes, yes you do and you can. You can.
- 35:16Speaker 3: You can trust them if you've raised your child up
- 35:18Speaker 3: right and you give them all the values. When they
- 35:20Speaker 3: come up against a challenge, they only know how to
- 35:22Speaker 3: revert to the values you gave them.
- 35:24Speaker 6: But what if I want them to give them that
- 35:25Speaker 6: little up at all?
- 35:27Speaker 4: The gonna get gave up?
- 35:31Speaker 2: Yepy.
- 35:37Speaker 3: My sister was one of the realists. I she the
- 35:40Speaker 3: best parent in the world. She took me and I thought,
- 35:42Speaker 3: I don't remember how old I was, But when she
- 35:44Speaker 3: knew the coach was about to get gave up, It's
- 35:46Speaker 3: like she had spiders sensce we went to the doctor.
- 35:48Speaker 3: I thought he was going for a regular checkup and
- 35:50Speaker 3: doctor said anything else. She said, she needs Burke patrol.
- 35:52Speaker 3: And I'm like, how do you know this? But again,
- 35:55Speaker 3: the couchie gonna get gave up, so you might as well.
- 35:58Speaker 2: You gotta.
- 35:58Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you you gotta what we got going
- 36:01Speaker 1: on here?
- 36:02Speaker 2: Yeah, radio, we can talk about oh boy, getting gave up. Well,
- 36:11Speaker 2: teach your children.
- 36:12Speaker 1: I know I'd like for me because I remember I
- 36:15Speaker 1: didn't listen to nothing. My grandma said nothing did not
- 36:18Speaker 1: not necessarily to her face, not nothing to her face.
- 36:22Speaker 2: She'd be like no, no, no, no.
- 36:23Speaker 1: My grandma was like I got it from n She
- 36:26Speaker 1: just gonna lecture you about anything. You just standing around,
- 36:29Speaker 1: She just gonna start talking to you about something about life.
- 36:32Speaker 1: But those in those conversations like yeah grandma, yeah, grandma,
- 36:35Speaker 1: But all of those different conversations, when I ran up
- 36:39Speaker 1: against something, I heard it like oh oh yeah, this
- 36:42Speaker 1: is what she was talking about.
- 36:43Speaker 2: So that's all I do. With my daughters.
- 36:45Speaker 1: I just they they they talk about me to this day.
- 36:49Speaker 1: They're like, dad, gonna hit us, hit you with a lecture.
- 36:51Speaker 1: You getting a teed talk in the car.
- 36:53Speaker 9: Yes, getting one, and you never forget though, So she
- 36:57Speaker 9: gonna she gonna hit she hear them she him and
- 37:00Speaker 9: then like like I'm thinking with your daughters, like I
- 37:02Speaker 9: tell like I been about telling my daughter because she
- 37:04Speaker 9: just again they don't listen.
- 37:06Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, I said, baby, you got
- 37:08Speaker 1: daddy feet. You dont have to keep them boys done
- 37:10Speaker 1: all the time.
- 37:14Speaker 2: How did we get tell my daughter.
- 37:20Speaker 1: Like I'll be talking to my daughter's like hey, look
- 37:24Speaker 1: all my kids. I was like, look, you want to
- 37:27Speaker 1: make sure this is done. You want to make sure
- 37:29Speaker 1: this is all women. Look at this son. Dudes, look
- 37:32Speaker 1: at this baby, like, don't you don't want to be
- 37:35Speaker 1: the daughter because because kids, I try to all the
- 37:38Speaker 1: things that I didn't know growing up that I didn't
- 37:41Speaker 1: know growing up.
- 37:41Speaker 2: So I was trying to tell them.
- 37:43Speaker 1: I'm like, because I don't think my kids have my personality,
- 37:46Speaker 1: the defense mechanism. I could tell jokes, I could get
- 37:48Speaker 1: on you. I can. I don't think they got that.
- 37:51Speaker 4: So it's a new generation.
- 37:53Speaker 1: Yeah, so I like yo, I like, hey, hey, baby,
- 37:56Speaker 1: you ain't go to high school in a minute. He
- 37:59Speaker 1: always got to be you, right, Ain't no playing with that,
- 38:02Speaker 1: Ain't no playing with your nails, Ain't no playing with
- 38:03Speaker 1: your feet. And you know you always gonna because if
- 38:06Speaker 1: you don't, people gonna look at you a certain way. Fact,
- 38:09Speaker 1: you gotta be on that son. You gotta do this,
- 38:11Speaker 1: You gotta do that. I was like, man, you a dude.
- 38:14Speaker 1: You're gonna have to take showers a couple of times
- 38:16Speaker 1: a day. You know, they're just differently. You cannot don't
- 38:21Speaker 1: skip a the older and days you musty doe. You're
- 38:23Speaker 1: a musty dude. Yeah that's all I said.
- 38:25Speaker 2: Those are my look.
- 38:26Speaker 5: Yeah, grooming stuff always you gotta give me. But I
- 38:29Speaker 5: just feel like it's so much. Since I have a son,
- 38:31Speaker 5: it's easier for me to just like I know what
- 38:32Speaker 5: to do with him because I feel like I'm raising
- 38:35Speaker 5: myself for a little bit but a little different, you
- 38:37Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. So I could just when he
- 38:39Speaker 5: gets frustrated, it's it's just funny. I can be like, Okay,
- 38:42Speaker 5: I know what's going on here.
- 38:43Speaker 2: But the girl, I would just freak out. I can't
- 38:46Speaker 2: wait to see go ask your mama.
- 38:48Speaker 4: I can't wait to see you have a girl.
- 38:51Speaker 2: Hold on now, Oh yeah, it's coming.
- 38:54Speaker 4: Zach Aryah.
- 38:56Speaker 1: Zachariah is wild. He's gonna name he named his first daughter.
- 39:05Speaker 5: Kay, she's gonna have a regular name is not bad.
- 39:12Speaker 2: I've got her name.
- 39:13Speaker 5: It's black as hell. If you can see that, my
- 39:15Speaker 5: child is black on there.
- 39:17Speaker 2: The name. I'm not doing it. The name is kind
- 39:20Speaker 2: of I don't do that. I don't do that. I
- 39:24Speaker 2: don't like it. I don't want to. They can tell
- 39:27Speaker 2: what he is on the resume. Her name. She came off.
- 39:34Speaker 2: That's so now she went crazy. Listen, gotta be around
- 39:40Speaker 2: a big singer to heard come. Oh oh did she
- 39:46Speaker 2: say that? She said she's a big single. She said
- 39:48Speaker 2: come f me, come yeah something, that's how single she is.
- 39:53Speaker 2: That was sexy Red.
- 39:54Speaker 5: H okay, make you want to go get sexy Red
- 39:57Speaker 5: give us something.
- 40:00Speaker 2: I don't.
- 40:00Speaker 5: I don't like it when instead aggressive, you know, and
- 40:05Speaker 5: I like that talk when it's like if she was
- 40:09Speaker 5: talking just to me, I would like that, you know
- 40:11Speaker 5: what I'm saying, Like she was just talking to me.
- 40:14Speaker 5: But if you put that on a public platform, that's
- 40:16Speaker 5: not attractive to me.
- 40:17Speaker 2: Sexy read is for the hood. But I get it that,
- 40:20Speaker 2: I get it what she does. That is it is.
- 40:23Speaker 1: Something why in and he's so turned on right now here?
- 40:27Speaker 1: Don't know what to do it itself.
- 40:29Speaker 3: Kiki sexy read Olivia life sis, I ain't that much
- 40:35Speaker 3: for that, she said, she won't it.
- 40:37Speaker 4: Come somebody gonna give it to us?
- 40:38Speaker 3: Yes, she gonna get it. Just screams antibiotics. No, I
- 40:45Speaker 3: don't know.
- 40:47Speaker 1: Okay, somebody Kiki didn't stick up for it.
- 40:51Speaker 2: All right, let's go. This is interesting? How about it? Man?
- 40:55Speaker 1: Could you be married and not live with your spouse?
- 40:57Speaker 1: Chryl Lee Ralph Ralph h and her husband just celebrated
- 41:01Speaker 1: twenty years of marriage, but their relationship has gone viral
- 41:05Speaker 1: because they don't live together. She's in caliac then, and
- 41:08Speaker 1: he's a member of the Pennsylvania State Senate.
- 41:12Speaker 5: Well, I get why they do it, and you know
- 41:14Speaker 5: what I'm saying, that's not my beasts, because if they
- 41:15Speaker 5: did twenty years and they happy, that's that's good with them. Now,
- 41:19Speaker 5: your question was what I could I do it? No,
- 41:23Speaker 5: I wish like I think that they're dope. But for me,
- 41:25Speaker 5: I don't know if I could do that. I'm a lover.
- 41:29Speaker 5: I like to cuddle. I want to talk to you,
- 41:32Speaker 5: I want to smell you. I want to watch movies
- 41:35Speaker 5: with you at night. I want us to have a
- 41:37Speaker 5: show that we mad about if you watch something without me.
- 41:40Speaker 5: I want you to cook for me Like I like that.
- 41:43Speaker 5: That's the type of love. What's the point of having
- 41:44Speaker 5: a relationship. If I can't do that stuff, I might
- 41:46Speaker 5: as well be outside because that's the stuff I like.
- 41:51Speaker 6: I want my backbrug. I like all that. That's I
- 41:54Speaker 6: don't know.
- 41:57Speaker 2: How much that's the relations that I like to do.
- 41:59Speaker 5: Like you, we're gonna go home, I might as well
- 42:02Speaker 5: if I go my house, you go to your house
- 42:04Speaker 5: that far, I might as well.
- 42:05Speaker 2: I'm with you.
- 42:06Speaker 3: That's why I'm always shocking up with somebody because I
- 42:09Speaker 3: like to.
- 42:10Speaker 5: Be like, don't go home, right, Yeah, why are you going?
- 42:16Speaker 2: Why I made breakfast. You might stay a little bit.
- 42:21Speaker 2: It's okay, you should get quiet, let him space. I
- 42:26Speaker 2: just I don't know.
- 42:27Speaker 4: I love a house.
- 42:29Speaker 2: I love somebody at home. You know what I'm saying.
- 42:31Speaker 4: I don't know what that is about.
- 42:33Speaker 2: It's sec play the game. Did he play the game? No?
- 42:36Speaker 4: My ex used to play video games, though my current.
- 42:39Speaker 2: Man, don't you don't play video what about sports? What sports?
- 42:43Speaker 7: Head?
- 42:44Speaker 1: Not?
- 42:44Speaker 4: Really?
- 42:45Speaker 2: This? They married?
- 42:48Speaker 3: I like that though, Like I was never the girl
- 42:50Speaker 3: that complained about video games. Like, if your man in
- 42:54Speaker 3: the house playing video games, let him play the video game.
- 42:57Speaker 3: You know what, he could be out here any streets
- 42:59Speaker 3: doing Let him play that damn game.
- 43:02Speaker 4: If he ain't bothering nobody.
- 43:07Speaker 2: I am not listen. Let him play the game. Let
- 43:10Speaker 2: him play the game. Yeah.
- 43:12Speaker 3: I don't know, but I'm with you. I don't want
- 43:15Speaker 3: to live separate if we marry. If that's the case,
- 43:17Speaker 3: we don't.
- 43:17Speaker 2: Need to be married for me.
- 43:19Speaker 3: Yeah, but a lot of older couples are doing this
- 43:22Speaker 3: and saying that this is the way to go, And
- 43:24Speaker 3: I don't know if it's because they just get tired
- 43:25Speaker 3: of each other.
- 43:27Speaker 2: You know, Nah, I ain't.
- 43:30Speaker 1: My chick got to be in the crib. Got to
- 43:32Speaker 1: be in the crib after I finished playing the game.
- 43:34Speaker 1: I'm going I gotta knock it down for I go
- 43:37Speaker 1: to sleep. Yes, I'm gonna go to sleep. Or if
- 43:40Speaker 1: I got or I had Snoop Dogg medicine out of eight,
- 43:45Speaker 1: you brought me a snack. I'm gonna go to sleep.
- 43:48Speaker 1: And what I'm gonna do in the morning, you know
- 43:50Speaker 1: what happens in the morning. From then, I got to
- 43:52Speaker 1: put this somewhere. You r that like, it's a like,
- 43:57Speaker 1: it's I can't Twenty years is a waking up most
- 44:02Speaker 1: of the time by yourself and you married is crazy?
- 44:06Speaker 5: Yep, And I get it. They I think their situation
- 44:10Speaker 5: is different. We don't know their situation.
- 44:12Speaker 6: It works for them, it works for them, it works,
- 44:14Speaker 6: but I personally couldn't do it.
- 44:17Speaker 2: No, let's get to this story.
- 44:19Speaker 1: Uh, well, it's coming off the Monica and a boyfriend
- 44:22Speaker 1: saying that they did get married at the courthouse. Would
- 44:24Speaker 1: you want a big wedding or you cool with a
- 44:26Speaker 1: courthouse wedding?
- 44:28Speaker 4: I want a big wedding. Y'all know that.
- 44:30Speaker 3: Why because Zach said it ain't even gonna happen. So
- 44:33Speaker 3: if it ever happens, that it got to shock the world.
- 44:36Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like, it got to really
- 44:38Speaker 3: beat that in because you always say it's never gonna happen.
- 44:42Speaker 2: So if I don't get married, but you got to
- 44:45Speaker 2: do better. Got to do better. House. Stop sleeping with
- 44:50Speaker 2: a Marion's. That was a joke. That was a Jokey.
- 44:56Speaker 4: I don't do. I have not.
- 44:58Speaker 3: I'm a very faithful woman and I I do not
- 45:00Speaker 3: even talk crazy. I talk crazy on these platforms when
- 45:03Speaker 3: I go home.
- 45:04Speaker 2: I know you know what I'm saying. I know you
- 45:06Speaker 2: stop it. Stop talking crazy, Stop talking crazy on these platforms.
- 45:11Speaker 2: Slow it down. No, I can't slow down. Can't stop
- 45:14Speaker 2: talking crazy. Slow that down. Now, you get ahead of yourself.
- 45:18Speaker 2: I got to encourage my girls.
- 45:20Speaker 5: But seriously, I do think that you're gonna get me.
- 45:22Speaker 5: I think that you the wife type he's.
- 45:23Speaker 3: Trying to get somebody. You're not invited. I'm not trying
- 45:26Speaker 3: to get to your either. You know, I know you're
- 45:30Speaker 3: gonna get married because you do that's what you do.
- 45:32Speaker 2: You do.
- 45:32Speaker 5: Three relationships your whole life. You're gonna get married like
- 45:37Speaker 5: that's just what you do.
- 45:39Speaker 4: But yes, I need a big wedding.
- 45:41Speaker 2: I ain't mad at that a big one. Would you
- 45:43Speaker 2: want to be one?
- 45:44Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't get married. It's a national thing like
- 45:48Speaker 3: it is. It is a goddamnthing. We're gonna do the
- 45:57Speaker 3: if doll getting married. The whole city come out.
- 46:01Speaker 5: It's gonna be like one of those things like you
- 46:02Speaker 5: ever see those shows of the musicals where it'd be
- 46:06Speaker 5: the old time and then they find out their tones
- 46:08Speaker 5: getting like.
- 46:09Speaker 2: The tones getting married, and everybody's.
- 46:11Speaker 3: Sing, we're gonna put this jersey in the raptor at
- 46:15Speaker 3: the United Center, gona have a ceremony for his jersey.
- 46:19Speaker 1: I would have to have a big wet just because
- 46:21Speaker 1: I know so many people, and I know people want
- 46:23Speaker 1: to like I got to see this.
- 46:24Speaker 2: With my own eyes.
- 46:25Speaker 1: Yes, I mean I would have security there for sure,
- 46:29Speaker 1: security innovation.
- 46:31Speaker 2: Nobody acted up like grab them if they look funny
- 46:34Speaker 2: trying to object to objected out of that.
- 46:38Speaker 6: Well, let me tell y'all something because I've been yeah,
- 46:41Speaker 6: because I was pope. So let me tell you something.
- 46:44Speaker 5: When you ain't got no money like that, when you
- 46:49Speaker 5: ain't got no money like that, you do you you
- 46:51Speaker 5: adjust your wedding, okay, based on the money you got? Okay,
- 46:55Speaker 5: no money? I mean if money is not an option.
- 46:57Speaker 5: I definitely would like my next to be a big one.
- 47:01Speaker 5: I would want that. I want my line brothers to come.
- 47:03Speaker 5: I want to be like a big thing.
- 47:05Speaker 2: So do you want the wedding big or the reception big?
- 47:09Speaker 2: But just the fuble? I think I would want the
- 47:11Speaker 2: wedding cool.
- 47:12Speaker 5: I don't want people just coming to my recept like
- 47:15Speaker 5: I feel I do cheated me a little bit. Now,
- 47:17Speaker 5: If you can't sit up here and be and be
- 47:20Speaker 5: patient and walk and watch my wife walk down the
- 47:23Speaker 5: aisle and watch me walk down the aisle and be
- 47:25Speaker 5: happy within that moment, you don't get to just come
- 47:27Speaker 5: party and drink.
- 47:28Speaker 2: This ain't the club. Yeah you gotta come now, you come.
- 47:30Speaker 6: Into the wedding. This ain't an event.
- 47:32Speaker 2: Not I don't want to. I don't like see this
- 47:35Speaker 2: is the thing.
- 47:36Speaker 1: I would want my closest friends and family at the
- 47:40Speaker 1: wedding because one, I know they're gonna respect what's going on.
- 47:43Speaker 1: If you start inviting too many people, then they don't
- 47:47Speaker 1: be talking during the vials. Man they looks like it's
- 47:49Speaker 1: just a I want my close family and friends at
- 47:52Speaker 1: the wedding, and I want the reception to be just
- 47:55Speaker 1: a fucking party.
- 47:57Speaker 2: That's it.
- 47:58Speaker 4: I mean, but I exceptions costs.
- 48:01Speaker 3: You're paying like two fifty a person if you having
- 48:06Speaker 3: a big wedding.
- 48:07Speaker 2: Why what I I'm pushing sandwiches?
- 48:09Speaker 3: What it ain't you know, it ain't never happening.
- 48:13Speaker 4: So I don't even better.
- 48:14Speaker 2: Talking about some ittalion for elas out there.
- 48:17Speaker 4: This is not a happy hour, bro, this.
- 48:19Speaker 2: Is a wedding.
- 48:20Speaker 1: We got we got a hookah.
- 48:24Speaker 2: I gotta tell Slushy with she I gotta cut water.
- 48:29Speaker 2: It's a party, man. I want somebody ran to perform
- 48:32Speaker 2: in my way and out of nowhere.
- 48:33Speaker 5: I ain't even gonna tell you. I want Boosy to
- 48:34Speaker 5: come out.
- 48:36Speaker 2: I pull up at the club. It's go crazy. I
- 48:40Speaker 2: wanted to be the next I know who I want
- 48:44Speaker 2: absolutely to perform at your wedding. Yes, that would be
- 48:47Speaker 2: called who you want Jones?
- 48:51Speaker 4: That would be good. That would be good.
- 48:54Speaker 2: That that'd be good. Yeah, you don't get them too. Yeah,
- 49:01Speaker 2: he would do it. He would like what time? All right?
- 49:09Speaker 2: How many song? Stop? Three? Alright? Bet I'll be down there.
- 49:15Speaker 2: Oh where's that?
- 49:19Speaker 6: I don't put that addressing? Say ten minutes.
- 49:23Speaker 2: Away, I'm about to pull up. What's tell you want
- 49:25Speaker 2: to start? Six? Six? All right?
- 49:30Speaker 6: One one?
- 49:34Speaker 4: It's hilarious.
- 49:36Speaker 1: I hate that because I don't realize how much I
- 49:39Speaker 1: say one pop fan.
- 49:40Speaker 5: He's so funny, said the other day, phone with me,
- 49:43Speaker 5: and you don't understand.
- 49:45Speaker 2: I was.
- 49:45Speaker 1: I was going to the gym, he said. I laughed
- 49:47Speaker 1: for like five Nobody knew what I was laughing at. Yep,
- 49:50Speaker 1: I can't help it. I don't know why up and down?
- 49:53Speaker 1: He didn't say that I.
- 49:55Speaker 2: Up and down?
- 49:56Speaker 1: I did, And I said, I was like, oh I
- 49:59Speaker 1: say that out of ninety of the time when I
- 50:02Speaker 1: was off the phone.
- 50:03Speaker 4: It's so funny.
- 50:04Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's that's my one old man thing.
- 50:07Speaker 2: That that is the.
- 50:10Speaker 3: It's not even that, it's because it was an era.
- 50:12Speaker 3: It was an era where everybody was like one.
- 50:14Speaker 2: Yeah, it's one piece out? What does one mean? One love?
- 50:19Speaker 5: I don't know why we okay from one love? Oh okay,
- 50:22Speaker 5: that makes sense.
- 50:23Speaker 2: One.
- 50:23Speaker 3: I was like, this is a short black man from Chicago.
- 50:27Speaker 3: Do not say bye when they get off?
- 50:28Speaker 2: They say one?
- 50:31Speaker 4: They say later, they say click, they don't. We don't
- 50:33Speaker 4: say by.
- 50:34Speaker 2: You've heard other dudes say one.
- 50:35Speaker 4: Oh yeah.
- 50:36Speaker 3: That's why it was so funny to me when you
- 50:38Speaker 3: did when you first did it, and I was That's
- 50:40Speaker 3: why I was so funny to me, cause I'm like,
- 50:41Speaker 3: this is a Chicago man.
- 50:43Speaker 2: Y'all. Just did your brother say one?
- 50:45Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 50:45Speaker 3: My brother say what my oldest brother say Later, he's like,
- 50:48Speaker 3: he will not say bye.
- 50:49Speaker 2: I'm like, I just say, all right, I just.
- 50:52Speaker 1: Hads for not leaving me out here.
- 50:57Speaker 4: No, that's why it's just it's a funny thing, y'all.
- 51:00Speaker 2: Crazy, I'm right, very final thoughts shout.
- 51:05Speaker 4: It's about six o'clock at night.
- 51:08Speaker 1: I'm so sad we started poding a six Well, all right,
- 51:11Speaker 1: I guess it's over, y'all. It's a fifty two minute
- 51:14Speaker 1: pod because I have to start my radio show, all right, y'all.
- 51:17Speaker 2: Tone gotta start his video show, so we gotta go.
- 51:20Speaker 5: See y'all to my that's the final thoughts, see y'all
- 51:22Speaker 5: to my hope y'all enjoyed us.
- 51:24Speaker 1: Somebody said, tell Zack to pray before he does his
- 51:27Speaker 1: final thoughts.
- 51:29Speaker 2: I saw that in the comments. I pay for that, baby, Okay,
- 51:33Speaker 2: he commented, I did not make that up.
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