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*PATREON PREVIEW* When Someone Hijacks Your Conversation at a Party · What's The Juice?

• 0:04
  [SPEAKER_01]: Let's say you're having a conversation with a one person, right, but then somebody else comes to say hi to that person and then they start talking and it's almost like
• 0:14
  [SPEAKER_01]: your conversation is over and it never gets picked back up.
• 0:17
  [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I always think it's that other person's fault for for one not introducing who she was talking to.
• 0:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then to not acknowledging that she was in the middle of a conversation because if that happens to me, that's something comes up to me and I'll tell that person, you know how people interrupt you, how you just said, right, they interrupt the conversation and start talking to them.
• 0:36
  [SPEAKER_00]: Let's say that happens to me.
• 0:37
  [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
• 0:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm talking to you, someone comes, they don't look at you, they don't acknowledge you.
• 0:41
  [SPEAKER_00]: First of all, I think that's a root.
• 0:43
  [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
• 0:43
  [SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
• 0:43
  [SPEAKER_00]: They come up to me.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god, Yoni, how are you?
• 0:45
  [SPEAKER_00]: As if I'm not talking to someone.
• 0:47
  [SPEAKER_01]: And also, thank you.
• 0:48
  [SPEAKER_01]: You're going to interrupt.
• 0:49
  [SPEAKER_01]: You have to acknowledge the person interrupting has to acknowledge the person.
• 0:56
  [SPEAKER_01]: the other person that that person is having a conversation or some people don't have that some people just interrupt and get in there that's so rude because that's what I did there was one person that there was like the person that invited me that was hosting the event and then there was that person's sister that I knew but she was having a conversation with somebody else who I also knew from online but I've never met her but I recognized her so when I went over to the sister she was having
• 1:24
  [SPEAKER_01]: kind of like tapped in you know like I tapped their shoulder and I was like hey like just want to say hi and then she said hi and then I said hi to like the other person right away good job I couldn't just like not saying that so this is actually a people do that if especially New York
• 1:39
  [SPEAKER_01]: But the crazy thing is that girl, she then later interrupted a conversation, I was having with somebody.
• 1:45
  [SPEAKER_01]: And I guess maybe because we had already talked, she didn't even think to be like, sorry for interrupting or like cause we're already introduced each, like we're already met, I guess.
• 1:56
  [SPEAKER_01]: But I still think you should,
• 2:00
  [SPEAKER_01]: acknowledged the fact that there was a whole conversation happening and just come in.
• 2:05
  [SPEAKER_01]: And the person I was talking to, like, also never came back.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: in my direction.
• 2:11
  [SPEAKER_01]: Like, okay, let's say, you're like, oh, so nice to see you.
• 2:14
  [SPEAKER_01]: Like, blah, blah, I feel like a little bit.
• 2:16
  [SPEAKER_00]: No, all these things is just social awareness.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Some people don't have that at all.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And some people are really attached in it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Social etiquette.
• 2:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I'm, I'm, I feel like I'm blessed that I, I'm very much aware.
• 2:28
  [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah.
• 2:28
  [SPEAKER_00]: But talking to someone, I don't even like, I don't care if I know you more than I know this person.
• 2:32
  [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
• 2:33
  [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm a little
• 2:36
  [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, you kind of like hang around for a little bit.
• 2:39
  [SPEAKER_00]: You laughed?
• 2:40
  [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, I just like went and got some dessert or something.
• 2:43
  [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, look, I could just imagine where you're thinking in your head like that.
• 2:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: This is what, though.
• 2:48
  [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, because if anything, if anything, you just thought.
• 2:53
  [SPEAKER_01]: If the other person that was originally a conversation with would have maybe even glanced back at me because we were having a full conversation, I get it.
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  [SPEAKER_01]: Like we've talked, we'll talk more later, like, it's no problem.
• 3:05
  [SPEAKER_01]: And but they didn't even look at me because if they would have I would have said oh, yeah, I'll just catch up with you later Like okay, like catch up with this person.
• 3:11
  [SPEAKER_01]: It's not a problem
• 3:12
  [SPEAKER_01]: You know that like okay got interrupted whatever it's fine.
• 3:15
  [SPEAKER_01]: I think that happens a lot of events when like people see someone they know They want to get to say hi, but they're especially when they're best friends.
• 3:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: They get all hyped and you're standing there like in no body And so much of that was happening.
• 3:26
  [SPEAKER_01]: I didn't know anybody to that level at that event I was just like damn I don't like feeling this way because I'm I'm a confident person like I know why I am I like who I am I have no problem talking about what I'm interested in and I am really good one on one
• 3:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, you'd be killing shit.
• 3:45
  [SPEAKER_01]: No, but it's like, I love talking to people, but in, as soon as you take, put me in this setting where one on one is like, B, like, this is not a one, as you said.
• 3:57
  [SPEAKER_01]: This is not a one on one time.
• 3:58
  [SPEAKER_01]: This is like, you talked to so much for maybe like, 10 minutes max, time to move on to the next person.
• 4:03
  [UNKNOWN]: Yeah.
• 4:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: And in an event like that, it's not one on one time.
• 4:09
  [SPEAKER_00]: I don't care how comfortable you are.
• 4:10
  [SPEAKER_00]: I don't care how amazing this person is.
• 4:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: Get this info, go your mood day with them separately.
• 4:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like it's time to... Because people are also...
• 4:17
  [SPEAKER_01]: Trying to do the same thing.
• 4:18
  [SPEAKER_00]: Because you can enjoy this conversation so much in this person as well.
• 4:22
  [SPEAKER_00]: But they also think...
• 4:24
  [SPEAKER_00]: I want to go see my friend over there that I haven't seen in so long and I love Alia.
• 4:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: I just talk for 20 minutes.
• 4:28
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's great and she's amazing, but like I want to say what's up to my friend who just flew away from Chicago, but like, you know, so you want to like, you want to talk and let go.
• 4:39
  [SPEAKER_00]: Everybody's like moving.
• 4:40
  [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
• 4:41
  [SPEAKER_01]: That's I need to, I think that's something that in order for me to get better at it, I need to just put it in practice more.