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Game Time: Love, Lust or Let's Not: The Game That's Sizzling Up Our Podcast · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

• 0:00
  Foreign.
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  We
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  always
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  like
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  to
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  wrap
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  up
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  with
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  a
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  fun
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  game.
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  If
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  you
• 0:08
  guys
• 0:08
  are
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  game
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  for
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  a
• 0:09
  game.
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  Oh,
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  we're
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  always.
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  Oh
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  yes.
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  All
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  right.
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  So
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  this
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  game
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  is
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  called
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  Love,
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  Lust
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  or
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  let's
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  not.
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  So
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  love
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  is.
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  Hell
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  yes,
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  Lust
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  is
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  fantasy,
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  but
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  maybe
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  not
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  in
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  real
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  life.
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  And
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  let's
• 0:24
  not
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  is
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  a
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  hard
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  pass.
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  So
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  I'm
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  just
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  gonna
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  name
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  off
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  a
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  few
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  things
• 0:29
  and
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  you
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  tell
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  me
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  what
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  you
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  think.
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  Okay.
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  Scheduling,
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  sex.
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  Love.
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  Oh
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  yeah,
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  yeah,
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  love.
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  Okay.
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  So
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  it's
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  a
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  good
• 0:39
  thing.
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  It
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  is
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  a
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  good
• 0:41
  thing.
• 0:41
  I
• 0:42
  think
• 0:42
  that
• 0:42
  that
• 0:42
  is
• 0:43
  because
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  it
• 0:43
  does
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  a
• 0:44
  couple
• 0:44
  things
• 0:45
  and
• 0:45
  again,
• 0:46
  you.
• 0:46
  Know,
• 0:46
  schedule
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  my
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  time
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  and
• 0:47
  it's
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  fun
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  and
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  the
• 0:48
  way.
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  And
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  I
• 0:49
  don't
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  know
• 0:49
  how
• 0:49
  long
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  of
• 0:50
  an
• 0:50
  answer
• 0:50
  you
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  want
• 0:51
  on
• 0:51
  all
• 0:51
  these
• 0:51
  things,
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  but
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  real
• 0:52
  quickly
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  it's,
• 0:53
  it's,
• 0:53
  it's
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  fun
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  when.
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  Because
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  what
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  I
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  would
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  like
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  to
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  do
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  is
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  say,
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  okay,
• 0:58
  we
• 0:58
  are
• 0:59
  going
• 0:59
  to
• 1:00
  both
• 1:01
  knock
• 1:01
  off
• 1:01
  work
• 1:02
  at
• 1:02
  such
• 1:02
  and
• 1:02
  such.
• 1:02
  We're
• 1:03
  going
• 1:03
  to
• 1:03
  go
• 1:03
  get
• 1:03
  early
• 1:03
  dinner.
• 1:04
  Then
• 1:04
  we're
• 1:04
  going
• 1:05
  to
• 1:05
  go
• 1:05
  to
• 1:05
  happy
• 1:05
  hour
• 1:06
  at
• 1:06
  such
• 1:06
  and
• 1:06
  such.
• 1:06
  And
• 1:06
  then
• 1:07
  we're
• 1:07
  going
• 1:07
  to
• 1:07
  do
• 1:07
  it
• 1:07
  and
• 1:07
  then
• 1:07
  we're
• 1:08
  going
• 1:08
  to
• 1:08
  get
• 1:08
  it
• 1:08
  on
• 1:08
  and
• 1:09
  you
• 1:09
  make
• 1:09
  it
• 1:09
  almost
• 1:10
  like,
• 1:10
  you
• 1:11
  know,
• 1:11
  a,
• 1:11
  a,
• 1:12
  a
• 1:12
  yeah,
• 1:12
  A
• 1:13
  checklist
• 1:13
  or
• 1:13
  whatever.
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  And
• 1:14
  it's
• 1:14
  fun
• 1:15
  to
• 1:15
  see
• 1:15
  where
• 1:15
  you
• 1:15
  are
• 1:16
  in
• 1:17
  the
• 1:17
  now.
• 1:17
  It
• 1:18
  doesn't
• 1:18
  work
• 1:18
  every
• 1:19
  time.
• 1:19
  I
• 1:19
  mean
• 1:19
  you
• 1:19
  get
• 1:19
  to
• 1:20
  happy
• 1:20
  hour
• 1:20
  and
• 1:20
  start
• 1:20
  fighting.
• 1:21
  But,
• 1:22
  but
• 1:23
  you
• 1:23
  know,
• 1:23
  anyway,
• 1:23
  that,
• 1:24
  that's
• 1:24
  the,
• 1:24
  that
• 1:25
  the
• 1:25
  idea.
• 1:25
  So
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  it's
• 1:26
  not
• 1:26
  just
• 1:26
  scheduling
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  next
• 1:28
  Tuesday
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  at
• 1:29
  7:30.
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  It's,
• 1:30
  it's
• 1:30
  everything,
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  you
• 1:31
  know,
• 1:31
  kind
• 1:31
  of.
• 1:31
  But
• 1:31
  again,
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  it
• 1:32
  does
• 1:32
  help
• 1:32
  too
• 1:33
  in
• 1:33
  if
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  your
• 1:34
  life
• 1:34
  has
• 1:34
  become
• 1:35
  like
• 1:35
  ours
• 1:36
  has
• 1:36
  is
• 1:36
  very,
• 1:36
  very
• 1:37
  busy,
• 1:38
  it
• 1:38
  just
• 1:38
  means
• 1:39
  that
• 1:39
  you're
• 1:39
  saying,
• 1:40
  okay,
• 1:41
  this
• 1:41
  is
• 1:41
  important
• 1:42
  to
• 1:42
  me.
• 1:43
  This
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  is
• 1:43
  where
• 1:43
  I,
• 1:44
  let's
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  try
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  to
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  build
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  up
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  almost
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  like
• 1:46
  you're
• 1:47
  like,
• 1:47
  okay,
• 1:47
  let's
• 1:48
  have
• 1:48
  dates.
• 1:48
  Which
• 1:49
  is
• 1:49
  these
• 1:50
  tris
• 1:50
  where
• 1:51
  we
• 1:51
  get
• 1:51
  back
• 1:52
  to
• 1:52
  where
• 1:52
  how
• 1:53
  parts
• 1:53
  of
• 1:53
  our
• 1:54
  relationship
• 1:54
  that
• 1:54
  we
• 1:55
  liked
• 1:55
  and
• 1:55
  say.
• 1:55
  So
• 1:56
  when
• 1:56
  you
• 1:56
  say
• 1:56
  scheduling
• 1:57
  sex,
• 1:57
  it's
• 1:57
  really
• 1:58
  more
• 1:58
  like
• 1:58
  finding
• 1:59
  intimate
• 1:59
  time
• 2:00
  that
• 2:00
  is
• 2:01
  going
• 2:01
  to
• 2:02
  more
• 2:02
  likely
• 2:02
  lead
• 2:03
  to
• 2:03
  sex.
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  Well,
• 2:04
  good.
• 2:04
  So
• 2:05
  and
• 2:05
  you.
• 2:05
  And
• 2:05
  next
• 2:06
  question.
• 2:06
  Yeah,
• 2:07
  so
• 2:07
  he,
• 2:07
  so
• 2:08
  he
• 2:08
  says,
• 2:09
  he
• 2:09
  does
• 2:09
  say
• 2:09
  literally,
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  okay,
• 2:11
  we're
• 2:11
  going
• 2:11
  to
• 2:12
  do
• 2:12
  a
• 2:12
  5:30.
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  This
• 2:13
  is
• 2:13
  why
• 2:13
  we
• 2:13
  didn't
• 2:14
  understand
• 2:14
  why
• 2:14
  people
• 2:15
  did
• 2:15
  5:30
• 2:15
  dinners.
• 2:16
  Like
• 2:16
  it's,
• 2:17
  this
• 2:17
  is
• 2:17
  awesome.
• 2:18
  Your
• 2:18
  5:30
• 2:18
  dinner.
• 2:19
  You
• 2:19
  don't
• 2:19
  need
• 2:19
  a
• 2:20
  reservation.
• 2:20
  That's
• 2:21
  right.
• 2:22
  And
• 2:22
  then
• 2:22
  you're
• 2:22
  like,
• 2:23
  you're
• 2:23
  home
• 2:24
  at
• 2:24
  like
• 2:24
  7:30.
• 2:25
  Yeah.
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  And
• 2:26
  then
• 2:26
  if
• 2:26
  you're
• 2:26
  not,
• 2:26
  then
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  you're
• 2:27
  not
• 2:27
  too
• 2:27
  tired
• 2:28
  to
• 2:28
  have
• 2:28
  sex
• 2:28
  at
• 2:29
  nine.
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  Yes,
• 2:33
  exactly.
• 2:33
  You
• 2:34
  can't
• 2:34
  Put
• 2:34
  it
• 2:34
  off
• 2:34
  too
• 2:34
  late
• 2:35
  or
• 2:35
  you'll
• 2:35
  be
• 2:35
  asleep.
• 2:36
  Right?
• 2:36
  Yeah.
• 2:37
  There's
• 2:37
  the
• 2:37
  window.
• 2:37
  There's
• 2:38
  a
• 2:38
  little
• 2:38
  window.
• 2:39
  Yes,
• 2:39
  absolutely.
• 2:41
  Sex
• 2:42
  after
• 2:42
  a.
• 2:43
  Sex
• 2:43
  after
• 2:43
  a
• 2:44
  fight.
• 2:47
  Well,
• 2:48
  I
• 2:48
  get.
• 2:48
  I
• 2:48
  get
• 2:49
  some
• 2:49
  people.
• 2:49
  If
• 2:50
  lust
• 2:50
  was.
• 2:51
  I
• 2:51
  wish
• 2:51
  it
• 2:51
  would
• 2:51
  work.
• 2:52
  But
• 2:53
  yeah,
• 2:53
  we.
• 2:53
  We
• 2:54
  don't.
• 2:55
  Unless
• 2:55
  it's.
• 2:55
  Unless.
• 2:56
  Yeah,
• 2:56
  we've
• 2:56
  talked
• 2:57
  it
• 2:57
  out
• 2:57
  or
• 2:57
  kind
• 2:58
  of
• 2:58
  figured
• 2:58
  it
• 2:58
  out
• 2:58
  or.
• 2:59
  Yeah,
• 2:59
  sometimes
• 2:59
  it
• 2:59
  does
• 3:00
  happen.
• 3:00
  It
• 3:01
  just.
• 3:01
  Again,
• 3:02
  the
• 3:03
  secret
• 3:03
  of.
• 3:04
  Of.
• 3:05
  Not
• 3:05
  that
• 3:06
  I'm
• 3:06
  the
• 3:06
  therapist,
• 3:06
  but
• 3:07
  the
• 3:07
  secret
• 3:07
  of.
• 3:07
  Of
• 3:09
  the
• 3:10
  successful
• 3:11
  relationship
• 3:11
  is
• 3:12
  not
• 3:12
  never
• 3:12
  fighting
• 3:13
  you.
• 3:13
  It's
• 3:13
  figuring
• 3:14
  out
• 3:14
  how
• 3:14
  to
• 3:14
  come
• 3:14
  back
• 3:14
  together.
• 3:16
  So.
• 3:16
  And
• 3:16
  if
• 3:17
  you.
• 3:17
  And
• 3:17
  if
• 3:17
  you
• 3:17
  have
• 3:19
  sex
• 3:20
  after
• 3:20
  fighting,
• 3:21
  then
• 3:22
  it's
• 3:22
  a
• 3:22
  good
• 3:22
  idea
• 3:23
  to
• 3:23
  fight
• 3:23
  as
• 3:24
  much
• 3:24
  as
• 3:24
  possible.
• 3:25
  No,
• 3:26
  I'm
• 3:26
  just
• 3:26
  kidding.
• 3:26
  I'm
• 3:27
  just
• 3:28
  kidding.
• 3:29
  It's
• 3:29
  nice
• 3:30
  an
• 3:30
  idea.
• 3:31
  And
• 3:31
  some
• 3:31
  couples
• 3:31
  can
• 3:32
  do
• 3:32
  that
• 3:32
  and,
• 3:32
  and
• 3:33
  that.
• 3:33
  But
• 3:33
  that's.
• 3:34
  Yeah,
• 3:35
  we
• 3:35
  have
• 3:35
  to
• 3:35
  talk
• 3:36
  it
• 3:36
  out.
• 3:36
  Yeah.
• 3:37
  Yes,
• 3:38
  exactly.
• 3:39
  Exactly.
• 3:40
  Toys
• 3:41
  in
• 3:41
  the
• 3:41
  bedroom.
• 3:43
  A
• 3:43
  hundred
• 3:43
  percent.
• 3:44
  Yes.
• 3:45
  Okay.
• 3:46
  Yes.
• 3:46
  Any
• 3:47
  favorites?
• 3:49
  What
• 3:50
  are
• 3:50
  you
• 3:50
  having?
• 3:50
  No,
• 3:51
  I.
• 3:51
  I
• 3:51
  was
• 3:52
  just
• 3:52
  gonna
• 3:52
  say.
• 3:52
  Yeah.
• 3:53
  And
• 3:53
  now.
• 3:53
  And
• 3:53
  I'm.
• 3:54
  Now
• 3:54
  are
• 3:55
  we,
• 3:55
  Are
• 3:55
  we
• 3:55
  answering
• 3:56
  for
• 3:56
  us
• 3:56
  or
• 3:57
  for,
• 3:57
  you
• 3:57
  know,
• 3:57
  like,
• 3:58
  people
• 3:58
  in
• 3:59
  general?
• 3:59
  I
• 3:59
  would
• 3:59
  say
• 4:00
  I'm
• 4:00
  talking
• 4:00
  a
• 4:00
  little
• 4:00
  both.
• 4:01
  People
• 4:01
  in
• 4:01
  general.
• 4:01
  Yeah,
• 4:02
  a
• 4:03
  little
• 4:03
  bit.
• 4:03
  Oh,
• 4:03
  no,
• 4:03
  but
• 4:04
  absolutely.
• 4:04
  Yeah,
• 4:05
  yeah,
• 4:05
  yeah.
• 4:05
  Not.
• 4:06
  Not
• 4:06
  to
• 4:06
  bring
• 4:06
  it
• 4:06
  back
• 4:06
  to
• 4:07
  science
• 4:07
  again,
• 4:08
  but
• 4:08
  just
• 4:09
  like,
• 4:09
  like,
• 4:09
  so,
• 4:10
  like,
• 4:10
  oh,
• 4:11
  let's
• 4:11
  make
• 4:11
  this
• 4:11
  vibr.
• 4:12
  Unsexy.
• 4:13
  But.
• 4:14
  So
• 4:15
  one
• 4:15
  of
• 4:15
  the
• 4:15
  things
• 4:15
  that
• 4:16
  happens
• 4:16
  to
• 4:16
  us
• 4:17
  as
• 4:17
  we
• 4:17
  get
• 4:18
  older
• 4:18
  is
• 4:18
  the,
• 4:19
  the
• 4:20
  nerves
• 4:20
  around
• 4:21
  the
• 4:21
  clitoris.
• 4:22
  There's
• 4:22
  different.
• 4:23
  There's
• 4:23
  ones
• 4:23
  for
• 4:24
  soft
• 4:24
  touch,
• 4:24
  there's
• 4:25
  ones
• 4:25
  for
• 4:25
  heat,
• 4:25
  there's
• 4:25
  one
• 4:26
  for
• 4:26
  vibration.
• 4:27
  And
• 4:27
  the,
• 4:28
  the.
• 4:28
  The.
• 4:30
  They
• 4:30
  have
• 4:30
  different
• 4:31
  amounts
• 4:31
  of
• 4:32
  a.
• 4:32
  A
• 4:32
  substance
• 4:33
  called
• 4:33
  myin
• 4:34
  around
• 4:34
  them
• 4:35
  that's
• 4:35
  insulates
• 4:36
  them.
• 4:37
  And
• 4:37
  they
• 4:37
  have
• 4:37
  thick.
• 4:38
  And
• 4:38
  some
• 4:38
  of
• 4:38
  them.
• 4:38
  There's
• 4:39
  th.
• 4:39
  And
• 4:39
  there's
• 4:39
  different
• 4:40
  thickness
• 4:41
  of
• 4:41
  these
• 4:41
  different
• 4:41
  nerves.
• 4:42
  And
• 4:43
  the
• 4:43
  t.
• 4:44
  The
• 4:44
  ones
• 4:44
  for
• 4:45
  soft
• 4:45
  touch
• 4:46
  and
• 4:46
  for.
• 4:47
  Those
• 4:47
  are
• 4:47
  thinner
• 4:48
  and
• 4:48
  they
• 4:48
  go
• 4:49
  away
• 4:49
  and
• 4:49
  they
• 4:50
  are.
• 4:50
  Or
• 4:51
  get
• 4:51
  less
• 4:51
  sensitive
• 4:52
  more
• 4:52
  quickly.
• 4:52
  And
• 4:53
  so
• 4:53
  as
• 4:53
  we
• 4:53
  get
• 4:53
  older,
• 4:54
  the
• 4:54
  ones
• 4:54
  for
• 4:54
  vibration
• 4:55
  actually
• 4:56
  stay
• 4:57
  the
• 4:58
  longest.
• 4:58
  And
• 4:59
  so
• 4:59
  sometimes
• 5:00
  to
• 5:01
  get
• 5:01
  that
• 5:01
  stimulation
• 5:02
  you
• 5:02
  need
• 5:03
  a
• 5:03
  little
• 5:03
  bit
• 5:03
  more
• 5:03
  sensation.
• 5:04
  And
• 5:05
  so
• 5:05
  vibrators
• 5:06
  can
• 5:06
  be
• 5:07
  game
• 5:07
  changers
• 5:08
  for
• 5:08
  people
• 5:09
  who
• 5:09
  are.
• 5:10
  Have
• 5:10
  lost
• 5:10
  their
• 5:11
  orgasm.
• 5:11
  And
• 5:12
  then.
• 5:12
  And
• 5:12
  to
• 5:13
  get
• 5:13
  it
• 5:13
  back
• 5:13
  and
• 5:14
  so
• 5:14
  using
• 5:14
  it
• 5:14
  and
• 5:15
  introducing
• 5:15
  it
• 5:16
  to
• 5:16
  your
• 5:17
  partner
• 5:17
  and
• 5:17
  saying,
• 5:17
  hey,
• 5:18
  I
• 5:18
  think
• 5:18
  this
• 5:19
  is
• 5:19
  going
• 5:19
  to
• 5:19
  really
• 5:19
  help
• 5:20
  to
• 5:20
  get
• 5:20
  that.
• 5:21
  That
• 5:21
  to
• 5:22
  get
• 5:22
  me
• 5:22
  where
• 5:22
  I
• 5:22
  need
• 5:22
  to
• 5:22
  go.
• 5:23
  And
• 5:23
  instead
• 5:24
  of.
• 5:24
  Because
• 5:25
  people
• 5:25
  that
• 5:25
  are
• 5:26
  trying
• 5:26
  to
• 5:26
  get
• 5:26
  you
• 5:26
  to
• 5:27
  an
• 5:27
  orgasm,
• 5:28
  that
• 5:28
  kind
• 5:29
  of
• 5:29
  failure
• 5:30
  on
• 5:30
  your
• 5:30
  part
• 5:31
  and
• 5:31
  their
• 5:31
  part
• 5:31
  can
• 5:32
  really
• 5:32
  be
• 5:32
  damaging
• 5:33
  to
• 5:33
  a
• 5:33
  Relationship.
• 5:34
  So
• 5:34
  I'm
• 5:34
  all
• 5:35
  for
• 5:36
  doing
• 5:36
  the
• 5:36
  things
• 5:37
  that
• 5:37
  whatever
• 5:38
  it
• 5:38
  does
• 5:38
  takes
• 5:39
  to
• 5:39
  make
• 5:39
  you
• 5:40
  feel
• 5:40
  better
• 5:41
  and
• 5:41
  get
• 5:41
  to
• 5:42
  that
• 5:42
  sexual
• 5:42
  satisfaction,
• 5:44
  try
• 5:44
  to
• 5:44
  introduce
• 5:45
  it
• 5:45
  to
• 5:45
  and
• 5:46
  say,
• 5:46
  hey,
• 5:46
  this
• 5:46
  is
• 5:46
  the
• 5:47
  science
• 5:48
  of
• 5:48
  why.
• 5:48
  So
• 5:49
  it
• 5:49
  shouldn't
• 5:49
  be
• 5:49
  threatening
• 5:50
  to
• 5:50
  your
• 5:50
  partner
• 5:51
  is
• 5:51
  saying,
• 5:51
  hey,
• 5:52
  this
• 5:52
  can
• 5:52
  really
• 5:52
  help
• 5:52
  us
• 5:54
  agree.
• 5:55
  Sorry,
• 5:55
  that
• 5:55
  was
• 5:55
  a
• 5:55
  long
• 5:56
  answer.
• 5:56
  No,
• 5:57
  you're.
• 5:57
  You're
• 5:57
  right
• 5:57
  about
• 5:58
  that.
• 5:58
  Because
• 5:58
  I
• 5:58
  do
• 5:58
  think,
• 5:59
  Jay,
• 5:59
  you
• 6:00
  can
• 6:00
  speak
• 6:00
  more
• 6:00
  to
• 6:00
  this
• 6:00
  being
• 6:01
  a
• 6:01
  man.
• 6:01
  But
• 6:01
  I
• 6:02
  do
• 6:02
  feel
• 6:02
  like
• 6:02
  maybe
• 6:03
  sometimes
• 6:03
  men,
• 6:04
  they're
• 6:04
  not
• 6:05
  hurt
• 6:05
  when
• 6:05
  you
• 6:06
  want
• 6:06
  to
• 6:06
  bring
• 6:06
  a
• 6:06
  vibrator
• 6:07
  in,
• 6:07
  but
• 6:07
  they
• 6:07
  feel
• 6:08
  like,
• 6:08
  oh,
• 6:08
  am
• 6:08
  I
• 6:09
  not
• 6:09
  satisfying
• 6:10
  you
• 6:10
  enough?
• 6:10
  You
• 6:11
  know.
• 6:11
  Right,
• 6:12
  right,
• 6:12
  right,
• 6:12
  right.
• 6:13
  Well,
• 6:13
  it's
• 6:13
  for
• 6:13
  everything
• 6:13
  you
• 6:14
  just
• 6:14
  said.
• 6:14
  Yeah,
• 6:15
  yeah.
• 6:15
  I
• 6:15
  mean
• 6:15
  it's.
• 6:15
  It.
• 6:16
  Yeah.
• 6:16
  It's
• 6:16
  for
• 6:16
  every.
• 6:17
  And
• 6:18
  men
• 6:18
  unfortunately
• 6:19
  run
• 6:19
  the.
• 6:20
  You
• 6:20
  know,
• 6:20
  the
• 6:20
  bookends
• 6:21
  are
• 6:23
  the.
• 6:23
  The
• 6:24
  guys
• 6:24
  that
• 6:24
  don't
• 6:25
  care
• 6:25
  whether
• 6:25
  you
• 6:25
  have
• 6:25
  an
• 6:25
  orgasm
• 6:26
  or
• 6:26
  not.
• 6:26
  And
• 6:27
  then
• 6:27
  all
• 6:27
  the
• 6:28
  way
• 6:28
  to
• 6:29
  those
• 6:29
  that
• 6:31
  take
• 6:31
  it
• 6:31
  hard
• 6:31
  or
• 6:31
  take
• 6:32
  it
• 6:32
  hard.
• 6:32
  It
• 6:32
  didn't.
• 6:32
  Yeah.
• 6:33
  Yeah.
• 6:34
  If.
• 6:34
  If
• 6:35
  you're
• 6:35
  not
• 6:36
  satisfied
• 6:36
  with
• 6:36
  them
• 6:38
  and.
• 6:38
  But
• 6:39
  it.
• 6:39
  It
• 6:39
  is
• 6:40
  a.
• 6:41
  Yeah.
• 6:41
  Yeah.
• 6:42
  As
• 6:42
  to
• 6:43
  just
• 6:43
  use.
• 6:43
  Use
• 6:44
  as
• 6:44
  a.
• 6:44
  As
• 6:44
  a
• 6:44
  tool.
• 6:45
  Literally
• 6:45
  almost.
• 6:46
  It.
• 6:47
  It
• 6:47
  really
• 6:50
  is
• 6:50
  something
• 6:51
  that
• 6:52
  I
• 6:53
  don't
• 6:53
  know
• 6:53
  if.
• 6:53
  If
• 6:53
  you
• 6:54
  are
• 6:55
  those
• 6:55
  that
• 6:55
  lean
• 6:56
  towards
• 6:57
  and
• 6:57
  this
• 6:57
  is
• 6:58
  most.
• 6:58
  Thank
• 6:58
  goodness.
• 6:58
  But
• 6:59
  wanting
• 6:59
  to
• 7:00
  satisfy
• 7:00
  the
• 7:00
  woman.
• 7:01
  They'll
• 7:01
  do.
• 7:01
  Yeah
• 7:02
  yeah.
• 7:02
  Whatever
• 7:02
  you
• 7:03
  bring
• 7:03
  to
• 7:03
  the
• 7:03
  table
• 7:03
  will.
• 7:04
  Yeah,
• 7:05
  we'll.
• 7:05
  We'll
• 7:05
  try
• 7:06
  And
• 7:06
  a
• 7:06
  lot
• 7:06
  of
• 7:06
  times
• 7:07
  women
• 7:07
  need
• 7:07
  to
• 7:08
  know
• 7:08
  that
• 7:08
  the
• 7:08
  exploring
• 7:10
  how
• 7:10
  to
• 7:10
  get
• 7:11
  themselves
• 7:11
  to
• 7:11
  orgasm
• 7:12
  is
• 7:13
  really
• 7:13
  going
• 7:14
  to
• 7:14
  be
• 7:14
  important
• 7:15
  because
• 7:15
  if
• 7:16
  you
• 7:16
  don't
• 7:16
  know,
• 7:17
  then
• 7:17
  they're.
• 7:18
  You're
• 7:18
  never
• 7:18
  going
• 7:18
  to
• 7:18
  be
• 7:18
  able
• 7:18
  to
• 7:19
  communicate
• 7:19
  it
• 7:19
  to
• 7:19
  them.
• 7:20
  And
• 7:20
  so.
• 7:20
  Right.
• 7:21
  Using
• 7:21
  some
• 7:21
  of
• 7:21
  these
• 7:22
  things
• 7:22
  to
• 7:22
  explore
• 7:22
  is
• 7:23
  important.
• 7:23
  Right.
• 7:24
  Right.
• 7:24
  So
• 7:24
  masturbation
• 7:25
  is
• 7:25
  important
• 7:25
  for
• 7:26
  a
• 7:26
  woman.
• 7:26
  100%.
• 7:28
  Okay.
• 7:29
  And
• 7:30
  last
• 7:30
  one,
• 7:31
  role
• 7:31
  play.
• 7:32
  Oh,
• 7:33
  it's.
• 7:33
  I
• 7:33
  love
• 7:34
  it.
• 7:34
  I
• 7:35
  mean,
• 7:35
  I
• 7:35
  didn't
• 7:36
  mean
• 7:36
  to
• 7:36
  answer.
• 7:36
  That
• 7:36
  quickly,
• 7:37
  but
• 7:38
  he's
• 7:39
  like,
• 7:39
  it's
• 7:39
  happening
• 7:39
  tonight,
• 7:40
  Kate.
• 7:42
  I
• 7:42
  got
• 7:42
  my
• 7:42
  carpenter
• 7:43
  outfit
• 7:43
  right
• 7:44
  over
• 7:45
  where
• 7:47
  it's.
• 7:48
  It.
• 7:48
  Oh,
• 7:48
  it's.
• 7:49
  Yeah,
• 7:49
  yeah.
• 7:50
  That.
• 7:50
  That's
• 7:51
  him.
• 7:51
  That's
• 7:51
  important.
• 7:52
  And
• 7:53
  because
• 7:53
  it
• 7:53
  can
• 7:53
  be
• 7:54
  anything
• 7:54
  from
• 7:55
  I.
• 7:56
  I
• 7:56
  am.
• 7:57
  You
• 7:57
  know,
• 7:58
  that
• 7:58
  could
• 7:58
  be
• 7:58
  anything
• 7:59
  from
• 7:59
  dressing
• 7:59
  up
• 7:59
  to
• 8:00
  pretending
• 8:00
  like
• 8:00
  we're
• 8:01
  somewhere
• 8:01
  else
• 8:01
  or
• 8:02
  just
• 8:02
  pretending
• 8:02
  like
• 8:03
  you
• 8:03
  are
• 8:03
  someone
• 8:04
  else
• 8:04
  or
• 8:04
  at
• 8:05
  least.
• 8:05
  Yeah.
• 8:06
  And
• 8:06
  yeah.
• 8:07
  When
• 8:07
  you
• 8:07
  have.
• 8:08
  When
• 8:08
  you.
• 8:09
  You
• 8:10
  can
• 8:10
  explore
• 8:12
  changes
• 8:12
  in
• 8:13
  your.
• 8:13
  In
• 8:13
  the
• 8:14
  bedroom
• 8:14
  without
• 8:15
  changing
• 8:15
  partners,
• 8:16
  which
• 8:16
  is
• 8:16
  probably
• 8:17
  a
• 8:18
  good.
• 8:18
  If
• 8:18
  you
• 8:19
  want
• 8:19
  to
• 8:19
  maintain
• 8:19
  that
• 8:20
  relationship,
• 8:20
  try
• 8:21
  to
• 8:21
  keep
• 8:21
  it
• 8:21
  fresh
• 8:22
  and
• 8:22
  try
• 8:22
  to
• 8:22
  keep
• 8:22
  it.
• 8:23
  And.
• 8:24
  And
• 8:24
  again,
• 8:24
  so
• 8:25
  you.
• 8:26
  Some
• 8:26
  partners
• 8:26
  will
• 8:27
  be
• 8:27
  more
• 8:27
  open
• 8:27
  to
• 8:27
  it.
• 8:28
  Than
• 8:28
  others.
• 8:29
  And
• 8:30
  it
• 8:30
  doesn't
• 8:30
  necessarily
• 8:31
  mean,
• 8:31
  like,
• 8:31
  you
• 8:31
  need
• 8:32
  to
• 8:32
  buy
• 8:32
  a
• 8:32
  Bo
• 8:32
  Peep
• 8:33
  outfit,
• 8:33
  but
• 8:34
  you
• 8:34
  can.
• 8:34
  Unless
• 8:35
  you
• 8:35
  can.
• 8:35
  You
• 8:36
  can.
• 8:38
  Halloween's
• 8:39
  coming
• 8:39
  up.
• 8:39
  They're
• 8:39
  everywhere
• 8:40
  in
• 8:40
  the
• 8:40
  store.
• 8:40
  That's
• 8:41
  right.
• 8:42
  But
• 8:42
  you.
• 8:42
  Right.
• 8:43
  But
• 8:43
  again,
• 8:44
  you
• 8:44
  can
• 8:45
  just.
• 8:45
  It
• 8:45
  can
• 8:45
  just
• 8:46
  be
• 8:46
  verbal
• 8:47
  and
• 8:47
  instead.
• 8:48
  And
• 8:49
  have
• 8:49
  it.
• 8:49
  It
• 8:49
  doesn't
• 8:50
  have
• 8:50
  to
• 8:50
  be,
• 8:50
  like,
• 8:51
  a
• 8:51
  huge
• 8:52
  investment
• 8:52
  at
• 8:53
  the
• 8:54
  Halloween
• 8:54
  Express,
• 8:55
  but
• 8:57
  trying
• 8:57
  to
• 8:57
  just
• 8:58
  say,
• 8:58
  and
• 8:59
  it
• 8:59
  doesn't
• 8:59
  necessarily
• 9:00
  even
• 9:00
  need
• 9:00
  to
• 9:00
  be
• 9:00
  that
• 9:01
  this
• 9:01
  person
• 9:01
  is
• 9:01
  a
• 9:02
  totally
• 9:02
  different
• 9:02
  person.
• 9:02
  It
• 9:03
  can
• 9:03
  be
• 9:03
  just
• 9:03
  like,
• 9:04
  hey,
• 9:04
  let's
• 9:05
  say
• 9:05
  we're
• 9:05
  at
• 9:06
  the
• 9:06
  cabana
• 9:06
  and
• 9:06
  you're
• 9:07
  putting
• 9:08
  sunscreen
• 9:09
  on
• 9:09
  me
• 9:09
  or
• 9:09
  whatever.
• 9:10
  You
• 9:10
  can
• 9:10
  be
• 9:10
  something
• 9:11
  as
• 9:11
  simple
• 9:12
  massage.
• 9:13
  Yeah.
• 9:13
  But
• 9:14
  something
• 9:14
  simple.
• 9:15
  Absolutely.
• 9:16
  So
• 9:16
  fun.
• 9:17
  Did
• 9:17
  we
• 9:18
  win?