Latest / Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio / When Life Feels Upside Down, What Do You Do?
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hi, this is Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio,
- 0:04Speaker 1: and this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation,
- 0:09Speaker 1: and metaphysical wisdom. Okay, let's talk about when life is
- 0:14Speaker 1: upside down. It's something that's gone funky in your experience.
- 0:21Speaker 1: What do you do? Well, I've done lots of shows
- 0:25Speaker 1: on strategy for navigating those times. But I want to say,
- 0:32Speaker 1: let's start simple. Take a moment, step away from your circumstances,
- 0:39Speaker 1: take a breath. If you need to call a friend
- 0:43Speaker 1: and rant for a bit, do so. And then find
- 0:47Speaker 1: that quiet moment, open your notebook, and write at the top,
- 0:54Speaker 1: what do I want? Because when life feels upside down,
- 0:59Speaker 1: it can be very easy to focus on what you
- 1:02Speaker 1: do not want. It can be very easy to get
- 1:05Speaker 1: caught in a complaining loop. It can be very easy
- 1:08Speaker 1: to start blaming. It can be even easier to be
- 1:13Speaker 1: down on yourself. Make yourself wrong. Put yourself under the
- 1:19Speaker 1: bus and then drive over yourself. Like, it can get
- 1:24Speaker 1: real bad in your mind. when life feels like it's
- 1:27Speaker 1: not going your way. And I want to say to you,
- 1:32Speaker 1: stop all of that and take a moment to get
- 1:39Speaker 1: really clear about what you actually desire. And honestly, if
- 1:44Speaker 1: you put your hand over your heart, and even my
- 1:49Speaker 1: spirit guides are saying in this moment, put your hand
- 1:52Speaker 1: on your solar plexus, So one hand over your heart,
- 1:56Speaker 1: one over your solar plexus. Feel yourself root in. Take
- 2:02Speaker 1: a breath. And ask, what do I want? And then
- 2:10Speaker 1: write what comes up. You can start the sentence with
- 2:14Speaker 1: I desire or I want. And keep writing until you
- 2:20Speaker 1: get really clear. You're going to feel an internal click. Now,
- 2:26Speaker 1: if you're struggling with this and your head's still just
- 2:28Speaker 1: thinking all sorts of things that aren't serving you well,
- 2:36Speaker 1: pray about it. Pray about it, right? And say, God,
- 2:42Speaker 1: I just really want to shift this situation. And I
- 2:44Speaker 1: know if I can connect to my desire, I'll be
- 2:49Speaker 1: able to create a different result. So Help. Help me.
- 2:57Speaker 1: And then pause. Pause and then go back to the notebook.
- 3:05Speaker 1: What do I want? And keep it really simple and
- 3:09Speaker 1: keep it about you, right? I just want to feel
- 3:15Speaker 1: loved and appreciated. I just really want a good meal
- 3:20Speaker 1: and a nap. And whatever comes up, honor that and
- 3:26Speaker 1: do what you can do. Or it could be work
- 3:29Speaker 1: is crazy and you realize, I know I have to
- 3:33Speaker 1: navigate this situation because this is my source of income,
- 3:37Speaker 1: but I'm really ready for a new job. I want
- 3:40Speaker 1: a new job. And just in acknowledging your truest desire,
- 3:47Speaker 1: you suddenly open pathways within you So you're open to
- 3:53Speaker 1: all the possible ways that what you want can come
- 3:56Speaker 1: to you. But it needs to be your truest desire.
- 4:01Speaker 1: It needs to be your truest desire. And your truest
- 4:04Speaker 1: desire can be anything, right? It could be, I want
- 4:08Speaker 1: so-and-so to get fired. Okay. Okay. Be with that. Again,
- 4:17Speaker 1: ask yourself, is this my truest desire? Is this the
- 4:20Speaker 1: way I want to use my divine power right now?
- 4:26Speaker 1: If there are infinite possibilities and all I have to
- 4:30Speaker 1: do is tune into my desire, is this the way
- 4:34Speaker 1: I want to use my divine power right now? Now,
- 4:39Speaker 1: the tricky thing can be if you are in a
- 4:42Speaker 1: perfectionist mindset. You can suddenly be like, well, I just
- 4:47Speaker 1: want this and I want to be able to do
- 4:48Speaker 1: everything again, that's not your truest desire. And so you're
- 4:54Speaker 1: going to have to be willing to ask yourself, is
- 4:56Speaker 1: this coming from my heart or is this coming from perfectionism?
- 5:01Speaker 1: And perfectionism is never for your highest and greatest good.
- 5:04Speaker 1: I know it can lull you into submission with its,
- 5:09Speaker 1: if you do this and you do that, then you'll
- 5:11Speaker 1: suddenly be perfect, but it never works that way. So again,
- 5:18Speaker 1: life's upside down, whatever it might be, something unexpected showed up,
- 5:23Speaker 1: ask yourself, what do you want? What do you want?
- 5:32Speaker 1: And you'll find that just in doing so, you start
- 5:37Speaker 1: to feel better. And next layer of that, you'll nine
- 5:43Speaker 1: times out of ten get a solution. Like, oh, I'll
- 5:46Speaker 1: just go and I'll do this, or oh, I'll I'll
- 5:49Speaker 1: ask this, or you know what? I need to take
- 5:52Speaker 1: a half day, and I'm going home. Whatever it is,
- 5:58Speaker 1: the solution will come to you when you're willing to
- 6:01Speaker 1: sincerely ask for what you want. It's pretty amazing. Pretty
- 6:09Speaker 1: amazing when life feels upside down. This also works when
- 6:15Speaker 1: you're feeling overwhelmed. And, you know, I've said many times
- 6:23Speaker 1: on this program, overwhelm is a cocktail of perfectionism and
- 6:29Speaker 1: lack of priority. And so the same thing, if you're
- 6:33Speaker 1: feeling overwhelmed, just sit down, take the breath, open your journal,
- 6:41Speaker 1: ask yourself, what do I want right now? Hmm. Well,
- 6:48Speaker 1: I want to feel accomplished. Okay. What would make me
- 6:51Speaker 1: feel really accomplished? What is the one thing right now
- 6:56Speaker 1: that would make me feel accomplished? Oh, I would feel
- 7:00Speaker 1: accomplished if I return that email from so-and-so. Beautiful. Now
- 7:08Speaker 1: you know priority. You've moved out of perfectionism and now
- 7:13Speaker 1: you know priority. You can sit down and do that.
- 7:17Speaker 1: you will feel better. And nine times out of 10, again,
- 7:22Speaker 1: something wonderful is going to show up behind that. It's
- 7:26Speaker 1: quite powerful when you start to acknowledge your desire. Your
- 7:29Speaker 1: desires are in your heart for a divine reason. And
- 7:34Speaker 1: so when you acknowledge them, you step into your divine power.
- 7:41Speaker 1: And it's quite amazing all that occurs, which is why
- 7:48Speaker 1: I'm offering a new program, Always Know What You Want.
- 7:52Speaker 1: It is a self-guided intuitive coaching experience to help you
- 7:58Speaker 1: know what you always want. And it's about the practice
- 8:06Speaker 1: and what you'll be guided through is various ways to
- 8:10Speaker 1: get clear, to know, to understand your desire and making
- 8:16Speaker 1: that a practice in your life. I recently saw a
- 8:21Speaker 1: clip of Oprah on Instagram and she was talking about deciding,
- 8:27Speaker 1: you know, what your next step is later in life.
- 8:30Speaker 1: And she said, give yourself a pause. And I have
- 8:35Speaker 1: found that truly successful people take the time to get
- 8:39Speaker 1: clear about what they want. It is really a pause. So,
- 8:45Speaker 1: what do you want? Your true desire is not the
- 8:51Speaker 1: same thing as what you think you should want or
- 8:54Speaker 1: settling for what you can get. However, if you know
- 9:00Speaker 1: what you actually want, you develop a greater sense of faith, confidence, focus,
- 9:06Speaker 1: and commitment, and you may not have even started working
- 9:09Speaker 1: on it. And more so, you stop letting your circumstances
- 9:15Speaker 1: dictate your path. Oh, life feels upside down. That must mean, no,
- 9:20Speaker 1: you just return to desire. You return to focusing on
- 9:28Speaker 1: what's truly important to you. And there is power and
- 9:36Speaker 1: magic in that. Your desires are divined. So always know
- 9:41Speaker 1: what you want helps you tap into that, helps you
- 9:43Speaker 1: practice that. We weren't taught to desire. And my previous show,
- 9:49Speaker 1: I told you little kid me who came in with
- 9:52Speaker 1: this high level of spiritual awareness knew that. And so
- 9:59Speaker 1: I've been practicing focusing on what I want from a
- 10:03Speaker 1: very young age. And now I'm going to guide you
- 10:06Speaker 1: through all the ways I have learned not only to
- 10:09Speaker 1: do that, expand on top of that. So I'm always
- 10:12Speaker 1: getting what I want. So when you always know what
- 10:15Speaker 1: you want, you get what you want. So this is
- 10:18Speaker 1: a six-week intuitive coaching experience. Again, it's self-guided. So you'll
- 10:24Speaker 1: get five weeks of lessons, exercises, and audio lectures. And
- 10:31Speaker 1: in addition to that, you will have access to me
- 10:34Speaker 1: for those six weeks over email for email intuitive coaching.
- 10:40Speaker 1: So if you're working on a worksheet and you're like, ooh,
- 10:43Speaker 1: I'm bumping up against something. I'm not sure what it
- 10:46Speaker 1: is within me. I want to talk to somebody about it.
- 10:49Speaker 1: How many of us have taken a course and really
- 10:53Speaker 1: wish we had somebody to talk to about it? Well,
- 10:56Speaker 1: now you do. And that's why I'm calling this an
- 10:58Speaker 1: intuitive coaching experience. You know, deep down, you know desire.
- 11:04Speaker 1: I'm not teaching you that. I'm teaching you how to
- 11:08Speaker 1: always know what you want. How to take the pause.
- 11:13Speaker 1: how to trust yourself, how to follow your intuition, how
- 11:17Speaker 1: to test the desire if it's really yours. And then
- 11:23Speaker 1: if you want to talk about all of that, if
- 11:25Speaker 1: you want some insight on all of that, if you
- 11:28Speaker 1: hit a wall, then you can reach out to me
- 11:30Speaker 1: over the six-week period. Great, right? The investment is $ 144.
- 11:35Speaker 1: Registration closes on November 4th. go to intuitivecoachingwithamy.com and register
- 11:47Speaker 1: for Always Know What You Want. You will see it
- 11:50Speaker 1: at the top of the page because you get to
- 11:53Speaker 1: feel good about what you want. And this program will
- 11:56Speaker 1: help you do that. And when you know what you want,
- 11:59Speaker 1: you're halfway to your goal. You're halfway to the desire.
- 12:04Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to the show. I
- 12:07Speaker 1: pray it was useful. I look forward to connecting with
- 12:11Speaker 1: you on the next. Take care of yourself. Goodbye.