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Ep. 130 - Women Are Tired · Afternoon Tea Podcast

• 0:00
  SPEAKER_01: Wanna stop, wanna stop it?
• 0:07
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah, studio audience.
• 0:09
  SPEAKER_01: Welcome to Afternoon T with you.
• 0:12
  SPEAKER_01: Well, we sit up, speed up every man, see the first.
• 0:15
  SPEAKER_01: What's up, y'all?
• 0:16
  SPEAKER_03: Hey, what'd it do?
• 0:18
  SPEAKER_01: What's T?
• 0:19
  SPEAKER_03: Me.
• 0:20
  unknown: I know that's right.
• 0:21
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, bruh.
• 0:24
  SPEAKER_01: I'm getting so tired of this studio audience.
• 0:26
  SPEAKER_01: They just they they give me a run for my money every week.
• 0:29
  SPEAKER_01: I'm so happy to be back.
• 0:31
  SPEAKER_01: Guess why?
• 0:33
  SPEAKER_01: This weekend is killed as bolts and us in Chicago.
• 0:43
  SPEAKER_01: We got two mini damn people coming to Chicago this weekend.
• 0:47
  SPEAKER_01: And girls and boys, I am very, very, very, very excited to see everybody.
• 0:53
  SPEAKER_01: We're gonna talk about that a little bit more in a little bit.
• 0:55
  SPEAKER_01: But I'm very excited to see everybody.
• 0:56
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, y'all know again, we're doing um, what you call it?
• 0:59
  SPEAKER_01: What do these things call?
• 1:00
  SPEAKER_01: We're doing refresher teas because it's hot outside, summertime.
• 1:03
  SPEAKER_01: So this is a peach tea unsweet um besides the peaches.
• 1:08
  SPEAKER_01: And I added just a little sweeten loaf.
• 1:09
  SPEAKER_01: So this is what I'm drinking this week.
• 1:11
  SPEAKER_01: So, y'all be sure to tell me y'all tea recommendations in the comments.
• 1:15
  SPEAKER_01: You know, also what I want to try infuse tea.
• 1:17
  SPEAKER_01: And by infuse, I mean with some THC.
• 1:21
  SPEAKER_04: It's a good idea.
• 1:22
  SPEAKER_01: I just be scared of drinks and stuff because you can't control it.
• 1:27
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know how much to drink, and I'll forget what's in.
• 1:30
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I'll forget what's in there and then drink it all and be scared.
• 1:37
  SPEAKER_01: You said what?
• 1:38
  SPEAKER_04: You can't be scared.
• 1:39
  SPEAKER_01: You be drinking it.
• 1:41
  SPEAKER_01: You be drinking THC?
• 1:43
  SPEAKER_04: Uh if I go to like a speakeasy and they got like the T.
• 1:46
  SPEAKER_00: Speakeasy?
• 1:47
  SPEAKER_00: What Speakeasy got THC?
• 1:50
  SPEAKER_03: The flask.
• 1:51
  SPEAKER_03: We have some.
• 1:52
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, it's it's it's it's some bars around town that they they will infuse your uh alcoholic baby.
• 1:59
  SPEAKER_05: I'm scared.
• 2:00
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my god.
• 2:01
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, y'all alarmed me some.
• 2:03
  SPEAKER_01: I ain't know that.
• 2:04
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, you can follow the show.
• 2:05
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• 2:10
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• 2:17
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• 2:18
  SPEAKER_01: Y'all have been doing amazing.
• 2:20
  SPEAKER_01: I really appreciate all of the support thus far on my little baby.
• 2:23
  SPEAKER_01: Um, thank you guys so much.
• 2:25
  SPEAKER_01: I feel like I should say that right now.
• 2:26
  SPEAKER_01: So let's have a little tea party.
• 2:33
  SPEAKER_01: All right, back.
• 2:34
  SPEAKER_01: We're gonna catch up with Killer.
• 2:35
  SPEAKER_01: Once again, already spilled.
• 2:36
  SPEAKER_01: I already spilled the T T.
• 2:37
  SPEAKER_01: I talked too much.
• 2:38
  SPEAKER_01: Afternoon T.
• 2:39
  SPEAKER_01: Chicago is this weekend.
• 2:41
  SPEAKER_01: Are you guys excited?
• 2:42
  SPEAKER_01: Because all of y'all are going.
• 2:43
  SPEAKER_01: Are y'all excited?
• 2:44
  SPEAKER_05: I'm so excited.
• 2:45
  SPEAKER_04: I am excited.
• 2:46
  SPEAKER_04: I ain't been to Chicago in a minute.
• 2:48
  SPEAKER_04: I'm very excited.
• 2:49
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah.
• 2:49
  SPEAKER_01: Have y'all been to Chicago in the summer?
• 2:51
  SPEAKER_04: Yes.
• 2:51
  SPEAKER_04: Yes.
• 2:52
  SPEAKER_05: No, I haven't.
• 2:53
  SPEAKER_01: What?
• 2:55
  SPEAKER_05: No, I haven't.
• 2:56
  SPEAKER_05: I went for my birthday.
• 2:57
  SPEAKER_05: And that's October.
• 2:58
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah.
• 2:58
  SPEAKER_05: Rain and the cold and everything closed early.
• 3:00
  SPEAKER_05: So I didn't haven't gotten the full experience.
• 3:02
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my God.
• 3:03
  SPEAKER_01: Summertime shots, everything they said it was.
• 3:06
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my God.
• 3:07
  SPEAKER_01: That is one of my favorite American cities.
• 3:09
  SPEAKER_01: If they wasn't the Windy City for real, for real, that might be a place, a destination.
• 3:15
  SPEAKER_01: I love Chicago.
• 3:16
  SPEAKER_01: I am so excited.
• 3:18
  SPEAKER_01: Um, this is the second live tea.
• 3:20
  SPEAKER_01: What do we want to call this?
• 3:21
  SPEAKER_01: What is this called?
• 3:22
  SPEAKER_01: Tea party?
• 3:23
  SPEAKER_01: Yes.
• 3:23
  SPEAKER_01: This is the second tea party we've done this year.
• 3:26
  SPEAKER_01: The first one was out of the country in Mexico City.
• 3:29
  SPEAKER_01: Um, and this one will be in summertime shy.
• 3:32
  SPEAKER_01: And I think that we couldn't have picked better locations for both teas.
• 3:37
  SPEAKER_01: I'm very, very excited.
• 3:38
  SPEAKER_01: This starting off really strong with your tour, your tea tour.
• 3:42
  SPEAKER_01: My tea tour, my little tea tour.
• 3:44
  SPEAKER_01: That's that hey, these are some big shoes, Sophia.
• 3:46
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know what we're gonna do next year.
• 3:47
  SPEAKER_01: I'm thinking about Vegas.
• 3:48
  SPEAKER_01: What y'all think for next next year?
• 3:51
  SPEAKER_03: I'd just be excited to have a black tea.
• 3:54
  SPEAKER_01: I listen, I know that's right.
• 3:56
  SPEAKER_01: Eventually I want to get to the point where we're like have our own venue so we can make the tea our own.
• 4:01
  SPEAKER_01: Right now, we're still having to go to tea places and we still made it our own.
• 4:05
  SPEAKER_01: The one in I don't know how the fuck we walked out of afternoon tea in Mexico City on our That was crazy.
• 4:12
  SPEAKER_04: Uh yeah, tea just turned into what uh what we got?
• 4:15
  SPEAKER_04: One or two bottles.
• 4:16
  SPEAKER_04: Either way, it tea turned into a bottle.
• 4:17
  SPEAKER_04: One or two?
• 4:18
  SPEAKER_04: At least a bottle.
• 4:20
  SPEAKER_04: Everybody was drinking, I'm getting drinked too.
• 4:22
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, we had they had champagne on felt like on tap.
• 4:26
  SPEAKER_01: Every time your cup.
• 4:28
  SPEAKER_01: Man, every time your cup ran out, it was coming.
• 4:31
  SPEAKER_01: We we started by ordering rounds of shots, then people was ordering cocktails, and then we started ordering bottles of Don Julio.
• 4:38
  SPEAKER_05: And I get sick.
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_01: That's why I'm telling you, we walked out.
• 4:41
  SPEAKER_01: We wasn't sick, but we was I think that was the end of the day, right?
• 4:46
  SPEAKER_04: Did we do something after that?
• 4:47
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, I think we did.
• 4:49
  SPEAKER_04: Because people were supposed to go, people were supposed to go and rest, but people still went and turned up at another place, and then I think they couldn't make it out to the the next event we had for later that evening.
• 4:58
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah, yes, yes.
• 5:00
  SPEAKER_01: So it got crazy.
• 5:02
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it got crazy at this tea.
• 5:03
  SPEAKER_01: So and I hope we do the same thing in Chicago.
• 5:05
  SPEAKER_01: We had a really, really good time.
• 5:06
  SPEAKER_01: We still got the essence of afternoon tea.
• 5:08
  SPEAKER_01: They still explained all the teas.
• 5:09
  SPEAKER_01: We still got to try different teas, learn what each tea was for.
• 5:13
  SPEAKER_01: This one can do this and that.
• 5:16
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it's an experience.
• 5:17
  SPEAKER_01: It's not just like they come out and hand you some stuff.
• 5:19
  SPEAKER_05: They just I just thought they just bring it out shit and we just eating and drinking.
• 5:21
  SPEAKER_01: No, and even the treats were specialized to afternoon tea.
• 5:25
  SPEAKER_01: Um, this the normally you go and they eat some shit like this, and then that's that's all you have.
• 5:30
  SPEAKER_01: But they kept bringing, they brought us so much food we couldn't even eat it.
• 5:34
  SPEAKER_01: He packed it all up and took it to his hotel because it was just so much leftovers.
• 5:37
  SPEAKER_05: I don't think we're trying to first tea.
• 5:40
  SPEAKER_01: Your first tea?
• 5:41
  SPEAKER_01: Your first time of shot?
• 5:42
  SPEAKER_05: Oh my god, we have to.
• 5:47
  SPEAKER_01: Yes.
• 5:47
  SPEAKER_01: A lot of y'all missed out on tickets, and that's okay.
• 5:49
  SPEAKER_01: We had limited space anyway.
• 5:51
  SPEAKER_01: The next one is 2027, so please don't ask me because I'm not doing it.
• 5:55
  SPEAKER_01: Uh I'm I'm I'm kind of perturbed that I did this one.
• 5:59
  SPEAKER_01: I think I pushed it, but it's okay.
• 6:00
  SPEAKER_01: I pushed myself sometime to see what we can do.
• 6:03
  SPEAKER_01: And thankfully, we have a really good bunch of people coming.
• 6:06
  SPEAKER_01: We're gonna have an amazing time, and I'm very excited to uh welcome you guys to my little tea party.
• 6:14
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah.
• 6:16
  SPEAKER_01: Party us.
• 6:17
  SPEAKER_01: All right.
• 6:18
  SPEAKER_01: Anyway, y'all see all about it when we come back.
• 6:20
  SPEAKER_01: All right, no shade all tea, baby.
• 6:26
  SPEAKER_01: Keisha Cole got a new man, y'all.
• 6:28
  SPEAKER_01: That's what the call had say.
• 6:30
  SPEAKER_01: RB Icon, Keisha Cole, and Philadelphia rapper Skrilla have confirmed they are dating after posting cozy photos together on social media.
• 6:38
  SPEAKER_01: Keisha is 44 and Skrilla is 27.
• 6:41
  SPEAKER_05: Who is Skrilla?
• 6:42
  SPEAKER_01: I have no idea.
• 6:43
  SPEAKER_01: Who is Skrilla?
• 6:44
  SPEAKER_01: Anyone know?
• 6:45
  SPEAKER_04: I do not.
• 6:47
  SPEAKER_04: I don't think I know who that is.
• 6:49
  SPEAKER_04: Um Wow.
• 6:50
  SPEAKER_01: Are we old?
• 6:51
  SPEAKER_05: Aunties and uncles.
• 6:53
  SPEAKER_01: Are we old?
• 6:54
  SPEAKER_05: I guess.
• 6:55
  SPEAKER_01: Nobody knows what song he sings?
• 6:58
  SPEAKER_01: I'm about to go find out.
• 6:59
  SPEAKER_01: Skrilla.
• 7:00
  SPEAKER_01: He sings do.
• 7:02
  SPEAKER_06: He sings what I'm saying.
• 7:11
  SPEAKER_06: Fast forwarding a little bit or something?
• 7:12
  SPEAKER_06: I don't know what the fuck.
• 7:16
  SPEAKER_04: Oh, I know that song.
• 7:19
  SPEAKER_01: Fuck me, write that on that money.
• 7:22
  SPEAKER_01: Remember he got uh Cardi to be on the song?
• 7:25
  SPEAKER_01: Fuck me, write down that money.
• 7:28
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, anyways, he's 27 and she's 44.
• 7:31
  SPEAKER_01: What do we think about that?
• 7:32
  SPEAKER_01: That kind of age gap studio audience.
• 7:36
  SPEAKER_04: I think at this point, Keisha Cole just needs to give me a chance.
• 7:39
  SPEAKER_05: Give you a chance?
• 7:40
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah.
• 7:42
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, can you speak louder into the mic?
• 7:44
  SPEAKER_01: You think you're gonna have to speak directly into the hoochie.
• 7:48
  SPEAKER_01: Do you think what?
• 7:50
  SPEAKER_04: Let me get it.
• 7:54
  SPEAKER_04: No, I I feel like at this point she might as well give me a chance.
• 7:57
  SPEAKER_04: I mean Keisha Cole give me some pussy.
• 8:00
  SPEAKER_05: Um dating around.
• 8:02
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah.
• 8:03
  SPEAKER_05: Women can't date around, John.
• 8:06
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, she can, but the type of people.
• 8:08
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, it's just it's just the type.
• 8:10
  SPEAKER_05: Is it her?
• 8:11
  SPEAKER_05: Is she the problem or is it these niggas?
• 8:13
  SPEAKER_01: Why are you dating a 27-year-old?
• 8:15
  SPEAKER_01: What you mean is it her?
• 8:24
  SPEAKER_01: See, you were serious.
• 8:25
  SPEAKER_01: Did you see why are you dating a 27-year-old?
• 8:28
  SPEAKER_05: All her baby daddies are like younger than her.
• 8:30
  SPEAKER_01: Baby daddies?
• 8:32
  SPEAKER_05: She has two.
• 8:33
  SPEAKER_05: And they all like younger than her, like fairly younger than her, right?
• 8:37
  SPEAKER_06: How old is D kill?
• 8:39
  SPEAKER_01: Why are you shaking your head?
• 8:40
  SPEAKER_01: Yes.
• 8:40
  SPEAKER_01: I know that second one is.
• 8:41
  SPEAKER_04: The second one is I don't think What's the personal name?
• 8:43
  SPEAKER_05: What's she saying his name?
• 8:44
  SPEAKER_04: Uh Dani Daniel Gibson.
• 8:46
  SPEAKER_01: He was from Houston.
• 8:48
  SPEAKER_01: South Park.
• 8:49
  SPEAKER_05: He's not 18.
• 8:51
  SPEAKER_01: He was young as hell.
• 8:53
  SPEAKER_05: He really was, but I don't think he was 18.
• 8:55
  SPEAKER_01: I don't understand.
• 8:57
  SPEAKER_01: I feel like when you got so much money as a man and a woman, stuff don't even be mattering no more.
• 9:04
  SPEAKER_01: Right?
• 9:05
  SPEAKER_05: When you're dating someone what?
• 9:07
  SPEAKER_01: Like when you have so much money, it doesn't even matter anymore if they have money, right?
• 9:11
  SPEAKER_01: Right.
• 9:12
  SPEAKER_01: That's what y'all think?
• 9:13
  SPEAKER_01: But I'm not even just talking about the money.
• 9:15
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, the money is one thing.
• 9:16
  SPEAKER_05: In this situation, who has the money?
• 9:18
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, her, right?
• 9:20
  SPEAKER_01: Keisha Cole.
• 9:21
  SPEAKER_01: Her, right?
• 9:22
  SPEAKER_04: Keisha Cole just went on a a tour, didn't she?
• 9:25
  SPEAKER_04: She oh yeah, she just went on tour?
• 9:27
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, she just and she was at the Toyota Center.
• 9:29
  SPEAKER_04: I seen the the women came out came out for her.
• 9:31
  SPEAKER_04: Oh, you was there?
• 9:32
  SPEAKER_04: Oh, you went to the tour?
• 9:33
  SPEAKER_04: I went also the women came out.
• 9:36
  SPEAKER_04: Oh, okay.
• 9:36
  SPEAKER_04: My bad.
• 9:37
  SPEAKER_04: It's all good.
• 9:37
  SPEAKER_04: Hey, yeah.
• 9:38
  SPEAKER_04: They was out there.
• 9:38
  SPEAKER_01: Keisha got hey, people forget who keys because she does shit like this.
• 9:43
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, no, that's why I say people forget who she's.
• 9:47
  SPEAKER_01: So you feel like she might as well give you some pussy.
• 9:49
  SPEAKER_01: She let that man Terry Bone.
• 9:56
  SPEAKER_01: If that's the game, she might as well give me some pussy.
• 9:59
  SPEAKER_01: The fuck?
• 9:59
  SPEAKER_05: I'll take some.
• 10:06
  SPEAKER_01: Hey, Prime Month was last month.
• 10:08
  SPEAKER_01: Please, every month.
• 10:12
  SPEAKER_01: You will take some.
• 10:14
  SPEAKER_01: What you gonna do with Keisha Cole, please?
• 10:15
  SPEAKER_05: You wanna fuck Keisha Cole?
• 10:17
  SPEAKER_01: I would fuck Keishiko.
• 10:18
  SPEAKER_01: You are fake gay, so what you gonna do with Keisha Cole?
• 10:21
  SPEAKER_05: She's more gay than me.
• 10:22
  SPEAKER_01: I'm more gay than you.
• 10:24
  SPEAKER_05: No, you're not.
• 10:25
  SPEAKER_01: I am.
• 10:26
  SPEAKER_01: I'm like right there.
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_05: When the last time you ate pussy.
• 10:29
  SPEAKER_05: Hey! Exactly.
• 10:32
  SPEAKER_04: You can't have that.
• 10:33
  SPEAKER_04: That can't be where you draw the line.
• 10:36
  SPEAKER_01: Who are Scorpio?
• 10:38
  SPEAKER_01: Scorpio's being freaky is fake.
• 10:40
  SPEAKER_05: It's so fake.
• 10:41
  SPEAKER_01: It is so fake.
• 10:43
  SPEAKER_01: They're actually very conservative people.
• 10:45
  SPEAKER_05: I'm such a probe.
• 10:47
  SPEAKER_01: They're actually very conservative.
• 10:49
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know where they got that.
• 10:50
  SPEAKER_05: Very.
• 10:51
  SPEAKER_05: I don't know where that came from.
• 10:52
  SPEAKER_01: They are deranged.
• 10:55
  SPEAKER_01: Tyrese.
• 10:56
  SPEAKER_01: What Tyrese said?
• 11:00
  SPEAKER_01: What he said about Scorpios?
• 11:02
  SPEAKER_02: He started with Scorpio.
• 11:04
  SPEAKER_02: Everything sounds shit.
• 11:06
  SPEAKER_01: She was a Scorpio.
• 11:10
  SPEAKER_01: But y'all know what he said.
• 11:11
  SPEAKER_01: Y'all know what he said though, right?
• 11:13
  SPEAKER_01: Y'all know what he said, right?
• 11:15
  SPEAKER_01: And O'Leo's driving crazy.
• 11:18
  SPEAKER_06: Yeah, because y'all skipped a print.
• 11:20
  SPEAKER_06: He's crazy.
• 11:22
  SPEAKER_06: She's crazy too.
• 11:24
  SPEAKER_00: Hold on, hold on.
• 11:27
  SPEAKER_00: Hold on, bitch.
• 11:30
  SPEAKER_04: The light just went off.
• 11:32
  SPEAKER_01: Excuse.
• 11:35
  SPEAKER_01: He wasn't being crazy like that.
• 11:37
  SPEAKER_01: He was like, they drive me crazy.
• 11:38
  SPEAKER_01: Like, ooh, I'm so hot.
• 11:40
  SPEAKER_01: That's what he meant.
• 11:40
  SPEAKER_05: Ooh, I'm so hot about crazy.
• 11:43
  SPEAKER_05: Crazy crazy.
• 11:44
  SPEAKER_05: Exactly.
• 11:45
  SPEAKER_01: No, there's a difference between driving me crazy.
• 11:48
  SPEAKER_03: That's crazy.
• 11:49
  SPEAKER_03: No.
• 11:49
  SPEAKER_03: And then it's got me looking so crazy.
• 11:52
  SPEAKER_03: Right now.
• 11:52
  SPEAKER_01: No, this is crazy and love.
• 11:55
  SPEAKER_01: Drunk and love, bitch.
• 11:56
  SPEAKER_01: Y'all know what he meant by them Leos.
• 11:58
  SPEAKER_01: Y'all, why y'all don't want to give the Leos a props?
• 12:01
  SPEAKER_01: All of y'all done fucked the Leo and was turned the fuck up and on.
• 12:05
  SPEAKER_01: Especially you, so you be quiet.
• 12:07
  SPEAKER_01: Never.
• 12:07
  SPEAKER_01: I'm trying to clog y'all to.
• 12:09
  SPEAKER_01: Y'all lucky I can't remember.
• 12:10
  SPEAKER_03: No, I haven't, but I'm born from a Leo.
• 12:13
  SPEAKER_01: Me too.
• 12:14
  SPEAKER_03: Two Leos.
• 12:15
  SPEAKER_03: That's funny.
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_01: Your parents was both Leos?
• 12:18
  SPEAKER_03: Yep.
• 12:18
  SPEAKER_03: The 11th and the 19th.
• 12:20
  SPEAKER_03: Did you still together?
• 12:22
  SPEAKER_03: My father passed.
• 12:23
  SPEAKER_03: But my mom is still here.
• 12:25
  SPEAKER_03: Thank you.
• 12:25
  SPEAKER_03: But yeah.
• 12:26
  SPEAKER_03: Okay.
• 12:26
  SPEAKER_01: And they were not together because they was two.
• 12:29
  SPEAKER_01: They were schizophrenia.
• 12:31
  SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
• 12:33
  SPEAKER_01: Let me tell y'all something.
• 12:35
  SPEAKER_01: Leave the Leos alone.
• 12:36
  SPEAKER_01: It's our seat.
• 12:37
  SPEAKER_01: What?
• 12:37
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, let's talk about this and I'm going to move on.
• 12:38
  SPEAKER_01: Because we already talked about Zodiac a couple episodes back.
• 12:41
  SPEAKER_01: Why is everybody so mean to Leos?
• 12:43
  SPEAKER_01: I'm serious.
• 12:44
  SPEAKER_01: What?
• 12:44
  SPEAKER_01: Give me y'all unfiltered thoughts, for real.
• 12:47
  SPEAKER_01: I'm not gonna get mad.
• 12:49
  SPEAKER_01: What is it about Leos that drive y'all crazy in the derogatory sense?
• 12:54
  SPEAKER_01: Go, quick, spit five.
• 12:56
  SPEAKER_03: It's the control.
• 12:57
  SPEAKER_03: It's like on the it's it's borderline drugo, which makes sense because they're right there.
• 13:03
  SPEAKER_05: It's the entitlement to me.
• 13:05
  SPEAKER_01: Let me follow a follow up entitlement to what?
• 13:08
  SPEAKER_05: Everything.
• 13:11
  SPEAKER_01: Like they think they deserve it.
• 13:14
  SPEAKER_05: Or that it's theirs and should be theirs.
• 13:16
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 13:17
  SPEAKER_06: What you think?
• 13:18
  SPEAKER_04: Uh manipulation.
• 13:21
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, yeah, that's that's right.
• 13:24
  SPEAKER_05: They're good at it though.
• 13:26
  SPEAKER_05: Very good at it.
• 13:26
  SPEAKER_05: You know that it's manipulation until you very good.
• 13:29
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah.
• 13:30
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, my mom told y'all.
• 13:32
  SPEAKER_01: Well, I won't be asking y'all this fucking question.
• 13:41
  SPEAKER_01: Cause excuse me, bitch.
• 13:43
  SPEAKER_01: My jewel, people who listen, I have been friends with all these motherfuckers for double digit years.
• 13:50
  SPEAKER_05: You said Leo's.
• 13:51
  SPEAKER_05: You didn't say about you?
• 13:52
  SPEAKER_05: You wanna talk about you?
• 13:53
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, that's Harry.
• 13:55
  SPEAKER_06: No.
• 13:57
  SPEAKER_06: Which one of them categories I feel like?
• 14:04
  SPEAKER_06: Anyways.
• 14:05
  SPEAKER_01: Fuck he should call her teeny bop ass nigga and fuck y'all bitches.
• 14:09
  SPEAKER_01: Oh.
• 14:14
  SPEAKER_01: Shout out to the Leos.
• 14:15
  SPEAKER_01: We all we got, cause these hoes didn't turn through us in here.
• 14:19
  SPEAKER_01: Anyways, podcaster refuses to date women with money.
• 14:23
  SPEAKER_01: Baton Rouge rapper says he's wait, what?
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_00: That's what you put on your.
• 14:29
  SPEAKER_05: Oh, don't read that.
• 14:36
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, that's up, y'all.
• 14:38
  SPEAKER_06: Wait, what?
• 14:39
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, let's talk about the podcaster refusing to date women with money while you switch yourself out.
• 14:45
  SPEAKER_01: Fellas, up in here.
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_01: Um I've been saying this a lot, huh?
• 14:49
  SPEAKER_05: You want me to play play the cook?
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_01: No.
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_01: I've been saying this a lot lately online of Wait, who was that that was saying that?
• 14:59
  SPEAKER_01: That was Tahoe TV.
• 15:03
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 15:04
  SPEAKER_05: Shameless podcast.
• 15:07
  SPEAKER_01: So shameless, I think.
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah.
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_01: No shameless.
• 15:09
  SPEAKER_01: Some shit like that.
• 15:10
  SPEAKER_01: Shout out to Tahoe.
• 15:11
  SPEAKER_01: I actually met Tahoe for the first time at the Jay-Z concert.
• 15:14
  SPEAKER_01: He introduced me to his fiance as his arch nemesis.
• 15:17
  SPEAKER_01: Is that how you say it?
• 15:18
  SPEAKER_01: Mm-hmm.
• 15:18
  SPEAKER_01: So I was very shocked that he even spoke to me because I really thought you didn't like me for real.
• 15:22
  SPEAKER_01: But anyway, it was a wonderful uh, what's the word?
• 15:25
  SPEAKER_01: Introduction?
• 15:26
  SPEAKER_05: Encounter.
• 15:27
  SPEAKER_01: Encounter.
• 15:27
  SPEAKER_01: It was a wonderful encounter.
• 15:29
  SPEAKER_01: It was it was all love.
• 15:30
  SPEAKER_01: Um, so anyway, a clip of the So Shameless.
• 15:33
  SPEAKER_01: Please forgive me, Tahoe.
• 15:34
  SPEAKER_01: I'm really not trying to be funny.
• 15:35
  SPEAKER_01: I think that's the name.
• 15:36
  SPEAKER_01: So shameless podcast came across my timeline.
• 15:39
  SPEAKER_01: Um, and he was saying on there that he does not like to date women with money.
• 15:45
  SPEAKER_01: Um, because basically, where is his place in the equation if you got all your money and all your stuff figured out?
• 15:51
  SPEAKER_01: Uh, do you have the clip?
• 15:53
  SPEAKER_01: Maybe we should play a little bit more than me, or that I'm can't fly for.
• 15:59
  SPEAKER_00: Hold on.
• 15:59
  SPEAKER_07: I don't mess with women that have more than me, or that I'm can't fight for.
• 16:03
  SPEAKER_07: That's sick as f what is the logic behind that?
• 16:06
  SPEAKER_07: If you already doing good and I'm coming in and I knew I can't even match you where you at, why am I, what am I doing over here?
• 16:12
  SPEAKER_07: Do you have a Savior's complex?
• 16:13
  SPEAKER_07: Maybe.
• 16:14
  SPEAKER_05: Man, like I it sounds sick.
• 16:15
  SPEAKER_07: Yeah, I understand why you feel that way, because I used to be like that too.
• 16:18
  SPEAKER_07: Some guys want to feel you want to feel needed.
• 16:20
  SPEAKER_07: You want to feel like your woman has to depend on you.
• 16:23
  SPEAKER_07: Not has to or wants to, but I want to be able to help big up where she's at.
• 16:28
  SPEAKER_07: I don't want her to have to lower down to where I'm at to feel comfortable for me.
• 16:33
  SPEAKER_07: I like accomplished women though.
• 16:34
  SPEAKER_07: I feel like it only becomes a problem when they use their accomplishments to belittle you.
• 16:39
  SPEAKER_07: Now, there are women that do that, and there are women that are super accomplished, and you would never know because they don't, their accomplishments aren't their personality.
• 16:45
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 16:46
  SPEAKER_01: Anyway, shout out to Deja as well, friends of friends, shout out to my girl.
• 16:50
  SPEAKER_01: Um, she is the only woman, I believe, on that podcast.
• 16:54
  SPEAKER_01: Also, Diamond was there.
• 16:55
  SPEAKER_01: Shout out to Diamond.
• 16:57
  SPEAKER_01: Uh okay, what y'all think?
• 17:01
  SPEAKER_04: He said that he feel like he couldn't help her, right?
• 17:03
  SPEAKER_04: If she We all need help in life.
• 17:07
  SPEAKER_04: I feel like no matter how successful we are.
• 17:09
  SPEAKER_04: So that's find a place to fit in.
• 17:12
  SPEAKER_04: You know what I'm saying?
• 17:14
  SPEAKER_03: I think men say that, and then I think also women also talk amongst their girlfriends and be like, Yeah, but he he don't have this.
• 17:21
  SPEAKER_03: He don't have that.
• 17:22
  SPEAKER_03: And like, you know, just from sitting with my girlfriends and so it's kind of like a double-edged sword because to ask for a woman that accomplishes one thing, um but to uh but to but to doubt like yourself because of what they make is a different thing.
• 17:44
  SPEAKER_03: That it's centered in yourself, I feel like.
• 17:46
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 17:47
  SPEAKER_01: And what do you think, Miss Girl?
• 17:49
  SPEAKER_01: Do you think a man should date a woman that makes more money than him?
• 17:53
  SPEAKER_05: Should he?
• 17:54
  SPEAKER_01: Or or what do you think about a man and a woman dating if the woman has substantially more money?
• 17:58
  SPEAKER_05: I don't see why that would be a problem, but like they said in the clip, if she is going to use that to throw it in his face, and I can see why men would be hesitant to date women, they make more than them, but I don't see why that would be a problem.
• 18:08
  SPEAKER_01: I believe that women rarely throw shit in men's face.
• 18:11
  SPEAKER_01: They should more, I think.
• 18:13
  SPEAKER_05: But I think they feel it automatically and they just Of course they feel it.
• 18:17
  SPEAKER_01: I actually agree with Tahoe in this clip, and I'm very upset that I do.
• 18:21
  SPEAKER_01: Not I don't know about if I agree with his reasoning, because I also didn't watch the entire clip.
• 18:25
  SPEAKER_01: So I don't know if I agree with his reasoning, but I do agree that people should date more in their socioeconomic class for the reasons that you will find yourself going down a level if you date somebody so I'm just gonna throw some numbers out, right?
• 18:43
  SPEAKER_01: If a guy makes$25,000 a year, you make a hundred thousand.
• 18:48
  SPEAKER_05: That's a huge gap for you, or are you saying it should be for everybody?
• 18:52
  SPEAKER_04: That's a that's a huge gap.
• 18:54
  SPEAKER_01: That's two different type of that's two different type of lifestyles.
• 18:58
  SPEAKER_01: And people don't want to admit it, but you will, especially I and I'm gonna speak from a woman's point of view because I'm a woman, especially and I've done it, I just did it.
• 19:07
  SPEAKER_01: Um I feel like you find yourself, and I I'm speaking because as he said, as I sit with other women that have done this, you find yourself kinda coming down a notch.
• 19:21
  SPEAKER_05: To their level.
• 19:23
  SPEAKER_01: To their level, and I believe they resent you for it.
• 19:26
  SPEAKER_01: Um things have been said to me like why you doing that?
• 19:31
  SPEAKER_01: Why you buying that?
• 19:32
  SPEAKER_01: Why you going there?
• 19:33
  SPEAKER_01: Why you doing this?
• 19:34
  SPEAKER_01: And it's just me doing what I would normally do.
• 19:36
  SPEAKER_01: And so then I can find myself lying about where I was going, how much I spent on something, da da da da.
• 19:42
  SPEAKER_01: It just Yeah.
• 19:44
  SPEAKER_05: But why do men only want to be dependent on financially?
• 19:48
  SPEAKER_01: Because they don't want to do anything else.
• 19:49
  SPEAKER_05: What about emotionally, mentally, spiritually?
• 19:52
  SPEAKER_01: It's easier to just pay.
• 19:56
  SPEAKER_01: Think about it.
• 19:56
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 19:58
  SPEAKER_04: It's just like which kids say to oh, buddy, what child support?
• 20:02
  SPEAKER_04: Anthony it works.
• 20:03
  SPEAKER_04: What he did just paid the money.
• 20:05
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, you don't gotta be in a kid life.
• 20:06
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah.
• 20:07
  SPEAKER_04: It's easier to just pay.
• 20:08
  SPEAKER_01: It's just easier just to pay.
• 20:09
  SPEAKER_01: And then I think they think I think that they think that that's all that women want anyway.
• 20:15
  SPEAKER_01: If I could pay for her some stuff, then but it's like women now are making money.
• 20:21
  SPEAKER_01: They are supporting themselves.
• 20:23
  SPEAKER_01: Like this is not 1950.
• 20:25
  SPEAKER_01: So I saw a clip, and I think I said this on here before, but I saw something online that said, and a man said this.
• 20:31
  SPEAKER_01: We were raised that if we could pay the bill, then we were a man.
• 20:34
  SPEAKER_01: But now that women make just as much or more money than us, and all they want us to do is be good people, we don't know what to do.
• 20:40
  SPEAKER_01: And a man said that, not me.
• 20:43
  SPEAKER_01: A man online said that.
• 20:45
  SPEAKER_01: And I couldn't agree more.
• 20:47
  SPEAKER_01: Bitch, I got more money than you, so now what?
• 20:50
  SPEAKER_01: There's nothing that you can buy me.
• 20:52
  SPEAKER_01: There's nowhere you can take me.
• 20:54
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, they always talking about a table.
• 20:55
  SPEAKER_05: What do you bring to the table after that?
• 20:58
  SPEAKER_01: Who, them?
• 20:59
  SPEAKER_05: Them.
• 21:00
  SPEAKER_01: Right.
• 21:00
  SPEAKER_01: There's nothing that you that a normal man can give me that I cannot give myself.
• 21:07
  SPEAKER_01: So now what?
• 21:10
  SPEAKER_01: And then this, you see how quiet y'all are?
• 21:13
  SPEAKER_01: That's how quiet they are.
• 21:14
  SPEAKER_01: I also saw a clip of a comedian.
• 21:18
  SPEAKER_01: I'm not even gonna say his name because I just yeah.
• 21:21
  SPEAKER_01: Anyway, he was saying that he only dates poor, what was it?
• 21:27
  SPEAKER_01: Well, I said this to you and I said he look and act like old boy.
• 21:30
  SPEAKER_05: Oh, okay.
• 21:31
  SPEAKER_05: I didn't click on it.
• 21:33
  SPEAKER_05: I hate him.
• 21:33
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, he says that he only dates poor women.
• 21:39
  SPEAKER_01: And in the clip they were asking why, and he said, because I want to be, I want to feel like a king, I want to be treated like a king, and I know where to find that at, and that's in poor women.
• 21:49
  SPEAKER_01: A lot of people don't want to he's a dumbass, but he is saying everybody else is saying I dated somebody once, and they was like We had a huge argument about like if I pay your light bill, that wouldn't help you out every month.
• 22:06
  SPEAKER_01: No.
• 22:08
  SPEAKER_00: Well, I pay my ex-girlfriend, I pay her life bill than she.
• 22:13
  SPEAKER_04: She's hurting.
• 22:15
  SPEAKER_01: She she must spit it.
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_01: We ain't hurt nobody.
• 22:17
  SPEAKER_01: She must have spit on it.
• 22:21
  SPEAKER_01: But that's true.
• 22:22
  SPEAKER_01: You there are some, and it's no shade.
• 22:24
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, would I like somebody to pay a lot of bill?
• 22:25
  SPEAKER_01: Sure.
• 22:26
  SPEAKER_01: I would like somebody to do anything, right?
• 22:28
  SPEAKER_01: But I don't even know how much my light bill is.
• 22:30
  SPEAKER_01: It's like on autopay.
• 22:31
  SPEAKER_01: So it's like.
• 22:33
  SPEAKER_05: So would y'all date somebody that makes more than y'all?
• 22:37
  SPEAKER_02: I would.
• 22:38
  SPEAKER_02: Hell yeah.
• 22:40
  SPEAKER_02: Have you it's not it's not about money, it's about understanding what you mean by what y'all understand.
• 22:47
  SPEAKER_02: Will money with no money.
• 22:49
  SPEAKER_02: He may have some money to take care of you, so you never done before.
• 23:03
  SPEAKER_02: Money and everything.
• 23:03
  SPEAKER_05: He may be able to support you mentally supporting.
• 23:06
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, your man might be able to colour.
• 23:09
  SPEAKER_01: Also that's a prerequisite.
• 23:12
  SPEAKER_01: What do you mean?
• 23:12
  SPEAKER_03: Also, I'm not threatened because I know where I am and where I'm on my way to.
• 23:17
  SPEAKER_03: You know what I mean?
• 23:18
  SPEAKER_01: Like so have you ever dated somebody that made substantially more than you?
• 23:22
  SPEAKER_01: I'm not talking about I'm just throwing numbers out.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_01: I'm not talking about you make a hundred and they make a hundred and fifteen.
• 23:26
  SPEAKER_01: I'm talking about you make a hundred and they make three fifty.
• 23:29
  SPEAKER_02: I'm at uh no I'm gonna say, yeah, I think that's a chick who had who made a CEO.
• 23:36
  SPEAKER_01: We can't hear you, so if you want to talk, go to the mic.
• 23:39
  SPEAKER_01: Why you keep talking about CEOs?
• 23:41
  SPEAKER_01: CEO of what?
• 23:44
  SPEAKER_01: Because I'm the CEO of this damn show and we got$2.
• 23:46
  SPEAKER_01: So why you keep saying CEO, CEO of what?
• 23:51
  SPEAKER_02: Man, look, I dated a chick who had who made more than what I make now.
• 23:56
  SPEAKER_02: Uh but what is more?
• 23:57
  SPEAKER_01: I'm not asking for the exact numbers.
• 23:59
  SPEAKER_01: I'm saying, like, what was the gap?
• 24:01
  SPEAKER_02: Shit, she was she in the threes.
• 24:04
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 24:04
  SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
• 24:05
  SPEAKER_01: Mm-hmm.
• 24:06
  SPEAKER_02: So with me being an entrepreneur, you know, sometimes you can have Yeah.
• 24:11
  SPEAKER_01: It's up sometimes.
• 24:12
  SPEAKER_02: Sometimes it's up, and sometimes you like, yeah.
• 24:15
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, I gotta get more intentional with it.
• 24:17
  SPEAKER_02: But the uh but what it was, it was more so of a safe space.
• 24:21
  SPEAKER_02: It was like, yo, when, you know, come over, chilling, cooking, gathering.
• 24:24
  SPEAKER_02: Like, it was just the experience of being around each other.
• 24:28
  SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
• 24:29
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so what happened?
• 24:31
  SPEAKER_02: How does bitch would be lying about shit?
• 24:32
  SPEAKER_02: She, you know, don't lie to you.
• 24:33
  SPEAKER_00: So don't start mumbling now.
• 24:34
  SPEAKER_00: You say what?
• 24:35
  SPEAKER_02: Bitch was lying about shit.
• 24:36
  SPEAKER_02: What she was lying about?
• 24:39
  SPEAKER_02: Dumb shit.
• 24:39
  SPEAKER_02: Like she was lying about dumb shit.
• 24:40
  SPEAKER_02: Wasn't even like shit just an add up.
• 24:44
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 24:45
  SPEAKER_01: That's cause she wore the pants.
• 24:46
  SPEAKER_01: I'm just gonna do it.
• 24:47
  SPEAKER_02: She wouldn't, but she she but now she never, but she never now she never never fronted like, oh yeah, nigga, I make more money than you, because at the end of the day, I'm a man.
• 24:57
  SPEAKER_02: I'm a man first.
• 24:58
  SPEAKER_02: Not saying like, if do you feel like you gotta flex on me like that, then I don't need to be here.
• 25:03
  SPEAKER_02: But it was never, it was always the cool experience, and it was it.
• 25:08
  SPEAKER_02: Dinner.
• 25:08
  SPEAKER_02: You still go to dinner?
• 25:10
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 25:10
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you still go.
• 25:15
  SPEAKER_01: I would.
• 25:16
  SPEAKER_01: But they won't they're not gonna wanna date me.
• 25:21
  SPEAKER_01: And that's just the reality.
• 25:22
  SPEAKER_01: They're not gonna wanna say that, but they're not gonna wanna date me just they're willing to try.
• 25:28
  SPEAKER_05: Would you even let them try?
• 25:29
  SPEAKER_05: Or would you be like, nah, I know how this goes.
• 25:32
  SPEAKER_01: Honestly, right now today, I know how this goes.
• 25:35
  SPEAKER_01: I like I know, I know, I see this movie happening in my head.
• 25:41
  SPEAKER_01: And the crazy part is I can have one conversation at this point, because I have seen it now a couple times over.
• 25:48
  SPEAKER_01: And it ain't even you, it's me.
• 25:50
  SPEAKER_01: The first time I make myself smaller, I need to go.
• 25:57
  SPEAKER_00: So I I mean, yeah.
• 25:59
  SPEAKER_00: And everybody be like, no, I'm not gonna be like mmm, mmm, mmm.
• 26:06
  SPEAKER_02: I don't think you gotta make yourself smaller, because money comes and goes.
• 26:09
  SPEAKER_02: Like, you can lose your job tomorrow.
• 26:11
  SPEAKER_02: Not saying you, God forbid, but what I'm saying, people can lose their job tomorrow, get sick, or whatever the case might be.
• 26:16
  SPEAKER_02: I think it's about finding somebody who would get down there and give you part of their little bit last, like, hey, you know, he gave Eve a hunt, but I gave you my last 20.
• 26:24
  SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
• 26:25
  SPEAKER_02: That's that means that nigga really fuck with you though.
• 26:27
  SPEAKER_01: Why are you down to your last 20?
• 26:29
  SPEAKER_01: Well, I ain't man, you get that.
• 26:31
  SPEAKER_01: You get that.
• 26:32
  SPEAKER_02: You get that anybody that try to give you the last piece of chicken or some shit, you know what I'm saying?
• 26:39
  SPEAKER_02: He he he fucked with you.
• 26:41
  SPEAKER_01: See where I'm at right now?
• 26:44
  SPEAKER_01: We not down to our last.
• 26:47
  SPEAKER_01: Just where I'm at today.
• 26:49
  SPEAKER_02: If he ain't have it, if he ain't got it.
• 26:50
  SPEAKER_01: I don't want to hear that shit.
• 26:51
  SPEAKER_01: Let me tell you why.
• 26:53
  SPEAKER_01: Let me tell you why.
• 26:55
  SPEAKER_01: If you don't look like what a man wants you to look like when he meets you, it's clipped.
• 27:01
  SPEAKER_01: It ain't if you weigh 300 pounds and you like, but but I gotta I got a uh nutritionist, I got a trainer, I got a GPL one, just give me a couple months.
• 27:10
  SPEAKER_01: They don't want to hear that bullshit.
• 27:11
  SPEAKER_01: If you don't suck dick, ride dick, flip on the dick like he wants you to the first time you fuck, it's clipped.
• 27:18
  SPEAKER_01: Now I gotta work with you and you, I hey, I don't want to hear that bullshit.
• 27:22
  SPEAKER_02: Nah, that's because creepy putting too much emphasis on shit.
• 27:24
  SPEAKER_02: You gotta, you, you fuck with people where they are, and then y'all grow from there, like ass.
• 27:29
  SPEAKER_02: Teach her how to teach her how uh yeet when you say easy talk.
• 27:34
  SPEAKER_01: So you willing to teach somebody how to suck that?
• 27:36
  SPEAKER_01: If if if we're gonna be in this for the long file, you're like, hey, you know.
• 27:40
  SPEAKER_01: Nah, don't pass the mic, because I want to get in your business next.
• 27:42
  SPEAKER_01: Have you ever dated somebody that had a lot more money than you?
• 27:46
  SPEAKER_04: A lot more money than me?
• 27:48
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's the question.
• 27:49
  SPEAKER_01: Not just, like I said, because I don't think, honestly, like, if somebody only make like 15k more than you, I don't think you will feel Nah, I haven't.
• 27:58
  SPEAKER_01: Would you?
• 27:59
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, I would.
• 28:00
  SPEAKER_04: I mean, I've been I've been told for years by you know the people I look up to to make sure the person that I talk to got some money.
• 28:08
  SPEAKER_01: Not some money, more money.
• 28:11
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, I would.
• 28:13
  SPEAKER_04: I don't I don't I don't think that I would be uh my ego wouldn't get to me in something like that.
• 28:20
  SPEAKER_04: Um so yeah, that wouldn't bother me.
• 28:24
  SPEAKER_04: Like like I said, I I I agree with him.
• 28:26
  SPEAKER_04: Uh uh I'm about the experience.
• 28:28
  SPEAKER_04: I can't.
• 28:28
  SPEAKER_04: And also what can we do together?
• 28:30
  SPEAKER_04: Like what shoot, maybe she can help me get some more money.
• 28:34
  SPEAKER_04: So now we both we both rolling in mode.
• 28:38
  SPEAKER_04: Help you get some more money.
• 28:40
  SPEAKER_04: We we you met me right here.
• 28:41
  SPEAKER_04: We we about to level up.
• 28:42
  SPEAKER_04: Let's do it some more.
• 28:44
  SPEAKER_04: You know?
• 28:44
  SPEAKER_02: He may have a connect that you need to make some more money.
• 28:47
  SPEAKER_01: Boy, please get the hell out of here.
• 28:49
  SPEAKER_01: If you gotta connect, why you ain't got no money?
• 28:50
  SPEAKER_04: Why?
• 28:51
  SPEAKER_04: I don't do what you do.
• 28:52
  SPEAKER_04: Right.
• 28:55
  SPEAKER_01: I think it sounds good.
• 28:56
  SPEAKER_01: That's what it means.
• 28:57
  SPEAKER_01: Until you get in it.
• 28:58
  SPEAKER_01: Until you get in there.
• 28:59
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, for example, y'all like, oh, let's go to Mexico.
• 29:03
  SPEAKER_01: And you think, oh, look, quick Mexico little$2,000.
• 29:06
  SPEAKER_01: And then she like, oh, I only fly first class.
• 29:11
  SPEAKER_02: And it looks like scene is like, okay, shit.
• 29:15
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, I never followed first class.
• 29:16
  SPEAKER_02: So okay, fine.
• 29:17
  SPEAKER_02: Right now's a good time to get that experience.
• 29:19
  SPEAKER_02: You experience it together.
• 29:21
  SPEAKER_02: This will be my first time flying first classmates.
• 29:23
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 29:24
  SPEAKER_02: Simple as that.
• 29:25
  SPEAKER_01: So you buy the flights, the flights are about$1,500.
• 29:28
  SPEAKER_02: People can motivate you to do better and more.
• 29:32
  SPEAKER_01: I do agree with that.
• 29:34
  SPEAKER_01: However, no shade to everybody in this room.
• 29:36
  SPEAKER_01: And Tahoe, no shade, Tahoe.
• 29:39
  SPEAKER_01: Tahoe's 50 years old.
• 29:41
  SPEAKER_00: Literally.
• 29:42
  SPEAKER_01: So yeah.
• 29:43
  SPEAKER_01: Or older.
• 29:45
  SPEAKER_01: So no shade.
• 29:46
  SPEAKER_01: But I feel like No, he posted his birthday.
• 29:50
  SPEAKER_01: No.
• 29:51
  SPEAKER_01: It's no shade.
• 29:52
  SPEAKER_01: No, he be posting about his age.
• 29:54
  SPEAKER_01: There's no shade for real.
• 29:55
  SPEAKER_01: My point is at that age, how much more if life haven't you, what I'ma say that life ain't.
• 30:06
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, even at our age, what I'ma say to you at this age.
• 30:12
  SPEAKER_02: But sometimes.
• 30:13
  SPEAKER_04: Look at Mr.
• 30:13
  SPEAKER_02: Tendonism.
• 30:14
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 30:16
  SPEAKER_02: Look at Margaret French.
• 30:17
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 30:18
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, hey, yeah, man.
• 30:19
  SPEAKER_01: Get your broke ass up and get on motherfucking LinkedIn, bitch ass nigga.
• 30:24
  SPEAKER_01: Anyway, moving on.
• 30:28
  SPEAKER_02: They start acting too 50 to 60.
• 30:35
  SPEAKER_01: Gary Owen.
• 30:36
  SPEAKER_01: Gary Owen.
• 30:37
  SPEAKER_01: Oh.
• 30:38
  SPEAKER_01: Gary Owen and his child's mother and his his ex-wife and his grown-ass son reunited for the for the boy graduation or something?
• 30:47
  unknown: Maybe, yeah.
• 30:48
  SPEAKER_01: Anyways, they reunited over the weekend for the first time in six years.
• 30:52
  SPEAKER_01: I believe.
• 30:53
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
• 30:53
  SPEAKER_01: Do you know the backstory on this?
• 30:55
  SPEAKER_04: They had a bad uh divorce.
• 30:56
  SPEAKER_01: Right?
• 30:56
  SPEAKER_01: Do you know the backstory?
• 30:57
  SPEAKER_01: Do we know the reason why?
• 30:58
  SPEAKER_01: Infidelity, right?
• 30:59
  SPEAKER_04: Yeah, infidelity.
• 31:00
  SPEAKER_01: Here's my question.
• 31:01
  SPEAKER_01: We're gonna get on, we're gonna get on this.
• 31:03
  SPEAKER_01: I want to hear from everybody.
• 31:04
  SPEAKER_01: Spitfire and we're gonna get out here.
• 31:07
  SPEAKER_01: And then they posting a picture.
• 31:08
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, I got my mom and dad back in the picture for the first time in six years.
• 31:12
  SPEAKER_01: All this shit.
• 31:12
  SPEAKER_01: Why do women always gotta gotta why can't I just never fuck with that nigga ever again?
• 31:18
  SPEAKER_05: They say for the kids.
• 31:20
  SPEAKER_01: Fuck that bitch.
• 31:20
  SPEAKER_01: You was 40.
• 31:21
  SPEAKER_01: That's grown ass motherfucker.
• 31:25
  SPEAKER_05: So you feel like women shouldn't be forced to No, we shouldn't.
• 31:29
  SPEAKER_01: Fuck that nigga.
• 31:30
  SPEAKER_01: He done cheated on me and married another bitch and now appears to be doing right.
• 31:34
  SPEAKER_01: And I was supposed to be in the picture smiling.
• 31:36
  SPEAKER_01: Fuck that nigga.
• 31:36
  SPEAKER_01: Why do why?
• 31:37
  SPEAKER_01: Why?
• 31:38
  SPEAKER_04: She probably just did it for her son.
• 31:40
  SPEAKER_01: Man, as a son.
• 31:41
  SPEAKER_01: See, that's why, as a son, don't ask me no shit like that.
• 31:45
  SPEAKER_01: You seen what the fuck I went through.
• 31:46
  SPEAKER_01: Do it really matter to you to give get us in a picture?
• 31:48
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah, I agree with that.
• 31:51
  SPEAKER_04: It probably does to him.
• 31:52
  SPEAKER_04: I don't I don't know.
• 31:53
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
• 31:54
  SPEAKER_01: Maybe as a daughter, bitch, don't play with my mama.
• 31:56
  SPEAKER_01: You fuck with my mama, hey, you my daddy, so whatever, but I'm not finna force my mama to fuck with you for a picture.
• 32:03
  SPEAKER_01: Y'all got enough pictures over the years, bitch.
• 32:06
  SPEAKER_01: Bag down.
• 32:07
  SPEAKER_01: I'm just sick.
• 32:08
  SPEAKER_01: I would all have rant about this in my close friends.
• 32:11
  SPEAKER_01: I know the people in my close friends like, bitch, show your ass and shut up.
• 32:14
  SPEAKER_01: But I I just hate the way that the world treats mothers.
• 32:19
  SPEAKER_01: I really, really, really, really do.
• 32:21
  SPEAKER_01: It it nothing pisses me off more than the reaction that the world, society has towards the mistreatment of women and especially mothers.
• 32:35
  SPEAKER_01: There is no reason at 20-some years old that you need to force your mama to be in a picture with a nigga that wronged her and then post it online.
• 32:45
  SPEAKER_05: Women are forced to be cordial with people that have hurt us.
• 32:49
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, forced.
• 32:51
  SPEAKER_03: It's not just relegated to their children and their husbands.
• 32:55
  SPEAKER_03: It's that's just the trajectory of the world.
• 32:58
  SPEAKER_01: Listen, we have uncles that everybody know not to leave in the room with kids, but they be at every function.
• 33:04
  SPEAKER_01: Why is this nigga here?
• 33:05
  SPEAKER_03: Right.
• 33:06
  SPEAKER_01: I have an uncle, I ain't gonna say your fucking name, for the protection of your fucking wife, but I have an uncle.
• 33:13
  SPEAKER_01: Every function, go make sure he ain't in there with them kids.
• 33:18
  SPEAKER_01: Go see what he's doing in the other thing.
• 33:19
  SPEAKER_01: Why is he here?
• 33:21
  SPEAKER_01: Right.
• 33:21
  SPEAKER_01: If this motherfucker can't be trusted, and this has been going on for my whole Jurassic life, if this motherfucker can't be trusted with kids, why is he?
• 33:31
  SPEAKER_01: It's just things like that that just baffle me.
• 33:34
  SPEAKER_01: It just, I just don't understand it.
• 33:37
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm I'm sick of mothers having to endure all that they do, plus the mistreatment, and then, oh, got my mom and my dad, whatever.
• 33:47
  SPEAKER_01: I never had no divorce fans.
• 33:48
  SPEAKER_01: My daddy been dead since I was a kid, whatever.
• 33:51
  SPEAKER_01: But I'm gonna tell you like this, can't nobody play with me and my motherfucking mama, and that's it.
• 33:55
  SPEAKER_01: Now, y'all family, so y'all gotta be around.
• 33:57
  SPEAKER_01: Y'all don't even really gotta be around each other.
• 33:59
  SPEAKER_01: Yo ass is like I said, that boy is old as fuck.
• 34:01
  SPEAKER_01: They kids are grown.
• 34:02
  SPEAKER_05: He's grown, yeah.
• 34:03
  SPEAKER_01: Then they say shit like, I never said one bad thing about you in front of the kids.
• 34:07
  SPEAKER_01: Why?
• 34:09
  SPEAKER_01: Why?
• 34:10
  SPEAKER_01: Why are you harboring all of this?
• 34:13
  SPEAKER_01: You know, women will, if the man says he gonna pick the kid up and don't pick the kid up, the woman will say, Well, maybe he's working or no, he's a bitch, he's a bum.
• 34:22
  SPEAKER_01: Fuck that nigga.
• 34:23
  SPEAKER_01: You'll tell your kids that maybe not in them words, but we're gonna have to get some vocabulary words together to let you know, hey, this is not normal.
• 34:35
  SPEAKER_01: Because what happens is you normalize this.
• 34:38
  SPEAKER_01: You normalize forgiveness.
• 34:40
  SPEAKER_01: No, some shit is unfucking forgivable, bitch.
• 34:42
  SPEAKER_01: And playing with me is unfuck every single time is unforgivable.
• 34:46
  SPEAKER_01: We're gonna play back.
• 34:47
  SPEAKER_01: So I'm just I'm I'm over it.
• 34:49
  SPEAKER_01: I'm over the treatment of women and again, especially mothers.
• 34:54
  SPEAKER_01: I'm I'm over it.
• 34:55
  SPEAKER_01: It's gonna be my last time.
• 34:57
  SPEAKER_01: I know it's not written about this, but I'm really over it.
• 35:01
  SPEAKER_01: Men, stop and think about what you don't because also ultimately your kids are only gonna be as happy as their mama, because that's what they're living with nine times out of ten.
• 35:11
  SPEAKER_01: And whether y'all want to admit it or not, with anybody, if I was upset and y'all walked in here, matter of fact, y'all did walk in here today and say, What's wrong with you?
• 35:19
  SPEAKER_01: Because I was talking low or whatever, even though nothing was wrong with me, but that's what y'all said.
• 35:24
  SPEAKER_01: Imagine living with a mother like that who's depressed or who's sad, who's angry, who's whatever.
• 35:30
  SPEAKER_01: Like it leaks over into the treatment of the children.
• 35:33
  SPEAKER_01: The children's quality of life is compromised.
• 35:35
  SPEAKER_01: And then you're gonna post a motherfucking picture where I got my parents back together.
• 35:38
  SPEAKER_01: Anyways, I'm just sick of women having to endure this.
• 35:40
  SPEAKER_01: That's all the mess for today, child.
• 35:42
  SPEAKER_01: Let's get into the honeypot.
• 35:43
  SPEAKER_01: Sweet answers to tough questions.
• 35:45
  SPEAKER_01: Please send in questions.
• 35:46
  SPEAKER_01: Y'all can do it in the comment section or the email and description.
• 35:48
  SPEAKER_01: Personal questions, relationship questions, messy questions, anything, child, just send them in.
• 35:52
  SPEAKER_01: I would love to spill tea with y'all.
• 35:54
  SPEAKER_01: So, real quick, honey pot question from Natalia via email.
• 35:58
  SPEAKER_01: Hey, y'all, I've been having this issue in my relationship, then I'm unsure if I should speak about it.
• 36:03
  SPEAKER_01: My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years now.
• 36:06
  SPEAKER_01: We also live together.
• 36:07
  SPEAKER_01: I've recently started going to school for a time and then going right to work after and have very little time or days off.
• 36:14
  SPEAKER_01: I've noticed that when I do get time to spend alone with my boyfriend, he's almost always on his phone or playing video games.
• 36:19
  SPEAKER_01: I asked him the other day for some quality time, like an activity without screens, and he totally agreed, but nothing came of it.
• 36:24
  SPEAKER_01: I'm wondering if I should bring up the constant phone use or if there's a good way to bring it up without coming off as an attack.
• 36:30
  SPEAKER_01: Love y'all on the pod.
• 36:31
  SPEAKER_01: Happy six months and counting.
• 36:32
  SPEAKER_01: Thank you, girl.
• 36:34
  SPEAKER_01: What y'all think?
• 36:35
  SPEAKER_01: Quick, somebody give me an answer.
• 36:36
  SPEAKER_01: What y'all think?
• 36:36
  SPEAKER_01: What you should do?
• 36:38
  SPEAKER_03: I feel like then you should just say that.
• 36:41
  SPEAKER_03: Like, just at this point, it's just say what you feel.
• 36:45
  SPEAKER_03: Like, say you ain't giving me enough tension, uh uh enough attention.
• 36:49
  SPEAKER_03: Can we find a way to build in some us time?
• 36:52
  SPEAKER_03: Like, that's just what relationships I believe exist.
• 36:57
  SPEAKER_06: Okay.
• 36:57
  SPEAKER_05: She said she brought it up and nothing came about it.
• 36:59
  SPEAKER_05: So what does she what should she do the second time around of bringing it up?
• 37:02
  SPEAKER_01: Should she make a plan and say, hey, we're doing this on this day with no phones?
• 37:07
  SPEAKER_05: Take initiative?
• 37:08
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 37:08
  SPEAKER_05: Maybe try that.
• 37:10
  SPEAKER_05: And then after that, what what should she do?
• 37:13
  SPEAKER_04: I'm asking y'all.
• 37:16
  SPEAKER_05: Okay.
• 37:17
  SPEAKER_04: Um, or it could yeah, he probably just annoyed her.
• 37:19
  SPEAKER_01: You on that phone with them bitches.
• 37:21
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, me?
• 37:22
  SPEAKER_06: No.
• 37:26
  SPEAKER_04: I had a flashback.
• 37:27
  SPEAKER_04: My bad.
• 37:28
  SPEAKER_01: I had a flashback.
• 37:31
  SPEAKER_01: No, no.
• 37:34
  SPEAKER_01: That man.
• 37:34
  SPEAKER_01: Here dog holler, oh, woo, ooh.
• 37:36
  SPEAKER_01: I want to talk to little bitches, not you.
• 37:40
  SPEAKER_01: No, the man.
• 37:41
  SPEAKER_05: So you saying he on the phone with them bitches?
• 37:43
  SPEAKER_01: Who else you on the phone with?
• 37:45
  SPEAKER_04: He a gamer.
• 37:46
  SPEAKER_04: He probably talking to the people he gaming with.
• 37:48
  SPEAKER_05: Texting them on the side, hey nigga shoot behind the door.
• 37:55
  SPEAKER_01: I get that there's ebbs and flows in life, friendships, go through these things, relationships.
• 38:00
  SPEAKER_01: Sometimes your own family can get on your nerves.
• 38:03
  SPEAKER_01: I get it.
• 38:04
  SPEAKER_01: But hey, baby, put the phone down.
• 38:06
  SPEAKER_01: I wonder how old these people are.
• 38:09
  SPEAKER_05: Did she say that?
• 38:10
  SPEAKER_05: She didn't say how is it a certain age when men stop playing a game?
• 38:16
  SPEAKER_06: Oh no.
• 38:16
  SPEAKER_06: Okay.
• 38:17
  SPEAKER_06: No.
• 38:17
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's why I typically don't like gamers.
• 38:20
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
• 38:21
  SPEAKER_05: She should mention it one more time.
• 38:23
  SPEAKER_05: Say, hey, spending a lot of time on the game.
• 38:26
  SPEAKER_05: When I have some free time I would like to spend it with you.
• 38:28
  SPEAKER_05: Mention it one more time.
• 38:30
  SPEAKER_05: Then after that.
• 38:34
  SPEAKER_03: Or she could pull a double winning.
• 38:37
  SPEAKER_03: And for as much time as he spends on the game, she spends out doing XYZ.
• 38:43
  SPEAKER_03: Like Yes it do.
• 38:46
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, it do.
• 38:48
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, it does.
• 38:49
  SPEAKER_05: Even worse, he's not gonna care.
• 38:50
  SPEAKER_05: He's just gonna play the game.
• 38:53
  SPEAKER_05: Out with her friends.
• 38:54
  SPEAKER_05: We don't want to be with her niggas, acting like she's taking shots.
• 38:56
  SPEAKER_05: No, you're not happy.
• 38:57
  SPEAKER_05: You wanna be with the nigga you doing it on purpose?
• 39:01
  SPEAKER_02: Walking around.
• 39:03
  SPEAKER_02: Dexter.
• 39:04
  SPEAKER_01: Who's making love to your old lady while you are out making love?
• 39:11
  SPEAKER_01: That's my lesson of the week.
• 39:13
  SPEAKER_01: Who's making love to your old lady while you on that goddamn game?
• 39:18
  SPEAKER_01: Somebody gonna So what do you think she should do?
• 39:20
  SPEAKER_01: She asked you to Um I'm in a phase dump them.
• 39:26
  SPEAKER_01: But they live together, so that's not really that realistic.
• 39:28
  SPEAKER_01: Uh they gotta move and all that kind of stuff.
• 39:31
  SPEAKER_01: That's why y'all need to move with these niggas.
• 39:32
  SPEAKER_01: Um unless y'all married.
• 39:34
  SPEAKER_01: But even then, I would like to have a marriage where we live separately.
• 39:38
  SPEAKER_05: Separate rooms or separate houses?
• 39:40
  SPEAKER_01: Damn near separate houses.
• 39:41
  SPEAKER_01: No, let's live next door.
• 39:43
  SPEAKER_05: No, separate rooms is weird.
• 39:48
  SPEAKER_01: Hey, look how happy Cheryl Lee Ralph is.
• 39:51
  SPEAKER_01: Look how happy our dream girl is.
• 39:53
  SPEAKER_01: She always smiling when you see her.
• 39:56
  SPEAKER_01: Her and her man.
• 39:57
  SPEAKER_01: They listen, she be looking fine in her bikini and everything else.
• 40:04
  SPEAKER_01: I'm telling you.
• 40:05
  SPEAKER_05: And her chiffon.
• 40:06
  SPEAKER_01: Let's live next door.
• 40:09
  SPEAKER_01: We can buy a duplex.
• 40:11
  SPEAKER_05: Okay.
• 40:13
  SPEAKER_05: Separate rooms is fine with me.
• 40:14
  SPEAKER_05: Would y'all like to live separately?
• 40:16
  SPEAKER_01: Separate floors.
• 40:18
  SPEAKER_01: Separate floors.
• 40:19
  SPEAKER_03: At some point.
• 40:20
  SPEAKER_03: You might be.
• 40:22
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
• 40:22
  SPEAKER_01: Anyways, girl, my real answer is dump him.
• 40:25
  SPEAKER_01: Um seems to be a uh a lifestyle disconnect that you two are having.
• 40:31
  SPEAKER_01: Uh, but my realistic answer, because it's not that easy to dump people.
• 40:34
  SPEAKER_01: I hate me be like, girl, you just need to dump him.
• 40:35
  SPEAKER_01: Bitch, you know I'm not finna dump this nigga.
• 40:37
  SPEAKER_06: Stop on the game with him.
• 40:45
  SPEAKER_01: Then you're gonna be mad because it's gonna be like when you give your little cousin the control.
• 40:50
  SPEAKER_01: All I'm gonna do is press X and M.
• 40:54
  SPEAKER_04: Now we're gonna be able to do that.
• 40:56
  SPEAKER_04: No, I'm gonna go outside.
• 40:58
  SPEAKER_01: Why don't y'all understand that a bitch wanna get pretty?
• 41:01
  SPEAKER_01: They want to go outside.
• 41:04
  SPEAKER_01: You're in the house playing the game while she's at school and work.
• 41:07
  SPEAKER_01: When she has a little time off, it's time to go outside.
• 41:11
  SPEAKER_03: Now niggas do get to go outside break.
• 41:14
  SPEAKER_01: Nobody's saying go spend a million dollars.
• 41:17
  SPEAKER_01: I am.
• 41:18
  SPEAKER_01: Nobody's saying go out the country.
• 41:21
  SPEAKER_01: I am.
• 41:22
  SPEAKER_01: Nobody is saying go to the fucking ballet.
• 41:26
  SPEAKER_01: I am.
• 41:27
  SPEAKER_01: Just go outside.
• 41:28
  SPEAKER_01: That's all the lady wants to do with no phones.
• 41:31
  SPEAKER_01: Y'all always want to offer a bitch a picnic day to something.
• 41:34
  SPEAKER_01: Go plan a nice picnic in the park, put the phone, leave the phones in the car, and enjoy y'all selves.
• 41:41
  SPEAKER_01: Maybe even movie night.
• 41:42
  SPEAKER_01: She didn't even specify what she wants to do.
• 41:44
  SPEAKER_01: She just said quality time.
• 41:45
  SPEAKER_05: So she probably can do the time that she has, she just wants to withtown.
• 41:50
  SPEAKER_05: And he ignored the purse.
• 41:52
  SPEAKER_04: Why are you shaking your damn head?
• 41:54
  SPEAKER_04: Quality time right there.
• 41:56
  SPEAKER_04: Get your Twitter fingers ready.
• 42:00
  SPEAKER_01: My message is if you are so unhappy and something, you mention something once or twice, and if nobody listened, they they are actively ignoring you and disrespecting you, and it's time for you to make other arrangements.
• 42:11
  SPEAKER_01: That's that's the message I'm gonna leave y'all with.
• 42:13
  SPEAKER_01: Afternoon tea is available everywhere.
• 42:15
  SPEAKER_01: YouTube, Spotify, Apple, etc.
• 42:17
  SPEAKER_01: Make sure to like, comment, share, and subscribe on whatever platform you're tuning in on.
• 42:21
  SPEAKER_01: All podcast info will be listed in the description.
• 42:24
  SPEAKER_01: Thank y'all for coming to my tea party.
• 42:29
  SPEAKER_01: Great job.
• 42:30
  SPEAKER_01: Thank y'all.
• 42:31
  SPEAKER_01: Bye.
• 42:32
  SPEAKER_06: Oh, wow.