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- 0:00Good morning. We are in.
- 0:02Senior Josnida Simon Cosfaidalid, SIF.
- 0:05You'd Alice, Isha, Sheshla, Vesis, Leon Levad, a woman who
- 0:10has. A vest vesis.
- 0:12For days right which was most women now that I mean if anyone
- 0:16have we're. Nowadays, most women.
- 0:20If they would get a. Vessels it's for days VESA and
- 0:26you know the day comes. I also love.
- 0:29Olaya achi shalena. Then right after that, since she
- 0:32has what we say even though we. Say Vestas Durabanon, however.
- 0:39You know there's. Mahogan.
- 0:40There's Mahogan's in Migmar Vestas Duraisa Vestas Durabanon.
- 0:44According to the Vandana. Vestas Duraisa.
- 0:46The Vestas are duraisa. That means her Kazaka.
- 0:49She has a Vestas head. There after then Vestas.
- 0:52Duraisa means that we assume that is the Khazaka, that she.
- 0:57Saw at that day, at that time, after that she has a she.
- 1:02Has a customer. So therefore it's also love
- 1:07Allahab and. Hachi, Shalana.
- 1:10He has to ask OK did you were you table or not?
- 1:13Because now she has a customer. We're talking about.
- 1:17We're talking about here, we assume.
- 1:19That we there's talking. Here again, we're not talking.
- 1:24About nowadays when most women don't have a.
- 1:26Vessels. This is more.
- 1:27Time with the Gemara where? Nowadays.
- 1:33Women. Women don't have vessels.
- 1:34So therefore we do a Padika but with the same idea.
- 1:39That. That not that she.
- 1:41You know that she was talking. About or else he has to.
- 1:43Move our. The thing with the if you if you
- 1:47know. If is an assumption, you know,
- 1:50but if they. But if you are the opposite,
- 1:52this is general. Roberts all this in.
- 1:54Kayla Kalas if if you if you check it out.
- 1:58And you see it's not that way, then then then you don't then
- 2:00then you don't have to. That's that's the main finish
- 2:02over here of the main love vessels.
- 2:06If she has no vessels, then we. Said that the child of the is
- 2:15that. That we assume.
- 2:18That that. Any every woman, every woman
- 2:22it's not she sees a woman's gonna see.
- 2:26It's a natural lesson. What's wrong with her?
- 2:28But. You know a woman.
- 2:30You know a woman. That.
- 2:31She's going to see every 30 days.
- 2:34Yeah, obviously they're women who have investors, you know, 40
- 2:38days and whatever. I don't know.
- 2:40But Uncle Ponni in 20 days, well, they're OT have.
- 2:43Been on this. We'll see later on if we test
- 2:46what been on this. Means but Aquapon and.
- 2:48Schlushima riosa, we assume. There's a that we assume.
- 2:51That the Gia shaz vesta. And therefore you have to ask.
- 2:55You can't. Personally, personally, a
- 2:57husband can't assume. She's taught.
- 2:58She's taught her. She's tired, right?
- 3:00Therefore. He has to ask her either like
- 3:03either like you said, either did she see anything?
- 3:06Did she do a padika or did she tell you any of these things?
- 3:09Him shaza akhar. Vesta sheer she teeth if she
- 3:13Taco waited. If if he Taco was it?
- 3:15Was long enough after that she counted Zion the key that he was
- 3:19away and he came back. He came back, you know, a week
- 3:22and 1/2 after she teeths for her teeths ball.
- 3:24But all of a entire flee show. That we assume he doesn't have
- 3:27to go ahead. He is.
- 3:31He can assume that she, you know, comes back, you know,
- 3:34comes back late at night. The Gvara says you know that.
- 3:39The Gvara asks what do you mean? Why?
- 3:40Don't you ask. Her.
- 3:41Just ask. Her.
- 3:42It's a general. Rule.
- 3:43If there's a if there's a question, Komar Shevchar.
- 3:46Lavarre it's a general rule by Yasurim.
- 3:49You shouldn't just assume everything's great, you should
- 3:51lavarre check for action. Check for this, the person says.
- 3:54A few SO therefore. Why don't ask it?
- 3:56Mara says. She that she was that, that
- 4:00could be she. Mara says you don't have to ask.
- 4:03Her just. That's the, you know, the
- 4:06pastor. Stacey says that she was.
- 4:08Yeah, that she was. That she was.
- 4:11That she was that. She was sleeping, Stacey says.
- 4:14We mean she was sleeping. So also love.
- 4:19It's also love. If she's sleeping OK, she's not
- 4:22much sleeping. It's.
- 4:24She is, sort of. Half awake or whatever, but she
- 4:27couldn't really answer. But she, she understood.
- 4:29You understood what was going on, No?
- 4:30It's a sign anyway. Aquaponim, He doesn't have to.
- 4:35He can assume she went ahead and she and she did.
- 4:37Tvila and therefore. Sure, she has the.
- 4:40Customs conscious again and. It's and it's OK, your days,
- 4:50Hayela Vesis Liami. She has a Vesis Liami every, you
- 4:56know, 28 days. However, vesis evesta is.
- 5:00And she has like a Vesis Murkov, it's called.
- 5:03She has yummy. And she has a.
- 5:05Vesis Haguf. You know she does that when she
- 5:11does, you know, jumping jacks or whatever.
- 5:15Backflips. So then.
- 5:18So then you know, whatever. She just jumps.
- 5:20So then. It's enough to cause to start
- 5:25her cycle. Yeah, it's a bug.
- 5:26Even Chavez is. Totally the Mesa A.
- 5:29We're a little cops of a LA. Raza so that's.
- 5:32The thing is this is, is that if it's totally on something,
- 5:37right? Meaning not just on days, but on
- 5:40an actual. Mesa So then the question did we
- 5:42say is the Khazaka that she jumped?
- 5:44Ah, she must have. Jumped right now I don't know.
- 5:46We'll see in the. In the test.
- 5:49Of exactly vessels you know features.
- 5:50And things is that, you know, would that apply during, you
- 5:54know, when does that apply? Every single time she jumped
- 5:56like yeah, no. OK, whatever I think it has to
- 5:58be. After is it You know this is a.
- 6:01This is a combination. Meaning.
- 6:03On the 28th day if she jumps. Then.
- 6:06Then her that's going to cause her vesis.
- 6:08To start that. That's how her that's.
- 6:11Kavur. You know, otherwise maybe she
- 6:13jumps. What would happen on a different
- 6:15day? It's not.
- 6:16Kavua, but kavua that. She jumps on that day that.
- 6:20Whatever. So we don't say even if I
- 6:22invested sagoing, we say it's the.
- 6:23Kazaka that that it came. That that, that she bled.
- 6:27But aquaponim on the. Pizza.
- 6:29We don't. We don't say that.
- 6:31I'm just telling them, I say. We're low Costello Rosa in a
- 6:35Beninis. She's still.
- 6:41This is a. When she does the.
- 6:43Rashva that Akhopani we still say the savara of what a woman's
- 6:49not never going to see. That, Rashva says it's a Savara,
- 6:52that woman. At some point, a woman's going
- 6:54to see, we don't say, you know, tie her down, we'll tie her,
- 6:58we'll tie her to a chair for the next. 30 day for the next.
- 7:02You know, 60 days and she's not going to see it's not going to
- 7:04happen. He says it happens to be in
- 7:08order for the for the vessels of the 28th day that happened.
- 7:11So she jumps on the 28th day. So she's going to have then her
- 7:14cycle will start. But any other day besides that,
- 7:18she. Jumps.
- 7:18It doesn't mean. It's going to.
- 7:19Start or it doesn't. Mean she's going to have so
- 7:22therefore we don't say well if she's falling on something else
- 7:24that she's. That's it.
- 7:27So so. She's going to see something
- 7:28that's that's the natural way of the world.
- 7:30And that's not the rash for this is.
- 7:31What the rash for Paskins? That.
- 7:35We should still hushes for for unabatedness.
- 7:38So to any other nowadays we have you know.
- 7:41With, with, with. Hormones and pills and things or
- 7:43whatever which which can stretch a.
- 7:47Woman play around the woman cycle and stuff.
- 7:49And change, you know, can change and they can, you know there's
- 7:53different pills can for example, for Kala, they take pills to.
- 7:57They can. They can.
- 7:58You know, make things, you know, Cavour or to set to set things
- 8:01up properly or whatever. Or the birth control.
- 8:04Pills, all these types of things, you know they can, you
- 8:08know, there's a there's a question.
- 8:10Of certain, certain, certain. Pills if you forget to take it
- 8:12can cause spawning so let's say if a woman forgets to take it
- 8:15and then she gets to take it that she then she.
- 8:19You know, then she sees OK, is this I don't.
- 8:24Know, but there's not a mice. It's not doing a mice.
- 8:27I don't know if it's the same thing, but it's a It's a
- 8:29question to be asked. To to her of.
- 8:31Is. That a type of.
- 8:32Vesis that uncle Pardim. You know, so if a woman is,
- 8:38let's say she's on pills, and only when.
- 8:40She stops taking the pills she sees.
- 8:42So then the. Question is, is let you know at
- 8:46a certain point is she is so. Hard.
- 8:47She's all stopped because she's for unabatedness.
- 8:51Because if it's something. That she knows.
- 8:53She sees a day and a half, you know, 30-6 hours later she sees.
- 8:57Whatever it is. Then you know.
- 8:59Then then that's that would be of essence, but otherwise
- 9:03otherwise you know otherwise. She starts.
- 9:05Because she's for unabatedness. If she's taking a pill which she
- 9:10will not see until she she stops taking, then it could be It
- 9:15could. Be it's MUFKA.
- 9:15Or Vesis Yamim. It's like the case I had before
- 9:19about. Karada that it?
- 9:21Could be it's she's a less. Selective me dummy I.
- 9:23Don't know that's a other enough communists for that.
- 9:26Might be not so much the nicer, but again, you know.
- 9:30If these types of things happen and people should be aware that.
- 9:33Everyone's thinking, taking pills and medicine, that if
- 9:36there's some sort of trivia is happening.
- 9:38That they you know when you should be Koshish.
- 9:41And be parish it. Could be it's a.
- 9:42Shy that should be should be brought up.
- 9:44With with a wrath the someone could say hey.
- 9:50Dean Isha this. Is a woman who this is a.
- 9:53Question their models who has a woman has damn bonus it says a
- 9:58sufferer law the the the puzzle says sufferer law that that
- 10:02approach barhool Tara. Gave a woman that.
- 10:04Manos on. Her.
- 10:06On on Hirskas Nida and she's there.
- 10:09She hasn't. She's in there, Manos to say
- 10:11that. That she's bleeding or she's not
- 10:12bleeding. She's.
- 10:13She's the higher she's Tamaya that her gave her a specific.
- 10:17Thing the question is do we learn out of here for all all of
- 10:20the cases? ADF and M on B surim or is
- 10:23adopted. By over here but Uncle Pani,
- 10:28Uncle Pani a. Woman.
- 10:30She her, she has power when she says things.
- 10:33She she has namadas. And it creates Surin, so there's
- 10:37what to be careful with. Alec, a woman who.
- 10:41Is talking. She's to.
- 10:46Say it's also for her husband to go ahead and, and, and to come
- 10:51close to him, come close to her. Until she says the words, I
- 10:56went. To the mic room right even
- 11:00though even if she like. Even if she like she knows it's
- 11:03down next to him things. Whatever she has to.
- 11:05Say there has to be. Apparent.
- 11:10That she was Tovellis, often the way people.
- 11:13They say they do it. The woman, she you know that if
- 11:16she meets her. Husband out in public.
- 11:18After the mic room, she's like, hey, yeah, yeah.
- 11:19You know, I went to the. OK, so.
- 11:22You know that shouldn't be like that, but there's Simone Clear.
- 11:26Simone that usually other. And wife will between each
- 11:29other, she'll hand them something, something like that,
- 11:31which will which but and that's important.
- 11:33It's it's. Important that there.
- 11:35Has to be a parent, not just like, you know, sit.
- 11:37Down. She'll just sit down next to him
- 11:38and you know, whatever. Because, you know, because.
- 11:42That's that's that's has to be a specific a specific.
- 11:44You know she has to say it or a specific so how else he picked
- 11:48her up from the mix was also. Fine poshness, but or yet or
- 11:51she? You know, or or she has to give
- 11:53him something I got before license to show.
- 11:55That, that, that she's the higher where we didn't know that
- 12:06she was right, Right, Right. Right, right.
- 12:09And if it was after days? Enough.
- 12:11Days that she was, she was able like we said before, she's able
- 12:13to count and she has the amount to say I was the.
- 12:18Because that's what she had. She suffer a lot.
- 12:20She's she's a she, she's a man. That's a few little row, a big
- 12:23damn clock in Badam. Even if she.
- 12:26You see that she. You know used to sauce is an
- 12:29important. Lakuda, is that it?
- 12:30Used to be before the. Advent of of pads.
- 12:36And things like that. That woman that wear.
- 12:38Gowns or whatever dresses. Or things they had special big
- 12:41day Anita. Things they were wearing when
- 12:43they were when they were bleeding because they wouldn't.
- 12:45Want to ruin all their. You know.
- 12:47Nice clothing and stuff. And so they would, so they
- 12:51would. Wear They would wear clothing
- 12:53which you know would get dirty. And people would know about it.
- 12:57What can I say? That's how life was.
- 12:59You know people, People knew about things like nowadays they
- 13:01try to be. Mastery and.
- 13:02Everything else and it is important, but it used to be
- 13:05people knew about these things and there was.
- 13:07Apparent there were women was well you know was in the wasn't.
- 13:10Neither it was apparent. So I'm saying if it was if it
- 13:13was the time that it was enough time after she went ahead and
- 13:17she. And and from.
- 13:18When she when she saw, until she was.
- 13:21To vellas and everything, whatever, two weeks.
- 13:23Whatever it was. So then.
- 13:25Even if she's still, if she's still wearing her dirty
- 13:27clothing, she just didn't get around to washing it, you know,
- 13:30whatever. She's the menace, Loymar.
- 13:33I feel she has. She has to give her an excuse
- 13:36that Nemenus Loymar shook the Bakima Varti.
- 13:40She's allowed to the why. What do you have?
- 13:41Blood in your. Clothing, right?
- 13:43Well, I don't know. I would say I was walking to the
- 13:45hospital. I don't know, whatever.
- 13:46I went to. The butcher shop, whatever.
- 13:52I cut my. Finger whatever it is.
- 13:56She's the menace. She's wearing, we'll see in a
- 13:58minute, but she's wearing the actual big Anita.
- 14:00It might be different. But upon him she's menace to
- 14:04give an excuse to say why. She says I don't know, you know,
- 14:08She says I just. Didn't get nothing else to wear
- 14:10it. Also could be is OK?
- 14:12You know I'm. Not sure we'll we'll get to.
- 14:13That but but she's there managed to say that she was she got
- 14:18dirty from something else. Sif Baez Vin Poseka needed a
- 14:24screen of Saha if she had a share Rule of ashes, but got
- 14:28him. You called him.
- 14:28We need dosa. That's what I mentioned that if
- 14:31if everyone from around. Saw.
- 14:33Yeah, this woman is in is in is. In neither she's.
- 14:36Wearing her neither clothing. Right Shuva kevada tamaya then
- 14:41that's that is enough to be covert as as as as as a tamaya
- 14:46and therefore. The what?
- 14:49What? The Shah says the amasa.
- 14:51Before just saying, just saying yeah no I got 30 doesn't help
- 14:57General rule by the amanos is and this is the general rule by
- 15:01by. Any any story?
- 15:03Let's say a case the case in the Let's say a case in the Gemara.
- 15:06The woman says a woman says I got married, but I got divorced.
- 15:10So she's that menace. However, if they didn't.
- 15:14Come and say that she got married and she's not in that
- 15:17menace to say she got. Divorced.
- 15:18She has no name on us, right? Because we know.
- 15:21We know. From an outside source, we know.
- 15:23We know that she that you know we don't because.
- 15:25It's called the pesha. Also Pesha hit here.
- 15:27Right, as we know from an outside source, you know.
- 15:30Therefore, she has no name on us anymore.
- 15:35So for her to say, you know, I was to, you know, if if everyone
- 15:40saw she was wearing, you know. Neither she was.
- 15:43Wearing neither. Clothing, then that's
- 15:45considered. That there's Aiden coming and
- 15:47saying. She was a neither.
- 15:49Well, Zaka. I want Zaka.
- 15:50Wearing neither clothing unless you know, unless she's a, she's
- 15:53a neither and therefore you would need to hear from her
- 15:59after she was. Tovellous.
- 16:00Exactly. Exactly.
- 16:02You have to. Hear she's she was.
- 16:03Tovellous. And just to say that.
- 16:10So the question is the question the task is into.
- 16:12Why doesn't? You know why doesn't the?
- 16:15You know why? Why doesn't the?
- 16:20The mask will work so because even.
- 16:23We'll see. The mask will work even if she
- 16:24sits straight out Tamaya. We'll see later on that amount.
- 16:28Excuse. Why do you say that?
- 16:29Because whatever. So.
- 16:33So the Taas says is from the the Marami.
- 16:36Prague says that. Because, not because once.
- 16:40She's in Hazaka. And everyone knows.
- 16:42She's in need of SO. Then she would have to go.
- 16:45Ahead and go to. Every single other person.
- 16:47Misses Xerra to tell him the amasla not.
- 16:49Everyone would hear about. The amasla so therefore there
- 16:52will be again. Nowadays.
- 16:54Things are more to. Noah and therefore this.
- 16:56Is just a general. Didn't know more in the.
- 17:00More theoretical. And Gimel, I'm gonna buy the.
- 17:09Tamaya on the she says, listen, I'm Tom, I'm a Toya on the.
- 17:14She says ah, ha, ha. Got you right, I'm toya right?
- 17:20Any of that menace. She's not in that menace.
- 17:23Right. Or that's why she made a
- 17:25mistake. She.
- 17:26Said she said I'm Tamaya. Oh, it's fine.
- 17:31Say it OK, I meant to say that I said the wrong thing.
- 17:33But but uncle. Panim, you know, but Uncle Panim
- 17:41like. The way the shark says they're
- 17:42strike. She says.
- 17:44That's not, that's not a mass one.
- 17:45She's just kidding. They're too bad.
- 17:47Well, you say you're a tomato. You don't joke around with these
- 17:49things. Your words, your words carry
- 17:51carry weight now. You need to.
- 17:54Wait. Another seven days or just
- 17:57enough? Time to go.
- 18:02To the middle, I don't think you don't have to just a.
- 18:05Second, let me finish me and I'll get.
- 18:06To the question. In in a minute.
- 18:08Even who laughed with the deeper, obviously.
- 18:10We've lost that massive. Drought show Marriage.
- 18:12Lomerlow. Kane Trila of Nation lo Hayeba,
- 18:16She says the only. Reason, she said.
- 18:19Oh, she had, she had a terrible headache and I.
- 18:20Don't know whatever so. She it was a bad way of doing
- 18:23it, but that's what she said. Or Tana Ferris skills have been
- 18:26their menace, she said. I just wasn't feeling, you know,
- 18:29just, I just, you know, I wasn't feeling up to up to it or.
- 18:32You know, I couldn't bother. Whatever the reason is, there's
- 18:35the case of the Gemara. Was was that her mother-in-law
- 18:38was listening in and and she didn't.
- 18:40Want her mother-in-law to know that's the case in the Gemara?
- 18:44Yeah, nosy. Family members sometimes too
- 18:45nosy. I don't know.
- 18:46Yeah, it gets. Different issues.
- 18:47But upon him. The case of the shark.
- 18:50Says. However, like I said, if she's
- 18:52there, it's click. So you're not mad she doesn't?
- 18:54Have to wait 5 days. But the but there's even about
- 18:58there's a much like it's whether she should make a bracha, which
- 19:01is high as. It's for.
- 19:03Not fine. She doesn't have to wait the
- 19:04five days. Just since the dude just count
- 19:06the game and. And it I.
- 19:08Don't think she has to wait there.
- 19:09She could just do 1/2. 2nd and go, whatever.
- 19:11I don't think yeah, wait seven days, yeah.
- 19:14And she and then she's told Ellis.
- 19:16Is my Lucas whether she has to make a bracha?
- 19:18On that or not. Oh yeah.
- 19:20The five days, No, five days, five days is that's only a
- 19:23horror or secret study, father you know, and we in this case,
- 19:26you know I'm pretty, you know, woman have to wait five days.
- 19:29But they said the woman has to. She'd have to.
- 19:31Count the. Ship in the game and I mean to
- 19:33Velas, I don't think I don't think we deal with that so much
- 19:41and it's like I don't. Think again.
- 19:44That's only. Again, it's.
- 19:47It's more of a. It's it's be.
- 19:50Suffolk, or Because? She has Naimanos and.
- 19:55We don't believe her. Maslow That's that's the thing.
- 19:58So it's a bit more. It's like a slightly different
- 20:00dint. It's like an.
- 20:00Interesting dint but. You know, obviously, if they're
- 20:08joking, your if they're. You know if the.
- 20:10Husband's joking around first that she answered back.
- 20:12I don't. They shouldn't do that.
- 20:14Person can say don't. Play game.
- 20:15Don't do that. Just don't do that.
- 20:17Sure, that could be asked. It could be there.
- 20:19It was welcome. To be make all of the you know
- 20:22you. Know if he said, well, you're
- 20:25tomato, I should say, Yeah, I don't know, OK.
- 20:28Fortunately, nowadays there was so much.
- 20:29Autonomous around that everybody in the very people that have to
- 20:33be Mac with. However, if there's a different
- 20:35if there's a. Different, you know, if there's
- 20:38a different reason. For example, Thomas.
- 20:41Being the case of. A woman who got kept.
- 20:43Together in horrors from people or she felt she thought she was
- 20:46getting you know, she she she. Had three Apollos and she was
- 20:51worried that she had. She was getting horrors from
- 20:54people and she wanted to go ahead and hide the fact that she
- 20:57was that she was pregnant completely.
- 20:59So she walked around. She wanted to walk around in
- 21:02her. Neither clothing like the.
- 21:03Whole time, or just say she's Tamaya, all these things or
- 21:06whatever. That was a it was the truest of
- 21:09her MO. Since it's OK.
- 21:11That the husband could husband. Can go ahead and privately.
- 21:15Be with her, you. Know privately and quiet,
- 21:18because the whole point is that he also knows.
- 21:20The whole thing is the whole thing.
- 21:22'S just a show because they're. Closest Ryan horror, but so.
- 21:26Therefore, he said he. Said that.
- 21:28You know, if he, if he's in on the jokes, so to speak, that's
- 21:30the point. He's in on the what the what's
- 21:32going on? So then that, then then then
- 21:34then it's OK. You know she doesn't have to go
- 21:35ahead. And just, you know.
- 21:40Or anything like that. But the Ramos says that husband.
- 21:50He is he could talk to say like, you know, you scared me there,
- 21:56you know, just. To meet her, go to the mitzvah.
- 21:59Me just go see this, you know we're saying.
- 22:01Go to the mitzvah now, Simon. Yeah, whatever.
- 22:05Yeah. Yeah, he says.
- 22:06Listen, I'm not, you know I'm not.
- 22:08I, I, I, you know, I'm cautious. For this Sir.
- 22:11But let's let's not play around. I've been Dina MNS.
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- 22:17The condition over here is. That he's allowed to.
- 22:19Be machmir in general. He's a Kia Voyner.
- 22:22And so he's not allowed, he wouldn't be allowed to be
- 22:24Machmir. Even when you see this, he.
- 22:26Very, you know, very firm and. Everything you know.
- 22:27Gavaltic, but but if you're if you're.
- 22:33If you're if you're. But he's allowed.
- 22:39But he's a He's allowed to go. Ahead and to believe her about
- 22:43Medina. Where actually he Bob bylaw.
- 22:57That he, she's the menace, even if, like, you know, even if if
- 23:01things are nickered to him, that the whole.
- 23:02Thing was. Because of a.
- 23:03Fight or. Whatever it was, it's very
- 23:05brewery and he doesn't. Have to be math mirror and he's.
- 23:09Allowed to go ahead. And and and be with and be with
- 23:11her maker.