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Madison says DO NOT KISS MY BABY · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Rich Good morning, Madison, Hi, your morning. What's going on?
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  Speaker 2: I just feel like people need to stop being so sensitive,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I mean? I told my mom not
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  Speaker 2: to kiss my baby, and somehow this has turned into
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  Speaker 2: how I'm so dramatic, Mike, you know, like I've first
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  Speaker 2: seen she she nodded, she agreed, Okay, I'm not going
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  Speaker 2: to do it, and then I turn around and she's
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  Speaker 2: kissing my baby anyway.
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  Speaker 1: Your mom?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, why is that don because germs?
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  Speaker 2: Oh really that's actually yes, Oh my gosh. Children can
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  Speaker 2: get so sick, like RSP and all these things.
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  Speaker 1: Bodies.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well no, I mean you really have to be
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  Speaker 2: careful when they're newborn.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's like kissing the baby on the lips.
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  Speaker 2: Close enough, you know. When I said something, she's like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: are you being serious? I'm like, yeah, I am. You know,
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  Speaker 2: this isn't about feeling. It's about, you know, respecting a
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  Speaker 2: boundary that I'm setting about my child.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 1: I can see your point of view, but I find
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  Speaker 1: it troublesome that my is this your first baby?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, my niece just had a baby, and she's almost
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  Speaker 1: identical to what you're saying. She came over. I think
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  Speaker 1: it was Christmas when she had the baby, right before Christmas,
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  Speaker 1: and she came over and nobody was allowed touch it.
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  Speaker 1: No one's allowed to get next to it. She's the
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  Speaker 1: only one as far as I know, so far, she's
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  Speaker 1: still the only one that's held the baby. And I
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  Speaker 1: remember that when we had our first child, we were
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  Speaker 1: very we see, we let everybody hold our baby, but
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  Speaker 1: you have you're kind of freaked out about it. Then
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  Speaker 1: we had a second child and we're like and then
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  Speaker 1: the third child, you're like whatever, it's like a free
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  Speaker 1: for all, right, roll around the floor, they're play with
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  Speaker 1: lights like it, go right ahead.
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  Speaker 4: She do get extremely protected.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: It makes me wonder though, Madison, like, what's your relationship
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  Speaker 5: with your mom? Because I feel like I would like
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  Speaker 5: let my mom do whatever, But this seems like maybe,
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  Speaker 5: you guys, maybe she's cross boundaries before and that's why
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  Speaker 5: you're like red flag or what.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's about, like, you know, knowing that the
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  Speaker 2: Folue season is so crazy. I mean, my mom and
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  Speaker 2: I are close, you know, It's not it's not about that.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't let anybody hold my baby without washing her hands.
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  Speaker 2: And I just don't want anyone kissing them.
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  Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure, Mom. I know I keep on saying
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  Speaker 3: the same thing, but she don't care. I think that's
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  Speaker 3: probably okay. If it's your mom, she's probably gonna help
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  Speaker 3: you take care of the baby. When when you get
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  Speaker 3: home she wants to kiss a grand baby, I let
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  Speaker 3: her kiss a grand baby.
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  Speaker 2: I just it's, you know, it's a boundary. It's like
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  Speaker 2: a clear boundary that I've set. And I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: You guys are making me feel crazy too. I guess
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  Speaker 2: like maybe I'm crazy. I don't know, But like now
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  Speaker 2: she's not talking to me. She's supposed to watch my daughter,
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  Speaker 2: you know, while I take my husband out to dinner.
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  Speaker 2: It's his birthday tonight, And now she's not talking to me.
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  Speaker 2: And I just feel like I'm actually being a good
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  Speaker 2: parent here.
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  Speaker 1: So when she watches your daughter, is she allowed to
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  Speaker 1: kiss the baby?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 2: I don't want anyone kissing my baby.
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  Speaker 1: There's something about holding a baby, just get up right
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  Speaker 1: in their cheeks.
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  Speaker 3: And isn't there some research too, like babies that are
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  Speaker 3: held them stuff that that have much more a better
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  Speaker 3: life if they're held and loved.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think she's saying her mom can't hold her.
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  Speaker 4: I think she just doesn't want her to kiss her, right,
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  Speaker 4: Is that correct?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. Have you seen like the videos of the kids
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  Speaker 2: who end up in the hospital with RSP and things
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  Speaker 2: because they were kissed by other people.
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  Speaker 4: I think they do freak you out with that kind
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  Speaker 4: of stuff. They are being protective and it is a
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  Speaker 4: boundary your mom will probably end up respecting. But it's
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  Speaker 4: almost like it is like if there's one person that
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  Speaker 4: can like maybe bend the rules for I would think
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  Speaker 4: it would be your mom, But I mean it's your kid.
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  Speaker 2: I yeah, I don't really care who it is. I
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  Speaker 2: don't want anybody kissing my baby.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, well, so you're calling us to tell us that,
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  Speaker 1: or do you want us to call your mom and
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  Speaker 1: talk to her? Like? What do you are you just
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  Speaker 1: calling the event?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: People are too serious.
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  Speaker 1: She raised you, so she must understand. I would assume.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I hope people weren't just kissing me on the mouth.
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  Speaker 3: I think you or one of those people that had
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  Speaker 3: to take the parenting classes before you have your first kid.
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  Speaker 3: I had to take those two, and they scare you
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  Speaker 3: so much about so many things, and for the most part,
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  Speaker 3: you know, we're all going to be just fine.
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  Speaker 2: I hope so, my Lord.
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  Speaker 3: I'd loosen up the boundaries, but that's just me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm probably alone on an island, all right, Madison, thanks
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  Speaker 1: for calling in.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Bye bye, bye bye