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Breaking Generational Parent Cycles + Dealing With CRAZY Neighbors | For The Dads Podcast · Bussin' With The Boys

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Speaker 1: Pop A Team six. Welcome to another episode for the Dads.
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Speaker 1: You might be in one with the missus right now. Boys, Good,
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Speaker 1: that's why you're listening to the Fellas. Maybe you just
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Speaker 1: dropped your little one off at school and you got
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Speaker 1: whatever it is. Make sure you are subscribed and following.
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Speaker 1: And maybe as you are subscribing, there's a tear in
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Speaker 1: your eye because again, you just dropped your little one
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Speaker 1: off at school for the first time, which is what
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Speaker 1: I did last week. Good. What else could you be
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Speaker 1: doing mowing the lawn. Maybe you're in the weight room.
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Speaker 1: Maybe you're at work listening to your boss, but you
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Speaker 1: don't want to really listen to your boss. You just
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Speaker 1: want to listen to the boys on for the Dads.
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Speaker 1: I am Will Compton, my co host Sherman Young. This
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Speaker 1: is a show Fellas that embraces the highs and lows
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Speaker 1: of fatherhood, embraces the trenches, embraces the suck and love
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Speaker 1: of fatherhood. We talk about dad wins and losses. Things
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Speaker 1: we'd crack a cold one too, some dad hacks, things
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Speaker 1: we put in our survival kit. We have a hotline
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Speaker 1: that you can call into that is six' oh one
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Speaker 1: talking about a win or a loss or a dad
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Speaker 1: hack that you might. Have we feature you on the.
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Speaker 1: guys some free. Merchandise and then to round out every,
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Speaker 1: episode we talk about a, lesson a, quote a, philosophy a,
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Speaker 1: concept something That sherman AND i have gravitated towards over
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Speaker 1: the last week that we're trying to challenge ourselves as better.
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Speaker 1: FATHERS i have one for us at the end of
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Speaker 1: the episode that it took some time to think on
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Speaker 1: and write down THAT i think you will enjoy BECAUSE
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Speaker 1: i do believe THE pt sixers out, there the POP
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Speaker 1: a team six, guys, me, you everybody out there consuming
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Speaker 1: this brain in this, podcast we're all cut from the
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Speaker 1: same cloth a little bit or else they wouldn't keep coming.
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Speaker 1: Back we have a great ten thousand view base right.
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Speaker 1: Now we got to get those numbers. Up the way
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Speaker 1: to do, that make sure you are subscribed to the
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Speaker 1: CHANNEL i believe we. Are are we around six thousand.
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Speaker 1: Subscribers dada on, YouTube i believe. So, yes we're around
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Speaker 1: six thousand. Subscribers we've got a great foundational base of
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Speaker 1: around ten thousand view coming. In that's not including the
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Speaker 1: tens of thousands on, audio which fires me. Up but,
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Speaker 1: again to help the boys, out to help out this,
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Speaker 1: brand continue to engage with us on our social media's
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Speaker 1: at for The Dad's. Pod you can also reach out
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Speaker 1: to me on x Or, instagram share them on ex Or.
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Speaker 1: Instagram the comments on YouTube are absolutely. Incredible we love
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Speaker 1: seeing the conversations in the back and. Forth AM i missing?
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Speaker 1: Anything just really quickly do?
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Speaker 2: It they set a new RECORD pt six six said
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Speaker 2: a new record Four they clogged the voicemail after a
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Speaker 2: fresh deletion in five.
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Speaker 1: Days and how many remind me, again, chef how many
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Speaker 1: fit in the? Voicemail three hundred three hundred and then
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Speaker 1: you have to unload. It, yeah the calls are coming. In.
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Speaker 1: Boys we absolutely love it again embracing pop a team
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Speaker 1: six and what that means for our. Brand And i'll
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Speaker 1: just give you a small example BECAUSE i saw this
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Speaker 1: YouTube comment the other night AS i was doom scrolling
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Speaker 1: a little. Bit but this comes From Miles rough and
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Speaker 1: he left us a little ps paragraph at the bottom
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Speaker 1: that was. Embracing. Good wife is uncomfortable in the beach
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Speaker 1: chairs we. Packed, good SO i have to walk back
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Speaker 1: to the, Car, good find a local store Nearby, good
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Speaker 1: and pay an inflated price for a new beach chair
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Speaker 1: that we may never use. Again. Good that right there is.
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Speaker 1: Embracing a moment OF i am pissed off AND i am,
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Speaker 1: irritated but there's this good in the back of my.
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Speaker 1: Head THE. Pt sixers out there are on my shoulder right. Now,
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Speaker 1: Hey willie, BOY i had a moment last. Week can
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Speaker 1: you hang a? Shelf didn't want to? It paying me
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Speaker 1: to my. Core there's a little bit of back and
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Speaker 1: forth with me and the. Wifey ultimately she was, right
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Speaker 1: as they always are wives out, there, sweetheart we love,
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Speaker 1: you we appreciate. You but those are the moments right.
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Speaker 1: There scherm kiddo spits up on.
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Speaker 2: You good spits up a. Lot did you see the
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Speaker 2: nickname that they tried to give you in the? Comments,
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Speaker 2: no they, said All willie one.
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Speaker 1: Shelf it's. Fair you're gonna be part OF. Pt. Six
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Speaker 1: you gotta be willing to get your.
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Speaker 3: Balls.
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Speaker 1: BUCK i gotta take. That you gotta take the Hits
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Speaker 1: willie One. Schell there he goes walking down the road.
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Speaker 2: Again it's kind of catch.
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Speaker 1: You, yeah just on on a stroll with the kid
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Speaker 1: like the little like a post dinner. Walk neighbor steps,
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Speaker 1: up say, Hey willie One, shell you gotta build something.
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Speaker 1: Tonight get your back, inside old. Man uh name the
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Speaker 1: movie FOR I Break Your? Hip, Oh Happy? Gilmore? Happy
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Speaker 1: it was That Happy gilmore WHICH i know It's Adam. Sandler,
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Speaker 1: yeah It's Happy gilmore. Thing. Yeah, yeah oh my.
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Speaker 2: God, incredible, INCREDIBLE A willy One.
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Speaker 1: Shell we go through, it, man trust, me you paid.
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Speaker 1: Me AS i was driving home last week thinking about that,
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Speaker 1: CONVERSATION i was, like, Man i'm really gonna it's not
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Speaker 1: a good look for A Papa team. Sixer.
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Speaker 2: Yeah i'm already putting the feels out for trying to
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Speaker 2: get a handyman in. HERE i Told CHEF i think
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Speaker 2: it would be really fun for a for the dad's,
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Speaker 2: vlog short. Vlog we have a handyman come in, Here
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Speaker 2: we get all the boys in the office in on,
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Speaker 2: it and we just you, know learn a, little get
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Speaker 2: a little refresher. In this is a, hammer this is a.
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Speaker 1: DRILL i saw a comment, too this is a stud.
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Speaker 1: Fighter oh you found the stud right? Here what else you? Need?
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Speaker 1: Oh it? Works what did the? Man what did he
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Speaker 1: say in the? Comments right? Off, yeah, yeah let's let's
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Speaker 1: talk about the comments of being popping.
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Speaker 2: Up and also to add To Miles reff's, comment he
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Speaker 2: had a great first.
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Speaker 1: Part he, Said i've.
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Speaker 2: Never been a commenter on, anything first time, Commenter Miles.
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Speaker 2: Reff but nothing has to be more fired up than
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Speaker 2: to JOIN pt, six deploying Soon september twentieth for the
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Speaker 2: first tour of A pt six. Mission, Congratulations, miles thank.
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Speaker 1: You for your. Service.
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Speaker 2: Brother currently on the beach with the pod in one,
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Speaker 2: ear my wife is next to me and, enjoying enjoying
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Speaker 2: our final days before our little girl joins. Us couldn't
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Speaker 2: be more excited for. Fatherhood and then of course THE
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Speaker 2: ps note that will rattled off down below.
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Speaker 1: It, yeah the good. Dude the comments are so, Fun,
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Speaker 1: Bro they're great there And i've BEEN i was just
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Speaker 1: telling the boys before the show started That i've now
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Speaker 1: created the bookmark, folders the archive that what you can
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Speaker 1: save On instagram and what you can bookmark on X
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Speaker 1: i've created a LITTLE ftd folder so that WAY i
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Speaker 1: can keep up a lot better Because i'll see all
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Speaker 1: the comments AND i think to, Myself i'll jump on
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Speaker 1: these tomorrow at work Because i'm usually scrolling at, nighttime
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Speaker 1: AND i had to find a system that actually remind
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Speaker 1: me to get back to. Someone because, dude, seriously when
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Speaker 1: you guys share our, stuff that's how everything grows. Organically
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Speaker 1: like we're gonna have the SAME pt sixers showing up every.
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Speaker 1: Week the buying is absolutely. INCREDIBLE i Love there was
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Speaker 1: a comment too THAT i had shared where it's like he's,
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Speaker 1: LIKE i think it was ON x where he's, LIKE
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Speaker 1: i got the whole family. Watching if you're passing a
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Speaker 1: run to your dad group, chats you're just letting the
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Speaker 1: boys know out there if they have a kiddo and
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Speaker 1: you think they're you think they are cut from the
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Speaker 1: same cloth as we, are and they might be five
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Speaker 1: degrees removed That sometimes that's all it. Takes it's like
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Speaker 1: if you're in the if you're in the world, somewhere
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Speaker 1: you might not be at the. Level sometimes we. Don't
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Speaker 1: we're not up to the. STANDARD i wasn't up the
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Speaker 1: standard WHEN i get Nicknamed willie One. Chell but if there's,
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Speaker 1: potential if there's a POTENTIAL pt sixer out. There we
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Speaker 1: gotta recruit him to the. Brand you do that by,
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Speaker 1: sharing by, commenting by doing all the things that you
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Speaker 1: guys are. Doing but it's Truly sherman AND i we
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Speaker 1: geek out Me Sherman, chef who is also captain Of
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Speaker 1: Seman team. Six we got our little group chat and
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Speaker 1: we're showing our screenshots of the love that you guys
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Speaker 1: show and it at uh it warms our. Hearts we.
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Speaker 2: Did we've been texting back and. FORTH i saved this
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Speaker 2: one for the POT i wanted to text y'all so.
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Speaker 2: Read read. It Jake frederick does not have An. Instagram,
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Speaker 2: however his, Wife Chloe. Frederick jake got on his Wife's
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Speaker 2: instagram TO dm. Me he dms this really nice. MESSAGE
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Speaker 2: I dm, back he. Said his wife said he DMed you,
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Speaker 2: back have fun and tossed them the Fam and then
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Speaker 2: he told me later in our conversation that she was
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Speaker 2: pissed because he was smiling harder dming back and forth
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Speaker 2: ABOUT pt six that he's ever smiled in a family.
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Speaker 2: Photo so thank, You chloe for being a part Of
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Speaker 2: Milk team. Six and congratulations and thank you for dming
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Speaker 2: me off of your wife's.
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Speaker 1: Account that was. Legendary just imagine the grinest smile of
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Speaker 1: just operating WITHIN pt six and then your wife asked
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Speaker 1: and you're, like what are you over? There? Smiling? Ah
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Speaker 1: Papa team? Six what the fuck Is Papa team? Six, hey,
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Speaker 1: hey calm, down. Sweetheart you are a part Of Milk team. Six?
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Speaker 2: What what's what's up with all this?
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Speaker 1: Energy?
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Speaker 2: Man what's the?
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Speaker 1: Deal, Yeah i'm excited to be a. Dad? Yeah, so,
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Speaker 1: hey what a, Week i'll, say a very emotional week
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Speaker 1: for your boy went to school for yes for the first.
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Speaker 1: Time so we will be diving into those. Stories reading
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Speaker 1: a couple more, COMMENTS i found the. Studfinder this one's
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Speaker 1: From Derek. Sanchez dad tip For. Will anytime you use
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Speaker 1: gotta beep it on yourself, first.
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Speaker 2: And you gotta the line to go with it is
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Speaker 2: are we sure this thing. Works put it on yourself
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Speaker 2: Working wife will love that. One, OH i got the.
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Speaker 1: Giggles you, say. Yay you keep playing your cards? Right
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Speaker 1: tonight's D daddy might mount.
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Speaker 4: You we're adding another, one another. One if you're a
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Speaker 4: part Of Papa team, six that little bit Of Semen
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Speaker 4: team six in you never really.
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Speaker 2: Leaves.
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Speaker 1: Never hey just, Challenge, hey challenge for all Of Papa
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Speaker 1: team six within this next. Week won't you listen to this?
10:27
Speaker 1: Episode your mission is once you get your wife to
10:31
Speaker 1: laugh at a funny little, joke you just tell. Her
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Speaker 1: keep playing your cards, Right daddy might mountain.
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Speaker 2: Tonight, hey speaking of speaking of somebody comes off the
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Speaker 2: pups list pretty.
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Speaker 1: Soon i've been, curious BUT i don't want to get
10:50
Speaker 1: in your. Business you're not my. Business i've wanted to
10:53
Speaker 1: ask how everything's going with. You so what we're talking
10:55
Speaker 1: about Is schirm's wife is on the pup list right.
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Speaker 1: Now pup list being AN nfl term physically unable to perform.
11:05
Speaker 1: List when you have a, child there's it's eight, weeks
11:09
Speaker 1: eight weeks some you know you might hear like a
11:11
Speaker 1: six to eight weeks And Papa team sixers kind of
11:14
Speaker 1: push the boundary for that six as we do as
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Speaker 1: we always but wife is on the pup list for eight. Weeks,
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Speaker 1: yeah meaning it's just you yourself in your hand or
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Speaker 1: whatever you're, into whatever you're. In, yeah we don't. Judge,
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Speaker 1: yeah we don't judge. Goombres we're not. Judging. Yeah and
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Speaker 1: you're kind of on a lonely feeling because you, know
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Speaker 1: boys got. Needs, yeah but you got to swallow that,
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Speaker 1: pride you, know because your wife has.
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Speaker 2: To heal, absolutely and it's it's going to align perfectly
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Speaker 2: With Baylor Auburn. Weekend so If baylor catches AT W
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Speaker 2: i know the perfect way to.
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Speaker 1: Celebrate so she she's she comes off pup list in
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Speaker 1: a few. Weeks two, weeks two, weeks two. Weeks how's it,
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Speaker 1: been how's it been going for for The Papa team
11:58
Speaker 1: sixers out there or the dads that just had. Kids
12:02
Speaker 1: they're kind of learning about the whole situation right, now
12:05
Speaker 1: soon to be dads that might not understand that there's
12:08
Speaker 1: this eight week protocol where ain't really no, touchy, touchy lovey.
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Speaker 2: Lovey i've gone into a place WHERE i no longer
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Speaker 2: Feel i'm almost, numb if that makes.
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Speaker 1: Sense it.
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Speaker 2: Does taylor on the other day in the office, goes,
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Speaker 2: y'all were you Know rasinbie for something and he, said,
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Speaker 2: uh oh, Yeah sherman didn't do. That AND i, said
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Speaker 2: underneath my, Breath and you know, what El sherman hasn't
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Speaker 2: done because WHAT i leaned, IN i, go, Come he,
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Speaker 2: goes for, REAL i, go.
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Speaker 1: Yeah emptied the. Clip emptied the. CLIP i have yet
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Speaker 1: to do. It but that's, okay.
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Speaker 2: Good so you blow keep being. Gooning oh yeah in my,
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Speaker 2: Mind well, REALLY i mean it's been it's been a.
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Speaker 2: Minute not to be TM, i but like it's been a. Minute,
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Speaker 2: yeah it's, been it's been it's been a.
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Speaker 1: Month, yeah, yeah that makes. SENSE i personally like it's
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Speaker 1: hard to navigate Because i'll get a little you, Know
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Speaker 1: i'll get a little. Restless we all do the seeming
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Speaker 1: team sixer and me gets a little. Restless yeah, yeah,
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Speaker 1: yeah the goom beret in You yeah, today. Sweetheart like,
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Speaker 1: Again i've said this yoke before on this. SHOW i
13:41
Speaker 1: Know i'm busting with the, boys but it's Like i'll
13:45
Speaker 1: even tell her just because one ride is broken down
13:47
Speaker 1: doesn't mean the whole theme park has to be shut. Down,
13:50
Speaker 1: Amen like ALL i. Need i'm telling you it ain't
13:53
Speaker 1: gonna take.
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Speaker 2: Long you're acting Like i'm asking you to cut your hand, Though,
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Speaker 2: YEAH i.
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Speaker 1: Just need a little friction and a whisper my. GO
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Speaker 1: i truly.
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Speaker 2: Am i'm to the point of numbness. Now, Yeah like
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Speaker 2: there was that like four week stretch WHERE i was
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Speaker 2: waking up in the.
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Speaker 1: MORNING i was, like you, know suns, out guns, dude.
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Speaker 2: Sons, out guns, Out like you just kind of feel.
14:22
Speaker 2: It it's weird and like you kind of you're, like,
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Speaker 2: DAMN i need. It and then after you get past
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Speaker 2: that four week, mark Now i'm kind of in this
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Speaker 2: Like i've almost uh was it? Over like you've gone
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Speaker 2: to a higher plane.
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Speaker 1: Outside of your.
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Speaker 2: Body like, Literally Doctor strange like poked me AND i came,
14:45
Speaker 2: out and Now i'm just, like was It STEVE o
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Speaker 2: that was LIKE i didn't come for a year On
14:50
Speaker 2: busting with The.
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Speaker 1: Boys, yeah.
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Speaker 2: And he was talking about how he like his brain
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Speaker 2: development was crazy from. IT i kind of get.
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Speaker 1: It, yeah it's a it's a it's a weird thing
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Speaker 1: to navigate because, again it's like your, NEEDS i, know
15:07
Speaker 1: for a man like when you're like if you're the
15:10
Speaker 1: husband or the, dad, whatever and your brain it tells
15:15
Speaker 1: us that we are secondary to what the wife. Needs,
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Speaker 1: yeah talking from my own personal, experience where it's LIKE
15:22
Speaker 1: i would have these conversations in my head to where it's, like,
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Speaker 1: MAN i want, to like in a fun, way express
15:29
Speaker 1: like what my needs are BECAUSE i. Do like you,
15:32
Speaker 1: know we're all human. Beings we all have our, things
15:34
Speaker 1: but you feel like you have to suppress or become.
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Speaker 1: Secondary so it's like trying to find those spaces to
15:40
Speaker 1: talk about even in a fun, way and if nothing even,
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Speaker 1: Happens i'm just using this thing as an. Example, yeah, yeah,
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Speaker 1: yeah because even when your wife's pregnant and a lot
15:48
Speaker 1: of the needs and it's like, again you you try
15:51
Speaker 1: to make yourself secondary because you want everything to be
15:55
Speaker 1: good with, wife or you want to stay, strong you
15:57
Speaker 1: want to do all these things that you tell, yourself
15:59
Speaker 1: uh to make to do anything you can to make
16:02
Speaker 1: your wife feel. Comfortable and in, turn like, internally the
16:06
Speaker 1: domino effect is it'll it could snowball a little, bit
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Speaker 1: a little, bit and you don't know it's snowballing until
16:15
Speaker 1: the snowballs at the bottom of the hill or until
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Speaker 1: you have a. Moment. Dude, NOW i know we were
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Speaker 1: going off that, example But i'm talking about in. Anything oh, Right,
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Speaker 1: Yeah i'm talking about you communicating things that you might
16:25
Speaker 1: want out that this is outside the, bedroom things that
16:29
Speaker 1: you might be, feeling wanting to talk about your long,
16:32
Speaker 1: day and there's a part of you that when if
16:34
Speaker 1: your wife's talking about, it or you kind of get
16:36
Speaker 1: a cold shoulder because there's a lot of hormonal things
16:38
Speaker 1: happening at the. Time if you're like in, That i'll
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Speaker 1: just say THE pt sixish mindset that will have that
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Speaker 1: dads will have is to shell up or. Internalize, okay
16:51
Speaker 1: you don't want to hear from, me and you kind
16:53
Speaker 1: of hold it in and you can eat it for
16:55
Speaker 1: a few, days but at a certain point it comes.
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Speaker 1: Out it comes, out and you'll. LASH i don't know
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Speaker 1: WHERE i was going with, that but more so talking
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Speaker 1: like all of these things are real things that, happen, yes.
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Speaker 2: And I'll i'll pick up from. That jill has gotten
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Speaker 2: very good at knowing WHEN i come home AND i
17:14
Speaker 2: get on the couch AND i don't say a, word
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Speaker 2: and so, sorry, uh AND i like get. Horizontal she
17:22
Speaker 2: instantly knows he has something that he wants to talk,
17:26
Speaker 2: about but he's not talking about, it and so she's
17:29
Speaker 2: done a good job of being able to identify that
17:32
Speaker 2: and kind of be, like how's your. Day do anything
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Speaker 2: happened at the, office anything fun or like anything kind of?
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Speaker 2: Frustrating do you have a stressful?
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Speaker 1: Day? No?
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Speaker 2: No, Really like for the first couple of times that you.
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Speaker 1: Are you subconsciously doing? This so are you Intentionally Like
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Speaker 1: i'm gonna, Listen it doesn't be like.
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Speaker 2: Subconsciously, absolutely there is a part of me Because i'm
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Speaker 2: just stewing on Whatever i'm stewing. On So i'm not
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Speaker 2: even picking up on the fact THAT i came, in
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Speaker 2: kissed my, wife said, hey and then plopped on the couch.
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Speaker 1: And didn't say anything for thirty.
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Speaker 2: Minutes and if you know me and you're, like, Hey
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Speaker 2: sherman hasn't said anything in an hour thirty minutes And
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Speaker 2: i'm not sitting at my computer and, editing you.
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Speaker 1: Would be, like, oh one thousand, percent what's.
18:17
Speaker 2: Going on With he's Kind, Yeah so there's. That and
18:22
Speaker 2: then the other THING i was gonna say is the
18:25
Speaker 2: signs are leaning towards some good, stuff, dude some good
18:31
Speaker 2: stuff here in two. Weeks, Wife he's, like, hey what
18:36
Speaker 2: are you doing so far away from me in? Bed
18:38
Speaker 2: let's cuddle a little. Bit, god it's been a minute
18:41
Speaker 2: Since i've heard, that because when she's, Pregnant, hey don't
18:46
Speaker 2: that's too much.
18:46
Speaker 1: Pressure i'm comfort too. Much, absolutely it's like they'll have
18:49
Speaker 1: to move around every couple minutes because they're trying to
18:51
Speaker 1: get comfortable so they can fall asleep one hundred.
18:53
Speaker 2: Percent and SO i just naturally, like haven't been doing
18:56
Speaker 2: that a whole lot. Lately and Now i'm hearing the
18:58
Speaker 2: like are you gonna do with me or? What And i'm, like,
19:02
Speaker 2: okay oh you talking about.
19:04
Speaker 1: Cuddling are we? Cuddling are we cuddle?
19:05
Speaker 2: Cuddling it's, like, okay she had a glass of wine
19:11
Speaker 2: the other, night right before. BED i don't want to
19:15
Speaker 2: put too much out, there but that's a good sign for.
19:17
Speaker 1: Sure that fires me up for, her because it's like
19:20
Speaker 1: women go through postpartum and it's it's such a transition
19:23
Speaker 1: BECAUSE i, know like just listening to my, wife you
19:27
Speaker 1: you feel like you lose yourself because you have to
19:30
Speaker 1: care for this little, child and the mother nature that
19:33
Speaker 1: kicks in is like everything is about the. Child, yes
19:37
Speaker 1: even if they're intentionally trying to be in the, partnership
19:39
Speaker 1: in the marriage and everything. Else but it's like it's
19:42
Speaker 1: like it sounds like she's starting to see the light
19:45
Speaker 1: at the end of the tunnel a little, bit because
19:47
Speaker 1: my wife would just she just gets so fired. Up
19:49
Speaker 1: she'll step on the, scale losing, weight feeling, better feeling
19:53
Speaker 1: like they want to, exercise like getting back to what
19:56
Speaker 1: made them, them because it's, like you're carrying a kid
19:59
Speaker 1: FOR i mean it's nine, months but really in, reality
20:02
Speaker 1: it's like ten. Months they're carrying a. Kid then you
20:04
Speaker 1: got the, postpartum all the hormones going. On it's pretty
20:06
Speaker 1: much a year's time since they've been there their fool
20:11
Speaker 1: self and they like lose their. Identity they gain another
20:13
Speaker 1: one that they love and appreciate and. Enjoy, yes but
20:16
Speaker 1: when they remember who they were before the kid and
20:18
Speaker 1: they start to feel it a little, Bit, oh let's
20:20
Speaker 1: have a glass of. Wine, hey you're not coming to
20:22
Speaker 1: you a little far, away it's like they're coming back to.
20:25
Speaker 1: Life so that fires me up to, dad, dude it
20:27
Speaker 1: got me.
20:27
Speaker 2: Juice like last night she was she was actually having
20:30
Speaker 2: a shower, wine WHICH i want that's a.
20:34
Speaker 1: MOVE a shower, wine just a glass of wine in
20:36
Speaker 1: the shower and the. Shower are we talking taking her
20:39
Speaker 1: taking her time too long? Shower? Yeah and THEN.
20:44
Speaker 2: I came back in and she was putting on a
20:46
Speaker 2: little the tanning. Lotion she's very excited for tailor's. Today
20:53
Speaker 2: we're filming this On. Friday taylor's having like a little pool. Bash,
20:56
Speaker 2: yeah she's.
20:57
Speaker 1: Very excited for.
20:58
Speaker 2: That AND i was, Like, oh we're putting on a
21:01
Speaker 2: little tants of blah, blah and she was, like, Yeah
21:03
Speaker 2: i'm just LIKE i don't. Know i'm just kind of
21:06
Speaker 2: like feeling. Myself i'm excited, to, like you, know get
21:09
Speaker 2: out of the house And i'm like getting in front
21:12
Speaker 2: of the mirror and you, know just kind of doing my.
21:14
Speaker 1: Thing and it's fun to SEE i like.
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Speaker 2: husband is the director of a equipment for The. Razorbacks
23:02
Speaker 2: our first daughter was born during fall. Camp she's a week. Old,
23:07
Speaker 2: good she, said As will knows nine arguably ten years
23:11
Speaker 2: in the. League there's zero downtime during season needing advice
23:15
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23:18
Speaker 2: love the pod and she provided a great. PICTURE i
23:21
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23:26
Speaker 2: suie stuff and he's just passed out next to baby.
23:30
Speaker 1: Girl so is dad a?
23:32
Speaker 2: Coach he's the director of equipment for The. Razorbacks, oh unsung.
23:36
Speaker 1: Heroes oh, yeah. Buddy and you think players and coaches
23:41
Speaker 1: and they put in work equipment, managers bro especially them.
23:47
Speaker 1: Gas oh. Yeah but they're there all hours of the.
23:50
Speaker 2: Day and The razorbacks aren't a two uniform, team.
23:54
Speaker 1: Right and there's no, like, uh you, Know i'd imagine
23:58
Speaker 1: if you're a. Coach and AGAIN i don't know BECAUSE
24:00
Speaker 1: i haven't been in the coaching, world but witnessing the
24:02
Speaker 1: coaches That i've, had like if there's a moment like
24:04
Speaker 1: kids like you have a little bit more not, autonomy
24:07
Speaker 1: but a little bit more control of your. Schedule you're
24:09
Speaker 1: still putting in a shitload of. Hours, Yeah but if
24:12
Speaker 1: you're an equipment, manager if you're these equipment, guys, like
24:15
Speaker 1: there's no there's no like say or any control like
24:17
Speaker 1: you were. There there's no, asking there's No if you
24:21
Speaker 1: have a great head, coach maybe he'll give you some
24:23
Speaker 1: time off or work with you a little. Bit but
24:24
Speaker 1: those equipment dudes are there all day, long even getting
24:29
Speaker 1: the guys, prepped getting everything, prepped, yeah getting workout clothes,
24:33
Speaker 1: prepped getting your practice stuff, prepped dealing with all the
24:37
Speaker 1: sweat and the airing out the shoes and the shoulder
24:39
Speaker 1: pads and the helmet after, practice getting all the loops
24:43
Speaker 1: in the. Laundry they're they're doing laundry all, night getting the,
24:46
Speaker 1: laundry getting that cycle, through setting out their workout closes
24:49
Speaker 1: for the next, morning setting out their practice pads and
24:51
Speaker 1: shoes for the next. Day around and around and. Around
24:55
Speaker 1: shout out my.
24:56
Speaker 2: Cousin, george he was an equipment manager.
25:00
Speaker 1: Just one year AT. Tcu, yeah but, yeah they're thinking
25:04
Speaker 1: about that.
25:04
Speaker 2: Now i'm just, like oh, my they grind no wonder
25:07
Speaker 2: he did it from?
25:07
Speaker 1: You, Yeah and being a full time. Student. Yeah, yeah
25:13
Speaker 1: would you say psychotic, hours would.
25:15
Speaker 2: You say that's arguably harder than being a student athlete
25:18
Speaker 2: being a student equipment?
25:20
Speaker 1: Manager, yeah why. Not it's like you're you're putting your
25:24
Speaker 1: energy and time into. Something some guys who are doing
25:27
Speaker 1: the equipment, stuff they might not necessarily wanting to be doing. It,
25:30
Speaker 1: yeah So i'm assuming in their brain it's like even,
25:33
Speaker 1: more it feels even more like, work whereas being a student,
25:35
Speaker 1: athlete like there's a lot of shit you gotta do because, you're,
25:39
Speaker 1: again you're a, student you're going to, school you're getting
25:41
Speaker 1: a twelve, hours twelve fifteen credited, hours and then you're
25:44
Speaker 1: also trying to pour into something that you could hopefully
25:47
Speaker 1: do one day as a. Profession there's aspects that are,
25:50
Speaker 1: fun but it is a very like physically and mentally
25:52
Speaker 1: hard thing to. Do but it's like if you if
25:54
Speaker 1: you're in a, dude if you're a student and you're
25:56
Speaker 1: also a full time, worker like you're grinding your ass.
25:59
Speaker 3: Off and also like some people want to do front
26:02
Speaker 3: they do it because they want an end to front
26:04
Speaker 3: office stuff and. Sports there's a lot of people who do,
26:06
Speaker 3: it especially a d one call like a college like
26:08
Speaker 3: all the guys At, tennessee they do it because they
26:10
Speaker 3: fucking love the. Program, Right so you're, Putting, yeah you
26:13
Speaker 3: don't get paid a, lot you're working insane outa buddy
26:15
Speaker 3: who did, It you work insane, Hours but it's just
26:18
Speaker 3: because you love that team and you want to be
26:20
Speaker 3: a part of it in some way and you're not
26:21
Speaker 3: on the, field and a lot of times you don't
26:24
Speaker 3: get the, praise but it's like that's a huge part
26:26
Speaker 3: of that. Operation.
26:27
Speaker 1: Yeah, YEAH i, mean you could sit here and we
26:31
Speaker 1: could do the whole comparison, game but it's like your
26:33
Speaker 1: hardest thing that you're doing is my hardest thing That
26:36
Speaker 1: i'm doing because you're pouring into. It, yeah you know
26:38
Speaker 1: what i. Mean, yeah even with this, stuff it's Like
26:41
Speaker 1: chef grinds his dick. Off he does to edit and
26:44
Speaker 1: do all the, things and not only, that but improve
26:46
Speaker 1: on the skills that he's working on and also try
26:48
Speaker 1: to find new creative. Ways he's also trying to think
26:50
Speaker 1: like we, are, Hey will And shurham like, this we're
26:54
Speaker 1: thinking of all of our we're doing our day to.
26:56
Speaker 1: Day you're at home with the, kid like balancing work
26:58
Speaker 1: in life in my world Where i'm not behind a
27:01
Speaker 1: computer editing all, Day like my heart is still. Hard
27:04
Speaker 1: but it's like you're sitting, here it's like YOU'RE i don't.
27:09
Speaker 1: Know it's LIKE i think if you're somebody who grinds
27:14
Speaker 1: every day with, work with life and you're trying to
27:18
Speaker 1: learn how to balance it, all like you're doing as
27:21
Speaker 1: hard a thing as everybody else is. Doing, yeah taking out,
27:25
Speaker 1: compensation taking out what's more physically, grueling you know WHAT i,
27:30
Speaker 1: Mean because at the end of the, day you're constantly
27:32
Speaker 1: trying to challenge yourself to be, better and doing that
27:34
Speaker 1: is fucking.
27:35
Speaker 2: Hard, yeah because doing What chef is doing now for
27:41
Speaker 2: those like first two, weeks like really before we Had
27:44
Speaker 2: chef like pumping.
27:46
Speaker 1: Out this stuff with. Us, YEAH i now am in my.
27:50
Speaker 2: Situation i'm not having to do all that. Stuff but
27:53
Speaker 2: Now i'm in the situation i'm. In and to your exact,
27:55
Speaker 2: Point i'm, like, man.
27:57
Speaker 1: This is, hard.
27:58
Speaker 2: Dude it's not, impossible but it does have like its.
28:02
Speaker 2: Challenges we kind of talked about that before the episode last.
28:05
Speaker 2: Week you feel like you're so spread thin that you're
28:09
Speaker 2: letting everybody, down.
28:10
Speaker 1: Right but so you got to be. Intentional it's like
28:15
Speaker 1: she was asking for advice with the head equipment manager
28:18
Speaker 1: and they have a one week, Old, yeah a two week,
28:22
Speaker 1: OLD i. Guess, yeah it's, honestly it's just make sure
28:26
Speaker 1: you guys are. Communicating you guys are able to anticipate
28:29
Speaker 1: each other. Schedules. Yeah If dad is a way because
28:31
Speaker 1: he's grinding his dick off being an equipment manager and
28:33
Speaker 1: that's the life that is chosen between you, two then
28:36
Speaker 1: it's wife just needs To dad needs to ask the,
28:41
Speaker 1: question what do you need from me throughout the day
28:43
Speaker 1: so he's not, guessing and wife needs to clearly communicate
28:46
Speaker 1: the expectations of things that she would love and enjoy
28:49
Speaker 1: with also the empathy Of, OKAY i might not be
28:51
Speaker 1: able to reach him, HERE i might not be able
28:53
Speaker 1: to reach him at this, Point dad needs to think
28:55
Speaker 1: the same. Way you guys just need to be on
28:57
Speaker 1: the exact same page so that way you guys can
28:59
Speaker 1: anticipate what each other. Needs and then you just got
29:02
Speaker 1: to know that this structure that we're putting together were
29:05
Speaker 1: the pain points when is it going to be? Hard
29:08
Speaker 1: and life is just going to be?
29:09
Speaker 2: Hard and knowing the busy season right like being great
29:12
Speaker 2: by her already. IDENTIFYING i, mean obviously football, seasons the busy.
29:16
Speaker 2: Season but she's, like, hey this is going to be
29:19
Speaker 2: hard for both of. Us she did use, us, like
29:23
Speaker 2: what is some advice for?
29:24
Speaker 1: Us, yeah And i'll say Because dad has to know
29:27
Speaker 1: that when he's working and thinking in his. Brain because
29:30
Speaker 1: here's what here's what dads or males will, do especially
29:32
Speaker 1: coming from the generations before, us is we, uh we
29:38
Speaker 1: justify us, working were wanting to put food on the.
29:41
Speaker 1: Table we want to be the, protector the, provider all
29:45
Speaker 1: these things to provide security at. Home so then when
29:47
Speaker 1: a dust up happens at, home, verbally it's Like dad's
29:51
Speaker 1: defending what he does all day, long moms defending what she.
29:54
Speaker 1: Does it's it's, like, no you got to get that
29:56
Speaker 1: shit out of the. Equation it's you guys got to
29:59
Speaker 1: both know that you're pouring in an insane amount of
30:02
Speaker 1: value for the. Family as long as you two are
30:05
Speaker 1: on the same, page that is what. Matters dad has to, Know,
30:09
Speaker 1: Hey i'm at, work, sweetheart you gotta tell me what you
30:10
Speaker 1: need for. Me dad also has to be super curious and,
30:13
Speaker 1: Intentional hey what do you what do you? Need? Yes as,
30:18
Speaker 1: well so it all goes both. Ways, Bro it's not
30:21
Speaker 1: about staying strong for each, other it's about just staying fucking.
30:23
Speaker 2: Connected curious is a great, word and that's a great
30:27
Speaker 2: bit of, advice that little text THAT i don't remember
30:31
Speaker 2: every single day to, sin but WHEN i do send
30:33
Speaker 2: To jill Of, Hey.
30:35
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about. Lunch have you eaten?
30:37
Speaker 2: Yet blah blah Blah, no And i'm. STARVING i would
30:40
Speaker 2: love to get lunch Right just, that, Like, Hey i'm
30:43
Speaker 2: thinking about. You i'm thinking about your needs because she's
30:47
Speaker 2: nap trapped at home with little.
30:49
Speaker 1: Scarlet one thousand. Percent and then IF i say, hey
30:52
Speaker 1: could you just, Respond it's, Like, Yo i'm at, Work
30:53
Speaker 1: i'm doing, This i'm doing. That, No, dad you also
30:56
Speaker 1: got to be empathizing and being conscious of what mom's
30:59
Speaker 1: going through a, home because think about any dad who
31:01
Speaker 1: spent a weekend or days were there with the kidd
31:05
Speaker 1: oh by. Themselves like it's like you're you, know if
31:07
Speaker 1: you're talking to your wife wondering what's going, on and
31:09
Speaker 1: nobody's like checking in or tapping into, you it's just, like,
31:12
Speaker 1: oh people Think i'm just watching the. Kid it's LIKE
31:13
Speaker 1: i just got some easy work Because i'm just chilling
31:15
Speaker 1: at home with the. Kids, like, no those parents that
31:18
Speaker 1: have kids know that shit is a. Grind, yeah and
31:22
Speaker 1: mom's not getting out of the, house especially if you
31:23
Speaker 1: got a young. One you got a young one in
31:25
Speaker 1: those first few, months like you're at home most of the.
31:27
Speaker 2: Time two, WEEKS i mean that is every three hours
31:31
Speaker 2: on the, dot on the, dot that little girl or
31:34
Speaker 2: boy is going to be hungry and it's gonna let.
31:37
Speaker 1: You, yeah, milking, pumping even if you're not doing, that the,
31:41
Speaker 1: hormone everything that's going. On your entire mind is around
31:45
Speaker 1: the life of this little being at all, times and
31:47
Speaker 1: there's no deviating because you are the vessel that this
31:51
Speaker 1: kid comes. From, yes you can't just leave the kid
31:54
Speaker 1: on his own at, All like they need constant nurturing and.
31:57
Speaker 1: Attention you hope you get a great amount of three
32:00
Speaker 1: whenever you have those three hour, breaks but you're. Tied
32:03
Speaker 1: you're tied to having to do.
32:05
Speaker 2: It and if you do lay them down and they
32:06
Speaker 2: snuggle me and they do fall, asleep you're, like oh my. God.
32:10
Speaker 2: Yeah otherwise it's only right there on mom or right
32:13
Speaker 2: there on dad that they'll even get.
32:15
Speaker 1: Sleep, Yeah and the dads that do work grueling hours
32:18
Speaker 1: that when you do come, home you should in your.
32:20
Speaker 1: Mind you just got to think when that garage door opens,
32:22
Speaker 1: up all, Right i'm about to go in. Good how
32:25
Speaker 1: CAN i take whatever load is going on from my
32:27
Speaker 1: wife so she KNOWS i can trust this dude to
32:31
Speaker 1: kind of operate on, himself to operate by. Hisself because
32:33
Speaker 1: even even when mom hangs the baby, over it's like
32:37
Speaker 1: they know everything they want to do in their brain
32:39
Speaker 1: and they're trying to trust that you can do the.
32:40
Speaker 1: Same so they can actually remove themselves and just go
32:44
Speaker 1: do whatever they need to. Do if you want to
32:45
Speaker 1: go do, laundry you want to go take a, walk
32:47
Speaker 1: you want to go get a, call if you want
32:48
Speaker 1: to go DO, X y AND. Z have the freedom
32:51
Speaker 1: Knowing dad's back. Home he's A pt. SIXER i don't
32:55
Speaker 1: have to worry about.
32:56
Speaker 2: It that would be to the director Of equipment Of. Arkansas,
33:00
Speaker 2: well that would be my biggest piece of advice is
33:03
Speaker 2: no when.
33:03
Speaker 1: You get, home because that's so.
33:05
Speaker 2: True jill has her checklist because she loves keeping a tidy.
33:10
Speaker 1: House, dude that is her. Love she wants a not
33:13
Speaker 1: as much, mine as much mine at, all But jill
33:18
Speaker 1: wants a happy.
33:18
Speaker 2: Home she wants a home that smells, good looks. Good, Off,
33:23
Speaker 2: yes candles are lit and so just no director of.
33:27
Speaker 2: EQUIPMENT i don't know his. NAME i know his wife's.
33:30
Speaker 2: Name but when you come, home your wife probably has
33:33
Speaker 2: that checklist in her head exactly like you.
33:35
Speaker 1: Said and when you take, baby.
33:38
Speaker 2: That frees her to then all this stuff that's been
33:41
Speaker 2: sitting on her head all day that she couldn't do
33:43
Speaker 2: because she was trying to hold, Baby now she has
33:46
Speaker 2: the freedom to go do. It the amount of pressure
33:49
Speaker 2: that is going to come off of her when you
33:51
Speaker 2: allow her to operate and what she wants to get, done,
33:54
Speaker 2: dude is gonna be great for both of you, guys
33:57
Speaker 2: not only her but you as, well because then you're
33:59
Speaker 2: gonna be able to really sit there and enjoy the
34:03
Speaker 2: moment together once she has knocked out of her.
34:06
Speaker 1: List and if you have to ask a, Question, okay
34:09
Speaker 1: when DO i do? This or what DO i do?
34:11
Speaker 1: Here just simply this is a little dad hack switch
34:14
Speaker 1: the what or, when, why? Where? Whatever with remind me,
34:18
Speaker 1: heymind remind me of the. Time remind me the time
34:22
Speaker 1: she last, ate because you should know the every three hour.
34:24
Speaker 1: Mark if you have a. Newborn, yeah remind me the
34:26
Speaker 1: last time she ate Versus, hey when does she need
34:29
Speaker 1: to eat? Again Or, hey remind me what she had for. Lunch,
34:33
Speaker 1: hey BEFORE i go check the, fridge remind me what
34:35
Speaker 1: we have in there for potential. Dinner so that, way
34:38
Speaker 1: it's just like they're. Reminding it's Not, hey what DO
34:40
Speaker 1: i need to, do and they're just, Thinking, MAN i
34:42
Speaker 1: wish you knew just a little bit, more.
34:45
Speaker 2: Dude that's All i'm talking. About we hate this is,
34:49
Speaker 2: good this little back and FORTH i like.
34:54
Speaker 1: Doing Vision Papa team six are sitting at THE. Tv,
34:56
Speaker 1: oh don't forget this, one and somebody says, like, yeah,
35:00
Speaker 1: yes that.
35:00
Speaker 2: Too you just went like four for four on stuff
35:03
Speaker 2: that BECAUSE i, Mean scarlett is six, weeks but she's
35:07
Speaker 2: not that far ahead of a two week.
35:08
Speaker 1: Old, again we're not.
35:09
Speaker 2: Experts we're not, experts but everything that you're hitting, On i'm, Like,
35:12
Speaker 2: GOD i WISH i knew that at the beginning because
35:15
Speaker 2: it's so. True And jill AND i have had those
35:18
Speaker 2: conversations of, like if you're at home And Will compton
35:22
Speaker 2: texted you at nine, pm do you know how fast
35:25
Speaker 2: you would reply to that? Text because it's work it's
35:29
Speaker 2: worth this might be. Important that's my. Boss, yeah, bro
35:32
Speaker 2: LIKE i got to answer, that But i'm on home time.
35:37
Speaker 1: And, gentlemen, gentlemen these conversations come about like what this uh?
35:42
Speaker 1: Situation are hypothetical that term's talking. About these conversations come
35:47
Speaker 1: up when it's getting toward the breaking, point, yes because as,
35:52
Speaker 1: men we don't know until it's being said to, us
35:56
Speaker 1: and then we're just thinking if you'd have just told.
35:58
Speaker 1: Me but it's, like, listen this is just some game
36:01
Speaker 1: to be aware of so you don't get to. Win
36:04
Speaker 1: you ask too many what when DO i do? This
36:07
Speaker 1: how DO i do? This because in, time in a
36:09
Speaker 1: couple of weeks, time when it gets to the breaking,
36:11
Speaker 1: point you guys are having a big, conversation that's when
36:13
Speaker 1: those things are coming. Up it's like. Sweetart when you ask,
36:16
Speaker 1: me what DO i do? This when DO i do?
36:17
Speaker 1: That and your wife's kind of giving you a talking
36:19
Speaker 1: to a little, bit that's when it's starting to click
36:21
Speaker 1: a little bit in your mind that she's putting you
36:23
Speaker 1: in her. Shoes but now it's got it's gotten so
36:25
Speaker 1: far to where your guard might be up and you
36:27
Speaker 1: might be a little defensive to where you don't want
36:28
Speaker 1: to handle the conversation that. Way these are things to
36:31
Speaker 1: just be aware of before they happen.
36:33
Speaker 2: And be willing to have an open mind that When
36:35
Speaker 2: jill does bring up the great point of If will
36:37
Speaker 2: did text me at nine.
36:38
Speaker 1: O'clock because that's a good one.
36:40
Speaker 2: About something, IMPORTANT i would want to reply very quickly
36:44
Speaker 2: BECAUSE i want to Show Will i'm on top of.
36:46
Speaker 1: IT i.
36:47
Speaker 2: Care i'm a good. Employee i'm not. Lazy his time
36:51
Speaker 2: is important to. Me he took the time to, text
36:53
Speaker 2: And i'll text him. Back and she goes flip that
36:57
Speaker 2: you're at, WORK i text you so being important AND
37:01
Speaker 2: i you, know not that she's.
37:03
Speaker 1: One like your wife's texting, you not your. Boss, yeah
37:06
Speaker 1: is your marriage? Important is getting back to the family?
37:09
Speaker 1: Important are you having the same urgency that tells HER
37:12
Speaker 1: i got it? EASY i? Care?
37:14
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yes and she and she's not, like, UH i
37:18
Speaker 2: want to text back in five, minutes but.
37:20
Speaker 1: She Knows i'm.
37:21
Speaker 2: Busy. Yeah but IF i did ghost her like all,
37:25
Speaker 2: day she would feel some type of, way, right just
37:27
Speaker 2: like you would if you texted me something important AND
37:29
Speaker 2: i ghosted you for, like, yeah twelve eighteen, hours like
37:32
Speaker 2: you kind of be, like, yo sure. Question, like knowing,
37:36
Speaker 2: you you'd probably just like emphasize.
37:38
Speaker 1: It, yeah you're spot. On, Hey i'm, here you're spot,
37:42
Speaker 1: on because it'll be the same thing like Like charli
37:44
Speaker 1: texts me SOMETHING i have don't RESPONSE i get, home she's,
37:47
Speaker 1: LIKE i texted. You, Yeah she's like if this would
37:50
Speaker 1: have been so and so that's a great. Point great
37:53
Speaker 1: question by the. Wife, yeah, great, yeah, yeah great. Question
37:58
Speaker 1: by the, WAY i HAVE i HAVE i. LISTEN i
38:01
Speaker 1: know we got to keep it under an, hour SO
38:02
Speaker 1: i have three more little quick comments THAT i can rattle.
38:05
Speaker 1: Off go, ahead and then we can get into the
38:08
Speaker 1: to the meat and potatoes of the. Episode, Cheers, cheers Bro, hey, cheers.
38:11
Speaker 1: Cheers shout Out, Anna Shout. Anna this one's From kevin
38:16
Speaker 1: jack seventy seven to fifty. Three baby boy do in four.
38:19
Speaker 1: WEEKS i needed this episode for football Talk chin strap
38:22
Speaker 1: on about to head into the. Trenches let's go. Boys NICK.
38:26
Speaker 1: C ninety six got my Girl dad had on at
38:29
Speaker 1: the beach with my three year old ROCK. Pt six.
38:31
Speaker 1: Shirt last night we up Sled dog out Sled. Dog
38:35
Speaker 1: Noah Earl jackson. Pt six just got my. Shirt i'll
38:38
Speaker 1: be tagging the boys in two weeks when my baby
38:40
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38:43
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38:51
Speaker 1: that is where you get the. Merch that's how you
38:52
Speaker 1: can tag, us that is how you can. Share that
38:54
Speaker 1: is how you can wear the. Merch proud knowing that
38:57
Speaker 1: you're a you're A pt six. Er and what do
38:59
Speaker 1: you have on top of your head right? There will? Hat,
39:02
Speaker 1: sherman what do you? Ask? WHAT i believe one of
39:04
Speaker 1: our new. Hats, yes the black and white for The
39:08
Speaker 1: dad's hat little patch up. Top this is a newer.
39:11
Speaker 1: Hat we have them in this. Color they've been sitting
39:13
Speaker 1: in that. Color we have them also in the black and.
39:16
Speaker 1: White and you were, Saying i'm wearing a visor right.
39:19
Speaker 2: Now we also have a same visor over here with
39:22
Speaker 2: different color. Scheme so funny on the inside they got
39:27
Speaker 2: the little teddy bears standing up and the little for
39:31
Speaker 2: The dad's patch on the inside.
39:32
Speaker 1: TOO i love.
39:34
Speaker 2: That so MANY pt six sicos that, like you.
39:36
Speaker 1: Know you're a visor. Guy i'm a huge visor like.
39:40
Speaker 1: ME i don't think i'd be wearing. That and There
39:43
Speaker 1: i'm worry For Papa team SIX i. Worried that's not my,
39:46
Speaker 1: style AND i PUT i put the feelers out.
39:48
Speaker 2: There gr head of merchant was, like hey put, it
39:51
Speaker 2: put it tweet out you, see.
39:53
Speaker 1: And you had enough sickos that wanted a.
39:55
Speaker 2: Few there were some, sicos, dude there was some SICK
39:58
Speaker 2: i think we have like nine or ten definite like,
40:01
Speaker 2: yo that's. Gas but One siko filmed his. Desk he
40:04
Speaker 2: had like nine golf. Eyes he was, LIKE i added
40:07
Speaker 2: to the. Collection but this exact same, logo we will
40:12
Speaker 2: also be putting on a. Hat chef off camera is
40:16
Speaker 2: actually wearing said. Hat we want to tease that at
40:19
Speaker 2: a later. Time, yep we want to tease it at
40:22
Speaker 2: a later.
40:22
Speaker 1: Time but chef looks. Good chef looks, good and it's
40:27
Speaker 1: a great hat For Semen team. Sixers there just, hey
40:30
Speaker 1: take a photo of chef right, now so that way
40:31
Speaker 1: you can just shoot him the shoot him the photo
40:35
Speaker 1: to put in during the. Episode and this hat is bad.
40:38
Speaker 1: Ass this one is one that maybe you're not a
40:41
Speaker 1: father yet and you just you you're about the, brand
40:43
Speaker 1: but it's got the little you guys see the photo
40:46
Speaker 1: the little bear with the with the whiskey with the
40:48
Speaker 1: cigar in his. Mouth. Exactly, yeah that exact emblem That shirm's.
40:51
Speaker 1: Wearing we'll tease.
40:52
Speaker 3: It we're gonna do a different color than the One
40:54
Speaker 3: i'm wearing right.
40:55
Speaker 1: NOW i do like that.
40:56
Speaker 3: Color we can also do this, color but we have,
41:00
Speaker 3: well as long AS i can just have that.
41:01
Speaker 1: One, Yeah i'll just fuck with. You do you like the?
41:07
Speaker 2: Green just really? QUICK i like the.
41:09
Speaker 1: Green i'm, LIKE i love the, colors like fall, colors earthy. Colors,
41:13
Speaker 1: YEAH i like the green. Too can we do the
41:15
Speaker 1: green and the other two colors that you.
41:17
Speaker 3: WERE i think this hat's good enough to where we
41:20
Speaker 3: can do a couple of different. Colors white's gonna be.
41:22
Speaker 3: Badass white is for sure gonna be. Badass and it's more,
41:25
Speaker 3: universal just a couple more so the social.
41:27
Speaker 1: MEDIA i know every week we talk about YouTube, comments but,
41:29
Speaker 1: again just to not leave out the social media people out,
41:32
Speaker 1: There Nick giles number, one shout out you being a
41:35
Speaker 1: new father, Brother Nick, Giles he, said, UH i shared this.
41:39
Speaker 1: Comment Thanks, will the pot has been amazing to listen
41:41
Speaker 1: to the whole family listens, now and thank you for
41:43
Speaker 1: the honesty about situations you wish you handle. BETTER i
41:46
Speaker 1: know it makes all of us dads feel normalized when
41:48
Speaker 1: we do the. Same love and appreciate you. Boys and
41:51
Speaker 1: then another one From wes W Underscore murray twenty. One
41:56
Speaker 1: you saw THE x ray broke my toe on? Night
41:59
Speaker 1: dude tripping over my wife's? Shoes? Good, yes and see
42:03
Speaker 1: that's one. AGAIN i used the bookmark BECAUSE i hadn't
42:06
Speaker 1: engaged with it. Yet so he's probably, wanting, like, damn the,
42:08
Speaker 1: boy see this you probably you do a great job
42:11
Speaker 1: of responding to.
42:12
Speaker 2: DO i D m him and he said best part
42:15
Speaker 2: was he, said wife told me to stop faking it
42:18
Speaker 2: and get our daughter to. Sleep so in True pt six, Passion,
42:21
Speaker 2: YES i got her back to, sleep taped my toe
42:25
Speaker 2: to the other one and then got some. Sleep have
42:28
Speaker 2: to go back next week or so to get a
42:29
Speaker 2: pin put.
42:30
Speaker 1: In oh my, god let's go. West, yeah let's GO
42:33
Speaker 1: i love that THE x.
42:35
Speaker 2: Ray.
42:35
Speaker 1: OH i love to think about. Too when he just
42:37
Speaker 1: wanted to show the wife THE x ray and he's just, like,
42:40
Speaker 1: hey quick facing. It what are you? Doing, yeah, Hey,
42:43
Speaker 1: wes what'd you say to? Her what did you call?
42:45
Speaker 2: Her?
42:48
Speaker 1: BITCH i broke my?
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Speaker 3: Too, yeah you, guys IF i read a comment real,
44:03
Speaker 3: QUICK i know we're pressed for.
44:04
Speaker 1: Tys, yeah you got to keep it under an.
44:06
Speaker 5: Hour.
44:06
Speaker 1: Chef, now we're got to keep it right, now really.
44:08
Speaker 3: Good right, Now i'll be really quick. Here, uh this
44:12
Speaker 3: is from. YouTube i saw.
44:13
Speaker 1: This by the, way people, listening this Is Chef, jack
44:16
Speaker 1: captain Of Steamen team.
44:17
Speaker 3: Six i'll wear that honor. Proudly this Is Forrest dobbs
44:22
Speaker 3: nineteen thirty, One Cap Jack. MAN i THINK i might
44:25
Speaker 3: have been one of the people you grabbed after autome
44:27
Speaker 3: P lmao season ticket holder since twenty. Nineteen so this
44:31
Speaker 3: is the throwback to last week WHERE i talked about
44:34
Speaker 3: probably one of my most embarrassing moments as A tennessee volunteer.
44:37
Speaker 3: Fan it balls up where we were Leaving Neeland stadium
44:41
Speaker 3: AND i was coming to grips That Joe milton was
44:44
Speaker 3: not a heis and hopeful and that we might be
44:46
Speaker 3: regressing from the year prior With Hennon. Hooker we had
44:50
Speaker 3: an awesome.
44:50
Speaker 1: Offense and tell tell everybody what you were telling me
44:54
Speaker 1: that your girlfriend Was Jess yeah was how she was
44:56
Speaker 1: breaking it.
44:57
Speaker 3: Down SO i called them my wonderful Girlfriend alex after
45:00
Speaker 3: who's with? Me that's still with?
45:03
Speaker 1: You still with?
45:04
Speaker 3: Me?
45:04
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah thank?
45:05
Speaker 3: You.
45:05
Speaker 1: Alex.
45:06
Speaker 3: Uh BASICALLY i was like, WELL i told the story
45:09
Speaker 3: AND i kind of, said you, KNOW i kind of
45:11
Speaker 3: the gist of what we said on the, episode and she, goes,
45:13
Speaker 3: baby it was way fucking worse than. That she was,
45:17
Speaker 3: like you were grabbing seventy year old men and screaming what.
45:21
Speaker 1: The fuck are we?
45:23
Speaker 3: Doing AS i was, leaving kneeling and uh, Yeah So,
45:28
Speaker 3: FORREST i want TO i want to give you a sincere.
45:31
Speaker 3: Apology i'm a passionate claim that is. Unacceptable AND i love.
45:37
Speaker 1: The fact too That forrest is listening to for the
45:40
Speaker 1: dance and he's, LIKE i think it's going that's the
45:45
Speaker 1: fucking kid that grabbed my.
45:47
Speaker 3: ASS i THINK i might force it's unmistakable if it was,
45:51
Speaker 3: me because you couldn't miss me if he. Tried it was, like,
45:55
Speaker 3: UH i think we left like a couple of minutes
45:57
Speaker 3: in the fourth quarter. Left it, was you, know. Awesome
46:00
Speaker 3: at the end of the, year we're trying to walk.
46:01
Speaker 3: Back but, YEAH i think what we should. Do this
46:05
Speaker 3: will be an extra. Step but we get a. Shirt
46:07
Speaker 3: you link up With.
46:08
Speaker 1: Forrest, yeah you get his, information what, Size you get
46:12
Speaker 1: a shirt shipped, here so that way you can personally
46:14
Speaker 1: ship you could personally ship something to with with a. Note,
46:18
Speaker 1: yeah that just says my Bad, Forest.
46:21
Speaker 3: Forest i'm Sorry. Forrest you know what we can. Do
46:24
Speaker 3: he's a season. TAKEHOLDER i will be In knoxville for
46:27
Speaker 3: The georgia. GAME i will get your contact if you.
46:30
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46:32
Speaker 3: your tailgate in g ten or something like. That if,
46:35
Speaker 3: so please let me. KNOW i will swing by personally
46:38
Speaker 3: deliver with the photo photo to photo. Two that's if
46:42
Speaker 3: you're up for, It i'll reach out to.
46:43
Speaker 2: You that's the general Of Seamen team six right.
46:46
Speaker 1: There.
46:46
Speaker 2: YEAH i don't want to air dirty, laundry AND i
46:50
Speaker 2: know that we're trying to keep it under an, hour
46:52
Speaker 2: but do you want to share that story that you
46:54
Speaker 2: remembered about said girlfriend that you are matching each other's.
46:58
Speaker 1: Energy.
46:58
Speaker 3: Yeah, so, also to My alex's, credit she shouted out. Story,
47:03
Speaker 3: yeah shout out, out we love, You, alex because she, goes,
47:06
Speaker 3: well don't forget That i've had my moments, too BECAUSE
47:09
Speaker 3: i was, like that's so. Embarrassing she we last YEAR
47:14
Speaker 3: i brought. Her we came back To nashville For tennessee
47:16
Speaker 3: was Playing, arkansas and, uh that's the same Weekend vanderbilt
47:20
Speaker 3: was Playing alabama And bandy Upset, alabama and we were
47:22
Speaker 3: at the tavern In midtown. Eating we could hear the,
47:25
Speaker 3: stadium and so we watched the fourth quarter in the
47:28
Speaker 3: red door saloon In. Midtown shout out and, uh bandy.
47:31
Speaker 3: One And i'm not one to always root On. Bandy
47:33
Speaker 3: shout Out cay. McConnell, uh you.
47:36
Speaker 1: Know at shout out the boy. Came we love my brother.
47:39
Speaker 3: Now but we were pumped, because you, know banda loss
47:41
Speaker 3: AND i was, like, oh it's so. Great we're gonna
47:43
Speaker 3: kick the shit out Of. Arkansas And alabama just. Lost
47:46
Speaker 3: and then we lost To. Arkansas and we're sitting in
47:48
Speaker 3: that bar that's a bandy. Bar it's a bandy student,
47:50
Speaker 3: bar and people are coming back and they're starting to
47:53
Speaker 3: filter in and they're, hammered and people are starting to
47:56
Speaker 3: say stuff to us because we're inn all. Orange and,
47:58
Speaker 3: finally this, DUDE i forgot what the zact words were
48:00
Speaker 3: it came up and said some and my girlfriend looked
48:03
Speaker 3: over and, said you better shut the fuck up BEFORE
48:06
Speaker 3: i kick your fucking.
48:07
Speaker 1: Ass AND i.
48:11
Speaker 3: In that, moment the pride built up inside me AND
48:14
Speaker 3: i but Also i'm, going, oh. Ship NOW i call
48:16
Speaker 3: an uber and we Got i'm, like, hey, baby we gotta,
48:18
Speaker 3: go you, know getting out of. There and she we're
48:21
Speaker 3: both passionate, fans.
48:24
Speaker 1: So they couldn't see this fas't he like tells those
48:31
Speaker 1: story and he's, like we're passionate. Fans you could just
48:36
Speaker 1: tell deep in his soul the balls don't. Play the
48:40
Speaker 1: balls don't.
48:41
Speaker 2: Play to quote, chef don't start with that.
48:44
Speaker 1: Ship he don't start with that.
48:46
Speaker 3: Ship, also she probably. DIDN'T i don't know if an
48:50
Speaker 3: f bambas in. THERE i don't want to speak for,
48:51
Speaker 3: her but of course she's Got i'm gonna hear.
48:54
Speaker 1: That that's.
48:55
Speaker 2: Cool.
48:55
Speaker 1: Graphic shut the fuck up BEFORE i beat your ass
48:59
Speaker 1: From lovely See crack A Cold One Survival Kid Dad Hag. Hotline,
49:06
Speaker 1: correct my crack A cold one is simply going to be.
49:08
Speaker 1: Rude going to. School very emotional week for your boy this.
49:13
Speaker 1: Week back to. School back to, school that's why we
49:15
Speaker 1: have these school. Supplies. HERE a little bit of, coffee
49:18
Speaker 1: not to shut Up, parn but no free shoutouts to.
49:20
Speaker 1: Paren got a nice little coconut Cloud americano THAT i
49:23
Speaker 1: enjoyed instead of mind for a pretty long. Time shout
49:25
Speaker 1: out chef on the, decor the decor, chef the decorse.
49:29
Speaker 1: Chef we got the back to school. Supplies but it
49:32
Speaker 1: was a back to. School it was a first time
49:34
Speaker 1: to school week for your. Boy And rue went to
49:38
Speaker 1: school On wednesday and dropping her off and it's a very,
49:48
Speaker 1: uh weirdly, happy sad stage because and there was also
49:56
Speaker 1: just to give you guys some more context on it
49:58
Speaker 1: being like an emotional. Week my the day she went
50:01
Speaker 1: to school for the first time was also it would
50:03
Speaker 1: have been my mom's sixty first. Birthday you're, Kidding, yeah,
50:07
Speaker 1: Yeah so had all the fields going. On was fired
50:11
Speaker 1: up Because rue was so excited to go to. School and,
50:14
Speaker 1: dude it's like we're sitting there prefacing she goes To
50:18
Speaker 1: she goes to like where it's like there's three to
50:20
Speaker 1: five year, olds so she's in this she's in this.
50:22
Speaker 1: Classroom it's kind of like a PRE k type primary,
50:26
Speaker 1: school and prepping her to go to school because the
50:30
Speaker 1: teachers and stuff are telling us that we can't get
50:32
Speaker 1: out of the car to like hug her kiss or
50:34
Speaker 1: tell her godbye because you gott to keep the line.
50:36
Speaker 1: Going i'm now in the school lines and experiencing that
50:40
Speaker 1: for the first. Time but we can't get out of the.
50:42
Speaker 1: Car so two days prior we're running her. Through dad
50:46
Speaker 1: has running her through on a very like calm. LEVEL
50:49
Speaker 1: i don't want it to come off like, sad, Like,
50:50
Speaker 1: hey when we go, there you won't be able to
50:52
Speaker 1: hug mom and dad. Ads i'm more just telling, Her,
50:54
Speaker 1: hey now when we go to, school here's how it's
50:56
Speaker 1: gonna go. Down we're gonna give you hugs and kisses
50:59
Speaker 1: before we get in the. Car, yeah and then whenever we,
51:01
Speaker 1: arrive we'll give you three SQUEEZES i love you in
51:04
Speaker 1: the back before you get, Out, yeah before you get
51:08
Speaker 1: jack the door almost slam coming in, here give you, one,
51:12
Speaker 1: two three squeezes before you get. Out teacher is gonna get,
51:15
Speaker 1: you unbuckle you and get you. Out and then when
51:17
Speaker 1: she pulls you, out we'll have the windows down and
51:19
Speaker 1: we'll just do hug, kiss, hug, hug, kiss and then you,
51:24
Speaker 1: know say. Bye. Yeah and we're prefacing her for that
51:27
Speaker 1: for like a couple of, days just to get her,
51:28
Speaker 1: ready because we don't know if she's gonna. Cry we
51:30
Speaker 1: don't know if she's gonna be. Sad you, know we
51:31
Speaker 1: don't know if we're gonna be. Sad and we pull up,
51:34
Speaker 1: dude and she's she's, excited and then when the teacher
51:38
Speaker 1: opens the, door you can tell her shyness and nerves
51:40
Speaker 1: are kind of kicking them a little, bit like as
51:42
Speaker 1: she's getting, unbuckled the teacher's trying to engage with her
51:45
Speaker 1: and we're getting under the. Squeezes rue gets out and
51:47
Speaker 1: the teacher says, like we're gonna go on a little
51:49
Speaker 1: walk today or the kids don't know, it but we're
51:52
Speaker 1: gonna get to DO, X y AND z, today And
51:53
Speaker 1: rue kind of lights up st our song With rue
51:55
Speaker 1: gets out of the car and is, like By, Mama, dad, hug,
51:58
Speaker 1: hug go be great to day and then ends up walking.
52:01
Speaker 1: Bro And i'm watching her walk down the sidewalk going
52:04
Speaker 1: into school and water fills my eyes because it's just, like,
52:10
Speaker 1: UH i don't, know like in my, brain it's like
52:13
Speaker 1: now that she starts the chapter of, school even though
52:16
Speaker 1: it's not like real it's not like technically real, school
52:20
Speaker 1: like they're going they play a, lot they do all
52:21
Speaker 1: these different, things but it's like this, chapter this phase
52:26
Speaker 1: goes until at the end of high, school the end of, college, yes, dude,
52:31
Speaker 1: yeah now, yeah now yeah for the rest of, time
52:36
Speaker 1: and just watching her handle herself, shy a little, reserved
52:40
Speaker 1: but confident once she got out and going to classicause
52:42
Speaker 1: we start rolling off and then we end up breaking
52:45
Speaker 1: kind of like looking back because we hear a kid.
52:47
Speaker 1: SCREAMING i thought it was rude for a. Second you're
52:49
Speaker 1: a kid screaming the TEACHERS i. Got i'm like kind
52:51
Speaker 1: of halfway out of the. Car they're like hanging on.
52:54
Speaker 1: No and these are probably moments parents that you're just,
53:01
Speaker 1: like you hope that they handle it. Well you're also
53:04
Speaker 1: sad because it's, like is she gonna feel alone when
53:07
Speaker 1: she's in? There is she gonna end up telling the
53:08
Speaker 1: teacher LIKE i miss MoMA and dad, then and you
53:10
Speaker 1: just think of them being, alone, afraid not knowing what to,
53:13
Speaker 1: Do like these are the internal BATTLES i feel like
53:16
Speaker 1: the parents deal. With and you think of these situations
53:18
Speaker 1: even though it's like not. Reality then you flip, like,
53:21
Speaker 1: oh they're gonna, Crush they're gonna do this and, that
53:23
Speaker 1: and then you we get. Home Charles charles was sobbing
53:26
Speaker 1: in the. Car i'm, like, y all, right Sweet, alry
53:28
Speaker 1: give her. Hug i'm, like don't, WORRY i have some
53:30
Speaker 1: tears in my eyes. Too she looks. OVER i got
53:31
Speaker 1: water filling the. Eyes and it's just it's just cool
53:34
Speaker 1: because you're, excited but you're also sad because they're just growing. Up,
53:39
Speaker 1: yeah and Uh ruth saw mom teared up before she
53:43
Speaker 1: got out why you, Said, Mama And i'm, Like i'm, like, hey,
53:45
Speaker 1: sweet we gotta we gotta be. Hype we don't want.
53:46
Speaker 1: To we. Don't we don't want her to be nervous at.
53:48
Speaker 1: All And i'm, like, Hey, sweeter you know Every Pizza
53:50
Speaker 1: friday when we drive and go get pizza and come,
53:53
Speaker 1: back AND i said a couple of times out makes
53:54
Speaker 1: me happy and sad that you're growing, up and she
53:57
Speaker 1: when we're in the, car she will just say out,
53:58
Speaker 1: Loud dad that you. Ad i'm, like why WOULD i be.
54:02
Speaker 1: Saying she's like Because i'm growing. Up i'm, like, yeah you,
54:03
Speaker 1: Know dad is both happy and sad because you're growing.
54:06
Speaker 1: Up BUT i want you to stay my little girl.
54:07
Speaker 1: Forever So i'm Looking i'm going back to her and
54:10
Speaker 1: just like, Oh mama, said but she's also really happy
54:12
Speaker 1: because this is like you're going to, school so you're
54:14
Speaker 1: just growing. Up you're you're you're becoming such a big
54:17
Speaker 1: girl and all this. Stuff But charles sobbing a little.
54:21
Speaker 1: Bit i'm crying a little, bit and you just kind
54:23
Speaker 1: of have that. Moment you drive. Home we Got scottie
54:25
Speaker 1: or nine month old in the in the car. Seat
54:27
Speaker 1: we take her out and go inside And i'm getting
54:29
Speaker 1: ready to go to the shop And i'm, like, WELL
54:32
Speaker 1: i guess i'll uh all going to. Work it's it's
54:34
Speaker 1: like eerily. Quiet, yeah Because rouge just you, know you
54:37
Speaker 1: got a little, Toddler like they're on ten the whole.
54:39
Speaker 1: Time they want to, play they want you to watch,
54:41
Speaker 1: them they want your, attention they want all these, things
54:43
Speaker 1: not Just scotty kind of crawling around on the carpet
54:46
Speaker 1: and you're kind of just sitting. There, Well ring's the
54:48
Speaker 1: confident talk to. You, yeah, yeah, Yeah ru's the confident
54:50
Speaker 1: taller and you're she commands the. Space. Yeah but it's
54:54
Speaker 1: just it's it's weirdly. Quiet it's, like, man this is,
54:57
Speaker 1: uh this is how it. Goes and THEN i, think
54:59
Speaker 1: in my, brain this is how you start thinking about
55:02
Speaker 1: having another kid to Fill, yeah the, space you know
55:07
Speaker 1: WHAT i? Mean, YES i don't know how to explain,
55:09
Speaker 1: it but it was a very, uh it was an
55:11
Speaker 1: emotional week for your, boy AND i just thought it
55:13
Speaker 1: was really cool that there was like a, coincidentally it
55:16
Speaker 1: was also my. Mom it would have been my mom's
55:18
Speaker 1: sixty first birthday and your mom was a. Teacher, Correct
55:21
Speaker 1: my mom was a. Teacher that's even.
55:22
Speaker 2: More when you first said, THAT i was, like that's even.
55:25
Speaker 2: More just the, universe, Man, yeah that's.
55:27
Speaker 1: Awesome my mom was a. Teacher and then it was
55:30
Speaker 1: a principal for A catholic school. Episode, Though, yeah my
55:35
Speaker 1: mom was a, beast. Dude you, KNOW i obviously always
55:39
Speaker 1: get sad thinking about, her but she Was she was.
55:42
Speaker 1: Awesome she would have been so obsessed with.
55:47
Speaker 2: RUE i want to say this to you BECAUSE i love.
55:51
Speaker 2: You she'd be really proud of, you don't.
55:53
Speaker 1: You, Hey, hey, hey, HEY i know come on, NOW
55:55
Speaker 1: i was just doing a good job talking about her
55:57
Speaker 1: being a, beast and DON'T i don't want the he's,
56:00
Speaker 1: uh all. Right you, know if you've Watched busting with The,
56:03
Speaker 1: boys you know how emotional it makes me talking about my.
56:05
Speaker 1: Mom BUT i feel the SAME i feel the exact same, sentiment,
56:10
Speaker 1: BRO i.
56:11
Speaker 2: Do let's go, DUDE i was crying last. NIGHT i
56:14
Speaker 2: was looking AT i.
56:14
Speaker 1: Kind of see some water in your eyes right. Now, yeah, dude.
56:17
Speaker 2: BECAUSE i just You're you're a good. Guy you're a good.
56:19
Speaker 2: GUY i love.
56:20
Speaker 3: You.
56:22
Speaker 2: YEAH i was looking at pictures Of scarlet last night
56:24
Speaker 2: and started.
56:24
Speaker 1: Crying she's so much. Bigger i'm, like, dude what the? Hell?
56:30
Speaker 2: MAN i was looking at pictures of her in her
56:31
Speaker 2: first week and she's like this little, thing and now
56:34
Speaker 2: she's got cheeks and like a double.
56:36
Speaker 1: Chin i'm, like what.
56:38
Speaker 2: Happened i'm, like you said the, crying, Dude the crying
56:42
Speaker 2: is totally.
56:43
Speaker 1: Different she was.
56:46
Speaker 2: Everything that you keep on saying on this, podcast Keep, mike,
56:49
Speaker 2: sorry everything that you keep on saying on this podcast
56:51
Speaker 2: keeps coming. True of just those cries in the first
56:55
Speaker 2: week are way up here and now it's saying And
56:59
Speaker 2: I'm i'm just, like oh my, gosh she's like growing so.
57:02
Speaker 1: Fast it's, crazy.
57:04
Speaker 3: Dude, YEAH i don't think it stops. Either my dad
57:07
Speaker 3: was emotional last. WEEKEND i don't want to air out Old,
57:10
Speaker 3: john BUT i just came.
57:12
Speaker 1: BACK I i love hearing. That, Yeah AND i don't
57:17
Speaker 1: know what the context. Is so, again if you don't
57:18
Speaker 1: want to air. Out john gets, fine BUT i, PERSONALLY
57:23
Speaker 1: i love it because there'll be a lot of times
57:25
Speaker 1: WHERE i talk ON i speak on things where there's
57:28
Speaker 1: some THINGS i wish looking back THAT i want to
57:31
Speaker 1: be better than what my dad. Was and we always
57:34
Speaker 1: have long conversations now and WHEN i did my The
57:38
Speaker 1: retirement podcast and he did a little video at the,
57:40
Speaker 1: end he's like talking through stuff and things they kind
57:43
Speaker 1: of make them, emotional BUT i love the masculine energy
57:47
Speaker 1: that feels their emotions and thinks about things that they
57:51
Speaker 1: wish they would have done. Differently but they feel it
57:53
Speaker 1: so much that they're your guys' connection and your relationship
57:56
Speaker 1: is it gets even better as you get, older and
57:59
Speaker 1: they wish they would have been more intentional like when
58:02
Speaker 1: you were, younger because it was a different era back. Then,
58:04
Speaker 1: yeah but now it's like it just it gets.
58:08
Speaker 3: Better, yeah he's awesome and he's a good like he's.
58:11
Speaker 3: Not he won't mind me talking about because he's proud
58:13
Speaker 3: all quickly HE i came back home for the. Summer
58:16
Speaker 3: parents are leting me stay with. Him WHY i kind
58:17
Speaker 3: of get on my feet and grant my little brother
58:19
Speaker 3: he's in college and my dad was just The grant
58:22
Speaker 3: went back to, school and my dad was, like he.
58:24
Speaker 3: Didn't they never thought that there'd be a time again
58:26
Speaker 3: After grant, left that we would all be home for
58:29
Speaker 3: an extended, period all under one. Roof and he was
58:32
Speaker 3: just like one of those things where you don't it's
58:34
Speaker 3: a it was a good, time and he was just,
58:36
Speaker 3: like come to terms with that's probably the last time
58:39
Speaker 3: that will ever happen for, real and he was just
58:42
Speaker 3: really glad that we had that time for the summer all.
58:46
Speaker 3: Together and he was getting choked up over the phone
58:48
Speaker 3: while he was moving my little brother, in but he's
58:51
Speaker 3: you know that's that fires me. Up, yeah he's a.
58:55
Speaker 2: Beast, yes a little shout out you being a workday
59:00
Speaker 2: as well as a dad at. Home this guy came
59:03
Speaker 2: in this morning on A. Friday we're wishing each other Happy,
59:07
Speaker 2: friday and he, SAID i got my first big boy
59:10
Speaker 2: check this. Week first big boy, check he, said and,
59:13
Speaker 2: man it feels.
59:14
Speaker 1: Good let's. Go. Man i'm not even his, boss per.
59:17
Speaker 2: Se AND i was just fired, up, dude just seeing
59:21
Speaker 2: that smile and just, like oh that's.
59:23
Speaker 1: Awesome smell the, flowers, Man, yeah smell the. FLOWERS i
59:28
Speaker 1: love that convo that you had with your dad, too
59:30
Speaker 1: AND i love that he broke down a little. Bit
59:32
Speaker 1: we need more breaking, Down we need more breaking.
59:34
Speaker 2: Down Uh mike crack of cole. One i'll make this super.
59:38
Speaker 2: Quick auburn trip went, great. Sherman did she wear the? Boat,
59:41
Speaker 2: yeah she wore the.
59:42
Speaker 1: Boat Did did you take any pictures just You? SCARLET
59:47
Speaker 1: i maybe.
59:47
Speaker 2: TOOK i maybe took a picture With scarlet so that
59:54
Speaker 2: If baylor Beats, auburn we're right there in front Of
59:57
Speaker 2: Jordan hare AND i, said good. Thing girls got Her
1:00:00
Speaker 2: auburn sophon with her daddy From. Baylor baylor's.
1:00:06
Speaker 1: Daddy nice, thinking, Nice And i'll work the.
1:00:09
Speaker 2: Caption i'll want, caption But i'm posing there with. Her
1:00:12
Speaker 2: we're in front Of.
1:00:13
Speaker 1: Georgian put The auburn logo on. Her. Baylor oh, Yeah
1:00:18
Speaker 1: scarlet took her first ale. Today scarlett took her first
1:00:24
Speaker 1: life l.
1:00:26
Speaker 2: OH i already sent it to, y'all her screaming in
1:00:30
Speaker 2: the auburn.
1:00:30
Speaker 1: Dress, yeah that was. Phenomenal all you.
1:00:33
Speaker 2: Need she hated the auburn dress and she legit had
1:00:36
Speaker 2: a blowout after the graduation ceremony to WHERE i JUST
1:00:40
Speaker 2: i was so HAPPY i, go, HONEY i think this
1:00:42
Speaker 2: calls for an outfit. Change threw that thing into those
1:00:45
Speaker 2: little trash bags that you carry. Around was so quick
1:00:48
Speaker 2: to throw that thing.
1:00:48
Speaker 1: Out AND i love too that your your mindset as a.
1:00:51
Speaker 1: Father Was she's screaming because she hates the auburn dress
1:00:55
Speaker 1: and she had a blowout because she wanted an outfit.
1:00:57
Speaker 1: Change she wanted an outfit. Good. GOOD i really was.
1:01:01
Speaker 2: GOOD i was so.
1:01:02
Speaker 1: Proud oh you should push it out down your like
1:01:05
Speaker 1: you get it all over your. Clothes. GOOD i, uh.
1:01:10
Speaker 2: But, yeah the whole crack of the whole crack of cold.
1:01:13
Speaker 2: ONE i don't know Why i'm leaning back so much.
1:01:14
Speaker 2: Today uh was just being around. Family we have a
1:01:18
Speaker 2: ton of family and fort Where jill has twenty Six. Forst,
1:01:20
Speaker 2: COUSINS i have Sixteen forst. Cousins it's, crazy sixteen. SIXTEEN
1:01:25
Speaker 2: i THOUGHT i had a big. Family jill's got twenty.
1:01:28
Speaker 1: Six it's not.
1:01:29
Speaker 2: So and so we here In, nashville we're just not
1:01:33
Speaker 2: around that. Family and we got to be around a
1:01:37
Speaker 2: lot of them In, auburn and, man it was so much,
1:01:40
Speaker 2: fun just like how much we were passing Around scarlett
1:01:44
Speaker 2: and Just scarlet's being held by. Everybody, yeah it felt
1:01:47
Speaker 2: like a vacation to some extent because it's like we're
1:01:52
Speaker 2: getting to be Around scarlet and like live life and
1:01:55
Speaker 2: do normal. Things But i'm literally like in a restaurant
1:01:58
Speaker 2: with a cup like in my. Hand i'm, like oh my,
1:02:01
Speaker 2: God i'm not Holding. Scarlett i'm looking over At, Jill
1:02:04
Speaker 2: she's eating her. DINNER i was, like this is. CRAZY
1:02:08
Speaker 2: i look across the table And Aunt linda's Bouncing scarlett
1:02:11
Speaker 2: and And scarlett's you, know just sitting there loving. IT
1:02:15
Speaker 2: i was, like, oh, MAN i MISS i miss, family
1:02:18
Speaker 2: but these moments are.
1:02:20
Speaker 1: Great, yeah so that's a that's a GOOD i see
1:02:23
Speaker 1: another separate krack of cold one is just family and
1:02:26
Speaker 1: family members helping out to where both of you and
1:02:29
Speaker 1: the wife aren't holding the. Baby, yeah enjoying the. Moment,
1:02:33
Speaker 1: yes seeing your family enjoy the. Moment, yeah, like oh
1:02:36
Speaker 1: CAN i hold?
1:02:37
Speaker 2: ABSOLUTELY i, Go, linda do you want you want to go?
1:02:41
Speaker 1: Back she goes NEVER i said, that you, go. GIRL
1:02:45
Speaker 1: i would be holding Good we're at the fourth Of.
1:02:47
Speaker 1: July i'd be Holding scotty And i'd kind of, like,
1:02:49
Speaker 1: Uh i'd Find. CAITLYN i just Look. KATE i, said, Hey,
1:02:53
Speaker 1: CAITLYN i, said, Past, Scotty caitlyn is my Brother cody's.
1:03:02
Speaker 2: Girlfriend, okay, okay shout Out.
1:03:05
Speaker 1: Kate, yeah shout Out. Kaitlyn shout Out, kaitlyn or just anybody, like,
1:03:08
Speaker 1: YEAH i haven't seen you holding. You she looks pretty. Good,
1:03:11
Speaker 1: yeah she's kind of. Fun i'm gonna go get a.
1:03:16
Speaker 1: Beer shout, up Bud, light shut up by, Life shout
1:03:19
Speaker 1: up dad lost not cleaning up the area and putting
1:03:25
Speaker 1: clothes in the. Laundry SO i had a moment the other.
1:03:29
Speaker 1: Night Or, scottie she's. Listen people understanding are starting to
1:03:33
Speaker 1: understand the lore of Scott zilla a little. BIT i
1:03:35
Speaker 1: posted a couple of. Videos one she's all over the place, Kid, hey, Hey, Scotty,
1:03:41
Speaker 1: No and she'll look at me and kind of give me,
1:03:43
Speaker 1: this you, know this little evil grin where you just
1:03:45
Speaker 1: know she's gonna be trouble one, day and she like
1:03:47
Speaker 1: looks over and grins and then like army crawls faster
1:03:49
Speaker 1: and that little toes just dig a little. Buddy we
1:03:52
Speaker 1: got to put socks on her because she's got blisters
1:03:55
Speaker 1: on Her she's got blisters like on her feet from
1:03:59
Speaker 1: how she repetition after rep she's digging into The you
1:04:03
Speaker 1: keep on pulling her, back and she's, like all, Right, god,
1:04:06
Speaker 1: yeah loves that. Plant just over and. Over she's crawling
1:04:09
Speaker 1: back to the plant ANYTIME i. Listen it's hard to
1:04:11
Speaker 1: beat somebody that refuses to. Quit, yeah you realize she's
1:04:14
Speaker 1: not gonna. Quit you gotta pick her up and move
1:04:16
Speaker 1: her somewhere. Else but, anyway so the other, night changing
1:04:20
Speaker 1: her into her pajamas And scottie, again she's a. Mover
1:04:24
Speaker 1: i'm talking head neck bridge head. Bridge she's rolling over
1:04:27
Speaker 1: the side AND i got on My scottie no to
1:04:30
Speaker 1: WHERE i got to like hold her down and hold
1:04:32
Speaker 1: her down to her she starts getting a little, upset
1:04:33
Speaker 1: like you are not, moving didn Min AND i grab
1:04:35
Speaker 1: the leg again to try and hurry up and wipe
1:04:37
Speaker 1: and change her. Diaper she's moving to the point to
1:04:40
Speaker 1: Where i'm wiping her and, say let's Say i'm holding
1:04:44
Speaker 1: her like. This i'm wiping her and she's turning that.
1:04:47
Speaker 1: Way So i'm holding her like this to where she's
1:04:49
Speaker 1: neck bridging up so much to WHERE i gotta keep
1:04:51
Speaker 1: going with. Her she's just upside down As i'm wiping
1:04:54
Speaker 1: her trying to get to where she would kind of
1:04:57
Speaker 1: back roll over onto her. Stomach is how much she's
1:05:00
Speaker 1: how much she's, Bridging, yes SO i have to Once
1:05:03
Speaker 1: i'm done wiping, HER i have to pick her up
1:05:05
Speaker 1: and grab her neck to WHERE i can lay her
1:05:07
Speaker 1: back down on her. Back so she's almost doing a full.
1:05:09
Speaker 2: Scorpion, yes a full.
1:05:11
Speaker 1: Scorpion she's a little psycho. Bro and that's like the
1:05:15
Speaker 1: changing routine with her a little. Bit she had a
1:05:16
Speaker 1: great one this, morning or she kind of laid there
1:05:19
Speaker 1: AND i was just encouraging. Her that's how we Do
1:05:21
Speaker 1: that is how we change a, diaper, Kid that is
1:05:23
Speaker 1: how we do. It that's. Clinical, yeah that's clinic. Tape
1:05:25
Speaker 1: that's that's coaching tape right. There WHEN i put WHEN
1:05:28
Speaker 1: i cut up some pieces, together that's gonna be part
1:05:30
Speaker 1: of the. Film that's And i'm showing an eight month
1:05:32
Speaker 1: old how type of changes. Come, yeah one day When
1:05:35
Speaker 1: i'm a coach And i'm going over the a gap your,
1:05:37
Speaker 1: Clips she's gonna cut. In this is how you keep a.
1:05:40
Speaker 1: Standing this is how you stay, poise stay, calm and
1:05:43
Speaker 1: let the game come to.
1:05:44
Speaker 2: You dirty diapers just shoots up on. Screen the full,
1:05:47
Speaker 2: yeah full room of football.
1:05:48
Speaker 1: Players Whoa. Yeah but ANYTIME i take her clothes, OFF
1:05:52
Speaker 1: i throw them on just her little her little uh. Sofa,
1:05:55
Speaker 1: yes throw them on her little, sofa because you, Know
1:05:57
Speaker 1: i'm a. Guy i'm thinking maybe we'll where we will
1:06:00
Speaker 1: wear this again, tomorrow like we do when we take
1:06:02
Speaker 1: our clothes off in a little pile by the end
1:06:03
Speaker 1: of the by the side of the. Bed might wear these,
1:06:06
Speaker 1: socks might wear these, Shorts might wear this shirt again
1:06:08
Speaker 1: tomorrow or sometime this. Week, Yeah SO i tossed him
1:06:11
Speaker 1: on the. Sofa scotty, was you, know In scott's zilla.
1:06:14
Speaker 1: Mode SO i left the diaper on LIKE i you,
1:06:17
Speaker 1: KNOW i strapped it, up but left. IT i didn't
1:06:20
Speaker 1: put it in a trash. Can yeap clothes on the.
1:06:24
Speaker 1: SOFA i go to sit, down get in her. Sleepsack
1:06:27
Speaker 1: she's having. Milk we're having a good. Time charlo And
1:06:30
Speaker 1: rue come in because always suposed to Give scotty a
1:06:33
Speaker 1: hug and a kiss good. Night and here's where the
1:06:37
Speaker 1: loss comes. In, OBVIOUSLY i haven't set it. UP i
1:06:40
Speaker 1: didn't clean out my. Mess, YEAH i got the laundry
1:06:42
Speaker 1: on the, SOFA i got the diaper on the thing
1:06:44
Speaker 1: And charles, LIKE i see you forgot to put the
1:06:46
Speaker 1: diaper in the pail. Again it's two feet, away two feet.
1:06:50
Speaker 1: Away you know we got a diaper, pail, right, yeah
1:06:55
Speaker 1: so we don't, know we get you, Know i'm kind of.
1:06:56
Speaker 1: Chuckling i'm, like ah. God she she was In scott's
1:06:58
Speaker 1: zilla mode and she's, like it's just right. Here did
1:07:03
Speaker 1: you put the butt bomb on? Her, Yeah i'll put
1:07:04
Speaker 1: the butt bomb on her or it gets. You just
1:07:07
Speaker 1: a reminder the diaper, pail it's right, there, yeah just reach,
1:07:10
Speaker 1: over it's right. There And rue's little candy. Ass she
1:07:16
Speaker 1: joined T. Mom she joined team mom because Cin charle,
1:07:19
Speaker 1: GOES i see, you, uh your favorite thing to. Do
1:07:23
Speaker 1: Leave scotty's clothes on the. SOFA i don't know if
1:07:25
Speaker 1: she's gonna wear him and get the, borrow, sweetheart and
1:07:28
Speaker 1: Then scotty Are rue's little candy ass dead. Day you
1:07:30
Speaker 1: got to Put scotty's laundry, away, walks walks in the,
1:07:35
Speaker 1: closet Gets scotty's, laundry goes in the, closet puts it
1:07:38
Speaker 1: in the, hamper and Then rue Goes Dad, dad the
1:07:40
Speaker 1: hamper is in the, Closet LIKE i, know. Sweetheart ru
1:07:43
Speaker 1: grabs the hamper and slides it out of the closet and,
1:07:46
Speaker 1: says this the hamper right, here dead. Day you gotta
1:07:48
Speaker 1: put the laundry in the, Answer i'm, thinking, hey can
1:07:52
Speaker 1: you guys Let scotty have her milk and go to.
1:07:54
Speaker 1: Sleep BUT i don't need both of you up my
1:07:55
Speaker 1: ass right. Now, yeah you guys who bought that. Hamper
1:07:59
Speaker 1: guess who knows where it is because he bought it
1:08:01
Speaker 1: and put it. There, yeah but on my, ass you,
1:08:05
Speaker 1: know charge joking with. Me she's on my. Ass and
1:08:07
Speaker 1: then the rue's over here putting on a. Clan, hey,
1:08:09
Speaker 1: dad here's the. Hamper you got to put it in the?
1:08:11
Speaker 1: HAMPER i, GOT i got. You and this is this
1:08:14
Speaker 1: is why we talk about. It this is not a.
1:08:16
Speaker 2: Myth we are not conspiracy. THEORISTS a man can become.
1:08:19
Speaker 2: Outnumbered it's a real.
1:08:21
Speaker 1: Thing it's a real.
1:08:22
Speaker 2: Thing why Is will so quiet at the? Party they
1:08:25
Speaker 2: won't ask, that, Though, yeah they won't be asking.
1:08:27
Speaker 3: That what?
1:08:28
Speaker 1: Happened you used to have so much charisma AND i
1:08:29
Speaker 1: had three, girls three. Daughters the hampers in the, Closet
1:08:35
Speaker 1: but either, way, Hey, will what's you up? To the
1:08:37
Speaker 1: hampers in the, closet what but two feet? Away type
1:08:41
Speaker 1: in the two feet. Away, OKAY.
1:08:45
Speaker 2: I don't have a dad loss this, week AND i
1:08:49
Speaker 2: don't have a.
1:08:50
Speaker 1: Motherfuck that's. GOOD i have a new.
1:08:52
Speaker 2: Segment i'll keep it, quick under an, hour under an.
1:08:55
Speaker 2: Hour this new segment is called The. Trenches it is
1:09:00
Speaker 2: where a dad loss then turns into a dad, win a, crack.
1:09:05
Speaker 1: A cold one where a loss meets the, wind where
1:09:07
Speaker 1: a loss meets the.
1:09:08
Speaker 2: Win so if it's not a true definitive loss or
1:09:11
Speaker 2: a true definitive, win it is now the.
1:09:14
Speaker 1: Trenches do we like? It love? It love?
1:09:17
Speaker 3: It?
1:09:17
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah love it?
1:09:19
Speaker 2: Good my trenches very for trenches to kick us.
1:09:24
Speaker 1: OFF i was actually tweeting about this last. NIGHT i
1:09:26
Speaker 1: sent you a. Video, Yes, SCARLETT i hit THE RT
1:09:30
Speaker 1: i hit the. Retweet that makes. Sense love the bet
1:09:33
Speaker 1: six when they're out there retweeting it out, there that makes.
1:09:37
Speaker 2: Sense BECAUSE i saw it got like one hundred, LIKES
1:09:39
Speaker 2: i was, like, oh that's a lot for a selfie
1:09:41
Speaker 2: video with my.
1:09:42
Speaker 1: BABY i did not REALIZE i gotta get down in
1:09:45
Speaker 1: front Of Papa team. Six we got, to we got.
1:09:47
Speaker 2: To, Yeah scarlet can boo it'd been twenty four. Hours
1:09:51
Speaker 2: dad has took her on a. Walk that's Also i'll
1:09:54
Speaker 2: segue that to save. Time that's my dad hack evening.
1:09:57
Speaker 2: Walks just put her in that little wild. Bird, yeah
1:10:01
Speaker 2: and she passed, out And i'm, like, man what is
1:10:05
Speaker 2: the game plan going in tonight to get this little
1:10:07
Speaker 2: thing to?
1:10:07
Speaker 1: Poop she didn't poop all.
1:10:09
Speaker 2: Night she's, fussing not sleeping, well crying. Constantly jill had
1:10:15
Speaker 2: a day with her. Yesterday shout Out. Jill she put.
1:10:19
Speaker 1: Up love You, Jill love You.
1:10:21
Speaker 2: Jill she put up with, scarlet like having this poop
1:10:23
Speaker 2: up in her for probably like eighteen straight hours of
1:10:28
Speaker 2: just like trying to figure it, out burping, her you,
1:10:32
Speaker 2: know all this, stuff doing the, legs pushing it in and.
1:10:34
Speaker 2: OUT i did the evening. Walk we thought her being, vertical,
1:10:38
Speaker 2: yeah and kind of moving and stuff that that would.
1:10:40
Speaker 1: Help nothing was.
1:10:41
Speaker 2: Helping this, MORNING i finally get her for her seven o'clock,
1:10:46
Speaker 2: feed AND i put that bottle, in, dude and.
1:10:50
Speaker 1: Oh my, god seven of, them seven of. Them just
1:10:55
Speaker 1: it's like a.
1:10:55
Speaker 2: SUBWOLFER i don't know how to describe it other than
1:10:58
Speaker 2: your hands on a. Subwolfer, yeah AND i was so
1:11:01
Speaker 2: proud to you because it's not like in that moment
1:11:04
Speaker 2: like you want the poop so, bad so you're.
1:11:07
Speaker 1: Just like, Good, oh good, Job, scarlet good, girl good.
1:11:15
Speaker 2: Girl and then we get her out of her sleepsack
1:11:17
Speaker 2: AND i see on her onesie the brown stain already
1:11:21
Speaker 2: on the, back And i'm, like good. JOB i truly
1:11:24
Speaker 2: was like good BECAUSE i knew that she got it
1:11:27
Speaker 2: all out of. There, dude we open up that, Diaper,
1:11:30
Speaker 2: holy holy good.
1:11:34
Speaker 1: GOOD i THOUGHT i.
1:11:35
Speaker 2: Knew what a dirty diaper. Was there wasn't a single
1:11:38
Speaker 2: patch of white going the full.
1:11:40
Speaker 1: Length the whole thing painted like with a paint. Roller
1:11:45
Speaker 1: it was. AWESOME i love. That so that was My
1:11:48
Speaker 1: The trenches, great great. Segment thank. You love the segment
1:11:52
Speaker 1: because again you do get caught in like dad lost
1:11:55
Speaker 1: DO i just talk about the lost, part crack a,
1:11:58
Speaker 1: coal one could come out the. Other BUT i love
1:12:00
Speaker 1: how you brought it all. Together loss meets, dub lost meets.
1:12:04
Speaker 1: Dub we can find, Another i'll find. It we can
1:12:08
Speaker 1: find another phrase that ties it. Together BUT i love
1:12:11
Speaker 1: The trenches. Segment.
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Speaker 1: Papa shure for sending the boys this. Book Thank you
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1:14:08
Speaker 1: The Greatest coaches Of All time By Tim limbert with
1:14:12
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1:14:15
Speaker 2: Famer maybe future guests on for the, dads that would be.
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Speaker 2: Awesome no, relation no, relation.
1:14:22
Speaker 1: But, yeah a bunch of, quotes a lot of things
1:14:25
Speaker 1: from again the greatest coaches of all, time.
1:14:27
Speaker 2: And it has like a fun little write.
1:14:29
Speaker 1: Up Bear, BRYANT i just opened it. Up, yeah take
1:14:32
Speaker 1: those little, rascals talk to them, Good pat them on the,
1:14:35
Speaker 1: back let them think they are, good and they will
1:14:38
Speaker 1: go out and be the biggot and be the big Guns.
1:14:41
Speaker 1: Biggins go out and they will beat The. Biggins Coach
1:14:46
Speaker 1: Paul Bear bryant Coach Paul. Beart, bryant he, right didn't
1:14:49
Speaker 1: change a lot of diapers back in his. Era talk
1:14:52
Speaker 1: to the little, rascals they'll beat the. Biggins pat him
1:14:57
Speaker 1: on the, Back talk to him good they'll beat the biggest.
1:14:59
Speaker 1: Coach what does that? MEAN a good? Job good job? Kid,
1:15:01
Speaker 1: YEAH i MEAN i can change the diaper in my.
1:15:03
Speaker 1: Life my wife HANDLED I my quote this week is
1:15:06
Speaker 1: actually from this.
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Speaker 2: Book it is very fun if you're a big quotes,
1:15:10
Speaker 2: guy and there's like a nice little forward at like
1:15:13
Speaker 2: the beginning of each. Chapter i've only read the first
1:15:16
Speaker 2: chapter forward and THEN i just started peeling through like
1:15:19
Speaker 2: all the. Quotes but if you're just a sports guy
1:15:21
Speaker 2: in general or what App, yeah there's some really great
1:15:24
Speaker 2: quotes in the same far as it's a fun.
1:15:26
Speaker 1: Read shut, up thank you. Dad that Was that was very,
1:15:29
Speaker 1: thoughtful very. Thoughtful that's so funny to Bear. Bryant i'm
1:15:33
Speaker 1: like reading through that and it's, like, yeah it sounds
1:15:35
Speaker 1: like a dad back. Then i'm you, Know i'm breaking
1:15:38
Speaker 1: Down rou's first day of school to my. DAD i
1:15:39
Speaker 1: ended up calling that night and checking on, him catching,
1:15:42
Speaker 1: up and he's, like, YEAH i remember when you guys
1:15:47
Speaker 1: went to school for the first. TIME i started. LAUGHING i, said,
1:15:49
Speaker 1: no the hell you, don't, bro you. Ain't you ain't
1:15:52
Speaker 1: think us the. School he got, it sat there for two,
1:15:56
Speaker 1: seconds he, goes, yeah you're probably. RIGHT i didn't think
1:15:59
Speaker 1: you guys, school and then he gave me, Though i'm
1:16:01
Speaker 1: up before you guys were even. Awake i'm driving to
1:16:03
Speaker 1: work before you, Guys LIKE i. Know he's, like but you,
1:16:05
Speaker 1: KNOW i get home And i'm asking you about, school
1:16:07
Speaker 1: And i'm, LIKE i, know, Death, like it's just funny to.
1:16:09
Speaker 1: Me you're trying to LIKE i remember, dropping you, know
1:16:11
Speaker 1: seeing you guys on your first day of, school And i'm,
1:16:13
Speaker 1: like fucking take us to, school, Man, yeah you're probably.
1:16:16
Speaker 1: Right here's, yeah that's.
1:16:19
Speaker 2: True here's another quote from Coach paul Bear bryant spit on.
1:16:23
Speaker 1: It yeah, good thanks. Coach that could have been a
1:16:27
Speaker 1: few different things they. Could he was a smart, man
1:16:30
Speaker 1: a lot of. That he spit on.
1:16:32
Speaker 3: It what?
1:16:35
Speaker 1: Coach what the? Fuck for? Dads what? Uh dad hot?
1:16:40
Speaker 1: Line that dad hot. Line let's dive into the dad
1:16:44
Speaker 1: hotline this week six oh one The. Dads if you
1:16:46
Speaker 1: want to drop a voicemail to the boys to for the,
1:16:49
Speaker 1: dads is that six oh one the. Dads we have
1:16:52
Speaker 1: our caller coming into us this week named don't know his.
1:16:56
Speaker 2: Name we're about to find out if you're an international
1:16:59
Speaker 2: six on one the days at gmail dot. Com that's
1:17:01
Speaker 2: six o one of the dad's at gmail dot. Com
1:17:03
Speaker 2: if you're an international, listener.
1:17:06
Speaker 3: Sure preface real quick. Too from from what we talked
1:17:10
Speaker 3: about before the episode with the call at saying a,
1:17:13
Speaker 3: name just real.
1:17:15
Speaker 2: Quick thank, You thank you for the, Reminder thank you
1:17:17
Speaker 2: for the.
1:17:18
Speaker 1: REMINDER i, captain thank, you.
1:17:20
Speaker 2: Captain Will you're gonna love. THIS i am not upset
1:17:23
Speaker 2: WHEN i say.
1:17:24
Speaker 1: THIS i just found it.
1:17:25
Speaker 2: FUNNY i got a dm uh from A pt sixer that, said,
1:17:31
Speaker 2: boys what the fuck on saying my?
1:17:33
Speaker 1: Name you got?
1:17:33
Speaker 2: Me you got me in the doghouse with the wife.
1:17:36
Speaker 2: Feet oh, no how does the wife you listen? TO
1:17:41
Speaker 2: i guess wife you listen. To but to my, Thought i'm,
1:17:45
Speaker 2: like if you say your, name here's here's my, thing
1:17:48
Speaker 2: we said at the, top and it's in the voicemail
1:17:51
Speaker 2: thing if you want to remain anom very first episode we.
1:17:56
Speaker 2: Did we were, saying very first, episode and it's in you, Say,
1:18:00
Speaker 2: hey this is Will. Compter you reach for the dads and.
1:18:02
Speaker 2: Listen if you want to share your, name you want
1:18:04
Speaker 2: to stay, anonymous doesn't.
1:18:05
Speaker 1: MATTER i mean it's. There OH i say that in the.
1:18:07
Speaker 3: Voice, yes, okay if you got, that if you open
1:18:09
Speaker 3: up the, Voicemail, hey, guys this Is jack here calling
1:18:14
Speaker 3: in for, like it's very. Obvious we're gonna say your.
1:18:16
Speaker 1: Name, Yeah we're gonna play the. Voicemail we got him in.
1:18:19
Speaker 1: Trouble we got likes to think that he listened to
1:18:22
Speaker 1: the clip and then showed his wife and then maybe
1:18:24
Speaker 1: she was busting his. Balls got him in. Trouble which
1:18:26
Speaker 1: guy did we get in? Trouble what was the?
1:18:28
Speaker 2: Situation because then what is that gonna?
1:18:32
Speaker 1: Do you're, right it was a.
1:18:34
Speaker 3: SITUATION i Don't we don't. Know we gotta go back
1:18:37
Speaker 3: and find. Out maybe the wife is standing right next to.
1:18:39
Speaker 3: Him he's, like, Look i'm telling these motherfuckers, like how dare?
1:18:42
Speaker 3: You and on the inside he's, like if that's the,
1:18:45
Speaker 3: case we'll we'll take the. Blame, Hey i'm so sorry
1:18:51
Speaker 3: that we did.
1:18:51
Speaker 1: That when your wife asked, you who did? It your
1:18:56
Speaker 1: responses pop a team. Six we're all one, heartbeat we're
1:19:00
Speaker 1: all one. Voice, Hey Brock obama slam Bin. Laden who
1:19:03
Speaker 1: took the? Shot we all? Did, no, no, no who
1:19:07
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1:19:09
Speaker 1: all took the. Shot, there you're we all.
1:19:14
Speaker 2: Did her friend one hundred percent heard the clip and,
1:19:17
Speaker 2: said is this Your?
1:19:19
Speaker 1: Joey, yeah this is YOUR us? Familiar what?
1:19:23
Speaker 2: That what the hell are you doing calling into this?
1:19:26
Speaker 1: Thing i'm What they heard me out like?
1:19:29
Speaker 3: That what is this?
1:19:30
Speaker 1: Ship although this ship Is we'll take, It. Papa this
1:19:33
Speaker 1: is a off tame. Six that's off a team. Six
1:19:35
Speaker 1: took the. Shot we took the.
1:19:37
Speaker 2: Shot, okay back to the voice we.
1:19:40
Speaker 1: Have we have a fun. Voicemail we're just doing one this.
1:19:43
Speaker 2: Week we got tight, deadline we're keeping under an.
1:19:45
Speaker 1: Hour here we.
1:19:46
Speaker 5: Go what's not, boys it's. Nat put a quick shout
1:19:55
Speaker 5: out to my young Brother tom for putting me On
1:19:57
Speaker 5: butting with the. Boys couldn't have been happier to give
1:20:01
Speaker 5: another podcast in the, rotation especially now that it's for
1:20:05
Speaker 5: The dad.
1:20:07
Speaker 1: Is The Traffic cold?
1:20:08
Speaker 5: One maybe a new category Called Dad. Collecting but but you,
1:20:13
Speaker 5: KNOW i remember of Pat. STATES i got a foign
1:20:15
Speaker 5: and six year. Old i've been recommissioned out to the.
1:20:17
Speaker 5: Suburbs you, know getting a little long in the. Tube
1:20:20
Speaker 5: and you, KNOW i don't feel Like i've been put
1:20:22
Speaker 5: out the, pasture but maybe given a new, opportunity you
1:20:25
Speaker 5: don't fashion. Launch there's nothing like. It you got to embrace.
1:20:28
Speaker 5: It and it's really not as munch of a responsibility
1:20:31
Speaker 5: as an, opportunity opportunity to cultivate.
1:20:34
Speaker 2: And present what you can do to your.
1:20:36
Speaker 5: Neighbors and so last Week i'm up against the, clock
1:20:40
Speaker 5: last few hours of the week where my nanny's still
1:20:43
Speaker 5: on the. Clock i'm home, early got to get the lawn.
1:20:46
Speaker 5: Cut it's ninety nine fucking degrees.
1:20:48
Speaker 2: Outside i'm going to like a horn.
1:20:50
Speaker 5: Church what DO i get as a tap on the
1:20:53
Speaker 5: shoulder from my boy scout neighbor across the.
1:20:55
Speaker 2: Street what does he?
1:20:57
Speaker 5: Want he wants me to put a shirt. Up it's
1:21:00
Speaker 5: inappromphrey for me to come to grat and my shirt.
1:21:02
Speaker 5: Off you, know don't mean to flex on it too.
1:21:05
Speaker 1: Hard but.
1:21:08
Speaker 5: We don't all look great in our, fifties but in our,
1:21:11
Speaker 5: Thirties i'm still looking good.
1:21:12
Speaker 1: Fellas i'm not a.
1:21:13
Speaker 2: Freak short off a little.
1:21:14
Speaker 5: Bit get the dance flex. Showing so you know WHAT
1:21:17
Speaker 5: i did and to just kindly take appreciate the, consideration
1:21:21
Speaker 5: keep it. Moving what do you?
1:21:23
Speaker 2: Do goes and complain to my.
1:21:25
Speaker 5: Wife it's been, better but.
1:21:31
Speaker 1: You just can't keep him.
1:21:32
Speaker 5: Down we're here to build a, community not tear each other.
1:21:34
Speaker 5: Down so get out, there flett the, muscles showing your
1:21:38
Speaker 5: most muscular and don't be afraid to pop the top
1:21:41
Speaker 5: off every once in a.
1:21:42
Speaker 2: While keep it.
1:21:43
Speaker 5: Up love hearing it every. Week can't wait to hear.
1:21:46
Speaker 1: Him, No oh, GOD i love, that he Said nate
1:21:51
Speaker 1: From Papa team. SIX i thought he said, smitty, smitty?
1:21:57
Speaker 2: Smitty is It? Nate let's rune it?
1:22:00
Speaker 1: Back hold on By, Nate, nate It's. Nate, yeah, yeah It's.
1:22:09
Speaker 1: Hey you got the shirt's got the computer over? There
1:22:11
Speaker 1: so my you, know, hey you, KNOW i don't know
1:22:13
Speaker 1: If i'm gonna need to hear no by. Here, Yeah
1:22:15
Speaker 1: oh my. Love that's a great example of a get back,
1:22:19
Speaker 1: inside old, man break your, hand put a shirt?
1:22:28
Speaker 3: On what on? This on?
1:22:30
Speaker 1: This oh you don't like what you, see old? Man
1:22:37
Speaker 1: why don't you come say it to my? Face? Oh fuck, Off?
1:22:39
Speaker 2: Scott what the?
1:22:42
Speaker 1: Fuck what'd you?
1:22:42
Speaker 2: Say?
1:22:43
Speaker 1: Scott you need me to piss on your?
1:22:44
Speaker 2: Lawn?
1:22:49
Speaker 1: Yeah i'll piss on it After i'm. Done. Cut how
1:22:52
Speaker 1: about that sounds like you haven't mounted your wife in a.
1:22:54
Speaker 1: While scott.
1:23:01
Speaker 2: That he told him to keep, pushing and Then scott
1:23:05
Speaker 2: or whatever neighbor went to his wife to then go.
1:23:09
Speaker 2: Complain do you hear that part of the.
1:23:11
Speaker 1: Time, Yeah so he told he had the shirt. Off,
1:23:14
Speaker 1: yeah said it's, inappropriate told him to keep, pushing, like,
1:23:18
Speaker 1: guy keep mowing the.
1:23:19
Speaker 2: Lawn, no, no guy that had his shirt. Off nate
1:23:23
Speaker 2: Told scott the, Neighbor, hey keep pushing. It, scott thanks
1:23:28
Speaker 2: for the, tip but keep. Pushing kept his shirt.
1:23:31
Speaker 1: Off finished the. Lawn So scott went to his wife
1:23:35
Speaker 1: to tail on. Him, yes we got a tattletail on our. Hands,
1:23:40
Speaker 1: dude what in the. World AND i.
1:23:44
Speaker 2: Love that he kept it. Positive he's, Like, hey we're
1:23:46
Speaker 2: just trying to build a, community not holding it against the.
1:23:48
Speaker 2: Neighbor not holding it against the. Neighbor But i'm gonna
1:23:52
Speaker 2: keep on mowing the lawn with my shirt off when
1:23:54
Speaker 2: it's ninety nine, Degrees thank you very. Much and somebody
1:23:58
Speaker 2: that's From, texas he's.
1:23:59
Speaker 1: Trying to get the. Sell you're trying to get a
1:24:01
Speaker 1: little tangle, on you, know what the farmer's tans are,
1:24:03
Speaker 1: fun but it's like he's trying to get some color to.
1:24:05
Speaker 2: Him, yes, dude a rat house that we had In
1:24:08
Speaker 2: texas that WE i did the unknowing for on those summer.
1:24:13
Speaker 2: Days it is like almost. Unbearable it is almost, unbearable
1:24:19
Speaker 2: especially when it's getting up to like ONE o, two
1:24:21
Speaker 2: one oh, three which.
1:24:22
Speaker 1: Happens Bro nate should next time He moslon do the
1:24:27
Speaker 1: exact same. Thing put some booby tassels. On, yeah Leave
1:24:30
Speaker 1: scott of notes and, says go tell my wife about this.
1:24:32
Speaker 1: One or if he wants them to wear a, shirt
1:24:38
Speaker 1: just wears something, ridiculous.
1:24:40
Speaker 2: You know WHAT i, Mean like as he's mowing the
1:24:41
Speaker 2: oh yeah you have to maybe one of these visors
1:24:46
Speaker 2: WITH thess or.
1:24:48
Speaker 1: Just wears a shirt and cuts everything like all the
1:24:50
Speaker 1: way up to where it's, like you, know flowing in
1:24:52
Speaker 1: the wind.
1:24:52
Speaker 2: Everywhere IT'S pt six shirt and just cropped off.
1:24:55
Speaker 1: There yeah Go pt six cut it up to the.
1:24:58
Speaker 1: Sternum so you still show off the app as just short.
1:25:02
Speaker 2: Shorts just give him the biggest thumbs up when he
1:25:05
Speaker 2: pulls into it drive.
1:25:07
Speaker 1: So some badass sunglasses crop top up to the. Sternum
1:25:10
Speaker 1: really short cut off jean shorts or something so you
1:25:13
Speaker 1: can get the quads. Out, yep maybe that busting bucket at. On,
1:25:18
Speaker 1: YEAH i got a shirt.
1:25:22
Speaker 2: And you gotta keep the mower going and yell over the.
1:25:25
Speaker 2: Mower that's the biggest power move. Ever somebody trying to
1:25:28
Speaker 2: talk to you and you just keep on ripping on
1:25:31
Speaker 2: whatever your.
1:25:31
Speaker 1: Tools, yeah we'll write him a little, note put it
1:25:33
Speaker 1: in his. Mailbox heard you tattle to my? Wife what's
1:25:38
Speaker 1: a lot of stones you? Have that's a crazy. Movie,
1:25:41
Speaker 1: yeah that is a crazy.
1:25:42
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1:25:45
Speaker 3: going along Like derek's trying to sell the house And
1:25:48
Speaker 3: Will ferrell's in the FULL ss.
1:25:50
Speaker 1: Outfit, Yeah ain's, great, Great oh my.
1:25:57
Speaker 2: GOD i had a neighbor in his like late, Sixties
1:26:01
Speaker 2: steve shout Out steve back In.
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Speaker 1: Texas every other day he's.
1:26:06
Speaker 2: Retired every other day he's out in his front yard
1:26:09
Speaker 2: with his little docks in no shirt, on killing it
1:26:13
Speaker 2: and he had the, hunchback like the early hunchback going
1:26:16
Speaker 2: he's just Fucking he's just oh and he got me juiced.
1:26:21
Speaker 2: UP i don't see how A pt sixer could see
1:26:23
Speaker 2: ANOTHER pt sixer with his shirt off that late in
1:26:27
Speaker 2: the game and, go, dude fuck, him put a shirt.
1:26:29
Speaker 1: On was hein't a REAL pt? Sixer, Yes scott AIN'T
1:26:33
Speaker 1: pt Six scott ain't A pt sixer for. Real Maybe
1:26:37
Speaker 1: nate should put him on for the. Dad that's a great.
1:26:41
Speaker 1: Call introduce him to the. Culture you might hear this
1:26:45
Speaker 1: part at some. Point, wait wait two, weeks but he'll
1:26:48
Speaker 1: be able to check. Himself. Yeah, wait you know what
1:26:50
Speaker 1: these boys are, RIGHT i need to do a better
1:26:53
Speaker 1: job of embracing the fatherhood and the.
1:26:57
Speaker 2: Boy scout terminology called his neighbor by boy scout. Neighbor
1:27:03
Speaker 2: that's a wild ricochet for the boys.
1:27:06
Speaker 1: Scout while.
1:27:10
Speaker 2: Oh, no, Golly, nate that was an all time.
1:27:15
Speaker 1: Call great, Call, Nate thank. You we did our call.
1:27:19
Speaker 2: In we're doing so well on. Time we are at
1:27:22
Speaker 2: the end of the. Show it sounds like your lesson
1:27:25
Speaker 2: is pretty long or.
1:27:26
Speaker 1: Long not. LONG i JUST i just wrote a few things.
1:27:29
Speaker 2: DOWN i have a very quick quote THAT i can
1:27:31
Speaker 2: hit hit bro. Lesson this is from Jim. Valvano that's
1:27:37
Speaker 2: THE nc state. Coach remember back in the, Eighties JIMMY.
1:27:42
Speaker 1: V JIMMY.
1:27:42
Speaker 2: V my father gave me the greatest gift anyone anyone
1:27:48
Speaker 2: could give another, person he believed in. ME i really
1:27:52
Speaker 2: love that. Quote so my father gave me the greatest
1:27:56
Speaker 2: gift anyone could give another.
1:27:57
Speaker 1: Person he believed in.
1:27:59
Speaker 2: Me, boom nice simple and it covers the. Bases, yeah
1:28:05
Speaker 2: covers the.
1:28:05
Speaker 1: Base simple quote that you can just tell yourself in
1:28:07
Speaker 1: the back of your mind when you're kiddo's questioning a
1:28:10
Speaker 1: SHOULD i get on the? Scooter that's a big slide up?
1:28:13
Speaker 2: There SHOULD i put my leg overset handlebars of? Scooter
1:28:17
Speaker 2: dad's over there.
1:28:17
Speaker 1: With this phone Doing, Yeah, OH i did have A
1:28:22
Speaker 1: i did have a dad hack on like on. ONBELIEF i. Had.
1:28:27
Speaker 1: Uh so by the time we're filming this, Episode rude
1:28:30
Speaker 1: just went to school for the third day in the.
1:28:31
Speaker 1: Row It's, friday it's, beats A friday movie, night all
1:28:34
Speaker 1: the good. Stuff but It dad. HACKED i had because
1:28:36
Speaker 1: on day three we were it was just me taking
1:28:39
Speaker 1: her to school and we were waiting in the car
1:28:41
Speaker 1: line and she was all of a sudden saying she
1:28:43
Speaker 1: didn't want to go to. School why don't want to
1:28:45
Speaker 1: go to? School? Sweet our deadad's not at, School, like
1:28:46
Speaker 1: come to school with? Me kind of didn't want to,
1:28:48
Speaker 1: leave that kind of didn't want to go to. School
1:28:51
Speaker 1: we're starting to feel a little. Sad she wasn't crying
1:28:53
Speaker 1: or anything. Like that was this. Morning that was this, morning?
1:28:55
Speaker 1: Okay and uh so WHAT i did is that As
1:28:58
Speaker 1: i'm talking to you about, school you, know you have
1:29:00
Speaker 1: so much, Fun you play a, lot you, learn your
1:29:02
Speaker 1: friends are going to be, there so and so's, there
1:29:05
Speaker 1: so and so's, there, YadA, YadA. YadA AND i was,
1:29:07
Speaker 1: like and here's what we'll. Do we can Do, remember
1:29:09
Speaker 1: we're always going to do three, squeezes because she, SAID
1:29:11
Speaker 1: i want you get out of the. TRUCK i want
1:29:12
Speaker 1: you to hug me and kiss. Me so you know
1:29:14
Speaker 1: they don't let. Parents so why because we got to
1:29:16
Speaker 1: keep the line. Moving why because we got to stay
1:29:18
Speaker 1: effishing and. Effective and that's just the way it, is
1:29:22
Speaker 1: all this. STUFF i was, like but here's What i'll.
1:29:23
Speaker 1: Do dada is going to give you five kisses and
1:29:26
Speaker 1: you can put them in your. Pocket just got a
1:29:28
Speaker 1: little pocket on the front of her dress or shirt
1:29:31
Speaker 1: whatever it, was And i'm and putting them in her,
1:29:33
Speaker 1: hands two, three, four, five and she puts them in her.
1:29:36
Speaker 1: Pocket i'm, like you can use those throughout the. Day
1:29:38
Speaker 1: so if you think about, dad dad Or mama and
1:29:40
Speaker 1: you get, sad just know you can pull out a
1:29:41
Speaker 1: kiss out of your pocket and you can put it
1:29:43
Speaker 1: on your. Cheek and, also you know how mom and
1:29:46
Speaker 1: daddy got you that little roo necklace you wear in
1:29:48
Speaker 1: your little. Necklace she's, like, YEAH i was like if,
1:29:50
Speaker 1: again if you run out of your kisses or again
1:29:52
Speaker 1: you're feeling sad that mom and dad aren't, there we
1:29:54
Speaker 1: got you that. Necklace just squeeze your necklace and we'll feel.
1:29:57
Speaker 1: It and just know that we're always going to be
1:29:59
Speaker 1: with you as we. Are we got your necklace and
1:30:01
Speaker 1: it is around your. Neck so if you're feel, sad
1:30:03
Speaker 1: just squeeze it and just know That i'll feel it
1:30:05
Speaker 1: Wherever i'm, At i'm gonna feel.
1:30:07
Speaker 3: It.
1:30:09
Speaker 2: Bro that's a little dad having a. Girl fucking, rocks
1:30:12
Speaker 2: dude having. IT i want some boy dads on the,
1:30:14
Speaker 2: show but little moments like.
1:30:16
Speaker 1: That that's so, sick. Dude and she ripped. It you,
1:30:20
Speaker 1: know teacher got her out by. Dad dad uh walked
1:30:25
Speaker 1: off and you just see your little human just walking, off,
1:30:27
Speaker 1: bro just being a little g, bro just being a.
1:30:29
Speaker 2: Little with their little five is there necklace along the.
1:30:32
Speaker 1: Way but that was my that was my. Dad, heck
1:30:35
Speaker 1: here's here's the, lesson here's the lesson or theme uh
1:30:40
Speaker 1: for this, segment for this topict some, DOWN i emailed
1:30:44
Speaker 1: it to. Myself here we are you? Ready sure? HIM
1:30:47
Speaker 1: i am, Ready Captain Chef jack. Ready it's our job
1:30:53
Speaker 1: to break the cycle of pointless punishments when our children are,
1:30:56
Speaker 1: developing learning and. Growing this is a challenge THAT i
1:31:00
Speaker 1: Know i'll face because growing up in an era of
1:31:02
Speaker 1: choosing what you'll get spanked, with having that fear of
1:31:05
Speaker 1: dat anytime you do something, wrong and the feeling of
1:31:08
Speaker 1: isolation after. Punishment life is too short to get upset
1:31:12
Speaker 1: over your toddler being a, toddler or your kiddo going
1:31:14
Speaker 1: through a developmental. Stage they fuck, up they break, things
1:31:18
Speaker 1: they lose their mind over little, things and push you
1:31:20
Speaker 1: to your. Limits but they're also learning how to regulate their,
1:31:23
Speaker 1: emotions develop their, skills and how to show up to the.
1:31:26
Speaker 1: World and that is where our job comes. In don't
1:31:29
Speaker 1: reprimand them for the mess ups and. Outbursts, instead encourage
1:31:33
Speaker 1: and guide them and guide, them walk through the fire with,
1:31:36
Speaker 1: them and challenge yourself to stand in the storm with
1:31:38
Speaker 1: them and show them the way we need to get
1:31:41
Speaker 1: out of the way of our own bullshit and lead our.
1:31:44
Speaker 1: Children it's why we embrace good and it's why we
1:31:47
Speaker 1: will help set the standard for the next. Generation that
1:31:51
Speaker 1: concludes my ted. Talk those are big, words, Dude, yeah
1:31:57
Speaker 1: those are big. Words. Yeah i'll come across stuff that
1:32:00
Speaker 1: talks about, like you, know, punish like the punishment, stuff
1:32:03
Speaker 1: or your, children you, know going through a developmental stage
1:32:07
Speaker 1: or having a, tantrum or the moments that you just
1:32:10
Speaker 1: know push you to the absolute end of the. Earth
1:32:12
Speaker 1: we all have. Them we all fail at times a
1:32:15
Speaker 1: lot of, times where then it's all about how you
1:32:17
Speaker 1: self talk after that and look back on what happened
1:32:20
Speaker 1: and see how you could have done a better job
1:32:21
Speaker 1: of keeping your, poise because, again they're going through so
1:32:24
Speaker 1: many big emotions and it's our job to again sit
1:32:28
Speaker 1: in the storm with them and help guide. Them or
1:32:31
Speaker 1: If ruth's yelling, you there's only so many times where
1:32:33
Speaker 1: you're gonna. Yell it's, like, hey you're starting to piss
1:32:34
Speaker 1: me off a little, bit or you're starting to frustrate dad,
1:32:36
Speaker 1: Dad or it's like IF i give you something and
1:32:38
Speaker 1: you're like CAN i do this or blah blah, blah ask, Dad,
1:32:42
Speaker 1: hey use your confident. Voice that's not how we, talk
1:32:44
Speaker 1: that's not how we do. Things yeah, yeah, hey, dadda
1:32:47
Speaker 1: can you? Help can you turn on Little bear for?
1:32:49
Speaker 1: Me can you ask? Nicely? All all like all these
1:32:52
Speaker 1: other or they're having a, moment they just want rue
1:32:54
Speaker 1: didn't want to see. Me this, morning she came, downstairs
1:32:57
Speaker 1: sent her. Outfit she usually comes and Sees dad ad
1:33:00
Speaker 1: me to like look at her, outfit And i'm, like
1:33:01
Speaker 1: oh my, gosh you look. Amazing what'd you do with your?
1:33:04
Speaker 1: HAIR i love to all like all this. Stuff that's
1:33:05
Speaker 1: like every. Day that's a that's a daily routine that we.
1:33:08
Speaker 1: Have but this morning she came down stairs for whatever,
1:33:10
Speaker 1: reason she didn't want to see dadd or didn't want
1:33:13
Speaker 1: me to talk to. Her i'm making breakfast and, stuff
1:33:15
Speaker 1: And i'm kind of hearing her talk to, MOM i
1:33:16
Speaker 1: don't want to See. Dada goes in the mudroom and
1:33:19
Speaker 1: just sits in the. Mudroom she was, like, oh we
1:33:20
Speaker 1: don't got to put our shoes on. Yet we got any.
1:33:22
Speaker 1: Breakfast Her she's just LIKE i don't want to see, dad,
1:33:24
Speaker 1: dad OR i don't want daddad to talk to, me
1:33:26
Speaker 1: AND i didn't do shit when she got out of,
1:33:27
Speaker 1: there LIKE i haven't seen her yet in the, morning
1:33:31
Speaker 1: AND i kind of give it some. TIME i finished
1:33:34
Speaker 1: some breakfast going. On THEN i just KIND i, slowly
1:33:36
Speaker 1: kindly walk in there And i'm, like, hey, sweetheart like,
1:33:39
Speaker 1: DAD i don't want you in, here And i'm, LIKE
1:33:40
Speaker 1: i know you've. Done i'm gonna leave here in a.
1:33:42
Speaker 1: SECOND i just wanted to, ask, though CAN i ask
1:33:44
Speaker 1: you a? Question, yeah, like how are you feeling? Today
1:33:47
Speaker 1: i'm feeling sad and kind of like lays down and
1:33:49
Speaker 1: does her, thing And i'm just, like all, right that's.
1:33:52
Speaker 1: Fine i'm gonna walk out of. Here but just, know
1:33:54
Speaker 1: here's ALL i want you to. Know i'm gonna be
1:33:56
Speaker 1: right out here in the. Kitchen if you need da
1:33:58
Speaker 1: death or anything anything THAT i can do for, you
1:34:00
Speaker 1: you just let me. Know a minute or something comes,
1:34:02
Speaker 1: by and then you just HEAR i Need, Dad, Dad
1:34:05
Speaker 1: LIKE i JUST i want to hug and, stuff and
1:34:07
Speaker 1: THEN i go. On there's LIKE i feel like if
1:34:11
Speaker 1: you take it the wrong, way you can go in
1:34:12
Speaker 1: there like, hey what's going? On, like, well that hasn't
1:34:14
Speaker 1: done nothing to. You you're, like you're like defending your. Position. Yeah,
1:34:17
Speaker 1: yeah it's like whatever moment she's having right, now, like, hey,
1:34:21
Speaker 1: sweetheart number, one we are number, one we are. This,
1:34:26
Speaker 1: yeah you know. THAT i know. That i'm just, thinking,
1:34:29
Speaker 1: hey how are you feeling this? Morning i'm feeling. Sad all,
1:34:31
Speaker 1: right that's. Fine, Listen i'm not gonna talk to. YOU
1:34:33
Speaker 1: i just want you to. Know can you look at?
1:34:34
Speaker 1: Me she looks at. ME i just want you Know
1:34:36
Speaker 1: i'm gonna be right in. Here if you need me for,
1:34:37
Speaker 1: anything do whatever you need me to. Do walk. Out
1:34:40
Speaker 1: and then all of a, sudden you hear need, dad,
1:34:43
Speaker 1: DAD i need a, hug you, sweetheart that's all you
1:34:46
Speaker 1: have to. Say pick her. Up we just have a great.
1:34:48
Speaker 1: HUG i love. That did you wad for school? Today
1:34:52
Speaker 1: let's go kick some ass.
1:34:53
Speaker 2: Bro, yeah whatever you push, Out i'm not buying because guess,
1:34:55
Speaker 2: WHAT i love.
1:34:56
Speaker 1: You, YEAH i love your. Kid on that, note we
1:35:00
Speaker 1: got a roll BECAUSE i got an eleven. Thirty i'm.
1:35:05
Speaker 2: DONE i covered EVERYTHING i wanted to, cover AND i
1:35:07
Speaker 2: loved your lesson of the.
1:35:09
Speaker 1: Week, Dude thank you. MAN i loved your lesson of the.
1:35:11
Speaker 1: Week thank, you. Dude fucking love. FATHERHOOD i do. Too
1:35:14
Speaker 1: keep embracing the. Trenches boys pop a team. Six we
1:35:18
Speaker 1: have a, standard we have a. Responsibility keep carrying the
1:35:21
Speaker 1: torch and keep recruiting guys to this. Brand. Yeah share the,
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