Latest / Stuff Mom Never Told You / Happy Hour #127: Drama Queens (SATC S4, Ep7)
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- 2:19Speaker 1: on episode seven. This is a happy hour, so if
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- 2:59Speaker 1: oh yes, Anny, get ready. This was a TVMA, one
- 3:04Speaker 1: of the first tvmas that I watch, goes, what are
- 3:06Speaker 1: the news first? Annie? Can you give us a rundown
- 3:09Speaker 1: of what has been happening on season three for those
- 3:12Speaker 1: who may just be joining us.
- 3:13Speaker 2: Okay, yes, Well, Samantha is doing her Samantha thing. She's
- 3:23Speaker 2: gotten into a lot of shenanigans. She's having a lot
- 3:25Speaker 2: of fun, She's living her best life. Charlotte is on
- 3:30Speaker 2: the hunch for her husband, but continues to find men
- 3:33Speaker 2: with the strangest habits or her behaviors. Miranda is with
- 3:45Speaker 2: Steve after they've broken up and now they're back together,
- 3:48Speaker 2: but I feel like they're still feeling things out and
- 3:51Speaker 2: she's dealing with her I want to be really independent,
- 3:54Speaker 2: but I like this guy kind of thing. And then Carrie,
- 4:01Speaker 2: we started with like the breakup with mister Big and
- 4:06Speaker 2: then meeting his wife, his younger wife, and then now Aiden.
- 4:13Speaker 2: If you know anything about the show, Aiden has entered
- 4:15Speaker 2: the picture and they are dating. There was a big
- 4:20Speaker 2: conversation about lines and like what you will and won't
- 4:24Speaker 2: do in relationships. And from there, Carrie decided to give
- 4:31Speaker 2: up smoking for Aiden. So we'll see how that goes.
- 4:36Speaker 2: Very good, very good, very good.
- 4:38Speaker 1: So this episode is going to be a little harder,
- 4:40Speaker 1: I think because the title is not as easy titled
- 4:45Speaker 1: Drama Queens, and I'm like, that's just them in general.
- 4:49Speaker 1: But with that, can you give a prediction of what
- 4:52Speaker 1: you think is about to happen.
- 4:54Speaker 2: I'm gonna go off the oils all this one.
- 4:57Speaker 1: Oh, go for it.
- 4:58Speaker 2: I think this is so silly. I think they're going
- 5:05Speaker 2: to have a lot of drama while they are in Queens.
- 5:13Speaker 2: In Queens, yep, that's what I think, and that maybe
- 5:21Speaker 2: they'll be kind of called out for being dramatic and
- 5:25Speaker 2: then be like, are we drama queens And they're gonna
- 5:30Speaker 2: go to a club?
- 5:32Speaker 1: How do you get so specific? It's so general at
- 5:34Speaker 1: the same time, like that is the most general.
- 5:38Speaker 2: Queens.
- 5:39Speaker 1: But also they're gonna be dramatic an.
- 5:43Speaker 2: I got called out for a teacher for this in
- 5:44Speaker 2: high school once because she was like, you can't say
- 5:47Speaker 2: every version of an answer.
- 5:51Speaker 1: I mean you can't. I'm make fun of you and
- 5:53Speaker 1: take these points away. Oh goodness, So thank you, thank
- 5:59Speaker 1: you for those predictions in the club. Last time you
- 6:02Speaker 1: said that you were wrong because they were the brunch.
- 6:05Speaker 2: Yes, it's club or brunch. I'm trying to keep myself
- 6:07Speaker 2: from guessing both. Even yeah, you can't do both.
- 6:10Speaker 1: They do both, It's true, but you can't. You can't
- 6:11Speaker 1: guess both. You got one or the other. So the
- 6:14Speaker 1: first guess was drama in Queens, literally in Queens. So
- 6:21Speaker 1: here we go.
- 6:34Speaker 2: For the first time in my life, I was in
- 6:36Speaker 2: a relationship where absolutely nothing was wrong.
- 6:41Speaker 1: Not yet, not yet. I mean, you're not clothed, but
- 6:45Speaker 1: sailing nothing but calm seas and blue horizon as far
- 6:49Speaker 1: as the I can see. Do you understand what I'm saying? Absolutely,
- 6:51Speaker 1: there's not a cloud inside.
- 6:52Speaker 2: We adore each other, we have fun together.
- 6:56Speaker 1: We mesh and this is a problem.
- 6:58Speaker 2: No, it just well talked about this before. When you
- 7:01Speaker 2: get in a relationship it's too comfortable and you're like, yeah,
- 7:06Speaker 2: because there's that excitement at the beginning.
- 7:08Speaker 1: And also like if you've been through like really traumatic relationships, yeah,
- 7:13Speaker 1: you feel like that's normal. Really.
- 7:16Speaker 2: Me and my ex had to talk about that because
- 7:17Speaker 2: I was like, I'm not gonna cheat on you like
- 7:19Speaker 2: you're extend so please stop acting like I.
- 7:22Speaker 1: Like, I mean, that's the thing where it's like, I
- 7:24Speaker 1: don't understand where this is coming from. But let me
- 7:26Speaker 1: go ahead and put this boundary here. If that's what you expect,
- 7:29Speaker 1: and that's what I'm gonna be accused of, we're gonna
- 7:31Speaker 1: have to stop because I'm not living by that other
- 7:33Speaker 1: person's mistake. You give me some more. I want to
- 7:45Speaker 1: take your hit of viagraa.
- 7:49Speaker 2: Number one that's very presumptuous of you. And number two,
- 7:54Speaker 2: from what I can tell, you don't need any help
- 7:56Speaker 2: in that area whatsoever. Well, I don't need the stakey recreationally.
- 8:02Speaker 2: What does it do for you?
- 8:04Speaker 1: Sends me on a rocket trip right through your solar system?
- 8:09Speaker 1: Why gosh, rocket trip right through your solar system? Sir, sir,
- 8:15Speaker 1: They're they're cream for that. There were dreams for that.
- 8:22Speaker 1: I really love that. Sam's sex scenes are so over
- 8:26Speaker 1: the top and dramatic. Yeah, I have no I have
- 8:29Speaker 1: no child. I have to think this because that was
- 8:32Speaker 1: pretty impressionable. But they truly believe that was That's what
- 8:36Speaker 1: sex is.
- 8:36Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, a lot of sex in our media
- 8:39Speaker 2: is not realistic at all, and it can it can
- 8:43Speaker 2: push you up.
- 8:48Speaker 1: I'm so these parents that are coming to town, they
- 8:54Speaker 1: happen to know what hell's wrong with you.
- 8:57Speaker 2: Let's get you a donut.
- 8:59Speaker 1: Look, that would work on me. Let's get you a donut.
- 9:05Speaker 1: Let's go a Then.
- 9:09Speaker 2: That was Bundy.
- 9:16Speaker 1: Dennis, a one great single friend that you have to
- 9:19Speaker 1: fix me up with. I don't know, I've never met
- 9:24Speaker 1: anyone that's desperately like trying to get set up. And
- 9:27Speaker 1: I say this as a person with online dating, like
- 9:30Speaker 1: that seems like, okay, this is easy. But to be
- 9:32Speaker 1: like set me up, set me up, unless they're they
- 9:35Speaker 1: have someone specific in mind.
- 9:38Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I've like fielded interest between friends before,
- 9:44Speaker 2: but it was not like, go set me up. It
- 9:46Speaker 2: was sort of like, what's their deal?
- 9:48Speaker 1: Right, tell me about them? They seem to Yeah, yeah,
- 9:56Speaker 1: I tell you one thing. When your boyfriend is so
- 9:58Speaker 1: comfortable he can't be bothered to because that's the end
- 10:02Speaker 1: of romance right there, some.
- 10:04Speaker 2: Things can go wrong, all right.
- 10:06Speaker 1: I mean he is a fan, but he should honestly
- 10:09Speaker 1: be kindling that himself literally.
- 10:14Speaker 3: Aids offering up both his parents on a silver platter.
- 10:23Speaker 2: And I'm not sure I want to meet them. Maybe
- 10:27Speaker 2: it's too soon.
- 10:28Speaker 1: I've never met Steve's mother, and believe me, I'm in
- 10:31Speaker 1: no rush. It took a long time for my partner
- 10:35Speaker 1: and I to meet the family, A long time they
- 10:38Speaker 1: like at least. So we started like kind of getting
- 10:42Speaker 1: to know each other before COVID, like a couple of
- 10:46Speaker 1: years before COVID, and then we went through COVID together
- 10:49Speaker 1: and then then we met the family. So it was like, good,
- 10:52Speaker 1: four years before you can live.
- 10:56Speaker 2: Like, I met my exes pretty quick.
- 10:59Speaker 1: I didn't want to.
- 11:00Speaker 2: I wasn't Does that mean after his money he had
- 11:03Speaker 2: some money? Oh?
- 11:04Speaker 1: Did he?
- 11:05Speaker 2: I was not a concern. No, I was like, I'm good,
- 11:13Speaker 2: I'm tied up.
- 11:16Speaker 1: What would happen if I tried one of these?
- 11:21Speaker 2: I don't think they've established that it works for women.
- 11:24Speaker 1: There's no harm in trying, is there?
- 11:26Speaker 3: Doctor?
- 11:29Speaker 2: Bathrooms up.
- 11:32Speaker 1: Badams? Yeah.
- 11:37Speaker 2: Twenty minutes later, Samantha officially became the first woman to
- 11:41Speaker 2: land on the moon.
- 11:43Speaker 1: Oh I don't think that's been proven, like clinically proven, right,
- 11:49Speaker 1: I don't think so.
- 11:54Speaker 2: I am tied now.
- 11:57Speaker 1: I know I want to be with a man who
- 11:59Speaker 1: wants to be with me.
- 12:01Speaker 2: You know I've had enough relationship drama for one lifetime.
- 12:04Speaker 1: So do you think you should be telling this Dade?
- 12:07Speaker 2: Miranda, it's three am.
- 12:08Speaker 1: I'll wait until a more civilized hour the next morning.
- 12:12Speaker 2: I waited until a decent hour to call Aiden at
- 12:14Speaker 2: the store and tell him how much.
- 12:15Speaker 1: I missed him. As she wakes up my best friends.
- 12:18Speaker 2: If you called me with that kind of.
- 12:21Speaker 1: Hangs up, never done to take it. I'm trying.
- 12:30Speaker 2: This is not no no, come on, come on, don't leave.
- 12:32Speaker 3: Don't leave.
- 12:33Speaker 1: You kept all of your great single friends away from
- 12:35Speaker 1: me to so you could cheat on your wife. You
- 12:37Speaker 1: should be ashamed of yourself. Such a spark plug. I
- 12:40Speaker 1: love that about you. I'm not interested in starting some
- 12:42Speaker 1: married man's car.
- 12:44Speaker 3: Wait no, no, wait, wait, wait you.
- 12:51Speaker 1: Wait.
- 12:53Speaker 2: Some good lines in this episode. Oh my gosh, right,
- 13:03Speaker 2: oh no, I knew he was going to show up.
- 13:06Speaker 2: I've seen pictures.
- 13:07Speaker 1: Kyle McLaughlin, all right, this was not such a dramatic one. Hanny.
- 13:28Speaker 1: There was drama, but not necessarily mentioned of queens, and
- 13:31Speaker 1: they definitely didn't go to queens. They never went to
- 13:34Speaker 1: a nightclub. I hate to tell you that. Yet failed
- 13:37Speaker 1: on that one. Yeah, failed, Oh man.
- 13:41Speaker 2: I was on like a very short streaks really well.
- 13:45Speaker 1: It had been working for you, like going with literal
- 13:47Speaker 1: interpretations of the title, which is why I was like,
- 13:50Speaker 1: this is a little more generic. So it was trickery
- 13:55Speaker 1: on this one. And we had an introduction of one
- 13:58Speaker 1: of the pretty big significant other, Trey, which we will
- 14:02Speaker 1: find more about later, and he does a great job
- 14:06Speaker 1: in the next few episodes. I think he's does fantastic job.
- 14:10Speaker 1: But yeah, like not so over the top. This one
- 14:13Speaker 1: very very low key, but we did see big again.
- 14:19Speaker 2: We did, and we did have Charlotte almost get run
- 14:23Speaker 2: over by cab, which was got to be dramatic a
- 14:25Speaker 2: little bit. Yeah, so it did have So it had
- 14:28Speaker 2: its moments of drama for sure. I do find this
- 14:33Speaker 2: conversation interesting because I have the friends of mine have
- 14:36Speaker 2: had it where they'll be with maybe they've got out
- 14:40Speaker 2: of a relationship that was pretty dramatic and now they're
- 14:43Speaker 2: in a stable one that's really nice and it's almost
- 14:48Speaker 2: like they're confused by it. They're like, oh, he like
- 14:50Speaker 2: listens to what I say and he doesn't get mad
- 14:54Speaker 2: when we fight, like we kind of and it's it's
- 14:57Speaker 2: almost them getting used to the idea of a healthy
- 15:04Speaker 2: or just.
- 15:05Speaker 1: Like a normal relationship. And when I say normal in
- 15:07Speaker 1: the aspect of like there's no dramatic fighting or over
- 15:10Speaker 1: the top disagreement where you're crying and screaming and always
- 15:13Speaker 1: having to bargain with each other, the like the notions
- 15:16Speaker 1: of this. Sometimes it's just literally you sit around all
- 15:20Speaker 1: day trying to figure out what you're gonna have for dinner.
- 15:22Speaker 1: That's that's the next planning with like, oh, we haven't
- 15:26Speaker 1: gotten out of the house in a week, maybe we
- 15:27Speaker 1: should get out of the house mm hmm, every now
- 15:30Speaker 1: and again. And then you're kind of like, there's something
- 15:33Speaker 1: wrong with this.
- 15:34Speaker 2: Yeah, because so much of the media we do consume
- 15:37Speaker 2: is the like you're dating and it's so exciting and
- 15:40Speaker 2: you're so attractious to each other and like right, but
- 15:44Speaker 2: then yeah, those is the quiet moments with the laundry
- 15:48Speaker 2: and learning people's habits and adjusting to two lives with
- 15:54Speaker 2: each other, right, which I think is can also be
- 15:58Speaker 2: really exciting and really I've also heard yeah you can
- 16:02Speaker 2: miss that other thing, but like where you are right right?
- 16:07Speaker 1: Yeah, I think being content is different than that, and
- 16:10Speaker 1: sometimes you do get confused with being content as being boring.
- 16:14Speaker 1: And then also the reminder of like that you don't
- 16:18Speaker 1: have to be that way. You could plan things if
- 16:19Speaker 1: you want to. You're can afford things to do things
- 16:22Speaker 1: that's based on what you want to do and if
- 16:24Speaker 1: not having a conversation about why not all about communication,
- 16:29Speaker 1: which she learned about at the end with aiden.
- 16:34Speaker 2: Yes, and it is something that again through my friends,
- 16:40Speaker 2: this is true facts. I have a friend who is
- 16:45Speaker 2: both she's she's a combination of all the characters. I
- 16:49Speaker 2: would say, so it's like we have all of us
- 16:51Speaker 2: are but I wouldn't say she's a Charlotte. But she
- 16:55Speaker 2: went through a period where she was doing that like
- 16:59Speaker 2: almost like a job, dating online and a good friend
- 17:03Speaker 2: of ours used to tell her be less available, and
- 17:08Speaker 2: I was always kind of like, ah, I don't know,
- 17:11Speaker 2: I get, I don't know, you don't want to be
- 17:15Speaker 2: cleany right, Yeah, Like the level of like the whole
- 17:19Speaker 2: like how long do you wait to text?
- 17:21Speaker 1: How long do you call the blah blah blah blah
- 17:24Speaker 1: seems absurd. But also then they went to the other
- 17:26Speaker 1: stream of like love bombing and over the top and
- 17:28Speaker 1: two attached and things crash quickly, which I've been through
- 17:31Speaker 1: that and that's gross too.
- 17:33Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, And as we were saying earlier, everybody, whether
- 17:39Speaker 2: you want to or not, on some level, you bring
- 17:41Speaker 2: in the baggage from your past relationships and to your
- 17:43Speaker 2: current right relationship. And you can deal with that and
- 17:49Speaker 2: it doesn't have to control you in any in any way.
- 17:52Speaker 2: But it is hard to like go of those kind
- 17:55Speaker 2: of learned behaviors or even things you might have witnessed
- 17:59Speaker 2: and like your parents or something like that, where you
- 18:02Speaker 2: think that's how relationship works, and it's like, oh, if
- 18:05Speaker 2: they haven't done this, then they must be mad at me,
- 18:07Speaker 2: or if they haven't done there's all kinds of insecurities
- 18:10Speaker 2: that come into play, right in that that can be
- 18:13Speaker 2: hard to not get in your head about.
- 18:16Speaker 1: Relationships are not. It's difficult to not get in your
- 18:18Speaker 1: head about in justice, Yes, especially because you're trying to
- 18:21Speaker 1: play it cool.
- 18:22Speaker 2: Yes, you're trying to look like you don't have any baggage.
- 18:26Speaker 1: And then all of things come sneaky if you all
- 18:29Speaker 1: come out. Yeah, yes, that's being a dramatic queen, not
- 18:37Speaker 1: being dramatic in Queens.
- 18:39Speaker 2: That would have been so funny. You know, if I
- 18:44Speaker 2: had gotten that right, you've gotten that right, I would
- 18:47Speaker 2: have I don't know.
- 18:49Speaker 1: I think I would just drop if you've gotten it right.
- 18:56Speaker 2: I just mean they've done stuff like that before. It's true.
- 19:01Speaker 1: Oh dramatic in Queens. Hey, listeners and queens, are y'all dramatic?
- 19:08Speaker 1: Tell us? Tell us about the top?
- 19:12Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.
- 19:15Speaker 1: Oh sometimes m hmm. It pays to be literal sometimes.
- 19:21Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, there was definitely. Yeah. You know you got
- 19:25Speaker 2: your friend now trying to cheat on his wife with Charlotte, like,
- 19:30Speaker 2: that's pretty that's pretty dramatic.
- 19:32Speaker 1: Yeah, Charlotte does not stand for that. Oh good on her.
- 19:37Speaker 2: She was not having it. She was not having it. Also,
- 19:40Speaker 2: discussion of skid marks. I did not step coming.
- 19:44Speaker 3: That.
- 19:45Speaker 2: I can tell you.
- 19:47Speaker 3: You know, they're not afraid no to hit some of
- 19:50Speaker 3: those like what, well, I foresee some drama.
- 19:58Speaker 2: You know that big has been spotted to into the wild.
- 20:02Speaker 2: Mm hmmm hm. Well, listeners again, if you would like
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