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Episode #212: Highs and Lows Shape Our Growth · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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Hey, everybody, Welcome to tea SI with Amy and Bev. What's up
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girl, Good day, Everything's great. We were talking a little bit ahead
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of time that I'm walking around the house and I'm thinking, man, it's
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so nice. I don't have anything that I have to have to do today,
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not until my grandson's game. And I was like, oh God.
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And then because I and then I'm running through the house and I look at
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my calendar and I had written on there nine thirty, and we kind of
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had discussed nine before that, but then you said, yeah, I said,
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you know, on my calendar, I had it at nine. Bev
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and I share a calendar, so I saw that she had it at nine
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thirty, and so I had some other things to do, but I went
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ahead at nine o'clock or a little bit before nine, went ahead and set
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up to records. So we're doing this in zoom. So I've had the
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screen up and everything just ready. But I've been putting around. But in
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my mind I was sending her to telepathic message saying I'm ready whenever you are.
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I'm ready whenever you are, right. But I just kept doing the
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other stuff I was doing, and then I received the message at I look
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at the time, it was nine to eleven. I was like, oh,
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I got to hurry up, And isn't it interesting that it was at
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nine to one one exactly? It was nothing urgent. I wasn't flustered or
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frustrated or anything with I was just like, Okay, well we're gonna do
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this. Whenever we do this this morning, nine nine thirty. I got
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things I can do in the meantime, and I have I have this set
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up so when when you come in, it chimes, so it gets my
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attention, so if I walk away, I can hear it. So but
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that leads me to flexibility. We've talked about this before, but I think
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it's important to I mean, it's always this might be a new conversation to
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somebody who's seeing this for the first time, even though we've talked about this
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other times. And flexibility, I mean when in the past, and it
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still shows up a little bit still today, not today today, but in
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my life currently that when you are on the opposite end of being flexible,
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you're being controlling. And that's when you need to know who, what,
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when, where, why. You need all the details, you need to
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know, all the expectations and you have quote unquote all your ducks in a
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row, and I mean that kind of leads to perfection as well, but
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that leaves no room for flexibility. So when things go awry or doesn't fit
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into your box, then it seems like chaos unfolds when a lot of times
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there's a reason why there's a redirection. True experience that this week at my
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job in I've been at this job since the end of August of twenty twenty
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three, so we are on May eighteenth, and in this entire time,
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this past week was the first time that I've had what I would call a
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day like you just seriously want to throw punch somebody out, just like on
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edge about things, because it was it just seemed like one chaotic thing after
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another. There were three in one day, and I thought, okay.
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I kept just kept thinking, okay, we got three in a day.
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We're good. We're gonna be good for quite a while now because we got
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the three, because I always say things come in threes, and it was
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three back to back to back in one day. And it was just interesting
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how I kind of I got caught up in some drama and then I pulled
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back. I'm like Okay, recenter, regroup, come on, and then
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I would get pulled in and I'm like, come back right. And so
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I did kind of this in and out, in and out, and it
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almost made me feel like I was I don't want to say bipolar, but
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similar to that, right, because it was just it was an in and
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and out and in and in and out. It's just on this roller coaster
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of excitement and frustration and then pulling back going Okay, take a breath,
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relax, recenter, and then I get pulled And so it was an interesting
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process for myself. I feel like I because it was so much in one
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day at once that for me, I felt like I handled it pretty well
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for the most part. There were those pieces that were off kilter and I
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was still able to recognize it. And really the biggest piece about that as
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having the awareness, like I know, I'm caught up in the drama right
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now, I know it. What am I going to do about it?
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Because this doesn't feel good, Take a braass, sit back. But when
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you have other people in involved and really tied up into the drama and talking
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about it and bringing all that emotion, it's interesting how much focus it takes
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to keep yourself maintaining your own energy amongst all that, and and being able
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to first of all recognize it, second of all do something about it,
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and third maintain it. It's it's, it's it and always right. I
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always say this, like, when when it's time for you to level up
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into something, you're going to be given the situations and experience to do that.
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So I was just like a fuck, here we go. And I
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staff for quite a bit that day, I will tell you, But to
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me, that's about the least resistance that is for us. It's like the
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teapots that's got all that steam built up in it and it allows that steam
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to come off of it. It's not good or bad, right, It's
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we go back to the whole positive and negative thing. I was just listening
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to South Eastman and she was saying, you know, on a battery in
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your vehicle, you have positive and negative. One's not positive and one's not
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negative. It's you need both of it to have the to have the growth
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or to make that that that vehicle run. And so we're having both to
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Matt constalking about busting forth through these things and recognizing all these things that are
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having aren't positive or negative. They're just allowing us to let go of some
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things that we were. So we had our claws into it. We were
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holding on so deeply to this and so tightly to it because it we've we've
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known it since that we were not since we were born up, since we
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were taught it right. We knew that's the way it was until you find
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out that that's not true. And we don't know until we start letting go
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of things. Yeah, and then still you kind of touched on it at
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the beginning of the conversation telepathically. We are all energetic beings, all of
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us, and it ties everything together because we're energetic beings and you're thinking,
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BIV, you know cause I do this. I've played June's Journey on occasion
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every day for a little bit, and sometimes we have people that are supposed
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to show up for drink time if our ribbons matter or whatever. During the
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game, all think of the person and they almost always show up because it's
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just being in that if they're able to. It's just being in that space
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and it's not thinking like anything like hurry up, you need to get your
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ass on here or anything like that. It's just thinking you just think about
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them and then they're like, oh yeah, and then they go do it.
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And that's the same thing that happened to me today. But that ties
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into being in this space when you're with everybody else, if you're if you're
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not watching your energy, now you're walking into a space that someone else's metronome.
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If anyone knows that that is, it's a little tick tick. It
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keeps kind of the balance, or that keeps kind of the tone how you
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want to follow. If you're playing music or anything like that, it's constant
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rhythmic. You're either gonna be that metronome or you're gonna walk into the space
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and then you're gonna match someone else's metronome. And it's like sometimes we don't
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want to match that energy. But again, it's not good or bad.
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It's an experience, and so it's not to beat ourselves up when we go
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into that space, but just feel how it feels afterwards. Sometimes I've been
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in that space and it's like I want to go home and take a shower
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because it just feels so gross. It just feels yumpy, right, It
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just doesn't feel good. But none of this stuff is bad or good.
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It's part of an experience, and it's like we don't know. Gosh,
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it's this again. I'll used reference of Matt conn it's really getting to know
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yourself. You know, we learned about so much about something else and here
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we are having an experience. You know, God's having an experience through us,
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but we don't even know anything about us. And it's really really taking
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the time to look at all that stuff. Oh well that ticked you off?
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Why did it tick you off? Like what was the big deal?
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Or you know, what was the whatever whatever the processes that you used,
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But as being aware of it, like you said, it's just taking the
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time to take a look at it and see why it's being triggered by it
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and see why it's showing up in your experience. And then sometimes it's just
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for nothing at all. It's like, oh yeah, look at me go
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like even you waiting for me to come on here. It was at nine
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o'clock. I need that extra few minutes just to be able to get to
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brush my hair and stuff because it's it's Saturday. I'm not in a hurry
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to do anything, which takes me into the next thing. I recognize when
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I'm in the space of that hurry. I'm almost in a shutdown anymore.
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I can't. It's no longer acceptable for my being to try to fit everything
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into a day. And I used to. I used to do it all
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the time, and I catch myself occasionally do and I was even trying to
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do it yesterday, and it's like I have to realize that that doesn't feel
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good. Well, it doesn't feel good. Wait a minute, I don't
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have to make myself do this. I doesn't feel it doesn't feel good.
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Hey, guess what, it doesn't feel good. I don't have to do
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it. I don't have to do these things. I didn't do group yesterday.
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You know, we were doing we were going to put it out of
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that. I had some different things happen, and it's like and then I
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have my grandson show and it's like I have to recognize what the things that
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they both bring me joy. But it's like I know that I know that
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my grandchildren it's very important for them for that timeframe too. And I'm not
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saying that group's not important too, but I'm just saying sometimes I have to
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kind of look at things and value them. Because that was our routine was
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on Fridays, and I was trying to squeeze everything in in the day and
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it just wasn't possible. Some of these things aren't possible. It wasn't my
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old way of thinking. But then I would be ran ragged at bragged by
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the time I got home. I'm not worth anything in my relationship because I
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have nothing more to give. I'm at the end. I'm at the end,
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there's nothing left. I'm just tired. You know, you're at that
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space and it's like running yourself like that constantly. And I'll say, what's
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been a big factor for me? I guess probably helping me is there's so
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many things, but yoga has been a huge thing. And recently because we
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went on a hike because I had my birthday this past week, but we
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went on a hike for my birthday, went up to like Oapen area and
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picked around and picked up rocks. Well, I I loaded my bag,
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my backpack that was on my back, and I paid the price Friday,
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Thursday, Thursday night and stuff. And it's like it was really, it
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was not. It was not a good knock. It was not, but
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I did it. And it's like I recognize even at that time, I
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could have slowed down, right, So I'm slowing down in so many ways,
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but I'm still recognizing there's things and it's not good or bad, it's
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just a recognition and then knowing I could have gone back to the vehicle and
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I've had buckets for it for excess, so I didn't have to carry it
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out on my back the whole time. So it's just recognizing certain things like
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that. But we get into such a habit of this doing we got to
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get it done right now, and we've got to see everything we can right
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this moment. And it's like, it's not when we're doing that kind of
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stuff, we're missing out on things. We're not being present, we're too
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busy rushing around, or we're too busy, whatever you want to label it.
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So it's just really taking those times. And that's what yoga Kundalini yoga
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because I couldn't do the regular yoga I was hurting too much, but just
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doing the Kundalini yoga, which is little less movements, but you know that's
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the breath work, and that's gosh. You could look at it in so
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many different ways. For me, it's like getting to know my body,
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getting to recognize where my body is locked up at because I found this one
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teacher and I don't know what her name is right now, off of YouTube,
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and it's free stuff, and it's like she's just got such a great
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energy. The classes are short, like thirty minutes maybe, and it's like
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it's just it's short quick, but you recognize when you're when you're shifting your
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body around stuff. You recognize where you're folding things and where things are tight.
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And then she even stops you for a moment after you've done a certain
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like I'm doing one. It's just for chakras, and you get to a
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certain spot you stop after that and you just sit there for a minute and
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feel how that feels in your body after you just opened it up, and
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it's like it's so fascinating. But that's so I'm getting meditation at the same
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time. So it's bring me into a different peace and awareness. And we
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don't know what peace is until we start experiencing that. You know, we
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say all the time we want more peace, but sometimes I didn't know what
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the hell that looked like. And maybe I still don't know, but I'm
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getting a tip of the iceberg of how it feels. So I'm getting a
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I'm recognizing right now that how that feels different in the body, and it's
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slowed me down more, which ties into I can't I'm no longer satisfied being
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on that that hamster wheel. Well, at my job, there have there's
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been, there are quite a few moments where it's oh, we got to
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drop this and go I'll be there in a few minutes, like you know,
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and going back with the hurry thing. And I associate for myself because
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you know, my old way of being. People don't get to see that
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here because that's not who I am any at this time. Are their glimpses,
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Yes, And I want to keep reiterating that because I want people to
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understand I'm not perfect at this this new way of being by no means,
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because things still pop up. But I also see them as opportunities to whether
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you want to call it level up or have awareness of another shift or some
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energy clearing that still needs to take place in my mental state and emotional state.
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So everyone in a while will remind the audience I'm not perfect at this
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still, so it's practice. We're practicing, still practicing. Yes, So
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the old way of being I would have been very flustered and frustrated with Oh
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we gotta go now, Oh we gotta hurry, yup, oh we gotta
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do right. And because I have been practicing for a while, the flexibility
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being flexible, being able to take that breath and pivot meaning Okay, well
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I gotta stop this and I gotta go do this now, pivoting to something
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different. I've recognized in myself that I do it pretty well now. At
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the beginning, when I start first working there, it took a little getting
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used to, because I mean, I've been in this space right where I'm
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sitting right now. I've been in this space for about four years and in
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my own world doing my thing and do this when I need to, and
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do that when I need to, and there's just been a it's just been
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a flowy type of thing. But when you go out into a public job
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and you know somebody's got all these things lined up that you're unaware of because
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they have their calendar and you don't see their calendar, and they come around
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the corner and go, okay, you ready to go uh, okay,
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sure, let me grab my purse and let me go in the bathroom.
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But so again just coming back to you know what, this is where we're
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at at the moment. Take a breath, pivot, take a breath,
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be flexible, take a breath, handle whatever is in that moment. And
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it takes it does take a lot of practice to be able to do that,
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especially if you are one of a person who has controlling tendencies, or
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you are shifting from or you're a recovering control freak. Uh you, It
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takes a lot of practice to be able to be in that flexible space and
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and the go with the flow type of thing. And I and I recognize
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that when I look at it from from a perspective of Okay, we're pivoting
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instead of oh I got a hurry up, it's two different energies, completely
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different, and just being able to practice that, and that's you know,
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I'm just every time, not every time, looking back on the history,
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I've recognized how each place of employment or each business that I've had, that
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how incredibly valuable they've been in my growth. And even still to this day
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in the employment that I'm at now, I'm still growing and it's in multi
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multi, multiple areas. So the hurry up, let's go, We got
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to go now, Okay, practice flexibility, Practicing being able to pivot on
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it, you know, like right now, Practicing being able to take a
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breath and just be like, Okay, this is where we're at. Practice
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seeing, holding and maintaining my energy in those moments of when everybody else is
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getting up hyped up about some issue that's come up, Practicing being solution oriented.
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Like, There's been so many things that I've recognized from being in this
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job that has been so valuable and I'm and I'm embracing it and it's been
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actually really fun. I'm learning like party planning. Who knew, right,
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I'm I'm like the the uh like we do bingo, not any ever in
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my world what I've thought I would be knowing everything there needs to be know
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about bingo, like legit Arizona state licensed bingo sessions. So it's just been
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it's been very very I the sword valuable just keeps coming up, very valuable
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in having this position and giving me the opportunity to be out into the public
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and meeting more people in different areas that I wouldn't have met by sitting continuing
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to sit here working on my business. And I totally understand. I believe
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me. I have all my moments. Yesterday, I went to one store
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and it's like I was in there, it seemed like I was. I
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didn't think I was in there about long, and I was seemed to be
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doing fine. And I get out there and it's like like I've lost like
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an hour or more, and it's like, you've got to be kidding me,
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standing at a line here for something and then not even getting half the
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stuff. And I was very frustrated, very frustrated. And then just because
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of the time frame, now that I noticed I was rushing around, then
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I'm going to go do a couple other things. And I thought, well,
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I'm going to go stop off at the other store that's you know.
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And then I thought, no, I'm going to go to this different store.
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For some reason, I thought I'll go over to this store. Well,
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I pulled up. I pulled up into the spot right up next to
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the cart return, which is right by the entrance to the store. I
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was able to walk right in. I found everything that I was looking for.
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I was able to go in and out there, and in the meantime,
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I'm having a conversation with Freeman. Before I even go into this place
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like, f this if that's the way things are gonna be, I don't
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need to be on this fricking plant. I am not gonna deal with this
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shit if it's going to be a struggle. And that was a conversation,
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right, and then the next thing that happened was like, I'm calling it
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back up after that, and I'm like, I got right into the first
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spot I thought I was in, and now that store, after I got
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all these things, they had everything that I needed. I end the restroom
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and I go up to the register. There's there's one person that she just
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finished up with and in front of me. Now, so it was a
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like you said before. The difference was that first instance would have ruined my
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whole day and I could not have enjoyed the second instance. It couldn't have
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happened, And so it's not I could sit and beat myself up and be
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like, oh, here you go. Here you're talking about You're like,
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I don't need to be on the plan anymore for this bullshit, and blah
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blah blah. It's gonna be a like all that stuff. But like again
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goes back with you saying the effort all day on whatever day it was,
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it's the path of least resistance. And sometimes it's better if I'm gonna throw
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a temper tantrum, which I've told my kids, grandkids, you know,
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as adults throw temper tantrums too, And that's a temper tantrum. But you
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know what, it's better out than in. That's the way I look at
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it now. Thankfully, Freemansbury understanding and knows it's he says, it's not
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my monkey's not my circus, but allows me to have my you know,
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process. And so with that being allowed, and then I get to look
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at things differently, and I had I instead of holding on to that,
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I was able to let go of it and have such a great experience.
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And I went over to pick up my grandson and my little grandson's awake and
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stuff, and I got to give him some snugs and you know real you
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know, before Colton and I took off. So then we came up here
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and played for a while and it was a great time. Like we did
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all kinds of things, and it we miss out. I'll go back to
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the rushing thing. We miss out on things we're coming up. We decided
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to go through the mouth and I know it takes a little bit longer to
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go that way, but it's all right. And we come up and I
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have to go to the RB Park to pick up a package. And I'm
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like, I told my grandson, you know, if you want, you
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can get out, you can go look at the fish. And he says,
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well, can I put my finger in there? And I said no.
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And then it's like I said, but just stay there and you can
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look at it, and I'll go get the package. So I go in
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in and I'm out there and we're looking at it and we're talking and talking
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about where our favorites are that I would not have allowed in the past.
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No, get, we're not going to have time to go play. If
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we're going to do this right now, we're not going to have time to
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play. This is part of the play. This is part of it the
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play, but this is part of it. And then the gentleman walks out
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and he says, hey, do you want would he like to feed the
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fish? Oh, my gosh, would he like to feed the fish?
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And he brings out this cup full and then Colton is giving like little pieces
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at a time, but he wants to milk this as long as he can,
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and I loved it. And then I let him drive. We're on
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that dirt road, so I let him drive. I just let him drive,
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and he drives the whole dirt road. Now it used to just be
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my driveway. So it's it's all those moments we get into such hurries to
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get to the destination right, And it's the same thing that Abraham Hicks talked
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about all the time. Er Esther Hicks, I'm talking about always trying to
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be in a hurry, but never enjoying the journey to get there. And
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it's those little, those little it makes me emotional, but those little journeys
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that we get to have such an experience with someone else that lets them know
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how much we care about them without saying I care about you. It's just
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being it's just being in that good energy. And then we came up here
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and we ran around. I mean we came and we played some ball,
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we watched some We like to watch stuff on YouTube that has like snakes,
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new snakes being born and stuff like that, super cool stuff that I never
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would have thought, I would never have been interested in, but my granddaughter
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loves it. So then we started watching this stuff too, and then so
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like we went out and played some ball for a while, and then we
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came in and start doing some art stuff, and then mom was here.
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So it's like it was such a it was so much joy to being all
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those things instead of trying to control it. Right, because I've tried.
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I've done that, and when it comes to kid you guys might as well
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give up. If you're trying to control kids, forget about it. They're
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not meant to be controlled. I've listened to so much different stuff that's come
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forward, But they talk about their brains, their their frontal lobes and stuff
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like that. They're not even have the capacity to understand and process things until
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they're like in their late twenties. But yet we're having an expectation of a
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child to be responsive and be the same way that we are at our stage,
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when really our bodies were not. They're not set up to do that.
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It's not kids were meant to be crazy and run around and blow off
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steam and stuff like that. They're great teachers. It's just, you know,
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it's just recognizing not trying to fit them into a box and expect them
24:40
to sit still and expect them to be quiet, it's like, let's let's
24:44
nurture them, because at the same time we're nurturing them or we're nurturing ourselves.
24:49
Yeah. Yeah, the expectation. I mean both you and I grew
24:53
had childhoods where we had to grow up fast and be the adult at what
25:00
like six four you know, So, yeah, understanding the dynamics of how
25:11
children are in their in their stages of growth and just being sponges and getting
25:19
all their programming from the adults around them to navigate life and the best way
25:23
they know how. And then yeah, becoming adults themselves and and and being
25:30
a mess really yeah, because we we didn't have the tools that we're learning
25:36
today these days. Uh. And so that's part of the evolution. Now,
25:41
that's just part of evolution of humanity and and our planet. And and
25:48
we we don't know what we don't know, and that's just it. We
25:51
don't know what we don't know. And so but the thing is is that
25:55
when you learn something different, it's important to first of all, implement it.
26:00
If it's to me, if it's something that's going to help you be
26:03
and do better within yourself, that you implement it. You be the example
26:08
and if you so choose, also have the conversations. This is the way
26:15
we help each other. So it's not to get the get the information and
26:21
keep it to yourself. It's like, oh, yeah, this makes sense.
26:25
I mean, how many times have we said we are doing things that
26:29
feel good to us and in doing that we're examples. We're also by doing
26:36
this, we're teachers. And then the things that we do outside of this,
26:41
this these podcasts, this podcast, the classes that we teach, the
26:45
conversations that we have, we're still we're still planting seeds. We're still having
26:48
those conversations outside of this, and that's how we start making changes. I
26:59
mean, the studies that they're doing today weren't studies they did one hundred years
27:03
ago, so you couldn't have had the information then. So for us growing
27:08
up in the seventies, nineteen seventy, just by the way, that's gotta
27:15
throw that in there, they had the information we have today with and have
27:22
it and back then when we were kids. And so our parents are living
27:27
from what they grew up with from their parents, and their parents are growing
27:30
up from what they had from their parents, which is your grandparents and great
27:34
grandparents and the generations go back. I was listening to a podcast, I
27:41
think it was Lewis House Podcasts, and he was talking to a lady and
27:48
she was saying that our body like us as when we were kids, so
27:56
children that in their bodies they are carrying the energy she didn't use the words
28:03
energy, but carrying the energy of at least seven generations back. That's a
28:14
long time. That's a lot of years. That's a lot of information,
28:18
right, And so we're we're recognizing all these things now were people are studying
28:26
these things now. But it was interesting though that he asked. I thought
28:34
this was quite interesting. He asked, well, do you think that this
28:40
also pertains He asked the question similar to this, with not exact words,
28:42
do you think this also pertains to pass lives? And she just kind of
28:47
glossed right over it and didn't even touch that topic. And I'm like,
28:52
okay, that's okay. So for people who do believe in past lives,
28:56
for me, I believe in them. I don't think this is the only
29:00
life we have. I believe we come back many times, and that we
29:03
do we could carry forward some of the energy from that previous life. But
29:11
generational generational stuff that a child already has and is caring, and so you
29:21
know, there are groups that do ancestral healing that's part of this process.
29:26
So it's just all absolutely fascinating to me that all the avenues of how we
29:33
are being affected not just from our childhood and the people that was in our
29:41
childhood, but generations. You know, I can go off on that little
29:48
bit just because I know things that popped into my head recently, and I
29:52
know it's kind of guiding, but there's like instances we look back at pictures
29:56
of ourselves and we think, oh my god, it looks so good.
29:57
Then why was I being so hard on myself? Well, then take that
30:00
opportunity right now to be in that space of being almost like as if you
30:06
were in that body at that time, and enjoying that space because it creates
30:11
a shift. Right We're creating a shift because everything is happening right now.
30:15
So for me, I believe in parallel realities. I believe everything's happening right
30:21
now. I believe that. I mean, these are my beliefs. Will
30:22
I change. They could, They'll probably get a little bit crazier to some
30:26
other people. You know, the way that I perceive things but at the
30:30
same time, it's like everything's happening right now, so we do have an
30:33
effect on all those things right now. We absolutely do. And I'll go
30:38
back to the conversation you your metronome in the office, was your experience right
30:45
to balance for that? And mine's with the grandkids a lot of times because
30:49
I because I can get wrapped up into them really easily, and it's like
30:53
that's where a lot of my triggers come from. There's a lot of stuff
30:56
that I noticed that for me, and I would never have noticed this before,
31:00
but even yesterday playing ball, and it's like I noticed that he wanted
31:04
to continue playing even though he was not happy, and I said, I
31:07
want you to stop and pay attention. How are you feeling right this moment?
31:11
Because how many people know I don't remember anybody ever asked me how am
31:15
I feeling right this moment? And I don't. Maybe he doesn't, maybe
31:18
he doesn't completely comprehend that, but he will because again we're planning seeds.
31:22
And I remember telling him that because I started matching up with his energy and
31:26
it's like that's not the energy that I want to match up with because I'm
31:30
not benefiting that person, just like you wouldn't benefit those people even though you
31:34
had a group, which is which can be a little bit more intense,
31:38
But that just means that you're able to do it because you're in that space
31:41
and you're capable of doing this to keep yourself in a balance and keep yourself
31:45
in it at the frequency that you want to keep yourself even though there's stuff
31:49
going on and we can still get wrapped in it. I can still get
31:52
wrapped in it. And then I'm like, listen, I said, we
31:56
probably should go get a snack and drink, have a drink of water,
31:57
I said, because this is something that attention to again, because we've talked
32:01
about this, especially over the last few weeks, paying attention to whatever our
32:05
body, what does our body need, because we can't expect this body.
32:08
Our vehicle is not going to run if you run out of gas, it's
32:10
not going anywhere, guys, it's going to stay right there. It's not
32:14
going to sit and cry about it. Now we will because we'll become emotional
32:17
because we have no more fuel. We have no more gas in this vehicle
32:22
to continue moving forward. So it's recognizing those things and so I'm helping him
32:25
to recognize his body because it helps me to recognize because that's been one of
32:30
my faults, am igraded all this stuff. No, but I'm in practice
32:34
of all this stuff. It's all of it's a practice, like we've talked
32:37
about all of it's a practice, and it's recognizing how and it's our imagination.
32:43
You can create whatever you want to create. So if you guys don't
32:45
believe in parallel realities, just wrap your mind around a little bit, play
32:50
with it. It doesn't have to be something that has to you have to
32:52
believe in, but it's something I can play with in my imagination. If
32:54
I was going to write a book that really just didn't have any you know,
32:59
there's unic horns and ferries in here, in parallels, and just jump
33:01
back into her other body, and she's now appreciating that body, and she's
33:06
having an experience with that body that I didn't have before because I was too
33:09
busy on that hamster will. What hit me last night is I never realized
33:14
when I was raising my kids, I never realized that I could have stepped
33:16
off that hamster Will at any time I could have. All I knew is
33:21
I had to keep going and going and going and going that's all I knew,
33:23
because that's what I learned, right, He said, we don't know.
33:27
Until we know where I'm at now, my whole life would be different.
33:30
I would totally make different choices from that time frame with where I'm at
33:35
right now because I've slowed down enough to be able to see those things.
33:38
And it's like, this won't make sense to someone that's on that hamster will
33:43
because they haven't slowed down, And it doesn't make me sense. It makes
33:46
no sense. How can I do that? How can I do that?
33:50
And it doesn't make sense because as far as you know, as far as
33:52
I knew, my mom works three part time jobs to take care of myself
33:55
and my sister. So she did. She was busting in our butt trying
34:00
to, you know, make sure that we had food on the table and
34:01
we had a roof over our head. She was mom and dad at that
34:06
time. So it's like it's recognizing he can be mom and dad, but
34:10
we don't have to be doing all the time. We don't have to constantly
34:14
try to make things work out. And gosh, we're in a different day
34:16
and age, right, even though back in the day we were burned out
34:21
at the stake, and these days you can be burned out the steak a
34:22
different way. So it's just like it just changes how the experience is,
34:28
but the experiences are still happening until we decided to let go of them.
34:31
We're talking generational, if we're talking really, because now the experiences look a
34:37
little bit differently because now you're not going to have a steak with someone burning
34:39
at it typically. I mean, I'm not saying that could never happen in
34:43
this timeframe anything as possible, but it's being aware that things are still happening
34:49
and those triggers are still happening for you to release or to look at it
34:52
and say, oh, don't have to hold on to that. You were
34:54
saying something and I automatic, I don't remember what we were talking about in
34:58
this conversation, but I automatically felt like I was someone that was lived out
35:05
in the West or something like that, and I had to defend myself.
35:07
Everybody was against me, couldn't trust anybody. So that was how it felt.
35:12
And then it's like I've carried that on into this lifetime. I have,
35:15
and then I had experiences that were different from those experiences but still would
35:21
be the same thing that I had to have my own back, and I
35:23
didn't couldn't count on anybody else or anything like that. But now I've evolved
35:28
and I recognized there's so much more to us than us. There's so much
35:31
more than meets the eye. Yeah, and then as you're talking, you
35:38
know, like our kids, so we know because we didn't know at the
35:44
time what we know now. So we gain our children their programming, right,
35:52
contributed to their programming based on how we were living in that survival mode
35:55
and the anger and all the things. So you know, they picked that
36:00
up. And so they they're now adults and they're going they have their own
36:05
journey, and what they do with the informations their choice. If they choose
36:10
that, you know, the way they're living life doesn't feel good to them,
36:15
it's up to them to make changes. So as the parents, we
36:21
are learning new things and we have implemented new things, and we are different
36:25
now than we were when we were young and raising a little person. So
36:32
I'm not going to say that there's no hope in us affecting our kids,
36:37
because there is. They're seeing us differently, and I have no doubt about
36:43
that. But what came to me the most was that by you talking to
36:50
your grandson and saying, how do you feel? How does your body feel?
36:54
What emotion are right? Having that conversation or having them tune in the
37:00
idea of them that when their parents, which was Bev's daughters and son in
37:07
law's right, that Bev's grandson when his mom, which is Bev's daughter,
37:16
when Bev's daughter might have a moment where she's riled up, upset, angry
37:22
or whatever, that Bev's grandson stops and says, Mom, how do you
37:25
feel right now? And just asking that question and having because you know,
37:31
out of the mouth of the babes, kids get it. Kids get it
37:35
and they say things and it'll stop you in your tracks to be like,
37:39
WHOA right, you've had it happen with your grandkids. So just the idea
37:45
of that just really lights me up because I think it's your kids, your
37:52
daughter's may not be in a space to hear you in what you're doing or
37:58
teaching or talking about or the language use, but when their children says something
38:06
that might get their attention a little more so. So it's kind of,
38:09
I don't know, like a backdoor effect on your on your kids, right
38:15
it's just going to be interesting how this unfolds to me when we're when you're
38:22
talking now, I'm like, seeing this makes a difference if it'll make a
38:27
difference in this lifetime, but it will make a difference in our next lifetime
38:30
together, because it'll be the flow will be different. There will be more
38:32
compassionate understanding and more love from the get go because we're going through we're and
38:37
we're learning so much more information. We don't lose that information. We're here
38:42
having an experience and we're gaining so much knowledge to be in this experience,
38:45
we're expanding, and it's recognizing from this experience that we can we can stay
38:52
and we could be the commercent curmudgeon and and be unhappy all the time,
38:54
and we'll still be that way in spirit, and we'll still be that way
38:58
we come into the next lifetime, or we can recognize how much we're evolving,
39:02
because we're evolving so much that we may not see it all from this
39:07
lifetime, but we're gonna see it in our next lifetime when we all come
39:09
back together. Because I believe that we do come together as in our same
39:14
spirit families because we have growth, but we also get to see how much
39:17
we've grown because a lot of the stuff we're carrying, Like I see my
39:22
grandson, he matches, so he and I'm reading information. So I tell
39:27
people kind of you don't have to believe in signs and all that stuff and
39:30
the horoscopes and all that stuff, but look at some of the descriptions of
39:36
things and see what information kind of gives you a kind of a map or
39:39
a layout of that child or that person that you have in your experience,
39:44
because that gives you an idea of how to Oh oh, so he's super
39:47
sensitive, Like I'm seeing that he's sensitive, and he in words matter and
39:52
it's black and white, and it's need structure and like all these certain things.
39:55
And he's the earth stegn just like I am. So it's like we
39:59
understand each other and diferent way that maybe mom's a water sign and maybe she's
40:02
gonna be maybe it's a little bit different for her. She's a lot more
40:05
emotion. But he has a tendency because he's sensitive to match the energies that
40:08
are around him. And so I'm trying because I'm learning. So what you
40:14
what you've taught me before, teach what you want to know, right teach
40:16
what you want to have an understanding of it doesn't mean and because as you're
40:21
doing it, you learn while you're doing these things. So I'm teaching him
40:23
and I get to learn at the same time. So it's my opportunity.
40:28
I can or I can't, or I can be looking at it from a
40:30
control perspective, But from my perspective, I'm just like, well, you
40:34
can be miserable right now. I'm going to be over here, so whenever
40:37
you whenever you want to come play, I'll be sitting over here and I'm
40:40
and we don't know until we know. So it's like I've been going on
40:43
to Instagram, so Instagram nicely. It's been putting up videos of how parents
40:49
talk to kids and and what they're hearing, and it's and it's the same
40:51
thing that I think we started talking about it like last year or whenever.
40:54
It's like redefining what the what the words mean, or changing the like you
41:00
said, pivot. I like that. I like that a lot because I
41:02
don't I don't have any emotional attachment to that word. I don't have any
41:07
I don't have any defensiveness to that word. You know, there's nothing there.
41:10
So it's like it's really recognizing a lot of that stuff then and choosing
41:14
to talk to them a little bit differently instead of saying, well, you
41:16
can't have that right now. Well, right now it's this time, but
41:20
maybe we can have the opportunity for that later on. It's your choice.
41:24
Well we can go to that birthday party when you decide to go ahead and
41:28
get ready, and then we'll go at that time. It's instead of us
41:30
being like, we need to go right now, it's time. No,
41:34
we'll just we'll either show up late to the birthday party because we're putting the
41:37
choice into their hands instead of us being adults and then not knowing how to
41:42
make choices, not knowing how to move forward because we're looking for someone to
41:45
tell us what to do. Well, my mom's not here to tell me
41:47
what to do anymore, not in a physical plane, right she's not.
41:52
And I have leaned on that. There's been so many times I wanted to
41:54
go back and have a conversation with her or ask her about things or or
42:00
whatever. But it's come I had the question, and that's leaning on something
42:04
else. But now I've got the question inside of me, and that question
42:07
has I've asked, and then the information maybe it shows up from Instagram,
42:10
maybe it shows up for Mame, maybe it shows up from Freeman, or
42:14
maybe it shows up for my grandkids or even my daughters, you know,
42:17
or or a conversation I overhear it at Safeway, you know what I mean.
42:22
It's like all these things. So it's we man, This conversation has
42:24
just gone all over, covering so much stuff. Spirit's fricking awesome, That's
42:30
all I can say. Because Spirit gives us so much information to share because
42:35
I all I do, and I say Spirit, but it's like it's God,
42:37
really, because everything is God. That's just me. That's where I'm
42:42
at, unapologetically. It's just the way it is nice and I love it.
42:47
Well. The other thing I think about with your grandson, because he
42:50
has a little brother now, right, Yes, yeah, we love whatever.
42:53
He's whatever. You're the older grandson is learning right now the effect that
43:00
we'll have on his little brother, yes, and that him by learning these
43:05
tools that Grandma is sharing with him, he's going to share that with his
43:09
little brother as he's experiencing these different things, and and that just the ripple
43:16
effect. And like you said, it's not it's it's affecting now, but
43:21
the ripple effect of generations to come that we're shifting that and being a piece
43:28
of that momentum. Yeah, it just like it just gets me excited.
43:37
I just like what I just you know, then it makes you just want
43:39
to live forever just to see how that unfolds. But I mean we do
43:42
live forever in a different way. We will be biliness to it in a
43:45
different way, but just to I know, we'll be around long enough to
43:52
why I feel like we will be around long enough to see or hear about
43:59
some of those moments where about their interactions together, So that'll be interesting and
44:06
uh fun to witness. Yeah, it's awesome. It's all of It's awesome.
44:14
All of our nowl is right because for me, everything is right now.
44:16
Everything, everything that we're doing is right now, all on our what
44:22
we perceive as our past, our future, our other selves. It's all
44:27
right now, all of it. And it's like our kids, Like I
44:30
look at our kids, there are just more aspects of us because we're all
44:34
aspects of God. Right, So it's like we're all how can we be
44:37
mad or angry? It's just allowing them to be in that space because I
44:42
can I can think, gosh, how did my mom? How did my
44:45
mom handle me? Seriously? Really, because there was so much and thankfully
44:51
I never hurt anybody physically. I mean never to the point where they there
44:54
was no comeback or whatever from things, because I did get in some fights
44:58
when I was a kid, but it was that's what it is. Yeah,
45:05
it was quite a learning experience. I was on. Yeah, I
45:07
have a lot of anger at me so I my teenage years that was not
45:10
a pleasant person. And I can't even imagine what my mom wents there,
45:16
which is interesting. I see kids like at the ballpark and stuff like that,
45:20
and I see how some of the adults really like target or like kind
45:22
of come in and talk to them and guide them, and I and I
45:27
it's something that I could have used. I think you probably could have used.
45:30
So it's just making sure that don't give up on the kids, like
45:32
take the time to have a conversation with them, or take the time to
45:37
notice the things that you see in them that are so awesome and help that
45:39
grow because those things, man, that can keep a kid out of trouble,
45:45
that can change their I feel like it could have changed my whole process,
45:49
and it's not maybe something for me to happen in this lifetime, it'll
45:52
be something in another lifetime, because it's already we're already in that process.
45:55
You know, when you see other families and someone that's intuitive and mediumistic and
46:02
have all these natural abilities, they come into a family with parents and stuff
46:07
that have all those abilities too, so then they're able to grow through.
46:09
And I feel like the more that we shed a lot of the stuff,
46:13
and not saying that we all want to be mediums and everything like that,
46:15
but when we shed all the stuff, we allow such a different dynamics and
46:19
our flow and we get to be that which everybody else gets to view and
46:24
see how things could be different. So it's like it's an awesome thing.
46:29
And it's not because the work was never done. It's because the work was
46:31
done. It's because we did walk through it and we didn't kind of keep
46:34
stuffing it. We decided to look at the emotions and find out who we
46:38
really are and be our true authentic selves. Yeah, I think that's a
46:45
good place to leave this conversation. That was awesome, And as always,
46:53
our goal is to share this information, have these conversations these These are our
47:00
therapeutic sessions every week and it's for the benefit of Bev and I. It's
47:07
a it's a reminder for us, it's a it's a sharing of what's working
47:12
what's not working in our own lives. And then this these are recorded conversations
47:17
that are very organic, and we bring this to the public to see,
47:22
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47:27
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47:30
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47:36
that you felt that like in your heart, that this matters to me and
47:40
this is important for me to implement and the ideas to implement it, to
47:45
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47:49
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47:55
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49:01
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49:06
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49:10
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49:15
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49:21
words? Bev, have a magnificent week. Yes, all right, my
49:28
friends, thanks for hanging out with tea time with Amy and Bev, and
49:30
we will see you next time.