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- 1:23Speaker 2: Your hair is blonde. Yep, work looking nice?
- 1:27Speaker 1: Thank you? I did it, mysel.
- 1:30Speaker 2: What is the occasion?
- 1:32Speaker 1: I was bored. I was bored. I wanted some color.
- 1:37Speaker 1: It's about to be summertime. I'm trying to be summertime. Fine,
- 1:40Speaker 1: you know I heard you had a little bit of
- 1:43Speaker 1: blonde and go hurt nobody.
- 1:45Speaker 2: We have more, so let's start this podcast. See, I'll
- 1:49Speaker 2: be trying to stay up with the like the news,
- 1:52Speaker 2: but this ain't Joe Grandma on them news, nor is
- 1:54Speaker 2: it their news cycle. This news be changing and evolving,
- 1:59Speaker 2: clicking and pokemon like. It's like you get a story
- 2:02Speaker 2: and before you've even had an opportunity to really unpack it,
- 2:04Speaker 2: something else more ridiculous has shown up.
- 2:07Speaker 1: Wow.
- 2:07Speaker 2: So we're doing our best to unpack the latest and
- 2:10Speaker 2: greatest with y'all and yet another week of w r
- 2:13Speaker 2: TR Real Talk Radio. Thanks for joining our black asses again.
- 2:16Speaker 2: I'm Lyric Bravado's ball headed.
- 2:18Speaker 1: Friend and I'm Marcus Smooth's blonde and black friend.
- 2:23Speaker 2: Hail, that is a nice mix. I don't think I've
- 2:26Speaker 2: ever seen you with your hair like that in person.
- 2:29Speaker 2: That would be very nice to see that. You make
- 2:33Speaker 2: it work with.
- 2:34Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't. Yeah, outfits is coming coming.
- 2:40Speaker 2: I did get to see you in person though last week.
- 2:43Speaker 1: Guess it was so fun.
- 2:45Speaker 2: It was We've got to I got to go outside.
- 2:49Speaker 2: I've got to go outside in the one.
- 2:51Speaker 1: Yeah, we definitely, we've we've been to start going outside.
- 2:55Speaker 2: We have to because that'sh It was fun and just
- 2:58Speaker 2: the memories and the ship. I know why people forget
- 3:02Speaker 2: so many things now, It's because life be life and
- 3:06Speaker 2: you don't always like just have those moments to sit
- 3:09Speaker 2: down with people that you roll with and reflect. So, yeah,
- 3:12Speaker 2: I appreciate that time with your friend.
- 3:15Speaker 1: Me too. I want to take a weekend trip though.
- 3:18Speaker 1: We gotta do. We got to go to New Orleans.
- 3:20Speaker 2: The Orleans. Yes, what they're doing down there?
- 3:24Speaker 1: I just want to eat. They got boot in and
- 3:28Speaker 1: I want it and it's expensive to order on Amazon,
- 3:31Speaker 1: so I might as well go and get it and
- 3:33Speaker 1: bring it back.
- 3:35Speaker 2: What's your movement like? All week?
- 3:38Speaker 1: My mood has been relief, A sense of relief. Educationally
- 3:49Speaker 1: no okay, Financially okay. Monetarily yeah, sense of relief. I'm good,
- 4:00Speaker 1: better about a lot of things, and I'm glad that
- 4:06Speaker 1: you know the stuff that I was, you know that
- 4:08Speaker 1: I can't talk about because I didn't sign some shit.
- 4:12Speaker 1: It's over. It's over, and I can move on with
- 4:16Speaker 1: my life and flourish and be outside. Yeah, traveling like
- 4:23Speaker 1: a motherfucker.
- 4:25Speaker 2: Yeah, calm down, calm down, plane still falling out the skygirl,
- 4:29Speaker 2: I need you here.
- 4:30Speaker 1: I'm gonna say a few prayers to my Lord and
- 4:34Speaker 1: Savior Jesus Christ, and he's gonna cover that tie a
- 4:37Speaker 1: plane and I'm gonna be a okay. Well shit, I'm
- 4:41Speaker 1: more worried about the maniac ho almost hit me with
- 4:44Speaker 1: his damn car today. But these people be driving like
- 4:46Speaker 1: that side of hell. I ain't gonna lie.
- 4:49Speaker 2: I feel you. I feel you. They do, and it's
- 4:51Speaker 2: about to get worse because it's single to my weekend.
- 4:54Speaker 2: Oh my god, listen, this has been for me. I
- 4:59Speaker 2: guess another reflective week and I started paying more attention
- 5:03Speaker 2: to the kind of media that I take in. Yeah,
- 5:07Speaker 2: it was actually Bonnie. Shout out to my friend Bonnie
- 5:09Speaker 2: that started dissecting songs and shit, and she was like, yes,
- 5:15Speaker 2: what the fuck are we listening to? So she had
- 5:18Speaker 2: me cracking up. She was again, I went out this week,
- 5:21Speaker 2: so she had me cracking up. She was like, Joe
- 5:23Speaker 2: really said, I'll make your body cream with my sex machine.
- 5:27Speaker 2: I won't stop until I hear your mother scream.
- 5:30Speaker 1: We were singing it loud to like we gave zero
- 5:33Speaker 1: FUCKX about who heard us when that song came out? Yeah,
- 5:37Speaker 1: what do you talk about?
- 5:38Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 5:38Speaker 2: And then I'm sitting here, you know, at work, I
- 5:40Speaker 2: be you know all day, every day I'm in my
- 5:43Speaker 2: headphones at work. So the song comes across and follow
- 5:47Speaker 2: me this on this one all right, ooh ooh, ooh ooh.
- 5:51Speaker 2: Balloons are deflated. Guess they look lifeless like me. We
- 5:58Speaker 2: miss you on your side of the bed, who still
- 6:02Speaker 2: got your things here? And they stare at me like souvenirs.
- 6:07Speaker 2: Don't want to let you out? In my head, somebody's
- 6:10Speaker 2: singing right now, just like the day that I met you,
- 6:14Speaker 2: the day I thought forever said that you loved me,
- 6:19Speaker 2: but that'll last forever. It's cold outside, like when you
- 6:24Speaker 2: walked out my life. Why you walk out my life?
- 6:28Speaker 2: I I get like this every time on these days
- 6:35Speaker 2: I feel like you need me heartbreak anniversary, because I
- 6:42Speaker 2: remember every time on these days you feel like you
- 6:46Speaker 2: and me heart break Anniversary. Do you ever think of me.
- 6:51Speaker 1: I don't know who the heartbreak anniversary? Now, who sang that?
- 6:57Speaker 2: You know? Giveon right heartbreak Anniversary?
- 7:02Speaker 1: I've never heard that song and day in my life.
- 7:04Speaker 2: I'm you have heard the song lyrics?
- 7:06Speaker 1: Have never heard heard this song?
- 7:09Speaker 2: Okay, you know what here? I am sending you the
- 7:12Speaker 2: link you heard.
- 7:15Speaker 1: No, because you know why a long time I went
- 7:19Speaker 1: without a radio in the car too. When you go out,
- 7:24Speaker 1: you get used to not hearing stuff. So I really
- 7:26Speaker 1: am not up on new stuff unless I'm like searching
- 7:29Speaker 1: for it.
- 7:30Speaker 2: I'm listening to these lyrics and then I go and
- 7:33Speaker 2: I read them back. I'm like, WHOA, that's not we
- 7:38Speaker 2: probably shouldn't be watching or listening to that kind of ship.
- 7:41Speaker 1: So that sounds anywhere. It sounds like a serial killer.
- 7:45Speaker 1: But anyway, most of them songs did, he said, Jo
- 7:48Speaker 1: sitting there talking about I like your mama scream Come
- 7:51Speaker 1: on now, really, why is she involved?
- 7:55Speaker 2: Like? Why is she involved in any of them?
- 7:58Speaker 1: Do not question in life.
- 8:00Speaker 2: It's crazy what you got as far as who you
- 8:03Speaker 2: want to be like when you grow up.
- 8:05Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you asked, because I've been waiting
- 8:09Speaker 1: to say this all week because I found this last Sunday.
- 8:12Speaker 1: All right, so I want to be like Chemisola Barlowe
- 8:17Speaker 1: renwa ooh she ate me up.
- 8:20Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
- 8:21Speaker 1: She is a Nigerian robotics and systems engineer who's developed
- 8:27Speaker 1: invadive smart Brawl designed to detect early signs of breast cancer.
- 8:34Speaker 2: What teddy check and brast Yeah.
- 8:37Speaker 1: Yeah. This was inspired by her loss of her mom,
- 8:41Speaker 1: who had advanced breast cancer in twenty seventeen, and so
- 8:46Speaker 1: she established next Where Technologies, which is Nigeria's pioneering wearable
- 8:51Speaker 1: tech startup. And that's what she's doing. Like it's able
- 8:56Speaker 1: to identify potential tumors in just thirty minutes of wow,
- 9:01Speaker 1: which is dope.
- 9:03Speaker 2: That's more than dope I want. Okay, so does it
- 9:05Speaker 2: like have you seen it?
- 9:07Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a picture of it.
- 9:09Speaker 2: So does it like connect to your iPhone or something
- 9:11Speaker 2: and be like actual brawl?
- 9:13Speaker 1: Okay, it's an actual you probably can't.
- 9:17Speaker 2: I see it a little bit. Yeah I can't. Okay.
- 9:20Speaker 1: So it looks like that and you put it on
- 9:23Speaker 1: and it tells us there's why am I touching my titties?
- 9:27Speaker 1: But I mean, you have tumors in your breast?
- 9:31Speaker 2: So Okay, but like, how does it tell you? I guess,
- 9:33Speaker 2: I mean, does it like airshoot you?
- 9:36Speaker 1: I guess the sensors those little metal rings that look
- 9:39Speaker 1: like coins, those are like the little sensors, and so
- 9:42Speaker 1: everything is connected to a computer or so they're able
- 9:47Speaker 1: to detect that.
- 9:49Speaker 2: So okay, that's cool. It really is. That sounds dope.
- 9:54Speaker 2: So given the current state of affairs, and you know what,
- 9:57Speaker 2: the Trump administration isn't even trying to high anymore, it's
- 10:01Speaker 2: kind of important to me now more than ever that
- 10:04Speaker 2: we lift up some of our black leaders and the
- 10:06Speaker 2: spaces meant for them. So that being said, when I
- 10:10Speaker 2: grow up, I want to be like Supreme Court Justice
- 10:13Speaker 2: paa Or good Wine. Last month, she was formally sworn
- 10:18Speaker 2: in as the first black woman to serve on the
- 10:20Speaker 2: Supreme Court of Kentucky, marking a historic smilestone and the
- 10:25Speaker 2: state's judicial history in Kentucky. Two For y'all West Virginia
- 10:29Speaker 2: friends listening, I know y'all know what I mean. So
- 10:33Speaker 2: the oath was administered by Chief Justice Laurent B. Van
- 10:37Speaker 2: Meter amidst a gathering that included notable figures such as
- 10:41Speaker 2: Governor Andy Fasher, Justice good Wine, whose journey to this
- 10:45Speaker 2: esteemed position took forty five years. Shared her life story
- 10:50Speaker 2: during her interview, emphasizing resilience and the importance of pursuing
- 10:56Speaker 2: one's dream despite adversity. So again, I say that given
- 11:02Speaker 2: what this administration is doing, it's good to see black
- 11:06Speaker 2: people that have been leading for years finally getting put
- 11:09Speaker 2: into the positions to where we can get certain things done.
- 11:13Speaker 2: We can get things moving because far too like right now,
- 11:17Speaker 2: it's too many of the wrong people in power, and
- 11:20Speaker 2: we see that now more than ever. So it's important
- 11:26Speaker 2: just on an individual basis, that we do what we
- 11:29Speaker 2: can to elevate and get those people into positions that
- 11:34Speaker 2: they need to be right now. We need leaders. We
- 11:36Speaker 2: don't need a bunch of posers. Posers is what guy's
- 11:39Speaker 2: here pretty much. Anyways, I sent you that song as
- 11:44Speaker 2: a matter of fact. You know what, if it were
- 11:46Speaker 2: lyrics up next, then you got opportunity to listen. You
- 11:51Speaker 2: heard the song.
- 11:53Speaker 5: So yesterday Bernie Sanders held a rally, a May Day
- 11:57Speaker 5: rally in Philadelphia. It was a rally for work, migrant workers,
- 12:01Speaker 5: for immigrants, basically anybody who was against the administration and
- 12:06Speaker 5: Trump right Amongst the thousands of people that were there
- 12:09Speaker 5: in protest, thousands of white people, by the way. Thousands
- 12:14Speaker 5: of white people by the way. Right, there were about
- 12:17Speaker 5: seventy people arrested. Guess what majority of those people that
- 12:20Speaker 5: were arrested were the few, the few black people who
- 12:25Speaker 5: were out there. Although I have personally stressed time and
- 12:29Speaker 5: time again, please do not go out into the roads,
- 12:31Speaker 5: don't go in the streets, do not protest, because I
- 12:35Speaker 5: have a feeling you will be sought after. Although I
- 12:38Speaker 5: have preached this multiple times on my platform, there's still
- 12:42Speaker 5: some of us who feel passionately enough and want to
- 12:45Speaker 5: go out there, and so they did, and because of
- 12:48Speaker 5: that they were arrested.
- 12:50Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 12:51Speaker 6: A lot going on behind me, Yeah, a lot going on,
- 12:54Speaker 6: Fred right now. Some of the protesters got a warning twice.
- 13:00Speaker 1: Is being walked, being.
- 13:02Speaker 6: Put in sip ties and being led away over to
- 13:06Speaker 6: a boss that's over there.
- 13:09Speaker 5: There's another arrest.
- 13:10Speaker 1: What's going on right now? That's not the same anything
- 13:13Speaker 1: to say? No solidarity?
- 13:17Speaker 4: Was it?
- 13:18Speaker 1: Is it worth it to be to make a stand
- 13:20Speaker 1: like this?
- 13:21Speaker 2: Solidarity forever?
- 13:23Speaker 5: The reporter asked her was it worth making a stance
- 13:27Speaker 5: like this? And her response was solidarity forever. Where are
- 13:30Speaker 5: the white allies?
- 13:34Speaker 2: Where are they?
- 13:35Speaker 5: Why weren't they shielding her? Why did y'all let her
- 13:39Speaker 5: get them, not even just her? Why did y'all let
- 13:42Speaker 5: them get arrested so easily? Why wasn't any commotion being made?
- 13:46Speaker 5: Where's the solidarity?
- 13:49Speaker 1: Hmm? Where is it?
- 13:52Speaker 5: And this is why I don't want any of my people.
- 13:55Speaker 5: I don't want anybody who is of color going out there.
- 14:00Speaker 5: I don't want you out there. I don't want you
- 14:03Speaker 5: out there because we will say solidarity, we will ask
- 14:08Speaker 5: for peace, we will ask for union, but then when
- 14:14Speaker 5: we expect for it to be returned, crickets, fucking crickets.
- 14:20Speaker 1: And don't tell me, oh.
- 14:21Speaker 5: Why you gotta make everything about race. That crowd was
- 14:23Speaker 5: filled with thousands of white people, thousands of white people,
- 14:29Speaker 5: yet they managed to find two black women to put
- 14:31Speaker 5: in zip ties and to parade in front of the
- 14:33Speaker 5: reporters and the cameras stop playing in my face?
- 14:37Speaker 3: Maybe what you should be, but definitely she would.
- 14:48Speaker 1: Now Now I heard that, No, I've never heard that.
- 14:51Speaker 1: It sounds like AI.
- 14:54Speaker 2: What do you mean it sounds it.
- 14:56Speaker 1: Sounds like AI. It sounds like those videos that people
- 15:00Speaker 1: post on Instagram of Patrick and SpongeBob sringing all these
- 15:05Speaker 1: R and B secular songs and then they put it
- 15:08Speaker 1: to their voice. That's what it sounds like. I've never
- 15:10Speaker 1: heard this song a day in my life. I don't
- 15:14Speaker 1: like it here with the lyrics, I hate it.
- 15:22Speaker 2: Well, if it were lyrics, and I'm assuming if it
- 15:27Speaker 2: were you, you wouldn't put that nut shit out.
- 15:30Speaker 1: No, sir, Sorry, I'm just saying, I'm so sorry. I
- 15:35Speaker 1: did not I did not like it, but I'm sure
- 15:38Speaker 1: you know everybody has an audience. But I'm best with
- 15:44Speaker 1: my segment if it were a lyric where I discuss
- 15:49Speaker 1: all you all stories that you send me about relationship
- 15:52Speaker 1: situationship and friendship advice, and I get my two cents
- 15:55Speaker 1: about it. You want to continue to send me these stories,
- 15:58Speaker 1: please send them to my email at Leprovido at gmail
- 16:01Speaker 1: dot com. Let's go ahead and get started so I
- 16:04Speaker 1: can get that song out of my head. All right,
- 16:11Speaker 1: let's see, do you have one for me? Do you
- 16:13Speaker 1: want me to go?
- 16:14Speaker 2: I got you? This one says, dear Okay, where'd we go? Here?
- 16:18Speaker 1: We go?
- 16:19Speaker 2: Let me push that over there? All right, dear lyric,
- 16:23Speaker 2: Hope you're both doing good? I too, am a student
- 16:26Speaker 2: and not certain where you are with your studies. But girl,
- 16:29Speaker 2: I'm almost done. I am studying music and business management myself,
- 16:34Speaker 2: and I'm just trying to get some ideas going. I
- 16:37Speaker 2: haven't really made any industry contacts other than local folks,
- 16:41Speaker 2: and it's hard to figure out where I can jump
- 16:43Speaker 2: in and get the best start. My studies are online,
- 16:47Speaker 2: so I don't typically feel comfortable telling folks my business.
- 16:49Speaker 2: But if it were you, where would you start as
- 16:53Speaker 2: a good place to network after graduation. I'm not trying
- 16:56Speaker 2: to be the next person whose dreams are shattered behind
- 16:59Speaker 2: poor connection with love Black Ellie.
- 17:02Speaker 1: May Well, Hello Ellie may And since you asked, I
- 17:07Speaker 1: am in the middle of what seems to be my
- 17:10Speaker 1: sophomore year because I'm in an accelerated program. So it
- 17:16Speaker 1: just depends on what your goals and life are. Do
- 17:20Speaker 1: you want to work for a company. Do you want
- 17:22Speaker 1: to work independently and start your own business? I'm not sure.
- 17:29Speaker 1: One thing that we actually started doing for my course
- 17:33Speaker 1: this month is we started working on our LinkedIn profiles.
- 17:40Speaker 1: I've never had one. I really didn't care to have one.
- 17:44Speaker 1: I just didn't until you know, they started teaching us
- 17:48Speaker 1: that that's how you can get the majority of your
- 17:50Speaker 1: connections these days, and not only entertainment but other industries
- 17:56Speaker 1: as well. Wow, all of the professionals are on LinkedIn,
- 18:00Speaker 1: and my professor showed an example of you know, when
- 18:05Speaker 1: her started and up until now, and she was gradually
- 18:08Speaker 1: able to make a lot of connections on her LinkedIn page.
- 18:12Speaker 1: And so it is very important to have some type
- 18:15Speaker 1: of professional platform to promote yourself because even though you
- 18:20Speaker 1: don't want to get on there and tell your business,
- 18:22Speaker 1: you're going to have to tell something to get somebody
- 18:24Speaker 1: interested in working with you, regardless if it's for another
- 18:29Speaker 1: company or you want to own your own business. So
- 18:33Speaker 1: that's one of the things that I would recommend doing.
- 18:37Speaker 1: Start doing a LinkedIn page and then go from there
- 18:40Speaker 1: if you want to start doing the process of building
- 18:44Speaker 1: your own website perhaps and saying what you offer and
- 18:48Speaker 1: putting your experiences people who view worked with projects that
- 18:53Speaker 1: you've worked on on the website to give somebody a
- 18:56Speaker 1: sort of an idea of what it's like to work
- 18:59Speaker 1: with you, profess and what you're capable of. That would
- 19:02Speaker 1: be my advice to start with. Okay, I hope that helped.
- 19:10Speaker 2: That was informative because I didn't even think about it.
- 19:12Speaker 2: But I've had LinkedIn for years. But I guess because
- 19:16Speaker 2: I had that job so long I was I never
- 19:18Speaker 2: updated it myself. Yeah, I just been sitting there. Yeah
- 19:23Speaker 2: I think I put you know this as my profession.
- 19:26Speaker 2: But yeah, wow, good advice.
- 19:29Speaker 1: Thank you. This one. This next one's a little spicy.
- 19:32Speaker 1: So I wanted to say this last all right, and
- 19:35Speaker 1: it reads, Hey, look, my name is Daniel, and I
- 19:41Speaker 1: need some help. My wife wants an open relationship and
- 19:46Speaker 1: she sprung this on me about a week ago. She
- 19:49Speaker 1: wants us, or rather her, to see other people as
- 19:53Speaker 1: much as I can. We got married, built a house,
- 19:58Speaker 1: made a family, the whole deal. During her first and
- 20:00Speaker 1: second pregnancy, I didn't want to have sex because it
- 20:03Speaker 1: felt weird. After her having a massive birthing injury, we
- 20:09Speaker 1: couldn't have sex for almost two years. Then we started
- 20:12Speaker 1: again and I still felt the same. Now she has
- 20:16Speaker 1: healed and my sex drive has gone down. I'm not
- 20:20Speaker 1: sure why. Maybe it's a neurological diagnosis or something else.
- 20:25Speaker 1: I'm very attracted to her and I want to have
- 20:27Speaker 1: sex with her, but something always kills my mojo. And
- 20:31Speaker 1: she's tried almost every approach known to me. Now she
- 20:35Speaker 1: springs to me that she wants to go outside of
- 20:38Speaker 1: our marriage for her sexual needs, and I'm blown away.
- 20:41Speaker 1: I can't fathom being with her if she does this.
- 20:43Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to touch her if another man touches
- 20:46Speaker 1: her as well. To me, it's disgusting. I'm not judging
- 20:51Speaker 1: others in open relationships. You do what you do, but
- 20:54Speaker 1: that's not something down for. She thinks this is great
- 20:57Speaker 1: for us, and she'll get what she needs and she
- 20:59Speaker 1: can still have a loving marriage. The way I see it,
- 21:02Speaker 1: were at a point where I see three outcomes, divorce
- 21:04Speaker 1: and sput our family. I let her do her thing,
- 21:07Speaker 1: but I'll be miserable and can never look at her again.
- 21:10Speaker 1: Or I forbid her from doing this and she is miserable. Instead,
- 21:14Speaker 1: I'm putting my foot down and asking how can she
- 21:18Speaker 1: do this to our family? She answers with me being
- 21:21Speaker 1: controlling and manipulating me for telling her this will put
- 21:24Speaker 1: everything in danger, and I have a hard time seeing
- 21:26Speaker 1: a future for us if she goes through with this.
- 21:29Speaker 1: What should I do? Good lord man, Good grief man. Yeah,
- 21:39Speaker 1: that's a lot of things in one. First things first,
- 21:44Speaker 1: let's address the situation of how you're feeling about having
- 21:50Speaker 1: sex with her. You have to take into consideration the
- 21:54Speaker 1: amount of stress that a woman's body goes through during
- 21:58Speaker 1: pregnancy and childbirth. Our bodies changed tremendously. Not only do
- 22:02Speaker 1: our bodies change, our brain changes as well. So things
- 22:07Speaker 1: may feel a little different after she's healed. And plus
- 22:09Speaker 1: she went through that injury, as you said. But one
- 22:13Speaker 1: of the things that you can still do, if you're
- 22:16Speaker 1: open to it and she is open to it, is
- 22:18Speaker 1: try sex therapist. The reason why I said that is
- 22:21Speaker 1: because not only will they work on your mental because
- 22:25Speaker 1: sex is a mental thing. If your mental is not right,
- 22:27Speaker 1: you're not going to be stimulated enough to do the
- 22:28Speaker 1: physical app right. So I would recommend first before you
- 22:33Speaker 1: go do drastic measures and the you know, bring in
- 22:38Speaker 1: somebody in and she doing her thing, try therapy first.
- 22:43Speaker 1: It sounds like y'all have y'all been together for a
- 22:45Speaker 1: long time, you know, you then started a family, this, that,
- 22:48Speaker 1: and the third. I think some things can be fixed
- 22:52Speaker 1: with proper therapy. But if you see that therapy is
- 22:55Speaker 1: not working for you, then do the extra step. But
- 22:57Speaker 1: y'all skipping steps here. You're skipping steps. I would recommend
- 23:01Speaker 1: specifically a sex therapist because you'll get out of your
- 23:04Speaker 1: own brain. She'll be able to express herself into why
- 23:09Speaker 1: she feels the way that she wants to do whatever
- 23:11Speaker 1: she is. She'll be able to hear you know your
- 23:14Speaker 1: side of things, and you'll have someone in the middle
- 23:16Speaker 1: who can mediate and you know, help you all get
- 23:19Speaker 1: through it. If you don't feel comfortable doing it as
- 23:22Speaker 1: a couple, try it separately first, at least offer that
- 23:26Speaker 1: if you feel as though that's not something that you
- 23:29Speaker 1: want to do or she would be open to, then
- 23:33Speaker 1: by all means, I would not want to see anybody
- 23:35Speaker 1: stay in a miserable place. Just go your separate ways
- 23:40Speaker 1: and then learn to co parent. But if the love
- 23:43Speaker 1: is there and you've set the foundation and you feel
- 23:45Speaker 1: as though that this is not a major deal breaker
- 23:48Speaker 1: for you and you think that you can work through it,
- 23:51Speaker 1: try sex therapists first. Try sex therapist first, first, and foremost.
- 23:55Speaker 1: And that's really what I would suggest, honestly, honestly, no
- 24:00Speaker 1: cheating has been involved. She didn't lie to you about
- 24:03Speaker 1: how she felt, she was very open. I would just
- 24:05Speaker 1: get somebody else involved to kind of give you all
- 24:09Speaker 1: kind of an idea of how to go about things
- 24:14Speaker 1: so you both can be happy if you want to
- 24:16Speaker 1: stay in this marriage. And that is all that I
- 24:19Speaker 1: have for you today. See you guys next week where
- 24:23Speaker 1: I will give you more.
- 24:24Speaker 2: All right, trolling the timeline, Let's go up next.
- 24:29Speaker 7: Here are five things your boss should never say to you.
- 24:32Speaker 7: One your boss should never tell you that you should
- 24:34Speaker 7: be grateful to have your job. Not only is that
- 24:37Speaker 7: language demeaning and dismissive, but it sends a bigger message.
- 24:41Speaker 7: You're basically being told that you are not valued in
- 24:44Speaker 7: your position in the work that you do, is not
- 24:47Speaker 7: appreciate it. Number two is just figure it out. Having
- 24:51Speaker 7: independence in your role is important. However, an employee should
- 24:56Speaker 7: never be thrown into a situation without guidance and support.
- 25:02Speaker 7: Employees should feel comfortable asking their manager for help and
- 25:06Speaker 7: be confident that they are going to receive the support
- 25:10Speaker 7: needed to succeed. There is nothing worse than an employee
- 25:14Speaker 7: that feels unsupported in their role. Number three, your manager
- 25:19Speaker 7: should never tell you that it's not their problem. When
- 25:22Speaker 7: an employee raises a legitimate concern to their manager, it
- 25:27Speaker 7: is their problem. An effective leader takes responsibility for each
- 25:32Speaker 7: of their employees well being. Not to mention. Issues that
- 25:37Speaker 7: concern employees also concern leadership. And if you tell them
- 25:41Speaker 7: it's not your problem, you can almost guarantee that it's
- 25:45Speaker 7: going to be the problem of your superior or somehow
- 25:51Speaker 7: they're going to report it to HR. Then it's becoming
- 25:54Speaker 7: a big problem when it probably didn't have to be.
- 25:57Speaker 7: Number four, A manager should never tell an EMPLOYEROYE, we've
- 26:00Speaker 7: always done it this way. Why because innovation is critical
- 26:05Speaker 7: to growth. So when you say we've always done it
- 26:08Speaker 7: this way, that's a way of telling the employee, well,
- 26:11Speaker 7: we're not going to try anything new. That phrase also
- 26:14Speaker 7: stifles creativity and diversity of thought. A manager should always
- 26:19Speaker 7: consider new approaches. Be flexible, be adaptable, be agile, and
- 26:25Speaker 7: evolve whenever possible. Once a manager stifles creativity, the team
- 26:31Speaker 7: is no longer competitive. And five, a manager that says
- 26:35Speaker 7: I don't care how you do it, just get it
- 26:37Speaker 7: done should be very careful. Why should they be careful
- 26:42Speaker 7: because that phrase can be taken two different ways. I
- 26:46Speaker 7: had a manager say that to me, but they were
- 26:48Speaker 7: saying it to give me autonomy over my project. They
- 26:52Speaker 7: didn't care how I did it, do what I wanted
- 26:54Speaker 7: to do, just get it done. But if a manager
- 26:57Speaker 7: says that to you in a condescending way, with a
- 27:00Speaker 7: lack of empathy and dismissing the complexities that you are
- 27:05Speaker 7: facing while working on this project, that's a problem. They
- 27:09Speaker 7: are dismissing your concerns and being disrespectful. Instead, they should
- 27:13Speaker 7: be fostering a culture of trust, collaboration, in supporting you
- 27:18Speaker 7: in any way that they can. Hopefully managers are not
- 27:22Speaker 7: using these phrases, but if they are, I hope it's
- 27:25Speaker 7: the exception and not the rule.
- 27:30Speaker 2: On the break your sun, his voice is deep.
- 27:35Speaker 1: Yeah, his birthday is May ninth, next week, he's about
- 27:38Speaker 1: to be seventeen. He's about to graduate next year, and
- 27:41Speaker 1: I am screaming on the inside because I'm not ready.
- 27:45Speaker 1: My oldest is about to be twenty two, and baby
- 27:48Speaker 1: girl is going to be fourteen in October? Like can
- 27:52Speaker 1: all as adult?
- 27:55Speaker 2: Wow? Where did this time go? They were supposed to
- 27:58Speaker 2: be like little.
- 28:00Speaker 1: Mind you, My daughter's bigger than me, Like she's a
- 28:02Speaker 1: whole like five foot eight or nine, stocky, Like I can't.
- 28:07Speaker 1: I can't deal with it. I can't deal with it,
- 28:09Speaker 1: Like y'all got to chill the time, I'm moving way
- 28:12Speaker 1: too freaking fast, and I don't like it.
- 28:14Speaker 2: Oh man, I cannot believe that your children are so mature.
- 28:20Speaker 2: This is crazy, all right, So let's talk about people
- 28:23Speaker 2: that ain't mature. Time control the timeline.
- 28:27Speaker 1: Indeed, I've got too in kind of a half.
- 28:34Speaker 2: How many you got a big week?
- 28:36Speaker 3: Okay?
- 28:37Speaker 2: So okay, I got an update about y'all's nasty as
- 28:43Speaker 2: aunt cl So according to ESPN, a site that you know,
- 28:48Speaker 2: I'm never wrong because spot. But according to ESPN, Shannon Sharp,
- 28:54Speaker 2: a Pro Football Hall of Hall of Fame tight end
- 28:59Speaker 2: and ESPN host, said Thursday he would step away from
- 29:04Speaker 2: his TV duties after a Nevada woman sued him for
- 29:07Speaker 2: sexual assault and battery in a Nevada civil courts. He says,
- 29:12Speaker 2: quote at this junction, I'm electing to step aside temporarily
- 29:16Speaker 2: for my ESPN duties, Sharp said. In the statement, he says, quote,
- 29:21Speaker 2: I will be devoting this time to my family and
- 29:24Speaker 2: responding and dealing with these false and disruptive allegations set
- 29:27Speaker 2: against me. I plan to return to ESPN at the
- 29:31Speaker 2: start of the NFL preseason end quote. You know he
- 29:34Speaker 2: did not write any of this. Somebody wrote diagram. Anyways.
- 29:38Speaker 2: ESPN also offered a statement saying, quote, this is a
- 29:43Speaker 2: serious situation and we agree with Shannon's decision to step
- 29:47Speaker 2: away end quote. Based off of what we know about
- 29:51Speaker 2: half the nigga's own day, day and platform. We know
- 29:54Speaker 2: they don't give a shit about a nigga hitting a woman.
- 29:57Speaker 2: Hey done, But this got attention because it was a
- 29:59Speaker 2: whole like a woman, and here we.
- 30:01Speaker 1: Said, Wow, let me go ahead and piggyback that is.
- 30:06Speaker 2: I mean, come on, she was nineteen also, so I
- 30:08Speaker 2: mean it's not without warn so I mean, let's be realistic.
- 30:12Speaker 2: But still, if it had been somebody that was black,
- 30:15Speaker 2: we wouldn't have cared. But go ahead.
- 30:17Speaker 1: There is now a second victim.
- 30:19Speaker 2: Of course there is, because now he got probably Tony Busby.
- 30:23Speaker 2: After Tony Busby suiting the hell out. I was like, Nah,
- 30:27Speaker 2: I don't know if it's Tony Busby, but who is that?
- 30:30Speaker 1: I don't know if I believe that one, though.
- 30:32Speaker 2: She looks a little out of Shannon's. Uh, I don't
- 30:36Speaker 2: know if I believe that one.
- 30:38Speaker 1: But her name is Michelle Bundy Evans, and she opened
- 30:42Speaker 1: up in an interview with the Sun about a sexual
- 30:46Speaker 1: assault allegation that she made against him in her lawsuit.
- 30:50Speaker 2: I found the word haggard. That's what she.
- 30:57Speaker 1: So. I think she's a little too aged as well.
- 31:03Speaker 2: Haggard. She looks haggard. And this is the thing. It's
- 31:06Speaker 2: like they're trying to spend the narrative, you know, it's like, oh, well,
- 31:09Speaker 2: no he I mean, yeah, he got caught up this
- 31:12Speaker 2: little young thing. But typically he likes his women old,
- 31:15Speaker 2: ancient white.
- 31:17Speaker 1: No he don't. He's always like a younger woman.
- 31:19Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 31:21Speaker 1: It's giving money grab, I'm.
- 31:23Speaker 2: Using, And that's all our opinion.
- 31:26Speaker 1: But she fouled this lawsuit December twenty twenty three, alleging
- 31:30Speaker 1: that the two got into an explosive fight. She also
- 31:34Speaker 1: claimed that he was controlling, he was dominating, and he
- 31:36Speaker 1: man handled her and when he wanted to have sex,
- 31:40Speaker 1: she told him. Now, I just don't know. That's why
- 31:44Speaker 1: it's so frustrating to me, because all of these people.
- 31:48Speaker 1: Anytime somebody comes out with with a lawsuit like this
- 31:52Speaker 1: and this nature, it's like the floodgates opens, and it
- 31:55Speaker 1: makes it so hard for real fucking victims to come
- 32:00Speaker 1: forward and also win their cases, because nobody wants to
- 32:04Speaker 1: believe that shit because the ship like this, y'all got
- 32:08Speaker 1: to stop these money grabs Joe for like, for real,
- 32:11Speaker 1: because it's not cool and you know you're lying when
- 32:14Speaker 1: you know you're lying.
- 32:16Speaker 2: This was his fault to begin with, and I hate
- 32:20Speaker 2: how it's being posed now as some kind of a
- 32:23Speaker 2: pr stunt or kind of like it's being diminished. And again,
- 32:28Speaker 2: like I said, espn them niggas don't give a shit
- 32:31Speaker 2: about nobody that hits a woman. So it ain't like
- 32:34Speaker 2: we's the thing that like this last time we heard
- 32:37Speaker 2: from them.
- 32:38Speaker 1: So it it's crazy because like y'all taken away from
- 32:43Speaker 1: the real victims, like who really need that voice for
- 32:46Speaker 1: justice because you pressed to get a couple hundred thousand
- 32:49Speaker 1: dollars from a celebrity who you've probably never even been
- 32:52Speaker 1: in the same room with, Like, come on, y'all gotta stops.
- 32:57Speaker 2: Which that's not about what you got.
- 33:01Speaker 1: Besides the other a white woman who's accusing him. Let's
- 33:06Speaker 1: talk about Chris Brown.
- 33:08Speaker 2: For a little while.
- 33:10Speaker 1: Oh wow, well, according to his housekeeper, ninety million dollars.
- 33:17Speaker 2: You should have said, speaking of the money grash.
- 33:20Speaker 1: Oh no, this happened because they got pictures. The bitch
- 33:23Speaker 1: fucked up. She's fucked up. Whatever whatever happened at his
- 33:29Speaker 1: house happened like shit. Okay, So the singer's former housekeeper,
- 33:34Speaker 1: Maria Avila, is looking to collect ninety million dollars from
- 33:38Speaker 1: the singer after allegedly being attacked by his dog. According
- 33:42Speaker 1: to her lawyer, Chris Brown witnessed the attack that led
- 33:45Speaker 1: to pieces of her motherfucking face being be damaged, but
- 33:51Speaker 1: failed to provide help or even take her us to
- 33:53Speaker 1: the hospital. In addition, I'm dead ass serious. In addition,
- 33:59Speaker 1: Chris Brown is being accused of getting rid of the
- 34:02Speaker 1: dog in order to eliminate pieces of evidence and has
- 34:06Speaker 1: failed to honor multiple deposition requests.
- 34:09Speaker 2: Wow, so everybody out here just ignoring the judges. Huh wow?
- 34:14Speaker 2: Oh wow.
- 34:15Speaker 1: Look at her face.
- 34:16Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's literally pieces of her face.
- 34:19Speaker 1: Yeah. Pay that lady, I mean ninety million dollars, just
- 34:23Speaker 1: a little what pay that lady? Pay that lady?
- 34:27Speaker 2: Wow? Oh poor Maria.
- 34:30Speaker 1: Okay, Maria, let me shut herup because I could do
- 34:34Speaker 1: a whole song and it ain't right.
- 34:36Speaker 2: Uh. We would have take this up years ago though,
- 34:42Speaker 2: on this show. You know that we really would have
- 34:44Speaker 2: ate this up. We would freestyle down out of this anyway,
- 34:51Speaker 2: all right? So I know the ratchets have been cranking
- 34:55Speaker 2: up for that Diddy trial, and TMZ got all the
- 34:59Speaker 2: questions that y'all want to know, and I figured we
- 35:04Speaker 2: like cherry picked through the ones that we care about
- 35:07Speaker 2: the funzies. If you're down, I'm sending you the link,
- 35:11Speaker 2: So go ahead and click on that link for him,
- 35:14Speaker 2: and let's scroll on over to TMZ Diddy Trial answers
- 35:18Speaker 2: to all your questions about the case. Sean Diddy Combs
- 35:21Speaker 2: is just a few days away from the standing trial
- 35:24Speaker 2: in federal court. We've got the answers to all the
- 35:26Speaker 2: basic questions you have. It's miss Lyric, which ones jump
- 35:29Speaker 2: out at you that you didn't know? I'm gonna start?
- 35:33Speaker 2: What is Diddy on? Trial? For Diddy is being tried
- 35:37Speaker 2: on three charges, one count of sex trafficking by force,
- 35:41Speaker 2: fraud or question, one count of transportation to engage in prostitution,
- 35:48Speaker 2: and one count of racketeering conspiracy. So for those of
- 35:52Speaker 2: y'all out here still talking about baby oil, it was
- 35:55Speaker 2: never that. It's about drugging and raping and sex traffic
- 36:00Speaker 2: and fuckers. That's what this is about. How can you
- 36:03Speaker 2: watch it? Of course it'll be in the courthouse in Manhattan,
- 36:08Speaker 2: and it will be open to the public, and you know,
- 36:11Speaker 2: every news outlet that can is going to be all
- 36:15Speaker 2: on this, and he's jumping out of you, miss Lyrics.
- 36:18Speaker 1: What happens convicted. If convicted of racketeering, Diddy could be
- 36:23Speaker 1: sentenced to life in prison. Like the other largest carry
- 36:28Speaker 1: smaller but still sizable potential prison sentences. Good grief, man, life,
- 36:35Speaker 1: Lie Lie.
- 36:39Speaker 2: Who are Diddy's alleged victims in the current case. Four
- 36:42Speaker 2: people are scheduled to testify during the trial. His ex
- 36:45Speaker 2: partner Cassie is the only one of the four who
- 36:47Speaker 2: isn't testifying anonymously. Two of the alleged victims will testify
- 36:52Speaker 2: testify using pseudonyms, or the others will simply be called
- 36:56Speaker 2: victim too.
- 36:57Speaker 1: So my question is Shine gonna get his look back
- 37:01Speaker 1: for obviously taking that time to be locked up for
- 37:06Speaker 1: some shit he know he ain't fucking do. Because did
- 37:08Speaker 1: he said it about that shooting in the nightclub and
- 37:12Speaker 1: the lady even said no, it wasn't him, it was Diddy.
- 37:16Speaker 2: That's true. Another one is did he currently facing civil lawsuits?
- 37:21Speaker 2: It says yes, did he is being sued by dozens
- 37:24Speaker 2: of alleged victims who are accusing him of a variety
- 37:28Speaker 2: of crimes. Many of them are represented by Attorney Tony Busby.
- 37:32Speaker 2: What I tell you, didn't I tell you all over?
- 37:36Speaker 2: Tony's like, move over, I've got this. Oh god, I
- 37:42Speaker 2: just okay. So this is like one of those ongoing things.
- 37:46Speaker 2: I feel like we've been talking for talking about this
- 37:48Speaker 2: for a year. Has it been a year?
- 37:50Speaker 1: Yep?
- 37:51Speaker 2: So it's good to see this finally, you know, like
- 37:55Speaker 2: start to get some traction other than the shocker headlines. Anyways,
- 38:01Speaker 2: what you got next?
- 38:04Speaker 1: Let me see, because I really didn't care about too much,
- 38:08Speaker 1: like talking about that was the only thing that really
- 38:10Speaker 1: grabbed at my this week was the mauled.
- 38:17Speaker 2: I got you. Okay, So if you want, let's make
- 38:20Speaker 2: TMZ the topic of discussion for a second. Okay, all right,
- 38:24Speaker 2: go on tmz dot com real quick.
- 38:28Speaker 1: Just type in dot com. Okay, type in TMZ.
- 38:36Speaker 2: Okay, Now, just scroll down and start reading outline the
- 38:41Speaker 2: headlines of white people versus the one versus black people.
- 38:44Speaker 2: Just scroll down and read the headline and just start
- 38:46Speaker 2: shouting out there at random.
- 38:48Speaker 1: Okay, fat Joe, mam Marie did at seventy seven. Oh,
- 38:52Speaker 1: excellently pressed on it.
- 38:54Speaker 4: Mm hmm.
- 38:55Speaker 1: President Donald Trump posts ai pick of himself as folk
- 39:00Speaker 1: mm hmm. Anna Nicole Smith's daughter Danielle n just wore
- 39:04Speaker 1: this dress to Kentucky Derby.
- 39:08Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Okay, find things from black people because that's
- 39:12Speaker 2: mostly white people, and we'll give We'll get that first
- 39:16Speaker 2: fella you mentioned an honorable. They feel like he's safe.
- 39:20Speaker 1: So yeah, did he meet my defense team? Hope they
- 39:24Speaker 1: get me off. Hold on this one's wild too, though, Mace.
- 39:33Speaker 1: Should I go to Diddy's trial? I don't know who this.
- 39:36Speaker 2: Is, but it's a black face. Go ahead, keep going.
- 39:40Speaker 1: Florabama short star Kirk metis dead at thirty three.
- 39:44Speaker 2: So I wanted you to get down to the one
- 39:46Speaker 2: where it says little meach. Where I'm from, everybody needs rehab.
- 39:49Speaker 2: I'm gonna be talking about this in my set, FIRS.
- 40:01Speaker 2: Go ahead.
- 40:01Speaker 1: I'm not see this is why I probably scrolled right
- 40:05Speaker 1: by it, because who cares what that motherfucker got to say?
- 40:08Speaker 2: No, I get it, but I'm gonna be talking about
- 40:10Speaker 2: this in my segment because I sent you that link
- 40:13Speaker 2: for this reason. On TMZ, this headline reads and I'll
- 40:16Speaker 2: say it again, little meet. Where I'm from, everybody needs rehab. Now,
- 40:22Speaker 2: as you click on it lyric and you scroll through,
- 40:26Speaker 2: it's an article about this new clothing line. But it's
- 40:29Speaker 2: the headlines that often sway our a certain conversation go.
- 40:33Speaker 2: And I want to poke at that a bit because
- 40:36Speaker 2: coming up in my segment, I'm going to talk about
- 40:39Speaker 2: another headline that caught my eye. It kind of pointed
- 40:42Speaker 2: me into my latest rant. So unseasoned behavior up next,
- 40:45Speaker 2: all right.
- 40:46Speaker 8: And I heard about play twenty twenty five and Donald
- 40:49Speaker 8: Trump being a threat. It was also talking to us
- 40:51Speaker 8: uniquely as black people. Whether we're talking about police community,
- 40:55Speaker 8: whether we're talking about London of say, public education, whether
- 40:59Speaker 8: we're talking about you know what I'm saying, shit raising
- 41:01Speaker 8: the price of you know, health care, all those things
- 41:04Speaker 8: uniquely impact black people. So when we're saying we're gonna
- 41:07Speaker 8: sit this one out, we're gonna rest, and we're gonna
- 41:09Speaker 8: this that and the other, it's like, at one point
- 41:11Speaker 8: in time do we say it's time to now get
- 41:14Speaker 8: in to action? You know what I'm saying, When is
- 41:16Speaker 8: it now no longer time to rest? And I get
- 41:19Speaker 8: that it's gonna be different.
- 41:19Speaker 3: For everybody.
- 41:20Speaker 8: I'm not trying to tell nobody when they should rest,
- 41:22Speaker 8: when they should act. My question becomes, when do you
- 41:25Speaker 8: do it? Is it after all of the Latinos and
- 41:27Speaker 8: that for Latinos saying deported?
- 41:30Speaker 2: Is it when half of them deported?
- 41:32Speaker 8: Is it when the state education is now teaching our
- 41:35Speaker 8: children that we would better off enslaved because at that
- 41:38Speaker 8: time we have the family in tact. It's gonna be
- 41:40Speaker 8: when you know, trans people have to you know what
- 41:42Speaker 8: I'm saying, carry around their papers, improve their humanity. Is
- 41:45Speaker 8: it gonna be like when does it come time? You
- 41:48Speaker 8: feel me for us to swing into action? Wrestling is important,
- 41:51Speaker 8: though it's not wrestling for the sake of wrestling. It's
- 41:53Speaker 8: resting to be able to get that clarity, get that strength,
- 41:57Speaker 8: and it's time that we think uniquely about rest.
- 42:00Speaker 3: Jesus has your glim.
- 42:05Speaker 2: This is about to come off very trolling. The timelineish,
- 42:07Speaker 2: but bear with me because I'm going in a direction.
- 42:11Speaker 2: So you said this headline earlier Anna Nicole Smith daughter
- 42:15Speaker 2: Danny Lynn honors mom wears her iconic gown twenty one
- 42:19Speaker 2: years later? Was this a headline? See? This is what
- 42:24Speaker 2: I be talking about when I say how we're fed
- 42:27Speaker 2: the idea of white supremacy, and then when the ship
- 42:31Speaker 2: fails miserably, we woke and need to be debordered because
- 42:35Speaker 2: why Miss pam kids and Miss Pam's grandkids been wearing
- 42:39Speaker 2: her shit since nineteen seventy, but they ain't doing that
- 42:42Speaker 2: shit to be trendy doing that shit because systemically Miss
- 42:45Speaker 2: Pam and her kids don't have cameras pointing in her face,
- 42:48Speaker 2: amplifying her story or bringing more attention to her struggle,
- 42:52Speaker 2: because then somebody may actually do something about it. It's
- 42:56Speaker 2: the media attention and overall influence We've been saying for
- 43:00Speaker 2: years that the media has on us every single day.
- 43:04Speaker 2: Kendrick's words make more sense to me. He said, turn
- 43:07Speaker 2: this TV off, Turn this TV off for more than
- 43:10Speaker 2: obvious reasons. Far too many of us are glued to
- 43:14Speaker 2: the news more than ever. And I'm noticing it because
- 43:17Speaker 2: niggas that never talked to me suddenly, you know, they
- 43:20Speaker 2: want to chat. And there's this like holding pattern that
- 43:23Speaker 2: I've noticed that most of us have right now, waiting
- 43:26Speaker 2: for this battle cry or for Christians, y'all waiting for
- 43:29Speaker 2: the sounds of trumpets to rally you. But the revolution
- 43:32Speaker 2: simply won't be televised. A lot of people are living
- 43:36Speaker 2: off of the news. How about you start making it.
- 43:40Speaker 2: It can't be a story until you do it. This resistance,
- 43:43Speaker 2: it doesn't play out in a minute long monologue or
- 43:47Speaker 2: a cap cut scene a happy picture. You have to
- 43:49Speaker 2: actually do something, and not all of us are going
- 43:52Speaker 2: to have a concert that benefits the family struggling the most.
- 43:56Speaker 2: When dchelves go empty in the next couple of weeks,
- 44:00Speaker 2: some of our jobs are going to be just knock
- 44:01Speaker 2: on the door of the people next door that you
- 44:04Speaker 2: may not necessarily like, but you know, the bitches need
- 44:07Speaker 2: to eat and telling them, hey, you know, miss Francis
- 44:10Speaker 2: work with food bank, and here go a number in
- 44:12Speaker 2: case y'all know anybody to need it. It's the movement
- 44:15Speaker 2: that isn't televised. We can sit around and wait for
- 44:18Speaker 2: these celebrities and politicians to speak up for us, and
- 44:21Speaker 2: that's fine, they're supposed to. That's the part people forget.
- 44:24Speaker 2: Celebrity means being celebrated. It means that you have a skill,
- 44:29Speaker 2: a talent, or a presence that as a community we
- 44:33Speaker 2: feel needs to be amplified. So you're put on a
- 44:36Speaker 2: stage either in the lens of entertainment or in the
- 44:39Speaker 2: lens of public service, and you become the voices for
- 44:43Speaker 2: what you can. But the revolution is on us, I'll
- 44:47Speaker 2: simplify it. The unseasoned behavior is the idea that someone
- 44:52Speaker 2: with a larger platform, voice, or reach can make more
- 44:56Speaker 2: of an impact than you can. The resolution is knowing
- 44:59Speaker 2: that you you can have some kind of an impact
- 45:02Speaker 2: on fewer people and loved and celebrated even more by
- 45:05Speaker 2: doing what you can to make the best impact on
- 45:08Speaker 2: the people around you. And I know it sounds sesame street,
- 45:10Speaker 2: but you know they're trying to gentrify itshit too. So
- 45:13Speaker 2: somebody got to remind us that human beings need to
- 45:16Speaker 2: be put first. So I'm gonna be that person.
- 45:18Speaker 3: That's it.
- 45:19Speaker 2: That's all up, Okay.
- 45:22Speaker 6: So the man was at the county courthouse in Charlottesville,
- 45:25Speaker 6: Virginia this week. Charges against him had just been dismissed.
- 45:29Speaker 6: A judge had just ruled there was no evidence the
- 45:30Speaker 6: man had committed any crime. Uh, the man, he's a
- 45:33Speaker 6: house painter. He was told that he was free to
- 45:35Speaker 6: leave the courthouse and then this.
- 45:42Speaker 7: By a judge. You don't have a warrant, show.
- 45:46Speaker 2: Up a rest.
- 45:51Speaker 7: You don't have a wart signed by a judge.
- 45:56Speaker 6: So what is going on here is that the that
- 45:59Speaker 6: that trump'sonergrations here excuse me, that Trump's immigration agents here
- 46:03Speaker 6: are arresting this man at this courthouse in Virginia. This
- 46:06Speaker 6: video was obtained by the venerable newspaper in Charlottesville, the
- 46:09Speaker 6: Daily Progress. And again, there are no criminal charges pending
- 46:13Speaker 6: against this man. The case against him had just been dismissed.
- 46:16Speaker 6: He had shown up at the county courthouse as required,
- 46:19Speaker 6: and Trump's immigration agents took that opportunity to grab him.
- 46:22Speaker 6: The agents who arrested him were not wearing uniforms. One
- 46:26Speaker 6: of them was wearing a mask, the lawyer who represented
- 46:28Speaker 6: the man they arrested. The lawyer says the agents did
- 46:31Speaker 6: not show any form of ID, they did not present
- 46:34Speaker 6: an arrest warrant. They did have handcuffs, though, and they
- 46:37Speaker 6: handcuffed this guy and put him in the back of
- 46:38Speaker 6: an unmarked van. To everybody who saw what was happening,
- 46:42Speaker 6: it looked very much like a kidnapping. And that was
- 46:46Speaker 6: actually one of two arrests made by plane clothes masked
- 46:50Speaker 6: immigration agents at that same county courthouse in Virginia this week.
- 46:55Speaker 6: The lawyer telling the Daily Progress quote, it's horrifying for
- 46:58Speaker 6: the person being detained this way, it's horror fying for
- 47:00Speaker 6: the community members watching it.
- 47:03Speaker 2: And you saw that right away.
- 47:05Speaker 6: People came out and protested outside the County courthouse in Charlottesville,
- 47:11Speaker 6: right after immigration agents showed up there to start taking people.
- 47:14Speaker 6: This is just an instant pressure point for this community.
- 47:17Speaker 6: It was pretty big turnout too. Masks plus no id
- 47:21Speaker 6: equals abduction. I mean, it makes sense in terms of
- 47:26Speaker 6: how quickly people were willing to literally take to the
- 47:28Speaker 6: streets over this right. Everybody needs to be able to
- 47:31Speaker 6: go to court, no matter what your immigration status is.
- 47:33Speaker 6: Maybe you're the victim of a crime, maybe you're a
- 47:35Speaker 6: witness and an important case, maybe you're a defendant. If
- 47:39Speaker 6: people are too scared to come to court now because
- 47:42Speaker 6: Trump's immigration agents are lying in wait at court to
- 47:45Speaker 6: arrest them, then courts will not be able to function
- 47:48Speaker 6: fairly or effectively for anyone. Judges are responsible for the
- 47:52Speaker 6: safety of everybody who appears before the court for any reason,
- 47:57Speaker 6: right for the safety and security of those people so
- 47:59Speaker 6: they can do their lawful business before the court. If
- 48:01Speaker 6: Trump's immigration agents are staking out courthouses, to grab people,
- 48:06Speaker 6: to kidnap people once they show up to take part
- 48:10Speaker 6: in a lawful court proceeding. That stops judges from fulfilling
- 48:13Speaker 6: their responsibilities under the law for what happens with their
- 48:16Speaker 6: cases and in their courtrooms.
- 48:18Speaker 1: Why do you have religions?
- 48:21Speaker 3: Why? Why?
- 48:22Speaker 1: Why?
- 48:23Speaker 3: File?
- 48:24Speaker 2: Why do my children hate me?
- 48:27Speaker 3: Are real talk radio?
- 48:29Speaker 1: Why do my Adana Barn?
- 48:31Speaker 3: Truth is out there.
- 48:34Speaker 2: Explaining the unexplained. We're answering why to the questions you
- 48:37Speaker 2: want to know by taking your skeets over on Blue
- 48:39Speaker 2: Sky at WRTR Radio, and I also take your emails
- 48:43Speaker 2: over at WRTR Radio at gmail dot com. Remember this
- 48:46Speaker 2: is the Wild Files. The truth is out there, which
- 48:50Speaker 2: gat miss Lyric.
- 48:52Speaker 1: My way comes from me.
- 48:57Speaker 2: What does me want to know?
- 49:00Speaker 1: Me wants to now? Why do these some of these
- 49:06Speaker 1: landscaping companies hire all these unqualified motherfuckers? Okay, okay, So
- 49:15Speaker 1: the other day and they chopping down trees and trimming
- 49:20Speaker 1: branches and all of that stuff over here, and I
- 49:24Speaker 1: have my balcony open because it's fucking hot. I don't
- 49:26Speaker 1: know what the weather is going, what's going on with
- 49:29Speaker 1: the weather. It's Oh my gosh, it's so hot. So
- 49:34Speaker 1: I had my the screen closed, but the balcony door open,
- 49:38Speaker 1: and I hear all this screaming and ship, and I'm like,
- 49:41Speaker 1: what the fuck something happened? And obviously they don't know
- 49:46Speaker 1: what the fuck they're doing, because if I had it
- 49:49Speaker 1: went outside, I could have got crushed by one of
- 49:51Speaker 1: those fucking branches. That ship I'm not kidding down on
- 50:00Speaker 1: my patio for furniture.
- 50:03Speaker 2: Oh wow.
- 50:04Speaker 1: I'm like, what the fuck is y'all? Don't I'm yelling.
- 50:07Speaker 1: I'm not letting them see who it is, of course,
- 50:09Speaker 1: but I'm yelling y'all doing y'all fucking my ship up?
- 50:13Speaker 2: Like what do you mean? They you sh up? And
- 50:15Speaker 2: you the one yelling what did you mean?
- 50:18Speaker 1: See me? Though? So I'm yelling inside the house with
- 50:20Speaker 1: the door with the balcony joint is open so they
- 50:23Speaker 1: can hear me and I can see them, but they
- 50:24Speaker 1: can't see me because it's dark. So I'm like, what
- 50:27Speaker 1: the fuck is y'all doing? And I see like heads
- 50:29Speaker 1: going up. I say, yeah, you better be sorry. You
- 50:33Speaker 1: ain't paying for none of this ship. We're gonna come
- 50:39Speaker 1: fix it. I'm gonna get this ship and I'm taking
- 50:43Speaker 1: it out on all y'all.
- 50:44Speaker 2: Ass definitely take the pictures, keep them records till that.
- 50:48Speaker 1: No.
- 50:49Speaker 2: I know you did.
- 50:50Speaker 1: Why because theopers out there, and baby, I can see.
- 50:57Speaker 2: This is seth from a more and more blue Pennsylvania
- 51:03Speaker 2: wants to know why are the same people supportive of
- 51:06Speaker 2: immigrants being deported with no due process suddenly excited for
- 51:10Speaker 2: sing demiele.
- 51:13Speaker 6: By.
- 51:16Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it's horrible. I heard what
- 51:18Speaker 1: happened to that one guy.
- 51:20Speaker 2: I don't know, it's not this one guy.
- 51:22Speaker 1: I know what I'm thinking about the story that I
- 51:24Speaker 1: heard this week. I heard about this one guy. He's
- 51:27Speaker 1: like in a prison or some ship and he even
- 51:29Speaker 1: do nothing and then and they're going back and forth
- 51:32Speaker 1: on whether he can get out or not, which I
- 51:34Speaker 1: think is fucking bonkers. Like why you got somebody innocent
- 51:37Speaker 1: in jail, you didn't try, he's not charged with anything,
- 51:40Speaker 1: like you just got him ready to make him kick
- 51:44Speaker 1: rocks to another country, Like come on now, So that's
- 51:47Speaker 1: not the judge about her decision or something currently, but get.
- 51:53Speaker 2: This, uh, you know, keep your head on the swivel,
- 51:55Speaker 2: because I heard that another executive order was signed. And
- 52:00Speaker 2: this is all of me. This is just me, you know,
- 52:03Speaker 2: I'm not reading this currently, but this is something that
- 52:06Speaker 2: I've heard that he signed another executive order which is
- 52:09Speaker 2: deputizing private citizens, so that Karen that you may run
- 52:14Speaker 2: into at a grocery store, miss Leary, she might be
- 52:17Speaker 2: deputized to put you down as somebody that needs to
- 52:21Speaker 2: be deported with them snatching niggas up and disappearing. Bit
- 52:25Speaker 2: just uh yeah, just be careful to keep your head
- 52:27Speaker 2: on the swivel. Wow, because the truth is out there.
- 52:32Speaker 1: Get me a little bang bang bang bank dank bangs.
- 52:35Speaker 1: I ain't playing. Got no felonies, so.
- 52:40Speaker 2: Yeah, none whatsoever.
- 52:44Speaker 1: Hm hmm.
- 52:45Speaker 2: And that wraps it up for this week's WI Files,
- 52:47Speaker 2: you know, the socials news making noxious up next.
- 52:50Speaker 9: So first we get a Howard Lutnicko I believe it
- 52:53Speaker 9: is the Secretary of Commerce stating that in the new
- 52:56Speaker 9: American economy, his vision of it is you work in
- 52:58Speaker 9: a factory for life, and then you're children work in
- 53:00Speaker 9: that factory for life, and then your grand children work
- 53:02Speaker 9: in that factory for life.
- 53:03Speaker 8: You know, this is the new model where you work
- 53:06Speaker 8: in these kind of plans for.
- 53:07Speaker 2: The rest of your life, and your kids work here
- 53:09Speaker 2: and your grandkids work.
- 53:10Speaker 9: Here, which is the erasure of upward mobility. You in
- 53:13Speaker 9: the next several generations of your family will hold the
- 53:16Speaker 9: same blue collar cog worker station in life forever, which
- 53:21Speaker 9: is what they want. Without me going in any more
- 53:22Speaker 9: detail about that, then we get Scott Bessett, the Secretary
- 53:26Speaker 9: of the Treasury, stating that in the new spending bill,
- 53:30Speaker 9: they are going to allow companies corporations that decide to
- 53:33Speaker 9: manufacture in America to expense all their equipment and manufacturing
- 53:37Speaker 9: and building facilities cost.
- 53:39Speaker 10: The other thing that we are looking to add is
- 53:42Speaker 10: full expensing for factories. So bring your factory back. You
- 53:46Speaker 10: can fully expense the equipment and the building. We will
- 53:51Speaker 10: couple that with deregulation, cheap energy, and regulatory certainty.
- 53:56Speaker 9: Which means that they get to write that off in
- 53:58Speaker 9: offset that against their text liability, meaning that they won't
- 54:01Speaker 9: be taxed on that income. So we have a government
- 54:03Speaker 9: that is effectively allowing companies corporations to build in America
- 54:07Speaker 9: for free at the expense of the taxpayers, and then
- 54:10Speaker 9: have us work in those factories for generations.
- 54:17Speaker 3: It's used to make you nashious on w RT are
- 54:21Speaker 3: Real Talk Radio. Let's go.
- 54:25Speaker 2: These are some of the stories you might not read
- 54:27Speaker 2: about in the New York Times, the Washington Post or
- 54:29Speaker 2: the Wall Street Journal, because you know they don't tell
- 54:33Speaker 2: these kinds of stories. You want to go first, or.
- 54:35Speaker 1: Me, I can mindset, so hopefully you will have a
- 54:39Speaker 1: better one to end on a better note.
- 54:42Speaker 2: On this segment.
- 54:44Speaker 1: You'd be having sometimes like animals and shit like that.
- 54:50Speaker 1: But all right, say what Milwaukee say why. A man
- 54:54Speaker 1: is accused of intentionally throwing a one year old off
- 54:57Speaker 1: a second story balcony following a tug of wore dispute
- 55:00Speaker 1: over the child with the mother. The baby survived, thank god,
- 55:06Speaker 1: with just a few bruises. According to a criminal complaint,
- 55:09Speaker 1: thirty one year old Jermaine Ellen threw the child from
- 55:12Speaker 1: the balcony of the mother's home after the pair got
- 55:15Speaker 1: into an argument. The altercation reportedly began when the mother
- 55:18Speaker 1: heard her child crying and she asked him what happened.
- 55:22Speaker 1: The conversation quickly escalated, leaving her fearful for her safety.
- 55:27Speaker 1: The other claims that during the argument, he grabbed a
- 55:30Speaker 1: knife and repeatedly told her she was going to die. Later,
- 55:34Speaker 1: the documents say that he placed his hands around the
- 55:37Speaker 1: baby's neck lifted her into the air, and as the
- 55:40Speaker 1: mother attempted to retrieve the child, he intentionally threw the
- 55:43Speaker 1: baby oh the story balcony. He then allegedly re entered
- 55:48Speaker 1: the house and attacked the mother again. When the police arrived,
- 55:51Speaker 1: they found the mother with a sprained finger, a laceration
- 55:54Speaker 1: on her forehead that requires and her shirt covered in blood.
- 55:58Speaker 1: Oh my God. Reportedly confessed to throwing the child off
- 56:02Speaker 1: the balcony, but claimed he did not think he had
- 56:04Speaker 1: gone too far. The mother, who was in the residence
- 56:07Speaker 1: at the time, reportedly went downstairs to retrieve the child
- 56:10Speaker 1: and allegedly told the mother, hold on. Elan's mother, the
- 56:14Speaker 1: attacker was there, she wants to go get the baby,
- 56:18Speaker 1: and she allegedly told the mother that she had instigated
- 56:22Speaker 1: the entire incidance. So his mom gas lit the mother
- 56:25Speaker 1: of the child, saying that she started it, got it okay.
- 56:29Speaker 1: Eland was booked into Milwaukee County Jail on charges of
- 56:32Speaker 1: substantial battery with a domestic use modifier and child abuse
- 56:36Speaker 1: after his court appearance, bill was set at fifteen thousand dollars.
- 56:41Speaker 1: If he posts bail, he will be required to wear
- 56:43Speaker 1: an electronic monitoring device upon release.
- 56:47Speaker 2: How long does he send it to or.
- 56:51Speaker 1: Wear it. Yeah he has. If he gets bond, he
- 56:53Speaker 1: has to wear an ankle.
- 56:54Speaker 2: Monitor he threw a baby off, Yeah, and he has
- 56:59Speaker 2: to wear an ankle. Okay, you know what, that's the
- 57:02Speaker 2: perfect segue into this story. All right, say what Indianapolis, Indiana?
- 57:06Speaker 1: Say what?
- 57:07Speaker 2: So I took a I deviated from a lord a
- 57:10Speaker 2: little bit this week? It's lyric. Aren't you proud of me?
- 57:12Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 57:13Speaker 2: Progress. According to KKTV, a former Indiana elementary school teacher
- 57:20Speaker 2: received her sentence for an incident involving a special need
- 57:24Speaker 2: student being forced to eat his own vomit.
- 57:30Speaker 1: Oh my god.
- 57:32Speaker 2: Sarah Seymour pleaded guilty to neglect of a dependent, which
- 57:35Speaker 2: led to prosecutors dropping the charge of failure to make
- 57:39Speaker 2: a report. Seymour was sentenced to a year in jail,
- 57:43Speaker 2: but she will not spend any additional time behind bars
- 57:46Speaker 2: because she is getting credit for time served, and the
- 57:49Speaker 2: rest of the sentence was suspended to probation. The senate
- 57:53Speaker 2: stems from an incident that in twenty twenty three, where
- 57:56Speaker 2: a seven year old special needs student threw up in
- 57:59Speaker 2: the Catholic terry. A fellow school employee said Seymour instructed
- 58:03Speaker 2: the child to eat the vomit. All five of the
- 58:06Speaker 2: staff members present during the incident were either fired or
- 58:09Speaker 2: reassigned from the school or I'm sorry, resigned from the school.
- 58:12Speaker 2: So this made me nauseous and so very many ways.
- 58:15Speaker 2: But what took it over the edge for me was
- 58:18Speaker 2: that this white woman only got a year, like a year.
- 58:25Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know, maybe y'all get off easier because
- 58:29Speaker 2: y'all auditioning for longer sentences in hell, But I don't know,
- 58:32Speaker 2: because it make it make sense. A year you made
- 58:37Speaker 2: a baby eat their vomit, a baby with ssential needs.
- 58:41Speaker 2: If you want these and more nogical, I do too,
- 58:45Speaker 2: I mean always in this. If you want these and more,
- 58:48Speaker 2: why would you? But if you do, they're over WRTR
- 58:52Speaker 2: Radio And I've also overall Blue Sky, Blue Sky dot com,
- 59:00Speaker 2: Margaret Smooth and I'm.
- 59:01Speaker 1: Also well, I'm also on TikTok as well.
- 59:06Speaker 2: You'll never apply to my video.
- 59:10Speaker 1: Well, I don't be on there like that, but I'm
- 59:13Speaker 1: on there. I do have an account. Yes, I'm mostly
- 59:17Speaker 1: on Instagram because that is just like my baby. I
- 59:19Speaker 1: love Instagram. I'm sorry that you don't. Facebook is becoming
- 59:24Speaker 1: more of a family thing. I'm only keeping it active
- 59:27Speaker 1: because all of my babies pictures and shit like that
- 59:29Speaker 1: is on there. Right. If you guys want to reach out,
- 59:32Speaker 1: you know, get me on my Instagram.
- 59:35Speaker 2: All right, let's get chatty in real talk. Up next,
- 59:38Speaker 2: we have some big news.
- 59:39Speaker 4: Right now, Donald Trump is now comparing himself to the Pope.
- 59:42Speaker 4: He compared himself to the King, and well, now he's
- 59:44Speaker 4: comparing himself to the Pope during the time when the
- 59:47Speaker 4: world continues to mourn the loss of Pope Francis. But
- 59:50Speaker 4: you don't have to believe me. This is on the
- 59:52Speaker 4: official Trump Truth social him and an AI generated image
- 59:56Speaker 4: of the Pope reposted by none other than the White
- 59:59Speaker 4: House official account, which is where world leaders and other
- 1:00:02Speaker 4: countries go to to get information about the United States
- 1:00:05Speaker 4: and the United States's policies. And right now, if you
- 1:00:08Speaker 4: go on the White House's website, you're going to see
- 1:00:10Speaker 4: an AI generated image of Donald Trump cause playing as
- 1:00:15Speaker 4: Pope Francis.
- 1:00:16Speaker 3: Now.
- 1:00:16Speaker 4: Timing of this comes as the Vatican we'll be considering
- 1:00:19Speaker 4: a new pope in the next several days, and as
- 1:00:22Speaker 4: the nation and the world continues to mourn the loss
- 1:00:25Speaker 4: of Pope Francis. Trump compared himself to the King. He's
- 1:00:28Speaker 4: now comparing himself to the Pope. To a full breakdown
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- 1:00:33Speaker 4: my bioso subscribe for free, spread the word and follow
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- 1:00:41Speaker 3: What hundred He's Real job wrgr Real Talk Radio. We
- 1:00:48Speaker 3: keep it real.
- 1:00:50Speaker 2: We're Real Talk this week. I kind of want to
- 1:00:51Speaker 2: go back to the point that I was making at
- 1:00:54Speaker 2: the start of the show, where I was discussing all
- 1:00:57Speaker 2: the kind of stuff we take in, you know, what
- 1:00:59Speaker 2: we feed on, because lately y'all be getting out of
- 1:01:02Speaker 2: hand with these memes, and I believe that a lot
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: of us will post or repost some shit before we've
- 1:01:09Speaker 2: actually taken a look at what it is that we're reposting.
- 1:01:12Speaker 2: For example, I saw this meme the other day. I'll
- 1:01:16Speaker 2: send it to you. Lyric but has music playing in
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: the background and all graceful and shit, and it reads
- 1:01:22Speaker 2: you can't be in a relationship and still make other
- 1:01:25Speaker 2: people feel like they've got a chance with you. Let's say,
- 1:01:29Speaker 2: what deciding you have a shot with somebody already in
- 1:01:33Speaker 2: a relationship. It decided that you were gaslight it because
- 1:01:38Speaker 2: they were anything other than mean to you. It's strange, Like,
- 1:01:41Speaker 2: it's just strange. How is this not a diagnosis? Like,
- 1:01:44Speaker 2: what do you mean? Why are you showing me I
- 1:01:47Speaker 2: can't see because it's unavailable, I can't see it.
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: So you just go off of.
- 1:01:51Speaker 2: Not bad but deciding that you have a shot with
- 1:01:54Speaker 2: somebody already in a relationship, and then deciding that you
- 1:01:59Speaker 2: were I need to call this show technical difficulties. Anyways,
- 1:02:08Speaker 2: I dare you.
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: Put a whole bunch of caution signs and.
- 1:02:18Speaker 2: The right So if some of the relationship removed that
- 1:02:22Speaker 2: idea from your head or your presence from that person,
- 1:02:26Speaker 2: is it like started to back and forth with people
- 1:02:28Speaker 2: and folks talking about nah that's the truth man, and
- 1:02:33Speaker 2: people be gas lighting and blah blah blah. You know,
- 1:02:36Speaker 2: I'm gonna make my point. But for the sake of
- 1:02:38Speaker 2: my argument, is it me or does that seem a
- 1:02:41Speaker 2: little crazy? That mentality? Like you can't be in a
- 1:02:45Speaker 2: relationship and still make other people feel like they've got
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: a chance with you. How is somebody making you feel
- 1:02:51Speaker 2: like they have a chance with you? What?
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: Well?
- 1:02:55Speaker 2: And I mean I get like, okay, so but here's
- 1:02:59Speaker 2: the thing. So if somebody says that they're in a relationship,
- 1:03:02Speaker 2: you already know from John that they are dealing with
- 1:03:05Speaker 2: somebody else. So if all of a sudden their emotions
- 1:03:10Speaker 2: then shift towards you, like if you that person that
- 1:03:13Speaker 2: decides hmmm, yeah, I want to be their friend or
- 1:03:16Speaker 2: I'm still gonna deal with this person or whatever, and
- 1:03:18Speaker 2: their emotions or whatever shift, What is it that would
- 1:03:23Speaker 2: make you then feel like you had some kind of
- 1:03:25Speaker 2: an obligation to deal with them afterwards, or they have
- 1:03:28Speaker 2: an obligation to deal with you, Like, that's just strange.
- 1:03:31Speaker 2: If people are in a relationship, first off, leave them alone.
- 1:03:34Speaker 2: If you are seeking anything other than friendship.
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: Right, we say that, but we've lived it. Since when
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: do people give a fuck about you being in a relationship.
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: Let's be clear, they don't a good friend a ride
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: or die like, even though even sometimes them motherfuckers be
- 1:03:52Speaker 1: plotting and shit trying to fuck your man or your girl, like,
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: for real, people are jealous of what they do not
- 1:03:59Speaker 1: have and can not have. That's just a fact, a
- 1:04:03Speaker 1: fucking fact. And it seems to me that and I
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: know you experienced this too. We could be single, you
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: had we've we've lived this right in our best life
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: doing us we outside this that and the third we
- 1:04:15Speaker 1: might even be entertaining or dating a few people or whatever.
- 1:04:21Speaker 1: Maybe right right as soon as we get into relationship.
- 1:04:26Speaker 2: Here come the flood to.
- 1:04:28Speaker 1: The calls, Here come the text like people is, what
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: the fuck is that? Cat and mouse bullshit? People be on?
- 1:04:37Speaker 2: So okay because I read this just like you know,
- 1:04:43Speaker 2: people are in the comments and they're really going back
- 1:04:45Speaker 2: and forth. I'm sorry you can't see it, but they
- 1:04:48Speaker 2: were sitting there going back and forth talking about, oh, well, nah,
- 1:04:51Speaker 2: this is church, and I you know, I'm sitting in
- 1:04:53Speaker 2: commenting like, y'all really this time, y'all think I've clearly
- 1:04:57Speaker 2: outpaced this social media or it's not because I don't know.
- 1:05:02Speaker 2: I don't what.
- 1:05:04Speaker 4: You know.
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: What I've come to realize you can only be responsible
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: for what you're responsible for, and that is yourself can
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: be responsible for how other people react. You can only
- 1:05:16Speaker 1: be responsible for how you react towards them. People got
- 1:05:19Speaker 1: to stop this shit, honestly, And I get what he's
- 1:05:25Speaker 1: trying to say as well, because it's also how you
- 1:05:28Speaker 1: portray yourself, especially on your social media platforms. I went
- 1:05:31Speaker 1: through that too a whole mm hmmm, and no posts
- 1:05:38Speaker 1: that I'm even there, no pictures, no comments, no nothing.
- 1:05:45Speaker 1: You're giving it appearance that you're available even though you're not.
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: M So I get it. I see both sides of it.
- 1:05:56Speaker 2: I get this side that the person that's in a
- 1:06:00Speaker 2: relationship that may be a little bit you know, either
- 1:06:03Speaker 2: their profession or otherwise just wants to or you know,
- 1:06:07Speaker 2: people sometimes just don't want you to know their business.
- 1:06:09Speaker 2: And that's fine, But I guess my issue more so
- 1:06:13Speaker 2: is with the people that they invite or people that
- 1:06:16Speaker 2: are a part of their lives, feeling as though they're
- 1:06:20Speaker 2: owed some kind of a I guess, some kind of
- 1:06:23Speaker 2: an unsaid and loyalty towards this dream that one day
- 1:06:28Speaker 2: possibly they could be together when that was never in
- 1:06:30Speaker 2: the cards or if it was never offered. I think yet,
- 1:06:34Speaker 2: you know, its sometimes like if you want to be
- 1:06:37Speaker 2: that person that I don't know. I guess my ultimate
- 1:06:42Speaker 2: argument is I don't. I'm not friends with people that
- 1:06:46Speaker 2: I'm attracted to. I'm just not. I think that it's problematic,
- 1:06:52Speaker 2: But I mean, you can be friends with somebody that
- 1:06:55Speaker 2: you're attracted to or somebody that you find attractive However,
- 1:06:59Speaker 2: that idea that something is gonna pop off when it
- 1:07:03Speaker 2: is like, if it happens, it happens, But it's the
- 1:07:07Speaker 2: setup for me, that's the part that messes with me.
- 1:07:10Speaker 2: It's like, do you want to be my friend because
- 1:07:13Speaker 2: you want to be my friend? Or do you want
- 1:07:15Speaker 2: to be my friend because secretly you're pursuing something that
- 1:07:19Speaker 2: isn't And if that thing never comes to fruition, is
- 1:07:23Speaker 2: that then going to change the way that you treat
- 1:07:26Speaker 2: me or the nature of our friendship. That kind of shit.
- 1:07:29Speaker 2: I'm just not gonna set myself up for that.
- 1:07:31Speaker 1: That just goes back to people just need to be
- 1:07:33Speaker 1: open and honest about what their intentions are. That's all.
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: Like more people need to be real. Like if if
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: you meet somebody and you're like you have that type
- 1:07:43Speaker 1: of connection where you know it's more of a friend,
- 1:07:46Speaker 1: say that, don't just you know, oh you feel bad,
- 1:07:48Speaker 1: You're just gonna see where it goes. And this that
- 1:07:51Speaker 1: and the third most people know right off the bat
- 1:07:53Speaker 1: like mmm, I could probably fuck fuck this person and
- 1:07:57Speaker 1: we could be cool, or I could just I just
- 1:08:00Speaker 1: be a friend. Vibe like people be knowing I'm being honest,
- 1:08:04Speaker 1: I like be open and honest about what your intentions
- 1:08:08Speaker 1: are and stop leading people on like I think that's wrong.
- 1:08:13Speaker 1: Stop getting because if you really don't like that person
- 1:08:16Speaker 1: as as far as being in a relationship, let them
- 1:08:20Speaker 1: know off their back, don't just you know, I will.
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: We can see how this goes, Like.
- 1:08:24Speaker 2: No, right, help people. That's true, and a lot of
- 1:08:28Speaker 2: y'all in relationships need to be that much more honest
- 1:08:31Speaker 2: with yourselves and your partner everybody, And I get it.
- 1:08:35Speaker 2: The struggle is very real right now. And you got
- 1:08:38Speaker 2: the homosexuals are trying. They scattering like roaches at this point,
- 1:08:42Speaker 2: and that's fine, but just be careful of the connections
- 1:08:47Speaker 2: that you keep. Yeah, I'm gonna leave it at that.
- 1:08:51Speaker 2: As we wrap up this week's episode of w r
- 1:08:55Speaker 2: t R Real Talk Radio. Indeed miss lyric parting.
- 1:09:00Speaker 1: Word for the fan. If you go outside and you're outside,
- 1:09:04Speaker 1: be sick outside. Okay, that goes for whatever situation you
- 1:09:10Speaker 1: think that you might be in. If you if you
- 1:09:12Speaker 1: outside to drink, be safe while you do that. Don't
- 1:09:15Speaker 1: drink and drive if you outside on some you know,
- 1:09:19Speaker 1: late night. Yeah, wrap it up, because they got that.
- 1:09:23Speaker 1: They got that flesh eating std out here eating away
- 1:09:27Speaker 1: at your your ball sacks and you in your vagina.
- 1:09:30Speaker 2: Wait, what the fuck are you talking about? No, what
- 1:09:35Speaker 2: are you talking about?
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: We're gonna have to talk about that next week when
- 1:09:39Speaker 1: I eating Yeah, flesh.
- 1:09:41Speaker 2: Eating nutsack bacteria.
- 1:09:43Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, y'all, good night, sleep tight, don't let
- 1:09:50Speaker 1: the roaches bite well, y'all.
- 1:09:51Speaker 3: Next time, y'all, you can know who you are radio.
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