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140: Why Ask Why · Wine & Audacity

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  Speaker 1: M HM.
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  Speaker 2: Today on Basement News. Niggas is nigga written.
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  Speaker 3: It's Saturday October highest level of negativity. It's Saturday, October eighteenth,
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  Speaker 3: twenty twenty five. Welcome to Basement News.
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  Speaker 1: Damn dun d d DM DM ding dum and everybody.
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  Speaker 1: How they bring the camera like and doing that and
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  Speaker 1: the black hairy Weather Report while.
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  Speaker 4: The theme song way, you know they be talking about
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  Speaker 4: this MUTIC so you just hitting my point.
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  Speaker 2: Then you got that talking you got that talking black
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  Speaker 2: down on the news.
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  Speaker 4: Squad with Donny Johnson with weather.
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  Speaker 5: It's gonna rain, It's gonna rain on your head. Back
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  Speaker 5: to you, Bob, Choky chunky hell, they're gonna be having
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  Speaker 5: them damn dreams again. She was chunky too, by the way.
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  Speaker 5: I guess I got a type. We know you like
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  Speaker 5: them that, don't we all? Yes, yes, yes we did.
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  Speaker 5: I can't do it with a bean pole. I did
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  Speaker 5: drag a girl down to bed once, but that she
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  Speaker 5: was little. That was the fun part about it. You know,
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  Speaker 5: you know what what's wrong?
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  Speaker 2: How long ago was that friend what nigga? You know him?
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  Speaker 4: How a gold star gap had pussy before? Right?
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  Speaker 1: This this is not this is not, Oh snap of that.
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  Speaker 4: I had to try to make sure you know, I
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  Speaker 4: had to do this.
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  Speaker 2: He had to have a tasty. That's it's a little tark,
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  Speaker 2: like I could.
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  Speaker 4: Take you to leave it. I mean apparently I left
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  Speaker 4: it because ain't been.
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  Speaker 3: Back since today tomorrow, the day after.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I don't consider myself to buy the bye
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  Speaker 4: of the sexual, but I mean if the white woman
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  Speaker 4: coming on the buy of.
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  Speaker 2: The sexual, I understand that.
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  Speaker 4: Never say never, you know, especially like I said, the
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  Speaker 4: dreams I've been having, If I've been dreaming about eating pussy,
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  Speaker 4: then maybe it's maybe God is trying to tell me something.
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  Speaker 1: Like you just walk, just go to the ball, go
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  Speaker 1: to the ball, put on put on your good smoke
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  Speaker 1: guds and be like.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, hey, listen, I gotta approach. At the concert
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  Speaker 4: I went to last night, it was like, I didn't know,
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  Speaker 4: what's any other black people here?
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  Speaker 1: I said, mm hmm, listen, No, yeah, when you go
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  Speaker 1: to when you go to a specific when you go
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  Speaker 1: to specific brand.
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  Speaker 4: Pleasure or they're from New Zealand, so let's put that leisure. Yeah, okay, pleasure.
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmm, okay, cool, something something for your leisure.
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  Speaker 4: It's it's their music is actually like it's real, like viby, swanky,
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  Speaker 4: real chills, make you want to I would I was
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  Speaker 4: in the step process that it might have been a
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  Speaker 4: great heir was sucking. It was like a little fuzzy
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  Speaker 4: ball like came off your shirt or something. I came yesterday? Sure, sure,
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  Speaker 4: but yeah, so it's their music is real chill, real
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  Speaker 4: vibby makes you want to be out sitting on a
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  Speaker 4: park bench, hot as hell, make you want to just
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  Speaker 4: go get up in two step because it should be.
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  Speaker 1: I mean in the house like bro, I think I'm
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  Speaker 1: listening to Red No. I find that's my Like my
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  Speaker 1: new go to now is like Club one b.
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  Speaker 4: D Or would you want to go to one of
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  Speaker 4: the live events because they have one at the Howard
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  Speaker 4: Theater like it was last month. We talked about it.
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  Speaker 2: Watching like on YouTube Dave, like David did.
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  Speaker 4: The mixes and stuff. Yeah, but everybody's dressed in the
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  Speaker 4: same color.
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  Speaker 2: And yo, David did he mixed the eight eight seven
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  Speaker 2: seven cash.
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  Speaker 4: Now, yeah I heard that, and I'm like, it's David
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  Speaker 4: the DJ is Club one b D. Hold on, y'all,
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  Speaker 4: welcome this the fuck let's try it again. Welcome to
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  Speaker 4: this week's episode. Of wine and audacity. The podcast I'm
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  Speaker 4: your host, Brain is the Garden. I'm joined by two
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  Speaker 4: a my favorite people in the world. How you guys
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  Speaker 4: feeling this week? I'm somebody got here.
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  Speaker 2: Somebody's shaking the cheees he so they feelings nasty not zasty.
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  Speaker 4: Made a little bit. Welcome to the club.
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  Speaker 1: I think.
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  Speaker 3: Killing my sister yesterday.
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  Speaker 4: It was so back to this. I'm good too. Hey, y'all,
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  Speaker 4: welcome back to the Basement News. So Club one b D.
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  Speaker 4: It's hosted by the It's curated by guy I think
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  Speaker 4: his name is DJ David like and well, he did
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  Speaker 4: a he did a guest DJ set. I've seen it.
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  Speaker 2: I adore him.
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  Speaker 4: They was electric sided, sexy, electric slides, sugar free. But yeah,
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  Speaker 4: he does all of his events. He's a traveling DJ,
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  Speaker 4: but all of his events are curating. And they required
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  Speaker 4: you to essentially like come in like a certain color scheme.
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  Speaker 4: So they were in d C back in back in August,
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  Speaker 4: and you want to yellows and oranges because they aired
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  Speaker 4: a DJ set and everybody's in the background having a
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  Speaker 4: good time. It's about it's yeah, about fun.
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  Speaker 1: It's like it's another guy that I just that are
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  Speaker 1: just saying, uh, DJ Anthrax and that sounds dangerous.
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  Speaker 2: He mixed, he mixed.
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  Speaker 1: Uh Panic at the disco and like juvenile, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: was like, yo, I appreciate you guys, your old.
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  Speaker 4: School DJ And that's the song for the episode Kenny
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  Speaker 4: Burk's rising to the top. That's my ship, my kind.
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  Speaker 3: Of current, you know, I like staying honey, that gotta
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  Speaker 3: come out.
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  Speaker 4: Because yall can't hear that.
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  Speaker 1: You got. But I do appreciate it. I do appreciate
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  Speaker 1: it because I feel like I feel like most of
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  Speaker 1: those DJs, like they're younger than us. But then it's
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  Speaker 1: like when they do when they do, when they do
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  Speaker 1: certain tracks and like y'o appreciate y'all. Y'all, y'all play
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  Speaker 1: the real music and you gotta try to mix it
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  Speaker 1: with the new ship.
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  Speaker 4: But but it's nothing like it's nothing like the God.
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  Speaker 4: I think that the difference between a lot of old
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  Speaker 4: school ds and a lot of new school DJs is
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  Speaker 4: you gotta respect those DJs who still spind or mixed
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  Speaker 4: with vinyl records on like on like turntables and they
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  Speaker 4: actually scratching and mixing like I mean, it's good to have,
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  Speaker 4: Like the digital mixer, but they have like the legitimate
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  Speaker 4: they spending records with the tape on it and they
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  Speaker 4: mix something I just wanted to learn, but you know,
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  Speaker 4: I got a sort of tens span. I bou at
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  Speaker 4: a ship and to forget to sitting there. So I
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  Speaker 4: feel you.
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  Speaker 1: Every time I'm gonna go to like I used to
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  Speaker 1: go when I was in Georgia. I used to go
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  Speaker 1: to the little you know, the music store, and I like,
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  Speaker 1: I would just go to like I just go straight
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  Speaker 1: to the demons, straight to the uh the end to
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  Speaker 1: DJ mixer, and like, well, I'll be there. I'll be
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  Speaker 1: there for I'll be there for hours. Just because you
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  Speaker 1: thought about DJ, thought about it, thought about it. I
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  Speaker 1: mean I still like I still think like I still
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  Speaker 1: think about it, and it's just a matter of like
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  Speaker 1: trying to find actual like classes because I do want
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  Speaker 1: to learn. I do want to learn to use the
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  Speaker 1: electronic turntables, but at the same time, I also want
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  Speaker 1: to spend the vinyl.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like you could look locally for look, you
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  Speaker 4: can find the classes between here and DC. You could
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  Speaker 4: definitely find like classes at like a rec center or
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  Speaker 4: even like I feel like, you know how like maybe
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  Speaker 4: is event right, still a thing, not event, it's the
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  Speaker 4: living social if they still exist. But they probably they
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  Speaker 4: got soap making classes, wine making classes, candle make. You
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  Speaker 4: probably find a DJ class and then something. Yeah. One
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  Speaker 4: of my favorite DJs who I think, I think I'm
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  Speaker 4: gonna We watched his videos when at Friends Given last year.
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  Speaker 4: One of my favorite DJs who I cut that on
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  Speaker 4: Sundays when I'm at home mill prepping and water on
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  Speaker 4: plays and ship. His name is DJ Mike O'Leary. He's
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  Speaker 4: from Syracuse, New York. He does this, uh, this series
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  Speaker 4: on YouTube called Sunday Cleaning where he just mixes.
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  Speaker 2: It's all like all R and B juro.
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  Speaker 4: I mean he ain't white, but you know he white.
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  Speaker 4: He's white. I think he's Irish because o' learry, you know,
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  Speaker 4: but he's He usually does Sunday cleaning in like a
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  Speaker 4: barbershop up in Syracuse, but recently he's been doing stuff
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  Speaker 4: at the Standard Hotel in in in New York. In
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  Speaker 4: New York City. He's done. He's like a traveling DJ
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  Speaker 4: and I would love to check out next time he
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  Speaker 4: has an event in New Work. I think I'm signed
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  Speaker 4: up on this mailing list. The next time he does
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  Speaker 4: an event up in New York at the Standard Hotel.
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  Speaker 4: I want to go and actually be in the room.
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  Speaker 4: It'd be good for like a little day trip to
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  Speaker 4: go up and then come back, because it's a good
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  Speaker 4: thing about living living near Baltimore. Being from Baltimore, New
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  Speaker 4: York is legitimately three hours away. It's not that far.
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  Speaker 4: Me and Shawna we did day trips to go see
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  Speaker 4: the view. And granted we had to leave like four
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  Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning to get there, to get there early,
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  Speaker 4: but on three hours of sleep, you didn't. She in
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  Speaker 4: the car but anyway, and then I was like yeah
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  Speaker 4: because some some and she I was like, nigga, we
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  Speaker 4: were about to go in a tunnel across into Manhattan's.
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  Speaker 4: I tried. It's fun. I made I made it to Jersey.
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  Speaker 4: You didn't make it. You didn't make it out of Maryland.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't make it out of Maryland. You didn't. You
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  Speaker 4: will sleep by the time we hit Maryland House. Yes,
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  Speaker 4: I think you're quiet because we were listening to music
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  Speaker 4: and granted it was like it was like dark outside,
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  Speaker 4: but I looked also job in my truck though, but
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  Speaker 4: I got comfortable. I'm not used to being in the passion,
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  Speaker 4: just seep very often unless some ride for him. Usually
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  Speaker 4: I don't like did did you see the video I
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  Speaker 4: posted yesterday? But because again adhd we jumping all the
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  Speaker 4: conversations about finishing DJ mic O Leary on YouTube his
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  Speaker 4: series Sunday Cleaning. If you love DJ sets, if you
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  Speaker 4: want something to just have one in the background while
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  Speaker 4: your mail propping, cleaning your house, doing laundry. If you
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  Speaker 4: love R and B music like me, I'm a R
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  Speaker 4: and B head personally, check out his stuff. I think
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  Speaker 4: he's up to like version eighteen or nineteen now, and
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  Speaker 4: he does like ninety minute to two hours on DJ
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  Speaker 4: sets and all of his stuff is amazing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't remember the one. It was like he
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  Speaker 2: just walked in, like walked in the room.
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  Speaker 1: Let his little candles started rocking, like it just started rocking,
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  Speaker 1: and shit, he did justself.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, he's in me. So when he does some of
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  Speaker 4: the initially started and like he has a room in
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  Speaker 4: his house with all his his DJ setup and he'll
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  Speaker 4: like his candles is cantas sitting in the background on
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  Speaker 4: the ledge look around like he just mixing and standing
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  Speaker 4: and mixing. But the more recent ones he's he's up
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  Speaker 4: there with maybe one or two other DJs. He'll do
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  Speaker 4: the majority of the set, but he'll swap out with
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  Speaker 4: somebody else for like ten fifteen minutes to take a
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  Speaker 4: break and the come back to finish it. But yr
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  Speaker 4: his sets are I said, literally sit there and watch
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  Speaker 4: like we did that when I cut it on that
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  Speaker 4: Friends Given last year, the room got quacks. People were
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  Speaker 4: sitting there watching.
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  Speaker 2: Like good as had my plate light.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, like friends Giving soon come Wings Giving, Wings Giving.
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  Speaker 2: Even though it ends up then more than wings every year,
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  Speaker 2: but it's quite tasty. It's mostly just mostly wings lest.
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  Speaker 3: Somebody made a ham that hand. It's a good damn ham,
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  Speaker 3: and somebody made stuff and I think it was May's
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  Speaker 3: make some good head stuff.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, sorry, no, no I was.
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  Speaker 1: I was just going to say, like, yo, DJ is
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  Speaker 1: an artist too, of course they have to be, and
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  Speaker 1: like a lot of like yeah, they day artists too,
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  Speaker 1: and you can appreciate it, like yeah, I can appreciate
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  Speaker 1: a good DJ, of course, and you know, like I
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  Speaker 1: will go to like like David, I'll go to his concerts,
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  Speaker 1: Like if he like he throw a concert, I will go.
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  Speaker 1: It's a lot of like it's a lot of DJ's
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  Speaker 1: like you, I would just just sit there and just
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  Speaker 1: your vibe because like even watching it, like even watching it,
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  Speaker 1: like when he do like the live set and.
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  Speaker 2: Ship the party or the party isn't one in the apartment,
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  Speaker 2: it's crazy.
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  Speaker 4: Like I even think I found a lot of good
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  Speaker 4: DJs on TikTok who do like they go live and
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  Speaker 4: get like DJ sets for like hours on end just
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  Speaker 4: mix out. Yeah yeah that's what the chat on your phone.
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  Speaker 4: But it's good to watch tune in for a few minutes.
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  Speaker 1: Like that's where like one of my one of my other,
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  Speaker 1: my favorite DJs, I think it's I heard I heard
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  Speaker 1: Canvas and he mixed. He mixed like all our old
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  Speaker 1: TV shows with all the things, yeah, the TV show
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  Speaker 1: theme songs he did. I think it was like, uh,
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  Speaker 1: don't tell them with fail y'all parents, and it was
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  Speaker 1: like it was crazy, like it was crazy. I'm like, yeah, yo, y'all, Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: y'all creative, and I prey. I can appreciate y'all being creative.
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  Speaker 4: Creativity is good you need, especially when you mix a
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  Speaker 4: ship that don't go together at all, and it's like,
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  Speaker 4: wait a minute, that's actually nice, right, But anyway, what
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  Speaker 4: else is new besides you know DJ's and you know
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  Speaker 4: it's it's you know. We're coming towards the end of
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  Speaker 4: season three, y'all, we are.
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  Speaker 2: Slowly climbing.
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  Speaker 3: A few more episodes left, child a little more than
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  Speaker 3: a few.
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  Speaker 1: Be honest with y'all, thank you for you know, riding
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  Speaker 1: like for the ride my bye, a little sweepy.
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  Speaker 4: Somebody went out drinking last night and didn't send nobody
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  Speaker 4: in value.
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  Speaker 2: What had happened was.
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  Speaker 4: I got invited. That's all I got.
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  Speaker 2: Like I say, I was saying, like, how you I
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  Speaker 2: got it? How are you gonna get out this one? Batman?
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  Speaker 4: It was are you all ready to get into this
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  Speaker 4: question of the week? Saying some fools sucking Nigerian Batman.
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  Speaker 4: That shit took me out saying some foolishness.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a little.
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  Speaker 4: Nervous Nigerian batman.
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  Speaker 3: My god, today, tomorrow and the day after.
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  Speaker 4: All right, So let me go to my safe videos.
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  Speaker 2: Who is you?
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  Speaker 4: So I'll give y'all option video on a video two
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  Speaker 4: and I can tell you which one is which n
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  Speaker 4: H hold on, So welcome to why they do that?
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  Speaker 4: Welcome to our Question of the Week segment of the
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  Speaker 4: show where I scoured the interwebs, read my TikTok f
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  Speaker 4: P page and I find I found video. I find
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  Speaker 4: videos and save them, send them to our group chat
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  Speaker 4: and save them and pull them up to use them
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  Speaker 4: on the show. So I think we give them a
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  Speaker 4: rate between one and diabolical and then navy commentary occasional. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: an occasional blank face. So did y'all y'all want to do?
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  Speaker 2: Option?
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  Speaker 4: Want an option to Nigga? I want one? She won
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  Speaker 4: one and then like we tied if I win, is one?
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  Speaker 4: W okay, I want option one? Just do it? So
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  Speaker 4: onto this week's question. Now this is geared towards the women,
• 15:45
  Speaker 4: the lady folks. We love black women over here. We
• 15:48
  Speaker 4: love black women. Protect black women at all carts because
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: the most disrespected person in the world is a black.
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  Speaker 3: Woman except owen fucker. I mean and NICKI me know.
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  Speaker 4: Let me stop for the Bob is gonna be in
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  Speaker 4: my door about about Anka. So let's move on.
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  Speaker 3: So it's jokes when I start fair wedding except for
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  Speaker 3: Cantu's owners.
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  Speaker 4: I was serious about that. I mean, you mean, what
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  Speaker 4: nigga she making?
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  Speaker 2: She making some points and it's be like it's crazy
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  Speaker 2: because it's like I hate hold on. You know it's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: It's like I hate you, bitch.
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  Speaker 4: But what what points does what points does she make? Aaron?
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: No, I can't pull off. No, I can't pull up
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  Speaker 2: out the sky right now? Yo, you know why because
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  Speaker 2: they don't exist.
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  Speaker 4: Because it's bullshit. Stop talking, proceed This is gonna be
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  Speaker 4: a chaotic ass episode.
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  Speaker 2: I am bullish.
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  Speaker 4: I want to genuinely know what you agree on canvas
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  Speaker 4: owners with because a lot of the ninety eight percent
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  Speaker 4: of the ship she says is fucking fake. It's inflammatory
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  Speaker 4: and and she's a grifter, so we don't have to no,
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  Speaker 4: but no, I genuinely they do some research kumber clips
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  Speaker 4: because I want to talk about this. No, I'm just serious.
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  Speaker 2: I would she is.
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  Speaker 4: That's what I was getting sued by the first Lady
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  Speaker 4: of France was saying that she's a man.
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  Speaker 3: Oh that's so nice that Joey Tomorrow, sorry all skin at.
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  Speaker 4: All, She's a proof of that.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't know about that airrhyme, mgnight.
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  Speaker 4: Little fucking the first time were saying this on the boom, you.
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  Speaker 2: That that's not the first time we said that.
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  Speaker 4: I wasn't.
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  Speaker 6: Video yet they try to sue that lady for defamation,
• 17:44
  Speaker 6: knowing she ain't one damn lie.
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  Speaker 4: But so you did not hear about Candice Owens claiming
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  Speaker 4: repeatedly that the first Lady of France is a man.
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  Speaker 6: Brigitte Macron is a man despite pregnancies. Despite all of that,
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  Speaker 6: she said, show us proof that you were pregnant. So
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  Speaker 6: she's been calling that. She's been calling that they are
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  Speaker 6: suing her and they should for defament. I think Macron
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  Speaker 6: is suing her for defamation and she.
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  Speaker 2: Should just put on put on my money, just put
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: on a put on a boat, kanyeh.
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: She recently got her visa application to Australia got denied.
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: Take they got big spiders and ship over the tanker.
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: They do know, but they won't let her in the
• 18:32
  Speaker 4: country because of her. I think it's more turpitude or
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: something her more character or something white.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, are you going on Australia.
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: Who knows why she wants to go.
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: But take her because they got big spiders and what.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: Else visa That means that means you're trying to them.
• 18:52
  Speaker 6: Spider's gonna mamma for It's like they did they guy
• 18:54
  Speaker 6: with nine one one. Remember they got their call from
• 18:56
  Speaker 6: nine one one and the Spider said.
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: Why do you want Candice almost to be mamafied by
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: spider Australian.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: Spiders, that's crazy?
• 19:07
  Speaker 4: Why x y?
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: That's episode title song, why determinated win the election?
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: Yes, squire Lord, why x wy? When getting old Candy
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: Burke rising to the I sure.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: Was going to tell you make it despite the main
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: theme song, Oh Ship, when you said y x wy,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, damn x y'all been eating long enough now,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: oh Ship?
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: Your niggas funny?
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: You're ready for question the week?
• 19:37
  Speaker 6: Yeah, they don't come try to debate, micause I'm just
• 19:39
  Speaker 6: talking about your bowl head Mama.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: Not going to have an intelligent conversation with you. I'm
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: going to hell, ma'am. Sounds like your mother.
• 19:58
  Speaker 4: Women thirty plus, what's one red flag you ignored in
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: your twenties that you've never ignored now you already Yeah,
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: lack of compliments. He's a hate assist and doesn't want
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: to see you shine. Yep, yep. I agree, Jen agree.
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: I agree.
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: This isn't the process geared two women, but it really
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: can and does apply to any and everybody agreed, because
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: I didn't I didn't seem I.
• 20:32
  Speaker 6: Ain't telling you got to tell me every goddamn dated
• 20:34
  Speaker 6: I'm beautiful something. But when you you watch how people
• 20:37
  Speaker 6: carry themselves when you accomplished something or something that's going on,
• 20:41
  Speaker 6: and how they just be very careful and they just spouses.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: Because it's very close.
• 20:48
  Speaker 6: I'm telling y'all some stuff. You won't even catch it
• 20:51
  Speaker 6: first and then you think about it later. You never
• 20:53
  Speaker 6: had a thought, Lake, Lake, You'll be laying to be
• 20:56
  Speaker 6: and I'd.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Be like, wait a damn minute, everybody, this bit come
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: from everybody. Everybody say that's some Virgo ship, because I
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: would like I will pop up like that ship ain't
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: make no motherfucking sense it is.
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: Virgo ship because you'll you'll be over over analyzing.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: I wake up, yeah, and I stopped, like I'll be
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: playing the game ship like judgment was too shape.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: I ain't that much judgment.
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: I ain't that much your judgment and ship is internal
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: because to be reading all over your face. You try
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: to listen, you try to look unimpressed and unbothered, but
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: you be like.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: You don't have this your word, And let me say this.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: I try my best to meet people where they are,
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: and I try to. I try my being the dumb ass,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: just say it all.
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: Over your face. I would like just.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: Smile for me, like correct, am I incorrect? Get, I get,
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: I get the don't say ship, and I get the
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: shut the fuck up? Don't you say ship?
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: The large The answer is no, the next one.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Sean, Look, don't you say a month?
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: You realize he answer my question? He did.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: It's like can.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: It depends? Its depends my mother's child that I'm right,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: I'm robbing son. Hey ma, I am robbing son. Sometimes
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: my face will say my face will say, my face
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: say a thousand words before before I open my.
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: Biggas answer my questions. I was told to use my
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: inside case. I don't know one of women knowing to
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: say ship.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: Listen, I look, and I look, I apologize. Kind of let's.
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: Women thirty plus. What's one bread flag you ignored in
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: your twenties that you never ignore again. Don't ignore the
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: friend group that is who they are. Yep, sometimes most
• 23:14
  Speaker 4: of the time right, birds of a fleather fleather flock together.
• 23:21
  Speaker 4: The dyslexia popped up, not dyslexic, but birds of a
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: feather flock together, said the correctly. When I've had some
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: people that was friends. So it was nothing like notice,
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: I said.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: Head, no, no, but that's why, don't know. But that's
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: why they slowly became acquaintance.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Because friends, because you know, I believe we all have
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: I believe, you know, the four of us have like
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: a symbiotic relationship. We all feel, we all feel with
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: the other feels, and we are and then we all
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: have the fucked up minds, like you know, we all
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: got the same fucked up mind sometimes. So yeah, so
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: anybody else on outside, you'd be like, yeah, they ain't
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: gonna last long.
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not gonna work out on your favorite man.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's always gonna be the call for.
• 24:10
  Speaker 4: And that's okay. Another one, Well, fantastic girlfriends, Golden Girls,
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: living single, thank you for being in the friend women
• 24:22
  Speaker 4: thirty plus. What's one reflect you're ignoring your twenties that
• 24:26
  Speaker 4: you never ignored. Now, listen to the way they talk
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: about their exes. I agree, I agree, because yeah, all
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: of them was crazy, every last one stupid, all of
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: them was meaning to you, all of them, all of them,
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: every single one went in no good terms with nobody.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Somebody that's really really closer my circle who an elder
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: whenever she talks about her exes, and it's like all
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: of them, all of them hit you, all of them,
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: like all of them, like all I'm putting on y'all
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: alms mean to you, Like all of them said, like
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: he said, some crazy shit except for your married boyfriend.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: Oh hm hm oh mind you sure.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: Started from the meddle nill here ya.
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: Another one that popped up repeatedly was people who do
• 25:16
  Speaker 4: or don't take accountability, like the person I mentioned a
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: few episodes ago. Yeah, let's move on women thirty plus.
• 25:25
  Speaker 4: What's one red flag you ignored in your twenties that
• 25:27
  Speaker 4: you've never ignored now? Black eyes when angry you weren't
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: seeing things run agreed?
• 25:36
  Speaker 6: You know what's funny about that? I remember he's dad
• 25:40
  Speaker 6: telling me one time. He was like, is I remember
• 25:43
  Speaker 6: that'm a little pretty little brown eyes used to go
• 25:46
  Speaker 6: black when somebody will make you mad.
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: I was like me, yeah, not sweet on me me.
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: That's why we love you.
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: If somebody was messing with us, I don't bother nobody.
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: That don't bother me.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: You know what I wish a lot of people will
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: understand that, don't bother nobody who bothered me, No, I
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: mean yeah, that just that whole mantra in itself, like yo,
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: like most of the time, if we if if I
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: feel like if we if we stepped, if we stepping,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: you know already you fucked up because everybody lives on
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: that live.
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: But if you know black black eyes, I don't think
• 26:28
  Speaker 4: I've ever know somebody just that.
• 26:30
  Speaker 6: Be like who I should get Like I've seen it
• 26:34
  Speaker 6: happen before when they're anger, when somebody with them, or
• 26:36
  Speaker 6: they anger tank over like they got brown eyes their
• 26:40
  Speaker 6: whole little office just like black.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: You're like, y'allo, because this ain't about this been about
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: to be them, about to be this storm about to
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: hit children.
• 26:53
  Speaker 4: It's gonna be bad women thirty plus, what's one reflect
• 26:56
  Speaker 4: you're ignored in your twenties that you never ignored now?
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: Love bombing seems great, but it's an illusion. The person's
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: hid him and there is nothing great behind the mask.
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: Just leave, even if you don't have a reason. I
• 27:10
  Speaker 4: thought the exive attention was a sign he was really interested,
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: but it's a way to get you hooked. So when
• 27:15
  Speaker 4: he pulls away, you're the one left thinking something that's
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: wrong with you? Right there, boy, he really liked me.
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: Well, he really, he's just telling you a lot of times,
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: they're just telling.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: You what they think you want to hear.
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: And be very careful of telling people like your past trauma.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: Or because them niggas is listening, like going into.
• 27:37
  Speaker 6: Extreme detail about how to get you or keep you,
• 27:41
  Speaker 6: because they are only going to do all of those
• 27:44
  Speaker 6: things just to get you.
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: And and then once they get you, the fight is over.
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: They got you. Now they don't have to do that
• 27:49
  Speaker 4: stuff no more.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: I set the science ship to such a saion ship
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: to somebody close in the circle, and in one of
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: the outside circles. It's like, yo, like stop giving these
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: niggas the blueprint. You get these niggas the blueprint they know,
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: they know exactly what to say to you. They know
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: exactly how to trigger you, and then they know exactly
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: how to bring you back in when you when you're
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: going off that deep end.
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: I look at this from a different perspective. I feel
• 28:11
  Speaker 4: like you want to talk to people and let them
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: know or teach them who you are. But I also
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: feel like keeping your wits about yourself and being able
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: to differentiate between genuine interests as somebody who's piling it
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: on too fast, too quick, Yeah, too.
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: Smooth, Like you can tell them what's your interest, so
• 28:29
  Speaker 3: they what you like and don't like stuff like that.
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I agree with that.
• 28:34
  Speaker 6: But what I mean is it's a certain I just
• 28:37
  Speaker 6: feel like it's a certain parts of yourself that you
• 28:40
  Speaker 6: cannot yeah, because because they're going to use it against you.
• 28:47
  Speaker 6: And maybe I'm just being paranoid. I don't know what
• 28:49
  Speaker 6: I've seen going to use it against you to know
• 28:53
  Speaker 6: what triggers you Like, I only think that past relationships
• 28:57
  Speaker 6: should be discussed to a certain extent.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, like interest them, so to what extent.
• 29:03
  Speaker 6: So I just feel like I'm trying to think I
• 29:09
  Speaker 6: had a word that's like I got it in my
• 29:10
  Speaker 6: head and I'm just trying to think I how to
• 29:12
  Speaker 6: word it. So like, for example, I don't think that
• 29:15
  Speaker 6: somebody should know all your past trauma.
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: I just don't think they should, you.
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: Mean in general, just early early on, because I mean,
• 29:23
  Speaker 4: if you get into a long term relationship, somebody, they're
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: gonna learn about you regardless. But I think the key is.
• 29:30
  Speaker 6: Triggered by it because let me tell you why, Because
• 29:32
  Speaker 6: somebody who I thought I was gonna be with long term,
• 29:35
  Speaker 6: who I trusted, who I was with for a.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: Number of years.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: When they got mad at me, they threw my trauma
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: in my faith.
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah right.
• 29:43
  Speaker 6: So ever since then, I was like, I'm never telling
• 29:46
  Speaker 6: somebody else about that particular part of my TRUMPA because
• 29:49
  Speaker 6: I just always feel like, when you get mad at me,
• 29:50
  Speaker 6: you're going to throw that shit in my face because
• 29:52
  Speaker 6: you know it hurts. Even though I've dealt with it
• 29:54
  Speaker 6: and I've gone to therapy and I've learned to cope
• 29:56
  Speaker 6: with it and all that other stuff. But I don't
• 29:59
  Speaker 6: think I'm ever let somebody know that put again because
• 30:02
  Speaker 6: I'm afraid it is being weaponized.
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: So that's kind of That's what I'm trying to say.
• 30:06
  Speaker 6: I just feel like certain or if you have exes
• 30:08
  Speaker 6: who did X, Y Z two, you, I feel like
• 30:11
  Speaker 6: if you tell them that, they're gonna be like, oh
• 30:13
  Speaker 6: this ship, she let that get away with that for years, years,
• 30:15
  Speaker 6: years years years.
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: Oh then not away with this, get away with that,
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: so I can get away with this.
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Or around they know how to.
• 30:24
  Speaker 4: Walk around it.
• 30:26
  Speaker 6: Like it's like it's just like certain things. I just
• 30:28
  Speaker 6: felt like I wouldn't. I don't think I would tell.
• 30:31
  Speaker 4: And I'm the exact opposite in a situation where I
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: don't believe in withhold, especially if I'm comfortable, comfortable enough
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: with you as a person and we're dating, and we've
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: been dating for a while and conversations are starting to happen,
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: We're getting to know each other on a deeper level,
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: and I will tell you stuff, but the cutoff for
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: me is when you throw it in my face. That's
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: the cut off. I wouldn't withhold stuff because I feel
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: like withholding stuff in terms of like dating or getting
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: to know somebody, it can actually lead to a destrimental
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: situation because they don't know what a trigger is. They
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: don't know what to do.
• 31:06
  Speaker 6: Yeah, maybe you can say that, and maybe it's say,
• 31:08
  Speaker 6: like I believe in settin boundary. Yeah, of course I
• 31:12
  Speaker 6: believe that is a boundary, right telling them that kind
• 31:14
  Speaker 6: of stuff, Oh distriggers me, or this bothers me, I'm
• 31:17
  Speaker 6: uncomfortable with this or something like that.
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: But I just feel like other certain things because I
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: mean I would I would say something, especially if we're
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: talking having a conversation about like our childhood, and we're
• 31:27
  Speaker 4: talking about well, this happened to me when I was
• 31:29
  Speaker 4: a kid, and they know it and they say, oh wow,
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: like I didn't know that, like, and we go into
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: conversations learning about those parts of ourselves. But then when
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: the argument research starts because couples.
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: People sucked up because I felt such, that is.
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: The drop point for me, because I feel like at
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: that point, if I tell you something in confidence or
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: you you've learned something about me, and you weaponize that
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: and I'll trust you again.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: And that happened to me in the past relationship he
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: and that made me really I was already starting to pull,
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: pull away and distance myself from him. I was finally
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: starting to see my word and stuff. And then we
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: got into it about something and he literally threw my
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: trauma in my face like like oh up because it
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: was such and such that you that ain't my problem
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: and that ship I literally felt my fucking heart just.
• 32:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah that hurt.
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: Your stomach just dropped and my my eyes might have
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: turned like that fucking day.
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: Because that that that that that I feel, you bitch,
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: And then no, I didn't.
• 32:36
  Speaker 4: I no longer like my love for him. I ain't
• 32:39
  Speaker 4: mad at it.
• 32:40
  Speaker 6: I could I can't ask because if you if you're
• 32:43
  Speaker 6: gonna throw that in my face, god knows what else
• 32:45
  Speaker 6: you're going through on my face.
• 32:46
  Speaker 4: I said, So that just took away me.
• 32:49
  Speaker 6: Now I'm not gonna I'm not sitting here saying that,
• 32:52
  Speaker 6: you know, if I ever end up in a relationship again,
• 32:55
  Speaker 6: or when I do, or whatever.
• 32:56
  Speaker 4: That.
• 32:59
  Speaker 6: I wouldn't trust somebody else because it's not their fault.
• 33:02
  Speaker 6: And I don't believe in punishing other people.
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: What other people do?
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: You know?
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: But I do you know that I would be a
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: lot more cautious then i've been.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: I would say this though, that I know I've been
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: on the I've been on the other I've been on
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: the like the other side of that where.
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: You've used somebody's trauma against them.
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: No, I never I didn't use it, but they used
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: their own trauma against me, saying you know what I've
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: been through? You know, like you know what I'm saying,
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: like guilt people that do that, Yeah, laying the guilt
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: trip on like laying the guilt trip on me or
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: matter of fact, yeah the X the like, lay the
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: guilt trip on me. And it's like, you know, you
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: already know what I've been through. Why would you like
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: why would you do that? Why would you saying It's like.
• 33:42
  Speaker 6: People that use their trauma to justify the expect to them, right,
• 33:49
  Speaker 6: And it's like that's not that's not okay.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: For a wow, I would stop, you know what I'm saying,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: Like yeah, for a while, I'd be like, you know,
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: for a while. It's like like I would like the
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: whole like the whole conversation would stop, and I like,
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: I shut down, go ahead about my business, like you
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: know what, I'm out. That's how I hang out here,
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: Like all right, I'm all right, I'm gonna go ahead,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: like I'm gonna go ahead home. You know, I high
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: at you, you know, like you know how I guess
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: how you know, I guess I'll talk to you and
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: I talk to you when I get in the household
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: I talked to you in the morning, and then lo
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: and behold, like she pulled up, you know, she outside
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: the house and the house trying to take a nigga
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: to work, and it's like, so we're gonna talk about
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: what you said last night, Like to me, there's.
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: No conversation after that. That happened to me once in
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: a relationship when I was in my twenties.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: But that's what they had since started.
• 34:36
  Speaker 4: The conversation happened, the disagreement or argument happened, and it
• 34:39
  Speaker 4: was starting of my face and I shut down immediately.
• 34:41
  Speaker 4: I said, Okay, don't Yeah, conversation stopped. It was argument.
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: It was just it was just the wall was up
• 34:49
  Speaker 4: and there was no coming back from there. Yeah, but
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: I was coming. I think a lot of people don't.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's what they said, the way they talk
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: about their X, like the way they talk about the X,
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: and then at the same time it's it's like like,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: you don't want us to weaponize you don't want us
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: to weaponize your trauma, but at the same time, you
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: can't weaponize your trauma.
• 35:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Like that's all about emotional maturity. Yeah, and knowing
• 35:11
  Speaker 4: when to when to work with somebody, when to say
• 35:14
  Speaker 4: fuck you, I'm out because I'm not putting.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Up with fuck this ship.
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: I'm out. Next one women thirty plus, what's one reflect
• 35:21
  Speaker 4: that you ignored in your twenties that you never ignored now?
• 35:24
  Speaker 4: I think this is a good conversation starter, and this
• 35:26
  Speaker 4: one I don't necessarily agree with. I'm gonna help you
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: all out. If he had no dad in the home,
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: he is hurting deep down, probably has an ego problem
• 35:35
  Speaker 4: as well. He's literally going through life learning how to
• 35:38
  Speaker 4: be a man. I just gave y'all the sauce this.
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: I don't agree it's ironic. Man kid had had the
• 35:45
  Speaker 4: conversation about this stuff, about this the other night. Well,
• 35:50
  Speaker 4: I was talking about like how I might have.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: How like you know, I might have, like how i'm
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: might have like I might have like a misconstrued like
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: idea like when a man is And Keata was saying
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: that she thinks that I mean, she thought that I mean,
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: Kata thought that I had like I am the wait
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: it out. She don't understand why I am the way
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: that I am in terms of how how I like,
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: how I handle, like how I like I worked, like
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: I worked to take care like I work to try to,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: you know, try to take care of mom, try to
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: take care of her and her and my family period.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: Like I'm the one that's like, you know, trying to
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: be the provider or whatever. Whereas though I grew up
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: my mother was the provider. My grandmother was the provider
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: for my mother. So it's like usually, you know, usually
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: in those situations, like when a man grows up and
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: a woman is that provider, you know, they they grow up,
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: they grew up depending on that, you know, depending on
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: the woman. Like and for me, it's like yeah, I mean, yeah,
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: my father wasn't there, Like my father wasn't the mother did, yeah,
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: my father, Like yeah, it's like just because my dad
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: wasn't dead, like you pre like you're already pre judging
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: me before you even before you even like you know,
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: we actually have like a deep conversation, and that's like
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: like that you don't even know, like you don't know me.
• 37:05
  Speaker 6: That was a generalization and it wasn't fair because because
• 37:10
  Speaker 6: that's not always the case.
• 37:11
  Speaker 4: And I know situations.
• 37:14
  Speaker 6: I've seen men who fathers weren't in the household who
• 37:17
  Speaker 6: are amazing men who because of what they saw their
• 37:22
  Speaker 6: mothers go through and with their mother, what they saw
• 37:26
  Speaker 6: their mother's experience, and with their how they saw their
• 37:30
  Speaker 6: mothers strive to take care of them and their siblings
• 37:33
  Speaker 6: if they had any, they become the man that they
• 37:35
  Speaker 6: feel like their fathers should have been.
• 37:37
  Speaker 4: So that's not that now, is it the case?
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: Sometimes?
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: Yes?
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: But it's also vice versative, and it's also applies in
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: a case where you have a father in the home,
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: but he wasn't shit. He was stepping down on your mother,
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: didn't pay bills, your mother's store, had to do everything.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: And some men internalized just they had a father in
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: the home, but their father wasn't shit, so that ain't
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: shit or and.
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: They can end up one of two ways.
• 37:56
  Speaker 6: You can be the man that you feel like your
• 37:57
  Speaker 6: father should have been, or you can be the man
• 37:59
  Speaker 6: that your father was because you thought that that was
• 38:01
  Speaker 6: what you were supposed to be.
• 38:02
  Speaker 4: So that that was a generalization. I didn't like that.
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: I didn't like that.
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: Man bash and stuff sometimes, but it's just me jokes
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: that I didn't.
• 38:14
  Speaker 4: I didn't agree with that.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: I can't because I saw that I saw.
• 38:21
  Speaker 4: It was crazy how my my dad passed in two
• 38:23
  Speaker 4: thousand and three and I got closer to my younger
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: brother and my stepmother.
• 38:28
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 38:29
  Speaker 4: Years later, my stepbrother and my stepmother didn't come to
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: my college graduation, but my both my brothers and my
• 38:35
  Speaker 4: dad's side came up for my college graduation, and me
• 38:39
  Speaker 4: and my stepmother had gotten closer, you know, after my
• 38:42
  Speaker 4: dad passed, And I mean, should y'all know my dad
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: lived in Chicago. We were hear in Baltimore. My dad
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: wasn't fucking around either. I saw my mother take care
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: of not just me, but all my nieces and nephews
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: because of my sister and her issues. So my mother
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: went from having two adult children in the house having
• 38:59
  Speaker 4: me when they were eighteen to nineteen. My niece, eldest
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: NIE's Ebo shout out to Ebo, was born six months
• 39:08
  Speaker 4: after I was born, and she went from basically having
• 39:10
  Speaker 4: one child to take care of to then having off
• 39:15
  Speaker 4: three and then later four of my nieces and nephews
• 39:17
  Speaker 4: in the house with us and having the struggle to
• 39:18
  Speaker 4: take care of five kids, but only one of them
• 39:20
  Speaker 4: was hers. And I saw that level of sacrifice, saw
• 39:24
  Speaker 4: that type of you could tell. I could see how
• 39:29
  Speaker 4: stressed out my mother was trying having to make money
• 39:32
  Speaker 4: stretch and having to do for all these goddamn kids
• 39:34
  Speaker 4: when she only really had to take care of one.
• 39:37
  Speaker 4: And she did it, of course in a lot of
• 39:40
  Speaker 4: ways to of course, like a lot of our families do,
• 39:42
  Speaker 4: to keep kids out of the system, going into foster
• 39:45
  Speaker 4: care or being adopted out to other people because you
• 39:47
  Speaker 4: want to keep your family together. But that still took
• 39:50
  Speaker 4: a toll, and for me and my situation. Again, everybody's different,
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: everybody has different maturity levels. I saw the way my
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: mother struggled, and I knew that I didn't want anything
• 40:00
  Speaker 4: part to that. I didn't want to be a single parent,
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: or to be a young parent at seventeen, eighteen, nineteen
• 40:05
  Speaker 4: years old. Hell, that's why I'm fucking thirty eight. But no,
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: damn can will minus the whole gay thing.
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: Oh you know, bro, you know it's coming.
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: It is. But that's why I didn't want to be
• 40:16
  Speaker 4: a young parent. That's why I didn't want to struggle
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: and stay in fucking park heists the rest of my
• 40:20
  Speaker 4: got them life like Unfortunately my nieces no shade, but
• 40:22
  Speaker 4: a lot of my nieces and nephews are are now
• 40:24
  Speaker 4: that's what they still let.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: But we grew up, so it.
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: To piggyback, I agree with some parts. Are their traumas
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: and are their associated dealings and feelings from not having
• 40:37
  Speaker 4: a present parent, Absolutely, But do they affect my decision
• 40:42
  Speaker 4: making or do they negatively affect my decision making now
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: as an adult? No, because I saw it, and I
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: strive to be different like a lot of people do.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that even even with the whole like
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: parents and things like you know, me and Brandon, like
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: me and Brandon, we this is.
• 41:00
  Speaker 4: His brother, his brother, his younger brother after him. We
• 41:03
  Speaker 4: have the same name, but not the same.
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: Person, not man.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: But yeah, so yeah, but yeah, me and like me
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: and Brandon, don't we we didn't really talk, like you know,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: we didn't really talk to my father.
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: I want to say the up.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: Until the month before my wedding, I hadn't seen my
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: father since I was in the sixth grade.
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: No, I'm sorry, Yeah, yeah, yeah, sixth grade.
• 41:27
  Speaker 4: He got married up with twenty six twenty five.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, twenty five. Yeah, so that's from that's
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: from like twelve.
• 41:39
  Speaker 4: To twenty thirteen years yep.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: So it was one of those situations like I gave
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: him a chance and we now we like now we
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: like we were cool, Like now we're cool. And don't
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: even like like he even you know, even like met
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: AJ and like you know, they everybody like we we're okay,
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: like you know, he might buy AJ dipers or something,
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: or he just slide you know, the slide money through whatever. However,
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: on the other side, bees don't want to talk to him.
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: And I mean when my uncle, Like when my uncle died.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: They they had you know, they had a moment. But
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: after that it was like, you know, he was cool
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: on it. And it's to the point whereas though I
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: like I told him, like I told my father, I
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: was like, yo, you you you gotta let him come
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: to you. I don't know how long that's gonna take. Ship, Nigga,
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: you might be on your death bed.
• 42:28
  Speaker 4: Just because just because you ready don't mean I will
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: ever be right.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: So it's like, you know, it is like it's one
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: of those things, like it is what it is, what
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: it is in.
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: Relationships in general. You especially with a lot of parents
• 42:38
  Speaker 4: who go through their own problems with drug addiction or
• 42:40
  Speaker 4: just not wanting to be around, and then when they
• 42:42
  Speaker 4: finally clean theirself up or they get they they're in
• 42:45
  Speaker 4: a coherent space. They want to try to say, hey,
• 42:47
  Speaker 4: that's my kid, and the kids like, no, you ain't
• 42:48
  Speaker 4: never been around. Why try to start now? Try to
• 42:50
  Speaker 4: be president when you haven't been this entire.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: And be I believe because of that, that's why Brandes
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: strives like he strives to be the best you know
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: what I mean, the best fun he got, you know,
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: he he gets he gets all three of his kids
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: he take them out. He he does like he is
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: out there playing basketball with him, doing whatever, doing whatever
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: there is they want to do.
• 43:09
  Speaker 4: Question though, what's the follow up question? Would you categorize
• 43:13
  Speaker 4: that reaction as a trauma response? Yeah?
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my father was his superhero. Oh like my father
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: was bringing the superhero. And when that and when when
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: that veil came, when that veil came down that ship.
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: I mean I feel like, I mean I told my
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: father like he broke his heart, like he thought you yo,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: he thought you was the he thought you was the ship.
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: Couldn't nobody tell couldn't nobody tell Brandon nothing about him?
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: And he saw and when he saw the truth, yo,
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: it was like I mean, when he when he saw
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: that truth and that that ugly side Joe, that was
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: that was it, you know what I mean?
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: That was it.
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: That was different. That was That was pretty much.
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: I had to one of the things I learned, like
• 43:58
  Speaker 4: as I got older when it comes to dealing with
• 44:01
  Speaker 4: my dad. And this is one of the conversations. When
• 44:03
  Speaker 4: I used to go down to Virginia to stay with
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: my stepmother and younger brother when they still lived there.
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: My stepmother and I started talking about my dad and
• 44:10
  Speaker 4: their relationship. And you know, my dad was abusive when
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: he was with my mother. He was the same, oh yeah,
• 44:18
  Speaker 4: oh yeah. My grandmother threatened starting to put glass in
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: his food. But the point I was I was initially
• 44:29
  Speaker 4: doing because we got off on the side again, You're good,
• 44:31
  Speaker 4: You're good. My stepmother and I we were having a
• 44:34
  Speaker 4: conversation about my dad and she talked told me a
• 44:35
  Speaker 4: lot about their respective relationship and the stuff he put
• 44:38
  Speaker 4: her through. And my my younger brother, had his his issues.
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: He harbored a lot of hurt, and a lot of
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: that translated into or manifested his anger that he would
• 44:48
  Speaker 4: lash out at everybody, you know, at his mother, he
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: would lash out just in general because he had a
• 44:54
  Speaker 4: lot of hurt about my dad not being around. Oh
• 44:56
  Speaker 4: he he internalized, I hate putting fuck business out there.
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: But you know, just to clarify point, he harbored a
• 45:04
  Speaker 4: lot of hurt about our dad not being around, and
• 45:08
  Speaker 4: he in a lot of ways blamed himself for that.
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: He was like, if I was better, if I if
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: I would have did this, if I would have did dad,
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: he would have shown up. And I had to explain
• 45:16
  Speaker 4: to him my relationship with our dad and I'll stepped
• 45:18
  Speaker 4: up after me, explaining that he was kind of shocked
• 45:20
  Speaker 4: like I was like, well, yeah, like y'all know we now.
• 45:25
  Speaker 4: My mother left Chicago in eighty five. I was I
• 45:29
  Speaker 4: was the litteral oops baby. She went back on see
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: what this nigga talking about, and then got back on
• 45:34
  Speaker 4: the plane fucking pregnant. They they were engaged to be married.
• 45:44
  Speaker 4: She got tired of my falling his foolishness back and
• 45:47
  Speaker 4: they were to gut almost five offen off almost five
• 45:49
  Speaker 4: years they were engaged to be married. My mother was
• 45:53
  Speaker 4: in the navy, She's a navy nurse. She got tired
• 45:56
  Speaker 4: of him and his foolishness and his weaponis and confidence,
• 46:01
  Speaker 4: and she put in for a transfer and she took
• 46:03
  Speaker 4: my older brother and older sister and left to said
• 46:06
  Speaker 4: she gave my godfather back. My father's said, get that
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: to him, how I holler? He summoned her bag in
• 46:14
  Speaker 4: March or April or eighty six, and she got back
• 46:16
  Speaker 4: on the plane pregnant, full of something. And here I
• 46:22
  Speaker 4: am today. AnyWho follow fluffy and but she my stepmother.
• 46:31
  Speaker 4: I explained my relationship with my dad and my brother.
• 46:33
  Speaker 4: It kind of felt like something was clicking for him,
• 46:36
  Speaker 4: and my stepmother was like, yeah, I saw it. I
• 46:39
  Speaker 4: knew about your older brother. He didn't talk about me much,
• 46:42
  Speaker 4: but my stepmother knew about me. She didn't They didn't
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: know where I was, but she knew that I existed.
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: And she was like, well, you're internalizing his treatment or you,
• 46:53
  Speaker 4: or his lack of treatment, thinking that it was something
• 46:57
  Speaker 4: wrong with you, when in actuality was him in his shortcomings.
• 47:01
  Speaker 4: He acknowledged all four of us. He just wasn't around
• 47:04
  Speaker 4: because he chose not to be. He chose not to
• 47:07
  Speaker 4: be present. Now, also his death played a partner because
• 47:10
  Speaker 4: he passed when I was sixteen, My younger brother was twelve.
• 47:14
  Speaker 4: He was a month before his thirteenth birthday he passed,
• 47:17
  Speaker 4: So it was a thing of like, yo, he was around,
• 47:21
  Speaker 4: he just did. He acknowledged all four of us. He
• 47:23
  Speaker 4: just wasn't around because he chose not to be. He
• 47:26
  Speaker 4: was in his own thing, doing his own thing. He
• 47:28
  Speaker 4: got used to living his life on his own terms.
• 47:31
  Speaker 4: They come around when he feel like it. Then it
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: was fucked up. As a teenager, I did this experiment.
• 47:36
  Speaker 4: I don't think I've ever told you about this. We
• 47:39
  Speaker 4: were living in Chicago and My mother would say, Brandon,
• 47:41
  Speaker 4: call your father, check on or see how you doing,
• 47:42
  Speaker 4: See how you doing, see what's going on with this?
• 47:44
  Speaker 4: And I was like, I'm like eleven or twelve years old.
• 47:48
  Speaker 4: He father, moytherfucker I calling him to check on in
• 47:51
  Speaker 4: So at eleven or twelve, I had to bring a dancer.
• 47:54
  Speaker 4: I called him to see how he was. We talked
• 47:56
  Speaker 4: for maybe thirty minutes and then got the phone. He's
• 47:57
  Speaker 4: all right, I got something to do. I talked to you.
• 47:59
  Speaker 4: I said, cool. I said, all right, hung up the phone.
• 48:02
  Speaker 4: I'm not talking to him until he calls me again.
• 48:04
  Speaker 4: It took him four months to call me to see
• 48:06
  Speaker 4: how I.
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: Was doing, understand, And I said, I said, I'm gonna wait.
• 48:11
  Speaker 4: I said, I'm a nigga, I'm your kid. Why am
• 48:12
  Speaker 4: I calling you to check on you? And you my
• 48:14
  Speaker 4: dad parent? So it literally we talked. This was school.
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: It was the end of the school year, so this
• 48:20
  Speaker 4: was like April going into men. I didn't hear from
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: him until it was time for school to start because
• 48:25
  Speaker 4: he was like, so, yeah, you can school start. You
• 48:27
  Speaker 4: need something like what you need your shoes, you need
• 48:28
  Speaker 4: like you know, stuff. But the whole mom went by
• 48:31
  Speaker 4: and hear from him at all. You know where I was,
• 48:33
  Speaker 4: knew my number. They said, he you wanna come down
• 48:35
  Speaker 4: the house, you wanna hang out? None of that.
• 48:37
  Speaker 6: You should talk to it. If not every day, at
• 48:39
  Speaker 6: least multiple times a week. You should talk to your children.
• 48:44
  Speaker 6: Don't live in the same household with them. I mean,
• 48:46
  Speaker 6: I understand that.
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: How do I feel that way even if it's a
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: text message, good morning, Jackson, have a good day or something.
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: Being somebody's mother, I've always spelt that way, and so like.
• 48:59
  Speaker 6: As Trey started get older, like if you would go
• 49:00
  Speaker 6: away for the summer or whatever like that, it might
• 49:03
  Speaker 6: not have been every day. But if he don't call
• 49:05
  Speaker 6: me and I don't call him, Uh, did you forget
• 49:09
  Speaker 6: you had a mother?
• 49:10
  Speaker 4: That's sound like my mother. Oh you forgot you had
• 49:12
  Speaker 4: a mother. You can't call nobody.
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: No, it wasn't every day, but he was a text message.
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: It was something you forgot you had a mother. You
• 49:20
  Speaker 4: can't call nobody. I'm not talk to you three dars ago.
• 49:22
  Speaker 4: I'm still.
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: Even in my grown is age. I'm almost forty years old.
• 49:28
  Speaker 6: Let me go a couple of days when I'm talking
• 49:29
  Speaker 6: to my mother, she called me and say, the people
• 49:31
  Speaker 6: was at your door because.
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: I ain't talking.
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: When was the last time do you talk to you?
• 49:35
  Speaker 4: By the time when you was living up the street
• 49:36
  Speaker 4: from them, when I was living in Silver Spring, and
• 49:38
  Speaker 4: she called me in a panic because she hadn't heard
• 49:39
  Speaker 4: from you.
• 49:40
  Speaker 6: You was like, my phone was messed up and I
• 49:42
  Speaker 6: couldn't That's what the issue was in my house phone.
• 49:44
  Speaker 6: They were supposed to be coming to fix it. So
• 49:46
  Speaker 6: my cell phone is eight and dumb. I couldn't charge
• 49:48
  Speaker 6: it and I couldn't get to the door to get Brandon.
• 49:51
  Speaker 4: Brandon, ain't he showing it? Four days, I keep going
• 49:54
  Speaker 4: by the house, checking her to make sure she I
• 49:55
  Speaker 4: keep calling her.
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: She's not answering.
• 49:56
  Speaker 4: I don't know what's going on, go checking her. It's
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: I drove up there. She was like, Hey, what's up?
• 50:01
  Speaker 4: Oh Hey, come on in.
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: I'm fine.
• 50:03
  Speaker 4: Traps in there watching something on TV. They was sitting
• 50:05
  Speaker 4: and she was like, the phone, my phone messed up.
• 50:07
  Speaker 4: I was on my phone and I couldn't get it fixed.
• 50:09
  Speaker 4: I was next day or something. My hold on, here
• 50:11
  Speaker 4: you go.
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: I do something.
• 50:15
  Speaker 4: Why don't y'all say so, you send Brandon all the
• 50:17
  Speaker 4: way over here?
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 50:19
  Speaker 4: But you were living in the Hipercunics. It was like
• 50:20
  Speaker 4: twenty minutes away. I was like, I'm my phone will
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: be fixed by them.
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: I do, but I do acknowledge. I do acknowledge that.
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: And I like as far as like to your like
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: to the point to the point that you that you
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: point out about your dad, like knowing that y'all, you
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: know he know about y'all.
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: And I think that sometimes. But also I mean I
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: also look on look at it.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: On the other side, it's like, yo, I'm already fucked up,
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: Like I already fucked up, and I'm a you know,
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: like they already don't even want to talk.
• 50:49
  Speaker 6: I want to last time to talk to you kids,
• 50:53
  Speaker 6: to ask a question. Son, let me tell you I
• 50:55
  Speaker 6: dope with a guy like that before.
• 50:56
  Speaker 4: And I was going to tell you, I also look
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: at it. Look at it from this perspective childhood. Regardless
• 51:03
  Speaker 4: of whether you have one parent in the home, both
• 51:05
  Speaker 4: parents in the home, everybody is going to be traumatized
• 51:08
  Speaker 4: by something. You can't grow up and not be traumatized
• 51:10
  Speaker 4: in some sort of way. Because like we had the
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: argument or had the conversation a few episodes ago about
• 51:17
  Speaker 4: how you can have siblings close in age, and if
• 51:22
  Speaker 4: y'all grew up in the same household, under the same
• 51:24
  Speaker 4: under the same circumstances, in the same household, with the
• 51:26
  Speaker 4: same parents, but have had markedly different personalities, you could
• 51:30
  Speaker 4: have taken the way you were treated as children totally differently,
• 51:35
  Speaker 4: and you all could have different stations in life, because
• 51:37
  Speaker 4: people take things and process things differently, you know, different way.
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, yeah, it's I mean, it's that Like I
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: said that that right there.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: I mean, just to bring it back for that woman
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: to generalize it about it was a guy who said that.
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: Bad for that, you know, for the person to generalize
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: that about, you know, like them not having a dad,
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: like the man not having a dad in the home,
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: and you know, you this and your this, your dad
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: and you got this going on. You already got trauma.
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: But it's like everybody we had trauma, like we all
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: got we all got baggage.
• 52:17
  Speaker 4: Everybody else. You can't not have baggage growing up. Everybody's
• 52:19
  Speaker 4: traumatized by something. You can be in the house with
• 52:22
  Speaker 4: your daddy and he sees you and give you a
• 52:24
  Speaker 4: nod and pay all the bills we don't have to
• 52:26
  Speaker 4: do with you. But he was in the house, So
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: that makes you automatically a better person, right, Like, why
• 52:30
  Speaker 4: you don't like me? What says I got to like
• 52:34
  Speaker 4: a lot? Right fucking fence or that scene in Fences.
• 52:37
  Speaker 4: I wouldn't say it was traumatizing, but that shit was like,
• 52:40
  Speaker 4: ain't no law I say I got to like you? Well,
• 52:43
  Speaker 4: shit the funk.
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: Out of me.
• 52:45
  Speaker 4: Moving on women thirty plus, what's one red flag you
• 52:49
  Speaker 4: ignored in your thirties that you've never ignored. Now, if
• 52:58
  Speaker 4: a man ignores and doesn't process or tend to his
• 53:00
  Speaker 4: own emotions, he will not be able to tend to yours.
• 53:03
  Speaker 4: Emotional intelligence is a must.
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: Agreed mm hmm, yeah, yeah, I can. I mean, I
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: can agree with that.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: And however, I also feel like I think a lot
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: of men are in the stages of allowing themselves to
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: actually feel emotions, and some women don't. Necessarily some women
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: don't necessarily like you know, care for it, I mean
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: not necessarily care for it. But it's like, you know,
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: they look at it like they it's a little difficult
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: for them to understand that Now the dude feeling like
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: now he's he can't find he's finally found in a
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: space that he's comfortable to actually feel emotions and open
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: up and show the emotions, because I mean, I see
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: a lot of the TikTok videos where a guy will
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: be acting like guy will be playful and a girl
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: will be like, stop acting like a kid, and then like,
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: yore ad to that.
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: It's nothing.
• 53:56
  Speaker 4: It's also been said that a lot of men, women
• 53:59
  Speaker 4: and men have differferent types of friendships. Where a lot
• 54:02
  Speaker 4: of women, a lot of men will have friendships based
• 54:06
  Speaker 4: around activities or the fact that they're in the same
• 54:08
  Speaker 4: they went to the same college, or they play sports together,
• 54:11
  Speaker 4: they left waste together, they are part of the same
• 54:13
  Speaker 4: bowling league or trivia league, or you know, friends that
• 54:16
  Speaker 4: they in their fraternity brothers, so they cultivate those relationships
• 54:19
  Speaker 4: that way, Whereas women will have a lot of a
• 54:22
  Speaker 4: lot of friendships and a lot of the same reasons,
• 54:25
  Speaker 4: but those friendships are more dynamic and that y'all talk
• 54:27
  Speaker 4: about your problems and your issues and not to say
• 54:29
  Speaker 4: gods don't do that, but women have more emotional outlets
• 54:35
  Speaker 4: to relax, relate, and release for lack of a better phrasing,
• 54:39
  Speaker 4: whereas men a lot of times will save that or
• 54:42
  Speaker 4: reserve that for their romantic partners and if you don't,
• 54:45
  Speaker 4: if we don't have romantic partners, A lot of the
• 54:50
  Speaker 4: times conversations with our guy friends aren't about nigger like
• 54:55
  Speaker 4: you are right, Yeah, I'm cool, you trade already, bet right.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, but I mean but to that
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: point though, I mean, but to the point though it's
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: it's the it's like now it's starting to feel like, Yo,
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: it's okay, Like it's okay to be like I'm not
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: okay like yo, I'm like, I'm I'm I'm being on
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: like i gotta be honest with trio, Like yesterday it
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: was a hard one, you know what I mean.
• 55:19
  Speaker 6: I understand that some men don't like they feel like
• 55:22
  Speaker 6: they can't open up because they're gonna be judged by
• 55:24
  Speaker 6: their homeboys, and then they don't want to open up
• 55:27
  Speaker 6: to women that their spouse, that significant other because they
• 55:31
  Speaker 6: It goes back to what I was talking about earlier,
• 55:33
  Speaker 6: with trauma being thrown in your face.
• 55:36
  Speaker 4: That you don't you feel like people won't listen to you.
• 55:40
  Speaker 6: You don't know, get that ship off your chest, talk
• 55:43
  Speaker 6: about it, because that's where a lot of this is
• 55:45
  Speaker 6: anger and shah wanting to put your hands on folks
• 55:51
  Speaker 6: and and not not knowing how to treat that. A
• 55:53
  Speaker 6: lot of that ship comes to me because you holding
• 55:55
  Speaker 6: all this ship in and until you fucking smooth.
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: It was a guy.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: It was a guy that was saying he was arguing
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: with the women in his house talking about you know
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: what he was saying that. You know, it wasn't a
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: lot of men around that showed that, you know, that
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: showed the motion like yeah, he absolutely, yeah he had,
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: yeah he had and like yeah he had his dad.
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: But it was like it was nobody that told him
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: when you get upset, your go work out. When you
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: get upset, like when you get married or whatever, Yeah,
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: go work out, go take a walk. And he was like,
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: it's a lot of niggas out here that's that's either
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: dead or in jail because Yo, they way too they
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: way too emotional. A nigga stepped on your Jordan's Joe.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: You want like you're fighting somebody, and because he stepped
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: on your.
• 56:38
  Speaker 4: Somebody bumped into you.
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: You ready to break this man's But I will say
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: that I enjoy saying when you know, when I was like,
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: I was enjoy seeing other men like expressing themselves like
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: expressing themselves and being like productively expressing themselves and.
• 56:55
  Speaker 4: Saying okay to cry.
• 56:56
  Speaker 6: And I did his father to tell him otherwise, Yeah,
• 56:59
  Speaker 6: I will cuss his fucking ass out. You're not gonna
• 57:02
  Speaker 6: sit here and tell my son don't crowd, don't express
• 57:04
  Speaker 6: his feelings or he not supposed to feel a certain
• 57:06
  Speaker 6: What you're supposed to tell him is how to do
• 57:07
  Speaker 6: it in a healthy way, how to how to certain
• 57:11
  Speaker 6: thing is not worth getting upset about. Okay, it's a
• 57:13
  Speaker 6: slight and it's a mine of inconvenience. It's just like
• 57:16
  Speaker 6: inconvenience you used to gick.
• 57:17
  Speaker 3: I mean one time, like especially when it comes to
• 57:20
  Speaker 3: like ship like video games and shit like that. Okay,
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: you get irritated. I hate losing to you, but it
• 57:25
  Speaker 3: was the way he was expressing it.
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: No, I ain't doing that.
• 57:29
  Speaker 3: You then broke the damn TV. You then broke the game.
• 57:31
  Speaker 3: You don't didn't know that? Shit ain't cool because who
• 57:34
  Speaker 3: gonna replace this ship?
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: Who?
• 57:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: But it's it's But then, I think, like Brandon said,
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: a lot of men, a lot of men don't necessarily
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: express themselves because they don't feel hurt. And then even
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: the one person like the one person that you should
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: that's not your mama, the one person that you should
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: be able that you should be able to talk to.
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: Don't listen.
• 57:57
  Speaker 4: I seen the guy.
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: I saw a guy that say he bought he bought
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: he or he bought a he bought a roll of wire,
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: like forty years ago.
• 58:04
  Speaker 2: And he was trying he was trying to talk to her.
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: He was trying to talk to his wife like you know,
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: it's crazy because now this this, this why is almost gone.
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: Like he was like, yo, that's like forty years in
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: my life gone. And she and she didn't even hear him,
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: like she wasn't even listening.
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: She said something.
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: She was like, oh, I just thought she was I
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: was I thought it was something wrong because he was
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: wearing a Jets hat and he shut down completely and
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: was like and she was like, well, he was like nothing.
• 58:30
  Speaker 4: I also do. I think a part of it is
• 58:33
  Speaker 4: people have different styles or ways to communicate in the
• 58:36
  Speaker 4: way they comprehend things, and I think that it's not
• 58:39
  Speaker 4: sometimes it can be contributed to the difference between men
• 58:42
  Speaker 4: and women. But being with somebody who may not quote
• 58:46
  Speaker 4: on hooks with the same language that you do, so
• 58:49
  Speaker 4: things will get lost in translation because you say something
• 58:52
  Speaker 4: that you think is clear, but to them it's like, oh,
• 58:53
  Speaker 4: well you actually mean this or or actually with damn
• 58:56
  Speaker 4: like you cussing at me, like it's like, no, go
• 59:01
  Speaker 4: to therapy, yeah, and just still it down therapy. Yeah.
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: And also yeah, I also feel like every time we
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: got to work on yeah, we got to talk to
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: the lady, work on communication. I mean, yeah, it is
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: because my mama used to apologize to us. Because used
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: to apologize us because she said she didn't show like
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: great examples of communicating and that probably trying. She felt
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: like it might be translated in relationships because she wasn't
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: it translated relationships for us is because she wasn't. She
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: wasn't a positive example for communication.
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: And yeah, in a way she was, you know.
• 59:36
  Speaker 4: She was to apologize to your children.
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: People.
• 59:40
  Speaker 6: I've had to apologize to my son. My mother apologized
• 59:43
  Speaker 6: the perfect mother. I've never done everything. I don't do
• 59:46
  Speaker 6: everything right. It was learned me and Trey grew up together.
• 59:49
  Speaker 6: It was a learning experience. I'm still learning and eighteen
• 59:52
  Speaker 6: years old. But I've always tried my best.
• 59:55
  Speaker 4: I was grateful for one It's okay to apologize one
• 59:58
  Speaker 4: hundred percent. When my mother before she diffusal, before she passed,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 4: she actually went to therapy with a session with me
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 4: and Missus Howard. She refused to deal with her own shit,
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 4: but she was like, if you want me to come
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 4: and support you, I will, And she had. She apologized
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 4: to me for some shit as I was harboring from
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 4: when I was a teenager and my fucking mid mid thirties,
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 4: and when it was me her and Missus Howard, she
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 4: was like, well, damn, like I didn't know what affected
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 4: you that bad, or like a conversation we had when
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 4: you were a teenager, like you were still carrying, and
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 4: she was like, I apologize, you know. She explained about
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 4: her stressors and stuff that she was personally going through
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 4: that I had no idea about, because we didn't realize
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 4: as kids that our parents were people of themselves, with
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 4: their own feelings and their own lives, and they're trying
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 4: to pay bills and take care of a household and
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 4: take care of kids, and they don't have time for
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 4: themselves and they don't have especially now, comparing the way
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: our parents grew up Gen X and baby Boomers to
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 4: the way that we as Millennials and Gen Z we
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 4: are more open to talking about our feelings and talk.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 4: Going to therapy is not taboo, and having conversations with
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 4: friends like this where we could sit and just talk
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 4: about this ship. Our parents believe it. I know my
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 4: my parents were early baby booms. They weren't having these
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 4: types of conversations. They drank, they smoke, and they got
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 4: they got they they didn't get over, and the ship
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 4: bubbled out when they was drunk a hot like I
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 4: don't want to because they didn't know they were holding
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 4: on all the ship that they didn't they didn't talk
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 4: about it and they had the liquor board it out
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 4: or fucking That's.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 2: How he got sexy way, oh ship, I was thinking
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: some move.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 4: This is a good conversation, YO. Good question, just a
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 4: good question of the week. Women thirty plus, what's one
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 4: red flag you ignored in your twenties that you've never
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 4: ignored now? He had faulty values and beliefs and bad
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 4: character his entire family. Did you know what its signs
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 4: of lack of integrity or blame shifting. It's not your fault.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 4: He lacks integrity and chooses to make poor choices.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: I beg your pardon.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: MM hmm, that's crazy. I mean integrity. I think a
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: lot of people don't understand integrity. And in the relationship integrity.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 4: And integrity person goes as a.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: Long way and what they say, what they always say,
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: integrity is you still acting.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: You know, you're still doing the right thing even when
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: nobody's looking, or is that it?
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: That's it what integrity is. And it's like you're doing
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: the right thing. You're still doing the right thing even
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: when no one like nobody's watching, or is that something else?
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that that's that can be considered integrity.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: How do you move?
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 4: How do you move in the s world when when
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: you don't stand to benefit from it anyway? How you
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 4: treat people, how you move the things you do when
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 4: you when you could really derive no benefit from it,
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 4: when it's operate for your own interest. Yeah, yeah, I remember.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: I remember Charlotte Mane said that it's like, do you
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: judge people about how they treat the people that can't
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: do nothing for him, that don't that don't serve they
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: they can't do nothing for him.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 6: The way people treat other people says a lot about them.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 6: Like if I go out with somebody and if they
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 6: nasty to like service service workers, waitresses and waiters, anybody
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 6: providing a service to them that says a lot, That
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 6: says a lot about the person, and it pisses me
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 6: off because this person is just trying to especially if
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 6: this person is not a nasty person. Like sometimes people
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 6: just be fucking nasty and you give them what they
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 6: give you. But other times the people who treat service
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 6: workers like they're beneath them probably help. And just I
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 6: could never if I've been watching like this is one chick,
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 6: I probably want tiktoko and she does like restaurants gets
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 6: because she's been in enough hospitality feel for a long time. Yeah,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 6: and service feeld and some of her stuff is so triggering,
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 6: and I was like, I couldn't be in a situation.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 4: Dictionary dot com defines integrity as adherence to moral and
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 4: ethical principles, soundness of moral character, and honesty. That's what
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 4: knock all this shit over, Okay, So yeah, people, that's
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 4: something else. You really can have discordant like beliefs and
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 4: morals and standards for yourself and how you carry yourself
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 4: as a person. And because somebody doesn't operate on the level,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 4: not to say they can have more strict moral standards
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 4: or lower moral standards. Your respective definition your respective definitions
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 4: of integrity don't align. And that means that it's not
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 4: you can't gail because y'all just don't align it that way.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 4: Beliefs and you know whatnot. Yeah, yeah, like yoh fuck
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 4: you nah, I mean, but I do. I do think that.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like your first date, and you pay attention
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: to how they treat the way to you, pay attention
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: to how they you know, pay attention to how they
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: treat and like the hoast and all that.
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 2: Some I remember saying someone saying, for.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: Your first day, you'll go to a very very busy
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: parking lot trying to find Yeah, try to find a
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: parking space and see how that person, you know, see
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: how that person is, how that person reacts which you're
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: trying to find a parking space.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 4: I've heard that in terms of like like when you
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 4: when you're considering marrying somebody, you want to see them
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 4: and we go back the conversation in all seasons. You
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 4: want to see them when they're down and out, when
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 4: they're stressed, when they broke instructal situations, see how they
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 4: handle stress.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, go towards escape room and see what let and
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 2: see how that goes.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 4: Well.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 5: Some people are just hot strung, like fuck the ship,
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 5: press the button, yeah yeah, yo, hit the goddamn button.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 4: Yo oh ship, let me pull this. I think this
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 4: is another one, another conversation starter women thirty plus. What's
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 4: one red flag you ignored in your twenties that you
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 4: never ignore? Now, someone that's friends with everyone, they have
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 4: no moral compass or integrity. They're just afraid of being disliked.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 4: Do you agree? Disagree?
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: I believe that's a that's I mean, it's good, but
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 2: I believe it's a difference in those types of thing.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 6: It depends on the type of people that they're friends with,
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 6: because like, if you're just nice to everybody and whatever,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 6: some people are just jolly hand if you just everybody,
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 6: But if you are befriending certain types like legit friends,
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 6: because some people are just associated with some people, Hey, hey,
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 6: how you doing. They're a friend of a friend or
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 6: something like that. But if you're friends with people with
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 6: questionable morals and and the things that they align themselves
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 6: with and what they type of things that they think
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 6: are okay, then yeah, I will question.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 2: I will question you, so I would.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: I agree, So we can say, yeah, we can say
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: it's a difference between a social butterfly and the pick me,
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: like to pick me is that person that's friend like
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: that to be friends with just trying to be friends.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 3: With anybody, agree with anything, just to be accepted.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 4: That that that's that's their whole that's their whole thing.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: And if they not, if you know, like if Shauna
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: don't like Yo, Seanna, don't like Seanna, don't like Tisha,
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: then you know, Tisha.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 4: Fucked up for the rest of life. And then I
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 4: mean fucked up for the rest of the night.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: And now she's trying to figure out Now she's trying
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: to figure out exactly like exactly no, not even what you.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 2: Do, like not even what you know what she did.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 2: But how can you how can I get Shannada like me?
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: How can I like with this branding, like you know,
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: with this brand and like what this branded into so
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: I can get so you know, I can be cool
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: with Brandon too. And it's like yeah, yeah, versus you
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: know versus like the social butterfly that walks in you know,
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: they walk in the room and like walk in the room.
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: Know everybody like knowingm like knowing from social butterflies then
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: not intriguing.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 4: But I find that to be very interesting concept in
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 4: the while, because it's the person who's very introverted and
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 4: prefers to be quiet and just watch people watch, which
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 4: I'm working on trying to get out of. Excuse me.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 4: Watching a person work work a room is like that's sean,
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 4: It's like national geographic trade. Trade. That was trade too.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 4: We went bowling. Trace struck up a conversation with the
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 4: kids and the kids and I thought, you know that.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: She was like, I don't think so, I think that
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 2: it didn't come He.
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 6: Did end up knowing one of the kids he came
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 6: in later he didn't know at the time, but the
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 6: other ones he didn't know. And something they did, somebody
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 6: said something or did something, and the next.
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 4: Thing, you know, I was like, what these little boys
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 4: my son?
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: You know, I watched it, like Brandon said, I watched
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: little sixteen year old Brandon, but never.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 4: I watched it the way friends everywhere he goes, little
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 4: cafe eating pizza from the corner, watching his personality is
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 4: just I.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: Mean, but I mean, of course, people, of course, y'all,
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: I mean, y'are saying that that's like, that's that's what
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: that's person I did. Yeah, all I did when we
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: when we separate, like yo, and when we separated, I
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: brought you out like I was going to parties with
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: me and everything.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 4: You found like fifteen different people, all these niggas.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: But watching, but I think watching watching little kids do
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: that and it's like, Yo, they don't they don't know nothing.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: They don't know they don't know hate, they don't see
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: they don't see hate, they don't see colored and it's like, yo,
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: they all, they all they said, somebody to play with.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 2: Hey, how you doing? You want to play with me?
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 6: I told I bought my I've raised my son to
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 6: know that you never hate a person based on their race,
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 6: their religion, their sexuality. Yes, you don't hate people for those.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 6: So many other reasons in the world to hate people.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 6: Some people are just certifiable asshole.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 4: That's the reason to hate somebody.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 2: Not really, you're a happy asshole. Shut up.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 3: I'm a happy asshole.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 4: It's different, but anyway, I'll look at him.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 6: Some people are just there's other reasons to hate people,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 6: but they're they're religion, their sex, they're race.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 2: That should never Yeah, that should never be person.
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah that's all that. But I mean, but yeah, but
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 4: that's that's all.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 6: So he's my son, nicked friends with every damn body.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 6: He got a little friend who is ginger fluid or something.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 6: I don't know what the little boy is now here.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 6: I am thinking the boy boy went to school with him.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 6: That boy don't go to school with him. Me living
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 6: and whole nother goddamn state. That's one of his damn friends.
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 6: From the game, I'm thinking they're talking on the phone,
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 6: but they're talking through the game. So I was like, oh,
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 6: I didn't heard so much about this little boy. I
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 6: was like, I thought I knew the boy. I was like,
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 6: you want to buy them to your thinking and say, well, Mom,
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 6: he lives in another state. I was like, oh, okay,
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 6: I didn't know. But but he didn't judge him, because
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 6: that's not how I raced him.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 4: He didn't say he was coming.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 3: Tell me, like, mam, he's having issues with his boyfriend.
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 4: I was like, like, my bad, Like you want something,
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 4: some flowers, like that's my friend.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 2: He's like, I don't even know. Tell The mom was like, listen,
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 2: just send them some flowers.
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: I just look, just look, Just send them some flowers
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: and you know, but but to but to that put
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: to that person's to that person's point though, it's like,
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: I believe that's an unfair statement because if you if
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: you that's that's insecurity. I mean, to me, that's that's
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: partial in security. Like, yo, you don't like you don't
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: like the fact that they friend they friends with a
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: lot of people. And I mean that could be because
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: you introverted, or that could be because I mean you
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: just you're just insecure. But you can't be upset that
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: the type of people, right, I mean, yeah, pay attention,
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: I might say, yeah, pay attention to pay attention to
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: the crowd, like I mean, like you said earlier, birds
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: of a Feather paid to the crowd that they that
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: they that they're.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 3: Around, and it has been debunked sometimes because.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, but what I'm saying, but like if
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 2: they're legit.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 6: Friends with people, because like I have people who I'm
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 6: cool with who do some questions not questionable questions ship,
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 6: but who do things that I wouldn't you know, as
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 6: far as maybe.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 2: Some ship like right, or or you know, dealing with intentionally.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 6: Dealing with people in relationships, you know, stuff like that.
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 6: Now I did my share dirt back in the day.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 6: I have, I have, I I have repented and changed growth.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 4: That's still a couple more women thirty plus. What's one
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 4: red flag you ignored in your twenties that you never
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 4: ignored now when he gets irritated by you asking a
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 4: simple question on making a simple statement.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, that's that's the red flag, Like a bitch,
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 2: the fuck you mean?
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 4: We ain't got no peace left? Bitch, I said, no
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 4: peace with my fucking shepherd pie matter. Fuck you put
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 4: carrots and turns.
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 2: And turn up Tony.
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 4: Calm down, y'all, Like damn.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: Said, I ain't gonna be.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 4: Pea fucking turn and man, I said, much problem.
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: He needs to go to a Tony. Ain't gonna be
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: too many more of these bitches. All right, I'm gonna
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: tell you right now, he can get some pee. I
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: will flip this motherfucker and it ain't gonna be no
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: fucking shepherd pye some hot peas and some butter.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 2: So I flipped this motherfucking table.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 4: Bitch, let that ship bowling.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 2: Then nigga get mad or doesn't get mad with some
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 2: peech or yeah, watch out, watch.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 4: That it ain't cute. That's why I don't agree with that.
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 6: Oh he hit that when you They used to tell kids,
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 6: Oh he he only messing with you because he likes you.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 6: He only hitting you because he likes you. That she
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 6: translates to adulthood and that's he beat me because he
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 6: loves me.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 4: No, that's when he's that's what type of baby?
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: List?
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 4: That's danger rus and if he hits you again to
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 4: pieces in the bits. Let's do another one. Women thirty plus,
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 4: what's one red flag you ignored in your twenties that
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 4: you've never ignored? Now, if they hate themselves I eat
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 4: full of self loathing or refusal to change, they will
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 4: eventually turn on you for liking them. The resentment eats
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 4: them up. This is in friendships and romantic relationships.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah I can't. I can't do it.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't do.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: In my communication class, the class that I took, it
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: was like we talked about the self deprecating people, especially
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: especially when it was like trying to deal with those
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: kind of parents that always like, you know, every time
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: when you try to bring a problem to them, then
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: they then they start saying it's like, oh they they're dumb.
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: It's their fault, like you know, they make it about
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: them and it's like that ain't got nothing to do,
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: like bro, like like what's the positive? Like you know,
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: can you point out to something positive about you? Like
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: you know, like what's what's going on? You're okay?
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 4: Some people are just negative yep, just missing they thrive
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 4: they live in negativity or just seeing the negative in
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 4: every thing.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 2: And no, miserable. I know, I know sometimes I'd be
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 2: having a problem with some people being like too damn happy.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 2: It's like, what the why did you know?
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 4: Damn problem? Like like miserable, bitch. No you be like
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 4: you're miserable.
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: Like sometimes sometimes in the back of it, like in
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: the back of the head.
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 2: You'd be like, ain't nobody that god damn happy? You
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 2: Like whatever the going on you need?
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 4: I need that entire depressing something you don't feel? Mother
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 4: your happy mother? You just you just smithering at that
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 4: is grinned, but just grinned talking about something. They look
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 4: okay to me, You're like, bitchad.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: Er, good.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 4: Guess a new car?
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 2: You alright?
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: You'd be like you got your I want like like bro,
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: like brother, I want your positivity, Okay, I like a
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: little bit that's such a thing, like like just a
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: little bit. I don't need too much, but just yeah,
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: you know, just you know, no sunshine cloud to day.
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: Nonativity can be toxic as well, right, That's what I'm saying.
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: And but yeah that but that negative you. Every time
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: I SEEO, it's something always fucking wrong. I'm like, you know,
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: I start rethinking our friendship, bro, Like, well I'll clink
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: the ship because you you're always miserable.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 4: You Okay, that's a good segue into the next one.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 4: Women thirty plus, what's one red flag you ignored in
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 4: your twenties that you never ignore? Now, if a man
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 4: has no stability, irresponsible, gets things, loses it, gets things
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 4: loses it, apartments, cars, houses, phone always off, always get
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 4: a new cell phone number. Leave him. He will help
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 4: you lose.
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 3: Somebody with nothing to lose will help you lose everything.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 4: We'll never fuck around with somebody with nothing to lose,
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 4: ye vice versa.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 2: That's why I need to leave the.
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 4: Ship. They go anything, yeah.
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: Nothing, hooseexuals alone, because that's that's the niggas.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 2: That's that's them, that's them niggas right there.
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 4: They will help you lose everything. I'm promised you.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: They piped you down and you can't call them niggas
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: and then they pop up. I don't know what every
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: phone my last work. I've had a help in both.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: In both situations, I had a nigga coming, I'm telling you,
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: come in right, came come in, drake fucking he had
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: nothing to lose and he was here.
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 2: Not that kind of dream.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 4: Wasn't no good joint. And I promise you that. But no, no,
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 4: I mean that was a friendship. No no, no, no, no, no,
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 4: that's not what I mean. That's both y'all go to help.
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 3: That's not what I meant.
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 4: But I had a friend that did the same thing.
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 3: I let it come living my fucking out and right here, Hm,
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 3: this is sexual harassment.
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 4: Where's the human resources you should be used to this? No,
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 4: I'm not. That's it's coming from sexual ran.
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 6: Everything makes you think about him, yep. So yeah, that
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 6: and all y'all gotta be careful.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 7: Man came up like not too much of my mama
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 7: now shout in my mind. Ship No, but yeah, yo, yo,
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 7: make you lose everything.
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: That's that's some real ship I mean. But that goes
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: into you always that nigga that nigga. That nigga that
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: through the kids, that dropped the kids out the window
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: on color for colored girls like he he nigga couln't.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 2: Get a job, mad as a bitch, always mad.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 4: I can't watch he had mental health.
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 2: Help.
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but yeah, you watch like that.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 2: I can't.
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 4: I need to watch. I can watch action movies, all comedies.
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 4: I can't watch those like emotionally taxing or like heavy
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 4: movies like I saw Precious once and never saw it again.
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 4: I've never seen you for colored girls. I can't. I
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 4: can't watch that type of try random.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: They don't hate me though, still ain't seen it. What precious,
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: What you're doing, What you're doing, What you're doing, what
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: you're doing?
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 2: Nah? Still since you got your degree, you know that thing.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 4: PreCure women make mommy feel good?
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 2: Who?
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 4: Who? What's going? Who take care of me? Yeah? Most
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 4: women thirty plus. What's one red flag you ignored in
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 4: your twinis that you've never ignored now, not being a
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 4: man of his word for the smallest things. If you
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 4: said you're gonna call it five pm, call five pm,
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 4: not six thirty with no notice, I.
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 6: Mean yes and no, that's kind of that's a little Patty,
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 6: it only take fifteen seconds to shoot the text messages
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 6: and say, my bad.
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 2: Something came up with you, Brandon. You just sparked up.
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I can see.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: Me and your sister had a conversation when I was
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: coming back from aj little appointment. And why I saw
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: this with this woman saying Dayton men and the third
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 1: Dayton men in their thirties is horrible because.
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 2: You said, you and sister here the conversation.
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: No no, no, man man kay yeah man, kid had
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: a conversation about it, and it was a it was
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: a situation where the girl was saying she didn't like
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: dating men in their thirties because when she called, like
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: when she called him, he he.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 2: Missed the call. Like he missed the call.
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: He'll he'll shoot the text when she texted him, he'll
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: call him. And it's like and I and I was like,
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: that's crazy a fuck because you were millennials. We don't
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 1: already did the ship. We didn't talk so much on
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: the fucking phone.
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 4: I think she I think I bo she was.
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: She was dragging that thing across the floor or something.
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: I ain't got a baby. I'm sorry, I ain't got it.
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 4: But I told.
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 2: I told I told you. I was like, Yo.
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: The crazy part is millennials, we don't like we didn't,
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 1: we didn't talked on the phone so fucking much. And
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: then at the same time, I'm about to say, at
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 1: this big age, at this big age, mid thirties, yo,
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: we like we like Yo, most of the time we text.
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 4: My phone is always on.
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 2: If you call, then I mean, just think something happens.
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: But it's like, but then it be like yo, if
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 1: we even but if you call, leave a fucking message,
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: leave a voicemail something, leave a voice you just calling message.
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 4: I assume you just you ain't want nothing, so I
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 4: ain't gonna call you back. It's only certain you want
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 4: to talk to you. I'm honest with your kid. Probably
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 4: on the person I talked like, I would say that
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 4: I sit on the phone and talk to you all day.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 4: Look at your wife.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: I mean, but I mean but still like even like
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 1: but still it's like, like, yo, my mom text me like,
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 1: she she'd text me anything, like everybody like once once
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: we got the cell phone and ship and ship went free,
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: like text message went free, Yo, text text me first, bro,
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: don't don't don't call me because I ain't because I
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: ain't You're only gonna get like five minutes out of me.
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 1: And then Yo, Keita was like Keitta said she hated
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 1: when niggas called her because she be like, Yo, that
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: was textable you the.
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 4: Voice man, I texted what's up me and Seanna will
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 4: get on FaceTime and Ebo would get on FaceTime. Y'all
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 4: saw me. I tried to FaceTime my friend Chass. He
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 4: answered the phone, but I text him he was sparked
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 4: it right away. But the nigga will never answer the phone.
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 4: So I don't know the same thing.
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 6: My phone don'll never ring all the way when people
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 6: called me my phone like so my cousin said she
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 6: was gonna take her mother off emergency can take.
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 4: But I mean, that's why my mother was from my
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 4: emergency contact because the phone. That's why I put both
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 4: my mounts because I was like like one of the man.
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 4: That's why that's what you needed me for something. That's
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 4: what what you mean?
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 2: That's why I shot that message.
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 4: They are like, hey, look I need a reference. I mean,
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 4: your office blew up. You all right, you're in the hospital,
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 4: So what you want me? Why you ain't saying nothing?
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 2: Times hold on, Oh, that's the number.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 4: I ain't like, I ain't recognize the number. Swing answering
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 4: you should have left the mess that.
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 2: Number, that party.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 4: They wanted me to leave a voicemail that part.
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 6: Somebody called me last night and left me a text.
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 6: I mean left me, not left me a message. They
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 6: called and then they sent me a text. I was like, oh,
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 6: and then I answered the phone.
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 2: I was like, you know what was But that's what
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 2: I was saying that That was my whole point.
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 1: It was like and it's like, I understand that you're
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: trying to date and everything, but yo, I mean, we
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 1: we're in the space where a lot of people don't
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 1: really want to talk, Like they don't want to talk
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: on the phone. They rather, you know, they rather beat
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 1: up with you, howl at you. But she's like, if
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: I call and if you miss your call, you missed,
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 1: you missed my call. She was like, you miss my
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: call for a day, I'm a missure, I'm a miss
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: sure it's for ten days.
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 4: And I was like, okay, but then we guess we
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 4: don't talk of again.
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 4: The thing is communication is it's tanta amount paramount I
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 4: forget which which is the correct term is to use
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 4: tant amount of paramount you have to communicate with people.
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 4: I'm a person. If I'm dating somebody, I'll talk to
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 4: them on the phone. I will FaceTime them. Fine, but
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna be honest my phone because I get so
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 4: many fucking spam calls. I have a silence unknown callers
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 4: set up on my phone, So if the number is.
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 2: Not saved in my phone, yeah, you ain't getting that call.
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 4: Is gonna be declined and go straight to voicemail. Because
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 4: I get I get literally ten fifteen spam calls a day,
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 4: so text. But my thing is if I don't and
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 4: they leave voicemails, this is such and such from the
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 4: underwriting department. We have your personal put that'd be funny
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  Speaker 4: at FU credit reports. I got scared. I was like name,
• 1:25:02
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• 1:25:05
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• 1:25:09
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• 1:25:12
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• 1:25:15
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• 1:25:24
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• 1:25:36
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• 1:26:24
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• 1:26:32
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• 1:27:16
  Speaker 3: Many moons and faces ago who want to check you?
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 4: Bo?
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 2: You reckless bitch?
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 4: Oh wow? Back when she told your bravers just a ship.
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 4: When Cady said you got to the lot and they
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 4: was like, that's it.
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 3: There was like, was that the one with the white
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 3: refrigerator staying in the hotel?
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 2: Got child?
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 4: That got all white refrigeration, white shoes on me. Let's
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 4: go find you.
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 2: Shout out to Daily who.
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 4: Leaks mhm Monique Johnson leeks, leaks, leaks, leaks links just
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  Speaker 4: on a golf course.
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 2: We are starting on brand bad. Dangin't been there.
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 4: That's six brown helfless.
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 2: That's grazy.
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 4: Oh lord, he put those?
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 2: Why do you like that? Brandon? You want to put
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 2: your head down? It's okay, It's that's all right. Do
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 2: you need to go to the nurse?
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 1: No?
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 4: Okay, got you bubbling? I'm not.
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 2: This is actually an.
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 3: Update to a previous and I love updates, so I'm
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 3: gonna read them.
• 1:28:53
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna read you need to go up get a nigga,
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 2: he said, he giving them.
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 4: This is an update to a previous question. Smell it too.
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 2: He didn't want her.
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 4: Moving on, So this is what happened.
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 6: This is the previous This is the previous question first,
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 6: and then the update. When my ex popped up with
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 6: her new ninja on Snapchat, I sent her a text
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 6: to shake things up. You know you still mind he
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 6: a placeholder. Keep in mind I don't want her. I
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 6: want to interrupt whatever she got going on. I sent
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 6: her a dick pic and asked her to let me
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 6: slide through. She replied, come through?
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 2: Why not?
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 4: I could put a baby in her and keep it moving.
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 6: I pulled up to her house and her new ninja
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 6: robbed me, stripped me down to my drawers, and threw
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 6: my car keys in the field. I'm a servant of God.
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 6: I don't deserve disrespect what we I'm serving a guard
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 6: and he don't deserve this disrespect.
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 2: Bill Hamilton.
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 3: The back door double cross was diabolical.
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 6: I'd like for us to reunite and put a baby
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 6: in her, but I can't trust that she won't back
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 6: door me again. How do I win her back? Just
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 6: to break them up? You go to house it's what
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 6: you did, and I'm pretty sure that's what I told
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 6: you the last time. But I'm just going to reiterate
• 1:30:20
  Speaker 6: that you go to hell. Go to he expeditiously.
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 2: Update.
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 3: I don't want her. I also don't want her to
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 3: move on without me. It's this love. I'm not sure.
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 6: I know if I had her in my world, I
• 1:30:37
  Speaker 6: wouldn't treat her right because I don't like her enough
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 6: to do right by her. This is crazy to say
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 6: out loud, but it's where.
• 1:30:45
  Speaker 4: I'm at emotionally.
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 6: I don't want her moving on because I know she'll
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 6: make some other nigga happy, So I guess I want
• 1:30:54
  Speaker 6: to block him. So I guess I want to block
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 6: him from her gifts. I really want to put a
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 6: baby in her to keep that connection, but I don't
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 6: want her, and I probably wouldn't do right by the
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 6: child either. But if she had a baby, every man
• 1:31:11
  Speaker 6: after me would know I was there first. Love is complicated,
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 6: especially when I ain't no love there, sir, I reiterate again,
• 1:31:23
  Speaker 6: so you and go straight down. So you want to
• 1:31:26
  Speaker 6: bring an innocent baby into a toxic situation so that
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 6: you can keep us on a woman that you die.
• 1:31:36
  Speaker 4: First?
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 1: It was just that they ain't got Now if y'all
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 1: date back the season one and season two, I told
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 1: you all niggas is just gonna start blaming it on AI. However,
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 1: this nigga went from Flavor Flave to New York to fucking.
• 1:31:50
  Speaker 4: Uh my wingstop order together.
• 1:31:56
  Speaker 2: That's crazy. But that's crazy.
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 6: This is ridiculous. And that's what I mean about holding
• 1:32:02
  Speaker 6: on the stuff. They don't belong to you. You don't
• 1:32:03
  Speaker 6: want this girl, but you don't want nobody else to
• 1:32:05
  Speaker 6: want to because you know she a good woman, but
• 1:32:08
  Speaker 6: you can't be a good man to her, and she
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 6: deserves to have a good.
• 1:32:10
  Speaker 4: Man, and so you just sorry.
• 1:32:12
  Speaker 2: Ray, I had it first.
• 1:32:16
  Speaker 3: And even if this story is fake or AI or whatever,
• 1:32:19
  Speaker 3: it's motherfuckers who really think like that.
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 4: It is that.
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 2: I had it first.
• 1:32:26
  Speaker 4: So twenty wings, large fries and two dips of seventeen
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna give me this, so I had
• 1:32:33
  Speaker 4: a little bit extra for later.
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 3: That's smart.
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 4: Oh are you talking? Oh my god.
• 1:32:40
  Speaker 2: She jumped into conversations too, like yeah, that's that's good.
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 3: I saw food. I'm sorry, I'm hungry. I don't know
• 1:32:45
  Speaker 3: what I want. I want some cheesesteak, fries. I want
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 3: some chicken.
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 2: I want to go.
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 4: I think road house. I want food. I want to
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 4: I want to see food.
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 1: Ball talk about we all know you ain't getting passions
• 1:32:56
  Speaker 1: that I didn't want to clout Brandon.
• 1:32:58
  Speaker 4: Look at one am is like like what nine hours
• 1:33:02
  Speaker 4: from now? I sleep? No, he would be seeing me.
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 3: The stories like the Nigerian bad Man. That's what he's
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 3: gonna be doing.
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 4: We're moving on Brandon, get him too, but you add
• 1:33:19
  Speaker 4: him to that. Lets suck him.
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 1: What I do?
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 4: I said, ray J, what I did?
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 3: You over there ordering wings?
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 4: I think? I think, I think problem. My priorities are aligned, Okay,
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 4: I think I should live in a ro which I think,
• 1:33:34
  Speaker 4: Oh sorry, go ahead, I.
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 1: Mean they got old, baby, they got old. Bay Man
• 1:33:39
  Speaker 1: have a narrow as always. You know, it's always a
• 1:33:41
  Speaker 1: good one.
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 4: A am I stopping something? Go here with you, go
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 4: here with your little tests. I'm gonna give Brandon a
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 4: little bit of a break.
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 6: We're gonna move over to what it has become my
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 6: favorite thread, Miss underscore Parker for real, on I.
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 4: G I think I'm gonna do one in each flavor
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 4: to be extra, I'm gonna do one Hickory spoke one
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 4: surprisy Korean Q. Miss Parker, I too, I'm gonna do
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 4: one hot honey. I'm gonn just get one of every kind,
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 4: just a taste, little taste, hey on, some real shit
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 4: to it.
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 2: They should do that.
• 1:34:17
  Speaker 4: That's that's some that's some evil shit. Somebody with a
• 1:34:20
  Speaker 4: twenty wings one of these flavors. So you just want
• 1:34:22
  Speaker 4: one wing coded and sauts for everything, Okay, mis Palker
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 4: for real, I'll say this. I've been with my boyfriend
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 4: for seven years. We have we have had our ups
• 1:34:36
  Speaker 4: and downs for the last year, more so in the
• 1:34:38
  Speaker 4: last year.
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 6: So I really love him. But his drinking has gotten
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 6: so bad. He is extremely disrespectful when he drinks. He
• 1:34:46
  Speaker 6: calls me out my name, He makes my son watch
• 1:34:48
  Speaker 6: as he curses me out and throws things at me.
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 6: When he's not drinking, he's a great man. He's financially
• 1:34:54
  Speaker 6: responsible and stable. He's sweet and understanding. He apologizes to
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 6: me in front of us and tells out son that
• 1:35:01
  Speaker 6: he's wrong for what he does when he he's drunk.
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 6: Last night, he got more drunk than I've ever seen him.
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 6: He dragged me over the couch by my head.
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 2: He was so drunk. No, that is I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
• 1:35:17
  Speaker 6: He dragged me over the couch by my head. He
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 6: was so drunk I couldn't understand what he was saying.
• 1:35:22
  Speaker 6: I know I should probably leave him abused, but I
• 1:35:25
  Speaker 6: haven't told him my secret. I feel obligated to stay
• 1:35:28
  Speaker 6: with him because I found out that I had herpes
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 6: two years.
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 4: Ago when I actually took a break from him. Yeah,
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 4: you didn't expect it to go that way, did you.
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 6: I don't know if anyone else will ever love me,
• 1:35:43
  Speaker 6: but I do know that his drinking has gotten considerably worse.
• 1:35:46
  Speaker 2: I'm just glad my son was not home to see it.
• 1:35:49
  Speaker 2: What do I do? That took a turn.
• 1:35:58
  Speaker 4: That wasn't a turn, that was a crack shot her bridge?
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 3: My gone cold, and you almost missed your exit, and
• 1:36:06
  Speaker 3: and you.
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 2: Turn broke.
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 4: The whole morning ring close up my window.
• 1:36:11
  Speaker 3: And I can't.
• 1:36:12
  Speaker 2: You can't scratch your mom.
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 4: Even if I could all be red, something on my
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 4: ass reminds it's just so bad. It's just so much.
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 3: I have a lot of questions, like, did he I
• 1:36:30
  Speaker 3: didn't mean to love?
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 2: When she said she got across the couch.
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 6: From him, not the herb of her. Do you know
• 1:36:40
  Speaker 6: if it came from him? Did you get it when
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 6: y'all took a break and then you didn't.
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 2: Realize it or don't know?
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 4: She said?
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 2: She said, she said a break and she said you
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 2: track to do when they took a break.
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but now I was.
• 1:36:52
  Speaker 3: Feeling I feel bad because you still don't deserve to
• 1:36:54
  Speaker 3: be a beach.
• 1:36:57
  Speaker 6: Because I mean, the comment said, well, could he know
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 6: that he that he has it and think that he
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 6: gave it to her and that's why he's being so
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 6: abusive towards.
• 1:37:06
  Speaker 4: Her when he drunk or maybe the drinking cause of
• 1:37:09
  Speaker 4: the flare.
• 1:37:10
  Speaker 3: It's well, it's clear to close as a flare up
• 1:37:15
  Speaker 3: this nigga want to be going ship at people and
• 1:37:17
  Speaker 3: snatching people over couches and ship.
• 1:37:19
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry when when they said that, I just thought
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 2: the bout scary movie.
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 4: Skary movie.
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 2: And when when she was fighting a girl from the
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 2: front of the TV.
• 1:37:29
  Speaker 4: But a real ship. I think you need you stand
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 4: up says you need better self word, stand up, ship,
• 1:37:40
  Speaker 4: get you some val tracks going about your business.
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 6: Yeah, you need to really do need to leave him
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 6: because the people tell people the way people when they
• 1:37:47
  Speaker 6: drunk is how they really want to act, and they
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 6: used alcohol to blame it on the alcohol.
• 1:37:51
  Speaker 4: Even still like, if if he doesn't have control of
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 4: his drinking to that extent to where he's an alcoholic,
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 4: or he turns into a different person while drinking, you
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 4: better get out before you gotta fight that man for
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 4: your life. Agreed. He get drunk, black out and sid
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 4: he want to drive his call into the living room
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 4: because you said no to him making him fish sticks.
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
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  Speaker 4: This this chicken is cold, sat run off, y'all well
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  Speaker 4: being I should get some chicken chan.
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  Speaker 6: It's happening in front of and some curly frieseing the
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  Speaker 6: curly fries.
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  Speaker 4: Mhm.
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  Speaker 1: Inside Joe gnand nothing about that. That's old school and
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  Speaker 1: Scott Joe, I'm I'm so hung.
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  Speaker 4: Shout out to Mona. I know you now, I'm so hungry.
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  Speaker 4: She was going through it that day.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so hungry.
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  Speaker 6: It's hungry, all right, staying on, We're gonna stay on,
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  Speaker 6: miss miss miss Parker.
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  Speaker 4: Make this the last one of the episodes. You got
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  Speaker 4: some snacks upstairs? I don't know, I might I have
• 1:39:01
  Speaker 4: been to I got to go to get some open cream.
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  Speaker 4: Piss is long gone by now.
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  Speaker 6: J bought another box, but I'm pretty sure he didne
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  Speaker 6: finished it already because I told him not to eat
• 1:39:08
  Speaker 6: him all the one day and he takes that as okay.
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  Speaker 3: Well, i'mnn eat six to day and six tomorrow.
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  Speaker 2: To borrow.
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  Speaker 4: I guess he followed. Next time I go, I leave
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  Speaker 4: you a couple. I might have to go back to
• 1:39:25
  Speaker 4: getting switching off for a lunch every weekend. I'm got
• 1:39:28
  Speaker 4: off of fan. I'm famished. I ate breakfast this morning,
• 1:39:34
  Speaker 4: but donut, sandwich and donut. You know I'm sorry. Go ahead,
• 1:39:39
  Speaker 4: all right, miss ms Parker.
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  Speaker 3: For real, I am fifteen years old, and I want
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  Speaker 3: to know how do I tell my mom.
• 1:39:46
  Speaker 2: That she's a little too loose? Oh ship.
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  Speaker 6: She and my dad broke up four years ago, and
• 1:39:54
  Speaker 6: she has slept with at least ten guys this summer.
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 4: Damn this summer. I you know that bring them home?
• 1:40:01
  Speaker 4: She must be.
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 6: She calls them her friends. I've had five step dads
• 1:40:05
  Speaker 6: in the last two years. They buy her whatever she wants,
• 1:40:10
  Speaker 6: buy me and my sister whatever we want to. My
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 6: mom keeps getting surgery done. She got her teeth fixed,
• 1:40:17
  Speaker 6: a bbl her stomach, and now she wants her breast done.
• 1:40:21
  Speaker 6: She almost didn't wake up from getting her back done.
• 1:40:24
  Speaker 6: Now she wants her breast done. I'm worried because she's
• 1:40:27
  Speaker 6: making well. I think she was talking about her butt.
• 1:40:29
  Speaker 4: He'll bb out.
• 1:40:30
  Speaker 6: I'm worried because she's making so many changes and cares
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 6: more about her apparents than anything. My sister is ten
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 6: and it's talking about getting a BBL when she's twenty.
• 1:40:41
  Speaker 4: I don't want this for my sister. I want my
• 1:40:44
  Speaker 4: sister to be better than this.
• 1:40:45
  Speaker 6: My mom can't keep a man, but can keep miserable
• 1:40:48
  Speaker 6: friends who do the same thing as her. My mom
• 1:40:50
  Speaker 6: really wants my dad back and calls his wife lame body,
• 1:40:55
  Speaker 6: but she's a good person. How do I ask my
• 1:40:58
  Speaker 6: mom to tapen up her behavior. I can't have my
• 1:41:01
  Speaker 6: sister thinking that this is life. By the way, my
• 1:41:04
  Speaker 6: mom is famous, She's well known and can afford us
• 1:41:07
  Speaker 6: a good life, but needs to stay off the internet.
• 1:41:13
  Speaker 4: Let me hold your hand and I say this to you, beloved.
• 1:41:16
  Speaker 4: I think your mother is a working girl.
• 1:41:18
  Speaker 2: Kids, as in what that and why she lock them?
• 1:41:24
  Speaker 1: I think mimmy getting paid the screw because every night
• 1:41:28
  Speaker 1: it's a different dude, Say you don't really want to go,
• 1:41:33
  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna take you anyway, So come on, get
• 1:41:37
  Speaker 1: on in and ride.
• 1:41:39
  Speaker 4: I think your motherside.
• 1:41:41
  Speaker 2: Your mom's a whore. No, no, she said no. She
• 1:41:45
  Speaker 2: wants to know how to tell her mama that she lose.
• 1:41:47
  Speaker 4: Let's let's just say that mom, you're a whore. She no,
• 1:41:51
  Speaker 4: let's say it in that way that these kids when
• 1:41:53
  Speaker 4: I get but people are age and older again, and
• 1:41:56
  Speaker 4: she's using what she wants.
• 1:41:58
  Speaker 2: You see this, This is you your mama?
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